WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Old Fashioned Values

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jubels second d D. Sometimes the best way to

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<v Speaker 1>get a girl's attention is to just elbow her real hard,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, just like if her girl's not giving

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<v Speaker 1>you the attention, you need to just shoulder check her

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, let her know that you're in the building,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're sure to strike up a conversation or

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<v Speaker 1>get assault charges. It could go either way. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>how Mark got the girl's attention that he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call today. Her name is Rebecca, and apparently that's Mark's thing.

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<v Speaker 1>He'll walk up next to a girl and just like

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<v Speaker 1>throw a shoulder on a real hard and then he

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<v Speaker 1>starts up a conversation. Is that how it works? Mark? Uh? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess so that's how it works. I thought he

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<v Speaker 1>was being sarcastic. I think he still is. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being a little sarcastic guy. His email said that he

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<v Speaker 1>bumped into her real hard to try to get her attention.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us how that happened, Mark, Well, not real hard. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, Yes, Rebecca, I met her at a club.

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<v Speaker 1>She absolutely stunning. I noted to her right when she

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<v Speaker 1>walked in, and so I immediately started figuring out ways

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<v Speaker 1>of trying to talk to her. So I ended up

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<v Speaker 1>going over to her and kind of dancing there and

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<v Speaker 1>purposely bumping into her. After I was like, why did

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<v Speaker 1>you bump into me? She was like, you bumped into me,

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<v Speaker 1>and so that's actually pretty smooth. Yeah, I didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>it was too offensive. So see, I was picturing it

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<v Speaker 1>totally different. I was picturing like you guys were playing

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<v Speaker 1>hockey and she had a drink in her hand. He

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<v Speaker 1>just slammed her up against the wall and the drink

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<v Speaker 1>went everywhere. Yeah, so obviously it worked out for you

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<v Speaker 1>since you got a date with her. Yeah. Like I said, man,

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<v Speaker 1>she was absolutely stunning, slightly out of my league, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean it worked. We chatted up at

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<v Speaker 1>the club the rest of the night. I asked her

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<v Speaker 1>for a number and if she would want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out some time. She gave it to me. You gotta

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<v Speaker 1>be honest. I was worried that she was gonna give

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<v Speaker 1>me the Loser Line segment that we do on seven

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<v Speaker 1>ten and nine ten on Monday mornings, the Loser Line number,

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<v Speaker 1>But we didn't hear your voicemail on that, so obviously

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<v Speaker 1>it was a real number. That's nice. Yeah, it really was,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we set it up and it was great. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I was excited. Did you put a lot of thought

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<v Speaker 1>into what you guys were going to do on your date?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? I actually just kind of wanted to keep

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<v Speaker 1>it casual, just kind of started off with dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of see where it led from there and

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<v Speaker 1>how did it lead? Was good? Well, when I first

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<v Speaker 1>pulled up to her house, and when I walked up

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<v Speaker 1>to the door, she had actually opened the door before

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<v Speaker 1>I even knocked that she was looking out the people

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<v Speaker 1>and expected you, and it was just well, if he

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<v Speaker 1>said he was going to be there at a certain time,

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<v Speaker 1>why wouldn't she. Yeah, I mean I do that if

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's coming over to my house, I'll look out the

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<v Speaker 1>windows see if they're there. But I never opened the

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<v Speaker 1>door before they're there, act like that from the knock

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<v Speaker 1>and be like, oh, there you are. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>weird to just be like I was sitting right here

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<v Speaker 1>next to the door and open it up. No, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just for me. It was a wonderful surprise. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it got me pretty excited that she it seemed like

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<v Speaker 1>she was that excited. Yeah, totally. It's a great side

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's awesome. Yeah, that's what I thought. Then

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<v Speaker 1>I gave her a hug and said we should get

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<v Speaker 1>out of here, and I made some dinner reservations, and

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<v Speaker 1>I go to my car and turned around and realized

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<v Speaker 1>she just was still standing there in the doorway, just

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<v Speaker 1>stood there in the door. Yeah, I didn't move. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she was stunned by your good looks. What was she

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<v Speaker 1>doing in the doorway. I don't know what she was

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<v Speaker 1>doing in there. Uh, I didn't know, if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the club light hit me right that night and daylight

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't so good or I don't know, so she

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<v Speaker 1>seemed stunned. Yeah, I don't know. She just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>stared at me with this weird look, and I stared

