WEBVTT - Let's Take A Trip! w/ Sam Shelton

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<v Speaker 1>Hi everybody, and welcome back to Katie's Crib. In this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about one of my favorite topics, travel, but

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<v Speaker 1>now we're talking about travel with kids. So it's super stressful,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, for a lot of people to travel on

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<v Speaker 1>your own and then adding a baby into the mix,

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<v Speaker 1>it is just it can be a lot. And just

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<v Speaker 1>because you have a baby, it does not mean you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>that you have to swear off long distance trips. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you know, you just need to visit a family

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<v Speaker 1>member far away, or sometimes you just like need a vacation,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and we're here to tell you that it

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<v Speaker 1>is possible and you can do it without losing your

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<v Speaker 1>freaking mind. Okay, we are here today with one of

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<v Speaker 1>my best friends in the entire world. It is the one,

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<v Speaker 1>the only, Samantha Sky Shelton who has the most beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>She is a really freaking good friend of mine. And

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<v Speaker 1>also you guys, she is the incredible singer and talent

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<v Speaker 1>that you hear on the music at the end and

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning of this podcast. You know when it says

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<v Speaker 1>you do it, yeah that do it, do it, do

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<v Speaker 1>it my way? And also just why I I was

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<v Speaker 1>sam Shelton's backup singer for a good many years before scandal.

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<v Speaker 1>When we would where would we perform? Oh, all over

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<v Speaker 1>Los Angeles, the clubs of l A. And now I

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<v Speaker 1>would happily be your backup singer. I would be your

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<v Speaker 1>backup singer any day of the week. All I can

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<v Speaker 1>remember was at a time in my life where I

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<v Speaker 1>thought wearing navy blue sequin booty shorts with like high

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<v Speaker 1>heels and tights was like a good look. But I

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<v Speaker 1>was like a backup singing. It was just to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out and practice, like the songs and harmonizing stuff. It

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<v Speaker 1>was an opportunity to chill. And you know how we

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<v Speaker 1>figured that out week. Okay. So Sam and I met

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<v Speaker 1>in an acting class a hundred thousand years ago, Mark

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<v Speaker 1>Casey's acting class. And then her husband Stephen and my

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<v Speaker 1>husband Adam became friends separately, and then we put two

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<v Speaker 1>and two together that they were becoming fast friends and

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<v Speaker 1>she and I were becoming fast friends, and then it

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<v Speaker 1>was just on, and it's been on for ten years

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<v Speaker 1>or something like that. Craziness. Um. Sam has always been

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<v Speaker 1>before babies, a traveling guru, like so sweet, No, you

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<v Speaker 1>do love to travel? Traveling has been like it has been.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us like some of the places you went to before?

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<v Speaker 1>What did your travel life look like before when you

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<v Speaker 1>were not well. I have always approached traveling like not

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<v Speaker 1>so much as taking a vacation, but rather as like

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<v Speaker 1>a way of life and how it's just a part

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<v Speaker 1>of my year. I always set aside money to travel

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<v Speaker 1>every month, and I still do to this day as

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<v Speaker 1>just it's part of my own experience on this planet.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to see the world. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>see as much as I can, and there is still

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<v Speaker 1>so many more places to go. And you have seen

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more places probably than I have. But I

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<v Speaker 1>mean some of my big adventures have been to Australia, Cambodia, Thailand,

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<v Speaker 1>Um all over and then South America. Did you feel fear?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, where did you go in Argentina? I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go to the end. What do people feel like?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever have a fear when you were thinking

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<v Speaker 1>or talking about family planning with Steven that like traveling

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be gone, or it was like, oh no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just going to bring kid into the next We

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<v Speaker 1>always just we're going to bring the kid into the mix.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think you have you know people have this, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's this thing where moms are like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna strap my baby to me and just take

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<v Speaker 1>them wherever I go, and like, you know, like they're

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<v Speaker 1>just going to live my life with me, my life

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<v Speaker 1>right right, right right, I'm just going to put on that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, put them in the sling and go. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think the reality is it's a little more complicated

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<v Speaker 1>than that, especially for us, um, but it's still not

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<v Speaker 1>even an issue for us. It's like they're just going

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<v Speaker 1>to have to get up and go and and you

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<v Speaker 1>have to tell us about your kids. You have to.

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<v Speaker 1>I have two adorable children, Laslow and Poppy. I mean, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just give a big round of applause for those

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<v Speaker 1>dope ass names. They're amazing. What's Samantha's guy Shelton would

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<v Speaker 1>only have a Laslow Davis and a Poppy Davis. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>Laslow is five and Poppies too. Do you remember your

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<v Speaker 1>first trip with Laslow? I do. We went to Zatjo

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<v Speaker 1>Michel and Um, of course I was terrified, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he's just there's so many unknowns. What's the plane going

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<v Speaker 1>to be, like, what's the airport going to be? Like

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<v Speaker 1>customs and then you're going to Mexico, and um, it

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<v Speaker 1>was incredible. I remember that, you know the people around us.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, if you have an adorable baby, like, people

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<v Speaker 1>are generally pretty nice to you. And Mexico is a

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<v Speaker 1>country that loves kids and people bent over backwards. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the craziest things about that particular trip I'll

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<v Speaker 1>never forget this is, you know, I had like the

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<v Speaker 1>car seed and the bags and the diaper bags and

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<v Speaker 1>like all of our documents and crab and we made it.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to the cab, you know, things are falling

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<v Speaker 1>everywhere whatever. We get to the hotel. Two days later,

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<v Speaker 1>the security guard comes up to us and it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>can you come to the office. And we get to

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<v Speaker 1>the office totally freaked out, and he's like he hands

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<v Speaker 1>us our passports which had fallen out in the backseat

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<v Speaker 1>of the cab, and this angel taxi driver came back

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<v Speaker 1>to the hotel and brought the passports them. So talk

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<v Speaker 1>about a moment of like seeing what your life could

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<v Speaker 1>have been on the other side. I was like, attorneys, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was stuck in Mexico, Like what do

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<v Speaker 1>you even do? I would have had no idea what

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<v Speaker 1>to do, and do you get just stressed about like

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<v Speaker 1>like I think a lot of people get stressed about

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<v Speaker 1>the plane ride, which we'll get into and is can

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<v Speaker 1>be a fucking nightmare. But and I know you've lived

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<v Speaker 1>through some ship, but I always get stressed about only

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<v Speaker 1>traveling to places right now where I think, like the

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<v Speaker 1>hospitals are going to be okay, Like that is so

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<v Speaker 1>my alarmist ass, dumbass self, But like I like, we

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<v Speaker 1>took Albion his first trip outside the country to Barcelona.

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<v Speaker 1>He was eight or nine months old, and I got

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<v Speaker 1>into my head that someone had said you should take

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<v Speaker 1>them when they're really young, before they're walking, because they

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<v Speaker 1>nap all the time in the stroller. I was still nursing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I could nurse on the plane, you know, which

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<v Speaker 1>makes plane rides far more easy because they're very suitable.

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<v Speaker 1>I um, I felt like going to Barcelona Madrid would

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<v Speaker 1>be God forbid anything bad had happened. Why I chose

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<v Speaker 1>these cities is that a hospital would be as great

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<v Speaker 1>as one is here, and so I wasn't comfortable going

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<v Speaker 1>to a place that might not be first world. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you ever feel that way or you're like I think

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<v Speaker 1>if I were to do it differently, I think you

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<v Speaker 1>totally had it right, and I should have gone to

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<v Speaker 1>cities like that when they were babies, because it's once

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<v Speaker 1>they're walking and crawling, then that's a whole other ballgame.

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<v Speaker 1>Should come in the stroller. Then yes, go to Paris.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, yeah, I recommend the cities because they can

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<v Speaker 1>do museums on naps. What's kind of romantic about it

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<v Speaker 1>is even if their jet lagged. What I found is

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<v Speaker 1>like if you woke up at four or five o'clock

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, we just threw him in the stroller

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<v Speaker 1>and like Adam and I like strolled the city like

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<v Speaker 1>by ourselves before the city was awake, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like super romantic and dope and awesome. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>had heard this tip of advice to like travel with

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<v Speaker 1>the baby before they're crawling and moving, and it's like, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like adding and I say, it was like

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<v Speaker 1>better than our baby moon. That thing that people take

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<v Speaker 1>is totally queasy and you can drinking baby Moon is

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<v Speaker 1>so stupid. It's this like dumbass hallmark thing of like

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<v Speaker 1>you have to take your last trip before the baby

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<v Speaker 1>is there. Well, you can't drink, you know, you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like garbage. You definitely don't want to have sex all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. I mean, I guess some few lucky women

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<v Speaker 1>are like super horny during pregnancy and go with God.

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<v Speaker 1>Great for them, but like I was not so I

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<v Speaker 1>like I just thought my baby moon was like supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be this epic, amazing thing, and it really wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>We went to Hawaii, but then when we went to

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<v Speaker 1>Barcelona with the baby, it was like very romantic. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds so dreamy. I think we went to loom

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<v Speaker 1>as a baby moon, and then we went to Palm

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<v Speaker 1>Springs or something, and I kind of have these vague

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<v Speaker 1>like like kind of hot, uncomfortable case memories, like it's

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<v Speaker 1>just not great. Like going to your point about hospitals,

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<v Speaker 1>I do always double check and just kind of make

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<v Speaker 1>sure I know where it is, what your first line

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<v Speaker 1>of defense would be. And in fact, I have a

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<v Speaker 1>friend who was staying in a beautiful villa in Tuscany,

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<v Speaker 1>and she had her twins were four years old at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and you know what can go wrong. They're

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<v Speaker 1>playing one of her twins gets bit by a viper

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<v Speaker 1>extremely rare, extremely deadly snake in Tuscany. That's unheard of,

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<v Speaker 1>and she it was a whole drama. But basically she

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<v Speaker 1>was in you know, Taxis, two clinics than the clinic too,

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<v Speaker 1>in the ambulance to you know, Florence, and in the

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<v Speaker 1>hospital for two weeks. Her son is fine, thank god,

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<v Speaker 1>and everyone's okay. But she actually gave me the great advice,

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<v Speaker 1>which is to not only double check where the clinics

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<v Speaker 1>and the urgent care is and all of that, but

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<v Speaker 1>also to understand what your insurance is in a foreign

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<v Speaker 1>country and how to just be prepared something about that,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you just, I guess spend some time googling wherever

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<v Speaker 1>it is you're going and where the closest places like

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't know, and I guess you call your insurance company,

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<v Speaker 1>like the hotel would know where the town you're in,

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<v Speaker 1>or you know. Yeah. On the other hand, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>spend too much time worrying about it. Yes, Sam Shelton

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<v Speaker 1>is one of these amazing moms to have around, because

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<v Speaker 1>you're very good at that. Like I'm the warrior and

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<v Speaker 1>Sam is like it's fine, Like it's gonna be fine,

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna work out. Okay, you guys, We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>to my conversation all about travel. I love this stuff

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<v Speaker 1>with Sam Shelton, so Lajo which was his first baby trip,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, how how was he on that flight? He

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<v Speaker 1>was people really nice. Yeah, and he was again I

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<v Speaker 1>think he was five months and so he was just

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<v Speaker 1>nursing and snapping and easy. Easy when they're when they're

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<v Speaker 1>toddlers and you do long flights, you know there and

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<v Speaker 1>he's five now and we just had a really rough

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<v Speaker 1>flight that included a night terror, which was ye, can

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<v Speaker 1>you explain the story? This is horrifying. Well, night terror

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<v Speaker 1>has happened, you know, fairly often with kids around three

