1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: Call It What It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camil Luddington, 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: an iHeartRadio podcast. 3 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 2: Well, Hello, Hello, Hello. 4 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 3: Hello Call It crew, and welcome to another episode of. 5 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 2: Call It What It Is? 6 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 3: What It Is. Jessica, Yes, before we got on here, 7 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 3: you said something to me that was shocking because usually 8 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 3: you start a podcast and you're a perky, perky worky. 9 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 2: Ready to know. 10 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 3: And I'm by the way, I'm in bed right now, 11 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 3: because I was like, that's where I'm at. I just 12 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 3: want to lounge, blah blah blah. But you did not 13 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 3: sound very perky worky. 14 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 1: No, oddly enough, I actually sounded perky while saying that 15 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: I woke up angry. 16 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 2: Let's talk about it. 17 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 3: Because this is not Jessica Capshaw does not wake up 18 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 3: angry or I mean, maybe we shouldn't say that, and 19 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 3: you never do, but it's not a regular occurrence for you. 20 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: No, no, no, definitely not. I woke up angry. I 21 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: woke up kind of like worth mentioning is that it's 22 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: it's proper winter here, it's properly cold. I feel like 23 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 1: the English have a saying for it involves like it's 24 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: tits cold or it's tits out. Cold, or it's tits in. 25 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 3: I never said my tits are in. 26 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 2: It's so cold, my tits are out. 27 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 3: It's a cold, my tits are out. 28 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 1: It's my titties. 29 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, colder than yes, see, it's cold. 30 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: That's what I said, you know what this morning I 31 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: would have said, Yeah, that's what I said. 32 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 3: That's going on the merch people, that's going on the merch. 33 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: And then I would do like a head Bobby Snake weave. Yeah, 34 00:01:58,680 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: I do that. I do that. 35 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like it's so you know, 36 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 3: the cold is like so cute and it's like Christmas time, 37 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 3: and the second it turns like December twenty six, you're. 38 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: Like no, yeah, no, yeah, yeah yeah. And when it's 39 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 1: you know, it's properly cold and there's no decorations to 40 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: distract me. So anyways, it's cold, and I just I 41 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 1: don't know the outweighed by pros this morning, and I 42 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: just I think, you know what it actually was. My 43 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: mindset is usually very The force is strong with me 44 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: when it comes to my mindset, and I can usually 45 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 1: just clear with the force. I can oh yeah, swish away. 46 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 47 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: The negativity, the cons, the uphills, the mean people. Yeah, 48 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: the people who do things I don't like, all that 49 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: can usually just move them away. And for some reason 50 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: this morning I was like, you know what, I wonder 51 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: if there isn't some value in me getting a little mad. 52 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 3: I love it it. I have encouraged this in you. 53 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 3: Thank you to embrace your your your leo, your your 54 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 3: lie in anger. 55 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I gotta yeah. And it wasn't by the way, 56 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: you know, it didn't hurt anyone. I don't know if 57 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: this happens to you, but I will tell you whenever 58 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: I whenever these little these these these moments happened to 59 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: me because my patience is actually zero. It's like metal 60 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: hitting metal, sparks flying, the amount of patients that almost 61 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: everything goes wrong right, like you drop your coffee, you 62 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 1: can't find your. 63 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 3: Keys one hundred percent. 64 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: It's like the like you're already feeling emotionally, like you're 65 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: at rock bottom and the universe just throws you some 66 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: Maybe it actually maybe maybe the universe wants you to 67 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: get more mad. 68 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 3: Maybe maybe the negative is inviting a little negative. But 69 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 3: I don't know if I believe that. 70 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, I don't know. Well, I I 71 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: I ended up going to I went to go work out, 72 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: which was actually exactly what I should have done. And 73 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: you know that annoying people that are always like you're 74 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: just one You're just one workout away from a good mood. 75 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 1: Oh you know those people. 76 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 3: I mean, Matt does a little you know those people. 77 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 3: I mean, he can do a little of that. It's like, 78 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 3: do you want to just work? Do you want to 79 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 3: come work out with me? I'm like, you want my 80 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 3: day to be worse? You wand of wars today because 81 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 3: I can call so many, that's all. 82 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 1: If he had said something like that to me this morning, 83 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 1: it would have actually been how you described me during 84 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 1: burger Gate. 85 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 3: I would have been like, yeah, you would have found 86 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: your roar. Yeah, yeah, a little WORKYOUTI Jesse. 87 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: Oh no no no, no no no no. 88 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 2: The fire no fire. 89 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 1: No yeah, the fire would have been strong. 90 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 3: Would have been I just woke up tired. But I've 91 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 3: been waking up tired a lot, and it makes me 92 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 3: feel like I just had a friend go get their 93 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 3: hormones checked and they had like negative five hundred testosterone. Yeah, 94 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 3: and so I think it might be time I'm forty 95 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 3: one to like to see the hormone I mean, yeah, 96 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 3: fresh fresh forty one in a fraction a teeny tiny 97 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 3: and uh but I'm thinking like, oh crap, like this 98 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 3: is the decade where you gotta see. I mean, we've 99 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:23,239 Speaker 3: talked about this before, but I feel my energy levels. 100 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 3: I mean, listen, I do think there's something to say 101 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 3: for there's. 102 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: So much workout can't. 103 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 3: Fix a little lunky lnky no and then bad. I 104 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 3: do think there's something to say for the world right now, 105 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 3: which maybe adding to your anger feels like a sucubus. 