WEBVTT - We're Not Really Strangers 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:05.000 Hey, y'all, it's Erica. Listen this episode. I'm so excited 0:00:05.000 --> 0:00:06.920 for you guys to hear me and Mila really got 0:00:06.960 --> 0:00:10.480 to dig deep ask each other some questions that as friends, 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:13.400 I don't think we've ever asked or even thought to 0:00:13.480 --> 0:00:17.560 ask one another. This game that we play is pretty 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:21.040 amazing and I'm really excited for you guys to tune 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:25.400 in and listen to all the gems and things that 0:00:25.440 --> 0:00:27.200 come up during the episode. But I did want to 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:28.880 give you a little heads up. We did have some 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:31.640 audio issues for the first ten minutes of the episode. 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:35.760 Nothing major, but hey, it's podcasting, we're listening. I want 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:37.920 you to know that we did get it together after 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:41.040 about ten minutes, so just bear with us, and I 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:43.480 hope you guys enjoy this episode. Make sure you click 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:45.960 the link in our bio to come to our retreat 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:48.440 in Costa Rica. We are almost sold out and I 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:51.040 really really want to make sure you guys get to 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:54.600 come tap into your self care, tap into your divine femininity, 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:58.120 take time from those badass kids, and bring that ass 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:00.320 to the jungle. So make sure you click blink in 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:29.920 our bio to reserve your spot. But anyway, enjoy. 0:01:18.840 --> 0:01:21.520 Welcome back to Good Mom's Dad Choices. I'm Erica and 0:01:21.600 --> 0:01:25.960 I'm Lula and it's Wednesday. Happy Wednesday, Happy Wednesday. 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:27.480 Honey. Hi, how are you? 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:28.360 I'm pretty good? 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:28.840 How are you? 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:30.119 You're the only person in the world that I love. 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:32.880 Call me honey? Why I don't like it? Did you 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:33.960 like when woman call you honey? 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:35.360 But I don't. 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:37.440 I think you know I'm not saying it and it's condescending. 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:37.920 No, I know. 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:39.679 But do you do you like woman call you honey? 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:40.600 If it's condescending? 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:43.119 No, even in general, you're like, well, you don't mind 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:44.120 when people call you honey. 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:46.280 I feel like I'm not sugared by it, unless it 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:48.880 feels like that you're getting smart. But when I say honey, 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:52.600 I i's genuinely. I know, I know, I'm just I 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:54.120 just asked that because I know, like a lot of 0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:54.720 people will. 0:01:54.600 --> 0:01:56.600 Be like that is call me honey. Do not call 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:57.040 me honey. 0:01:57.080 --> 0:02:01.120 I am nobody's motherfucking honey too. Like if I have 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:05.360 a book, yes, honey. 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:05.440 It's like if it's like a bitch that I don't know, 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:08.040 I'm like, thanks, honey, Like that's different. 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:09.960 But I'm not that type of bitch. I don't talk 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:13.720 like that in general, So tell me, honey, let me 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:15.920 see that sounds. Hey, honey, how are you? 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:17.520 How are you doing? 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.600 Honey? You got I'm good. I feel like everyone thinks 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:21.840 some condescending soythe I was. 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:24.960 Gonna say everything I said, that's for you. We used 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:28.680 to call my great grandmother honey. Really mm hm that 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:30.640 was herding. That's not her name as a a Caulder. 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:31.120 So I don't know. 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:33.560 I don't know what you mean, though, I want me 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:34.919 to think of something. No, no, no, no. 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.119 I was just it just came to my mind because 0:02:37.160 --> 0:02:39.200 I know that you say that often, and I often 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:41.520 wondered how you felt about people calling you honey, because 0:02:41.919 --> 0:02:43.840 I know you're particular about certain things, and I know 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:47.240 that women are particular about sweety honey, sweetie. 