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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: On air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, everybody. Nice to have you with us. Back room,

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Speaker 3: Good morning. Still got quite a crew in the back room.

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Speaker 2: It's fun time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's good times. People just come in to watch

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Speaker 3: the show, right, what.

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Speaker 1: If you could watch this radio show.

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Speaker 4: Well, there are a bunch of people in the other

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Speaker 4: room doing it right now.

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Speaker 1: I know, but like like a live webcam.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'm down with it. No, No, I mean we're

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Speaker 5: not doing it. I'm just saying, how crazy is that.

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Speaker 1: I don't have that authority. I'm not a rule maker here.

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Speaker 4: Well I see this stuff posted up all the time.

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Speaker 2: Right, they're social clips.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just you know, Ruby, Samantha, Michayla, Marianna Collette,

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Speaker 3: all in the back room. Good morning to all of y'all.

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Speaker 6: Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Wow, what a team. If you're not growing, you're staying stagnant.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 4: With the quote of the days coming up?

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Speaker 2: Nice all right.

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Speaker 3: It's fascinating the baby name trends. This is something that

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Speaker 3: Sisney was talking about. How many names have changed, like

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Speaker 3: the these are the most popular names.

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Speaker 2: These are the most popular names today.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so if you are pregnant or you're thinking

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Speaker 3: about having kids. Sisney's got a list of the baby

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Speaker 3: trend names, the trending baby names, the popular baby names,

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Speaker 3: like one.

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Speaker 1: Hundred years ago, Helen, Betty, Charles, George, those are the

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Speaker 1: most popular names. Fifty years ago it was Jason, David, Amy,

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Speaker 1: and Jennifer. Today it's Noah, Liam, Emma, and Olivia.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but the trends, they.

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Speaker 1: Just keep changing, and this may give us an idea

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Speaker 1: of the most popular names in the next ten years.

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Speaker 1: So Maverick is more popular for boys than Christopher.

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Speaker 4: Now now I feel like that is going to get overdone.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I think I know. I know a Maverick,

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Speaker 2: all right, I know Maverick. But my friend's baby is Maverick.

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Speaker 4: If I was named Maverick, it's too much pressure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot of pressure.

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Speaker 1: And she named him Maverick around I think maybe like

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Speaker 1: three years ago, maybe before the top but they're a

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Speaker 2: Gun obviously, Goosey Brinley.

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Speaker 1: Brindley is more popular for girls in Brittany Brinley Brinley.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I like that.

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Speaker 1: Messiah is more popular for boys and Patrick Okay, Promise

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Speaker 1: is more popular for girls than Kelly.

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Speaker 2: Promise is so cute. Have you met anyone named I

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Speaker 2: don't think so.

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Speaker 3: I've never met a promise, Actually I don't. I've not

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Speaker 3: heard much about a promise more popular than Kelly.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so let's break it down now, just specific to California.

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Speaker 1: These are the fastest growing baby names in our state.

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Speaker 1: Girls Renleynariah, are Lette, Georgina, and amer Okay, boys chosen Dutton.

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Speaker 1: I'm not even saying these right, Casey, Kasa, and Ethan

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Speaker 1: and then these names were way more popular in California

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Speaker 1: than anywhere else. For girls it's Valeria, Camilla, and Catalina,

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Speaker 1: and for boys it's Enzo, Adriel and Andres.

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Speaker 2: The I don't know anybody named those names neither.

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Speaker 4: But the best person at naming kids is Sicity.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for that. I don't think I'm the best,

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Speaker 2: but thank you.

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Speaker 7: Just have them now.

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Speaker 4: So but the two people I'm looking at you are

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Speaker 2: I enjoy it. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I'm the best. I love trying to

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Speaker 1: be creative with it.

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Speaker 4: As a Maxim SURVEYA, it was great.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I really was trying not to be in the top

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Speaker 1: one thousand with naming my kids. Ryan, you peaked in

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Speaker 1: popularity in late eighties and early nineties.

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Speaker 2: It was like number level.

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Speaker 4: I peaked way back. I'm past my peak now.

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Speaker 2: Kind of peaked in nineteen eighty four, number forty six.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't even born them.

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Speaker 4: Then, your peak is still to come.

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Speaker 1: My name's never been in the top one thousands.

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Speaker 3: Now, that's right, Sisney, But that's a great name. It's

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Speaker 3: one that people remember.

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Speaker 2: One and only.

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Speaker 3: Molly is on the line in Fullerton, and I believe

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Speaker 3: needs a little advice. Molly, is that the case?

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Speaker 2: How are you? I?

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Speaker 8: I'm good, but yeah, I do need advice.

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Speaker 4: Does this have to do an engagement ring?

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Speaker 8: It does?

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Speaker 3: Well, you've called the experts here. Okay, what's up with

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Speaker 3: the engagement ring? What's the problem.

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Speaker 8: Well, I got engaged a few weeks ago and we

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Speaker 8: are so stoked.

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Speaker 1: But there's we have.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I have a huge issue right now. He

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Speaker 8: doesn't you know, I haven't told anybody, but I have,

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Speaker 8: Like God, I love Taylor Swift so much. I'm a

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Speaker 8: huge Swiftie. Yeah and yeah, my fiance knows that. And

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Speaker 8: he thought he was really sweet. So he decided to

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Speaker 8: get my engagement ring engraved, and he goes and he

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Speaker 8: engraves the inside of the ring and he writes all

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Speaker 8: too Well on there, which is my favorite song from Taylor. Oh,

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Speaker 8: but like, yeah, it's a breakup song.

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Speaker 4: So he doesn't so he doesn't know what the song's

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Speaker 9: No, he doesn't like Oh, I feel so I feel

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Speaker 9: so conflicted now because it's like such a sweet gesture

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Speaker 9: for him to do, but it's such a heartbreaking, like

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Speaker 9: breakup song.

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Speaker 3: But I think I hold on for saying Molly, I

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Speaker 3: think what you got to realize is that the gesture

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Speaker 3: is what you should appreciate.

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Speaker 4: And you are a fan of Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 1: And maybe maybe he thinks it means like the marriage

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Speaker 1: is going to be all too well.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I like the thoughtfulness behind it, even though I

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Speaker 3: know what you're saying about the lyrics. Is it common

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Speaker 3: to have things in engraved in your engagement ring? Tony,

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Speaker 3: do you have anything engraved in yours?

