WEBVTT - "I'M A FIRST RESPONDER"

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get into the episode.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hi, Hi, how are you. I'm really good?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you, Lyle? I'm doing better now that I

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<v Speaker 2>am awake and alert.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that made any fucking sense, but

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<v Speaker 1>what are you.

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<v Speaker 3>Doing it's us. I'm putting together an Ikea table. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>hanging out with my cat. He's turning nineteen in a

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<v Speaker 3>few weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys turning nineteen? How old do cats live too?

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<v Speaker 2>That's a depressing question that asked.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm curious, So.

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<v Speaker 3>I adopted him when he was seventeen. I read that

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<v Speaker 3>they become senior when they're twelve. The average, like expected,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess, like lifespan is fifteen. But he's just chugging along.

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<v Speaker 2>M okay, what what you all right? Say?

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<v Speaker 1>You got a cat that's old?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, have you have you had the cat for nineteen

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<v Speaker 2>years or did you like find him when he was

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<v Speaker 2>fifteen or so?

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<v Speaker 3>No? No, so I only adopted him about a year ago.

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<v Speaker 3>My aunt was fostering him her one of her best

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<v Speaker 3>friends runs like a foster you know, organization for cats. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and this family abandoned the cat. He gave like a

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<v Speaker 3>bunch of weird reasons, but including like, oh well, it's

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<v Speaker 3>like our daughter's cat and she got into drugs or something.

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<v Speaker 3>And then they also said that their other cat had

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<v Speaker 3>just died and they didn't want to go through it again.

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<v Speaker 3>But then I was reading his vet records and they

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<v Speaker 3>were like super rich and like taking him for like

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<v Speaker 3>cat acupuncture and chiropractic adjustments and feeding him this like

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<v Speaker 3>raw organic turkey stuff. I don't know, it was. The

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<v Speaker 3>whole situation was pretty weird, but overall, they just abandoned him.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I met him because my aunt was fostering him,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>So they so they so they I Here's what I'm

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<v Speaker 2>curious about is they gave the cat up for adoption

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<v Speaker 2>to a foster cat place.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and so, oh, okay, that's not I wouldn't and

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that's not a bad When you say

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<v Speaker 2>a band in the cat, I thought like they put

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<v Speaker 2>him in the dumpsters.

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<v Speaker 3>But like if you're like, I agree, yeah, that that

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<v Speaker 3>I agree that makes sense. But also there's like there's

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<v Speaker 3>so many animals that need homes. It's like, you can't

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<v Speaker 3>take care of your own cat for like a couple

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<v Speaker 3>more years.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't know I would, well can I And

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know anything about dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>But it wouldn't it if the family knows that they

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<v Speaker 2>can't take good care of the cat, wouldn't it be

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<v Speaker 2>better for them to give up the cat to somebody

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<v Speaker 2>who can do it competently.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but the family was rich and they just didn't

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<v Speaker 3>want to watch the cat pass away.

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<v Speaker 2>Ooh, oh you know what that's made it. That is

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<v Speaker 2>kind of that makes a lot of sense to Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they they getting all the good parts in and then

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<v Speaker 2>when it's time for the cat to die, they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>let somebody else do the sad stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Right wait here he is, he's going to say, hello,

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<v Speaker 3>give him me out, Sammy's he's sniffing my phone. You'll

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<v Speaker 3>hear him me out in a minute. But yeah, so

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<v Speaker 3>he's he's a little sick right now. But he's like,

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<v Speaker 3>my love and joy. He looks like a four year

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<v Speaker 3>old cat. And I'm only twenty two, so he's like,

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<v Speaker 3>we're only four years apart because I'm about to turn

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<v Speaker 3>twenty three. And so he came to college with me,

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<v Speaker 3>and so he was like a little celebrity. We were

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<v Speaker 3>calling him freshman boy living with the senior girl.

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<v Speaker 2>That's kind of funny that, you guys, I didn't I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't even realize that. Yeah, you guys are pretty close

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<v Speaker 2>in age. I'm sure you have a lot of Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, if he weren't a cat you'd probably have a.

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<v Speaker 1>Lot in common.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, right, it'd be a little kenchy, he'd be like

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<v Speaker 3>a little barely legal, but it'd be fine.

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<v Speaker 2>So okay, so they pawned. They pawn the depressing stuff

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<v Speaker 2>off to youkud look and look, you know, say what

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<v Speaker 2>you will about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But that, I mean, that's kind of a smart move

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<v Speaker 1>on their part.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I guess so, because the only because the main

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that the main con of having uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>an adorable animal friend is that it will inevitably die

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<v Speaker 2>a slow, painful death, leaving you with tears and grief.

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<v Speaker 1>People, what if people did.

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<v Speaker 2>That with their family members. I guess they kind of do, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what's hospices.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I think this is like a more humane thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's like nursing homes where it's like

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<v Speaker 3>like and I worked as an EMT for a while,

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<v Speaker 3>and like there's so many and I mean, like, of course,

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people are in situations where they have

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<v Speaker 3>to like give their family members, like to a home,

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<v Speaker 3>but like, you know, like there's a lot of people

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<v Speaker 3>who will like keep their elderly family members alive for

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<v Speaker 3>a very long time, who could easily just like go

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<v Speaker 3>into hospice and like pass like a dignified, peaceful death,

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<v Speaker 3>but instead they want to keep like ninety year old

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<v Speaker 3>Papa on like e ventilator and dialysis.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait a mate, here's okay, now you're here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You're flipping on me here because you're you were anti

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<v Speaker 2>the rich people taking care of the cat and they didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>You were you were anti the rich people take taken

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<v Speaker 2>giving the cat away, but you're like with the person,

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<v Speaker 2>you should give them away to the hospice and not

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<v Speaker 2>take care of them. So you have opposing viewpoints for

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<v Speaker 2>how to you know, properly deal with an old cat

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<v Speaker 2>versus an old guy.

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<v Speaker 3>See, I feel like I don't think my points are

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<v Speaker 3>completely opposing, because what I'd say is, like I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>with this cat, like I'm taking care of him, but

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm not gonna put him through like hell with

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<v Speaker 3>medical treatments and everything and like chemo and shit, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I never do that to him, right, Like I just

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<v Speaker 3>let him like ride it out and everything. But like

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<v Speaker 3>since I care about him, like I'm gonna I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>watch him get sick and I'm gonna watch be there

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<v Speaker 3>for him and take care of him because he's my

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<v Speaker 3>loved one and everything. But like you know and like,

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<v Speaker 3>but like for a human like, I think that like

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<v Speaker 3>you should, you should take care of your loved ones

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<v Speaker 3>and everything, and you should let them like pass like

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<v Speaker 3>a dignified, peaceful death. But there's people who like will

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<v Speaker 3>pawn them off but still make their family members go

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<v Speaker 3>through a bunch of shit. But I guess it's different.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess they're different things. I think I did go

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<v Speaker 3>on a tangent with the old people's stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, no, I took those the rich people who gave

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<v Speaker 2>you the cat to watch stuff, to watch suffer. They

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<v Speaker 2>would call you a sucker, but I don't think that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there is dignity in watching a cat die

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<v Speaker 2>that somebody else raised. Here's what I was thinking. Here's

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<v Speaker 2>what I was thinking is have you ever seen Have

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<v Speaker 2>you ever seen Garfield to a Tale of Two Kiddies?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Should I?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I, I, well, I haven't either, but I've seen

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<v Speaker 2>the poster for it, and the poster seems to imply

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<v Speaker 2>I think the plot of that movie is I think

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<v Speaker 2>the plot of that movie is similar. Again, haven't seen it,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think it's similar to your exact situation because

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<v Speaker 2>it's about like a rich, aristocratic, aristocat cat who like

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<v Speaker 2>trades places with Garfield, who's like, you know, I guess

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<v Speaker 2>a a sort of middle lives a middle class existence,

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<v Speaker 2>and the and the rich cat now has to deal with,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, eating tu an ad of a can where

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<v Speaker 2>he was, you know, before, prepared these elegant meals and whatnot.

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<v Speaker 2>And this kind of remind this reminds me a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit of like the rich This was like a rich,

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<v Speaker 2>pampered cat and now he's like living in a college dorm,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, eating ramen with the rest of us.

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<v Speaker 3>I kept him, I did keep him on his bougie food.

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<v Speaker 3>I spoiled you cat.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you did? What? How do you what kind of

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<v Speaker 2>bogie food does he eat? What do you kind of Jenny's?

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<v Speaker 3>It cost me twenty a week. It's fine. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>really not the end of the world. And it's got

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<v Speaker 3>it's made. I literally am looking at my friend right now.

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<v Speaker 3>It's raw organic turkey with like alfalfa sprouts and papayas

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<v Speaker 3>and almond meal and stuff. And I also the old

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<v Speaker 3>family also like had kept him only in one bedroom

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<v Speaker 3>because they would also sedate him because he like baby

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<v Speaker 3>clawed him right, so they called his claw out with

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<v Speaker 3>ethical right. I went through his whole of that record,

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<v Speaker 3>and they would sedate him in the morning because he

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<v Speaker 3>nibbles on your face to wake you up, and they

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<v Speaker 3>didn't like that. But I get this, count all toys.

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<v Speaker 3>He has the run of the house. Who's a college celebrity.

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<v Speaker 3>He had an eighteenth birthday party. We had a little

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<v Speaker 3>eighteenth birthday rager. And yeah, I still give him his

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<v Speaker 3>organic food. So Sandy is living it up.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a question. You said it's unethical to declaw

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<v Speaker 2>a cat. Do you think and a genuine question, do

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<v Speaker 2>you think it's unethical to neuter a dog?

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<v Speaker 3>Do I think it's unethical to neuter a dog? I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't even, like, I guess mentally gone down that rabbit hole,

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<v Speaker 3>but I don't. Maybe it's not a rabbit hole. I

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<v Speaker 3>guess it's like an important thing.

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<v Speaker 1>A dog hole.

