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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer. I heart radio podcast. Another Monday,

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Speaker 1: Another Monday, and this is this is a special episode

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Speaker 1: because we have our new spinoff, Welcome to Mike and

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Speaker 1: Easton's Movie Breakdown, where we talk everything Avenger's Endgame. No

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Speaker 1: just kidding, I mean bumber and everything. Are you guys

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Speaker 1: are total Avenger nerds? And I love it. And he's

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Speaker 1: been so busy since we got here. We haven't been

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Speaker 1: able to debrief yet. I mean, can you debrief it?

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Speaker 1: It's a lots of process. It's how much time you got.

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Speaker 1: This would this would be our longest episode. I am

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Speaker 1: actually a bummed that I didn't see it, because I've

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Speaker 1: heard how great it was. I just remember I told

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Speaker 1: you I wanted to. I wanted to see all of

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Speaker 1: them in order, like I've seen. I've seen iron Man.

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Speaker 1: That's part of it, right, that's the first one I

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Speaker 1: started at all. Okay, So I love iron Man. I

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Speaker 1: think Robert Downey Jr. Is just amazing, perfect, He's just

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Speaker 1: his comedic timing, his just everything. He's my favorite. But

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Speaker 1: then you kind of lost me when it went to

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Speaker 1: I'm not like the biggest Chris Evans fan. So interesting.

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Speaker 1: I think he's a good actor. I just like, I

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Speaker 1: don't see him as Captain What is he? America? America?

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Speaker 1: That's America's ass. Chris Evans called into the morning radio

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Speaker 1: show that I work on, and I got to tell

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Speaker 1: him how much I love him and Captain America. It

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Speaker 1: was so nice to me. No, I mean, I I

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Speaker 1: don't know what it is. I just don't see him

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Speaker 1: as like Captain America like I would for some reason,

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Speaker 1: I don't see anyone else. But that's just because I've

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Speaker 1: never seen it though, So it's like weird. The thing is,

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Speaker 1: Jana tells me that she's like, well, I'll watch all

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Speaker 1: of them, like leading up to and this is six

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Speaker 1: weeks ago. I'm my honey, there's twenty movies, like and

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Speaker 1: they for eleven years with two kids. That's all. What

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Speaker 1: other movies? So there's Iron Man, there's Captain America. What

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Speaker 1: other twenty four? So I've never seen thor okay, you

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Speaker 1: have all the Avengers. I've never seen any of the adventures, right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I mean Spider Man. But there's which means kind of

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean, like Spider Man didn't talk about

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Speaker 1: any of the Infinity Stones or the bigger picture. But

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Speaker 1: he's such a big character. I mean, there's the Guardians

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Speaker 1: of the Galaxy, There's Store, there's a doctor Strange's like

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Speaker 1: sis of content you got to get through. See none

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Speaker 1: of those excite me. I like Deadpool. Deadpool to me, like,

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Speaker 1: why can't that be in the universe has a dark

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Speaker 1: statistic humor channel. I mean, I just I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think that he starts doing it. I'll go in.

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Speaker 1: You know who I could see as Captain America besides me? Well,

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Speaker 1: do you know that Mets and Michael's nickname? I guess

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Speaker 1: his friends call him Captain America. Really, I just turned

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Speaker 1: off on Mike. It was a college nickname. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: because patriotic or you have a shield, something like that.

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Speaker 1: See I see like Chris Hemsworth as Captain Mary. But

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Speaker 1: I see I see what's his face that was in

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Speaker 1: the other movie as thor Um. You don't know? Yes,

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Speaker 1: come on, Chris Evans, the guy that was the aquaman

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Speaker 1: or something. Oh mamma, I think he would be a

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Speaker 1: good Thor's aquaman. But he's a great aquaman. Anyways, I'll

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Speaker 1: just what happened to wind on being about girls? And

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Speaker 1: because we have an episode that follows the biggest movie

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Speaker 1: that's smashing every record in the box office, and already

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Speaker 1: Star Wars everything. It's the most sold movie of all time.

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Speaker 1: But I thought Star Wars was the biggest when it

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Speaker 1: did it break that record? It beat the opening weekend

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Speaker 1: of Star Wars. Yes, it's now, which was like what

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Speaker 1: fifty with Star Wars. Right, they're already over a billion dollars.

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Speaker 1: I had the residuals on that. Those people are so rich.

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Speaker 1: But you have that, and then you have Game of Thrones,

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Speaker 1: which I don't watch that either. Episode three that was

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Speaker 1: I don't watch Game of Thrones. Why not? I can't

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Speaker 1: get into the fantasy stuff. That's the same dragons and

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Speaker 1: superherostic it ends fantasy. It's it is. It is fantasy.

