1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Scrub dub dumb. It 3 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 2: was like ages since I've said that, ages since you've 4 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 2: been gone. I know, I feel like he's been good. 5 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 2: Two weeks more than that. 6 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: No, those two weeks just fourteen days. 7 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 2: Well, I got back fourteen days from when you left. 8 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 2: Technically thirteen. 9 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: Oh oh, I honestly felt like twenty three, it did. 10 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 2: It felt like a long time. 11 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: You look different, really, Yeah, are you doing some different 12 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: to your hair? 13 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 2: Well, I have extensions. Oh that's it, but I guess 14 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 2: I waved it. Oh no, it looks good. Thank you 15 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 2: so much. 16 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: The real ones in your head are the clippings. 17 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 2: The real ones. I've had them since before you saw 18 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 2: me with them. Oh, well, we did Daisy's interview. 19 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: Oh you have them in there. It looked longer now. 20 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 2: Well it's been fourteen days. It's been a long time. Yeah, wow, 21 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 2: it has been a while. But we'll You've got a 22 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 2: lot going on too. But where do we begin? We 23 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 2: begin with the wedding. The wedding was okay. So first 24 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 2: of all, a lot of people are like, where's Haley. 25 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 2: Why is it Haley there? People were like expecting Haley 26 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 2: to show up. There's a lot of conspiracy theories. 27 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: Oh really yeah, what is it? 28 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 2: Well? Not great? Just so like we we went, we 29 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 2: just like are done and it's over and that's it. 30 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the soft launch of your breakup. 31 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, correct, so off launch wow yeah no faith, No, 32 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 2: Haley had to go. She had been working like waiting 33 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 2: to start a project, and so she left to start that. 34 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 2: Like literally she was supposed to leave to go start 35 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 2: it the day that I left, but it ended up 36 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 2: getting pushed a week. So she ended up leaving and 37 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: she was gonna fly out because her project got pushed. 38 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: And I was like, if they need you for something 39 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: and you have to get where you need to go 40 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 2: and you're in Amsterdam, yeah, and then you come back 41 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 2: in your jet lagged, that's just gonna be a lot. 42 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. 43 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 2: And also I'm going to be giving Ali like all 44 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,519 Speaker 2: my attention, Like I'm going to be at Ali's beck 45 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 2: and call you know, I'm the maid of honor. So 46 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 2: I don't want I didn't want her to fly out 47 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 2: and then kind of just you know, the alone or 48 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 2: you know, so she offered and I was like, it's okay. 49 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,519 Speaker 2: Ali was understanding, but everyone was like, where's Haley. 50 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're good. Yeah, I didn't know there was conspiracies. 51 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: Though there was conspiracies. But it was funny because I 52 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:36,799 Speaker 1: knew that she was working. I knew that that's why 53 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:41,239 Speaker 1: she wasn't there. But optics are interesting, do you know 54 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 1: what I mean? Like if you're just like watching the 55 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 1: wedding going down, You're like, well, where's Haley, Where's Haley? 56 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: And then you're like, wait, she's not there, She's not there, 57 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: Where's Haley? Where's Haley? And then it just goes from there. 58 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just a spiral off. 59 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: Napolene was like, where's Haley working? 60 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 2: I know, I know I should have made it clear. 61 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 2: I just to be honest. In my mind, it was 62 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 2: clear what was going on. And I sometimes forget that 63 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: I share my life and that a lot of makeup 64 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 2: stories I. 65 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: Leave a lot that would have been nice information to 66 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: know going into said wedding, like Haley's not going to 67 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: be a well now, looking of it. 68 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 2: As a teaser for this, like where was Haley in 69 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 2: the wedding? Listened to the podcast where was Haley? Dot 70 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 2: dot dot? Yeah, this is nice, actually nice little teaser. 71 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: So yeah, that's what happened with that, and I missed 72 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 2: her so much because it was a very couplely trip. 73 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 4: You know. 74 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 2: I was surrounded by couples and Jojo and Jordan and 75 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 2: Alian Carston and it was a lot of time. And 76 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 2: to be honest, I have no issue being like the 77 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 2: third or fifth wheel, like I've never I love my 78 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 2: friends and I love their partner, so I've never really 79 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 2: had an issue with it. But it was different for 80 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 2: an extended amount of time being the third and fifth wheel. Yeah, 81 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 2: because like part of me not that any of my 82 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 2: friends make me feel like a burden. Like, if anything, 83 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 2: I feel like I really add to this to the party. 84 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 2: The party. Yeah, but there were moments where I was like, 85 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 2: I don't want them to feel like they have to 86 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 2: invite me to go to dinner. You know. Jojo and 87 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 2: Jordan were celebrating their anniversary together, so oh while on 88 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 2: the trip, well like that that was the week of 89 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 2: their anniversary then, I mean. 90 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: A popular week wedding weekend. 91 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was popular, so but it was really fun. 92 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 2: We got there and I really felt like a master 93 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 2: of jet lag, Like I really didn't have any issues. 94 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 2: That's great. I know I was shocked because you know 95 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 2: I love my sleep. Yeah, but we did that. Ali 96 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 2: had a really hard time with the jet lag. Yeah, 97 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 2: and her. I really want Ali to come back on 98 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 2: to the podcast and give. 99 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: Oh I already got the lowdown yesterday, I. 100 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 2: Know, but I would love for her to come on 101 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 2: and tell it since she was just here talking about 102 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 2: the lead. 103 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: I just want you to know that because of Ali, 104 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: I am now planning my wedding around my menstrual phase. Yes, 105 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,239 Speaker 1: and I will get married in my follicular phase. 106 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 3: You can predict it that far out? 107 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 2: Sure can. Well, You're a very routine, right. 108 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: Sister comes to town every twenty eight days. Yeah, So 109 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 1: if I do the math, I think I can nail it. 110 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 2: I don't think I could do it. And mine's always 111 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 2: like a few days off. Like I would be nervous. 112 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: If I'm a day or two off, it's really gonna 113 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: screw it up. But I'm gonna give it my best shot. 114 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 3: If you're a day or two off one time over 115 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,559 Speaker 3: the nine and ten months or whatever it is until 116 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 3: your wedding, it's going to mess up the entire thing. 117 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something that's about my period. Tell 118 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: me she is so spot on every twenty eight days. 119 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 1: Just this last month, like my last per I'm just 120 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 1: finishing my period. So this was a couple of days ago. 121 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 1: It was day twenty six and I got some blood 122 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: and I was like, that is weird, Like it's it's weird. 123 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 1: But I was like, got twenty six, twenty eight. You know, 124 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: she went away for two days. 125 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 2: She said to something, my times, all my time I 126 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 2: had that. 127 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 1: Twenty eight day. On Friday, she came back and she 128 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 1: came back hard. She said, oh, she said up, and 129 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,280 Speaker 1: she came back and there she was. 130 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 2: On the twenty eighth day. Wow. Yeah, but a good 131 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 2: rule follower. 132 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: How crazy is that? 133 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 2: It was not great for me for my weekend. 134 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: I was in a bathing suit and you know whatever. But yeah, 135 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: so that anyways, that's what I might take away once 136 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 1: I find the venue. 137 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 2: Then figuring out. 138 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: The date is going to be based on my menstrul syche. 139 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 3: Wow. 140 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 2: Yes, I genuinely. 141 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:15,839 Speaker 1: Think that down mark. 142 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 2: It's so important because mostly because like I don't know 143 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 2: that it would be a huge thing for me because 144 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 2: I really have like I may get bloated the first 145 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: day or the second day and then I'm kind of 146 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 2: fine after that. 147 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: It's not about bloating, it's not about body, it's about 148 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 1: me mental capacity. Yeah, if I'm in my luteal phase 149 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 1: and I'm trying to talk to one hundred and fifty 150 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: people at my wedding, it's not going to be pretty. 151 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 3: So it's not just about not having your period at 152 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 3: your wedding. It's about being in a specific headspace. How 153 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 3: long does that headspace last? That phase? 