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<v Speaker 1>four years old. It's a crazy dream. It's like a

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<v Speaker 1>nightmare that they can't wake themselves up out of and

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<v Speaker 1>you can't wake them up out of and you just

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<v Speaker 1>have to write it out. And it happens when they're overtired,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, we happen to have one on a cross

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<v Speaker 1>country flight from New York to Los Angeles, and my

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<v Speaker 1>poor son just was sleeping on my lap and then

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<v Speaker 1>just sat up and started screaming bloody murder on the

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<v Speaker 1>plane for fifteen minutes, solid could not wake him up

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<v Speaker 1>out of this thing. He gets on the floor in

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<v Speaker 1>front of my knees and then throws up all over

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<v Speaker 1>my legs, up dress, into my shoes. I'm sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>in a pool. God lets supply attendants, but they're not

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<v Speaker 1>really great and they actually don't have cleaning supplies for

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of thing, right, They only have barf bags

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<v Speaker 1>for adults, but like if there's throw up everywhere, it's

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<v Speaker 1>only to have like an amazing endless supply of like

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<v Speaker 1>white Like yeah, so I was like had my baby

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<v Speaker 1>wipes from my two year old. I mean, it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was a disaster. And plus, you don't bring a

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<v Speaker 1>change of clothes for your five year old or yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>so notice, you know, maybe pack your own self a

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<v Speaker 1>T shirt, especially if you have a baby good or

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<v Speaker 1>you know, pants. But we like wrapped a hoodie around

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<v Speaker 1>my son's lap and then and he was just naked, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was naked. And then he we had an hour

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<v Speaker 1>left to go in the flight we got and luckily

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<v Speaker 1>we were heading back to Los Angeles, so we were

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<v Speaker 1>going home. But he woke up and he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>where are my pants? He had no memory of the incident. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>can you tell me what is your like flight suggestions?

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<v Speaker 1>They're both now of the age, so you guys know,

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<v Speaker 1>babies blow to fly for free, and so a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people like to take advantage of flying to visit

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<v Speaker 1>family or taking vacations before the babies too, because they

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to pay for an additional ticket, although it

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<v Speaker 1>is can be a nightmare that the baby's on your

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<v Speaker 1>lap in a tiny ass economy seat for however long.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're at the place now where they're getting their

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<v Speaker 1>own seats. Yes, And not only that, but since I

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<v Speaker 1>have two kids, you know, a lot of planes are

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<v Speaker 1>three and three. So I will be sitting next to

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<v Speaker 1>my two children. My husband's crossed the aisle listening to

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<v Speaker 1>his podcasts and having a drink and at the time

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<v Speaker 1>of his life. And that just because both kids want you, right,

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<v Speaker 1>they're both like, I wanted the next I want to

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<v Speaker 1>the next time. What is your like plane packing list?

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<v Speaker 1>Right now? What are your tips or like a. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there anything where you're like, they need this, they need that? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you at iPad level? Like had you checked to

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<v Speaker 1>see if the planes have TVs? Are you against that?

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<v Speaker 1>How does that hole go? We bring kindles for both

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<v Speaker 1>of the kids, and we're totally like screens are great

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<v Speaker 1>on planes, like, go for it, kids, and we always

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<v Speaker 1>have I actually never checked see if the plane has

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<v Speaker 1>a TV because we know we'll have our our kindler

0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:06.959
<v Speaker 1>eight pat or whatever. Um. Absolutely. There's this one thing

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<v Speaker 1>which I highly recommend. It's called a trunky and it's

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<v Speaker 1>a suitcase. It's like a plastic suitcase for toddlers, and

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<v Speaker 1>it has wheels on the bottom of it and a

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<v Speaker 1>strap and handles and the kids. It's like an It's

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<v Speaker 1>a toy for the kids to play on while they're

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<v Speaker 1>waiting in the airport because they can scoot around on it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can pull them by the strap they hold on

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<v Speaker 1>and you give them a ride the airport. They look amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's genius. My son loves it. And then what's in there? Suffer, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we bring the iPad. My son's obsessed with travel and airplanes,

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<v Speaker 1>no wonder, so he always brings his toy planes to

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<v Speaker 1>have on the plane and then we pack workbooks, coloring books.

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<v Speaker 1>Magnetiles are great. Magnet magnetiles are those plastic magnets that

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<v Speaker 1>you can build structures with, but they stick together. Their

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<v Speaker 1>magnetic Albie will soon be doing um. But they are

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<v Speaker 1>incredible because they're they you know, suck together and so

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<v Speaker 1>they're they're easy to say. They're kind of like their

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<v Speaker 1>own game exactly. And what's the snack situation for you

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<v Speaker 1>on planes? Do you are you like a big pre

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<v Speaker 1>snack packer or I bring tons of snacks. I bring

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<v Speaker 1>like tangerines, goldfish, whatever snack you know, veggies, all all

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<v Speaker 1>of that stuff. And I also part of the fund

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<v Speaker 1>for my kids is getting a snack at the airport

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<v Speaker 1>to take on the planes. So they always like to

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<v Speaker 1>get the muffin or get the treat eminem's. We always

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<v Speaker 1>keep the eminem's. If something's going wrong after five minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got to bring those eminems and off for a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of eminem m. This is all so smart. This

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<v Speaker 1>is what's coming down the pipe for me, because see

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still dealing with a toddler who like I can't

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<v Speaker 1>give him magnet tiles because abby's are the age like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't bring anything on the plane that he can

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<v Speaker 1>throw because he will throw it into aisles in front

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<v Speaker 1>and behind us. Um And I packed the most snacks

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<v Speaker 1>you've ever seen in your entire life. But you know

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<v Speaker 1>how it used to be like you would travel with

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<v Speaker 1>your backpack that had like your booking it that you

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<v Speaker 1>were reading and like your planner, like whatever. Now Adam

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<v Speaker 1>has a backpack that has like a few of my

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<v Speaker 1>things in it because I don't. I don't read on

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<v Speaker 1>planes anymore. I don't do anything for myself on planes anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a full time job of entertaining my child.

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<v Speaker 1>Um so that I'm trying to be respectful of the

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<v Speaker 1>other people flying. Um and so I there's one pack

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<v Speaker 1>pack that has like my wallet and passport, and then

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<v Speaker 1>my backpack is filled with you bring I've heard a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of diapers. I think it's one per hour when

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<v Speaker 1>they're little, was what I had read. The most wipes ever,

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<v Speaker 1>a change of outfit, the most snacks ever. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I also always bring on the plane motrin a thermometer,

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<v Speaker 1>which it's crazy, I just feel like I should have it,

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<v Speaker 1>and Bena drill and I was reading that you bring

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<v Speaker 1>those things on the plane because God forbid they have

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<v Speaker 1>a crazy like allergic reaction at thirty five thousand feet

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<v Speaker 1>or they start running a temperature um you can administer

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<v Speaker 1>either of those things. You should also make sure you've

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<v Speaker 1>tried those things before you're trying them on a plane,

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<v Speaker 1>just to know that your kid doesn't react poorly to them,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you don't want the first time you're trying motor

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<v Speaker 1>or benegroul to be on a plane, have tried that before,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I did. You did that with my older son

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<v Speaker 1>he Um. I gave him benegroul for the first time

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<v Speaker 1>on an eight hour flight, and he is of the

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<v Speaker 1>two percent or three percent of kids or something who

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<v Speaker 1>has the opposite reaction, and instead of it making them

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<v Speaker 1>sleepy and drowsy, it made him like overactive and crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>So definitely talk to your pediatrician and maybe give that

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<v Speaker 1>a tribe. Have you ever been one of those people?

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<v Speaker 1>And I have not. I've seen on Instagram like amazing

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<v Speaker 1>people who come onto the plane with a baby and

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<v Speaker 1>like have brought gifts or Starbucks gifts cards for everyone

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<v Speaker 1>who sits a readily against that. I'm against the too.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck that. I'm sorry, but like what the fuck, like

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<v Speaker 1>like I have time for that. Like I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to buy gift cards, Like I'm sorry, I'm a nice person.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to do the best I can exactly, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been given a little baggy of ear plugs

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<v Speaker 1>and treats and whatever. But I honestly like it's the

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<v Speaker 1>last thing on my mind when I'm getting ready for

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<v Speaker 1>a flight. And by the way, like you know, everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>doing that, Everyone's doing the best they can. I just

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<v Speaker 1>kids are kids. They're going to do what they do that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you're not getting on an airplane to have

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<v Speaker 1>a vacation on the airplane. It's like it's a mode

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<v Speaker 1>of transportation. So let's just all like hunger down, put

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<v Speaker 1>in your earphones exactly, like bring your own sinking air plugs. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I see this on Instagram, like these wonderful parents who

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<v Speaker 1>are like I might be a bit I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, but like I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm supposed to be thinking of. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to pack for my entire family. I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that I will walk one thousand. Oh. Here's

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<v Speaker 1>a question. Have you found it to be easier to

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<v Speaker 1>fly with breaks or do you think it's easier to

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<v Speaker 1>flight overnight? Um, I definitely think you should just get

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<v Speaker 1>it one and done do the longer flight. I personally like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go through taking off and landing, getting

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<v Speaker 1>off plane, getting on a plane. For me, that's I

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<v Speaker 1>know other people have a different opinion and like they

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<v Speaker 1>like the break, they like to let their kid run

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<v Speaker 1>around or whatever. For me, I just prefer to, like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just get it done with. Are your kids having

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<v Speaker 1>Do they have bad reactions to the ascend and decent?

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<v Speaker 1>They don't. Um, they have both been pretty even killed.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, they say sucking on something I've I've

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<v Speaker 1>nursed my kids and I usually try to do that

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<v Speaker 1>on take off or landing. But they say you can

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<v Speaker 1>also give them, you know, like a lollipop. I have

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<v Speaker 1>some friends to give their kids lollipops or that's brilliant

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<v Speaker 1>because a lot of times cry the most with the

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<v Speaker 1>they can't regulate their ears going up and going down.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's Have you ever had negative run ins with

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<v Speaker 1>fellow passengers, because I just had my first one and

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<v Speaker 1>it was a fucking nightmare. I haven't. Actually, I think

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<v Speaker 1>most people have been pretty nice. I mean you get

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<v Speaker 1>some like some sour looks. I'm sure with my son

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<v Speaker 1>through up. You know, when there was an hour left

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<v Speaker 1>to go, people were not necessarily but I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>look because I mean, what can I do. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>doing I You guys was away over Christmas? Did I

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<v Speaker 1>tell you this yet? Oh? I did? Okay? I um

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<v Speaker 1>came home. We were flying home from the Dominican Republic,

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<v Speaker 1>and I treated this is a huge controversy. I've since

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<v Speaker 1>done a lot of research and looked into it, but

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<v Speaker 1>there is a whole thing about should babies or should

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<v Speaker 1>babies not be in first class. It's a big touchy subject.

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<v Speaker 1>I most of the time do not fly first class.

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<v Speaker 1>Um it's really expensive, and that's for when mommy's working

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<v Speaker 1>and someone else is paying for that. But um, I

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<v Speaker 1>the first class flights from Atlanta to l A were

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<v Speaker 1>crazily not expensive, and I went for it. Also, I

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<v Speaker 1>think the holidays. Being a former scandal actor, I get

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<v Speaker 1>people asking to take a lot of photos and sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really tired and I have a baby, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really want pictures of Albi out there. So I

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<v Speaker 1>bought the first class ticket and we walked on the plane,

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<v Speaker 1>and in the first two minutes there's a dude and

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<v Speaker 1>his girlfriend or wife whatever, three rows behind us, and

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<v Speaker 1>they are shushing Albie every two seconds every sound he makes.

