Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Scrub dub dumb. It
Speaker 2: was like ages since I've said that, ages since you've
Speaker 2: been gone. I know, I feel like he's been good.
Speaker 2: Two weeks more than that.
Speaker 1: No, those two weeks just fourteen days.
Speaker 2: Well, I got back fourteen days from when you left.
Speaker 2: Technically thirteen.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, I honestly felt like twenty three, it did.
Speaker 2: It felt like a long time.
Speaker 1: You look different, really, Yeah, are you doing some different
Speaker 1: to your hair?
Speaker 2: Well, I have extensions. Oh that's it, but I guess
Speaker 2: I waved it. Oh no, it looks good. Thank you
Speaker 2: so much.
Speaker 1: The real ones in your head are the clippings.
Speaker 2: The real ones. I've had them since before you saw
Speaker 2: me with them. Oh, well, we did Daisy's interview.
Speaker 1: Oh you have them in there. It looked longer now.
Speaker 2: Well it's been fourteen days. It's been a long time. Yeah, wow,
Speaker 2: it has been a while. But we'll You've got a
Speaker 2: lot going on too. But where do we begin? We
Speaker 2: begin with the wedding. The wedding was okay. So first
Speaker 2: of all, a lot of people are like, where's Haley.
Speaker 2: Why is it Haley there? People were like expecting Haley
Speaker 2: to show up. There's a lot of conspiracy theories.
Speaker 1: Oh really yeah, what is it?
Speaker 2: Well? Not great? Just so like we we went, we
Speaker 2: just like are done and it's over and that's it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the soft launch of your breakup.
Speaker 2: Yeah, correct, so off launch wow yeah no faith, No,
Speaker 2: Haley had to go. She had been working like waiting
Speaker 2: to start a project, and so she left to start that.
Speaker 2: Like literally she was supposed to leave to go start
Speaker 2: it the day that I left, but it ended up
Speaker 2: getting pushed a week. So she ended up leaving and
Speaker 2: she was gonna fly out because her project got pushed.
Speaker 2: And I was like, if they need you for something
Speaker 2: and you have to get where you need to go
Speaker 2: and you're in Amsterdam, yeah, and then you come back
Speaker 2: in your jet lagged, that's just gonna be a lot.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And also I'm going to be giving Ali like all
Speaker 2: my attention, Like I'm going to be at Ali's beck
Speaker 2: and call you know, I'm the maid of honor. So
Speaker 2: I don't want I didn't want her to fly out
Speaker 2: and then kind of just you know, the alone or
Speaker 2: you know, so she offered and I was like, it's okay.
Speaker 2: Ali was understanding, but everyone was like, where's Haley.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're good. Yeah, I didn't know there was conspiracies.
Speaker 1: Though there was conspiracies. But it was funny because I
Speaker 1: knew that she was working. I knew that that's why
Speaker 1: she wasn't there. But optics are interesting, do you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like if you're just like watching the
Speaker 1: wedding going down, You're like, well, where's Haley, Where's Haley?
Speaker 1: And then you're like, wait, she's not there, She's not there,
Speaker 1: Where's Haley? Where's Haley? And then it just goes from there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just a spiral off.
Speaker 1: Napolene was like, where's Haley working?
Speaker 2: I know, I know I should have made it clear.
Speaker 2: I just to be honest. In my mind, it was
Speaker 2: clear what was going on. And I sometimes forget that
Speaker 2: I share my life and that a lot of makeup
Speaker 2: stories I.
Speaker 1: Leave a lot that would have been nice information to
Speaker 1: know going into said wedding, like Haley's not going to
Speaker 1: be a well now, looking of it.
Speaker 2: As a teaser for this, like where was Haley in
Speaker 2: the wedding? Listened to the podcast where was Haley? Dot
Speaker 2: dot dot? Yeah, this is nice, actually nice little teaser.
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's what happened with that, and I missed
Speaker 2: her so much because it was a very couplely trip.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 2: I was surrounded by couples and Jojo and Jordan and
Speaker 2: Alian Carston and it was a lot of time. And
Speaker 2: to be honest, I have no issue being like the
Speaker 2: third or fifth wheel, like I've never I love my
Speaker 2: friends and I love their partner, so I've never really
Speaker 2: had an issue with it. But it was different for
Speaker 2: an extended amount of time being the third and fifth wheel. Yeah,
Speaker 2: because like part of me not that any of my
Speaker 2: friends make me feel like a burden. Like, if anything,
Speaker 2: I feel like I really add to this to the party.
Speaker 2: The party. Yeah, but there were moments where I was like,
Speaker 2: I don't want them to feel like they have to
Speaker 2: invite me to go to dinner. You know. Jojo and
Speaker 2: Jordan were celebrating their anniversary together, so oh while on
Speaker 2: the trip, well like that that was the week of
Speaker 2: their anniversary then, I mean.
Speaker 1: A popular week wedding weekend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was popular, so but it was really fun.
Speaker 2: We got there and I really felt like a master
Speaker 2: of jet lag, Like I really didn't have any issues.
Speaker 2: That's great. I know I was shocked because you know
Speaker 2: I love my sleep. Yeah, but we did that. Ali
Speaker 2: had a really hard time with the jet lag. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and her. I really want Ali to come back on
Speaker 2: to the podcast and give.
Speaker 1: Oh I already got the lowdown yesterday, I.
Speaker 2: Know, but I would love for her to come on
Speaker 2: and tell it since she was just here talking about
Speaker 2: the lead.
Speaker 1: I just want you to know that because of Ali,
Speaker 1: I am now planning my wedding around my menstrual phase. Yes,
Speaker 1: and I will get married in my follicular phase.
Speaker 3: You can predict it that far out?
Speaker 2: Sure can. Well, You're a very routine, right.
Speaker 1: Sister comes to town every twenty eight days. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: if I do the math, I think I can nail it.
Speaker 2: I don't think I could do it. And mine's always
Speaker 2: like a few days off. Like I would be nervous.
Speaker 1: If I'm a day or two off, it's really gonna
Speaker 1: screw it up. But I'm gonna give it my best shot.
Speaker 3: If you're a day or two off one time over
Speaker 3: the nine and ten months or whatever it is until
Speaker 3: your wedding, it's going to mess up the entire thing.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something that's about my period. Tell
Speaker 1: me she is so spot on every twenty eight days.
Speaker 1: Just this last month, like my last per I'm just
Speaker 1: finishing my period. So this was a couple of days ago.
Speaker 1: It was day twenty six and I got some blood
Speaker 1: and I was like, that is weird, Like it's it's weird.
Speaker 1: But I was like, got twenty six, twenty eight. You know,
Speaker 1: she went away for two days.
Speaker 2: She said to something, my times, all my time I
Speaker 2: had that.
Speaker 1: Twenty eight day. On Friday, she came back and she
Speaker 1: came back hard. She said, oh, she said up, and
Speaker 1: she came back and there she was.
Speaker 2: On the twenty eighth day. Wow. Yeah, but a good
Speaker 2: rule follower.
Speaker 1: How crazy is that?
Speaker 2: It was not great for me for my weekend.
Speaker 1: I was in a bathing suit and you know whatever. But yeah,
Speaker 1: so that anyways, that's what I might take away once
Speaker 1: I find the venue.
Speaker 2: Then figuring out.
Speaker 1: The date is going to be based on my menstrul syche.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yes, I genuinely.
Speaker 1: Think that down mark.
Speaker 2: It's so important because mostly because like I don't know
Speaker 2: that it would be a huge thing for me because
Speaker 2: I really have like I may get bloated the first
Speaker 2: day or the second day and then I'm kind of
Speaker 2: fine after that.
