1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: Best Bits through the week, and we've got Moregan Best 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: Bits of the week with Morgan number two. Welcome to 3 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: Part three. We're doing Part three, which is a listener 4 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: Q and A on the best Bits. Amy is sitting 5 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: here with me and he's like, dang, we have another 6 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:21,440 Speaker 1: one to record. Here we go what I am? I'm 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,159 Speaker 1: sitting here like, oh yeah, we got no we just 8 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 1: talk forever now we got more questions. 9 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: Answer No, I'm literally going to be here at work 10 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 2: for another two hours, so I don't I have all 11 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 2: the time in the world. I mean, I need to 12 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 2: do some Women of my Heart country work and then 13 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 2: a little bit of show prep. But I I am here, so. 14 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 1: I do not trust me. I know you don't care, 15 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 1: but I know all the guys are going to grow 16 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: in a moon when I make them do these, So 17 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: I'm just preparing myself. I think that's a Q and 18 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: a yes. Okay. So we got questions that y'all submitted 19 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: through Instagram, through my personal instagram and the show Instagram. 20 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: So if you have questions moving forward, make sure you're 21 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: paying attention to those. Amy, We're just gonna like die 22 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: right on in. We're gonna start with fun questions that 23 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: we're get to a little bit more serious stuff. Okay, 24 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: what was your favorite easy meal to eat? 25 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 2: Oh? Toast toast because of a variety, and the reason 26 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:13,759 Speaker 2: why it becomes a meal is I if I have avocado, 27 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 2: I can make avocado toast. If I can sometimes have 28 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:21,839 Speaker 2: an avocado toast and then also do a jelly toast 29 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: on the side with like a nut butter or something, 30 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: and then on the avocado I put a fried egg. 31 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 2: So there's protein, there's fat, there's there's carbs, a very 32 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 2: I'm giving you a complete meal. Yeah, fruit in the jelly, Well, 33 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 2: I think we have everything. I think that's maybe if 34 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 2: I put a tomato. Oh, no, tomatoes a fruit. I'm 35 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: trying to think. 36 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: Oh, tomatoes a vegetable. I'm not gonna lie. 37 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 2: Now it's alvocatt. No, avocado and tomatoes are fruits because 38 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 2: of the seeds. But what you can do for extra 39 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: nutrients on stuff like that is sprouts. Those are full 40 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 2: of so much nutrients and you just sprinkle some like 41 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 2: alfalfa sprouts or broccoli sprouts. They sell it where wherever 42 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: the packaged lettuce is at the grocery store. They're really 43 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 2: easy to find and you just sprinkle some of that 44 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 2: WHI la vegetable. 45 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: I need to get some of those. That's a good 46 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: added tip. I need to start involving those on my 47 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:21,119 Speaker 1: little avocado or my little sandwiches that I make because 48 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: the add spinach, but I feel like I could use 49 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: a little bit more. 50 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it doesn't take much. You just need like 51 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 2: a bloop and you're getting all the benefits as if 52 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 2: you were to eat a hole. 53 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: I feel like it's kind of like flax seed how 54 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: people put that in smoothies and stuff. I feel like 55 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: that's kind of a similar concept. 56 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 2: Well, the different type of nutrients. 57 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: But like beneficial and it's not a lot and you 58 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: can kind of throw it in anything. 59 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, just add it on there and you're getting yeah 60 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 2: bang for your buck. Yeah. 61 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: I like get my would be grilled cheese also because 62 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: you can elevate it in multiple ways. Sometimes I'll make 63 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: like a whole sandwich that started as a grilled cheese 64 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 1: and developed and to something else. But like either it's 65 00:02:58,120 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: a grilled cheese or a cheesecaes ad. Like if I 66 00:02:59,919 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 1: just need something quick and I know I'm good, those 67 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: are like quick and easy for me. 68 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 2: I know earlier I brought up mayonnaise and Helman's. You 69 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: know that's right or die in my family, but my 70 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 2: dad would do grilled cheese and instead of putting butter 71 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 2: on the side that you grill on, you use mayonnaise 72 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 2: as that and when you grill it, it just adds 73 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 2: this extra flavor. 74 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 1: Okay, So the. 75 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 2: Side you would butter, yeah, and then you put it 76 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 2: down to grill and you put the cheese and the 77 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 2: bread and then put it on the outside, flip it 78 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 2: back and forth with the male on each side, just 79 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 2: a thin layer. 