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Speaker 1: Nothing major, but hey, it's podcasting, we're listening. I want

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Speaker 1: hope you guys enjoy this episode. Make sure you click

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to Good Mom's Dad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 2: I'm Lula and it's Wednesday. Happy Wednesday, Happy Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: Honey. Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty good?

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 3: You're the only person in the world that I love.

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Speaker 2: Call me honey? Why I don't like it? Did you

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Speaker 2: like when woman call you honey?

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Speaker 3: But I don't.

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Speaker 2: I think you know I'm not saying it and it's condescending.

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Speaker 1: No, I know.

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Speaker 2: But do you do you like woman call you honey?

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Speaker 2: If it's condescending?

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Speaker 1: No, even in general, you're like, well, you don't mind

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm not sugared by it, unless it

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Speaker 4: feels like that you're getting smart. But when I say honey,

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Speaker 4: just asked that because I know, like a lot of

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Speaker 3: Be like that is call me honey. Do not call

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Speaker 1: I am nobody's motherfucking honey too. Like if I have

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Speaker 1: a book, yes, honey.

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Speaker 4: It's like if it's like a bitch that I don't know,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, thanks, honey, Like that's different.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not that type of bitch. I don't talk

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Speaker 2: like that in general, So tell me, honey, let me

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Speaker 2: see that sounds. Hey, honey, how are you?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Honey? You got I'm good. I feel like everyone thinks

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Speaker 3: some condescending soythe I was.

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Speaker 2: Gonna say everything I said, that's for you. We used

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Speaker 2: to call my great grandmother honey. Really mm hm that

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Speaker 3: So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what you mean, though, I want me

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Speaker 1: I was just it just came to my mind because

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Speaker 1: I know you're particular about certain things, and I know

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Speaker 1: that women are particular about sweety honey, sweetie.

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Speaker 2: I don't like don't call me sweete. I don't like that,

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Speaker 2: no matter if it's condescending or not. If it's not condescending,

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be triggered by it. But I feel

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Speaker 4: Like from someone you don't know, it's generally condescending or

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Speaker 4: It not honey, but sweety Now, what the fuck does

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, Well, but you know what, I think my kindness, like,

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Speaker 4: I'm very nice mostly. I think some people, like New

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Speaker 4: but it's just my personality.

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Speaker 2: I know, you're a genuine asked bitch.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, if you see me in the streets and I

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Speaker 2: Love Erica. On the other end, maybe I might.

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Speaker 1: I mean I probably won't, but you know, people always

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Speaker 2: Anyway, how'd you weake anything new going on?

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Speaker 1: I went to the beach yesterday, which was nice with

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Speaker 2: It was a really nice day. I needed to just

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Speaker 2: I haven't had a break from motherhood and like.

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Speaker 3: Since we got back in Costa Rica pretty much.

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Speaker 1: So it's been like almost three and a half weeks

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Speaker 2: I thought she didn't go over there at all with

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Speaker 2: that father. No, the father is gone for like one day,

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Speaker 1: Wow, with that father, No no, he's he's on tour,

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Speaker 1: and so you know, and my mom is also on tour,

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Speaker 2: Her dad's on tour.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I don't have the typical grandparents that are sitting

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Speaker 4: I am so grateful for those typical motherfucking grandparents that I.

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Speaker 2: Have, like none on my side. But on the other side.

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Speaker 2: One thing I've chose, right, is I chose the good grandparents.

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Speaker 1: No, I I oh need, I need a break and

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Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna I know, I wasn't gonna get one.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, hey, Maryland, you want to go

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Speaker 1: to the beach and our kids can babysit each other. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And that's what happened. I went shopping.

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Speaker 2: I thought a really cute ass toe ring that I'm

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Speaker 3: I think toe rings are my new jam.

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Speaker 2: I love toe rings that they hurt.

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Speaker 1: Side, I think I don't have it on because in

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Speaker 2: It's like they hurt. I want anyone that's comfortable.

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Speaker 4: Also, like, I think I make my ankles too tight

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Speaker 2: But I love body jewelry. Yeah, I think I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: They'll be cute.

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Speaker 2: I want some toe rings. I want to get my

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Speaker 4: But I'm scared because I know I'm not having no

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Speaker 2: I took my mind out when I was when I

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Speaker 2: I don't like to wear bras. Ooh, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: My ariolas are fucking huge, so I don't think. I

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Speaker 3: Are just not gonna.

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Speaker 4: I mean, this is literally literally the most painful thing

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Speaker 2: I don't even know why I said that. I'm totally like.

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Speaker 1: I remember when I got my tongue pierced. I was, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was on mushrooms. Actually, piercing your tongue doesn't hurt.

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Speaker 1: It really does not hurt. It's the aftermath that hurts.

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Speaker 1: It's the well I was also on mushrooms.

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Speaker 2: Was that? But why don't you do it on mushrooms?

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Speaker 2: Because why not? When you're eighteen in New York City.

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Speaker 3: And you're on mushrooms, why not get your tongue paires

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Speaker 3: and all. My friend got her nipples Paris on mushrooms.

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Speaker 2: Oh I thought that shit hurt like a muzz Yeah

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Speaker 2: I did. And that's why I was like, I watched

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Speaker 3: I am doing that ship. The mushrooms did not do

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Speaker 2: The only that'll do shit.

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Speaker 4: I think the only way I do it again is

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Speaker 4: if I had two piercers at the same time, Cerson

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Speaker 3: Like, bitch, It's like that's like the eyebrow waxing or

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Speaker 3: like or like Cucci wax.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that Kuchi wax is hard. Wouldn't do a lot

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Speaker 1: I can wax it for you, bitch. You waxed my

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Speaker 1: mustache was and you were so aggressive. I'm you were

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Speaker 1: moving so mean to me.

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Speaker 2: You were so mean. I was like, treat your quiet now.

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Speaker 1: But like first one, we're standing in the kitchen and

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Speaker 2: I'm I supposed to watch you.

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Speaker 1: I'm not Cuccie will be backing up for you, okay,

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Speaker 1: like I need to do. I just like sugar waxing

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Speaker 2: Sugar?

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Speaker 1: It was the least painful of experience I've had. But

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Speaker 1: I haven't waxed in probably like five years.

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Speaker 2: Because he's allergic to waxing. I usually shaved. But I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm very like, I'm I'm like a nature woman right now,

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Speaker 2: I'm so hairy.

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Speaker 1: I've grown it to the point of waxing, and I

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Speaker 3: If they want to do it. Anyway, Enough about my kuchi.

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Speaker 2: And your forest are my mushroom tongue ring experience. Do

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Speaker 2: we have a car to die? Oh? Of course we do.

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Speaker 2: We're pulling a lot of pentacles latelace. Oh. A lot

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Speaker 2: of money happening because we're rich bitches. Today's card you've

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Speaker 2: pulled is the seven of Pentacles, and I don't know

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Speaker 2: my ten and the seven of Pentacles.

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Speaker 4: First of all, I've learned that my picking every Wednesday

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Speaker 4: is that pinnacles usually have to do a fine answers.

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Speaker 4: The seven of Pednacles shows you understand the value of

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Speaker 4: putting in time and energy now for longer term rewards

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Speaker 4: and have strong desire to invest in sustainable results. You

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Speaker 4: tail reading, when it is an invitation to step back

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Speaker 2: Celebrate what you have created and assess your progress so far.