Speaker 1: It's not about bloating, it's not about body, it's about
Speaker 1: me mental capacity. Yeah, if I'm in my luteal phase
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to talk to one hundred and fifty
Speaker 1: people at my wedding, it's not going to be pretty.
Speaker 3: So it's not just about not having your period at
Speaker 3: your wedding. It's about being in a specific headspace. How
Speaker 3: long does that headspace last? That phase?
Speaker 1: Eighteen days?
Speaker 2: I see it's bad too, Like if it's bad, it's bad,
Speaker 2: and it affects everything that you do. And so Ali
Speaker 2: has shared on her Instagram that she was in her
Speaker 2: luteal phase, deep deep luteal. She was like she wasn't
Speaker 2: sleeping her she has really sensitive stomach.
Speaker 1: With like do I Yeah.
Speaker 2: So she was telling me, She's like, you need to
Speaker 2: tell Tanya to be aware of all these things. And
Speaker 2: I was like noted because it it was like it
Speaker 2: was a lot for her. I think yeah. And also
Speaker 2: you know Allie's if you know Ali from like Instagram
Speaker 2: and stuff, you feel like, oh, she loves a lot
Speaker 2: of focus on her, but she really doesn't. She likes
Speaker 2: small intimate groups. So I think on top of that,
Speaker 2: having like everyone there for her in Carson it was
Speaker 2: a lot, but her venue she looked gorgeous. Her venue
Speaker 2: was so beautiful. But she was so calm getting ready
Speaker 2: that I was like, are you good, Like, are you
Speaker 2: so calm that it's gone internal? Which is not good
Speaker 2: right right? But yeah, a lot of dark thoughts in
Speaker 2: my head. But never, you know, the really sweet thing
Speaker 2: was that it was never dark in terms of like
Speaker 2: questioning getting married or really the one. Yeah, it was
Speaker 2: not like that. If anything, she just couldn't wait to
Speaker 2: get to Carston, which was really sweet, Like she just was.
Speaker 1: Like the ready first look.
Speaker 2: No, well not really because we showed up and he
Speaker 2: was there, so they kind of She got there and
Speaker 2: the family and everyone took photos and stuff. But I
Speaker 2: didn't do like a private first look or anything.
Speaker 1: Well a first look means that he saw her before
Speaker 1: she walked down the aisle.
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, Typically a first look I think is when
Speaker 2: you have a private moment and you see each other
Speaker 2: for the first time and you almost have like the
Speaker 2: time where it's just you. But they didn't do that.
Speaker 2: But he did see her before. She worked on that
Speaker 2: asle got it. But she was like just wanting to
Speaker 2: be with everyone and socialize, and we'd be like, Halle,
Speaker 2: we need to let's seuch up your hair such of
Speaker 2: your makeup, and she'd be like, no, I just I
Speaker 2: just want to be with everybody.
Speaker 1: So she was I do often think about that, like
Speaker 1: when the bride changes her dress and her look and
Speaker 1: her that it's like you're gone from it, like your party.
Speaker 1: You're gone for like an hour plus.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you just gotta keep the drinks flowing, and
Speaker 2: you know, I know, but I don't want to be away.
Speaker 1: Like I'd be like, yeah, I'm not going to like
Speaker 1: redo the do and change my makeup.
Speaker 2: Yeah. She pretty much just changed her dress at some
Speaker 2: point when she wanted to and then walked down because
Speaker 2: she had a train on her dress, you know, and
Speaker 2: she bustled it. She had she buzzled it. But then
Speaker 2: she had a reception dress that didn't have a train,
Speaker 2: but it was a very similar style, so she just
Speaker 2: changed into that and felt much better. But it was
Speaker 2: really fun and sweet. Right before, it was kind of
Speaker 2: crazy because I felt very out of my element being
Speaker 2: somewhere that I had never been before, you know, right,
Speaker 2: And so I like booked a car for us and
Speaker 2: the driver left because we weren't down there, Like he
Speaker 2: was like, I have to go. I have another ride
Speaker 2: I have to get to I'm like, this isn't uber.
Speaker 2: I booked a car, right. So we're like just standing
Speaker 2: out on the street, you know, her wedding day, on
Speaker 2: her wedding day, and we're just like, I'm like, I
Speaker 2: have to call an uber because I can't book a
Speaker 2: car that's going to ge here in time. But she
Speaker 2: was so chill. She was just like, let's do it.
Speaker 2: But I was. I was stressed about all those little details.
Speaker 1: And I said it would be panicking.
Speaker 2: And so there was just a lot happening. And then
Speaker 2: you know, I originally wasn't gonna walk down the aisle
Speaker 2: because she had all of her bridesmaids sitting, and last
Speaker 2: minute they decided that me and then Carson's twin brother,
Speaker 2: we're going to walk down, you know, just the two
Speaker 2: of us. Oh, And I had her, well, Carson's ring
Speaker 2: but for the you know, ring and ball exchange, and
Speaker 2: I had her vow.
Speaker 1: The ring bear too.
Speaker 2: It was the ring bear I was carrying her vowels
Speaker 2: felt very important. But I had a moment where all
Speaker 2: of a sudden the song played that we were going
Speaker 2: to walk down to, and I turned into a standing
Speaker 2: with her dad, and I just like had this moment
Speaker 2: of like, oh my gosh, she's getting married, you know,
Speaker 2: like it finally settled for a moment and oh no,
Speaker 2: she was standing with her dad. I'm fine, I'm fine.
Speaker 2: Oh definitely not gonna be able to look at you.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah. I just looked at her, and I had
Speaker 2: this moment of watching her stand with her dad and
Speaker 2: thinking of all the things that we'd been through and
Speaker 2: that she was getting married, and I was like, I
Speaker 2: love you so much, you know, And she looked at
Speaker 2: me with like this look on her face and she
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna burst into tears, and I've
Speaker 2: made it this far, so I have to turn around.
Speaker 2: And she set it back, and then I walked down
Speaker 2: the aisle and got to watch her. And then her
Speaker 2: veil came off, like her veil wasn't tight on her head,
Speaker 2: so she was walking and it got caught on like
Speaker 2: some gravel or something. So I saw the moment where
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, it's come loose. And then she
Speaker 2: gets up there and I go to take I go
Speaker 2: to fix her dress, which we didn't plan or anything,
Speaker 2: but I was like, I'm going to fix her dress
Speaker 2: and see if I can get the veil tucked back in.
Speaker 2: So I could have tuck it in and it like
Speaker 2: flops back. So I was like, it's not going to
Speaker 2: stay in, So I just took it and bow your hair. No,
Speaker 2: I just took it out and like smoothed her hair down.
Speaker 2: And everyone thought it was like part of the plan.
Speaker 2: They're like, oh, like she walked down with it on
Speaker 2: and then it took it off. Was like, so she
Speaker 2: was so funny though. They did the vowels, and then
Speaker 2: the vowels were over and she like tossed her She
Speaker 2: just tossed the vowel book like behind. She was so
Speaker 2: Alley in that moment, you know, So she tossed her bouquet.
Speaker 2: Here we go. Oh she didn't do a bouquet toss. Yes,
Speaker 2: that's blasphemous. Yeah, and theyare the wealth Alley is for
Speaker 2: the next person to get married. I don't even know
Speaker 2: if that was ever a thing she thought of.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, like the single ladies eat all that
Speaker 1: good mojo.
