1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,559 Speaker 1: It's the Fresh show. This is what's trending. A bunch 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: of texts about work. I'm a nurse. What's a break? 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 1: I believe it? I believe it. Let me see here, 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: someone of my job takes naps on the toilet when 5 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: he doesn't have any work to do. Damn. Like again, 6 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to hang out in there though, even 7 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: if I'm not working. It's like I I think I'd 8 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: rather work. I work for a utility company, and when 9 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 1: we go to people's houses, we take our sweet time, 10 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: so an hour job becomes two hours. But my question 11 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: is do you are you charging somebody for two hour? 12 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,480 Speaker 1: I guess you're charging the utility company for two hours, 13 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:40,239 Speaker 1: But like, am I paying for two hours as a customer? 14 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 1: I hope not? Probably not. I know people that work 15 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: in certain government jobs where it's like they go on 16 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: a call or something, it's like this, this is gonna 17 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 1: take a while. 18 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 2: You know. 19 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: It's like I'm out here, so we're gonna walk around 20 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: for a while. We're gonna look at everything like we're 21 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: really gonna maybe there's nothing going on here, but I 22 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:00,279 Speaker 1: got to justify this visit. So we're gonn to take 23 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: a little walk walk you walking around? Can you pull 24 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:04,320 Speaker 1: all the permits? Let's take a look at that too. 25 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 1: And it's so annoying for you know, the people who 26 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: own the business. But it's also like this, I guess 27 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: this is how you're evaluated if you're effective. Is how 28 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: much time it takes? You know, how long you're out 29 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,119 Speaker 1: doing what? And maybe you don't want to mess with people, 30 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: but it's like, well, I don't have that much to do, 31 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 1: so I'm getting paid for it. Because that's the way 32 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: the model works is I got to work eight hours 33 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: a day, so I gotta come up with eight hours 34 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: of stuff to do every single day. I work for Chase. 35 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 1: If you finished early, you have to stay until clockout 36 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: time or leave and use PTO for the rest. See 37 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: that's a bad deal. Yeah, you know, if if you 38 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: get all your stuff done and you're really efficient, then 39 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 1: you should Shouldn't you be rewarded for that? I guess No, 40 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't. 41 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 2: I don't know Chase like that, But I don't know 42 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 2: what job you're leaving early, like if you finish your work, 43 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 2: Like if you're a teller, aren't you there for the 44 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 2: whole thing? 45 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: You give your shit yeah, I gave all the money away. 46 00:01:56,720 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 1: I'm out of money. I don't have any money. I 47 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: talk to all the people. I talked to everybody. There's 48 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: no one left that story. So I left security. I'm 49 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: the security guard, Chase. I get done early. I'm out 50 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: of here. What Yeah, my drawers out of money. What 51 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 1: do you want me to do? Something? You work till well, 52 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: then you got Jason who's working like twenty seven hours 53 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: a day. I mean, I feel like the guy's never 54 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: not working somehow. Yeah, but wouldn't you say in some 55 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: ways that's my choice, Like you could probably put it 56 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: down at some point, but you just that you you 57 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: just don't want to. 58 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I could, But like the problem with me is 59 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,920 Speaker 3: like if I'm like, it's like I don't know'slock at 60 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 3: night and I'm like, oh, like, I just do this 61 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 3: because if I think about it, then tomorrow then I 62 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 3: have to do it on top of everything else I 63 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 3: have to do, and it all just like stockpiles. Right 64 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 3: then I'll just like rolls downhill to the next day. 65 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 3: So I'm like, I'm just going to get this done. 66 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 3: But then, yeah, it's not good because then I'm working 67 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 3: till nine pm. 68 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: That's not good. That's how I am with email, Like 69 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: in the little bubbles, like it's just I just got 70 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: to make them go away, like because that means there's 71 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: something to do. I mean, there's something left over to do. 72 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: And if I don't do it because I don't like 73 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: the bubbles, then I either do it or make the 74 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 1: bubble go away and don't do it. You see what 75 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So like it, I may as well just 76 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: respond to the email because otherwise if I if I 77 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: make the bubble go away, then I'll never remember. Oh so, 78 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 1: so the email is the biggest gimmick. Email is the 79 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: biggest trap out there because you know, remember like in 80 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 1: the early two thousands, maybe some of you don't, but 81 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: like before email was on every phone all the time. 82 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 1: It was like kind of a special thing if you 83 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: had a BlackBerry and you had email or whatever. But 84 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 1: like if somebody emailed you, they you had to be 85 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: near a computer to email to respond, and everybody knew that. 86 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: So like there was a very good chance that if 87 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: I wrote you an email, I wasn't going to get 88 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: a reply until tomorrow because maybe you weren't near a computer, 89 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: maybe you were traveling, maybe you were on the road. 90 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: Maybe you were, you know, living your life or whatever. 91 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 1: But now I know you got it, Like I know 92 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 1: if I send you and I didn't realize there are 93 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: rules around here, like no emails after five, which is 94 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: total bs. But I mean it's like, I know you 95 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: got the emails. So now I'm now I'm like, why 96 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: didn't you respond to it? 97 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 4: Right? 