WEBVTT - Made of Honor

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Scrub dub dumb. It

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<v Speaker 2>was like ages since I've said that, ages since you've

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<v Speaker 2>been gone. I know, I feel like he's been good.

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<v Speaker 2>Two weeks more than that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, those two weeks just fourteen days.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I got back fourteen days from when you left.

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<v Speaker 2>Technically thirteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, I honestly felt like twenty three, it did.

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<v Speaker 2>It felt like a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>You look different, really, Yeah, are you doing some different

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<v Speaker 1>to your hair?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I have extensions. Oh that's it, but I guess

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<v Speaker 2>I waved it. Oh no, it looks good. Thank you

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<v Speaker 2>so much.

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<v Speaker 1>The real ones in your head are the clippings.

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<v Speaker 2>The real ones. I've had them since before you saw

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<v Speaker 2>me with them. Oh, well, we did Daisy's interview.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you have them in there. It looked longer now.

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<v Speaker 2>Well it's been fourteen days. It's been a long time. Yeah, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>it has been a while. But we'll You've got a

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<v Speaker 2>lot going on too. But where do we begin? We

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<v Speaker 2>begin with the wedding. The wedding was okay. So first

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<v Speaker 2>of all, a lot of people are like, where's Haley.

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<v Speaker 2>Why is it Haley there? People were like expecting Haley

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<v Speaker 2>to show up. There's a lot of conspiracy theories.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really yeah, what is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? Not great? Just so like we we went, we

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<v Speaker 2>just like are done and it's over and that's it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's the soft launch of your breakup.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, correct, so off launch wow yeah no faith, No,

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<v Speaker 2>Haley had to go. She had been working like waiting

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<v Speaker 2>to start a project, and so she left to start that.

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<v Speaker 2>Like literally she was supposed to leave to go start

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<v Speaker 2>it the day that I left, but it ended up

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<v Speaker 2>getting pushed a week. So she ended up leaving and

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<v Speaker 2>she was gonna fly out because her project got pushed.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, if they need you for something

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<v Speaker 2>and you have to get where you need to go

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<v Speaker 2>and you're in Amsterdam, yeah, and then you come back

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<v Speaker 2>in your jet lagged, that's just gonna be a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And also I'm going to be giving Ali like all

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<v Speaker 2>my attention, Like I'm going to be at Ali's beck

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<v Speaker 2>and call you know, I'm the maid of honor. So

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want I didn't want her to fly out

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<v Speaker 2>and then kind of just you know, the alone or

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<v Speaker 2>you know, so she offered and I was like, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Ali was understanding, but everyone was like, where's Haley.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're good. Yeah, I didn't know there was conspiracies.

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<v Speaker 1>Though there was conspiracies. But it was funny because I

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<v Speaker 1>knew that she was working. I knew that that's why

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't there. But optics are interesting, do you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? Like if you're just like watching the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding going down, You're like, well, where's Haley, Where's Haley?

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<v Speaker 1>And then you're like, wait, she's not there, She's not there,

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<v Speaker 1>Where's Haley? Where's Haley? And then it just goes from there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's just a spiral off.

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<v Speaker 1>Napolene was like, where's Haley working?

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I know I should have made it clear.

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<v Speaker 2>I just to be honest. In my mind, it was

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<v Speaker 2>clear what was going on. And I sometimes forget that

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<v Speaker 2>I share my life and that a lot of makeup

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<v Speaker 2>stories I.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave a lot that would have been nice information to

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<v Speaker 1>know going into said wedding, like Haley's not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a well now, looking of it.

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<v Speaker 2>As a teaser for this, like where was Haley in

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding? Listened to the podcast where was Haley? Dot

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<v Speaker 2>dot dot? Yeah, this is nice, actually nice little teaser.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, that's what happened with that, and I missed

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<v Speaker 2>her so much because it was a very couplely trip.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I was surrounded by couples and Jojo and Jordan and

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<v Speaker 2>Alian Carston and it was a lot of time. And

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<v Speaker 2>to be honest, I have no issue being like the

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<v Speaker 2>third or fifth wheel, like I've never I love my

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<v Speaker 2>friends and I love their partner, so I've never really

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<v Speaker 2>had an issue with it. But it was different for

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<v Speaker 2>an extended amount of time being the third and fifth wheel. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because like part of me not that any of my

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<v Speaker 2>friends make me feel like a burden. Like, if anything,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I really add to this to the party.

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<v Speaker 2>The party. Yeah, but there were moments where I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want them to feel like they have to

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<v Speaker 2>invite me to go to dinner. You know. Jojo and

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<v Speaker 2>Jordan were celebrating their anniversary together, so oh while on

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<v Speaker 2>the trip, well like that that was the week of

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<v Speaker 2>their anniversary then, I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>A popular week wedding weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was popular, so but it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>We got there and I really felt like a master

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<v Speaker 2>of jet lag, Like I really didn't have any issues.

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<v Speaker 2>That's great. I know I was shocked because you know

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<v Speaker 2>I love my sleep. Yeah, but we did that. Ali

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<v Speaker 2>had a really hard time with the jet lag. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and her. I really want Ali to come back on

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<v Speaker 2>to the podcast and give.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I already got the lowdown yesterday, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, but I would love for her to come on

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<v Speaker 2>and tell it since she was just here talking about

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<v Speaker 2>the lead.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want you to know that because of Ali,

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<v Speaker 1>I am now planning my wedding around my menstrual phase. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will get married in my follicular phase.

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<v Speaker 3>You can predict it that far out?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure can. Well, You're a very routine, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Sister comes to town every twenty eight days. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>if I do the math, I think I can nail it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I could do it. And mine's always

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<v Speaker 2>like a few days off. Like I would be nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm a day or two off, it's really gonna

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<v Speaker 1>screw it up. But I'm gonna give it my best shot.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're a day or two off one time over

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<v Speaker 3>the nine and ten months or whatever it is until

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<v Speaker 3>your wedding, it's going to mess up the entire thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you something that's about my period. Tell

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<v Speaker 1>me she is so spot on every twenty eight days.

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<v Speaker 1>Just this last month, like my last per I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>finishing my period. So this was a couple of days ago.

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<v Speaker 1>It was day twenty six and I got some blood

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, that is weird, Like it's it's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like, got twenty six, twenty eight. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>she went away for two days.

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<v Speaker 2>She said to something, my times, all my time I

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<v Speaker 2>had that.

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<v Speaker 1>Twenty eight day. On Friday, she came back and she

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<v Speaker 1>came back hard. She said, oh, she said up, and

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<v Speaker 1>she came back and there she was.

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<v Speaker 2>On the twenty eighth day. Wow. Yeah, but a good

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<v Speaker 2>rule follower.

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<v Speaker 1>How crazy is that?

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<v Speaker 2>It was not great for me for my weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in a bathing suit and you know whatever. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that anyways, that's what I might take away once

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<v Speaker 1>I find the venue.

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<v Speaker 2>Then figuring out.

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<v Speaker 1>The date is going to be based on my menstrul syche.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I genuinely.

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<v Speaker 1>Think that down mark.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so important because mostly because like I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>that it would be a huge thing for me because

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<v Speaker 2>I really have like I may get bloated the first

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<v Speaker 2>day or the second day and then I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 2>fine after that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not about bloating, it's not about body, it's about

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<v Speaker 1>me mental capacity. Yeah, if I'm in my luteal phase

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm trying to talk to one hundred and fifty

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<v Speaker 1>people at my wedding, it's not going to be pretty.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's not just about not having your period at

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<v Speaker 3>your wedding. It's about being in a specific headspace. How

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<v Speaker 3>long does that headspace last? That phase?

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<v Speaker 1>Eighteen days?

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<v Speaker 2>I see it's bad too, Like if it's bad, it's bad,

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<v Speaker 2>and it affects everything that you do. And so Ali

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<v Speaker 2>has shared on her Instagram that she was in her

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<v Speaker 2>luteal phase, deep deep luteal. She was like she wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>sleeping her she has really sensitive stomach.

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<v Speaker 1>With like do I Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So she was telling me, She's like, you need to

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<v Speaker 2>tell Tanya to be aware of all these things. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like noted because it it was like it

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<v Speaker 2>was a lot for her. I think yeah. And also

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<v Speaker 2>you know Allie's if you know Ali from like Instagram

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff, you feel like, oh, she loves a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of focus on her, but she really doesn't. She likes

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<v Speaker 2>small intimate groups. So I think on top of that,

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<v Speaker 2>having like everyone there for her in Carson it was

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<v Speaker 2>a lot, but her venue she looked gorgeous. Her venue

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<v Speaker 2>was so beautiful. But she was so calm getting ready

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<v Speaker 2>that I was like, are you good, Like, are you

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<v Speaker 2>so calm that it's gone internal? Which is not good

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<v Speaker 2>right right? But yeah, a lot of dark thoughts in

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<v Speaker 2>my head. But never, you know, the really sweet thing

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<v Speaker 2>was that it was never dark in terms of like

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<v Speaker 2>questioning getting married or really the one. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 2>not like that. If anything, she just couldn't wait to

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<v Speaker 2>get to Carston, which was really sweet, Like she just was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the ready first look.

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<v Speaker 2>No, well not really because we showed up and he

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<v Speaker 2>was there, so they kind of She got there and

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<v Speaker 2>the family and everyone took photos and stuff. But I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't do like a private first look or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Well a first look means that he saw her before

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<v Speaker 1>she walked down the aisle.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, No, Typically a first look I think is when

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<v Speaker 2>you have a private moment and you see each other

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<v Speaker 2>for the first time and you almost have like the

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<v Speaker 2>time where it's just you. But they didn't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>But he did see her before. She worked on that

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<v Speaker 2>asle got it. But she was like just wanting to

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<v Speaker 2>be with everyone and socialize, and we'd be like, Halle,

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<v Speaker 2>we need to let's seuch up your hair such of

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<v Speaker 2>your makeup, and she'd be like, no, I just I

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<v Speaker 2>just want to be with everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>So she was I do often think about that, like

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<v Speaker 1>when the bride changes her dress and her look and

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<v Speaker 1>her that it's like you're gone from it, like your party.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gone for like an hour plus.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you just gotta keep the drinks flowing, and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I know, but I don't want to be away.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'd be like, yeah, I'm not going to like

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<v Speaker 1>redo the do and change my makeup.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. She pretty much just changed her dress at some

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<v Speaker 2>point when she wanted to and then walked down because

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<v Speaker 2>she had a train on her dress, you know, and

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<v Speaker 2>she bustled it. She had she buzzled it. But then

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<v Speaker 2>she had a reception dress that didn't have a train,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was a very similar style, so she just

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<v Speaker 2>changed into that and felt much better. But it was

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<v Speaker 2>really fun and sweet. Right before, it was kind of

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<v Speaker 2>crazy because I felt very out of my element being

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<v Speaker 2>somewhere that I had never been before, you know, right,

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<v Speaker 2>And so I like booked a car for us and

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<v Speaker 2>the driver left because we weren't down there, Like he

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I have to go. I have another ride

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<v Speaker 2>I have to get to I'm like, this isn't uber.