80 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna start trying this also because I've been 81 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: air frying my grilled cheeses lately and I feel like 82 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: that good. Yeah, Okay, that's fine. What is the most 83 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: beautiful place you've ever visited? 84 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I love Colorado. My sister lives in Pagosa 85 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 2: Springs and you hike some of those mountains and then 86 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: the views up there are just stunning. So I feel 87 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 2: like that is. I mean, Haiti, honestly is a really 88 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: beautiful country. Some parts on the coast, some parts are 89 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 2: definitely not pretty. But it always was so heartbreaking to 90 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 2: me how beautiful it is. And the tourism is just 91 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 2: not doesn't happen in Haiti because of the a lot 92 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 2: of circumstances. But the dr is right next door, and 93 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 2: so many people go to the Dominican Republic for vacation, 94 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 2: and then Haiti looks pretty similar and it's so beautiful 95 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 2: and people don't get to enjoy it. So I'd say 96 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 2: those two. 97 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: How is that was one of the questions, and I'll 98 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: just fallow up with it here because you just said it. 99 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: But how is a way to help Haiti? Do you 100 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: have any like things that you've experienced that are helpful 101 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: to the people of Haiti. 102 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 2: Well, My Life Speaks is an organization that we work 103 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 2: closely with and they have a lot of info on 104 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 2: their website, which is just my life speaks dot org. 105 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 2: They also have the dot com, so it either works. 106 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 2: But they're a village that is really keeping things going 107 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 2: and it's Haitian run. The Americans that founded it, it's 108 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 2: not safe for them to be there anymore. And luckily 109 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 2: they from the get go wanted it to be Haitian run, 110 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:00,559 Speaker 2: so they were able to come back to Nashville be here. 111 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 2: Even though they're devastated. Haiti's their home. They live there 112 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 2: for over a decade, that's where they want to be. 113 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:11,039 Speaker 2: But you know, the Haitians are killing it. They're they're like, wow, 114 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 2: they are things are booming better than ever. And so 115 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 2: with their little village now, Haiti as a whole is 116 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 2: not doing well, and you know, the village still there's 117 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,919 Speaker 2: people are scared and there's a lot that could go wrong. 118 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 2: But when it comes to the care that they're offering 119 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: the kids that go there, it's a They cater to 120 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 2: a lot of special needs orphans and they're not adoptable. 121 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 2: They live in these homes. They have like host families, 122 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 2: so they have like a house mom who may have 123 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 2: five kids in her home that all have special needs, 124 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 2: but they all get to live together, and so it's 125 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 2: a different type of orphanage situation. And then they have 126 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 2: schools where people get to you know, the village. The 127 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 2: people in the village get to send their kids to 128 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:01,559 Speaker 2: the schools and they offer therapies, physical therapy, all kinds 129 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 2: of care. So they're doing really great work. 130 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 1: The quality of life that they're doing for those people involved. 131 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 2: There's not so much that we can do to help 132 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 2: with what's going on with the gangs completely taking over 133 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 2: the country, but that's an organization where there's really cool 134 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 2: stuff happening. And then you know, the Orphanage where the 135 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 2: kids were the bakery is still operating, they're still doing 136 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 2: their thing. I keep waiting for the day where which 137 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 2: that sounds bad. I don't need to think that way, 138 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 2: but you know, I want to be prepared. I don't 139 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 2: know how the Orphanage, I mean by the grace of God, 140 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 2: because they're really in the heart of it where it's bad. 141 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 2: They're in the heart of Port of Prince and it's 142 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 2: really wild what's happening there, and very very sad. But 143 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,720 Speaker 2: the Orphanage we still support through like either Pimp and 144 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 2: Joy or are the Four Things Gratitude Journal. One hundred 145 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 2: percent of the proceeds go to another great organization working 146 00:06:56,760 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 2: with maternity centers and education called Project Meta Share. So 147 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 2: there's different ways you can just help the organizations because honestly, 148 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:09,039 Speaker 2: getting supplies is more difficult. Getting funding because they're not 149 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 2: down there doing certain things is more difficult. A lot 150 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 2: of what's going on in Haiti isn't in the news, 151 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 2: so it's more difficult to get the extra support. Everybody's 152 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 2: had to up security, which costs more money, so you know, 153 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 2: fuel everything, generate, everything's just more expensive. So being able 154 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 2: to help in that way that was a very long 155 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 2: I mean, sure. 156 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 1: You're providing a lot of the things to people that 157 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: need it, Yes, and that's a way to help that 158 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 1: community right now. So I think that's still a great 159 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 1: way to help, right. 