WEBVTT - WEEKLY REWIND: Angela Yee's Final Week 0:00:01.760 --> 0:00:05.640 iHeartRadio now number one for podcast He presents Sunday Night Podcast. 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:07.640 Every Sunday, we played one of the most played and 0:00:07.720 --> 0:00:09.840 most listened to and most share podcasts of the week 0:00:09.960 --> 0:00:12.520 from the two hundred and fifty thousand podcasts available in 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:15.200 the free iHeart Radio app. Find your next favorite podcast 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:19.600 on iHeartRadio. This week is The Breakfast Club thirty Morning. 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:23.959 Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:26.960 are the Breakfast Club. Now, if you just joined us 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:30.479 with talking something that went dan with Blair Underwood were 0:00:30.480 --> 0:00:32.440 taken it from there for people are just joining us 0:00:32.680 --> 0:00:35.680 what happened with Blair Underwood, Well, he's engaged to congratulations 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:37.920 to him, but he's engaged to his friend of forty 0:00:38.000 --> 0:00:41.040 one years. He posted it and he said, none of 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:44.360 us ever know where God will guide our path. She's 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:46.520 had my back since before I even became an actor. 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:49.000 When a forty one year of friendship slaps you in 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:51.640 the back of the head and blossoms into romance, you 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:55.480 stand up, pay attention and step forward in gratitude. And 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:58.160 so now people are commenting because he did just get 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:00.360 divorced last year and he was with his wife for 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:02.880 twenty seven years, but he's been friends with his now 0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:06.760 fiance for forty one years. So we're asking eight hundred 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:12.240 five eight five one oh five one. Have you ever dated, married, 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:16.080 or got with your platonic best friend. Let's start with you. Ye, 0:01:16.600 --> 0:01:19.839 I haven't. There's been people that I ended up dating 0:01:19.880 --> 0:01:21.720 that because I feel like you should be friends first, 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:24.240 but not my best friend. You know, my best friend, 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:26.319 who's a guy. I've been friends with him since tenth 0:01:26.319 --> 0:01:28.920 grade and we've never asked. A matter of fact, he 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:31.399 dated my other best friends, so we were like a 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:33.600 little click and so the two of them dated. But 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:36.280 he was really good friends with me, and you know 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:39.160 she was my friend too, so and he still lives 0:01:39.200 --> 0:01:42.199 right near me now. We're still friends to this day. Yeah, 0:01:42.200 --> 0:01:44.000 that's a tough question for me because I've been with 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:46.759 years since I was sixteen and fifteen, so it doesn't 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:50.560 But I will say this, that's why in our marriage, 0:01:50.720 --> 0:01:53.120 if she has a friend, we all friends. And I 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:56.080 have a friend, we all friends. Yeah, they ain't just 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:58.600 your friend or this that's just my friend. We're all friends. 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:00.680 And this mother and I also believe that you have 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:03.760 to have full transparency, and there's even though that's you're 0:02:03.800 --> 0:02:06.200 a friend. There are certain rules like I wouldn't you know, 0:02:06.280 --> 0:02:08.920 my boy he's married now, and out of respect, like 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:11.120 unless it was an emergency, I don't call him late 0:02:11.120 --> 0:02:13.840 at night. I think like after around like nine thirty. 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:16.079 You know, I wouldn't call him just to chat it up. 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:19.600 And anytime we do anything, like if we go out 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:22.359 to eat, you know, it's like she can join us 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:24.880 or not. But she totally is fine with it because 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:28.040 she knows I'm not inappropriate. And yeah, I just think 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:31.200 it's important for the other person to feel comfortable. Charlemagne. 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:34.840 If my wife counts, yeah, I mean, you know, just 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:36.639 like you know you and your wife. We were young, 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:38.800 but we were just friends for a long time. So 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:42.079 if she counts, yes, I dated her, married her, had 0:02:42.120 --> 0:02:44.160 four kids with her. All of that. She's definitely my 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:47.400 best friend to this day. And yes, all my female friends, 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:51.320 because I have majority female friends, those are her friends too. 