WEBVTT - TUES PT 1: Draft: Best Candy Bars + Amy Is Going To Remove Her Tattoo 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:13.840 Transmitting Liza, Welcome to Tuesday Show Morning Studio Morning. I 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:15.560 don't think people know this about Amy and I, but 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:17.680 we're too tatted at bikers basically. 0:00:17.400 --> 0:00:18.599 Mm hmmm, that's right. 0:00:19.239 --> 0:00:21.520 Remember the time Eddie, someone was like, are you with 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:22.680 the guy with all the tats? 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:23.000 Oh? 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:24.799 Yeah? 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:27.920 Someone literally referred to yes, it is, and I was like, wow, 0:00:28.000 --> 0:00:28.560 that's cool. 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:31.200 We were at like a golf course and I was 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:32.839 like out on the green and Eddie went in. I 0:00:32.920 --> 0:00:33.960 was like, I'm waiting for somebody goes to the gay 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:34.600 with all the tats. 0:00:34.680 --> 0:00:35.520 Yeah, he's over there. 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:37.280 I was like, I've never been referred to like that. 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:40.040 I have like some only on one side of one arm. 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:43.159 It's not even that many, but none. I felt like 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:44.159 I was on a Harley that day. 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:47.120 I mean together, you guys probably have like, what seven tattoos? 0:00:47.440 --> 0:00:47.800 I two? 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:49.200 I have five? 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:50.639 Nailed it? 0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:50.920 Wow? 0:00:51.159 --> 0:00:51.479 Seven? 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:54.320 Yeah? Okay, oh yeah, okay, you know you guys are bad. 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:59.000 So mind the state of Arkansas. I have my mom 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:02.880 and my grandma's an sholes. I have my wife a 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:06.320 sea that she drew, have the word mirror ball from 0:01:06.319 --> 0:01:08.440 when he Dancing with the Stars. Like, I've got stuff 0:01:09.280 --> 0:01:11.280 and it's and they're all on the right side and 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:13.240 pretty ocd about what side of my body. I don't 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:15.720 want on my left arm because I end up, you know, 0:01:15.760 --> 0:01:18.400 playing quarterbacker, pitching the majors, and I don't want to 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:20.600 ink affecting Oh my throwing motion. 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:22.360 That's smart. Thank you is. 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:25.000 Where Amy's. 0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:28.679 You have two on my left wrist, and one is 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:31.160 Joy in my mom's handwriting that she did and my 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:33.679 sister and I went and got the Joy together while 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:37.480 our mom was had cancer and was before she passed away, 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:40.319 so it's very special. And then under that I got espoi, 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:43.000 which means hope in Haitian creole. As we were waiting 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:45.000 to get our two kids from Haiti because it took 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:48.680 five years, so just had to keep the hope that 0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:50.040 they were gonna make it here. 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:51.800 So what's the update on the tattoos. 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:54.960 Well, they've bled, like you know, just like. 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:58.120 Not blood from your body, like the tattoos. 0:01:57.720 --> 0:02:01.200 Of like ink is bleeding, and so it looks more like. 0:02:01.800 --> 0:02:03.920 It's like your uncle got one back in nom. 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:04.240 With a. 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:08.800 Spread, So Joy looks like jog. 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:12.239 Oh that's funny. Yeah, you can just make that your brand. 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:16.520 That'll be a jogger and then Espua looks like oh spa. 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:19.720 So I don't know, I just feel like it's time 0:02:19.760 --> 0:02:21.120 to get them lasered off. So I went and had 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:23.680 an appointment. But then I felt as though I needed 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:25.560 to call my sister because we got the joy together 0:02:25.600 --> 0:02:27.760 and it's my mom's handwriting, and how would she feel? 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:31.520 And she said, oh mine is My ink is bleeding too, 0:02:32.040 --> 0:02:35.320 So she fully supported my decision to get it lasered off. 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:38.480 And then I can somehow we need to find my 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:41.040 mom's joy wherever we put it somewhere, and then I 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:43.320 can get it done in a single needle somewhere else. 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:47.680 Under your eye like jelly. That's right, post post malone, 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:51.560 post I'm alone, Amy alone. Yeah, so you are going 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:52.240 to get a redone. 0:02:52.320 --> 0:02:54.360 I would like to. I don't want it to be gone. 