1 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 1: So I've said publicly that I don't want to talk 2 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 1: about people that I don't think are good role models 3 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:24,639 Speaker 1: and that I think shouldn't be given a platform, shouldn't 4 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: be promoted, And so I've I've kind of been doing 5 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 1: a cleanse of things that I don't find to be 6 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: healthy in media and in my personal life and just 7 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: overall most importantly, I could talk about things I don't like, 8 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: and then I'm part of the problem. So by making 9 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: my statement about not feeding the beast and not wanting 10 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,519 Speaker 1: to talk about things that I don't think should be 11 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: talked about or people who should be role models my 12 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: my personal model, I just unfollowed a media outline for 13 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: talking about something I don't think that should be talked 14 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: about endlessly. Um. So I've talked in the past about 15 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: the royal family, and I personally, from what I've seen, 16 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: I don't think any of these people are bad people, 17 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,479 Speaker 1: Like I really really don't. If I think about if 18 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 1: I met Harry and if I met Megan, what I 19 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: think that they were nice people, kind people. I probably would. 20 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I know that we've read conflicting reports, but 21 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: I don't think they're bad, diabolical people that shouldn't be 22 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 1: in any position of power or fame or role models. 23 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:34,759 Speaker 1: I really don't think that. And over a year ago 24 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: I said something that UM was definitely polarizing. And then 25 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: a couple of months ago I talked about, you know, 26 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 1: when everyone was talking about the Royal family, and UM, 27 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: I think because I've been on social media more, I'm 28 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 1: seeing things more that I don't usually see. So I 29 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: guess I've been talking about them more. And I got 30 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: a little full, to be honest, UM, and I thought about, oh, 31 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: I don't talk about certain people anymore because I don't 32 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: want to give them any air or oxygen. But I 33 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: don't like, I don't have a problem talking about certain 34 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: members of the royal family because I don't think they're 35 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: actually bad people. I don't think. I don't think it's 36 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: a bad thing that Harry should be in a position 37 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: of fame or um influence. He seems like he cares, 38 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 1: he seems like it was a good son, he seems 39 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: like a good husband and father, a nice person, etcetera. 40 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: And I said in a Bethany Frankel type of way, 41 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: which the way you say something is important. And I've 42 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: made that error in the past, where because I you know, 43 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:30,839 Speaker 1: I can be snarky and I have a quick wit, 44 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 1: and so I'll say something because it's the funnier way 45 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: to say it. It just comes rolls off my tongue. 46 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: It always has, and you know, and it's never ever planned. 47 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: That's what's crazy. No one never believes that. But I 48 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:42,519 Speaker 1: ask Andy Cohen if it's ever planned. It's just what 49 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 1: comes out of my mouth. But when I said, I've 50 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 1: said about Megan that she has a challenge, let's say 51 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: it in a way that I should say things that 52 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: are constructive. I've said she has a challenging way of 53 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: making a good decision. That's not the way I said it, 54 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: but I'm saying way are Sometimes I feel like she 55 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: can't they can't get out of their own way. It 56 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: feels like they left the royal family and and it's 57 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 1: this is about all of us, Like this is about 58 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: all of us and having to like you want to 59 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: get your word, and you want to say a thing, 60 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: and you can want to make it better, and let's 61 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: say this and that will make it better and then 62 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: they're gonna like me, and then they're gonna really understand me, 63 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 1: you know, And you you bury yourself or It could 64 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 1: be a girl waiting for a person a guy to 65 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: call and being stereotypical, but waiting for someone to call, 66 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 1: and then you say something and then you're like, oh, 67 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: but let me just say this to cover it up, 68 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: and it'll be different, like this bat will make them 69 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: text me back or like hey just saw something, I 70 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: want to see you, And then they still don't text 71 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: you back, and now you're burying yourself even deeper. And 72 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 1: what I believe is that they wanted to leave the 73 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: royal family for whatever reasons are true or not true. 74 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: They wanted to leave. They weren't happy there, for paparazzi reasons, 75 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: for privacy reasons, for other reasons that I don't know, 76 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: um too much pressure, who knows right? And then they 77 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: every word you say has consequences, so we all have 78 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: to think about what we're saying. So if you're saying 79 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: we want a more private life or quote unquote norm 80 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: or we don't want to be hounded or you know whatever, 81 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 1: and then your vocal, then people are saying, wait, you 82 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 1: wanted privacy, okay, or we want to be you know, 83 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: be private. But then you're moving into Tyler Perry's house 84 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: and that seems like it's contradictory, and I'm not debating 85 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: what people believe or don't believe, because I think that 86 