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<v Speaker 2>I booked a car, right. So we're like just standing

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<v Speaker 2>out on the street, you know, her wedding day, on

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<v Speaker 2>her wedding day, and we're just like, I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 2>have to call an uber because I can't book a

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<v Speaker 2>car that's going to ge here in time. But she

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<v Speaker 2>was so chill. She was just like, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was. I was stressed about all those little details.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said it would be panicking.

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<v Speaker 2>And so there was just a lot happening. And then

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I originally wasn't gonna walk down the aisle

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<v Speaker 2>because she had all of her bridesmaids sitting, and last

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<v Speaker 2>minute they decided that me and then Carson's twin brother,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to walk down, you know, just the two

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<v Speaker 2>of us. Oh, And I had her, well, Carson's ring

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<v Speaker 2>but for the you know, ring and ball exchange, and

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<v Speaker 2>I had her vow.

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<v Speaker 1>The ring bear too.

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<v Speaker 2>It was the ring bear I was carrying her vowels

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<v Speaker 2>felt very important. But I had a moment where all

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<v Speaker 2>of a sudden the song played that we were going

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<v Speaker 2>to walk down to, and I turned into a standing

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<v Speaker 2>with her dad, and I just like had this moment

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<v Speaker 2>of like, oh my gosh, she's getting married, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like it finally settled for a moment and oh no,

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<v Speaker 2>she was standing with her dad. I'm fine, I'm fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh definitely not gonna be able to look at you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah. I just looked at her, and I had

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<v Speaker 2>this moment of watching her stand with her dad and

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<v Speaker 2>thinking of all the things that we'd been through and

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<v Speaker 2>that she was getting married, and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>love you so much, you know, And she looked at

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<v Speaker 2>me with like this look on her face and she

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm gonna burst into tears, and I've

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<v Speaker 2>made it this far, so I have to turn around.

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<v Speaker 2>And she set it back, and then I walked down

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<v Speaker 2>the aisle and got to watch her. And then her

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<v Speaker 2>veil came off, like her veil wasn't tight on her head,

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<v Speaker 2>so she was walking and it got caught on like

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<v Speaker 2>some gravel or something. So I saw the moment where

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, it's come loose. And then she

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<v Speaker 2>gets up there and I go to take I go

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<v Speaker 2>to fix her dress, which we didn't plan or anything,

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<v Speaker 2>but I was like, I'm going to fix her dress

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<v Speaker 2>and see if I can get the veil tucked back in.

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<v Speaker 2>So I could have tuck it in and it like

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<v Speaker 2>flops back. So I was like, it's not going to

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<v Speaker 2>stay in, So I just took it and bow your hair. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I just took it out and like smoothed her hair down.

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<v Speaker 2>And everyone thought it was like part of the plan.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, oh, like she walked down with it on

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<v Speaker 2>and then it took it off. Was like, so she

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<v Speaker 2>was so funny though. They did the vowels, and then

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<v Speaker 2>the vowels were over and she like tossed her She

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<v Speaker 2>just tossed the vowel book like behind. She was so

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<v Speaker 2>Alley in that moment, you know, So she tossed her bouquet.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we go. Oh she didn't do a bouquet toss. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>that's blasphemous. Yeah, and theyare the wealth Alley is for

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<v Speaker 2>the next person to get married. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 2>if that was ever a thing she thought of.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, like the single ladies eat all that

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<v Speaker 1>good mojo.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't just do it dirty like that just because

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<v Speaker 2>you're married. It wasn't a ton of single ladies though. Whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have a ring on your finger, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want the pressure of having nice book. But

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't do a first dance like they were very

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<v Speaker 2>much just like did it the way they wanted to,

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<v Speaker 2>which I loved that because every wedding that I've been

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<v Speaker 2>to for most of my life, I've watched people do

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<v Speaker 2>like the same thing, the same traditions, and I loved

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<v Speaker 2>that it was there they just did what they wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to and they didn't do what they didn't want to. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And I loved that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's got to be your personality. Early days with my wife,

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<v Speaker 3>we were just dating. We went to one of her

0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:30.040
<v Speaker 3>cousins weddings something like that, and I think this is

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<v Speaker 3>common in certain faiths. But the script, for lack of

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<v Speaker 3>a better word, was in was given to everybody and

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<v Speaker 3>you got to read along with everything the pastor says,

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<v Speaker 3>and their names are literally blanks. Do you blank take blank?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, this is just a cookie cutter film, the

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<v Speaker 3>blank wedding. This is exactly what I don't want. Your

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<v Speaker 3>wedding should absolutely reflect your personality and what you want.

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<v Speaker 3>And if you don't want to do a bouquet toss.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't do a bouquet toss.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I just feel like it's like not nice karma,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Like I feel like it's like, look, I

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<v Speaker 1>got married, I got here, let me help someone else out.

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<v Speaker 3>It's superstitious, it's legally binding.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Tony will be doing a vacation.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you, when you're single and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be, you need all the help you can get. Sir,

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<v Speaker 1>have you ever caught I sure did. I caught Sysney's.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Took some time, a little bit of hangtime on that, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but it got me here.

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<v Speaker 2>It did, It did all because of that. It worked.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, it was super fun. We danced like it

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<v Speaker 2>went to one one am, and then we went back

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<v Speaker 2>and then we went on a buddy moon because I

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<v Speaker 2>think her thought process was, all, my friends are traveling

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<v Speaker 2>this far and we can go like when else are

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to go on a trip with all of

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<v Speaker 2>us together. So we went to Mayorca, which is one

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<v Speaker 2>of my favorite places ever. That's when this being feeling

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<v Speaker 2>missing Haley and feeling very and you know what, at

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<v Speaker 2>this moment where I go, I am so grateful to

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<v Speaker 2>my friends who who have been in single phases of

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<v Speaker 2>life and come on trips and like been around with

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<v Speaker 2>multiple couples, because it was hard. And I have a

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<v Speaker 2>partner who like loves me and like I have a

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<v Speaker 2>really healthy relationship, but not having that person and being

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<v Speaker 2>around that energy, it was it was like, oh man,

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<v Speaker 2>I it made me feel uh, just like grateful for

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<v Speaker 2>my friends who have always done that, who have been

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<v Speaker 2>in like single stages of life or you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so shout out to you know, people who are waiting

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<v Speaker 2>for their person. Yeah, it's rough out there, but I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like scrolling along, I'm like watching all this

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<v Speaker 1>and in my mind, in the back of my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I texted you and I was like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>how's it like over there without Haley. Yeah, I had

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<v Speaker 1>a feeling like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like I could just it was like a six

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<v Speaker 2>I have a sixth sense with you. Wow. Interesting, I

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<v Speaker 2>felt it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I feel like she's really missing Haley

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I got emotional on the last day, like the day

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<v Speaker 2>before we left, I like fully broke down. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>got like I got my feelings hurt because I had

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<v Speaker 2>gone to take well Laura came to meet me, and

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<v Speaker 2>Laura's just like the best human ever ever. Everyone loves her. Literally,

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<v Speaker 2>We've been best friend since freshman year of high school.

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<v Speaker 2>And I feel like I can bring her to any

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<v Speaker 2>situation and she will leave and then people are like,

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<v Speaker 2>I love Laura, yeah, you know. And so she came

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<v Speaker 2>to meet us, which was so fun. But then the

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<v Speaker 2>day she left a day early, so I took her

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<v Speaker 2>to the airport and I think that's why it really

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<v Speaker 2>built me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like she was your comfort, she was your comfort blanket.

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<v Speaker 2>And then so like, they all went to dinner with

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<v Speaker 2>another group from the wedding were staying down the street,

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<v Speaker 2>so they all went to dinner with them, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I'm just not. I don't want to kill

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<v Speaker 2>the vibe, but I'm just not. I think I'm socialed out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>It was two weeks of every single night meeting new

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<v Speaker 2>people and it was so much fun, but I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 2>an introverted extrovert, heavy on the introvert, and that part

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<v Speaker 2>of me was like, I think finally I've had enough. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and so Jojo and Ali came to check on me,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was just like sobbing. I didn't know why

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<v Speaker 2>I was solving. I was like, and Ali goes, well,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you're gonna go home, and Hailey like, you're

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<v Speaker 2>not really going home because like your person's not there, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I was, oh my gosh, salts in the wood.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, yeah, I think that's a you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm also I'm excited to go home and

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<v Speaker 2>you know my home isn't home. Yeah. So but it

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<v Speaker 2>was really fun and it was so it was so

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<v Speaker 2>I've really spent a lot of time with Jordan and Carston,

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<v Speaker 2>which I haven't got. I mean, we go to dinner,

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<v Speaker 2>like we get in there. I just feel so grateful

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<v Speaker 2>that all my friends are with such like nice, good

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<v Speaker 2>guys and like funny guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Carson, it was the first time where we spent a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of time together and I'm like, he and Ali

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<v Speaker 2>are just perfect for each other in the most hilarious way,

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<v Speaker 2>and Jordan's just so pleasant and fun and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>so it was. It was really great.

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<v Speaker 1>I had major fomo and I don't get I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really get fomo, and well I guess when it comes

0:18:09.760 --> 0:18:12.000
<v Speaker 1>to you, I do, but like in general in life,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really get fomo.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone I don't, So I don't really get fomo.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys, I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>What initials do you get? Because you get something?

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<v Speaker 1>I get jealous, but that's not fomo.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I can be jealous.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not uh independently exclusive. You can be jealous and

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<v Speaker 1>not have fomo.

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<v Speaker 2>Not be jealous. So typically you just feel jealous, but

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<v Speaker 2>you're not necessarily like I wish I would be there.

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<v Speaker 2>You're just like jealous.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, you're jealous of who she's spending time with. You're

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<v Speaker 3>not I wish I was there with them?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, okay, they're not mutually to say that Tanya

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<v Speaker 2>was one invited to all activities. But people on real

0:19:00.640 --> 0:19:05.000
<v Speaker 2>Jojo they were like, why wasn't Tanya invited? Poor Tanya?

0:19:05.080 --> 0:19:07.399
<v Speaker 2>Why isn't Tawny with y'all? And I'm like, this is

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<v Speaker 2>turn sick. This is a sickness, and she was invited.

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<v Speaker 3>I know what you get. You get full blow, fear

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<v Speaker 3>of being left out.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it's left out, fear of Becca

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<v Speaker 2>hanging out with other people?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what does that spell?

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<v Speaker 2>I did say that.

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<v Speaker 1>I did say that, Bob Hop Yeah, yeah, Bob Hop up.

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<v Speaker 2>I have but uh, when when you.

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<v Speaker 1>Were gone last week Kelty co hosted, and I did

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<v Speaker 1>say that I was invited and why I did not attend.

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<v Speaker 2>So I let this.

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<v Speaker 1>I let the scrubbers know because they were like, why

0:19:45.440 --> 0:19:47.200
<v Speaker 1>aren't you there? Did you not get invited? I was like, no, no,

0:19:47.160 --> 0:19:49.639
<v Speaker 1>I did get invited. I love Ali and Carson and

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<v Speaker 1>I wish that we could be there, and like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really having foe blah blah blah blah. But I knew

0:19:54.920 --> 0:19:57.320
<v Speaker 1>it when I commented on that that photo of you and.

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<v Speaker 2>Jojo get your Tanya naders A rile up and we're

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<v Speaker 2>just like Joe and I are like, here it goes here,

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<v Speaker 2>here we go.