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:55.400 Because you know, anybody, especially somebody of the opposite sex 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:58.639 that I come back in my life. I've absolutely introduced 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:03.440 him to my wife. Correct, we all friends. Let's go 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:07.680 to the phone lines. Hello, who's this Hey, Misha, have 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:11.160 you ever got with your platonic best friends I have. 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:14.920 We were friends before the relationship, so we were great 0:03:14.919 --> 0:03:18.640 friends during the relationship, and then after the relationship it 0:03:18.680 --> 0:03:20.079 was weird for a little while, but we went back 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:22.320 to the best rings. So I mean, I think it's 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:26.000 possible to be with a platonic best dring. Okay, what 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:28.840 about if you're dating somebody, do they mind you having friends, 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:32.680 you know, like other guy friends that you're really close with. Um, 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:37.080 I guess it depends on who you're dating, because I mean, 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:39.600 some friends are cool with it as long as they know, like, oh, 0:03:39.600 --> 0:03:43.200 this is your friend. But I did a female and 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:47.200 she's kind of uptight about me having such close female 0:03:47.280 --> 0:03:50.960 friends because she thinks different. Does she have a reason 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:55.480 to think that? Um, yes, because that I was with 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:58.240 that thankful best friend that I was with. We're still 0:03:58.360 --> 0:04:00.520 very close friends, but we were together for a while, 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:03.400 so she's just like, I don't understand how y'all went 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:05.800 back to friends, And I mean, man, my best friend 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:08.000 get it, but other people don't get it. Well, that 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:11.120 is a tough spot to be in. It is very 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:14.600 much so all right, thank you mama. Hello, who's this 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:17.920 the club with no breakfast? Who's going on? What's up? 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:23.320 Brothers having in ain't nothing? Hey man, listen, I'm actually 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:25.280 glad that I called with this topic because this one 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:29.040 is an easy one, okay, And my personal opinion, a 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:30.800 lot of people will avoid a lot of headache and 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:33.440 life if they choose to be with people who they're 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:36.159 best friends with. I don't understand why people will rather 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:38.839 take a gamble on a stranger than take a gamble 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:41.480 on somebody who knows you, in most cases better than 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:43.720 you know yourself, but just as well as you know yourself. Well. 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:46.960 I think I immediate a I was gonna say, I daily, yeah, 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.120 you would date your best friend, but sometimes you might, 0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:51.880 you know, be friends with somebody who's in another situation, 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:54.880 in another relationship you might not have a sexual attraction 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:57.640 to them. I mean here all of those points are 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:01.640 are given, but at the same and token the question was, 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:04.039 do you think which you went to a relationship with 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:07.680 your best friend and platonic A platonic friend, A platonic 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:10.640 relationships A platonic friend. Okay, I really feel like in 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:13.479 most cases people don't even consider a platonic friend for 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:15.840 the reasons you just named. But I also feel like 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:18.880 that's tendering them for possibly being happy, because I mean, 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:21.240 in most cases, your friends know you better than someone 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:22.600 you just meet on on the street and take the 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:25.279 gamble on, and that a relationship with me, I would 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:29.000 think that the person that you're entering a lifelong relationship with, 0:05:29.160 --> 0:05:31.120 like marriage or anything else, I would have hoped that 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:34.279 you and that person are best friends. I would hope. Yeah, 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:36.800 you said strange, I mean yeah, they would be a 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:38.640 best friend with by the time you get married. Hope. 