160 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 2: So it's sort of the same. We've always wanted to 161 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 2: help them in that way, but now it's just going 162 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 2: like sending maybe extra love and care and honestly just 163 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 2: praying for the country as a whole because it's just tragic. 164 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow, well that was definitely what I wanted to 165 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: follo up on since you mentioned that. I think my 166 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: most beautiful place would be North Cascades National Park, which 167 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: is in Washington. It's right at the border, like kind 168 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: of work Canada. That or you could go left and 169 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: go to Alaska. But it's like the American Alps, and 170 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 1: it is stunning. I've never it's like a screen background. 171 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like it in my life. 172 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 2: I want to go. I'm gonna go to Canada and 173 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 2: I want to go to Alaska too. I'm going to 174 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 2: do the Alaska Cruise. 175 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 1: So maybe when you go to the Alaska cruise stop 176 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: at North Cascades because it's really in like the top 177 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: of Washington. You have to drive like three and a 178 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: half hours north of Seattle to get to it. But 179 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 1: definitely that do you have a microwave? Now? Yes, okay, 180 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 1: that was an important question that got asked. Yeah, let's 181 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 1: talk about the Mount Rushmore of our favorite foods and movies. 182 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: This is hard favorite foods. I think I would do. 183 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 2: Well, Gosh, it's mine toast again. 184 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, hey, it's if it's not your Mount 185 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: Rushmore can be. I think mine is tacos, betted chini, alfredo, 186 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 1: grilled cheese. These these are so basic, but they are 187 00:08:54,760 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 1: what they are. And pancakes that's a good one. 188 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 2: So I'll go waffles because I'm a waffle person. Over paincas. 189 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 1: I just love breakfast. Something had to be included. 190 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 2: And then quesom solid I mean now that I'm thinking 191 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 2: Mexican Fahidas chicken not beef. And then my final food. 192 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 2: This is really hard. 193 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 1: I mean I feel like it has to be toast, 194 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: like that's your thing, I. 195 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 2: Know, but I can have other favorite foods. Uh so, 196 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 2: but sure we'll go toast because there's so. 197 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: Much variety it is. It is I like even just this. 198 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 2: Is how much I love toast. I'll just do toast 199 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 2: and butter and susci. 200 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:34,959 Speaker 1: But that's so good. That's it. 201 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 2: You know what's really some, honey? 202 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 1: It was really great when you're a hungover. Not gonna 203 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 1: lie if when I am hungover, the one thing I 204 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: want is toast with butter. Not healthy, but it is 205 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 1: what it is. 206 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 2: I mean, mac and cheese, so good, sweet potatoes. Oh, 207 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 2: I like a good hamburger now, I mean, well, do. 208 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: You want to you want to take off toast? And 209 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: I have one of those? 210 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 2: Sure, hamburger. 211 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: Okay. 212 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 2: What about movies Steel, Magnolias, Dirty Dancing, Pretty Woman, and 213 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 2: I mean it's a toss up, but I. 214 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: Mean you went straight like early late eighties and all. 215 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 2: Of those, Okay, and then I'll go legally blon. 216 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 1: Okay more okay, Yeah those are solid. They're all great movies, 217 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: but you it's straight to that. 218 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 2: I mostly love all of the people acting in them too. 219 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 2: I just wanted to pick a Reese Witherspoon movie and 220 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 2: legally long it's just it's it's good. 221 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: Yeah that Reese makes mine too Sweet Home Alabama for sure, 222 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: so good, so good. The Dark Knight, which is the 223 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 1: one with Christian Bale and Heath Ledger before he died 224 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 1: Ready Player one and Avengers in game. Yeah, I love 225 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: that years with eighties and more like Romantic Great I 226 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: went totally rogue. 227 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like Avengers too. Iron Man's my favorite. 228 00:10:55,920 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 1: Okay, there's those. Okay, what about let's see I'm like 229 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: you net aurlist. These are all questioners, questioners, questions that 230 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: you guys are awesome listeners sent in new hobbies were trying. 231 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: Is there anything new you've picked up? And also to 232 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 1: that same effect, are you still into puzzles and birds? 