154 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: Eighteen days? 155 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 2: I see it's bad too, Like if it's bad, it's bad, 156 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:54,679 Speaker 2: and it affects everything that you do. And so Ali 157 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 2: has shared on her Instagram that she was in her 158 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 2: luteal phase, deep deep luteal. She was like she wasn't 159 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 2: sleeping her she has really sensitive stomach. 160 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 1: With like do I Yeah. 161 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 2: So she was telling me, She's like, you need to 162 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 2: tell Tanya to be aware of all these things. And 163 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 2: I was like noted because it it was like it 164 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 2: was a lot for her. I think yeah. And also 165 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 2: you know Allie's if you know Ali from like Instagram 166 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 2: and stuff, you feel like, oh, she loves a lot 167 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 2: of focus on her, but she really doesn't. She likes 168 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 2: small intimate groups. So I think on top of that, 169 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 2: having like everyone there for her in Carson it was 170 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 2: a lot, but her venue she looked gorgeous. Her venue 171 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: was so beautiful. But she was so calm getting ready 172 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: that I was like, are you good, Like, are you 173 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:49,559 Speaker 2: so calm that it's gone internal? Which is not good 174 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 2: right right? But yeah, a lot of dark thoughts in 175 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 2: my head. But never, you know, the really sweet thing 176 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 2: was that it was never dark in terms of like 177 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 2: questioning getting married or really the one. Yeah, it was 178 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 2: not like that. If anything, she just couldn't wait to 179 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 2: get to Carston, which was really sweet, Like she just was. 180 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: Like the ready first look. 181 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 2: No, well not really because we showed up and he 182 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 2: was there, so they kind of She got there and 183 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 2: the family and everyone took photos and stuff. But I 184 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: didn't do like a private first look or anything. 185 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: Well a first look means that he saw her before 186 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: she walked down the aisle. 187 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, Typically a first look I think is when 188 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 2: you have a private moment and you see each other 189 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 2: for the first time and you almost have like the 190 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 2: time where it's just you. But they didn't do that. 191 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 2: But he did see her before. She worked on that 192 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 2: asle got it. But she was like just wanting to 193 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:38,959 Speaker 2: be with everyone and socialize, and we'd be like, Halle, 194 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:40,959 Speaker 2: we need to let's seuch up your hair such of 195 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 2: your makeup, and she'd be like, no, I just I 196 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 2: just want to be with everybody. 197 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 1: So she was I do often think about that, like 198 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 1: when the bride changes her dress and her look and 199 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: her that it's like you're gone from it, like your party. 200 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: You're gone for like an hour plus. 201 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you just gotta keep the drinks flowing, and 202 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 2: you know, I know, but I don't want to be away. 203 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 1: Like I'd be like, yeah, I'm not going to like 204 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 1: redo the do and change my makeup. 205 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. She pretty much just changed her dress at some 206 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 2: point when she wanted to and then walked down because 207 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 2: she had a train on her dress, you know, and 208 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 2: she bustled it. She had she buzzled it. But then 209 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 2: she had a reception dress that didn't have a train, 210 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 2: but it was a very similar style, so she just 211 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 2: changed into that and felt much better. But it was 212 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 2: really fun and sweet. Right before, it was kind of 213 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 2: crazy because I felt very out of my element being 214 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 2: somewhere that I had never been before, you know, right, 215 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:36,959 Speaker 2: And so I like booked a car for us and 216 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 2: the driver left because we weren't down there, Like he 217 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 2: was like, I have to go. I have another ride 218 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 2: I have to get to I'm like, this isn't uber. 219 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 2: I booked a car, right. So we're like just standing 220 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 2: out on the street, you know, her wedding day, on 221 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 2: her wedding day, and we're just like, I'm like, I 222 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 2: have to call an uber because I can't book a 223 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 2: car that's going to ge here in time. But she 224 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 2: was so chill. She was just like, let's do it. 225 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 2: But I was. I was stressed about all those little details. 226 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 1: And I said it would be panicking. 227 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 2: And so there was just a lot happening. And then 228 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,959 Speaker 2: you know, I originally wasn't gonna walk down the aisle 229 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 2: because she had all of her bridesmaids sitting, and last 230 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 2: minute they decided that me and then Carson's twin brother, 231 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 2: we're going to walk down, you know, just the two 232 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 2: of us. Oh, And I had her, well, Carson's ring 233 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 2: but for the you know, ring and ball exchange, and 234 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 2: I had her vow. 235 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: The ring bear too. 236 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 2: It was the ring bear I was carrying her vowels 237 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 2: felt very important. But I had a moment where all 238 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 2: of a sudden the song played that we were going 239 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 2: to walk down to, and I turned into a standing 240 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 2: with her dad, and I just like had this moment 241 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 2: of like, oh my gosh, she's getting married, you know, 242 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 2: like it finally settled for a moment and oh no, 243 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 2: she was standing with her dad. I'm fine, I'm fine. 244 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 2: Oh definitely not gonna be able to look at you. 245 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my gosh. 246 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah. I just looked at her, and I had 247 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 2: this moment of watching her stand with her dad and 248 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 2: thinking of all the things that we'd been through and 249 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 2: that she was getting married, and I was like, I 250 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:27,719 Speaker 2: love you so much, you know, And she looked at 251 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 2: me with like this look on her face and she 252 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna burst into tears, and I've 253 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 2: made it this far, so I have to turn around. 254 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 2: And she set it back, and then I walked down 255 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 2: the aisle and got to watch her. And then her 256 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 2: veil came off, like her veil wasn't tight on her head, 257 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 2: so she was walking and it got caught on like 258 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 2: some gravel or something. So I saw the moment where 259 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, it's come loose. And then she 260 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 2: gets up there and I go to take I go 261 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 2: to fix her dress, which we didn't plan or anything, 262 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 2: but I was like, I'm going to fix her dress 263 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 2: and see if I can get the veil tucked back in. 264 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 2: So I could have tuck it in and it like 265 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 2: flops back. So I was like, it's not going to 266 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 2: stay in, So I just took it and bow your hair. No, 267 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 2: I just took it out and like smoothed her hair down. 268 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 2: And everyone thought it was like part of the plan. 269 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 2: They're like, oh, like she walked down with it on 270 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 2: and then it took it off. Was like, so she 271 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 2: was so funny though. They did the vowels, and then 272 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 2: the vowels were over and she like tossed her She 273 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 2: just tossed the vowel book like behind. She was so 274 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 2: Alley in that moment, you know, So she tossed her bouquet. 275 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:37,679 Speaker 2: Here we go. Oh she didn't do a bouquet toss. Yes, 276 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 2: that's blasphemous. Yeah, and theyare the wealth Alley is for 277 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 2: the next person to get married. I don't even know 278 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 2: if that was ever a thing she thought of. 279 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, like the single ladies eat all that 280 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:50,560 Speaker 1: good mojo. 281 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 2: You can't just do it dirty like that just because 282 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 2: you're married. It wasn't a ton of single ladies though. Whatever, 283 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 2: you don't have a ring on your finger, yeah, but 284 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 2: I don't want the pressure of having nice book. But 285 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 2: they didn't do a first dance like they were very 286 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 2: much just like did it the way they wanted to, 287 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 2: which I loved that because every wedding that I've been 288 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:13,719 Speaker 2: to for most of my life, I've watched people do 289 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:17,199 Speaker 2: like the same thing, the same traditions, and I loved 290 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 2: that it was there they just did what they wanted 291 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 2: to and they didn't do what they didn't want to. Yeah, 292 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 2: And I loved that. 293 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 3: It's got to be your personality. Early days with my wife, 294 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 3: we were just dating. We went to one of her 295 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 3: cousins weddings something like that, and I think this is 296 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 3: common in certain faiths. But the script, for lack of 297 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 3: a better word, was in was given to everybody and 298 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 3: you got to read along with everything the pastor says, 299 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:42,560 Speaker 3: and their names are literally blanks. Do you blank take blank? 