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Speaker 10: I do not.

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Speaker 2: Could you please show it to me?

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Speaker 1: Like you always don't have anything in mind either, but

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Speaker 2: I think you let it go.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Molly, I would let this go.

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Speaker 3: I feel like he's like the guy's trying to be

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Speaker 3: thoughtful here with engraving it.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a funny story. You know, you can

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Speaker 1: laugh about yeah later.

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Speaker 8: I don't think it's a bad omen though. I mean,

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Speaker 8: I feel like you might be.

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Speaker 10: Bad luck.

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Speaker 4: Marriages and in divorce, so you God, I feel you

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Speaker 4: can blame a lyrics.

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Speaker 1: Ryan told me the same thing on my wedding day.

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Speaker 1: Don't worry about it, Okay, I'm going.

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Speaker 2: Wedding day. That was so dark my wedding day.

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Speaker 3: I told you on your wedding day, my wedding day. Well,

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Speaker 3: why were you at work on your wedding day?

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Speaker 11: It was the friday before my wedding day, your wedding

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Speaker 11: day rehearsal right, it was your dinner.

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Speaker 3: Dinner, Molly, congratulations.

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Speaker 4: I think it's gonna be.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, thank you, all right, good luck. I get

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Speaker 2: a bad omen though.

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Speaker 4: I know it's it's not I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 3: I think the guy's actually being thoughtful here. And I

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Speaker 3: don't remember saying that on your dinner rehearsal day.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 1: It was the friday morning, so I've had the rehearsal

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Speaker 1: dinner you.

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Speaker 3: Were telling me, I actually said on her dress rehearsal night,

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Speaker 3: the day morning, whatever that half of marriage is and

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Speaker 3: a divorce, Yes.

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Speaker 2: I can vouch for that. Yep.

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Speaker 4: Oh you don't remember that, Mark?

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Speaker 2: Yes, do you really remember?

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Speaker 1: You had me on the air, You and Ellen had

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Speaker 1: me on the air to wish me a great wedding.

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Speaker 1: I guess apparently, and then I just just gonna.

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Speaker 2: Slip ready, Yeah, it doesn't slip right in. I'm a realist.

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to be real kid. It might it

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Speaker 3: might be different now, you might be less. I don't

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Speaker 2: Well, whatever it is a divorce rate these days.

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Speaker 4: Oh Tony, I don't think that should be in your

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Speaker 4: Google search right now?

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Speaker 2: Heyday, it's for work ten years in January. Congratulations, thank

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Speaker 2: you very much.

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Speaker 4: What is the divorce rate?

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Speaker 2: Tanya?

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Speaker 5: First marriages still end in divorce at a rate of

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Speaker 5: approximately thirty five to thirty five.

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Speaker 4: I could have told you. I should have told you that.

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Speaker 2: Then I just don't mention it.

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Speaker 3: See, this is the reason we come in every day

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Speaker 3: moments like that. The audio we don't have the audio,

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Speaker 3: just like standing by I have it soon. Strange right,

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Speaker 3: we were talking about how uh marriage rates and divorce

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Speaker 3: rates are have been over the last many years. Equal, right,

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Speaker 3: out too. But what's interesting is that Sisney said, you know,

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Speaker 3: you threw that fact out the day before my wedding.

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Speaker 1: It's just so dark.

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Speaker 2: It's not dark, it's realist.

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Speaker 3: And then I started second guessing did I really with

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Speaker 3: Ellen when before you were here every day? Right?

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Speaker 2: But that's Ryan.

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Speaker 1: It's just his little jabs. I didn't take it job,

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Speaker 1: it didn't take it personal.

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Speaker 4: Do you You know how I feel about merits like I,

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Speaker 2: So we've been trying to find that audio and it's funny.

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Speaker 2: Doesn't exist. No, it does not exist, Mark, do we

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Speaker 2: How is that possible? It's not very strange, it's very strange.

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Speaker 11: That was a big show for us. We had Julia

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Speaker 11: Roberts that day. We had Cameron Diaz that day. Oh,

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Speaker 11: come on, we had Cameron and Julia Roberts on the

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Speaker 11: same show. Yes, there was also an earthquake that morning.

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Speaker 11: We were taking calls from people who have felt the earthquake. Well,

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Speaker 11: did the earthquake shake out the archives?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't don't have a good explanation

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Speaker 2: for this shake out the archives.

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Speaker 1: Crazy is that there's like any of the arts back

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Speaker 1: up upon backups. With the way this show runs and

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Speaker 1: this station runs, we have really yes, we have this

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Speaker 1: thing called logger that, like, you know, essentially records the

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Speaker 1: entire station, so you can go back and get clips

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Speaker 2: Use them or how to use that logger system.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we do, but that one only goes so far back,

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Speaker 4: Thank you for a decade of marriage toms.

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Speaker 2: I can see that.

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Speaker 4: If your parents are happily married.

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Speaker 2: That's when I got married. Oddly enough, January is considered

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I didn't know that divorce month.

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Speaker 3: Well, I just wanted to cover all the bases there.

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Speaker 3: And I'm very excited that we are planning a wedding.

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Speaker 3: We are planning a wedding.

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Speaker 1: Hand this is all you have to look forward to Dania.

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Speaker 5: I know the stats, But you know what, I have

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, maybe that's my problem. I don't have faith

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Speaker 2: Well no, well, if there's one thing, I know, you

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Speaker 9: So I know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's for sure.

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Speaker 5: Somebody was telling me the other day. They were like,

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Speaker 2: And I was like, thank you very much. I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: Those are the people I don't need to hear from you,

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Speaker 5: But what I'm saying is I think I don't know

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Speaker 3: I really do about you feel more comfortable with me.

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Speaker 3: I feel more comfortable. I was weirdy to.

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Speaker 1: Say that right has issues saying it. You're you're saying

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Speaker 2: You just said it, Okay, the types you don't have tapes.

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Speaker 4: There's no archives.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no archives. You just said, I don't know

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Speaker 5: But what I'm saying is that I have faith in

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Speaker 5: I don't need to listen to the stats because I.

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Speaker 2: Believe in our relationship. Yeah, and that's all that matters.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, are you guys finished? Congratulations? I will work on myself.

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Speaker 2: I get it.

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Speaker 4: It's time I grow up and work on me.