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:58.280 It's just no longer looking the way it did when 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:00.600 I first got it done, and single needle wasn't a 0:03:00.600 --> 0:03:01.760 popular thing back then. 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:05.000 Just sure, what shit happened? Because that just looks so pretty. 0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:08.600 So you've had your appointment, and did they do anything 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:09.480 or was this a consultation? 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:09.960 It was a. 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:13.119 Consultation because I wanted to see the process and if 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:14.760 I go with the place I went, I want to 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:17.160 maybe seek out a few other opinions. 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:20.600 This place is going to take a year again. 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:23.160 You said that because it looks on TikTok. Whenever I'm 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:26.639 watching videos that people get tattoo removal, it looks so easy. 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:28.880 Now they're like, I got all this test is right, 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:31.200 Like they're using an erace around a pencil, and it 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:32.200 can't be that easy. 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:32.680 She said. 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:35.440 If I wanted my skin to look like it did 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:38.040 before I got the tattoo normal, then I should be 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:40.800 patient and do it their way and with their lasers 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:44.200 and come in every you know, eight weeks or something 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:47.520 to get it done. And she said she thinks, based 0:03:47.560 --> 0:03:50.000 on how it's looking, it will take me a full 0:03:50.080 --> 0:03:51.200 year to accomplish that. 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:52.880 Crazy it's so thin and light. 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:56.960 Well, right now it's looking pretty thick, and so. 0:03:58.080 --> 0:03:59.160 It does like pretty gross. 0:03:59.240 --> 0:03:59.800 It did believe. 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:01.320 I looked at it and almost drying. 0:04:02.000 --> 0:04:06.640 I know, so, but on her head somewhere else, and 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:09.200 the integrity of my skin may not look the same. 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:11.880 Yeah, that's why you should get a second opinion. 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:14.200 Yeah, my faster. 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:16.360 I don't know. I don't know, but I'm glad you 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:18.400 said that. Because I thought, now the technology was you 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:20.320 just go in and there are like three sessions in 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:23.160 a week and you're done. Uh So I have tattoos, 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:25.719 Amys tattoos, Morgan, you have a tattoo. 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:27.440 I don't have tattoos, but I actually sat in on 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:29.840 my ex getting one of his tattoos removed. So this 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:32.800 process it actually takes depending on how big, how thick, 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:35.520 it can take years. And you have to spread out 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:38.000 the time to allow your heel like your skin to 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:41.360 heal in between each session, So that's why it takes longer. 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:42.720 I've been influenced. 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:45.400 Yeah, you want to raise something. 0:04:45.480 --> 0:04:47.599 No, I've been influenced by thinking that it was so 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:51.520 much quicker. Oh yeah, and it's very painful really see. 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:52.760 And again the people look like they're having a gret 0:04:52.760 --> 0:04:54.960 time while it's being done. Yeah. This TikTok videos make 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:55.440 it look easy. 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:55.640 Yeah. 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:57.800 They look like dude goes in as skeletons all over 0:04:57.839 --> 0:04:59.359 his face and are like watch it go away, and 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:01.040 it's like wow. They also make it look like it 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:02.400 doesn't hurt at all. I think it does hurt a 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:02.720 little bit. 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:05.080 Yeah, No, I've heard it's painful. She was pretty honest 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:07.000 with me. Of like, this is what it's gonna be, 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:08.560 this is what it's gonna cost, this is how long 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:10.680 it's gonna take you. She's like, again, you could go 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:13.200 somewhere that Mike claim to do it faster, but she's like, 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:14.839 I don't think your skin will look. 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:15.240 That's all I go. 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:16.600 You know normal who. 