106 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 3: It feels like it's like literally like draining right now, 107 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 3: and I can't find my rally. I will at some 108 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 3: point today because I have young children and I have 109 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 3: to well. 110 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 1: I always wonder about this piece. I wonder that, like 111 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 1: I think, I don't I wonder, I wonder. I don't 112 00:05:56,760 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 1: know the answer to this, Like is there more unhappiness 113 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: or sadness or terribleness or insert the bad word now 114 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 1: than there ever has been? Or is there just now 115 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: a camera and a microphone in everywhere so that the 116 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 1: sadness and the terribleness and the awfulness is just you're 117 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: able to see it, and so it's not like you 118 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: just are feeling your own or seeing your own or 119 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 1: processing your own, you're actually processing yours and whatever specific 120 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 1: to you and might directly affect you. You're also processing 121 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: so many other people's and I think that's a lot. 122 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:43,719 Speaker 1: And I also think everyone has a different like you know, 123 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: sensitivity or receptivity to it. And I'm not trying to 124 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 1: say that someone who feels more is better or worse 125 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: at all. I think there's really like there's good and 126 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 1: bad things to all of it. But I would say 127 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: that I feel like, oh, I'm gonna be that obnoxious 128 00:06:57,880 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: person that's. 129 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 3: Like I feel things deeply. You're an mpath? Is that 130 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 3: what they call it? 131 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: An EmPATH? 132 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 2: Yes? I can see that. 133 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's just only so many pictures and videos. 134 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 3: Of weeping people that I can Yeah, because I remember 135 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 3: my mom when I was a kid. We would get 136 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 3: the newspaper delivered to the house in England, so she 137 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 3: would be reading the news and then we would maybe 138 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 3: catch the news at like you know, five am, and 139 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 3: then that was what she was consuming for the day. Yeah, 140 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 3: And so if there was a terrible story like that 141 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 3: was it. But we can go, we can we have 142 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:33,239 Speaker 3: access to thousands upon thous millions of terrible stories, right, 143 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 3: and if you're doing the doom scrolling you are. You 144 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 3: can see so many and consuming so much in just 145 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 3: even a minute. So I think that, yeah, if it all, 146 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 3: it all feels. I feel a little drained today. This 147 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 3: is a bad This is a bad podcast for me. 148 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 3: You know. 149 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: I like to always think about like there's the weight, 150 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: and then there's the counterweight, the counterweight to that I 151 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: have I have, I have found, I have found to 152 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: be in the same the same place that can be 153 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: the well spring of the sad when I'm feeling that, 154 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: like when I'm seeing so much news about the things 155 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 1: that are happening and I can't do anything about and 156 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 1: that are tragic and this, that and the other. The 157 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:15,679 Speaker 1: other thing that I can do is I flip onto 158 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: my my Instagram reels knows that I actually like a 159 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: good time and that I like to see videos of 160 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: people pranking each other, oh or farting. That does and 161 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: then and then I can get myself right out of it. 162 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 3: See my Instagram reels knows I love animal rescues, and 163 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 3: so it's like in the arms of oh the Sarah MacLachlan, 164 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 3: and it's like it's like then I'm crying about the 165 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 3: puppy that was found under the car. I mean, it's like, 166 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 3: that's what I so, I can't there's no there's no 167 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 3: safe space for me to be scrolling. 168 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: Okay, well you need to borrow my algorithm for a second. 169 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,199 Speaker 1: Get onto my I'll give you my passwords. You get 170 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: onto my account and you'll be laughing. The kids and 171 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: I will look at them and I evidently maybe I 172 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: don't know, it might not be good for you, right, 173 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,559 Speaker 1: it might like hack your dopamine receptors or something. But 174 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,959 Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like, I'm here for it. Hack them, hack them, 175 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: and give me some happiness. Yeah, just like people go 176 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:20,679 Speaker 1: in for that big huge slam dunk and flying past 177 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: the net onto their faces. 178 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 3: You love it in high school gyms, but like. 179 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 2: Put to music, Yes, yeah, yeah, god yeah, Oh you 180 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:33,080 Speaker 2: love it? Oh God, yes, I love it. 181 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 1: Do you like when people prank you? 182 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 4: No? 183 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 3: I hate a prank, and I have brothers, so that 184 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 3: the combo is not great. 185 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 2: No. 186 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 3: No, I don't like a prank. I'm trying to think 187 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 3: of the last time I was truly pranked. I can't 188 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 3: think of it. A long time ago. 189 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 1: Probably my kids did it to me two weekends ago, 190 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: and they have it on film? 191 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 3: Would they do? Oh god, that was a snort. 192 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 1: They saw something about how to prank someone where they 193 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 1: Poppy was in the front seat. I was driving. She 194 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 1: gets in the front seat and she'd set up my 195 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: phone because I don't touch my phone when I'm driving, 196 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 1: She'd set it up so it was facing us, and 197 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know why she's facing us, 198 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:19,319 Speaker 1: but whatever. And then she's talking and then all of 199 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 1: a sudden, she starts talking to someone else named Amanda, 200 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: and her head keeps jerking and she's like Amanda, I said, 201 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: stop it, And I was like, what is happening? 202 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,960 Speaker 3: What is she doing? Oh, she's like pretending like imaginary friend, 203 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 3: like possessed altery. 204 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, but then Amanda is grabbing her by the back 205 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: of the head and she's being like twisted and contorted 206 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 1: in the back seat. And ah, turns out I'm actually 207 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 1: good in these circumstances, because I was like, honey, what's 208 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 1: going on? 209 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's really I would freak out because 210 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 3: you know me, I would believe it. 211 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. 