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Speaker 1: Good.

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Speaker 2: All right, break it down.

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Speaker 3: If you ever have feelings that you just fonts Amy

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Speaker 3: and Cat gotcha covincking No, brother, ladies and folks, do you.

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Speaker 2: Just follow an the spirit where it's on the front

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Speaker 2: and real stuff.

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Speaker 3: To the chill stuff and the m but Swayne, sometimes

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Speaker 3: the best thing you can do it just stop you

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Speaker 3: feel things. This is feeling things with Amy and Kat.

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Speaker 2: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm Kat.

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Speaker 2: And today for our feeling of the day, well, Kat

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Speaker 2: and I both have one, and I feel like our

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Speaker 2: feeling is going to be similar or even the same.

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Speaker 2: So I just want to count to three and after

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Speaker 2: three we just say our feeling and we see if

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Speaker 2: it's the same. Okay, Okay, Am I gonna go one?

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Speaker 2: Two three or three?

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Speaker 3: Two?

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Speaker 2: One? Should we count up or down?

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Speaker 3: Does it matter? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Up?

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Speaker 2: Okay? One two three? Gosh, I mean that's similar.

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Speaker 3: Because wait, make sure that they heard what you said.

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Speaker 2: I said accomplished and I am feeling in awe of

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Speaker 2: myself right and I know based on what we both

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Speaker 2: got done and accomplished in our lives recently and how

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Speaker 2: proud we are of ourselves. That's why I thought we

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Speaker 2: and forth between proud and accomplished and just all around

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Speaker 2: awesome but a tiny bit confused because it's like I've

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Speaker 2: asked myself a lot the last few days. Why am

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Speaker 2: I this way? Why am I this way?

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, back up, why do you feel you're not

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Speaker 3: feeling in all of yourself? That's me? Why are you

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Speaker 3: feeling accomplished?

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Speaker 2: Well? Kat and I have been living a very similar life.

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Speaker 3: It's like we're synced up in more ways than one,

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Speaker 3: and we.

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Speaker 2: Keep learning all these different ways. We're like, oh, it's

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Speaker 2: another thing where we're the same, and it likely is

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Speaker 2: just how our brains operate. Kat has been thinking about

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Speaker 2: moving and some of that has been underway, which is great.

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Speaker 2: But when things get you know, down to the wire

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Speaker 2: and stuff is starting to get real. I mean the motivation,

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Speaker 3: The pressure. It's the pressure, but it's.

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Speaker 2: Also exciting and I can't explain it. It's like there's

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Speaker 2: rush and things that I know you've been putting off

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Speaker 2: for a long time you finally were able to do.

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Speaker 2: I'm not really moving, but for a few days I

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Speaker 2: acted like I was because I found this house that

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Speaker 2: came on the market. That is me.

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Speaker 3: Were you looking on Zillo Yeah.

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Speaker 2: As a hobby, Yeah, it's really fun. And then this

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Speaker 2: was like, this is so great. Yeah, everything about it

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Speaker 2: Me moving now does not make sense, but I was

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Speaker 2: making it make sense, you know, Yeah, you just nag,

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Speaker 2: will be a good investment. And I was convincing myself.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 2: Come to find out, during the week that I thought

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Speaker 3: So anytime you need to get something done, you have

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Speaker 2: But here's the thing, like, I think it has to

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Speaker 2: which ultimately came down to the wire because the house

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Speaker 2: like pressure's on. I need to put an offer in

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Speaker 2: you told me that it may take five to ten years,

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Speaker 3: I had to stay in that house for that long, correct,

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Speaker 3: So when you sent me because I was on vacation

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Speaker 3: Time for her to finally be putting knobs on her refrigerator.

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Speaker 3: But good for her. I never thought like, she's probably

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Speaker 3: trying to move because you literally moved a year ago

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Speaker 3: and your house is like perfectly you like, maybe not perfect,

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Speaker 2: Moving is awful, It's totally awful, Like, I don't know

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Speaker 2: if I was just craving chaos. In fact, I texted

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Speaker 2: possible your brain is craving the dopamine hit of all

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Speaker 2: And I was like, interesting, trying nice about it. It's

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Speaker 2: craving the dopamine hit or it's craving chaos, which you

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Speaker 2: know I used to see chaos in relationship. Well, now

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Speaker 2: if I don't have that, because my relationship is healthy too,

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Speaker 2: am I seeking chaos? Just like create make life more

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Speaker 2: complicated than it needs to be. But he took the

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Speaker 2: to look at it. He of course picked out small

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Speaker 3: It's fine.

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Speaker 2: He's like, why are the outlets this way? And I

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Speaker 3: I'm like, we'll get new plate covers like that.

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Speaker 2: That's why He's like, well, but you have to look

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Speaker 2: like if this is what you're spending, this is what

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Speaker 2: But he's just way more analytical and I'm more of like,

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Speaker 3: The vibe, Like this wallpaper is really cool?

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Speaker 2: Like what's the feeling you have right now? Because in

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Speaker 2: He's like, this is basically some two by four is

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Speaker 3: Well, in the backyard, I was like, was this an airbnb?

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Speaker 3: It felt like I said, to you, this looks like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was quaint. It wasn't anything big or overwhelming.

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Speaker 2: In fact, there was no real yard to take care of.

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Speaker 3: It was like it was a zen garden. Yeah, Like

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Speaker 2: Plants that need to stay alive, but they had a

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Speaker 3: Attached to that, so I was like, this is do

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Speaker 2: I think I would have really enjoyed that space. But

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Speaker 2: congrats to whomever put in the offer that then made

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Speaker 2: me decide I'm not willing to be in a competition

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Speaker 2: for this house because it's really not for me. However,

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Speaker 2: I'm very thankful for the week that I was gonna

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Speaker 2: for nine to twelve months, Absolutely, And have I had

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Speaker 2: any urgency to do so, No, But then you make

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Speaker 2: I mean, obviously some of the things I had to

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Speaker 2: so that also felt good.

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Speaker 3: You're in process of painting the launder room.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's by the time this airs it will

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Speaker 2: be being painted. Yeah, thanks for that.

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to keep you on it.

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Speaker 2: But you started it, I did, Yeah, and it will

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Speaker 2: be finished. Yeah, future me, it's finished.

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Speaker 3: That's so funny that Alex said that when you brought

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Speaker 3: You just need to do this. You need to do this,

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Speaker 2: Is that a sign?