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Speaker 4: Similarly, if you're planning for the future, the seven of

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Speaker 4: Pinnacles encourages you to take a long term view and

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Speaker 4: assess where you can best invest your time and energy

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Speaker 4: putting your heart install into something if you won't read

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Speaker 4: the rewards for your work. And you have undoubtedly seen

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Speaker 4: that some areas in your life are just energy suppers.

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Speaker 2: Wow, it could go for a lot of things, not

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Speaker 2: just finances.

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Speaker 4: If you're working hard and putting an extra effort into

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Speaker 4: something challenging and important for the last few months.

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Speaker 2: Then depper's or project is near it's culmination. Rest assured

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Speaker 2: your work will pay off.

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Speaker 4: You're likely to see financial or other intangible rewards for

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Speaker 3: I've been manifesting this.

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Speaker 2: But like that's more like people not necessarily.

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Speaker 2: be it rich. It's gonna go crazy over here. We

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Speaker 3: We are rich in mind, body, and sphere.

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Speaker 2: This is true of our kids are healthy.

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Speaker 4: Just it bleeds into all areas of life. So not

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Speaker 2: Today's affirmation is I am rich than in more ways

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Speaker 2: than one. I am rich in more ways than one.

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Speaker 3: I just know that was great.

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Speaker 2: You know whatever inspires you.

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Speaker 3: We're rich. We're rich, bitches. I am that.

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Speaker 2: Bitch, and I'm not gonna take your ship.

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Speaker 1: I am going to get that bag. Wait, okay whatever

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Speaker 2: Rich in love and friendship and wealth were loved. I'm

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Speaker 1: this game. And if you guys haven't heard of We're

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Speaker 1: not really strangers.

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Speaker 2: It's a card game.

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Speaker 1: It's a purpose driven card game, and it's basically supposed

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Speaker 2: And you're my best friend, and I feel like we

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Speaker 3: But there's always more. There's always you know.

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Speaker 2: Things that maybe have are unseat or need to be said.

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Speaker 2: What better place to do it than in front of everyone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you a love to just feel back our layers

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Speaker 4: You have no idea how often Erica and I have

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Speaker 2: For the first time on.

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Speaker 4: The mic, true, like, I have something to tell you

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Speaker 4: right now, not twenty minutes ago before we started shot.

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Speaker 2: I gonna take something right right this fucking moment.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so we're gonna we're getting into it.

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Speaker 2: We're not really strangers. Okay, so I'm gonna.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna read the instructions just this first part because

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Speaker 1: I thought it was funny the way they worded it,

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Speaker 1: and also we have.

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Speaker 4: So okay, wait, First of all, we planned this last

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Speaker 2: I forgot so on the way over. When I thought

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Speaker 2: pick them up. I'm like, do I feel like getting

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Speaker 4: It would be this like sense tovesk that she was

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Speaker 2: In the meanwhile, the one who's like, don't ask me anything, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to ask any much I'll give you

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Speaker 4: all my advice, tell me all your tell me all

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Speaker 4: your secrets.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you exactly what you need to do. Don't

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Speaker 2: ask me shit.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So sit facing one another with level one cards

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Speaker 1: facing down.

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Speaker 2: Now, stare deeply into each other's eyes. Seriously, stare deep

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Speaker 2: into each other's eyes. The first two. Blake draws first. Okay, sorry, ready,

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Speaker 2: he's fased down. I don't yes, because you can't see them. Think,

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Speaker 2: how are they all? I think I don't know they're all.

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Speaker 3: I don't know him.

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Speaker 2: I took them out of the wrapping a main rope

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Speaker 2: flip flopped.

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Speaker 3: So apparently that's how it supposed to be. Okay, So

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Speaker 3: staring competition right my eyes already arding.

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Speaker 2: It was really weak.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't wait like twice Bishop, I'm like, I'm looking

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Speaker 4: at you, Blake.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I have to pick first?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Level one last.

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Speaker 3: The Level one is perception. Who do you think my

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Speaker 3: celebrity crushes?

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Speaker 2: Yah yah?

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Speaker 4: That guy? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay? True? Why true? Do you know who ya ya is? Guys?

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Speaker 3: Hes fuck and actually trap.

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Speaker 2: Yoga Bay went to school with him. I can't wait

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Speaker 2: to me, I look, we gotta hang out with her.

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Speaker 2: We gotta run into him. So then she like, I'm

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Speaker 2: not gonna put task together or you'd be like hey,

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Speaker 2: And actually I pulled open my trunk.

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Speaker 3: Why did I?

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Speaker 1: I don't don't don't ever buy vacazines, but I must

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Speaker 1: have bought his cover of like Essence magazine.

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Speaker 2: It was in my trunk and I opened it yesterday

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Speaker 2: and I was like, should I throw it away? Do

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Speaker 2: you think I threw that away? Throw away? Got it?

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Speaker 2: Just if anyone can hear and knows you Didna, that's

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Speaker 2: mine makes a link. Put us in a DM together

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Speaker 2: or something. Yeah. Okay, did your say wildcard? Is that wildcard?

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Speaker 2: It says wildcard?

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Speaker 3: Yeah. That means you have to pick it.

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Speaker 2: You have to just make some shut up ask and

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Speaker 2: answer the next question in a different accent. Hell this

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Speaker 2: next question? Oh okay, sorry, so this is the wildcard.

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Speaker 2: I have to do it in an accent. Okay, that's

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Speaker 2: so funny.

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Speaker 4: Little just asked me if I can do an English

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Speaker 2: Do I remind you of anyone? No, bitch, because I'm

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Speaker 2: one of the fucking kind.

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Speaker 3: No, you don't, you don't.

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Speaker 2: You don't remind me of anyone, because you have one

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Speaker 2: of the kind. I never met a creature like you, bitch?

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Speaker 2: Why thank you, dear? Not to be not to be

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Speaker 2: confused with honey, my dear. I feel like English people

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Speaker 2: say yes, Dan, thank you, moll Ti.

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Speaker 4: I get English and Australian fucked up that I'm in

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Speaker 4: the crocodile dune it quickly, Okay, what character would I

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Speaker 4: play in moving?

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Speaker 2: Any character? Because you're an actress, I have this still. Okay,

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Speaker 2: that's good, Yeah, finish the sentence. Just by looking at you,

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Speaker 2: just by looking at you, I.

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Speaker 3: Think you're a witch.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what do you think I'm most likely to splore?

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Speaker 2: John like traveling you.

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Speaker 3: Are my bitch, that's my bitch.

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Speaker 2: I was like, if we're rich, that's okay. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: just go for right now. Do I seem like someone

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Speaker 2: who would get a name tattooed on myself? Why?

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Speaker 1: Why not?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: You fucking love love.

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Speaker 1: I'm surprised you don't have all your niggas tatted all

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Speaker 1: over your fucking body.

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Speaker 4: One of my niggers just asked me recently, like my

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Speaker 4: name tattooed? And I was like, Eric would kill me?

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Speaker 2: In English?

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Speaker 4: What you mean?

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Speaker 3: It's the same shit at any language pitch.

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Speaker 2: I was like, where, of course to say over your pussy,

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Speaker 2: and no, it was like on my collar bone. And

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Speaker 2: I was like, all, so, okay, that's a bit much, right.

