1 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for 2 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: joining us. We're so excited to be back. How are 3 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: you doing today, Susan? 4 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 2: I love being here with your girlfriend, you know, and hey, 5 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:21,600 Speaker 2: I'm glad to have you. Please check out our latest 6 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 2: episodes because I can't even tell you how much fun 7 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: we've been having. We've had a lot of the men 8 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 2: from Jones season in this year. 9 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: And speaking of the men from Jones season and of 10 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation, we have one of our newest members joining 11 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 1: us today. Please welcome Michael from Jones season with Golden Bachelorette. 12 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 3: How are you doing today, Michael? 13 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 4: I'm great? 14 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 3: How are you well, Susan? 15 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 2: You're a nice sunny climate because I'm sitting here in 16 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 2: the rain, still on antibiotics, but other than that, I'm fabulous. 17 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 3: Susan gave me her disease. 18 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, the sun just came out. Session nice. 19 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 5: Should I tell everyone listening what you guys were up 20 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 5: to the last time I saw you? 21 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: Boy, he's jumping right, sure, Michael, go ahead, just make 22 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 1: us look like fools. 23 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 5: Go ahead, So you're about to engage in a shot 24 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 5: drinking contest with Chuck and Joan and I think Nancy 25 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 5: was there too. I understand that it ended not with 26 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,400 Speaker 5: a with a bangle, with a whimper. 27 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 3: Am I right with a whimper? 28 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 4: Yeah? 29 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: Well up if Chuck decided he had had enough for 30 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: the night. And uh so now that you've now that 31 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 1: you've opened the can of worms, Michael, Uh, Chalk is 32 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: a guy who when you put him in a party room, 33 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: he has his phone and he's like, who. 34 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 3: Should we call? 35 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: He called Michael, he called he called Jonathan Michael, he 36 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: called like four different guys J Jordans. So we were 37 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: at a party in California and Chalk just had to 38 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: call everyone. We were at the baby shower. Ben's yeah, 39 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: almost baby shower. So yeah, thanks Michael for bringing that up. 40 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 3: It's uh, it was. We got done incited when we called, 41 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 3: didn't you Michael? 42 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 4: I love you. I wish I was there. 43 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 3: Yeah. We had a good time, we really did. 44 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:26,079 Speaker 1: Then. It's so nice getting to know you. So how 45 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: have you been since you've been off the show? 46 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,399 Speaker 5: I think great, I Uh, life goes out, but this 47 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 5: is still you know, there's still going on in the 48 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 5: sense and I love that and I'm soaking it every 49 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 5: minute of it. And that I can't. It's wonderful. 50 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 2: Can I just let you in on a little something. 51 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: This is your life now, this is it. It's not 52 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 2: going away. We're all here, We're all members, if you will, 53 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: a Bachelor nation. 54 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 3: We love it. They love you. 55 00:02:55,919 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 5: I'm proud of being alumni Fanta. You know, it's been 56 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 5: a remarkable experience. I wouldn't trade it for anything in 57 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 5: the world, and I'm grateful to have done it. 58 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, absolutely. 59 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 2: What does it mean to you to be in your 60 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 2: golden years if you will, Well. 61 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 4: I don't love that word. 62 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 5: I don't either, right, Yeah, a young person thought of 63 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 5: that most likely, right, But it means ideally, it means 64 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 5: that you're heading to the best part of your life 65 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 5: and you're getting to enjoy the years that you have, 66 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 5: hopefully a little more free time. I'm retired, so I'm 67 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 5: really soaking that up and trying to develop my creative 68 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 5: side with hobbies and just getting out there and having 69 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 5: some fun. I'm still an adventurous guy like I was 70 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 5: when I was young, and I'm fortunate that I'm. 71 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 4: In good enough how to enjoy that. 72 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 5: So I'm an experience in life to the fullest right now. 73 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 2: Absolutely, I mean I always called it, it's the last 74 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,839 Speaker 2: chapter with the best chapter. 75 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 3: And the longest because I'm hoping. 76 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 5: For surprise ending where I get to just live on. 77 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: I always say Sam living to one hundred and ten, 78 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: So I don't want to live that well. 79 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 3: I'm going to be healthy, healthy. I just want somebody 80 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 3: to love. 81 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 2: And love me back. Isn't that what everybody thinks about? 82 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 2: That's why you went on the show? 83 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 4: Absolutely? 84 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely, And you know I love my kids, they 85 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 5: love me back, but you know little somebody. 86 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 4: Else would be. 87 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: So what's it like, Michael, what's dating likes? Unce he 88 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 1: left the show, I haven't. 89 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 5: Done much of it. I have done a little, and 90 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 5: you have to try very cautiously because you get a 91 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 5: lot of people you. 92 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 4: Know on Instagram and these other sides just popping up. 93 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 3: Say you're another guy. You get a lot of d all. 94 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 2: The men, all the men do because women are on 95 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 2: social media. Men our age weren't really on a lot 96 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 2: of them aren't on social media, so we. 97 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 3: Don't hear from people. 