212 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 1: Have you seen the ones where like the couples, when 213 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: one pretends to be afraid of something and like swatting 214 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 1: at the air and then the other one start doing it. 215 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, there's one I did try and 216 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 3: prank my Some my nieces were in town last year, 217 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:09,199 Speaker 3: and I found this YouTube that you can put on 218 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:11,559 Speaker 3: because they don't know the news here really very well, right, 219 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 3: like they're not familiar with like who's who's an actor 220 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:18,079 Speaker 3: and who's not. And you can play this YouTube video 221 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 3: where it says, oh, breaking news, sorry, we've just and 222 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 3: it's basically saying that there has been an alien invasion. 223 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 3: And so we called her down and we timed the 224 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 3: YouTube video to where we were talking, and it was 225 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 3: like eh, eh, and it did them and we're like, 226 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 3: oh my god, what is going on here? I'm like, 227 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 3: oh yeah, And I think she believed it for about 228 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 3: thirty seconds until some of us and our family are 229 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 3: not so good actor as I found out, and we're laughing. 230 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 3: I was fully in. I was committed to the to 231 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 3: the bit. 232 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: Of course you were, you're crushing it, but they were. 233 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 3: I was crushing it. 234 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 2: I was crying. 235 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 3: I was sobbing on the floor. 236 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 1: Did you have an earbud in your in your ear? 237 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:54,839 Speaker 4: Yeah? 238 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I was like, what it's going on? Yes, 239 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 3: but no, I do I love a good prank? I 240 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:02,439 Speaker 3: too love a good prank. That maybe that's what I 241 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 3: need to be doing. Maybe that would get me out 242 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 3: of bed right now. 243 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, like a fake piece of poop on a toilet's teat. 244 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 3: It's so stupid, Like, oh wow, have you seen no? God? No, 245 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,560 Speaker 3: but that's like I would probably really laugh at that though. 246 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 3: That is so have you seen a video where someone's 247 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 3: put a face like some fake poop on something? Oh? 248 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 3: My god, you know all the good ones. 249 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: I mean, it has to be a really realistic one, 250 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: but really in your bathroom you justn't tell that. 251 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:44,959 Speaker 3: That would be so disgusting. But I wonder what he 252 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 3: would do. I would worry, honestly that even after the prank, 253 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 3: that he would be a little turned off for life, 254 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 3: Like even if he knew it was a prank, in 255 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 3: the end, I'd like ruin some some of the spark 256 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 3: forever with a fake poop. Then I'd have to blee 257 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:58,199 Speaker 3: in therapy. 258 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 1: And like Jess tap Shaw told me a fake mes poop, 259 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 1: But now we don't have sex anymore? What did you 260 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:09,479 Speaker 1: put it in one of the kids rooms? 261 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:15,199 Speaker 3: The kids room is good. The kidroom is so believable. 262 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 3: It can't be by poop. I need to keep the 263 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 3: spark alive a little bit. I really do think that 264 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 3: could kill it. Oh yes, because we're totally off We're 265 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 3: completely off subject. Okay, okay, we have something to tease today. 266 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 3: I love a tease. 267 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 2: Oh god, it's good. 268 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 3: It's been in the works for a long time. And 269 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 3: we even had to go we had to go to 270 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 3: ABC and we had to get the all clear. And 271 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 3: we've been waiting to tell you guys because. 272 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 1: We didn't want to say we could do something that 273 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 1: we couldn't do, because that's how seriously we take our responsibility. 274 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 3: Here exactly right. So, Jessica, what is what is it? 275 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 3: Because we're going to be doing this whole episode's gonna 276 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 3: be what's in and what's out for twenty twenty Well, 277 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 3: there is something that is now in. Recall it what 278 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 3: it is in twenty twenty five. 279 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: Just I feel like this is going to be an 280 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 1: outbreak where we ask you to guess what do you 281 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: think is going to be in for twenty twenty five? 282 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 1: What is going to be in for twenty twenty five 283 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: is called a Little Tiny Danny rewatch, a rewatch of 284 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 1: Grease and not of it, but only the episodes that 285 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 1: you tell us that you want to rewatch. We're gonna 286 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: just take all of your responses to the ones that 287 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 1: are the most important to you or that you want 288 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 1: to hear us talk about the most, and then we're 289 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: going to figure them out and all the call it 290 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: what it is. Fairies are gonna go do some magic 291 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: and they're going to tally them all up, and then 292 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: we're gonna go We're gonna respond to the people. It's 293 00:14:58,480 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 1: gonna be a popular vote. 294 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 3: So and I going to take our little trip down 295 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 3: memory lane. We're going to go back and we're gonna 296 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 3: sit and watch these episodes as homework. We're going to 297 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 3: take notes. I it's okay if one of us is 298 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 3: not in one of the episodes. We are fans of 299 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 3: the show, and I will ask my own fan questions 300 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 3: and as I'm watching and or as she's watching. And 301 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 3: we are just pumped, you guys, to add some of 302 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 3: this rewatch magic into our own podcasts, and so we yes, 303 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 3: our first one is going to be airing February second, Sunday, 304 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:39,240 Speaker 3: February second is when the podcast will be out, our 305 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 3: first week Rewatch. So you guys like Jessica said, this 306 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 3: is including you. We want to hear from you. What 307 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 3: are the episodes that you're desperate for us to watch again? 308 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 3: Talk all about get into it. You can email us 309 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:56,360 Speaker 3: dm us go on call it what it is. You 310 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 3: can call the hotline, you guys, call us, leave a 311 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 3: message exactly, let us know because we will be doing 312 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 3: this in twenty twenty five. It is in for us 313 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 3: in twenty twenty five. 314 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 1: I love it. And by the way, guess what, it's 315 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: already February. Just saying that made me think, well, well, 316 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 1: January's over now. 317 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 3: Well I wish it was. 318 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 1: It's almost over. No, we're gonna live in the moment. 