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Speaker 2: That's the fact that I even asked, fact, the fact

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Speaker 2: that I considered Eric would be so mad aware but language,

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Speaker 2: you're right? Fuck you know me? I have my maybe

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Speaker 2: NAT's name tattooed on me for like two like for

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Speaker 2: like a month. You did, yeah when that dragon is?

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Speaker 4: And then my dad found the receipt in the office

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Speaker 4: because I'm dumb, But what tattoo artists writes a receipt

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Speaker 4: lower back?

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Speaker 2: Bobby? It literally said Bobby quotes. Oh my god, we're

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Speaker 2: gonna have to.

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Speaker 1: Quote at this point. I don't think we've never okay,

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Speaker 1: learned out. I'm sure I don't have timestamps.

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Speaker 2: Is what time is that?

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Speaker 1: Whatever? We don't have if we don't have our podcast

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Speaker 1: our podcast producers.

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Speaker 2: In here today, so we have no we have no

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Speaker 2: not for being taken. Okay, it'll be fine. How many

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Speaker 2: speeding tickets do you think I've gotten in my life too? None, bitch,

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Speaker 2: I've gotten to never.

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Speaker 1: Everyone is always complaining about my driving, Yet I have

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Speaker 1: never gotten a speeding ticket.

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Speaker 2: I've only gotten a cell phone ticket, and any car.

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Speaker 3: Accient I've ever been and has not been my fault.

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Speaker 2: That's not okay, it's totally not true. It's true. That's

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Speaker 2: fad wild card. Close your eyes. What color is my shirt? Me?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Great?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: It do. I seem like more of a creative or

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Speaker 2: analytical type. Explain creative.

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Speaker 3: You're a little analytical.

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Speaker 2: You're more analytical than me, but you're more definitely work

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Speaker 2: to explain why. It's just how you were born, sweetie.

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Speaker 1: It's just who you are this way.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why God makes you this way.

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Speaker 4: You like to create shit, photo shoots, podcasts, four hundred

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Speaker 4: businesses fare What was your first impression of me?

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Speaker 1: Lucky?

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Speaker 4: Why? Uh? Because I was skinny?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Wow, Well because you were skinny. I remember specifically

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Speaker 1: in the pool when because you came over and we

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00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:37,119
Speaker 1: went swimming that first day and you were breastfeeding Luna

449
00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:39,560
Speaker 1: like in the pool, and I was really jealous. I

450
00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,240
Speaker 1: was because I was like I had at that point

451
00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:43,160
Speaker 1: kind of given up on breastfeeding. I've kind of felt

452
00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:44,480
Speaker 1: like a failure and I kind of felt like I

453
00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:46,800
Speaker 1: wasn't a good mom. Because I couldn't do it, and

454
00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:48,120
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, look at her. She's

455
00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:51,720
Speaker 1: just like effortlessly milk flowing from her titties. Meanwhile, I'm like,

456
00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:55,000
Speaker 1: let me go get the bottle the nutrich and where

457
00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:56,440
Speaker 1: the fuck I was feeding my daughter?

458
00:19:57,720 --> 00:19:59,320
Speaker 4: Oh no, babe, And.

459
00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,399
Speaker 1: I think you were. Yeah, you're still with your baby daddy.

460
00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,159
Speaker 1: At the time, I felt like you had it more

461
00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:06,960
Speaker 1: together than I did.

462
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:10,000
Speaker 4: I don't know why the fuck you thought that I

463
00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 4: was not. Well.

464
00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:13,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but actually the first time I was this was

465
00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:14,639
Speaker 1: Sawyer met you.

466
00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:15,960
Speaker 4: Just your first impression of me.

467
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:17,920
Speaker 1: My fresh Okay, so actually my first Yeah, it was

468
00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,119
Speaker 1: lucky because the first impression was actually not even when

469
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:22,920
Speaker 1: I met you. It was on Instagram and I was like,

470
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,680
Speaker 1: how the fuck is this bitch so cute? Pregnant? The

471
00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:29,520
Speaker 1: fuck she's like skinny with just a bump and then

472
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:32,200
Speaker 1: had this baby and still looks the same. Like I'm

473
00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:34,280
Speaker 1: literally felt like a slob. I was like, how the

474
00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,240
Speaker 1: fuck who is this bitch? I need to know her?

475
00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:36,719
Speaker 1: Fuck her.

476
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,280
Speaker 4: I want to be your friend. Oh babe, I thought

477
00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,320
Speaker 4: you were lucky too, because you got engaged and it

478
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,120
Speaker 4: was a fat ass ring. I'm like they're probably doing

479
00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:46,359
Speaker 4: great over there, and I was drowning and.

480
00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:48,440
Speaker 1: I should have said, I was literally thinking about that

481
00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:50,760
Speaker 1: on the freeway the other day, that I should have

482
00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:52,240
Speaker 1: never given that ring back.

483
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,359
Speaker 4: You should have never told you, ladies, listen up.

484
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:57,199
Speaker 1: If you are about to break up with your fiance husband,

485
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 1: don't you fucking dare give that ring back?

486
00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 4: Shu Lee. If that motherfucker fucked up, it is yours forever.

487
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:07,840
Speaker 4: You should have thought about that shit before you fucked

488
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:09,360
Speaker 4: it up and fucked up the contract.

489
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:10,720
Speaker 1: I just knew, you know what it was. I was

490
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 1: so angry when all of our shit went down the

491
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:16,440
Speaker 1: way it did and hurt, and I knew that he

492
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:19,359
Speaker 1: had worked so hard to give me that ring because

493
00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:21,119
Speaker 1: it was fat, it was a big ass diamond that

494
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:22,760
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want this shit, so I

495
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:25,200
Speaker 1: just threw it at him. And I'm sure that fucking

496
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,760
Speaker 1: ring is like three chains right now. For sure, he's

497
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 1: got like three fucking diamond chains off that shit.

498
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:32,719
Speaker 4: He could have that shit because I'll buy you a ring.

499
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,159
Speaker 1: And I was thinking, damn, I could have bought my

500
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 1: titties with that ring like my mom did.

501
00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 4: I'm gonna buy you a ring, my mom.

502
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:41,160
Speaker 1: Bought her titties with my dad's engagement rings. You could

503
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,320
Speaker 1: have just been a repeating history essentially, That's what I'm doing. Anyway.

504
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 4: You could be like me and get nothing but a baby.

505
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:54,200
Speaker 4: So no boobs, no ring, just sorrow, sadness, sorrow, sorrow,

506
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:58,159
Speaker 4: time wasted. Okay, what do you think is the hardest

507
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 4: part of what I do for a living? Everything, all

508
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:06,960
Speaker 4: of it. It's hard, juggling, balancing. I think balancing is

509
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,600
Speaker 4: the hardest part. Amen, What about me intrigues you?

510
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:13,359
Speaker 1: I feel like you are really are much better at

511
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 1: like even though like your people person and you're an oversharer,

512
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 1: I feel like you are more of a less of

513
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 1: an open book than I am in ways, and I

514
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,879
Speaker 1: think people, yeah, because you have your own little secret

515
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:24,360
Speaker 1: life over there, you do, you'd be doing weird shit

516
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:25,960
Speaker 1: on the weekends and I have no idea about it.