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<v Speaker 3>How about Phoba fear of being abandoned?

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<v Speaker 1>But Becca's not in there?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? Yeah, everyone else?

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<v Speaker 2>No, lucky me. Honestly, it is lucky you.

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<v Speaker 1>I would sometimes I like look at Robbie and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>what does it feel to be loved by me?

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<v Speaker 2>Like he is very loved by you. But let me

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<v Speaker 2>tell you something.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like wearing a weighted blanket twenty four hours a day.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>That's my guest.

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<v Speaker 5>I texted her or I message her because she posted

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<v Speaker 5>on uh they were on the plane and he literally

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<v Speaker 5>has the earphones in watching a movie and she goes

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<v Speaker 5>she's tapping him.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, Hey, what are you doing? And he's like,

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<v Speaker 2>what do you see? I'm watching the movie? And I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, that is a patient man.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh. We talked about this earlier. She can't

0:20:58.240 --> 0:20:59.639
<v Speaker 3>watch TV on a plane.

0:21:00.359 --> 0:21:02.760
<v Speaker 2>She does. I literally looked him. We were separated.

0:21:02.760 --> 0:21:06.920
<v Speaker 1>I hear her the point if I'm separated sometimes by

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<v Speaker 1>default I must. But if there's nothing on the TV

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<v Speaker 1>then and.

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<v Speaker 3>Robbie, I just said separately on the flight back this weekend,

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<v Speaker 3>which to me is no big deal. If my wife

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<v Speaker 3>and I had to said separately, we were just gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be watching our shows anyway. That's what we do. Because

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<v Speaker 3>I never would ever in a million years, get on

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<v Speaker 3>a flight without entertainment with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever, I would never not go enough to go download

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<v Speaker 3>download Donald just to have something, because the fear of

0:21:32.160 --> 0:21:35.160
<v Speaker 3>sitting there with nothing to do keeps me awake at night.

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<v Speaker 3>Not tellya, She says, she's brought nothing because she's just

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<v Speaker 3>going to talk to Robbie the whole time, even though

0:21:40.320 --> 0:21:41.760
<v Speaker 3>they spent the whole weekend together.

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<v Speaker 2>And then if he doesn't want to, so where's the

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<v Speaker 2>like compromise on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I only don't let him if he wants to sleep.

0:21:50.840 --> 0:21:52.320
<v Speaker 1>If he wants to sleep, I'll at him sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>But what if he wants to watch a show?

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<v Speaker 1>What does he want to watch? There's nothing that he

0:21:56.040 --> 0:21:56.920
<v Speaker 1>wants to watch.

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely seemed like he wanted to watch what he was watching.

0:22:00.040 --> 0:22:05.560
<v Speaker 1>He was watching some Ferrari movie or something with Patrick Dempsey.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, yeah, you're one.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's what that's the time to watch something. No, inters,

0:22:11.320 --> 0:22:12.560
<v Speaker 3>it's perfects.

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<v Speaker 1>You're acting like he has no free will. He does

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<v Speaker 1>have free will. He could if he wanted to watch

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<v Speaker 1>the movie.

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<v Speaker 3>Let him. You let him.

0:22:20.280 --> 0:22:23.840
<v Speaker 2>That isn't no free will, doesn't she tops him?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, I was waiting for it to be over, and

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<v Speaker 1>then when it was over, I was gonna go in

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<v Speaker 1>with my questions, being polite, just asking how much longer

0:22:32.640 --> 0:22:33.320
<v Speaker 1>is this movie?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah, there's a whole debate about because you were like,

0:22:36.880 --> 0:22:39.919
<v Speaker 2>you know, the people sitting on either side of us,

0:22:39.960 --> 0:22:41.919
<v Speaker 2>it was like a family and then a gay couple,

0:22:41.960 --> 0:22:43.919
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, yeah, gay gay couples don't like

0:22:43.960 --> 0:22:46.639
<v Speaker 2>the separation, and you're like neither new family. Yeah, I

0:22:46.760 --> 0:22:47.199
<v Speaker 2>was screwed.

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<v Speaker 1>Either way. Like I was like a hundred dollar bill

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<v Speaker 1>in my pocket.

0:22:49.960 --> 0:22:54.160
<v Speaker 2>I was ready to pay someone and nobody was budgeting.

0:22:54.160 --> 0:22:58.760
<v Speaker 2>I was like rats. There's like this whole thing about

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<v Speaker 2>people not getting up, like if a family comes on

0:23:03.119 --> 0:23:05.080
<v Speaker 2>and they didn't get the or a couple gets on

0:23:05.119 --> 0:23:08.080
<v Speaker 2>and they didn't get their seats together, and like how

0:23:08.160 --> 0:23:10.399
<v Speaker 2>a certain person has chosen their seat and even if

0:23:10.440 --> 0:23:13.359
<v Speaker 2>they're traveling single, they're not obligated to get up. And no,

0:23:13.400 --> 0:23:15.119
<v Speaker 2>I don't think anybody's I know, but there's this is

0:23:15.119 --> 0:23:17.439
<v Speaker 2>a whole debate thing about people like go back and

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<v Speaker 2>forth about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I always if anybody's ever I mean, I've only been

0:23:21.359 --> 0:23:23.320
<v Speaker 1>asked a handful of times to move, and I always

0:23:23.320 --> 0:23:26.560
<v Speaker 1>say yes because I usually travel alone.

0:23:26.840 --> 0:23:29.240
<v Speaker 2>If you're in if you're in an aisle or window

0:23:29.320 --> 0:23:30.720
<v Speaker 2>and then they're in the middle.

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<v Speaker 1>I would probably do it. Yeah. Wow, if I'm not

0:23:33.960 --> 0:23:34.720
<v Speaker 1>going like on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Forest, I not do that.

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<v Speaker 3>And a family could sit together.

0:23:37.920 --> 0:23:40.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah it's a kid, but if it's another grown up

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<v Speaker 2>trying to sit with their significant other, no I'm fine.

0:23:43.320 --> 0:23:44.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm like put me in the middle.

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<v Speaker 2>Yea more people to talk to off, more off.

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<v Speaker 1>Left and right. Baby, that's right, but oh my gosh,

0:23:51.800 --> 0:23:53.160
<v Speaker 1>you know was on my flight home yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>You're never going to get.

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<v Speaker 1>You're actually.

0:23:57.840 --> 0:23:59.560
<v Speaker 2>You're never gonna get category.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, let's take a break and let's do it st

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<v Speaker 3>we'll be back.

0:24:04.000 --> 0:24:05.560
<v Speaker 1>I actually don't even know his names.

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<v Speaker 3>We got some clues during the break. Sorry, and there

0:24:27.880 --> 0:24:30.320
<v Speaker 3>seems to be a show involves because if I can

0:24:30.359 --> 0:24:31.840
<v Speaker 3>just figure out what show he's on, so that's a

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<v Speaker 3>show he is?

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<v Speaker 2>Your clue? Is he is a TV actor?

0:24:39.720 --> 0:24:40.920
<v Speaker 3>So not a reality star?

0:24:41.240 --> 0:24:44.160
<v Speaker 1>Not a reality star? No, he is a legit actor.

0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:47.480
<v Speaker 2>Is he on a doctor show?

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<v Speaker 3>That's an excellent question.

0:24:49.840 --> 0:24:50.240
<v Speaker 2>He is not.

0:24:51.040 --> 0:24:52.359
<v Speaker 3>Is he on a superhero show?

0:24:52.480 --> 0:24:52.879
<v Speaker 2>He is not.

0:24:54.960 --> 0:24:56.000
<v Speaker 3>Is he on a current show?

0:24:56.960 --> 0:24:59.000
<v Speaker 1>Define current currently.

0:24:59.520 --> 0:25:02.480
<v Speaker 3>On air, on air and new episode's forthcoming?

0:25:02.640 --> 0:25:05.560
<v Speaker 2>No? Is he from a c W show?

0:25:05.720 --> 0:25:05.960
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:25:06.240 --> 0:25:07.879
<v Speaker 3>Is it a show that recently ended?

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<v Speaker 1>Defined recently in the last two years?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it a comedy that to show the specific show

0:25:16.320 --> 0:25:18.480
<v Speaker 3>referring to as a drama, we just know it's not

0:25:18.480 --> 0:25:19.600
<v Speaker 3>a comedy. Doesn't that be a drama?

0:25:19.840 --> 0:25:20.520
<v Speaker 2>This is us?

0:25:20.880 --> 0:25:24.280
<v Speaker 1>No, I've been give you one more clue.

0:25:24.400 --> 0:25:28.320
<v Speaker 2>I give a more clue. It was it was a season.

0:25:28.520 --> 0:25:32.360
<v Speaker 1>Only one season came out and it was very buzzy

0:25:32.440 --> 0:25:35.480
<v Speaker 1>when it came out, and everybody was obsessed with it,

0:25:37.000 --> 0:25:39.359
<v Speaker 1>and that's all you get Netflix.

0:25:41.359 --> 0:25:43.639
<v Speaker 2>I was gonna ask, is a network TV or like the.

0:25:43.680 --> 0:25:53.560
<v Speaker 4>Stream shoot buzzy show on very buzzy show, I know,

0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:56.400
<v Speaker 4>I know what streamer shall give you, the streamer Apple TV.

0:25:56.280 --> 0:26:02.520
<v Speaker 3>Plus oh, succession and the budget. No, but close, I'm Severance. Yes,

0:26:02.640 --> 0:26:06.760
<v Speaker 3>I meant Severance. Succession is Max Severance, Yes, the main guy. Yes,

0:26:07.119 --> 0:26:11.160
<v Speaker 3>who his name is? Yes? He was also on us

0:26:11.200 --> 0:26:13.119
<v Speaker 3>and Rack I think is Adam Scott.

0:26:13.320 --> 0:26:13.840
<v Speaker 1>Yes.

0:26:14.080 --> 0:26:18.040
<v Speaker 2>Wow, I had to give a lot of clues on that,

0:26:18.160 --> 0:26:19.800
<v Speaker 2>so it wasn't but you didn't even know his name.

0:26:19.960 --> 0:26:22.440
<v Speaker 1>So but it's funny because I have this thing where

0:26:22.960 --> 0:26:25.600
<v Speaker 1>whenever Rob and I are watching a certain series, I

0:26:25.640 --> 0:26:28.000
<v Speaker 1>always think I see that like one of the characters,

0:26:28.200 --> 0:26:30.479
<v Speaker 1>like out of my coffee shop and stuff. And so

0:26:30.640 --> 0:26:32.480
<v Speaker 1>since we were sitting separate, I had a text Robbie

0:26:32.520 --> 0:26:35.000
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, the guy from Severance is right

0:26:35.040 --> 0:26:37.240
<v Speaker 1>behind me. And he was like, no, it's not.

0:26:37.440 --> 0:26:38.639
<v Speaker 2>It's not the guy from Sermons.

