1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,159 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: and The Black Effect. And just like that, we're back 3 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 1: with yet another carefully reckless episode with your Girl. Just hilarious. 4 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: Listen y'all what I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess. Unfortunately, 5 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 1: my baby sits sterr is not here today, but she 6 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: will be here next week and she will be helping 7 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: me read stories. So y'all got to bed with me today. 8 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 1: Nobody sent the boys snow, so which is okay? I 9 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 1: need to practice reading anyway for breakfast club. Let y'all 10 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: tell it. A bitch can I read? But I can, 11 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: and don't play with me, so we're gonna jump straight in. 12 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: And I love that this message is from a guy 13 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:47,199 Speaker 1: your so oh no, Damn's from a girl. Not that 14 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,239 Speaker 1: I have any problem with girls sending me messages, but 15 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,520 Speaker 1: I love women, I should say, but I love when 16 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:54,319 Speaker 1: men can open up as well, because we know our 17 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: men do not like this howiday business, honey. They do 18 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,639 Speaker 1: not like to expose stories about them else they don't 19 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: feel vulnerable enough in spaces where they can feel safe 20 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: enough to tell their business. So I love, always, love, love, 21 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: love when men send in their mess for me to 22 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: give advice on. But here we got another one of 23 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: my girls. So here we go. I can't call into 24 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: the show because of my work schedule, but if you 25 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: can help with this, Lord Jesus, this is what been 26 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 1: with me all all right? She said, I can't call 27 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: into the show because of my work schedule, but if 28 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,199 Speaker 1: you can help with this, I'd appreciate it. Just don't 29 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: use my name, please, girl. When the last time you 30 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: heard me see somebody name, y'all are anonymous. Y'all will 31 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: remain anonymous. Even if y'all give me y'all names, some 32 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: people will be giving me their name, and I still 33 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 1: don't say it all the time. All right. My man 34 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 1: and I have been together for about four years. We 35 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: were forced to be with each other because we fell 36 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: on hard times after a month of knowing each other 37 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: and stuck it out. It's been crazy ever since. My 38 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: biggest dilemma is he is a security guard for celebrities. 39 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: He usually he does security for gay celebrities. Okay, and 40 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: there's a famous transgender celebrity he works with often. Now, 41 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: I saw he liked two of her posts on ig 42 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:13,679 Speaker 1: of her in Lingerie. He said he didn't realize he 43 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 1: was just clicking and scrolling, then said it's just business 44 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 1: to keep her happy. Here's what things started getting weird. 45 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: He has the only fans Twitter page with him nude 46 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: and everything, and he follows her and her gay male 47 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: friend on this page. He follows both of them, but 48 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: only the boy follows back. Am I wrong for questioning 49 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 1: his sexuality and not being attracted to him anymore? Well, 50 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: if that's the way you're feeling, nobody can tell you 51 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: that you're wrong about the way you feel. Now. This 52 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: is your man, you know, as you put in quotes 53 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: and in all caps, this is your man. Okay, Like, 54 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: look at the screen, at look at the screen. This 55 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: is your man, your man. Okay. These are your feelings, honey, 56 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: and they're valid whatever they may be. You understand what 57 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying now. I can't ignore what you said in 58 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: the beginning. You said that you were forced to be 59 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: together after a month. I don't know what that means. 60 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: Who forced? Y'all? Were y'all talking at first, and you 61 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: know you'll fell upon hard time, so you had to 62 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: move together? Like what I don't I don't understand what 63 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 1: you mean, y'all. This sounds like an arranged marriage. If 64 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: you asked me, like, what are you talking about, you 65 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: were forced. Nobody is ever forced to be with somebody 66 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:23,399 Speaker 1: unless it is like cultural usually usually that's a cultural thing. 67 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: Now I don't know your culture. I don't know. You 68 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: didn't provide that information. But either way, moving along, he 69 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 1: is a security guard for gay celebrities, like you said, 70 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: and he's main security for this transgender celebrity who he follows, 71 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: and he liked to of her pictures one time, and 72 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: you must have said something about it because you said that. 73 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: He first said, oh, he just be liking the scroland. 