517
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:28,760
Speaker 1: I just feel like you have a lot of different

518
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 1: things about like that you do. I don't know which

519
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 1: is fine, because you should do that. But I feel

520
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 1: like I'm a more of an open book with my friends,

521
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 1: Like I'm going to tell you, like what's happening all

522
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 1: the time. The status is of my dating relationships, like

523
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 1: what should I do? Whereas like I think that you

524
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,159
Speaker 1: keep things a little more close to the belt. And

525
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 1: I think most people would be shocked by that because

526
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 1: you probably share more on the podcast than I do.

527
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: But in our personal life and just knowing you, I

528
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 1: think that intrigues me.

529
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:53,439
Speaker 4: I do do some shit on the weekends.

530
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 1: It's that Gemini.

531
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 4: It's like, let me tell you what I did two

532
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 4: weeks ago, to tell you.

533
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: It's the Gemini in you. And that's why I think

534
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 1: I'm very attracted to Geminis because you're hard to figure out.

535
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 4: That's crazy, because I think I'm the most too openness bitch.

536
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:08,440
Speaker 4: Can you please shut the fuck up? Sometimes? Ask book girl?

537
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 4: Close the book? Okay, nobody needs to read it? Fuck

538
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 4: too honest, Like, sometimes you need to shut the fuck up, Jamilla.

539
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 1: Damn. What about me is the most strange or unfamiliar

540
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 1: to you?

541
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 4: What's the most strange or unfamiliar unfamiliar? I don't know

542
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 4: at this point. Everything's very familiar, strange, maybe doing some

543
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:40,120
Speaker 4: strange shit. Ah, this is difficult. What is the most

544
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 4: strange or unfamiliar? I'm trying to think of, like the

545
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 4: strangest thing I've seen you do. I really hate that

546
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 4: you keep putting almond butter in every fucking smoothie. Jesus Christ.

547
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 4: It's the most fucking cardboard additive to a.

548
00:23:53,040 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 1: Smooth as protein. Not strange, you know, it's really range

549
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 1: is your flexitarian diet.

550
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:07,439
Speaker 4: And then you're spashing me publicly, bitch eakes pork fucking

551
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 4: tacos only in Mexico and shit, and they're like, you

552
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 4: eat terribly. I'm like, bitch, the fuck I know you?

553
00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 4: You know that, right?

554
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:16,159
Speaker 1: Whatever?

555
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 4: What do my shoes tell you about me? Your shoes

556
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 4: of them that I'm a stripper, that you are.

557
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 1: A stripper, and that you love I feel like you're

558
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,639
Speaker 1: stuck in the two thousands. Sometimes you're stuck in the

559
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 1: early two thousands. A certain shoe looks good on me,

560
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 1: like the late ninety nines, early two thousands, spice girls.

561
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 4: I'm sure.

562
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 1: I like everything with a platform.

563
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 4: I like big.

564
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: The fact that you shoes went like, went crazy to

565
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 1: find these specific shoes, guys, Look, we're holding it up

566
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 1: to the camera. You see these. She was like googling

567
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 1: for her life, trying to find cork platformed, clear shoes.

568
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 4: With clear platform six inch platforms. Yes, that's true.

569
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 1: I haven't seen someone wear those since fran Dresher.

570
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 4: You know how long it took me to find them?

571
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 1: I know because you were looking for weeks.

572
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 4: I don't like the new school shoes. These are the

573
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 4: ones that look good on me, and those really weren't

574
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 4: the ones that I wanted. There was another one that

575
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 4: Steve Madden used to make, but that's oh.

576
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 1: They're out of style. They're not.

577
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:20,160
Speaker 4: They're not like the wooden bottoms, like, what are they clogs?

578
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 4: No number can.

579
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: Basically I know, and I'm let you had it right.

580
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: Do you think I've ever checked an ex's phone for evidence?

581
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 4: For sure?

582
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 1: It's a fact. I haven't checked many though, because I've

583
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: always felt so violated. I've always dated such like possessive

584
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 1: men that I really made an effort to not look.

585
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:43,800
Speaker 1: And I really genuinely think if you look, you're gonna

586
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 1: find some shit that you're not gonna like like. And

587
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: sometimes I like to live in the space of like,

588
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 1: I don't know what's happening, because inevitably, I trust the

589
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 1: universe is always gonna give me the information, and she

590
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: always does. So I don't really go through people's phones,

591
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 1: but I have. I definitely check my baby daddy's phone.

592
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 1: And I can count on my on one hand how

593
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,399
Speaker 1: many times. Probably three times.

594
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've done it. My babydady was a liar, though

595
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 4: most niggas are liars. I'll do it like howsually, I'll

596
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 4: look over, especially if you if you slip and it's

597
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 4: just next to me and it's open. But I feel

598
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 4: the same way. If you look, you shall find some shit.

599
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 4: One time I was so determined to like get a

600
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 4: good look at it, my baby daddy fell asleep. I

601
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 4: don't know if I put the phone by his face,

602
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 4: so I recognized. Then I left the house, got into

603
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 4: the car, locked the door. This nigga must have woke

604
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 4: up realized his phone was missing. Scheme. What I was like,

605
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 4: fuck you through the window, was begging, like trying to

606
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 4: drive off your cycle.

607
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: Wows are crazy?

608
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 4: Okay, what's the first thing you noticed about me?

609
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 1: You're small physique.

610
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 4: I'm very small, you guys, not very small. I'm thaker

611
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 4: than a snicker. But for some reason, and people see me,

612
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 4: they're always like, oh my god, you're so small. There's

613
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 4: so much older than Erica. I am like six inches

614
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 4: shorter than Erica five six. Yeah, I'm six inches short.

615
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 4: I don't feel that way though I don't either.

616
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: Whenever we do take pictures, I'm like, Wow, I am

617
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 1: bigger than you.

618
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 4: It's because I'm big in spirit.

619
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 1: Do I seem like a coffee or tea person? Sweetened

620
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: or unsweetened coffee?

621
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 4: One yellow splenda? That is it? Almond milk?

622
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: Accurate?

623
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 4: Wow? We go together? Why do I get I'm a

624
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 4: wild girl at all? The wild cards? Draw a picture together?

625
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 4: For thirty seconds?

626
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: We need to draw one together. I don't have a pencil.

627
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 4: I'm a better drawer anyway. What you should that pick? Okay,

628
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 4: I'll show you much pictures. What do you think my

629
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 4: go to karaoke song is?

630
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: Wait?

631
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 4: I just went before you say this. I just want

632
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 4: you to know. I have a notes in my phone

633
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:51,399
Speaker 4: and it just says karaoke. I'm not a frequenter of karaoke.

634
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 4: I haven't gone in years, but just in case, they're

635
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 4: in my phone.

636
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: There's two officially missing you to me.

637
00:27:58,920 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 4: My request.

638
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: Okay, I saw your request it so I know it's fact.

639
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 4: Another one is silly of me to thing that you

640
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 4: could have ever really want me too? Okay, I like

641
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,400
Speaker 4: that one until my phone I forgot I know that song.

642
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: I just thought maybe you know. Wait, let's see how

643
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 1: you have one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight nine. Okay,

644
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 1: we have six more rounds guys before we move on

645
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:29,439
Speaker 1: to connection. If you were to buy me a present

646
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 1: knowing nothing about me other than what I look.