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:43.120 I would hope. Because sometimes you can be friends with 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:45.440 somebody so long that you don't look at them in 0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:48.120 a sexual way too, like you might just but in 0:05:48.160 --> 0:05:50.440 a relationship too. You can also be with somebody for 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:52.960 so long that you just content with the way things are. 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:55.520 It's not about love feeling fresh anymore. It's not about 0:05:55.520 --> 0:05:57.880 the relationship being this to that. It's just okay, I'm 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:00.160 with them and they with me. You know, I'm to 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:01.960 show you both all three. If you know people who 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:04.240 are sucking relationships, they've been up for way too damn long. 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:06.359 I don't mean they're happy, they're just sucking it. You 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:08.320 know someone that I want rather to take a gamble 0:06:08.400 --> 0:06:10.919 on a platonic friend than a situation like that. Now 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:14.040 I'm with you, okay, all right, thank you Rob. Eight 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:16.960 hundred five eight five one on five one. We're asking 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:20.080 have you ever dated a platonic best friend? Now? This 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:23.599 story comes from Blair Underwood. What had happened? He ended 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:27.039 up getting engaged to his best friend of forty one 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:30.200 years and people are talking about the fact that, you know, 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:32.000 he just got divorced last year. He was married for 0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:35.839 twenty seven years, so they're like, oh, so was this 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:38.559 all along something that you know? He said it slapped 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:40.760 him in the face. But everybody's like, hm, was there 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:43.719 some type of overlap? All right? Eight hundred five eighty 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:46.440 five one on five one. Would you ever date or 0:06:46.440 --> 0:06:48.479 get with your platonic best friend? Let's talk about it? 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:51.200 Have you? The free iHeartRadio app has over two hundred 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:54.520 and fifty thousand podcasts to explore. Yes, this is the 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:58.440 Breakfast Club thirty part of Sunday Night podcast on iHeartRadio. Warning, 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:03.080 everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:06.120 are the Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us 0:07:06.120 --> 0:07:09.320 with talking about dating your platonic best friend? And the 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:12.480 story comes from Blair Underwood. Yes, he is engaged to 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:15.520 his best friend of forty one years. It slapped him 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:18.040 in the face, he said, slapped you in the face. Now, 0:07:18.280 --> 0:07:20.360 he said, she has you have data Ji platonic best 0:07:20.400 --> 0:07:22.880 friend before? Right, No, not my best friend, I said, 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:25.160 I haven't, but I have like gone on, you know, 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:26.760 I have dated people that I was just friends with, 0:07:26.840 --> 0:07:29.320 but they weren't best friends. I think that for me, 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:32.000 it's always been something where and I know a lot 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:33.880 of women felt like this. You could meet somebody and 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:36.160 know if you're attracted to them or if there's any 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:38.360 type of potential. And some people you meet and you 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:41.120 know there is none, like there's just no chemistry, but 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:44.080 they're super cool and so people like that. No, but 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:46.360 it's somebody that I've just been like slightly cool with. 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:49.400 I've dated those people, but not my best friend. All right, Well, 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:52.680 let's go to the phone lawn. Hello, Who's this from 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:56.200 Pittsburgh Jermaine for Pittsburgh. We're asking have you ever daty J? 