319 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna wake up tomorrow morning feeling different. 320 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 3: We're gonna live in the moment. But for love months, 321 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 3: we're giving you a love gift. 322 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: Oh I know. It's the love a tiny early Valentine's 323 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: Day gift. Okay, So here's the things. What we're talking 324 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 1: about today is ins and outs. What is in and 325 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: what is out? What do we want to bring in, call. 326 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 2: In and. 327 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: Do in twenty twenty five and what are we ready 328 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 1: to say thank you for your service, goodbye, you're out? 329 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 3: I think for me doom scrolling is out. Yes, I agree, 330 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 3: we got to stop the doom scrolling. 331 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 1: I might just stop watching the news and jokes. 332 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 3: I might just stop knowing what's going on at all. 333 00:16:58,040 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 1: I might live in a bubble. 334 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, the bubbles are in. 335 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, a little Glinda, a little Glinda. 336 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: But I would say in partnership with living in a 337 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 1: bubble or making myself feel better about uh, that choice 338 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 1: or idea in some way is be great in your bubble, 339 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 1: be your best self, be your kindest self, affect people 340 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: in a positive way, Like you really only can affect 341 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 1: the people that you see on the daily, and you 342 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:26,639 Speaker 1: contact and touch you know on the daily. So so 343 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 1: be your best, not like you got to like, you know, 344 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 1: be great all the time, but just be your best 345 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 1: and be your gindest. 346 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:35,680 Speaker 3: I think it's just also knowing how much you your 347 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 3: brain can consume. Like we feel full right when we 348 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 3: eat a lot, but I feel like our brain like 349 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:43,879 Speaker 3: we need to know when when we're done or we're 350 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 3: done consuming. So the doom is scrolling because I can way 351 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 3: over consume my brain. 352 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot. 353 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 3: Of stuff that's out for me, what's out for you? 354 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 1: I think out would be well Okay, I've been talking 355 00:17:56,760 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: to you about this a lot, but I'm pretty pretty 356 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:04,200 Speaker 1: deep in with this whole Mel Robbins and the let 357 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: them theory, which should we'll talk about. I'm probably never 358 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 1: going to stop talking about it, but just I think 359 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:12,640 Speaker 1: what's out for me is this idea that I am 360 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: in any way, shape or form convincing myself and or 361 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 1: thinking that I am in control of anyone or any 362 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:20,359 Speaker 1: anyone but me. 363 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 3: Oh that's hard. 364 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think there's a really sweet reward for 365 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 1: understanding that you're not going to change anyone, and that 366 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,879 Speaker 1: being in relationship with anyone that you feel like you 367 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 1: need to change is maybe not a great relationship, and 368 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 1: that person likely doesn't want to get changed by you 369 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 1: if that person likely thinks that they're great. So maybe 370 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: in letting go of this idea that you have to 371 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 1: have everything, you know fill in the blank, but just 372 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: not not controlling, letting letting it go, letting people be 373 00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 1: who they are, and and and by the way, that 374 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 1: does no way, shape or form means being apathetic or 375 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 1: or or like surrendering to like just things happening to you. 376 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:11,920 Speaker 1: It's it's actually I think very empowering to sort of go. Wow, 377 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: I don't control it all, and I shouldn't actually want to, 378 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: and and a lot of people need to go and 379 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: do and be what they are, and I get a 380 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: choice as to whether or not I'm you know, with them. 381 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 2: I like that. 382 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:28,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, In for me? 383 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:30,919 Speaker 3: In for me is I think I need to trust 384 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 3: the universe a little more. I think that, Yes, I 385 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 3: think I need to put a little more trust out 386 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 3: into the into the powers that be whatever they are. 387 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 1: Can I add something that makes that easier for me? 388 00:19:44,359 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? 389 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:48,360 Speaker 1: Really believing that the universe is on your side? Man, 390 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 1: that's hard. 391 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 3: That's hard. I know it's hard, because yeah, I think 392 00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 3: it's hard to hear because when really not great things 393 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 3: about happened to people, you're like, how the fun were you? 394 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:03,400 Speaker 3: On my side? 395 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's different than everything happens for a reason that 396 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: one I have I find more. 397 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 3: I really don't like that either yet. 398 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 2: I don't love that, but I do love that. 399 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: But I do believe the universe is on our side. 400 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 1: I don't believe that everything goes our way or yeah, 401 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:22,120 Speaker 1: happen And obviously there's horrible, horrific tragedies on and I'm 402 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 1: not in any way shape or form insinuating that you 403 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:28,440 Speaker 1: know that the universe wanted those horrible, terrible tragedies to happen. 404 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: But I think it's just the goodwill part of it, 405 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 1: which is that I do think ultimately goodwill out weighs bad. 406 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 3: I think I agree that with that. I gotta sit 407 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 3: with that. Let me think on it. I'm going to 408 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:43,919 Speaker 3: digest that. 409 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I'm going to go superficial and tell you 410 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:53,719 Speaker 1: that for me, in is after a really long period 411 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 1: of overhearing them being played, sometimes having them thrown to 412 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 1: me on my feed, but the whole get ready with 413 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 1: me stuff, just like all the different ways that I 414 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 1: can fucking highlight, low light, yeah, shadow not shadow, change 415 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 1: the shape of my something or my other. That's that's 416 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 1: out for me, and in for me is really like 417 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 1: I love all this super minimal makeup, like a lot 418 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 1: of makeup that just actually involves like some kind of 419 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 1: tinted moisturizer, like a little beautiful little lip balm. I'm loving, 420 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 1: Like I love all the Gucci Westman stuff, I love 421 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 1: all the Say stuff. I love like I like these 422 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:36,920 Speaker 1: like me too, very simple makeup brands that don't want 423 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:40,119 Speaker 1: to like dratically change. I mean listen, I like, I 424 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 1: like a smoky eye for a night out, but just 425 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 1: like not trying to change everything. Yeah, my face, the. 426 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,880 Speaker 3: Clean, the clean, the clean makeup look I think will continue. 