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:18.800 Can do his fastest. It's like world's best cup of 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:21.680 coffee on elf congratulate. I just want to sign we 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:23.240 can do it fastest. And I'm like, yeah, I'm here, 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:25.800 Well you do it. I let us know how it goes. 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:28.040 Are you for sure going to get it taken off though? 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:30.880 Now that I have my sister's blessing because it just 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:33.360 felt like something really special we did together, and as 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:36.000 long as she's cool with it, I'm cool with it. 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:38.240 Mike, you want to get any of yours taken off? No, 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:40.520 not at all. I'm gonna get more. I mean, does 0:05:40.560 --> 0:05:41.400 Mike have have two? 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:42.440 Have they bled? 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:44.040 No? He has. 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:47.040 I think we're just like cool and tough, wait. 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:48.040 Til you hit your forties. 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:52.240 Maybe maybe it's my skin elasticity too, Maybe my skin's an't. 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:53.919 Well, they're gonna make it like you're twenty again. Apparently 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:56.279 they're like, we'll give you the integrity. It could be 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:58.279 the placement where you have it right there. I think 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:00.960 like the movement over time. You like how much a 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:05.000 movie you rest? Yeah, mine are not in movable areas 0:06:05.440 --> 0:06:08.279 like muscles get bigger. But you know that's up. I 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.880 got yeah, back of my tricep my forearm, and yeah, 0:06:10.920 --> 0:06:13.520 trust me, I'm like Popey. Basically they've gotten a lot bigger. 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:15.880 But then, by the way, did you know Popeye's public 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:17.520 domain now, so you can make any movie with pop 0:06:17.560 --> 0:06:18.800 Eye in it don't have to pay for it. The 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:21.000 animation is public domain pop by the character. 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:23.120 Well that's yeah. They're making a horror movie with Popeye. 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:25.719 Yeah, so anything you want to do with horror movie 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:29.480 a horror horror? What I say a horror movie, okay. 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:30.240 A horror movie. 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:31.400 Amy you're saying horror. 0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:34.039 No, we just say things differently, like I say. 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:36.520 Dwar, but but when you say it sounds like horror 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:42.000 dwar horror, that's horror. Yeah, although I mean maybe a 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:44.120 horror movie Popy would be good too. Already made that 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:45.000 olive oil. 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:47.920 It's no good because like my I hear when I 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:50.760 hear it back, I'm it sounds to me like I'm 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:51.520 saying horror. 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:54.320 What horror movie? 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:56.880 That's better? That's better what she said that? 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:58.400 Maybe what kind of movie is it? 0:06:58.600 --> 0:06:59.040 Horror? 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:00.320 No? 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:04.160 Yes, no no, but I can put a hard R 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:05.560 on the back of horror. 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:11.000 Horror, So I need to put a space between, like 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:12.480 I took your mind. 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:15.120 Yes, Like it's almost like I went horror. 0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:17.840 Yes, But how you're saying it is Popeye's in a 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:18.440 horror movie. 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:20.480 That sounds fine to me. 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:24.440 Horror movie, different movie. You want me to say, the 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:26.160 plot's way different in that one, right, So. 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:28.240 You want me to say horror, but that's what the 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:30.360 word is. That's how I have to say, Like, that 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:32.560 doesn't sound weird? Do you horror? 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:35.120 But when you do it like that, it sounds like 0:07:35.200 --> 0:07:40.360 a horror or slut movie. Okay, so say the word 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:42.160 not say the word go horror. 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:48.920 What are you saying a horror movie? What a horror movie? 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:50.120 Horror film? 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:53.920 You should not just I know how to go it's scary? 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:54.560 Should go? 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:56.640 Should go to thesaurus and just go scary man. 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:59.320 Whatever, This isn't a thing the entire time we work together. 