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: sometimes the way that I say things can be polarizing, 87 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:19,799 Speaker 1: and they we're not able to have the actual conversation 88 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: because you're just hearing the shock value of what I'm saying, 89 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,040 Speaker 1: and I don't want to do that anymore, likes I'm 90 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: not compassionate, etcetera. So I think that they departed and 91 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: then wanted to be the humanitarian philanthropists for you know, 92 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 1: use their use their power for good not evil, and 93 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: kept sort of doing things to talk about it and 94 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 1: making deals to make it financially sound for them. So 95 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: they were secure because they weren't being supported anymore. And 96 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: it was tempting to just like, you know, I've been 97 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: through I was through the most horrible divorce you've ever 98 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 1: you could ever even imagine, and I kept my mouth 99 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: shop but did I want like to just wait, but 100 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: I just want to say because what he that's not 101 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:00,279 Speaker 1: what happened, Like you want to get it out, But 102 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: I've controlled myself because you're just adding gasoline to a fire. 103 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 1: And by them constantly having a new thing to say 104 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: about something either the plight and by the way, for 105 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 1: people who believe every single thing that they say, and 106 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: that's totally fine if you do. I said that they 107 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: are incapable of making a good decision because they want 108 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: to just get their words out so badly. They want 109 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 1: to get their message out, their content out, their moves out, 110 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 1: their business decision. So it's like, let's throw it all in. 111 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: We've left it was terrible, it was racist, it was abusive, 112 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: it was horrible. Let's talk about then let's talk about 113 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: how we've been treated and how we're not you know, 114 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: we can't get security and we can't pay for that. 115 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 1: Then let's talk about what our kids have or haven't gotten. 116 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: Then let's do a show. Let's get a deal. Let's 117 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 1: get a multimillion dollar deal for a book. Let's get 118 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: a multimillion dollar deal for a show. Let's get a 119 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: multimillion dollar deal for a podcast. Let's jam it all. 120 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 1: Let's throw it all in the pot, strike while the 121 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: iron's hot. Let's get a book deal, Let's mention it all, 122 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 1: Let's get it all at one time. Then let's talk 123 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 1: about the shows we used to do and how we 124 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: were demoralized and we were objectified and like you're jamming 125 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: all this stuff into a big stew and it's a 126 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: big pot of shit. That's the problem. It's a big stew. 127 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 1: I'm not even going to discuss anymore what I personally think. 128 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 1: I don't know them, let's be honest. So I've talked 129 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: about the media decisions, and I still firmly believe they 130 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 1: have not made good decisions. And they're not being advised well, 131 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 1: or they're not taking advice. They're not advising each other well, 132 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 1: or they don't take each other's advice, or they don't 133 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: listen to each other's advice, or they're afraid to give 134 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: each other advice. But there are two kids alone in 135 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: a world, and they're making bad decisions, scrambling in circles. 136 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: And I know people that have been asked to work 137 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 1: for them, and I know people that have been asked 138 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: to do pr for them, and they're running in circles. 139 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:52,919 Speaker 1: And like I said, we're throw let's we got a 140 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 1: big pot. Throw the podcast in. Okay, yeah, throw a 141 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: docuseries and it's not a reality show, it's a docuseries. 142 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: Throw that into throw I'm talking about by you. I'm 143 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: gonna ask him if I can play a princess at 144 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 1: at a party that should be about something else. Throw 145 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: that in the pot. Let's go with Oprah. Let's talk 146 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: to Opra. Let's talk about all the bad things that 147 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: happen to us. Let's do that. Let's do another interview, 148 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 1: Let's do an Article's do a vanity fair cover. Let's 149 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: do it news we cover. Let's do a puppet show. 150 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: Let's have a bake sale. Let's you know, doing only 151 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: fans account Like, throw it on the goddamn pot and 152 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: you get a pot of ship. And anybody who has 153 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: a good, successful career picks their spots one thing at 154 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 1: a time. Build the flavors. Start with the olive oil 155 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 1: and the garlic. Put some salt and pepper on the bottom. 156 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: You don't have put the salt on the top, and 157 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: you have like plain sauce with salt on the top. No, 158 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: build it from the bottom. Then the youngion. Sweat those onions. 