98 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: Come annoy it? Well what's that business hours? Well I know, 99 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: but you got it, so it's in your hand, so 100 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 1: right back. 101 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 5: I know. 102 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 3: It's about delayed delivery for me, And I feel so 103 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 3: bad because like someone that I work with very close, 104 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 3: labor day was off yesterday, so like I delayed deliver 105 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 3: stuff to him at eight am today, so he's back 106 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 3: right today, he's back. So I just know his inbox 107 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 3: at eight am is gonna be like Jason. 108 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 6: It's all going to hit it. 109 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: Hasn't her inbox right right? Yes? 110 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 6: Or there in box? 111 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: Yes? I see, I see, Yeah, I don't know. I 112 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:36,600 Speaker 1: just I send the email. I just don't expect a 113 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 1: response because if I don't, I don't do all that 114 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: delayed delivery stuff Like I'll just hit send and if 115 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: it's after five o'clock, I don't necessarily expect you to respond. 116 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: But what I've realized is some people, if it's after 117 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: five o'clock, they just don't think they have to respond 118 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: at all. No, I've written emails to certain people that 119 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 1: work for our company that if well that actually I've 120 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 1: written a number of emails to people during business hours. 121 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 1: They just don't think they have to respond. But you know, 122 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 1: that's okay. It's almost like I may think it's a 123 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: therapy session or something like. No, this was a dialogue, 124 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 1: this was a two way thing. There was an answer 125 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,479 Speaker 1: required there. But anyway, it's okay. The thing is if 126 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: you answer my question, I make up the answer and 127 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 1: then I just do what I want. So maybe maybe 128 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: these people just know that why are you asking the question? 129 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 1: Like you're asking me a question, but you're gonna do 130 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: what you want anyway, So why am I going to respond? 131 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: Maybe that's what it is. I'm not sure. Guys, Entertainment Tonight, 132 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:25,159 Speaker 1: Entertainment Tonight the VP debate. Who is going to be 133 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:28,839 Speaker 1: glued to their TV watching JD Van's take on Tim Walls. 134 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 7: Everybody, Yes, yeah, I want to watch I actually want 135 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 7: to watch this one. 136 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, I already heard of some of the other ones. 137 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 1: You know, yeah, heard of some of the other ones. 138 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, Like, I mean, Trump has already been president, So 139 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 7: I was like, I know what I'm going to get 140 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 7: with that. 141 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 6: You know what I mean? Yeah, this is the one 142 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 6: that I want us to I'm curious. 143 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: Maybe you should watch for Kamala then for sure, to 144 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: see what you're gonna get from her. 145 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 6: I did. 146 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 7: I'm just saying I'm more interested in this one because 147 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 7: I don't know much about them. I just want to 148 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 7: see these two, like square up a little. Kamala is 149 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 7: in office, Trump was in office for these two. 150 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 6: They're new to me. Yeah, you know, I don't know 151 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 6: her especially. Oh, I can't wait. 152 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: There was also a Verizon outage yesterday and my phone 153 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: was on SOS all day and then to the point 154 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: where I was checking to see if I paid my bill. 155 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell's going on? It's just 156 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 1: like an insufficient fund situation, Like what's going on? But 157 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: turned out it was just some kind of an outage 158 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: that was connected to the hurricane, which, by the way, unfortunately, 159 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 1: the death toll from Hurricane Helene is up to at 160 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: least one hundred and thirty people across six states in 161 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 1: North Carolina, South Carolina, Georgia, Florida, Tennessee, and Virginia. Six 162 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 1: hundred people still accounted unaccounted for rather in Asheville, North Carolina, 163 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: as the city suffers from washed out roads and bridges, 164 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: sell service outages in Black House. Extensive damage to roads 165 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: and infrastructure has isolated many remote communities and prevents a 166 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: crew from breaching residents with vital supplies. Some sad news 167 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 1: this morning as well. Pete Rose and to Kemba Matemba 168 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 1: legends in their own right. Pete Rose, of course, for 169 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 1: baseball rear hits leader who was blocked from the Hall 170 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:05,479 Speaker 1: of Fame for gambling on the game has died. 171 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 8: Now. 172 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 1: Granted, you can gamble on all these games in the 173 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: Major League Baseball and all these other leagues make money 174 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: on that, but I guess as a player, you're not 175 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: supposed to do it. Nonetheless, he was eighty three years old. 176 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: A lot of people think he should have been in 177 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: the Hall of Fame, and maybe now he will be, 178 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: but he won't. 179 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 2: See it, which is which would be so sad. That 180 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 2: they'll let him in posthumously, which is going to be 181 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 2: so sad. 182 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: Nice word Rufio posthumously, but well, done. Thank you. Thanks, 183 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: that was really good happen to Ron Santo. 184 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 2: Ron Santo got in posthumously, which was sad as well. 185 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: You're doubling down on that word, Like I mean, I don't. 186 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 6: Know, a little bit hard to say. 187 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: It is a little bit hard to say. It's hard 188 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: for me to say. And I think I don't think 189 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: I would dare say it three times in a row 190 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: because I'm pretty sure by the third time it would 191 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: be b B, babe BB and Hall of Famer to 192 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: Kemy Matembo has passed away of brain cancer very young, 193 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,559 Speaker 1: at the age of fifty eight. Seven foot to native 194 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: of the Democratic Republic of Congo was known for three things, 195 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: in particular his ability to block shots, his signature finger 196 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: wag after blocking the shots, and his humanitarian work in Africa. 