Speaker 2: You can't just do it dirty like that just because
Speaker 2: you're married. It wasn't a ton of single ladies though. Whatever,
Speaker 2: you don't have a ring on your finger, yeah, but
Speaker 2: I don't want the pressure of having nice book. But
Speaker 2: they didn't do a first dance like they were very
Speaker 2: much just like did it the way they wanted to,
Speaker 2: which I loved that because every wedding that I've been
Speaker 2: to for most of my life, I've watched people do
Speaker 2: like the same thing, the same traditions, and I loved
Speaker 2: that it was there they just did what they wanted
Speaker 2: to and they didn't do what they didn't want to. Yeah,
Speaker 2: And I loved that.
Speaker 3: It's got to be your personality. Early days with my wife,
Speaker 3: we were just dating. We went to one of her
Speaker 3: cousins weddings something like that, and I think this is
Speaker 3: common in certain faiths. But the script, for lack of
Speaker 3: a better word, was in was given to everybody and
Speaker 3: you got to read along with everything the pastor says,
Speaker 3: and their names are literally blanks. Do you blank take blank?
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is just a cookie cutter film, the
Speaker 3: blank wedding. This is exactly what I don't want. Your
Speaker 3: wedding should absolutely reflect your personality and what you want.
Speaker 3: And if you don't want to do a bouquet toss.
Speaker 3: Don't do a bouquet toss.
Speaker 1: Well, I just feel like it's like not nice karma,
Speaker 1: you know, Like I feel like it's like, look, I
Speaker 1: got married, I got here, let me help someone else out.
Speaker 3: It's superstitious, it's legally binding.
Speaker 1: Whatever.
Speaker 2: Tony will be doing a vacation.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, when you're single and you don't
Speaker 1: want to be, you need all the help you can get. Sir,
Speaker 1: have you ever caught I sure did. I caught Sysney's.
Speaker 2: Oh wow.
Speaker 1: Took some time, a little bit of hangtime on that, okay,
Speaker 1: but it got me here.
Speaker 2: It did, It did all because of that. It worked.
Speaker 2: But yeah, it was super fun. We danced like it
Speaker 2: went to one one am, and then we went back
Speaker 2: and then we went on a buddy moon because I
Speaker 2: think her thought process was, all, my friends are traveling
Speaker 2: this far and we can go like when else are
Speaker 2: We're going to go on a trip with all of
Speaker 2: us together. So we went to Mayorca, which is one
Speaker 2: of my favorite places ever. That's when this being feeling
Speaker 2: missing Haley and feeling very and you know what, at
Speaker 2: this moment where I go, I am so grateful to
Speaker 2: my friends who who have been in single phases of
Speaker 2: life and come on trips and like been around with
Speaker 2: multiple couples, because it was hard. And I have a
Speaker 2: partner who like loves me and like I have a
Speaker 2: really healthy relationship, but not having that person and being
Speaker 2: around that energy, it was it was like, oh man,
Speaker 2: I it made me feel uh, just like grateful for
Speaker 2: my friends who have always done that, who have been
Speaker 2: in like single stages of life or you know, yeah,
Speaker 2: so shout out to you know, people who are waiting
Speaker 2: for their person. Yeah, it's rough out there, but I did.
Speaker 1: I was like scrolling along, I'm like watching all this
Speaker 1: and in my mind, in the back of my mind,
Speaker 1: I think I texted you and I was like, so,
Speaker 1: how's it like over there without Haley. Yeah, I had
Speaker 1: a feeling like I.
Speaker 2: Was like I could just it was like a six
Speaker 2: I have a sixth sense with you. Wow. Interesting, I
Speaker 2: felt it.
Speaker 1: I was like, I feel like she's really missing Haley
Speaker 1: right now.
Speaker 2: I got emotional on the last day, like the day
Speaker 2: before we left, I like fully broke down. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: got like I got my feelings hurt because I had
Speaker 2: gone to take well Laura came to meet me, and
Speaker 2: Laura's just like the best human ever ever. Everyone loves her. Literally,
Speaker 2: We've been best friend since freshman year of high school.
Speaker 2: And I feel like I can bring her to any
Speaker 2: situation and she will leave and then people are like,
Speaker 2: I love Laura, yeah, you know. And so she came
Speaker 2: to meet us, which was so fun. But then the
Speaker 2: day she left a day early, so I took her
Speaker 2: to the airport and I think that's why it really
Speaker 2: built me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like she was your comfort, she was your comfort blanket.
Speaker 2: And then so like, they all went to dinner with
Speaker 2: another group from the wedding were staying down the street,
Speaker 2: so they all went to dinner with them, and I
Speaker 2: was like, I'm just not. I don't want to kill
Speaker 2: the vibe, but I'm just not. I think I'm socialed out.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: It was two weeks of every single night meeting new
Speaker 2: people and it was so much fun, but I'm I'm
Speaker 2: an introverted extrovert, heavy on the introvert, and that part
Speaker 2: of me was like, I think finally I've had enough. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and so Jojo and Ali came to check on me,
Speaker 2: and I was just like sobbing. I didn't know why
Speaker 2: I was solving. I was like, and Ali goes, well,
Speaker 2: you know, you're gonna go home, and Hailey like, you're
Speaker 2: not really going home because like your person's not there, and.
Speaker 1: I was, oh my gosh, salts in the wood.
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I think that's a you know,
Speaker 2: I think I'm also I'm excited to go home and
Speaker 2: you know my home isn't home. Yeah. So but it
Speaker 2: was really fun and it was so it was so
Speaker 2: I've really spent a lot of time with Jordan and Carston,
Speaker 2: which I haven't got. I mean, we go to dinner,
Speaker 2: like we get in there. I just feel so grateful
Speaker 2: that all my friends are with such like nice, good
Speaker 2: guys and like funny guys.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: Carson, it was the first time where we spent a
Speaker 2: lot of time together and I'm like, he and Ali
Speaker 2: are just perfect for each other in the most hilarious way,
Speaker 2: and Jordan's just so pleasant and fun and you know,
Speaker 2: so it was. It was really great.
Speaker 1: I had major fomo and I don't get I don't
Speaker 1: really get fomo, and well I guess when it comes
Speaker 1: to you, I do, but like in general in life,
Speaker 1: I don't really get fomo.
Speaker 2: Someone I don't, So I don't really get fomo.
Speaker 1: Guys, I don't.
Speaker 3: What initials do you get? Because you get something?
Speaker 1: I get jealous, but that's not fomo.
Speaker 2: Like I can be jealous.
Speaker 1: They're not uh independently exclusive. You can be jealous and
Speaker 1: not have fomo.
Speaker 2: Not be jealous. So typically you just feel jealous, but
Speaker 2: you're not necessarily like I wish I would be there.
Speaker 2: You're just like jealous.
Speaker 3: Yes, you're jealous of who she's spending time with. You're
Speaker 3: not I wish I was there with them?
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, okay, they're not mutually to say that Tanya
Speaker 2: was one invited to all activities. But people on real
Speaker 2: Jojo they were like, why wasn't Tanya invited? Poor Tanya?
Speaker 2: Why isn't Tawny with y'all? And I'm like, this is
Speaker 2: turn sick. This is a sickness, and she was invited.
Speaker 3: I know what you get. You get full blow, fear
Speaker 3: of being left out.
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's left out, fear of Becca
Speaker 2: hanging out with other people?
Speaker 1: Yeah, what does that spell?
Speaker 2: I did say that.
Speaker 1: I did say that, Bob Hop Yeah, yeah, Bob Hop up.
Speaker 2: I have but uh, when when you.
Speaker 1: Were gone last week Kelty co hosted, and I did
Speaker 1: say that I was invited and why I did not attend.