647
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 4: Like, what would it be good?

648
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: Yeah? Because I like gold, but the bitch is my presence.

649
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 4: Okay, but I don't if I don't know you gold.

650
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 4: Everybody looks jewelry. I would buy something expensive. Look like

651
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 4: a rich bitch.

652
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah like that, I'm a rich bitch.

653
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 4: Not yeah like that?

654
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 2: Like that?

655
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 4: What is my phone? Wallpaper? Tell you about me?

656
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 1: Six years?

657
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 4: All paper tell you about me? Boy? Yeah?

658
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: Uh that you haven't updated it in six years.

659
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 4: Wait, First of all, it's me and Luna when she

660
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 4: was like two. But let me tell you how I

661
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 4: got here. One time, my best friend made a comment

662
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 4: about another mom that the child wasn't on her wallpaper,

663
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 4: and I was like, am I bad mom? Because I

664
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 4: get my wallpaper and I changed it. I never changed

665
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 4: it back. I literally don't look at like I just

666
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 4: I don't look at it. But you know what tip

667
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 4: quick tip that I did do before I got pregnant.

668
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 4: You should make a collage and make it your wallpaper,

669
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 4: but you should put it all the things that you're

670
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:32,480
Speaker 4: aspiring to get. You should make your wallpaper a vision board.

671
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,479
Speaker 4: Cousin Chris told me that, and I had it briefly,

672
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 4: and actually a little girl was on there because I

673
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 4: really wanted to have a girl and I got a girl.

674
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Speaker 1: So there you go. She works wild card. Write down

675
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: something others would never guess about you just by looking

676
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: at you. Both players compare.

677
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Speaker 4: I've had at least six wet dreams about Eminem. Eminem.

678
00:29:57,320 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 4: It's better than fucking Howard Stern and six though that's

679
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 4: like you came. Yeah, I'm grossed out. I don't even

680
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 4: know if we're actually friends. I'm shocked.

681
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: It started when I was like stop, just take my

682
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,479
Speaker 1: first one. I was around age fifteen, okay, and then

683
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: it's carry on through adulthood.

684
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 4: I don't know what if anyone knows Eminem. He this

685
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 4: is my second time kind of hearing you say that.

686
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 4: I'm always trying to act like I didn't hear it.

687
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 1: Mela, I'm a sub and a dom. I'm pretty sure

688
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: people know this too. Okay, Well, I look innocent, though,

689
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 1: do you, I think, so this is the dumbo. Do

690
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: I look kind?

691
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 4: Yes?

692
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 1: Explain you just have an inviting demeanor about you, which

693
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 1: is why you are. I've always told you like you

694
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 1: are a light, like literally like the light in the

695
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: house that all the bugs like fucking just like anywhere

696
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: we go, Mila will make a friend. If you ever

697
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: want to go to an event and you just need

698
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 1: that friend who is going to be able to hold

699
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: her own, call Mela like she's that friend. You don't

700
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 1: got to worry. She goes and probably leave you and

701
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 1: go somewhere else with some other people.

702
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 4: It's true. If you think the night is over and

703
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 4: I met friends that are doing something else, I'm probably

704
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 4: gonna stay with them. Oh you're just going home. I'm

705
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 4: gonna just stay with George and Jill over here. Don't worry,

706
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 4: I'll be fine.

707
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 1: This is exactly what happened in Nashville. I was like,

708
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: where are you going?

709
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 4: And I always I'm like, why didn't you let me go?

710
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 4: The next day, like why didn't you just make me leave?

711
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 4: You know, I need to be told. There's been so

712
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 4: many times in my mind I'm like, bitch, you've got

713
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 4: I don't know, I've literally reflected like you didn't do

714
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 4: nothing that time. It's literally your face, like, why are

715
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 4: we talking to this person? Twenty minutes later, still you're

716
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 4: walking down the street. You have shit to do.

717
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: Okay, this is the last one. Do you think I

718
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: fall in love easily? Why? Or why not?

719
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Speaker 4: I don't think you fall in love easily. I think

720
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 4: you fall in love more easy than you think though

721
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 4: you think, well, bitch, I just heard about the romantic

722
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 4: gift you just gave a guy.

723
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean I love him. No, No, I don't

724
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 1: think you fall No. I definitely fall in love easy

725
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 1: er than Erica. I think I used to fall in

726
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 1: love really eazy. I always had boyfriends, like back to

727
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: back to back boyfriends. Oh yeah, I think that I Yeah,

728
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: I think he retired. I have a boundary. I have

729
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 1: a boundary up, which is like I get scared sometimes,

730
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: like am I capable of loving someone like how I

731
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 1: used to love before? Like selfish, like like totally selflessly?

732
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: Maybe not, because I don't know if that's healthy for me.

733
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 4: But yeah, okay, round too, Round two, Level too, Level two.

734
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 4: Have you ever told someone I love you but didn't

735
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 4: mean it?

736
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 1: If so, why yes? During sex?

737
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 4: Because they kept saying it because.

738
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 1: I did feel like I loved them during sex fair,

739
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: I love you, I love this dick, and then when

740
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: we were done, I was like, I don't love you

741
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: and I love the dick. And now you think I

742
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 1: loved you because I fucked you like I loved you,

743
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 1: and now I'm fucked.

744
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

745
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 1: No, literally and figuratively.

746
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 2: Yes.

747
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 1: What is the last thing you lied to your mother about, Jamila?

748
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 4: I know you're not talking. I don't know. Probably like

749
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 4: paying a parking ticket. I love. My parents are very

750
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 4: annoying to me. They're always bitching, so I'm probably lying

751
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 4: a lot. Shut up. Yeah, it's done. Yeah I did

752
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 4: do that. They still think I live in the back room.

753
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 4: Wild Card. Admit something.

754
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 1: I admit something. I am scared of success, full success,

755
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: because I don't know how I'll maintain it. I feel you, girl, Yeah,

756
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: I'm scared of being successful in ways because I don't

757
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: know how I'll maintain it. It's like one of my

758
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,719
Speaker 1: biggest fears of like, Okay, work so hard, I get

759
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: all the shit and then it's here and then I'm like,

760
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: how do I keep this shit?

761
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 4: Yeah? That's scary. Like, as you grow in anything, you're like, damn,

762
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 4: I got this apartment, how this fucking rent? Oh damn

763
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 4: I got this car? Oh damn? Like I got this

764
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 4: business and now we have employees and people. Fuck shit,

765
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 4: must keep going.

766
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 1: It's scary girl. So the other night I was masturbating

767
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768
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Speaker 1: open up my door. You know I'm have the Queen

769
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770
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Speaker 1: died too. No, Like God doesn't want me to have pleasure. Okay,

771
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Speaker 1: So that's why I was like, yo, I need to

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773
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Speaker 4: Wild card. Call someone you admire and tell them why

817
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:39,359
Speaker 4: you appreciate them. Put on speakerphone. Okay, are you gonna call?

818
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call Nisha.

819
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,240
Speaker 4: Hopefully she answers she had two kids.

820
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 1: Nope, she ain't gonna answer. Who's next? Okay, next person

821
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: is going to be Ashley. Oh and she's answering. Hello, Hey, hey, bo,

822
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:20,839
Speaker 1: how are you? Hey?

823
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 4: I'm just untacking.