197 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: Also fun fact, he spoke nine languages. Wow. Played for 198 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: a bunch of teams over eighteen years. The Nuggets, the Hawks, 199 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: the seventy six Ers, the New Jersey and NBA team Jason. 200 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 3: Oh, the New Jersey Nuts. It is the right, Yeah, 201 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 3: not to be confused with the New York Giants of 202 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 3: that's football, yes, but we're talking about basketball. 203 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: Oh, New York. The I don't know, dude, the Nickerbockers. 204 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, the Knicks. Oh is that? 205 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 1: What is that? What Nicks is short for? Wait? 206 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 6: New Jersey is now the other own team. 207 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: They moved to Brooklyn, the Brooklyn Nets, I know that, 208 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 1: but they were then called the New Jersey Nets. I 209 00:08:58,280 --> 00:08:58,839 Speaker 1: did not know that. 210 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 2: Yeart and then James yeah part on them. They moved 211 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 2: them to Brooklyn. See you guys, I'm out of here, 212 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 2: I see. And then uh, he played for the Houston 213 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 2: NBA team of course, Jason. You know the Houston NBA Horses, 214 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 2: the Houston Horses. Yeah, he played for them too. Yeah, 215 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 2: held the Rockets as well. 216 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was a very when I was a ball boy, 217 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 1: when I was eighth grade for the in eighth grade 218 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: for the Phoenix sense he was a very nice guy. Uh, 219 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 1: I just remember him being very nice guy with his 220 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 1: with his finger wag though if you see, if you know, 221 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: you know, he'd block a shot and he'd go, you know, 222 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 1: he can't see me doing it, but I would do it. 223 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 2: No, no, no, And it wasn't that guygo commercial doing 224 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 2: the same thing. 225 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. A guy has gone viral after bidding on a 226 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: autographed tailor Swift guitar. And then by the way, I 227 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: should I should warn you that this this, uh, this 228 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 1: story has traumatic images for some people in the room. 229 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: You were discretion as advice. Okay, there were a couple 230 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 1: of people in the room who need to be you know, 231 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 1: sheltered from this story. But in that Kaylin Jason, take 232 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 1: your headphones off, you know, and counted thirty. Okay, everything's 233 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 1: gonna be okay. But a guy's gone viral forbidding on 234 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: an autographed Taylor Swift guitar and then smashing it the 235 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: moment that he got it. This guy announced to the 236 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,199 Speaker 1: front of the room of the Allis County Wild Game 237 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: dinner just outside of Texas on Sunday that he was 238 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: going to pay four thousand dollars for the guitar and 239 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: he was going to take ownership and he was going 240 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 1: to go rogue and he smashed it. Hell, I'm not 241 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 1: really sure why he proved he did that. I don't know. 242 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 2: Well he tried to say, it really didn't work in 243 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: the beginning. 244 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 1: It's a nonprofit group that supports an agricultural education for 245 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 1: local youth and the money went to their charity. The 246 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: instrument had been donated to the auction by a third party. 247 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: It was not intended to be demolished, okay, but the 248 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: new owner made the decision to do what he wanted 249 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 1: with it, and he chose the aggressive beating of the guitar. 250 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: Take that, Taylor, I'm sure you learned your lesson against 251 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: the Ellis County Wild Game Dinner. Don't you come around 252 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: here no more? God ridiculous four thousand dollars to basically 253 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 1: just light it on fire. I mean, it's National Taco Tuesday, 254 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: National Taco Tuesday job everywhere, guys whoa National Fire Pup 255 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: Day recognizing the canine firefighters that have long been members 256 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:22,439 Speaker 1: of fire departments across the country. National Green City Day 257 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 1: to highlight the progress and the innovation cities are making 258 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 1: to become more sustainable. And National Black Dog Day. Very specific, 259 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 1: but it's a National Black Dog of Day today as well. 260 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 1: The entertainer of Portstext's two minutes Fresh show, The Fresh 261 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: Show is on. It's Stay or go all right. Beth 262 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: is here. Hi, Beth, good morning, Welcome to the show. 263 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: How are you okay? 264 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:45,839 Speaker 6: How are you doing? 265 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:49,199 Speaker 1: Beth? Doing great? What's going on with your husband? We 266 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 1: got to hear all about this? Some group therapy actually 267 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 1: going on right now. 268 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 9: Yeah, good, I need it. I'm sure I'm like a 269 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 9: lot of women out there. 270 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:58,079 Speaker 1: But. 271 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 9: I I am not happy because it's football season and 272 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 9: I lose my husband during football season. 273 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 1: So I need some advice here. 274 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 9: He's had tickets like his whole life, and it's just 275 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 9: that thing where every Sunday during football season he gets 276 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 9: up early, he tailgates, He's gone like the entire day. 277 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 9: And I don't know, even if I liked football, it's 278 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 9: not like I could go with him because we have kids. 279 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 3: But I need some advice how to handle this. 280 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 9: I feel like if the roles are reversed and I 281 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 9: was going out drinking with my friends on like every 282 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 9: Saturday during the summer, he would look at me like 283 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 9: I was cravy. 284 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 6: So I just do that. 285 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 1: Why do you come up with some form of compromise. 