300 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 3: I'm like, this is just a cookie cutter film, the 301 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 3: blank wedding. This is exactly what I don't want. Your 302 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:50,959 Speaker 3: wedding should absolutely reflect your personality and what you want. 303 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 3: And if you don't want to do a bouquet toss. 304 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 3: Don't do a bouquet toss. 305 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 1: Well, I just feel like it's like not nice karma, 306 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 1: you know, Like I feel like it's like, look, I 307 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,839 Speaker 1: got married, I got here, let me help someone else out. 308 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 3: It's superstitious, it's legally binding. 309 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 1: Whatever. 310 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 2: Tony will be doing a vacation. 311 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: Let me tell you, when you're single and you don't 312 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 1: want to be, you need all the help you can get. Sir, 313 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: have you ever caught I sure did. I caught Sysney's. 314 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 2: Oh wow. 315 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 1: Took some time, a little bit of hangtime on that, okay, 316 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: but it got me here. 317 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 2: It did, It did all because of that. It worked. 318 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 2: But yeah, it was super fun. We danced like it 319 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 2: went to one one am, and then we went back 320 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 2: and then we went on a buddy moon because I 321 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 2: think her thought process was, all, my friends are traveling 322 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 2: this far and we can go like when else are 323 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 2: We're going to go on a trip with all of 324 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 2: us together. So we went to Mayorca, which is one 325 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 2: of my favorite places ever. That's when this being feeling 326 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 2: missing Haley and feeling very and you know what, at 327 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 2: this moment where I go, I am so grateful to 328 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 2: my friends who who have been in single phases of 329 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 2: life and come on trips and like been around with 330 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 2: multiple couples, because it was hard. And I have a 331 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 2: partner who like loves me and like I have a 332 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 2: really healthy relationship, but not having that person and being 333 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 2: around that energy, it was it was like, oh man, 334 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 2: I it made me feel uh, just like grateful for 335 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 2: my friends who have always done that, who have been 336 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 2: in like single stages of life or you know, yeah, 337 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 2: so shout out to you know, people who are waiting 338 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 2: for their person. Yeah, it's rough out there, but I did. 339 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: I was like scrolling along, I'm like watching all this 340 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 1: and in my mind, in the back of my mind, 341 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 1: I think I texted you and I was like, so, 342 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 1: how's it like over there without Haley. Yeah, I had 343 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 1: a feeling like I. 344 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 2: Was like I could just it was like a six 345 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 2: I have a sixth sense with you. Wow. Interesting, I 346 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 2: felt it. 347 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 1: I was like, I feel like she's really missing Haley 348 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 1: right now. 349 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 2: I got emotional on the last day, like the day 350 00:15:55,920 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 2: before we left, I like fully broke down. Yeah, I 351 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 2: got like I got my feelings hurt because I had 352 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 2: gone to take well Laura came to meet me, and 353 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 2: Laura's just like the best human ever ever. Everyone loves her. Literally, 354 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 2: We've been best friend since freshman year of high school. 355 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 2: And I feel like I can bring her to any 356 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 2: situation and she will leave and then people are like, 357 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 2: I love Laura, yeah, you know. And so she came 358 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 2: to meet us, which was so fun. But then the 359 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 2: day she left a day early, so I took her 360 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 2: to the airport and I think that's why it really 361 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 2: built me. 362 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, like she was your comfort, she was your comfort blanket. 363 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 2: And then so like, they all went to dinner with 364 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 2: another group from the wedding were staying down the street, 365 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 2: so they all went to dinner with them, and I 366 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 2: was like, I'm just not. I don't want to kill 367 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 2: the vibe, but I'm just not. I think I'm socialed out. 368 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 1: You know. 369 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 2: It was two weeks of every single night meeting new 370 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 2: people and it was so much fun, but I'm I'm 371 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 2: an introverted extrovert, heavy on the introvert, and that part 372 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 2: of me was like, I think finally I've had enough. Yeah, 373 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 2: and so Jojo and Ali came to check on me, 374 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 2: and I was just like sobbing. I didn't know why 375 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:09,679 Speaker 2: I was solving. I was like, and Ali goes, well, 376 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:11,880 Speaker 2: you know, you're gonna go home, and Hailey like, you're 377 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:14,160 Speaker 2: not really going home because like your person's not there, and. 378 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:16,119 Speaker 1: I was, oh my gosh, salts in the wood. 379 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:18,679 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I think that's a you know, 380 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 2: I think I'm also I'm excited to go home and 381 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:28,679 Speaker 2: you know my home isn't home. Yeah. So but it 382 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,600 Speaker 2: was really fun and it was so it was so 383 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 2: I've really spent a lot of time with Jordan and Carston, 384 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 2: which I haven't got. I mean, we go to dinner, 385 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 2: like we get in there. I just feel so grateful 386 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 2: that all my friends are with such like nice, good 387 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:44,720 Speaker 2: guys and like funny guys. 388 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:45,199 Speaker 1: You know. 389 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 2: Carson, it was the first time where we spent a 390 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 2: lot of time together and I'm like, he and Ali 391 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 2: are just perfect for each other in the most hilarious way, 392 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 2: and Jordan's just so pleasant and fun and you know, 393 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 2: so it was. It was really great. 394 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 1: I had major fomo and I don't get I don't 395 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 1: really get fomo, and well I guess when it comes 396 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 1: to you, I do, but like in general in life, 397 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 1: I don't really get fomo. 398 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:18,719 Speaker 2: Someone I don't, So I don't really get fomo. 399 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 1: Guys, I don't. 400 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 3: What initials do you get? Because you get something? 401 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: I get jealous, but that's not fomo. 402 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 2: Like I can be jealous. 403 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:35,719 Speaker 1: They're not uh independently exclusive. You can be jealous and 404 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 1: not have fomo. 405 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 2: Not be jealous. So typically you just feel jealous, but 406 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 2: you're not necessarily like I wish I would be there. 407 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:44,880 Speaker 2: You're just like jealous. 408 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 3: Yes, you're jealous of who she's spending time with. You're 409 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 3: not I wish I was there with them? 410 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 2: Yes, okay, okay, they're not mutually to say that Tanya 411 00:18:54,280 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 2: was one invited to all activities. But people on real 412 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 2: Jojo they were like, why wasn't Tanya invited? Poor Tanya? 413 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 2: Why isn't Tawny with y'all? And I'm like, this is 414 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 2: turn sick. This is a sickness, and she was invited. 415 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 3: I know what you get. You get full blow, fear 416 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:19,440 Speaker 3: of being left out. 417 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:23,920 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's left out, fear of Becca 418 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:25,719 Speaker 2: hanging out with other people? 419 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, what does that spell? 420 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 2: I did say that. 421 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: I did say that, Bob Hop Yeah, yeah, Bob Hop up. 422 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 2: I have but uh, when when you. 423 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: Were gone last week Kelty co hosted, and I did 424 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:42,680 Speaker 1: say that I was invited and why I did not attend. 425 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:43,879 Speaker 2: So I let this. 426 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 1: I let the scrubbers know because they were like, why 427 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 1: aren't you there? Did you not get invited? I was like, no, no, 428 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,639 Speaker 1: I did get invited. I love Ali and Carson and 429 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:51,360 Speaker 1: I wish that we could be there, and like I'm 430 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:54,880 Speaker 1: really having foe blah blah blah blah. But I knew 431 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 1: it when I commented on that that photo of you and. 432 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:04,400 Speaker 2: Jojo get your Tanya naders A rile up and we're 433 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 2: just like Joe and I are like, here it goes here, 434 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 2: here we go. 435 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 3: How about Phoba fear of being abandoned? 436 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: But Becca's not in there? 437 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah, everyone else? 438 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:20,080 Speaker 2: No, lucky me. Honestly, it is lucky you. 439 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 1: I would sometimes I like look at Robbie and I'm like, 440 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:24,439 Speaker 1: what does it feel to be loved by me? 441 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 2: Like he is very loved by you. But let me 442 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 2: tell you something. 443 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 3: He's like wearing a weighted blanket twenty four hours a day. 444 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 2: Here's the thing. 