0:26:38.680 --> 0:26:40.560
<v Speaker 1>You always do this And I was like, look, look

0:26:40.600 --> 0:26:42.280
<v Speaker 1>behind me. He's wearing a white hat. And he goes

0:26:43.000 --> 0:26:44.959
<v Speaker 1>that's not him, And I'm like, I swear I'm one

0:26:45.040 --> 0:26:47.159
<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty percent positive it's him because he had

0:26:47.200 --> 0:26:49.000
<v Speaker 1>to walk right by me and made eye contact with him.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure enough, Scott, I will correct severance. Is season two

0:26:54.160 --> 0:26:56.879
<v Speaker 3>is in production right now? H yes, okay, yeah, yeah, right,

0:26:56.920 --> 0:26:59.239
<v Speaker 3>so it does a current show. Oh so sorry, that's quit?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, all right, Well and there was another season

0:27:02.000 --> 0:27:05.879
<v Speaker 2>he said, very busy. Yeah, all right. We were led

0:27:05.920 --> 0:27:07.919
<v Speaker 2>astray a little bit, but I would have never guessed.

0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:09.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was gonna say it was very obscure, but

0:27:09.960 --> 0:27:12.960
<v Speaker 1>it was very exciting too, very very exciting spots.

0:27:13.000 --> 0:27:13.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, got out.

0:27:13.800 --> 0:27:15.280
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, you do just have global entry either,

0:27:15.359 --> 0:27:17.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, like I just like make all these assumptions

0:27:17.240 --> 0:27:20.000
<v Speaker 1>of him. He wasn't sitting next to who he was

0:27:20.040 --> 0:27:21.000
<v Speaker 1>walking in there with either.

0:27:21.040 --> 0:27:24.360
<v Speaker 2>I was like, wow, this was a really funny part

0:27:24.400 --> 0:27:27.640
<v Speaker 2>of traveling with Carson and Alley. So Carson has airport

0:27:27.800 --> 0:27:30.919
<v Speaker 2>anxiety where he needs to be super early and like

0:27:31.000 --> 0:27:32.639
<v Speaker 2>make sure he gets on the plane and like that.

0:27:32.880 --> 0:27:34.960
<v Speaker 2>He'll like go check and just make sure the gate

0:27:35.080 --> 0:27:37.439
<v Speaker 2>is there, you know that type. And then Ali has

0:27:37.480 --> 0:27:40.439
<v Speaker 2>anxiety on the plane because she fearce turbulence and stuff.

0:27:40.480 --> 0:27:44.320
<v Speaker 2>So I most of the the whole time until we

0:27:44.400 --> 0:27:47.199
<v Speaker 2>literally got home. I was on their schedule, just you know,

0:27:47.640 --> 0:27:49.760
<v Speaker 2>to be a team player, so I was at the

0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:53.000
<v Speaker 2>airport super early. Didn't need to be you know all that.

0:27:53.280 --> 0:27:55.840
<v Speaker 1>Ye proud of you, honestly proud of you.

0:27:56.080 --> 0:27:59.159
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm listen when I'm like in a duty of

0:27:59.280 --> 0:28:00.919
<v Speaker 2>maid of honor, I am locked in.

0:28:01.080 --> 0:28:02.120
<v Speaker 1>Are you ready to do it again?

0:28:02.560 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 2>Yes? But it sounds like it's next year, so right, okay,

0:28:06.400 --> 0:28:10.679
<v Speaker 2>feel good about that. So the last day when we

0:28:10.680 --> 0:28:13.480
<v Speaker 2>were coming home to LA, they left and got there

0:28:13.560 --> 0:28:15.760
<v Speaker 2>like over two hours early, and I was like, y'all

0:28:15.800 --> 0:28:19.480
<v Speaker 2>go ahead, I'm gonna come my own time. So I

0:28:19.520 --> 0:28:22.200
<v Speaker 2>have off duty. Now I'm off duty. I breeze in,

0:28:22.800 --> 0:28:25.639
<v Speaker 2>literally got my snacks, walk up, we're boarding. I was like,

0:28:25.680 --> 0:28:29.159
<v Speaker 2>this is ideal. The hallie got pulled aside, so I

0:28:29.320 --> 0:28:32.159
<v Speaker 2>somehow got on the plane before they even did. We

0:28:32.280 --> 0:28:35.000
<v Speaker 2>get off. They have global entry. I don't. I still

0:28:35.040 --> 0:28:37.560
<v Speaker 2>make it to baggage claim while they're still waiting. It

0:28:37.600 --> 0:28:41.760
<v Speaker 2>was hilarious. I got my bags first, My uber came first,

0:28:41.760 --> 0:28:44.440
<v Speaker 2>and Carson was like, what the heck? Like, I make

0:28:44.480 --> 0:28:47.880
<v Speaker 2>sure that everything is so easy and seamless, and then

0:28:47.920 --> 0:28:49.360
<v Speaker 2>you just cruise on up.

0:28:49.560 --> 0:28:51.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and like it's just.

0:28:51.040 --> 0:28:56.760
<v Speaker 2>Not overthinking it. Ain't that the truth? Anyways, you came

0:28:56.840 --> 0:28:59.960
<v Speaker 2>back on the plane because you were at a Pilates retree.

0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:03.760
<v Speaker 1>Yes, And I have to tell you, Robbie and I

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:05.960
<v Speaker 1>were actually I know it sounds like I'm very like

0:29:06.040 --> 0:29:08.280
<v Speaker 1>dictator in our relationship, like I'd let him do things

0:29:08.320 --> 0:29:11.320
<v Speaker 1>in our heart because I know, but I'm really not.

0:29:11.600 --> 0:29:14.080
<v Speaker 1>And like, what's really interesting that we were talking about

0:29:14.680 --> 0:29:17.440
<v Speaker 1>on our flight over there, see because talking is so nice,

0:29:17.440 --> 0:29:21.959
<v Speaker 1>communicating and expressing things, is how much we like to

0:29:22.040 --> 0:29:25.400
<v Speaker 1>do life the same way, Like we really really like,

0:29:25.640 --> 0:29:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I genuinely feel like he and I i'd say eighty

0:29:30.120 --> 0:29:33.160
<v Speaker 1>five percent of the time, maybe even more ninety percent

0:29:33.200 --> 0:29:36.520
<v Speaker 1>of the time live our lives exactly the same. Like

0:29:36.560 --> 0:29:39.200
<v Speaker 1>we love to do the same things. We like to

0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:40.560
<v Speaker 1>watch the same things, we like to go to bed

0:29:40.600 --> 0:29:42.400
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, we like to eat generally the

0:29:42.440 --> 0:29:45.800
<v Speaker 1>same stuff like we And that's like so fun for me,

0:29:45.920 --> 0:29:47.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, Like what other I don't know a lot

0:29:47.800 --> 0:29:49.600
<v Speaker 1>of guys that would want to go on a Pilate's retreat,

0:29:49.880 --> 0:29:53.560
<v Speaker 1>I would not correct And he was so game, went

0:29:53.640 --> 0:29:55.640
<v Speaker 1>to every class like he was one of the Like

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:57.880
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people brought their husbands in significant others,

0:29:57.880 --> 0:30:00.400
<v Speaker 1>so he wasn't the only like dude, but a lot

0:30:00.440 --> 0:30:02.680
<v Speaker 1>of them went to like the restorative pilates like and

0:30:02.720 --> 0:30:06.440
<v Speaker 1>he Robbie was at every single class and like he

0:30:06.560 --> 0:30:08.800
<v Speaker 1>loved it, you know, like we really and it was

0:30:09.000 --> 0:30:10.480
<v Speaker 1>kind of the perfect thing because we love to like

0:30:10.520 --> 0:30:12.760
<v Speaker 1>work out and be healthy, but we also wanted like

0:30:12.920 --> 0:30:15.320
<v Speaker 1>vacation and like warm weather and beach and so it

0:30:15.360 --> 0:30:18.240
<v Speaker 1>was just like the perfect thing for us. But it

0:30:18.280 --> 0:30:22.640
<v Speaker 1>was so funny because the whole weekend we're there, and

0:30:23.240 --> 0:30:28.600
<v Speaker 1>everybody at this retreat is like, Robbie's so great. My

0:30:28.680 --> 0:30:33.320
<v Speaker 1>husband loves Robbie. Robbie's so great. I'm like, Tanya, you're

0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:36.680
<v Speaker 1>so lucky. Robbie's so great. I'm like anyone telling him

0:30:36.680 --> 0:30:40.680
<v Speaker 1>how lucky he is with me, I don't love not

0:30:40.840 --> 0:30:43.720
<v Speaker 1>chopped liver over here. But like the whole weekend it

0:30:43.760 --> 0:30:46.600
<v Speaker 1>was like really crazy, like every single person was just

0:30:46.640 --> 0:30:49.400
<v Speaker 1>like my husband loves Robbie. And I'm like, I know

0:30:50.520 --> 0:30:53.040
<v Speaker 1>I heard it all. I heard it from her and

0:30:53.080 --> 0:30:54.000
<v Speaker 1>her and her.

0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:58.360
<v Speaker 2>And her husband telling everyone how well he is like,

0:30:58.520 --> 0:31:01.000
<v Speaker 2>where's the you know, good team here?

0:31:02.840 --> 0:31:04.400
<v Speaker 1>But no, it was really crazy. So we went to

0:31:04.440 --> 0:31:06.200
<v Speaker 1>this plate's retreat and I love shout out to.

0:31:08.200 --> 0:31:08.720
<v Speaker 2>Core Club.

0:31:08.760 --> 0:31:12.160
<v Speaker 1>That's Pilate's by Amanda, that's like her baby. But it

0:31:12.240 --> 0:31:14.480
<v Speaker 1>was really really fun, and we ended up going to

0:31:14.520 --> 0:31:20.560
<v Speaker 1>this hotel. It's called Sousros de corson great All. I

0:31:20.600 --> 0:31:23.360
<v Speaker 1>don't know if I said it right, but it translates

0:31:23.360 --> 0:31:27.360
<v Speaker 1>to like Whispering Heart. Okay, so just come with.

0:31:27.280 --> 0:31:27.880
<v Speaker 2>Me on this journey.

0:31:28.160 --> 0:31:32.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So the hotel is called Whispering Heart. Okay, We're

0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:36.240
<v Speaker 1>walking around beautiful hotel. We're walking around and I see

0:31:36.240 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 1>these giant like photos like artwork butterflies, multiple all over

0:31:45.840 --> 0:31:48.440
<v Speaker 1>and we're walking back to our room one night and

0:31:48.480 --> 0:31:53.000
<v Speaker 1>there's a leaf in the shape of a butterfly right

0:31:53.040 --> 0:31:56.040
<v Speaker 1>outside our room. And now I'll find you the photo

0:31:56.080 --> 0:31:57.920
<v Speaker 1>because I saw it. It was a butterfly.

0:31:58.400 --> 0:32:00.520
<v Speaker 2>Becca. You really threw me off the because you put

0:32:00.560 --> 0:32:02.479
<v Speaker 2>the emoji butterfly right next to it.

0:32:02.520 --> 0:32:04.680
<v Speaker 1>Big oh, so it made it look less like a butterfly.

0:32:05.200 --> 0:32:07.160
<v Speaker 2>I just was like, is that a butterfly?

0:32:07.480 --> 0:32:08.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you can't tell me.

0:32:09.040 --> 0:32:10.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't know where to put it. Yeah, that's like

0:32:11.280 --> 0:32:13.800
<v Speaker 2>dead butterfly carcass or something.

