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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for losing it on my

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Speaker 1: husband for lying about an emergency to get me to

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Speaker 1: leave my brother's wedding early sounds like it. Uh, No,

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Speaker 1: your brother should be able to destroy your life. However,

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Speaker 1: he pleases John with his hot takes.

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Speaker 2: Hot takes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my husband has been sick for a few days.

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Speaker 1: He got sick around the time of my brother's wedding.

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Speaker 1: I took care of him twenty four hours for days.

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Speaker 1: He's on meds and can move and go to the

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Speaker 1: bathroom and eat on his own. I told him I

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Speaker 1: was going to my brother's wedding, and he threw a fit,

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Speaker 1: saying I couldn't leave him alone while he's sick. I

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Speaker 1: told him he was not that sick. It's just a

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Speaker 1: stomach bug and he's getting treatment for that. And I

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Speaker 1: suggested he call his sister to come stay with him.

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Speaker 1: He said no and told me to miss it, to

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Speaker 1: miss her brother's wedding. Dude, yo, people, I got upset

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Speaker 1: and bluntly said no, he can survive for a few

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Speaker 1: hours while I attend the wedding. He saw it, and

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Speaker 1: as I was leaving, he said he hoped I won't

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Speaker 1: ever come back. What a cry baby what. It hurt

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Speaker 1: my feelings, but I know he's just mad. Did mean it?

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Speaker 1: At the wedding, I got a text rooms saying he

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Speaker 1: lost balance and fell off the stairs and hurt his back.

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Speaker 1: He said he was in a lot of pain. He

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Speaker 1: threw up and couldn't move. He insisted I get home asap.

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Speaker 1: I freaked out and started calling his phone, but he

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Speaker 1: didn't answer. I thought he must have passed out, and

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Speaker 1: I freaked out even more. I got in the car

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Speaker 1: and drove back to our house immediately. When I got home,

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Speaker 1: I rushed towards the stairs while calling out his name.

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Speaker 1: I started to really freak out. Then I rushed into

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Speaker 1: the bedroom and found him in bed drinking juice, and

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Speaker 1: as soon as he saw me, he put the phone down.

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Speaker 1: I instantly knew he lied, and I lost it on

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Speaker 1: him and started yelling, saying he freaked me out and

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Speaker 1: caused me to miss my brother's wedding for nothing, absolutely nothing.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: He said that he already told me I couldn't leave

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Speaker 1: him alone in the house and that this very scenario

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Speaker 1: could have happened.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I yelled at him, calling him a horrible person, which

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Speaker 1: made him cry. What a bitch baby. God, for real,

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Speaker 1: he started crying and throwing his juice all over the plane.

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Speaker 2: My god, grow the fuck up, bro to, this guy

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Speaker 2: is a baby.

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Speaker 1: I had to step out and call a sister, thinking

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Speaker 1: she'd come and help, and then she started cussing me out,

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Speaker 1: saying I had a lot of nerve expecting her to

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Speaker 1: back me up after I so carelessly left her brother

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Speaker 1: alone at the house in a state just to attend

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Speaker 1: a party.

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Speaker 2: Isn't in a party. This is a brother's wedding. Why

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Speaker 2: are people such a maniacs?

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Speaker 1: We got into an argument and I went staged with

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Speaker 1: my family. My brother understood when I explained the situation

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Speaker 1: to him. My husband and I haven't seen each other

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Speaker 1: since then, But his sister kept saying I had no

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Speaker 1: right to scream at her brother and caused him to

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Speaker 1: have a panic attack, and said he at least was

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Speaker 1: clear with me from the start, But I chose to

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Speaker 1: be dismissive. Was I dismissive? Also, I'm twenty six years

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Speaker 1: old and he's twenty three years old, but honestly, man

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Speaker 1: acts like he's five years old.

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Speaker 2: He like just I'm just floored.

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Speaker 1: He sounds like such a baby, like I honestly can't

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Speaker 1: even believe that, like this is like I have to

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Speaker 1: imagine that, Oh, he's like exaggerating of it, because like

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine anyone being so childish.

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Speaker 2: Like this could have happened. This is ridiculous. So it didn't.

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Speaker 2: It didn't.

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Speaker 1: You're a maniac. So take care of yourself once again.

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Speaker 1: The red flags. Yeah they're they're married, right, Yeah, they're married.

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Speaker 1: How do you not see these red flags early?

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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. I'm baffled these. I'm positive they're young.

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Speaker 2: Twenty three and twenty six. Twenty three is pretty young.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of young. So like there's definitely he's got

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Speaker 2: some shit to figure out. Leave him, ye, leave him right,

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Speaker 2: Leave him right now,