445 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 3: That's my guest. 446 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 5: I texted her or I message her because she posted 447 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 5: on uh they were on the plane and he literally 448 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 5: has the earphones in watching a movie and she goes 449 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 5: she's tapping him. 450 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 2: She's like, Hey, what are you doing? And he's like, 451 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,199 Speaker 2: what do you see? I'm watching the movie? And I 452 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,440 Speaker 2: was like, that is a patient man. 453 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. We talked about this earlier. She can't 454 00:20:58,240 --> 00:20:59,639 Speaker 3: watch TV on a plane. 455 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 2: She does. I literally looked him. We were separated. 456 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 1: I hear her the point if I'm separated sometimes by 457 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 1: default I must. But if there's nothing on the TV 458 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 1: then and. 459 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 3: Robbie, I just said separately on the flight back this weekend, 460 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,440 Speaker 3: which to me is no big deal. If my wife 461 00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 3: and I had to said separately, we were just gonna 462 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,119 Speaker 3: be watching our shows anyway. That's what we do. Because 463 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 3: I never would ever in a million years, get on 464 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,720 Speaker 3: a flight without entertainment with me. 465 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 466 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,199 Speaker 3: Ever, I would never not go enough to go download 467 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 3: download Donald just to have something, because the fear of 468 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,160 Speaker 3: sitting there with nothing to do keeps me awake at night. 469 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:38,359 Speaker 3: Not tellya, She says, she's brought nothing because she's just 470 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 3: going to talk to Robbie the whole time, even though 471 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 3: they spent the whole weekend together. 472 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 2: And then if he doesn't want to, so where's the 473 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:46,360 Speaker 2: like compromise on that. 474 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:50,159 Speaker 1: Well, I only don't let him if he wants to sleep. 475 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: If he wants to sleep, I'll at him sleep. 476 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 3: But what if he wants to watch a show? 477 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 1: What does he want to watch? There's nothing that he 478 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 1: wants to watch. 479 00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 2: Definitely seemed like he wanted to watch what he was watching. 480 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: He was watching some Ferrari movie or something with Patrick Dempsey. 481 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,879 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, yeah, you're one. 482 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:11,119 Speaker 3: But that's what that's the time to watch something. No, inters, 483 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 3: it's perfects. 484 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 1: You're acting like he has no free will. He does 485 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 1: have free will. He could if he wanted to watch 486 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:17,640 Speaker 1: the movie. 487 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 3: Let him. You let him. 488 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 2: That isn't no free will, doesn't she tops him? 489 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: Hey, I was waiting for it to be over, and 490 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 1: then when it was over, I was gonna go in 491 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:32,520 Speaker 1: with my questions, being polite, just asking how much longer 492 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 1: is this movie? 493 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, there's a whole debate about because you were like, 494 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,919 Speaker 2: you know, the people sitting on either side of us, 495 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:41,919 Speaker 2: it was like a family and then a gay couple, 496 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:43,919 Speaker 2: and I was like, yeah, gay gay couples don't like 497 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,639 Speaker 2: the separation, and you're like neither new family. Yeah, I 498 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:47,199 Speaker 2: was screwed. 499 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 1: Either way. Like I was like a hundred dollar bill 500 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:49,959 Speaker 1: in my pocket. 501 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 2: I was ready to pay someone and nobody was budgeting. 502 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 2: I was like rats. There's like this whole thing about 503 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 2: people not getting up, like if a family comes on 504 00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 2: and they didn't get the or a couple gets on 505 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 2: and they didn't get their seats together, and like how 506 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,399 Speaker 2: a certain person has chosen their seat and even if 507 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,359 Speaker 2: they're traveling single, they're not obligated to get up. And no, 508 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,119 Speaker 2: I don't think anybody's I know, but there's this is 509 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,439 Speaker 2: a whole debate thing about people like go back and 510 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:18,200 Speaker 2: forth about it. 511 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: I always if anybody's ever I mean, I've only been 512 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 1: asked a handful of times to move, and I always 513 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 1: say yes because I usually travel alone. 514 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 2: If you're in if you're in an aisle or window 515 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 2: and then they're in the middle. 516 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,879 Speaker 1: I would probably do it. Yeah. Wow, if I'm not 517 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: going like on the. 518 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 2: Forest, I not do that. 519 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,680 Speaker 3: And a family could sit together. 520 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 2: Yeah it's a kid, but if it's another grown up 521 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 2: trying to sit with their significant other, no I'm fine. 522 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:44,359 Speaker 1: I'm like put me in the middle. 523 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 2: Yea more people to talk to off, more off. 524 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 1: Left and right. Baby, that's right, but oh my gosh, 525 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:53,160 Speaker 1: you know was on my flight home yesterday. 526 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 2: You're never going to get. 527 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 1: You're actually. 528 00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 2: You're never gonna get category. 529 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:01,479 Speaker 3: Wait, let's take a break and let's do it st 530 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:03,360 Speaker 3: we'll be back. 531 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 1: I actually don't even know his names. 532 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,880 Speaker 3: We got some clues during the break. Sorry, and there 533 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 3: seems to be a show involves because if I can 534 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 3: just figure out what show he's on, so that's a 535 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 3: show he is? 536 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 2: Your clue? Is he is a TV actor? 537 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 3: So not a reality star? 538 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:44,160 Speaker 1: Not a reality star? No, he is a legit actor. 539 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 2: Is he on a doctor show? 540 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 3: That's an excellent question. 541 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 2: He is not. 542 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 3: Is he on a superhero show? 543 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:52,879 Speaker 2: He is not. 544 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 3: Is he on a current show? 545 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: Define current currently. 546 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 3: On air, on air and new episode's forthcoming? 547 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 2: No? Is he from a c W show? 548 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 1: No? 549 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 3: Is it a show that recently ended? 550 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 1: Defined recently in the last two years? 551 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:12,119 Speaker 2: Yes? 552 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 3: Is it a comedy that to show the specific show 553 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 3: referring to as a drama, we just know it's not 554 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 3: a comedy. Doesn't that be a drama? 555 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 2: This is us? 556 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 1: No, I've been give you one more clue. 557 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 2: I give a more clue. It was it was a season. 558 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:32,360 Speaker 1: Only one season came out and it was very buzzy 559 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 1: when it came out, and everybody was obsessed with it, 560 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 1: and that's all you get Netflix. 561 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,639 Speaker 2: I was gonna ask, is a network TV or like the. 562 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 4: Stream shoot buzzy show on very buzzy show, I know, 563 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,400 Speaker 4: I know what streamer shall give you, the streamer Apple TV. 564 00:25:56,280 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 3: Plus oh, succession and the budget. No, but close, I'm Severance. Yes, 565 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 3: I meant Severance. Succession is Max Severance, Yes, the main guy. Yes, 566 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:11,160 Speaker 3: who his name is? Yes? He was also on us 567 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,119 Speaker 3: and Rack I think is Adam Scott. 568 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: Yes. 569 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 2: Wow, I had to give a lot of clues on that, 570 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 2: so it wasn't but you didn't even know his name. 571 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,440 Speaker 1: So but it's funny because I have this thing where 572 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: whenever Rob and I are watching a certain series, I 573 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 1: always think I see that like one of the characters, 574 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,479 Speaker 1: like out of my coffee shop and stuff. And so 575 00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 1: since we were sitting separate, I had a text Robbie 576 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 1: and I was like, the guy from Severance is right 577 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 1: behind me. And he was like, no, it's not. 578 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:38,639 Speaker 2: It's not the guy from Sermons. 579 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: You always do this And I was like, look, look 580 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 1: behind me. He's wearing a white hat. And he goes 581 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,959 Speaker 1: that's not him, And I'm like, I swear I'm one 582 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty percent positive it's him because he had 583 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 1: to walk right by me and made eye contact with him. 584 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:54,120 Speaker 3: Sure enough, Scott, I will correct severance. Is season two 585 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,879 Speaker 3: is in production right now? H yes, okay, yeah, yeah, right, 586 00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,239 Speaker 3: so it does a current show. Oh so sorry, that's quit? 587 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:01,919 Speaker 2: All right, all right, Well and there was another season 588 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 2: he said, very busy. Yeah, all right. We were led 589 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:07,919 Speaker 2: astray a little bit, but I would have never guessed. 590 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:09,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna say it was very obscure, but 591 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 1: it was very exciting too, very very exciting spots. 