Speaker 2: So I let this.
Speaker 1: I let the scrubbers know because they were like, why
Speaker 1: aren't you there? Did you not get invited? I was like, no, no,
Speaker 1: I did get invited. I love Ali and Carson and
Speaker 1: I wish that we could be there, and like I'm
Speaker 1: really having foe blah blah blah blah. But I knew
Speaker 1: it when I commented on that that photo of you and.
Speaker 2: Jojo get your Tanya naders A rile up and we're
Speaker 2: just like Joe and I are like, here it goes here,
Speaker 2: here we go.
Speaker 3: How about Phoba fear of being abandoned?
Speaker 1: But Becca's not in there?
Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah, everyone else?
Speaker 2: No, lucky me. Honestly, it is lucky you.
Speaker 1: I would sometimes I like look at Robbie and I'm like,
Speaker 1: what does it feel to be loved by me?
Speaker 2: Like he is very loved by you. But let me
Speaker 2: tell you something.
Speaker 3: He's like wearing a weighted blanket twenty four hours a day.
Speaker 2: Here's the thing.
Speaker 3: That's my guest.
Speaker 5: I texted her or I message her because she posted
Speaker 5: on uh they were on the plane and he literally
Speaker 5: has the earphones in watching a movie and she goes
Speaker 5: she's tapping him.
Speaker 2: She's like, Hey, what are you doing? And he's like,
Speaker 2: what do you see? I'm watching the movie? And I
Speaker 2: was like, that is a patient man.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. We talked about this earlier. She can't
Speaker 3: watch TV on a plane.
Speaker 2: She does. I literally looked him. We were separated.
Speaker 1: I hear her the point if I'm separated sometimes by
Speaker 1: default I must. But if there's nothing on the TV
Speaker 1: then and.
Speaker 3: Robbie, I just said separately on the flight back this weekend,
Speaker 3: which to me is no big deal. If my wife
Speaker 3: and I had to said separately, we were just gonna
Speaker 3: be watching our shows anyway. That's what we do. Because
Speaker 3: I never would ever in a million years, get on
Speaker 3: a flight without entertainment with me.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Ever, I would never not go enough to go download
Speaker 3: download Donald just to have something, because the fear of
Speaker 3: sitting there with nothing to do keeps me awake at night.
Speaker 3: Not tellya, She says, she's brought nothing because she's just
Speaker 3: going to talk to Robbie the whole time, even though
Speaker 3: they spent the whole weekend together.
Speaker 2: And then if he doesn't want to, so where's the
Speaker 2: like compromise on that.
Speaker 1: Well, I only don't let him if he wants to sleep.
Speaker 1: If he wants to sleep, I'll at him sleep.
Speaker 3: But what if he wants to watch a show?
Speaker 1: What does he want to watch? There's nothing that he
Speaker 1: wants to watch.
Speaker 2: Definitely seemed like he wanted to watch what he was watching.
Speaker 1: He was watching some Ferrari movie or something with Patrick Dempsey.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, yeah, you're one.
Speaker 3: But that's what that's the time to watch something. No, inters,
Speaker 3: it's perfects.
Speaker 1: You're acting like he has no free will. He does
Speaker 1: have free will. He could if he wanted to watch
Speaker 1: the movie.
Speaker 3: Let him. You let him.
Speaker 2: That isn't no free will, doesn't she tops him?
Speaker 1: Hey, I was waiting for it to be over, and
Speaker 1: then when it was over, I was gonna go in
Speaker 1: with my questions, being polite, just asking how much longer
Speaker 1: is this movie?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, there's a whole debate about because you were like,
Speaker 2: you know, the people sitting on either side of us,
Speaker 2: it was like a family and then a gay couple,
Speaker 2: and I was like, yeah, gay gay couples don't like
Speaker 2: the separation, and you're like neither new family. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: was screwed.
Speaker 1: Either way. Like I was like a hundred dollar bill
Speaker 1: in my pocket.
Speaker 2: I was ready to pay someone and nobody was budgeting.
Speaker 2: I was like rats. There's like this whole thing about
Speaker 2: people not getting up, like if a family comes on
Speaker 2: and they didn't get the or a couple gets on
Speaker 2: and they didn't get their seats together, and like how
Speaker 2: a certain person has chosen their seat and even if
Speaker 2: they're traveling single, they're not obligated to get up. And no,
Speaker 2: I don't think anybody's I know, but there's this is
Speaker 2: a whole debate thing about people like go back and
Speaker 2: forth about it.
Speaker 1: I always if anybody's ever I mean, I've only been
Speaker 1: asked a handful of times to move, and I always
Speaker 1: say yes because I usually travel alone.
Speaker 2: If you're in if you're in an aisle or window
Speaker 2: and then they're in the middle.
Speaker 1: I would probably do it. Yeah. Wow, if I'm not
Speaker 1: going like on the.
Speaker 2: Forest, I not do that.
Speaker 3: And a family could sit together.
Speaker 2: Yeah it's a kid, but if it's another grown up
Speaker 2: trying to sit with their significant other, no I'm fine.
Speaker 1: I'm like put me in the middle.
Speaker 2: Yea more people to talk to off, more off.
Speaker 1: Left and right. Baby, that's right, but oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: you know was on my flight home yesterday.
Speaker 2: You're never going to get.
Speaker 1: You're actually.
Speaker 2: You're never gonna get category.
Speaker 3: Wait, let's take a break and let's do it st
Speaker 3: we'll be back.
Speaker 1: I actually don't even know his names.
Speaker 3: We got some clues during the break. Sorry, and there
Speaker 3: seems to be a show involves because if I can
Speaker 3: just figure out what show he's on, so that's a
Speaker 3: show he is?
Speaker 2: Your clue? Is he is a TV actor?
Speaker 3: So not a reality star?
Speaker 1: Not a reality star? No, he is a legit actor.
Speaker 2: Is he on a doctor show?
Speaker 3: That's an excellent question.
Speaker 2: He is not.
Speaker 3: Is he on a superhero show?
Speaker 2: He is not.
Speaker 3: Is he on a current show?
Speaker 1: Define current currently.
Speaker 3: On air, on air and new episode's forthcoming?
Speaker 2: No? Is he from a c W show?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: Is it a show that recently ended?
Speaker 1: Defined recently in the last two years?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: Is it a comedy that to show the specific show
Speaker 3: referring to as a drama, we just know it's not
Speaker 3: a comedy. Doesn't that be a drama?
Speaker 2: This is us?
Speaker 1: No, I've been give you one more clue.
Speaker 2: I give a more clue. It was it was a season.
Speaker 1: Only one season came out and it was very buzzy
Speaker 1: when it came out, and everybody was obsessed with it,
Speaker 1: and that's all you get Netflix.
Speaker 2: I was gonna ask, is a network TV or like the.
Speaker 4: Stream shoot buzzy show on very buzzy show, I know,
Speaker 4: I know what streamer shall give you, the streamer Apple TV.
Speaker 3: Plus oh, succession and the budget. No, but close, I'm Severance. Yes,
Speaker 3: I meant Severance. Succession is Max Severance, Yes, the main guy. Yes,
Speaker 3: who his name is? Yes? He was also on us
Speaker 3: and Rack I think is Adam Scott.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 2: Wow, I had to give a lot of clues on that,
Speaker 2: so it wasn't but you didn't even know his name.
Speaker 1: So but it's funny because I have this thing where
Speaker 1: whenever Rob and I are watching a certain series, I
Speaker 1: always think I see that like one of the characters,
Speaker 1: like out of my coffee shop and stuff. And so
Speaker 1: since we were sitting separate, I had a text Robbie
Speaker 1: and I was like, the guy from Severance is right
Speaker 1: behind me. And he was like, no, it's not.