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Speaker 3: Yes? I said that to Patrick, I said, we can

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Speaker 2: Dead bunny is good luck?

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Speaker 3: Because would that be a sign of good luck?

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Speaker 2: Because when I first bought this house, there was a

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Speaker 2: dead blue jay a couple months after I moved here.

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Speaker 2: And my dad is a blue jay. I know this

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Speaker 3: Alive blue jay.

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Speaker 2: Sure you would think. But then I googled the meaning

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Speaker 2: about new beginnings.

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Speaker 3: Dead rabbit.

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Speaker 2: Me. Well, we just need to look it up. You

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Speaker 2: I'll figure it out.

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Speaker 3: Don't worry. We didn't get that house, so I hope

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Speaker 3: it doesn't mean that house.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I thought that that was the one that was.

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Speaker 3: The first house you're excited about. And also my dad

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Speaker 3: I was distracted and I'm being bad at Facebook Marketplace

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Speaker 2: That clothes were on there. I mean, I guess I've

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Speaker 3: Yes, And now I'm like, oh, I can get something

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Speaker 3: Well, also, you want to the feeling of getting it done,

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Speaker 2: I needed to let go of that house. Well, you

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Speaker 2: Okay, I have feedback here. I started to think. Halfway

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Speaker 2: So I just kept texting you. You're a money magnet,

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Speaker 2: you joy, which obviously these are just playful things. It's

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Speaker 2: not totally real, but in case it is real, and

441
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Speaker 2: keep saying it.

442
00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:34,640
Speaker 3: I did have a black mindset because I didn't want

443
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Speaker 3: to get myself. I'm doing a lot of things right

444
00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 3: now that are costing me a lot of money. Well,

445
00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:44,720
Speaker 3: that costs a lot of money. So I also know

446
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:45,760
Speaker 3: myself and.

447
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:47,480
Speaker 2: They're important things.

448
00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:50,720
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, yes, But I also am somebody who

449
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,480
Speaker 3: like I talked about. I don't know if it was

450
00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 3: last week or the week before, but I do things

451
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,439
Speaker 3: without thinking, and that usually works very well for me.

452
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,920
Speaker 3: But I don't do big financial risks without so I

453
00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:04,560
Speaker 3: had to think about this stuff. And I don't know

454
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:08,000
Speaker 3: that I have like money trauma. I think I just

455
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 3: like having money in the bank versus like But then

456
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 3: my financial advisor even said, he said, what's the point

457
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Speaker 3: of having money if you're not spending it? Like, what's

458
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 3: the point of making money in your life and working

459
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Speaker 3: really hard and then just like letting it sit there forever?

460
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Speaker 2: You can't go to heaven with trailer hitch.

461
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Speaker 3: That's what they say. That's what financial advisor was saying. That.

462
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Speaker 2: Then who's the guy from Sugarland? The guy Christian? I

463
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,960
Speaker 2: was gonna say Christian Bale, but that's Batman, Christian Johnson,

464
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:41,000
Speaker 2: Christian Christian from Sugarland. I think he has a song

465
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Speaker 2: like that. He had sugar Land the band, and then

466
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Speaker 2: he had his own Christian Bush. Yes, that's it. I

467
00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 2: think he has a song literally called.

468
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Speaker 3: Okay came to Heaven with the trailer, Hitch.

469
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Speaker 2: Houston's probably gonna cut that out. Houston told us. Our

470
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Speaker 2: producer told us the other day that for the podcast,

471
00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,199
Speaker 2: sometimes Kat and I will start singing and he's like,

472
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Speaker 2: just say, y'all know, I've been editing some of that

473
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Speaker 2: out because we give him. We give him full control.

474
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Speaker 3: And you said, wait what yes, editing out our jingles

475
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:16,200
Speaker 3: that go on for far too long? How dare you? Yeah,

476
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 3: which is probably.

477
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Speaker 2: Why we're no longer like a feeling of.

478
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Speaker 3: The day, because I think it was quite annoying.

479
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, in Houston let us know because he does have

480
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Speaker 2: full control for that, and we trust him and we

481
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 2: don't go back and listen, and so we had no idea.

482
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:31,920
Speaker 2: He's like, hey, just so y'all know, I've been making

483
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Speaker 2: the executive decision to cut out some of your singing.

484
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 2: And we're like, oh, I literally did reply, Wait.

485
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Speaker 3: What's on YouTube's still on YouTube? Yeah, because Kat diden

486
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Speaker 3: edited out of there.

487
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:53,160
Speaker 2: But so yeah, if you want the singing YouTube.

488
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,880
Speaker 3: Subscribe to her YouTube channel. If we want to hear us, Yeah,

489
00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 3: we want the musical version subscribed to for our YouTube channel, like.

490
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 2: And subscribe, which Cryocat's in here she does our video,

491
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 2: and she was the one that helped me move my

492
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Speaker 2: furniture to begin with. Like I was able to move

493
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Speaker 2: it inch by inch by myself, like just rear, but

494
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 2: to rearrange how I rearrange because I flipped it and

495
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Speaker 2: put the couch on the other side in the chairs.

496
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Speaker 3: Wait, I'm just putting this together. You guys did that

497
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Speaker 3: by yourself. Just couch is so big?

498
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Speaker 2: Yeah, me and cat, but I would say cat mostly,

499
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:26,439
Speaker 2: or it's not, it's not.

500
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Speaker 3: Cats, like she just watched me.

501
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Speaker 2: Well, what had happened was I have golfer's elbow, Oh,

502
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 2: which is that's what they call pain in the inner

503
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,159
Speaker 2: part of your elbow. And it's not necessarily from golf.

504
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 2: It's just like tennis elbow is the outside like a

505
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 2: dull pain, like a throbbing pain. And like even right

506
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 2: now when I press it, it's tender. Someone said it's

507
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,879
Speaker 2: brought on by perimenopause. This is when I was painting

508
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Speaker 2: the laundry.

509
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Speaker 3: Everything I feel like perrimonte. Pause. Now what if it's

510
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 3: just like you that motion hurt your arm for it?

511
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 2: I mean it could be, but also yes, I do

512
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,879
Speaker 2: agree with you that everything feels like perimenopause or ADHD.

513
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, in my life. So maybe this was just like

514
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 3: because you were working.

515
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Speaker 2: Well, you wait till you're forty four and then hit

516
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 2: me out when you when you're mid forties, and it.

517
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Speaker 3: I can still paint.

