Speaker 1: Second day, should you actually listen to what people write
Speaker 1: for hobbies on their dating profiles? Good question, because they
Speaker 1: all say they love hiking. And next thing you know,
Speaker 1: you're out on a mountain trail, face to face with
Speaker 1: a grizzly and you realize you forgot your bear mace
Speaker 1: next to your six pack of pineapple truly, and in
Speaker 1: your head you're thinking, well, maybe they're not really into hiking.
Speaker 1: Did forget the truly? Well, both of them? What was
Speaker 1: I thinking? Yeah? And one of our listeners, Corey, picked
Speaker 1: an activity for his date based on her dating profile. Okay,
Speaker 1: no matter what you ended up doing, I hope that
Speaker 1: you didn't forget to bring the bear mace. You know
Speaker 1: I did not. I should have trust me. Oh well,
Speaker 1: not for her, but the bears. Okay, there was there
Speaker 1: was some sort of danger apparently on your day. Why
Speaker 1: some some you could have? First, before we get to that,
Speaker 1: tell us about the girl. What's her name? Oh, Adrian? Okay?
Speaker 1: And Jeff had mentioned that you designed the data around
Speaker 1: one of her hobbies or interests on her profile? What
Speaker 1: did her profile say? Hold on for a second, let
Speaker 1: me let me let me pull it up here. I
Speaker 1: didn't know you guys want to ask me that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like it says, uh, good cologne and holding hands or
Speaker 1: my cryp tonight. And then like she goes, I'll kick
Speaker 1: your butt on the dance floor. Ok, Okay, that's aggressive.
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean she danced better than you. Will literally
Speaker 1: fights you. I'm worried for him. I think it sounds fun.
Speaker 1: So like I found a country bar that has dancing. Okay,
Speaker 1: not my specialty, but I'm like, I want to impress.
Speaker 1: That's awesome. We're to show like interest in herb. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So like we get there, I got us some drinks.
Speaker 1: I sit at the table with my beer, and before
Speaker 1: I could even get one word in, some older dude
Speaker 1: comes and say, hey, will you dance with me? Oh
Speaker 1: that's quick? Yeah. So is it a same situation you
Speaker 1: line dancing or they're just out there dancing? May you
Speaker 1: have both? So they'll start out with line dancing, then
Speaker 1: they'll go to swing. So at this time it was
Speaker 1: swing and that's when you can like rotate partners and stuff, right,
Speaker 1: yeah exactly. And I'm like, really, dude, I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to start a date here. So she looks at me
Speaker 1: and she goes, oh, well you snooze you lose. I'm like, really, dang,
Speaker 1: that hurts fight. Did you take it as rude? It
Speaker 1: could be. It was like playful, But the point is
Speaker 1: why even said And then she has a dancing to
Speaker 1: get up and leaves. See that's when you need the
Speaker 1: bear me. Anytime a god comes over, just holds them down.
Speaker 1: You're the hero. Yea. So did you ever? I mean
Speaker 1: your next move you had to go cut in, like
Speaker 1: that's what you do, right, I'm glad you said that.
Speaker 1: So I go by myself. I'm dancing every time I
Speaker 1: go to cut in where you're dancing by yourself, I'm
Speaker 1: dancing by myself. Yeah, I'm getting ready to cut in.
Speaker 1: But guess what. I turned my head. I go back.
Speaker 1: They're like four or five people away from you. I
Speaker 1: can't cut in. Oh I feel like dancing away from you,
Speaker 1: like trying to avoid you. I don't know if it
Speaker 1: was her him, I don't know, if it was both
Speaker 1: of them, I don't know. But to me, I think
Speaker 1: it was obvious that I was trying to cut in
Speaker 1: like two three different occasions. So eventually the music just stopped.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, are you serious right now? Oh? Man?
Speaker 1: So wait so the music stopped and then you guys
Speaker 1: met back up or she's still hanging out with that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so we met back up. I didn't want to appear desperate,
Speaker 1: so I was like, nah, I'm cool, you know, let's
Speaker 1: just take a break. So okay, I don't know. You
Speaker 1: didn't get to dance at all. Now, I mean we
Speaker 1: danced a little bit, but you know, it was the
Speaker 1: tail end because I had like a long day tomorrow,
Speaker 1: like the next day, I should say, oh yeah, But
Speaker 1: the date went well, it was cool. We had big dialogue,
Speaker 1: so it was all right. Well, I think the question
Speaker 1: is who was the better dancer, you or the older
Speaker 1: guy who got your date first? Oh? Sure? The older guy? Really? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Regular yeah at those bars, like these people come and
Speaker 1: they'll come every week and they dance with everybody and
Speaker 1: it's not a date thing. It's like just dancing. Okay,
Speaker 1: whose cologne was better? Older guy smells musty. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: got the expensive stuff. I don't know. Mine was pretty
Speaker 1: good though. You got close enough to the guy, you know.