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<v Speaker 3>More so, Yeah, I feel like it's not because there's

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<v Speaker 3>so many like dogs who like, like the whole purpose

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<v Speaker 3>of like neutering dogs is so that like they don't

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<v Speaker 3>continue to like reproduce because there's so many already like

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<v Speaker 3>stray dogs, Whereas like neutering a cat is like I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>not neutering. Declawing a cat is like taking off like

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<v Speaker 3>our fingernails.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm I feel like this whole call, I've been

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<v Speaker 2>arguing with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that's okay. I love this.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good, okay, God, I'm glad you enjoy this, because Kyle,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just thrilled to be talking to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thrilled to be talking to you too. I hope

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<v Speaker 2>you don't think I'm being combative, but I'm all. I

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<v Speaker 2>am very curious because here's the thing. And I know

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<v Speaker 2>you say it's because you say it's unethical to declaw cat,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's fine to neuter a dog. If somebody, if

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<v Speaker 2>I had the choice between getting my fingernails clipped off

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<v Speaker 2>or my penis cut off, I would choose the fingernails.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's not that there. Here's the thing, though, it's

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<v Speaker 3>not your penis cut off. It's like getting what's it called,

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<v Speaker 3>what's a vasectomy? It's a aseectomy, and like a visectomy

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<v Speaker 3>is like not that bad, right, Like you can get

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<v Speaker 3>that shit reversed. I don't know if dogs can get

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<v Speaker 3>it reversed. But apparently like you just need like a

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<v Speaker 3>bag of frozen teas on your ball for like the rest.

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<v Speaker 5>Of the day, where you can wait?

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<v Speaker 2>You can? Can you? Can you reverse neuter a dog?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna google that. I'm probably gonna be put on

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<v Speaker 2>some kind of fucking weird list of weird dog Can

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<v Speaker 2>you de neuter?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you spell neuter a dog?

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<v Speaker 3>Gu r T E R? I don't know, No, it

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<v Speaker 3>would be r t e R.

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<v Speaker 6>Just be t e R.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm seeing Okay, can you can you de neuter

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<v Speaker 2>a dog? Can you un neuter a dog? Male dogs

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<v Speaker 2>cannot be unnutered. Neutering involves removing the reproductive organs entirely,

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<v Speaker 2>and it is irreverse however, so yeah, so it's irreverse

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<v Speaker 2>however of a sectomy. Of a sectomy leaves the testes

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<v Speaker 2>and text, so the body still has normal Yeah, apparently

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<v Speaker 2>they they they by the way, don't I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't be hard on yourself for not knowing that

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<v Speaker 2>much about neutering a dog, because it would be it

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<v Speaker 2>would be strange if you knew a lot about neutering dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>So unless I was, unless you were a vet like

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<v Speaker 2>a human now. Now, now, here's what the clause. Can

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<v Speaker 2>the claws grow back?

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, they're permanently removed.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like fingernails. They can't just move but grow back.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's like they pulled them off, like like I

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<v Speaker 3>personally imagine it, like they pulled them out like with clyires,

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<v Speaker 3>like in the you know, like the scary movies where

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<v Speaker 3>they're torturing people like they and at least cats apparently

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<v Speaker 3>with like long term psychological issues. Here we go, so

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<v Speaker 3>like if your cat goes stray, like they can't defend themselves,

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<v Speaker 3>they're just kind of screwed. But it's it's literally only

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<v Speaker 3>so they don't scratch up your furniture.

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<v Speaker 2>The Humane Society says Decloine can cause paw pain, back pain, infection,

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<v Speaker 2>and lameness. That's weird. That just says lameness. Removing clause

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<v Speaker 2>improperly removed claw Apparently improperly removed clause can regrow.

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<v Speaker 5>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what that means. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>that what that means exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Though, but maybe they didn't like take the whole thing out.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, either way, you know, I'm glad. I'm glad

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<v Speaker 2>as human beings. That you know, we don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>worry about getting new it or.

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<v Speaker 3>Declaud Yeah, at least not day age.

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<v Speaker 1>At least not in this day and age.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, in a fucking we we're we're That's

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<v Speaker 2>a that's a privilege we have as people in America,

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<v Speaker 2>is that we don't have to get you know, declaude our.

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<v Speaker 3>God given right as Americans.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let's see, we talked for about fifteen minutes about

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<v Speaker 2>your cat. I want to before we go, is there

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<v Speaker 2>anything else that you wanted to talk about? I know

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<v Speaker 2>that we kind of just talked about. I wasn't expecting

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to you about, uh, dog neutering, but you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad we did. Is there anything else that you

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to kind of talk about? I wanted to give

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<v Speaker 2>you the opportunity for that if something was floating around

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<v Speaker 2>in your brain.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, thank you. I don't have anything particularly like like

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<v Speaker 3>weigh on me right now that I need to talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>I figured out if you have any questions for like

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<v Speaker 3>an EMTIERR ski patroller, I can answer.

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<v Speaker 5>Those if you ever have.

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<v Speaker 2>You're you're a ski patroller. Yeah, have you seen a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of like fucked up things?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Not too much. I've seen more fucked up things

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<v Speaker 3>as an EMT, not as much as a ski patroller,

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<v Speaker 3>but I have. I've been doing this is actually I

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<v Speaker 3>just finished my seventh year. I just volunteer. I do

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<v Speaker 3>twenty Yoah wait.

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<v Speaker 1>You finished it? How old can I ask you? Can

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<v Speaker 1>I ask you how old you are?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>That's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm turning twenty three in May. But I started when

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<v Speaker 3>I was sixteen. You can actually start when you're fifteen

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<v Speaker 3>as a ski patroller, but you're not allowed to have

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<v Speaker 3>patience on your own till you're sixteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude, you're telling me I could be fuck you're telling

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<v Speaker 2>me I could get fucking decapitated and they would send

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<v Speaker 2>a sixteen year old.

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<v Speaker 3>I swear to god. I had a guy. I had

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<v Speaker 3>literally I was literally like seventeen, and I had a

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<v Speaker 3>sixteen year old who is like unconsciousness of the head injury,

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<v Speaker 3>and like it's like, y'all trust me with this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Holy shit.

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<v Speaker 3>The protocols for like ems aren't like too hard, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like to become an EMT. It's like really like it's

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<v Speaker 3>like a three month full time class.

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<v Speaker 2>So wait, so there was so there was a sixteen

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<v Speaker 2>year old kid with like head trauma and you were

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<v Speaker 2>seventeen and they sent you Yes, holy shit, So did

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<v Speaker 2>they just send you like you are alone?

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<v Speaker 3>I was the first one there and then I called,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I mean, so what the way it goes

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<v Speaker 3>at my mountain all least is they send one person

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<v Speaker 3>to check and see like what we need and to

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<v Speaker 3>like keep the person stable or do CPR whatever you

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<v Speaker 3>need at that moment, and then they call on the

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<v Speaker 3>radio for some more people or just one other. You

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<v Speaker 3>most calls you only need two people because you need

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<v Speaker 3>two people on the sled most of the time. But

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<v Speaker 3>I of course called for way more people.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude, if I were sixteen and they sent me to

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<v Speaker 2>like if I were if I were sixteen and they

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<v Speaker 2>sent me to like talk to like a kid who

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<v Speaker 2>had head trauma, I would be like, we need an adult.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know. It was. It was really interesting,

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<v Speaker 3>but it was I think the cop like being trusted

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<v Speaker 3>with that and like training for that at such a

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<v Speaker 3>young age like instilled me with a lot of confidence

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<v Speaker 3>that I've like carried on to have today. And it's

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<v Speaker 3>one of the best things I've ever done for myself.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it. There's people who like started doing it

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<v Speaker 3>when they were like sixteen eighteen. We have one guy

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<v Speaker 3>on our team who's like eighty five, and he's like

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<v Speaker 3>not seeing anymore, but he's still like helping run the clinic.

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<v Speaker 3>It's insane. People just do it forever.

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<v Speaker 5>I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's weird being trusted with that at a young age.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that would be I would be.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd probably have a fucking heart attack and they'd have

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<v Speaker 2>to send three other folks.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody in the chad.

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<v Speaker 2>Said, would you rather the seventeen year old comedy the

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<v Speaker 2>eighty five year old? I'd probably rather the eighty five

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<v Speaker 2>year old.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. It depends on which eighty five year old. Like,

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<v Speaker 3>we have some of these guys on our team who

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<v Speaker 3>are older, like I would trust with like delivering my child,

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<v Speaker 3>and they are not even like doctors or anything. I

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<v Speaker 3>would just let them because I'm like, I trust you.

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<v Speaker 3>It just depends on the person. I guess, yes. But

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<v Speaker 3>like here's the thing, like there's a medical care and

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<v Speaker 3>then they're getting down the mountain in this led which

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<v Speaker 3>quad do you trust more?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess that's if if we're talking about like physically

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<v Speaker 2>needing to trans for transfer you down a place or

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<v Speaker 2>up a place. You know that that would make sense. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>why tell me why has it been such a great

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<v Speaker 2>experience for you? It's like I guess you said it

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<v Speaker 2>gave you. It gave you the confidence to like deal

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<v Speaker 2>with crazy shit.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, and I've met some amazing people. It helped me.

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<v Speaker 3>It helps me a lot through nursing school having that background,

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<v Speaker 3>and I just accepted my first nursing job. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be in a pediatric ic you, and I'm kind of like, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, just I'm kind of like, all right, well,

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<v Speaker 3>if I could do that as a sixteen year old,

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<v Speaker 3>I could figure anything else out.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, You're gonna be in a pediatric ice you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Are you residency though?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you? I?

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<v Speaker 1>I I hmmm? Are you do you?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you gonna see some like really kind of fucked

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<v Speaker 2>up shit?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I mean like you are. I kind of like

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<v Speaker 3>just already kind of have in my career and like

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<v Speaker 3>my perspective on it is like, are like, like fucked

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<v Speaker 3>up shit happens regardless of all the time. I can't

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<v Speaker 3>watch one orders for you. That shit makes me cry,

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<v Speaker 3>But like being able to help in those moments, like

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<v Speaker 3>just it doesn't bother me as much because I'm able

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<v Speaker 3>to be in control of the situation and do something

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<v Speaker 3>about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Mmm.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I so so so you can't watch law and Orders

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<v Speaker 2>for you because it's like even though it's fake, you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just a passive observer of these these horrors, but

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<v Speaker 2>at least you know in the ICU, You're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>this is really fucked up, but I can do something

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<v Speaker 2>about it, exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like I can't stand and watch a code. I

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<v Speaker 3>have to be doing something or like tears will fall

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<v Speaker 3>down my face like it's already happened, Like I can't.