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Speaker 2: No, therapy is amazing, all right. Listen, guys. The reason

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Speaker 2: so much. You know I love Here is that audio?

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Speaker 9: You know?

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Speaker 2: I love you? And I say it with love?

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Speaker 4: Okay, you don't have to say it.

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Speaker 8: I know it.

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Speaker 4: She's going to send me a text in this break.

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Speaker 1: I guarantee you she's going to be like, do we

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Speaker 2: Just for quick minute? What was the last one you said?

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Speaker 4: What was the last text you wanted to talk to

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Speaker 2: Can what was it? It's not urgent, but not you

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Speaker 2: when you wake up? When you wake wake up?

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Speaker 4: My gosh, no, what are you wearing to bed at night?

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Speaker 2: Are you wearing this?

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Speaker 3: If you're wearing this, you could be letting dangerous bacteria

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Speaker 3: in it's your morning hack. And I have done this

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Speaker 4: Roach poo poo poo.

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Speaker 2: Okay, roach poo.

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Speaker 4: Poo that causes infections in humans.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I did not even know that roaches

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Speaker 2: Yes, I've cleaned up many times. Everybody poopoos.

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Speaker 4: I always carry a bag.

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Speaker 2: I did not even think of that ever in my life.

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Speaker 3: Well, you need That's the reason we created the morning hack,

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Speaker 4: I've gone on trips socks. I've done it before when

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Speaker 2: Right the winter. Sometimes serial killers.

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Speaker 3: By the way, I've also been traveling and in my

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Speaker 4: Well, I run it's a hookah.

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Speaker 1: It's funny because I call my sister got those and

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Speaker 4: He goes so fast.

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Speaker 2: Ran, just stop talking. I want to remember. Do you

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Speaker 12: Yes?

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Speaker 1: It was so inappropriate.

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Speaker 4: I actually don't even want to talk about it.

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Speaker 1: He left them in the studio. He didn't even take

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Speaker 4: Tanya was.

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Speaker 5: Because all year you were talking about you only have

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Speaker 2: Are you underwear? Girlfriend? At the time that it was

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Speaker 4: Gid speak to my girlfriend.

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Speaker 4: Well, you put it on yourself. I never put them

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Speaker 3: All right, Today's quote we don't need to rush if

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Speaker 2: On air with Ryan Seacret.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, Let's get to Samantha. Okay, here on Kiss Samantha.

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Speaker 2: Good morning. How are you?

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Speaker 13: Good morning.

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Speaker 12: I'm doing okay. How are you guys?

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Speaker 4: We're doing fine.

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Speaker 2: Thanks.

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Speaker 3: So it says here I understand your co workers trying

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Speaker 12: Yeah, okay. So I got engaged a few weeks ago

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Speaker 12: So like, for example, at first, my coworker wanted a

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Speaker 12: I wanted Burgundy for my bridesmaids, and guess what she's

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Speaker 2: But that's so, why are you telling her all this? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: stop sharing the news.

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Speaker 12: At first, it was just so excited, you know, because

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you thought she was a friend.

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Speaker 12: But the worst part is I brought up something that

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Speaker 3: I mean it's like, you know, when you think you

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Speaker 4: What is at the roots of this? Why is she

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Speaker 12: I honestly couldn't tell you. Maybe maybe because we got

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Speaker 12: It's starting to be a little too much, and like

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Speaker 12: coworkers are still arting to pick up on it. And

452
00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,280
Speaker 12: because we're both receptionists, like are we going to be

453
00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:05,920
Speaker 12: out at the same time now, because we're going to

454
00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:06,879
Speaker 12: be on our honeymoons?

455
00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, put your vacations in now, girl.

456
00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's only one thing you can do in this

457
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 3: situation in my view, Oh no, what is it?

458
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:27,439
Speaker 2: Ignore her? No, definitely, don't share anymore wedding ignore her.

459
00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:30,439
Speaker 6: Yeah, and.

460
00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:35,480
Speaker 3: Make up some stuff that you're doing but you're not,

461
00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:40,240
Speaker 3: so she does it, and make it like really, really something.

462
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,760
Speaker 1: You would never do a real life bride wars.

463
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,080
Speaker 3: Right, but own it and then maybe you she'll copy

464
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,359
Speaker 3: the stuff that is ridiculous and then you have a

465
00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:48,400
Speaker 3: completely different company.

466
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I'm changing my colors to neon green.

467
00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 8: I'll give it a try and let you guys know

468
00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:57,720
Speaker 8: how it goes.

469
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Speaker 2: I just don't understand the petiness in this.

470
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 3: It's crazy and congratulations, you know you and Tony both

471
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:05,240
Speaker 3: getting married.

472
00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,520
Speaker 5: I have three other friends getting Three other friends get

473
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 5: trying to get married in twenty twenty four, close friends

474
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Speaker 5: of mine.

475
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 4: So they're also Burgundy too.

476
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Speaker 1: No, I'm not dealing with this because I'm not in

477
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 1: the weeds yet of wedding planning. But but what if

478
00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:21,400
Speaker 1: they have choose the same weekend that you want to complication?

479
00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, this would be a lot.

480
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 1: Imagine if me and Tanya are both engaged at the

481
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:26,920
Speaker 1: same time, it'd be the exact same thing.

482
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:28,960
Speaker 2: It's really stressful.

483
00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 4: I have to take a sabbatical.

484
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,160
Speaker 3: And when you say Tony, thank you, Samantha and congrats

485
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 3: good luck, ignore her.

486
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:38,359
Speaker 2: Uh, Tony.

487
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:41,080
Speaker 4: When you say friends trying to get married, what are

488
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:41,600
Speaker 4: they trying to?

489
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 10: Oh?

490
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:45,080
Speaker 5: Well, no, like they're getting married, but not sure if

491
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 5: everybody wants to get married next year, So I'm trying

492
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 5: to get married next year or maybe the year after.

493
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 1: Because trying means like you have to try to find

494
00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,640
Speaker 1: the venue today. This they have to line.

495
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:58,920
Speaker 3: Up all right, Well, it'll all be play by play

496
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,159
Speaker 3: here on the show because Mark would love it as

497
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 3: the eight oh eight break every day wedding planning.

498
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Speaker 4: What's the latest?

499
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:10,119
Speaker 3: Yes, all right, Carlos is on the line here, so

500
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 3: Carlos for a second date update. Met her on Hinge.