159 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 1: Then put your tomatoes in. Then put you know, steep 160 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: your basil in that oil, and then put that into 161 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: it's got the basil flavor. Then let's layer the flavors, 162 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: not just throw a bunch of ship in a pot. 163 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: Put a tomato and onion, garlic, clothes, the pot and 164 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: what do you get a pot of ship? So you 165 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: have to be strategic in your business decisions. And I'm 166 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 1: shame on me for not messaging things properly because I 167 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: just go for the this one kid funk up anything, 168 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: you know, I say my thing, and I'm not really 169 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 1: getting at the point because it's too like explosive to 170 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: really get to the point in the message, which is 171 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: we have to be strategic. We have to play chess 172 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: and not checkers. I've been saying that for a long time. 173 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: It's been very said lately a lot, but I've been 174 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 1: saying that for a long time in many books, and 175 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: you have to be playing the board one step at 176 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: a time. I if I wanted to leave, I probably 177 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: would have waited a little bit longer. But let's pretend 178 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: I wouldn't couldn't wait, I would have left, and I 179 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: would have gone quiet. I would have been just quiet, 180 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: let the dust settle, be quiet. The allure was so 181 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: great there, that was such popular because it was a 182 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 1: lure like you were like, what's it like? What are 183 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 1: they like? What's he like? What's the relationship like? Oh 184 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 1: my god, they rose chicken together, they watched TV. There 185 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 1: was a veil, there was an allure that everybody was into. 186 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 1: And then they left and it was like, oh my god. 187 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,559 Speaker 1: And you know, you've got like this sort of envisioning 188 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: like Carol and Bessett Kennedy and like this aloofness and 189 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: a quietness, and you know even jfk Jr. Like we 190 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: we just want to like be in sort of on 191 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 1: the up west side, riding in the park and like 192 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: being cool but not getting a lot of attention. And 193 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: it made them more interesting and just more alluring. And 194 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: and and if they had sat quiet, we wouldn't have 195 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: We would have forgotten about it. We would have talked 196 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: about it a little, and then we would have been 197 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 1: like once in a while we'd see something or some 198 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: event or some little announcement or something. Oh yeah, by 199 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:48,199 Speaker 1: the way, throwing the humanitarian events. Let's go to Uvaldi, 200 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,439 Speaker 1: let's get on stage and at a world conference to 201 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:53,080 Speaker 1: throw all the pot and the ship in the pot. 202 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 1: But I would have left, and then I would have 203 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: made You got to make an exit to make an entrance. 204 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:02,079 Speaker 1: They never made exit. You never you made an exit 205 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: from one You went from one expensive building to another, 206 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: expensive building. Like you never made an exit, Lauren Michael 207 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: said to me, you have to make an exit to 208 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,719 Speaker 1: make an enterence. Old school pr for me was when 209 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: I was announcing that first book, Naturally Thin, when I 210 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 1: was a nobody. It was like, say nothing about anything, 211 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: and then say that one thing, then go quiet, then 212 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: say the next thing. Like you didn't say you had 213 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 1: a book until the day you had the book. Here's 214 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: the book. It's right here and you can buy it 215 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: right now. You weren't droning on about it forever the 216 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: book that this, Stay quiet, then come out hit him 217 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: with your best motherfucking shut. Okay, but you went from 218 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: one expensive building over there, you flew, flew across the pond, 219 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: went into another expensive building, Tyler Perry's as went into 220 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: another expensive fifteen million dollar house next to Ellen and Oprah, 221 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 1: the most relatable neighborhood, you know, next to Ellen Oprah 222 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: Ashton Kutcher, which is obviously the most relatable building in 223 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: our neighborhood in the world. And like, just stay fucking tight, 224 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: keep it tight right, sit back, and then make an entrance. 225 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: Do it a Mall Looney style. The bitch is not 226 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:05,319 Speaker 1: fucking playing around. She comes out, she has to say something. 227 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:08,319 Speaker 1: She's fighting for a cause, it is heard. She comes back, 228 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: she goes into a little hole. She comes out, she's 229 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: wearing a sick whatever else that she's wearing she's going, 230 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: or whatever fashion event she's going. She and George little chuck, 231 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:17,559 Speaker 1: a little cuteness, a little whatever. Go back in your 232 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: fucking hole. They're not stupid, they're old school. But when 233 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 1: you come out and you're throwing all this motherfuckering ship 234 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 1: in the pot, no one can taste any of the flavors. 235 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,439 Speaker 1: It's a pile of mush. We don't know what we're eating. 236 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 1: What are we eating? A book, a podcast, a TV show, 237 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 1: a world summit, like a security issue, an abuse like 238 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: by a family, like a game show? Like what else 239 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 1: do we have we can throw in this? Spot Less 240 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: is more? Pick your spots, play check play chess, be 241 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: aware of the pieces. Something could come up em if 242 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 1: the play checkers sometimes be aware. But keep it, you know, 243 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 1: listen for somebody, for somebody who was in the royal 244 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 1: family for even a minute. You need to know that 245 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 1: fucking chessboard and who's king and who's queen and how 246 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:07,680 Speaker 1: it all works. So that's all I think I think 247 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: they could be the nicest, best, most honorable, amazing people 248 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: in the world. And I said that they are not 249 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: exactly terrific in their decision making. And I stand by 250 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: that we need to choose why, how, and what we're saying. 251 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 1: We need to know when, we need to know who, what, where, 252 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 1: why and how of what we're saying and what we're showing. 