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<v Speaker 3>When I was a nursing student, like and I had

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<v Speaker 3>to watch a code once, I was like I can't

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<v Speaker 3>watch this, Like I started crying. But like if I've

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<v Speaker 3>run codes by myself, you know, since I was eighteen,

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<v Speaker 3>and like it's been fine.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what is what is code?

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<v Speaker 3>A code on the ambulance, it usually means like CPR

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<v Speaker 3>in progress because I did ski patrol an ambulance while

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<v Speaker 3>I was in nursing school. But in the hospital it

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<v Speaker 3>could be like a stroke code. It could be you know,

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<v Speaker 3>just like it depends kind of like where you are,

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<v Speaker 3>Like what terminology. It could be that someone's like bleeding

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<v Speaker 3>out and about to you know, like go into cardiac arrest,

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<v Speaker 3>but code usually means cardiac arrest in my experience so

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<v Speaker 3>far at least.

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<v Speaker 2>Hmm. Okay, well, you know I like this perspective because, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you're very brave to do that, because, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's true, fucked up shit happens. And I've

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<v Speaker 2>all I've always thought about, like, you know, the people

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<v Speaker 2>who like show up at the scenes of like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>crazy crazy things, and like how that must affect them.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>But the way that you the way that you talk

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<v Speaker 2>about it, where you're like, I'm not as scared of

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<v Speaker 2>it because I know what to do and I can

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<v Speaker 2>actually like go in and help as opposed to just

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<v Speaker 2>being a like like you were talking about, kind of

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<v Speaker 2>a passive observer of of of these uh these codes.

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad that folks like you exist so that, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>when I get a paper cut someone someone's brave enough

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<v Speaker 2>to help me out and not you know, too grossed out.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you man. Yeah, I don't know. It's also just exciting.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, like a lot of people who do it,

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<v Speaker 3>just enjoy it a lot. It's interesting, it's fun. A

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<v Speaker 3>lot of people like the pride that comes out of it,

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<v Speaker 3>and I do too. But yeah, it's nice being able

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<v Speaker 3>to do something you just have to study outside of

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<v Speaker 3>work a lot and lean on your training.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this was a pleasure talking to you about dog

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<v Speaker 2>penises and being an EMT. What is your what is

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<v Speaker 2>your name.

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<v Speaker 3>Against It's Michaela my real name today.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I was going you could have given me a

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<v Speaker 2>fake now. I mean, if you don't want to use

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<v Speaker 2>your name, I can, I can cut it out.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, also, there's no one.

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<v Speaker 3>Heard this the combination of the nineteen year old cat

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<v Speaker 3>and the ski patroller and nursing. They'd be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>that's Michaela. So it's fine. I'm coming to your show

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<v Speaker 3>in New York.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll see, that'll be That'll be awesome, great, great, great,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited. See. Okay, So I'm gonna I'm gonna say

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<v Speaker 2>this and I'm going to try to hold myself to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh and I funk.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I talked about this in a podcast, storry,

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<v Speaker 2>but whatever. People. As I've been on the tour, people

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<v Speaker 2>have been coming up to me and being like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we talked on the phone before. Do you remember me?

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<v Speaker 2>And actually half the time I do. Like I met

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<v Speaker 2>I met the girl who drank somebody's blood. I met

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<v Speaker 2>the guy whose sister was addicted to VR video games.

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<v Speaker 2>I met this dude who he and I both licked

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<v Speaker 2>an Xbox controller over the phone together. Like I've been,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been meeting folks and half the time I don't remember,

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<v Speaker 2>but half the time I do. So if you if

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, hey, we talked about neutering dogs and being

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<v Speaker 2>an EMT, I am pretty sure I'll remember. So if

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<v Speaker 2>jog say that this was you, I won't remember your name,

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<v Speaker 2>but I will remember what we talked about.

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<v Speaker 3>That is totally fine. I am thrilled. I'm excited. Thank

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<v Speaker 3>you so much for giving me the time and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm oh, thank you mana, thank you for saving

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<v Speaker 2>all the skeeech all the children. Thank you for saving

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<v Speaker 2>the mountain children are our future.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, thank you. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>You Bye bye.

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<v Speaker 4>God.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanna I would love a Save the Mountain Children

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<v Speaker 2>T shirt?

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<v Speaker 1>How do I get one of those?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Adrian, how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Man?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good?

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<v Speaker 3>How are you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing all right. What's uh? What's what's your life like?

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<v Speaker 4>Is this the geg?

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<v Speaker 1>This is the GEK?

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<v Speaker 4>That's so crazy?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>My life's fine right now. It's been a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>ups and downs. I'm a little neighvous.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>What tell me about the ups and downs if you

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<v Speaker 2>want to?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I might get emotional. I okay, I got broken

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<v Speaker 4>up with like on Monday.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>What's what was the cause of this breakup?

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<v Speaker 4>I honestly don't know. She just said, uh, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think we should be together, and I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm hmm m.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. How long were you dating her?

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<v Speaker 2>For?

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<v Speaker 4>Like five months?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 7>What?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well you said there were ups. What were the ups?

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<v Speaker 4>So, like, right before that, I had gone to a

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<v Speaker 4>breakup and well I hadn't met her, so that was

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<v Speaker 4>the up.

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<v Speaker 3>Hmm.

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<v Speaker 4>You're not. I've just been trying to grow more responsibly

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<v Speaker 4>as an adult.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I feel that. I think I think we're all

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<v Speaker 2>kind of trying to do that. How are you? How

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<v Speaker 2>old are you?

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't want me.

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<v Speaker 4>Asking, I'm twenty eight.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So you said you're trying to grow more responsibly as

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<v Speaker 2>an adult as an adult? What and what way are

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<v Speaker 2>you trying to do that?

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<v Speaker 4>I guess just not victimize myself and not rely on

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<v Speaker 4>anybody for anything, and uh, show up to work when

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<v Speaker 4>I need to. That's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm. Well why do you feel like you're you're

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<v Speaker 2>not showing up to work when you need to?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I don't because I don't have a car right now.

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<v Speaker 4>So I like I was showing up like an hour

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<v Speaker 4>late to work like every day for like a few months,

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<v Speaker 4>and uh now I'm just taking the bus mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 4>And I guess around time, Okay, what do you do?

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<v Speaker 4>I kind of do like, ah, like would work?

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<v Speaker 3>You do?

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<v Speaker 2>Would work?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>What?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of wood are we talking about?

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<v Speaker 4>It's like all kinds of was we just make? Like

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<v Speaker 4>luxury doors.

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<v Speaker 1>You make? You make?

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<v Speaker 2>Who's out here buying luxury doors?

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I don't know people in San Francisco a lot,

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<v Speaker 4>but it's like from everywhere, all customers crazy. They're expensive.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that something you would ever buy a luxury door?

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like if I have, if I have the

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<v Speaker 2>extra money to apply luxury to an item in my life,

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<v Speaker 2>I would pick something other than a door.

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<v Speaker 4>They're pretty cool doors they open like accordions. It's it's

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<v Speaker 4>kind of nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So what are the what are the ups aside

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<v Speaker 2>from just meeting her?

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<v Speaker 4>Besides meeting her? Well, I got over my my ex

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<v Speaker 4>before that, and that I didn't think I'll ever do.

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<v Speaker 2>That was was it was, was meeting her kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like a big catalyst for getting over your X beforehand.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, honestly, I didn't really notice how much it was

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<v Speaker 4>until honestly, kind of resa, so she broke up?

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<v Speaker 2>Why did Why did you feel like you would never

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<v Speaker 2>get over your ex?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I don't know. I think I loved her a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>It was probably just like the most serious relationship I've

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<v Speaker 4>ever been in.

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<v Speaker 2>M hm.

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<v Speaker 4>We just spent like almost every day together.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you guys break up?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? So I chew, dude, I chew you.

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<v Speaker 2>That mm hmm m hmm. What what was it that

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<v Speaker 2>made you cheat? Or you know, what was kind of

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<v Speaker 2>going through your mind? Uh when you were doing that?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh all right, it's like a long story. So like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, I was just like honestly a piece

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<v Speaker 4>of shit at first, Like I just didn't care at

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<v Speaker 4>all about like about the relationship, and then I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>so like I had cheated on her at some point

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<v Speaker 4>and then I told her, and then we broke up.

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<v Speaker 4>We took a break, and in that break, she she

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<v Speaker 4>met some other people and hooked up. I guess. So

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<v Speaker 4>we got back together, and uh, like we like we

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<v Speaker 4>hooked up the day we got back together, and then

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<v Speaker 4>the next day.

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<v Speaker 8>She told me she hooked up with other people, and

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<v Speaker 8>so we had like a big fight, but we got

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<v Speaker 8>back together, and so like I was just mad for

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<v Speaker 8>like like a solid.

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<v Speaker 4>A year and a half about it. Like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>I guess I just wanted to cheat on his back.

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<v Speaker 2>And so wait, So so you cheated on her first,

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<v Speaker 2>or she you guys took a break. Okay, all right,

0:30:57.120 --> 0:30:59.080
<v Speaker 2>So you cheated on her first, and then you guys

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<v Speaker 2>took a break, and then she hooked up with other

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<v Speaker 2>people during the break and that made you upset, and

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<v Speaker 2>so you wanted to kind of hook up with other

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<v Speaker 2>people again. Yeah, basically okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So and how long ago was all this?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh man? It was like the beginning of last year.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And in your like lamenting you said, you said that

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<v Speaker 2>this was kind of a thing you thought you would

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<v Speaker 2>never get over. And in the in the dwelling of it. Ah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, what were you Did you come to any

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<v Speaker 2>like realizations, Did you come to any thoughts or feelings

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<v Speaker 2>in a in a in a retrospective about that situation?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, definitely. Well I just feel like I should

0:31:56.720 --> 0:31:59.480
<v Speaker 4>have Well, I was just thinking wrong the whole time,

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<v Speaker 4>the beginning part of the relationship, and I just wish

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<v Speaker 4>I knew the things I know now basically.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmmm mm hmm. What tell me what you know now?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I guess if someone's putting that much time,

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<v Speaker 4>then they really do love you, And I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>they want to ruin that on purpose m hm hm,

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<v Speaker 4>just to show more affection and care because I was

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<v Speaker 4>really I was kind of mean all the main boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, Hm, why why do you feel like you

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<v Speaker 2>were mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? I have like this thing. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 4>just don't like to be touched a lot, and like

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<v Speaker 4>I want to let my ex touch me a lot,

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<v Speaker 4>like when we cuddle, Like hell yeah, you know, like

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<v Speaker 4>I don't I would be smoking she started touching Me'd

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<v Speaker 4>be like I want to be touched right now. M

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<v Speaker 4>h stuff like that, like the little things you know,

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<v Speaker 4>next saying like you were should like up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right?