98 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 2: Were you a big person on Instagram prior to the show, Michael, 99 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 2: I did not. 100 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 5: Belong to Instagram before for THEA So I'll tell you 101 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 5: what though, a lot of it's, you know, scamming. For example, 102 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 5: I got a a reach out DM someone slipped into 103 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 5: my data. 104 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 4: That's it. 105 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 5: Last night saying which is, please send a video birthday 106 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 5: message to my friend. She absolutely loves you and loves 107 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 5: the show. And I reached out to the I thought 108 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 5: this a little suspicious, and I reached out to the 109 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 5: other guys. We've got a text cham Gong. Every one 110 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 5: of them had gotten one of those from the same. 111 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 1: So, Michael, I know that you've been very forthcoming about 112 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 1: your cancer treatment. I know that you and I've talked 113 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 1: and I was I commended you because I thought that 114 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 1: was really amazing for you to bring it up at 115 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: the Men's tell all for Jones season, and you know, 116 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 1: are you willing to talk a little bit about that? 117 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 1: Are you still in treatment? How are you feeling? 118 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, god, no, I was just going to say 119 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:03,479 Speaker 3: go ahead. 120 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 5: I just finished treatment about three weeks ago, and it 121 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 5: entailed the back end of the entailed a couple of 122 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 5: surgeries and radiation, and I have been on medication. Honestly, 123 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 5: I have been on medication since before I even found 124 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 5: out that I might possibly be doing the show. So 125 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 5: that was an ongoing thing that ended about three weeks ago. 126 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 4: So I am cancer free. 127 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, congrats, treatment's over. So great, baby. 128 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: Did you do treatment before or after you went on 129 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: the show during When did you start? 130 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 5: I started back in November. I didn't find out. I 131 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 5: got the initial texts from January. What the initial treatment entails, though, 132 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 5: is medication that is called enrogen deprivation therapy. 133 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 4: And I'll just say this. 134 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 3: I don't like anything that says deprivation. 135 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 4: I'm not crazy about the work therapy. 136 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 3: Sometimes I'm just glad it's all over. 137 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 4: A double women. Yeah, it is. 138 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 5: Basically it entails taking a basically a pill every day. 139 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 5: And what it does is it depletes your system of testosterone, 140 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 5: because testosterone is the fuel that drives prostate cancer, and 141 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 5: that's what I had, was prostate cancer. I didn't want 142 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 5: to necessarily say that in the mental hell because a 143 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 5: lot of people think, well, that's no big deal, but 144 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 5: it can be aggressive, and in my case, it was aggressive. 145 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 5: So I needed to be treated aggressively. And so I 146 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 5: was the first guy in the history of the show 147 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 5: the series to have not had any testosterone in their 148 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 5: body during the competition, and that was interesting. And when 149 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 5: Jones said that she was not going to embed in 150 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 5: the Fantasy Suite. I'm like, oh, that's good to hear. 151 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 2: I have a lot of testosterone. I get the pellets 152 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 2: every four months. 153 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 3: Ago jes Susan and her hormones cheez. I like my hormones. 154 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 3: They keep me alive. Let me tell you. 155 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: And I'm sure Michael's very interested to hear about your 156 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 1: horror month. 157 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 3: Hey, I don't think you so. 158 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: You said that your you said that you do have 159 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: creative pursuits. 160 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 3: What tell us what do you do with your time? 161 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 1: Well? 162 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 5: I love gardening, although I wasn't able to do much 163 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 5: of that this year because of the show. 164 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 4: Although I use that, maybe I use that as an excuse. 165 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 5: The trouble with this treatment, you get a little good 166 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 5: fatigued really quick. 167 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 4: So there's that. 168 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 5: But lately I've been I've been trying my hand to 169 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 5: these mosque walal art projects. 170 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 4: And I did. 171 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 5: It's funny. I just finished one up yesterday, bubble wrapped it. 172 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 5: I was going to put it in my suitcase, my 173 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 5: check suitcase. It won't fit. So I text them and say, 174 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 5: I'm sorry, you know, I'm going to have to send 175 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 5: this to you later on so, but that's my that's 176 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 5: my thing. That's my jam these days is h is 177 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 5: these Moss wal Art things. I'm not sure if there 178 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 5: they dropped. They walk the fine line between tackie and 179 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 5: kind of kind of need and but. 180 00:08:59,080 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 4: I'm loving it. 181 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 5: I'm I was a banker my whole career and now 182 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 5: I'm able to let the creative side. 183 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, level, absolutely absolutely. 184 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 1: I'm glad that you're that you're feeling well and that 185 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: you get to you know, this is the time of life. 186 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 3: You should get to do these things. Kathy, what would 187 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:19,719 Speaker 3: you say you're doing now in your free time? 188 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:24,960 Speaker 1: You know me, I I like to move, I we travel, 189 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: We travel, I I read, I do needle point, I 190 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:33,199 Speaker 1: play with my grandkids. You know, anything that comes my way. 191 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 1: Don't say no to opportunity. That's my mind. 192 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 3: Absolutely. 193 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 4: You are. You guys are doing a lot of traveling. 194 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,199 Speaker 4: You're always you're always on the go. 195 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, it gives you energy. The more we do, the 196 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 2: more energy we get. 197 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 6: Right. 198 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: Well, when we get and Michael, Susan and I subscribe, 199 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: you know, we we tell people a lot, get up 200 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: off the sofa. 201 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 3: Life doesn't come to your door. 202 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: You have to get up and find it, so we 203 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:00,080 Speaker 1: we live by that exam. 204 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 3: We set the example. 205 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 7: Absolutely, that's wonderful. It's a great example, Michael. 206 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 2: What we do here on our podcast people writing questions 207 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 2: for advice, and we give them the best advice that 208 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 2: we have. 209 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 3: So we'd like you to join us. Would you do 210 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 3: that with us today? 