824
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm good, I'm good. I just wanted to tell

825
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: you that I really admire you. I think that you

826
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 1: are an amazing woman. And yeah, and that you I'm

827
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:41,279
Speaker 1: impressed by you because everything that you do, you just

828
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 1: fucking do it. You are willing to work through everything.

829
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: You're so creative, and I know that sometimes you don't

830
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: have it all together. And somehow you fucking look like

831
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 1: you do even when I'm around and even anywhere, and

832
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: that I think that you are going to be really

833
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 1: successful and whatever you put your full attention to.

834
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Speaker 4: Thank you.

835
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 1: What is It's part of like a like a like

836
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: a five steps kind of I'm playing this card game

837
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 1: and I got a wild card game. A wild card.

838
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 1: It told me to call someone I admire and tell

839
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 1: them why, Oh thanks girl. Yeah, I love you.

840
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 3: Thank you.

841
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 2: That means a lot to me, especially coming from you.

842
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 1: I love you, I love you, I really mean all

843
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: those things. Oh I love you too. Who are you

844
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 1: playing this game with Mela? Hi? Mila and the podcast?

845
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm over here like crying out.

846
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: Oh I love you. You really are. You're so amazing.

847
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 1: And I saw your YouTube's like you are the ship.

848
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 1: You're really shit.

849
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:44,879
Speaker 4: You everything great.

850
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 1: I've seen you start so many different businesses and do

851
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 1: every single one like super well, like not half asked,

852
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,919
Speaker 1: and thank you are incredible and you're a good ass. Mom.

853
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 2: Thank you so much. That means so much. Thank you.

854
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 1: You're welcome.

855
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 2: All right, Well, now I can continue doing laundry.

856
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 4: Okay, I love you, love you.

857
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: Give the baby the kiss for me. Bye, I'm gonna cry.

858
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: I love my friend. Oh I love her, I really do. Okay, Okay, okay,

859
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 1: we aren't really strangers.

860
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 4: Oh my god, is it my turn?

861
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 1: Yeah? I guess Okay, sorry. How can you become a

862
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: better person?

863
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 4: How can I become a better person? I could become

864
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 4: a better person, probably by giving less of myself to

865
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:50,919
Speaker 4: some things. I could probably prioritize myself and the things

866
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 4: that are my priorities better. I think that would make

867
00:39:53,280 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 4: me a better person. Also, I could go to therapy. Okay,

868
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 4: stop avoiding the work. Cool, it's my turn.

869
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: Okay.

870
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 4: And what question are you trying to answer most in

871
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 4: your life right now? Okay? Level two?

872
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 1: How do I make all of my efforts fruitful? Back

873
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 1: to the affirmation of today, Like, how do I make

874
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 1: everything that I'm doing worth it all? Because sometimes I

875
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 1: feel disconnected from my m from the work that I'm doing.

876
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: Because sometimes I feel like I get in these weird

877
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 1: modes where I'm like, what am I working so hard for?

878
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 1: Just go live in the jungle. This is pointless. There's

879
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:51,399
Speaker 1: your find wealth and health and so much more there.

880
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 1: And then I'm like, no, but I really fucking like

881
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: what I do. And I like working hard, and I

882
00:40:56,239 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 1: like creating, and I like collaborating, and I like the

883
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: accolades of my success. I like unlocking, you know, things

884
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 1: that I thought I couldn't do, manifesting things with you

885
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:14,399
Speaker 1: and seeing how they fucking just boom happen. You know, well,

886
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 1: that's the answer.

887
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 4: Oh what question are you trying to answer most in

888
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:17,799
Speaker 4: your life?

889
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, how do I? Yeah? How do I make

890
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: all those things happen? Finish the sentences. Strangers would describe

891
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: me as blank. Only I know that I am blank.

892
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 4: Strangers would describe me as I'm pretty. I think I'm

893
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 4: an open book. I was gonna say, oh, an extrovert.

894
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 4: Only I would know that I am have stage fright.

895
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's true. I mean, I don't really think you

896
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:49,840
Speaker 1: have stage fright, but I know that you think you do.

897
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 2: I do.

898
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 1: I think that you actually perform really well under pressure.

899
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 4: But I think that it's not that I don't have

900
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 4: stage fright, it's that I push past it to engage.

901
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm so scared and anyway, reminder, be more

902
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,400
Speaker 4: interested in understanding others than being understood.

903
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 1: Be more interested in understanding others than being understood.

904
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 4: At this point in my life, I feel like expect

905
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 4: to be misunderstood and be okay with it.

906
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:21,120
Speaker 2: M h.

907
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 4: Not only that, like expect to be misunderstood and be

908
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 4: at peace with it.

909
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 1: You know what. I had this dream last night and

910
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:29,800
Speaker 1: I told my mom about it because it was she

911
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 1: was in it, and I felt so real because it

912
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: is like a feeling that I have had to work

913
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 1: through with her and feeling like whatever I'm doing is

914
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: not impressive or it's not enough for your mom. And

915
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 1: in the dream, I had this dream that like she

916
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: called me or she texts me. And there's this girl

917
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 1: that I know who I've known her since middle school.

918
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 1: She's a dermatologist, she's getting married, she's like super successful,

919
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 1: she's like an aspen. It's really me. I'm looking at

920
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:00,320
Speaker 1: her life on Instagram and I'm like, wow, she's killing it.

921
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 1: And my mom texted me, was like, Erica, why couldn't

922
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: you have been more like And she's a doctor too.

923
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 1: She's like doctor. I'm not gonna put her last name,

924
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 1: but doctor blank. You know, maybe if you'd stayed at

925
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 1: that school that you wanted to leave, like you'd be

926
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:16,760
Speaker 1: farther along in your career and like have a respectable career.

927
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 1: That's literally was the dream. And I was like so

928
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:23,359
Speaker 1: distraught and hurt and angry and felt like but also

929
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: felt this rush of like I'm going to prove you.

930
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 1: I'm proving you wrong. I was doing I was like

931
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 1: doing a project and I was like, this project has

932
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 1: to be amazing because it's gonna just and I was,

933
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: but I was also like very hurt. And I told

934
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: my mom about it today because I was like, I

935
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 1: had this dream and she's like, you know that I

936
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 1: don't feel that way, right, Like, I'm so proud of you.

937
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 4: I'm happy you told her that you had this random

938
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 4: dream that's big.

939
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, She's like, I'm so proud of you. I'm so

940
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:48,399
Speaker 1: like you are amazing. Like and I was like, maybe

941
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 1: that's the dream I needed to have because I needed

942
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 1: to hear that right and then to hear that question

943
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:58,359
Speaker 1: or that reminder is affirming. So yeah, what was that again?

944
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 4: Rate reading be more in interested in understanding others than

945
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 4: being understood?

946
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:04,399
Speaker 1: Yeah?

947
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 4: Does that NICEA I'd expect to be misunderstood, expect not

948
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 4: to be under be understood and accept that and be

949
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 4: okay with it.

950
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: And you know, I've also been feeling like really empowered

951
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: and where we are. But also there's times where I

952
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,800
Speaker 1: feel insecure about what we do when dating, Like I

953
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,479
Speaker 1: feel like not insecure, but I'm like, are you okay

954
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 1: with this? Like I want to make sure you're okay

955
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 1: with this? Like because whoever, like this person that I'm

956
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 1: talking to, I'm like, feel I find myself cringing if

957
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 1: he listens, And I'm like, why do I cringe? This

958
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: is my like what I do, Like, yeah, listen to

959
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 1: that shit, listen to me talk. I want you to

960
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 1: be like, yes, my bitch, that's my bitch right now.