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Speaker 1: It's just a different kind. I mean Game of Thrones

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Speaker 1: all that. And he did know you took a friend,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't go to when was the last movie

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Speaker 1: living in that fantasy world. They another news um, listening

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Speaker 1: back to last week's podcast, I totally understand what Mark's

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Speaker 1: talking about. What eating eating? Did you hear us? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I out myself a few times where maybe maybe people

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh that's terrible. Oh really, yeah, listen

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Speaker 1: to it. Oh that's so funny. Well, I the problem

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Speaker 1: listening to people eat. And I've got some sandwiches. If

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Speaker 1: I love um. So what else? But anything else you

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Speaker 1: want to talk about before I guess comes in. Life's hard.

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Speaker 1: Life's hard. We've been in it, Jeanne and I have

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Speaker 1: had like this is a longer. It was real bad,

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Speaker 1: it was rough. It's a rough one Eastern. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: it's it was one of those that were hard. Marriage

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Speaker 1: is hard, hard bro Um. No, it's just one of

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Speaker 1: those that you know, we talked about being empathetic and

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Speaker 1: hard to always be empathetic. Mhm. You know we're trying.

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Speaker 1: That was a good layer, huh, But no, really, I

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Speaker 1: mean it's you know, for me, I've just I was

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Speaker 1: just it's hard to see the to acknowledge the layers

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Speaker 1: you know, when we're getting those moments and I just

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Speaker 1: then after the fact, after you know, like today when

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Speaker 1: It's it's just tough. I just very mean, you know.

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Speaker 1: know how I did it. But it's pretty cool. Are

423
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 1: you kidding me? It's it's just like, it's's pretty cool.

424
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Speaker 1: It's amazing. You're gold medalists. So you've got you have

425
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 1: one gold and you have a silver, bronze, silver. Yeah.

426
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 1: Four that's insane. So who's your coach? Was it Cola?

427
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: Um So Courally was the head coach the United States team?

428
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: Um but Chow was my coach. That's his full name.

429
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 1: Cho Yeah. He came from China. He randomly went to

430
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:22,880
Speaker 1: the University of Iowa and started a Jim when did

431
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:27,120
Speaker 1: you start gymnastics? I was three a half o. It's

432
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: just like the toddler classes that like yeah, actually, yeah,

433
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 1: she's about to start one because she's three and a half.

434
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 1: But when did you, like, when did you know that

435
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 1: you were like really good honestly? And did your were

436
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 1: your parents like breeding you to be no, So like

437
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 1: my story was a little bit different like the stereotypical

438
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 1: path that you see on like the Lifetime TV. UM.

439
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: I never thought I was good, like even and not

440
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 1: like in a sad way. It was just like I

441
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: would compete at World Championships and be on like the

442
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: gold medal podium and I would look at like the

443
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 1: girls next being be like, I don't know how this

444
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: happened because they're like really good um, and thought it

445
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 1: was just just weird um. But I think that's what

446
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 1: drove me to like always be better is I was

447
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 1: always trying to be as good as the ones that

448
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 1: I was beating, but I didn't understand how what was happening.

449
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: And then my parents were the most anti stage mom

450
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,719
Speaker 1: stage dad type people. They literally asked me every day

451
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 1: I came home from practice, like are you sure you

452
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 1: want to do this? Like we canna play hooky tomorrow,

453
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: I can take you shopping. My mom like really wanted

454
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Speaker 1: me to be home instead of in the gym, but

455
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 1: I just I was training, like by the time I

456
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: was twelve, about forty hours a week. Okay, So I

457
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 1: read the book Little Girls in Pretty Boxes. Yeah, because

458
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 1: I was just obsessed with that whole I saw the movie.

459
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: I think it was even on lifetime because I used

460
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: to figure skate, never to the level ever of even

461
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: like close to what you did. But I was so

462
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,120
Speaker 1: just like once I saw that movie, then I read

463
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,640
Speaker 1: the book, I was just so intrigued by that whole

464
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: world of like gymnastics and like, I mean that that

465
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 1: again at forty hours of working, especially with the I've

466
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 1: heard all the rumors about him, and I watched the ranch,

467
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: and you know, with with Corolla, it's like is he

468
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 1: evil or is he a genius? It's like a little

469
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 1: bit of both. So in like our generation of gymnastics

470
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 1: that I competed in, we were really lucky that coroly

471
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Speaker 1: was just the supervisor. M either way it works, um,

472
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: but he was just a supervisor, or his wife was.