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:49.400 I don't like don't call me sweete. I don't like that, 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:53.520 no matter if it's condescending or not. If it's not condescending, 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:55.200 I'm not gonna be triggered by it. But I feel 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:56.400 like sweetie is. 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:59.200 Like from someone you don't know, it's generally condescending or 0:02:59.760 --> 0:03:03.919 this is a very prime example of bitches are crazy. 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:08.840 It not honey, but sweety Now, what the fuck does 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:09.160 that mean? 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:11.160 Oh my god. 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:14.000 Anyway, Well, but you know what, I think my kindness, like, 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:17.680 I'm very nice mostly. I think some people, like New 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:22.000 Yorker New York women, I think people take it as disingenuous, 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:23.720 but it's just my personality. 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:26.080 I know, you're a genuine asked bitch. 0:03:27.600 --> 0:03:30.200 Anyway, if you see me in the streets and I 0:03:30.240 --> 0:03:32.559 call you honey, I'm not being disingenuous. 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:35.640 Love Erica. On the other end, maybe I might. 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:37.480 I mean I probably won't, but you know, people always 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:39.480 get the wrong question, so you know, there's that. 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:44.400 Anyway, how'd you weake anything new going on? 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:48.360 I went to the beach yesterday, which was nice with 0:03:48.480 --> 0:03:53.600 Nearlyn and our girls, and I just chilled. 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.120 It was a really nice day. I needed to just 0:03:56.880 --> 0:03:59.320 I haven't had a break from motherhood and like. 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:02.880 Since we got back in Costa Rica pretty much. 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:04.440 So it's been like almost three and a half weeks 0:04:04.440 --> 0:04:06.720 that I've had like I've had every every single day. 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:09.840 I thought she didn't go over there at all with 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:12.480 that father. No, the father is gone for like one day, 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:15.000 two days. He like pickture up from school and dropped 0:04:15.000 --> 0:04:15.560 her back often. 0:04:15.960 --> 0:04:20.760 Wow, with that father, No no, he's he's on tour, 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:24.520 and so you know, and my mom is also on tour, 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:29.640 and my dad is also on tour. 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:31.680 Her dad's on tour. 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:34.279 Wow, I don't have the typical grandparents that are sitting 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:36.400 the ass down waiting to take their grandchildren in. 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:41.080 I am so grateful for those typical motherfucking grandparents that I. 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:43.279 Have, like none on my side. But on the other side. 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:43.880 Oooh. 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:47.000 One thing I've chose, right, is I chose the good grandparents. 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:47.479 Yeah. 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:52.240 No, I I oh need, I need a break and 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:53.960 I wasn't gonna I know, I wasn't gonna get one. 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:56.039 So I was like, hey, Maryland, you want to go 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:59.920 to the beach and our kids can babysit each other. Yeah, 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:02.320 And that's what happened. I went shopping. 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.520 I thought a really cute ass toe ring that I'm 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:05.360 not wearing right now. 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:06.719 I think toe rings are my new jam. 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:08.160 I love toe rings that they hurt. 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:10.520 Side, I think I don't have it on because in 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:11.880 the middle of the night, I got fed up and 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:12.880 I fucking ripped it off. 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:14.640 It's like they hurt. I want anyone that's comfortable. 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:16.360 Also, like, I think I make my ankles too tight 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:17.479 because I always end up popping. 0:05:17.560 --> 0:05:20.400 But I love body jewelry. Yeah, I think I'm gonna 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:21.600 stuck up my toes. 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:22.240 They'll be cute. 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:24.000 I want some toe rings. I want to get my 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:24.920 nipples pierced again. 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:28.400 But I'm scared because I know I'm not having no 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:31.120 babies for like ever or long ass time. 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:33.680 I took my mind out when I was when I 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:36.640 was like nine months parted it like sex. You know, 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:38.520 I don't like to wear bras. Ooh, I don't know. 0:05:38.920 --> 0:05:41.640 My ariolas are fucking huge, so I don't think. I 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:43.279 feel like nipple piercings. 