233 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 2: Not as much as I was, because I, I don't know, 234 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 2: I feel like that was the season and I don't 235 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 2: have a kitchen table right now. I don't. I still 236 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 2: haven't replaced that, and so I also do. 237 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: Feel like those were pandemic activities, like you leaned into 238 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: those because you had to be home a lot. Well 239 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 1: that's when that was season. 240 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. My therapist was like, you're depressed, very different. But 241 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 2: I do still enjoy the birds and I have a 242 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 2: feeder and they come and I like, you know, caring 243 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:48,719 Speaker 2: for them. But do I play bird bingo at my 244 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 2: kitchen table anymore? No, but maybe it's because I don't 245 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 2: have a kitchen table. I still do enjoy puzzles, but 246 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 2: it's probably gonna be more of a once we get 247 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 2: into holiday time around Thanksgiving and Christmas. Will set one 248 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 2: up because I like having one going, especially if people 249 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 2: come over. It's just something fun to have. But I'm 250 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 2: probably gonna need to get a kitchen table before that. 251 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 2: Note to self, I just need to finally pick something out. 252 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 1: It's hard. It's really hard to pick furniture, especially like 253 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 1: when you did have an idea of something and that 254 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: you have to choose something new. It's hard. So I 255 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 1: get it. It takes it. It takes a long time 256 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: to take your time. 257 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 2: Report So I'm still into both, just not at hours 258 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 2: at a time, not at the level you were before. 259 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: Right, Okay, any other new hobbies besides those, because I 260 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: kind of asked you double question in one. 261 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:36,319 Speaker 2: Well, I mean new to me this year and I've 262 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 2: stuck with it is the meditation, and so that has 263 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 2: been an improv nice correct improv. You're right, that's it 264 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 2: also wall sits. 265 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 1: I don't know if that, cos I mean you were 266 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: always into exercising. I think that follows under your exercising. 267 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I've never so sometimes even just just kind 268 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 2: of looking at challenging my body or to be a challenge, 269 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 2: but getting my heart rate up throughout the day instead 270 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 2: of having to set aside a thirty minute window to 271 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 2: go do whatever. If there's days where I'm busy, maybe 272 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 2: I don't get anything in, which is totally fine. But 273 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:20,440 Speaker 2: when you read all the articles about longevity and taking 274 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:22,439 Speaker 2: care of your body and your heart and making sure 275 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 2: you're good to go, there's certain amount of times throughout 276 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 2: the week that you want to get your heart rate 277 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 2: up and like, shoot, so I just PLoP down randomly 278 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 2: and I'll do like a wall sit for sixty seconds, 279 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 2: and then I get up and carry on with something. 280 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 2: And then maybe a few hours later, I'll do another 281 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 2: sixty second wall sit and then do like ten push ups, 282 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 2: and then I'll get up and go do whatever else 283 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 2: I need to do. 284 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 1: You're making exercise a little bit more accessible for yourself. 285 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:47,960 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I think it's just being intentional about and 286 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 2: this has nothing to do with making sure I've checked 287 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:54,719 Speaker 2: a box for you know, working out for anything. I 288 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 2: guess I have to preface this because I used to 289 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:58,840 Speaker 2: work out in such an unhealthy way, like I would 290 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 2: beat myself up if I did work out or feel 291 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 2: like I needed to do extra if I didn't do it. 292 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 2: But it was more so that I could earn you know, dessert, 293 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 2: that I could earn food or you know what I mean. 294 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 2: And so now it's just more literally kind of the 295 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 2: science behind it and my body and wanting to take 296 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 2: care of my biological age instead of like chronological age. 297 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 1: Well those are very specific different things. But I love 298 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 1: it for you, I appreciate it. Okay, We're going to 299 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: the Beast for you. Yeah, I mean, listen. I've just 300 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: it's not more like a consistent hobby. I just keep 301 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: picking up random activities like I did the Trappees for 302 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: a little bit, I did gymnastics, I paint balloon darts 303 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 1: was there for a little bit. Like I just kind 304 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: of pick up random things, but I don't stay with them. 305 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: They're more just I like to experience them for a 306 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: little bit and then kind of find a new fun thing. 