253 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: And you know, timing is everything. So all of that, 254 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:36,439 Speaker 1: which is why I call it a rant. That's a rant. 255 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 1: All of that is to get to the point that 256 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 1: Harry's new book is coming out and it's called Spare. 257 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: You could have named it share because that's or over share. 258 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: That is not I'm just going to come out and 259 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 1: say it. Someone is under review at whatever company put 260 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:00,439 Speaker 1: that book out right now, Like, that's not good name 261 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: for a book for that person. If you're a bowler 262 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: and you just you've had an amazing career but just 263 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 1: been shy of greatness, I can see it. Spare, You're 264 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 1: not you know, it's not strike. It's a spare. Spare 265 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: says to me. I want to hear what it says 266 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: to you. Spare says to me, spare air, woe is me? 267 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 1: The extra air. You know, in families, it's terrible. They 268 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 1: they'll say, like, oh, they have a spare kid, because 269 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:29,319 Speaker 1: it's a third kid. You know, God forbid something happens 270 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: if you only have you know, if you only have one. 271 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:33,680 Speaker 1: I think it's if you only have one kid, God 272 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: forbid something happens you have none, Like it's a terrible 273 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 1: where it came from. But the spare it's first of all, 274 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:44,079 Speaker 1: it doesn't have a good connotation. It's very woe is me. 275 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 1: No one wants to hear wealthy people, royal family members, 276 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 1: famous people, people in a position of power complain at all, 277 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 1: even if it's justified with Nobody wants to hear people 278 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 1: of Nobody wants to hear high profile people complain. And 279 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: the title spare says to me, woe is me. It's 280 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: just the bad may not even be with the contents 281 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: of the book. Say I have no idea, but I'm 282 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: a marketer. That is, I am a marketer and a 283 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 1: namer by a trade. And I'm sure I've made mistakes. 284 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 1: I don't remember um in naming things, I'm saying um. 285 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 1: Some would say skinny girl, because you know, of the 286 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 1: world is not about being skinny, but I named it 287 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 1: for a locality, Margarita, and I said what I said, 288 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 1: and I love the name because it's a great brand 289 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 1: and great. Um. That's a bad name. It could be 290 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 1: the best book, and it could be warm peace, it 291 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 1: could be the freaking Old Testament. It's a bad name. 292 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: I want to know what it says to other people. 293 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 1: To me, Spare says woe is Me? And all telling memoir. 294 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 1: It screams privacy. It really really does. Wow. I stand 295 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: by I don't stand by how I've said things. I 296 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 1: stand by I've said that I do not think that 297 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: these two are making good long term business decisions. They 298 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: are doing a smashing grab job. It's reminiscent of other 299 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 1: families in this country. This is a smashing grab right now. Actually, 300 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 1: we don't just say about the reminiscent of other families 301 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: in this country. This feels like a smashing grab job 302 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 1: when they could have played the long game. There is 303 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 1: money to be made in the immediate, but there's also 304 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 1: there is also it's just not the whole thing has 305 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 1: been played wrong, just playing checkers, with the royal family 306 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 1: taking the low hanging fruit. It's tempting to go on, 307 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 1: Oprah believe me. Believe me, there were people whould sell 308 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: their soul to the devil to go on Oprah. It's tempting, 309 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 1: but all these steps together, just say me, me, me, me, me, 310 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 1: me me No, no, no no no. I need it now. 311 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: I need it now. Though, and we're like, it seems 312 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: so so desperate and so clamoring versus calmly getting your 313 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 1: story out in due time, let the buttermilk. It will 314 00:15:57,720 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 1: come out. It will all come up, but one thing 315 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 1: at a time, time and slow and low barbecue. We 316 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: do not have to jam it all. I literally I'm 317 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: on like the It's like the fucking Jiffy lube of 318 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 1: Megan and Harry. It's it's the I got it all. 319 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 1: It's been. I took it all. I got the appetizer you. 320 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: I've been served the order of the appetizer, the salad, 321 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 1: the soup, the entree, the palate cleanser. I didn't even 322 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 1: get a palate cleanser. Actually that's the problem. The dessert 323 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 1: and the after dinner liqure and a cigar. I've been 324 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: served all of it in one sitting of Harry and 325 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: Megan without any ability to digest it. It's just like, 326 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: give me all of it. I'm eating a book, a podcast, 327 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 1: I'm eating and All Tell All memoir, a podcast, an 328 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: Oprah interview. I can't even keep up. I'm eating it 329 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: all at once, and I'm full, and I'm sick. That's 330 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 1: the problem. We need to be fed in courses. I 331 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 1: would like I would like Harry and Megan to be 332 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 1: fed to me in in in courses if I could 333 00:16:55,840 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: possibly opt for that menu choice. I would like a 334 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 1: chef's tasting menu in twelve courses. I don't want to 335 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 1: eat all my food in one gobble, not a goat. 336 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 1: H