74 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: Why are you following your talent first of all on 75 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: social media? I mean, I don't know if you if 76 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: you just work for this person, all right, cool, and 77 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: then most of the time, like you shouldn't have to 78 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: follow him because most of the time, if they're out, 79 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: then you're with them. I assume you know what I'm saying. 80 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: As security, I've had security. I know celebrities that have security, 81 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: and I know celebrities that have main security, and they 82 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: for the most part keep the same main security unless 83 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: someone aspire, unless they hire a company and they rotate 84 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: security guards. I don't understand why you will be following 85 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: her and then liking her explicit pictures on social media. Now, 86 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,239 Speaker 1: you also said your man got an only fans page 87 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: okay on Twitter and only the gay male friend follows 88 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 1: back okay. So I can see why there is speculation 89 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: there why you're curious of what he likes and curious 90 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:36,719 Speaker 1: of his references. Now, but did you sit down and 91 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 1: have a conversation with him about that any further than 92 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: you just bringing up him liking his clients' pictures on 93 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: Instagram from the first time, Because I don't understand how 94 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 1: you go from liking to scroll into oh, I do 95 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: this and make her happy. You don't need to do 96 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: anything but secure her to make her happy and safe. 97 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 1: It's not even about you making her happy. It's about 98 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: you making her feel safe. That's the only thing that 99 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 1: you owe to her if you're her security guard, and 100 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: that is all make her feel safe, not make her 101 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: feel wanted. You shouldn't feel wanted by a damn bodyguard 102 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 1: unless you are fucking with your bodyguard. Okay. I guess 103 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: y'all ain't watched the movie The Bodyguard, you know what 104 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Unless it's a situation like that, all you 105 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: need to be doing is securing safely, securing the talent, 106 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: that is it. But I feel like you're well within 107 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 1: your right to question him, and I think you should 108 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 1: sit down and talk to him about it. If you 109 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: feel this way strongly in your mind, then your decision 110 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: has already been made because you already said you're not 111 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: feeling him anymore, you're not attracted to him anymore, and 112 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: are you wrong about it? I'm telling you you're not wrong. 113 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: So what are your next steps? Because I don't want 114 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: you to sit there and let this roll off your 115 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 1: back and then a year later you're still trying to 116 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 1: be with this man because you don't want to hurt 117 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: his feelings and feel like you're exposing him. No, sit 118 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 1: down to have a conversation with him, don't put him 119 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 1: on blast, don't do none of that. No, we ain't 120 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: got to do all of that. What you do, like 121 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: I said, you tell him you feel some type of 122 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: way because you feel like he has tendencies, and you 123 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: feel like I already feel some type of way about 124 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: you being a security guard for LGBTQ celebrities, you know, 125 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: and then I caught you liking this, and then you 126 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:16,359 Speaker 1: would and then you went from oh I was just 127 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: scroll and there was a simple mistake to you know, 128 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: I do this to make her happy? Well, what the 129 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 1: fuck you doing to make me happy? You ain't in 130 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: a relationship with her, you know what I'm saying to you, 131 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 1: Following the OnlyFans pages and all that type of shit 132 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 1: and the gay nigga following you back, and shit, No, 133 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 1: it's too much. It's too much, And I don't think 134 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: you're thinking too deep into it at all. Don't let 135 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: nobody tell you that that's how you feel before you 136 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: go to sleep at night and when you wake up 137 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 1: in the morning, that is what it is. Trust your 138 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: women's intuition, honey, and keep me updated. Get out of 139 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,279 Speaker 1: that situation, Get rid of him and let him be 140 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: what he wants to be. Let him go over to 141 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 1: the side that he wants to go over on, or 142 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: maybe he wants to be bisexual. Shit, he like playing 143 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 1: both sides. So I'm gonna call him by give him 144 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,479 Speaker 1: what he wanted to walk away from it. Because while 145 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 1: some women are okay with that, some women or not, 146 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: and you seem like one that's not. So keep me updated. 147 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: I'm serious. I want to know what's going on. And 148 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: I want you to keep it a hundone with him 149 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: and thank you for sharing. Honey, if you love me, 150 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 1: you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back. 151 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: All right, here's someone else sending from my business profile 152 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: because my messages from my personal won't allow me to 153 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 1: write more, and waiting for the invites we'll be accepted. 