Speaker 2: It's not the guy from Sermons.
Speaker 1: You always do this And I was like, look, look
Speaker 1: behind me. He's wearing a white hat. And he goes
Speaker 1: that's not him, And I'm like, I swear I'm one
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty percent positive it's him because he had
Speaker 1: to walk right by me and made eye contact with him.
Speaker 3: Sure enough, Scott, I will correct severance. Is season two
Speaker 3: is in production right now? H yes, okay, yeah, yeah, right,
Speaker 3: so it does a current show. Oh so sorry, that's quit?
Speaker 2: All right, all right, Well and there was another season
Speaker 2: he said, very busy. Yeah, all right. We were led
Speaker 2: astray a little bit, but I would have never guessed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna say it was very obscure, but
Speaker 1: it was very exciting too, very very exciting spots.
Speaker 2: Yeah, got out.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you do just have global entry either,
Speaker 1: you know, like I just like make all these assumptions
Speaker 1: of him. He wasn't sitting next to who he was
Speaker 1: walking in there with either.
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, this was a really funny part
Speaker 2: of traveling with Carson and Alley. So Carson has airport
Speaker 2: anxiety where he needs to be super early and like
Speaker 2: make sure he gets on the plane and like that.
Speaker 2: He'll like go check and just make sure the gate
Speaker 2: is there, you know that type. And then Ali has
Speaker 2: anxiety on the plane because she fearce turbulence and stuff.
Speaker 2: So I most of the the whole time until we
Speaker 2: literally got home. I was on their schedule, just you know,
Speaker 2: to be a team player, so I was at the
Speaker 2: airport super early. Didn't need to be you know all that.
Speaker 1: Ye proud of you, honestly proud of you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm listen when I'm like in a duty of
Speaker 2: maid of honor, I am locked in.
Speaker 1: Are you ready to do it again?
Speaker 2: Yes? But it sounds like it's next year, so right, okay,
Speaker 2: feel good about that. So the last day when we
Speaker 2: were coming home to LA, they left and got there
Speaker 2: like over two hours early, and I was like, y'all
Speaker 2: go ahead, I'm gonna come my own time. So I
Speaker 2: have off duty. Now I'm off duty. I breeze in,
Speaker 2: literally got my snacks, walk up, we're boarding. I was like,
Speaker 2: this is ideal. The hallie got pulled aside, so I
Speaker 2: somehow got on the plane before they even did. We
Speaker 2: get off. They have global entry. I don't. I still
Speaker 2: make it to baggage claim while they're still waiting. It
Speaker 2: was hilarious. I got my bags first, My uber came first,
Speaker 2: and Carson was like, what the heck? Like, I make
Speaker 2: sure that everything is so easy and seamless, and then
Speaker 2: you just cruise on up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like it's just.
Speaker 2: Not overthinking it. Ain't that the truth? Anyways, you came
Speaker 2: back on the plane because you were at a Pilates retree.
Speaker 1: Yes, And I have to tell you, Robbie and I
Speaker 1: were actually I know it sounds like I'm very like
Speaker 1: dictator in our relationship, like I'd let him do things
Speaker 1: in our heart because I know, but I'm really not.
Speaker 1: And like, what's really interesting that we were talking about
Speaker 1: on our flight over there, see because talking is so nice,
Speaker 1: communicating and expressing things, is how much we like to
Speaker 1: do life the same way, Like we really really like,
Speaker 1: I genuinely feel like he and I i'd say eighty
Speaker 1: five percent of the time, maybe even more ninety percent
Speaker 1: of the time live our lives exactly the same. Like
Speaker 1: we love to do the same things. We like to
Speaker 1: watch the same things, we like to go to bed
Speaker 1: at the same time, we like to eat generally the
Speaker 1: same stuff like we And that's like so fun for me,
Speaker 1: you know, Like what other I don't know a lot
Speaker 1: of guys that would want to go on a Pilate's retreat,
Speaker 1: I would not correct And he was so game, went
Speaker 1: to every class like he was one of the Like
Speaker 1: a lot of people brought their husbands in significant others,
Speaker 1: so he wasn't the only like dude, but a lot
Speaker 1: of them went to like the restorative pilates like and
Speaker 1: he Robbie was at every single class and like he
Speaker 1: loved it, you know, like we really and it was
Speaker 1: kind of the perfect thing because we love to like
Speaker 1: work out and be healthy, but we also wanted like
Speaker 1: vacation and like warm weather and beach and so it
Speaker 1: was just like the perfect thing for us. But it
Speaker 1: was so funny because the whole weekend we're there, and
Speaker 1: everybody at this retreat is like, Robbie's so great. My
Speaker 1: husband loves Robbie. Robbie's so great. I'm like, Tanya, you're
Speaker 1: so lucky. Robbie's so great. I'm like anyone telling him
Speaker 1: how lucky he is with me, I don't love not
Speaker 1: chopped liver over here. But like the whole weekend it
Speaker 1: was like really crazy, like every single person was just
Speaker 1: like my husband loves Robbie. And I'm like, I know
Speaker 1: I heard it all. I heard it from her and
Speaker 1: her and her.
Speaker 2: And her husband telling everyone how well he is like,
Speaker 2: where's the you know, good team here?
Speaker 1: But no, it was really crazy. So we went to
Speaker 1: this plate's retreat and I love shout out to.
Speaker 2: Core Club.
Speaker 1: That's Pilate's by Amanda, that's like her baby. But it
Speaker 1: was really really fun, and we ended up going to
Speaker 1: this hotel. It's called Sousros de corson great All. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I said it right, but it translates
Speaker 1: to like Whispering Heart. Okay, so just come with.
Speaker 2: Me on this journey.
Speaker 1: Okay, So the hotel is called Whispering Heart. Okay, We're
Speaker 1: walking around beautiful hotel. We're walking around and I see
Speaker 1: these giant like photos like artwork butterflies, multiple all over
Speaker 1: and we're walking back to our room one night and
Speaker 1: there's a leaf in the shape of a butterfly right
Speaker 1: outside our room. And now I'll find you the photo
Speaker 1: because I saw it. It was a butterfly.
Speaker 2: Becca. You really threw me off the because you put
Speaker 2: the emoji butterfly right next to it.
Speaker 1: Big oh, so it made it look less like a butterfly.
Speaker 2: I just was like, is that a butterfly?
Speaker 1: I mean, you can't tell me.
Speaker 2: I don't know where to put it. Yeah, that's like
Speaker 2: dead butterfly carcass or something.
Speaker 3: Right, that's not quite what she was going for. I
Speaker 3: don't think so.
Speaker 1: Anyways, in a turn of events, we're like, we meet
Speaker 1: somebody here to talk about possibly getting married, because yeah,
Speaker 1: all the signs were pointing to it. We've been thinking
Speaker 1: about Mexico and we were always thinking about Cobo just
Speaker 1: because it's so easy. But Portavarta is literally half an
Speaker 1: hour difference. It's like basically the same thing in terms
Speaker 1: of like commute. And so we met with somebody and
Speaker 1: liked and then there was a party or an event
Speaker 1: that was happening kind of like on the beach that night,
Speaker 1: the second night that we were there, after the wedding
Speaker 1: walk through, and it had all these twinkle lights and
Speaker 1: they had like shrimp on the barbecue, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I had this vision of my wedding there like it
Speaker 1: was just like yeah, And so I don't know, I
Speaker 1: don't want to like get to ahead of myself because
Speaker 1: you know, changed a lot around here.