501
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:18,200
Speaker 3: Had two amazing dates, planned a really fun third with

502
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 3: the plan that she was going to spend the night

503
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Speaker 3: at my place, but she decided not to spend the

504
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 3: night and now she won't return my text. Carlos, good morning,

505
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 3: thanks for coming on.

506
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Speaker 7: Hey, what's up?

507
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 2: So you tell me?

508
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:34,879
Speaker 3: I want to get to the third date? You had

509
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 3: two good ones. You actually saw her on the third

510
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 3: day and you there was a plan for her to

511
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 3: spend the night, but she didn't.

512
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:46,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, no, she didn't. She did she pack a bag,

513
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 7: she did, she had an overnight bag.

514
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 3: And when you made this plan, just tell how does

515
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 3: that go when you asked somebody to plan to spend

516
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 3: the night before they spend the night.

517
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Speaker 7: You know, yeah, I mean, well, our second day was

518
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 7: like so good.

519
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,399
Speaker 14: We had like such a good time that like things

520
00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:09,719
Speaker 14: just got really physical and we just kind of stopped

521
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 14: ourselves were just like next time, you know, only second day, Yeah.

522
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Speaker 3: It's on okay, And then in the last hour before

523
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:21,440
Speaker 3: she decided not to stay.

524
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 4: What did y'all do? And how did she leave it?

525
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 4: When she left, I don't know, Like she.

526
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 7: Came over, we ate and and then she asked me

527
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Speaker 7: to take her home, and uh, like I was, you know,

528
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 7: I guess abruptly. I guess I was thinking, yeah, well yeah,

529
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Speaker 7: kind of.

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Speaker 14: I mean, I guess I was just thinking, Okay, she

531
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Speaker 14: changed her mind about spending the night, totally fine, but yeah,

532
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 14: now she's like totally ghosting.

533
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 3: Okay, well so sisany I mean, could it be that

534
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 3: Carlos had it it on his mind so much that

535
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 3: like maybe that kind of made her push back.

536
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 2: Maybe it came on a little so strong. I don't know,

537
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:09,439
Speaker 2: says we.

538
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 3: Were so focused on her being there overnight that maybe

539
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 3: that turned her off.

540
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Speaker 4: Let's find out.

541
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Speaker 2: Carlos.

542
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Speaker 7: Can you hang on, Oh yeah, definitely, Okay, hold.

543
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 4: Tight for one second, we'll come back. We're going to

544
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 4: try and give.

545
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 2: Her a call.

546
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 3: What's her name, It's Brooke, Brooke. Okay, hold on one second,

547
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 3: we'll get Brooke on the other line. Hang on for

548
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 3: a secon. Okay, Carlos and Brook. So, Carlos, are you there?

549
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here, all right, here's the deal.

550
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,879
Speaker 3: We have Brooke on the phone. She's agreed to come on.

551
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,479
Speaker 3: I'm going to jump on with her right now.

552
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 2: Be very quiet.

553
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 3: Let's see we can find out about why she left

554
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 3: after you guys planned to spend the night on a

555
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 3: third day.

556
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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Hello Brooke, Hey.

557
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Speaker 3: Hi, thank you for a green to come on with us.

558
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 3: I have sisany Tanya here. You are being broadcast on

559
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 3: the air. Nice to meet you. Hey, broo, hey, so

560
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 3: quickly to jump into it, we're calling about a guy

561
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:14,400
Speaker 3: named Carlos she met on Hinge.

562
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 4: Okay, hey, and you guys went out a few times.

563
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 4: How how was it with Carlos?

564
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Speaker 6: Yeah, oh my god, it's the second date update.

565
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Speaker 12: It is.

566
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 3: Yes, it is second date up date and so yes,

567
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 3: he's told us that you guys went out twice.

568
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Speaker 4: I'm just going to tell you what he told me.

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Speaker 1: So thanks for listening, and by the way, thank you

570
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Speaker 1: for welcome.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's very nice of you. We do this every

572
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Speaker 4: once in a while.

573
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 3: It's not always a great idea personally, I don't love

574
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 3: it sometimes, but then other times it works out.

575
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Speaker 2: I do because we can get to the bottom of it.

576
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Speaker 3: So he told us that you were planning to spend

577
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 3: the night with him on the third date, and then

578
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 3: on that third day you packed the bag and everything,

579
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,400
Speaker 3: but you bailed, you left, and he can't figure out

580
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,479
Speaker 3: why can you tell us?

581
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 6: Well, I think it's hilarious that he called you.

582
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 15: Because hes yeah, it did not go well.

583
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, well this is he's he's on the line, Carlos.

584
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 12: Hey, what's hi, brook.

585
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 4: Brooks.

586
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 2: What happened?

587
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, I'll tell you exactly, you know what happened.

588
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 6: So we went to Vond's that night to get some

589
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 6: ice cream to take back to his place, and I

590
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 6: didn't like that. He was extremely rude to the cashier.

591
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,399
Speaker 2: Oh what what did you do?

592
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 4: What did you do? Carlos to the cashier, I don't know, Like,

593
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 4: what did he do?

594
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 6: Brow?

595
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:52,159
Speaker 15: Is that.

596
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 6: You were so rude. We went to the checkout aisle

597
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 6: and the woman was putting up the clothes sign and

598
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 6: she apologized profusely. It was like, sorry, this lane is closed,

599
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 6: and he was all sarcastic, like, oh, of course it is.

600
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 6: It was honestly embarrassing, like it wasn't even up to her.

601
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 14: I was just frustrated because the only other lane open

602
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 14: had like five people in it, it would have taken

603
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 14: her like ten seconds to check us out.

604
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 4: Well, this is the reason she didn't spend the night.

605
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 3: This is the reason she didn't spend the night because

606
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 3: you're rude to a stranger, which, by the way, I mean,

607
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 3: I wasn't there, but I'm not a fan.

608
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 2: Of that either. It's not cool. I would have.

609
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 4: Packed my bag.

610
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 6: Exactly like I mean. And it's like, why should you

611
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 6: get special treatment over the five people in front of

612
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 6: you anyway, Carlos, all right, so okay.

613
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 7: Maybe I was wrong.

614
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 14: I'm sorry, but it's like, is that, like, seriously a

615
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 14: reason that just cut me off?

616
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 9: Yeah?