473
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Speaker 1: He had retired, so every girl had their own coach,

474
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: and we would listen to our own coaches, but at

475
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 1: the end of the day, the Corooles were the one

476
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,439
Speaker 1: that selected the team. Just from watching how we kind

477
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 1: of interacted, so they didn't really coach us. But the

478
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 1: ones that Curly did that was like, I mean, he

479
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: was were bad years. Yeah, I know, you can't say it,

480
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 1: but like everything I've heard him, like, I mean, it

481
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,439
Speaker 1: sounds like torture what they're going to do. I mean,

482
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 1: imagine like Abby the dance Mom's times, like yeah, a million,

483
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: and it's just it's like inhumane. I feel like some

484
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: of that, like they treated them like dogs. Like the

485
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 1: stories you hear about gymnasts like in Romania and Russia

486
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: being moved away from their family and being starved and

487
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 1: overworked and overtrained like that was that was the only

488
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 1: way people thought they could successfully trained an Olympian, and

489
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: so when he moved to the United States, he continued

490
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 1: training that way and very funny. I'm sorry, I'm like,

491
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,679
Speaker 1: it's not funny. I'm not laughing either, But very quickly

492
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 1: it became not okay in the United States. Yeah, because

493
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: that's not okay to treat someone like that. No, not no.

494
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 1: I understand you want to be you, you want to

495
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 1: breed Olympians, but Jesus, I mean it's just not how

496
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Speaker 1: you do it. How was the training. I've always wondered

497
00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 1: with Olympic athletes when you guys have you know, every

498
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: four years, how is that in that time in between,

499
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: like just hitting your head against them all day after

500
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:12,159
Speaker 1: day training training, training. It's monotonous and annoying and you

501
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: give up every ounce of your life for it. But

502
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: it's weird. So many people ask me, like, this is

503
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: like if when I have a kid, am I going

504
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 1: to put them in gymnastics? And I'm like, I love gymnastics.

505
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 1: I love it so much. I would put my kids

506
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 1: in recreational gymnastics, but I would never let them do

507
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want them to do a late gymnastics, but

508
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: I would do it again. So I know, it's just

509
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: like I love it. But those four years I was

510
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: twelve to sixteen, the four years leading up to the Olympics,

511
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 1: and I mean everything I ate, what I thought, how

512
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: I did school, who I hung out with, everything center

513
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 1: was centered around the Olympics. And it's just like all consuming.

514
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: You don't have like a second freeze. You're training time

515
00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 1: is identifying like because it's like you've always been identified

516
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 1: as a gymnast. Obviously you love gymnastics, but after I

517
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: mean you're sixteen. You just want to gold, you just

518
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 1: want all these medals. How do you Oh? I felt lost.

519
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 1: I always explained it as the morning I woke up

520
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: after the Olympics, I felt like I ran straight into

521
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: a brick wall, like as fast as I could. Um,

522
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: because I didn't know how to eat, I didn't know

523
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 1: how to think. I don't know how to walk down

524
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 1: the road. I didn't know how to work out because

525
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: I wasn't training for the Olympics anymore. And I thought,

526
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: you didn't want to go four years again the years

527
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: at that moment, I didn't, just because I had trained

528
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: thirteen years of my sixteen years of my life. Um,

529
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: and I wanted to be a kid. So I announced

530
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: like retirement the morning after and I was like, I'm done.

531
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about the Olympics for gymnastics. Um.

532
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: I went and ate a cheeseburger and then just lost

533
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: who I was as a human being. I didn't even

534
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 1: know how to operate and I was child. I mean,

535
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: I didn't really have friends everyone whoever, how how it's

536
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 1: like everyone knew you probably want we're friends with you

537
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: for the wrong reasons. Then oh yeah, the girls that

538
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: were probably mean to you or like shin like you

539
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 1: were do you want to hang out? Now? Who is this?

540
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: I thought you hated me. They all came out of

541
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: the world works, which um. But it's a really hard

542
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 1: time for any athlete, I think, at any age, because

543
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 1: you define yourself as by your performance and you kind

544
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: of have to start over and figure out who you

545
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 1: are without your sport. And I think that was hard

546
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: for Mike when he football. I was like, I mean,

547
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: how how do you go from a making a lot

548
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: of money and having your career like your career was gymnastics,

549
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: his career was football, and then being like all right, now,

550
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: what what do you mean? Now what? I just had

551
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: my dream career and everything. Now you're saying there's a

552
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: now what Well, when you have so many people right

553
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 1: after you retire from whatever sport you like you're in

554
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 1: say like, now what are you going to do? It's

555
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 1: like I just reached the epitome and like a top

556
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 1: athletics do you mean I should be able to sit

557
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: on my couch for the rest of my life and

558
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 1: be good? And it's also hard because as athletes were

559
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: such perfectionists. Can you hold yourself to such a high

560
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 1: standard and for me winning an Olympic gold medal, that

561
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 1: was my standard. If I didn't win an Olympic gold

562
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: medal and everything, I feel like I failed. And learning

563
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 1: how to be okay with like being normal was really

564
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: hard and a really long process. But but I don't

565
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 1: think you could ever be. Yes, we're all normal everything here,

566
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: but at the same time, you're not, Like you're not

567
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: You're never going to be a normal person, even though

568
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: how do I say that? Like we're normal but she