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:43.560 Are just not gonna. 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:46.600 I mean, this is literally literally the most painful thing 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:47.200 you could ever do. 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:48.919 I don't even know why I said that. I'm totally like. 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:51.279 I remember when I got my tongue pierced. I was, yeah, 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:54.680 I was on mushrooms. Actually, piercing your tongue doesn't hurt. 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:58.279 It really does not hurt. It's the aftermath that hurts. 0:05:58.279 --> 0:05:59.839 It's the well I was also on mushrooms. 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:02.400 Was that? But why don't you do it on mushrooms? 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:06.400 Because why not? When you're eighteen in New York City. 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:08.160 And you're on mushrooms, why not get your tongue paires 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:10.239 and all. My friend got her nipples Paris on mushrooms. 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:12.440 Oh I thought that shit hurt like a muzz Yeah 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:14.000 I did. And that's why I was like, I watched 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:15.600 it happened. I was like, oh, hell no. 0:06:15.560 --> 0:06:17.200 I am doing that ship. The mushrooms did not do 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:17.840 shit for her. 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:19.400 The only that'll do shit. 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:21.039 I think the only way I do it again is 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:23.279 if I had two piercers at the same time, Cerson 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:25.880 at the same time, because that second one, when you 0:06:25.920 --> 0:06:27.360 know what that first one feels. 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:29.680 Like, bitch, It's like that's like the eyebrow waxing or 0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:31.520 like or like Cucci wax. 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:34.080 Oh, that Kuchi wax is hard. Wouldn't do a lot 0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:35.800 of ship. I think I would have waxed my coushie 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:36.240 it has been. 0:06:36.600 --> 0:06:39.120 I can wax it for you, bitch. You waxed my 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:42.400 mustache was and you were so aggressive. I'm you were 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:45.440 moving so mean to me. 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:49.920 You were so mean. I was like, treat your quiet now. 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:52.080 But like first one, we're standing in the kitchen and 0:06:52.120 --> 0:06:53.480 you're like backing up like bit time. 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:54.320 I'm I supposed to watch you. 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:57.000 I'm not Cuccie will be backing up for you, okay, 0:06:57.200 --> 0:07:00.760 like I need to do. I just like sugar waxing 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:02.520 once and that was like the least is that what 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:02.840 it is? 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:03.159 Sugar? 0:07:03.520 --> 0:07:05.479 It was the least painful of experience I've had. But 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:09.280 I haven't waxed in probably like five years. 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:12.640 Because he's allergic to waxing. I usually shaved. But I'm like, 0:07:12.760 --> 0:07:15.800 I'm very like, I'm I'm like a nature woman right now, 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:16.840 I'm so hairy. 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:20.400 I was like this, this is so. 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:21.920 I was like, I might as well as wax it 0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:22.800 like funck shaving. 0:07:22.800 --> 0:07:24.880 I've grown it to the point of waxing, and I 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:26.880 don't want it to come back for at least three weeks, 0:07:27.040 --> 0:07:28.240 So yup. 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:31.680 If they want to do it. Anyway, Enough about my kuchi. 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:36.920 And your forest are my mushroom tongue ring experience. Do 0:07:37.000 --> 0:07:39.520 we have a car to die? Oh? Of course we do. 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:42.320 We're pulling a lot of pentacles latelace. Oh. A lot 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:46.920 of money happening because we're rich bitches. Today's card you've 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:51.400 pulled is the seven of Pentacles, and I don't know 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:55.440 my ten and the seven of Pentacles. 0:07:55.560 --> 0:07:58.560 First of all, I've learned that my picking every Wednesday 0:07:58.600 --> 0:08:00.480 is that pinnacles usually have to do a fine answers. 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:03.440 The seven of Pednacles shows you understand the value of 0:08:03.480 --> 0:08:06.679 putting in time and energy now for longer term rewards 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.880 and have strong desire to invest in sustainable results. You 0:08:09.880 --> 0:08:11.960 are not looking for quick wins. You also want to 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:14.040 make sure you're putting your attention on the right areas 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:17.520 instead of wasting time and effort on tasks that will 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:21.560 not deliver any value. When this card appears in a 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:24.600 tail reading, when it is an invitation to step back 0:08:24.600 --> 0:08:26.360 from the day to day operations and look at the 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:27.080 bigger picture. 