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:59.400 Platonic best friend? Brother? I'm married to my platonic best 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:02.800 but and it was the best decision I've ever made. 0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:07.240 How long are y'all platonic? For two years we were 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:11.800 voting talk to relationships. Uh, I was good friends with 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:13.840 the guy that she was, but you know what I mean. 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:17.800 But you know, it's weird how life work out. That's 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:21.840 how we got to know each other, and we just 0:08:21.880 --> 0:08:23.760 decided to give it a shot out to a while. 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:26.960 And I had never looked back either, as we've been 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:29.240 showed happy every since. It's one of those things to 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:31.200 make it feel like should have done it sooner. But 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:33.760 if we didn't go through what we had to go through, 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:36.400 we wouldn't do what we order do. Now. You wasn't 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:40.640 that friend that she would come vin to about your friend. 0:08:42.200 --> 0:08:44.679 I stayed out. I stayed out of it. I was 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:48.679 wanted my own talking to relationship like that was a 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:53.960 horrible nightmare. Okay, I wasn't that guy. I'm never I've 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:56.719 never been that guy, never will be that guy. Just 0:08:56.800 --> 0:09:02.400 making sure you know, all right? Thank you? Probably Hello, 0:09:02.559 --> 0:09:10.679 who's this memorial? Ain't good morning, brother? I'm feeling good brother. 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:13.600 We're talking about dating your platonic best friend. Yeah. I 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:16.240 heard the topic this more than man, and I want 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:18.800 to start off by sing, first off, I am the 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:22.680 dimple bad king, not always spend the blocker in. Oh 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:25.200 my god, just lift it was good to me. But 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:29.080 I feel like it's easier to, you know, maybe go 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:32.199 back and date somebody you have dealings with, somebody that 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:36.400 I knew prior to, you know, my prior success or, 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:38.680 you know, just where I'm at a life right now. 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:41.600 I feel like it's just easier to because I kind 0:09:41.600 --> 0:09:43.600 of know what to stay from somebody I kind of 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:47.640 already know, versus meeting somebody I don't know, and you know, 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:51.720 taking a chance and it's going left. Okay, So you've 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:56.600 definitely hooked up with platonic friends, definitely, and you prefer that, 0:09:57.000 --> 0:10:00.040 I prefer it. What about her having platonic friends? You 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:03.360 okay with that? In this world all go south at 0:10:03.800 --> 0:10:06.320 they ain't no platonic friend because I just told you what, 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:10.160 I'm capable of one like my female to have a 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:15.679 pluton a male friend. All right, Well there you go. 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:18.120 So you can't even do it because you can't even 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:22.160 have a platonic friend period. Hello, who's this? This is 0:10:22.200 --> 0:10:28.880 tangar ray flag Tang Tang My goodness, I were asking. 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:32.120 We're talking platonic friendship. So I have you ever dad 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:36.079 of your platonic best friend? Brother? Yeah? Well I'm a 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:38.640 little bit older man, So I got a lot of experience. 0:10:38.800 --> 0:10:42.640 So yeah, once a plumberoy, And let me tell you something. 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:44.480 If I didn't need get if I couldn't get out 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:47.079 of my own way in my head, I think it 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:50.360 would have been okay, all right, you can't your friend. 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:53.520 Excuse me, You couldn't get over the fact that this 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:55.679 is your friend, Yeah, because you know they're in that 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:58.080 friends zone when they're cool like that. You don't see 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:01.720 them in that life, right. But but you know, sometimes 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.959 situations when they know you, it could be comfortable, you 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:07.240 know what I mean. But sometimes you can't get over 0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:11.360 appearances like, uh, the fact that y'all used to go 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:13.719 watch football games each other. Oh, this kind of you 0:11:14.640 --> 0:11:20.520 can still go that it all stops, Yeah, it changes. 