961
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 1: But also there's part of me is like is it

962
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 1: too much? Am I too much?

963
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 4: Are you gonna ask me later to like tone down

964
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 4: a little bit?

965
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 1: Like yeah, so ooh your my stomach, jeez. I'm still

966
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: working through insecurities guys.

967
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:55,240
Speaker 4: As we all are, Babe, we're're a human.

968
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 1: When you're asked how are you? How often do you

969
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 1: actually answer truthfully?

970
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 4: Probably like twenty percent of the time. I'm answering honestly

971
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 4: because I think I am programmed to be okay. I'm

972
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 4: programmed to be good, like I don't. I'm programmed that

973
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 4: everything is working out in it's best favor. And I'm

974
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 4: also the type of person is like someone has it

975
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 4: way worse than you, Like what you're complaining about is small,

976
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 4: and like everything, I talk myself down a lot, like

977
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 4: you are good, everything's fine, you're healthy. You know, like

978
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 4: this is good. So I don't. I'm not the type

979
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 4: of person who kind of acknowledges a lot of like

980
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 4: background shit, because my focus is always that I'm good.

981
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 1: I mean even today when I called you, I was like,

982
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 1: are you okay? And she was like, yeah, I'm fine.

983
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 1: I was like why are you lying? I was like

984
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 1: why are you lying? And she was you were like no,

985
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,400
Speaker 1: I just and then you told me what happened, and

986
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 1: I was like I could feel that there was like something,

987
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,280
Speaker 1: I know, but I just felt like there was something.

988
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 1: But I was like, I'm sure you were good. I'm

989
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 1: just saying like I know that there's been times where

990
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: you've said you're gooding or not good, and I have

991
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 1: to be like, bitch, are you good? Right?

992
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 4: Be my psychic which friend like you're lying? And then

993
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, you're right. Fuck, I'm a mess. Should we

994
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 4: do a couple? Level three? Since we're gonna wrap this up? Okay,

995
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:16,240
Speaker 4: let's just wow, because we are really strangers?

996
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: Really works?

997
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 4: Yeah?

998
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: So level three is what is it?

999
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 4: Reflection?

1000
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 1: God?

1001
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 4: I don't think I really wanted to aviy to do this.

1002
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 4: That was better off in connection? Okay, reflection? How would

1003
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 4: you describe? Did we do this one? Or rather, how

1004
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,399
Speaker 4: would you describe me to a stranger? M hmm okay,

1005
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:33,800
Speaker 4: how would you describe me to a stranger?

1006
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:42,240
Speaker 1: Uh? Fun, smart, nurturing, and uh wild?

1007
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 4: Okay, oh wait your turn?

1008
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: What about me surprised you the most?

1009
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 4: That you're a little wild too? I didn't know that

1010
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 4: about you at first.

1011
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: Why is it surprising?

1012
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 4: I don't know, I think honestly, I don't. It wasn't

1013
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 4: surprising really know you that well. But I think when

1014
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 4: we started this podcast, whatever point in that in your

1015
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:09,240
Speaker 4: life that I think you did shift to be more open.

1016
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 4: And I don't think I've been told that from friends of.

1017
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: Yours that I shifted to be more open.

1018
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, since like the beginning of the podags, Oh yeah,

1019
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 4: well for sure. Yeah, so maybe like even I was

1020
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 4: like surprised to hear that, or maybe that you have

1021
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 4: it all together. You know, like prior to me being

1022
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 4: your like close friend, I also thought that you were

1023
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 4: like getting married. Everything was perfect. You had like your

1024
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:34,240
Speaker 4: rapper boyfriend fiance. You wanted to make it to get married.

1025
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 4: You know, like you were living out the dream like

1026
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 4: you had it all. You have a good, cool job,

1027
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 4: You're traveling the world, like you know, people we have

1028
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:44,799
Speaker 4: these perceptions and like what we think people are going through,

1029
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 4: Like you have that doctor in your dream, and it's

1030
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 4: just like just because you know, does everybody's going through

1031
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 4: their own shit? No one really has it together.

1032
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: No, It's true. I think that. Like I feel like

1033
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 1: I was pretty wild most of my life. I think

1034
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:03,240
Speaker 1: even in my relationship when I started dating my baby daddy,

1035
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: we still had a lot of fun, Like I mean,

1036
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 1: yeah he's a rapper, Like we were going to parties,

1037
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 1: were like, you know, having drunken nights. I guess I

1038
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: think I've just but I think within my limitations and

1039
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 1: then also I don't know. I guess to most of

1040
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: my friends, I feel like I was the wild friend

1041
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:21,839
Speaker 1: of my group even though I'm not even I guess

1042
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 1: I'm not like as wild as maybe like maybe our

1043
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: levels of what on the spectrum you're like you'd far

1044
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 1: fall father. I don't know why this is true, because

1045
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: we do really similar shit, I know. But even like

1046
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 1: even when we started hanging out, like my friends who

1047
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 1: are like mostly my friends, of your friends didn't know me.

1048
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,360
Speaker 1: That's the craziest part of all, because like one of

1049
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,840
Speaker 1: your friends that I had like said something about like

1050
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 1: my I remember they said this really bad acting or

1051
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 1: some shit like that. I was like, what are they

1052
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 1: talking about. We're talking about the same person.

1053
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 4: They know none of my friends. Sometimes I would tell

1054
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,320
Speaker 4: them like maybe things that we would do together, and like,

1055
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 4: really I wouldn't see Erica doing that. I'm like, oh,

1056
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 4: but I you see me doing it.

1057
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: Maybe that was just some some projecting onto you.

1058
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean or perception perception, perception is crazy.

1059
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 1: I just maybe I didn't put I guess if you

1060
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 1: look at my Instagram, it looks like, I don't know,

1061
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 1: like what you would perceive, maybe differently now than then.

1062
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 1: But I'm just I just found that interesting because I've

1063
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 1: always felt like the wild friend. But that's interesting that

1064
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 1: you didn't think that I was.

1065
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:21,279
Speaker 4: I mean, obviously that's why we started the podcast When

1066
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:26,839
Speaker 4: you told me that story about the couple. What would

1067
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 4: be the perfect gift for me?

1068
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 1: Really delicious meal somewhere, my favorite date of fancy date,

1069
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 1: good food.

1070
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:35,240
Speaker 4: I love dates.

1071
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not really into like material things like that,

1072
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:45,360
Speaker 1: so I feel like a vacation and an all expense

1073
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:46,399
Speaker 1: paid trip.

1074
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 4: Yeah that's true. Yeah, that's all true.

1075
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 1: Yeah you would like that.

1076
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, you like that, it's true.

1077
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 1: Give your partner a hug, not the crappy kind a warm,

1078
00:49:59,160 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 1: fluffy one.

1079
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 4: M I love you so much. Me and Erica hug

1080
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,640
Speaker 4: a lot. But I think we were hugging in the

1081
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 4: office one day and her stepdad was there, was like

1082
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:17,240
Speaker 4: everything okay, We're like yeah, just hugging. It's like okay,

1083
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:24,280
Speaker 4: like fucking lets mid day hugs. What do you admire

1084
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 4: most about me?