154 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: I got to figure out how to take that shit 155 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: off of there. Okay, Hey, Jass, I've been a long 156 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 1: time follower of Jess Hilarious and even went to a 157 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: show in Vegas once. But girl, I just started listening 158 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: to the podcast and I have been binging. Oh I 159 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: know that's right, girl. Thank you. Just almost dropped a 160 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: found dumbbell on my foot listening to you in the gym. 161 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 1: All right, Well, you guys to be care money. I 162 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: was cracking up because you said something stupid funny. Anyway, 163 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: here's my mess I've been with my husband for four years, 164 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: dated for two and a half, and married for one 165 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: and a half. Okay, while we were dating, we struggled 166 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: with communication issues both of us. However, the blame would 167 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: generally fall on me for being the one who was 168 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: really bad with communication. Okay, I took the blame willingly 169 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: and worked on it through therapy, my Christian faith and journaling. Okay, 170 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: that's it. Congratulations, What the fuck you want me to say? Girl? Shit, 171 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,480 Speaker 1: I'm it's no advice. That's it now. I don't know 172 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 1: if you couldn't send another message because you said you 173 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 1: were writing me from your business profile, because when you 174 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: wrote me from your personal profile it wouldn't let you. 175 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: But you seem to have gotten through here. I mean, 176 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: did you just want to give me an update on 177 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: your life? Girl? All right? Well, whatever you wanted to do, 178 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: I appreciate you telling me that boom, but if you 179 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:49,319 Speaker 1: can finish your message, all right, let's move on. Okay. 180 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 1: This person says, oh, this is a guy. You all 181 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: we got a man in a house, all right. I 182 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 1: like to remain anonymous, but hey, Jess, I have a situation. 183 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: I've tried calling the breakfast club to speak to you 184 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: directly or get it off my chest, but never can 185 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 1: get through. So here's what's going on. Okay, I'm sorry 186 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:06,440 Speaker 1: about that. A lot of people are calling up that 187 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: early in the morning. You may not think so, but 188 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 1: there are millions of listeners across the country. Guys, So 189 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: more power to you if you actually get through, Lord, 190 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: And you see how excited people actually are when we 191 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: answer the phone, like they even forget what they were 192 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: trying to get off their chest, so they forget what 193 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 1: they even want to ask me because they're like, oh 194 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 1: my god, I finally got through. You know what I'm saying, 195 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 1: So okay, I'm gonna start. A year ago, I moved 196 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: from Waldorf, Maryland. Okay, Waldorf, Maryland so Atlanta with my 197 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,959 Speaker 1: daughter and girlfriend of three years. I thought everything was 198 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: going fine. It was her idea to move to Atlanta. 199 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: Oh Lord, I went with it to make her happy. 200 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 1: But on Valentine's Day this year, while I was at 201 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 1: work and my daughter was at school, she cheated on me. 202 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: And the only reason I found out is because her 203 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 1: and the guy she cheated with burned my house down 204 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 1: trying to be romantic with candles and shit. And turns 205 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: out she knew the guy for years. He was an 206 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 1: ext and that's why she wanted to move to Atlanta 207 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 1: so bad. Oh my god. And now me and my 208 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 1: daughter have been homeless, living in my car in rooms 209 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: when we can afford. She is only eight, and we 210 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 1: are trying to get back on our feet. My ex 211 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: stole money from our account and lives with her ex. 212 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if there is anything to fix anymore. 213 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 1: What first of all you got damn right, ain't nothing 214 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: to fix anymore? Why the fuck are you even thinking 215 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 1: about fixing anything with her? You are now stuck with 216 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: the child. Now, if this is all true, and I'm 217 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: not saying I do not believe you, but what in 218 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: the fuck is going on? You moved down there, you 219 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:36,959 Speaker 1: got a job. Did you lose your job? How did 220 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 1: you end up homeless? Like? What happened? Did you move 221 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 1: down there with no job? Did you not ever find 222 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: a job? She moved down there to be closer to 223 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 1: her ex. Okay, cool, forget her, but the fact that 224 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 1: she wouldn't take her child is crazy. Now, how did 225 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 1: that happen? How did you end up with your baby? 226 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 1: Not saying that you shouldn't have your baby because you 227 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: are her father? For sure? Now a child has two parents. 