Speaker 3: But we have a new contender.
Speaker 1: We have a new contender, which.
Speaker 2: I have a question. Yes, what does Whispering Heart have
Speaker 2: to do? I mean it's like.
Speaker 1: Heart quota has quota soon in the name of the hotel, Like,
Speaker 1: how do I not get married at a hotel that
Speaker 1: has heart in the title?
Speaker 2: Oh? I feel like the butterflies they everywhere. The butterflies
Speaker 2: thing really makes me feel like, Wow, that feels made
Speaker 2: for y'all. But the whispering heart feels stress.
Speaker 1: And then they're walking us around, and you know, I
Speaker 1: was saying, like, we're not super like beachy couple. They
Speaker 1: have a garden, a garden or the non beachy or
Speaker 1: the non beachy gal that we could get married, Like
Speaker 1: the ceremony could be in the garden. I don't want
Speaker 1: my toes in the sand. I don't mind my toes
Speaker 1: are in the sand for the dinner, but I don't
Speaker 1: want them in the sand in my wedding gap.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And so they have a garden and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, there's a garden and a beach, beach.
Speaker 2: They've got it all. Butterflies everywhere, whispering heart, Yeah, I
Speaker 2: got it all.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So okay, so we're not getting ahead of ourselves, not
Speaker 2: for a Mexico wedding. Yes, okay, this is great news.
Speaker 2: What what's the date we're looking at? Are you gonna
Speaker 2: hit me with another May eighteenth situation the week of So.
Speaker 1: The problem is it does get really hot in Mexico
Speaker 1: after April, so I feel like it would have to
Speaker 1: be before April.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, and.
Speaker 1: It feels tight.
Speaker 2: Huh guys, No, it doesn't feel tight. It's basically a year.
Speaker 2: It's just now May.
Speaker 1: It's June. It's June.
Speaker 2: It's it's end of May. So if you did the
Speaker 2: last weekend of April, there you go. It's basically it's
Speaker 2: your eleven months.
Speaker 1: April's tight. Like you know, it gets starts to get
Speaker 1: hot around April.
Speaker 2: Well, it's we got it. That's what we got to
Speaker 2: really hot.
Speaker 3: You're on the ocean, you have nice breezes. It's fine.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be melty weather.
Speaker 2: With the weather. Ali was like, tell Tony of this
Speaker 2: because the whole time we were planning Amsterdam, I packed
Speaker 2: two bags. I packed my Orca bag and I packed
Speaker 2: Amsterdam bag because Amsterdam was supposed to be cold and rainy,
Speaker 2: and that's what Ali told me. We got there, it
Speaker 2: was so hot and humid, and it was every single
Speaker 2: day we checked for Saturday rain. Every single time we checked,
Speaker 2: we checked like multiple different apps. The day comes, it
Speaker 2: is sunny and like eighty degrees. So everything changed.
Speaker 1: It does change, and like that was.
Speaker 2: So unexpected in that weather, Like in Amsterdam.
Speaker 3: I worry. I worry about You're just choosing the day
Speaker 3: and just every day going into youing, we refreshing your
Speaker 3: weather wraps and freaking out and panicking.
Speaker 1: And that's why I want to just have That's why
Speaker 1: I feel like Mexico is a great place because it's
Speaker 1: just always sunny and nice.
Speaker 3: Sure, unless it's not and it might be hot and
Speaker 3: it might not be hot, and it might rain and
Speaker 3: it might not rain, and these are all possibilities that
Speaker 3: you can't control.
Speaker 1: If it's hot, we can all jump in the ocean.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, that's so.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pet friendly.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: I know it writes.
Speaker 2: Itself all right. I mean this is feeling good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's feeling good. So we're in the process of
Speaker 1: just kind of getting like numbers and figuring all that out.
Speaker 1: But uh, the Plates retreat retreats in the in it
Speaker 1: of themselves are so fun because like a, I didn't
Speaker 1: know anybody going to this retreat, so I don't even
Speaker 1: take plates classes from Amanda, who was leading the World retreat.
Speaker 1: I've taken a couple like ten years ago from her,
Speaker 1: and I've kept in touch with her through Instagram, and
Speaker 1: I was like, this just sounds exactly what I want
Speaker 1: to do. So Robbie and I went in knowing nobody
Speaker 1: and we met the most amazing people like we and
Speaker 1: we were like somehow like one person connected to like
Speaker 1: the whitney Port was there and so and her husband
Speaker 1: and her kid were supposed to come out to meet
Speaker 1: her the next day, and her kid's passport expired, so
Speaker 1: she ended up just having a solo trip the whole weekend.
Speaker 1: But so whitney Port was there, and then like a
Speaker 1: bunch of other people who I knew, like we all
Speaker 1: had like one friend in common. It was really crazy
Speaker 1: and just like her, just amazingly fun stories. And like
Speaker 1: I sat next to this girl at dinner who wants
Speaker 1: to be a contestant on Survivor like so bad, like
Speaker 1: so badly. She is obsessed with the show. So I
Speaker 1: was helping her with her audition tapes because like she
Speaker 1: was showing Robbie and I and.
Speaker 2: We were like no, no, no, these are too polished.
Speaker 1: You got to like really bring out like the quirkiness
Speaker 1: in you, and so yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: See, this is this is why I feel like Robbie
Speaker 2: was meant for you, because I remember thinking when you
Speaker 2: were dating and the things that you were looking for.
Speaker 2: I was like, this is going to be a very
Speaker 2: specific person. Like seriously, I remember thinking even just your
Speaker 2: sleep schedule, yeah right, because I was like, she has
Speaker 2: a really intense schedule with the radio, you know, and
Speaker 2: she's going to find someone who is happy to be
Speaker 2: on that or is already like on that type of schedule. Correct,
Speaker 2: and like going to Plate's retreats and meeting different people,
Speaker 2: and like, oh, he loves it. He loves it, he
Speaker 2: loves it.
Speaker 3: Life with Tanya, I've always said, is like living in
Speaker 3: a sitcom. In this week's episode, Tanya tapes your mouth shut.
Speaker 3: This week's episode, we need time to make almond milk.
Speaker 3: This week's episode Sunday speech fasting, Like every.
Speaker 1: Week is a different, something different.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this morning, he woke up and I'm like, but
Speaker 1: for some reason, the mouth tape doesn't stay on my mouth,
Speaker 1: and he's like, I woke up, like and my hand
Speaker 1: was in your like mouth tape and it comes.
Speaker 2: Off my list. That must be such a drooler, which
Speaker 2: is why I'm taping my mouth shut at night. Is
Speaker 2: it working? Yes, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: When I wake up in the morning and the mouth
Speaker 1: tape is still on me, I feel like I slept
Speaker 1: in a rock in a cave on down Under.
Speaker 2: Everyone says it's amazing, amazing, it's life changing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but for some reason, I'm such a drooler that
Speaker 1: the mouth tape some nights just slips right on off.
Speaker 2: I don't think I like that, but.
Speaker 1: No, I'm like literally obsessed. And anyways, I so my
Speaker 1: takeaway from my my retreat was I want to I
Speaker 1: want to.
Speaker 2: Do a retreat. You should, I know, but I really
Speaker 2: do that.
Speaker 1: Like Amanda had, like she teaches plotty, so she just
Speaker 1: did two plates classes. No, I cannot guess you could.
Speaker 1: I can't you do like twenty classes, shank shant, I
Speaker 1: don't know what I'm talking about. Rotate your left hip
Speaker 1: up and no, I can't even.