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:31.080 Celebrate what you have created and assess your progress so far. 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:34.040 Are you on track? Are you focused on the right 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:35.080 task and for your goal? 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:37.880 Similarly, if you're planning for the future, the seven of 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:40.120 Pinnacles encourages you to take a long term view and 0:08:40.160 --> 0:08:42.959 assess where you can best invest your time and energy 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:46.360 for the maximum output. You do not want to keep 0:08:46.360 --> 0:08:48.640 putting your heart install into something if you won't read 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:51.760 the rewards for your work. And you have undoubtedly seen 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:55.200 that some areas in your life are just energy suppers. 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:58.480 Wow, it could go for a lot of things, not 0:08:58.559 --> 0:08:59.439 just finances. 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:03.880 If you're working hard and putting an extra effort into 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:06.080 something challenging and important for the last few months. 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:10.000 Then depper's or project is near it's culmination. Rest assured 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:11.120 your work will pay off. 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:14.040 You're likely to see financial or other intangible rewards for 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:15.000 all of your hard work. 0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:17.480 I've been manifesting this. 0:09:17.760 --> 0:09:22.160 This has been under my candle every every moon, just 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:24.120 like basically all my. 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:25.959 Efforts being fruitful, all the things that. 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:28.120 I've been putting in and removing the things that I'm 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:29.400 putting energy into. 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:31.839 That are not breathing, that are not fruitful. 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:34.600 Lest like create space. Yeah, I feel that. I feel 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:35.120 that deeply. 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:38.800 You know, I'm quint of putting much my efforts into 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:40.840 places that may not be fruitful. 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:43.560 But like that's more like people not necessarily. 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.280 Financially or something I don't like do a lot of 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:46.720 pyramid schemes or anything like that. 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:48.360 Yet not I don't. 0:09:48.600 --> 0:09:51.600 That's not my thing, not cham But you know, i'd 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:52.960 be loving on people and been like, are. 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:54.640 You my husband? Probably that, but I still love you, 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:57.880 stick stay forever. You're not my husband, No, but just 0:09:58.120 --> 0:09:59.960 stay with me. Because then I went. 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:03.880 I think women do that in general, though, but I 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:09.079 do feel like we've been working very, very very hard 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:12.000 in our business and in our brand. And I keep 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:15.000 saying this like to you and to my friends, is like, 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:16.240 I know. 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:17.720 We're really close. 0:10:19.120 --> 0:10:21.640 I'm like, there's like I we're clear about what it 0:10:21.679 --> 0:10:24.280 is that we're trying to achieve, but there's just like 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:28.120 this like this little gap of like, oh well, it's 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:29.040 just we're not rich yet. 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:32.160 So there's the part that we're not rich, so we'll 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:35.679 be it rich. It's gonna go crazy over here. We 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:36.160 are rich. 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:38.280 We are rich in mind, body, and sphere. 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:40.679 This is true of our kids are healthy. 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:42.400 Our bodies are healthy. 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:45.240 We woke up this morning, everything works properly. 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:48.160 Thank god. You know it's we are rich. 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:51.040 We're rich in so many other more important ways, and 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:54.240 all that shit will come because we have stuff thinking 0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:54.880 we have to. 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:56.079 Not have a what is it? 0:10:56.600 --> 0:10:59.640 What was what did she call it? The wealth? 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:01.760 Which I guess it was like a deficit in our 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:06.280 I don't know, scarcity. That's scarcity complex and like in 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:07.680 money and finances, and it. 