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:23.760 Come on, y'all, y'all be making these things weird, man, 0:11:24.040 --> 0:11:26.319 you know what I'm saying. Sometimes you know that you 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:28.520 and the person supposed to be together. Sometimes you know, 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:30.640 you and a person the soul mates, and yes, it 0:11:30.720 --> 0:11:33.559 should start as y'all being the best of friends. And 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:35.320 then you make it weird because now you don't want 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:36.679 to do the same thing that you've been doing with 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:38.880 your friend. That makes no sense to me. Yeah, but 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:41.160 when your friends do all them things to you, you know, 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:47.840 like you anyway? When the things? How old are you bro' 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:50.400 fifty four? Hey, can't I say this real quick? Man? 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:52.800 I'm a little bit older, buzz I'm older than all y'all. 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:55.160 But what y'all doing on the radio. I would be 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:57.880 so proud if either want of y'all with my child. 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:01.760 That was nice, But thank you. I appreciate that you 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:08.360 can be our platonic father. Oh cool, cool. I heard 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:10.480 about the things you like and I like the same thing. 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:17.440 So what okay? Well, thanks dad? Thanks? Actually he actually 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:20.760 couldn't go right, father though, I mean he's only he's 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:23.199 only fifty four. Guys, I don't yeah, he said it. 0:12:23.679 --> 0:12:27.880 I know right. We're all pretty long in the tooth. Guys, Hey, Dad, 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:33.679 can you send us some money? You hung up on him? Somebody? 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:38.199 You guys say how to my dad? Tank a ray? 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:43.720 Thank you? What's the mo the story? If there is one? 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:47.040 You know the story? I've always heard this quote. It's 0:12:47.080 --> 0:12:49.400 so hard to pretend to be friends with somebody special 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:51.280 when every time you look at that person, all you 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:54.320 see is everything that you know you want a half 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:56.959 So I guess that's the more of the story. It's 0:12:57.040 --> 0:12:58.920 very hard to pretend to be friends with somebody special 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:00.880 when every time you look at that person, all you 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:02.880 see is everything you want to have. So how do 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:05.040 you look at me? Best friends? I don't look at 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:08.800 you in anyway. Sorry, So there's there's a chance. There's 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:10.959 a chance, there's a shot. See he didn't say no. 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:13.920 All right? We got rumors all the way, Ye handle 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:16.720 all that later one get here everywhere that's coming out 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:18.199 of your mouth and you think, just because it's to me, 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:21.400 that it don't count. But this is high level flirting 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:25.839 and cheating that you're doing. Bros. The way, is this 0:13:25.920 --> 0:13:29.000 considered cheating? What y'all doing? I think it's very disrespectful 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:31.400 to his wife? So is it cheating? Though? That's just 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:34.839 saying to me all the time? Never? I Heeart Radio 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:40.000 for podcast Discovery. This is the Breakfast Club thirty. Your 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:42.440 chance to hear the biggest trending podcast each week from 0:13:42.440 --> 0:13:46.120 the free i Heeart Radio app Wanning. Everybody is ch Envy, 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:49.880 Angela Yee, Charlomagne and the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. 0:13:50.360 --> 0:13:53.600 Now if you just joining us, we're talking about Glorrilla. 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:56.199 What happened were glow really easy. She was a Sunline 0:13:56.240 --> 0:13:58.400 and she was talking about meeting guys in the club 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:01.199 and not being able to take them seriously because he 0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:03.199 ain't gonna treat you right as you got to say this. 