Speaker 2: Do your own little version. Everybody donkey cake for a
Speaker 2: fifty minutes. Let's go.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, it really that was my takeaway because
Speaker 1: it's like so fun to just meet new people and like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, it was like a very we still
Speaker 1: had like alone time, Like we did some stuff that
Speaker 1: was just the two of us, like sat by the
Speaker 1: beach for a little bit, just the two of us
Speaker 1: by the pool, played cards, but then could be a
Speaker 1: little social when we wanted to because there was all
Speaker 1: these people around.
Speaker 2: It was like perfect. It's so fun travel with your person,
Speaker 2: because that was the other thing. I had never been
Speaker 2: to Amsterdam before, and I was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: it's so weird not getting to experience doing this with
Speaker 2: Haley for the first time, and like we like doing
Speaker 2: the same things and like going on adventures. So I'm
Speaker 2: glad y'all got to do that. Yeah, it's fun.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much.
Speaker 2: You finally proposed to your bridesmaids.
Speaker 1: I did, Becca is a duel, A duel made true.
Speaker 2: Oh it's happening.
Speaker 1: And I was gonna I'm surprised.
Speaker 2: You said yes. What, No, you're not. I said, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I am. It's a lot of work.
Speaker 1: And then I was like watching you do it at
Speaker 1: Alley's and I was like, that's a lot of work.
Speaker 2: It's not when you when you love a friend, you
Speaker 2: it's not a lot of work, you know, And I
Speaker 2: have someone I'm definitely gonna be leaning on Paulina, and
Speaker 2: you have.
Speaker 1: My sister too, so like you really have.
Speaker 2: It's like a three way street, so this will be easy,
Speaker 2: breezy easy, although I do feel like Alley's a lot
Speaker 2: more low maintenance.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the minute gets locked in, you're gonna have
Speaker 1: calendar alerts and.
Speaker 2: Yay asked his groomsman.
Speaker 1: No, And you know what's funny is I'm like, I'm done.
Speaker 1: Like I've asked my bridesmaids. Everybody has said yes, they're
Speaker 1: locked they're in. I have five. I'm like, babe, when
Speaker 1: are you gonna ask your groomsmen? And he was like, well,
Speaker 1: I'll do it, I'll do it. And I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: so who are the five? And he was like, well,
Speaker 1: I can't have five. I need have I'd probably have eight.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, hello, I'm locked in.
Speaker 2: I got my five.
Speaker 1: I thought we said all about five, and now he
Speaker 1: wants eight.
Speaker 2: I was like, throw me.
Speaker 3: It threw me. I asked people I had no interest
Speaker 3: in having in my party because my wife had like
Speaker 3: eight people, and I was like, oh man, I remember me.
Speaker 1: Right, Well, no, I can't add on now because I'm
Speaker 1: like those people know that I have my five. And
Speaker 1: then that they were like chosen after, like, that's the great.
Speaker 3: It looks bad if it was eight. On on the
Speaker 3: other side, limit to five.
Speaker 1: Either it's a limit to five or our bridal party
Speaker 1: is not up there, like we.
Speaker 2: Just don't have the Okay, Yeah, that's a good auction too.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, because I was like eight sending your thing
Speaker 1: out because he has like a group of friends that
Speaker 1: like you can't there's like his high school buddies, and
Speaker 1: he's like, I can't just have one or two.
Speaker 2: It these be either all of them or none of them. Wow,
Speaker 2: well it was really cute. Your little baskets were you asked?
Speaker 2: Did have you shared the details?
Speaker 1: No? I haven't.
Speaker 2: So in the little box, she gave me a box
Speaker 2: and it had a sweatshirt that says rats made. It's
Speaker 2: really cute, and then mine says rad bride. And then
Speaker 2: she got everyone like something that was kind of personal
Speaker 2: to them. So she got me like this old timy
Speaker 2: like glass bottle Doctor Pepper that was like the jeweled
Speaker 2: hinestone rhinestoned. I don't know if I can drink it.
Speaker 2: It's so cute. Now you can't. And then okay, and
Speaker 2: then little like stene strips that were bedazzled a candle
Speaker 2: and like ask.
Speaker 1: The candle was that will you be my whatever? And
Speaker 1: then everybody got a calendar with their initials on it. Yes,
Speaker 1: for the family meetings.
Speaker 2: So everything has like a purpose.
Speaker 1: The listerine was for like when my breath gets stale.
Speaker 3: You know, for it.
Speaker 1: Doctor Pepper was because I'm gonna need a lot of
Speaker 1: energy from her.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: Like everything had like a little a little meaning behind it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really cute.
Speaker 4: Thanks.
Speaker 2: I can't wait to be made of honor.
Speaker 1: I can't wait either.
Speaker 2: It's gonna be so fun, Like I.
Speaker 1: Was already thinking about. I mean I already just I've
Speaker 1: had so many thoughts. I just need to get like
Speaker 1: a date. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you'll get it, you'll get
Speaker 1: it done. Yeah. I feel really good.
Speaker 2: I feel like really good about Whispering Heart.
Speaker 1: Yeah, whispering heart because my heart whispers, you know.
Speaker 3: Okay, we still have we need one more break. We
Speaker 3: talked about Mammy swim waking.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, no, no, we have we have time. Okay,
Speaker 2: we'll be right back. We'll be right back. We really
Speaker 2: needed like a two hour episode today. But Tony's got
Speaker 2: to hit the road. Gotta hit the road.
Speaker 1: Got busy, busy, but we have.
Speaker 2: To talk Miami Swim Week because this is crazy, this
Speaker 2: is so exciting.
Speaker 1: It's so crazy, Like I actually can't believe it.
Speaker 2: How did it happen?
Speaker 1: So I honestly don't even know. I think that there's
Speaker 1: a lot of events happening around Mammy Swim Week that
Speaker 1: are like female empowerment.
Speaker 2: Parties, et cetera.
Speaker 1: And so I was invited to a couple of those
Speaker 1: and they were like, do you want to potentially walk
Speaker 1: in Swim Week? And I was like, well no, like
Speaker 1: I'm not a model, nor do I have interest in modeling,
Speaker 1: and like that seems crazy. And they're like okay, because
Speaker 1: there's like people asking if you would do it, and
Speaker 1: I'm like what. So then I like thought about it
Speaker 1: and I was like when am I a ever gonna
Speaker 1: do something this crazy? Yeah, I have no skin in
Speaker 1: the game, so like I can audition and if they
Speaker 1: said no, I'm not going to get my feelings hurt,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I'm not Yeah, all
Speaker 1: your career, you like, every time I go for something,
Speaker 1: I don't get it.
Speaker 2: There's always this like heartbreak attached to it.
Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't think I'll have that
Speaker 1: heartbreak if I don't get it. Yeah, And I was like,
Speaker 1: what is more empowering than doing something that's so outside
Speaker 1: my comfort zone? So it's like screw it. Sure, I'm
Speaker 1: an audition. They're like, okay, so what you need to
Speaker 1: do is you need to send in a video to
Speaker 1: these strangers. They're like, we assure you that it's very
Speaker 1: secure and like whatever. I mean, the internet's seen my
Speaker 1: you know, dropbox. But but they're like, film yourself thirty
Speaker 1: seconds walking up and down in a bikini. And I
Speaker 1: was just like this is so crazy, So like okay,
Speaker 1: and I had to do it. It was like a
Speaker 1: quick turnaround. It was like I need to do it
Speaker 1: the next day. So it was like there was no like.
Speaker 2: Workout or you know, get it.