307 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 1: So currently I feel like a hobby for me has 308 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 1: been trying a whole bunch of different exercises, like I've 309 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 1: gotten to hot yoga in bar and I tried a 310 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: new workout place called seven minutes, like I've been experimenting, 311 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 1: speaking of like exercises, trying just different things because I 312 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 1: was boxing for so long and I still am, but 313 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 1: I just want to try some more things. 314 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 2: You just you only go there for seven minutes. 315 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 1: No, so it's like seven rounds. Each one is seven minutes. 316 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 1: But you can go at any point in day and 317 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 1: it's like they have the whole workout set up for you, 318 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 1: so you basically just show up. 319 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 2: I'd really be into it and it's just seven minutes 320 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 2: that I'm not gonna lie. This sounds amazing time. 321 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 1: No, I know there is gonna be a place I 322 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 1: think coming that's like a really quick workout type situation 323 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 1: like that. I have heard about some rumblings of that. 324 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 2: So well, I just gave you a quick workout. 325 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, sixty second walls. 326 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 2: It's set a time roll. 327 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 1: Let's go all right, we get we'll do it right 328 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 1: after that after we get done. Okay, if you can 329 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 1: meet anyone alive today, who and why. 330 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 2: I haven't met Robin Roberts in person yet. I interviewed 331 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 2: her on Zoom for my four Things podcast, but I 332 00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 2: want to meet her in person. 333 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 1: Okay, we're not kind of so we're not kidding that one. Okay, 334 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 1: why no, I kind of zoom. Yeah, No, you should 335 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: in kaw zoom, you know me. 336 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 2: To hang out with her in person, maybe even co 337 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 2: hosts Good Morning America with her one day when her 338 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 2: co host is out sick or something. 339 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 1: I think I'm evenly split between Bruno Mars and Reese Witherson. 340 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 2: Oh, I was really at respect stage that one time. 341 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: No, but I was so bumped. She came on our 342 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 1: show like for an interview and she was supposed to 343 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 1: come in studio and I was so excited and then 344 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 1: she liked last minute, couldn't and it had to be zoomed. 345 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 1: I was so sad. Yeah, I really wanted to meet her, 346 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: like in person, and I was jealous that you got 347 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 1: to meet her, even just like a moment of it. 348 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 1: I just love her. 349 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 2: Oh, it was a moment, like split second moment, real high. 350 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 2: I am a fan, Thank you bye. 351 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: See. I just love her. I was awkward, and Bruno 352 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 1: is just like, I don't know, I just love him. Also, 353 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: his music's amazing. 354 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 2: I met him and he's good. Yeah. 355 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: He came into the show like really early on. 356 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 2: Right in Austin. Yeah, yeah, and he performed in our 357 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 2: little lounge there for a few listeners. He hadn't quite 358 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 2: it wasn't big, yeah as big, but I mean he 359 00:16:58,000 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 2: was blowing up and honestly, it's one of the best 360 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 2: live performances have ever seen, just him and a guitar. 361 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:06,919 Speaker 1: He's so good, so good, like just stupid talented. For 362 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 1: those two, I think, Okay, we're gonna get in a 363 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: little bit more. Oh serious, I'm like changing my vibe 364 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: right here. Have you done anything by yourself since being single, like, 365 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 1: gone out and done something just totally by yourself? 366 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 2: I mean home depot, okay, I buy Yeah, I got 367 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 2: a washroom jar all by myself. I felt like that 368 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 2: was a big deal. 369 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 1: It was a big deal. I I was laughing with you, 370 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: by the way, I was not laughing at you. Yeah, 371 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 1: I was laughing about like I feel like things like that. 372 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 2: I don't mind going to eat by myself. I would 373 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 2: do that when I was married, or other things that 374 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 2: you may do by yourself, going on hikes by myself 375 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,919 Speaker 2: or whatever. I don't mind any of that. But some 376 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:56,400 Speaker 2: of the things that as an adult, because I got 377 00:17:56,440 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 2: married at twenty five, I have not done either without 378 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:04,919 Speaker 2: him or without calling him or even being able to 379 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:07,920 Speaker 2: call my dad and being like, hey, this is the 380 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 2: right purchase. So I kind of just went and trusted 381 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:15,919 Speaker 2: the person working at home Depot. I did end up 382 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:17,679 Speaker 2: calling Vin later to see about if I should get 383 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:21,199 Speaker 2: the warranty or not, but he said yes, so I 384 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 2: got it. So but I feel like I did that 385 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 2: alone alone, and I need to get a grill next, 386 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 2: so I'll probably get go get a grill alone. I 387 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 2: went and did all my gardening alone. We talked about that. 388 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:35,199 Speaker 2: I went to home Depot and I got all of 389 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 2: the the everything I needed and I carried it all myself. 