518
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Speaker 2: Like for example, I was with my boyfriend on I

519
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 2: guess this was this last weekend. So it was on

520
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 2: a Saturday. Had it been a great day, great Saturday,

521
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Speaker 2: you know the kind of Saturday we'd all held for

522
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Speaker 2: and we had plans to just like go hang out.

523
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Speaker 2: We were going to maybe go to the driving range,

524
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 2: hit some golf balls, and then go grab a bite

525
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 2: to eat, real low key way to wind down.

526
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Speaker 3: Did you even with your golfer A yeah, wow, Well.

527
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Speaker 2: I hadn't it. I we didn't, so you didn't know.

528
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Speaker 2: We didn't go telling say you could hit golf balls,

529
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Speaker 2: but you can't move the couch. Now, I haven't hit

530
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Speaker 2: a golf ball, because I'll tell you what happened. Okay,

531
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Speaker 2: All of a sudden, out of nowhere, like thirty minutes

532
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Speaker 2: before we're about to go, I start to just get

533
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 2: really uncomfortable. Everything is uncomfortable, and I am physically just fit.

534
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 2: I don't know, can't explain it. I'm annoyed, I'm uncomfortable,

535
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 2: and I'm aware. I'm like, what is happening. This does

536
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 2: not feel right and we were just having a good day.

537
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 2: I have nothing to be annoyed at. Then all of

538
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:27,120
Speaker 2: a sudden, I get sad, and then I really start

539
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 2: to worry because I have nothing to be sad about.

540
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,640
Speaker 2: I even look at him and I just said, I'm

541
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Speaker 2: uncomfortable and I feel sad and this is freaking me

542
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 2: out because We've had a great day and life is good.

543
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 2: I have nothing to be sad about. And then he's like, okay,

544
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 2: so he starts kind of rubbing my shoulder like he's like,

545
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Speaker 2: just take a few deep breaths, and I'm like and

546
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, tears just start flooding down

547
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 2: my face, like I can't stop them, and I'm just

548
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 2: sitting there and I was like, I don't even know

549
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 2: what's happening. I'm not sad right now, Like I don't

550
00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 2: feel sad, but I have to cry and I'm crying

551
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,719
Speaker 2: and I can't explain it. That's very menopausal.

552
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 3: You can't tell me otherwise.

553
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 2: So then he's like, well, maybe we need to just

554
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 2: like what would feel good for you right now. And

555
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 2: so I sat there, I cried as much as I could,

556
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 2: and then you know, crying released his chemicals that helped

557
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 2: you feel better. So I felt a little better, and

558
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 2: I was like, maybe we should just go for a walk.

559
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 2: So when we were at his house, so we just

560
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 2: walked outside, went for a walk, and then his son

561
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 2: was home and we were gonna end up if we

562
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 2: hit golf balls. We were just going to eat by ourselves.

563
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 2: And then his son was like going to figure something out,

564
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 2: so we were like, let's just go, Let's take him,

565
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,239
Speaker 2: take him out to eat. He'd probably love that. And

566
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:40,199
Speaker 2: so we ended up doing a little mini family dinner

567
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Speaker 2: with one of our five kids. And it was a

568
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:45,479
Speaker 2: totally different night than what we had planned, like our

569
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 2: cute little date night got hijacked by my hormones. But

570
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,439
Speaker 2: it ended up being better was what I needed. But

571
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Speaker 2: I have no idea why. I just started crying, and

572
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:58,919
Speaker 2: I was thinking, he's never experienced whatever that was, Like

573
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 2: he's experienced me so nap a little bit at times.

574
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,719
Speaker 2: Not whatever that was was really weird, and he handled

575
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 2: it like a champ. I must say, you've cried in

576
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 2: front of him, yes, but there was a legit reason.

577
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 2: If I've cried in front of him, it's been like,

578
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,360
Speaker 2: you know, going on like yeah, yeah, are kids ever

579
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 2: going to get along? Or I'm going to meet your

580
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 2: wife that passed away and spend the weekend with her family,

581
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 2: and I'm overwhelmed by that, Like those are when I like,

582
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,360
Speaker 2: that's valid tears. This was unexplainable.

583
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 3: Okay, that's different than like I was painting all day

584
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:34,719
Speaker 3: and then I got this injury, but it couldn't be

585
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 3: from the painting. In that motion, it's probably from Perry,

586
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 3: but that's different.

587
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I was saying like that's explainable, but also

588
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm.

589
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 3: Maybe I could also be wrong. I'm not I know

590
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 3: nothing about Perrymuntahause.

591
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Speaker 2: Well, there's just fun things like that to look forward to,

592
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 2: Like when do you and Patrick You're forty four and

593
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 2: you and Patrick are going to be having the great

594
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 2: day and you're about to go hit some golf balls

595
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:54,640
Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden you're like.

596
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Speaker 3: Well, I had my week two what was it two

597
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 3: weeks ago when I just was like crying, But you

598
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 3: know why that's happening.

599
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's hormones too.

600
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was weird. I felt sad though this was

601
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 3: it was so weird because I was like, I'm not

602
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 3: sad right now, golf balls. I don't need any a

603
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 3: kid who's like overtired, who's like I want to go by. Yeah,

604
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 3: I don't know.

605
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 2: I think if it was more was it like whiney.

606
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 2: I was just more like purplay.

607
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 3: Like I was like, you want to go do something,

608
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 3: but then like you're feeling this way at the same time.

609
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 3: That don't make sense.

610
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 2: We're speaking a cry. Okay, we were talking about the

611
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 2: golferslf on moving the furniture or whatever. But I was

612
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 2: on the phone with her before I did that. She

613
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 2: was like, what are you doing? And I was like, well,

614
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,120
Speaker 2: I think, Alex, I'm gonna go hit golf balls or whatever.

615
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,719
Speaker 2: And she was like do you like doing that? Like

616
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 2: she goes, is this something you want to do? And

617
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 2: I was like yeah, I went weird. Yeah, I guess

618
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 2: if you're just like you're with the right person, great

619
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 2: interest change.

620
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Speaker 3: So I had a roommate. She's still one of my

621
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 3: best friends, Kira. You've met her. She lived with me

622
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 3: for like a year and she was dating her now

623
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 3: husband and he's a big golf. For This was pre

624
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 3: Patrick too, so I never had golfed in my life,

625
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 3: and she would always like get dressed and I was like,

626
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go to the golf course with Jay whatever.