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<v Speaker 2>So this ended and then you kind of had this

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<v Speaker 2>realization that I don't know, you had like a kind

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<v Speaker 2>of re organization of your character. And then you decided

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<v Speaker 2>how long ago did you How long was it between

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<v Speaker 2>the end of that one and the beginning of a

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<v Speaker 2>new one, the one that you the real you just

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<v Speaker 2>broke up with?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 4>So we and my first X we stopped talking in

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<v Speaker 4>September before her birthday because I had asked her because

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<v Speaker 4>like we're still talking for like months after we broke up,

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<v Speaker 4>like probably like nine months I think, and then we're

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<v Speaker 4>just talking like I I've probably seen her like like

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<v Speaker 4>a big handful of times. And then towards the end,

0:34:09.920 --> 0:34:12.080
<v Speaker 4>like we weren't really seeing each other at all, but

0:34:12.239 --> 0:34:16.439
<v Speaker 4>just texting like every day. Yeah, and then at the end,

0:34:16.520 --> 0:34:19.000
<v Speaker 4>like she was literally texting me that much. And asked

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:21.960
<v Speaker 4>her if she still wanted to keep talking to me

0:34:22.040 --> 0:34:23.960
<v Speaker 4>or she wanted to keep trying to fix this, and

0:34:24.680 --> 0:34:27.399
<v Speaker 4>she just told me that she had hooked up with people, and.

0:34:28.800 --> 0:34:29.200
<v Speaker 3>I just.

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<v Speaker 4>I just stopped completely replying to everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, so she so she told you she was hooking up?

0:34:36.440 --> 0:34:38.279
<v Speaker 1>So was she cheating on you?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we weren't really together.

0:34:42.080 --> 0:34:47.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, so you were taught you were You said

0:34:47.200 --> 0:34:49.600
<v Speaker 2>you were with this most recent girl for five months though,

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<v Speaker 2>so you weren't really together with her.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm confused the story.

0:34:56.640 --> 0:34:59.399
<v Speaker 2>I'm a little confused too. Uh maybe I wasn't listening

0:34:59.480 --> 0:35:05.320
<v Speaker 2>hard enough, but hm hmmm mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, So me and my first girlfriend we broke

0:35:08.360 --> 0:35:12.600
<v Speaker 4>up and we're talking for like a solid ninety months,

0:35:12.640 --> 0:35:15.520
<v Speaker 4>and then she told me that she hooked other people,

0:35:17.160 --> 0:35:20.160
<v Speaker 4>and so I just pretty much ghosted her after that,

0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:24.000
<v Speaker 4>and uh I pretty much met my new girlfriend like

0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:25.919
<v Speaker 4>a few days later.

0:35:26.760 --> 0:35:30.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah see yeah, yeah, So so after you kind of

0:35:31.040 --> 0:35:37.120
<v Speaker 2>had this like so, you know, you had this uh

0:35:37.640 --> 0:35:43.319
<v Speaker 2>relationship with this uh first girl that you don't look

0:35:43.320 --> 0:35:48.160
<v Speaker 2>back on too fondly. But then instead of like taking

0:35:48.160 --> 0:35:50.239
<v Speaker 2>at least a little bit of time to process that,

0:35:50.320 --> 0:35:53.240
<v Speaker 2>you went straight into a new relationship.

0:35:54.280 --> 0:35:54.960
<v Speaker 4>Yeah I did.

0:35:55.840 --> 0:35:57.040
<v Speaker 2>Why do you well, why do you feel like you

0:35:57.040 --> 0:35:57.279
<v Speaker 2>did that?

0:35:58.640 --> 0:35:58.920
<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, because I was like lonely for those yeah yeah,

0:36:03.360 --> 0:36:08.720
<v Speaker 4>and well I just wasn't hanging out with anybody for thoseess,

0:36:08.760 --> 0:36:10.520
<v Speaker 4>I was just talking to my ex and.

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to do you do you have friends?

0:36:15.760 --> 0:36:18.799
<v Speaker 4>No, honestly, like I do, but like I see my

0:36:18.840 --> 0:36:19.640
<v Speaker 4>friends rarely.

0:36:21.640 --> 0:36:25.799
<v Speaker 2>Mm hm hm hm.

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<v Speaker 6>M hmmm.

0:36:31.640 --> 0:36:35.400
<v Speaker 2>Well look, I mean I have a few thoughts, you know.

0:36:36.360 --> 0:36:39.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know, look, man, I feel like you

0:36:40.080 --> 0:36:42.239
<v Speaker 2>might benefit from a little bit of time just to

0:36:42.280 --> 0:36:48.920
<v Speaker 2>yourself too, like, uh, you know, work on yourself and

0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:53.880
<v Speaker 2>work on uh this loneliness because I found that, like,

0:36:55.360 --> 0:37:00.239
<v Speaker 2>you know, if you if you're unhappy and lonely when

0:37:00.280 --> 0:37:04.120
<v Speaker 2>you don't have a relationship, a relationship is not really

0:37:04.160 --> 0:37:06.040
<v Speaker 2>gonna fix that. You know, those are kind of like,

0:37:06.880 --> 0:37:09.200
<v Speaker 2>at least in my experience, you know, I've had lots

0:37:09.200 --> 0:37:13.960
<v Speaker 2>of times like that where I was, I was really lonely,

0:37:14.040 --> 0:37:19.120
<v Speaker 2>and you know, sort of felt like a relationship was

0:37:19.160 --> 0:37:22.200
<v Speaker 2>the thing that was gonna, you know, make make my.

0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:23.120
<v Speaker 1>Life so much better.

0:37:24.320 --> 0:37:28.600
<v Speaker 2>And I think the pursuit of that and the obsession

0:37:28.640 --> 0:37:35.520
<v Speaker 2>over that, you know, it didn't do me any favors.

0:37:35.600 --> 0:37:41.520
<v Speaker 2>And I feel like if if you were to redirect

0:37:42.400 --> 0:37:47.200
<v Speaker 2>the the energy that you're spending really you know, trying

0:37:47.239 --> 0:37:50.600
<v Speaker 2>so hard to not be alone, to like go into

0:37:50.640 --> 0:37:54.440
<v Speaker 2>your own brain and figure out why you're doing whatever

0:37:54.480 --> 0:37:57.879
<v Speaker 2>it is you're doing, and uh, you know, figure out

0:37:57.920 --> 0:38:01.120
<v Speaker 2>more about you as a person alone attached to anyone,

0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:04.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, and however long that takes man, whether it's

0:38:05.480 --> 0:38:09.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, uh one year or five years or whatever.

0:38:11.680 --> 0:38:15.279
<v Speaker 2>You know, I think I think you'll come back, uh,

0:38:16.800 --> 0:38:20.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, a different person, a little bit better equipped

0:38:21.400 --> 0:38:26.160
<v Speaker 2>to to be in a relationship and you know, uh

0:38:26.440 --> 0:38:32.560
<v Speaker 2>not kind of be in this relationship because it's because

0:38:32.560 --> 0:38:37.799
<v Speaker 2>it's it's it's externally satisfying. You're trying to satisfy some

0:38:38.200 --> 0:38:41.520
<v Speaker 2>internal desire with something external. You know.

0:38:42.400 --> 0:38:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that makes.

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<v Speaker 4>Sense, it does. I've been thinking about that a lot.

0:38:46.920 --> 0:38:49.600
<v Speaker 2>Later, Okay, so you can think what tell me what

0:38:49.640 --> 0:38:51.520
<v Speaker 2>you tell me? What conclusion you've come to about that?

0:38:52.719 --> 0:38:54.480
<v Speaker 4>About about what exactly?

0:38:54.560 --> 0:38:56.920
<v Speaker 2>Sorry, well you said you've been thinking about it a lot.

0:38:56.960 --> 0:38:59.120
<v Speaker 2>What do you What conclusions have you come to or

0:38:59.200 --> 0:39:00.000
<v Speaker 2>thoughts have you been having?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I just want to find out kind of

0:39:05.920 --> 0:39:07.960
<v Speaker 4>who I am. Again, I haven't been single for like

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<v Speaker 4>five years maybe or more.

0:39:12.400 --> 0:39:13.920
<v Speaker 2>You haven't been single for five years?

0:39:14.480 --> 0:39:19.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess I don't even remember

0:39:19.320 --> 0:39:21.840
<v Speaker 4>the stuff I could do. I like to the guitar

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<v Speaker 4>a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>M hm, what's your name again?

0:39:28.560 --> 0:39:28.960
<v Speaker 4>Adrian?

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<v Speaker 2>Adrian? Well, Adrian, listen, fucking take care of yourself, man,

0:39:35.520 --> 0:39:41.320
<v Speaker 2>do if you haven't been single for five years, I

0:39:41.360 --> 0:39:44.759
<v Speaker 2>feel like you have uh uh some some interest, some

0:39:45.440 --> 0:39:49.080
<v Speaker 2>an interesting opportunity to dive into your own brain and

0:39:49.120 --> 0:39:50.600
<v Speaker 2>maybe you'll emerge a little bit better.

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:52.760
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:39:52.880 --> 0:39:54.279
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else you want to say to the

0:39:54.280 --> 0:39:55.319
<v Speaker 1>people of the computer.

0:39:55.040 --> 0:39:55.520
<v Speaker 2>Before we go?

0:39:57.280 --> 0:39:59.399
<v Speaker 4>Uh? I love each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you very much for calling Adrian?

0:40:04.080 --> 0:40:05.440
<v Speaker 4>All right? Thanks le bye?