427 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 428 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think I need a contour, you know, 429 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 3: a new like a new head. No, no, that's out. 430 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think in it is sort of going 431 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna take what I got. I'm gonna 432 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 1: make it moisturized. 433 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 2: Moisturized, glowy. 434 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, wait, you know what I think it's in. 435 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 3: That's a vanity thing too. In color analysis, can't stop, 436 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 3: won't stop watching those videos, say more, you don't know 437 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 3: what this is. Oh my god, Jessa Capshaw. This is 438 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:26,679 Speaker 3: where someone comes and they literally put like different color 439 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 3: fabrics up against your skin tone, and they can tell 440 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 3: you what season you are, so you're like a cool 441 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 3: summer or a warm autumn, and then they tell you 442 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,159 Speaker 3: what jewelry best suits you and which hair color. And 443 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 3: people are doing these color analysis realizing like, oh my god, 444 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,920 Speaker 3: I have my whole wardrobes a hot mess. I shouldn't 445 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 3: be wearing these colors and my hair color does not 446 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:49,919 Speaker 3: help me. And then they're doing little mini makeovers on 447 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 3: themselves and they look amazing. 448 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: Someone comes to your house with fabrics, watches. 449 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 3: They can come to you, you can go to them. Yep, wow, 450 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 3: color analysis. Yeah, huh, all right, someone, I'm here to 451 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 3: talk about it. Okay, okay, we asked you guys, what's 452 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 3: it on out? 453 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 1: I think it's also just so we've got our own personals. 454 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 1: But there's actually because Google answers everything these days. 455 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:15,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 456 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,439 Speaker 1: The in trends for twenty twenty five, according to the 457 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: Google is also in person book clubs, a shift from 458 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 1: solely consuming book content online to discussing books face to face. 459 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: I've heard of this. I've heard of these book groups. 460 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 2: I would love a book club. 461 00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do one. 462 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 3: I know, but I want you here. I want you here. 463 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:44,439 Speaker 1: And that's community. The other number. The other one was 464 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:49,440 Speaker 1: religious practice revival, increased engagement with religious customs and community gatherings. 465 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 1: Sustainable fashion prioritizing eco friendly and ethically sourced clothing. I 466 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,880 Speaker 1: think that's a big one. I can't tell you, especially 467 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 1: with being a mother of teenagers, there's all these brands 468 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 1: that are just so it's it's very irresponsible. What's happening 469 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 1: in the clothing market. Local business support I'm always a 470 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,120 Speaker 1: huge fan of this, actively seeking out and patronizing nearby 471 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 1: businesses as opposed to online and then bright equals. I've 472 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: never heard this bright equals cultivating relationships with people who 473 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:26,919 Speaker 1: equally motivate and challenge you. 474 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:27,640 Speaker 2: I love that. 475 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 3: Oh, I love a bright equal. 476 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 1: Yes, Oh, this is going to be a b e. 477 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 3: What's the opposite of it? Like a dull saggy sock. 478 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 3: I don't know what is the opposite of a bright equal? Oh, 479 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:42,959 Speaker 3: I love it equal. 480 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:47,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, it'd be a dim inferior, inferior. 481 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,879 Speaker 3: Key out trends for twenty twenty five excessive political correctness 482 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:59,119 Speaker 3: and move towards more open and nuanced conversations. Interesting oversharing 483 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 3: on social media, I do, Yeah, being more mindful about 484 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:06,959 Speaker 3: what information is shared online. You guys know my RX 485 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 3: at CVS uh solely distance running. Wait what incorporating more 486 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 3: diverse workout routines like resistance training. Yeah, we've talked about this. 487 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 3: I gotta get the most. 488 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm on board. That's what changed my mood this morning. 489 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:21,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, what can I do from the bed is what 490 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:26,560 Speaker 3: I'm wondering. Constant phone usage, being more intentional about phone 491 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:31,199 Speaker 3: usage and prioritizing present moments. Yes, I'm all for that. 492 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 2: Okay. 493 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 3: The crew has let us know what's in and out 494 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 3: for them, Whitney said in staying politically active and demanding 495 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 3: more from our representatives, agreed out staying uninformed. Oh, we 496 00:25:58,920 --> 00:25:59,879 Speaker 3: talked about our bubble. 497 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 2: Just said the bubble. 498 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,360 Speaker 3: Listen. I think the bubble is the what I was saying, 499 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:07,159 Speaker 3: where it's like you're the bubble is more of a 500 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 3: protection from over consuming. You can stay yes, yes, and 501 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:15,600 Speaker 3: not have over consumption of news. Yeah, ye, handling well yeah, yeah, 502 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:17,679 Speaker 3: we're not complete morons in the bubble. 503 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 1: No, And I do I do. You do need to 504 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,400 Speaker 1: stay active. It's a really important part of all this. 505 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 1: But I guess so I'm just gonna go down on 506 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,959 Speaker 1: a limb here. That's the thing, you know, we always 507 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 1: it's hard because especially when you're talking and you know 508 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,679 Speaker 1: some of you are out there are listening, and some 509 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 1: of you might be like, well, Camilla thinks this or 510 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,880 Speaker 1: Jessica thinks that, and yeah, sometimes you know, we do 511 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 1: because we have opinions and some of them are very strong. 