592 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, got out. 593 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you do just have global entry either, 594 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 1: you know, like I just like make all these assumptions 595 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 1: of him. He wasn't sitting next to who he was 596 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 1: walking in there with either. 597 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:24,360 Speaker 2: I was like, wow, this was a really funny part 598 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:27,640 Speaker 2: of traveling with Carson and Alley. So Carson has airport 599 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,919 Speaker 2: anxiety where he needs to be super early and like 600 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:32,639 Speaker 2: make sure he gets on the plane and like that. 601 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 2: He'll like go check and just make sure the gate 602 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,439 Speaker 2: is there, you know that type. And then Ali has 603 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,439 Speaker 2: anxiety on the plane because she fearce turbulence and stuff. 604 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 2: So I most of the the whole time until we 605 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:47,199 Speaker 2: literally got home. I was on their schedule, just you know, 606 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 2: to be a team player, so I was at the 607 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 2: airport super early. Didn't need to be you know all that. 608 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 1: Ye proud of you, honestly proud of you. 609 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:59,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm listen when I'm like in a duty of 610 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:00,919 Speaker 2: maid of honor, I am locked in. 611 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:02,120 Speaker 1: Are you ready to do it again? 612 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 2: Yes? But it sounds like it's next year, so right, okay, 613 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 2: feel good about that. So the last day when we 614 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 2: were coming home to LA, they left and got there 615 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 2: like over two hours early, and I was like, y'all 616 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 2: go ahead, I'm gonna come my own time. So I 617 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 2: have off duty. Now I'm off duty. I breeze in, 618 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,639 Speaker 2: literally got my snacks, walk up, we're boarding. I was like, 619 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,159 Speaker 2: this is ideal. The hallie got pulled aside, so I 620 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:32,159 Speaker 2: somehow got on the plane before they even did. We 621 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 2: get off. They have global entry. I don't. I still 622 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 2: make it to baggage claim while they're still waiting. It 623 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 2: was hilarious. I got my bags first, My uber came first, 624 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 2: and Carson was like, what the heck? Like, I make 625 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 2: sure that everything is so easy and seamless, and then 626 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 2: you just cruise on up. 627 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, and like it's just. 628 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 2: Not overthinking it. Ain't that the truth? Anyways, you came 629 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 2: back on the plane because you were at a Pilates retree. 630 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 1: Yes, And I have to tell you, Robbie and I 631 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 1: were actually I know it sounds like I'm very like 632 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 1: dictator in our relationship, like I'd let him do things 633 00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 1: in our heart because I know, but I'm really not. 634 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 1: And like, what's really interesting that we were talking about 635 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 1: on our flight over there, see because talking is so nice, 636 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:21,959 Speaker 1: communicating and expressing things, is how much we like to 637 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 1: do life the same way, Like we really really like, 638 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 1: I genuinely feel like he and I i'd say eighty 639 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 1: five percent of the time, maybe even more ninety percent 640 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 1: of the time live our lives exactly the same. Like 641 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 1: we love to do the same things. We like to 642 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 1: watch the same things, we like to go to bed 643 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 1: at the same time, we like to eat generally the 644 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 1: same stuff like we And that's like so fun for me, 645 00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 1: you know, Like what other I don't know a lot 646 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 1: of guys that would want to go on a Pilate's retreat, 647 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 1: I would not correct And he was so game, went 648 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 1: to every class like he was one of the Like 649 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 1: a lot of people brought their husbands in significant others, 650 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,400 Speaker 1: so he wasn't the only like dude, but a lot 651 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 1: of them went to like the restorative pilates like and 652 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 1: he Robbie was at every single class and like he 653 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:08,800 Speaker 1: loved it, you know, like we really and it was 654 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 1: kind of the perfect thing because we love to like 655 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: work out and be healthy, but we also wanted like 656 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 1: vacation and like warm weather and beach and so it 657 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 1: was just like the perfect thing for us. But it 658 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 1: was so funny because the whole weekend we're there, and 659 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 1: everybody at this retreat is like, Robbie's so great. My 660 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 1: husband loves Robbie. Robbie's so great. I'm like, Tanya, you're 661 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 1: so lucky. Robbie's so great. I'm like anyone telling him 662 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 1: how lucky he is with me, I don't love not 663 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,720 Speaker 1: chopped liver over here. But like the whole weekend it 664 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 1: was like really crazy, like every single person was just 665 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 1: like my husband loves Robbie. And I'm like, I know 666 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 1: I heard it all. I heard it from her and 667 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 1: her and her. 668 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 2: And her husband telling everyone how well he is like, 669 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,000 Speaker 2: where's the you know, good team here? 670 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 1: But no, it was really crazy. So we went to 671 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 1: this plate's retreat and I love shout out to. 672 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:08,720 Speaker 2: Core Club. 673 00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 1: That's Pilate's by Amanda, that's like her baby. But it 674 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,480 Speaker 1: was really really fun, and we ended up going to 675 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 1: this hotel. It's called Sousros de corson great All. I 676 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 1: don't know if I said it right, but it translates 677 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 1: to like Whispering Heart. Okay, so just come with. 678 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 2: Me on this journey. 679 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:32,560 Speaker 1: Okay, So the hotel is called Whispering Heart. Okay, We're 680 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 1: walking around beautiful hotel. We're walking around and I see 681 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 1: these giant like photos like artwork butterflies, multiple all over 682 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 1: and we're walking back to our room one night and 683 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 1: there's a leaf in the shape of a butterfly right 684 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:56,040 Speaker 1: outside our room. And now I'll find you the photo 685 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 1: because I saw it. It was a butterfly. 686 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 2: Becca. You really threw me off the because you put 687 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,479 Speaker 2: the emoji butterfly right next to it. 688 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 1: Big oh, so it made it look less like a butterfly. 689 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,160 Speaker 2: I just was like, is that a butterfly? 690 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 1: I mean, you can't tell me. 691 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 2: I don't know where to put it. Yeah, that's like 692 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 2: dead butterfly carcass or something. 693 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 3: Right, that's not quite what she was going for. I 694 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 3: don't think so. 695 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:21,360 Speaker 1: Anyways, in a turn of events, we're like, we meet 696 00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 1: somebody here to talk about possibly getting married, because yeah, 697 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 1: all the signs were pointing to it. We've been thinking 698 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 1: about Mexico and we were always thinking about Cobo just 699 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:35,640 Speaker 1: because it's so easy. But Portavarta is literally half an 700 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 1: hour difference. It's like basically the same thing in terms 701 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 1: of like commute. And so we met with somebody and 702 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: liked and then there was a party or an event 703 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 1: that was happening kind of like on the beach that night, 704 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:50,800 Speaker 1: the second night that we were there, after the wedding 705 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:54,160 Speaker 1: walk through, and it had all these twinkle lights and 706 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 1: they had like shrimp on the barbecue, and I was like, 707 00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 1: I had this vision of my wedding there like it 708 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 1: was just like yeah, And so I don't know, I 709 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 1: don't want to like get to ahead of myself because 710 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 1: you know, changed a lot around here. 711 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 3: But we have a new contender. 712 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,160 Speaker 1: We have a new contender, which. 713 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:18,160 Speaker 2: I have a question. Yes, what does Whispering Heart have 714 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 2: to do? I mean it's like. 715 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 1: Heart quota has quota soon in the name of the hotel, Like, 716 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:24,239 Speaker 1: how do I not get married at a hotel that 717 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 1: has heart in the title? 718 00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:31,680 Speaker 2: Oh? I feel like the butterflies they everywhere. The butterflies 719 00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 2: thing really makes me feel like, Wow, that feels made 720 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 2: for y'all. But the whispering heart feels stress. 721 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 1: And then they're walking us around, and you know, I 722 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 1: was saying, like, we're not super like beachy couple. They 723 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 1: have a garden, a garden or the non beachy or 724 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 1: the non beachy gal that we could get married, Like 725 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 1: the ceremony could be in the garden. I don't want 726 00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,160 Speaker 1: my toes in the sand. I don't mind my toes 727 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 1: are in the sand for the dinner, but I don't 728 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:02,600 Speaker 1: want them in the sand in my wedding gap. 729 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 730 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 1: And so they have a garden and I was like, 731 00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, there's a garden and a beach, beach. 