286 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you're not right to find it 287 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,560 Speaker 1: annoying but to you, but I mean, like, why not 288 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 1: come up with some form of compromise. Why don't you say, hey, 289 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 1: I want to do this. 290 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 9: I feel like I don't. I just I don't know. 291 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 9: It just feels i'd rather he just chill out a 292 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:08,839 Speaker 9: little bit and maybe go like half the time as 293 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 9: opposed to being like full out every time. 294 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 2: We don't know, Come on, now, what do you mean 295 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 2: he's had You said, he's had these tickets since he 296 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 2: was for forever, since he was a kid or whatever 297 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 2: it is you knew going into this relationship what things get. 298 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 6: Married and says you know, but this is something. 299 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,440 Speaker 1: As he well knows. He looking look at roof being 300 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 1: all big time. Oh you know what you tell you 301 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 1: don't what you tell the little lady over here that 302 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 1: this is what I'm gonna do. We just did a 303 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,199 Speaker 1: story a couple of days ago about how you you 304 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:42,840 Speaker 1: got tricked into not even tricked. It was well, you're 305 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:44,959 Speaker 1: welcome to come, but what that meant is your ass 306 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 1: is coming and you went, so you know how it goes. 307 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean this is this is totally different, 308 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:52,680 Speaker 2: like he's had these tickets forever. 309 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: Like if you have season tickets or something. 310 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 2: You not like for like it's it is like you 311 00:13:57,360 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 2: literally pay for it and so you don't want to go. 312 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 6: I mean, like his life is different now and that's 313 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 6: just the reality of it. 314 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 2: But this is something that this is something that he's 315 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 2: had before before they were even together. 316 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 1: So like some things they don't have to change like 317 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: it does. 318 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 2: I mean, let him have his thing like he's he 319 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 2: has like some passion for it. 320 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Let him do his stuff. Well, 321 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: I used to stay out till four in the morning, 322 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: get the club and hook up with bottle girls. 323 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 6: Like this, he's going passion. 324 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: He's going tickets to the bottle girls forever. Stop now 325 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 1: like he's going to like it's only going to the 326 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 1: home games. It's not like he's going to every road game. 327 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 6: But leaving in the morning drinking all day, probably after. 328 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 2: Knew that going into this, this is what this is 329 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 2: a this is his hobby. 330 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 1: This is what he's done for his whole life. You 331 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 1: want to know as you this go ahead quick. 332 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 10: I was gonna say the reason why she can't do 333 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 10: the same when it comes to like I don't know 334 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 10: every Sunday she'll be brunching in the summer, is because I. 335 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 6: Guarantee she's a default parent. 336 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 10: So her doing that every Sunday or Saturday whatever, it 337 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 10: requires more work to get ready, to get the kids, babysitters, 338 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 10: all of that. 339 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 6: So it's for her it's not even worth it. So 340 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 6: he is lucky. He can even do that? Does that 341 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 6: make sense? 342 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: And where this This is where. 343 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 2: Frick comes in and says, you know, there's got to 344 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 2: be some kind of compromise, like is Saturday's heurday or whatever? 345 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 1: You know, Saturdays are for the girls. Whatever. Let me ask, 346 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 1: Let me ask my question, Let me ask my questions, Rufio, 347 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 1: thank you, Beth. Is he a good father overall, like 348 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: outside of the whatever seventeen weeks or how many weeks 349 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 1: the NFL season is now? I mean, dude, is this 350 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 1: guy doing a good job? Yes? 351 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 9: I can't even Yes, he's a great dad. He's a 352 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 9: great dad, six days of the week. 353 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 4: Great. 354 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 3: I gotta say he's great. 355 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so he's a good dad. It's not you know whatever, 356 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: ten home games, nine home games, whatever it is. He's 357 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 1: been doing it forever with his family, with his family, brothers, sister. 358 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: I don't know who all goes to this thing. I 359 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 1: don't know why you can't go necessarily. Why can't you 360 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: hire a babysitter and then you guys go together occasionally 361 00:15:59,200 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 1: at least. 362 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 9: I mean, listen, you're making it sound better than it feels. 363 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 9: But I mean I hear you like that? 364 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 1: Does sound like a good solution. 365 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 3: It feels like a lot of work. 366 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 9: We have three kids, Like it's just a deal. But 367 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 9: now that I'm like saying it out loud, I feel 368 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 9: like that sounds fair. It's one of them. 369 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to make you feel that about you know, 370 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: your needs, of your requests, or or you know the 371 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 1: fact that you guys are in a relationship now and 372 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 1: have kids and have to do things together. I'm not 373 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 1: I'm not suggesting that. I'm not asking you to backtrack 374 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: on on what you called. I guess I'm just wondering 375 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 1: if there's not a compromise where everybody, Yeah, you know, 376 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: you're not gonna get everything you want. He won't get 377 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 1: everything he wants. But like I mean, if he's a 378 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 1: great dad, doesn't I say something in itself about yeah, is. 379 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 9: There a where like I get a couple of those days. 380 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 9: But like I hear you like that that just makes 381 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 9: both parents busy one day though, and I want it 382 00:16:58,560 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 9: to be like the opposite. 383 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 6: I would look at you funny if you did the 384 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 6: same thing one hundred percent. Yeah, that's just what goes 385 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 6: with it. And also to you, I guarantee you if 386 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 6: you go out to brunja. Whatever you do for the 387 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 6: whole day. 388 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,399 Speaker 10: I'm talking like, from morning till night, you're gonna get 389 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 10: blown up by your husband one hundred times. 