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:09.880 Just it bleeds into all areas of life. So not 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:14.400 having enough, Yeah, I don't know when does this come out. 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:20.360 I'll tell you what. I'll tell you off I haven't 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:22.319 told any of those stories, so I'm just gonna tell 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:28.000 you anyway. Do you have an affirmation for us today? 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:33.240 Today's affirmation is I am rich than in more ways 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:36.840 than one. I am rich in more ways than one. 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:41.800 I am rich in more ways than one. Did you 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:42.199 have one? 0:11:42.240 --> 0:11:43.720 I just know that was great. 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:46.840 You know whatever inspires you. 0:11:46.840 --> 0:11:49.559 We're rich. We're rich, bitches. I am that. 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:51.560 Bitch, and I'm not gonna take your ship. 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:57.600 I am going to get that bag. Wait, okay whatever 0:11:57.640 --> 0:12:00.480 insert song here. Yeah, yeah, we're. 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:03.760 Rich in love and friendship and wealth were loved. I'm 0:12:03.800 --> 0:12:07.600 not like complaining at all, So you're right. Well, I'm 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:09.680 excited because we have been like. 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:13.640 Sort of playing this game, but not really fully playing 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:17.360 this game. And I think it's time to finally play 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:20.320 this game. And if you guys haven't heard of We're 0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:21.360 not really strangers. 0:12:21.480 --> 0:12:22.840 It's a card game. 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:27.960 It's a purpose driven card game, and it's basically supposed 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:32.040 to kind of peel back the layers of perception, connection 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:35.880 and reflection amongst friends and lovers and lovers. 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:37.640 And you're my best friend, and I feel like we 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:38.560 know each other really well. 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:40.880 But there's always more. There's always you know. 0:12:40.920 --> 0:12:44.240 Things that maybe have are unseat or need to be said. 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:47.440 What better place to do it than in front of everyone. 0:12:47.600 --> 0:12:51.840 Yeah, you a love to just feel back our layers 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:52.480 right here. 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:56.720 You have no idea how often Erica and I have 0:12:56.840 --> 0:12:58.600 addressed things between us. 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:00.480 For the first time on. 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:03.800 The mic, true, like, I have something to tell you 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:07.640 right now, not twenty minutes ago before we started shot. 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:09.600 I gonna take something right right this fucking moment. 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:13.760 Okay, so we're gonna we're getting into it. 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:16.559 We're not really strangers. Okay, so I'm gonna. 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.640 I'm gonna read the instructions just this first part because 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:20.920 I thought it was funny the way they worded it, 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:21.959 and also we have. 0:13:21.960 --> 0:13:22.320 To do it. 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:24.760 So okay, wait, First of all, we planned this last 0:13:24.800 --> 0:13:26.000 night and this morning. 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:27.600 I forgot so on the way over. When I thought 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:29.880 about it because she forgot the cards, I wouldn't go 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:31.959 pick them up. I'm like, do I feel like getting 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:36.160 deep in shit this morning? But no choice. 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:37.839 It would be this like sense tovesk that she was 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:39.360 concerned about getting deep in the morning. 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:42.959 In the meanwhile, the one who's like, don't ask me anything, Yeah, 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:43.280 I don't. 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:44.520 I don't want to ask any much I'll give you 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:46.120 all my advice, tell me all your tell me all 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:46.560 your secrets. 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:48.040 I'll tell you exactly what you need to do. Don't 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:48.520 ask me shit. 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:53.640 Okay, So sit facing one another with level one cards 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:54.440 facing down. 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:59.280 Now, stare deeply into each other's eyes. Seriously, stare deep 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:04.520 into each other's eyes. The first two. Blake draws first. Okay, sorry, ready, 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:07.319 he's fased down. I don't yes, because you can't see them. Think, 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:08.800 how are they all? I think I don't know they're all. 