Speaker 1: Did you enjoy the night with her at all? Aren't you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: It was it was a good evening. I mean, it
Speaker 1: could have been a great evening. But being that I
Speaker 1: didn't have my bear mace, and you know that in happening,
Speaker 1: it wasn't the best. So you know it was okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: your whole night wasn't ruined. Yeah, it wasn't ruined. Ruined.
Speaker 1: I should say we we hugged at the end, you know,
Speaker 1: a little little kiss on the cheek, nothing real serious, okay,
Speaker 1: but I mean, heck, it could have been a whole
Speaker 1: heck of a lot better. Yeah, because you know, chemistry
Speaker 1: on the dance floor or that is, that's a different
Speaker 1: type of chemistry. It's awesome if you can. And that's
Speaker 1: my whole point exactly. Have you been trying to contact
Speaker 1: her since then, like with texts or calls or anything. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I reached out with one call and a couple of texs.
Speaker 1: Has been like about a week. I'm going on a
Speaker 1: week and a half now, but she's been doing the
Speaker 1: emoji stuff. You know, if I say something she'll like,
Speaker 1: Oh I like it, But nothing like further than the dialogue.
Speaker 1: So we can talk and so we can hang out again. Interesting,
Speaker 1: you were ignoring her, but she was having too much fun.
Speaker 1: I don't know. We're gonna find out we're gonna give
Speaker 1: you a chance to go put on some more Minions
Speaker 1: cologne by Justin Bieber, and then when you come back,
Speaker 1: we're gonna call Adrian. It should be we're gonna do
Speaker 1: your second day at update right after this second date.
Speaker 1: Corey's damn night with Adrian had everything a first date
Speaker 1: should ye cold beer, warm, hugs, good dancing. The problem
Speaker 1: is not all that happened with Corey because some other
Speaker 1: older guy at the bar, possibly a regular there, asked
Speaker 1: to dance with his date, and Corey obliged, which was
Speaker 1: probably the worst mistake of his entire dating life. It
Speaker 1: doesn't sound like he actually had a decision in it,
Speaker 1: nor should he have a choice. It sounds like she
Speaker 1: just men shouldn't be allowed to choose anything good, point Broke.
Speaker 1: I mean they choose what women decide to do. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's true, Corey. How are you feeling right now after
Speaker 1: that intro? You want to hit me? No? I mean
Speaker 1: that's pretty much it. And I didn't have a face though.
Speaker 1: It was like she said, I snooze, I lose. I
Speaker 1: tell you what. Though, if it was in any other circumstances,
Speaker 1: I knew it would have been different. Okay, So it
Speaker 1: would have been a different outcom Are you wishing that
Speaker 1: you didn't go dancing? Is that what you're saying? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I probably would have chose something different looking back now, Yeah,
Speaker 1: what what hobby would you have chosen off of your
Speaker 1: dating profile to do? Totally would have went indoor put Okay,
Speaker 1: a different Okay, you can't have a man swoop in
Speaker 1: on your date during put putt. You maybe a little,
Speaker 1: but that's when you bust out the bear mace you
Speaker 1: that I'm not done with whole seventeen yet. Hey, where
Speaker 1: doing the clown? No? Very aggressive to Jeffrey. So maybe
Speaker 1: we'll offer that for your next date if we can
Speaker 1: get Adrian on the phone. Here, I'm gonna dial her
Speaker 1: number and see what she has to say. Ready to
Speaker 1: do this? Yeah, let's do it? All right, let's go right? Hello?
Speaker 1: Hey is this Adrian? This is she? Who's this? Hey? Adrian?
Speaker 1: My name is jeff from a morning radio show called
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. I'm sorry, I'm sorry too, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm really I'm just kind of confused. If you're on
Speaker 1: the radio, are you calling me? Well? One of our
Speaker 1: listeners asked us to call you because he went on
Speaker 1: a date with him the other night. His name's Corey. Wait,
Speaker 1: Corey asked you to call me because we went on
Speaker 1: a date because he really liked you. He's bummed because
Speaker 1: he's been trying to text you and you haven't really
Speaker 1: been responding back to him much. I just wanted to
Speaker 1: him a little bit. Yeah, but it sounded like a
Speaker 1: courtesy response. You guys weren't like talking back and forth
Speaker 1: and having fun. I mean, what do you think of Corey? Um?