1085
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 3: Did you get that?

1086
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. What do you admire most about you? I

1087
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 1: think we asked this on our friends on our podcast episode.

1088
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 4: With Oh Friends a Friend and Jane.

1089
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 1: I admire your capacity for love, like to love and

1090
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 1: care truly like I do, like you are and that

1091
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 1: and you are a light like and it's it's so admirable.

1092
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 1: And to see how people trust you and flock to

1093
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 1: you and like and how you have this balance of

1094
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 1: being able to nurture all of them where they all

1095
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 1: feel cared for. I'm like, I'm like, I don't know

1096
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 1: how you do it like and you do it well

1097
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 1: and somehow you still have energy.

1098
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Speaker 4: I'm a cancer.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy.

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Speaker 4: It's my motherly energy. But I can only have one child.

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00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:15,879
Speaker 4: I have so many children in life.

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Speaker 1: Based on what you learned about me, what book would

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Speaker 1: you recommend I read?

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Speaker 4: Because I'm the fucking books Burt. Let me tell you

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00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 4: from my life. If books, the book that would be

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00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:31,919
Speaker 4: best fitting for you, Erica is right here. I'll three

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Speaker 4: with the store.

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00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:37,399
Speaker 1: I could pick another one.

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00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:39,799
Speaker 4: Okay, please don't have The Alchemist.

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Speaker 1: That's like everyone's book.

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Speaker 4: I love that book. Oh I also did you read

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Speaker 4: uh the Celestine Prophecy? I want you to read that

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00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:49,359
Speaker 4: one too?

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Speaker 1: Okay? So should I not read this?

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00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 4: You and everyone else?

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00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: What about me is hardest for you to understand?

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00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 4: You'd be moody? You're moody. I don't think anyone understands

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00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 4: the moody has been like not this week. But I'm moody.

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00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,280
Speaker 4: But I'm not that moody. And that's why everybody's moodyness?

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Speaker 4: I might all have time for this today. I don't

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00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 4: know what's wrong with you. You don't know me there.

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Speaker 4: I don't understand it, and I'm like, people just be moody, Jamila,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you need to be mood So that's why

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Speaker 4: I don't know what's wrong to be an attitude. I

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00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 4: don't even know how to be I don't even know

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Speaker 4: how to be moody appropriately. I don't know. I feel

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00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,919
Speaker 4: weird saying it. Should we do the final card?

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Speaker 1: Should we do it? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Okay, since we can wrap up for our next recording. Sure, okay,

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Speaker 4: the final card that you pull, we are supposed to

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00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 4: read it. Wait, I just want to ask one more,

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00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:43,320
Speaker 4: one more. We could both answer it.

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00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:43,720
Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 4: What am I most qualified to give advice about?

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00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 1: Wow?

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00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 4: I think everyone should know this.

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00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: Well, what are you the most qualified advice?

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00:52:54,239 --> 00:53:00,399
Speaker 4: Yeah? Hmmm, I think you're the most qualified to give

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00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 4: advice about balance, I mean the balance, boundaries, boundaries. You're

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00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:06,320
Speaker 4: good at boundaries.

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00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 1: You are the most qualified to give advice about. I

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00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: feel like understanding the societies basically what the podcast is about,

1143
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: like like unlearning societal norms. You have a beautiful way

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00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 1: of like explaining why things should be looked at from

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00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 1: both perspectives or from many different perspectives. And when I

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00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:37,560
Speaker 1: hear you talk about it, you talk about it always

1147
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 1: so eloquently, and it just like rolls off your time,

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00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 1: Like did you study that? How did you know how

1149
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: to describe nature? And why people are attracted and all

1150
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 1: scientists mama's flowers and why the kids should all know

1151
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 1: what weed is? Yeah, I think that you're really you

1152
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 1: know how to just describe I guess like the I

1153
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 1: feel like the nuances and polarity of life itself. Well,

1154
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:07,879
Speaker 1: thank you are a philosopher.

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00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:10,360
Speaker 4: It makes me feel very philosophers. You as Socrates, my

1156
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 4: love Socrates, I've changed my name.

1157
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 1: Okay, So the final card for this game, we are

1158
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: supposed to read and then write a note to one

1159
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,919
Speaker 1: another about it and exchange the notes and then read

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00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:26,720
Speaker 1: them when we're not together.

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00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 4: Okay, but since we're not gonna do that, we're gonna

1162
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 4: just say it. Okay, since we don't fallow directions, no way. Okay,

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00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 4: this is exactly what you just said. It just says

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00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,360
Speaker 4: each player write a message to the other fold in

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00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 4: exchange open only once you two have parted. We clearly

1166
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:44,799
Speaker 4: played this game today.

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00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 1: Okay, so we just have to write. Okay, well, yeah,

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00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:48,320
Speaker 1: we'll write the message and then we'll post it.

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00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 4: Okay, we'll post it.

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00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,240
Speaker 1: We'll post it and you'll know what we're talking about.

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Speaker 4: This is fun. This was fun. I was skeptical. I

1172
00:54:56,360 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 4: was like, oh god, let's go deep. But I had fun.

1173
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 4: This is I recommend this. This is not an ad.

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00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is not an ad at all. We've just

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00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 1: had May actually gave us these cards and we've been

1176
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: sitting on them for a while and I've reposted a

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00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:11,400
Speaker 1: lot of their memes on Instagram because they just be

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00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 1: speaking to me.

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00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:13,800
Speaker 4: I know you guys have seen them. They're always on

1180
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 4: my feed of like two people looking at each other

1181
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 4: in a brick room, looks like they're in New York

1182
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:19,799
Speaker 4: or something, and they're always getting real deep. So if

1183
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 4: you're in a relationship or with your friends, for sure,

1184
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:23,399
Speaker 4: play this game.

1185
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 1: This is yeah.

1186
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 4: I want to. We might need to get junk and

1187
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 4: plays as all our friends.

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00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 1: I know. Okay, I think this is check out. We're

1189
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Speaker 1: not really strangers. Well, guys, thank you for joining us.

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Speaker 3: We love you.

1191
00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 1: We hope that you are having a great week, and

1192
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: that you have rated and reviewed our podcast because we're.

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00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 4: Not really strangers. Were strangers?

1194
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 1: Were your friends? Go leave your friends some reviews on

1195
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts. Hit that five star rating, baby, and uh

1196
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 1: what else?

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00:55:54,800 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 4: That's it? You know? Email us we need.

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00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 1: Hories, Send us some hories. We need hories. We need

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Speaker 1: If you guys think, If you guys, are you know

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00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 1: how any topics you want us to discuss, please share them?

1201
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 1: D m us. You can email us at production at

1202
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: Good Momsbad Choices dot com and in the in the

1203
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 1: title put suggestions, questions, hories.

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00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,400
Speaker 4: We'd love that we answer advice questions because we're expert

1205
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 4: advice givers. We'll read your hories, even anonymously, your hories

1206
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 4: or your horror stories. And yeah, engage with us. We've

1207
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 4: be run and re be running out of ideas, so

1208
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 4: help a bitch out.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll see you guys next week.

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Speaker 2: Bye bye, Ella solo recorder La. Let's us say us

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Speaker 3: Runs