627
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 3: And I remember multiple times being like that sucks. Like

628
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 3: I remember being like, oh, you've just found your day

629
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 3: at the golf course, and she's like, it's actually kind

630
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 3: of fun. And then I met Patrick and I was like, Kyra,

631
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 3: low key, I love golf. I mean, I don't want

632
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 3: to do eighteen holes. You went and bought clubs. Okay,

633
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 3: first of all, I did not buy clubs. Patrick bought

634
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 3: me clubs, but that was a gift for him. It

635
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 3: wasn't a gift for me. He wanted me to have

636
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 3: my own clubs. You would like them, but I didn't

637
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 3: like them. But they're purple, and I like going to

638
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 3: do like nine holes. I really would love if they

639
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 3: did like six holes. That would be sweet. This is

640
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 3: where I lose interest. But when I gave a speech

641
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 3: at Kira's wedding and one of the things I like

642
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 3: had a list of things that had like learned from

643
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 3: her and Jay, and one of them was about golf.

644
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 3: And I said, I said, what you just said, it

645
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 3: doesn't matter as much what you're doing but the person

646
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 3: that you're doing it with, because I now love golfing

647
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 3: with Patrick. And it's not that I now love the

648
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 3: game of golf, it's when you're doing something with somebody else,

649
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 3: and I also get to see the joy Patrick has.

650
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 3: And then I'm like, oh, I can kind of enjoy this,

651
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 3: but I think I more so just like being with him.

652
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 2: You know, it's exactly what it is. And you get

653
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 2: to wear a cute outfit. Yes, And I was about

654
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 2: to say, speaking of the outfits, I found some cute

655
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 2: ones on Amazon. I'll have to send you the link.

656
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 3: Oh, you're gonna say, Facebook Marketplace.

657
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 2: I didn't know to look for clothes on there, but

658
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 2: maybe I'll check it out because I look for other

659
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 2: things on Facebook Marketplace, like I sell and I shop there, like,

660
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 2: yeah all the time, like trying to look for things.

661
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 2: I don't have a lot of luck, but I have sometimes. Yeah,

662
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 2: Like there's a few things that I've missed. Oh like

663
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 2: my dining room table and my chairs.

664
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 3: That was clutch. That was a really goodbye, really good

665
00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 3: ye CEB two.

666
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:01,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, and they're pretty much brand new. Speaking of cry,

667
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 2: she went and carried that pick Oh.

668
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 3: Really the truck too. Yeah, she picks up a mattress

669
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 3: for you.

670
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

671
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 2: I think she's my strong friend, strong friend. Oh yeah,

672
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 2: I think it was forbidden because she's friends been too.

673
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 2: So we were moving stuff.

674
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 3: Hey I'm moving soon. You got cryokat.

675
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: So you were on vacation, yes, which was really exciting,

676
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 2: But I was on vacation.

677
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 3: I was on real vacation.

678
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 2: And you said you read a book there that you

679
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 2: want to recommend because you have a book and I

680
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 2: have a show.

681
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 3: So I don't know about you, but I really get

682
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 3: my like reading bug when I'm on vacation, and then

683
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 3: I want to read every book after that and I can't.

684
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 3: I've learned that this book has a sequel, Perfect Marriage.

685
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 3: It was so good and well, I don't want to

686
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 3: say anything. I don't want to say anything, but you give.

687
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 2: It like five I'm not marriages out of five.

688
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 3: I would give it a four point five out of five.

689
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 3: That's good. And there's a sequel, so like, that's exciting.

690
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 3: It doesn't have to be over yet. I read it

691
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 3: so fast. I read it and like because the first

692
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 3: maybe three or four days of vacation, I didn't read

693
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 3: it all because I was playing you know, I.

694
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 2: Go with your nieces and.

695
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, so my nieces and nephews. It was really cute

696
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 3: to watch them on the beach and like jump in

697
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 3: the water with them. But then once people got their

698
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:44,719
Speaker 3: like playing jitters out, then I read three days finished

699
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 3: it and I gasped at the end. I was sitting

700
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 3: next to Patrick and I go ah, and he was like, well,

701
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 3: now you have to tell me what happened.

702
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 2: Well, that's how I feel about We Were Liars, because

703
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 2: you're watching that right now, and when that ending happened.

704
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 2: I guess.

705
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying to figure out because I'm on I'm

706
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 3: in the middle of the seventh episode and there's eight episodes,

707
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 3: and I know something crazy happens, so I know it's

708
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 3: not going to be what I think it is.

709
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 2: I'm not saying anything because I don't want to run

710
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 2: the rest of spoiling anything at all other than I

711
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 2: also gassed. So You've Got the Perfect Marriage is a

712
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 2: book that'll make you gasp, We Were Liars, which is

713
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 2: on Amazon.

714
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 3: Can I your gasp?

715
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 2: No?

716
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 3: No, I can't even guess.

717
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 2: Because then other people.

718
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm going to write it down after this and

719
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 3: once we've had enough time, Oh.

720
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 2: You could say it to me off Mike. I just

721
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 2: don't want to ruin it everybody else.

722
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:34,239
Speaker 3: You know, I'm going to write it down so then

723
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 3: I can read it on Mike and be like, see

724
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 3: I guessed it right.

725
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, We Were Liars is something you're watching. I've

726
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 2: already finished, but that's not what I was going to recommend.

727
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 2: I thought I was bringing something new to the table

728
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 2: because this is also on Amazon.

729
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 3: Is.

730
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 2: When I finished We Were Liars, it rolled into like

731
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 2: a different series, which is Shiny Happy People about the

732
00:33:54,280 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 2: Dugger Family, a documentary. Yeah, and I mind blown, like

733
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 2: things that I learned and saw. It was like unbelievable

734
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 2: stuff that I've forgotten about their family. And it's just

735
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 2: crazy that that the dad thought like I'm gonna put

736
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 2: my family on TV and like this sort of stuff

737
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 2: is going to be happening, and this is how I'm

738
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 2: going to handle it. It's just sort of like that

739
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 2: I'm the head of the house. Probably mentality of.

740
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 3: Like, well, what I'm not going to occasion it's like

741
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 3: a no, it's that weird.

742
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 2: I can't remember. Maybe Shannon can look at the exact

743
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 2: because I don't want to get that.

744
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 3: It's very obedient.

745
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 2: It's like a fundamentalist.

746
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So you were telling me that and I

747
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 3: was like, I think i've I watched it when it

748
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 3: came out.

749
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 2: Yes, it's not new. Come to find out. You were like,

750
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 2: I feel like this's been out for a while. So

751
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 2: I just googled it and it came out in twenty

752
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 2: twenty three, so it's been out a couple of years.