569
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 1: is though, and I feel like it's hard to just

570
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: it's hard to define that though, because we're not just

571
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: for any of us, right, Like she will always be

572
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 1: attached to that. I'll always, in some aspect be attached

573
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: to football. You will always be attached to one Tree Hill,

574
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:55,239
Speaker 1: You to yourself, like that's what you pick. I mean,

575
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: how many people come up to you and say I

576
00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 1: love Wintry Hill, Like you know, a majority? Right, so

577
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: everyone's gonna refer you know, remember that about you and

578
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 1: your in your songs and everything like that. So regardless

579
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 1: when you're in that kind of entertainment or professional field,

580
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: you're always attached to it, Like Sean, like, how for

581
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: who the people that are in it? How do we

582
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 1: look at it differently? And not? Because it always seems

583
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: like the people outside of us are the ones that

584
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 1: obviously identify us with a gold medal, country song, football, whatever,

585
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 1: trying to you know, equal it out here. But then

586
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: also what's interesting to me is is always the people

587
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: around us that are the ones asking what are you

588
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 1: gonna do after entertainment? Janna, what are you gonn do?

589
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 1: After saying what are younna? After acting? Sean? What are

590
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: you gonna do after you know? Gymnastics? Mike, what are

591
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: you gonna do after football? I remember being asked that

592
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: question before I even got signed by a team, like

593
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: before I even made the NFL. I remember relatives being like,

594
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 1: all right, you're gonna get signed, but like, what are

595
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: you gonna do after football? I'm like, I'm trying to

596
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 1: make my dreams have What do you mean? I was like,

597
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: this is my plan A through Z. That's the only

598
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: reason I'm able to make it right now is because

599
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 1: every part of me is going into this, just like

600
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: for Shawing, every day of her life was going into that.

601
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: But then people ask me, that's so infuriating as you

602
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 1: can see. But no, I mean she brought up a

603
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: good point and like triggered that memory, and I'm like,

604
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: why are you asking me that you know? So? I mean,

605
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: I don't think people empathize enough with people, like in

606
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: Seawan's position on how to live life when you've only

607
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 1: know one know in one way, it's it's really hard.

608
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 1: That's actually how I met my husband. By the way,

609
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: So I was at the London Olympics, which I tried.

610
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 1: I tried to make a comeback UM for the London Olympics.

611
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: I took two years off of retirement and then trained

612
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: for two years, made back to World Championships, everything, but

613
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: ended up getting hurt and just like I kind of

614
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 1: lost the heart for the sport. Was just like I'd

615
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: rather not do this UM. But I went and I

616
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: met this Olympics cyclist for the USA team. His name

617
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: is Guy East, and he was in the same exact

618
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: spot that I was, like all athletes were, We're just

619
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 1: kind of lost. And we had this really long conversation

620
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: and kind of bonded over it, and at the end

621
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 1: he said, do you take anything away from this conversation.

622
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: It's that I want you to come to Tijuana with me.

623
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: Do you wanna do you wanna do you wanna Mexico? Um? Yeah,

624
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: with a bunch of elite athletes who are lost and

625
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: like we're going to build a home for like an

626
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 1: impoverished family and kind of like find our identity again.

627
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: And I want you to meet my younger brother. My

628
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 1: husband so is married for three years. Yeah, he's a

629
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:44,439
Speaker 1: football player, so I've heard. And he's with Washington now, yeah,

630
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 1: he was with Washington. He ended his I retired. I

631
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: ended my year, my career in Washington. He just had

632
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 1: a big season last season. Yeah, it was his first.

633
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: That's a season. He's been in the league five years,

634
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: but last year was the first season. It's tough. I

635
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 1: I looked up his stuff and especially as a specialist,

636
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 1: like he is not heard. Those guys, our journeyman, they

637
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 1: so long. Yeah, I mean they can. All that takes

638
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 1: is one team to as a wife. Now, I'm like,

639
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: can you just retire? It means that has that been

640
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 1: tough for you? Because the moving around, Um, I'm used

641
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: to it. Like I think a blessing in our relationship

642
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: was my husband was just finishing college and we started

643
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: dating and kind of entering the professional sports world, and

644
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 1: I was completely gone and exited out of it. But

645
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 1: I had bounced around for so many years that I

646
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 1: understood it right. And I was like, if we need

647
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: to go to Seattle today at five o'clock, fine, right,

648
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,879
Speaker 1: And that's how it works. Literally, you get the call

649
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: and two hours later you're on a plane that you

650
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,760
Speaker 1: guys are living in Nashville. Now, we live in Nashville.

651
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 1: Nashville is home no matter what team we're on. We're

652
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: moving there in June, so we'll have to have a

653
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:57,359
Speaker 1: double day. Yes, haven't you guys been in Nashville before?