390 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 6: Where are the bottles? Where's this? 391 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:16,399 Speaker 10: Where's the formula? Where's extra diapers? I can't find this because. 392 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 2: I'm a wife and father and I do daddy duties 393 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 2: all day, all weekend. 394 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:21,880 Speaker 1: I'm not calling my wife. 395 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:25,920 Speaker 6: Majority of men, I will say to hold on. 396 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,640 Speaker 1: Now, hold on. Not every guy is a complete dumbassy. 397 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 1: I will say that God, like my brother in law, 398 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 1: for all the crap I've given him, is an extremely 399 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: capable father. Now, my sister will tell you that she 400 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 1: does everything better. And I love my sister, but I'm 401 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 1: not sure if that's true. That's what she thinks. But 402 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 1: he does a great job. And so I don't know 403 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: that it necessarily means just because you're not what And 404 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 1: by the way, maybe this is a complex that he's developed. 405 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 1: I'm not saying this is your fault, Bath or Paulineair, whomever, 406 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: but maybe he's like, look, I'm not gonna do it anyway, 407 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna go to my football game and you 408 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 1: watch the kids, and that's what we're doing. Because he's 409 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 1: of the mindset that no matter what he does, he 410 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: won't be right anyway. 411 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 6: Yeah, no one does it better. 412 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 10: I just I know how this game goes because I 413 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:13,440 Speaker 10: live it and I understand it. That's why I'm more 414 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 10: comforty with my baby sometimes going to my mom's because 415 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 10: I feel like she won't be blowing me up. It'll 416 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 10: be a little less stress free. I'm not saying all 417 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 10: men are like this. I'm just saying from what I see, 418 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,120 Speaker 10: especially on TikTok and social media, I'm not the only 419 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 10: one who thinks this way. 420 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 6: Or lives this life. 421 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:28,640 Speaker 1: I mean, rufio. When when Ess goes to work every 422 00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 1: day and you have you know, you guys swap right. 423 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 1: You work in the morning and then you come home 424 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:35,920 Speaker 1: and then essentially she goes to work and you watch 425 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: the kids. You're not calling her every five minutes asking 426 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 1: her how to do it? Right, No, I mean you're asleep, 427 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 1: So it's not like, oh, no, I'm kidding. I'm kidding. 428 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I'm kidding. Yeah, I got two kids. I 429 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 2: take care of a newborn, I take I take Ash 430 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 2: into school. It's and you do, and you do a 431 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 2: great job with that. But I'm just saying I know 432 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 2: how this goes for a lot of people. Unfortunately, not 433 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 2: that you can't just I can't assume. And every dad's 434 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 2: the same. They don't know what they're doing, but it 435 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:03,959 Speaker 2: happens a lot, it does. But you know, there are 436 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 2: really good dads out there. 437 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 10: One hundred percent I have. I have a good husband 438 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 10: and a good dad. I want to be very clear, 439 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 10: but I'll call my mom first. 440 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 7: Even if Dad Tex questions, it doesn't make them a 441 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:15,439 Speaker 7: bad dad, right saying that boom aneriot. It's just different 442 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,640 Speaker 7: from others, even scientifically it is. It feels different. Period 443 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:21,680 Speaker 7: eight point five three five. 444 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: You can context to say number Beth, I'm gonna take 445 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 1: some phone calls and we're gonna talk about you behind 446 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,680 Speaker 1: your back. But good luck with this. Have the radio 447 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 1: on and and thank you for calling her for sharing. 448 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: We appreciate you. 449 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 9: Thank you, Bob. 450 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 1: Here's Bob sucked Bob, Hi. 451 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,639 Speaker 4: Bob, what's up guys, Bob. 452 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:42,679 Speaker 1: So, just to recap here, Beth calls this because her 453 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 1: husband has season tickets to football and he goes every 454 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,239 Speaker 1: week and he has basically his whole life, and so 455 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, seven eight nine Sundays whatever, it is 456 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,439 Speaker 1: a year. He's gone for the day and he's out 457 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 1: drinking and having a good time. She's at home with 458 00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 1: three kids. Sounds like she's kind of over it and 459 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: want us to know, you know, how to how to 460 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 1: manage this. What would you say? 461 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 4: Well, you got she's got to do exactly what my 462 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:10,640 Speaker 4: wife did with me when it comes to my golfing 463 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 4: with my buddies. She sat me down. I had to 464 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 4: come to Jesus moment. She said, are you an individual 465 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 4: or are you a team in this thing of arts? 466 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 4: I was like, WHOA. So that I really thought about it, 467 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 4: I was like, you know what, she's taking care of 468 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 4: the kids a lot while I'm working, and I was like, oh, 469 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 4: the guys want to go play around the golf, let's go. 470 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 4: She's like, no, get your ass home and be a dad. 471 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 4: And it worked. So that's what she needs to do, 472 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 4: you know. I mean, because again, either you're a teammate 473 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,919 Speaker 4: because that's what husbands and wives are, or you're an 474 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 4: individual doing your own thing on your own terms, and 475 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 4: that's when it doesn't work. 476 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:46,160 Speaker 1: So Bob, there's no will. He goes to these games, 477 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 1: you know, on Sundays, and again I'm not minimizing her 478 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 1: at all. I'm not minimizing her complaint. But like in 479 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 1: a big picture, she says he's a great dad. She says, 480 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 1: she does a good job. There's no world in which 481 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: he goes to these games. And then she they compromises, 482 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:02,920 Speaker 1: she gets to do something else. 483 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,679 Speaker 4: Well, I mean, it's like my wife wants to go 484 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,199 Speaker 4: do something. I tell her go, like you go to 485 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 4: that concert with your girls, go to dinner, go to 486 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 4: that long weekend. I got, I got the girls, you 487 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 4: know what I mean. And that's just the way it's 488 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 4: got to be. It's give and take, you know what 489 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 4: I mean. It can't be you know, if I'm working 490 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 4: seventy hours a week and then oh, I go play golf. 491 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 4: Is an all day thing. For those of my fellow 492 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 4: golfers out there, it's not a three hour game. It's 493 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 4: an all day extravaganza. And then you're going to have 494 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 4: some beverages afterwards. 