390 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:42,439 Speaker 2: Was really proud of myself. So mine's more stuff like that. 391 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 1: No, but I totally think it's something to be honored 392 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:48,120 Speaker 1: because I don't think I realized how hard so much 393 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: of that was. And that's coming from me, who I do. 394 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 1: Still get to call my parents and they get to 395 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: tell me. But like, even just doing something totally on 396 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: your own, that it's like a real big adult decision, 397 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 1: and big purchases are big adult decision. You're speaking a lot. 398 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 2: Of my uh washer and dryer or a dishwasher for 399 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 2: any of that, or a car often. 400 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, So to do those things like that's something to 401 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 1: be like you should be very proud of. So I 402 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 1: know I went into it laughing, but I was only 403 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 1: laughing because you made me laugh. But it's something so 404 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 1: to be proud of. I think that's awesome. I mean, 405 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 1: mine's like totally unlike just a total spectrum. Movies are 406 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 1: my like big thing that I love. And I went 407 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: to a movie by myself as soon as I went 408 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 1: through that breakup. I really wanted to see Top Gun Maverick, 409 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 1: and none of my friends were available, and obviously I 410 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: was single, so I was like, I'm just gonna go. 411 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 1: I've never done it before, and it was very awkward. 412 00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, like it's really awkward for like 413 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 1: the first hour where I was like this feels weird. 414 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:43,879 Speaker 1: I can't talk to anybody. But then as I was leaving, 415 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:45,359 Speaker 1: I was like I had like a little chip on 416 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:46,920 Speaker 1: my shoulder. I was really proud of myself, Like I 417 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,240 Speaker 1: got through the whole movie. I loved it, and I 418 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 1: was like happy. I was like, that was a great experience. 419 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:53,440 Speaker 1: So it is awkward, I'm not gonna lie. Doing things 420 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 1: by yourself is for the first time. 421 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 2: It's hard, it can't be, but it's it's important to 422 00:19:58,000 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 2: you that's making it. 423 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, nobody else around me was, which is totally 424 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 1: in my head. Yeah, well yeah, I like yours better, 425 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: though mine was a great experience. No, I like it. 426 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 1: What was the one thing you learned, maybe about yourself 427 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 1: or maybe you just learned in general after the divorce. 428 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 2: I mean, I think that I realized, I think we 429 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 2: Resilience was the word that came to mind whenever Bobby 430 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 2: originally asked me about it on air, kind of something 431 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:35,680 Speaker 2: I had not thought about yet, and just that looking back, 432 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 2: that how you know I am strong, I am capable, 433 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 2: and that I was able to do certain things. And 434 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,919 Speaker 2: so I feel like I'm taking that with me into 435 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 2: other phases of life, of like being able to reference 436 00:20:52,320 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 2: back to certain things, conversations, decisions, like you have a 437 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 2: choice when you show up to each conversation of how 438 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:06,879 Speaker 2: you want to be. I mean, Ben and I both, 439 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:11,400 Speaker 2: and I'm just really proud of how we've handled it. 440 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 2: And I know not everybody has someone that is like 441 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:21,360 Speaker 2: minded as their co parent or their ex or whatever 442 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 2: it is, and so that can make it very difficult. 443 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 2: That's not lost on me at all. But I think 444 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:32,160 Speaker 2: I learned that, you know, I can do hard things, 445 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 2: and that was something that was very hard. I think 446 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 2: in two years ago I made three of the three well, no, 447 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,640 Speaker 2: two were decisions. I made. One of them I couldn't 448 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 2: make because that was my dad dying. There's no choice 449 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:53,360 Speaker 2: in that. But two of the hardest decisions have ever 450 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 2: made in my entire life. And I don't know that 451 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 2: much really scares me anymore, you know, so I think. 452 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 1: To where you're like, okay, I can take on anything. 453 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, And honestly, like Ben and I were facing something 454 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 2: difficult about a month ago, and I feel like we 455 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,880 Speaker 2: two or three years ago probably would have freaked out 456 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:24,399 Speaker 2: at what was happening, and we were just like okay, 457 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 2: like okay, these are the facts. This is how we're 458 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 2: gonna get through it. This is what we're doing, that's 459 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,199 Speaker 2: how it's going to handle it. And guess what, we 460 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 2: know for a fact a year from now, everybody's going 461 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 2: to be better because of this, because we've seen that 462 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 2: happen with other things that have come up, and I 463 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 2: don't I am thankful now for that perspective that if 464 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 2: you face things, if you if you're be the buffalo. 465 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 2: Go into the storm face it, don't run from the storm. 466 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 2: Then you can power through it faster and get to 467 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 2: the other side. And I already know that it's it's 468 00:22:56,840 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 2: better over there. And so I learned I can be 469 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:05,879 Speaker 2: the buffalo. There you go. I sometimes I may not 470 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 2: be the buffalo, might be the cow. 471 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 1: No, we're channeling the energy. 472 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 2: You are the But I know I channel the energy 473 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 2: of a buffalo. But that, yeah, I can. I can 474 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 2: do the hard stuff. And it's not to say that 475 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 2: things are what we went through like a month ago 476 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 2: or whatever wasn't hard by any means. I don't discount 477 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 2: that or minimize it in any way. But I think 478 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 2: it's just my perspective. It's totally different on things now. 479 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. 480 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 2: Well. 481 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:38,159 Speaker 1: In the same category, speaking of your divorce, how have 482 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 1: your children been adapting to the new living arrangements and 483 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 1: the divorce. How's that been going if you would like 484 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:44,640 Speaker 1: to talk about it. 485 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 2: I mean, I can't speak for them, but I know 486 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 2: that Ben and I are doing our best to try 487 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:59,199 Speaker 2: to make it as easy on them as possible, and 488 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 2: so that looks like extra sacrifices on our end that 489 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,359 Speaker 2: if we were really being selfish one day. But trust me, 490 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 2: sometimes I have those thoughts it it's not going to 491 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 2: look like how it looks, But then you have to 492 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:14,439 Speaker 2: put yourself aside and now like, Okay, I'm going to 493 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 2: actually go do these extra steps today to make sure 494 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:21,199 Speaker 2: that the kids don't have to deal with, you know, 495 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 2: whatever it is, like if it's if we're transitioning from 496 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:26,400 Speaker 2: house to house, because we do Friday to Friday, and 497 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, sometimes if they're at school 498 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 2: and I know they forgot something that they like to 499 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,919 Speaker 2: have there, which we've tried to have all of the 500 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 2: things they need at each house, which also I know 501 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:43,159 Speaker 2: that not everybody has that that luxury. They may have 502 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:47,360 Speaker 2: to pack a bag or do whatever. And we were 503 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 2: trying to just make it as simple as possible for 504 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 2: the kids. But there's some things where they don't have 505 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 2: we can't find another one of them, or we don't 506 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 2: have double, or we haven't gotten it yet. Maybe and 507 00:24:58,240 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 2: I realized that maybe they didn't put in their backpack 508 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 2: they don't have it, And then it's like I want 509 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 2: to drive over there before they get home from school 510 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,080 Speaker 2: and arrange for Ben and be like, hey, can I 511 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,760 Speaker 2: get in your house, or if I bring this to 512 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 2: your office, will you take it home and put it 513 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 2: in Stephen's the room before he gets home. So that way, 514 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 2: when he gets home from school, that's what he'll see. 515 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 2: Because the Friday to Friday schedule is they leave on 516 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,880 Speaker 2: Friday morning, they wake up at the parents house they've 517 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 2: been at for a week, and that parent will take 518 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 2: them to school. In my case, if it's my morning, 519 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 2: I'm already here at the studio, so I don't take 520 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 2: them to school often, but I have help with that, 521 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 2: and then Ben will pick them up from school, or 522 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 2: if Ben has had them for a week, he'll take 523 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 2: them to school on Friday. And then I'm the one 524 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 2: that picks them up from school on Friday and I 525 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 2: take them to my house. And so that way they're 526 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 2: going into the weekend with their at their new place 527 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 2: to get a little more acclimated. And it's not because 528 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 2: we're originally we're going to do Sunday to Sunday. And 529 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 2: then I had a friend and I'm so thankful she 530 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,120 Speaker 2: said something to me. She was like, you know, we 531 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 2: tried Sunday to sea and we ended up switching to 532 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 2: Friday to Friday, and it's so great because then it's 533 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,879 Speaker 2: Sundays always so okay, Monday you got the scaries and 534 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 2: all these things, and after kids maybe transitioning to a 535 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 2: house and then boom, they have to like make sure 536 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 2: all their homework's done and then wake up for school 537 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 2: the next day, whereas if they just leave one house 538 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 2: on Friday morning and go to the new house on 539 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:24,480 Speaker 2: Friday afternoon, and then they've got Friday night Saturday night 540 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,439 Speaker 2: to feel good, to set up for the week, and 541 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 2: then on the parents end, you're refreshed, like you have 542 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,160 Speaker 2: had your time for a week. So then the weekend 543 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 2: you get them, you have more energy and y'all can 544 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 2: do more stuff as opposed to maybe getting your weekend 545 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,639 Speaker 2: with them on the tail end of a busy, crazy week, 546 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 2: and then you're more time, you know. 547 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, so Friday to Friday. 