211 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, I've seen your podcast and i'd love to thank you. 212 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 5: I'm not sure anyone really needs any my advice. 213 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 3: Well why not? 214 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody has their own perspective on things, and then 215 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 2: people will get to know you, Michael. 216 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 3: It's from Michael. 217 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 1: They're going to get to know This is from Michael 218 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 1: to Michael. All right, Hi, Kathy and Susan and today, Michael. 219 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 1: My sister loves your podcast. I hear her listening to 220 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 1: it all the time. You guys give really good advice, 221 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 1: so I thought i'd reach out to see if you 222 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 1: can help me. I really like this girl that is 223 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: in the sorority my frat always mixes with I'm not 224 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: the best with girls, so I have no idea how. 225 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 3: To approach her. 226 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 1: We've only met in passing a few times, so I 227 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 1: don't how to approach her. 228 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 3: What do you think I should do? 229 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: I want to ask her on a date, but I 230 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 1: don't want to freak her out. L O l okay, Michael, 231 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 1: what's the plan here? How does Michael get a date 232 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: with this girl? 233 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 4: I have to go first? Okay. So speaking speaking from. 234 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 5: The perspective of a guy who also grew up having 235 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 5: no game, presumably that's that's where it's coming from. You 236 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:40,319 Speaker 5: have to be yourself, right, You have to let her 237 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 5: know who you really are as a person. 238 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 4: A little humor doesn't hurt. 239 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 5: So maybe you prepare a joker too, or something that's 240 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 5: a slide and make her a little more comfortable. But 241 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,319 Speaker 5: at the end of the day, you've got to be yourself. 242 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 5: And if she says no, you know what. Life goes on. 243 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 5: We're not made everyone who isn't made for everyone else. 244 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 4: Don't let it. 245 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 5: Maybe a tiny ego bruise, but don't don't let it. 246 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 5: Don't let it mess you up. 247 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 3: It's not patty you feel about. 248 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 2: Instead of standing up and approaching her because he's so 249 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 2: gun shy about sliding into her, dm like it's going 250 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 2: to get to know her online. Say hey, I don't 251 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 2: know if you know who I am or i've seen 252 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 2: you a few times. My name is and just be real. 253 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 5: And you can get that a shot certainly. Well, you know, 254 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 5: it's a generational thing, so I guess the younger people 255 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 5: that's that's a lot more common for them, right, And 256 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:30,439 Speaker 5: we didn't grow up with that. So yeah, I think 257 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 5: that's a great idea. It doesn't really work for me, 258 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 5: but for her. 259 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 3: Oh you're not sliding into girls DMS. 260 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:41,239 Speaker 5: H'm Michael, they're sliding into mind and I'm not responding. 261 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:42,959 Speaker 4: And it's sumptuous. 262 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:44,719 Speaker 5: I mean, some of these guys, Jordan, I'm sure he's 263 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 5: getting thousands of these, but you know that's that's not 264 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 5: the case with me. 265 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,439 Speaker 2: Is there anything that comes to mind right away that 266 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 2: you'd like to accomplish this year? 267 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 3: Wait? Hold of wait a second, we aren't finished with 268 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 3: poor little Michael here. Oh, I'm so sorry. We got 269 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 3: to find I'm sorry, I think, Well, yeah, Susan's not 270 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 3: feeling well. 271 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:08,679 Speaker 1: I think, Michael, he I like your idea of reaching 272 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: to her DMS, but you know what, the old fashioned 273 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: way of texting her giving her a phone call, I 274 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 1: personally like hearing a voice. 275 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 3: I'm not texting. You have to do it, but I 276 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 3: prefer a phone call. Why not call her? 277 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: And say hey, you know, I was thinking he might 278 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: not have her number yet. 279 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 3: Well, what if you don't have her number yet, he 280 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:37,959 Speaker 3: sees her in passing pass or a note. 281 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 4: What if he asked you to reach out to her? 282 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:42,439 Speaker 4: Would you do that? 283 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, Michael, I think that's a great idea. 284 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:49,439 Speaker 3: Yeah. 285 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 2: Well I would like somebody to come up to me 286 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 2: and say, hey, that guy wants to ask you. 287 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 3: Why not. 288 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:57,719 Speaker 5: I'll get a hundred of these and you want to 289 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 5: kill me, but but there you go, There you go, Michael, 290 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 5: go for it. 291 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 3: I'll take one hundred. I'll take. 292 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: Michael to Mike. He's giving you the solution. 293 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 3: We will get her name, get her contact, we'll look out. 294 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 4: You want me to do it? 295 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, you can do it, Michael. We can start a 296 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:16,079 Speaker 3: new business. 297 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 2: Okay, now, Carow, we can talk about this year being 298 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 2: twenty five. 299 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 3: Here we come. There's no stopping us. 300 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 2: Is there anything that comes to mind that you really 301 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 2: want to accomplish this year or just take a day 302 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 2: at a time. 303 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 4: No, I'm a new Year's resolution guy. 304 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 5: So cool. In fact, my kids have this tradition, my 305 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 5: two boys and I and my daughter in law Lissa. Well, 306 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 5: we will get together a few days before New Year's 307 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 5: Eve and we'll we'll have just stinner together and we'll 308 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 5: each come up with a couple of gentle New Year's 309 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 5: resolutions for each other. 310 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 3: Oh, well, do you think they should? 311 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 8: Oh yeah, we're careful, we tread lightly. 312 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 5: But you know, I think that's helpful because it gives. 313 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 3: You a could be. 314 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: Can you share or I want to know the kind 315 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 1: of thing like for your son, because I know you're 316 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 1: very close. You have two kids, and you're very close 317 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 1: with your your two boys. So give us give us one? 318 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 5: Uh for for Matt I I've told him several years 319 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 5: in a row now that he needs to learn to 320 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 5: lay back and enjoy life a little bit. He's very 321 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 5: driven and he's had considerable success already, but he really 322 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 5: needs to sit back and as they say, small roses 323 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 5: and just chill. 324 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 1: Struggles with that, Yeah, that's funny. Chalk said that we 325 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: did a podcast with him. He said that he spent 326 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: his thirties and forties working to death and he wished 327 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: he had done other things. 328 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 2: So interesting, Kathy, what would you tell me? I've never 329 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 2: seen this, It's just ever in my life. 330 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 3: Ladies and gentlemen. Silence. I don't know. 331 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 1: I don't I think I you're a You're a wonderful 332 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 1: person who you are, and you you care. 333 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 3: My news resolution for you would be that. 334 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: You continue to believe in your It's not even it's 335 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 1: a wish, not a resolution. I would wish for you 336 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 1: that you would find the person that would bring love 337 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 1: back into. 338 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 3: Your life, don't we all? Yeah? We do. 339 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 2: That's interesting though, Michael, thank you for sharing that. 340 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 3: Would you have a resolution for me, Susan? Yeah, We're 341 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 3: not going to do it on the air. 342 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 1: See, I gave her a very kind, sweet thought and 343 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: I got ripped a new one. 344 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 3: Okay, No, you know I love you unconditionally. 345 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: Okay, Michael, here we go. We're gonna just ask some questions. 346 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: It's how we want Bachelor Nation to get to know 347 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 1: you better. So these easy little questions that we ask 348 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:05,160 Speaker 1: and give us your answers here. First one is who 349 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: is your favorite band or musician when you were in 350 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:08,639 Speaker 1: high school? 351 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 3: Wow? 352 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 4: High school? Wow? Probably the Beatles. 353 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:17,119 Speaker 5: Beatles are I still think they're the best man a 354 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 5: rock band that ever existed. 355 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 4: Bobby ever will. But a close second for me is. 356 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 5: Arim there Oh of high school and I came along, 357 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 5: but I love Aria. 358 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 3: I love Arim too, and my kids. 359 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 1: When they first came out, I said to my kids 360 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 1: something like I love rem and they went, what's it's 361 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 1: ari Em? I said, I don't care who they are. 362 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 1: I love them. That's so funny. 363 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:45,119 Speaker 3: How old are you, Michael, I'm sixty five. Okay. When's 364 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 3: your birthday? 365 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 4: September eighteen September. 366 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 3: Damn, yeah, okay, a bird. That's just like my daughter. 367 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:57,959 Speaker 3: My husband was a Burgo September. 368 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 2: What's your What is your favorite way too unwind after 369 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:02,880 Speaker 2: a long day? 370 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:10,120 Speaker 5: Oh gosh, that's a good question. It's a long day, 371 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 5: a stressful day. I'm working out. 372 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 3: All this helps, right, Really, you want to go work 373 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:16,439 Speaker 3: out after that? You work out at the end of 374 00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:17,160 Speaker 3: the day. 375 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:20,679 Speaker 4: I do. I'm that guy. I do for that very reason. 376 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 4: It's a stress reliever for me. 377 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 5: And then I feel good about myself and I go 378 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 5: home and. 379 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 4: I have a beer. 380 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 2: I was just going to say, I cozy up with 381 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 2: a glass and just take a hot bubble bath. 382 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 3: Wow. 383 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 1: So if you were gonna what would the title of 384 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:38,919 Speaker 1: your autobiography be? 385 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 4: So that happened? 386 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 8: Oh, I like that, My brother said to me a 387 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 8: couple of years ago, Michael, you definitely lived by the 388 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:55,679 Speaker 8: Chinese proverb may you live an interesting life, but I 389 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 8: think you take it to an extreme, and to that 390 00:18:59,080 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 8: I've had. 391 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:01,440 Speaker 4: It's spent a roller coaster ride. 392 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 5: So loads are a little rough sometimes. 393 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 3: So for everybody. They are. 394 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 2: If you were stranded on a deserted island and you 395 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 2: could only bring three guys from the mansion, who would 396 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 2: they be Pascal? 397 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 4: I answered that very quickly. But he probably owns a boat. 398 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 3: He probably owns the island exactly. 399 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,399 Speaker 5: So he could just call someone and have a start. 400 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 5: Uh yeah, I mean that's what. That's sort of like saying, 401 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:34,040 Speaker 5: who are the three guys who love you? Doug hugging? 402 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 3: Wait, I'm sorry, you need to repeat that. The three guys. 403 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 4: I need to repeat it to myself. 404 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,359 Speaker 5: It's like asking who are the three guys you really 405 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 5: dog hanging with them as while you were there? Right, 406 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,920 Speaker 5: so I would say Pascal and I was in their 407 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 5: long Pascal Jordan, I really I really got a kick 408 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 5: out of and. 409 00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 4: Any of the other guys would be my third choice. 410 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 3: How that's all. I thought you were going to say, 411 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 3: Susan and me. I thought you were going to take off, you. 412 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 4: Know, I actually was going to say, and that's one 413 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 4: of you two. 414 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:11,919 Speaker 2: Like it was funny because we had asked Chuck this 415 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 2: question and he named his three, and he had reasons 416 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 2: for all three of those people being there. What you 417 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 2: just said when you first yelled Pascal. I can't imagine 418 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 2: being the third with him. He'd be freaking out. 419 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 1: Nobody waiting on him, nobody had a big buddy. 420 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 5: I wouldn't want to have to cook or to his laundry. 421 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 3: Or any But was he a character? 422 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 4: He's fun, He's. 423 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:48,360 Speaker 5: A you know. I saw Jordan and Pascal h when 424 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 5: I went up to Chicago to visit my sons and 425 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 5: we went out to dinner, and Pascal, uh, he drove 426 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 5: up in his Aston Martin DBAs with the top down, 427 00:20:58,600 --> 00:20:59,119 Speaker 5: very pal. 428 00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 3: Did he have a twenty year old blonde with him? 429 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 4: He didn't, He left her at home. 430 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:06,399 Speaker 3: I think. 431 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 5: We walked out of the Yeah, it's forty. We walked 432 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 5: out of the restaurant. He gives me a hog and 433 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 5: grabs him by the cheeks. He says, Michael, I will 434 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 5: give you some advice. You must learn to live a 435 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 5: more positive life. You must manifest positive things. This is 436 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 5: the secret to happiness. And then he drives off in 437 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 5: that current of thought. You know, dude, there's a little 438 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 5: more to it than that. 439 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:31,200 Speaker 3: Does have a point. 440 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 5: Well, there's this is a guy who's uh, you know, 441 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:35,879 Speaker 5: he's got a bouncy, full existence. 442 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 4: Let's put it that way, not just you. 443 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:42,879 Speaker 5: So do you you're not wrong, You're not wrong. 444 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 4: Yeah I do. 445 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,880 Speaker 5: It's not quite as adventurous as as pascals. 446 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 4: But I don't know that anyone says I thought we 447 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 4: should walk that back. 448 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,359 Speaker 5: If it's a if it's a weekend on a desert island, 449 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 5: then maybe, but longer than that. 450 00:21:54,960 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 1: I you know again, that's that's what That's what uh 451 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: chalk said guy Jack because he could cook, because. 452 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 3: He could cook. But you got to catch it first. 453 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:12,880 Speaker 3: I mean, you are on a it deserves all right. 454 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 1: Okay, if you could bring back any fashion trend or 455 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,200 Speaker 1: old slang, what would it be. 456 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 5: I still use old slang, right, so I use things 457 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:27,400 Speaker 5: like uh and I. 458 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:30,920 Speaker 4: Dig this, and uh, this is awesome, awesome. 459 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 5: I guess it's. 460 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 2: Still say bang bang now it's now. 461 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 4: It's a banger. 462 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 5: That's why I was a banger of the time, and 463 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 5: I've tried it a couple of times. 464 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 3: It doesn't doesn't around out. 465 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 5: So those are the words that that you know, I 466 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 5: think I still use. 467 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,399 Speaker 4: I still love them, and they. 468 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:54,880 Speaker 3: Still What about a fashion trend? What fashion trend would 469 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 3: you bring back? 470 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to get Yeah, I'm gonna guess that fashion 471 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,160 Speaker 1: is not your biggest thing. Put you in a pair 472 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,160 Speaker 1: of khaki pants and a V next sweater and you're 473 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 1: good to go. 474 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,159 Speaker 5: Uh yeah, there's probably some truth to that. I'm a 475 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 5: little bit more mindful of it maybe than that. But 476 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 5: but not a toime. 477 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 3: That wasn't an insult. That was just guys have an 478 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 3: easier No, that wasn't men as an insult. 479 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 1: Guys can put on a pair of khaki pants and 480 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,120 Speaker 1: they can go anywhere women have to spend days. 481 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 2: Well, maybe he's you could think of it like what 482 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:28,400 Speaker 2: fashion trend would you like to come back that you 483 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 2: saw women wearing? 484 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 3: Oh, there you go. 485 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:34,320 Speaker 2: You know I remember the super low rise pants like 486 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 2: there was three snaps or whatever. 487 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 4: I like those hip huggers, you know, that's that's. 488 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 1: What the that's what they were, not mini skirts or 489 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,240 Speaker 1: hot go go. 490 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 5: Maybe a little too much information in some of those, 491 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 5: you know what I mean, But but I dig those. 492 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 4: I'm hit to that. 493 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:59,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're hip, You're hey, what's something you've always wanted 494 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 2: to do it haven't done as of yet. 495 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 5: Gosh, there's a lot of places I'd love to travel 496 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 5: to that I never have, So definitely, that's definitely on 497 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 5: my short list as. 498 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 4: Far as eventually goes. 499 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 5: I really want to try jumping out of a plane 500 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 5: with a parachute. 501 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 3: We both said that too. The three of us are 502 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 3: going to do it in twenty five. That's it. 503 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 4: I'm all in. 504 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm still do you know that? 505 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: When I interviewed for the show, that is one of 506 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 1: the things I said to the producer and he said, 507 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 1: what's something you want to do that you've never done? 508 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 1: And I said, I want to jump out of an 509 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 1: airplane with a parachute. I think I'd have to do 510 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 1: a tandem with someone because I don't think I have 511 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: the court to think. 512 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 3: Definitely, you have to push me out of the. 513 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:51,120 Speaker 1: Airplane eyes and hope for the best. 514 00:24:53,160 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm all right, Well I got Let's see, what's 515 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 6: one thing Michael about you now that you think would 516 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 6: surprise your younger self. 517 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 5: Well, there's a couple of things. I'm not sure if 518 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 5: I should say them or not. Yes, with you I'm 519 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,400 Speaker 5: not sure how young, but the fact that I'm divorced, 520 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 5: that that would surprise me. 521 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,640 Speaker 4: I uh, it's not in my. 522 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,720 Speaker 5: Background, and I'm a very traditional guy, and you know, 523 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,719 Speaker 5: sometimes life unfolds in a way that you don't want 524 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:42,400 Speaker 5: it to. And not to get a really serious here, 525 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 5: but but that would probably be the thing that I'd 526 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:46,399 Speaker 5: be Wow, really that happened. 527 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 1: That is about probably the most interesting answer we've gotten 528 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 1: to that question. 529 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:57,879 Speaker 3: I think, how would you We're putting me on the 530 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 3: spot here today. I'm curious. 531 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:12,639 Speaker 1: I think that now you're gonna make me cry that 532 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 1: I'm more resilient. 533 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 3: You ever thought you would be because of what I've 534 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,639 Speaker 3: been you know, Thanks Susan. 535 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 2: Thanks, Okay, let's talk about fashion trends. Hey, Kathy, if 536 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 2: you were on that deserted island, what three. 537 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,479 Speaker 3: Women would you be? Me knowing that would so simple, 538 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 3: I'd bring Susan, Nancy. Can I bring four? 539 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:38,120 Speaker 5: No? 540 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:39,480 Speaker 3: Oh? 541 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:40,439 Speaker 2: I know. 542 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 3: We're moving along taking taking you and Nancy and that 543 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 3: and that's it. What's the worst piece of advice you've 544 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 3: ever been given? 545 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,280 Speaker 4: Gosh, that's a tough one. 546 00:26:58,480 --> 00:26:59,360 Speaker 5: The worst piece. 547 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,919 Speaker 2: I'd like to answer, the best piece of advice the 548 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 2: worst is a hard one, I think. 549 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, it really is right. 550 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,240 Speaker 3: I didn't write these, Michael, just so, yeah, we didn't. 551 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 3: We didn't write this. I did not write. You don't 552 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:13,919 Speaker 3: have to answer it. If you you can skip, we 553 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 3: can skip on. 554 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 5: No, I've got I've got an answer for that. I've 555 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,919 Speaker 5: got an answer. Cigarette. Why don't you give it a 556 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:21,920 Speaker 5: try see if you like it? 557 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 4: And that's what a cigarette? I quit? I quit twenty 558 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,199 Speaker 4: eight years ago, but well it was it hard to do. 559 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,119 Speaker 4: And yeah, that was eighteen years old. 560 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 3: What was your brand? What'd you smoke? 561 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 4: Marvel lights? 562 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 3: I was a cool girl? 563 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,120 Speaker 2: Answer smoked the worst advice. I don't know if I've 564 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:44,960 Speaker 2: ever gotten that bad of advice. 565 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:47,359 Speaker 3: What you know? 566 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 1: The what is thet I can give you the best 567 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 1: advice I've ever received advice. 568 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 3: Question? You know, I prefer to be positive. I like it. 569 00:27:56,520 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 3: I like it. So do you have any questions for us? Michael? Yeah? 570 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 5: First of all, where did you get those questions with me? 571 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 5: My first question? 572 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 1: I wish I know somewhere I wrote them, although we 573 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,200 Speaker 1: intersperse sometimes our own. 574 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 4: I have a question, yes, I do so. 575 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 5: Obviously, your appearance on this show has changed your lives 576 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,680 Speaker 5: and on the surface, it would appear that that it's 577 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 5: all for the good. 578 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 4: I'm wondering if there's. 579 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 5: Anything that you that you wrestle with as a result 580 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 5: of your appearance that you wish you could put back 581 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,199 Speaker 5: in the box or you wish you didn't have to 582 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:36,600 Speaker 5: deal with. 583 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 3: Go ahead. 584 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 2: I wish I would have paid attention playing the ice 585 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 2: cream game. And yeah, no, you know, because I think 586 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 2: I was true to myself and unapologetically authentically me. That's 587 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 2: just who I am on fun and like to make 588 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 2: people laugh. And it was a great experience. 589 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean, I. 590 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 4: Mean, I mean now, I mean subsequent to the experience 591 00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 4: life right. 592 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 5: Now as a result of the fame and celebrity that 593 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 5: has brought. 594 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 3: You, is right? 595 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 1: Is what? 596 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 3: Michael? 597 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 1: I'm not sure I understand the question since we've left. 598 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 1: What is the question you're asking? 599 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 3: The fame and what's happening here your celebrity? 600 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 4: Is there any downside to that for you? 601 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 5: Is? Oh? 602 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 3: For me? I can answer that. For me, I can 603 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 3: answer that very quickly. 604 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 1: For me, uh, I don't think of myself as a 605 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 1: celebrity at all, But for this fifteen minutes of fame 606 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 1: that's gone into something longer I think that sometimes I 607 00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 1: don't think people really see the real May, even though 608 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 1: I try to be the real May. 609 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 3: We just talked about that. Yeah, the two of it, 610 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 3: he just said, is that downside. That's the downside. Pay 611 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 3: yeah to me behind the chair. 612 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 2: And I entertain guests all day long, every day, and 613 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 2: when I get asked sometimes I'll answer as to I've 614 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 2: been a are since the day I was born. Now 615 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 2: it's time the whole world knows it. 616 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 3: You did say, I love that. 617 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 5: It's wonderful. That's excellent, and Kathy, I could not agree more. 618 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 5: I get where you're coming from. We've talked about this 619 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 5: a little bit. And you're a terrific person. You're very 620 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 5: kind and smart and sweet, and everyone needs to know 621 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 5: that you are awesome. 622 00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 2: And we wonder why we can't give a date the 623 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:27,080 Speaker 2: two of us, because we're loud, we're outspoken, we do 624 00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 2: our podcast. We say it like it is, there's no filter, 625 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 2: if you will. But we're kind and we have hearts 626 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 2: and sensitive feelings, and I don't think everybody realizes. 627 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,959 Speaker 4: Do you think that men find the two of you 628 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 4: in some ways intimidating? 629 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 3: Yes, without a doubt. 630 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:46,960 Speaker 5: Yes, that's probably why. 631 00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 3: Well, but how do we change that? 632 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 1: I can tell you the man that's going to find 633 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 1: me is not going to be intimidated by who I am. 634 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,920 Speaker 1: He's going to celebrate who I am because that's who 635 00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 1: I am. 636 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 2: That's the man that I want to celebrate, right who 637 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 2: I am? Enjoy who I am. 638 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 3: I don't think. 639 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 1: I think, Susan, the man that wants us won't be 640 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: feel intimidated by us. 641 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 3: He'll feel How did I get so damn lucky? I 642 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 3: might have passed away already. I don't know I missed it. Well, yeah, 643 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 3: why you being so dark today, Susan? Geez? Usually you know, 644 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 3: come on, where's the positives? What from a man that 645 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 3: the makeup artist? Brother? You just heard from him? 646 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: He just texts as we can. I just say, guys, 647 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 1: Kathy wasn't impressed. Michael, you brought it up. Now we're 648 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 1: going there. Michael, you and I have chatted a few times. 649 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:55,760 Speaker 1: I'm a talkative person. I know I am fair fair Michael. Yeah, okay, 650 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 1: when Michael, would you and I've chatted? 651 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,840 Speaker 3: Have I asked you questions about you? 652 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 5: Sure? Absolutely? 653 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 3: Okay, this is going somewhere. 654 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 1: So Susan, what would you think if I only you 655 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 1: and I chat on the phone, and all I did 656 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,840 Speaker 1: was talk to you about me, that's all. What would 657 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 1: your thought be about a future for us? 658 00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:29,880 Speaker 3: Just curious? Don't overthink it, Michael. What are you asking him? 659 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 3: You as on the date? 660 00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 1: No, I'm saying, okay, let me just since this is 661 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 1: clear as clear as mud for everyone, Susan. While I 662 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 1: was in Philadelphia last week, this guy called Susan and 663 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 1: she wasn't going to take the call. And I said, no, 664 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,160 Speaker 1: that's okay. I'll just go in my you know, do whatever. 665 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 1: And then I came back and this guy literally for 666 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 1: forty five minutes, all he did was talk about himself. 667 00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 1: Susan knows everything about this guy, everything about him, how 668 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 1: many cars he drives, what kind of cars he drives, 669 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 1: where he lives, how much land he owns, what he 670 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,200 Speaker 1: does for a living, what he earns, everything. 671 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,160 Speaker 3: You know, what she knows. He knows about her. The 672 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 3: one question he asked her, which was what kind of 673 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 3: car she had? He knows nothing about her. So I 674 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 3: said to her, red flag, get rid of him, move along. 675 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 3: What do you think, Michael, I give good advice. 676 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 5: You did give good advice. You know, I've heard this 677 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 5: so many times from from from women. Uh who who 678 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,320 Speaker 5: I met and are out there dating? And I think 679 00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 5: to problem to try to be kind. I think to 680 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 5: some degree it might be maybe not in this case, 681 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,720 Speaker 5: but it might be nerves, it might be trying to 682 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 5: show off a little bit. But at the end of 683 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 5: the day, you've got to be curious about the other person. 684 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 5: It's not you, but there's a match. How about just 685 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:53,160 Speaker 5: being curious about people. 686 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 2: I'm just you, But I mean, he's researched me. You 687 00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 2: could see me online. As a matter of fact, he 688 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:03,000 Speaker 2: just said, I see you're back from LA and recovering 689 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 2: from your precedure social media. 690 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:06,040 Speaker 3: L O L. 691 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:10,800 Speaker 2: Let me know if you're still interested in meeting are you? 692 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? I said, absolutely, wonderful person. I'm wishing you. 693 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:20,919 Speaker 1: I'm wishing for me to be the wrongest, wrongest I've 694 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,240 Speaker 1: ever been. I hope this is the many your dreams. 695 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,319 Speaker 1: I want to throw rose petals at your way. 696 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:33,280 Speaker 2: A few years since I went to go meet somebody. 697 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,440 Speaker 3: That is not true, Susan, Yes it is mister Marshall. 698 00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:34,680 Speaker 6: Guy. 699 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 3: Oh, I forgot about Michael. Ah, I forgot about that. 700 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 3: I forgot Yeah I did. Yes, I love you. 701 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 1: Are you feeling like one of the girls againt Michael. 702 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 4: A little bit. I have to ask you a question. 703 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 5: Now. I don't want to put you on spot, Susan, 704 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 5: but I'm going to ask you. 705 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 4: So you know, to some degree, the. 706 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,759 Speaker 5: Fans of the show Best Nation wants to want to 707 00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:02,279 Speaker 5: put certain UH alumni from the men's group with the 708 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 5: women and with you. It was Jack to some degree. 709 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,399 Speaker 5: How do I wonder how you felt about that? I'm 710 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 5: Jack a great guy, but I don't see you together. 711 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,959 Speaker 2: So now, he is a great guy. I could see 712 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:17,439 Speaker 2: us cooking together, laughing together. Oh, but the chemistry wasn't there. 713 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 2: So yeah, you need this chemistry. You can't force it. 714 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 2: He seems like a great guy. He was fun, he 715 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:25,719 Speaker 2: was just. 716 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:26,359 Speaker 3: Wasn't my guy. 717 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not surprised. 718 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:32,440 Speaker 3: I consider him my friend. So, Michael, would you know, 719 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:33,880 Speaker 3: oh sorry, go ahead. 720 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 5: Did you notice that Edith and Edith and dance that together? 721 00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,279 Speaker 5: They were placed together? Did you see that? 722 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 3: What was that about? I don't know. I saw them 723 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 3: at the party afterwards and I was like, I think, So, 724 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:51,840 Speaker 3: I have a question for you, Michael. 725 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:55,239 Speaker 1: If they have Bachelor in Paradise, are you going and 726 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:56,760 Speaker 1: who do you want to be there. 727 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 5: Well, certainly you Yeah, I want you to be there. 728 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:06,399 Speaker 3: That was a loaded question. Seriously, do you. 729 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:06,680 Speaker 5: Want to go? 730 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 4: I'd love to go. 731 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 5: I'd have to move into a gym for six months. 732 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 3: But seriously, you've said, are you serious you're fit? 733 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:17,600 Speaker 6: Yes? 734 00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:19,880 Speaker 4: No, I'm not. 735 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,480 Speaker 5: You know, one of the side effects of this, uh 736 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,360 Speaker 5: this therapy sound was that it h it was a 737 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:26,360 Speaker 5: lot of muscle mass. 738 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,360 Speaker 4: So I'm I'm kind of I'm. 739 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 5: Thin, fairly thin, but I have lost a lot. 740 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 3: That's what did I just say to you? Michael? 741 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,280 Speaker 2: Can I tell you something? I didn't have the treatment 742 00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 2: and the muscle mass. 743 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 3: What did you just say, Susan, what did you just say? 744 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 2: I didn't have the treatment and I have a problem 745 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:48,440 Speaker 2: with muscle mass now. 746 00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I will say I have lost a lot 747 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,399 Speaker 1: of muscle mass from all the traveling and being sick. 748 00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,080 Speaker 1: I am. I love to work out with weights. I 749 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 1: was supposed to go back to the gym this week 750 00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,360 Speaker 1: with my trainer. He couldn't believe it when I had 751 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:04,960 Speaker 1: to cancel because I'm sick. 752 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:06,399 Speaker 3: I can't do it. 753 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, you guys have the inside scoop you think 754 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:14,080 Speaker 5: they might do on at some point. It's probably too soon, huh. 755 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,239 Speaker 3: I mean, we've heard that they're talking about doing it. 756 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:20,040 Speaker 1: But I also think they're surprised with all the matchups 757 00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 1: that have been made or theoretically and not just matchups, 758 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:26,720 Speaker 1: but you know, people dating. 759 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:28,879 Speaker 3: I mean from the. 760 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm surprised too. 761 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 5: Some of these guys are kind of, you know, by default, 762 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 5: opting out of being the next World Ambassador. 763 00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:36,000 Speaker 4: I'm a little surprised. 764 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:37,600 Speaker 3: But do you want to be the next one, Michael? 765 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,560 Speaker 5: I don't think i'd I'd be very good at it, 766 00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,200 Speaker 5: to be honest, I was one of the big. 767 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,080 Speaker 4: Introverts of the group. 768 00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 5: You know, I not a big personality. 769 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 3: And well you sure are now. 770 00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 5: Well thank you. I you know, I was not myself 771 00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,920 Speaker 5: on that show. I was too nervous. I didn't present 772 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,120 Speaker 5: the way I am as a person, and that bothered 773 00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:57,640 Speaker 5: me a little bit. 774 00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 3: I don't know, we're you nervous? 775 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:05,440 Speaker 5: Difference about face planting in front of you three million 776 00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:07,400 Speaker 5: people on television. 777 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:11,440 Speaker 1: Started walking Michael when we when that is so funny 778 00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,280 Speaker 1: you said that because when we walked out of the limo. 779 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,919 Speaker 1: That was my worry that I was going to because 780 00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 1: I am a little bit on the kletzy side. 781 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:21,839 Speaker 3: All right, wait, just one thing. 782 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,799 Speaker 2: Excuse me, Kathy, when you're walking with her, just keep 783 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 2: your eyes open. Kathy walks like this and goes in 784 00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:28,560 Speaker 2: front of you and walk your trip. 785 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 3: But what are you doing? Stay straight in your lane? 786 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:33,400 Speaker 3: Stay in your lane? She said. 787 00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,520 Speaker 2: My husband used to say the same thing. I go, 788 00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:37,120 Speaker 2: there's a point to this guy. 789 00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:39,960 Speaker 3: I'm laughing because. 790 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:44,439 Speaker 1: It's so true everyone, everybody who walks with me, because 791 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:47,359 Speaker 1: I power walk with friends. I walked with my friends 792 00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 1: back then. She says, She goes, Kathy, can you not walk? 793 00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 1: And I always start laughing because I can't apparaise. 794 00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 4: It's like serpentine. 795 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,759 Speaker 3: So I can talk to you all day. 796 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,160 Speaker 1: I don't know any any questions we haven't asked you 797 00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 1: that we should have, or do you want to ask 798 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:13,800 Speaker 1: us or ask us something? 799 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:19,640 Speaker 4: Well, I did get that one in and yeah, and 800 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:21,800 Speaker 4: that was maybe a little too serious. 801 00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:24,479 Speaker 1: We've got around. This has been a lot of fun. 802 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:27,719 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think that it's this is going 803 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,680 Speaker 1: to do it for this episode of. 804 00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:33,640 Speaker 3: About the Time, Run out of Time. We run out 805 00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:34,320 Speaker 3: of time. Michael. 806 00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:36,920 Speaker 1: Thank you you have been gracious, You've been on the 807 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,880 Speaker 1: hot seat. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. Today 808 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:41,960 Speaker 1: it's been and we hope you'll come back and do 809 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:42,440 Speaker 1: it again. 810 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,080 Speaker 3: Yes, I love and thank you so much. And you 811 00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 3: gave some good advice, Michael, you really did. Yeah, and 812 00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:54,919 Speaker 3: I'll see you in You didn't say me by the way, 813 00:39:55,360 --> 00:40:02,360 Speaker 3: really absolutely, Oh goodness. 814 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:05,760 Speaker 2: Thank you all for tuning in and hearing us chat 815 00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,920 Speaker 2: along with Michael and Kathy and myself. 816 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,279 Speaker 3: We love that you tune in to Please. 817 00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 1: Please listen to our past episodes because they're great and 818 00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:17,400 Speaker 1: we know that you'll love hearing them. 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