617
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 6: And also I didn't like what you said earlier.

618
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 7: What did I say earlier?

619
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Speaker 6: I said I would play the next day, and you

620
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 6: were all like, that's the least you can do.

621
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 12: Oh, okay, it was a joke.

622
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 14: I was joking because I had paid for everything on

623
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 14: all of our dates.

624
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 12: But I was kidding.

625
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 6: You really weren't, like you're a rude person, and I

626
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 6: didn't see that at first, but now I know, and

627
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 6: I'm glad.

628
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 8: I saw it.

629
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 4: All right, Well, Brooke Carlos, thank you guys very much.

630
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 3: Met on a dating app, so they didn't know each

631
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 3: other and it did not go well, and Carlos, maybe

632
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:34,679
Speaker 3: this is a teaching moment. I have a great morning,

633
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 3: and thank you very much, Brooke, thank you, thank you,

634
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 3: thank you.

635
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 2: Guys.

636
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 4: All right, bye bye. That's one of the ones where

637
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 4: I don't love these That's one of the ones where.

638
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 2: I just find that.

639
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 4: But aren't they already too intense with each other?

640
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 12: Yeah?

641
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 2: No, it's gonna work.

642
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 4: Right, there's there's edge. There's already edge.

643
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 3: I mean, I get like the guy was rude, but

644
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 3: there's already edge in his response and the way she's

645
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 3: talking to him.

646
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 2: Hopefully Carlos learns from this, that's all we can hope for.

647
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 3: I mean, when I looked at the notes for the

648
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 3: show and so that you had a report about quiet dumping,

649
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 3: so many things crossed my mind.

650
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 2: You know, the same thing happened to me when I

651
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 2: first heard about this. It was like, why are you talking?

652
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 3: What?

653
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 12: You just do it?

654
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 2: Really quietly?

655
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: So confused, So that's not what it is, not what

656
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: you're thinking about.

657
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 3: No, why dumping? And why are people doing it? So

658
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 3: it's obviously it's not. Ghosting is different than ghosting.

659
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: I think it might be even worse than ghosting because

660
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: it's manipulative, it's it's gas lighting, it's it's it's a

661
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 1: cross between quite quitting and ghosting. Do you remember we

662
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: talked about quite quitting a few weeks ago, from probably

663
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: months ago at this point. Yeah, And it's when people

664
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: only put the minimum amount of energy into their job

665
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 1: when they're over it already because they're already looking for

666
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: something new. But they're just like, I'll just be do

667
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 1: the minimum anyways, and if they get fired, to get

668
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: fired or all eventually quit or I just don't care.

669
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 4: So is this people trying to get people to break

670
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 4: up with them.

671
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's people just doing the minimum into but now

672
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: into the relationship and so.

673
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 3: That the other person sees that there's like nothing there

674
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 3: and they break up with them. They don't have to

675
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 3: do the breaking up exactly or forever. It could go

676
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 3: on forever, Noble. It all depends on what your style

677
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 3: of dumpiness.

678
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 1: Maybe this is your style.

679
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, I think that. No, Ryan

680
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 2: seems very familiar with it. No, I'm not saying that.

681
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 4: I'm just saying I feel like the term maybe is new.

682
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 3: But I do think that people have lost interest for

683
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 3: decades in relationships and they just go quiet.

684
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: It's a slow phasing out right, So it's quiet. Yeah,

685
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: it's quite quitting, but just in a relationship. But it's

686
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: it's a form of gaslighting because then you start making

687
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: the other person feel like they're doing something wrong when

688
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: in reality they're not doing something wrong. It's you with

689
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 1: the issue and you're the one that's not It doesn't

690
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,959
Speaker 1: have the you know, wabeles to in the relationship.

691
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 3: Tanya, have you ever just gone sort of silent or

692
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 3: less engaging in a relationship to get them to be

693
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 3: turned on less or turned off?

694
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: I can't say that I have. I'm usually the dumpy.

695
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 4: The dumpy. Yeah, you're the dumpy. Yeah, you say, can

696
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 4: we have a chat?

697
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 2: Oh no, sorry, the dumped dumped?

698
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, that is the dumpy, then, isn't the dumper to

699
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 4: the dumpy?

700
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: I think you're right.

701
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I'm right, because which reminds me I

702
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 4: don't know that.

703
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: But she's saying she's not the dumper, therefore she is

704
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: the one that's dumped.

705
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're saying you get dumped.

706
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 2: Yes, dum word. I know it's so sad, well, but.

707
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: We keep saying it over and over again, say it.

708
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 2: Thank you, Ryan, thank you, thank you so much.

709
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 4: I mean, we know the value that she provides. They're lost.

710
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you weren't the right What do you say you

711
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 2: weren't the right sock for them?

712
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 12: Right?

713
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 2: There wasn't the right sock for their phone.

714
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 3: They're listening, some of them are listening right now, hearing

715
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 3: about the success that you were having with Robbie, thinking, oh,

716
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 3: she's the one that got away.

717
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: Right, She's the sock that got away. Believe I do

718
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 1: believe that, actually.

719
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 2: Yep, And I think I know one of the few

720
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 2: specifically that's saying that.

721
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 1: Now, why you gotta go and put some nonsense in

722
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: her head like that? Well, look at her face, but

723
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: you see she's all let up now. She wants to

724
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: know who she's gonna go and like search old instagrams and.

725
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 2: Reason you think it is. She's engaged bliss right now.

726
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 1: And you're okay, okay, we don't need to go down

727
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: a rabbit.

728
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 2: Hey, this all stays here. It doesn't stay here, stay

729
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 2: here a microphone.

730
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, but they're not listening.

731
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. Anyways, the point of this is, let this

732
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: be a PSA. And so if you're in a relationship,

733
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: like this, maybe it's time to evaluate it.

734
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 2: And that's all.

735
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 3: That's all I'm trying to say, Stephanie on the line

736
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 3: here in Los Angeles, this is interesting.

737
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 9: Hi.

738
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 2: By the way, how are you warning?

739
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 10: Just a little confused, but these situationships, situationships?

740
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 4: What is up with the situations? So are you in

741
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 4: a situationship?

742
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 15: Yeah?

743
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 4: And how do you know it's a situationship.