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:06.160 If you trust an that you met at the club, 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:10.040 use a hot ass mee and the god dagn food 0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:13.000 and you don't got no mother home trying to because 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:16.719 why you sitting up and following a little? Did you 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:18.840 know you met at a place where he looked at 0:14:18.880 --> 0:14:21.400 for holis it? Did you look at the house? He 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:25.040 can't treat you like a mom? Why you send your 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:27.840 dumb mass while you're following a little they walk. I 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:29.960 don't know about that. I think a lot of guys 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.240 go to the club to meet a woman, to hopefully 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:36.960 meet them for what. I'm sure there's many different reasons. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:39.200 They go to the club because they want to smash. 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:42.040 There's been a million, it's been a million records made 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:44.440 about it over the years, about going to the club 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:47.640 to find somebody for the night. Okay, men and women 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:49.240 do it. It is what it is. I'm sure that 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:51.360 there's some men that look for looking for a woman, 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:54.400 somebody to cut a with and spend some time with 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:57.400 hugging and kiss I think you could. I think you 0:14:57.440 --> 0:15:01.560 could meet somebody anywhere. You just never know because circumstances 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:03.560 of why someone and is a club might be different. 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:06.120 It could be and the van, It could be somebody's birthday, 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:08.640 it could be a bachelor party, it could be any 0:15:08.680 --> 0:15:10.680 reason that somebody's in the club. It could be somebody 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:13.080 that's normally not in the club. Now someone who's in 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:15.840 the club all the time. That's different. But you don't 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:18.280 know who, you know, what the reason is that someone 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:20.640 might even be there. So that's what I would tell Glrilla. 0:15:20.640 --> 0:15:22.760 I would tell Gorilla, like, you know, you know, it 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:25.200 doesn't matter where you meet somebody. You know, that's this 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:27.320 reality the situation, because you can't help who you end 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:29.320 up growing in love with. Because some people might say 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:31.640 it's not good to meet people on social media, but 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:34.080 it happens all the time. It's just but I'm gonna 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:36.320 believe the young girl because she's in the club way 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:37.560 more than me, because I don't be in the club. 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:39.080 All right, I'm forty four years old. What the hell 0:15:39.160 --> 0:15:40.720 is my old after one in the club at forty 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:43.520 four years old, So Gorilla says, ain't nothing but guys 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:47.000 in the club looking for holes. I'm gonna listening to Glorilla. Okay, 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:51.400 let's go to the full line. Hello, who's this all right? Serene? Hey, 0:15:51.560 --> 0:15:53.600 good morning? How old are you? First of all, ma'am, 0:15:54.720 --> 0:15:58.240 I am forty four. You are not qualified to have 0:15:58.400 --> 0:16:02.960 this conversation. Say that. I knew you was gonna say that, 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:05.560 but it's still the same subject. Let's talk about it. 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:08.240 I'm not my husband. I met managing twenty years ago 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:13.800 at the disco. At a disco club. No, that effect 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:17.920 was playing, So what's not a disco okay at that time. Okay, 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:20.840 we met twenty years ago. We've been married almost sixteen 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:24.000 years in the twenty third. I didn't think at the 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:27.720 time that I should be meeting a guy in the club, 0:16:28.080 --> 0:16:32.720 but he showed me different. So let memagine a question time. 0:16:33.160 --> 0:16:35.040 Did you let did you? Did you let him hit 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:38.600 on the first night? Or did you you know? Absolutely not, 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:43.720 I'm okay have a girl okay, second night? Probably at 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:46.960 the time, I actually no, no, for real, show me. 