753
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 3: But I have I don't remember a lot of like

754
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 3: you're saying all this and I'm like, what was shocking?

755
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:50,839
Speaker 2: And I forget, Oh, well, it's okay, so one thing,

756
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 2: and this isn't spoiling anything. But the adult daughter, she

757
00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 2: is prominently in it, and then one of his nieces

758
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 2: is talking about it. But the adult daughter and her cousin,

759
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 2: I mean, they were kids when the show started, but

760
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 2: as they matured and got older and they even got married,

761
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,399
Speaker 2: and then they were used on the show. They never

762
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 2: got paid because he was the one that TLC had

763
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 2: in the contract. They paid the dad and then I

764
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 2: guess he could disperse. And there was a time where

765
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 2: she was having a birthing episode where she was pregnant,

766
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 2: specially giving birth and she was like I'm not I

767
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 2: don't want cameras in there. Or her dad like the

768
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 2: day before her wedding or something, he just casually like

769
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:31,439
Speaker 2: had the contract down on the table, was like, hey, babe,

770
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 2: I need you to sign this, and she kind of

771
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 2: ran by. And obviously she's a lot going on. She's

772
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 2: getting married the next day, so she didn't pay attention

773
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 2: to every detail and she signed it. Well, it was like,

774
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 2: I'm making this up, but like say, it was a

775
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 2: five year deal, well after her marriage, when she's pregnant

776
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 2: with her first child, that's within that five year window.

777
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:51,720
Speaker 2: And then she's like, oh, well, we don't want cameras

778
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,799
Speaker 2: in but part of the contract was well you don't

779
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 2: have a choice, and.

780
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 3: She wasn't getting paid.

781
00:35:57,440 --> 00:35:59,879
Speaker 2: And then she was like, well TLC, can y'all give

782
00:35:59,920 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 2: up us money for this because and they're like, oh, well,

783
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 2: our deal is with your dad and we're paying him handsomely.

784
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 2: So then they went to the dad and said we

785
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 2: would like payment, and he said I can pay you

786
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 2: ten dollars an hour. Oh isn't that into Okay?

787
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,440
Speaker 3: Maybe I didn't finish it because I don't remember that. Yeah,

788
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 3: just crazy stuff like that that feels very I llegal,

789
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 3: especially with the kids. I think now I don't know.

790
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 2: What the laws are, but they were adult that's why.

791
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:28,400
Speaker 3: Right. But in California there there's some law that's changed

792
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 3: about like influencers and stuff where if you're using your

793
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 3: kids as part of whatever, you have to pay them.

794
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 3: So that's why a lot of people are moving out

795
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 3: of California. I feel like, I don't know that they

796
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 3: can like so they don't have to do because they

797
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 3: lose money. There's some weird law that like you are

798
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 3: losing people.

799
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: That like you are losing money protect children, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, No,

800
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 2: I mean that's weird.

801
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 3: I'm not condoning it. I'm just saying I think there's

802
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:52,839
Speaker 3: something like that going on.

803
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: It's okay, let's see Dugger religion independent Fundamentalist Baptists affiliated

804
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 2: with the Institute and basically Principles. That's well IBLP, Yes, IBLP,

805
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 2: a conservative Chritian organization. And then there's that one guy.

806
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 2: I feel like the church I grew up too. They

807
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 2: would listen to stuff by him, but there was a

808
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 2: lot of his seminars that he would do and they

809
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,799
Speaker 2: were very much in alignment with his stuff. And that

810
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: guy was just like spreading his.

811
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 3: But it's like a kind of cult.

812
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, he feels a little a little weird.

813
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 3: Okay, well, maybe I'll watch this again, even though it's

814
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 3: an old wreck.

815
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 2: Apparently there's a season two of something that season one.

816
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 3: But is it about a different family.

817
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 2: Potentially it could be about something completely different.

818
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 3: Well that makes me sad, though, because I watched was

819
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 3: it nineteen Kids in Counting? Yeah, where they kept changing

820
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 3: that or actually I watched that and I was like, oh,

821
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 3: this family seems so nice.

822
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 2: No, no, it's a mess. I remember the brother he

823
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 2: like did inappropriate things with the sisters. And then the

824
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 2: one of the sisters that it had happened to, she's

825
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 2: the one that is now part of the documentary, and

826
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 2: was saying, oh, yeah, I never got paid like she's

827
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 2: she even oh she did. I would maybe find that interesting.

828
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 2: She seems like a really sweet person, and I'm glad

829
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 2: that her and her husband are kind of out of that.

830
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, no, nothing about that seemed healthy. And they

831
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:20,839
Speaker 2: interviewed other people that were watching the show that were

832
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 2: part of that religion and they or had grown up

833
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 2: in that religion, or at least were married to men

834
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 2: like that in the religion, and they felt very suppressed,

835
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 2: and they were like, no way TLC is putting this

836
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 2: on there because they know what life is like really

837
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 2: when the cameras aren't rolling, because they know how these

838
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 2: homes work, and so they're having to watch it and

839
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,280
Speaker 2: being like, oh my gosh, like this is my life.

840
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 2: But in america's like eating this up and these people

841
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 2: are gaining fame. But when it's just not a healthy situation.

842
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 3: That's a lesson though that. I mean, it's hard because

843
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 3: if the content's interesting, we want to watch it. But

844
00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 3: it's that John and Kate plus eight like that was

845
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 3: nothing what it seemed. Did you not watch that? Yeah?

846
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 3: I loved that show, but like I think, what.

847
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's just interesting. You're like I loved

848
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 2: nineteen Kids Accounting and John in Place, John and Kate,

849
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:12,320
Speaker 2: let's say.

850
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 3: And I love No Mom. I loved Breaking Amish too.

851
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 2: Oh I don't know.

852
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 3: Oh that one was cool. They I guess when you're

853
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 3: Amish you get to have like this experience, I mean,

854
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 3: says this show. I don't know if this is actually true,

855
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:29,839
Speaker 3: but you could have this experience where you go into

856
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 3: the real world and then they have to make the

857
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,440
Speaker 3: decision do I want to come back into my amish

858
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 3: world or do I want to live here? But if

859
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 3: I live out in the real world, I'm cut off

860
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 3: from everybody. So you're watching these teenagers or like young

861
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 3: adults go and experience things for the first time, like

862
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 3: going to a movie theater or drinking or just like

863
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 3: going to a mall. Stuff like that. Like with Freedom,

864
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 3: I bet a lot of it was not true now

865
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 3: that I'm talking about it.