732 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:13,040 Speaker 2: They've got it all. Butterflies everywhere, whispering heart, Yeah, I 733 00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 2: got it all. 734 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 735 00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 2: So okay, so we're not getting ahead of ourselves, not 736 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 2: for a Mexico wedding. Yes, okay, this is great news. 737 00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,240 Speaker 2: What what's the date we're looking at? Are you gonna 738 00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 2: hit me with another May eighteenth situation the week of So. 739 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,800 Speaker 1: The problem is it does get really hot in Mexico 740 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:36,920 Speaker 1: after April, so I feel like it would have to 741 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:37,720 Speaker 1: be before April. 742 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 2: Oh okay, and. 743 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:39,640 Speaker 1: It feels tight. 744 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:43,120 Speaker 2: Huh guys, No, it doesn't feel tight. It's basically a year. 745 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:44,319 Speaker 2: It's just now May. 746 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:46,240 Speaker 1: It's June. It's June. 747 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 2: It's it's end of May. So if you did the 748 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:53,359 Speaker 2: last weekend of April, there you go. It's basically it's 749 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:54,480 Speaker 2: your eleven months. 750 00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: April's tight. Like you know, it gets starts to get 751 00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:57,400 Speaker 1: hot around April. 752 00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 2: Well, it's we got it. That's what we got to 753 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,319 Speaker 2: really hot. 754 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 3: You're on the ocean, you have nice breezes. It's fine. 755 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to be melty weather. 756 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 2: With the weather. Ali was like, tell Tony of this 757 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,720 Speaker 2: because the whole time we were planning Amsterdam, I packed 758 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:16,800 Speaker 2: two bags. I packed my Orca bag and I packed 759 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,840 Speaker 2: Amsterdam bag because Amsterdam was supposed to be cold and rainy, 760 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,960 Speaker 2: and that's what Ali told me. We got there, it 761 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,000 Speaker 2: was so hot and humid, and it was every single 762 00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,759 Speaker 2: day we checked for Saturday rain. Every single time we checked, 763 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:32,400 Speaker 2: we checked like multiple different apps. The day comes, it 764 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 2: is sunny and like eighty degrees. So everything changed. 765 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 1: It does change, and like that was. 766 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 2: So unexpected in that weather, Like in Amsterdam. 767 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 3: I worry. I worry about You're just choosing the day 768 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:48,719 Speaker 3: and just every day going into youing, we refreshing your 769 00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:50,720 Speaker 3: weather wraps and freaking out and panicking. 770 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,120 Speaker 1: And that's why I want to just have That's why 771 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,799 Speaker 1: I feel like Mexico is a great place because it's 772 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:56,920 Speaker 1: just always sunny and nice. 773 00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,520 Speaker 3: Sure, unless it's not and it might be hot and 774 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:02,080 Speaker 3: it might not be hot, and it might rain and 775 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 3: it might not rain, and these are all possibilities that 776 00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:05,080 Speaker 3: you can't control. 777 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 1: If it's hot, we can all jump in the ocean. 778 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, that's so. 779 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pet friendly. 780 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,600 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god. 781 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 1: I know it writes. 782 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 2: Itself all right. I mean this is feeling good. 783 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's feeling good. So we're in the process of 784 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,879 Speaker 1: just kind of getting like numbers and figuring all that out. 785 00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 1: But uh, the Plates retreat retreats in the in it 786 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:33,240 Speaker 1: of themselves are so fun because like a, I didn't 787 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 1: know anybody going to this retreat, so I don't even 788 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:39,320 Speaker 1: take plates classes from Amanda, who was leading the World retreat. 789 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 1: I've taken a couple like ten years ago from her, 790 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:44,000 Speaker 1: and I've kept in touch with her through Instagram, and 791 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 1: I was like, this just sounds exactly what I want 792 00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,880 Speaker 1: to do. So Robbie and I went in knowing nobody 793 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:52,520 Speaker 1: and we met the most amazing people like we and 794 00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 1: we were like somehow like one person connected to like 795 00:36:56,080 --> 00:37:00,440 Speaker 1: the whitney Port was there and so and her husband 796 00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 1: and her kid were supposed to come out to meet 797 00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:05,319 Speaker 1: her the next day, and her kid's passport expired, so 798 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,360 Speaker 1: she ended up just having a solo trip the whole weekend. 799 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:10,719 Speaker 1: But so whitney Port was there, and then like a 800 00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 1: bunch of other people who I knew, like we all 801 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:16,000 Speaker 1: had like one friend in common. It was really crazy 802 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 1: and just like her, just amazingly fun stories. And like 803 00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,879 Speaker 1: I sat next to this girl at dinner who wants 804 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:25,799 Speaker 1: to be a contestant on Survivor like so bad, like 805 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,880 Speaker 1: so badly. She is obsessed with the show. So I 806 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,480 Speaker 1: was helping her with her audition tapes because like she 807 00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:33,600 Speaker 1: was showing Robbie and I and. 808 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,360 Speaker 2: We were like no, no, no, these are too polished. 809 00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:37,760 Speaker 1: You got to like really bring out like the quirkiness 810 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,719 Speaker 1: in you, and so yeah, yeah. 811 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:44,520 Speaker 2: See, this is this is why I feel like Robbie 812 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 2: was meant for you, because I remember thinking when you 813 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,600 Speaker 2: were dating and the things that you were looking for. 814 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,839 Speaker 2: I was like, this is going to be a very 815 00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,480 Speaker 2: specific person. Like seriously, I remember thinking even just your 816 00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:00,719 Speaker 2: sleep schedule, yeah right, because I was like, she has 817 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,879 Speaker 2: a really intense schedule with the radio, you know, and 818 00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:06,840 Speaker 2: she's going to find someone who is happy to be 819 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,800 Speaker 2: on that or is already like on that type of schedule. Correct, 820 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 2: and like going to Plate's retreats and meeting different people, 821 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,400 Speaker 2: and like, oh, he loves it. He loves it, he 822 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 2: loves it. 823 00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,520 Speaker 3: Life with Tanya, I've always said, is like living in 824 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:22,919 Speaker 3: a sitcom. In this week's episode, Tanya tapes your mouth shut. 825 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 3: This week's episode, we need time to make almond milk. 826 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:30,240 Speaker 3: This week's episode Sunday speech fasting, Like every. 827 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:31,400 Speaker 1: Week is a different, something different. 828 00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:32,319 Speaker 3: Yeah. 829 00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, this morning, he woke up and I'm like, but 830 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,320 Speaker 1: for some reason, the mouth tape doesn't stay on my mouth, 831 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:38,480 Speaker 1: and he's like, I woke up, like and my hand 832 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:42,040 Speaker 1: was in your like mouth tape and it comes. 833 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:43,759 Speaker 2: Off my list. That must be such a drooler, which 834 00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,719 Speaker 2: is why I'm taping my mouth shut at night. Is 835 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,320 Speaker 2: it working? Yes, Oh my gosh. 836 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:50,839 Speaker 1: When I wake up in the morning and the mouth 837 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,320 Speaker 1: tape is still on me, I feel like I slept 838 00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,879 Speaker 1: in a rock in a cave on down Under. 839 00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:59,000 Speaker 2: Everyone says it's amazing, amazing, it's life changing. 840 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, but for some reason, I'm such a drooler that 841 00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:05,160 Speaker 1: the mouth tape some nights just slips right on off. 842 00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 2: I don't think I like that, but. 843 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,120 Speaker 1: No, I'm like literally obsessed. And anyways, I so my 844 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:14,520 Speaker 1: takeaway from my my retreat was I want to I 845 00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 1: want to. 846 00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:18,279 Speaker 2: Do a retreat. You should, I know, but I really 847 00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:18,600 Speaker 2: do that. 848 00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:21,200 Speaker 1: Like Amanda had, like she teaches plotty, so she just 849 00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:25,360 Speaker 1: did two plates classes. No, I cannot guess you could. 850 00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 1: I can't you do like twenty classes, shank shant, I 851 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 1: don't know what I'm talking about. Rotate your left hip 852 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 1: up and no, I can't even. 853 00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,320 Speaker 2: Do your own little version. Everybody donkey cake for a 854 00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:38,439 Speaker 2: fifty minutes. Let's go. 855 00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, it really that was my takeaway because 856 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,799 Speaker 1: it's like so fun to just meet new people and like, 857 00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,439 Speaker 1: I don't know, it was like a very we still 858 00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:49,360 Speaker 1: had like alone time, Like we did some stuff that 859 00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:50,640 Speaker 1: was just the two of us, like sat by the 860 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:51,960 Speaker 1: beach for a little bit, just the two of us 861 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,440 Speaker 1: by the pool, played cards, but then could be a 862 00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 1: little social when we wanted to because there was all 863 00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 1: these people around. 864 00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:01,240 Speaker 2: It was like perfect. It's so fun travel with your person, 865 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,080 Speaker 2: because that was the other thing. I had never been 866 00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:06,120 Speaker 2: to Amsterdam before, and I was like, oh my gosh, 867 00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,680 Speaker 2: it's so weird not getting to experience doing this with 868 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,919 Speaker 2: Haley for the first time, and like we like doing 869 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:14,040 Speaker 2: the same things and like going on adventures. So I'm 870 00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:15,839 Speaker 2: glad y'all got to do that. Yeah, it's fun. 871 00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:16,759 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. 