0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:07.200
<v Speaker 2>Take care man, take care.

0:40:11.040 --> 0:40:11.480
<v Speaker 4>Hello.

0:40:11.760 --> 0:40:13.120
<v Speaker 5>This is Ty. How are you doing?

0:40:13.680 --> 0:40:14.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm doing good, Tai?

0:40:14.680 --> 0:40:15.160
<v Speaker 1>What's up?

0:40:15.200 --> 0:40:16.080
<v Speaker 2>Man? How you doing?

0:40:17.719 --> 0:40:20.440
<v Speaker 5>You know what's going? This is actually the first time

0:40:20.480 --> 0:40:23.239
<v Speaker 5>I've gotten on here, and I've been calling for a

0:40:23.280 --> 0:40:25.520
<v Speaker 5>while and listening for a better part of a here.

0:40:26.239 --> 0:40:31.440
<v Speaker 2>Oh really, well, thanks man, I appreciate that here we

0:40:31.480 --> 0:40:39.160
<v Speaker 2>are here, we are Yeah, man, Ty, I like that name.

0:40:39.200 --> 0:40:42.000
<v Speaker 2>That's a cool name. How do you spell it? Uh?

0:40:42.120 --> 0:40:45.480
<v Speaker 5>T a I the Chinese way? But my parents are

0:40:45.840 --> 0:40:47.239
<v Speaker 5>very white and so am I?

0:40:49.560 --> 0:40:49.840
<v Speaker 2>Well?

0:40:49.960 --> 0:40:50.240
<v Speaker 1>Tie?

0:40:51.280 --> 0:40:53.359
<v Speaker 2>I mean is there? I'll start with this. It's okay.

0:40:53.400 --> 0:40:55.800
<v Speaker 2>If not. Is there anything in particular that you called

0:40:55.800 --> 0:40:57.759
<v Speaker 2>in to want to talk about today?

0:40:58.320 --> 0:40:59.040
<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Not really, man, I just wanted to get in a

0:41:03.320 --> 0:41:06.000
<v Speaker 5>chat with you and just talk about whatever. I don't

0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:09.560
<v Speaker 5>know if there's a specific prompt this time around. But

0:41:11.200 --> 0:41:14.320
<v Speaker 5>you know, I was actually the one who commented about

0:41:14.600 --> 0:41:17.160
<v Speaker 5>Sonic Heroes in the chat earlier.

0:41:17.760 --> 0:41:20.359
<v Speaker 2>Oh you commented about Yes, somebody commented have I ever

0:41:20.400 --> 0:41:23.839
<v Speaker 2>played Sonic Heroes? And I replied by saying that I have.

0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:25.360
<v Speaker 2>It's a great game. Have you played it?

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<v Speaker 5>You know? I did growing up on the old school

0:41:29.440 --> 0:41:31.520
<v Speaker 5>Xbox that played a lot of that, in the old

0:41:31.600 --> 0:41:33.840
<v Speaker 5>Star Wars nice, the Old Republic game. I don't know

0:41:33.880 --> 0:41:35.040
<v Speaker 5>if you ever dabbled.

0:41:35.760 --> 0:41:38.919
<v Speaker 2>I'm familiar with it, but I've never really dabbled in it.

0:41:39.120 --> 0:41:39.600
<v Speaker 5>Pretty good.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember when I so Sonic Heroes is about, Uh,

0:41:44.719 --> 0:41:48.360
<v Speaker 2>it's you play as teams of three of the Sonic characters,

0:41:48.400 --> 0:41:52.480
<v Speaker 2>and each each team is comprised of a speed character,

0:41:53.280 --> 0:41:58.359
<v Speaker 2>a power character, and a flying character. And when I

0:41:58.440 --> 0:42:00.160
<v Speaker 2>was a kid and I was playing that game, I

0:42:00.160 --> 0:42:04.160
<v Speaker 2>would imagine, like if my friends and I were were

0:42:04.200 --> 0:42:08.400
<v Speaker 2>in the Sonic Heroes game, and what roles we would play.

0:42:09.280 --> 0:42:11.080
<v Speaker 2>I was always a bigger kid, so I was the

0:42:11.120 --> 0:42:12.840
<v Speaker 2>power even though I wasn't strong.

0:42:12.880 --> 0:42:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I was just kind of fat.

0:42:15.120 --> 0:42:16.960
<v Speaker 2>And then I'd have a friend who was fast, he'd

0:42:17.000 --> 0:42:20.760
<v Speaker 2>be the speed guy. And then I guess that we'd

0:42:20.760 --> 0:42:24.239
<v Speaker 2>pick some kid to be the fly guy, even though

0:42:24.280 --> 0:42:26.960
<v Speaker 2>it didn't make sense because he couldn't fly. He tried,

0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:30.879
<v Speaker 2>but it didn't work because it's it's all, it's all imaginary.

0:42:30.960 --> 0:42:33.880
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I like that game. I haven't play. I

0:42:33.880 --> 0:42:36.520
<v Speaker 2>haven't played really any of the Sonic games since.

0:42:38.480 --> 0:42:40.440
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, neither have I, man, And to be honest, I

0:42:40.480 --> 0:42:42.600
<v Speaker 5>was never a huge fan of Sonic. But I was

0:42:42.600 --> 0:42:45.240
<v Speaker 5>just thinking about, like, you know, childhood games and stuff

0:42:45.280 --> 0:42:47.640
<v Speaker 5>that I used to play, and you were talking about

0:42:47.719 --> 0:42:52.920
<v Speaker 5>Nintendo earlier and between that, I played a lot of

0:42:52.960 --> 0:42:55.200
<v Speaker 5>the Lego Star Wars games too, Man, I don't know

0:42:55.239 --> 0:42:58.879
<v Speaker 5>if you played like Bog two trilogies or whatever. Those

0:42:58.920 --> 0:43:03.360
<v Speaker 5>were sut of fun. Other than that, though, Man, I

0:43:03.400 --> 0:43:06.960
<v Speaker 5>guess I do actually have something that just came out.

0:43:07.040 --> 0:43:10.560
<v Speaker 5>My best friend is moving across the country next month,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm really bummed out about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, where are they moving to?

0:43:17.280 --> 0:43:18.800
<v Speaker 5>He's moving to Miami.

0:43:19.440 --> 0:43:21.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay, and where are you at?

0:43:21.760 --> 0:43:22.600
<v Speaker 5>I'm in Wisconsin.

0:43:24.520 --> 0:43:25.320
<v Speaker 1>What are they moving for?

0:43:27.040 --> 0:43:29.520
<v Speaker 5>Oh? So he just got a job for a really

0:43:29.560 --> 0:43:33.879
<v Speaker 5>good tech company. He graduated with a computer or he's

0:43:33.880 --> 0:43:38.319
<v Speaker 5>going to graduate a computer science degree this spring and yeah,

0:43:38.400 --> 0:43:41.160
<v Speaker 5>he's really well set up and everything, and it just

0:43:41.239 --> 0:43:44.040
<v Speaker 5>kind of sucks, you know, because we just got super

0:43:44.040 --> 0:43:46.399
<v Speaker 5>close and we listened to a lot of the same

0:43:46.480 --> 0:43:48.640
<v Speaker 5>music and everything, and I don't know, he's just like

0:43:49.760 --> 0:43:51.799
<v Speaker 5>the biggest part of my support network, i'd say, and

0:43:51.840 --> 0:43:53.360
<v Speaker 5>it's just kind of that sum go.

0:43:56.280 --> 0:43:58.680
<v Speaker 1>Hmm, yeah, tell me about the rest of your support network.

0:44:00.400 --> 0:44:06.040
<v Speaker 5>Well, that's actually another funny story because my parents, who

0:44:06.719 --> 0:44:08.719
<v Speaker 5>I tend to talk to you quite a bit for

0:44:08.880 --> 0:44:11.960
<v Speaker 5>like life advice and stuff, are actually moving out of

0:44:12.000 --> 0:44:16.799
<v Speaker 5>the country in May as well. So yeah, they're going

0:44:17.400 --> 0:44:20.080
<v Speaker 5>and then uh yeah, I don't know. I'm just trying

0:44:20.080 --> 0:44:22.120
<v Speaker 5>to I think the best thing for me to do

0:44:22.200 --> 0:44:25.839
<v Speaker 5>right now is just making friends and try to kind

0:44:25.840 --> 0:44:29.600
<v Speaker 5>of build up a support network that way. But it

0:44:29.760 --> 0:44:31.440
<v Speaker 5>just kind of sucks because, you know, it was like

0:44:31.480 --> 0:44:33.200
<v Speaker 5>the last four years of my life, I've spent with

0:44:33.800 --> 0:44:35.440
<v Speaker 5>a lot of these people, and now we're all kind

0:44:35.440 --> 0:44:36.879
<v Speaker 5>of going our separate ways.

0:44:37.360 --> 0:44:42.040
<v Speaker 2>Huh yeah, hmmm. I feel like, yeah, I feel like

0:44:42.080 --> 0:44:44.960
<v Speaker 2>that is a good opportunity to make new friends. Trying

0:44:44.960 --> 0:44:49.160
<v Speaker 2>to think what else that's good. That's good about your

0:44:49.239 --> 0:44:52.360
<v Speaker 2>parents though, because like I get it when your parents

0:44:52.440 --> 0:44:54.680
<v Speaker 2>are a big party of support system, and you don't

0:44:54.719 --> 0:44:57.319
<v Speaker 2>want them to leave. But there's also a part of

0:44:57.320 --> 0:44:59.399
<v Speaker 2>you that I think should be really happy for them

0:44:59.400 --> 0:45:01.080
<v Speaker 2>that they're like do and shit, you know what I'm saying.

0:45:01.080 --> 0:45:04.720
<v Speaker 2>Like lots of people's parents just stay. Lots of people's

0:45:04.719 --> 0:45:07.680
<v Speaker 2>parents have kids and then don't ever do anything else

0:45:07.760 --> 0:45:10.239
<v Speaker 2>again with their lives. So just a lot of them,

0:45:10.320 --> 0:45:12.400
<v Speaker 2>you know, do it on purpose because they like it

0:45:12.400 --> 0:45:14.600
<v Speaker 2>that way. But I feel like there's room for you

0:45:14.640 --> 0:45:16.600
<v Speaker 2>to be uh, you know, I guess happy for your

0:45:16.640 --> 0:45:19.440
<v Speaker 2>parents that they're like trying to do shit with their lives.