512 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 2: Yep. 513 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:48,119 Speaker 1: And I always think about the times where a little 514 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,359 Speaker 1: later in life I realized that two things can be 515 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 1: true at the same time, right, Like I can want 516 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 1: to be really active and fight for what I want 517 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:57,920 Speaker 1: and what I need and the world that I want 518 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,959 Speaker 1: to live in, and I can also want to hide 519 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,439 Speaker 1: and see nothing and say nothing and do nothing. Like 520 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 1: those two things can be true at the same time. 521 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 1: And that's a constant negotiation, I think, because you run 522 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 1: towards doing something and seeing all the things and feeling 523 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: all the things, and I think you hit a certain 524 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 1: threshold moment where you're like, Okay, I ran ran, ran, 525 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 1: ran ran, and now I need to stop, and I 526 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 1: need to kind of take a break and do the opposite. 527 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:34,879 Speaker 1: And I still have this passion for this thing that 528 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,640 Speaker 1: I've been fighting for at the same time that I 529 00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:38,879 Speaker 1: need to rest. 530 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 3: I don't think. I think that you keep the passion 531 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,360 Speaker 3: and then you don't sabotage your own mental health. It 532 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,880 Speaker 3: really affects my mental health, It affects everyone's mental health. 533 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 3: And you do that so it's like preserving yourself so 534 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:53,160 Speaker 3: that you're good for the fight. You're kind of useless 535 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 3: if you're burned out on all of it, you know. Yeah, 536 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:56,880 Speaker 3: it's a careful balance. 537 00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 1: Yea, all right, Okay, Rachel said, in is staying in 538 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:04,959 Speaker 1: better touch with friends and family. Love that out is 539 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 1: listening to what people think I should do with my life. Well, 540 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:09,640 Speaker 1: if you're gonna stay in better touch with your. 541 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,000 Speaker 5: Friends and family, you're likely gonna hear what they should 542 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:13,520 Speaker 5: they think you should do with your life. 543 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 1: But then we do. 544 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,960 Speaker 3: This is the balance of this is your true Yeah, 545 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 3: the suggestion box Aaron in putting myself first, out worrying 546 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 3: about things out of my control. Aaron, I feel you. 547 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:30,000 Speaker 3: That's out for me too. I'm done. Yeah, it's tough. 548 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:35,359 Speaker 5: Though, let them Rebecca in taking luxurious beds and upping 549 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 5: my bathtip game out rushing my getting ready and beauty routine. 550 00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 3: I love the bathtub because I think it's just like 551 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 3: I do and I don't. I used to take them 552 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:47,760 Speaker 3: all the time, and then I had kids, and now 553 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,720 Speaker 3: it's like, you know, I don't do it, and I 554 00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 3: don't know why. It's this very simple way to just 555 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 3: prioritize yourself at night. 556 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 1: I know a lot of people as adults who do 557 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 1: like nice long baths before bed, like every night. 558 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 3: Really yeah, wow, I know, I think that would be great. 559 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 3: Maybe I'm gonna start doing a right now. 560 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 1: I actually really did think. 561 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 3: I also was like, hmm, Jesse, shopping in my own 562 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:19,480 Speaker 3: closet is in buying crap I don't need is out. 563 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 1: Yes, and this would be in line with sustainable clothing. 564 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 1: Shop your own closet and that you know what, there's 565 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:29,040 Speaker 1: a ton of Instagram accounts that are dedicated to this. 566 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 3: What do you mean, Like how are they dedicated? 567 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 2: Like what do they do? 568 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 1: Like they'll take in a fashion inspo because I don't 569 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 1: know if you've noticed this lately, but it seems like 570 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 1: there's quite a few looks that I see out and 571 00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 1: about that are comprised of fairly simple variables. 572 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,280 Speaker 3: It's like, ye, sometimes a white T shirt and a 573 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 3: pair of great. 574 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,600 Speaker 1: Fitting jeans and then and then there's like the sweater 575 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 1: just so over your shoulders, or like the cute little 576 00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:02,640 Speaker 1: purse or the loafer or the mules or the whatever, 577 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,320 Speaker 1: like is the thing that makes it. But it's like not, 578 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 1: it's not heavy lifting, it's not complicated. You know, we're 579 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 1: not dealing with like crazy high fashion in the mainstream 580 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 1: right now. We're not like, it's not like crazy hemlines 581 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,720 Speaker 1: and you know, really structured clothing. 582 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 3: It's funny because the girls in La. The teens in La. 583 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 3: I don't know what it's like for the rest of 584 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 3: the country. They're wearing the same stuff that I was 585 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 3: wearing in Austin, Texas in ninety eight. It's like the baggy, 586 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 3: the baggy or jeans, right, the loose fitting jeans, the 587 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,960 Speaker 3: spaghetty drop top. It's pretty like and I know that's 588 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 3: so cute. It's so cute, and it's not. It's not 589 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 3: anything bougie and crazy. And that's Los Angeles. 590 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 1: Where are the jeans right now? Is it a low rise? 591 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 2: Right now? 592 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 3: It's a low rise. Oh, it's a low rise. 593 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:53,560 Speaker 1: Four children makes low rises just different than they were 594 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 1: in my twenties. 595 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 3: I can do a little baggy, a little barrel, I can't. 596 00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 1: Do a low rise. Okay, So I guess it was 597 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 1: the nineties. Maybe it was the early two thousands. There 598 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 1: was there was this gene brand called Frankie b is 599 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: that what it's called yef? And the it was so low, 600 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 1: it was the lowest. It was so low that like 601 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 1: they could have replaced like a button fly, like one 602 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:20,840 Speaker 1: button fly for a zipper. Like that's that's the only 603 00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:21,280 Speaker 1: that's that. 604 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 3: That's how yehall you needed a bikini wax to wear 605 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 3: those That's where I was gonna go with this, And 606 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 3: I love you for saying it first and for. 607 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 1: Just knowing that that's the case. A special kind of 608 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 1: bikini wax to wear, the kind of low that that 609 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 1: gene went. 610 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 3: Yeah should I'm sure it was called the I have 611 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 3: I need the Frankie b wax mm hmmmm hmmm. And 612 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 3: they're like, we know those genes we're going in. 613 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:49,280 Speaker 1: I don't know why my brain just went to this. 614 00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 1: But if you did the Playboy stickers for yourself tanned, 615 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 1: did you ever do like decorative bikini waxes? 