744
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 10: It's because we to go on date and then we

745
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 10: do talk. But the confusing part is that so I

746
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 10: basically got flowers to my house for my birthday and

747
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 10: I am talking to three different guys. So I'm like,

748
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 10: who sent them? I don't want a message.

749
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 3: Thank you to the wrong This is your fault, Stephanie,

750
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 3: your situation in shipping with three guys.

751
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 2: She should her fault. This is her blessing.

752
00:33:54,480 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 3: She should. This is your confusion created by you. Wait,

753
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 3: what do you want me to tell you? You got

754
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 3: three guys on the line there and one.

755
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 2: Of asking what to do? Who does she think?

756
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 1: I say, you just waited out and you just continue.

757
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,800
Speaker 2: Kind of talking to them and somebody something canna drop.

758
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 3: A hend mystery flowers from potentially one of three guys.

759
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 3: But you don't know which one because you're in a

760
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,760
Speaker 3: try situationship, right, because.

761
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 10: I don't know it from like, they all seem to

762
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 10: be so nice and we all like, I go along

763
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 10: with them so good. It's like, who to I even think?

764
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 10: How do I bring it up?

765
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 3: Well, they definitely don't know you're in a situationship with

766
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 3: other guys. They would have signed their name so you knew, right, Like,

767
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 3: if I knew you were seeing other guys, I would

768
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 3: to make sure I signed my name otherwise it could

769
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 3: be confused with those other guys.

770
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, wait, I have a really good idea.

771
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:50,760
Speaker 4: Well, I wouldn't say it until.

772
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:50,800
Speaker 2: We hear it.

773
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 5: Okay, do the do any of the three men think

774
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 5: that you were exclusively dating?

775
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 13: I think they all do, no, because I feel.

776
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 1: She said no.

777
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 5: No, Okay, here's what you do. You send all three

778
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 5: men thank you so much for the flowers. They're gorgeous.

779
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 5: Then you're thinking the right one one of whoever it

780
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 5: is with, for the flowers, which is great and you

781
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 5: should do.

782
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:16,800
Speaker 2: And then the other two were going to be like

783
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 2: those weren't for me? Who else are you dating?

784
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 5: And then they're going to get in their hunter mentality

785
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 5: and they're going to pursue you even harder. And then

786
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 5: if they respond and they're like, oh, it wasn't me,

787
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 5: you can be like, oh sorry, there wasn't a name

788
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:30,800
Speaker 5: on the on the card.

789
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 2: So I just wasn't sure. Or they might be mad.

790
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 2: You're like, who else are you dating? That's be mad?

791
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:41,239
Speaker 2: You have two others? This is great, but what if

792
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 2: she likes that makes them mad? Seventy Do you see

793
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 2: what we have to blame here?

794
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 11: Yeah?

795
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 2: I don't know that that's the best ones here on

796
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 2: this situations.

797
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 5: Eventually one of them is going to be like, hey,

798
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 5: did you get my flowers? It's so rude though, not

799
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,760
Speaker 5: to thank someone for sending you flowers.

800
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 2: Right, we don't know who you think? All right, Stephanie,

801
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 2: thank them all.

802
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 3: I'm going to have to say, like Sisney said, you

803
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 3: have to wait this one out. Yeah, smoke it out,

804
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 3: smoke it out.

805
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 2: Oh you think? Oh I know, I got it.

806
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 1: It just took me a minute. So when they finally

807
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 1: do say hey did you get my flowers? And then

808
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 1: actually I did, But I was waiting to thank you in.

809
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 4: Person until you see them before and we just.

810
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 3: Don't see any of them, wait till they you're in

811
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 3: a situation less ship until you can get to the

812
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 3: box exactly.

813
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 4: And Sydney, do you make zoo sounds when you have

814
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 4: eph epiphany? Q?

815
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 3: Seventy Good luck. I think you've heard several ways to

816
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 3: handle this and hopefully you're having fun.

817
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 2: Thank you, and guys, ladies, sign the card.

818
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 4: Sign the card. Don't leave it up for ambiguity.

819
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,760
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's so cool to like send something without ensigning,

820
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 1: like it's n notes.

821
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 4: From you unless you're seeing other people.

822
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm telling you it's a good move to thank

823
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: him for the flowers.

824
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 3: Today's National ice Cream Cake Day. I point that out

825
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 3: because my mother loves ice cream cake and his kids.

826
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 4: That's what we had. We had the Baskin Robins ice

827
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:20,320
Speaker 4: cream cake. For our birthday.

828
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 2: We had the Baskin Robin's ice cream pie. That was

829
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 2: like our thing. Was it round as well?

830
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 5: It's round, It's like in a pie tin, but so

831
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 5: not like the log. He right has oreo crust and

832
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 5: it has like a caramel on top.

833
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 3: So because you're wondering, I'm not just a cake person.

834
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 3: I need cold with cake. I like the ice cream,

835
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 3: like the cold temperature with the cake. All right, let's

836
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 3: put our relationship guidance caps on for Anthony bro.

837
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 2: How are you, Anthony, Hi, good morning, Ryan, I'm morning.

838
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 3: You know I need some help, Okay, So what I

839
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 3: know is your girlfriend has a study partner at school

840
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 3: and school is out and she's still hanging with the

841
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 3: study partner.

842
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 4: What concerns you, Anthony.

843
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 15: Yeah, it's just a weird situation. Like I don't want

844
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 15: to be a toxic boyfriend or anything, but he's over

845
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 15: like every day, and it's just getting really weird at

846
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 15: this point. Like, I know they're good friends and I

847
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 15: shouldn't be worried, but you know, school's over. I never

848
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 15: hung out with friends after school was over this much.

849
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,880
Speaker 15: I know it's convenient because he lives close by, but

850
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 15: you know, sometimes when I'm not there, Yeah, I just

851
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 15: get a little bit worried because they're just super good

852
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 15: friends and they're both in the same major, and they

853
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 15: both share a lot of things in common, Like you know,

854
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 15: they're both English majors, so they love a bunch of

855
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 15: stuff that they just talk about for hours on end,

856
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 15: and it feels like, you know, maybe she's developing an

857
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 15: emotional connection with him that I just don't have with her.

858
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 3: Anthony, What I want to say, because this is all

859
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 3: being broadcast, is don't worry about it. You love her,

860
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 3: trust her. But what I'm thinking is I don't like it.

861
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 3: I don't like it.

862
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 2: I really don't like And how long have you guys

863
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:15,280
Speaker 2: been together.