0:45:19.520 --> 0:45:22.040
<v Speaker 2>You know, like if my mom, if my mom told

0:45:22.120 --> 0:45:24.560
<v Speaker 2>me that she was moving out of my hometown to go,

0:45:24.800 --> 0:45:29.960
<v Speaker 2>uh you know, live in in in Taiwan for the

0:45:30.000 --> 0:45:34.040
<v Speaker 2>rest of her life, and you know, I ple plea

0:45:34.280 --> 0:45:37.480
<v Speaker 2>you know, pledge allegiance to some god that she discovered,

0:45:37.520 --> 0:45:39.120
<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, all right, well that's a bummer. I'm

0:45:39.120 --> 0:45:41.720
<v Speaker 2>not gonna be able to see as often. But do you

0:45:41.719 --> 0:45:43.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, we're only alive for like two seconds. Might

0:45:44.000 --> 0:45:46.919
<v Speaker 2>as well be happy that the people we care about

0:45:46.920 --> 0:45:49.040
<v Speaker 2>are doing good things with their lives.

0:45:49.640 --> 0:45:53.239
<v Speaker 5>All right, No, absolutely, I'm really excited for them because

0:45:53.239 --> 0:45:56.399
<v Speaker 5>they're actually moving to an island in the Caribbean out

0:45:56.400 --> 0:45:59.840
<v Speaker 5>of all places. I know it's insane, but I think

0:46:00.280 --> 0:46:02.160
<v Speaker 5>the thing that I'm most worried about isn't even for

0:46:02.239 --> 0:46:05.600
<v Speaker 5>myself necessarily as far as like losing them, but for

0:46:05.680 --> 0:46:09.719
<v Speaker 5>my younger sister, because she's still like just kind of

0:46:09.719 --> 0:46:12.520
<v Speaker 5>starting college. She's about to finish her freshman year, and

0:46:12.560 --> 0:46:15.080
<v Speaker 5>I'll be like the closest relative to her, So if

0:46:15.120 --> 0:46:17.400
<v Speaker 5>something were to happen to her, you know, I'd be

0:46:17.520 --> 0:46:20.759
<v Speaker 5>like most responsible, which is insane to me because like,

0:46:21.239 --> 0:46:22.200
<v Speaker 5>I'm only twenty two.

0:46:22.600 --> 0:46:24.840
<v Speaker 2>So what are you afraid is going to happen to

0:46:24.840 --> 0:46:25.320
<v Speaker 2>your sister?

0:46:25.400 --> 0:46:30.560
<v Speaker 5>Man, Well, she lives in a pretty big city at

0:46:30.560 --> 0:46:34.680
<v Speaker 5>the moment, and I don't know. I mean, she's just

0:46:35.280 --> 0:46:37.480
<v Speaker 5>an eighteen year old girl living in a city kind

0:46:37.480 --> 0:46:39.719
<v Speaker 5>of on her own, far away from her parents. So

0:46:40.120 --> 0:46:41.840
<v Speaker 5>of course, you know, it's just kind of the big

0:46:41.880 --> 0:46:43.799
<v Speaker 5>brother part of me that kind of worries for her.

0:46:44.040 --> 0:46:46.799
<v Speaker 5>I don't know. I certainly hope nothing happens to her,

0:46:46.840 --> 0:46:50.840
<v Speaker 5>but something does. You know, it's on me basically to

0:46:50.920 --> 0:46:53.040
<v Speaker 5>kind of drop everything just make sure she's all right.

0:46:53.680 --> 0:46:56.719
<v Speaker 2>What is and she's in the same city as you are.

0:46:57.800 --> 0:47:03.400
<v Speaker 5>No, she's about i'd say, like one hundred and fifty

0:47:03.440 --> 0:47:03.960
<v Speaker 5>miles south.

0:47:05.000 --> 0:47:06.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh all right, I mean all right, so she might

0:47:06.920 --> 0:47:11.399
<v Speaker 2>as well live in Japan. That's like a whole other

0:47:11.520 --> 0:47:12.480
<v Speaker 2>place from you.

0:47:13.440 --> 0:47:14.279
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, pretty much.

0:47:14.800 --> 0:47:15.200
<v Speaker 1>All right.

0:47:16.840 --> 0:47:20.560
<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean if that's commendable that you have that

0:47:21.000 --> 0:47:25.799
<v Speaker 2>you know, instinct for her, that's nice. Yeah, I mean,

0:47:26.120 --> 0:47:27.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean, look, she's alway, was she in college?

0:47:28.840 --> 0:47:33.080
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she just started uh this past fall here, all right.

0:47:33.000 --> 0:47:35.880
<v Speaker 2>I mean again with this whole I feel like theme

0:47:35.920 --> 0:47:39.080
<v Speaker 2>of this conversation, like you should be excited for her.

0:47:39.160 --> 0:47:41.320
<v Speaker 2>She's I mean, yeah, it's probably I mean it scary

0:47:41.400 --> 0:47:44.880
<v Speaker 2>being you know, freshly graduating high school, moving to a

0:47:44.880 --> 0:47:48.680
<v Speaker 2>whole different place. But that's part of I'm glad she's

0:47:48.680 --> 0:47:51.960
<v Speaker 2>doing that instead of again, uh, you know, sitting at

0:47:51.960 --> 0:47:54.560
<v Speaker 2>home and not doing anything or challenging herself in any way.

0:47:54.640 --> 0:47:54.839
<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:47:55.800 --> 0:47:58.960
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's fair. I completely understand that too, I know.

0:47:59.120 --> 0:48:01.680
<v Speaker 5>And don't get me wrong, super happy for I'm just

0:48:02.000 --> 0:48:04.960
<v Speaker 5>I'm just saying, like, if something bad were to happen

0:48:05.000 --> 0:48:07.759
<v Speaker 5>and beyond me, but now she's a super bright kid

0:48:07.800 --> 0:48:10.880
<v Speaker 5>and she'll be all right, I don't feel fear very

0:48:10.960 --> 0:48:12.759
<v Speaker 5>much for her at all. I think she's actually gonna

0:48:12.800 --> 0:48:14.480
<v Speaker 5>do uh, pretty great things.

0:48:14.920 --> 0:48:17.359
<v Speaker 2>I think you're a super bright kid. I think you're

0:48:17.400 --> 0:48:18.160
<v Speaker 2>going to be all right.

0:48:18.840 --> 0:48:20.200
<v Speaker 5>You know what you two?

0:48:20.320 --> 0:48:20.480
<v Speaker 3>Man?

0:48:20.680 --> 0:48:21.800
<v Speaker 5>I think you're doing alright.

0:48:22.520 --> 0:48:28.240
<v Speaker 2>Ah fucking hope, man. Goddamn what what's your name again?

0:48:28.880 --> 0:48:30.319
<v Speaker 5>I'm tie Ty?

0:48:30.440 --> 0:48:31.560
<v Speaker 1>What do you hope for the future?

0:48:31.680 --> 0:48:33.000
<v Speaker 2>Tie What do you? What do you want to do

0:48:33.080 --> 0:48:35.840
<v Speaker 2>for the rest of your existence on the earth.

0:48:37.600 --> 0:48:43.719
<v Speaker 5>Well, I'm about to finish my degree here, and hopefully

0:48:43.719 --> 0:48:46.880
<v Speaker 5>once I graduate, I want to move out of Wisconsin

0:48:46.960 --> 0:48:51.880
<v Speaker 5>because there's nothing here but cows and angry people. So

0:48:52.440 --> 0:48:57.080
<v Speaker 5>I think I'll probably move west and just try to

0:48:57.239 --> 0:49:03.000
<v Speaker 5>do something in either like radio broadcasting producing or do

0:49:03.000 --> 0:49:05.480
<v Speaker 5>you like podcast production or something like that. I really

0:49:05.520 --> 0:49:10.279
<v Speaker 5>like the idea of kind of audio engineering or I

0:49:10.320 --> 0:49:13.279
<v Speaker 5>currently have a job as a camera operator right now

0:49:13.320 --> 0:49:16.160
<v Speaker 5>as well, so I feel like just kind of being

0:49:16.200 --> 0:49:18.799
<v Speaker 5>behind the scenes on either like a podcast or like

0:49:21.160 --> 0:49:24.080
<v Speaker 5>any sort of like internet show or something would probably

0:49:24.160 --> 0:49:27.080
<v Speaker 5>be ideal for me. Once you graduating here?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you what are you on?

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<v Speaker 1>A camera operator for?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>So for the current university, I attend my film while

0:49:36.960 --> 0:49:42.120
<v Speaker 5>they're athletic events for ESPN plus and uh yeah, so

0:49:42.920 --> 0:49:44.520
<v Speaker 5>I mean it. Don't get me wrong, I'm not like

0:49:44.520 --> 0:49:47.360
<v Speaker 5>a huge sports guy, but it's really good resume builder

0:49:47.400 --> 0:49:50.000
<v Speaker 5>and I'm just trying to get anything I can at

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<v Speaker 5>the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you sound you sound like.

0:49:53.719 --> 0:49:54.239
<v Speaker 1>A good guy.

0:49:54.280 --> 0:49:58.279
<v Speaker 2>You sound like you're I don't know, I don't know

0:49:58.280 --> 0:50:01.879
<v Speaker 2>how to put this, but I'm excited for you.

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<v Speaker 5>I really appreciate that you have.

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<v Speaker 2>You have like you sound grounded. I don't know, I

0:50:07.760 --> 0:50:10.280
<v Speaker 2>don't know how to say that, but maybe I maybe

0:50:10.280 --> 0:50:10.960
<v Speaker 2>that's what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I gotch man, and no, seriously, thank you. I

0:50:15.960 --> 0:50:16.920
<v Speaker 5>really appreciate it.

0:50:18.600 --> 0:50:22.000
<v Speaker 2>Huh are you willing? Are you willing to kill someone

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<v Speaker 2>for your sister?