616 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:59,560 Speaker 3: No? I never bedazzled my vagina the jazzled. I never 617 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 3: did of a dazzle. But like, did you ever do like? 618 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:03,360 Speaker 4: No? 619 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 3: I never did. I never did like the give me 620 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 3: a you know, give me a palm tree on the 621 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:13,400 Speaker 3: I didn't. I mean, maybe I was missed out. Did 622 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 3: you ever do one? Or you're like, I'd like a 623 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 3: moon and a star because it's gonna be a full 624 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 3: moon this week and you know I'm a I'm a 625 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,080 Speaker 3: little lion, a. 626 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 1: Little lion's man. 627 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 2: Did you ever do it? 628 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 3: No? 629 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 1: As I asked the question, I was actually wondering if 630 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:28,320 Speaker 1: that's even a thing. 631 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 3: No, but now I think it is shapes. 632 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 1: Right, but really there was it wasn't a shape different 633 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 1: than a triangle? Really you could? 634 00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 3: I mean, yea can. 635 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 1: Get like a circle, I mean. 636 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 2: A circle a Picasso. 637 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,040 Speaker 3: You're like, I'd like the it's like you get. So 638 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 3: I'm sure there were artists out there that were doing something. 639 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 4: I think it'd be more like, yeah, yeah, we're so off, 640 00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 4: like I don't even know where we are today, Lively 641 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 4: in reputation TV. 642 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 3: Are we Are we all stupid? For? Like, are we 643 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:10,240 Speaker 3: all so stupid? Is it ever coming? Oh? 644 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 2: God? 645 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 3: Out the pressure to have a metaphorse. 646 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 1: I once was told by a teenager that side parts 647 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 1: were disgusting. 648 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 3: That is so not over extreme. That's just it is extreme. 649 00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 3: It's coming back, It's going to come back. 650 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:27,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 651 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: Cam says that in is more cats and out is 652 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 1: living your life for men. 653 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, that's out. 654 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:40,440 Speaker 3: Oh oh Jason in being politically aware and educated, out 655 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,800 Speaker 3: being racist, sexist or homophobic. 656 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:47,880 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Jason, Yes, it's even it's sad that you 657 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 1: have to write that. Yeah, I know, okay, Page, Hi, 658 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:55,160 Speaker 1: I love you both, We love you. 659 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 2: Page. 660 00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 1: My inn is valuing myself and my out is procrastinating. 661 00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 3: Love that procrastinating is hard. 662 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I this took me a while. 663 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:10,160 Speaker 1: My journey to this truth was a winding one. But 664 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:14,160 Speaker 1: I actually realized that I need to be grateful to 665 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 1: my procrastination sometimes because my procrastinating like pushes me to 666 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:23,759 Speaker 1: the edge of comfort. And then that's where sometimes my 667 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,880 Speaker 1: well spring, if you can call it. That might be 668 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,719 Speaker 1: lofty of me to say, but the well spring of 669 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:34,320 Speaker 1: my creativity or my you know, spontaneity, that's where that lives. 670 00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:36,400 Speaker 1: You got to push me to the edge, though it 671 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,919 Speaker 1: revs the endine alat Yeah, yeah, yeah, puts a little heat, 672 00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:40,440 Speaker 1: throws a little gasoline on my fire. 673 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:41,960 Speaker 2: Ooh, I like it. 674 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 3: Sydney in low rise jeans. No, Sydney, No, no, we 675 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 3: can't do it, Sids, Oh out high rise skinnies, Sydney. 676 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 1: Can I keep my high rises if they're not skinny? 677 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 3: I don't want them to be skinnies. 678 00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:59,760 Speaker 1: I don't even have them anymore. 679 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,960 Speaker 3: But like Sids, we gotta talk about this, Sydney. 680 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:04,759 Speaker 1: Hey, how about this? How about this? Two things going 681 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 1: to be true? They can both be in If you 682 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:08,640 Speaker 1: love low rise jeans. They make you happy and you 683 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,040 Speaker 1: feel great in them, then you wear them. And if 684 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 1: you like high raise jeans, then you look good and 685 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 1: you feel good in them, then wear them. 686 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 3: I like them up to the armpits, as do I. 687 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 1: Uh well, I think this would basically be called overalls. 688 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 1: I like, so I don't. I was like high rise 689 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 1: like overalls. 690 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 3: That's what I wore yesterday, all right? 691 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:32,799 Speaker 1: Uh Roxanne says in is moving to the countryside with acreage, 692 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:36,120 Speaker 1: rock sand. You speak my love language. 693 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 3: Out is traffic, no rock sand, and traffic sucks. Lord 694 00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,319 Speaker 3: Mary jay in respectful guys out dickheads. 695 00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, love that. 696 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:49,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't need dickheads anymore. 697 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know they used to. Do you think it's 698 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:57,359 Speaker 1: an actual period of your time or like neurobiologically you 699 00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:01,520 Speaker 1: like crave a dickhead and like you like you all 700 00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,759 Speaker 1: mature out of it, like you always like it's just 701 00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:05,280 Speaker 1: a stage and an age. 702 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,760 Speaker 3: Did you ever crave a dickhead? I didn't ever craved 703 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:12,239 Speaker 3: a dickhead, but I craved people that maybe warn't it 704 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:12,719 Speaker 3: into me. 705 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 1: Which I was excited and drawn into people who were 706 00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 1: like a little naughty, naughty or dickhead Tomato Tomato a 707 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:26,799 Speaker 1: naughty dickhead, but naughtyada dickhead. I get it all right, 708 00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:30,520 Speaker 1: I tell you, Feara says in a Sustainable Self care 709 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:34,600 Speaker 1: solo travel, thrifting and meditating out is cancel culture, diet culture, 710 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 1: and workaholic praise. 711 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:39,840 Speaker 3: Ooh, that's a great one. Solo travel, I gotta say, 712 00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,960 Speaker 3: is the most unappealing thing for me. And I'm jealous 713 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:47,840 Speaker 3: of people that are like I took myself to wherever 714 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:50,480 Speaker 3: because I'd wake up in the morning like, well, am 715 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,480 Speaker 3: I gonna know? Like I just want to? I would 716 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:55,400 Speaker 3: be a nervous nelly. 