495 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 1: So yeah, no, Bob, No, it's not an all day 496 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 1: it's not. 497 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 2: It's oh things if I play golf with I'm allowed 498 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 2: to play golf. 499 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: I play golf and I go home. I don't. I 500 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 1: don't sit there like you got to play with. 501 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 2: Us then communicate to you, Bob, because you're taking all days. 502 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:52,200 Speaker 6: It's all day. 503 00:21:55,400 --> 00:22:06,679 Speaker 1: Customer, Bobby, You're okay, We appreciate your calling. Bob's ever 504 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 1: gonna listen again. Thanks for whatever doing, Bob, You sundicap. 505 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 2: I'm drinking all day and that I'm going to eat 506 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 2: lunch with my boys, no play golf and get your body. 507 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 1: Then get your ass home and take care of the kids. 508 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 1: I like it. Granted, that sounds like a lot more 509 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,680 Speaker 1: like you know, every Sunday, or I suppose every Sunday 510 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 1: when the weather's nice, versus a few Sundays during football. 511 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I do feel like in the grand scheme 512 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 1: of things, there is a compromise to be hot here 513 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 1: that you know, we're not talking about hey all weekend. 514 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,360 Speaker 1: Every weekend, I'm gone all the time, and you got 515 00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 1: to watch the kids, and I'm not ever gonna do 516 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 1: anything else. I mean, if this guy were a loser 517 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 1: and a bad dad and negligent in other ways, and 518 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 1: then he also didn't care about Sundays, but she said, hey, 519 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 1: he's a good dad, he does a great job, and 520 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,359 Speaker 1: this is the compromise, and he's been doing it forever. 521 00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:59,880 Speaker 1: I just I think they got to talk about it. 522 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:01,640 Speaker 1: What it sounds like, it doesn't like. There's a whole 523 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,520 Speaker 1: lot of a whole lot of talking going on. Hey, Jeffrey, 524 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: good morning. 525 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 2: Hey, how you doing? 526 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:09,479 Speaker 1: Hey man, what do you want to say? Welcome? 527 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 5: You know what, I got a bunch of friends who 528 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 5: goes through this with their with their wives. 529 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 4: This is what I think a couple of things. 530 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 5: I think that women know before they get married what 531 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,400 Speaker 5: their husband's creature. Husbands go through on Sundays, and they're 532 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,960 Speaker 5: fine with it when they're dating. What happens is that 533 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,200 Speaker 5: what they get married, they try to change. They try 534 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,879 Speaker 5: to change what their husbands are doing. I got a 535 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,160 Speaker 5: bunch of friends who went through that. And secondly, things 536 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 5: have changed now. Men are much more hands on. I'm 537 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 5: a husband and my father, uh and I do a 538 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 5: lot more. I've probably basically raised my kids a lot 539 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,359 Speaker 5: more than my wife does because she goes out and 540 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 5: I'm an entrepreneur. I'm able to do a lot more, 541 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,439 Speaker 5: be able to be their hands on. I do a 542 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 5: lot more things hands on with my kids versusly what 543 00:23:58,440 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 5: my wife does. 544 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,680 Speaker 1: And so things have changed now. And Jeffrey, thank you man, 545 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Calling, have a great day, thanks for 546 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:08,679 Speaker 1: listening to I hear what you're saying, Pauline. I do, 547 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: and I think a lot of people can agree with you, 548 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,159 Speaker 1: because I think you guys tend to take the reins and. 549 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 10: It just is, you know, the default parent thing, like 550 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 10: whether we want to or not, that is what we 551 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,520 Speaker 10: fall into as women for the most part, unless you're 552 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 10: the guy, which is called apparently he's raising those kids solo. 553 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: I want to make sure that we're not that we're 554 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,360 Speaker 1: not perpetuating any kind of stigma that that men are 555 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: incapable of doing this. And you didn't say that, And 556 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 1: I'm not saying I I said, you didn't say that. 557 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 1: But I also think that there is an implication that 558 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 1: only mom can do it right, and with moms out there, 559 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,400 Speaker 1: then dad's gonna screw it up. And I don't think 560 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 1: that's necessarily true. I mean, I think I think it's 561 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 1: also kind of I don't want to say control thing, 562 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,880 Speaker 1: but that maternal instinct that like I need to be there, 563 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:55,679 Speaker 1: I need to do it. And I do think that 564 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 1: it's a real thing. I see it with my family 565 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 1: where moms has a really hard time letting go and 566 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 1: saying I'm gonna love you know, the kid's gonna be fine. 567 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 1: It's not gonna get done my way, but everything's gonna 568 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 1: be okay, and I can go out and enjoy my day. 569 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,919 Speaker 1: I think sometimes not all the time. Maybe that's a 570 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,920 Speaker 1: little bit self fulfilling, where it's like if you just said, hobby, 571 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,679 Speaker 1: handle it and you left, I think you'd be okay. 572 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 1: The guy's a firefighter, he's a paramedic, like you'd be okay. 573 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,119 Speaker 1: But I think you have to let yourself do that, 574 