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:01.640 That's a one though, That one you really can't slip 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:04.920 up on I'm not slipping up. No, No, I'm saying 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:08.040 that's one that There's some things you can mispronounce. It's 0:08:08.040 --> 0:08:10.120 not a big deal. Like lunch. Fox can't say ambulance, 0:08:10.160 --> 0:08:12.120 he goes amblance drawer. Who cares. We know what that 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:14.880 means for sure. But if you say horror, it sounds 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:15.400 like horror. 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:18.239 But I'm saying horror, Guys. 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:19.200 I'm about to go crazy. 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:21.440 Yeah, that's exactly what. 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:27.480 Say it faster, go, I'm trying. 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:32.520 Okay, horror, horror, horror. Now I just have to break 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:32.800 it up. 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:35.240 My brain hurts. Okay, we're here, let's go. Let's start 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:35.520 the show. 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:35.760 Now. 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:37.840 We got a whole horror show coming. 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:38.080 Up for you. 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:40.319 And when you say it that way, that sounds fine. 0:08:40.440 --> 0:08:42.840 No it doesn't, Yes it does. It's horror. 0:08:45.360 --> 0:08:46.960 We're just going to have to agree to disagree. 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:52.000 No, there's no agreeing or disagreeing. What's to disagree on? 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:53.000 What are we disagreeing about? 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:56.520 We just hear? You can't you you can't hear what 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:58.320 I hear is? Do you have no idea what I'm hearing? 0:08:58.320 --> 0:08:59.360 Everybody? What is she saying? 0:09:00.200 --> 0:09:02.080 What was carved into her car back in the day? 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:06.000 What is she saying or or yeah like the bat. 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:07.120 But I'm okay. 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:09.400 We're just gonna say if I was listen, if I 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:12.040 said I'm gonna get a spoon and a fork, but 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:14.599 I mispronounced fork with the F word because because I 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:16.480 didn't couldn't say it right, I'm not. I would say, 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:18.440 I know, but you would say stop saying that word 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:20.280 fork because you can't say it right because it sounds 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:22.560 like the F word, right, Yes, yeah, that's where we 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:25.440 are on a junior varsity version. Then I'll say scary boom, 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:26.120 nailed it. 0:09:26.280 --> 0:09:29.760 Fixed, No problem. 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:33.040 All right, let's go. What disease do you have? You 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:33.440 want to tea? 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:33.920 You have a why? 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:37.040 Bird flu? Why mean here though? If you have bird flu? 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:38.720 Because I don't think I have it, she thinks I 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:41.080 have it, go ahead, so she sent me a screenshot. 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:43.920 I just haven't been feeling good, like not sick or 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:44.640 coffee or anything. 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:46.560 I don't have fever or anything. I just don't feel 0:09:46.600 --> 0:09:50.920 like myself. That's aid quademic. Everybody's sick with something. Well, 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:53.160 I don't think everyone is, but I have like shortness 0:09:53.240 --> 0:09:53.720 of breath. 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:55.319 A pandemic would be that. 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:59.880 If If that's yeah, gosh, go ahead, go through your symptoms. 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:03.040 So I just have shortness of breath, I feel weak, 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:04.920 I feel kind of tired at the end of the day, 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:08.400 like more than normally. And so my wife's like, maybe 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:10.800 you have the bird flu, because if you look at 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:13.000 the description of bird flu, it says that it can 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:16.520 be trans transferred by kissing cattle. 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:18.120 And I did that over the break. 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:20.840 I fed cattle and I even posted on my Instagram 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:22.000 and me kissing the nose. 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:22.600 Of a cow. 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:25.880 And she's now saying, like, you, I think you could 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:27.360 have bird flu if you don't feel good. 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:29.680 How much is this convincing you you might have bird flu? 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:32.960 I mean now percentage fifty, No, not that high. 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:35.079 Note with this was how many days ago did you 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:37.319 kiss the cow? And then how long does it take. 