228 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: But if she knows that you are homeless, why not 229 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: take the child until you can get on your feet. 230 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: I want to know more about that situation, damn. And 231 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 1: then that eight year old baby, she's well aware enough 232 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:14,320 Speaker 1: to see you know the conditions that her and dad 233 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: has to live in. Shit. You also didn't provide any 234 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 1: type of GoFundMe, any type of cash app either, brother, Like, 235 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 1: come on, I need to I need to know. And 236 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 1: then I feel like you did get through. I feel 237 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: like you got through because I feel like I talked 238 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: to you on Breakfast Club just Monday morning. I feel 239 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 1: like you did. Jesus Christ. Shit, I do not know 240 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 1: what to tell you about being out in Atlanta. I 241 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 1: know you need to be fucking careful because that's the 242 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: most dangerous place to be. Sleeping in your car with 243 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 1: your eight year old daughter. How do y'all shower? What 244 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 1: do y'all eat? Like what? She's a little girl, you know, 245 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 1: So I know you're more than scared out of your mind. 246 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: I mean, people break in cars, people steal cars down there, 247 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 1: people like just fuck with you, you know what I'm saying. 248 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: And this can happen anywhere, by the way, but it 249 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: happens so much more frequently, and it's it's more expected 250 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: in Atlanta, you know what I'm saying. That's like one 251 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 1: of the most common crimes there carjacking and shit, Like 252 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 1: God damn, I want to know what type of fucking mother. 253 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 1: This little girl got ain't no goddamn way did you 254 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 1: see any signs? Like how the hell didn't you see 255 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 1: signs of this? Lord? She need to be a motherfucking 256 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 1: jail for having her daughter. You know what, how did 257 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: you lose your job? Let's get off the mom. How 258 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: did you lose your fucking job? That's what I need 259 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: to know. Was it because when the house burned down, 260 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: you know, you had to take several days off? Or 261 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: like what the fuck was it? Was she remorseful to 262 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 1: say the least? Like was she remorseful at all? Was like, 263 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: you don't have any family that you can bring your 264 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:49,079 Speaker 1: ass back up to Waldorf from Maryland and stay with 265 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 1: and get on your feet for a while, Like I 266 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: know how it is moving a plane ride away, not 267 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:56,839 Speaker 1: even only hours moving? Like, well, you got to catch 268 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: a plane too, And if you do have a car, 269 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: drive your ass back up to Maryland. That's only what 270 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 1: an eight hour drive? Gas that bitch up and drive 271 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: back up to Maryland. You are now you should not 272 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: be being homeless, Okay, not with your baby girl. It's 273 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 1: too much mistake, too much going on. I don't care 274 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:16,199 Speaker 1: what you gotta do. Get your ass back up to 275 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 1: Waldorf and figure it out for your baby. Fuck that girl, 276 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 1: because that's what it just, that's what it's giving. If 277 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: she don't give a fuck about your daughter, Your daughter 278 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 1: only got you and that's it. You ain't got a 279 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 1: bad mouth tome mom. You ain't gotta you know, if 280 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 1: you haven't already, you ain't gotta do none of that. 281 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: You can just show her all right, my dad made 282 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: a fucking way. Drive your ass back up to Maryland. 283 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: That's better than being homeless day in and day out, 284 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 1: sleeping in your car and shit, you get what I'm saying. 285 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:45,680 Speaker 1: That's better than that. Quit whatever fucking job that is done, 286 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 1: and take your ass home where you have stability, more 287 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 1: stability or whatever, like where's your family? Shit like that. 288 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 1: Somebody will help you, honey, and we'll be right back 289 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: after this. Jess, congratulations on everything. Thank you girl. You're 290 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: too doving of this happiness. I am messaging because I 291 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 1: hate having sex with my husband. Damn it's bad sex, girl, 292 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 1: And now he wants a girlfriend. What should I do? 293 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:12,319 Speaker 1: Leave that? Nigga? What the fuck wrong with you? You 294 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: leave him? He already ain't fucking you right, and he 295 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 1: want a girlfriend. If you got bad dick for one bitch, 296 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: what the fuck make you think you gonna do with 297 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: two bitches? What the fuck is wrong with you? I 298 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: can't stand for a nigga like that. Now listen, if 299 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: you want to look a little further, what is going 300 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: on with you? Do you not get him hard? Or like? 301 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: How long y'all been married? Because this is a short 302 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 1: ass message. Beautiful fucking woman, I ain't gonna take nothing 303 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 1: from you. Now, you a bad mama jam. But that's 304 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: what the fuck I'm looking at right here. But I 305 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 1: can see that you are seasoned, you are older. You 306 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 1: ain't no young little whooper snap of what you don't 307 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: need to be. But it's he into younger women? Does 308 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: he want when he say he wants a girlfriend, does 309 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 1: he want somebody younger? Have you called him with somebody younger? 310 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: Has he ever talked about younger women? Have y'all ever 311 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 1: had this conversation that prompted him to want a girlfriend? 312 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 1: Have you ever told him you get give them a threesome? 313 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 1: You know? Like, are you into women as well? I 314 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 1: need it for you to tell me some shit, all right, 315 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 1: because it sounds like you're hiding a lot from me. 316 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: And I don't like it, you know what I mean? 317 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: But I think you leave. You know what I'm saying. 318 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: If the sex is bad and he wants another girlfriend 319 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: and you're not open to that, yeah you leave? What 320 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: the fuck? I don't how long y'all been married? You know? 321 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 1: Do I have kids together? What is? I need some 322 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 1: more meat on the bone booth. I'm telling you, don't 323 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: be giving me these little as stories and expecting for 324 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 1: me to fix y'all mess and y'all leaving shit out now, 325 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 1: But thank you for congratulating me. Keep me updated. She's 326 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: so pretty. She's really really pretty. Sometimes I wish y'all 327 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: could see some of these people that send me these messages. Man, 328 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 1: I'll be like, how the fuck did you end up 329 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: in this mess? Woman? You're too fucking gorgeous? What's going on? 330 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: Leave these niggas? Okay, it's the last story, y'all. Hey girl, Hey, 331 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: I love you and I love your show. Thank you girl, 332 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 1: Hey girl, Hey, I g be sketchy with DMS. So 333 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: that's probably why these stories be incomplete. They call it 334 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 1: an invite text, okay, so blah blah blah blah blah. 335 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 1: I know it's stink ass behavior. Yes, I hate it. 336 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 1: Trust me. I will find a way to fix it, y'all, 337 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 1: but bear with me until I do so. I really 338 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 1: don't have a mess per se, but I guess you 339 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: can let me know. I have my own businesses and 340 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 1: I make good money doing it. I have grown to 341 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 1: accept that I will not find a man that make 342 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 1: as much as me, or even more than me. I'm 343 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 1: literally okay with this, but I don't want to feel 344 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 1: like I'm settling for a bum ass nigga. I understand, girl, 345 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 1: Been there, done that, and I will never do it again. 346 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 1: I don't need a man for money, but they seem 347 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 1: to like the bitches that want the money hmm that 348 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: they don't have. Haha. I like that. Well, let me 349 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: read that one over. That's a word. I let me see. 350 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: I don't need a man for money, but they seem 351 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 1: to like the bitches that want the money that they 352 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: don't have. Ha ha. I love it. It's weird as 353 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: fuck out here, girl. It is like, maybe I sound 354 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: goofy as fuck for it, but I accept it. If 355 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: I like a nigga, I'm a whole trick. I buy 356 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 1: gifts and do trips. I'm big dog laughing like shit, 357 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:05,199 Speaker 1: but I feel like it intimidates these men having a 358 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: woman that don't need them like real live mo. I'll 359 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 1: be feeling wild as fuck for thinking like this. Amn. 360 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 1: First of all, I know you from DC. Don't ever 361 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:16,399 Speaker 1: call me MO. All right, don't ever call me MO dummy. 362 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:19,119 Speaker 1: I'm from Baltimore. We don't do that. Sagnaw. I'm fucking 363 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:21,440 Speaker 1: with you, girl, that you living in your true DC 364 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 1: self though, I see that, So DMV in the house. 365 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 1: First of all, I love you girl, love you, girl, 366 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:29,680 Speaker 1: but you don't gotta feel wild as fuck for thinking 367 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: like that. I mean, that is obviously all that you 368 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: have been shown I mean, or most of what you 369 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:36,879 Speaker 1: have seen in the dating pool obviously. And then I 370 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: know we tend to let social media play on our 371 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 1: minds when it comes to dating as well, and all 372 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 1: the validation that is needed from both men and women 373 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 1: these days, so let's not ignore that shit. But if 374 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 1: you take away from all of that, listen, girl, there 375 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 1: are men out here that you can get that make 376 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: more than you, or make just as much as you, 377 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:01,400 Speaker 1: that are ambitious and will not allow you to let 378 