864
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 15: We've been together for about two years.

865
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 2: I don't like it.

866
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,399
Speaker 3: This is like, these are the ingredients for something bad

867
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 3: to happen in my mind now that I don't know

868
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:32,320
Speaker 3: if that would be my own insecurity or I just

869
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 3: feel like it is a little like, sure, you should

870
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 3: trust your girlfriend, but it's a little recipe for disaster.

871
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:40,919
Speaker 1: Why are they spending so much time together if they're

872
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: not studying for a test or in some sort of

873
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: study group.

874
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 2: This, you know, like you're saying school is out.

875
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 15: Yeah, school though, I mean I understand being friends and

876
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 15: you know they have every right to hang out with

877
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:58,279
Speaker 15: each other, but also you know, he's over, Like every day,

878
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:00,800
Speaker 15: they spend a lot of time together.

879
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 2: Are you ever around the two of them?

880
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:07,360
Speaker 15: Oh? I mean yeah, I'm home usually I work hybrids,

881
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:09,840
Speaker 15: so on some days I'm in the office, some days

882
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 15: I'm home, and so'll be here for you know, lunch

883
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 15: sometimes dinners.

884
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 3: The mature me wants to say don't worry about it.

885
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 3: But the me me says, worry about it.

886
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 1: I don't know that I would address it with her,

887
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: right immature me would say, let's set him up with

888
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 1: a girl.

889
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 4: Oh right, you know, detour, Yeah, to the detour route.

890
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 2: Get that guy bowed up.

891
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 5: No, it's talking about It's not about the guy. It's

892
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 5: about your girlfriend. And I think that why she's the

893
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 5: immature me. She's taking advantage of your your faith in

894
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 5: her and your loyalty to her, and I just feel

895
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:50,800
Speaker 5: like there is there's a line, and there's a boundary

896
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 5: that should be there when you're in a relationship and

897
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,479
Speaker 5: how much time you're spending with somebody of the opposite sex.

898
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 2: She could just be oblivious that she's doing this to you.

899
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 4: So what we should do, Anthony, we meaning you, we're

900
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 4: not can't be there.

901
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 3: But what you should do is be honest with your

902
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 3: girlfriend about how you feel and see her reaction to that,

903
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 3: because that reaction is going to help you with peace

904
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:14,800
Speaker 3: of mind, or it's going to help you realize this

905
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:15,320
Speaker 3: is a problem.

906
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:17,359
Speaker 4: But it's gonna go one mony the other.

907
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, So can you do that, Anthony, She's either gonna

908
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 1: explode or it's gonna be no big deal.

909
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 3: You're gonna get some clarity here, and any clarity you

910
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 3: can't just can't fester her.

911
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 2: Does that work?

912
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:32,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, Anthony, good luck, buddy, Thank you very much for calling.

913
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 12: Yeah.

914
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 3: It may be where she puts him totally at ease

915
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 3: right when when he talks to her, or it may

916
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 3: be I mean, I hope he's not. I mean, it

917
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 3: may be where she says, I gotta tell you something,

918
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 3: and that sucks.

919
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 2: But to be doing it right under his nose, yikes.

920
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:54,720
Speaker 4: The latest dating trend in LA is speed dating?

921
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 2: What version? And it's not for me. I'll give it

922
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 2: a try. Anything manufactured like this, I'm out.

923
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's a little it's a little too

924
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: much pressure for me too. When when one of my

925
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: friends does this for friendships, like so it's not dating,

926
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 1: but it's like speed dating for friends.

927
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 2: Right, And even that gives me anxiety. He's like, you talk,

928
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 2: you got to talk to my next one, and I

929
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 2: was like, okay, are they doing it now?

930
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: So there's a bunch of different types of speed dating

931
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: that you could do, and I can get into those

932
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 1: in a second. But the craziest one that I thought

933
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 1: of a sudden I was reading this, I was like, oh,

934
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: I don't know that I would even ever want to

935
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: try this.

936
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:36,359
Speaker 2: Tntra speeding dating what yes?

937
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 1: So contra okay, dirties, Yeah, we all know tantra dirty.

938
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 4: It's like it's you know, it's patient.

939
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: It's more about like connection, right, And so the male

940
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,839
Speaker 1: attendees would go and they would get down on one

941
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 1: knee and they gaze into the eyes of their the

942
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: women that they're just they just met. I've never met,

943
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 1: they've never met, right. And then this is the craziest part.

944
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: You hug to see if you.

945
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 2: Have a connection fully creeped down fully what kind of

946
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 2: setting are they in? Are they in? All?

947
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 1: This is a yoga studio, so it really way out

948
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: checks out right, So it's being hosted a yoga studient

949
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:15,919
Speaker 1: Echo park.

950
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 4: This is a field their vibrations where you're hugging them

951
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:18,760
Speaker 4: and it works.

952
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: It guess if you listen, Michael and I do our

953
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: twenty second hug whenever we have stressed out days and

954
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 1: all that, and it really centers us like when we

955
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 1: just need it, and it's the best thing ever.

956
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 4: I cannot do a twenty second hug, Like what do

957
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:34,720
Speaker 4: you do I rolling my eyes.

958
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 1: Your girlfriend came up to you and said, I've had

959
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 1: a really stressful day. I need a twenty second hug.

960
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: You wouldn't give her a twenty second hug?

961
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 4: Oh guilt trip? Well blah, well she would not say that.

962
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 2: And I don't think. I mean, I think we.

963
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 4: Talk and hug, but not.

964
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:50,879
Speaker 2: Can't you do a twenty second hunt?

965
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 4: It's contrived?

966
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: It's so nice, Ryan, try it it really, you feel

967
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:55,959
Speaker 1: your heart beats.

968
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 2: It's almost like this tauntra thing. But at least you

969
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 2: know her. Let me time it. Yeah, well I started,

970
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 2: go ahead, I'll keep talking.

971
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 1: So every month you can find local events for all

972
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 1: different types of age groups. So if you're into this

973
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: type of speed dating, maybe it's not TNDRA. You can

974
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 1: do one that's themed for gamers or LGBTQ or anime enthusiasts,

975
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 1: like it's just the list goes on with the themes

976
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 1: of speed dating.

977
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 3: There you go.

978
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 2: So that wasn't that bad.