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna get into it, but I
Speaker 1: just I mean, I don't think I'm really interested. Like,
Speaker 1: I don't think it's gonna work out. Well. When you
Speaker 1: guys first met up, was it like initially you knew
Speaker 1: that or did it take a minute for you to
Speaker 1: say no? Um, I don't just don't think it's a
Speaker 1: good fit. But I mean, okay, I'm like, why, Well,
Speaker 1: so like I feel like when we met on a
Speaker 1: dating app, and I feel like I make my dating
Speaker 1: app very clear that like, I'm looking for a real
Speaker 1: man and I don't really think they exist anymore. What
Speaker 1: does that mean? What's your definition of a real man?
Speaker 1: I'm looking for somebody to like. Where a good cobone
Speaker 1: and have his stuff together and we'll stand up for
Speaker 1: his woman like a real man. You want someone to
Speaker 1: fight for you. Well, I mean, like, did we stand up?
Speaker 1: You know, don't let anybody say anything to the person
Speaker 1: that you're with, Like, you got to stand up for
Speaker 1: your woman. I did someone insult you that night and
Speaker 1: he didn't? Like, I don't get it. I'll be god
Speaker 1: all right, Well I'm just gonna be honest, and we're
Speaker 1: putting this all out there. Um So I do this
Speaker 1: thing sometimes on dates and I have my uncle show
Speaker 1: up and he'll come and ask to talk to me
Speaker 1: or something like that. Oh it was the older guy
Speaker 1: that we heard about. We heard we heard a guy
Speaker 1: came up to the table and asked you to dance.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so much less sexy bea. That was actually
Speaker 1: my uncle doing it right at the country bar Brooks
Speaker 1: all too familiar with that movie. Yeah, I mean, what
Speaker 1: is he supposed to do? Like a guy comes up
Speaker 1: and asks you to dance? You say yes, you wanted
Speaker 1: Corey to step in and be like that's my woman,
Speaker 1: Like I don't get it, like a real man, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want someone that can like defend me and speak
Speaker 1: up and like not be a great accommodation, Like what
Speaker 1: did you need defending from? Though? It sounds like the
Speaker 1: guy just want your uncle wanted to dance? Like what
Speaker 1: said you told him something? Right? Yeah, what's the defense?
Speaker 1: Well I waited a second to see what he was
Speaker 1: going to do, and he didn't do anything. He just
Speaker 1: like looked at me, and so I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: well and then I like joking I wouldn't dance with
Speaker 1: him because he literally didn't do anything. He didn't say anything,
Speaker 1: He just like looked at me. So you that like
Speaker 1: you should have gone to a club with this test,
Speaker 1: not like a country bar. He didn't do nothing. He
Speaker 1: went and danced by himself in your facility. That's something.
Speaker 1: Oh look, if you were there then I think you
Speaker 1: would get it. Like you had the opportunity to step
Speaker 1: up and say I'm here with her. These of me
Speaker 1: were together like anything. Okay, Okay, it's not something you
Speaker 1: could have said. You couldn't have said him on a day, Adrian.
Speaker 1: I get you didn't think he was very manly then,
Speaker 1: but how's this for a man? Because he Corey reached
Speaker 1: out to a radio show to call you on his
Speaker 1: behalf and ask for him why you're not going out
Speaker 1: on another day. Ye, mister masculine is on the other
Speaker 1: line wants to talk to you. Really, I mean, I
Speaker 1: had no idea if that man. Now I know it's
Speaker 1: your uncle new Hat, Willie Nelson, Rascal Flats and Brooks
Speaker 1: and Dunns in the in the bag. I've never been
Speaker 1: there before. Who. I don't know what's going on boot
Speaker 1: Scoop Buggy. I was nervous. I don't even that's so wrong.
Speaker 1: Shipbrey's not dead with me, but come on, I'm respecting
Speaker 1: your boundary. Yes, I just met you. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: be a jerk and be like, hey, that's my caveman style. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not even you know, I'm not asking to be
Speaker 1: a cave in. I'm just looking for somebody that can
Speaker 1: step up and say to somebody know she's with me, like,
Speaker 1: I don't care, I don't need to like it. Sounds
Speaker 1: like you're not being assertive enough. Core. You got to
Speaker 1: be more assertive when hey, I'll tell you what under
Speaker 1: different circumstances. I have no problem with that. I was
Speaker 1: just totally respecting you from talk to bottom. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she doesn't want that. She doesn't want respect. She wants
Speaker 1: a dose of like unhealthy jealousy. It sounds like to me, right,
Speaker 1: let me tell you this is miscommunication, that's all it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was not going to be a creeper. Come to
Speaker 1: your job, come to your house. Yeah, I got too
Speaker 1: much respect for you. I think under different circumstances, you
Speaker 1: and I can jail. I'm willing to put forth that effort.