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 1: them use you. They will not allow you to woo them. 379 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 1: They will not like I'm telling you a man when 380 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: you meet a motherfucker man. I'm talking about a man 381 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 1: that I got right now that I didn't think even 382 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:19,120 Speaker 1: fucking existed. Okay, seriously, I'm telling you they are out there, 383 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 1: these men that own these companies that these men that 384 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: do that work them. I'm talking about a man man. Now. 385 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 1: Most of them ain't on social media. You ain't gonna 386 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 1: find them on social media. And if you do find 387 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:34,360 Speaker 1: that they got a page, it ain't nothing knowing that motherfucker. Okay. 388 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:36,639 Speaker 1: They just get on that and be nosy when you 389 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 1: tell them about something, and they get on that when 390 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: they're bored. Literally, there are men like that. I'm sorry 391 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 1: your experience has been a little fucked up. You know. 392 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: I've had some fucked up ones myself. But first of all, 393 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: more power to you for having your own businesses, making 394 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 1: your good money and all of that. I ain't gonna 395 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: keep letting you trick though you ain't ready tell me 396 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 1: like you a whole trick. If you like a nigga, No, 397 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 1: that's how you end up being taken advantage of. That 398 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:03,160 Speaker 1: is how you end up falling victim to this shit 399 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: that you're telling me about. Yeah, and that little word 400 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:07,880 Speaker 1: that you gave me. You don't need a man for money. 401 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 1: But they say the like bitches that want the money 402 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 1: that they don't have. That's because you out here warning niggas. 403 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 1: You giving niggas money to go give to other bitches. 404 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: All right, it's intimidating. Now. These men like to be 405 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:21,400 Speaker 1: tricked off on, but they ain't gonna stay with somebody 406 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 1: like you because you make them feel small. You know 407 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You know you're superior to them, So 408 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:28,679 Speaker 1: they gonna always have a couple of little bitches on 409 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:31,120 Speaker 1: the side because they want to feel superior to somebody. 410 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 1: If a woman is feeling superior over me, who the 411 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:35,399 Speaker 1: fuck I'm a feel superior I'm a man. Who the 412 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: fuck I'm gonna feel superior over? So let me take 413 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 1: this money from her, and I'm gonna treat my other bitches. 414 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 1: I had a nigga like that too, that I ain't 415 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 1: give no money to. But he was excited to be 416 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: fucking with me. But it was known that he would 417 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 1: use bitches for the money. So he would use all 418 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,919 Speaker 1: the other older bitches that he was fucking with to 419 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 1: get money and do shit for me. I'm talking about 420 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 1: my tw was my twenty ninth for my thirtieth birthday. 421 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,439 Speaker 1: Man treated me so fucking good with so many other 422 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 1: bitches money, and then when the bitches got in touch 423 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 1: with me, she said, can you go get my money back? No, 424 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:07,480 Speaker 1: the fucker I cannot. I love my little Gucci whilet 425 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 1: I love my Louis Vatane. I love my bird Berry, 426 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 1: her perfume. You better go ask that nigga for that 427 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 1: shit now. I left that nigga alone because I don't 428 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:16,120 Speaker 1: like when no woman is used. You know what I'm saying, 429 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 1: and when it's brought to my attention, I stopped it. 430 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:20,440 Speaker 1: But baby, you're not getting none of this because once 431 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 1: you gave the money to him, it was his, and 432 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: once he bought me the shit, it's mine. So you 433 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:30,359 Speaker 1: know that's just what that is. But boo, I'm sorry. 434 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,400 Speaker 1: You gotta stop tricking, all right. You know, I don't 435 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 1: think nobody should be a damn trick. I don't think 436 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 1: a man should be a trick. I don't think a 437 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 1: woman should be a trick. I think you should do 438 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:40,880 Speaker 1: something out the conness of your heart, not to keep 439 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: a nigga around. It is not your job to spoil 440 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 1: a nig unless that nigga is one hundred percent yours, 441 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,119 Speaker 1: and unless you're getting spoiled right the fuck back. You 442 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 1: understand me, okay, So keep me updated because girl, m 443 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 1: we don't need you too successful to be a trick, 444 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,239 Speaker 1: all right, So I ain't gonna let you keep doing that. 445 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 1: And it's like that we've come to get the end 446 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 1: of another carefully Reckless episode with your girl just hilarious. 447 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 1: So what I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess y'all 448 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 1: up and down, left and right, inside and out. Make 449 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 1: sure you catch me on Breakfast Club fixing mess on Thursdays. 450 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 1: Call in. 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