654
00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: We lived there for five years? Okay, yeah, say this

655
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 1: sounds super creepy. But I saw you at the airport

656
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 1: once and I was like, so I thought you there too,

657
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: So we're kind of like looking each other. But I

658
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 1: was like, I don't think she knows who I am,

659
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 1: and they'd be like super creepy if like I walked

660
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: up to her and then I thought you followed me,

661
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 1: And so I was like, that would follow her back

662
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:13,800
Speaker 1: on Instagram and I thought the same thing. I was like,

663
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: she probably don't. I don't want to come across as

664
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: a fan. It's so funny. It's so because we're a package. Claim. Yeah,

665
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: I saw both of you, my daughter, yeah, my heads

666
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 1: in the clouds. I don't know what's going on. I

667
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: wasn't admiring your birth, by the way, well thank you

668
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: very I was just admiring your like your cuteness. Both

669
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: of you guys were just like so cute. And I,

670
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: I said, I whisper. I was like, that's Sean Johnson.

671
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: I was your husband. That's so funny. This is a funny.

672
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 1: We both like, she's not gonna who we are. Yeah, like,

673
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 1: of course it's funny. What's funny is like people of

674
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 1: your y'all celebrity right, Like I'm not. She's a freaking Olympian. Okay,

675
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: you can like you're a singer? Really now it's in

676
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:03,879
Speaker 1: my dream then, like I gotta I love you more.

677
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:06,840
Speaker 1: Are you going to be a singer? Let's hear it.

678
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 1: Oh god, I break glass? No, no, no no, I

679
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: was not meant to be a singer, but like that's

680
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 1: been like the one thing that I wish I could do.

681
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: I told I was like if I was a singer,

682
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 1: out of the northern hell, out of you, because I'd

683
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 1: see everything exactly. I'll order my food in a singing voice.

684
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: But that's what people who can't sing with the damn

685
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 1: well and with like athletes, it's like really easy to

686
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 1: lose your craft. You have to like you don't. I

687
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: can't just like play gymnastics for the rest of my

688
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,839
Speaker 1: life even sing like what, I really can't. It's I've

689
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:39,280
Speaker 1: done a really good job of faking people and like whatever,

690
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 1: like yeah, okay, we're gonna go to live in over

691
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: a somber note. Okay, So you are the reason why

692
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 1: I put my miscarriage photo out on social media because

693
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 1: I had miscarried. Uh, we're sorry. We had miscarried three

694
00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 1: times before that, and it was about I'm sorry. Oh

695
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: you know, I'm sorry. You know, we're all. It's like,

696
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: we're it's the one in three, is not it's way

697
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: more than that. I think. I agree. I think the

698
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 1: number is so skewed. Um. But I had saw your

699
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 1: video that you and your husband did. We actually had

700
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 1: the same gynecologist too. Yeah, I saw him in the video.

701
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 1: I was like Jay, shout out to Jay, and he

702
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: was life changing. He's the greatest guy. That's the only

703
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: that's the only doctors apportman. I would like actually want

704
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: to go to let me go. He's the clolest dude ever. No,

705
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 1: but I watched that video. I was bawling at the

706
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 1: end of it. And obviously, you guys, what how many

707
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 1: weeks were you when we were really early? So we

708
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: were like, um, was it a chemical? Yeah? I mean

709
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 1: either way, it was like six to eight weeks, but

710
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,839
Speaker 1: still early. Still hard, especially because you guys weren't really

711
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: planning it, right. Yeah, the greatest surprise ever, but shocking surprise,

712
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 1: but then also scary surprise too, because you're like, we

713
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 1: weren't trying by miscarry, but when I when we do

714
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,399
Speaker 1: want to try, is this going to happen again? Yeah?

715
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 1: It was. So. I was on a press tour for

716
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 1: a show that I was on and found out on

717
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:07,720
Speaker 1: the press tour that I was pregnant. Then you started

718
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: doing the videos and videos, and then my husband was playing.

719
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: He was doing all these tryouts for football, and I

720
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 1: had to somehow I didn't want to tell him of

721
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: the phone. I like, especially since we weren't trying. I

722
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 1: don't be like, oh, hey, babe, we're pregnant. Go to

723
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 1: your tryout now. Don't don't mess it up because we

724
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: have a baby on the way. No pressure exactly, And

725
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: I texted him some like sketchy, like you need to

726
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 1: come home. There's a party. I don't even know, and

727
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 1: he kind of figured it out and he started filming

728
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 1: and oh he figured it out kind of like he

729
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 1: asked me directly, and I was like I have a

730
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 1: bad service, um, but yeah, I was like three days later,

731
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 1: like I we met up. We cried, we were so excited,

732
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: shoes terrified the shoes, and then it was like the

733
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 1: next morning we lost it. And it was just this

734
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 1: crazy rush of emotion of we didn't even think, like