0:32:13.920 --> 0:32:15.640
<v Speaker 3>Right, that's not quite what she was going for. I

0:32:15.640 --> 0:32:16.680
<v Speaker 3>don't think so.

0:32:16.720 --> 0:32:21.360
<v Speaker 1>Anyways, in a turn of events, we're like, we meet

0:32:21.360 --> 0:32:24.920
<v Speaker 1>somebody here to talk about possibly getting married, because yeah,

0:32:24.960 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 1>all the signs were pointing to it. We've been thinking

0:32:28.240 --> 0:32:31.320
<v Speaker 1>about Mexico and we were always thinking about Cobo just

0:32:31.320 --> 0:32:35.640
<v Speaker 1>because it's so easy. But Portavarta is literally half an

0:32:35.640 --> 0:32:38.200
<v Speaker 1>hour difference. It's like basically the same thing in terms

0:32:38.200 --> 0:32:42.800
<v Speaker 1>of like commute. And so we met with somebody and

0:32:42.880 --> 0:32:46.560
<v Speaker 1>liked and then there was a party or an event

0:32:46.600 --> 0:32:49.080
<v Speaker 1>that was happening kind of like on the beach that night,

0:32:49.120 --> 0:32:50.800
<v Speaker 1>the second night that we were there, after the wedding

0:32:50.840 --> 0:32:54.160
<v Speaker 1>walk through, and it had all these twinkle lights and

0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:57.000
<v Speaker 1>they had like shrimp on the barbecue, and I was like,

0:32:57.320 --> 0:32:59.280
<v Speaker 1>I had this vision of my wedding there like it

0:32:59.320 --> 0:33:02.840
<v Speaker 1>was just like yeah, And so I don't know, I

0:33:02.840 --> 0:33:05.680
<v Speaker 1>don't want to like get to ahead of myself because

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:08.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, changed a lot around here.

0:33:08.880 --> 0:33:10.720
<v Speaker 3>But we have a new contender.

0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:12.160
<v Speaker 1>We have a new contender, which.

0:33:13.800 --> 0:33:18.160
<v Speaker 2>I have a question. Yes, what does Whispering Heart have

0:33:18.320 --> 0:33:19.400
<v Speaker 2>to do? I mean it's like.

0:33:19.440 --> 0:33:22.160
<v Speaker 1>Heart quota has quota soon in the name of the hotel, Like,

0:33:22.160 --> 0:33:24.239
<v Speaker 1>how do I not get married at a hotel that

0:33:24.320 --> 0:33:25.840
<v Speaker 1>has heart in the title?

0:33:26.160 --> 0:33:31.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh? I feel like the butterflies they everywhere. The butterflies

0:33:31.760 --> 0:33:34.960
<v Speaker 2>thing really makes me feel like, Wow, that feels made

0:33:35.000 --> 0:33:38.520
<v Speaker 2>for y'all. But the whispering heart feels stress.

0:33:38.560 --> 0:33:41.640
<v Speaker 1>And then they're walking us around, and you know, I

0:33:41.680 --> 0:33:46.760
<v Speaker 1>was saying, like, we're not super like beachy couple. They

0:33:46.800 --> 0:33:50.680
<v Speaker 1>have a garden, a garden or the non beachy or

0:33:50.720 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 1>the non beachy gal that we could get married, Like

0:33:53.520 --> 0:33:57.160
<v Speaker 1>the ceremony could be in the garden. I don't want

0:33:57.160 --> 0:33:59.160
<v Speaker 1>my toes in the sand. I don't mind my toes

0:33:59.160 --> 0:34:01.200
<v Speaker 1>are in the sand for the dinner, but I don't

0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:02.600
<v Speaker 1>want them in the sand in my wedding gap.

0:34:02.840 --> 0:34:03.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:34:03.600 --> 0:34:04.960
<v Speaker 1>And so they have a garden and I was like,

0:34:05.120 --> 0:34:08.640
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, there's a garden and a beach, beach.

0:34:09.360 --> 0:34:13.040
<v Speaker 2>They've got it all. Butterflies everywhere, whispering heart, Yeah, I

0:34:13.120 --> 0:34:13.640
<v Speaker 2>got it all.

0:34:13.800 --> 0:34:14.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:34:14.239 --> 0:34:18.640
<v Speaker 2>So okay, so we're not getting ahead of ourselves, not

0:34:19.920 --> 0:34:24.160
<v Speaker 2>for a Mexico wedding. Yes, okay, this is great news.

0:34:25.320 --> 0:34:27.240
<v Speaker 2>What what's the date we're looking at? Are you gonna

0:34:27.280 --> 0:34:32.520
<v Speaker 2>hit me with another May eighteenth situation the week of So.

0:34:32.560 --> 0:34:34.800
<v Speaker 1>The problem is it does get really hot in Mexico

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:36.920
<v Speaker 1>after April, so I feel like it would have to

0:34:37.000 --> 0:34:37.720
<v Speaker 1>be before April.

0:34:37.760 --> 0:34:39.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, and.

0:34:39.000 --> 0:34:39.640
<v Speaker 1>It feels tight.

0:34:39.719 --> 0:34:43.120
<v Speaker 2>Huh guys, No, it doesn't feel tight. It's basically a year.

0:34:43.400 --> 0:34:44.319
<v Speaker 2>It's just now May.

0:34:44.600 --> 0:34:46.240
<v Speaker 1>It's June. It's June.

0:34:46.360 --> 0:34:49.000
<v Speaker 2>It's it's end of May. So if you did the

0:34:49.080 --> 0:34:53.359
<v Speaker 2>last weekend of April, there you go. It's basically it's

0:34:53.400 --> 0:34:54.480
<v Speaker 2>your eleven months.

0:34:54.640 --> 0:34:56.640
<v Speaker 1>April's tight. Like you know, it gets starts to get

0:34:56.680 --> 0:34:57.400
<v Speaker 1>hot around April.

0:34:57.400 --> 0:34:59.000
<v Speaker 2>Well, it's we got it. That's what we got to

0:34:59.080 --> 0:35:00.319
<v Speaker 2>really hot.

0:35:00.440 --> 0:35:02.600
<v Speaker 3>You're on the ocean, you have nice breezes. It's fine.

0:35:02.719 --> 0:35:05.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be melty weather.

0:35:07.640 --> 0:35:10.920
<v Speaker 2>With the weather. Ali was like, tell Tony of this

0:35:11.000 --> 0:35:14.720
<v Speaker 2>because the whole time we were planning Amsterdam, I packed

0:35:14.760 --> 0:35:16.800
<v Speaker 2>two bags. I packed my Orca bag and I packed

0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:19.840
<v Speaker 2>Amsterdam bag because Amsterdam was supposed to be cold and rainy,

0:35:19.880 --> 0:35:21.960
<v Speaker 2>and that's what Ali told me. We got there, it

0:35:22.000 --> 0:35:25.000
<v Speaker 2>was so hot and humid, and it was every single

0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:28.759
<v Speaker 2>day we checked for Saturday rain. Every single time we checked,

0:35:28.760 --> 0:35:32.400
<v Speaker 2>we checked like multiple different apps. The day comes, it

0:35:32.520 --> 0:35:38.480
<v Speaker 2>is sunny and like eighty degrees. So everything changed.

0:35:38.600 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 1>It does change, and like that was.

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:44.480
<v Speaker 2>So unexpected in that weather, Like in Amsterdam.

0:35:44.040 --> 0:35:46.520
<v Speaker 3>I worry. I worry about You're just choosing the day

0:35:46.560 --> 0:35:48.719
<v Speaker 3>and just every day going into youing, we refreshing your

0:35:48.760 --> 0:35:50.720
<v Speaker 3>weather wraps and freaking out and panicking.

0:35:50.760 --> 0:35:52.120
<v Speaker 1>And that's why I want to just have That's why

0:35:52.120 --> 0:35:54.799
<v Speaker 1>I feel like Mexico is a great place because it's

0:35:54.800 --> 0:35:56.920
<v Speaker 1>just always sunny and nice.

0:35:57.320 --> 0:36:00.520
<v Speaker 3>Sure, unless it's not and it might be hot and

0:36:00.560 --> 0:36:02.080
<v Speaker 3>it might not be hot, and it might rain and

0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:04.200
<v Speaker 3>it might not rain, and these are all possibilities that

0:36:04.239 --> 0:36:05.080
<v Speaker 3>you can't control.

0:36:05.239 --> 0:36:07.440
<v Speaker 1>If it's hot, we can all jump in the ocean.

0:36:08.239 --> 0:36:10.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly, that's so.

0:36:10.239 --> 0:36:13.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's pet friendly.

0:36:13.920 --> 0:36:15.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, Oh my god.

0:36:15.719 --> 0:36:17.080
<v Speaker 1>I know it writes.

0:36:16.840 --> 0:36:20.520
<v Speaker 2>Itself all right. I mean this is feeling good.

0:36:20.600 --> 0:36:22.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's feeling good. So we're in the process of

0:36:22.440 --> 0:36:24.879
<v Speaker 1>just kind of getting like numbers and figuring all that out.

0:36:24.920 --> 0:36:29.239
<v Speaker 1>But uh, the Plates retreat retreats in the in it

0:36:29.400 --> 0:36:33.240
<v Speaker 1>of themselves are so fun because like a, I didn't

0:36:33.239 --> 0:36:35.520
<v Speaker 1>know anybody going to this retreat, so I don't even

0:36:35.560 --> 0:36:39.320
<v Speaker 1>take plates classes from Amanda, who was leading the World retreat.

0:36:39.719 --> 0:36:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I've taken a couple like ten years ago from her,

0:36:41.719 --> 0:36:44.000
<v Speaker 1>and I've kept in touch with her through Instagram, and

0:36:44.080 --> 0:36:45.640
<v Speaker 1>I was like, this just sounds exactly what I want

0:36:45.640 --> 0:36:48.880
<v Speaker 1>to do. So Robbie and I went in knowing nobody

0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:52.520
<v Speaker 1>and we met the most amazing people like we and

0:36:52.560 --> 0:36:56.080
<v Speaker 1>we were like somehow like one person connected to like

0:36:56.080 --> 0:37:00.440
<v Speaker 1>the whitney Port was there and so and her husband

0:37:00.480 --> 0:37:02.080
<v Speaker 1>and her kid were supposed to come out to meet

0:37:02.080 --> 0:37:05.319
<v Speaker 1>her the next day, and her kid's passport expired, so

0:37:05.320 --> 0:37:07.360
<v Speaker 1>she ended up just having a solo trip the whole weekend.

0:37:08.800 --> 0:37:10.719
<v Speaker 1>But so whitney Port was there, and then like a

0:37:10.760 --> 0:37:13.000
<v Speaker 1>bunch of other people who I knew, like we all

0:37:13.040 --> 0:37:16.000
<v Speaker 1>had like one friend in common. It was really crazy

0:37:16.160 --> 0:37:20.520
<v Speaker 1>and just like her, just amazingly fun stories. And like

0:37:20.760 --> 0:37:22.879
<v Speaker 1>I sat next to this girl at dinner who wants

0:37:22.880 --> 0:37:25.799
<v Speaker 1>to be a contestant on Survivor like so bad, like

0:37:26.600 --> 0:37:28.880
<v Speaker 1>so badly. She is obsessed with the show. So I

0:37:28.880 --> 0:37:32.480
<v Speaker 1>was helping her with her audition tapes because like she

0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:33.600
<v Speaker 1>was showing Robbie and I and.