979
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 3: But that was the longest report ever and I hugged

980
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 3: the whole time twenty seconds.

981
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 4: I don't know, it's just anything like that seems. This

982
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 4: all feels to me to me a little contrived.

983
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 1: Well, that I'm saying that speedating event is probably not

984
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: for you, but there's different types of events that you

985
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: could do.

986
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 2: There's a seventy five.

987
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 1: Percent jump in speed dating in general right now, according

988
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 1: to events Bright And why is that?

989
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: There must be a reason. I think people are over

990
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 2: the apps.

991
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 3: Oh, there's an app burn for the moment, I think.

992
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 3: So all right, well there you have it. Let us

993
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:00,120
Speaker 3: know if it's worked for you. I'm very cus if

994
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 3: you've done this contra speed date. And also, how long

995
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 3: do you hug people?

996
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:06,280
Speaker 2: Call me? I know, you know what's interesting.

997
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:08,879
Speaker 5: I used to hug people a lot, and like really

998
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 5: girthy hugs, and now I'm realizing, like I didn't realize

999
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 5: how intimate hugs were.

1000
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:17,320
Speaker 2: Twenty second hug, bro, that's long. That's fine for your husband,

1001
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 2: but yeah, text me or.

1002
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 3: Call me four one two seven? How long do you

1003
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 3: hug normally? Text me that talk back on the IET

1004
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 3: radio app?

1005
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 2: Christina?

1006
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 3: How can we help in your relationship? Your boyfriend's mother's

1007
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 3: making you split the rent? Tell us more?

1008
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 13: Ah, yeah, So, so she's had this apartment for a

1009
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 13: few years and when my boyfriend and I decided to

1010
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 13: move in with her, we decided that she and I

1011
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 13: would split the rent because he's a creative and he

1012
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 13: gets paid inconsistently with like gigs and stuff. So I

1013
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 13: originally agreed to that. And he also has a brother

1014
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:58,760
Speaker 13: with a disability. With them, that's been totally good and fine.

1015
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 13: But the sister moved back in, so she's finishing up college.

1016
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 13: Moved back in. The big problem with that is that

1017
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 13: we were using that room as like an office and

1018
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,840
Speaker 13: we've had to like move everything out of there to

1019
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 13: make room for her. And now it feels like I'm

1020
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 13: kind of supporting half of the entire family. Yeah, he's

1021
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:27,280
Speaker 13: not paying rent, Like, he's not paying rent, which is fine,

1022
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 13: but that's not really.

1023
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 10: What I feel like.

1024
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 7: I agreed to what you signed up for.

1025
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 13: Yeah, and the utilities too, I'm still paying half of

1026
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 13: the utilities.

1027
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Wait, six people live there, five of us,

1028
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 3: five people live there, and you pay.

1029
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 4: Half the rent utilities.

1030
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 2: Yep, No, that's not okay.

1031
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 10: That is raw?

1032
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 4: And why how could they not see that that's not okay?

1033
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1034
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 7: I don't know. I don't.

1035
00:46:56,400 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 13: I think it's just like a slow creep situation that

1036
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 13: sort of happened, and I don't really know, Like me

1037
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:08,240
Speaker 13: and his mom, like we don't have the warmest connection,

1038
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 13: Like we're okay.

1039
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 3: But can't he help you communicate with his mom about

1040
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 3: this issue? Which seems very fair.

1041
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,839
Speaker 13: That's what I'm feeling, like, I feel like I really

1042
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:21,839
Speaker 13: want him to handle this, but I'm wondering if I'm

1043
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 13: kind of like taking the cowards way out.

1044
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,800
Speaker 2: And I don't think so.

1045
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 3: I don't think cowchback, Like you've been doing this for

1046
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 3: all those people for a minute now. So if it

1047
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 3: were me and I have a great relationship with his mom,

1048
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 3: I would say to him, you know what his name is, bro,

1049
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 3: this is just like making me feel bad. You know,

1050
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 3: I think I'm being taken advantage of or it's not

1051
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,280
Speaker 3: fair or this is not what I expected and things change.

1052
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 3: I get it, but please, let's let's address this. Let's

1053
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 3: address this and then address it and have a little

1054
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 3: meeting about it. But I think you're only going to

1055
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:00,359
Speaker 3: build resentment. It's not gonna get worse if you don't

1056
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 3: address it, and you don't want it to get worse

1057
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 3: to like impact your relationship with him, right.

1058
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, the sister needs to be pain at least a

1059
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 2: little bit at this.

1060
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 13: Point, right, And I get it, Like she's in college.

1061
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 13: She's still getting her legs underneath her.

1062
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 3: But you could say, look, I got it. Things change, things,

1063
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 3: of all. But it's kind of the place where we

1064
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:21,320
Speaker 3: should address this. We need to just talk about it

1065
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 3: because I need a little bit more of a fair

1066
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 3: program here and this is not what I expected. Fine, okay,

1067
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 3: but here, let's talk. Let's talk it through and go

1068
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 3: that route. I mean, he loves you, he's gonna support you,

1069
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 3: He'll help you with the liaising with the mother there,

1070
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 3: and let's get I mean, definitely, one thing is for sure.

1071
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:39,360
Speaker 3: It doesn't change if you don't say anything exactly.

1072
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: And then at that point, if it's still dicey and

1073
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:45,760
Speaker 1: not in a good place, then you have your answer.

1074
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 4: You don't want.

1075
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:55,960
Speaker 3: I was gonna do it for us this morning before

1076
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 3: we go. What do you do on your foot or

1077
00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 3: hand falls asleep? This happens to me every once in

1078
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:00,760
Speaker 3: a while, or having.

1079
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 2: To you want to Yes, I just hit it. Yeah,

1080
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 2: you gotta just shake it off.

1081
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:07,879
Speaker 3: You have to move it as fast as you can.

1082
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 3: I'm trying to sleep, not on my back all the time,

1083
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 3: on my side, but my arm falls asleep.

1084
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 2: You sleep on it.

1085
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 1: It's funny when it happens to my kiss because it's

1086
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: all new stuff for them, and we're like, yeah, they're like,

1087
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: what is this moment?

1088
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 14: So mad?

1089
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 3: Who's inside of me doing this? Sisney's got you till

1090
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 3: eleven o'clock non stop here on Kiss.

1091
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,399
Speaker 4: Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make

1092
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 4: sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow