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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Phil and Queen says, I've been going to

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Speaker 1: the same dentist for a while, but since my divorce, she's.

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Speaker 2: Becoming a big blurt.

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Speaker 1: At my appointment yesterday, she rubbed my temples while I

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Speaker 1: waited for her assistant to come.

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Speaker 2: Clean my teeth.

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Speaker 1: She's not my type, but something about her is kind

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Speaker 1: of sexy.

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Speaker 2: Should I cross the line and do this?

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Speaker 1: Woman?

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Speaker 3: No, man, not nobody to be in your mouth?

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Speaker 2: Uh huh, that is drill.

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Speaker 4: Dog, dog, Listen to me, she's not really your type.

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Speaker 4: Now you're gonna cross the line. This already ain't your type,

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Speaker 4: so it ain't worth it. But now when something go wrong,

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Speaker 4: and it will go wrong because she ain't your type. Look,

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Speaker 4: once you crossed the line and do it, she gon't

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Speaker 4: expect something that you ain't willing to give. Next time

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Speaker 4: you sit in the chair. Okay, you here now, gums bleeding, No, dog,

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Speaker 4: it ain't worth it. No, it ain't worth it.

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Speaker 3: Man, all you can all you can see it and

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Speaker 3: get a new dinnist.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, then there's that. Okay, she's been his dentist

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Speaker 1: for a while. Okay, all right. Moving on to Katanya

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Speaker 1: in Chicago. Katanya writes, my husband loves to stunt like

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Speaker 1: he's got big money. And wherever we go out, he

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Speaker 1: plops down our Amex cards to paper everyone's drinks and food.

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Speaker 1: He blows our monthly budget. And I'm sick of it.

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Speaker 1: Why does he feel the need to flex all the time?

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Speaker 1: Why I'm balling?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: He said, Everybody thinking he more than he is. You know,

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Speaker 3: uh huh, that's all that is. I mean, I ain't

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Speaker 3: asked to.

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Speaker 2: Wake you up at the end of the month, though

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Speaker 2: thirty days it's coming.

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Speaker 4: It's all that whoa, whoa. Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 4: I didn't have some American Express bill. I didn't open

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Speaker 4: it and sat down.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, daggering, staggering amount.

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Speaker 3: I've been there, I've been there.

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Speaker 1: So can she stop him? I mean, she's sick of it.

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Speaker 1: He blows the monthly bunchet. What what can she do?

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Speaker 4: She got to talk to about it. But this dude

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Speaker 4: he flexing. You know, I got this man can express.

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Speaker 4: Everybody see me. You know that's it's a male ego thing, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, Cut it up, cut it out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, past the bill, the bill come to me every

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Speaker 4: time I sit down and eat so and I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to flex. It's just don't nobody pay.

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Speaker 3: I know, we don't. I'm not picking up check. I

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Speaker 3: know when we go out to eat with ye what

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Speaker 3: you and Shirley Mississippi, they just sit there and look.

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Speaker 1: Thank you and right on over to the head of

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Speaker 1: the table over there.

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Speaker 4: I'll pick up now, I'll pick up I'm not when

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Speaker 4: I went with Harvard, like, I didn't even see it

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Speaker 4: come to the table.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, tell me to grab it. But he

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Speaker 3: the only one I did. I did, do you right

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Speaker 3: one time?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: You did? You did me right one time?

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Speaker 4: But then I saw that the other time you open

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Speaker 4: and clothes and set it back on easy way right

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Speaker 4: on down there to me, I seen Boong do that

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Speaker 4: fast dog.

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Speaker 3: Moving on.

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Speaker 2: Minon and uh nasa. She says.

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Speaker 1: I met a man online and we went up for dinner.

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Speaker 1: We met up for dinner. He asked for separate check

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Speaker 1: after dinner.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of Checkee.

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Speaker 1: So I paid my bill and I went and sat

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Speaker 1: at the bar. Another man bought me a drink, and

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Speaker 1: the guy I had dinner with got mad. I didn't

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Speaker 1: consider dinner as a date since I paid for my food?

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Speaker 2: Was I wrong for leaving him at the table?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, you know, that's just a sign.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how men think now that you're not

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Speaker 4: supposed to pay for the food.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: And all you women that want to be you know

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Speaker 4: or whatever independent and want to be you know, bosses,

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Speaker 4: what do they call it? That's cool, you can be that.

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Speaker 4: But I would want to know if a man was

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Speaker 4: willing to do for me, I would want to know,

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Speaker 4: and you should expect that.

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Speaker 3: And then if he doesn't.

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Speaker 4: Pay for your bill like you did and gonna do

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Speaker 4: like you want to do because he ain't the one.

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Speaker 3: He asked for, separate checks got the dude?

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Speaker 4: Is this man? A woman's time is valuable? What about?

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Speaker 4: Oh dog? You pass it out every chance you get?

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Speaker 3: Get up there?

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Speaker 1: She met him online and she just wants to know

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Speaker 1: what she wrong for leaving him at the table.

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Speaker 2: You say, no, clo.

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Speaker 3: You ain't to say. This relationship ain't going nowhere?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: What else? He won't for free?

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Speaker 2: And he got mad because she left?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she got mad because he left, and there somebody

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Speaker 4: else bought her drink because the dude was up at

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Speaker 4: the bar.

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Speaker 3: He know what he got to do. That's right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, you did the right thing. Last one, Steve,

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Speaker 1: last one Desia and Baton Rouge says, I graduated from

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Speaker 1: college a year ago and I have a decent job

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Speaker 1: and an apartment. I am four months pregnant, and when

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Speaker 1: I told my parents, they insisted that I moved back

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Speaker 1: home and dumped my boyfriend. Well, my parents resent me

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Speaker 1: if I don't do that.

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't know if you understand the difficulty that's

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Speaker 4: coming your way, and I think your parents do, and

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Speaker 4: they realize you're gonna have to have help, and your

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Speaker 4: boyfriend ain't gonna make a commitment. That's obvious, and your

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Speaker 4: parents are just being parents because they know the road

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Speaker 4: ahead for you. It's going to be difficult. And if

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Speaker 4: you live at home, you'll have some help with the baby, yeah,

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Speaker 4: you know. And if you stay over there by yourself,

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Speaker 4: it's gonna be hard because he's not gonna help you, right.

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Speaker 2: Because if he was already doing that already, right.

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Speaker 4: He's not gonna help you, and it don't make him

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Speaker 4: a bad He don't know what to do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they're young, they're young.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't know your parents know that. Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: So you're telling her to listen to her parents and

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Speaker 1: go ahead and move back, and.

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Speaker 3: Well, are they gonna be resentful? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: But I think you are too, though, And I understand

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Speaker 4: you got a good job and you graduated and everything,

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Speaker 4: but you know, I don't think you understand what this

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Speaker 4: pregnancy is now. You can't know until you have the baby.

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Speaker 4: And I've heard women say that all the time. Oh,

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Speaker 4: you can't know what this is until that baby get here.

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Speaker 4: Because I didn't know what it was the mine got here.

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Speaker 4: I wanted all the mind to go back.

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Speaker 2: No instruction, and our parents didn't have instruction.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not ready for none of.

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Speaker 2: This's some work. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So she doesn't want her parents to resent her, but

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Speaker 1: they're actually trying if she, you know, she doesn't move

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Speaker 1: move back home.

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Speaker 4: I mean, look, she can stay where you are, but

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Speaker 4: you're gonna need some help, and help is back at

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Speaker 4: your parents house because you're gonna find out this boy

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Speaker 4: can't help you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, all right, thank you, So ellow you're listening,

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show,