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:49.480 I gave him a hard time as a matter of fact, 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:51.840 because I didn't think that meeting a guy in the 0:16:51.920 --> 0:16:55.640 club was appropriate for me. True, true, At that time, 0:16:56.000 --> 0:16:59.280 I was like, no, I'm not gonna give him that satisfaction. So, 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:03.280 but that's probably why we've been together for so long. Well, congratulations. 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:05.080 Do you remember the first song y'all dance two twenty 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:10.359 years ago? Yes? I do. Excuse me from dazing. Excuse me, 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:16.800 miss Pharrell, excuse me. Okay, old school, we out here. 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:20.040 We are here, Auntie, we out here, baby forty four 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:23.359 and up? What's happening? Hello? Who's this? Hi? This is Chris. 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:28.520 How old are you I am? I'm actually forty one? Gee? 0:17:28.600 --> 0:17:30.240 What is up with all these old people calling about 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:32.840 this club topic? Let's hear it? What's up? Holy season? 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:36.280 Because I don't believe in what they're paying? Okay, honestly. 0:17:36.480 --> 0:17:39.840 So I met my husband now m sixteen years ago, 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:41.600 and I used to work in the clubs at NYC, 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:46.879 actually at Mars twenty one twelve, to the spot you're 0:17:46.920 --> 0:17:51.200 going to little station before you get inside, exactly you. 0:17:51.320 --> 0:17:54.280 So with that, I met him and his friends, took 0:17:54.320 --> 0:17:56.480 two shoots of them. We wound up later on meeting 0:17:56.520 --> 0:17:58.400 out a diner you know how you do, after the club, 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:01.080 and three days later remember telling my friends like, this 0:18:01.200 --> 0:18:02.720 is a man, I'm a view with and they God, 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:04.760 I was crazy, but now I look at us sixteen 0:18:04.840 --> 0:18:09.800 years later. Congratulations did you hit that night? No? Absolutely not, 0:18:10.080 --> 0:18:13.479 not the first night. It was not the first night. 0:18:13.520 --> 0:18:16.360 It was some mons say. Okay, I listen, by the way, 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:18.919 I respect all of these conversations, but we have to remember, 0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:21.920 as old head that the club scene is totally different 0:18:21.960 --> 0:18:26.600 now than when we were coming up. Hello, who's this Tiana? Tatiana? 0:18:26.680 --> 0:18:29.200 Good morning? Good, good morning man? Now do you agree 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:34.080 with uh Gloilla? I completely do. Ain't nobody going in 0:18:34.160 --> 0:18:36.520 the club trying to find love? Now, babe? How old 0:18:36.560 --> 0:18:41.159 are you, Tadiana? I am thirty four? Okay, range do 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:43.600 you go to the club? I do not. I stopped 0:18:43.640 --> 0:18:46.920 going to the club in my twenty smart woman. Okay, 0:18:46.960 --> 0:18:48.680 so we don't know what, but did you ever meet 0:18:48.720 --> 0:18:51.399 somebody in the club? I have met somebody in the 0:18:51.440 --> 0:18:56.840 club and they all looking for home. Hold on, Taia, 0:18:56.880 --> 0:18:59.560 did you let did you ever let somebody hit? No? 0:19:00.080 --> 0:19:02.800 Not from the club. I don't know where you've been, Okay, 0:19:02.960 --> 0:19:06.840 just asking, good question. Nobody's been that is true. You 0:19:06.920 --> 0:19:08.560 know what I'm saying, Like somebody could just be in 0:19:08.600 --> 0:19:11.600 the club. Actually, I dated somebody for five years. I 0:19:11.720 --> 0:19:15.200 met him in the club and it was the nineties. 0:19:15.680 --> 0:19:21.280 It is a differenties. It was um and the next 0:19:21.400 --> 0:19:23.200 day I remember he called me the next day and 0:19:23.280 --> 0:19:25.560 we was on the phone for hours and then we 0:19:25.640 --> 0:19:27.480 went I think we went out on a date every 0:19:27.520 --> 0:19:30.080 single night for like two weeks in a row, every 0:19:30.119 --> 0:19:34.200 single day we met in the club. I just think 0:19:34.240 --> 0:19:37.080 it was I'm just gonna take Lorilla world for it. 0:19:37.240 --> 0:19:41.640 Lorilla in the streets, Coola Gorilla, like twenty twenty two. 0:19:42.200 --> 0:19:45.280 She know better than we do. Guys looking for hoses everywhere, 0:19:45.320 --> 0:19:48.600 though not just in the club, the church and be like, 0:19:48.760 --> 0:19:53.480 ain't nobody ain't nobody doing that? Yeah, nobody's doing Ain't 0:19:53.480 --> 0:19:56.320 nobody going to church? And I know the holes? Okay? 0:19:57.680 --> 0:20:01.240 Five five one five one, Willison, you gotta say this, 0:20:01.720 --> 0:20:04.280 if you trust then that you met at the club, 0:20:04.880 --> 0:20:07.720 you use a hot ass miss and the god damn 0:20:07.840 --> 0:20:10.680 food and you don't got no motherfucker home trying to 0:20:10.760 --> 0:20:13.400 because why did you sit up he following the love 0:20:14.560 --> 0:20:16.480 that you know you met at a place where he 0:20:16.600 --> 0:20:19.480 looking for hosi did you look at for house? He 0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:22.160 canna treat you like a mom and hole beach? Why 0:20:22.600 --> 0:20:24.680 you send your dumb mass while you're following the love 0:20:24.960 --> 0:20:27.840 they walk? What's your thoughts? It's the Breakfast Club. Good 0:20:27.840 --> 0:20:31.000 morning I Heart Radio for podcast Discovery. 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