0:50:24.880 --> 0:50:26.759
<v Speaker 3>Uh? That?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh? You know, it wouldn't be a first option, but

0:50:33.560 --> 0:50:37.759
<v Speaker 5>if it came down to it, Uh, you know, I

0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:40.319
<v Speaker 5>feels like life or death, then I think, you know,

0:50:41.160 --> 0:50:42.120
<v Speaker 5>I probably.

0:50:42.280 --> 0:50:48.040
<v Speaker 2>Somebody your your sister is walking down the streets of

0:50:48.200 --> 0:50:51.040
<v Speaker 2>this big city and she accidentally bumps into somebody while

0:50:51.080 --> 0:50:54.160
<v Speaker 2>she's walking and the person she bought, the person that

0:50:54.239 --> 0:50:57.000
<v Speaker 2>pupped into her doesn't say sorry, and so she asked

0:50:57.040 --> 0:50:57.759
<v Speaker 2>you to kill them?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you do it?

0:51:00.200 --> 0:51:00.520
<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

0:51:01.120 --> 0:51:05.160
<v Speaker 5>But you know what if the person like was just

0:51:05.239 --> 0:51:07.840
<v Speaker 5>carrying a vat of asset on him. And you know,

0:51:07.880 --> 0:51:10.200
<v Speaker 5>when she brushed that guy's shoulder or whatever, and his

0:51:10.320 --> 0:51:12.560
<v Speaker 5>clothes were made out of assid as you know normal

0:51:12.560 --> 0:51:16.040
<v Speaker 5>people's clothes are. I would uh, I would probably kill

0:51:16.080 --> 0:51:18.319
<v Speaker 5>him then because it probably just hert my sister. But

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<v Speaker 5>you know, in any case, Yeah, I haven't seen the

0:51:21.520 --> 0:51:22.400
<v Speaker 5>beats in the chat.

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<v Speaker 2>So well, I'm glad that you've well, I'm glad to

0:51:26.440 --> 0:51:30.959
<v Speaker 2>hear that you've thought of everything. Thank you for calling.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell you have a rest of the night. Anything else

0:51:32.320 --> 0:51:33.440
<v Speaker 2>you want to say to the people of the computer

0:51:33.480 --> 0:51:33.879
<v Speaker 2>before we.

0:51:33.800 --> 0:51:40.200
<v Speaker 5>Go, Uh, I would just say that, you know, watch

0:51:40.280 --> 0:51:43.520
<v Speaker 5>therapy Geck and check out his tour coming up here,

0:51:44.120 --> 0:51:47.000
<v Speaker 5>and uh yeah, buy some merchant in the store.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye, guys, take care. Man.

0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:53.759
<v Speaker 4>Hello, Hello, I'm doing good.

0:51:53.880 --> 0:51:54.359
<v Speaker 3>How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a gecko on the computer. Man, aren't we all?

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<v Speaker 6>You know something? Geck?

0:52:03.600 --> 0:52:06.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:52:06.880 --> 0:52:10.399
<v Speaker 6>I feel like so. I called them before I had

0:52:10.400 --> 0:52:12.839
<v Speaker 6>the one minute call at one point and I talked

0:52:12.840 --> 0:52:16.400
<v Speaker 6>to you about me suing my old job.

0:52:18.800 --> 0:52:25.080
<v Speaker 7>I was like, sure, Yeah, when when I get this

0:52:25.200 --> 0:52:29.160
<v Speaker 7>money from the settlement, I feel like I'm going to

0:52:29.239 --> 0:52:32.040
<v Speaker 7>have a lot of people coming up to me, the

0:52:32.320 --> 0:52:36.160
<v Speaker 7>old friends that I haven't spoken to in years, asking

0:52:36.200 --> 0:52:40.080
<v Speaker 7>me for financial help, you know, And I don't want

0:52:40.080 --> 0:52:42.200
<v Speaker 7>that because I know I'm going to talk.

0:52:42.080 --> 0:52:45.239
<v Speaker 6>About it a little bit. But I don't want these

0:52:45.239 --> 0:52:47.000
<v Speaker 6>people to come up to me and ask me, Hey,

0:52:47.040 --> 0:52:48.360
<v Speaker 6>can you give me this? Can you give me that?

0:52:49.760 --> 0:52:52.400
<v Speaker 6>I have plans of what I want to do with

0:52:52.480 --> 0:52:52.880
<v Speaker 6>the money.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you are you sued your can you o

0:52:59.080 --> 0:53:01.759
<v Speaker 2>refy for those who haven't, who have no idea what

0:53:01.880 --> 0:53:04.720
<v Speaker 2>I mean, start us from the beginning with no prior

0:53:04.760 --> 0:53:05.520
<v Speaker 2>knowledge of any of this.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, So in twenty twenty, when I started working,

0:53:11.680 --> 0:53:14.640
<v Speaker 6>I was making like sixteen fifty an hour. It was amazing,

0:53:16.400 --> 0:53:19.200
<v Speaker 6>getting like almost one thousand dollars paychecks every two weeks.

0:53:20.719 --> 0:53:22.840
<v Speaker 6>I was super happy with my job, super happy with

0:53:22.880 --> 0:53:27.600
<v Speaker 6>customers and my managers and everybody. I had moved away

0:53:27.600 --> 0:53:30.400
<v Speaker 6>from the state that I was living in and I

0:53:30.400 --> 0:53:34.279
<v Speaker 6>started working for the company in a different state. Right

0:53:34.320 --> 0:53:37.040
<v Speaker 6>when I got out here, my manager told me, she

0:53:37.160 --> 0:53:40.840
<v Speaker 6>said that the guys that work at the store either

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<v Speaker 6>quit or they're fired.

0:53:44.920 --> 0:53:45.680
<v Speaker 4>And I didn't know what.

0:53:45.680 --> 0:53:50.000
<v Speaker 2>That meant that but those are the only two ways

0:53:50.040 --> 0:53:52.000
<v Speaker 2>to not have a job to leave the job.

0:53:54.520 --> 0:53:57.440
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, but it was it was a primarily female staff,

0:53:57.680 --> 0:54:00.480
<v Speaker 6>so it was a very small amount of guys and

0:54:00.560 --> 0:54:03.680
<v Speaker 6>the staff, you know. So she said specifically, the guys

0:54:03.719 --> 0:54:06.920
<v Speaker 6>either quit or are fired. So I was like confused

0:54:06.920 --> 0:54:09.400
<v Speaker 6>as to like what that meant. Maybe they weren't happy

0:54:09.400 --> 0:54:12.320
<v Speaker 6>in the job, you know. But I understood in a

0:54:12.360 --> 0:54:18.040
<v Speaker 6>few months that it's because our boss tended to drop

0:54:18.080 --> 0:54:22.120
<v Speaker 6>the hours of the guys and boost the hours of

0:54:22.160 --> 0:54:24.239
<v Speaker 6>the girls so that they could have more time on

0:54:24.239 --> 0:54:30.920
<v Speaker 6>the floor into the store. I decided I didn't want

0:54:30.920 --> 0:54:32.880
<v Speaker 6>to work at that store anymore and I wanted to transfer,

0:54:33.040 --> 0:54:35.800
<v Speaker 6>so I put in a transfer request and my boss

0:54:35.840 --> 0:54:38.520
<v Speaker 6>wrote me up for being late because I lived like

0:54:38.560 --> 0:54:43.759
<v Speaker 6>thirty minutes away from the store. He made it impossible

0:54:43.800 --> 0:54:48.000
<v Speaker 6>for me to transfer for like six months straight. So

0:54:48.040 --> 0:54:50.880
<v Speaker 6>I started picking up ships at other stores around the area.

0:54:51.480 --> 0:54:53.800
<v Speaker 6>And then eventually when he caught onto that, he called

0:54:53.800 --> 0:54:57.719
<v Speaker 6>those stores and told them not to let me work, okay,

0:54:57.840 --> 0:55:01.160
<v Speaker 6>And I was very upse this because I was like,

0:55:01.160 --> 0:55:02.960
<v Speaker 6>why aren't you letting me work? You know, this is

0:55:02.960 --> 0:55:07.160
<v Speaker 6>a fair And then when I brought it up to him,

0:55:08.239 --> 0:55:12.640
<v Speaker 6>he fired me and he told corporate he lied to corporate.

0:55:12.840 --> 0:55:14.440
<v Speaker 6>He called corporate and lied to them and said that

0:55:14.480 --> 0:55:16.920
<v Speaker 6>I was offering customers drugs in the drive through to

0:55:16.960 --> 0:55:23.360
<v Speaker 6>get me fired after months of me complaining that I

0:55:23.400 --> 0:55:26.920
<v Speaker 6>wasn't getting enough hours and everything. And I had to

0:55:26.960 --> 0:55:30.520
<v Speaker 6>have no complaints from anybody at the store, no customers,

0:55:30.560 --> 0:55:36.840
<v Speaker 6>no managers, no coworkers. You know, it was just him.

0:55:36.880 --> 0:55:42.560
<v Speaker 6>So now that I'm suing them, my attorney had us

0:55:42.600 --> 0:55:45.160
<v Speaker 6>set up a specific amount of money that I want,

0:55:46.200 --> 0:55:50.360
<v Speaker 6>and the money that I said was eighty thousand. I

0:55:50.360 --> 0:55:52.640
<v Speaker 6>don't know if I'm going to get that exact amount.

0:55:52.760 --> 0:55:55.760
<v Speaker 6>I'm okay if I get less, if I get more, great,

0:55:55.880 --> 0:55:59.279
<v Speaker 6>If I get that amount, amazing, you know. But I

0:55:59.320 --> 0:56:03.440
<v Speaker 6>feel like when that money comes in, people are going

0:56:03.480 --> 0:56:05.840
<v Speaker 6>to start hitting me up, asking me for money, asking

0:56:05.880 --> 0:56:07.440
<v Speaker 6>me for help with different things.

0:56:07.600 --> 0:56:09.920
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so let me stop you right there. For so

0:56:10.080 --> 0:56:15.680
<v Speaker 2>we are severely putting our cart before the horse here.

0:56:16.640 --> 0:56:19.359
<v Speaker 2>You don't even have this money, and it's not even

0:56:19.400 --> 0:56:25.040
<v Speaker 2>a guarantee that you will win this case at all.