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<v Speaker 1>He did not cry, he was talking. He's a toddler,

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<v Speaker 1>so a lot of like oh lah and like yeah

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<v Speaker 1>and like boo boo b B B like whatever. And

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<v Speaker 1>they keep going and rolling their eyes at us anytime

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<v Speaker 1>I made eye contact. It lasted for about an hour,

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<v Speaker 1>the tons of shushing, until my husband stood up went

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<v Speaker 1>to go back to the bathroom holding Albie, and they

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<v Speaker 1>shushed us again. And Albie and Adam went up to

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<v Speaker 1>the gentleman and said, hey, is there a problem. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there something we could be doing to make this flight better?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really sorry, And they said, this is ridiculous. We're

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<v Speaker 1>the only people that have the balls to speak up

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<v Speaker 1>in first class. But your baby is screaming and you

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<v Speaker 1>need to get control of your baby. And he I

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<v Speaker 1>heard this go down to which then I stood up

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<v Speaker 1>and said, excuse me, we're doing a great job. Our

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<v Speaker 1>baby hasn't even cried, and he's you need to be

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<v Speaker 1>walking your baby up and down the tile areas. I said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I took my hoops off, and I was like, do

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<v Speaker 1>you just hate babies or something? That's what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy said, no, I have a daughter, and his

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend was like, yeah, he has a daughter, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, obviously you're like a fucking horrible father. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a nightmare. Uh. Thank god we didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>into an actual fight with them, because they were tan

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<v Speaker 1>and ripped as hell and they would have broken Adam

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<v Speaker 1>and I in fucking half. But they were horribly. They

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<v Speaker 1>hated the baby, they hated us. They said we paid

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<v Speaker 1>for this flight, and I said, you know, we've paid

0:22:32.520 --> 0:22:34.399
<v Speaker 1>for first class as well, and we have every right

0:22:34.440 --> 0:22:36.399
<v Speaker 1>to be here. We got the bulkhead and it was

0:22:36.520 --> 0:22:38.800
<v Speaker 1>absolutely what did the stewardists or the flight A flight

0:22:38.840 --> 0:22:43.480
<v Speaker 1>attendant came up and said came up and said, yes, sir,

0:22:43.600 --> 0:22:45.960
<v Speaker 1>you can't be constantly shushing the baby. In my fifteen

0:22:46.000 --> 0:22:48.240
<v Speaker 1>years of being a flight attendant, I've never seen behavior

0:22:48.320 --> 0:22:50.520
<v Speaker 1>like this. He asked for her name because he was

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<v Speaker 1>going to file a complaint with Delta, to which then

0:22:53.040 --> 0:22:54.639
<v Speaker 1>I said, well, yeah, what is your name because I'm

0:22:54.680 --> 0:22:57.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna be finally a compliment with Delta, which I did

0:22:57.680 --> 0:23:01.359
<v Speaker 1>for Stacy Brooks. I know you Stacy Brooks Delta flight.

0:23:01.400 --> 0:23:04.200
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember the number, but from Atlanta to No

0:23:04.600 --> 0:23:09.159
<v Speaker 1>Standard Domingo to it Ad Republic, no Punta Kana to Atlanta. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my first and only running that has been

0:23:11.280 --> 0:23:13.600
<v Speaker 1>very negative. But since then I've done some research and

0:23:13.640 --> 0:23:15.920
<v Speaker 1>there are people who just really believe babies shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>in first class and maybe I don't know. I mean,

0:23:19.200 --> 0:23:23.119
<v Speaker 1>the only freaking problem is that I'm like Kim Kardashian

0:23:23.119 --> 0:23:25.280
<v Speaker 1>flies first class with her babies. I've seen her do that,

0:23:25.400 --> 0:23:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Like what do you do if you're someone who's in

0:23:27.000 --> 0:23:30.919
<v Speaker 1>the entertainment industry? And when I fly economy, which I

0:23:30.960 --> 0:23:33.920
<v Speaker 1>do all the time with a hat and glasses, everyone

0:23:33.960 --> 0:23:35.800
<v Speaker 1>in the back of the airplane is always like, what

0:23:35.840 --> 0:23:37.600
<v Speaker 1>are you doing back here? And I'm like, well, I'm

0:23:37.600 --> 0:23:39.760
<v Speaker 1>just like a person like you with like my kid,

0:23:39.840 --> 0:23:41.560
<v Speaker 1>and they're like, yeah, but you're on scandal and I'm

0:23:41.560 --> 0:23:43.879
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, but I'm also like an actor who's like

0:23:43.920 --> 0:23:45.120
<v Speaker 1>looking for a job. Do you know what I mean?

0:23:45.119 --> 0:23:49.320
<v Speaker 1>It gets very odd. Um, I think that's crazy. I've

0:23:49.400 --> 0:23:51.760
<v Speaker 1>never heard that about babies. But I think that if

0:23:51.800 --> 0:23:54.359
<v Speaker 1>I could afford to fly in business or first class

0:23:54.400 --> 0:23:56.720
<v Speaker 1>with my baby. I would absolutely a percent and do

0:23:56.800 --> 0:23:59.360
<v Speaker 1>that because that's going to give you a better experience

0:23:59.800 --> 0:24:01.840
<v Speaker 1>with your kid. And at the end of the day,

0:24:01.960 --> 0:24:03.879
<v Speaker 1>I think and this is probably a good rule of

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<v Speaker 1>thumb for travel in general, which is just you cannot

0:24:06.160 --> 0:24:08.120
<v Speaker 1>please all of the people all the time or care

0:24:08.119 --> 0:24:11.040
<v Speaker 1>about what people are thinking. Like if I see a

0:24:11.119 --> 0:24:13.600
<v Speaker 1>kid on a plane crying or whatever, I just want

0:24:13.600 --> 0:24:15.560
<v Speaker 1>to see that the parents are trying to do something,

0:24:15.640 --> 0:24:17.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, that makes me feel like, well, what can

0:24:17.320 --> 0:24:19.480
<v Speaker 1>they do? But it looks like they care and they're

0:24:19.520 --> 0:24:22.320
<v Speaker 1>making an effort. Now Albie wasn't even crying, So these

0:24:22.320 --> 0:24:24.920
<v Speaker 1>people are insane and this is and it sounds like,

0:24:25.000 --> 0:24:26.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you've traveled with your baby so many times

0:24:26.720 --> 0:24:29.200
<v Speaker 1>and this is definitely and this was Albi's thirteenth flight,

0:24:29.240 --> 0:24:31.239
<v Speaker 1>and I've never had an experience like this, So this

0:24:31.320 --> 0:24:33.320
<v Speaker 1>is obviously the exception and not the rule. But I

0:24:33.359 --> 0:24:35.280
<v Speaker 1>think you're right. I think it comes into a lot

0:24:35.320 --> 0:24:40.160
<v Speaker 1>of like if you're someone who's you know, very attached

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:43.840
<v Speaker 1>to what people think, this is the biggest exercise. Flying

0:24:43.840 --> 0:24:46.240
<v Speaker 1>with the baby is the biggest practice you will ever

0:24:46.359 --> 0:24:50.000
<v Speaker 1>have of just you cannot care not you can only

0:24:50.040 --> 0:24:52.840
<v Speaker 1>do what you can do exactly and find that meditative

0:24:52.960 --> 0:24:56.000
<v Speaker 1>place inside of you to just tune out the eyeballs

0:24:56.160 --> 0:24:58.320
<v Speaker 1>or whatever and just try to help your kid out

0:24:58.359 --> 0:25:00.360
<v Speaker 1>with whatever is going on. And you know, some there's

0:25:00.359 --> 0:25:03.760
<v Speaker 1>a reason, sometimes there's not. But you know, my daughter

0:25:04.080 --> 0:25:08.240
<v Speaker 1>screamed for about nine hours straight on an overnight flight.

0:25:08.440 --> 0:25:11.280
<v Speaker 1>And where are you going Fiji? I mean, you guys

0:25:12.480 --> 0:25:15.760
<v Speaker 1>babies to Fiji? Like this woman is a beast, Like

0:25:15.840 --> 0:25:19.120
<v Speaker 1>these are goals right now? These are goals because I cried,

0:25:19.240 --> 0:25:21.280
<v Speaker 1>like when I had a baby, we were making Albie,

0:25:21.359 --> 0:25:23.720
<v Speaker 1>Like one of the biggest concerns I had was that

0:25:23.760 --> 0:25:26.320
<v Speaker 1>I felt like my travel life was over, and because

0:25:26.400 --> 0:25:29.840
<v Speaker 1>Adam and I had been not working actors for so long,

0:25:29.920 --> 0:25:32.239
<v Speaker 1>our travel life was very short. Like we had some

0:25:32.320 --> 0:25:34.320
<v Speaker 1>years where we actually could afford to see the world.

0:25:34.359 --> 0:25:35.920
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like you do. I feel like it's

0:25:35.920 --> 0:25:38.280
<v Speaker 1>my responsibility to try to see as much as I can.

0:25:38.720 --> 0:25:41.640
<v Speaker 1>And I love immersing myself in other cultures and other places.

0:25:41.680 --> 0:25:44.480
<v Speaker 1>And I just was very upset when I got pregnant,

0:25:44.480 --> 0:25:47.120
<v Speaker 1>like I don't want that to change. Um, And you're

0:25:47.160 --> 0:25:50.240
<v Speaker 1>such an inspiration to me. You really mean you've seen

0:25:50.280 --> 0:25:55.080
<v Speaker 1>that you have been everywhere the baby. Do you know that.

0:25:55.160 --> 0:25:56.560
<v Speaker 1>I think at the end of the day, it's like

0:25:56.800 --> 0:25:59.159
<v Speaker 1>it's as hard as it can be. And you know,

0:25:59.240 --> 0:26:02.320
<v Speaker 1>the rough nights, the sleeping, you know, the jet lab whatever,

0:26:03.200 --> 0:26:06.360
<v Speaker 1>it's always worth it. I've never regretted a trip. I've

0:26:06.400 --> 0:26:09.520
<v Speaker 1>never regretted. And it's like time passes. You're on a

0:26:09.520 --> 0:26:13.600
<v Speaker 1>plane for ten freaking hours. It's going to end eventually,

0:26:13.640 --> 0:26:16.160
<v Speaker 1>and then you're going to be in Fiji or worry wherever.

0:26:16.680 --> 0:26:19.080
<v Speaker 1>And it's you know, if you can just keep your

0:26:19.560 --> 0:26:23.359
<v Speaker 1>head out of other people's you know, issues, issues, and

0:26:23.359 --> 0:26:25.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm focused on just getting through it and getting to

0:26:25.640 --> 0:26:27.439
<v Speaker 1>the next stage and taking a nap or you know,

0:26:27.480 --> 0:26:29.959
<v Speaker 1>making it work with your partner. It's it's always worth it.