872 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:20,040 Speaker 2: You finally proposed to your bridesmaids. 873 00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:24,839 Speaker 1: I did, Becca is a duel, A duel made true. 874 00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:28,120 Speaker 2: Oh it's happening. 875 00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:29,560 Speaker 1: And I was gonna I'm surprised. 876 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:35,600 Speaker 2: You said yes. What, No, you're not. I said, yeah, yeah, 877 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,040 Speaker 2: I am. It's a lot of work. 878 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:38,640 Speaker 1: And then I was like watching you do it at 879 00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 1: Alley's and I was like, that's a lot of work. 880 00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,759 Speaker 2: It's not when you when you love a friend, you 881 00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,279 Speaker 2: it's not a lot of work, you know, And I 882 00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:51,319 Speaker 2: have someone I'm definitely gonna be leaning on Paulina, and 883 00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:51,640 Speaker 2: you have. 884 00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,319 Speaker 1: My sister too, so like you really have. 885 00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,160 Speaker 2: It's like a three way street, so this will be easy, 886 00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:58,600 Speaker 2: breezy easy, although I do feel like Alley's a lot 887 00:40:58,640 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 2: more low maintenance. 888 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:04,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the minute gets locked in, you're gonna have 889 00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:05,760 Speaker 1: calendar alerts and. 890 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,279 Speaker 2: Yay asked his groomsman. 891 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 1: No, And you know what's funny is I'm like, I'm done. 892 00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,640 Speaker 1: Like I've asked my bridesmaids. Everybody has said yes, they're 893 00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 1: locked they're in. I have five. I'm like, babe, when 894 00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:22,160 Speaker 1: are you gonna ask your groomsmen? And he was like, well, 895 00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:23,799 Speaker 1: I'll do it, I'll do it. And I was like, okay, 896 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,239 Speaker 1: so who are the five? And he was like, well, 897 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,440 Speaker 1: I can't have five. I need have I'd probably have eight. 898 00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 1: And I'm like, hello, I'm locked in. 899 00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:34,960 Speaker 2: I got my five. 900 00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:36,840 Speaker 1: I thought we said all about five, and now he 901 00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:37,560 Speaker 1: wants eight. 902 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:39,279 Speaker 2: I was like, throw me. 903 00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 3: It threw me. I asked people I had no interest 904 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,600 Speaker 3: in having in my party because my wife had like 905 00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 3: eight people, and I was like, oh man, I remember me. 906 00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,000 Speaker 1: Right, Well, no, I can't add on now because I'm 907 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 1: like those people know that I have my five. And 908 00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,719 Speaker 1: then that they were like chosen after, like, that's the great. 909 00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:00,880 Speaker 3: It looks bad if it was eight. On on the 910 00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 3: other side, limit to five. 911 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 1: Either it's a limit to five or our bridal party 912 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,279 Speaker 1: is not up there, like we. 913 00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,600 Speaker 2: Just don't have the Okay, Yeah, that's a good auction too. 914 00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:13,359 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, because I was like eight sending your thing 915 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,319 Speaker 1: out because he has like a group of friends that 916 00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,640 Speaker 1: like you can't there's like his high school buddies, and 917 00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 1: he's like, I can't just have one or two. 918 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,239 Speaker 2: It these be either all of them or none of them. Wow, 919 00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,960 Speaker 2: well it was really cute. Your little baskets were you asked? 920 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 2: Did have you shared the details? 921 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:29,760 Speaker 1: No? I haven't. 922 00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:32,720 Speaker 2: So in the little box, she gave me a box 923 00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:39,160 Speaker 2: and it had a sweatshirt that says rats made. It's 924 00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:44,759 Speaker 2: really cute, and then mine says rad bride. And then 925 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,000 Speaker 2: she got everyone like something that was kind of personal 926 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:48,800 Speaker 2: to them. So she got me like this old timy 927 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,520 Speaker 2: like glass bottle Doctor Pepper that was like the jeweled 928 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,759 Speaker 2: hinestone rhinestoned. I don't know if I can drink it. 929 00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:58,799 Speaker 2: It's so cute. Now you can't. And then okay, and 930 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:02,920 Speaker 2: then little like stene strips that were bedazzled a candle 931 00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,400 Speaker 2: and like ask. 932 00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 1: The candle was that will you be my whatever? And 933 00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:12,240 Speaker 1: then everybody got a calendar with their initials on it. Yes, 934 00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:13,560 Speaker 1: for the family meetings. 935 00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 2: So everything has like a purpose. 936 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:19,320 Speaker 1: The listerine was for like when my breath gets stale. 937 00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:20,960 Speaker 3: You know, for it. 938 00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:23,680 Speaker 1: Doctor Pepper was because I'm gonna need a lot of 939 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:24,399 Speaker 1: energy from her. 940 00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:24,719 Speaker 2: You know. 941 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,279 Speaker 1: Like everything had like a little a little meaning behind it. 942 00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really cute. 943 00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:29,200 Speaker 4: Thanks. 944 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,720 Speaker 2: I can't wait to be made of honor. 945 00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:34,320 Speaker 1: I can't wait either. 946 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 2: It's gonna be so fun, Like I. 947 00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:38,040 Speaker 1: Was already thinking about. I mean I already just I've 948 00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:39,719 Speaker 1: had so many thoughts. I just need to get like 949 00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,520 Speaker 1: a date. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you'll get it, you'll get 950 00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 1: it done. Yeah. I feel really good. 951 00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 2: I feel like really good about Whispering Heart. 952 00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, whispering heart because my heart whispers, you know. 953 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,040 Speaker 3: Okay, we still have we need one more break. We 954 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:52,400 Speaker 3: talked about Mammy swim waking. 955 00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:56,399 Speaker 2: Oh my god, no, no, we have we have time. Okay, 956 00:43:56,440 --> 00:44:14,200 Speaker 2: we'll be right back. We'll be right back. We really 957 00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 2: needed like a two hour episode today. But Tony's got 958 00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:18,480 Speaker 2: to hit the road. Gotta hit the road. 959 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:20,399 Speaker 1: Got busy, busy, but we have. 960 00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,840 Speaker 2: To talk Miami Swim Week because this is crazy, this 961 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:24,320 Speaker 2: is so exciting. 962 00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:28,040 Speaker 1: It's so crazy, Like I actually can't believe it. 963 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:29,000 Speaker 2: How did it happen? 964 00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:33,080 Speaker 1: So I honestly don't even know. I think that there's 965 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,279 Speaker 1: a lot of events happening around Mammy Swim Week that 966 00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,680 Speaker 1: are like female empowerment. 967 00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:41,120 Speaker 2: Parties, et cetera. 968 00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:45,800 Speaker 1: And so I was invited to a couple of those 969 00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:49,800 Speaker 1: and they were like, do you want to potentially walk 970 00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 1: in Swim Week? And I was like, well no, like 971 00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm not a model, nor do I have interest in modeling, 972 00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:01,200 Speaker 1: and like that seems crazy. And they're like okay, because 973 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:02,840 Speaker 1: there's like people asking if you would do it, and 974 00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:06,239 Speaker 1: I'm like what. So then I like thought about it 975 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,560 Speaker 1: and I was like when am I a ever gonna 976 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:13,719 Speaker 1: do something this crazy? Yeah, I have no skin in 977 00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:15,960 Speaker 1: the game, so like I can audition and if they 978 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,319 Speaker 1: said no, I'm not going to get my feelings hurt, 979 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:19,680 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I'm not Yeah, all 980 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,399 Speaker 1: your career, you like, every time I go for something, 981 00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:23,040 Speaker 1: I don't get it. 982 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:24,800 Speaker 2: There's always this like heartbreak attached to it. 983 00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't think I'll have that 984 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,880 Speaker 1: heartbreak if I don't get it. Yeah, And I was like, 985 00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:32,360 Speaker 1: what is more empowering than doing something that's so outside 986 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:35,399 Speaker 1: my comfort zone? So it's like screw it. Sure, I'm 987 00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,840 Speaker 1: an audition. They're like, okay, so what you need to 988 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,160 Speaker 1: do is you need to send in a video to 989 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:44,080 Speaker 1: these strangers. They're like, we assure you that it's very 990 00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,360 Speaker 1: secure and like whatever. I mean, the internet's seen my 991 00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:52,040 Speaker 1: you know, dropbox. But but they're like, film yourself thirty 992 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,520 Speaker 1: seconds walking up and down in a bikini. And I 993 00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:59,680 Speaker 1: was just like this is so crazy, So like okay, 994 00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:01,000 Speaker 1: and I had to do it. It was like a 995 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:02,560 Speaker 1: quick turnaround. It was like I need to do it 996 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:04,439 Speaker 1: the next day. So it was like there was no like. 997 00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:06,800 Speaker 2: Workout or you know, get it. 998 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:09,439 Speaker 1: Like it was just like I'm just gonna do it. 999 00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,759 Speaker 1: I just did it, just raw dogged it, just fully run. 1000 00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,760 Speaker 1: And then Robbie bless his heart, was like I'll film you, babe, 1001 00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:17,440 Speaker 1: like I got you, Like he was all in, and 1002 00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:18,960 Speaker 1: then he ended up getting stuck on this like really 1003 00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,520 Speaker 1: important call because he has like a really important job. 1004 00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:24,239 Speaker 1: You can't just like leave for your audition for my 1005 00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:26,000 Speaker 1: masticition tape for Mimmy Swim Week. 1006 00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:26,880 Speaker 3: This week's episode. 