717 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:59,479 Speaker 1: I did solo travel one time right after I had 718 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,799 Speaker 1: I had after I had Poppy, because I'm Poppy and 719 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:05,360 Speaker 1: Eve twenty months apart, and I think I literally was 720 00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 1: just like I got it out. Yeah, I gotta get 721 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,400 Speaker 1: out from it, and I got out from it. But anyways, 722 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:11,960 Speaker 1: where'd you go? 723 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 2: Though you're like target. 724 00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:27,800 Speaker 3: Like rehab, it would make sense, tomade. 725 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:26,400 Speaker 2: Up, Tomato. 726 00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:35,320 Speaker 1: I went to, uh, well not retreat than rehab. Quite frankly, 727 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:35,800 Speaker 1: I went. 728 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,240 Speaker 3: To you get a retreat situation? 729 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,640 Speaker 1: I did like a retreat situation where I didn't know anyone, 730 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,799 Speaker 1: and uh, did you like it? I truly actually think 731 00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:45,759 Speaker 1: that I needed. 732 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:46,920 Speaker 2: It and. 733 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:53,200 Speaker 1: Then I liked it? Is maybe besides the point. 734 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:54,839 Speaker 3: Yeah that's true. 735 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:56,480 Speaker 1: You know, like I mean, did I when I look back, 736 00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 1: was it nice? And did I like? Was it a 737 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,239 Speaker 1: great experience? Yeah? For sure? I needed to. 738 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:02,920 Speaker 3: I needed to. 739 00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,839 Speaker 1: I was I was setting myself on fire to keep 740 00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 1: everybody else warm, and I needed a place where they 741 00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:09,400 Speaker 1: were gonna throw some water on me. 742 00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:13,719 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, I understand that. That makes sense. Yeah. 743 00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,640 Speaker 3: I could maybe do that by myself. I couldn't do 744 00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:17,760 Speaker 3: like a random flying to a city by myself. 745 00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:21,280 Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to like Madrid alone. Yeah, but I'm. 746 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,719 Speaker 3: Jealous of people that I love that Yeah, oh yes 747 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:29,439 Speaker 3: for sure. Okay, Victoria in losing weight for health out 748 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 3: losing weight for others? 749 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:31,200 Speaker 2: Agreed? 750 00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:35,920 Speaker 1: I agree, Camery in is positive self talk out talking 751 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:37,440 Speaker 1: bad about yourself or others? 752 00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:41,520 Speaker 3: Heck yeah, Audrey in finding out the baby's gender at 753 00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:45,360 Speaker 3: birth or in private out gender reveal parties, how do 754 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:47,640 Speaker 3: you feel about this one? This is a controversy. 755 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 1: I never had one. 756 00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 3: I never had a gender reveal party either. 757 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 2: No. 758 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:54,720 Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm really giving Instagram a lot of love today. 759 00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:56,680 Speaker 1: But have you seen those really funny ones where they're 760 00:38:56,680 --> 00:39:02,280 Speaker 1: like they juxtapose like a cop and Malibu that reveal 761 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 1: like you know this, this giant Barbie pink g wagon 762 00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:07,760 Speaker 1: comes like crashing, Oh my. 763 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 3: God, we're like a big white white canvas or something. 764 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 1: And then they cut to like a family gathered around 765 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 1: a toilet bowl and when they flush it, it turns. 766 00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:21,960 Speaker 3: Pink and they're all little no, no no. But also 767 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 3: the truth is, and this is gonna be like a 768 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,440 Speaker 3: little Camillaism where people are like, oh, Debbie Downer, I 769 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 3: don't think that people give that much of a shit 770 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,200 Speaker 3: about the gender of your baby as you do. Of 771 00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,400 Speaker 3: course you're excited. That's why I think a little private 772 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:36,719 Speaker 3: gender reveal is good. Maybe a little family, but like, 773 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:38,799 Speaker 3: there doesn't need to be a crowd of people, and 774 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 3: there doesn't need to be top gun jets flying by. 775 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,280 Speaker 1: Okay ken I rode in. In is having your own style, 776 00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:50,719 Speaker 1: and out is leopard print and Camo h in. It's 777 00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:53,920 Speaker 1: always in to have your own style. So yes, here, here, out, 778 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep my lepid print. I'd like to for 779 00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,480 Speaker 1: Camo to never return. Camo can go a. 780 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,440 Speaker 3: Style and embracing are not my natural curls I love 781 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:05,080 Speaker 3: that out destroying my hair with heat damage. I'm so 782 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 3: bad at the heat stuff. I see everyone like springing 783 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 3: on the heat, protecting. I like, I like it almost 784 00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 3: to be steaming on fire. I like to see the 785 00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:15,680 Speaker 3: flames and the damage. 786 00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:20,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, Sarah says, in is guilt free rest days, and 787 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:23,400 Speaker 1: out is anxiety induced over activity. 788 00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 2: I'm with you, love that. 789 00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:28,120 Speaker 3: That's why I'm in bad. 790 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:28,600 Speaker 2: It's in. 791 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,880 Speaker 3: It's baby. That's hard for me. It is hard for you. 792 00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 3: It's much easier for me. I'm just kind of like 793 00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:41,279 Speaker 3: a slug. Okay, call it crew, all right, this we've 794 00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:43,520 Speaker 3: just we've even all over the place this episode. That's 795 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,560 Speaker 3: that's our energy for the day. But we did our 796 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 3: ins and outs, and we loved hearing all of yours. 797 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,520 Speaker 3: We agreed with most of them. Some we debated on. 798 00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:52,560 Speaker 3: We had to debate on it. 799 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but we're open minds. Two things can be true 800 00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:57,880 Speaker 1: is what we got from this episode, exactly right. 801 00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,680 Speaker 3: And we want to hear from you rewatch episode. 802 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,439 Speaker 1: Yes, please, Oh my gosh, this is gonna be fun because, 803 00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:07,920 Speaker 1: oh wait, can you even imagine me and my memory? 804 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say some wacky shit people. 805 00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,040 Speaker 3: We're gonna be like Arizona got married. 806 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:17,799 Speaker 2: We're gonna be like, yeah, it was a I. 807 00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 1: Wore a long sleeve dress. I wore a long sleeve 808 00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:24,920 Speaker 1: mini dress. No I didn't, No, you didn't I didn't. 809 00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 1: Thank you for hanging out with us. Uh, We're going 810 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:30,680 Speaker 1: into We're going into the new year with lots of 811 00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:34,640 Speaker 1: with lots of Faya and Desiah for all sorts of things. 812 00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 1: Some of them make sense and some of them don't. 813 00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:38,480 Speaker 1: And I feel like that's been the theme of this episode. 814 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 1: But thank you for hanging out with us and know 815 00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:42,400 Speaker 1: that we are always here for you. 816 00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:53,040 Speaker 3: Let's call it the end of the episode.