866
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 2: Or maybe it was much like fuck, you'll believe anything.

867
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:07,399
Speaker 3: Actually, Okay, Now I watched this in like middle school. Yeah,

868
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 3: because it's.

869
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 2: Like twelve fast forward to the you now, like you

870
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 2: are very skeptical.

871
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 3: Which is why I'm a skeptic, because breaking.

872
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 2: Homage, which is why you wanted to do our Mel

873
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 2: Robin's Deep Dive.

874
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

875
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 2: So this is a good transition into the really cool

876
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 2: voicemail that we got. So this is a good transition

877
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 2: into the really cool voicemail that we got from a

878
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:48,359
Speaker 2: fellow licensed therapist. She's a listener from Florida, and we're

879
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 2: gonna play her voicemail. No, and this is about the

880
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 2: Mel Robin's Deep Dive episode that we did about the

881
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 2: Leton theory.

882
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 1: I usually never called because I feel leaving voicemails, but

883
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 1: I think the greeting really put me at ease.

884
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 4: For one, but I'm listening to the Mill Robin seep

885
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 4: Dive and I'm not even all the way done, but

886
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 4: I felt so inclined that I had to pause it and.

887
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: Came because as a therapist, I, like some therapists in Florida,

888
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 1: I'm finding myself saying yes, oh my gosh, yes, I'm

889
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 1: putting my finger on exactly why I've been struggling with

890
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,239
Speaker 1: the self help world, because at first I thought maybe

891
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 1: I was jealous that people are so successful in this

892
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: realm and maybe I'm not at that level, but I

893
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: really have a hard time finding a way to monetize

894
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 1: the help and the fact that therapy really isn't all

895
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:39,839
Speaker 1: that sexy and it's a really slow process to create

896
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:40,720
Speaker 1: lasting change.

897
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 4: So I just thank you for the conversation. I appreciate

898
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 4: it great things.

899
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 2: So that was nice and from someone that's in the

900
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 2: space that you're in that sometimes can be challenging.

901
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,719
Speaker 3: And I like that she said. A part of her

902
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 3: was like, maybe I'm just jealous because this person's successful,

903
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 3: because I've had to ask myself that a lot of like, well,

904
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 3: is this just like a jealous not able to be

905
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:10,360
Speaker 3: like happy for other people, or is this skeptical because

906
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 3: there feels like there's some manipulation or there's some false advertising.

907
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 3: So I feel that too sometimes, Well.

908
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 2: You did a great job with the Deep Dive, I

909
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 2: gotta say. I went back and watched it on YouTube,

910
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 2: and I was a little nervous, especially because I was

911
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 2: the Mel Robbins fan, and I think I've said five

912
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 2: hundred times I didn't want to feel like a bash

913
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 2: session because also we don't want to be mean grel

914
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:38,800
Speaker 2: known for just like not having space for everybody or

915
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 2: putting people down. And also we can be a space

916
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 2: where research can be done and information can be shared.

917
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 2: And a lot of people didn't know about the plagiarism controversy,

918
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 2: and I just assumed because that's part of our algorithms,

919
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 2: and I fed that a lot that most people knew.

920
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 2: We got so many notes from people that had no idea,

921
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 2: and then a lot of the similar vibe to the

922
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:03,240
Speaker 2: caller the voicemail of like I kind of just always

923
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:04,879
Speaker 2: knew something was a little off, but I can quite

924
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 2: put my finger on it, so thank you for now

925
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 2: giving an explanation to like what was not sitting well

926
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,439
Speaker 2: with me. I'll read an email that we got, which,

927
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 2: by the way, if you want to call and leave

928
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 2: a voicemail. And I love that she said at the beginning.

929
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 2: I usually never call because I feel weirdly being voicemails.

930
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people feel that way, which

931
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:25,240
Speaker 2: I thought a lot of people would like to call. Yeah,

932
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 2: but that's just we get more emails than voicemails. But

933
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 2: if you feel inclined, eight seven seven two o seven

934
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,319
Speaker 2: two oh seven seven is the number, and then you

935
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 2: can email Hey, they're at Feeling Things podcast dot com,

936
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 2: like Beth did. Here's what Beth wrote in Hey Kat

937
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 2: and Amy. I'm a long time listener of Four Things,

938
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 2: like from the very first episode, as in I still

939
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 2: make my bed to this day because of Amy, and

940
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 2: it changed my life for good. I never knew how

941
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,720
Speaker 2: to journal, and then I bought the Four Things Journal

942
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,840
Speaker 2: because it felt accessible, and it slowly change my life,

943
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 2: as in I now journal a full page almost every day.

944
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,240
Speaker 2: The transformation from Kat joining the show as a guest,

945
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,760
Speaker 2: to her own podcasts and the Fifth Thing to Feeling

946
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 2: Things has been so cool to watch and cheer on.

947
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 2: It feels like watching two good friends find the very

948
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 2: best versions of themselves.

949
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 3: I had actually stopped.

950
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 2: Listening to four things and was only doing the fifth

951
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 2: thing due to time constraints, and the decision to become

952
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 2: feeling things has been such a gift to me, So

953
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 2: thank you, Amy. It's been such a joy and encouragement

954
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 2: of my own journey to watch you learn, grow and

955
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 2: change your mind. And I'm gonna insert myself here and

956
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 2: this is not the email any talking, but and that's

957
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 2: where I feel about Mel, because I did talk about

958
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 2: her so much, and that that was another thing, like

959
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 2: an Instagram dms that I was seeing from people, was

960
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 2: like I only started following Mel because of you, or

961
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,280
Speaker 2: I learned about Mel from you, And then I felt like, oh, shoot,

962
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 2: you know it just it's a weird place to be

963
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 2: in when you've hyped someone up and then again that

964
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 2: veil is lifted and then you feel like, now you're

965
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 2: bringing this other information. But then when I got that

966
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 2: line from Beth, that was very encouraging to me because

967
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 2: I am allowed to learn, grow and change my mind

968
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 2: and she put change in all caps. So Beth, thank you.

969
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 2: So much for that specific line, and then she went

970
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 2: on to say some nice things about me blah blah blah,

971
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 2: and then she went on to which thank you Beth

972
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 2: for that words of affirmation or my love language, but

973
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 2: I'm not going to read them for everybody else. And

974
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 2: then she said the Mel Robins episode, thank you for

975
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 2: the Deep Dive. I was introduced to her through you

976
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 2: and initially liked what she.