0:56:25.080 --> 0:56:28.120
<v Speaker 6>I mean, it's it's pretty much guaranteed because they is

0:56:28.160 --> 0:56:30.839
<v Speaker 6>a company that doesn't want to go to court, so

0:56:30.880 --> 0:56:34.000
<v Speaker 6>they're more likely my attorney told me this that he's

0:56:34.000 --> 0:56:36.760
<v Speaker 6>worked with a lot of cases against the path. Okay,

0:56:37.360 --> 0:56:40.040
<v Speaker 6>he says that they're a company that always wants to

0:56:40.080 --> 0:56:43.400
<v Speaker 6>settle out of court. If they can do anything to

0:56:43.480 --> 0:56:45.960
<v Speaker 6>get this case done and over with as quick as possible,

0:56:46.040 --> 0:56:46.759
<v Speaker 6>they will do it.

0:56:49.040 --> 0:56:53.960
<v Speaker 2>So okay, So he says, why, I have a few questions,

0:56:54.280 --> 0:56:57.040
<v Speaker 2>Why do you why do you think your boss was

0:56:57.080 --> 0:56:59.360
<v Speaker 2>antagonizing you so much for no reason?

0:57:00.920 --> 0:57:05.600
<v Speaker 6>I honestly don't know. I mean I've I've brought I've

0:57:05.880 --> 0:57:08.040
<v Speaker 6>tried to like bring it up to my coworkers about it,

0:57:08.440 --> 0:57:11.840
<v Speaker 6>and they've all said that he's always had something against

0:57:11.840 --> 0:57:16.600
<v Speaker 6>the guys in the store for no reason at all, seemingly.

0:57:19.600 --> 0:57:24.120
<v Speaker 6>But I think that the final straw of the the

0:57:24.120 --> 0:57:28.600
<v Speaker 6>the you know, me being antagonized at work is him

0:57:28.640 --> 0:57:31.200
<v Speaker 6>telling corporate that I was offering customers.

0:57:30.720 --> 0:57:34.560
<v Speaker 2>Drugs And that's just a total out of your way

0:57:34.600 --> 0:57:37.240
<v Speaker 2>to to get that happened. I mean, that's just a total,

0:57:37.520 --> 0:57:40.400
<v Speaker 2>complete straight lie.

0:57:40.720 --> 0:57:43.880
<v Speaker 1>Yes, fucking weird man.

0:57:43.920 --> 0:57:46.560
<v Speaker 2>You don't have any idea why this guy doesn't like you, like,

0:57:46.560 --> 0:57:48.120
<v Speaker 2>like that much enough to lie like that.

0:57:49.720 --> 0:57:52.720
<v Speaker 6>No, I don't know. I mean, maybe me being laid

0:57:52.720 --> 0:57:55.080
<v Speaker 6>a couple of times. But that doesn't really I don't

0:57:55.080 --> 0:57:56.080
<v Speaker 6>think that's grounds.

0:57:56.320 --> 0:57:59.640
<v Speaker 2>You know, he's probably was he I mean, he's probably

0:57:59.680 --> 0:58:02.360
<v Speaker 2>just a sad guy.

0:58:06.080 --> 0:58:07.120
<v Speaker 4>I maybe.

0:58:08.520 --> 0:58:08.920
<v Speaker 2>Bizarre.

0:58:09.800 --> 0:58:10.440
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:58:10.960 --> 0:58:13.280
<v Speaker 2>By the way, okay, listen, what do I think. I

0:58:13.320 --> 0:58:15.880
<v Speaker 2>think if your friend asks you for ten thousand dollars

0:58:15.920 --> 0:58:16.480
<v Speaker 2>you say.

0:58:16.360 --> 0:58:22.400
<v Speaker 6>No, Yeah, that's that sounds like a good idea.

0:58:24.200 --> 0:58:26.520
<v Speaker 2>Are you really, like, I mean, are you Are you

0:58:26.600 --> 0:58:29.120
<v Speaker 2>really that concerned with your friends and family ask you

0:58:29.160 --> 0:58:31.680
<v Speaker 2>for money? Like what I mean, what kind of people

0:58:31.680 --> 0:58:33.560
<v Speaker 2>are in your circle so much that this is like

0:58:34.280 --> 0:58:39.160
<v Speaker 2>a very serious, you know, thing that you're nervous about.

0:58:39.960 --> 0:58:43.720
<v Speaker 6>I mean, I've known a lot of people that I

0:58:43.840 --> 0:58:47.240
<v Speaker 6>fear would be this way with money. And I've had

0:58:47.400 --> 0:58:49.840
<v Speaker 6>I've had people that I've had to like stop talking

0:58:49.880 --> 0:58:55.960
<v Speaker 6>to because because they've asked for things that I cannot

0:58:55.960 --> 0:59:00.120
<v Speaker 6>provide them. You know, people some people asking me texting me,

0:59:00.160 --> 0:59:01.800
<v Speaker 6>hey do you have cash? App I'm broke, I need

0:59:01.840 --> 0:59:06.760
<v Speaker 6>money this and nut. I don't want to give people money,

0:59:08.720 --> 0:59:11.080
<v Speaker 6>you know, I'm just trying to pay the.

0:59:11.240 --> 0:59:13.800
<v Speaker 2>Well, you don't have to. And by the way, you know,

0:59:13.920 --> 0:59:18.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean, like, yeah, you don't have to give people

0:59:18.160 --> 0:59:20.560
<v Speaker 2>money if you don't want to give them money, man.

0:59:20.840 --> 0:59:22.880
<v Speaker 2>And also, you know, I'm going to challenge you for this,

0:59:23.000 --> 0:59:25.840
<v Speaker 2>all right. Look, hey, look if somebody is asking if

0:59:25.840 --> 0:59:28.960
<v Speaker 2>somebody hears that you got a whatever thing and they

0:59:29.000 --> 0:59:32.920
<v Speaker 2>start asking you for a bunch of money and you

0:59:32.960 --> 0:59:36.280
<v Speaker 2>thought they were your friends, I'm gonna challenge you. Look

0:59:36.320 --> 0:59:39.560
<v Speaker 2>at it as a good thing, all right, because it

0:59:39.640 --> 0:59:45.280
<v Speaker 2>reveals you know about things about.

0:59:45.080 --> 0:59:46.280
<v Speaker 4>The people that you're close with.

0:59:47.040 --> 0:59:49.960
<v Speaker 2>It reveals the things about the people that you're close with.

0:59:50.040 --> 0:59:53.080
<v Speaker 2>So in that sense, it can be a blessing, right

0:59:53.120 --> 0:59:58.160
<v Speaker 2>because you you now have more information about the people

0:59:58.240 --> 1:00:03.520
<v Speaker 2>that you you hold close and that can sometimes be positive.

1:00:04.600 --> 1:00:05.040
<v Speaker 4>For sure.

1:00:05.480 --> 1:00:10.120
<v Speaker 6>And you know what, people, my best friend, he's told

1:00:10.160 --> 1:00:14.000
<v Speaker 6>me multiple times, I mean jokingly, he's told me that, oh,

1:00:14.040 --> 1:00:17.720
<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna leach off of you now. But I know

1:00:17.800 --> 1:00:18.200
<v Speaker 6>ha ha.

1:00:19.400 --> 1:00:21.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're like, oh, yeah, might actually be joking.

1:00:22.840 --> 1:00:26.960
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, but I don't want him to do that. I've

1:00:26.960 --> 1:00:29.640
<v Speaker 6>known him for the past seven years. You know, I

1:00:29.880 --> 1:00:32.800
<v Speaker 6>don't think he's that type of person. I strongly believe

1:00:32.840 --> 1:00:35.520
<v Speaker 6>that he's not that type of person. But in the

1:00:35.560 --> 1:00:38.200
<v Speaker 6>back of my mind there's that fear that he might

1:00:38.240 --> 1:00:39.200
<v Speaker 6>be serious about that.

1:00:39.800 --> 1:00:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Here's what you do.

1:00:40.480 --> 1:00:42.960
<v Speaker 2>If somebody ask you for money, you go, I earned

1:00:43.000 --> 1:00:47.000
<v Speaker 2>this money by selling drugs out of it, and if

1:00:47.040 --> 1:00:49.160
<v Speaker 2>you want eighty thousand dollars you can go and do

1:00:49.240 --> 1:00:49.880
<v Speaker 2>the same thing.

1:00:53.760 --> 1:00:55.280
<v Speaker 6>It's a pretty damn good advice.

1:00:55.360 --> 1:00:55.600
<v Speaker 5>Gick.

1:00:56.520 --> 1:00:59.120
<v Speaker 2>Hey, listen, Andrew, Well, thanks for calling man. I hope

1:00:59.120 --> 1:01:00.520
<v Speaker 2>you get all your money, and I hope that you

1:01:00.560 --> 1:01:03.200
<v Speaker 2>and your friends go have you know, fun, pinball pool

1:01:03.240 --> 1:01:05.840
<v Speaker 2>parties with it. So anything else do you want to

1:01:05.840 --> 1:01:07.439
<v Speaker 2>say to the people of the computer before we go.

1:01:09.600 --> 1:01:13.040
<v Speaker 6>Well, I hope you have a good day chat. I

1:01:13.080 --> 1:01:15.800
<v Speaker 6>have to take out the trash. But don't let money

1:01:15.840 --> 1:01:17.800
<v Speaker 6>change you if you ever get any.

1:01:18.720 --> 1:01:24.520
<v Speaker 2>Take care, man, take care gek. They say money does

1:01:24.560 --> 1:01:30.000
<v Speaker 2>not change a person, it merely reveals them. But I

1:01:30.040 --> 1:01:32.280
<v Speaker 2>don't know if that's true, because if you get a

1:01:32.320 --> 1:01:36.280
<v Speaker 2>really cool car, then maybe you'll be happier. That's how

1:01:36.320 --> 1:01:40.040
<v Speaker 2>life works. I've learned that that's how the more the

1:01:40.160 --> 1:01:46.000
<v Speaker 2>more stuff you can accumulate, the happier you will be.

1:01:47.080 --> 1:01:53.240
<v Speaker 2>This is proven by many psychologists on the line calls

1:01:53.320 --> 1:02:00.960
<v Speaker 2>every nine teaching you can expect