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 1: and I think for a lot of reasons it's difficult 575 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 1: for women to do that. 576 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 10: Sometimes one hundred percent agree what you're saying. I think 577 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,119 Speaker 10: with us, it's I'm working on it. I do, you know, 578 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 10: go to the store now and say, hey, you know whatever, 579 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 10: handle it. And he does a great job, and he 580 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 10: watches her every morning. They're together right now, like that's 581 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 10: his job is to be a father. When he said home, 582 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 10: he's gonna watch his kid. I'm just you're right, I'm 583 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 10: trying to let go a little bit. And at the 584 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 10: end of the day, I still think that it's like 585 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 10: a primal thing. It's like this mental thing, like that 586 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 10: baby was attached to me so I think I'm always 587 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,480 Speaker 10: gonna feel this separation anxiety from her, you know what 588 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:54,959 Speaker 10: I mean. So if I go out for a whole day, 589 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 10: I'll be like, he'll be calling me, I'll be texting him, 590 00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,400 Speaker 10: and I don't know if it's really worth it as much. 591 00:25:59,480 --> 00:25:59,679 Speaker 8: You know. 592 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 1: Well, I guess where I'm coming from here is that 593 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,160 Speaker 1: she says he's a good dad. She also says, basically, 594 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,640 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take the same days even if he'd 595 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: give them to me, because and I'm paraphrasing here, it's 596 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: just too much work and it's gonna be a mess. 597 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 1: He's gonna screw it up. I don't know if that's true. 598 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 1: I mean, she she herself said he's a great dad. 599 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: So I guess what I mean is maybe there is 600 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,680 Speaker 1: compromise here. She's just not willing to see it. And 601 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: I think it's probably unfair or maybe unfair in some 602 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: ways to say, well, you know, yeah, he says I 603 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,119 Speaker 1: can go out with my girls on Saturdays, but I 604 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:36,600 Speaker 1: just I'm not gonna do it because he's gonna screw 605 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,879 Speaker 1: everything up. It's like, well, but you said he was 606 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,119 Speaker 1: a great dad, so maybe he won't. Maybe you should 607 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 1: take those days for yourself and have a great day, 608 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,640 Speaker 1: and maybe this is less of a problem because there's 609 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 1: your compromise. 610 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 10: Yeah, I think they need some form of compromise or 611 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,120 Speaker 10: like every home game or whatever, let's just say, maybe 612 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,199 Speaker 10: that's Sunday, there's something going on that she wants him 613 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:55,439 Speaker 10: to be a part of. I don't know, the pumpkin 614 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 10: patch with Rufel or something, you know what I mean 615 00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 10: that I feel like, then he needs to not go 616 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:01,359 Speaker 10: to this this football game, and that's it. 617 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 6: Period. 618 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 10: But maybe, yeah, maybe he can't go out on you know, 619 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 10: every whatever game. 620 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 6: If it's in town, he wants to go, that's fine. 621 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 10: But if there's something else going on or she doesn't 622 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,159 Speaker 10: want him to go, I think that's also okay. 623 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:13,960 Speaker 6: They're a family now, they're a unit. 624 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:18,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, I think every Sunday blanket, I'm going there's 625 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: nothing to do about it, YadA, YadA. I don't know 626 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,200 Speaker 1: if that's that's certainly not the attitude to take. But again, 627 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 1: if he's offering compromise and she's saying no, because well 628 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,439 Speaker 1: he just won't. He just won't get the job done. 629 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 1: She said it was a great dad, So I mean, 630 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,119 Speaker 1: I guess I don't I'm a little confused about that. 631 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 1: Hey Courtney, good morning. 632 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 8: Hi, good morning friend. 633 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 1: Hi, what do you want to say? Good morning, Thanks 634 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,199 Speaker 1: for calling. Thanks. 635 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 8: So I think it's definitely a compromise situation. But I 636 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:47,680 Speaker 8: really just wanted to say, rufaio, this is. 637 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 4: Not about you, baby. 638 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 8: You do not have to feel this defensive. You are 639 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,119 Speaker 8: a good dad. You're doing a great job. This is 640 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:57,199 Speaker 8: about their situation. And I think that there can't be 641 00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 8: just okay, well she gets the same amount of days. 642 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 8: It is a different situation. He's taking it, however, many 643 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 8: sundays away from the family, like they need to have 644 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,399 Speaker 8: a serious conversation about priorities. 645 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 2: I think I don't know where the defensive like defensive 646 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 2: like what Like I was offending you know, other dads 647 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,879 Speaker 2: out there because of the statement that Paulina was making 648 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 2: that like the mom's better than dad, you know what 649 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,639 Speaker 2: I'm saying, So like that's that's why I was getting defensive, 650 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 2: because not all dads are are bad. 651 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 6: But I'm sure no nobody's saying that. 652 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 8: It's It's just every situation is different, and I'm I'm 653 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 8: a mom. I'm with you, Paulina, Like it is a 654 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 8: different situation. Leaving the kids at home than when the 655 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 8: non mom partner gets to go out, and like there's 656 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 8: just a different level of separation. And that doesn't mean 657 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 8: that he's not a good dad. It's just like maybe 658 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:48,720 Speaker 8: they need to have some practice, he needs to stay 659 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 8: home with the kids more whatever, to get comfortable. But 660 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 8: I just want to say, like you, it's not a 661 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 8: reflection on you as a dad. If we're talking about 662 00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 8: one person maybe not being a great. 663 00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 1: Dad all the time, Like con thank you, I appreciate you, 664 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 1: have a great day. 665 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, you too. 666 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 1: I just I get defensive over my brother in law 667 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 1: because again, and who knew? Who knew years ago that 668 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 1: I would be the guy sticking up for him. I 669 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 1: love my sister so much and she does a great job. 670 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 1: But I came from a long line of type, a 671 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 1: very strong, stubborn women who their way is the only way. 672 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 1: And I love them and I appreciate that, and I'm 673 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: used to it. I was raised by it forty three years. 674 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 1: My sister is one, my niece, my nieces will both 675 00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 1: be women like that and they're strong and they're incredible. 676 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:32,880 Speaker 1: But my sister will complain about the way Colin does stuff, 677 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 1: and he's these kids are not in peril at all. 678 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 1: They're spoiled rotten by this guy. He's an incredible girl. 679 00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 8: Dad. 680 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 1: He's incredible dad. And I think some of the things 681 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 1: I hear about are, like, by god, there are so 682 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 1: many women that would love to have a guy who 683 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 1: takes the kids and gets them out of the house 684 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: on Saturday morning so that you can sleep in, and 685 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,280 Speaker 1: takes them to the park and takes initiative and does 686 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 1: all these things. He's fully capable of it. Now, is 687 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 1: he going to do it the way she's going to 688 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 1: do it? No? But I think sometimes what he's combating 689 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 1: is that eternal instinct that you're talking about, and that's 690 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 1: not entirely fair. 691 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean, listen, I feel like there needs to 692 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 10: be compromised. 693 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 6: But at the end of the day, I just I 694 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:10,720 Speaker 6: don't know. I don't know. 695 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 10: I'm not saying all the other are not capable, because 696 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 10: they are capable. You didn't say that, you know what 697 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 10: I mean. It's just different. No, I know, but I'm 698 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 10: just echoing what we said earlier. But I don't know, 699 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 10: it's just different man, you know, being a. 700 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 2: Woman, I'm just saying like it's I mean, it's eight 701 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 2: eight Sundays out of three hundred and sixty five days, 702 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,960 Speaker 2: and it's not like back to back Sunday sometimes. You know, 703 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,720 Speaker 2: he's only going to home games. He's not They could 704 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 2: be on the road for two weeks in a row 705 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 2: and they're together. You know what I'm saying, Yeah, every Sunday. 706 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 10: And a lot of people are texting too. Sorry, they're 707 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 10: just texting and saying that, you know, she's so selfish 708 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,560 Speaker 10: in that, But like, why are we judging like what 709 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 10: bothers her or like what you know doesn't work for 710 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 10: her family? Because I think that's not fair either. We're 711 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,520 Speaker 10: all like, oh, she's so selfish, she's such a this 712 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 10: and that, but like they're not their family, we're not 713 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 10: her like that bothers her, That bothers her. 714 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, and someone texted Fred being a good dad 715 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:56,479 Speaker 1: doesn't mean you get to ignore your family one day 716 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 1: a week. Okay, that's a little extreme, right, Well, I 717 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: guess I guess that's the exact point that I'm making 718 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 1: is I just want to be sure that and I 719 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,440 Speaker 1: don't know these people, right, I mean they call the radio. 720 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 1: I don't know people, but I want to make sure 721 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 1: that he's not offering up a compromise and she's not 722 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,719 Speaker 1: deciding not to take it because well, I don't know, 723 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,800 Speaker 1: it's just it's too much work, or you know, because 724 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 1: maybe it's that she's just not comfortable with that, and 725 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:23,720 Speaker 1: that's okay. But you know, just because he's gone every 726 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 1: Sunday during football season, every other Sunday or whatever, I 727 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,560 Speaker 1: guess I don't know that that means we don't know 728 00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 1: the other side of this, is all I'm arguing. You know, 729 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 1: maybe maybe there is a compromise here and she doesn't 730 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 1: want to take it, and he's gonna have to give 731 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 1: a little more. Maybe he doesn't get to go to 732 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 1: every single game. Maybe he's gonna have to give in 733 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 1: a little bit more than he's already giving. But I 734 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,760 Speaker 1: think everyone's just assuming that one person or the other 735 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: is a bad person here, or one person or the 736 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 1: other is selfish, and I think, you know, maybe there's 737 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 1: a little bit of going on on both sides where 738 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 1: everyone needs to kind of rethink how this goes. Maybe 739 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know these people. 740 00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,200 Speaker 6: What do you think that I don't have a dance 741 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:00,000 Speaker 6: so I can't play this game? 742 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 1: That's it? Drop, Okay, case on the Entertainment reports next 743 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 1: to It's a minutes, fread Show is on. Fread Show 744 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 1: is on. 745 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 11: Fred's Fun Fact Fred Fun All right, guys, did you 746 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:24,280 Speaker 11: know you? 747 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 1: Did you know? There are two hundred and ninety three 748 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 1: ways to make change for a dollar? Two hundred and 749 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:34,840 Speaker 1: ninety three ways to make change for a dollar. I 750 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,920 Speaker 1: swear I'm not high, but there are two hundred and 751 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 1: ninety three ways to make change for a dollar dollar, 752 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 1: which includes dimes, quarters, and combinations of the two. And 753 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:45,560 Speaker 1: now Rufio will spend the rest of the day trying 754 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 1: to figure out all two hundred and ninety three ways 755 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 1: right to make change for a dollar. 756 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 6: Dollar. 757 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 1: That's all you want? Fine, that's the cheapest thing you've 758 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:54,160 Speaker 1: ever hasked for. 759 00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,480 Speaker 6: You got more fread Show next right here.