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:39.440 To it'd probably be about what two weeks? And the 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:41.920 picture looks like you're almost kissing the cow. I eventually 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:48.160 kissed it. I eventually kissed kissed its nose. Bird slimy, 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:53.280 gross bird flu symptoms, feeling see if you have these 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:57.920 good bird flu symptoms. It is also called H five 0:10:58.000 --> 0:10:58.400 and one. 0:10:58.600 --> 0:11:02.600 Oh, that sounds worse. Drake off, drake off, Yes, sore 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:04.400 throat a little bit. When I wake up. This is 0:11:04.400 --> 0:11:05.760 all stuff though, that you'd have for these other ones. 0:11:05.800 --> 0:11:10.640 Oh, fatigue, tired, sureness of breath, That's what I'm telling you, 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:16.720 running nose a little bit, sneezing, No, sneezing. 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:20.280 Symptoms usually appear within ten days of exposure. 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:22.440 It's two weeks. I told you guys, about two weeks off. 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:24.360 I kissed that cout could take longer. 0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:28.760 That's diarrhea, nausea, vomiting, rash, seizures, altered consciousness. 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:30.160 None of that, Okay, none, thank god. 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:33.559 I'm gonna say you don't have it, but I think 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:36.320 if it's fifty percent, you need to go get checked 0:11:36.320 --> 0:11:36.920 for bird flu. 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:39.120 So my wife wants you thought you had cancer at 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:41.680 one point? Yeah, and you did it? Yeah, because my 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:44.120 apparently I ate too much popcorn. The side of my 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:45.000 stomach was hurting. 0:11:45.080 --> 0:11:47.960 He thought this cramp was He thought he had cancer, 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:49.840 and he was afraid to go to the doctor. 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:51.800 I realized that we have the VIP pass of the 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:53.760 movie theater and you can get unlimited popcorn. 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:55.680 And the day before I ate a lot of popcorn. 0:11:56.000 --> 0:11:56.839 It got stuck in there. 0:11:56.920 --> 0:12:00.160 Yeah. Are you going to get checked for bird flu? 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:01.760 Because if you don't, you we're not allowing you to 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:04.400 bring it up anymore because you can't. We can't do 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:06.400 bits and bits on this if it's just like you're 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:07.200 not getting checked. 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:08.800 So I need to go to the doctor and tell him, like, 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:10.559 all right, I kissed the cow. Test me first. I 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:13.719 don't think you have kids the cow and I liked it. 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:16.280 Cows were they were they random. 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:18.000 Or kind of random? I don't know the owners? 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:19.760 Oh well, because I thought you could check with the 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:21.240 owner and see if their cows are infected. 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:23.120 And the rule is if you have a disease, you 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:24.680 have to share what the person you Yes, I had 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:25.959 a relationship with cow. 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:31.120 Yeah, you basically had a cow std Yeah. 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:32.480 How do you get checked for birthday? 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:32.719 Yeah? 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:34.360 That's my question. To go to the doctor and call 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:35.000 the doctor. Just call. 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:36.839 Okay, I don't think you have it, but if you 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:38.080 think it's fifty percent, you don't need to be here 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:40.760 till you get checked. Now, now what's the percentage? I 0:12:40.760 --> 0:12:43.560 mean now it's going lower. Okay, because he got. 0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:44.000 To go to the doctor. 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:55.600 It's the here's a question to be. 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:04.720 Well, Hello, Bobby Bones, I heard you guys talking about 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:09.400 earning less or more than your spouse and that dynamic 0:13:09.880 --> 0:13:11.000 that is very close to home. 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:12.840 My wife has always earned more than me. 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:15.520 I've been fine with it, but in the past five years, 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:17.600 her career has taken off and now she runs over 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:20.600 ten times what I do. I still make a good living. 