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<v Speaker 1>back and just kind of said we should go. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, she kind of stepped into it and

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<v Speaker 1>got in the car. Maybe she was expecting you to

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<v Speaker 1>carry her to the car. Be a gentleman, everything about

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<v Speaker 1>that man. She was that hot enough that I would

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<v Speaker 1>have done it if she had give her a piggyback

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<v Speaker 1>ride to your car door. Was that the only strange

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<v Speaker 1>thing that happened on your date? Um? Yeah, sorted. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>dinner was good conversation was relatively smooth. I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>was offended that she actually had set up something for

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<v Speaker 1>after our date, which I thought was kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Not knowing that the date was ending after dinner. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know if she was lying or just making excuses.

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<v Speaker 1>At that point, I was gonna say, did she not

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<v Speaker 1>tell you about that beforehand? No? No, No she didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, even if she wasn't lying, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of times, going into a date, a girl will set

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<v Speaker 1>something up just in case as her out or as

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<v Speaker 1>a way to stop herself from going home with you

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<v Speaker 1>that night. Yeah, thanks for trying to be nice to him.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't So how did everything in? Then? After she

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<v Speaker 1>said she had plans, she actually had me drop her

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<v Speaker 1>off a few blocks away on a different street corner,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah it was and she was getting out. I

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<v Speaker 1>just was like, can I call you again? And she

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<v Speaker 1>just yelled sure? And have you called her? I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be calling you guys if I didn't. And how many

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<v Speaker 1>times have you tried to call her? Um? Probably more

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<v Speaker 1>than I should have, But I mean, I definitely want

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<v Speaker 1>to let her know I want to go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you know, I did do something wrong. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I definitely want to know and see if

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<v Speaker 1>I can fix it, or you know, if it turns

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<v Speaker 1>out she's just not attracted to you, are you gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have hurt feelings? Ah No, that's fine. That's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>people's preference. It's you know, it's what it is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you said she was out of your league anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>so you should hardly know that might happen. So you

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<v Speaker 1>dropped her off on the street corner. He dropped off

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<v Speaker 1>on the street corner, and that's the last you've seen her,

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<v Speaker 1>heard from her. Yeah, So I mean alien abduction ever

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<v Speaker 1>crossed your mind? It happens so much. There's TV shows

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<v Speaker 1>about it. It happens all the time. I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>think we'll play a song. Come back, call her and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update the inn her right, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you guy, okay man brooking jubil in the morning, right

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of a second date update, and Mark

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone with us. Mark went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a girl named Rebecca. After the date,

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<v Speaker 1>she said she had plans, and he dropped her off

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<v Speaker 1>on a street corner a few blocks away, and she disappeared.

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<v Speaker 1>And he hasn't heard from her since now. Mark just

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<v Speaker 1>thinks she's not calling him back. But experts say that

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<v Speaker 1>she was abducted by aliens, and that expert would be me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm almost positive that when we dial her phone number

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<v Speaker 1>to try to get her on the phone to find

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<v Speaker 1>out what we're wrong on the date, nobody will answer

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<v Speaker 1>because she's currently in space being examined by aliens. Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>on the other hand, does not agree with me. But Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to call the number either way and see

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<v Speaker 1>who's right. I hope you're ready to be wrong, buddy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I guess I did see a strange

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<v Speaker 1>light that night out in my window. Starting to put

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<v Speaker 1>it all together. You're changing, You're slowly changing my mind.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't feel really weird to drop a girl off

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<v Speaker 1>after dinner on a dark street corner and her like

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<v Speaker 1>want that to happen. I'm in a dark street corner.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the well lit street that she was meeting

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<v Speaker 1>her friends. I was just I just really wanted the

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<v Speaker 1>date to keep going. I didn't want it to sure

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<v Speaker 1>meeting her friends, her friends from a far off galaxy

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<v Speaker 1>who would beam her up into space, never to be

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<v Speaker 1>heard from again. All right, I'm gonna do the phone

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<v Speaker 1>of her right now, see if we can get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and fight out what went wrong in

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<v Speaker 1>her date. Okay, awesome? Hello, Hi is Rebecca there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is her Rebecca. How are you? This is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Ohkay, I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>because you recently went out on a date with one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners and he emailed us to see if

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<v Speaker 1>we could get you on the phone. His name is Mark.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh and you met Mark out at a club and

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<v Speaker 1>then you guys went to dinner, and ever since your

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<v Speaker 1>date you haven't responded to any of his phone calls

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<v Speaker 1>or text messages. So he emailed us and was like,

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<v Speaker 1>can you guys see if you can call her and

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<v Speaker 1>find out what went wrong? This is really bizarre. He

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<v Speaker 1>told us how you guys went out and then you

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<v Speaker 1>said you had to meet up with some friends. Was

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<v Speaker 1>the friends thing an excuse to get out of the date?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean he was you know, he was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>You still haven't answered my question, Rebecca, did you make

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<v Speaker 1>up the fact that you were meeting up with your

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<v Speaker 1>friends later as an excuse to get out of your

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<v Speaker 1>date with him? I mean, I'm going to take that

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<v Speaker 1>as a yes, Yeah, just take that. So why did

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<v Speaker 1>you do that? What was so bad about the date?

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<v Speaker 1>For me? I'm more like old fashioned when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to dating and stuff, and I definitely believe that a

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<v Speaker 1>gentleman should act a certain way, and I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>feel like he fell short of my expectations. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>mean was he not opening doors? And I mean when

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<v Speaker 1>we first met up, when he came to my house

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<v Speaker 1>to pick me up, you know, I was waiting for

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<v Speaker 1>him at the door, and I just felt like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he came to greet me and that was fine, and

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<v Speaker 1>he gave me a hug, and then I was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just waiting, you know, for him to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>set the tone of the date. Especially with the first impression.

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<v Speaker 1>He just didn't really do it right. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>want him to do? To do? I mean, sounds pretty

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<v Speaker 1>good to me. I don't know. I just think like

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<v Speaker 1>like when a gentleman comes to pick up a lady,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he should bring her like a little token

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<v Speaker 1>of his appreciation, like flowers or maybe a stuck animal

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<v Speaker 1>or something. It doesn't have anything, you know, expensive, but

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<v Speaker 1>just something to say hi, and you know, I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>you taking the time to go out with me today.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't bring you, essentially a gift, and that upset you. Yeah, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>do most men Okay, hold on, do most men bring

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<v Speaker 1>you a gift when you go out on a first date?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I've never encountered it. I mean, not every time,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean the ones that don't bring me a

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<v Speaker 1>gift don't really see me ever again. And the ones

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<v Speaker 1>that do, I, you know, am willing to take the

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<v Speaker 1>next step or maybe a second date. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people will call me old fashioned. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you kind of feel that way, and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I am, and you know, maybe you're not. People just

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<v Speaker 1>do things differently and talk different you know, standards of

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. Okay, so that so, well, how is everything else?

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<v Speaker 1>How is everything else on the date? Other than the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that he did not bring you a gift? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>he seemed genuinely nice. And it's just it did start

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<v Speaker 1>off a little sour, and when it kind of starts

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<v Speaker 1>off that way, it's hard to really get like the

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<v Speaker 1>butterfly's going and stuff like that. He said when you

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<v Speaker 1>picked you up, that there was a moment where you

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<v Speaker 1>just stood at the door. Well, I just thought that

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<v Speaker 1>he was going out to get the gift after he

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<v Speaker 1>came up empty handed first picking up on what was happening,

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<v Speaker 1>So you assumed that he was going back to his

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<v Speaker 1>car to grab you whatever it was. Yeah, like I

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<v Speaker 1>thought he had forgotten it in this car. So you

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<v Speaker 1>knew in that moment when when you were at the

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<v Speaker 1>door and he had nothing for you, that you would

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<v Speaker 1>never go out on the date with him. Again, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know at that moment. I thought, Baby, somewhere down

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<v Speaker 1>the line, there'd be like a surprise or maybe a

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<v Speaker 1>gift waiting, like on the seat in the car or

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<v Speaker 1>at the restaurant or something like that. But yeah, then

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<v Speaker 1>when I realized, it kind of just figgled out for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So he took you out the whole time and no gift, right,

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<v Speaker 1>no gift. You know what. I think he should realize

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<v Speaker 1>that he needs me more of a gentleman. We should

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<v Speaker 1>tell him that, go for it. But how about you

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<v Speaker 1>tell him because he's actually on the line listing right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I Rebecca, Oh my god, I didn't know you were there. Yeah, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I Rebecca. I'm I'm really sorry. I had no

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<v Speaker 1>clue what your expectation was for our day. Um, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't think it's too much of an

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<v Speaker 1>expectation for a girl to feel like excited and appreciated

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<v Speaker 1>the first time she goes out. And you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't really live up to what I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>were gonna be when you showed up without like a

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<v Speaker 1>gift or something. I mean, this is I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>time to teach a guy how I'm really romantic. You're

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<v Speaker 1>I You're right. I I completely agree with you. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I don't know where my head was. I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely should have, you know, brought something. Are you serious

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Mark? Thank you? Mark? I do appreciate you

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<v Speaker 1>saying that. Yeah. No, I mean, people have their ways,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's absolutely beautiful and she knows it and she

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<v Speaker 1>deserves to be treated from the very beginning just like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she's like putting like all the emphasis on

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<v Speaker 1>material things, right, I want to say like material things.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't care. He could have read me

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<v Speaker 1>a poem at my door, and that would have been something.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't have to be something that costs money, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, just a gesture. You actually want

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<v Speaker 1>a band to stop and read you poetry when he

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<v Speaker 1>picks you up, she's a fashion that's just awkward. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what's awkward about a guy who's trying to actually lou

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<v Speaker 1>a girl and you know, be old fashioned and be romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't like romance, I mean, that's on you.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would like to steal something when I meet someone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you want a guy to show up and read

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<v Speaker 1>you a sonnet. It's like a Shakespeare type experience. But

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, it could have been anything. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not expecting diamonds. It's just the thought that goes

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<v Speaker 1>into something like that, and a guy who knows how

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<v Speaker 1>to treat a woman. Listen, I totally understand what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely should have been way more of a gentleman

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<v Speaker 1>and much more attentive to your needs. You know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really sorry I didn't get you a gift. Hey, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>if you think about it right now, this is sort

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<v Speaker 1>of a gift. Yeah. Hey, he went through all this

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<v Speaker 1>effort to try to get a second date with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like to go on a second date with him?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it, And Rebecca, I promise I

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<v Speaker 1>will get you two gifts, one to make up for

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<v Speaker 1>the last time and one for this time. You hear that, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>this could work out in your favor. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>two gifts. I mean, I really appreciate the effort, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if you are willing to do that, I

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<v Speaker 1>I I'd give you a second chance, even though I

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<v Speaker 1>really shouldn't. You know, A real man would just know.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know you have gone through all these great names,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd say, okay, oh god, I promise you won't

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<v Speaker 1>be disappointed. There you go, Rebecca. You should know. A

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<v Speaker 1>real man should already know. But sometimes a lady needs

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<v Speaker 1>to teach a man how to act. And so maybe

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<v Speaker 1>Mark just learned right now how to treat you. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we've made progress here today. So I will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for a second day for you guys. But Mark, you're

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<v Speaker 1>you get the gifts yourself. Okay, that's that's awesome. Yeah right,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's a yes from both of you. Guys will

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<v Speaker 1>go out again, Yes, gifts on their dates like congratulations

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<v Speaker 1>you two, yea, thank you. I feel like this is

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<v Speaker 1>a start something really good. Oh yeah, but I started

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<v Speaker 1>something good. I mean the start of Mark being bankrupted

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning text in at seven eight five nine

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<v Speaker 1>two it says that right that girl's old fashioned. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why she met the dude at the club in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about the second date. Update. This guy Mark

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<v Speaker 1>want us to call a girl named Rebecca. She wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back after their date. The reason why she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't calling back because he didn't show up with some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of gift. And to make matters worse, he actually

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to go out with her again if he would

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<v Speaker 1>get her a gift, like a proper gentleman. Two gifts,

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<v Speaker 1>one to make up for the first date where he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't break one. She must have been super hot. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. People are texting in at seven eight, five,

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<v Speaker 1>nine two. A lot of people are like, what a

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<v Speaker 1>materialistic idiot? And you know, but then there are some

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<v Speaker 1>people texting in like good, it's nice to hear a

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<v Speaker 1>woman stand up for old fashioned values. That you got

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<v Speaker 1>gifts all the time in the old date. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't buy flowers until it's like a third or

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<v Speaker 1>fourth I can count on one hand how many times

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<v Speaker 1>my husband has gotten me flowers. Well, your that's your marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>But ye