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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: Good Mornings. This need Tanya. We're about to start paying

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Speaker 1: some bills, but I was My alarm went off and

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Speaker 1: then the group tech started coming in from Tanya rat

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Speaker 1: very proud that she was taking her shot of olive

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Speaker 1: oil this morning and had to tell us I guess

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Speaker 1: during the process with photo evidence that she was taking

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Speaker 1: her olive old shot extra virgin olive old shot on

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Speaker 1: anti stomach first thing this morning, and then she set

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Speaker 1: the text. I have a lot of questions. I sent

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Speaker 1: back what and Mark, our producer, said, save it for

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Speaker 1: the air. So it all just stopped. Is it time? No,

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Speaker 1: it's not. It's actually not time. Actually it's not. Why

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Speaker 1: is it not time? Because we need to save it

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Speaker 1: for later? What do you you guys concocted? What are

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Speaker 1: you planning? I'm just looking at our rundown own. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: take a look at that. The rundown says I gave

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Speaker 1: someone bad advice. After seven, let's see what else? Not

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Speaker 1: much else going on? So what time are you guys

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Speaker 1: planning to tell us about the text? We got early?

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Speaker 1: This one? I don't know. Oh will tell you. I'm

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Speaker 1: hoping that you had the same response as Sissity. And

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Speaker 1: that takes that, that takes a few hours. I was

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Speaker 1: gonna say, it's it just happened, and so it didn't

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Speaker 1: just happen. You said that text a while ago, one

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Speaker 1: hour ago for me, it's a long time in the

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Speaker 1: more for me, it took like six hours to really

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Speaker 1: kind of work its way down my system. What are

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Speaker 1: you doing at noon? Get ready? Yeah? Like I gotta

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Speaker 1: go home. I gotta make sure I'm home. You gotta

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Speaker 1: go like you're gonna thank me, good hair, good nails,

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Speaker 1: anti inflammatory, good joints. Fine, I didn't know we had

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Speaker 1: to run down. I do have questions and it's so

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Speaker 1: funny air so low. I thought the same thing about

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Speaker 1: mine today. I thought Toms was in here last night

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Speaker 1: playing DJ or something. Who was in here? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: My Mica is all? You know why? Because I worked

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Speaker 1: from home all like everything is at all last week?

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Speaker 1: I was like bringing from home? Oh my god, what

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Speaker 1: that means? Somebody was in your chair? Yeah a lot

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Speaker 1: of people were in this chair. I guess really, who

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Speaker 1: else uses that chair? Was dedicated to you? Guys? What

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Speaker 1: do they change the signage and bring new people in

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Speaker 1: later and change the station. I didn't realize it was

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Speaker 1: such a day, parted time, share communal, you know. Um,

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Speaker 1: all right, listen, just take a look at today, mostly

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Speaker 1: sunny later highs in the mid seventies, mid eighties inland

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Speaker 1: air with rys. Today is National Gumbo Day? Do you like?

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Speaker 1: I love? No. I don't eat shell fish much, but

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Speaker 1: I will eat gumbo every once in a while. You

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Speaker 1: please describe what gumbo. Gumbo is A it's a shrimp

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Speaker 1: stock generally with like a dark red sauce, a little

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Speaker 1: bit of spice to it. It's got some some shrimp

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Speaker 1: and it's a Creole dish. It's a Cajun dish. It's

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Speaker 1: right out of Nolan's Bubba Gum. Shrimp, serves a lot

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Speaker 1: of it rice. It's got a rice in it too,

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Speaker 1: and some beans. It's really sounds I don't think I

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Speaker 1: ever have it. Sounds delicious. It's great with the beer

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Speaker 1: because he's got a little spice to it. We'll find

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Speaker 1: a good place in town to do it. But it's

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Speaker 1: always shrimp. They have them like all over. They have

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Speaker 1: one bevers I know where they are, but they have

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Speaker 1: a good gumbo. Yeah, my dad like My dad loves

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Speaker 1: Bubba Gump shrimp cute because he likes a Forrest Gump

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Speaker 1: trivia you love in general, So I get it. I'm

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Speaker 1: a Tom Hanks advocate. I subscribe Dodgers Padres Game two

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Speaker 1: of the n l DS tonight, five thirty seven, not six,

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Speaker 1: not eight, but five seven. Like you know, someone told

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Speaker 1: us once why, but I still can't remember. Mark Marx

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Speaker 1: and avid baseball fan. He loves the do you love

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Speaker 1: Milwaukee right? Milwaukee season for them, But I do believe

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Speaker 1: it's because they go live at five thirty. They have

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Speaker 1: like seven minutes of pregame. But why does a football

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Speaker 1: tell football they have weird times? Well, it's the postseason,

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Speaker 1: big deal syndrome. That's just that's exactly. That's a that's

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Speaker 1: just a guess. All right, Tony, Let's go back to

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Speaker 1: what we wanted to talk about earlier. But this is

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Speaker 1: where it's slotted for guests in our rundown, which is

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Speaker 1: so handy to have. Yeah, let's see if we stick

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Speaker 1: to any of the rundown this morning. Um, so we've

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Speaker 1: been talking about just I guess as we learn more

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Speaker 1: me being the central character, like the you in life

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Speaker 1: being the central Yeah, the main central character, right that

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Speaker 1: that's one of the dating trends, the main character energy,

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Speaker 1: the main character energy. One of the dating trends for

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Speaker 1: next year, looking out for you. So one of the

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Speaker 1: things that I have been subscribing to is taking all

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Speaker 1: of the show in the morning, empty stomach, all the

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Speaker 1: be all kinds of out benefits that my parents doing

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Speaker 1: it too, and you have been doing this for so

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Speaker 1: long and telling us about it for I don't even know.

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Speaker 1: Everybody just laughs at me. I know whither we would

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Speaker 1: doing like I didn't do it until Sisney, but he's

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Speaker 1: always doing like hocus pocus stuff. So we're just like exactly.

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Speaker 1: But it wasn't until we had the Olive Oil Queen

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Speaker 1: from TikTok on. I didn't realize my soulmate, olive Oil

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Speaker 1: Queen on TikTok is out there, and we actually said

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Speaker 1: the same thing to each other, reading each other's minds.

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Speaker 1: She comes on and then that's what I kind of

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Speaker 1: start believing into this hocus pocus, and I'm like, years,

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Speaker 1: and then I tried it the next day. Tony, you

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Speaker 1: tried it this morning, and then you sent us a

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Speaker 1: group text and then you said questions, what are the questions? Well,

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Speaker 1: because Sisney said the effect that it had on her,

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Speaker 1: and that's an effect that I need in my life

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Speaker 1: as a um functioning adult and if you being adult

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Speaker 1: I realized one thing that really shook me to my core.

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Speaker 1: And I was like firing off texts to my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: Robbie at like five o'clock in the morning, saying, are

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Speaker 1: olive oil is from Greece? Oh no? And I was like, California,

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Speaker 1: olives in the world, and by the way, ancient ancient

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Speaker 1: olive trees. But what I said was from what I'm

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Speaker 1: if it's been diluted with anything, because there is no

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Speaker 1: and it says E V O O, then by law

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Speaker 1: He goes, well, research will research calm down? Um okay,

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Speaker 1: can I chug water after or does that defeat the purpose?

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Speaker 1: I had to take my vitamins. So I did. And

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Speaker 1: you took your vitamins on an empty stomach with just

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Speaker 1: the oil. That would make me to be like last night,

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Speaker 1: some movie I didn't like? Um, so I don't know

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Speaker 1: the answer to that, but I want to see, like Sisney,

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Speaker 1: it made her regular instantly. Yeah, for six hours. So

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Speaker 1: Like ten minutes of just like and then have the water.

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Speaker 1: tea and stuff after. So that's probably was it. PEPPERI

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Speaker 1: just din't taste. Would it just like butter? Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: like butter. Yeah, it just feels like it sits in

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Speaker 1: your throat for a while. Yeah, like coated, Like I

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Speaker 1: felt coated on the end. This is the only show

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Speaker 1: I think it's good for you. I do. We think

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Speaker 1: it's good for you. A telling you. I spoke to Todd.

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Speaker 1: We're not being paid for I found my passion fund.

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Speaker 1: It's not endorsment for all of will No. But you know,

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Speaker 1: like I'm very I'm starting to change a lot of

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Speaker 1: my habits. I'm changing a lot of my habits because

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Speaker 1: I have Hashimoto's disease and I have to like now

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Speaker 1: change my diet. I have to do everything anti inflammatory,

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Speaker 1: and so thyroid thyroid disease, it's actually very get diagnosed

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Speaker 1: going to reiterate what we're saying. In my view, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's on the rundown next? Let's see. Oh and now

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Speaker 1: someone's memorized the rundown. Your brain is functioning faster, so

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Speaker 1: your memories already improved. You've memorized the entire rundown. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna quit you. What's coming up at eight o four?

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Speaker 1: any Yeah, I feel like four is kind of blank

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Speaker 1: in my brain. I have your quote of the day,

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Speaker 1: and right now have you thought about and you can

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Speaker 1: sort of virtually take a look at improvements or different

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Speaker 1: hairstyles now with all the technology. So they're a TikTok

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Speaker 1: hack that will let you know if you look better

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Speaker 1: with short hair or long hair. And it's pretty interesting.

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Speaker 1: You have a ruler. Anybody caring a ruler today or

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Speaker 1: a compass or pro tractor? Okay, not have your tools

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Speaker 1: any paste or plaster of paris, These like five by

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Speaker 1: eight five by seven card right, all right, So well,

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Speaker 1: let's assume that's a ruler. Position a ruler vertically from

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Speaker 1: the tip of your earlobe, Okay, right there. Now, put

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Speaker 1: a pencil across at the bottom of your chin, so

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Speaker 1: typically your love and then the pencil chin touch your

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Speaker 1: chin underneath with the pencil. Very good demos, Yes, we're ready.

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Speaker 1: Measure the distance from your earlobe to the pencil, for

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Speaker 1: the love it, what do you think? How many inches?

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Speaker 1: Four inches more than yours? Oh bragger, we don't even

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Speaker 1: know why. What's Robbie's measure the distance from your earlob

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Speaker 1: to the pencil. You've got that if it's more than

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Speaker 1: two and a quarter inches longer, hair looks better on you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you would say both of you have more than two

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Speaker 1: and a quarter inches. Now, who came up with this

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Speaker 1: actually don't know, But if you want to try it,

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Speaker 1: if you measure ear low down ruler across pencil chin

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Speaker 1: more than two point to five inches, they say your

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Speaker 1: face is built better for longer hair. Until TikTok we

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Speaker 1: actually I could probably do that. My sister is similar age,

423
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 1: so I mean, I don't know would that makes the parents,

424
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: don't I don't even know how you have that conversation though.

425
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,400
Speaker 1: That's so awkward. You have to have the conversation head

426
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 1: on with the other parents. Yeah. Yeah, and I don't

427
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,119
Speaker 1: know how to do that. I feel like it needs

428
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 1: to be done. And if it does, um, how uncomfortable

429
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:55,440
Speaker 1: is that can be? I mean, you just do it.

430
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 1: You just be like, hey, I I heard through the

431
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,439
Speaker 1: grape vine people were talking or whatever that you guys have.

432
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 1: You guys are feeling a way that you know. I'm

433
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: a single dad and I can ensure you everything's gonna

434
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: be safe and whatever. But if you, guys, if it

435
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,439
Speaker 1: makes you feel more comfortable, my sister will be here

436
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,879
Speaker 1: as well. She she will spend the night and be

437
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: in the room with the girls, are like or whatever.

438
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 1: They'll sleep in the living room. Like whatever you like

439
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 1: will make the parents feel more comfortable, And say what

440
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,920
Speaker 1: you just said to us, you don't want your daughter

441
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 1: to miss out on the experience, suffer for you being

442
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 1: a single parent. And then the other thing is move

443
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:26,919
Speaker 1: ahead with the ones that can come and make it

444
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 1: the most amazing fun night. That's true, because that word

445
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:35,120
Speaker 1: will get around. You mean, you mentioned great. Clearly, there's

446
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 1: a grape vine, so word will get around that it

447
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 1: was a great sleepover. And you can only control You

448
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 1: can't control them those other parents, That's true. You can't

449
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: control they're talking about it. People are going to talk. Yeah, no,

450
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 1: I of course it would bother. Of course it would bother.

451
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,639
Speaker 1: You're trying to do something great. You're probably I don't know,

452
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: maybe even trying to overcompensate in a way. Right, You

453
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 1: want to make it better in a way because it

454
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: is just you, and these are the things that are

455
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 1: in your on your mind, and when you hear them,

456
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 1: it reinforces wanting to do even more, which is also

457
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 1: not great. So you number one priority is your daughter,

458
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 1: and there are a couple of girls that want to

459
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 1: come enjoy it. Make it fantastic. Don't take it personally.

460
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 1: Be aware, but don't take it personally, which is hard

461
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: to do, and focus on the focus on the fund

462
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: that you can create for them. Zack, thanks for calling.

463
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 1: I really appreciate your openness. You know, I think it's

464
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 1: a hard I think it's a hard call to have

465
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 1: publicly a little bit. Yeah, I really appreciate that. I

466
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 1: think That's what I'm gonna do, alright, Zach, you take

467
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 1: care of Thanks. Guys. Is it when when anybody says

468
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:51,679
Speaker 1: to anyone, don't take it personally. It's the hardest thing

469
00:25:51,680 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: in the world. Tough one, tough one there. Let's get

470
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 1: to the match game. All right. We don't play games

471
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 1: here much, but this is the one that we liked

472
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Speaker 1: of all the games we tested. Contested number one, Grace,

473
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:18,439
Speaker 1: Good morning, Grace, how are you? Good morning? Good? So

474
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 1: you're gonna play match game? You're contestant number one for

475
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 1: Ed Shearing tickets or l A King's tickets. Okay, thank you,

476
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: thank you for listening us. Let's go to Teresa. Teresa,

477
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Speaker 1: Contestant number two. Teresa, good morning. You are contesting number two. Hi,

478
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 1: good morning. Are you ready for the match game. We're

479
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:41,640
Speaker 1: gonna okay, good, so are we. It's a work in progress.

480
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: You got two contestants. Whoever gets the most matches is

481
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: our winner, and we'll choose the tickets. So here we go.

482
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: Contested number one. Make sure you hold your answer to yeah.

483
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: Don't say your innts out loud yet, think of it.

484
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:56,880
Speaker 1: Here is your question? Is it a question or statement?

485
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: Here's your thing? Okay, don't say it out I just

486
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:06,640
Speaker 1: think Test number one, strip blank, strip blank, Grace, think

487
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: about that. Our pill siss any Tan and Ruby are

488
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 1: writing down their answers. Let's see you match with Grace

489
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 1: and Teresa. Grace, Contestant number one. Okay, Grace, strip blank?

490
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 1: What do you say? Is this strip per? Okay? That

491
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 1: didn't sound so good? Alright, said strip strip? What I said,

492
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 1: strip club? Does that count because you know the strippers

493
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 1: that the strip. Don't worry, I said, strip tease? Ruby,

494
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: what do you say, same strip? No one said strip steak.

495
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:50,360
Speaker 1: I said strip strips. Of course you did. But I'm

496
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: not on the panel. I'm just playing along, all right, Grace,

497
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: don't worry. You're still in it. Teresa, Contestant number two,

498
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Speaker 1: You're up and here we go, Hi, Teresa, Okay, think

499
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 1: about this. Don't say that I love but group blank?

500
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:06,719
Speaker 1: Group what? Group blank? There's a group blank. The panel's

501
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: writing down their answers. It's the match game. Let's see

502
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: you can match group blank. My answer, yes, Now give

503
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: it to me. I'm gonna say a group chat, group chat? Great?

504
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: What I said, group hug? Good one? Okay, Tanya? Group

505
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 1: what group date? Ruby? Group what? Group therapy? Therapy? This

506
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: game is so revealing and okay, well, here we go

507
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: for a tiebreaker. French blank, French blank. Think about it, Grace,

508
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: for the tiebreaker, and we'll go to the panel here

509
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: in a second, stand by Grace French what French to

510
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 1: French toast, Yeah, okay, French kiss French kiss Ruby kiss

511
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 1: to breakfast. I mean I was in the theme with

512
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 1: like the strip Club, Teresa for the win. Here we go,

513
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 1: blank ball, Teresa blank ball, blank ball. Alright, think about Teresa,

514
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: and here we go. Teresa blank ball, what ball? I'm

515
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 1: want to ball? And Tanya tennis ball and Ruby basketball

516
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: number two. Here we go, Grace, we may be out

517
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 1: of statements. We got this. Okay, here we go, here

518
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: we before. We gotta get a winner. Grace raw blank

519
00:29:56,200 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: raw blank. Think about raw blank great raw da You're right,

520
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: you're ready, I'm ready, Okay, Grace, go ahead raw what yes,

521
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: good one Okay, Sisney raw, come on meat meat Okay,

522
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: we've got one point on the board. Tanya raw sushi

523
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 1: ruby raw raw fish. Hey, so, Grace, you will win

524
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: unless Teresa ties you and then all hell breaks lose.

525
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: All right, sleeping blank, Teresa sleeping blank. The one thing

526
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: about this game is it could go on forever. Sleeping okay, Teresa,

527
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 1: sleeping what sleeping bag, sleeping bag, Okay, sleeping bag, sleeping baby,

528
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: Tanya sleeping porch, sleeping porch. I used to sleep in

529
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Speaker 1: all in college. Remember we have the sleeping porches. Everybody

530
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Speaker 1: sleeps a sleeping ports. We didn't have a sleeping porch

531
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: Ruby sleeping beauty. All right, Grace, do you want a

532
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: King's tickets? Go for the King's tickets. Okay, that means Theresa,

533
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: you're gonna see ed sheering Grace and tersa thank you

534
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: for listening. Okay, guys, hang on, say, I can't believe

535
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: none of you all said jingle ball. That was all?

536
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: And what was your thought? Well? I put tennis ball.

537
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: But I was going to say football, but you didn't

538
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: you until now? So who here dreams a lot? Do

539
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: you use his? Say? Do you remember your dreams? Do

540
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: you think you dream often? We do all dream often.

541
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: We all dream every single night. It's whether or not remember.

542
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 1: I don't remember them as much as I would like.

543
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: I think I definitely have more dreams of like being

544
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 1: stuck or pulling myself out of a sleep, you know

545
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 1: what I mean, like running and not moving. I have

546
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:05,239
Speaker 1: more of that one than I do beautiful dreams. I

547
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: think someone that stands out. I feel like the ones

548
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: I remember are my beautiful ones, like I love. There's

549
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: like there's like when I was pregnant, I dreamt way

550
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 1: more pleasant than I do know. But that's so good

551
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 1: because like your dreams are your subconscious talking to you.

552
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: I loved going to sleep and I was pregnant, like

553
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: my dreams were like a whole other world. That's because

554
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 1: I never want to go to sleep because I know

555
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: the next day is coming so fast, like it's I do.

556
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 1: But it's like you don't want to go to sleep

557
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 1: because like as soon as you go to sleep, it's tomorrow.

558
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: It's nice to have that decompression, Tony, what do you

559
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: dream about most? It's interesting. I've been trying to. My

560
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: therapist tells me every morning when I wake up, if

561
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 1: I to like write in my notes page what I

562
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 1: dream about, because it's all related to your subconscious and

563
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 1: like what you're thinking about. And a lot of times

564
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 1: I feel my dreams I feel lost, like like I

565
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: don't know, like I've either lost like a flipper or

566
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 1: like they're weird, but I lost, like yeah, like I

567
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: was snorkeling rows in the water, driving where you start

568
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 1: for COLK No, I don't know. I don't know, but

569
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: I remember like having one flipper and like I couldn't

570
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: find the other foot's flipper and like stuff like that.

571
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: Like I feel like lost is kind of the I

572
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 1: feel like I try and dial a phone number sometimes

573
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: and it doesn't send, and it's like I need an emergency.

574
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: So what's the story here? Okay? So the story is

575
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: these are the most common recurring dreams for women. And

576
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 1: let's just say it's not all rainbows and butterflies. Okay,

577
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 1: They're kind of dark. This is different for men and women. Yeah,

578
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: so let's start with the women first. Number three, Um,

579
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 1: women are likely to dream about small creatures like spiders

580
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: and snakes. This was one of the top majority of dreams. Okay. Um.

581
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: The second most common recurring dream is losing our teeth.

582
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: How weird is that? I've never thought about losing my teeth.

583
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 1: You've dreamed about that? Yes? And you know what that means?

584
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,719
Speaker 1: Is it means, um, you feel like you're letting go

585
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 1: of you, Like you're you're not um spending enough time

586
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 1: on yourself. What do you do? You see your teeth

587
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 1: like in your hand? Are like are we're like they

588
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 1: just fall out, like they're falling. You can't control it.

589
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,479
Speaker 1: You never once dreamt of losing my teeth. I've dreamt

590
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 1: of creatures and spiders and things like that, but not

591
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: of my teeth. And that was happening a lot after

592
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 1: I got my puppy because I wasn't sleeping much and

593
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: I was like spending all my time on her. That

594
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 1: I was like losing myself, Like I was like not

595
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 1: take care of myself. Okay, what's number one? Are the

596
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: list of top three dreams that women have. The most

597
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: common recurring dream for women is um us being chased.

598
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: That was what I have. So you're just like us,

599
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 1: ya recurring dream. We dream about being chased regularly. But

600
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 1: I wonder if it's because you know, when you like

601
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 1: survey men and women like women like true crime, and

602
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: we liked thrillers and psychological TV. At least I do

603
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 1: before I love I love watching all that stuff before

604
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 1: I go to bed, wife, all that stuff, Dateline, all

605
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: that stuff. So I wonder, I wonder if that adds

606
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 1: to the dreaming of like being chased and my baby.

607
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,919
Speaker 1: But look, there's a massive fascination with that, and I

608
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 1: cannot watch those things either alone in the middle of

609
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: the day or at night before I go to sleep,

610
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 1: any time of the day. For me. If I I

611
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,800
Speaker 1: know I cannot, but I do have the number one

612
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 1: recurring dream that you said is on the list, So

613
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 1: I don't know why you should celebrate that. That That seems

614
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: like it's well for normal guys or other guys, normal guys.

615
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: Who's a normal guy. No, one's a normal guy. For

616
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:35,240
Speaker 1: other men. They dream about flying, like Ryan Gosling. Sure,

617
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 1: they dream about flying. That's not a normal guy. What

618
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 1: are you in? Okay? Flying? They dream about meeting a stranger,

619
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 1: and they dream about finding money or coming into wealth.

620
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 1: Boring so well, you know, they're off in La la

621
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: land getting rich, being chased and we can't move and

622
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 1: myself phe doesn't want and our teeth are falling out

623
00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 1: and interesting, right this funny? Like the guy I look

624
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 1: at Michael when he's a sleeve, I'm like, he just

625
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:07,280
Speaker 1: looks so pleasant, Like I literally left this morning and

626
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 1: he's like lyn play such as that's like such a

627
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 1: depiction of the difference between men and women. You know,

628
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 1: it's really fascinating. Can we grab Nick? Tonny? I know

629
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 1: you have to run down memorize because you've been taking

630
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: olive oil in the morning and your memory is on point.

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Speaker 1: What's next, Nick, He's two hours into the olive oil. Nick,

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Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good? How are you riding? Good? Nick?

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Speaker 1: You're calling about couples costumes? Yeah, so le's you're I

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Speaker 1: met my boyfriend at a Halloween party and we're going

635
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Speaker 1: back to the same party this year and work together now,

636
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Speaker 1: and I thought it would be kind of fun to

637
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Speaker 1: do a couple's costume. Um, and I slowed some ideas

638
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: out there, and he's kind of been shooting down. I

639
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: think some of them are kind of fun, like a

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Speaker 1: tequila lime or vodka soda. And then he's a Spiderman fan,

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Speaker 1: so I thought we could be different Spiderman from the multiverse,

642
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Speaker 1: more movies that came out that would be funny. Um.

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Speaker 1: But I just keep getting shot down, and uh, I

644
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Speaker 1: guess he just doesn't want to do a couple of costume.

645
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Speaker 1: I don't know if people don't like them anymore or

646
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Speaker 1: everyone likes them boo hoo. Okay, so the question is

647
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Speaker 1: is it okay to do with another guy for you? Yeah? Yeah, right,

648
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Speaker 1: So I wanted to go to a friend who's also

649
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Speaker 1: a guy, a mutual friend of ours, But then I'm

650
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Speaker 1: not sure is it weird to show up with somebody

651
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Speaker 1: who you're not dating in a couple of I mean

652
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 1: it is. It is a curveball, like one's Maverick, one's goose.

653
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Speaker 1: But Michael did this. One's like we were fully together

654
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Speaker 1: and dating. But he did a couple's costume with his

655
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Speaker 1: friend because they wanted to do Breaking Bad. Oh that's cool,

656
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 1: and so they did Breaking Bad together, like the two

657
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 1: guys from Breaking Bad in the yellow suits going, you're

658
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Speaker 1: going with your boyfriend boom, Alright, So I don't think

659
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Speaker 1: it's a pick of a deal. Since he makes a

660
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: good point. I've done it with buddies of mine before too.

661
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 1: We all dress up as nurses. Yeah, and you know,

662
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Speaker 1: like I was female nurses or male nurses. No, we

663
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Speaker 1: just put on scrubs, elaborator. I don't know what type

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Speaker 1: of party you're going to. I picture doing like the

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Speaker 1: little skirts no no, no our ends like doctor like

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Speaker 1: like like easy lame costuming was our thing, So Nick,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't worry so much about I think you're gonna

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Speaker 1: go with your boyfriend. You want to do a couple's costume,

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Speaker 1: do it with your pal and move on. And he's

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Speaker 1: not and he's shooting down all your ideas and be like, dude,

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Speaker 1: I tried to thank you good luck, enjoy. What's the

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Speaker 1: lame ist like? I guess that is that's it's very easy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's very simple. I mean the lamest was the partly

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Speaker 1: claude with chance of rain wetsuit with cotton balls and

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Speaker 1: a water gun. Do you mean like least effort type

676
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Speaker 1: of constant. I went to a Halloween costume party once

677
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Speaker 1: and I wore normal clothes, but I put an American

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Speaker 1: Idol sticker on my stomach and said I was an

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Speaker 1: American Idol contestant. Yeah, bathter contestants. Pretty easy to just

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Speaker 1: wear a normal in hold of rose. Oh that's what

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Speaker 1: you do. That's I kind of like those costumes. Yeah,

682
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Speaker 1: because he's like trying to harm now, but you're still

683
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Speaker 1: dressing up. Huh. Hump day helper. These are intimacy and

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Speaker 1: romance coaches, so ceo and found her Dating with dignity

685
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Speaker 1: is on the line with us now Marnie Fatista and

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Speaker 1: Marnie has been married seventeen years, divorced, dating again in

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Speaker 1: today's environment. She understands what it feels like to be,

688
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Speaker 1: she says, lonely and sick of wasting time going out

689
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Speaker 1: on dates and having relationships with unavailable men that go nowhere.

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Speaker 1: She's now happily remarried. So Martie, how did you do it?

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Speaker 1: What what paradigm shift did you have to get back

692
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Speaker 1: to the right men? Uh? Absolutely knowing that I am

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Speaker 1: rejection proof, meaning that when it's not a match, I

694
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Speaker 1: personally don't feel rejected. When you are rejection proof, you've

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Speaker 1: got that like a factor and you you're just having

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Speaker 1: fundating and you're choosing your man. So how do we

697
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Speaker 1: separate the personal feeling and defeat of rejection and really

698
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Speaker 1: become rejection proof? Because I could tell you I am,

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Speaker 1: but it doesn't mean I am right. So that's the

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Speaker 1: true That's what I do. When I work with people.

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Speaker 1: You have to really understand on a couple of things.

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Speaker 1: One is that your enoughness is like like unwavering, it's

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Speaker 1: like so so grounded in who you are, and that

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Speaker 1: you're really really clear. Secondly on exactly what you are

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Speaker 1: looking for. So when you go out into the dating theme,

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Speaker 1: you're like, these are my five like things that are

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Speaker 1: totally deal breakers. I'm enough. I'm the one doing the choosing.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna feel sad, You're gonna feel disappointed. You might

709
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Speaker 1: even feel angry or defeated, but you'll have this resilience.

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Speaker 1: You'll have this knowing that I's not this something better,

711
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Speaker 1: and that keeps your hope up, that keeps your enthusiasm going.

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Speaker 1: It gets you engaged in the dating process for the

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Speaker 1: lawn term because it only takes one. It only takes one,

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Speaker 1: and it's having the patience sometimes to get to that one. So, um,

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Speaker 1: it's something. I'm just looking at some texts coming in

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Speaker 1: in real time at four, one, two, seven, and there's

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Speaker 1: one in the nine f one. This is interesting. Uh nine,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's here is she doesn't say,

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Speaker 1: But since I've been in a relationship for almost twenty years,

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Speaker 1: I asked my boyfriend what was stopping us from getting married?

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Speaker 1: And he always has an excuse, what would I? What

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Speaker 1: should I do? He or she's asking that's such a

723
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Speaker 1: good question. Well number one is like if I was

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Speaker 1: coaching her, like fifteen years ago, said, so is getting

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Speaker 1: married a deal breaker for you? Right? Like? Is it

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00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 1: a deal breaker? Now? Maybe she realized it is, or

727
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Speaker 1: maybe she is taking it personally that it's not. He

728
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Speaker 1: actually doesn't want to be married, right, So I think

729
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Speaker 1: you have to get really clear on what you're looking for,

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Speaker 1: and then you have to ask a huper super huge question,

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Speaker 1: is this worth breaking up over? Um? The other thing

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Speaker 1: that I would say, because she said she um, I

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Speaker 1: think like, you know, whatever she asked, there's like people

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Speaker 1: get excuses. My favorite question. Everyone should write this down.

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Speaker 1: And when someone gives you an answer and it's not

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Speaker 1: really the answer you want, you follow up with what

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Speaker 1: do you mean by that? Exactly? What do you mean

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Speaker 1: by that? Exactly? Which? What is that technique? Say? You

739
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Speaker 1: just says like, well, why do you Why do you

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Speaker 1: mean why do you need U to get married? I mean,

741
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Speaker 1: isn't everything going okay? I mean I'm really happy the

742
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Speaker 1: way it is? And she was like, well, what do

743
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: you mean by that? Exactly? Happy the way it is? Right?

744
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 1: I mean by that, I'm just not ready? What do

745
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: you mean by that? Exactly? What do you mean by that?

746
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Speaker 1: If there's one thing I take away from this entire week,

747
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 1: it's what do you mean by that that? What do

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Speaker 1: you mean by that? I'm gonna use it here with

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Speaker 1: you guys. We get critiqued here often, So what do

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00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: you mean by that? What do you mean? We can

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00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: often follow the question put like behind your question. So

752
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Speaker 1: if you want to connect to Martie, it's dating with

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Speaker 1: dignity and founder. This is great stuff and it sounds

754
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Speaker 1: like you're very happy. And by the way, any any

755
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:37,919
Speaker 1: time on Wednesday's Texas at four one or two seven

756
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 1: about this kind of stuff, Marty, thanks for coming on. Yeah,

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00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: thank you. You take care by all right, So I'm

758
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 1: gonna write it down in the studio and when y'all

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Speaker 1: say something, I'm gonna die deeper and say, what do

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Speaker 1: you mean by that? No, it's just for for like

761
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 1: your significant other, it's also for us. Yeah, it's really good.

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00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 1: If you want some clarity, what do you mean by that?

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00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: We're gonna have to really it's gonna really carry out

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Speaker 1: the hours and we're gonna have to drop songs sing.

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Speaker 1: Can I just stop for a second? Mark were you dancing?

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Speaker 1: Was that you dancing or just excited about Yeah? Yeah,

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00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 1: I just I can see you of course in the

768
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Speaker 1: reflection of the window even though pumps us up in

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Speaker 1: the studio and see you behind every song. Wow, but

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Speaker 1: you really got into that Harry style. I tried to

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Speaker 1: bring the energy counter down almost there, all right, listen,

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Speaker 1: So a trending report, a meat cute story. What is

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Speaker 1: a meat cute story? Meet cute is like one of

774
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Speaker 1: those serendipitous moments when you meet the person that you

775
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,280
Speaker 1: are going to spend the rest of your life with. Okay, great,

776
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: so Anna Sophia Rob Do you remember her? No, she

777
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Speaker 1: is an actress, producer, but she's best known as playing

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Speaker 1: Carrie Bradshaw on the Carrie Diaries, like the prequel that

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Speaker 1: they did. Yeah, yeah, so her now husband. He's an

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Speaker 1: entertainment lawyer, Trevor All. They both were sitting in a

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Speaker 1: coffee shop reading. Okay, so they were just reading at

782
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Speaker 1: this coffee shop. They engaged in small talk at this

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Speaker 1: coffee shop. He said that he was like about their books.

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Speaker 1: He said he was taking a break from his law

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Speaker 1: school books. And that was it. Right, So they leave

786
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Speaker 1: the coffee coffee shop and they go their separate ways. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Cut to the very next day. She was getting off

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Speaker 1: the subway where you guessed it, Trevor was waiting for

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00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 1: his roommate. They made eye contact and he said, just

790
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Speaker 1: like that it was in the movies. It started to rain,

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Speaker 1: and so they scurried into this corner like bodega. Or.

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Speaker 1: Trevor asked her for Anna Sophia's number. That was he

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Speaker 1: popped the question to her and now boom, they're married.

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00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: But I felt like I was listening to this story

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Speaker 1: and I feel like, you know, there are there's still

796
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: that in a majority of people that don't want to

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00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: do a dating app. They're just like I don't want

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Speaker 1: to do a dating app. I just want to meet someone.

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Speaker 1: I r L and I feel like we're not putting

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Speaker 1: ourselves in the positions to receive meeting somebody in real life,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like we order our food

802
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 1: on Postmates instead of going to the store or going

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00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 1: to a restaurant eating, there's less random potential activity. Yes, right,

804
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 1: when's the last time you went to a coffee shop

805
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 1: and just sat like we all order Like I order

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00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: my coffee on my mobile and I pick it up,

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00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,399
Speaker 1: but I don't even spend two seconds in there any

808
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 1: coffee shop to go to. We're chipping away at opportunity

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00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: in the wild. Yeah, I think you're right, Yes you don't.

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Speaker 1: So why would you be in a coffee shop that relaxed?

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Speaker 1: Its like what coffee I go and you could meet

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00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 1: who knows, you could meet somebody that could maybe have

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00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: some sort of other. You know, it could be like

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Speaker 1: a mom friend who has twins. The last time I

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Speaker 1: was not rushed to go to a coffee shop and

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Speaker 1: get out and get to work or school or something

817
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 1: was when I was at college college Sina Monica City College,

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00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 1: like when I would just go to the coffee bean,

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00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: and but since then now it's like I can't get

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Speaker 1: in and out fast enough. So I think if you're

821
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Speaker 1: single and you'd refuse to be on dating app, really

822
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: just be aware of giving yourself put some more opportunity

823
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,359
Speaker 1: to get out, take a walk, go to the store,

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00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,800
Speaker 1: pick up the food, go in the grocery store, don't

825
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 1: have everything delivered. It's a good point on Air with

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. That's gonna do it for us today. Thank

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Speaker 1: you very much for having us on, Sissy. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: take it till eleven o'clock. We're back tomorrow morning. First thing,

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Speaker 1: paying your bills. Thanks for listening to On Air with

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