735
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: we weren't planning on being parents, and we were so

736
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 1: then that moment um, we were so naive to pregnancy

737
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 1: that like we didn't know statistics. You know, pregnancy is

738
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: nine months, you're gonna have a baby this time, pregnant,

739
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 1: all of that stuff, Like we knew that, oh you

740
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 1: knew how to make a baby, um, and so like

741
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: the second we got pregnant, it was like, we're going

742
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: to have a baby. There was no other option there,

743
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 1: and we didn't even think about miscarrying. And when we

744
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 1: lost the baby, it was just this huge, huge reality

745
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: check of like like a flip switches, you just become parents,

746
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 1: and it was It was traumatizing. And I feel like

747
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:55,360
Speaker 1: because we were filming it, we had no intention of

748
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 1: posting like that was just for private, just like we

749
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,399
Speaker 1: weren't really posting our full life on YouTube by then.

750
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 1: And I was the one that kind of put the

751
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 1: video together and I was like, I want to post this,

752
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 1: and my husband's like, you're emotional right now, let's like

753
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: getting a few days. And I was like no, and

754
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: I pressed upload and I was like I need like

755
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:17,440
Speaker 1: any closure, I need someone to talk to me. And

756
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 1: watching all of these comments come in, I sat there

757
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 1: for hours and just cried reading how many stories. It

758
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 1: was like every single woman who saw that video had

759
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:31,840
Speaker 1: had a miscarriage or had infertility issues or was trying.

760
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 1: And it just kind of like helps us, heal um.

761
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 1: I didn't know what the response is going to be like,

762
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:40,839
Speaker 1: but yeah it was. It was crazy, Well how many

763
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: weeks are you pregnant? Now? Um? Thank you happy for

764
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 1: you and think you boy right, we have don't okay,

765
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: Well let me tell me well no, because I just

766
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 1: remember you gave the shoes for this that was announced

767
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 1: photo right had the shoes? I was like, oh, well,

768
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 1: are you guys to find out early Okay, so we

769
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: have the results. We've had, we've had the results. Its

770
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 1: ja going to still be a doctor because you're living

771
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: in Nashville now, I know that was like traumatizing. Did

772
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 1: you tell him though? Does he know? Oh? We should

773
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 1: call him? You should tell him, Well, well, we'll text

774
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 1: him for we'll send him a video because we I

775
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 1: had to have his number when I was pregnantcause every

776
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 1: like two secons I was like, something's wrong. He was

777
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 1: well in just like god I because we weren't. We

778
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:27,800
Speaker 1: didn't know what we were going through. We had just

779
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: moved to l A. I didn't have a doctor here.

780
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,479
Speaker 1: I hadn't even been to the doctor yet. I called

781
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: around and someone sent me to him and he was

782
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 1: j Goldberg at Women's. He is by far the He

783
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: didn't check, he's the He's he's an angel. He's everything

784
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:50,640
Speaker 1: I needed in that moment. But outside of my husband, um,

785
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: what was he saying? Oh my finding out We've had

786
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 1: the results for six weeks now, and you did the

787
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 1: blood find out? We did blood work. Of course we

788
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 1: did too. I have zero patients same. We waited a

789
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 1: song because my husband doesn't want to know. He can't

790
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 1: make up his mind, He's just like I don't know. Yeah. Well,

791
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 1: we ran into Jesse James Decker at Stagecoach and we

792
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: were talking about pregnancy and mama, and I mean, she

793
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: grilled him. She was like, Andrew, you're holding her back

794
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 1: from bonding with her baby, like you need to find out. Like,

795
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I think there's something to be said for that,

796
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: but I also think either way. I mean, yeah, yeah,

797
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:31,800
Speaker 1: either way, just our personal opinion. And we've enjoyed knowing.

798
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: I wanted to wait the second time around, though, I

799
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 1: really truly did the second time. I wanted to wait,

800
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: and Michael's like, nope, He's like, I'll find out and

801
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 1: I won't tell you. And I was like, that's so mean. Yeah,

802
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 1: I didn't want to, especially, I don't know why you did,

803
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:47,800
Speaker 1: because Jenna really wanted another girl, and so much so

804
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:49,880
Speaker 1: that when we found out it was a boy, she

805
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:53,400
Speaker 1: cried from tears of like lot, it's kind of my

806
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,760
Speaker 1: husband right now. We've had multiple like old wives tales,

807
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: people like tell us they think it's a boy, okay,

808
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: and my husband so desperately wants a girl that I

809
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 1: think he's now like, we're just gonna wait to find out,

810
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: because yeah, yeah, disappointment. Yeah, so I couldn't imagine how

811
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 1: you would have reacted real time. Now, Jays is like

812
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: the love of my life. I love him more than

813
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: Jolie most days, like I want like a million more boys.