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:09.600 I don't know him. 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:12.640 I took them out of the wrapping a main rope 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:13.440 flip flopped. 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:15.880 So apparently that's how it supposed to be. Okay, So 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:24.320 staring competition right my eyes already arding. 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:29.680 It was really weak. 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:36.200 It wasn't wait like twice Bishop, I'm like, I'm looking 0:14:36.240 --> 0:14:37.040 at you, Blake. 0:14:37.200 --> 0:14:38.760 Okay, so I have to pick first? 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:39.800 Yeah, Level one last. 0:14:40.240 --> 0:14:43.600 The Level one is perception. Who do you think my 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:44.600 celebrity crushes? 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:46.360 Yah yah? 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:47.960 That guy? Yeah? 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:53.920 Okay? True? Why true? Do you know who ya ya is? Guys? 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:55.800 Hes fuck and actually trap. 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:57.480 Yoga Bay went to school with him. I can't wait 0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:58.840 to me, I look, we gotta hang out with her. 0:14:58.880 --> 0:15:00.240 We gotta run into him. So then she like, I'm 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:01.680 not gonna put task together or you'd be like hey, 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:03.720 And actually I pulled open my trunk. 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:04.120 Why did I? 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:06.440 I don't don't don't ever buy vacazines, but I must 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:08.720 have bought his cover of like Essence magazine. 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:10.520 It was in my trunk and I opened it yesterday 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:12.000 and I was like, should I throw it away? Do 0:15:12.040 --> 0:15:15.280 you think I threw that away? Throw away? Got it? 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:19.200 Just if anyone can hear and knows you Didna, that's 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:21.840 mine makes a link. Put us in a DM together 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:26.880 or something. Yeah. Okay, did your say wildcard? Is that wildcard? 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:27.560 It says wildcard? 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:28.760 Yeah. That means you have to pick it. 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:30.680 You have to just make some shut up ask and 0:15:30.760 --> 0:15:36.080 answer the next question in a different accent. Hell this 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:39.200 next question? Oh okay, sorry, so this is the wildcard. 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:41.080 I have to do it in an accent. Okay, that's 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:41.520 so funny. 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:42.880 Little just asked me if I can do an English 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:44.400 accent and it was like, not that good, but we 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:45.120 could practice. 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:50.240 Do I remind you of anyone? No, bitch, because I'm 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:51.640 one of the fucking kind. 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:52.920 No, you don't, you don't. 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:55.000 You don't remind me of anyone, because you have one 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:57.880 of the kind. I never met a creature like you, bitch? 0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:01.200 Why thank you, dear? Not to be not to be 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:06.480 confused with honey, my dear. I feel like English people 0:16:06.520 --> 0:16:08.520 say yes, Dan, thank you, moll Ti. 0:16:10.000 --> 0:16:14.480 I get English and Australian fucked up that I'm in 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:19.440 the crocodile dune it quickly, Okay, what character would I 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:20.240 play in moving? 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:27.840 Any character? Because you're an actress, I have this still. Okay, 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:31.640 that's good, Yeah, finish the sentence. Just by looking at you, 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:33.440 just by looking at you, I. 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:35.560 Think you're a witch. 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:41.160 Okay, what do you think I'm most likely to splore? 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:44.840 John like traveling you. 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:49.080 Are my bitch, that's my bitch. 0:16:49.360 --> 0:16:51.960 I was like, if we're rich, that's okay. I'm gonna 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:55.440 just go for right now. Do I seem like someone 0:16:55.440 --> 0:16:58.040 who would get a name tattooed on myself? Why? 0:16:58.600 --> 0:16:59.120 Why not? 0:16:59.600 --> 0:16:59.800 Yes? 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:01.600 You fucking love love. 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:03.640 I'm surprised you don't have all your niggas tatted all 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:05.080 over your fucking body. 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:07.600 One of my niggers just asked me recently, like my 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:10.040 name tattooed? And I was like, Eric would kill me? 0:17:10.720 --> 0:17:11.280