0:37:33.520 --> 0:37:35.360
<v Speaker 2>We were like no, no, no, these are too polished.

0:37:35.360 --> 0:37:37.760
<v Speaker 1>You got to like really bring out like the quirkiness

0:37:37.800 --> 0:37:39.719
<v Speaker 1>in you, and so yeah, yeah.

0:37:39.560 --> 0:37:44.520
<v Speaker 2>See, this is this is why I feel like Robbie

0:37:45.200 --> 0:37:48.080
<v Speaker 2>was meant for you, because I remember thinking when you

0:37:48.120 --> 0:37:50.600
<v Speaker 2>were dating and the things that you were looking for.

0:37:51.520 --> 0:37:53.839
<v Speaker 2>I was like, this is going to be a very

0:37:53.880 --> 0:37:57.480
<v Speaker 2>specific person. Like seriously, I remember thinking even just your

0:37:57.520 --> 0:38:00.719
<v Speaker 2>sleep schedule, yeah right, because I was like, she has

0:38:00.760 --> 0:38:03.879
<v Speaker 2>a really intense schedule with the radio, you know, and

0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:06.840
<v Speaker 2>she's going to find someone who is happy to be

0:38:06.920 --> 0:38:09.800
<v Speaker 2>on that or is already like on that type of schedule. Correct,

0:38:10.160 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 2>and like going to Plate's retreats and meeting different people,

0:38:13.280 --> 0:38:15.400
<v Speaker 2>and like, oh, he loves it. He loves it, he

0:38:15.480 --> 0:38:16.000
<v Speaker 2>loves it.

0:38:16.600 --> 0:38:19.520
<v Speaker 3>Life with Tanya, I've always said, is like living in

0:38:19.600 --> 0:38:22.919
<v Speaker 3>a sitcom. In this week's episode, Tanya tapes your mouth shut.

0:38:23.440 --> 0:38:26.120
<v Speaker 3>This week's episode, we need time to make almond milk.

0:38:26.480 --> 0:38:30.240
<v Speaker 3>This week's episode Sunday speech fasting, Like every.

0:38:30.040 --> 0:38:31.400
<v Speaker 1>Week is a different, something different.

0:38:31.640 --> 0:38:32.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:38:32.080 --> 0:38:34.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this morning, he woke up and I'm like, but

0:38:34.239 --> 0:38:36.320
<v Speaker 1>for some reason, the mouth tape doesn't stay on my mouth,

0:38:36.520 --> 0:38:38.480
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, I woke up, like and my hand

0:38:38.560 --> 0:38:42.040
<v Speaker 1>was in your like mouth tape and it comes.

0:38:41.760 --> 0:38:43.759
<v Speaker 2>Off my list. That must be such a drooler, which

0:38:43.800 --> 0:38:46.719
<v Speaker 2>is why I'm taping my mouth shut at night. Is

0:38:46.760 --> 0:38:49.320
<v Speaker 2>it working? Yes, Oh my gosh.

0:38:49.360 --> 0:38:50.839
<v Speaker 1>When I wake up in the morning and the mouth

0:38:50.880 --> 0:38:53.320
<v Speaker 1>tape is still on me, I feel like I slept

0:38:53.360 --> 0:38:55.879
<v Speaker 1>in a rock in a cave on down Under.

0:38:55.920 --> 0:38:59.000
<v Speaker 2>Everyone says it's amazing, amazing, it's life changing.

0:38:59.280 --> 0:39:01.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but for some reason, I'm such a drooler that

0:39:01.760 --> 0:39:05.160
<v Speaker 1>the mouth tape some nights just slips right on off.

0:39:05.520 --> 0:39:08.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't think I like that, but.

0:39:08.080 --> 0:39:11.120
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm like literally obsessed. And anyways, I so my

0:39:11.360 --> 0:39:14.520
<v Speaker 1>takeaway from my my retreat was I want to I

0:39:14.560 --> 0:39:14.920
<v Speaker 1>want to.

0:39:14.840 --> 0:39:18.279
<v Speaker 2>Do a retreat. You should, I know, but I really

0:39:18.320 --> 0:39:18.600
<v Speaker 2>do that.

0:39:18.719 --> 0:39:21.200
<v Speaker 1>Like Amanda had, like she teaches plotty, so she just

0:39:21.200 --> 0:39:25.360
<v Speaker 1>did two plates classes. No, I cannot guess you could.

0:39:25.600 --> 0:39:29.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't you do like twenty classes, shank shant, I

0:39:29.520 --> 0:39:32.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know what I'm talking about. Rotate your left hip

0:39:32.200 --> 0:39:33.600
<v Speaker 1>up and no, I can't even.

0:39:33.960 --> 0:39:37.320
<v Speaker 2>Do your own little version. Everybody donkey cake for a

0:39:37.320 --> 0:39:38.439
<v Speaker 2>fifty minutes. Let's go.

0:39:39.160 --> 0:39:41.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but yeah, it really that was my takeaway because

0:39:41.680 --> 0:39:44.799
<v Speaker 1>it's like so fun to just meet new people and like,

0:39:45.080 --> 0:39:47.439
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it was like a very we still

0:39:47.440 --> 0:39:49.360
<v Speaker 1>had like alone time, Like we did some stuff that

0:39:49.440 --> 0:39:50.640
<v Speaker 1>was just the two of us, like sat by the

0:39:50.640 --> 0:39:51.960
<v Speaker 1>beach for a little bit, just the two of us

0:39:51.960 --> 0:39:54.440
<v Speaker 1>by the pool, played cards, but then could be a

0:39:54.440 --> 0:39:56.520
<v Speaker 1>little social when we wanted to because there was all

0:39:56.520 --> 0:39:57.440
<v Speaker 1>these people around.

0:39:57.960 --> 0:40:01.240
<v Speaker 2>It was like perfect. It's so fun travel with your person,

0:40:01.600 --> 0:40:04.080
<v Speaker 2>because that was the other thing. I had never been

0:40:04.120 --> 0:40:06.120
<v Speaker 2>to Amsterdam before, and I was like, oh my gosh,

0:40:06.160 --> 0:40:08.680
<v Speaker 2>it's so weird not getting to experience doing this with

0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:10.919
<v Speaker 2>Haley for the first time, and like we like doing

0:40:11.000 --> 0:40:14.040
<v Speaker 2>the same things and like going on adventures. So I'm

0:40:14.080 --> 0:40:15.839
<v Speaker 2>glad y'all got to do that. Yeah, it's fun.

0:40:15.960 --> 0:40:16.759
<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much.

0:40:16.920 --> 0:40:20.040
<v Speaker 2>You finally proposed to your bridesmaids.

0:40:20.760 --> 0:40:24.839
<v Speaker 1>I did, Becca is a duel, A duel made true.

0:40:25.120 --> 0:40:28.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh it's happening.

0:40:28.440 --> 0:40:29.560
<v Speaker 1>And I was gonna I'm surprised.

0:40:29.600 --> 0:40:35.600
<v Speaker 2>You said yes. What, No, you're not. I said, yeah, yeah,

0:40:35.600 --> 0:40:37.040
<v Speaker 2>I am. It's a lot of work.

0:40:37.080 --> 0:40:38.640
<v Speaker 1>And then I was like watching you do it at

0:40:38.640 --> 0:40:41.200
<v Speaker 1>Alley's and I was like, that's a lot of work.

0:40:42.120 --> 0:40:44.759
<v Speaker 2>It's not when you when you love a friend, you

0:40:44.880 --> 0:40:47.279
<v Speaker 2>it's not a lot of work, you know, And I

0:40:47.320 --> 0:40:51.319
<v Speaker 2>have someone I'm definitely gonna be leaning on Paulina, and

0:40:51.360 --> 0:40:51.640
<v Speaker 2>you have.

0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:53.319
<v Speaker 1>My sister too, so like you really have.

0:40:53.520 --> 0:40:56.160
<v Speaker 2>It's like a three way street, so this will be easy,

0:40:56.200 --> 0:40:58.600
<v Speaker 2>breezy easy, although I do feel like Alley's a lot

0:40:58.640 --> 0:40:59.680
<v Speaker 2>more low maintenance.

0:41:00.000 --> 0:41:04.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, the minute gets locked in, you're gonna have

0:41:04.239 --> 0:41:05.760
<v Speaker 1>calendar alerts and.

0:41:06.239 --> 0:41:09.279
<v Speaker 2>Yay asked his groomsman.

0:41:09.560 --> 0:41:11.960
<v Speaker 1>No, And you know what's funny is I'm like, I'm done.

0:41:12.000 --> 0:41:14.640
<v Speaker 1>Like I've asked my bridesmaids. Everybody has said yes, they're

0:41:14.760 --> 0:41:19.080
<v Speaker 1>locked they're in. I have five. I'm like, babe, when

0:41:19.080 --> 0:41:22.160
<v Speaker 1>are you gonna ask your groomsmen? And he was like, well,

0:41:22.480 --> 0:41:23.799
<v Speaker 1>I'll do it, I'll do it. And I was like, okay,

0:41:23.840 --> 0:41:25.239
<v Speaker 1>so who are the five? And he was like, well,

0:41:26.360 --> 0:41:28.440
<v Speaker 1>I can't have five. I need have I'd probably have eight.

0:41:28.520 --> 0:41:34.080
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, hello, I'm locked in.

0:41:34.160 --> 0:41:34.960
<v Speaker 2>I got my five.

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:36.840
<v Speaker 1>I thought we said all about five, and now he

0:41:36.920 --> 0:41:37.560
<v Speaker 1>wants eight.

0:41:37.960 --> 0:41:39.279
<v Speaker 2>I was like, throw me.

0:41:40.840 --> 0:41:42.680
<v Speaker 3>It threw me. I asked people I had no interest

0:41:42.760 --> 0:41:44.600
<v Speaker 3>in having in my party because my wife had like

0:41:44.640 --> 0:41:47.160
<v Speaker 3>eight people, and I was like, oh man, I remember me.

0:41:49.640 --> 0:41:52.000
<v Speaker 1>Right, Well, no, I can't add on now because I'm

0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:56.160
<v Speaker 1>like those people know that I have my five. And

0:41:56.200 --> 0:41:58.719
<v Speaker 1>then that they were like chosen after, like, that's the great.

0:41:58.800 --> 0:42:00.880
<v Speaker 3>It looks bad if it was eight. On on the

0:42:00.920 --> 0:42:02.520
<v Speaker 3>other side, limit to five.

0:42:02.840 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 1>Either it's a limit to five or our bridal party

0:42:05.200 --> 0:42:06.279
<v Speaker 1>is not up there, like we.

0:42:06.320 --> 0:42:08.600
<v Speaker 2>Just don't have the Okay, Yeah, that's a good auction too.

0:42:08.680 --> 0:42:13.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, because I was like eight sending your thing

0:42:13.480 --> 0:42:16.319
<v Speaker 1>out because he has like a group of friends that

0:42:16.440 --> 0:42:18.640
<v Speaker 1>like you can't there's like his high school buddies, and

0:42:18.640 --> 0:42:20.000
<v Speaker 1>he's like, I can't just have one or two.