0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:33.879
<v Speaker 1>What about UM now that we've gotten off the plane, which, guys,

0:26:33.920 --> 0:26:35.879
<v Speaker 1>that is the big That is big. That is a

0:26:35.880 --> 0:26:38.760
<v Speaker 1>big part of it. Let's talk about hotel situations, staying

0:26:38.800 --> 0:26:41.800
<v Speaker 1>with friends, relatives, like what do you prefer um. We've

0:26:41.840 --> 0:26:45.320
<v Speaker 1>done a lot of airbnb s and um rentals and

0:26:45.400 --> 0:26:48.240
<v Speaker 1>that's always great and fun, especially if you know you

0:26:48.280 --> 0:26:51.120
<v Speaker 1>want to have a fridge or you're making your breakfast

0:26:51.160 --> 0:26:53.040
<v Speaker 1>for your kids or whatever, like that's always great. On

0:26:53.080 --> 0:26:55.080
<v Speaker 1>the other hand, it can mean that you're also doing

0:26:55.080 --> 0:26:58.080
<v Speaker 1>exactly what you do at home on vacation with a

0:26:58.160 --> 0:27:00.840
<v Speaker 1>million dishes a day, or you know, step two. So

0:27:00.880 --> 0:27:03.440
<v Speaker 1>I can see the benefit of just like the room

0:27:03.480 --> 0:27:08.400
<v Speaker 1>service the hotel. I think that's a really good idea

0:27:08.400 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 1>because I have found so far in our baby I'll

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:13.000
<v Speaker 1>be travels that like, yes, having a house is sort

0:27:13.040 --> 0:27:16.080
<v Speaker 1>of a better situation because there's like a bathtub and

0:27:16.119 --> 0:27:18.080
<v Speaker 1>like some of these nice hotel rooms only have a shower,

0:27:18.359 --> 0:27:21.399
<v Speaker 1>or like you know, we have a full kitchen so

0:27:21.480 --> 0:27:23.160
<v Speaker 1>I can do his food. But you're right, like, then

0:27:23.200 --> 0:27:25.040
<v Speaker 1>you're just doing the same ship you do. You've brought

0:27:25.040 --> 0:27:26.879
<v Speaker 1>all this gear from home, all the pouches and the

0:27:26.960 --> 0:27:28.840
<v Speaker 1>things and the spoons and the sippy cups that you

0:27:28.880 --> 0:27:30.239
<v Speaker 1>like to have at home. And then the next thing,

0:27:30.280 --> 0:27:32.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, you're like doing the same thing you're doing home,

0:27:32.560 --> 0:27:36.840
<v Speaker 1>and you're ever thought about it like that, Um, when

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:39.639
<v Speaker 1>you're traveling, what are you what are the things that

0:27:39.720 --> 0:27:43.240
<v Speaker 1>you UM? Space is also important, so it's like a

0:27:43.280 --> 0:27:46.639
<v Speaker 1>hotel rooms don't often have you know, the best space,

0:27:46.640 --> 0:27:48.880
<v Speaker 1>and I know you've like I'll be slept in many

0:27:48.920 --> 0:27:53.160
<v Speaker 1>a bathroom with many bath to get the black out.

0:27:53.320 --> 0:27:55.760
<v Speaker 1>We have these baby this travel we take it when

0:27:55.760 --> 0:27:58.480
<v Speaker 1>we travel. We take his travel crib everywhere. It's thirteen

0:27:58.520 --> 0:28:00.760
<v Speaker 1>pounds so it's so light, and we pop that ship open.

0:28:00.920 --> 0:28:03.520
<v Speaker 1>Everywhere we've been. He's lucky if he gets a room.

0:28:03.560 --> 0:28:05.560
<v Speaker 1>Most of the time he doesn't. He's usually in like

0:28:05.680 --> 0:28:10.080
<v Speaker 1>a nicer sized bathroom with the door closet, a roomy closet.

0:28:10.160 --> 0:28:12.040
<v Speaker 1>We've done a bunch of those. I just is for me.

0:28:12.119 --> 0:28:14.000
<v Speaker 1>It's like, as long as I know there's air ventilation,

0:28:14.000 --> 0:28:15.399
<v Speaker 1>that's the only thing I get like a little bit

0:28:15.400 --> 0:28:17.560
<v Speaker 1>nervous about because you want there to be like a

0:28:17.600 --> 0:28:20.320
<v Speaker 1>fan or vents or whatever. Um but that white We

0:28:20.400 --> 0:28:23.680
<v Speaker 1>bring our white noise machine. We bring the travel crib,

0:28:23.880 --> 0:28:26.400
<v Speaker 1>We bring his sippy cups or bottles, and we always

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:28.119
<v Speaker 1>bring I know it's not the best, but we do

0:28:28.280 --> 0:28:31.200
<v Speaker 1>bring pouches, you know, of the food and all that stuff.

0:28:31.240 --> 0:28:34.760
<v Speaker 1>Because sometimes we've traveled places where I just came to

0:28:34.760 --> 0:28:38.400
<v Speaker 1>our first experience in Dominican Republic, there was no milk. WHOA, like,

0:28:38.720 --> 0:28:41.440
<v Speaker 1>there's milk, but it's it's fun a lot which I

0:28:41.440 --> 0:28:44.000
<v Speaker 1>had never given him, like like shelf in those boxes

0:28:44.000 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 1>in the boxes, which I've never I didn't know if

0:28:46.040 --> 0:28:47.560
<v Speaker 1>he would have some. You know, I just my dad

0:28:47.600 --> 0:28:49.160
<v Speaker 1>and I like ran to the grocery shore and it's like, well,

0:28:49.200 --> 0:28:51.000
<v Speaker 1>Albie has like, you know, his two bottles of milk

0:28:51.000 --> 0:28:53.880
<v Speaker 1>every single day. And I was like, oh, ship, there's

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:56.320
<v Speaker 1>no milk here. The milk that I know, like in

0:28:56.360 --> 0:28:58.440
<v Speaker 1>a refrigerator like this is like it's all on a

0:28:58.480 --> 0:29:00.760
<v Speaker 1>shelf and it's like powder or whatever. I don't know.

0:29:00.840 --> 0:29:03.120
<v Speaker 1>But he did fine with it. Yeah, he had diarrhea

0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:04.280
<v Speaker 1>for like a day or doing. Then it was fine.

0:29:04.320 --> 0:29:06.240
<v Speaker 1>He loved it. And actually then the whole family loved it.

0:29:06.280 --> 0:29:08.320
<v Speaker 1>Everyone was like trying it with like our oreos at

0:29:08.400 --> 0:29:10.320
<v Speaker 1>night and we were like, holy sh it, this Parmelant

0:29:10.360 --> 0:29:11.920
<v Speaker 1>is freaking amazing, And then we were putting it in

0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:14.800
<v Speaker 1>our coffee like its delicious. There's certain things you can

0:29:14.840 --> 0:29:16.560
<v Speaker 1>get on the other side that you don't need to pack,

0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:21.120
<v Speaker 1>like diapers white although some countries diapers are weirdo. You

0:29:21.120 --> 0:29:25.240
<v Speaker 1>can't get some generation and I haven't found that Amazon.

0:29:25.280 --> 0:29:28.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you're flying domestically and you're doing it,

0:29:28.680 --> 0:29:31.840
<v Speaker 1>I definitely Amazon in advance a thing of diapers, a

0:29:31.880 --> 0:29:34.840
<v Speaker 1>thing of wipes, a thing of baby octop Yeah, I

0:29:34.880 --> 0:29:37.040
<v Speaker 1>sent it to my family's house in advance because I

0:29:37.040 --> 0:29:38.880
<v Speaker 1>don't want to fly with that stuff. And then also

0:29:38.960 --> 0:29:40.440
<v Speaker 1>it's so great to get there and not have to

0:29:40.480 --> 0:29:42.800
<v Speaker 1>do an additional run to the grocery store, Like you

0:29:42.800 --> 0:29:45.560
<v Speaker 1>show up and there's already diapers, wipes, the soap that

0:29:45.600 --> 0:29:47.800
<v Speaker 1>I use in the bath, like the few basic things.

0:29:48.440 --> 0:29:54.040
<v Speaker 1>Um uh. I do think that people go can go

0:29:54.120 --> 0:29:56.360
<v Speaker 1>a little overboard with the gear though, like I have seen,

0:29:57.360 --> 0:29:59.920
<v Speaker 1>at a certain point you have to just say enough

0:30:00.240 --> 0:30:02.080
<v Speaker 1>and that like we're going somewhere that people live and

0:30:02.080 --> 0:30:04.880
<v Speaker 1>it's going to be accessible, yes, you know, maybe yes.

0:30:04.960 --> 0:30:07.560
<v Speaker 1>Like the pack and play or the sleeping situation, whatever

0:30:07.720 --> 0:30:10.560
<v Speaker 1>is you feel comfortable with. That's always very key. The

0:30:10.720 --> 0:30:13.920
<v Speaker 1>love ees. I always pack a love in the suitcase

0:30:13.920 --> 0:30:15.560
<v Speaker 1>and then bring one on the plane just in case

0:30:15.600 --> 0:30:18.120
<v Speaker 1>a lovee gets the luggage gets lost or whatever, like

0:30:18.160 --> 0:30:20.960
<v Speaker 1>my kids need to sleep. But the genius I never

0:30:21.040 --> 0:30:23.640
<v Speaker 1>even thought about that. I always check the lovees. I

0:30:23.640 --> 0:30:25.840
<v Speaker 1>don't even think at the time the lovey got lost.

0:30:26.560 --> 0:30:28.920
<v Speaker 1>It's not cute, Oh my god. A love e is

0:30:29.000 --> 0:30:33.160
<v Speaker 1>just like the little baby, a little blank in the

0:30:33.200 --> 0:30:36.080
<v Speaker 1>little blank that goes in their crib, that whatever little

0:30:36.080 --> 0:30:37.360
<v Speaker 1>thing that they've had since they were a baby, that

0:30:37.400 --> 0:30:39.800
<v Speaker 1>they always sleep within their crib. It's like a lot

0:30:39.840 --> 0:30:43.040
<v Speaker 1>of babies have a little teddy bear teddy bear or

0:30:43.040 --> 0:30:45.200
<v Speaker 1>a little blankie or something like that, and a lot

0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:47.719
<v Speaker 1>of parents will have a few of them so that

0:30:47.760 --> 0:30:51.000
<v Speaker 1>when one eventually gets lost their comfort objects. Yes, their

0:30:51.000 --> 0:30:53.200
<v Speaker 1>comfort objects, so you fly with one and you check one,

0:30:53.200 --> 0:30:58.080
<v Speaker 1>which is genius. Um, what about routine, Like if you're

0:30:58.120 --> 0:31:00.320
<v Speaker 1>someone who's really on a good sleep schedule, want a

0:31:00.320 --> 0:31:03.120
<v Speaker 1>good eating schedule, that is you're like pretty stuck with

0:31:03.640 --> 0:31:05.479
<v Speaker 1>I think that holds a lot of people back from

0:31:05.560 --> 0:31:08.480
<v Speaker 1>traveling to They get scared. They get really scared about

0:31:09.200 --> 0:31:11.840
<v Speaker 1>time changes and how they're going to do it and

0:31:11.880 --> 0:31:14.080
<v Speaker 1>all that stuff. How do you handle it well? As

0:31:14.120 --> 0:31:18.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, my kids are not great sleepers, and it's nothing.