Speaker 1: Like it was just like I'm just gonna do it.
Speaker 1: I just did it, just raw dogged it, just fully run.
Speaker 1: And then Robbie bless his heart, was like I'll film you, babe,
Speaker 1: like I got you, Like he was all in, and
Speaker 1: then he ended up getting stuck on this like really
Speaker 1: important call because he has like a really important job.
Speaker 1: You can't just like leave for your audition for my
Speaker 1: masticition tape for Mimmy Swim Week.
Speaker 3: This week's episode.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Tanya needs me to tape her for
Speaker 1: her Miami Swimming audition.
Speaker 3: Show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like, it's okay, babe, I got this.
Speaker 1: So I like go out into our driveway and I
Speaker 1: noticed that, like our garage has like this handle bar.
Speaker 1: So I brought my phone up and weirdly, like the
Speaker 1: angle made me look like Amazon woman, like I looked
Speaker 1: tall as hell, like I don't mind this, and but
Speaker 1: I realized and I was doing it, I was like,
Speaker 1: it's so, it's so weird. It's so awkward to just
Speaker 1: walk in your bikini, Like it's so weird.
Speaker 2: And then I was like singing.
Speaker 1: I had like music playing, but I'm like, I don't
Speaker 1: know what music is me playing if I do this,
Speaker 1: But I just like did it, sent it.
Speaker 2: I was just like here, I'm gonna flip my leg up.
Speaker 2: And they accepted me. Yeah, I mean, you looked amazing,
Speaker 2: of course they do. And they said yes.
Speaker 1: And so now I'm a shipping myself off to Miami
Speaker 1: on Friday, and I'm gonna strutting down to Runway Saturday afternoon.
Speaker 3: Robbie'll be there, Becca or Paulina, who's gonna be there
Speaker 3: with you to support you in this.
Speaker 1: So thank you so much for asking. I've asked everybody
Speaker 1: to come because I do not want to be alone,
Speaker 1: but I will be alone.
Speaker 2: Once more modern woman than that. Yeah, yeah, thats how
Speaker 2: you do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I really just wanted somebody because I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm so nervous and so outside of my car and
Speaker 1: something that I wanted somebody there to like pump me up.
Speaker 1: But I was like, you know what, I have to
Speaker 1: pump myself up. I can I just have a talk
Speaker 1: with myself right before.
Speaker 2: You can do it. I'm proud of you, seriously, I'm
Speaker 2: so proud. You know. Okay, I don't know if you've
Speaker 2: ever seen these, but Maami Soddenly there's a someone at
Speaker 2: the end taking photos and videos, and the videos are insane.
Speaker 2: They are like so stunning stunningly beautiful. So you have
Speaker 2: to make sure you get that oh up the crotch. No, no,
Speaker 2: like the end of the runway, they like get you
Speaker 2: like almost like posed, and it is just like it's
Speaker 2: so cool. I can't You're gonna have one of those.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have one of those so epics. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I decided that I'm gonna today I actually worked out,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I think I'm worked out out
Speaker 1: on weekend and I think I'm just gonna let my
Speaker 1: body rest for the rest of the week and I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna like hydrate and wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I can't wait too, I mean, I can't
Speaker 2: wait to hear about it on Monday when we come back.
Speaker 1: I'm so, I'm like stressed and excited and nervous and like,
Speaker 1: I don't know all the things.
Speaker 2: You shouldn't be. You're gonna crush it? Yeah? Yeah. Are
Speaker 2: you where heels? I don't know. I don't know. I
Speaker 2: have no idea if I'm gonna be heels barefoot? Do
Speaker 2: you feel better and hopefully not footboms up and down
Speaker 2: the run? Yeah, I have no idea. I have no idea.
Speaker 1: If like they're gonna have me do my hair a
Speaker 1: certain way, like what they're gonna do my makeup? Like
Speaker 1: I'm a vessel?
Speaker 2: Yeah, your model? I'm model?
Speaker 1: Like yeah, yeah, yeah, they want me to shave the
Speaker 1: left side of my eyebrow.
Speaker 2: I am like a vessel like they do with me.
Speaker 2: What they want the gig, what they want you to
Speaker 2: look like?
Speaker 1: Yeaheah, like if there's like an aesthetic like I don't know, yeah.
Speaker 2: And then when you get back at some point we
Speaker 2: have to race. Because there's been a lot of feedback
Speaker 2: about who would win, and.
Speaker 1: I'm Probabs like, you guys should do a decathlon.
Speaker 2: I'm like, here's the thing.
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, you take tennis, And I'm like, what
Speaker 1: is this like.
Speaker 2: A whole weekend the here's the thing. The consensus was,
Speaker 2: if it's distance, you win. If its sprints, I win, right,
Speaker 2: So that's gonna be really like I have never been
Speaker 2: a distance runner, so when I think.
Speaker 1: I'm really a distance runner, I only think of sprint.
Speaker 2: You know. I'm not thinking like two laps around the race.
Speaker 2: I'm not thinking when I think about a race, I'm
Speaker 2: thinking a sprint race. And Robbie was like, yeah, but
Speaker 2: if you're talking about in an apocalypse, Tanya would win
Speaker 2: because she'd happy endurance. And I was like, what if
Speaker 2: I was sprinting to a shelter forty yards away?
Speaker 3: True, you beat her.
Speaker 2: So it's been a you.
Speaker 3: Know what they say, you don't have to outrun the bear,
Speaker 3: you don't have to outs outrun the person next to you.
Speaker 3: The bear.
Speaker 2: Wait, but what Robbie said something so funny in our
Speaker 2: group chat when we were talking about this, and he
Speaker 2: said it so innocently. What did he say? He goes,
Speaker 2: He goes, honestly, we needed to cathalon where you each
Speaker 2: get to pick five events. And I said, I think
Speaker 2: I'd get beaten everything but a sprint. And he said, wow,
Speaker 2: shocked to hear that. I go, she works out every day,
Speaker 2: and he goes, I don't think so, you are a
Speaker 2: blue chip athlete. We were actually trying to come up
Speaker 2: with things Tanya would win and it was slim takings.
Speaker 2: Tony goes, wow, babe, it's true though.
Speaker 1: We were going through like a list of things and
Speaker 1: and he's like, Beca's like really athletic, Like I know.
Speaker 2: But endurance is important and you got that, but we do.
Speaker 2: We have to do it so the people want it.
Speaker 2: Even if it's just a race.
Speaker 3: We don't need to do that's idea, but we need
Speaker 3: to race from like you know what, what are you
Speaker 3: looking at me?
Speaker 1: Like just go down here and like run this can
Speaker 1: trip over the sidewalk, no proper tra Yeah, yeah, I want.
Speaker 2: It to be clean lines. We're on the same Stu
Speaker 2: studies or.
Speaker 1: No like Bumpy Juxtaposition Sidewalk have you seen Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I don't even know.
Speaker 2: But we do have an episode this Thursday. We are
Speaker 2: having Truesdale. If you know Easton. Easton is the Truesdale
Speaker 2: leader of the I would say president of the fan club.
Speaker 1: Definitely a fan of the president of the fan club.
Speaker 2: And he entered us to the girls and they are
Speaker 2: so much fun. We had the best time hanging out
Speaker 2: with them. So that airs Thursday, and then next week
Speaker 2: we are going to talk about our top five Taylor
Speaker 2: Swifts got ready to go. I do too, but I
Speaker 2: don't want to rush that. No, and MoMA's gotta go.
Speaker 2: Mama's gotta go. Alright, on that note, we love you
Speaker 2: some mom, love you.
Speaker 1: Bye.