548 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 2: That's my two cents. If you're doing week every okay, 549 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 2: other week. 550 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,320 Speaker 1: Well, and just you know, nobody's probably said this to you, 551 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:53,920 Speaker 1: and maybe they have. I just would like to say, 552 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:55,879 Speaker 1: I'm really proud of you. The way they talk about it, 553 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,159 Speaker 1: the way that you clearly are experiencing with it and 554 00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:59,800 Speaker 1: going through all of it. I know it's probably really 555 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 1: weird to be like, why is she saying that? But no, 556 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 1: just from an outside perspective looking in, I'm super proud 557 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: of you and how you're handling it. I think it's 558 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 1: really awesome and you're just super brave. So just want 559 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,159 Speaker 1: to make sure you hear that from somebody. 560 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 2: Well, I don't think it's weird, and I think that 561 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 2: people I appreciate that, And you were looking at me 562 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 2: dead in the eyes and telling it to me, and 563 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,199 Speaker 2: I know that you mean it, so thank you. And 564 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,200 Speaker 2: I think that we could all be better at making 565 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:24,439 Speaker 2: sure certain people in our life whether you think they 566 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,440 Speaker 2: need to hear it or not, because you might think, oh, 567 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 2: they got this, they don't need to hear it, but 568 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 2: you know, I don't know. 569 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:30,240 Speaker 1: She just need it. 570 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,439 Speaker 2: Think of someone that maybe you could say that to today. 571 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 2: Maybe it's a friend, maybe it's a sibling, maybe it's 572 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,640 Speaker 2: a kid, but just let them know you're proud of them, 573 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,879 Speaker 2: and maybe even be specific, like proud of them for 574 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,640 Speaker 2: what exactly, and then they can they can take that in. 575 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 1: Yes, well that sound good. 576 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:49,159 Speaker 2: Thank you, Morgan. 577 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 1: You're welcome, and I'm going to leave this that we 578 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,879 Speaker 1: are wrapping up questions we could dive into this all 579 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 1: day long, but we've already like gone past our limit 580 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,240 Speaker 1: for part three because Amy and I could talk all day, 581 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 1: but we're going to end this on and it could 582 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 1: be a brief yes or no answer. Are you dating? 583 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 2: No? 584 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 1: Okay, that's okay? Are you uh? Yeah? I mean I'm 585 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:15,679 Speaker 1: not yeah, like there's not like a person, but I 586 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 1: am going on dates. I am dating and I've been 587 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:21,120 Speaker 1: on a new date. Okay. Well maybe by the next 588 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,240 Speaker 1: time we're on, maybe there'll be a new update to that. 589 00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 2: Maybe. 590 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 1: All right, our listener Q and a thank you guys 591 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,720 Speaker 1: off for somebmitting them and keep some minting them because 592 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 1: next time she comes on, we'll talk about some more stuff. 593 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 1: So just always hit us up. But Amy, before we 594 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 1: fully wrapped our whole best bits weekend, tell the people 595 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 1: where they can find you. 596 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 2: Here you at Radio Amy on Socials and my podcast 597 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 2: is four Things with Amy Brown, right yeah, and you 598 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 2: can email me. There are four Things with Amy Brown 599 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 2: at gmail dot com. And then I mentioned the four 600 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 2: Things Gratitude journal that where one hundred percent of the 601 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 2: proceeds go to Haiti, and you can find that at 602 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,120 Speaker 2: four Things dot com, which is take you to the 603 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 2: shot Forward website, but that's just the easier way to 604 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,000 Speaker 2: remember how to get there and to go directly to 605 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 2: where the journal is four Things dot com perfect. 606 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 1: Amy, thank you again for joining me. You can follow 607 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 1: the show at Bobby Bone Show on All the Things 608 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 1: and me at Love Girl Morgan and We Love y'all 609 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 1: and Amy, thanks for being vulnerable with me and answering 610 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: those questions. I know there was a lot on there, 611 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 1: but we'll see you guys after the holiday weekend. I 612 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 1: hope you guys keep enjoying your weekends. Stay safe, Bye bye, 613 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 1: Bobby