0:31:18.960 --> 0:31:20.680
<v Speaker 1>They just really like to be alive in a week

0:31:20.720 --> 0:31:23.560
<v Speaker 1>and like part of this world. So I think it's

0:31:23.640 --> 0:31:26.960
<v Speaker 1>just that part we just it's like you're going to travel,

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:28.920
<v Speaker 1>it's going to be different anyways. You know, we go

0:31:29.000 --> 0:31:32.760
<v Speaker 1>with we go with God. But um, yeah, I always

0:31:32.920 --> 0:31:35.600
<v Speaker 1>think that you know, the nap we're not ones to

0:31:35.720 --> 0:31:37.880
<v Speaker 1>try to skip naps. I do believe that, like you know,

0:31:38.000 --> 0:31:39.840
<v Speaker 1>but when you're traveling, sometimes they have to nap on

0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:41.960
<v Speaker 1>and go, or you think about it, like, okay, they're

0:31:41.960 --> 0:31:43.959
<v Speaker 1>going to do We're bringing the stroller, so we'll do

0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:46.520
<v Speaker 1>like a stroller nap or a car nap. Trying to

0:31:46.560 --> 0:31:50.000
<v Speaker 1>time out your your road trip or whatever, you know,

0:31:50.120 --> 0:31:51.960
<v Speaker 1>part of the days for the nap so that you

0:31:51.960 --> 0:31:53.600
<v Speaker 1>can get that out of the way. You know. Sometimes

0:31:53.640 --> 0:31:55.240
<v Speaker 1>my kids have had a hard time napping in like

0:31:55.480 --> 0:31:58.960
<v Speaker 1>unusual hotel rooms or whatever, and so I usually try

0:31:59.000 --> 0:32:00.640
<v Speaker 1>to figure out how to do nap on the go

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:03.880
<v Speaker 1>um bedtime. It really depends on the time change, you know.

0:32:04.000 --> 0:32:05.840
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it's like if you're travling to the East Coast,

0:32:06.200 --> 0:32:08.120
<v Speaker 1>it's nice to keep the l A kids on the

0:32:08.160 --> 0:32:10.160
<v Speaker 1>East Coast schedule, which I know you just did. I

0:32:10.320 --> 0:32:12.680
<v Speaker 1>rock that. My whole family's on the East Coast, And

0:32:12.720 --> 0:32:14.600
<v Speaker 1>obviously we live in l A. And it is the

0:32:14.640 --> 0:32:17.120
<v Speaker 1>ship like because he sleeps seven to seven here. So

0:32:17.160 --> 0:32:18.440
<v Speaker 1>when I go back to the East Coast for the

0:32:18.480 --> 0:32:21.040
<v Speaker 1>holidays at any point, which we do every year for

0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:24.360
<v Speaker 1>every freaking holiday, we just do ten to ten. So like,

0:32:24.760 --> 0:32:27.080
<v Speaker 1>what's great about that? Is he wakes up at like nine,

0:32:27.120 --> 0:32:29.240
<v Speaker 1>ten o'clock in the morning, he takes a nap three

0:32:29.240 --> 0:32:31.360
<v Speaker 1>hours later, he takes another nap three hours later, and

0:32:31.400 --> 0:32:34.120
<v Speaker 1>then he's up, you know, from six to ten at night,

0:32:34.120 --> 0:32:35.800
<v Speaker 1>and he has dinner with the whole family will take

0:32:35.880 --> 0:32:37.960
<v Speaker 1>him out to dinner. It's wonderful. I just keep him

0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 1>on his exact l A schedule, and I just move

0:32:40.160 --> 0:32:41.880
<v Speaker 1>it three hours later. What happens with my kids. We

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:43.800
<v Speaker 1>go to the East Coast. It's like that for two days,

0:32:43.880 --> 0:32:46.960
<v Speaker 1>and then because they love to be awake the sun,

0:32:47.120 --> 0:32:51.120
<v Speaker 1>they just start waking up. Or if you're going like

0:32:51.160 --> 0:32:53.120
<v Speaker 1>to Hawaii or you're going west from here, and then

0:32:53.160 --> 0:32:55.840
<v Speaker 1>you're up at four in the morning, and that's not fun.

0:32:55.920 --> 0:32:57.880
<v Speaker 1>But it's usually just a day or two, I say,

0:32:58.000 --> 0:33:01.719
<v Speaker 1>especially like going to someplace I think is easier than

0:33:01.800 --> 0:33:04.200
<v Speaker 1>coming home. Yeah, how is the home transition for you?

0:33:04.520 --> 0:33:07.680
<v Speaker 1>It's always a ship show. Yeah, but like you've said,

0:33:07.720 --> 0:33:10.200
<v Speaker 1>you've never found it to not be worth it exactly,

0:33:10.240 --> 0:33:12.600
<v Speaker 1>and you know it might be hard coming back for

0:33:12.640 --> 0:33:14.240
<v Speaker 1>a couple of days or whatever, but there's also a

0:33:14.280 --> 0:33:17.800
<v Speaker 1>comfort about everyone's got their own beds there, you know,

0:33:18.000 --> 0:33:22.760
<v Speaker 1>like the routine, the night that your your back. There's

0:33:22.800 --> 0:33:27.600
<v Speaker 1>something about that that's very also soothing for them. So

0:33:28.080 --> 0:33:30.000
<v Speaker 1>it might be rough depending on where you've been. But

0:33:30.760 --> 0:33:35.680
<v Speaker 1>have you ever flown with the kids by yourself? I don't, Yeah,

0:33:35.920 --> 0:33:40.800
<v Speaker 1>don't take a friend. I mean it is. I mean,

0:33:41.320 --> 0:33:43.440
<v Speaker 1>single moms out there, we've had some of you on

0:33:43.600 --> 0:33:47.160
<v Speaker 1>Katie's crib. It is. It is the realist thing. I

0:33:47.440 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 1>just traveled with him by myself over on an overnight flight,

0:33:50.000 --> 0:33:51.960
<v Speaker 1>and I wanted to prove to myself that I could

0:33:52.080 --> 0:33:54.840
<v Speaker 1>more than anything. Like Adam so wonderful and he's such

0:33:54.840 --> 0:33:56.880
<v Speaker 1>an involved dad, and he's so helpful on the plane,

0:33:56.880 --> 0:33:58.600
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't even think I've ever before that had

0:33:58.600 --> 0:34:01.080
<v Speaker 1>ever changed Alby's diaper on a plane, because Adam just

0:34:01.120 --> 0:34:03.120
<v Speaker 1>does it every time, which is the jam. Also, by

0:34:03.160 --> 0:34:04.520
<v Speaker 1>the way, we play in the bathroom for a good

0:34:04.520 --> 0:34:07.239
<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes. That's like another event on the plane is like,

0:34:07.520 --> 0:34:09.640
<v Speaker 1>oh he's the bathroom. Okay, we're gonna pull down the

0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:11.439
<v Speaker 1>changing table. He's gonna sit on it for fifteen minutes.

0:34:11.480 --> 0:34:12.960
<v Speaker 1>He's going to pull out all these tissues and we're

0:34:12.960 --> 0:34:14.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna put them back. Then he's going to play with

0:34:14.520 --> 0:34:16.239
<v Speaker 1>the soap that we're gonna put that back, like it's

0:34:16.280 --> 0:34:21.240
<v Speaker 1>just oh, another activity where he's like being held down. Um.

0:34:21.280 --> 0:34:24.400
<v Speaker 1>But I flew by myself overnight to Buffalo for Christmas,

0:34:24.480 --> 0:34:27.920
<v Speaker 1>and it was he didn't sleep for one minute. I

0:34:28.040 --> 0:34:31.240
<v Speaker 1>blest an entire night of sleep. I walked probably seven

0:34:31.280 --> 0:34:34.440
<v Speaker 1>miles up and down the fucking aisle for five hours

0:34:34.480 --> 0:34:37.320
<v Speaker 1>while he did back bends and screamed and punched me

0:34:37.360 --> 0:34:38.560
<v Speaker 1>in the face. And it was the first time I

0:34:38.600 --> 0:34:41.960
<v Speaker 1>ever like kind of grab I mean, I don't grab him,

0:34:42.000 --> 0:34:43.640
<v Speaker 1>but I like held his arms and I was like

0:34:43.840 --> 0:34:45.480
<v Speaker 1>looked him in the eye and I was like, please,

0:34:46.000 --> 0:34:50.320
<v Speaker 1>please stop, please, like I had been pushed to the

0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:53.560
<v Speaker 1>brink without a break. And then my you know what.

0:34:53.640 --> 0:34:56.120
<v Speaker 1>And then I was like, this is why it's really

0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:59.640
<v Speaker 1>interesting being an older mom, because my back from carrying

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:02.120
<v Speaker 1>him up and down aisles for five hours was like

0:35:02.560 --> 0:35:04.400
<v Speaker 1>on a fire. Like I just was like, this is

0:35:04.440 --> 0:35:07.720
<v Speaker 1>so much pain. Oh. I always bring aspen for myself. Oh,

0:35:08.080 --> 0:35:13.759
<v Speaker 1>great advil for yourself. You're going to be in some

0:35:13.800 --> 0:35:16.320
<v Speaker 1>weird positions. We always bring the ergo on the plane

0:35:16.320 --> 0:35:18.960
<v Speaker 1>to which is the baby carrier, because we'll do breaks

0:35:18.960 --> 0:35:21.880
<v Speaker 1>where like he'll play in the seat, and then we'll

0:35:22.160 --> 0:35:24.000
<v Speaker 1>hold him walking up down the aisle, but then we'll

0:35:24.000 --> 0:35:26.960
<v Speaker 1>put him in the carrier, which gives your arms sort

0:35:27.000 --> 0:35:28.480
<v Speaker 1>of a break, but then it screws up your back.

0:35:28.520 --> 0:35:30.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's always just about like what body part

0:35:30.280 --> 0:35:31.839
<v Speaker 1>is being injured at this point. Well, and you had

0:35:32.000 --> 0:35:34.160
<v Speaker 1>mentioned earlier with the bulkhead, which I'm such a huge

0:35:34.160 --> 0:35:36.680
<v Speaker 1>fan of, there's anyway you can get those seats first.

0:35:36.840 --> 0:35:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's a little tricky to take off the

0:35:38.600 --> 0:35:40.760
<v Speaker 1>landing because you have to store things up above whatever.

0:35:40.800 --> 0:35:43.400
<v Speaker 1>But having a little play area if your kids are

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:45.680
<v Speaker 1>old enough to sort of like have an activity on

0:35:45.719 --> 0:35:48.520
<v Speaker 1>the floor there, you know, bulkhead is the jam. We

0:35:48.560 --> 0:35:51.160
<v Speaker 1>build like a blockade so that he can't get to

0:35:51.200 --> 0:35:53.600
<v Speaker 1>the aisle and we just put Adams like backpack there

0:35:53.640 --> 0:35:55.520
<v Speaker 1>and then we throw all his toys on the floor

0:35:55.520 --> 0:35:58.320
<v Speaker 1>of the bulkhead and it's like having a little playroom

0:35:58.400 --> 0:36:00.120
<v Speaker 1>right now. Thank God. Can I tell you also what

0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:01.560
<v Speaker 1>I do. The first thing I do when I get

0:36:01.600 --> 0:36:04.360
<v Speaker 1>on the plane is I bring wet once antibacterial wipes

0:36:04.640 --> 0:36:08.799
<v Speaker 1>and I just wipe every surface. Seat belt. You have

0:36:08.960 --> 0:36:13.040
<v Speaker 1>to trade to people who are moms because my mom

0:36:13.120 --> 0:36:15.319
<v Speaker 1>my aunt Glenda is a flight attendant and I love

0:36:15.320 --> 0:36:18.040
<v Speaker 1>her very much, and she confided in me, and now

0:36:18.080 --> 0:36:22.479
<v Speaker 1>I will confide in all of you that those tray

0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:25.879
<v Speaker 1>tables and TVs are very rarely, if ever cleaned. So

0:36:26.560 --> 0:36:29.359
<v Speaker 1>um so, all y'all traveling and don't want the flu

0:36:29.440 --> 0:36:30.719
<v Speaker 1>in this? Then the other thing. You might be the

0:36:30.760 --> 0:36:33.600
<v Speaker 1>psychopath that everyone judges why you're taking out your chlorox wipes,

0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:36.440
<v Speaker 1>but I wipe that down. Don't care well. Also for babies,

0:36:36.480 --> 0:36:38.279
<v Speaker 1>because he does put the remote in his mouth. It

0:36:38.320 --> 0:36:40.400
<v Speaker 1>does like the television. He does do all of those things.

0:36:40.560 --> 0:36:43.160
<v Speaker 1>They're my kids. Faces are on the windows and lifting

0:36:43.160 --> 0:36:46.080
<v Speaker 1>and closing the windows and like blowing on the window

0:36:46.160 --> 0:36:49.040
<v Speaker 1>mains and stuff. I'm just imagining all the hands and

0:36:49.040 --> 0:36:58.439
<v Speaker 1>if lifting clothes, you know, great tips. Uh. We've talked

0:36:58.440 --> 0:37:00.799
<v Speaker 1>a lot about the stress involving ravel, But what are

0:37:01.280 --> 0:37:04.040
<v Speaker 1>okay when we say, which I think is really the

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:07.000
<v Speaker 1>point of this episode, that it is worth it? Why

0:37:07.200 --> 0:37:11.360
<v Speaker 1>do you think so? Like? What is your I think,

0:37:11.440 --> 0:37:13.719
<v Speaker 1>first of all, travel is not just the trip, but

0:37:13.840 --> 0:37:16.960
<v Speaker 1>it's looking forward to the trip and it's planning it.

0:37:17.080 --> 0:37:19.800
<v Speaker 1>And that brings me joy in advance of the trip,

0:37:20.239 --> 0:37:22.400
<v Speaker 1>and for me that's a hobby and it's something I

0:37:22.440 --> 0:37:24.279
<v Speaker 1>really love to do. So it's kind of like not

0:37:24.360 --> 0:37:26.160
<v Speaker 1>just a week in time or whatever, but it's the

0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:30.320
<v Speaker 1>whole leading up to it which gives me energy. Um,

0:37:30.360 --> 0:37:32.839
<v Speaker 1>and the anticipation of it and then knowing that it's

0:37:32.840 --> 0:37:35.880
<v Speaker 1>never going to be how you anticipate it, but um,

0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:38.200
<v Speaker 1>to let go of that and to be in it,

0:37:38.200 --> 0:37:42.040
<v Speaker 1>it's almost like a mindfulness thing and it's it's so

0:37:42.120 --> 0:37:45.479
<v Speaker 1>amazing and I I just at this point in time,

0:37:45.520 --> 0:37:48.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not picking places that are going to be super

0:37:48.640 --> 0:37:52.200
<v Speaker 1>challenging as far as like planes, trains and automobiles and

0:37:52.400 --> 0:37:55.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, maybe cities that are difficult to get through

0:37:55.480 --> 0:37:57.919
<v Speaker 1>and get around. But rather I'm looking for a place

0:37:58.000 --> 0:38:00.120
<v Speaker 1>that have a lot of natural beauty that will be

0:38:00.719 --> 0:38:03.360
<v Speaker 1>welcoming with the kids, that I can sort of have

0:38:03.440 --> 0:38:06.000
<v Speaker 1>an easy going kind of landing experience and just kind

0:38:06.000 --> 0:38:08.000
<v Speaker 1>of go with it. But um, for me, it's just

0:38:08.040 --> 0:38:11.400
<v Speaker 1>so life affirming to be around people of different cultures

0:38:11.520 --> 0:38:14.040
<v Speaker 1>and to hear their stories and to eat the food

0:38:14.239 --> 0:38:17.560
<v Speaker 1>and not just try to recreate my own life in

0:38:17.600 --> 0:38:20.440
<v Speaker 1>another country, but to kind of be a family in

0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:23.239
<v Speaker 1>another country and see kind of and just absorb and learn,

0:38:23.520 --> 0:38:25.439
<v Speaker 1>you know, from the world around me. When people say

0:38:25.480 --> 0:38:26.920
<v Speaker 1>that thing, I'm like, well, it's not worth it. The

0:38:26.960 --> 0:38:29.480
<v Speaker 1>kids don't remember it or things like that. Do you

0:38:29.840 --> 0:38:35.360
<v Speaker 1>feel like you're giving them memories or life lessons or

0:38:35.880 --> 0:38:38.480
<v Speaker 1>like how do they does Laslow? Like I'm dreaming bit

0:38:38.520 --> 0:38:41.680
<v Speaker 1>like does Laslow remember these things? He's starting to? I

0:38:41.680 --> 0:38:44.040
<v Speaker 1>have thought about that, And there's a lot of things.

0:38:44.080 --> 0:38:46.240
<v Speaker 1>You know, he does not remember, you what Tomahow and all,

0:38:48.440 --> 0:38:50.680
<v Speaker 1>but there are a lot of things now he remembers.

0:38:50.800 --> 0:38:55.480
<v Speaker 1>You know. Surprisingly, his memory is very sharp, and I

0:38:55.520 --> 0:38:58.120
<v Speaker 1>think even if he doesn't remember it, it's in his fabric,

0:38:58.200 --> 0:39:01.799
<v Speaker 1>it's in his muscles somewhere of that. And also it's

0:39:01.920 --> 0:39:06.239
<v Speaker 1>my memory. I remember it, and you know, frankly need that. Yeah,

0:39:06.320 --> 0:39:09.120
<v Speaker 1>they're building the memories. The biggest thing that one of

0:39:09.160 --> 0:39:11.359
<v Speaker 1>the loveliest things that Adam has done so far as

0:39:11.360 --> 0:39:13.399
<v Speaker 1>a dad was we went to Barcelona, as I said,

0:39:13.440 --> 0:39:15.160
<v Speaker 1>and again it was something like I wanted to prove

0:39:15.200 --> 0:39:18.400
<v Speaker 1>to myself that we could do it. Um. But he

0:39:18.560 --> 0:39:22.160
<v Speaker 1>when we came back, made a children's book that had

0:39:22.280 --> 0:39:26.839
<v Speaker 1>pictures of Albie in Spain with like you know, when

0:39:26.840 --> 0:39:29.680
<v Speaker 1>we saw a church or this, and then each word

0:39:29.719 --> 0:39:32.799
<v Speaker 1>in Spanish, so that it's like a Spanish picture book.

0:39:32.880 --> 0:39:34.800
<v Speaker 1>But like Adam was like then that way when albis

0:39:34.840 --> 0:39:37.160
<v Speaker 1>like three or four or five, six, and we're going

0:39:37.200 --> 0:39:39.759
<v Speaker 1>to build books like a library of the places in

0:39:39.800 --> 0:39:42.319
<v Speaker 1>the world he has seen. And I'm hoping that it

0:39:42.360 --> 0:39:44.799
<v Speaker 1>affects his memory, that he remembers that the world is

0:39:44.800 --> 0:39:47.480
<v Speaker 1>a big place and he's been like super fortunate to

0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:49.399
<v Speaker 1>see some of it. And I hope that he gets

0:39:49.440 --> 0:39:51.960
<v Speaker 1>the travel bug. You know, I growing up, we just

0:39:51.960 --> 0:39:54.879
<v Speaker 1>went on road trips to my grandparents or camping, say,

0:39:55.000 --> 0:39:57.960
<v Speaker 1>we never took vacations like so maybe for me it's

0:39:58.000 --> 0:40:00.239
<v Speaker 1>more exciting and part of what I want to do

0:40:00.280 --> 0:40:02.280
<v Speaker 1>because I didn't have that as a kid. So maybe

0:40:02.280 --> 0:40:04.200
<v Speaker 1>our kids will not have that. See, maybe they'll be

0:40:04.239 --> 0:40:11.399
<v Speaker 1>spoiled bread I didn't. Yeah, my kids like my first

0:40:11.400 --> 0:40:14.239
<v Speaker 1>speech vacation with Fiji. I know exactly. It could be

0:40:14.280 --> 0:40:17.480
<v Speaker 1>a total jerk that way, but you're right for us,

0:40:17.080 --> 0:40:20.919
<v Speaker 1>for us, for you, Um this is so I could

0:40:20.920 --> 0:40:22.719
<v Speaker 1>talk about this stuff for hours and we travel is

0:40:22.880 --> 0:40:25.120
<v Speaker 1>literally one of my life passions and where I feel happiest.

0:40:25.160 --> 0:40:27.520
<v Speaker 1>I think it's not coincidental that when I travel with

0:40:27.560 --> 0:40:30.360
<v Speaker 1>our family, our phones are off. We're very present with

0:40:30.400 --> 0:40:34.880
<v Speaker 1>each other, um, which I think is what offsets the

0:40:34.920 --> 0:40:37.400
<v Speaker 1>stress of travel, Like I think is stressful as it

0:40:37.520 --> 0:40:40.480
<v Speaker 1>is to fly and pack and be prepared and send

0:40:40.520 --> 0:40:42.239
<v Speaker 1>ship there in advance, and what are you gonna do

0:40:42.280 --> 0:40:43.880
<v Speaker 1>about food and there is no milk and all that

0:40:43.960 --> 0:40:47.480
<v Speaker 1>stuff Once you get there, You've set aside that time

0:40:47.600 --> 0:40:50.560
<v Speaker 1>for vacation and for experience. And I mean we turn

0:40:50.600 --> 0:40:52.839
<v Speaker 1>off our phone. We only check our phones once a day.

0:40:53.000 --> 0:40:56.239
<v Speaker 1>You know. It's like a totally different thing. And I

0:40:56.239 --> 0:40:59.719
<v Speaker 1>feel like that's worth it sure, an opportunity to unplug

0:40:59.800 --> 0:41:03.640
<v Speaker 1>and just kind of be where you are, and it's huge.

0:41:03.719 --> 0:41:05.879
<v Speaker 1>I think it's really and it's a great privilege. I mean,

0:41:05.960 --> 0:41:08.520
<v Speaker 1>let's be honest, we have We are lucky to be

0:41:08.560 --> 0:41:12.160
<v Speaker 1>able to even have this conversation, you know. So I'm

0:41:12.239 --> 0:41:14.040
<v Speaker 1>not looking forward to when Alby's over to and I

0:41:14.040 --> 0:41:16.839
<v Speaker 1>have to buy him a flight. I'm like, what how

0:41:17.120 --> 0:41:20.839
<v Speaker 1>two kids over to and tickets and then from there?

0:41:20.880 --> 0:41:22.720
<v Speaker 1>Now I know my parents only took us on road trips.

0:41:22.800 --> 0:41:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Is there any advice you want to give to moms

0:41:26.040 --> 0:41:28.919
<v Speaker 1>who might be afraid of traveling or might be having

0:41:28.920 --> 0:41:32.000
<v Speaker 1>their first travel coming up or well. I think that

0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:34.719
<v Speaker 1>it depends. Like if you're just have you have to

0:41:34.800 --> 0:41:37.840
<v Speaker 1>go to your in laws or to your family, or

0:41:37.880 --> 0:41:40.600
<v Speaker 1>you have to do something, then you know you might

0:41:40.640 --> 0:41:43.000
<v Speaker 1>be nervous, but it's just it's not even an option.

0:41:43.120 --> 0:41:47.480
<v Speaker 1>So just to arm yourself with as much you know,

0:41:47.560 --> 0:41:51.120
<v Speaker 1>help And luckily my partner is great trading off. Like

0:41:51.160 --> 0:41:53.800
<v Speaker 1>I might have a really rough night with my kids,

0:41:53.840 --> 0:41:55.400
<v Speaker 1>but like we have a deal where I get to

0:41:55.440 --> 0:41:57.400
<v Speaker 1>take like an early morning nap and he takes a

0:41:57.440 --> 0:42:01.319
<v Speaker 1>turn with the kids and then after that point, you know,

0:42:01.520 --> 0:42:04.239
<v Speaker 1>all is well. We can deal. It's just as its

0:42:04.280 --> 0:42:06.480
<v Speaker 1>taking care of yourself in little baby steps, like what

0:42:06.520 --> 0:42:08.160
<v Speaker 1>do you need to get through this day? I have

0:42:08.239 --> 0:42:13.640
<v Speaker 1>sobbed on planes lots of times, ben totally overwhelmed, and

0:42:13.680 --> 0:42:16.879
<v Speaker 1>it's just part of it. I think, like you're still

0:42:16.920 --> 0:42:19.879
<v Speaker 1>doing it. I still do it. Why I'm crazy, You're

0:42:21.360 --> 0:42:23.399
<v Speaker 1>you're so awesome, And I think you have to take

0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:26.319
<v Speaker 1>care of yourself and also as a person, like if

0:42:26.320 --> 0:42:28.200
<v Speaker 1>travel is something important to you and you had that

0:42:28.239 --> 0:42:30.040
<v Speaker 1>bug and spark and you did that when you were

0:42:30.360 --> 0:42:33.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, before you had kids, then maybe honor that

0:42:33.480 --> 0:42:36.080
<v Speaker 1>and you know, don't shut that off just because you

0:42:36.080 --> 0:42:39.160
<v Speaker 1>have kids. But give him a chance to see what happens,

0:42:39.160 --> 0:42:42.800
<v Speaker 1>and if it all goes horribly well, you can that happens,

0:42:42.960 --> 0:42:46.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, and you can change again, like kids change

0:42:46.200 --> 0:42:49.000
<v Speaker 1>so much, like they might be terrible at it too

0:42:49.040 --> 0:42:51.760
<v Speaker 1>and then great at it at five. Like it's so,

0:42:52.120 --> 0:42:53.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I can't wait. Albi's not at the age

0:42:53.760 --> 0:42:55.840
<v Speaker 1>at where he understands stories on an iPad, so I

0:42:55.840 --> 0:42:58.200
<v Speaker 1>don't have it's just me entertaining him for six hours,

0:42:58.239 --> 0:43:00.840
<v Speaker 1>but like we're longer. But as soon as he gets

0:43:00.880 --> 0:43:05.000
<v Speaker 1>like good at watching a movie, hello, I can't oh,

0:43:05.080 --> 0:43:08.560
<v Speaker 1>I cannot wait to put him down in front of

0:43:08.600 --> 0:43:12.480
<v Speaker 1>a screen. I mean, I I'm not a screen person otherwise,

0:43:12.520 --> 0:43:15.160
<v Speaker 1>but for travel, forget it. Sure, And you know, there's

0:43:15.200 --> 0:43:18.600
<v Speaker 1>all kinds of little devices you can get, like earphone

0:43:18.600 --> 0:43:20.600
<v Speaker 1>splitters if you have two kids so that they can

0:43:20.600 --> 0:43:24.560
<v Speaker 1>share one iPad, or you know, there's these amazing like

0:43:24.760 --> 0:43:27.680
<v Speaker 1>battery charger packs you can you know, because things run

0:43:27.719 --> 0:43:30.240
<v Speaker 1>out of charge. Not all airplanes have the charging stuff

0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:34.239
<v Speaker 1>on them. And there's a whole industry of travel stuff,

0:43:34.400 --> 0:43:38.960
<v Speaker 1>which I'm not really you know, great at getting everything,

0:43:39.040 --> 0:43:43.480
<v Speaker 1>but there are assumptions of travel travel hacks. Yeah, I know.

0:43:43.680 --> 0:43:45.640
<v Speaker 1>The first time a bunch of my friends travel, they

0:43:45.640 --> 0:43:47.560
<v Speaker 1>were like all calling the airlines in advance, like do

0:43:47.560 --> 0:43:49.560
<v Speaker 1>we need the birth certificate? Do I need a passport?

0:43:49.640 --> 0:43:52.000
<v Speaker 1>Even though I'm only traveling domestically, Like what are you?

0:43:52.040 --> 0:43:53.520
<v Speaker 1>What do you bring for that kind of stuff? I

0:43:53.560 --> 0:43:58.400
<v Speaker 1>have been stopped at the gate by UM flight attendants

0:43:58.440 --> 0:44:06.520
<v Speaker 1>who want most UM. My daughter has let me, how

0:44:06.520 --> 0:44:09.040
<v Speaker 1>do I price having to get in my head about

0:44:09.080 --> 0:44:13.640
<v Speaker 1>this UM when traveling, I've had to show my daughter's

0:44:13.680 --> 0:44:16.480
<v Speaker 1>passport or proof that she's not too. If you have

0:44:16.520 --> 0:44:19.000
<v Speaker 1>a toddler who looks maybe like they're a little bit older,

0:44:19.200 --> 0:44:22.720
<v Speaker 1>they will sometimes asked to see said they're not too,

0:44:23.080 --> 0:44:26.759
<v Speaker 1>but like I think Southwest always checks UM. But you

0:44:26.800 --> 0:44:30.080
<v Speaker 1>can usually get by with a picture of it, of

0:44:30.120 --> 0:44:32.279
<v Speaker 1>their passport if you show them a picture or some

0:44:32.360 --> 0:44:34.279
<v Speaker 1>kind of proof. I think I showed him in Instagram

0:44:34.400 --> 0:44:38.360
<v Speaker 1>birth announcement that had my daughters like that had the

0:44:38.480 --> 0:44:40.200
<v Speaker 1>date on it, and they were like, okay, that's fine,

0:44:40.239 --> 0:44:42.920
<v Speaker 1>like they let that go. But in general, I always

0:44:43.000 --> 0:44:46.160
<v Speaker 1>have a picture of their passport because something happens with

0:44:46.200 --> 0:44:48.880
<v Speaker 1>the actual passports or whatever like that. So you always

0:44:48.920 --> 0:44:51.399
<v Speaker 1>travel with, which is really smart. Domestically, I don't take

0:44:51.440 --> 0:44:53.239
<v Speaker 1>my kids passports, but I'll have a picture of their

0:44:53.239 --> 0:44:56.200
<v Speaker 1>passports on my phone. Great, okay, so a picture of

0:44:56.239 --> 0:44:59.080
<v Speaker 1>their passports on their phone for domestic And I did

0:44:59.120 --> 0:45:00.919
<v Speaker 1>travel when I first traveling with him with his birth

0:45:00.920 --> 0:45:02.480
<v Speaker 1>certificate because that's what I was supposed to do and

0:45:02.480 --> 0:45:04.600
<v Speaker 1>no one ever asked me for it. So like, I

0:45:04.600 --> 0:45:06.839
<v Speaker 1>have no idea now that he has a passport, which,

0:45:06.880 --> 0:45:08.160
<v Speaker 1>by the way, for all of you guys, if you're

0:45:08.160 --> 0:45:10.080
<v Speaker 1>interested in getting you kids pasport is the cutest freaking

0:45:10.080 --> 0:45:12.360
<v Speaker 1>thing in the entire world. Like his passport photo is

0:45:12.600 --> 0:45:17.919
<v Speaker 1>I cannot it is so cute. Um, we travel with that,

0:45:18.560 --> 0:45:20.800
<v Speaker 1>Um if we're flying outside of the country, but in

0:45:20.840 --> 0:45:22.279
<v Speaker 1>the country, Yeah, I don't bring it, but I do

0:45:22.320 --> 0:45:23.959
<v Speaker 1>have a photo of it on my phone just in case.

0:45:23.960 --> 0:45:26.000
<v Speaker 1>That's a smart idea. And he's getting older, so you

0:45:26.040 --> 0:45:28.799
<v Speaker 1>might get asked next time you go he is he

0:45:28.840 --> 0:45:31.120
<v Speaker 1>too because you are because you should have paid for

0:45:31.160 --> 0:45:33.200
<v Speaker 1>this a seat for him? Yeah, or they just want

0:45:33.200 --> 0:45:35.239
<v Speaker 1>to see because I guess I can imagine people try

0:45:35.280 --> 0:45:38.520
<v Speaker 1>to get away with that. Hell yeah, save that money

0:45:38.560 --> 0:45:42.280
<v Speaker 1>to last months. You know. It's like still my god.

0:45:42.600 --> 0:45:45.520
<v Speaker 1>But as far as documents, you know, I have been

0:45:45.520 --> 0:45:48.560
<v Speaker 1>places where they, like a daycare that wanted to see

0:45:48.760 --> 0:45:53.560
<v Speaker 1>his communization records or whatever. But that stuff is all

0:45:53.640 --> 0:45:57.880
<v Speaker 1>question we ever talked about. Have you hired babysitters in

0:45:58.080 --> 0:46:01.160
<v Speaker 1>foreign countries or or any were on vacation, because some

0:46:01.200 --> 0:46:03.440
<v Speaker 1>people are really nervous about that, Like some people are

0:46:03.560 --> 0:46:06.960
<v Speaker 1>very like you know, sometimes hotels have daycare offered or

0:46:07.040 --> 0:46:08.880
<v Speaker 1>like nanny's for like not that much, and you can

0:46:08.960 --> 0:46:10.480
<v Speaker 1>hire a nanny to come to your hotel room at

0:46:10.560 --> 0:46:11.840
<v Speaker 1>nights that you and your husband can go out to

0:46:11.880 --> 0:46:14.239
<v Speaker 1>dinner or like you and your parents or whatever. Have

0:46:14.360 --> 0:46:17.879
<v Speaker 1>you done that before? Yes, we've hired, Um, we've hired

0:46:17.920 --> 0:46:21.520
<v Speaker 1>babysitters through hotels in foreign countries and um it was

0:46:21.719 --> 0:46:25.440
<v Speaker 1>I trusted them and it was fine. It was you know,

0:46:25.480 --> 0:46:27.520
<v Speaker 1>were they the best babies that I've ever had? No?

0:46:27.680 --> 0:46:32.600
<v Speaker 1>You know, I've fired babysitters through friends in cities and

0:46:32.640 --> 0:46:34.480
<v Speaker 1>then wished I had gone through the hotel because these

0:46:34.480 --> 0:46:36.640
<v Speaker 1>people ended up being kind of like, you know, wackos.

0:46:36.760 --> 0:46:39.840
<v Speaker 1>So sometimes maybe your friends are not as vetted as

0:46:40.080 --> 0:46:44.239
<v Speaker 1>like the hotel, which is like like the certified, like

0:46:44.480 --> 0:46:46.360
<v Speaker 1>like chances are a lot of times if you're hiring

0:46:46.360 --> 0:46:50.360
<v Speaker 1>a nanny through a resort or through a hotel or

0:46:50.440 --> 0:46:52.760
<v Speaker 1>through something like that, they've had to be CPR trained,

0:46:52.840 --> 0:46:55.760
<v Speaker 1>they've had to have a lot of experience, background checks,

0:46:55.800 --> 0:46:57.600
<v Speaker 1>things like that. So most of the time, even though

0:46:57.600 --> 0:47:00.919
<v Speaker 1>their personality wise might not be your exact am, they're

0:47:00.960 --> 0:47:04.799
<v Speaker 1>probably experienced. Yeah. And I've had some sitters through friends

0:47:04.840 --> 0:47:07.480
<v Speaker 1>who have been amazing too, And I felt so comfortable

0:47:07.480 --> 0:47:09.680
<v Speaker 1>because I at least had one degree of separation and

0:47:09.719 --> 0:47:12.080
<v Speaker 1>I knew a person and their kids, and I felt

0:47:12.080 --> 0:47:14.120
<v Speaker 1>so comfortable. I think it really comes down to your comfort.