814
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: He's the most incredible baby ever. Oh my god, I

815
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:28,720
Speaker 1: cannot wait. But okay, so what are your symptoms? Um? Headaches? Okay?

816
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: Are you breaking out or not breaking out? Not breaking out? Okay? Um?

817
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:38,320
Speaker 1: What are you craving? Like salty food? Okay, like I

818
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 1: don't want sugar? Okay? What's heartbeat? Okay? That's the confusing parts.

819
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: How the very first time it takes the heartbeat it

820
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 1: was low, the second it was like one, then it

821
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 1: was and now it's backed any morning sickness. No, you're

822
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: having a boy, I think that do It's gonna be

823
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: a fu it's a really wants a girl. Yeah, I

824
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 1: mean there's nothing like I tell Jolie when I put

825
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 1: her to bed, I always say, you're my favorite. Oh,

826
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 1: we're gonna have it. Andrew needs a girl, so you'll

827
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 1: go again and again. So you have a girl, I

828
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 1: mean not like again and again again? Do you want

829
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 1: to I want two or three? My husband is one

830
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 1: of five so he would take as many as just wait,

831
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 1: you'll start having He's going to change that. So you

832
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 1: guys do a lot of stuff together, which I love.

833
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: So you have your podcast together. Um, he has his podcast. Oh,

834
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 1: he has his podcast. You guys do the YouTube thing together.

835
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 1: That's what it is. And remember that they're so cute.

836
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: I was like, this is like, let's it's a little

837
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 1: good to you. I love it. I think it's so great.

838
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: And you guys are showing your personalities, You're showing people you.

839
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 1: I think that's it's endearing, it's fun. Um what is

840
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 1: the name of YouTube? Um, it's just Sean Johnson. Okay,

841
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: So it's being changed to the both of you. Yeah,

842
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 1: getting changed the family. So fine. Know you're like, I've

843
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 1: lost What is the biggest struggle you think in your marriage? Um?

844
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:14,359
Speaker 1: Great question. Um, but he's not here, so you can

845
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: you know we got your back. You want here in

846
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: this storm. Biggest struggling or like the hardest thing of

847
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:25,359
Speaker 1: our relationship is probably balancing work. We're both very very

848
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:30,279
Speaker 1: independent and very stubborn and very business driven. Like I've

849
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,359
Speaker 1: been working since I was twelve. I signed my first

850
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: contract when i was twelve. I've had agents and lawyers,

851
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 1: and like, I've learned that whole world. He's new to it.

852
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: He has the NBA, he loves business, and so I'm

853
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: kind of coming off of it a little bit like

854
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: wanting to be in the momhood. He's like ramping into

855
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: it and he's just living for it, which is incredible.

856
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:54,399
Speaker 1: But everything that I've already gone through is what he's

857
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 1: starting to go through, and it's really exciting. So I

858
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 1: think finding that balance for us really hard, like the

859
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:01,839
Speaker 1: work family relationship, which I think is hard for anyone. Yeah,

860
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 1: especially with football on top of it. And just so

861
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: is that what you think finding you're fighting more about? Oh? Yeah,

862
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,839
Speaker 1: we find about work more than anything. Yeah. And then

863
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 1: you're the dog with the dog. You're a psychotic dog person.

864
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 1: My dog is a child. Our dogs wouldn't get fit

865
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 1: if it wasn't for me. You once you're a kid,

866
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: you'll understand. My phone girlfriend Kelly, she's like, no, my

867
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: dog's like always going to be my baby. And I

868
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: was like, okay, have a good and then let me know.

869
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:29,879
Speaker 1: And then she sent me she was like, I'll never

870
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,479
Speaker 1: forget that day that I said no, that's not gonna happen.

871
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: She goes in, now, I really want to sell my

872
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: dog because it's a dog, and I was like, yep,

873
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 1: because she's like, it just woke up my baby and

874
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: I want to think kill him. I was like, it

875
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 1: is a dog. Who is it difficult for you guys?

876
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 1: And I know you do the YouTube stuff together, do

877
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 1: you guys kind of is there any conflict they're like

878
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 1: working together and that stuff, and UM, I wouldn't say

879
00:47:56,960 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 1: we have much conflict work. We had at a conflict

880
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: working together at the beginning, just because um we worked

881
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 1: really hard to take kind of like the brand that

882
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:10,800
Speaker 1: I built as an individual and like transition it and

883
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 1: merge it into the family. Which I like that you're

884
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 1: staking so much so I for so many years. My

885
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 1: Pabla says this here, she can probably attest this. Um.

886
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 1: I was very very protective over my brand. I worked

887
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,320
Speaker 1: very hard to stay true to who I was and

888
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: the brand that I had built. And my husband is

889
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,919
Speaker 1: such a dreamer, it's such an entrepreneur. And he comes

890
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: in he's like, we're going to do this and I'm

891
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:41,320
Speaker 1: going to film me without makeup and we're going to

892
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:43,359
Speaker 1: go to this event. And I was like, you can't

893
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: do this. To my brand, Like I've worked so hard

894
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,759
Speaker 1: and we had a lot of arguments very early on

895
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: about how it was going to work a lot. Um,

896
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 1: I love it. We found a happy place with it.