0:42:20.040 --> 0:42:22.239
<v Speaker 2>It these be either all of them or none of them. Wow,

0:42:23.480 --> 0:42:26.960
<v Speaker 2>well it was really cute. Your little baskets were you asked?

0:42:26.960 --> 0:42:28.600
<v Speaker 2>Did have you shared the details?

0:42:28.840 --> 0:42:29.760
<v Speaker 1>No? I haven't.

0:42:30.200 --> 0:42:32.720
<v Speaker 2>So in the little box, she gave me a box

0:42:33.280 --> 0:42:39.160
<v Speaker 2>and it had a sweatshirt that says rats made. It's

0:42:39.239 --> 0:42:44.759
<v Speaker 2>really cute, and then mine says rad bride. And then

0:42:44.880 --> 0:42:47.000
<v Speaker 2>she got everyone like something that was kind of personal

0:42:47.000 --> 0:42:48.800
<v Speaker 2>to them. So she got me like this old timy

0:42:48.840 --> 0:42:51.520
<v Speaker 2>like glass bottle Doctor Pepper that was like the jeweled

0:42:51.600 --> 0:42:54.759
<v Speaker 2>hinestone rhinestoned. I don't know if I can drink it.

0:42:54.760 --> 0:42:58.799
<v Speaker 2>It's so cute. Now you can't. And then okay, and

0:42:58.840 --> 0:43:02.920
<v Speaker 2>then little like stene strips that were bedazzled a candle

0:43:03.400 --> 0:43:05.400
<v Speaker 2>and like ask.

0:43:05.320 --> 0:43:08.600
<v Speaker 1>The candle was that will you be my whatever? And

0:43:08.640 --> 0:43:12.240
<v Speaker 1>then everybody got a calendar with their initials on it. Yes,

0:43:12.520 --> 0:43:13.560
<v Speaker 1>for the family meetings.

0:43:13.560 --> 0:43:14.880
<v Speaker 2>So everything has like a purpose.

0:43:15.640 --> 0:43:19.320
<v Speaker 1>The listerine was for like when my breath gets stale.

0:43:19.640 --> 0:43:20.960
<v Speaker 3>You know, for it.

0:43:21.719 --> 0:43:23.680
<v Speaker 1>Doctor Pepper was because I'm gonna need a lot of

0:43:23.760 --> 0:43:24.399
<v Speaker 1>energy from her.

0:43:24.520 --> 0:43:24.719
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:43:24.760 --> 0:43:27.279
<v Speaker 1>Like everything had like a little a little meaning behind it.

0:43:27.440 --> 0:43:28.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was really cute.

0:43:28.800 --> 0:43:29.200
<v Speaker 4>Thanks.

0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:32.720
<v Speaker 2>I can't wait to be made of honor.

0:43:32.920 --> 0:43:34.320
<v Speaker 1>I can't wait either.

0:43:34.400 --> 0:43:36.239
<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be so fun, Like I.

0:43:36.239 --> 0:43:38.040
<v Speaker 1>Was already thinking about. I mean I already just I've

0:43:38.080 --> 0:43:39.719
<v Speaker 1>had so many thoughts. I just need to get like

0:43:39.760 --> 0:43:42.520
<v Speaker 1>a date. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you'll get it, you'll get

0:43:42.520 --> 0:43:43.799
<v Speaker 1>it done. Yeah. I feel really good.

0:43:43.800 --> 0:43:45.520
<v Speaker 2>I feel like really good about Whispering Heart.

0:43:45.600 --> 0:43:48.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, whispering heart because my heart whispers, you know.

0:43:48.920 --> 0:43:51.040
<v Speaker 3>Okay, we still have we need one more break. We

0:43:51.239 --> 0:43:52.400
<v Speaker 3>talked about Mammy swim waking.

0:43:52.480 --> 0:43:56.399
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, no, no, we have we have time. Okay,

0:43:56.440 --> 0:44:14.200
<v Speaker 2>we'll be right back. We'll be right back. We really

0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:17.080
<v Speaker 2>needed like a two hour episode today. But Tony's got

0:44:17.080 --> 0:44:18.480
<v Speaker 2>to hit the road. Gotta hit the road.

0:44:18.600 --> 0:44:20.399
<v Speaker 1>Got busy, busy, but we have.

0:44:20.440 --> 0:44:22.840
<v Speaker 2>To talk Miami Swim Week because this is crazy, this

0:44:23.000 --> 0:44:24.320
<v Speaker 2>is so exciting.

0:44:24.160 --> 0:44:28.040
<v Speaker 1>It's so crazy, Like I actually can't believe it.

0:44:28.120 --> 0:44:29.000
<v Speaker 2>How did it happen?

0:44:30.040 --> 0:44:33.080
<v Speaker 1>So I honestly don't even know. I think that there's

0:44:33.960 --> 0:44:36.279
<v Speaker 1>a lot of events happening around Mammy Swim Week that

0:44:36.320 --> 0:44:38.680
<v Speaker 1>are like female empowerment.

0:44:40.040 --> 0:44:41.120
<v Speaker 2>Parties, et cetera.

0:44:41.800 --> 0:44:45.800
<v Speaker 1>And so I was invited to a couple of those

0:44:46.400 --> 0:44:49.800
<v Speaker 1>and they were like, do you want to potentially walk

0:44:49.960 --> 0:44:52.640
<v Speaker 1>in Swim Week? And I was like, well no, like

0:44:53.360 --> 0:44:57.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not a model, nor do I have interest in modeling,

0:44:57.880 --> 0:45:01.200
<v Speaker 1>and like that seems crazy. And they're like okay, because

0:45:01.239 --> 0:45:02.840
<v Speaker 1>there's like people asking if you would do it, and

0:45:02.840 --> 0:45:06.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm like what. So then I like thought about it

0:45:06.280 --> 0:45:09.560
<v Speaker 1>and I was like when am I a ever gonna

0:45:09.560 --> 0:45:13.719
<v Speaker 1>do something this crazy? Yeah, I have no skin in

0:45:13.719 --> 0:45:15.960
<v Speaker 1>the game, so like I can audition and if they

0:45:16.000 --> 0:45:18.319
<v Speaker 1>said no, I'm not going to get my feelings hurt,

0:45:18.360 --> 0:45:19.680
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like I'm not Yeah, all

0:45:19.719 --> 0:45:22.399
<v Speaker 1>your career, you like, every time I go for something,

0:45:22.480 --> 0:45:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't get it.

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:24.800
<v Speaker 2>There's always this like heartbreak attached to it.

0:45:24.840 --> 0:45:26.080
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I don't think I'll have that

0:45:26.160 --> 0:45:28.880
<v Speaker 1>heartbreak if I don't get it. Yeah, And I was like,

0:45:28.960 --> 0:45:32.360
<v Speaker 1>what is more empowering than doing something that's so outside

0:45:32.360 --> 0:45:35.399
<v Speaker 1>my comfort zone? So it's like screw it. Sure, I'm

0:45:35.440 --> 0:45:37.840
<v Speaker 1>an audition. They're like, okay, so what you need to

0:45:37.880 --> 0:45:40.160
<v Speaker 1>do is you need to send in a video to

0:45:40.239 --> 0:45:44.080
<v Speaker 1>these strangers. They're like, we assure you that it's very

0:45:44.120 --> 0:45:46.360
<v Speaker 1>secure and like whatever. I mean, the internet's seen my

0:45:46.640 --> 0:45:52.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, dropbox. But but they're like, film yourself thirty

0:45:52.080 --> 0:45:54.520
<v Speaker 1>seconds walking up and down in a bikini. And I

0:45:54.560 --> 0:45:59.680
<v Speaker 1>was just like this is so crazy, So like okay,

0:45:59.760 --> 0:46:01.000
<v Speaker 1>and I had to do it. It was like a

0:46:01.080 --> 0:46:02.560
<v Speaker 1>quick turnaround. It was like I need to do it

0:46:02.560 --> 0:46:04.439
<v Speaker 1>the next day. So it was like there was no like.

0:46:04.840 --> 0:46:06.800
<v Speaker 2>Workout or you know, get it.

0:46:07.280 --> 0:46:09.439
<v Speaker 1>Like it was just like I'm just gonna do it.

0:46:09.560 --> 0:46:12.759
<v Speaker 1>I just did it, just raw dogged it, just fully run.

0:46:12.760 --> 0:46:15.760
<v Speaker 1>And then Robbie bless his heart, was like I'll film you, babe,

0:46:15.760 --> 0:46:17.440
<v Speaker 1>like I got you, Like he was all in, and

0:46:17.480 --> 0:46:18.960
<v Speaker 1>then he ended up getting stuck on this like really

0:46:19.000 --> 0:46:21.520
<v Speaker 1>important call because he has like a really important job.

0:46:21.560 --> 0:46:24.239
<v Speaker 1>You can't just like leave for your audition for my

0:46:24.239 --> 0:46:26.000
<v Speaker 1>masticition tape for Mimmy Swim Week.

0:46:26.040 --> 0:46:26.880
<v Speaker 3>This week's episode.

0:46:27.840 --> 0:46:31.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, Tanya needs me to tape her for

0:46:31.239 --> 0:46:33.239
<v Speaker 1>her Miami Swimming audition.

0:46:35.239 --> 0:46:35.439
<v Speaker 3>Show.

0:46:35.520 --> 0:46:37.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I was like, it's okay, babe, I got this.

0:46:37.840 --> 0:46:39.719
<v Speaker 1>So I like go out into our driveway and I

0:46:39.760 --> 0:46:42.359
<v Speaker 1>noticed that, like our garage has like this handle bar.

0:46:42.520 --> 0:46:44.520
<v Speaker 1>So I brought my phone up and weirdly, like the

0:46:44.640 --> 0:46:47.240
<v Speaker 1>angle made me look like Amazon woman, like I looked

0:46:47.440 --> 0:46:51.360
<v Speaker 1>tall as hell, like I don't mind this, and but

0:46:51.440 --> 0:46:53.120
<v Speaker 1>I realized and I was doing it, I was like,

0:46:53.200 --> 0:46:57.359
<v Speaker 1>it's so, it's so weird. It's so awkward to just

0:46:57.480 --> 0:47:00.000
<v Speaker 1>walk in your bikini, Like it's so weird.

0:47:00.080 --> 0:47:00.920
<v Speaker 2>And then I was like singing.

0:47:00.960 --> 0:47:03.160
<v Speaker 1>I had like music playing, but I'm like, I don't

0:47:03.160 --> 0:47:04.759
<v Speaker 1>know what music is me playing if I do this,

0:47:04.880 --> 0:47:06.839
<v Speaker 1>But I just like did it, sent it.

0:47:06.960 --> 0:47:08.799
<v Speaker 2>I was just like here, I'm gonna flip my leg up.

0:47:09.360 --> 0:47:12.360
<v Speaker 2>And they accepted me. Yeah, I mean, you looked amazing,

0:47:12.680 --> 0:47:15.040
<v Speaker 2>of course they do. And they said yes.

0:47:15.400 --> 0:47:18.040
<v Speaker 1>And so now I'm a shipping myself off to Miami

0:47:18.080 --> 0:47:22.480
<v Speaker 1>on Friday, and I'm gonna strutting down to Runway Saturday afternoon.

0:47:23.360 --> 0:47:25.759
<v Speaker 3>Robbie'll be there, Becca or Paulina, who's gonna be there

0:47:25.760 --> 0:47:26.800
<v Speaker 3>with you to support you in this.

0:47:27.000 --> 0:47:29.560
<v Speaker 1>So thank you so much for asking. I've asked everybody

0:47:29.600 --> 0:47:31.480
<v Speaker 1>to come because I do not want to be alone,

0:47:31.480 --> 0:47:33.040
<v Speaker 1>but I will be alone.

0:47:33.440 --> 0:47:37.160
<v Speaker 2>Once more modern woman than that. Yeah, yeah, thats how

0:47:37.200 --> 0:47:37.719
<v Speaker 2>you do it.

0:47:37.840 --> 0:47:40.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, I really just wanted somebody because I was like,

0:47:40.280 --> 0:47:42.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm so nervous and so outside of my car and

0:47:42.320 --> 0:47:44.160
<v Speaker 1>something that I wanted somebody there to like pump me up.

0:47:44.960 --> 0:47:46.080
<v Speaker 1>But I was like, you know what, I have to

0:47:46.280 --> 0:47:49.480
<v Speaker 1>pump myself up. I can I just have a talk

0:47:49.520 --> 0:47:50.920
<v Speaker 1>with myself right before.

0:47:51.520 --> 0:47:53.960
<v Speaker 2>You can do it. I'm proud of you, seriously, I'm

0:47:54.000 --> 0:47:55.759
<v Speaker 2>so proud. You know. Okay, I don't know if you've

0:47:55.800 --> 0:47:58.960
<v Speaker 2>ever seen these, but Maami Soddenly there's a someone at

0:47:59.000 --> 0:48:02.319
<v Speaker 2>the end taking photos and videos, and the videos are insane.

0:48:02.360 --> 0:48:05.480
<v Speaker 2>They are like so stunning stunningly beautiful. So you have

0:48:05.520 --> 0:48:09.680
<v Speaker 2>to make sure you get that oh up the crotch. No, no,

0:48:09.760 --> 0:48:12.160
<v Speaker 2>like the end of the runway, they like get you

0:48:12.239 --> 0:48:15.959
<v Speaker 2>like almost like posed, and it is just like it's

0:48:15.960 --> 0:48:17.680
<v Speaker 2>so cool. I can't You're gonna have one of those.

0:48:17.680 --> 0:48:20.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have one of those so epics. Yeah, so

0:48:20.640 --> 0:48:23.439
<v Speaker 1>I decided that I'm gonna today I actually worked out,

0:48:23.480 --> 0:48:25.680
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I think I'm worked out out

0:48:25.840 --> 0:48:28.000
<v Speaker 1>on weekend and I think I'm just gonna let my

0:48:28.000 --> 0:48:30.200
<v Speaker 1>body rest for the rest of the week and I'm

0:48:30.200 --> 0:48:33.279
<v Speaker 1>just gonna like hydrate and wow.

0:48:33.520 --> 0:48:36.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So I can't wait too, I mean, I can't

0:48:36.080 --> 0:48:38.799
<v Speaker 2>wait to hear about it on Monday when we come back.

0:48:38.960 --> 0:48:43.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm so, I'm like stressed and excited and nervous and like,

0:48:44.280 --> 0:48:46.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't know all the things.

0:48:47.719 --> 0:48:51.799
<v Speaker 2>You shouldn't be. You're gonna crush it? Yeah? Yeah. Are

0:48:51.800 --> 0:48:53.480
<v Speaker 2>you where heels? I don't know. I don't know. I

0:48:53.480 --> 0:48:57.120
<v Speaker 2>have no idea if I'm gonna be heels barefoot? Do

0:48:57.160 --> 0:49:00.560
<v Speaker 2>you feel better and hopefully not footboms up and down

0:49:00.600 --> 0:49:05.839
<v Speaker 2>the run? Yeah, I have no idea. I have no idea.

0:49:05.880 --> 0:49:07.239
<v Speaker 1>If like they're gonna have me do my hair a

0:49:07.320 --> 0:49:09.400
<v Speaker 1>certain way, like what they're gonna do my makeup? Like

0:49:09.719 --> 0:49:10.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm a vessel?

0:49:10.680 --> 0:49:12.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, your model? I'm model?

0:49:12.760 --> 0:49:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, yeah, yeah, they want me to shave the

0:49:17.760 --> 0:49:18.600
<v Speaker 1>left side of my eyebrow.

0:49:21.080 --> 0:49:22.640
<v Speaker 2>I am like a vessel like they do with me.

0:49:22.719 --> 0:49:24.759
<v Speaker 2>What they want the gig, what they want you to

0:49:24.800 --> 0:49:25.080
<v Speaker 2>look like?

0:49:25.200 --> 0:49:29.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeaheah, like if there's like an aesthetic like I don't know, yeah.

0:49:28.719 --> 0:49:31.160
<v Speaker 2>And then when you get back at some point we

0:49:31.280 --> 0:49:35.280
<v Speaker 2>have to race. Because there's been a lot of feedback

0:49:35.320 --> 0:49:36.960
<v Speaker 2>about who would win, and.

0:49:37.760 --> 0:49:39.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm Probabs like, you guys should do a decathlon.

0:49:39.560 --> 0:49:41.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, here's the thing.

0:49:41.840 --> 0:49:44.000
<v Speaker 1>He's like, yeah, you take tennis, And I'm like, what

0:49:44.080 --> 0:49:44.360
<v Speaker 1>is this like.

0:49:44.400 --> 0:49:48.440
<v Speaker 2>A whole weekend the here's the thing. The consensus was,

0:49:48.719 --> 0:49:52.560
<v Speaker 2>if it's distance, you win. If its sprints, I win, right,

0:49:52.600 --> 0:49:55.880
<v Speaker 2>So that's gonna be really like I have never been

0:49:55.920 --> 0:49:57.560
<v Speaker 2>a distance runner, so when I think.

0:49:57.440 --> 0:49:59.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm really a distance runner, I only think of sprint.

0:50:00.200 --> 0:50:04.120
<v Speaker 2>You know. I'm not thinking like two laps around the race.

0:50:05.360 --> 0:50:08.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm not thinking when I think about a race, I'm

0:50:08.400 --> 0:50:12.480
<v Speaker 2>thinking a sprint race. And Robbie was like, yeah, but

0:50:12.800 --> 0:50:15.600
<v Speaker 2>if you're talking about in an apocalypse, Tanya would win

0:50:15.640 --> 0:50:17.719
<v Speaker 2>because she'd happy endurance. And I was like, what if

0:50:17.719 --> 0:50:19.880
<v Speaker 2>I was sprinting to a shelter forty yards away?

0:50:19.960 --> 0:50:20.839
<v Speaker 3>True, you beat her.

0:50:21.400 --> 0:50:23.479
<v Speaker 2>So it's been a you.

0:50:23.360 --> 0:50:24.919
<v Speaker 3>Know what they say, you don't have to outrun the bear,

0:50:25.040 --> 0:50:27.480
<v Speaker 3>you don't have to outs outrun the person next to you.

0:50:28.520 --> 0:50:28.839
<v Speaker 3>The bear.

0:50:29.040 --> 0:50:31.560
<v Speaker 2>Wait, but what Robbie said something so funny in our

0:50:31.600 --> 0:50:33.400
<v Speaker 2>group chat when we were talking about this, and he

0:50:33.440 --> 0:50:36.919
<v Speaker 2>said it so innocently. What did he say? He goes,

0:50:39.080 --> 0:50:41.640
<v Speaker 2>He goes, honestly, we needed to cathalon where you each

0:50:41.680 --> 0:50:44.480
<v Speaker 2>get to pick five events. And I said, I think

0:50:44.480 --> 0:50:47.239
<v Speaker 2>I'd get beaten everything but a sprint. And he said, wow,

0:50:47.280 --> 0:50:49.799
<v Speaker 2>shocked to hear that. I go, she works out every day,

0:50:50.239 --> 0:50:51.960
<v Speaker 2>and he goes, I don't think so, you are a

0:50:51.960 --> 0:50:54.360
<v Speaker 2>blue chip athlete. We were actually trying to come up

0:50:54.360 --> 0:50:56.600
<v Speaker 2>with things Tanya would win and it was slim takings.

0:50:57.560 --> 0:51:01.120
<v Speaker 2>Tony goes, wow, babe, it's true though.

0:51:01.719 --> 0:51:03.760
<v Speaker 1>We were going through like a list of things and

0:51:03.760 --> 0:51:07.200
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, Beca's like really athletic, Like I know.

0:51:08.200 --> 0:51:12.120
<v Speaker 2>But endurance is important and you got that, but we do.

0:51:12.440 --> 0:51:14.879
<v Speaker 2>We have to do it so the people want it.

0:51:14.960 --> 0:51:15.799
<v Speaker 2>Even if it's just a race.

0:51:15.840 --> 0:51:18.440
<v Speaker 3>We don't need to do that's idea, but we need

0:51:18.440 --> 0:51:21.560
<v Speaker 3>to race from like you know what, what are you

0:51:21.600 --> 0:51:22.000
<v Speaker 3>looking at me?

0:51:22.040 --> 0:51:24.879
<v Speaker 1>Like just go down here and like run this can

0:51:24.920 --> 0:51:30.440
<v Speaker 1>trip over the sidewalk, no proper tra Yeah, yeah, I want.

0:51:30.320 --> 0:51:34.200
<v Speaker 2>It to be clean lines. We're on the same Stu

0:51:34.480 --> 0:51:35.239
<v Speaker 2>studies or.

0:51:35.280 --> 0:51:42.920
<v Speaker 1>No like Bumpy Juxtaposition Sidewalk have you seen Oh my gosh,

0:51:42.920 --> 0:51:43.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't even know.

0:51:45.320 --> 0:51:48.799
<v Speaker 2>But we do have an episode this Thursday. We are

0:51:49.440 --> 0:51:54.200
<v Speaker 2>having Truesdale. If you know Easton. Easton is the Truesdale

0:51:54.680 --> 0:51:56.839
<v Speaker 2>leader of the I would say president of the fan club.

0:51:56.920 --> 0:51:59.000
<v Speaker 1>Definitely a fan of the president of the fan club.

0:51:59.160 --> 0:52:02.040
<v Speaker 2>And he entered us to the girls and they are

0:52:02.760 --> 0:52:05.000
<v Speaker 2>so much fun. We had the best time hanging out

0:52:05.000 --> 0:52:07.359
<v Speaker 2>with them. So that airs Thursday, and then next week

0:52:07.440 --> 0:52:09.960
<v Speaker 2>we are going to talk about our top five Taylor

0:52:10.000 --> 0:52:12.719
<v Speaker 2>Swifts got ready to go. I do too, but I

0:52:12.719 --> 0:52:14.960
<v Speaker 2>don't want to rush that. No, and MoMA's gotta go.

0:52:15.120 --> 0:52:20.279
<v Speaker 2>Mama's gotta go. Alright, on that note, we love you

0:52:20.360 --> 0:52:21.359
<v Speaker 2>some mom, love you.

0:52:21.400 --> 0:52:21.840
<v Speaker 1>Bye.