1007 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Tanya needs me to tape her for 1008 00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:33,239 Speaker 1: her Miami Swimming audition. 1009 00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:35,439 Speaker 3: Show. 1010 00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like, it's okay, babe, I got this. 1011 00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:39,719 Speaker 1: So I like go out into our driveway and I 1012 00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,359 Speaker 1: noticed that, like our garage has like this handle bar. 1013 00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,520 Speaker 1: So I brought my phone up and weirdly, like the 1014 00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:47,240 Speaker 1: angle made me look like Amazon woman, like I looked 1015 00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:51,360 Speaker 1: tall as hell, like I don't mind this, and but 1016 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,120 Speaker 1: I realized and I was doing it, I was like, 1017 00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:57,359 Speaker 1: it's so, it's so weird. It's so awkward to just 1018 00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,000 Speaker 1: walk in your bikini, Like it's so weird. 1019 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:00,920 Speaker 2: And then I was like singing. 1020 00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 1: I had like music playing, but I'm like, I don't 1021 00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:04,759 Speaker 1: know what music is me playing if I do this, 1022 00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:06,839 Speaker 1: But I just like did it, sent it. 1023 00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:08,799 Speaker 2: I was just like here, I'm gonna flip my leg up. 1024 00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,360 Speaker 2: And they accepted me. Yeah, I mean, you looked amazing, 1025 00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:15,040 Speaker 2: of course they do. And they said yes. 1026 00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,040 Speaker 1: And so now I'm a shipping myself off to Miami 1027 00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:22,480 Speaker 1: on Friday, and I'm gonna strutting down to Runway Saturday afternoon. 1028 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,759 Speaker 3: Robbie'll be there, Becca or Paulina, who's gonna be there 1029 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:26,800 Speaker 3: with you to support you in this. 1030 00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 1: So thank you so much for asking. I've asked everybody 1031 00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,480 Speaker 1: to come because I do not want to be alone, 1032 00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,040 Speaker 1: but I will be alone. 1033 00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:37,160 Speaker 2: Once more modern woman than that. Yeah, yeah, thats how 1034 00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:37,719 Speaker 2: you do it. 1035 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I really just wanted somebody because I was like, 1036 00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,279 Speaker 1: I'm so nervous and so outside of my car and 1037 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 1: something that I wanted somebody there to like pump me up. 1038 00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:46,080 Speaker 1: But I was like, you know what, I have to 1039 00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:49,480 Speaker 1: pump myself up. I can I just have a talk 1040 00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:50,920 Speaker 1: with myself right before. 1041 00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,960 Speaker 2: You can do it. I'm proud of you, seriously, I'm 1042 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:55,759 Speaker 2: so proud. You know. Okay, I don't know if you've 1043 00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 2: ever seen these, but Maami Soddenly there's a someone at 1044 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,319 Speaker 2: the end taking photos and videos, and the videos are insane. 1045 00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:05,480 Speaker 2: They are like so stunning stunningly beautiful. So you have 1046 00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:09,680 Speaker 2: to make sure you get that oh up the crotch. No, no, 1047 00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:12,160 Speaker 2: like the end of the runway, they like get you 1048 00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,959 Speaker 2: like almost like posed, and it is just like it's 1049 00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 2: so cool. I can't You're gonna have one of those. 1050 00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:20,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have one of those so epics. Yeah, so 1051 00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:23,439 Speaker 1: I decided that I'm gonna today I actually worked out, 1052 00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,680 Speaker 1: and I was like, I think I'm worked out out 1053 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,000 Speaker 1: on weekend and I think I'm just gonna let my 1054 00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 1: body rest for the rest of the week and I'm 1055 00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:33,279 Speaker 1: just gonna like hydrate and wow. 1056 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. So I can't wait too, I mean, I can't 1057 00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:38,799 Speaker 2: wait to hear about it on Monday when we come back. 1058 00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:43,239 Speaker 1: I'm so, I'm like stressed and excited and nervous and like, 1059 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,760 Speaker 1: I don't know all the things. 1060 00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:51,799 Speaker 2: You shouldn't be. You're gonna crush it? Yeah? Yeah. Are 1061 00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:53,480 Speaker 2: you where heels? I don't know. I don't know. I 1062 00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:57,120 Speaker 2: have no idea if I'm gonna be heels barefoot? Do 1063 00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:00,560 Speaker 2: you feel better and hopefully not footboms up and down 1064 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:05,839 Speaker 2: the run? Yeah, I have no idea. I have no idea. 1065 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:07,239 Speaker 1: If like they're gonna have me do my hair a 1066 00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,400 Speaker 1: certain way, like what they're gonna do my makeup? Like 1067 00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:10,320 Speaker 1: I'm a vessel? 1068 00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, your model? I'm model? 1069 00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 1: Like yeah, yeah, yeah, they want me to shave the 1070 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:18,600 Speaker 1: left side of my eyebrow. 1071 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:22,640 Speaker 2: I am like a vessel like they do with me. 1072 00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:24,759 Speaker 2: What they want the gig, what they want you to 1073 00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:25,080 Speaker 2: look like? 1074 00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:29,480 Speaker 1: Yeaheah, like if there's like an aesthetic like I don't know, yeah. 1075 00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:31,160 Speaker 2: And then when you get back at some point we 1076 00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:35,280 Speaker 2: have to race. Because there's been a lot of feedback 1077 00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:36,960 Speaker 2: about who would win, and. 1078 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:39,480 Speaker 1: I'm Probabs like, you guys should do a decathlon. 1079 00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:41,680 Speaker 2: I'm like, here's the thing. 1080 00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,000 Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, you take tennis, And I'm like, what 1081 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:44,360 Speaker 1: is this like. 1082 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:48,440 Speaker 2: A whole weekend the here's the thing. The consensus was, 1083 00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:52,560 Speaker 2: if it's distance, you win. If its sprints, I win, right, 1084 00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:55,880 Speaker 2: So that's gonna be really like I have never been 1085 00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 2: a distance runner, so when I think. 1086 00:49:57,440 --> 00:49:59,880 Speaker 1: I'm really a distance runner, I only think of sprint. 1087 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:04,120 Speaker 2: You know. I'm not thinking like two laps around the race. 1088 00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:08,359 Speaker 2: I'm not thinking when I think about a race, I'm 1089 00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:12,480 Speaker 2: thinking a sprint race. And Robbie was like, yeah, but 1090 00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,600 Speaker 2: if you're talking about in an apocalypse, Tanya would win 1091 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:17,719 Speaker 2: because she'd happy endurance. And I was like, what if 1092 00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:19,880 Speaker 2: I was sprinting to a shelter forty yards away? 1093 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:20,839 Speaker 3: True, you beat her. 1094 00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,479 Speaker 2: So it's been a you. 1095 00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:24,919 Speaker 3: Know what they say, you don't have to outrun the bear, 1096 00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:27,480 Speaker 3: you don't have to outs outrun the person next to you. 1097 00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:28,839 Speaker 3: The bear. 1098 00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,560 Speaker 2: Wait, but what Robbie said something so funny in our 1099 00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,400 Speaker 2: group chat when we were talking about this, and he 1100 00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:36,919 Speaker 2: said it so innocently. What did he say? He goes, 1101 00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,640 Speaker 2: He goes, honestly, we needed to cathalon where you each 1102 00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:44,480 Speaker 2: get to pick five events. And I said, I think 1103 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:47,239 Speaker 2: I'd get beaten everything but a sprint. And he said, wow, 1104 00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:49,799 Speaker 2: shocked to hear that. I go, she works out every day, 1105 00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:51,960 Speaker 2: and he goes, I don't think so, you are a 1106 00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:54,360 Speaker 2: blue chip athlete. We were actually trying to come up 1107 00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:56,600 Speaker 2: with things Tanya would win and it was slim takings. 1108 00:50:57,560 --> 00:51:01,120 Speaker 2: Tony goes, wow, babe, it's true though. 1109 00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:03,760 Speaker 1: We were going through like a list of things and 1110 00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:07,200 Speaker 1: and he's like, Beca's like really athletic, Like I know. 1111 00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:12,120 Speaker 2: But endurance is important and you got that, but we do. 1112 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,879 Speaker 2: We have to do it so the people want it. 1113 00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:15,799 Speaker 2: Even if it's just a race. 1114 00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,440 Speaker 3: We don't need to do that's idea, but we need 1115 00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:21,560 Speaker 3: to race from like you know what, what are you 1116 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:22,000 Speaker 3: looking at me? 1117 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,879 Speaker 1: Like just go down here and like run this can 1118 00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:30,440 Speaker 1: trip over the sidewalk, no proper tra Yeah, yeah, I want. 1119 00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:34,200 Speaker 2: It to be clean lines. We're on the same Stu 1120 00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:35,239 Speaker 2: studies or. 1121 00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:42,920 Speaker 1: No like Bumpy Juxtaposition Sidewalk have you seen Oh my gosh, 1122 00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:43,640 Speaker 1: I don't even know. 1123 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:48,799 Speaker 2: But we do have an episode this Thursday. We are 1124 00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 2: having Truesdale. If you know Easton. Easton is the Truesdale 1125 00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:56,839 Speaker 2: leader of the I would say president of the fan club. 1126 00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,000 Speaker 1: Definitely a fan of the president of the fan club. 1127 00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:02,040 Speaker 2: And he entered us to the girls and they are 1128 00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:05,000 Speaker 2: so much fun. We had the best time hanging out 1129 00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,359 Speaker 2: with them. So that airs Thursday, and then next week 1130 00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:09,960 Speaker 2: we are going to talk about our top five Taylor 1131 00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:12,719 Speaker 2: Swifts got ready to go. I do too, but I 1132 00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:14,960 Speaker 2: don't want to rush that. No, and MoMA's gotta go. 1133 00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:20,279 Speaker 2: Mama's gotta go. Alright, on that note, we love you 1134 00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:21,359 Speaker 2: some mom, love you. 1135 00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:21,840 Speaker 1: Bye.