897
00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 1: It's hard to work with your spouse. Yeah, I mean

898
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 1: we've we just that's what we've do. What we just

899
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 1: said just came out of Jana's mouth, like last night

900
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 1: or the night before. She's worked so hard to build

901
00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: her brand and you know, then you guys just come

902
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: in here. There's a ball baby. I mean, we want

903
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 1: to do things together, but it's like you have to

904
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: have to be very smart about them and make it

905
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, it's like you said, like business trying.

906
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:24,839
Speaker 1: You guys have been in the world for a long

907
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: time and the world Andrew and I come from is

908
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 1: a lot more linear than it is for you guys,

909
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 1: where it's kind of a lot of different things are

910
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 1: just like one direction. Um. So it's you know, we're

911
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:41,799
Speaker 1: trying to learn this stuff, and especially being with someone

912
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:45,879
Speaker 1: of y'all stature, it's it's hard, yeah, you know, because

913
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: we don't know. Well, we can have empathy for you guys,

914
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:56,439
Speaker 1: can you Yes, It's like end of Sean Gun. Sean

915
00:49:56,480 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: can do it like, Yeah, I'm learning, we're gonna, we're gonna,

916
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:05,959
Speaker 1: we're gonna to be continued this in Nashville. Yes, yes, Um, Sean,

917
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:07,360
Speaker 1: anything else you've got going on that you want to

918
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,760
Speaker 1: tell the one down crew, Um and all the fans.

919
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:14,759
Speaker 1: Just pray for the babes. Yeah, pray for the baby. Um.

920
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: She can't say, well, she said two weeks, so ye

921
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 1: October and do the math. But I don't feel like

922
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 1: October October. Yeah, I love it. All right, Well let's

923
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 1: do lots of baby playdates in Nashville. Yes, Sehn, thank

924
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 1: you for being in the studio. Thank you guys. All right,

925
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 1: I feel like this podcast episode was super juicy, and

926
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 1: I just adore Sean, and I just I don't. I

927
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 1: think she's just she's a really good person. I really

928
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: want us to definitely hang out with them in Nashville.

929
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: That's one of those that will definitely happen. I think

930
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 1: we're good, right, I think that's it. I mean, how

931
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 1: can we talk medalists in the studio? I feel in

932
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:03,959
Speaker 1: significant we're gonna go home on that note. Um, Okay,

933
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: before we go there, we're gonna say um a big

934
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 1: thank you to shake Shock I'm still picking burger out

935
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 1: of my key. Listen up, burger lover. Shake Shack is

936
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:15,000
Speaker 1: a modern day roadside burger stand known for it's all

937
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 1: natural angus beef burgers, chicken sandwiches, and flat top vienna

938
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: beef dogs. Um, no hormones, no antibiotics there. It's actually

939
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: I haven't had a burger the last time I had

940
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 1: Shake Shock with the wine down, and I was like, dang,

941
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 1: these are really good. Um they've got craft beer and wine. Um,

942
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,760
Speaker 1: so it's it's great, really high quality food at great value.

943
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 1: Shake Shock is a fun and lively community gathering place

944
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: with a little something for everyone. On any more exciting

945
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 1: note along with that, I can't believe it's the last

946
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 1: season of Game of Thrones, which you have no interest

947
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:47,280
Speaker 1: in zero so you can take this one. But Eastern

948
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,800
Speaker 1: and I we cannot believe it, which is why Shakeshack

949
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,240
Speaker 1: is celebrating the last season with a Game of Thrones

950
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: inspired menu. From now until May nineteenth, all Shake Shack

951
00:51:56,640 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 1: locations excluding stadium's, ballparks, transit centers, and airports, we'll be

952
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 1: serving the Dragon Glass Shake, a minted white chocolate custard

953
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: topped with shards of dragon glass, real dragon glass, promise you.

954
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 1: The shake is made from custard, which is frozen with

955
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 1: packed snow harvested beyond the wall enhand turned by members

956
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 1: of the Night's Watch. Final Prepper curls. Final prep occurs

957
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,440
Speaker 1: in winter Fell, where the shake is topped with shards

958
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 1: of dragon glass imported from the caves of dragon Stone.

959
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 1: John Snow and his trusty steed, trusty sidekicks Sam do

960
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:35,719
Speaker 1: to have all that? Okay, Jesus, please cut that down

961
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:40,799
Speaker 1: all right. We have a ton of emails. We're gonna

962
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: save this for next week. We are done, Love you

963
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:49,280
Speaker 1: guys later. Boom