0:13:20.880 --> 0:13:23.160 My job allows me to balance work and family time, 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:28.439 which her demanding job doesn't. While I'm happy being dynamic 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:31.520 with the ability to be there for the family and work, 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:35.360 I feel judged by her family. Over the holidays, I 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:37.920 dealt with more than a couple off hand comments from 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:39.120 her brothers and dad. 0:13:40.600 --> 0:13:41.680 Oh. 0:13:42.040 --> 0:13:46.120 I laughed off their jabs, but it hurts. How can 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:49.839 I feel more confident about our financial roles and stop 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:54.520 letting these comments bother me? Signed husband to a successful woman, 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:57.800 I'm going to say first, nothing from the exterior is 0:13:57.840 --> 0:14:00.400 going to help you get through this. So there's nothing 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:03.200 that can happen that somebody does or doesn't do to 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:05.319 you that's gonna make you better with it. This is 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:11.160 gonna be a completely internal understanding and realization of your 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:14.400 value and. 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:15.400 How it's probably different than your wife's. 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:19.320 Right now, a lot of her value is financially, but 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:21.600 like you said, you're able to do things with the 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:23.960 family that she's not able to because she's at work. 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:26.440 There is significant value there. 0:14:28.280 --> 0:14:30.800 They're probably not gonna stop making those jabs and you 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:32.080 don't even want to go to them and be like, 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:34.080 that hurts my feelings because that's not having your family. 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:37.120 Your own brothers will make fun of you. 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:37.720 You go to her. 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:40.400 Family, and yet here's my feet that just let them 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:44.800 do their thing with the understanding of they don't know 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:48.520 you or your life or the value that you bring. 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:53.480 And that's okay, so completely internal because nothing externally is 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:55.960 gonna help you get through this. But I think it's 0:14:56.120 --> 0:15:00.160 understanding what your value is and not going a all 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:04.080 value is based on money, because that's obviously not true. 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:07.480 I understand how that would hurt. Oh, that would hurt. 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:12.080 I would Oh, that's a gut punch. I don't not 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:13.680 that he doesn't make the money she makes, that they 0:15:13.720 --> 0:15:16.160 would make fun of him. Yeah, like other guys that 0:15:16.200 --> 0:15:19.320 aren't like his own brothers, Well. 0:15:19.200 --> 0:15:19.920 What's up with them? 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:21.400 Like why do they feel they need to do that? 0:15:21.480 --> 0:15:23.520 Is this their own insecurity? Are they jealous or are 0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:24.040 they jealous? 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:27.560 I don't think it's a jealousy thing unless they're jealous 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:30.480 of something other than like he's younger than them or 0:15:30.520 --> 0:15:35.080 better looking or right, yea something that's not what they're 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:36.000 making fun of him for. 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:40.560 That. That's not cool. Nothing you can change a fix 0:15:40.880 --> 0:15:42.360 you had, just got to be good with yourself. 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:44.080 I would just embrace it, own it. 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:47.240 I don't think outwardly though, you don't make it. 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:49.600 No, you don't have to, but in your mind, like 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:53.800 this is around your family, and like really be proud 0:15:53.960 --> 0:15:56.520 of the dynamic y'all have, and that it doesn't disrupt 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:59.800 your relationship because they're clearly guys that that probably wouldn't 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:03.040 flow in their home and that's just so backwards. 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:06.160 It's And if you really wanted to get at them, 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:09.200 I mean, this is what you really could do. And 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:11.680 I don't know your personality, but if I were somewhere 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:14.000 and let's say Caitlin had a bunch of brothers, which 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:15.480 she doesn't have a bunch of brothers, and they were 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:19.120 doing this to me, man, I'd hit them with a oh, man, 0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:21.160 I hear what you're saying, but a lot of my. 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:22.560 Value is based on family. 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:24.960 I'd get real serious and make them feel small as 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:28.920 a freaking aunt and go Yeah. It was a bit 0:16:28.960 --> 0:16:32.360 hard at first because of traditional standards, and what our 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:34.400 culture has taught us. And she does make more money 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:36.200