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Speaker 1: The nick Glass Podcast. Here's Nikki. Hello here, I am

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Speaker 1: welcome to the Nicki Glazer Podcast. Yes, Andrew's already here.

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Speaker 1: What's up? Glasses shape Faith, Glasses Year, New Year, New Yale.

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Speaker 1: You just were on Instagram this morning. Someone sent me

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Speaker 1: your story that said I'm uh please. It said no.

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Speaker 1: It didn't say please, It said recommend a good personal

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Speaker 1: trainer that will come to me. It was a demand,

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Speaker 1: Yes it was, And someone goes, shouldn't it say recommend

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Speaker 1: a personal a good personal trainer who will come to me?

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Speaker 1: And I said, yes, that's true, but whatever, I'm not

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Speaker 1: training my brain. Yeah, we know that. Um one bound

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Speaker 1: um so uh okay. The percentage of that is you

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Speaker 1: actually looking for a personal trainer because you can't find

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Speaker 1: one via Google? And what percentage of that is you

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Speaker 1: wanting to get a little bit of a freebie from

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Speaker 1: someone who free no free Why can't you just ask

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Speaker 1: why don't she just well, Brenna recommend that she would

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Speaker 1: do it, because I think that there's an old fashioned

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Speaker 1: way of like, hey, who's the best in town? There

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Speaker 1: is an old fashioned It's true. Yeah, Brenna said she

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Speaker 1: might be your personal trainer. She said she would do it,

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Speaker 1: but I think she would be greed at it. She

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Speaker 1: really would be. But I just think, like I only

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Speaker 1: like being told what to do so much, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, a personal trainer, you're just Brenna. You

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Speaker 1: could be like, no, I don't want to do that

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Speaker 1: and you but a personal trainer, you're gonna Sometimes I

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Speaker 1: try to impress strangers more than my you know, my

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Speaker 1: girlfriend or my best friends. Totally, it's sompathetic. I don't

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Speaker 1: know why that brain is like that. I do it

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Speaker 1: all the time. I think why. Today I went to

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Speaker 1: the lounge in our building, and um, I started working

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Speaker 1: as soon as one other person was in there. It

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Speaker 1: just and it wasn't like I was trying to impress them.

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Speaker 1: It just and I was doing some work in the

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Speaker 1: lobby of my hotel the other day and there was

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Speaker 1: a chance to sit in this chair like behind this

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Speaker 1: woman or at this table where this woman was next

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Speaker 1: to me working, and it just makes me work harder.

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Speaker 1: If I'm alone in a gym, not gonna do is

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Speaker 1: impressive of the job. If I'm on a treadmill in

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Speaker 1: front of some like fit people, that's going to be

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Speaker 1: a good workout. There's a reason why classes exist, I guess,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know why. But it's like I

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Speaker 1: think it's competitiveness. I think you both have a competitiveness

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Speaker 1: in you. I know, But why wouldn't I want to

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Speaker 1: impress the person I want to actually really impress the

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Speaker 1: most because you know that they are fooled by you. Yes,

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Speaker 1: they're not gonna be fooled by you, or you know

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Speaker 1: they know the real you, so you know you're because

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Speaker 1: we project so much because we know how we feel

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Speaker 1: about strangers and how much we like and fill in

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Speaker 1: the blanks of what they're presenting, and like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: their life must be she I look at a girl

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Speaker 1: with like multiple necklaces, which yes I wear multiple necklaces now,

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Speaker 1: but I go, her life must be so organized. She

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Speaker 1: must have like a cute house that's clean and like

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Speaker 1: she cleans it herself. And she has like different soaps

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Speaker 1: that she loves the sense of, and like she shops

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Speaker 1: for them, especially yeah, candles and sense and it's like

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Speaker 1: her special sense. And she like knows what flowers she

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Speaker 1: likes and like about things, like knows what she likes.

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Speaker 1: Whereas I'm just I don't need to do that now.

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Speaker 1: I was just writing a sample chapter of my book

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Speaker 1: and attempting to and I was talking about some hotel

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Speaker 1: I was staying at, and I was like, I I

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Speaker 1: picked this hotel because you know, a production company was

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Speaker 1: putting me up in l A. And I never stayed

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Speaker 1: there as a guest in l A. Where I got

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Speaker 1: to pick the hotel where they're like anywhere you want

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Speaker 1: to say, well, And I was like, instead of googling

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Speaker 1: it or doing research, I just went with the hotel

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Speaker 1: that I knew. A rich friend of mine who has

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Speaker 1: good taste and like dresses cool. Didn't even ask him.

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Speaker 1: But it goes to this thing of my life. But

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Speaker 1: you knew that I would rather in some aspects of

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Speaker 1: my life trust someone who I project coolness onto than

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Speaker 1: what I actually like. Now, Like like music, I know

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Speaker 1: what I like, Uh, movies TV. I know what I like. UM, clothing,

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Speaker 1: I'm somewhere in between. I will sometimes wear things that

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Speaker 1: You know, my whole life, this is who I am.

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Speaker 1: I was a skateboarder. I like rage against the Machine.

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Speaker 1: You were okay, they were okay, but I got in

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Speaker 1: That was my You know, we've both kind of been

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Speaker 1: that way of being and comedy and TV, like I

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Speaker 1: knew that I had good taste in those aspects. I'm trying. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But when it comes to fashion, home to core cars, uh,

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Speaker 1: sense sense is the one that I will never reach

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Speaker 1: a place, not never, but I don't. I don't trust

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Speaker 1: what I think smells good in terms of perfume. I

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Speaker 1: just that is something. For some reason, I will just

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Speaker 1: blindly trust someone who looks clean and pretty like whatever

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Speaker 1: they wear, because without smelling it, do you feel like

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Speaker 1: you don't use? Like even before a COVID, I'm stained.

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Speaker 1: I innately don't. I'm a stained person. That's how I'm gross.

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Speaker 1: And so I don't know what good. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what clean and neat and crisp and beautiful smell like.

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Speaker 1: Because yeah, with food, even though I love food, But

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Speaker 1: if I'm out at a restaurant, I'll go to my friend, who,

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Speaker 1: like I assume knows food or knows wine, I'll just

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Speaker 1: be like, what is that? Because I don't even I

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Speaker 1: can't even wrap my brain around. I would not do

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Speaker 1: that for because I know what I like and I

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Speaker 1: feel like I have a Yeah, but for me, like

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Speaker 1: pretty much smart, it sounds like, because you were, You're

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Speaker 1: doing it out of I want to experience new things.

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Speaker 1: I'm doing it out of I don't trust what I

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Speaker 1: like because I do like certain smells. I love the

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Speaker 1: orange uh Myers cleaning scent. It's Guardinia. I fucking love it.

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Speaker 1: Start I've I've bought perfumes before that. I go, you

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Speaker 1: know what, Nikki, you like this, get it? And then

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Speaker 1: I show it to my friends who are like clean

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Speaker 1: and beautiful people that are just like naturally, and they're

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Speaker 1: like right, and I'm just like, I shall never wear

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Speaker 1: it again. I can't. I will abandon something I like

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Speaker 1: in terms of when it comes to aesthetics and smells, instantly,

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Speaker 1: you ask your boyfriend. Um My, the guy I'm seeing

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Speaker 1: hates any scent. Yeah, but he only has sixty percent

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Speaker 1: of his smell back so from having COVID so and

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Speaker 1: I think he's in writing a little bit because why not.

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Speaker 1: But because let me just tell you. When I had

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Speaker 1: a U T, I things were not great one morning

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Speaker 1: fuck you know what it smells. I'm just gonna be

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Speaker 1: honest here. When I had I had a U T,

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Speaker 1: sometimes just like from no, no, no, don't do that.

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Speaker 1: Some days it's just gonna like smell because you haven't

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Speaker 1: It's like it's not like but then there's this one

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Speaker 1: fish market. It was so thick and putrid. It felt

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Speaker 1: like a cartoon smell, you know that you could see.

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Speaker 1: And some days you would just walk into a stall

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Speaker 1: and be like that poor woman, she obviously has bevy

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Speaker 1: bacterial vaginosis, like there's a bacterial thing going on, and

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Speaker 1: does know. But I smelled that smell on myself unintentionally

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Speaker 1: and I'm, you know, smooching my man and like get

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Speaker 1: he would have stopped what he was doing, only because

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Speaker 1: was not like he was closer to it. He wasn't

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Speaker 1: If he didn't have any reaction, which I saw, like

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Speaker 1: I thought there's old time that you were talking about

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Speaker 1: more than sixty? No, no, I think he is less.

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Speaker 1: So you think your put smells so bad? A guy

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Speaker 1: But whatever it was, it didn't cut through because didn't

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Speaker 1: like it opened up his monster. Oh yeah, it's like

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Speaker 1: to any girls out there that have had smelling pussies?

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Speaker 1: It happened to me. I'm a clean person, and it

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Speaker 1: happened to me. It wasn't my fault. It was just

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Speaker 1: maybe this is a business. There was that wrong girl.

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Speaker 1: She made two under grand selling arts. I know you

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Speaker 1: got to sell bev. No one wants that farts. Guys

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Speaker 1: really good off. I'm sure there's one guy who's fetishizes, like,

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Speaker 1: what what so what did you do? Did you you

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Speaker 1: stopped the ship? You said we finished? I put a

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Speaker 1: pillow over my head. It was feeling good. It didn't

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Speaker 1: something bad that later came back, because for whatever reason,

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Speaker 1: now I know it's just she has a U T

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Speaker 1: I I've experience ain't working as a fishmonger, I experienced

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Speaker 1: a similar feel. A fish had a Yeah the fish

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Speaker 1: and burned my dick. No, I I would smell like it.

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Speaker 1: You're fat, like that kind of thing that guys do sometimes. Well,

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00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:58,639
Speaker 1: she had a close guy friend who I could have

426
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 1: swore they were fucking and I got drunk and I

427
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 1: knew that he was over there, and I went over

428
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 1: there like in a jealous drunk rage in college, pounding

429
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 1: on the door like that whole look, Oh, I fought

430
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: a guy in a bar over her and literally over her.

431
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:17,439
Speaker 1: This is one of the guys who was grinding with

432
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:21,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, she was grinding with the guy.

433
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 1: I was hammered. I was actually Tom Takara who had

434
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 1: that story. But I love that you also had a

435
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 1: girlfriend who was grinding with guys and you just had

436
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: to watch And I just confused your sort like yeah,

437
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 1: but that's the thing that girls just did to make

438
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 1: guys jealous. She was grinding, be like what I'm dancing. Yeah,

439
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: I'm just just we're just dancing, Like yeah, so they're

440
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:45,880
Speaker 1: grinding and I go up in a jealous rage. We're

441
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:47,879
Speaker 1: not dating, We're like in a break or whatever. But

442
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 1: we just hooked up maybe the night before, and I

443
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 1: went up and I I go, stop dancing with her,

444
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 1: like I like turned into Batman, but just fatman because

445
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 1: I drank too much whiskey and I was like, fat man,

446
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 1: I fucking my body's fallen apart. So I go to him.

447
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 1: I go, I start crinding on the other side of him.

448
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: He's just like like whispering in his ear like you,

449
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: oh my god. Every morning I'd show up at his

450
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 1: fraternity and I grabbed her and go like get out

451
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,159
Speaker 1: of the way or were you literally? Like literally, So

452
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 1: that's what I did. This is a true story. I

453
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 1: go up and I go, let go for you're done

454
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,359
Speaker 1: grinding with her? And he's looking at me like who

455
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: Like there's no context here. I just went up, you know,

456
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 1: I like floated in a loud bar. He just probably

457
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 1: hears he probably this, So so I go, let go over,

458
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 1: stop grinding, and I go, you have to count to

459
00:24:50,880 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: three to three? No, no, no, you have wait so

460
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 1: the count of three. You have the county to count.

461
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: It is so funny to say to someone, I bet

462
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 1: you didn't say that. It's you have to the count

463
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 1: of three. Got the two and he just didn't know what.

464
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 1: So I go like this, I swear to god, I

465
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: go one. I started counting with my hands. I go

466
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 1: to what songs playing? Yeah? Yeah, So I go one, two, three,

467
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:37,679
Speaker 1: and I just attack him like like I have to

468
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 1: do this, Like I can't believe he didn't drunk. You

469
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 1: you remember this, so you weren't that drunk. I was

470
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: fucked up. I don't get black out drunk, right, I do.

471
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: For some reason, I remember this. Um, I don't know why,

472
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: maybe just whatever. So I start fighting him right and

473
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 1: he lifts me. He picks my shirt over my head,

474
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: so I'm just punching. I can't see him, but I

475
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 1: somehow make out his face and like with my shirt

476
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 1: over my head, and I hit him and I go

477
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 1: to swing again, and I'm just like punching air. I'm like,

478
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:12,199
Speaker 1: what the hell, I take the shirt off. He's on

479
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: the ground like I nailed him pretty down. Yeah. So

480
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 1: then uh, she's still grinding him. No no, no, no no.

481
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: And then so then the lights came on in the bar,

482
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: so now everyone or is it closing time? No, it's

483
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: just like the music stops, lights on. I'm thrown out,

484
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,679
Speaker 1: like like literally like picked up by like three bouncers,

485
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: like a battering round. I'm outside being like, dude, blue fucker,

486
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:43,199
Speaker 1: and I'm punching. Um. I started punching like a fence.

487
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: Always such a cool look, like punching inanimate object when

488
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 1: you're angry, just punching a fence. And then never has

489
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 1: that once looked cool then called They're probably like a

490
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: thousand times at night being like what did you do

491
00:26:56,440 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: in the morning? I mean, did you ever see the

492
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 1: no no no fallout from Did you guys get back together?

493
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: Maybe a year later, I don't know, maybe a month later,

494
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: but she was big on like if I like you said,

495
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 1: like when I stopped fighting, Like I remember, we went

496
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: to like Acapulco for my senior spring break and I

497
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,719
Speaker 1: got in the best shape of my life. I was

498
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 1: like doing me. I didn't talk to her once in Acapulco,

499
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: made out with like two girls, like it was just

500
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 1: like completely like the revenge body. And then I literally

501
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: got back to New Orleans. She comes over that night,

502
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: we have sex, and then I'm like crying outside her

503
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 1: place that night, like she got me like that, like yeah,

504
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,959
Speaker 1: you got sober from it, you got did everything I

505
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 1: could do knuckling it and then the second you I mean,

506
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: that's and but you know, that's probably why I was

507
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 1: single for another twenty years because I didn't want any

508
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 1: of them. I didn't want to punch a fence. I'm

509
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 1: not gonna punching fence guy, you know what I mean?

510
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: Did a chain link? Wouldn't punched a hole through it? Really? Yeah,

511
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 1: Wilson got hit in that neighbor hurt. Oh my god,

512
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:22,120
Speaker 1: we finally saw what he looked like. Well, i mean,

513
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,439
Speaker 1: his face was bloodied, but it was he was scared

514
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 1: again to hear Oh my god. But yeah, but that's

515
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I'm spieful in the moment, but

516
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 1: I feel like you've been spiteful little Yeah, that's why.

517
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: That's way. I think we were just talking about how

518
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: like someone could fear, um like getting involved with a

519
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: girl because they might hurt her and then what could happen?

520
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: And I was like, well that doesn't like why do

521
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: you get scared of hurting me or whatever it could be?

522
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: And it's like, oh, hey, you should be I could.

523
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: I'm I'm not easy, I'm just smart and and yeah,

524
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: but the thing is, I definitely think that was me,

525
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: Like when I if someone doesn't like me, go before,

526
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: if you didn't like me, I would try to convince

527
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: you that you should like me. Yeah, it's just it's

528
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: not the who I am anymore to operate that way,

529
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: like out of spite. I'm not saying like I don't

530
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: want to say never, but it's just I don't know

531
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: when guys don't like me. Now, I'm just like, you're dumb, like,

532
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 1: how could you? How could you not? Um? Noah, when

533
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: when have you been spiteful? And what did you do?

534
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 1: All right? So the all right, the story that I

535
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: can think of that I think I can share is, um,

536
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: I guess I was being spiteful because I was locked

537
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 1: into this relationship where we were break up and get

538
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 1: back together, and I was like, I'm going to do

539
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 1: something where he will never take me back. So, um,

540
00:29:56,280 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 1: we had broken off, burn it down, I was. So

541
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 1: I went to the village and I got my nipples

542
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: pierced by a guy who looked like Slash from Guns

543
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: and Roses. You got your nipples pierced, hence to bruising. Wait,

544
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: oh yeah, no, I finally got what you wanted. Yeah,

545
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 1: you have to them with his teeth. Oh my god,

546
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: I don't have them anymore alone? Or did you bring

547
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,719
Speaker 1: a friend? I took my best friend Rob with me. Okay,

548
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I know him, and um, I was just like,

549
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 1: are they still pierced? I have no idea. I don't

550
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: have them anymore. I took them off like end of twenties,

551
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 1: Like all through my twenties, I went with them. So wait,

552
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 1: so you get your nipples piers and then you go

553
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: back to Okay, so how does this burn it down?

554
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: Because he didn't like piercings and stuff like that, so

555
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: I was like, he will never think I'm attractive again.

556
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: We'll never get back together. Oh wow? Did you ever

557
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: hook up with him? After that him realized he didn't

558
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 1: really care about the nipples being pierced? Did we hook up? Um?

559
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think so. I think it's

560
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: something that I did to keep me from going back

561
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: more than him. Couldn't have been though, because I've done

562
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: this before. So with Chris, who I've broken up with

563
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: a lot, he's the one that doesn't like sense. He

564
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 1: doesn't like candles, he doesn't like perfumes. Um when we

565
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: I never like got to put candles in my apartment

566
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 1: because he just didn't never like liked that smell. And

567
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 1: so when we broke up, we still remain friends. And

568
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: he came over to pick up my dog once and

569
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: like it was the week and there was candles everywhere

570
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: and it was me. I was, Yeah, it was my

571
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: version of like this thing I finally get to do

572
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: that I've always wanted to do. Fuck you, I'm gonna

573
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: like it was. It was a fun you, but it

574
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: was also like it was also like I know, you

575
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: knew if this guy really loved you, the nipple thing

576
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't be a deal breaker. You know, you were burning

577
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 1: into the ground. You were trying to be yourself finally. Yeah,

578
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: you know, like you're trying to the biggest version of

579
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: yourself to go like an emancipation, like finally I can

580
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:02,719
Speaker 1: be myself. And I I think that I know this

581
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 1: isn't gonna make you hate me forever, but it's just

582
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 1: going to show you that I was trying to be

583
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: good for you. And then I was trying my best.

584
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: I was I was keeping a part of myself locked

585
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 1: away because I wanted to keep you. And so you'll

586
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: see now that like you kept me down, like and

587
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: that's almost that um And now I would just like,

588
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 1: I have candles because it's like it's my place and

589
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: if he wants to come over, I'll blow them out

590
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 1: out of courtesy. But he's got COVID no, so I

591
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 1: don't have to worry about it. And they smell like

592
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: dirty vadge. But wait, so I should do a Gwyneth

593
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: Paltrow candles. You know she has one that smells like

594
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 1: vagina might smell like, yeah, just put a fish in

595
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: that mail slot of yours. My god, it's so do

596
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: you think though that how? Because I don't think the

597
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: answer is to get rid of your candles if you're

598
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: dating someone that hates candles. So it is because if

599
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: he doesn't, he didn't like it really bothered him the

600
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 1: second like it's something that it actually you know, it's

601
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 1: like if umers right and this guy goes, well, I

602
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really prefer pier seems like I

603
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:17,040
Speaker 1: think it's kind of dirty. That's that's that's not a

604
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 1: like that's not a sensory thing that causes you to

605
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 1: get a headache sensory. If he sees it and he's

606
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: turned off, I guess I don't know. I mean, what's

607
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: the answer, do you do that. Well, you have candles,

608
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:29,239
Speaker 1: but you blow them out when he comes over. You

609
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 1: have nipple rings, but you don't know. You just say listen, sorry,

610
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. So then I think you keep

611
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: the or maybe you find a candle that he maybe

612
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: it smells like a sports jersey of his favorite hockey player. Yeah,

613
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that I don't know what

614
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: the answer is. And I think a lot of girls

615
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: get because guys are always like, don't get your boobs done,

616
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 1: don't get your lips done, because they think you're trying

617
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: to be hotter to get a hotter guy. That's what

618
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:00,479
Speaker 1: guys really do think. Don't do this thing, don't. Honest though,

619
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: I don't think. It's just that I think for me

620
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 1: like because you know whatever, I love you and I

621
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 1: don't want you to change your face. It's perfect the

622
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,240
Speaker 1: way it is. But that's the honest truth. Like you already.

623
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,359
Speaker 1: It's not that I'm scared of the other guy. It's

624
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: that you've already like so, but like I get also

625
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: like doing it for you and it's not about me

626
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 1: at all. But you know, how often do people get

627
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: haircuts and dye their hair and do I got you know,

628
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 1: I got invisile line because I was going to a breakup.

629
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 1: I was just like, you just want to change something

630
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 1: about yourself, and I wonder what that is because I've

631
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: I've cut my hair, which makes it look worse in

632
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,359
Speaker 1: my opinion, I've dyed my hair, which makes it look

633
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 1: worse in my opinion. It wasn't things to make me

634
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: look hotder, to be like you're going to rue the day.

635
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 1: It's like almost it's almost like when one just like

636
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: doing something that will make them go, yeah, it's interesting.

637
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: I don't know why we do that. So it's like

638
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,879
Speaker 1: we either get revenge body and we actually but then

639
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: that hurts you in other ways too, because you know,

640
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: maybe you're just so focused on getting ads that you

641
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,879
Speaker 1: think it will be the cure to your happiness. But

642
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 1: or we you know, it's like either you you hit

643
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: the bottle or you hit the gym, like it's a

644
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: negative full throttle my mom she liked the bottle, or

645
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 1: you go full throttle. It's all connected. Can we do

646
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 1: one more news story before we get to break Yeah? Okay, um,

647
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:20,280
Speaker 1: I kind of like this one. Kim Kardashian has seemingly

648
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 1: unfollowed I loved this one. I was dying to talk

649
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: about this. Holy sh it. So Pete and Pete and

650
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 1: Miley do New Year's Eve together, um, and fallon together.

651
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 1: It's okay. So they did a lot of things together,

652
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 1: so funny, good chemistry, good comedic energy. And then something

653
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 1: happened where then Pete obviously reconnects with Kim Kardashian after

654
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 1: doing New Year's Eve with Miley, and Kim unfollows Miley,

655
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: which is hilarious that people pay that close attention, but

656
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 1: of course they do. Um. So what this means is

657
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: is that Miley either disparaged him in some way or

658
00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: tried to fuck Pete. But I'm guessing it's the first,

659
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: this one, like she maybe there's something she did it

660
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: wasn't cool to the story. It's in the story. We

661
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 1: know what she did before. They're special. Oh sorry, go ahead, No, no, no,

662
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 1: you you deliver it. You're the news person. No no,

663
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 1: I'm just reading the note Jane to Dante danting dainting.

664
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: So Cyrus seemingly put the moves on Davidson while promoting

665
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: the events, serenading him on the tonight show. That should

666
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 1: have been me. Yeah, well that was all joke. She

667
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: was seen looking out of his apartment. Oh maybe that

668
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: she just in Cyrus was spotted heading to David's. She

669
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: went all the way to the Staten Island condo. I mean,

670
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: that's tough to get back following fallon or the appearance

671
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 1: of the tonight show. Okay, well they still have to

672
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,320
Speaker 1: work on bits, so they might have been going over stuff.

673
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 1: That's true too. I think I think that's what we're

674
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: saying it's about, is her jealousy. But I think it's

675
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 1: because Miley and Pete aren't cool either, and we can't

676
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 1: really track if he's following her and if they had

677
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: a falling out. But I'm guessing something happened between them,

678
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 1: and Kim is just being um supportive of that, Like

679
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 1: I think Miley and Pete clashed in some way and

680
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 1: that Pete told and Pete's done with Miley and so

681
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: out of kid is like, yeah, suck her. That is

682
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 1: my thought processing. I love how we make it though

683
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 1: about like she doesn't she thinks she's trying. I would

684
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: keep I would never if I was jealous of a

685
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,439
Speaker 1: girl trying to suck my boyfriend, I would keep following her.

686
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,760
Speaker 1: I wouldn't if I unfollowed her. That means I'm threatened

687
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 1: by you. You have a reason to um No, I

688
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't even I would do probably mut her because she

689
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 1: can't tell on her. But I feel I do not well.

690
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 1: First of all, if I know my sense that someone

691
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: wanted to suck my boyfriend, which I believe me happens

692
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: a lot because I've seen it, I would be very

693
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:01,800
Speaker 1: turned on. I would be like, good someone Miley Cyrus

694
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: wants to fund my boyfriend. I would not be threatened

695
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: by it at all, because he would go be with

696
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 1: her if he wanted to be with her. But I

697
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 1: could see Kim being threatened. Miley is an amazing performer,

698
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 1: she doesn't have any kids, she's never she has been.

699
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,359
Speaker 1: To let him go, you're gonna lose him if if

700
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 1: he is going to be, if he's gonna go with her,

701
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 1: you're going to lose him anyway. Let him go and

702
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 1: Kim you want to sis. I don't think she's I

703
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 1: don't think Kim is. No. I think but there are

704
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 1: just that she can't do right. But I think the

705
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 1: way I interpreted it was that Kim was like, I'm

706
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 1: not going to pay you any mind. You did not

707
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,839
Speaker 1: exist to me, and it was like, unfollowed her, that's

708
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: paying her mind. Yeah, that's the thing. It's like, it's

709
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: just such a it's it's a it's like we're saying before,

710
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: it's the opposite of it's she's thinking about her, she's

711
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: pay she is paying her mind by even thinking to

712
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 1: follow her. Um. Yeah, I just this whole thing of

713
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 1: like if some if a girl there's this There was

714
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: a girl that I noticed really throwing it at the

715
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:10,800
Speaker 1: guy I'm dating, and I said to him, like this girl,

716
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: like she it's clear, and it's crystal fucking clear to me,

717
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:20,839
Speaker 1: and I was there was a tinge of me being like, um,

718
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 1: like annoyed that she knows that he has a girl,

719
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 1: he's seeing someone, and she knows it's me, and yet

720
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: she still went on to flirt with him. There's a

721
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: little bit of like that's disrespectful, like that you're cool

722
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 1: with him fucking other girls. I don't think she did,

723
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:42,759
Speaker 1: but if she did, that there's a different thing. But

724
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 1: um no, But like when he would mention me around her,

725
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 1: she would never say anything. The conversation would drop off.

726
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. She wouldn't acknowledge it. Now

727
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: do you do you think though if she was but

728
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,839
Speaker 1: you said Miley Cyrus, you wouldn't care. There's no part

729
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 1: of you that's like competitive, of like, oh, this person

730
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 1: more famous, this person more successful, to this person is

731
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 1: prettier than I don't want him. If I feel like

732
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 1: I'm superior to the woman, then it doesn't bother me

733
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: as smart No, um, because there are women that are

734
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: more talented than me that have liked my guy and

735
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 1: I just of course there's like, oh gosh, she's better

736
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: at this stuff, but then I just go she better

737
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 1: hang and she but you know there's more to that.

738
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:27,279
Speaker 1: If I'm gonna and he should feel the same way

739
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 1: anyone who dates me, I'm gonna be I have a

740
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,840
Speaker 1: chance at some pretty hot, talented people because of the

741
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 1: profession I'm in. And if every single one of them

742
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 1: I go, oh, I get a crush on every one

743
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 1: of them and they're threatened my relationship, then no one

744
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,919
Speaker 1: should be with me, because that's gonna happen all the time.

745
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 1: You have to trust the person that even though the

746
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 1: person is more talented than you, or hotter than you, skinnier,

747
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: sex more sexy, that they have integrity and that you

748
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 1: can always give the old three to one, you know,

749
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: make them counter. I go, you need to count to three, one, two.

750
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 1: It's punching fence time. Okay, let's take a break and

751
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 1: come back with why do I care? Oh my god,

752
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 1: it's Thursday. I know. Time has fun. We also missed

753
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 1: my all Right, we're back. It's time for sports moment.

754
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:31,960
Speaker 1: Here's Andrew's weekly sports moment. Here we go. What is it?

755
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 1: All right? Antonio Brown? Do you know who he is?

756
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 1: I've heard his name. So he's a wide receiver in

757
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: the NFL. He uh, he got he was at it.

758
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 1: He was the literally top three receiver in the NFL. Unbelievable.

759
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 1: Then I'll pretend like I know what a receiver is.

760
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 1: Wide receiver. They catch bass on the side because they're

761
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: what YE like, So wide equals on the side, so

762
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:55,240
Speaker 1: they're farther away from the quarterback. Are they usually bigger

763
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 1: men like wider as well? No, they're usually skinnier. Okay,

764
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 1: wide receiver, got it? And the tight end is wider

765
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:05,319
Speaker 1: than the wide receiver, and where the tight ends tight

766
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 1: and they're tight on the end, but on the end

767
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 1: of the line, the wide receiver is not on the line.

768
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: So anyhow, so he got this is why do I care? Yeah,

769
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 1: so Antonio Brown, I'll just get to it. Says that

770
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 1: he apparently his coach, apparently his coach pressured him to

771
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:29,320
Speaker 1: play with a severe ankle injury, and accuses the Bucks

772
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:32,439
Speaker 1: of an ongoing cover up to see their doctors. So

773
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,839
Speaker 1: this is what happened this past weekend. He's in the game.

774
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 1: He also lied about getting a COVID vaccine, and he

775
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: was suspended for three games. And he has a history

776
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: of being in trouble. So it's a lot of like

777
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 1: the Boy that Cried Wolf. So now he's saying that

778
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,840
Speaker 1: he was on the sideline he has an ankle injury.

779
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: The coach goes up to him, we want you in

780
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: the game. He goes, I can't my ankle. He goes,

781
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 1: stop being a pussy. We need you in the game.

782
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: Footage of this, I mean, aren't they always being filmed

783
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:01,439
Speaker 1: on the sidelines. Can't we read some lips. We haven't

784
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: seen footage of this. It might come out. Apparently there's

785
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 1: text apparently of him telling that the coach knows that

786
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: he has a shitty ankle. Okay, yeah, I wouldn't believe

787
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 1: that any time any of the best players are injured

788
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 1: in any way, they get a hangnail the coach. Right,

789
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 1: you would think, yeah, and then but a lot of

790
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:22,919
Speaker 1: times it's like put a shot in and then shut

791
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 1: the funk up, Like there's still that when I was

792
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 1: on Dancing with the Stars, fucking numb it up and

793
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 1: go out there and let's win this. So let's get

794
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:33,359
Speaker 1: kicked off first. So he goes, I'm not going He goes, okay, Well,

795
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 1: now Antonio Brown is claiming that he caught him right there.

796
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 1: Now he's already dealing with them. Cut him like you're

797
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 1: off the team, you're fired. So Antonio Brown stands up,

798
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 1: goes out on the field, takes out it takes off

799
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 1: all his clothes, his jersey, his shoulder past shirt, yes

800
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 1: he shirts. Is everyone going what is happening? Yes, everyone's

801
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: going fucking nuts. Security thinks he's a streaker. They didn't

802
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:01,720
Speaker 1: even like it together because a couple of them didn't

803
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: see that he's taking off all of his clothes. He's

804
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 1: not naked but top off and he's jogging around. So

805
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: now everyone's like, well, your ankles fine enough to do

806
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: this dance, but it's obviously a different thing. Cutting and

807
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 1: trying cutting from someone from the game or the team

808
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:19,799
Speaker 1: from the from the team, like you kicked off my team. Yeah,

809
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: so he was claiming he was fired before he quit.

810
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 1: You can fire someone on the sidelines, Well you could

811
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 1: tell them, yeah, I guess, okay, is it's only a

812
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 1: coach to fire someone. No, it could be Uh the

813
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 1: coach makes the final owner probably have a little bit

814
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 1: of a saying it too, for sure. But at that point,

815
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,840
Speaker 1: so now everyone's going at first, well, he has a

816
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: lot of like mental disease. So a lot of people

817
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 1: are saying like, oh, he has CT and they're jumping

818
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: to all these conclusions like oh, he's such a piece

819
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 1: of ship. And then other people are like, wow, he's

820
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:53,879
Speaker 1: finally someone standing up. Did his fucking patriarchy of like,

821
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 1: shut the funk up and play. We're paying you a

822
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 1: lot of money. We don't care. Huh. I don't think

823
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:02,839
Speaker 1: you understand what patriarchy he thinks. It's the football team,

824
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 1: the Patriots under the arch over in St. Louis. Patriarchy

825
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: is about men. So you can't have a patriarchy within

826
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: a male dominated like a solely male industry, you know

827
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 1: what I mean, Because they would they would be able

828
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 1: to talk about the patriarchy. But a man can't say,

829
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 1: there's this is maybe like a hierarchy elitist's good. There

830
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 1: you go. Good. So anyways, now people are questioning now

831
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 1: this guy also, there's a lot he's been accused of

832
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:47,839
Speaker 1: sexual assault. He's he's a rapper on the side. Dare

833
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:51,720
Speaker 1: I know that's that's the why excuse the sexual assault?

834
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:54,359
Speaker 1: He raps, Okay, no, but like he has a lot

835
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:56,280
Speaker 1: of off field, like he had a lot of office.

836
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 1: Where where does the story end? So the story ends

837
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 1: with do we believe? Well, here's a question, right if

838
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 1: someone has repeated behavior that's apparently negative and they're lying,

839
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: and it's it is like the boy that cries wolf,

840
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: because then it's like, okay, so he's lied about all

841
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 1: this ship. He's fucked up so many times. Let's go

842
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:18,879
Speaker 1: to the X ray, go to the X right. Let's see,

843
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 1: let's see the X right of his ankle. Let's see

844
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: what's going on. I guess, yeah, I guess he has

845
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 1: to show He's like, yeah, he has to show his

846
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 1: ankle and show show the receipt. Yeah, yeah, because I

847
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 1: feel like, but don't used to go out of people?

848
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:33,800
Speaker 1: How would you get cut for having a bad ankle,

849
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 1: or yeah, for lying saying it's hurt more than enough.

850
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: Whoever cut him had enough of this guy's bullshit. Yes,

851
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: and he didn't want him on the team in the

852
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 1: first place. Tom Brady vouch for him. Well, that's that's

853
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 1: what happens when you're a liar. You don't get trusted

854
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,760
Speaker 1: when you actually need help potentially, and that's the fallout

855
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 1: from being a liar. But this is what they do.

856
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: They go, oh, we feel so bad for I hope

857
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 1: we're here for They spin it to him seem like

858
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,360
Speaker 1: he's crazy. Then it was crazy. That's what I'm saying.

859
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: Everything that you could ever say about someone is because

860
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: of something going on in their brain that they did

861
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 1: not choose to happen. So this is back to the

862
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 1: Sam Harrison of no free will. When someone shoots up, uh,

863
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 1: it doesn't mass shooting, and they go to the autopsy

864
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:22,720
Speaker 1: and they see their brain and it's riddled with CT,

865
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 1: you go, that's because he had CT. That wasn't his fault.

866
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,320
Speaker 1: Or if someone murders the people and they're declared insane,

867
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 1: it's not their fault. They don't you know, they're not

868
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 1: eligible for the death penalty. But literally anything you do

869
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:36,839
Speaker 1: is because something is going on in your brain that

870
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:41,879
Speaker 1: you don't know. Annoying that that they get to then

871
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 1: spin him as a liar and oh, we feel bad

872
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 1: for him, and I hope he gets help. It's a

873
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: way for for them to not be responsible the hierarchy,

874
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 1: for them to go, oh, we didn't fire him, he's

875
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:59,240
Speaker 1: making shipped up whatever, Like well, they should have empathy

876
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 1: for this monochical liar because I mean that it's he

877
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 1: even people that are so bad like they just he

878
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:07,799
Speaker 1: can't help that he's a liar and that he grew

879
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:11,400
Speaker 1: up with parents in a brain in a situation that

880
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 1: made him into this person that has to continually lie

881
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: and manipulate like the other. Like they won the super

882
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: Bowl last year. He was fine then, you know, he

883
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: was in he was in line then, and now that

884
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,359
Speaker 1: he only has four touchdowns, he has a decent like

885
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:33,879
Speaker 1: season going on, they're already winning without him, Like then

886
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 1: they go, okay, so now now you have issues. Last season,

887
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:40,840
Speaker 1: you have issues, and also do you keep them playing

888
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: football to protect him, you know, from himself? You know

889
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like because without this like sense of

890
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 1: like passion and direction. Is he gonna go and fucking

891
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:52,799
Speaker 1: be really nuts? You know what I mean? Like, I

892
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 1: don't know, it's oh, you keep them playing football to

893
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: protect him? Yeah, No, I don't think they care about that.

894
00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 1: They're not like mitigating potential losses on the outside for

895
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 1: other like let's keep him away from hurting his partners

896
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 1: by having him go to practice more, And they don't

897
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:11,320
Speaker 1: care about that. No, no, no, Um, let's get to

898
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:21,919
Speaker 1: fan t Rex. I'm gonna have you counted three. I'm

899
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 1: so excited to hear from you guys. What do we

900
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: have today? No? Uh, all right, here's uh, we'll kick

901
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: things off with a message from Stevie. Hi, Nikki Andrew

902
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: and no, uh, my name is Stevie And I've been

903
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 1: wanting to call into the podcast almost every time there's

904
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 1: something that you guys say that resonates with me, or

905
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,879
Speaker 1: advice that I really take to heart. But finally, what's

906
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: instigating my voicemail today is a mispronunciation that I had

907
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 1: I drive around a lot for work and was pulling

908
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 1: into a neighborhood and checking in with the gate attendant

909
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: there and gave the street name Paul Mela and was

910
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: driving through the neighborhood after they let me in and

911
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: I saw the names on the streets were like Katherine

912
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: Street and Jackie Street, and I realized it was Pamela Street,

913
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:10,439
Speaker 1: not Pamela. So that made me kind of feel pretty dumb.

914
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 1: I hope you guys appreciate that. So anyways, I love

915
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 1: you guys, and jack Er turkey ja. I bet it

916
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: was a Thanksgiving around. Thanksgiving is when you love that Pomela.

917
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 1: You know what, though, I don't hate it. I don't

918
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 1: hate it. First of all, I kind of like how

919
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: that sounds. Also, why are all the streets named after

920
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 1: like first names. That's kind of weird. Yeah, that was weird.

921
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: You don't want to live on that street. No, No

922
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 1: one wants to live in that development. No, Court, I

923
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 1: know one guy in Court. Court's a good name. I

924
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 1: kind of like it. What about Stevie for a girl? Yes,

925
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 1: it's so good. It's such a cool. It's like Sheila.

926
00:50:56,880 --> 00:51:00,680
Speaker 1: It's like an eighties like cool badass chick wearing shoulder

927
00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 1: plaids in her blazer. I don't mind Pamela. I think

928
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 1: what was it Pamela? Pamela. She called it Pamela like pomesan. Yeah,

929
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 1: Instead of streets. She said Saint because she thought it

930
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:17,440
Speaker 1: was St. Louis. Um, when you write St. Louis, Oh,

931
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 1: is this the question you had? Where Louis is very annoying?

932
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 1: And when you put in the airplane thing on Southwest,

933
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 1: they go, you don't have apostrophes doesn't up or you

934
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:30,800
Speaker 1: can't have a punctuation, So the st like period. Sometimes

935
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:37,280
Speaker 1: you just gotta write sty. Sometimes you st that's bullshit, sucks.

936
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: Maybe because of St. Croix. There are the other Saints.

937
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying, like, is that why? I

938
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know any but how do I

939
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: write it? How do you write it? Yeah? St you

940
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 1: call our our streets. I'm not gonna say we're our street.

941
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:54,839
Speaker 1: But you constantly mispronounced that, and it's just the way

942
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,719
Speaker 1: it is. It's like my buddy has the last name

943
00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:00,440
Speaker 1: l E m b O, and I say limbo l

944
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 1: e m b o, l e mbo, So it's lembo, right,

945
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:08,720
Speaker 1: Lembo lembo, but you say limbo yeah like l I yeah,

946
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: I just consistently do it well. At first I just

947
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: that was so it's similar to our What about in

948
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: New York Houston Street? You gotta say Houston. At first,

949
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,279
Speaker 1: you say Houston, Yeah, you definitely say yeah, and then

950
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:23,880
Speaker 1: it just becomes Houston and you just never There's one

951
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:26,839
Speaker 1: neighborhood in l A, though, that I can constantly cannot pronounce, right,

952
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:30,880
Speaker 1: Why did they do that? To be like like, I

953
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 1: think it's only named after someone where their last name

954
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 1: was pronounced Houston. I think it's to be bougie and

955
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 1: not be We have a problem because I don't know

956
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 1: how how people pronounce Lebanon, Lebanon, Steve Stevie Lebanon. Alright, now,

957
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 1: what's the next one? All right, here's one. He didn't

958
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:54,280
Speaker 1: leave a name. But want some advice, Nicky Noan Andrew,

959
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 1: I love the podcast. I used to watch your Serious

960
00:52:57,200 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 1: XM and podcast, So fan Um, I've recently decided that

961
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,320
Speaker 1: I want to cut back on how much I drink,

962
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 1: specifically um, not drinking during the week. Um. And so

963
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 1: I read the first third of Alan cardbook that you recommended,

964
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 1: But if I'm honest, it just didn't really do a

965
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: whole lot for me. I feel like I didn't really

966
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 1: get when he was getting at and he just kind

967
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 1: of talked in circles and please don't be mad. At

968
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 1: me for saying that, because I know it's helped you

969
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 1: and a lot of people. So I was just interested

970
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,839
Speaker 1: in hearing if you had any other resources or suggestions

971
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 1: that had helped you. Also, what helped Um, Andrew and

972
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 1: uh Noah kind of get their drinking under control? Um.

973
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:38,879
Speaker 1: I really liked how you talked about how it isn't

974
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 1: liquid courage because if it wasn't, fireman and police officers

975
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 1: would be drinking it to go and do their job,

976
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: but they don't. So that was really helpful and powerful.

977
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 1: So thank you for that. And I love the podcast

978
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna keep listening and I hope you get

979
00:53:54,719 --> 00:54:00,399
Speaker 1: this voicemail. Yes, Um, do you have any think for him?

980
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:01,959
Speaker 1: Because I know you didn't read the Alan Card book?

981
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:05,760
Speaker 1: What what has helped you? What I saw the cover? Um,

982
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 1: I think like the cover read a third read out. UM,

983
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 1: So I think that it depends how much he's drinking

984
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 1: during the week. I think a lot of people justify like, oh,

985
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 1: it's just like I think that's probably he's probably drinking

986
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:21,880
Speaker 1: enough to feel sick in the morning, because otherwise it

987
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't be a problem. Well that's the thing, like just

988
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:27,719
Speaker 1: because you're not being sick in the morning, it still

989
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 1: can be a sickness. I guess is I guess that's

990
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 1: the advice i'd give him, like maybe it's not impeding

991
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 1: on his life other than the fact that he just

992
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:39,400
Speaker 1: wants to stop, you know. So I don't know. I

993
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 1: think like you just gotta What I would do is

994
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: I would write down what are the pros and what

995
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 1: are the cons and literally right down, like what what

996
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 1: am I getting out of this? Because that's what the

997
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:53,879
Speaker 1: Alan Carr book is about, is about anything you think

998
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 1: you're getting out of it, he proves it wrong. So

999
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: I would have liked to hear what this guy has

1000
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: to say, why why he likes it? Because obviously that

1001
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:03,959
Speaker 1: the thing about it makes you current, like it gives

1002
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 1: you social skills that you don't you normally lack and

1003
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 1: have encouraged that resonated because it doesn't give you courage.

1004
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:13,920
Speaker 1: It just makes you stupider. Um. I think that something

1005
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 1: that I wouldn't that is not in that book, that

1006
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: I would advise that's helped me for the other things

1007
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:24,719
Speaker 1: I've quit without that book is um, when you do it, like,

1008
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:27,200
Speaker 1: don't say you're not gonna drink, Like, don't make these

1009
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 1: things of like I'm not drinking Monday through Thursday or

1010
00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 1: Sunday through Thursday, Like, don't have these black and white things.

1011
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 1: Just play it by ear. And when you want to

1012
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 1: have a drink during the week and you're feeling this

1013
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:43,760
Speaker 1: like already like guilt bubbling up of like I shouldn't

1014
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:48,200
Speaker 1: be doing this, don't just do it. Just do what

1015
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 1: you want right now. Just truly do what you want

1016
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 1: and be like I need this, I want this, I

1017
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,280
Speaker 1: need it. I'm not hurting anyone, Like I'm not choosing

1018
00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:58,800
Speaker 1: to do this because I want to hurt myself or

1019
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:02,360
Speaker 1: anyone else. I clearly need this right now, and fucking

1020
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 1: just enjoy it and do what you want without any guilt. Um.

1021
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 1: That to me, I think is the true first step

1022
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 1: of cutting back, because the shame around drinking and the

1023
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,399
Speaker 1: shame you feel when you when you have that first

1024
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 1: drink and then you go, well, if I had one,

1025
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 1: I already broke the seal. Let's fucking go wild. If

1026
00:56:20,360 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: you just are like I just want I just want it,

1027
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 1: and I just don't like for me the same way,

1028
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 1: I just like kept trying to like make all these

1029
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:31,799
Speaker 1: rules for myself, and every time I would break one,

1030
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:33,359
Speaker 1: I would feel so bad that I would just smoke

1031
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:35,399
Speaker 1: all the pot and I would feel terrible. But when

1032
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 1: I first started just being like I just want it

1033
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: and that's okay, Like I'm not a bad person because

1034
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:42,880
Speaker 1: I want to smoke a little weed right now, Like

1035
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:44,799
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. This isn't because I want to

1036
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: like hurt anyone or even myself. I just you just

1037
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 1: take the shame out of it, take this. Just do

1038
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:53,360
Speaker 1: it because you want to do it. And I swear

1039
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:56,319
Speaker 1: to God, when you start getting in the habit because

1040
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:58,800
Speaker 1: you're not obviously ready to quit right now to the

1041
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 1: guy that was calling in, and that's fine, like you

1042
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:05,160
Speaker 1: fucking need it still, and it will fall away when

1043
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:07,360
Speaker 1: it's ready to if you take the shame out of

1044
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,319
Speaker 1: needing it now, because there's nothing wrong with needing it

1045
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 1: right now. The other thing, too, is you know, when

1046
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 1: I was drinking, there would be times where I'd get

1047
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: so fucked up on the weekends. Like it sounds like

1048
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 1: he's a weekend warrior too, because he's like, I'm not

1049
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 1: going to stop drinking on the weekends that you would

1050
00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: want to drink on maybe a Monday or Tuesday, just

1051
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,720
Speaker 1: a little bit just to kind of soothe that, you

1052
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So, like your problem during the

1053
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: week could be stemmed from what you're doing on the weekend.

1054
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 1: So maybe if you could control the weekend a little bit,

1055
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 1: maybe it saving it all up for the weekend, because like,

1056
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 1: well that's the other thing. So just drink whatever the

1057
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 1: funk you want. That's what I would tell this guy,

1058
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,720
Speaker 1: Like it will go away when it's ready to you're

1059
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 1: not ready to let it go, and that is so okay,

1060
00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: Like it's not time for you yet, and you'll know

1061
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 1: when it is. And I know that you even want to,

1062
00:57:58,080 --> 00:58:00,720
Speaker 1: like you know, stiffing around it and being what is

1063
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: this and and reading the book and like being interested.

1064
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:06,920
Speaker 1: You're obviously it's eventually going to be there for you,

1065
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 1: but it isn't. Now. I wish that someone would have

1066
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: given me that advice with pot, because I've just spent

1067
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 1: years hating myself over using it when I knew I

1068
00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 1: wanted to quit, instead of just sucking enjoying the fact

1069
00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:20,480
Speaker 1: that I was doing it because I was just I

1070
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: wasn't ready, and it fell away as soon as I

1071
00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 1: let go of the shame of doing it. I swear

1072
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 1: to God, it didn't take long for me to just

1073
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: go just laugh at yourself and go, I guess I

1074
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 1: need this, and let yourself have it, because there's no

1075
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 1: point in doing it if you're not going to enjoy it. Yeah,

1076
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 1: I didn't quit drinking. You know, a lot of people

1077
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 1: are like, what's your rock bottom? I didn't quit after

1078
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 1: fucking having fifty shots and doing count making a guy

1079
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:47,000
Speaker 1: count the three. For some people, the bottom is the

1080
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: moment where you done. I'm just saying. But for me,

1081
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 1: what happened was like you said, it wasn't really that

1082
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 1: big of a deal. I didn't feel a ton of

1083
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: shame around drinking. I was just tired of it. I

1084
00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:00,479
Speaker 1: just why I wasn't giving it anything. I wait, after

1085
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 1: having literally a half of a Tallboy Corps light, that

1086
00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 1: was the last time I ever drank, because I was

1087
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 1: just like, what am I doing? Why am I I'm tired?

1088
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 1: I'm more tired. I'm just like, it's just like it'll

1089
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 1: really do anything for me. Really, I'm not going out,

1090
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 1: I'm not working like raging like it. It might be

1091
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 1: easy to it's it will be easy for you. It

1092
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 1: will be easier than you think to quit when you're

1093
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 1: actually ready to do it, and that's not you know

1094
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 1: when I quit by eating this sort of behavior, It

1095
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 1: was not easy. It was a struggle, and it was

1096
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 1: never like so they're talking, But the thing is I

1097
00:59:37,080 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 1: was ready to do it. I just knew I was ready,

1098
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 1: and I knew I didn't have an option. This guy

1099
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:43,440
Speaker 1: that's called in, you seem like you're not at a

1100
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:45,479
Speaker 1: point where you're like, I'm out of options. You didn't

1101
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 1: hit like a gross bottom. You don't seem like you're

1102
00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 1: tired of it yet because you want to try to still,

1103
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:52,040
Speaker 1: like do it on the weekend. Just don't do any

1104
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:55,480
Speaker 1: rules for yourself for now, Like for now, dude, truly

1105
00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:58,520
Speaker 1: enjoy it and with no judgment of yourself, because I

1106
00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 1: have no judgment of you wanting to drink during the

1107
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: week don't don't make rules for yourself, no rules. That is,

1108
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 1: I want you to try that out and get back

1109
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 1: to me and see what happens. And it truly, because

1110
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 1: there's no point in drinking if you're not going to

1111
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:13,919
Speaker 1: enjoy it. Like, just stop this. If you're doing something

1112
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:16,919
Speaker 1: right now that you feel bad about, overeating, smoking pot,

1113
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 1: you know, whatever you're doing that you know you shouldn't.

1114
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 1: Just enjoy it, because there's gonna be a time where

1115
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 1: you don't do it and you're gonna miss it. So

1116
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: just enjoy it right now. Why why lumps shame onto it?

1117
01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 1: And here's the thing I still miss. It's not like

1118
01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 1: it goes away either. Like I think a lot of

1119
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 1: people think, oh, you quit, and it's like you you

1120
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: did it. You're It's like I still have the same

1121
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 1: exact thoughts. I still fucking sometimes when I just get

1122
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 1: fucking hammered on the weekend and like I could just

1123
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 1: do it. You know, you have so much, like so

1124
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:49,600
Speaker 1: much behind you to prove that that's not going to bring.

1125
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 1: But that's also another thing that I hate about sobriety.

1126
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's like keep drinking because that's their shame behind that,

1127
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 1: And that's like another thing of like, well that's what

1128
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying. If you wanted to drink something, I would

1129
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 1: not If you told me I drank last night, I

1130
01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:04,880
Speaker 1: would literally go okay, so what. And I would still

1131
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 1: let you say that you were sober and that you

1132
01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:09,720
Speaker 1: had ears. I wouldn't give you a ship because the

1133
01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:12,960
Speaker 1: second you start being feeling bad about something is the

1134
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 1: second you're going to use it all the more. Let's

1135
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 1: get the final thoughts and uh, what's our what's our

1136
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:28,560
Speaker 1: last fan trax? Okay, last fan trax is from Cora. Hey, Nikki,

1137
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:31,240
Speaker 1: I was listening to your podcast late last night while

1138
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 1: I couldn't sleep, and I heard you guys talking about

1139
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:36,040
Speaker 1: men's vulnerability when they're horny, and it reminded me of

1140
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:38,720
Speaker 1: this guy talked to for a while. I was drunk

1141
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 1: one night with friends and wanted to prove this very thing,

1142
01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 1: so I decided to text him and lightly flirted with him.

1143
01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 1: This turned into an easy way to get attention from

1144
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 1: a guy without actually having to see him or hook

1145
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:51,920
Speaker 1: up with him. I told him multiple times that I

1146
01:01:51,960 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 1: took up with him, which even prompted him to come

1147
01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 1: to my parents house and wait outside for thirty minutes,

1148
01:01:57,480 --> 01:01:59,240
Speaker 1: as I told him I didn't want to sneak out

1149
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:01,400
Speaker 1: of my house. Oh my god. We talked for almost

1150
01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 1: two years, and the only reason it ended was when

1151
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:07,480
Speaker 1: I started dating my current boyfriend we're calling That experience

1152
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,760
Speaker 1: reminded me of that weird female sense of empowerment and control.

1153
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 1: I'm so sad I missed your Denver show, especially considering

1154
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 1: it was your special taping. But I hope to see

1155
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:18,960
Speaker 1: you whenever you come back to Colorado. I love you

1156
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:21,040
Speaker 1: in your podcast and you are by far the best

1157
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 1: dating show host and you added so much needed intelligent

1158
01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 1: humor to the show. I hope you all are doing well,

1159
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 1: and thank you for the sense of friendship you've created

1160
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 1: with your fans. I love y'all. It's so sweet. That's

1161
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:42,560
Speaker 1: I've done that so many times of where I just like,

1162
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's about the it's not about

1163
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 1: the control, which I like that she was like in

1164
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:50,840
Speaker 1: control there. Sometimes it's for me where I've gotten a

1165
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 1: guy to like be like I'll go go there and

1166
01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 1: then they show up and you're like, oh, I don't

1167
01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 1: I'm not like my vagina might be weird or like

1168
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:03,040
Speaker 1: I I just I'm too nervous to hook up or whatever,

1169
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 1: like I just make a lie and I'm like I

1170
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:07,320
Speaker 1: can't because my dog is sick or whatever. You just

1171
01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 1: but it's about just wanting to get the attention of

1172
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 1: like someone would and like sometimes I just want to

1173
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: keep it. I want I want to keep intimacy away.

1174
01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 1: I just want to keep it on text. And do

1175
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 1: you think that's leading someone on? Like is that is

1176
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 1: that something negative with that to lead someone on, even

1177
01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: if maybe they're getting off on being led on. I

1178
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 1: feel like that. I feel like this guy did not

1179
01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 1: he was not invited to go over to her house

1180
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 1: because I feel like she probably he probably just showed up,

1181
01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: which then that's not on her, but if she were

1182
01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 1: like come over, and then you know what if she

1183
01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: if she did that knowing she was going to turn

1184
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 1: him down. Yeah, that kind of sucks. But I've done

1185
01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: it where I'm like, yeah, I want to do it,

1186
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 1: and then it's like you're like, no, oh my god.

1187
01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:54,959
Speaker 1: I Like, that's always my biggest fears, that I'm gonna

1188
01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 1: start hooking up with someone and I'll think I'm into it,

1189
01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:58,680
Speaker 1: and then in the middle of it, I'll stop wanting it,

1190
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:01,280
Speaker 1: and then I'll keep doing it out of like feelings bad.

1191
01:04:01,600 --> 01:04:04,320
Speaker 1: But there's also something to it where it's like she,

1192
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 1: you know, she obviously writes well, like there's got to

1193
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:10,280
Speaker 1: be like a feeling of like like dopamine of like

1194
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: getting this person to do just from my words, you

1195
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:15,280
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I mean, that's kind of sexy,

1196
01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? This guy wait thirty minutes.

1197
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:20,840
Speaker 1: Because I used to write like emotions, and it's so

1198
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 1: scary that. You know what's so scary is when you

1199
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 1: get a guy, so like there are times where with

1200
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 1: my the guy I'm seeing now, I will and I

1201
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:33,880
Speaker 1: probably talked about this before, I will not want him

1202
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: to finish because I won't want to lose that energy

1203
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 1: that I have cultivated from him being horny. And I

1204
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:47,440
Speaker 1: know as soon as he comes it is like interested

1205
01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 1: in me in that way will be faded. Like when

1206
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 1: we were in Hawaii, Like we were hooked up one

1207
01:04:51,880 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 1: night before we went to dinner and I was like, dude,

1208
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 1: I don't want you to finish because I wanted him

1209
01:04:57,240 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 1: to be like all over me at dinner like I

1210
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:02,160
Speaker 1: wanted that like, but then he started sucking. I just

1211
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 1: never get to see just like fucking imaginement. He started

1212
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:11,240
Speaker 1: sucking want of the fish because you know, um, no,

1213
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 1: I is there? No? What do you relate to that?

1214
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: Like knowing that when guys come, they're just not going

1215
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:19,800
Speaker 1: to be as like hands all over you and I

1216
01:05:19,960 --> 01:05:22,800
Speaker 1: It's almost like Christmas, Like I never want Christmas to end.

1217
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:25,920
Speaker 1: I never want the good, the anticipation to end. There

1218
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 1: is something I don't know, That's what I think. Um,

1219
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 1: Cora was getting at like she just enjoyed the guy

1220
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 1: having the hots for her, but she didn't want to

1221
01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 1: really reciprocate, and it was on him to just stock

1222
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 1: because it will go away. Yeah, I just feel bad

1223
01:05:39,600 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 1: for that guy a little bit because I do think

1224
01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 1: like then it's like the next time someone like I

1225
01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 1: don't know, it's gonna hinder him though from like having tried,

1226
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 1: you can learn from that, and you know, I mean, yeah,

1227
01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 1: it's it's tricky though, because I have trusted used by

1228
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 1: guys coming and then being disinterested in me and not

1229
01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:08,440
Speaker 1: just you know, not touching me all over at dinner,

1230
01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:09,960
Speaker 1: but like truly being like I don't want to be

1231
01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:13,360
Speaker 1: with you anymore, because all of this was based me

1232
01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:14,880
Speaker 1: saying I wanted to be with you, was all based

1233
01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: on the fact I wanted to fuck you, and now

1234
01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 1: I got to and it's just like I don't like

1235
01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:20,880
Speaker 1: you anymore, and I just go what There is something

1236
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 1: about like that first texting to that's like the sexteine

1237
01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:26,600
Speaker 1: and like before you have sex, it is so fucking hot,

1238
01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: and then but even like the month of like we're

1239
01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:34,320
Speaker 1: gonna period is just so like if I wrote a

1240
01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: sex to Brenna right now. She'd be like, are you

1241
01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 1: something happened? Are you? Is this for someone else? Because

1242
01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:45,919
Speaker 1: this is not our vibe. Our vibe you did you

1243
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:49,040
Speaker 1: like fucking put the boxes away? Oh that's so cute,

1244
01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 1: you know, Like, but but maybe I should spice it

1245
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:55,320
Speaker 1: up like that again now, but maybe tell her. Well,

1246
01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:58,400
Speaker 1: today I was going through Instagram alright, just pulled it

1247
01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:00,840
Speaker 1: up and there was a video of Chris on his

1248
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:04,560
Speaker 1: morning show that came up, and I was just like

1249
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:06,760
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, that guy is

1250
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 1: so fucking hot. Like my first thing was like, who

1251
01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 1: the fuck is that? And I wrote to him. I

1252
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:14,320
Speaker 1: was like, it is such a nice surprise to be

1253
01:07:14,440 --> 01:07:17,439
Speaker 1: like my mouth went was a gape at how hot

1254
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 1: this guy was, and then I realized he's the guy

1255
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 1: that I'm seeing, Like it was such a good feeling that.

1256
01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:26,240
Speaker 1: And there's been times where I've told him like I've

1257
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:28,160
Speaker 1: seen pictures of him just like that where or I'll

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Speaker 1: see like him at a store where we've like kind

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Speaker 1: of moved up and he'll try on a shirt and

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Speaker 1: so he'll be and I'll go like, WHOA, that guy's hot,

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01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,280
Speaker 1: or I see him on Instagram or whatever, and I go,

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01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 1: it makes me go, like who's that guy? And I go,

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Speaker 1: I want you just to know though, like if I

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01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:42,840
Speaker 1: do have that response to a guy like I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna like attempt to like hook up with that person,

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Speaker 1: I like I had to assuage his fears of like

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Speaker 1: me not trying to fuck him. He was like, I

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Speaker 1: appreciate you saying that because a little part of me

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01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:00,240
Speaker 1: is like, why is she getting so turned off by

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01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:04,200
Speaker 1: think other people? Yesterday? Because I went to Brenna's work,

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01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:06,840
Speaker 1: I got a facial and you came out of the

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01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:09,200
Speaker 1: place and that you saw her. She was working here,

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Speaker 1: She's like behind the desk and like, oh my god,

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01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:13,720
Speaker 1: I want to like I want to fund this reception.

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01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:16,120
Speaker 1: It's like and like she was like going through like

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01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:17,680
Speaker 1: the list of like could I have to fill out

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01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:20,200
Speaker 1: some forms? She's like fill out these fours. I'm like

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01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:22,679
Speaker 1: I was, I was like, is there a I literally said,

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Speaker 1: is there a janitor? Close? Because like I was so

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01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:28,479
Speaker 1: fucking turned on yesterday, Like it was you got sometimes

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01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:32,840
Speaker 1: got to see your partner outside of like your daily ship,

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01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:36,679
Speaker 1: Like you gotta like it's a big reflection in a mirror.

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01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:39,599
Speaker 1: What was that? What Andrew just said is a big

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01:08:40,080 --> 01:08:43,559
Speaker 1: point that is stare Perel makes to see your partner

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Speaker 1: in like other world. Oh my god, I have been

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01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:51,360
Speaker 1: another job loving Perel's podcast. Where should We Begin? I've

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01:08:51,400 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 1: listened to it so much. It is just couple of

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Speaker 1: couples and couples couples counseling sessions. And the one that

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Speaker 1: I listened to yesterday that I really recommend is like, um,

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Speaker 1: let me just look at it so people can check

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Speaker 1: it out, because it was so I want to know

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Speaker 1: what people think about this girl. I don't mean to

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01:09:08,600 --> 01:09:10,679
Speaker 1: be mean, but that was the name of the episode.

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01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:13,840
Speaker 1: I don't mean to be mean, but and um, I mean,

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01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:15,800
Speaker 1: all of them are so good, but they're they're not

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01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 1: a couple she's been seeing for a long time. It's

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01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:19,640
Speaker 1: one off deal. She doesn't see them again. It's just

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01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 1: one session and it's it's and in this session she

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01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:25,639
Speaker 1: kind of loses her cool and she gets sucked into

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Speaker 1: their relationship and starts kind of like acting like the

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01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:31,720
Speaker 1: girl she starts. At one point, she realizes like she's

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01:09:31,800 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 1: yelling at the girl for being dismissive of the guy

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01:09:34,960 --> 01:09:36,960
Speaker 1: and bossing him around, and she goes in that moment

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01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 1: she's like, you know, commentating on her therapy, and she's like,

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01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:42,880
Speaker 1: in this moment, I realized what I was telling her

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01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 1: not to do, I was doing directly to her. Sometimes

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01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:49,760
Speaker 1: as a therapist, you think you are getting through to them,

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01:09:49,880 --> 01:09:52,439
Speaker 1: Like it's interesting to hear a therapist talk about being

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01:09:52,439 --> 01:09:57,240
Speaker 1: a therapist. It's like a movie when they have direct her.

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Speaker 1: She's so good it, um, you gotta check it out.

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Speaker 1: So it's where should we begin? S there perel e

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Speaker 1: s t E R perel And that's uh. I don't

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01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 1: mean to be mean, but is the episode? So um,

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Speaker 1: we'll see you tomorrow on the Monday on the show

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Speaker 1: don't be cut out there? And Jack, Oh, that one

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Speaker 1: is good. There's two. I should have saved the other

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01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:24,639
Speaker 1: second one. No, Jack, be quick doesn't work on its own,

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Speaker 1: or will it on Monday