977
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 3: Had to say.

978
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 2: However, recently with the let them stuff, it just didn't

979
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 2: sit right with me. I didn't even know about the

980
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 2: plagiarism part. It went against everything I've been doing in

981
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 2: my healing and therapy journey. And while it wouldn't have

982
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 2: bothered me if you still followed or quoted her firm

983
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 2: believer that we all have different journeys, it did make

984
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 2: me feel connected and seen that you also felt disenfranchised

985
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,840
Speaker 2: as well. So I truly appreciate y'all's Deep Dive episode.

986
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 2: It was so refreshingly transparent. Thanks for everything you both

987
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:03,959
Speaker 2: have done for me in ways you'll never know. Hope

988
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 2: you have the day you need to have, Beth Duncan,

989
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 2: so thank you Beth for that, and thank you Kat

990
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 2: for the thoughtful deep dive because that was all you,

991
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:18,799
Speaker 2: and you executed it beautifully, exceeded any expectations I had,

992
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 2: and I think I had a lot of expectations on

993
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 2: how I wanted it to play out, and you killed

994
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 2: it well.

995
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 3: Thanks. And I was thinking as you were reading that

996
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:33,399
Speaker 3: you changing your mind in this area is brave too.

997
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 3: It's I think there's courage in that to say like, oh,

998
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 3: not that you were wrong, because it's that you learned

999
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 3: more information, but I think you putting yourself in that position,

1000
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 3: you could have just been like, no, I love mel Well.

1001
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,919
Speaker 2: I still found myself struggling with like saying that I'm

1002
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 2: not like exactly. I think there are things I still like.

1003
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 2: And again I think I learned more from guests that

1004
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 2: she has on now than her. But I did find myself,

1005
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 2: even though I was I'm increasingly more just about her,

1006
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 2: I still wanted to be like, I mean, it's not

1007
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 2: that I'm not a fan, it's just like, this is information,

1008
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,280
Speaker 2: and do with it what you will, like am I probably?

1009
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 2: Am I going to be like? I started to read

1010
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 2: her last book and I couldn't finish it. If she

1011
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,720
Speaker 2: puts out another book, now, it's like the next phase

1012
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 2: of my relationship with hers. I'm probably not even gonna

1013
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,760
Speaker 2: own that book or ask for it as a gift

1014
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:28,880
Speaker 2: because I told my sister, oh yeah, I would love it,

1015
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 2: so she got it for me. I did see someone

1016
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:33,760
Speaker 2: left us a comment on Instagram. They're like, oh, shoot,

1017
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 2: what do I do about my let them tattoo that

1018
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 2: I got? And I was like, well, people were.

1019
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 3: Getting those tattoos. There was a whole when I was

1020
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 3: doing my research. Apparently there was a movement when that

1021
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,799
Speaker 3: poem came out that people were getting those tattoos.

1022
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, because so Cassie Phillips had gotten tattoos, Bill wet them.

1023
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 3: Tattoo can And I hope that this was clear. Let

1024
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 3: them works in a certain context. It just isn't as

1025
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 3: overarching life changing and works in every area of your

1026
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 3: life like some of the stuff that has been coming

1027
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 3: out lately about it. It has limitations, but it's just

1028
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 3: like we talked about any of the other little things

1029
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 3: we have, like the weight to worry and all that stuff,

1030
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 3: those still can be meaningful to you.

1031
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 2: So I replied to that person and I said just that,

1032
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 2: like it wasn't like take the information we shared, but

1033
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 2: your tattoo can still be special and be very fitting

1034
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 2: in certain cases. But it made me think about our tattoos,

1035
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:29,439
Speaker 2: because we want to get some of ours lasered off.

1036
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,800
Speaker 2: Like I've got joy and a spat and they're bleeding

1037
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 2: so bad. Like I want to get on lasered off,

1038
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,319
Speaker 2: but I have a summer tan, or you can't have

1039
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 2: sun on your skin.

1040
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 3: I don't think, oh when you get them, well, I

1041
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 3: just don't want to pay for it right now, cause

1042
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 3: am I having other things? I'm having one? Do you

1043
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 3: say I have a limited you'ring lack? You have a

1044
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 3: lack mindset. Maybe if I just start getting my tattoos

1045
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 3: lasered off, I'll just be a money magnet and we'll

1046
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 3: just come to me.

1047
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 2: You already are like sell a fee things on Facebook

1048
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 2: for your tattoo removal.

1049
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 3: Please buy this patio furniture. I'd like to get my

1050
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:03,440
Speaker 3: dad tooo removed.

1051
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 2: I mean, that's girl. Math sometimes is like, Okay, what

1052
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 2: am I not using right now? What can I offload?

1053
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:11,399
Speaker 2: And then boom, well what do I.

1054
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 3: Want more than? What do I want more? This couch

1055
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 3: or my arm back?

1056
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 2: Well, it depends, is it like the main couch you

1057
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 2: sit on or is it when your mom gave you.

1058
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 2: That's sitting in the corner.

1059
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 3: I don't know. I might I could sit on the ground.

1060
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 2: Like I have this rocker chair under my tree in

1061
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 2: my backyard.

1062
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 3: It's red.

1063
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 2: I don't know if you've seen it. It's like a glider.

1064
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 3: Yeah. And so do you sell it for you? Well,

1065
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:39,439
Speaker 3: I'll take you percent. Listen, Oh is it from your mom?

1066
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 2: It was my mom's.

1067
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 3: Oh, then you can't sell that.

1068
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 2: But well, I was thinking about stuff your mom gave

1069
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 2: you and how you're selling.

1070
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 3: It, and oh, I know, wayfair.

1071
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 2: I know this is totally different. I'm just telling you

1072
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:54,439
Speaker 2: the thought I had. You know how one thought leads

1073
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 2: to another thought.

1074
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 3: You know that. Yeah, I've heard that cyber too.

1075
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 2: Okay, So when you're talking about that, I was like, oh,

1076
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 2: thinking about my patio furniture from my mom, which I

1077
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 2: don't love the color red, but my mom loved red.

1078
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 2: So I've thought for a long long time I need

1079
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 2: to paint it. So I really need some sort of

1080
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 2: dopamine hit or motivation to get that painted. But also

1081
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,800
Speaker 2: I was seeing the other day, do I have to

1082
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 2: hold onto this like I have some of her jewelry?