0:47:14.200 --> 0:47:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Like I was so nervous dropping my son off at

0:47:17.040 --> 0:47:19.319
<v Speaker 1>his first like daycare in a foreign city. I think

0:47:19.320 --> 0:47:20.960
<v Speaker 1>it was like a ski trip and toe or something,

0:47:20.960 --> 0:47:23.960
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, terrified, And it was fine.

0:47:24.200 --> 0:47:26.800
<v Speaker 1>He had a blast and it was it was all good.

0:47:26.800 --> 0:47:28.759
<v Speaker 1>But I think trying to fold in some sort of

0:47:29.000 --> 0:47:31.120
<v Speaker 1>childcare into your trips so you can maybe have an

0:47:31.120 --> 0:47:33.160
<v Speaker 1>opportunity with your partner to go out to dinner and

0:47:33.200 --> 0:47:36.400
<v Speaker 1>do something is nice. And you know, what about have

0:47:36.800 --> 0:47:38.840
<v Speaker 1>you ever heard of these things? Like I've had friends

0:47:38.920 --> 0:47:42.200
<v Speaker 1>text and asked like, so is it bad if We're

0:47:42.200 --> 0:47:44.640
<v Speaker 1>like in a hotel room and the monitors on, and

0:47:44.680 --> 0:47:47.480
<v Speaker 1>we go down to the restaurant in the hotel to

0:47:47.560 --> 0:47:49.279
<v Speaker 1>like go out to dinner, and no, I'm seriously, these

0:47:49.280 --> 0:47:52.600
<v Speaker 1>are the texts I get, like, Okay, we're in Mexico

0:47:53.239 --> 0:47:55.960
<v Speaker 1>and our room is over here and the restaurant is

0:47:56.040 --> 0:47:58.560
<v Speaker 1>like right across the pool, and if our monitors on,

0:47:58.640 --> 0:48:00.239
<v Speaker 1>can we go out to dinner and get waste? Did?

0:48:00.320 --> 0:48:02.800
<v Speaker 1>Like what's everyone's failing on that? What do you think?

0:48:03.920 --> 0:48:07.960
<v Speaker 1>I haven't done it, but like I probably would do it.

0:48:08.040 --> 0:48:10.200
<v Speaker 1>I thought about doing it in the Dominican Republic, Like

0:48:10.280 --> 0:48:13.919
<v Speaker 1>we had the hotel room right next to the bar

0:48:14.480 --> 0:48:16.440
<v Speaker 1>and my parents were meeting there for like a drink

0:48:16.440 --> 0:48:18.400
<v Speaker 1>at five, and Albie was still napping, and I was

0:48:18.440 --> 0:48:21.720
<v Speaker 1>like the monitors on my phone like I'm literally looking

0:48:21.760 --> 0:48:26.280
<v Speaker 1>at him and I am literally, I don't know, thirty

0:48:26.320 --> 0:48:30.359
<v Speaker 1>five steps away. So I mean he ended up waking

0:48:30.440 --> 0:48:32.520
<v Speaker 1>up and it didn't happen. But I was almost doing it,

0:48:32.680 --> 0:48:34.960
<v Speaker 1>Like I was almost like it's fine, saying we almost

0:48:35.000 --> 0:48:37.400
<v Speaker 1>did it once, and we was before video monitors, so

0:48:37.440 --> 0:48:40.480
<v Speaker 1>we had like the sound monitor, and then I think,

0:48:40.560 --> 0:48:44.360
<v Speaker 1>my oh no, how is it? I think my husband,

0:48:45.840 --> 0:48:48.440
<v Speaker 1>and so his phone was on and we had a phone,

0:48:48.600 --> 0:48:50.800
<v Speaker 1>so we were like listening and we walked but I

0:48:50.840 --> 0:48:53.680
<v Speaker 1>think we'd like chickened out, Like we walked out ten

0:48:53.719 --> 0:48:56.319
<v Speaker 1>minutes and then we're Some people are pretty brave about it.

0:48:56.320 --> 0:48:58.239
<v Speaker 1>Like I have a friend on a tour right now

0:48:58.280 --> 0:49:00.279
<v Speaker 1>of a show. You know, she's in a music coal

0:49:00.400 --> 0:49:03.200
<v Speaker 1>tour around the country, and her babies with her and

0:49:03.920 --> 0:49:06.640
<v Speaker 1>um they're staying. So they're in a lot of hotels,

0:49:06.640 --> 0:49:08.160
<v Speaker 1>a lot, and she'll get out of the show to

0:49:08.160 --> 0:49:10.440
<v Speaker 1>eleven PM and like the babies asleep and they have

0:49:10.520 --> 0:49:12.120
<v Speaker 1>the monitor on, and like her and her husband go

0:49:12.160 --> 0:49:14.000
<v Speaker 1>down to the hotel bar and they just like have

0:49:14.120 --> 0:49:17.000
<v Speaker 1>drinks and she's like, I mean, god forbid that one

0:49:17.040 --> 0:49:20.080
<v Speaker 1>time though, It's like that terror would live within me.

0:49:20.360 --> 0:49:22.840
<v Speaker 1>But like what would happen? I mean, I guess it's scary.

0:49:23.040 --> 0:49:25.359
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but I'm sure like thirty years ago,

0:49:25.520 --> 0:49:28.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, oh my god, Like my mother in law

0:49:28.480 --> 0:49:30.239
<v Speaker 1>would be having a heart attack right now. But like

0:49:30.320 --> 0:49:32.359
<v Speaker 1>my parents, I used to my parents used to take

0:49:32.400 --> 0:49:35.400
<v Speaker 1>us camping every year and we would be asleep in

0:49:35.440 --> 0:49:37.799
<v Speaker 1>the cabin, all the babies, and my parents would be

0:49:37.800 --> 0:49:40.960
<v Speaker 1>like down the row of cabins at the fire pit

0:49:41.120 --> 0:49:44.480
<v Speaker 1>with everybody like drinking a thousand beers, roasting hot dogs,

0:49:44.520 --> 0:49:47.440
<v Speaker 1>and we were far away in the cabin, and they're like,

0:49:47.560 --> 0:49:49.719
<v Speaker 1>we would just hear, like you could scream, like if

0:49:49.719 --> 0:49:50.759
<v Speaker 1>you woke up, Like you know what I mean. I

0:49:50.800 --> 0:49:55.839
<v Speaker 1>just were so attle bit protective, protective, and we are

0:49:55.920 --> 0:49:59.760
<v Speaker 1>always nervous of the worst scenario happening. So I'm curious

0:49:59.800 --> 0:50:03.160
<v Speaker 1>of how other moms speaking to worst case scenario. You know.

0:50:03.320 --> 0:50:05.360
<v Speaker 1>I know I've texted you a picture of the amount

0:50:05.360 --> 0:50:10.600
<v Speaker 1>of medication I take to foreign countries because um, my doctor,

0:50:10.760 --> 0:50:13.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, he said, like, look, if you're in Hawaii,

0:50:13.239 --> 0:50:15.120
<v Speaker 1>I can call you in a Z pack or whatever

0:50:15.160 --> 0:50:16.920
<v Speaker 1>for the kid, but like if you're in Figiarior and

0:50:16.920 --> 0:50:19.080
<v Speaker 1>the one of these other crazy places, like it's going

0:50:19.160 --> 0:50:20.880
<v Speaker 1>to be more difficult. So let me just give you

0:50:20.920 --> 0:50:23.480
<v Speaker 1>this um prescription in advance, and you have it in

0:50:23.520 --> 0:50:25.160
<v Speaker 1>your bag and you're ready to go. So I always

0:50:25.239 --> 0:50:28.840
<v Speaker 1>bring like some kind of antibiotic. Couldn't so smart, huge

0:50:28.920 --> 0:50:30.759
<v Speaker 1>travel tip. I used to do that for myself when

0:50:30.760 --> 0:50:32.560
<v Speaker 1>we would travel along, like when we went to Africa,

0:50:32.640 --> 0:50:34.759
<v Speaker 1>I brought like or anywhere we would go, I would

0:50:34.800 --> 0:50:41.320
<v Speaker 1>bring U T I medicine, travelers, diarrhea, medicine, infection, East infection, Hello,

0:50:41.480 --> 0:50:44.240
<v Speaker 1>give me dice blue cans. But like I would travel

0:50:44.280 --> 0:50:46.520
<v Speaker 1>with that stuff because you come on, we're we know,

0:50:46.800 --> 0:50:48.960
<v Speaker 1>like you got East infection, We like know what's happening,

0:50:49.040 --> 0:50:51.280
<v Speaker 1>and like I don't you know? So you don't want

0:50:50.640 --> 0:50:54.000
<v Speaker 1>to like four days to to find a monest at

0:50:54.080 --> 0:50:57.759
<v Speaker 1>seven that's like hundreds of years old. Um, But this

0:50:57.840 --> 0:50:59.640
<v Speaker 1>is a great call with babies too. If you go

0:50:59.719 --> 0:51:02.640
<v Speaker 1>to a place that it might not be easily accessible

0:51:02.640 --> 0:51:04.560
<v Speaker 1>to you to go to your pediatrician and say, hey,

0:51:04.680 --> 0:51:07.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm traveling to this foreign country that it might not

0:51:07.680 --> 0:51:10.360
<v Speaker 1>be so easy to get stuff. What do you recommend taking?

0:51:10.400 --> 0:51:12.879
<v Speaker 1>Can I take one antibiotic with me? Should I take

0:51:13.000 --> 0:51:15.400
<v Speaker 1>cold serap, cough syrup? Of your child's of age to

0:51:15.440 --> 0:51:18.440
<v Speaker 1>be taking that stuff exactly? My son has really bad

0:51:18.480 --> 0:51:21.440
<v Speaker 1>egg amunt so we always have like different kinds of

0:51:21.440 --> 0:51:23.680
<v Speaker 1>the hydro cortisone creams and the things that we can

0:51:23.880 --> 0:51:27.399
<v Speaker 1>have just extra. There's like an antibiotic ointment in case

0:51:27.440 --> 0:51:29.360
<v Speaker 1>one of his eximas gets infected. You know, things like

0:51:29.400 --> 0:51:31.799
<v Speaker 1>that that would be hard. And again you could go

0:51:31.880 --> 0:51:35.200
<v Speaker 1>down a crazy wormhole and go way overboard on this stuff.

0:51:35.239 --> 0:51:38.719
<v Speaker 1>So it's not really necessary in general, but um, for

0:51:38.800 --> 0:51:40.600
<v Speaker 1>places where it might be a little more off the

0:51:40.600 --> 0:51:44.960
<v Speaker 1>beaten path, I definitely recommend that. So smart. You are

0:51:45.160 --> 0:51:50.880
<v Speaker 1>my travel and friend goals guru of having amazing, awesome

0:51:51.000 --> 0:51:54.520
<v Speaker 1>kids who are world travelers like their mommy. Um, and

0:51:54.600 --> 0:51:57.759
<v Speaker 1>I hope I'm sitting here in three or four years

0:51:57.800 --> 0:51:59.600
<v Speaker 1>saying that I went to feed you with two children

0:51:59.640 --> 0:52:02.640
<v Speaker 1>and I was brave enough to do it well. Likewise,

0:52:02.880 --> 0:52:06.040
<v Speaker 1>you are an incredible traveler with your son eating already

0:52:06.040 --> 0:52:09.600
<v Speaker 1>taken into such amazing places, and gosh, do all your

0:52:09.600 --> 0:52:15.320
<v Speaker 1>listeners know how wonderful you are? You love you travel together,

0:52:16.560 --> 0:52:21.080
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0:52:27.120 --> 0:52:30.160
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