Speaker 1: You have two completely different like opinions on this. She
Speaker 1: wants you to step in, but if you, if you're
Speaker 1: on a date with a girl like Brooke Brook, would
Speaker 1: think that's obnoxious, Like, dude, let me make my own desist.
Speaker 1: I think I step in. I think what happened Adrian
Speaker 1: is if you want someone to not let you, like
Speaker 1: if you don't want to dance with other men. You
Speaker 1: needed to have told Corey as you're walking into the place, like, Hey,
Speaker 1: if someone approaches me, will you just tell them that
Speaker 1: we're on a date. Yeah, Like why why couldn't you
Speaker 1: communicate that to him? Because all right, show me who
Speaker 1: he is, Like, I'm not trying to change him. And honestly, Corey, like,
Speaker 1: if you want me to think differently, if you want
Speaker 1: me to think okay, it was just a circumstance like
Speaker 1: you're gonna step up somewhere else. Thing you need to
Speaker 1: prove it right now. You need to show me, blink,
Speaker 1: how much of the man you are, because that's what
Speaker 1: I want to Cory. This is your chance. What are
Speaker 1: we gonna do? Throw your man card down right now?
Speaker 1: Three one on the radio. We'll talk about this between
Speaker 1: you and I. I'm good he's gonna find you because
Speaker 1: he already looked up your home address and your work address,
Speaker 1: but respected you enough not to go there. Now he's
Speaker 1: actually going to show up to hear it. Is that
Speaker 1: what she wants? Is that what you want? I just
Speaker 1: asked him to like prove to me just now, and
Speaker 1: he's like, oh yeah, another time, another place, Like I
Speaker 1: just feel like he's all hot. What do you want
Speaker 1: him to do? You want him to do it right now? Corey?
Speaker 1: You got to prove yourself. Now. What's something you want?
Speaker 1: Do you want me to sing you a song? You
Speaker 1: want me to wrap what you want? So you got
Speaker 1: her name was eight oh she left the other dance
Speaker 1: floor at me and it sounds like kind of a
Speaker 1: whiny song. Come on, Adrian, look Adrian, he's trying. He
Speaker 1: he was trying as hard as you can here to
Speaker 1: get another day with you. Why why don't you just
Speaker 1: give him one more shot and we would pay for it.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just really I think, Corey, I
Speaker 1: think that you're a really nice guy. You don't want
Speaker 1: to see Mace a kid at a put putt golf course.
Speaker 1: He would do that for you. He said that. Oh, man,
Speaker 1: I think I'm just gonna have to pass on this.
Speaker 1: Tell her what she wants? So much masculinity in this room. Okay,
Speaker 1: she brings her uncle on dates. Yeah, I don't think
Speaker 1: you really want another date, Corey. Yeah, I mean not now,
Speaker 1: I mean too bad. She had to pass because Corey
Speaker 1: was trying to tap that, oh, trying to be the
Speaker 1: man that she wanted. Yea broke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: We kind of got locked up in the minutia of
Speaker 1: manliness as one does, as she is is so locked
Speaker 1: up in we were so focused on that that we
Speaker 1: didn't really get to the point that Alexis brought up,
Speaker 1: which was a good point, that she has her uncle
Speaker 1: go out on dates with her to test out how
Speaker 1: manly her guys are. Yeah, weird, and he still wanted
Speaker 1: to go out with her. I know, yeah, I think
Speaker 1: concerned at all. Did you dance with her uncle? All right?
Speaker 1: Probably very hot? Well, and as soon as somebody questions
Speaker 1: your manliness, that's all that matters. You have to prove
Speaker 1: that you are a man. Yeah, well, when your uncle
Speaker 1: is the manliest man, you know, it might be a
Speaker 1: good strategy. Alexis. In the same spirit, would you be
Speaker 1: willing to have Jose tag along on your next romantic
Speaker 1: encounter just to prove how manly he really is? I
Speaker 1: will show up with a lot yes, out manly Jose.
Speaker 1: Can they do it? I think I can do it.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying we'll keep you updated on Alexis. But
Speaker 1: test into seven eight five nine two. If you ever
Speaker 1: have a person you want us to call, we'll call
Speaker 1: that person. Wasn't calling back