1083
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 2: That means a lot to me that I wear all

1084
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 2: the time. I don't even know that I really like

1085
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 2: the glider. I just keep holding on to the dang glider.

1086
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 2: It's sitting out underneath the tree facing a fence, like

1087
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 2: if you were to sit in it. There's nothing enjoyful

1088
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 2: like what you're gliding. And you're like, look at my

1089
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 2: neighbor's fence and is it dirty?

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00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 1: Look?

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00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:37,880
Speaker 2: Yes, it's dirty. The paint is peeling.

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00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 3: Okay. But but but you could repurpose that into a

1093
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 3: beautiful piece of furniture. There are people that do that.

1094
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 3: I watch them on TikTok all the time. They take

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00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 3: like a dresser they found on the side of the

1096
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 3: road and they turn it into like this beautiful work

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00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 3: of art. So I think that could be a metaphor

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00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:02,759
Speaker 3: of something refresh in your life. I couldn't be me,

1099
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 3: because I would just spray paint it.

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00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I was gonna do with spray paint

1101
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:10,120
Speaker 2: it like dark brown or not black.

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00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 3: I think we can find you somebody who can like Okay, Well,

1103
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 3: we then we have to sell some things to be

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00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 3: able to pay for the refurbished chair.

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00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 2: It's okay, I would invest in it if it like

1106
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 2: makes my mom's peace special, Like, I'm okay with that.

1107
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:29,360
Speaker 2: Circulating money brings me joy. Anytime you divide anything, just

1108
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,839
Speaker 2: tell yourself that, because when you're paying money to somebody else,

1109
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:33,840
Speaker 2: it's like you're giving.

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00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 3: Your helping them exactly, helping them live the life that they.

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00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 2: Were, and then that brings you joy. So therefore it's

1112
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 2: a it's the whole system.

1113
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, let's find somebody and if you're listening and

1114
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 3: you're like, oh, I do that and you'll live in

1115
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:48,600
Speaker 3: the area, maybe they can come fix your chair. Yeah, yeah,

1116
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:54,360
Speaker 3: don't it. This was Wayfair furniture, not like a family

1117
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 3: heirloom ordered it.

1118
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 2: I mean I have pieces. This light in here that

1119
00:51:58,000 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 2: I love is from Wayfair.

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00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 3: It's baller, I know. I think I might buy it.

1121
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 2: I sent you the Wayfair. I think, yes, it's so cute.

1122
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:07,799
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know the brand of it. My

1123
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 2: moms could easily be from Wayfair. I have no idea.

1124
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 2: It's not some like precious.

1125
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 3: She isn't used to glide in it, and you would

1126
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 3: watch her glide on.

1127
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 2: Her back packet. That means I should sit in it.

1128
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 3: My mom never sat in this. I don't think my

1129
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 3: mom ever sat in this French shore. I don't have

1130
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 3: like a memory, but there are things that I have.

1131
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 3: As we're removing stuff, I kept being like, oh, I

1132
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 3: have a box of rolled coins in a shoe box,

1133
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 3: duct taped. It's so heavy. There's like two hundred dollars

1134
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,960
Speaker 3: of rolled coins in this box. I will never cash

1135
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 3: it in because I found it in the closet of

1136
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 3: my grandfather's house when we were cleaning their house out

1137
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 3: after my grandma died. He had passed away before her,

1138
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 3: and we have memories of rolling coins with our grandfather

1139
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 3: when we were little, and so I took all of

1140
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 3: the rolled coins and I divide them out between four

1141
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:59,480
Speaker 3: because I have three siblings, and which that was the

1142
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 3: hill of money in his closet, because what is that

1143
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 3: six hundred dollars And I will never we are moving it.

1144
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:07,839
Speaker 3: Patrick's like what is this? And I'm like, We're never

1145
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 3: taking that to the bank. I will have that until

1146
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 3: the day I die because it is a memory, you know.

1147
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's to that.

1148
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:18,840
Speaker 3: If I just found rolled coins in my parents' kitchen,

1149
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:20,799
Speaker 3: I'd take them to the bank. I don't have a

1150
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 3: memory with that, but.

1151
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 2: Make your grandkids are for sure cashing that in.

1152
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 3: No, do not take this to the bank. This is

1153
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 3: a memory of your great great grandfather, your great grandfather.

1154
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:36,319
Speaker 2: I was featuring Stashia finding that, and she'd be like.

1155
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 3: Yes, grandfather's grandfather.

1156
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 2: Feet don't fail me now, she'd catch that stuff in

1157
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 2: so fast. Okay, well.

1158
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:48,799
Speaker 3: That's that.

1159
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:50,440
Speaker 2: This is our episode. There's a lot of feelings in

1160
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:52,879
Speaker 2: this episode. We have feelings of we were in awe,

1161
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 2: we felt accomplished, we feel sentimental, yeah, proud, feel confused

1162
00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 2: by hormones and weird cries, and I feel pain in

1163
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 2: my elbow. Lots of feelings and we hope that you

1164
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 2: enjoyed the mail Robins Deep Dive and appreciate it again.

1165
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,479
Speaker 2: I'll say one more time, Cat, you did an excellent job.

1166
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 2: We have requests for more deep dives, so we got

1167
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 2: to figure out who if y'all would like to send

1168
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 2: in your request. We've already gotten some, but you could

1169
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 2: send in people you would like them on and we

1170
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 2: can work on that.

1171
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 3: Things can be things on a cult or some kind

1172
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 3: of trend or something like that golfer's elbow. Ye deep,

1173
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:35,319
Speaker 3: I know that anybody would listen to that, but maybe

1174
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 3: we could make it fun.

1175
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 2: I mean A deep dive on perimenopause would be so helpful,

1176
00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:40,399
Speaker 2: but I feel like we would need an expert. Yeah,

1177
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 2: for sure, not that's beyond our scope. And speaking of

1178
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 2: our ADHD showed up a lot in this episode too,

1179
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 2: so I know that a deep dive on that would

1180
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 2: be appreciated, but from an expert. So some of our

1181
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 2: deep dives maybe from us, or we'd have to bring

1182
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,439
Speaker 2: in experts, but we're open to anything. So yes, send

1183
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 2: in whatever topic she would like looked into with the microscope. Yeah,

1184
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 2: and uh yeah, we hope you have it.

1185
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: We have, you have, I have.

1186
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 3: We are having the day you need to have.

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Speaker 5: Bye.

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Speaker 1: Bye