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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all.

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Speaker 2: It's your girl Lex Pete and it's your girl Drey

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Speaker 2: and the Call, and you are tuned into a bonus

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Speaker 2: episode of Poor Minds.

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Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, Now, we.

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Speaker 2: Just wanted to do something a little quick for y'all

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Speaker 2: today because I just thought it was interesting. I was

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Speaker 2: scrolling my timeline per usual since the girl is back

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Speaker 2: on Twitter again, and I saw a tweet by a

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Speaker 2: guy that was basically saying like he's just tired of

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Speaker 2: going on dates and and it's it's it's an investment.

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Speaker 2: Like he was like, I just can't do this no more.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay, So, first of all, I don't

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Speaker 2: necessarily look at a date being in an investment investment.

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Speaker 1: It's not that serious.

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Speaker 2: But I do feel like as you get older, you know,

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Speaker 2: maybe your views on dating changes, because I feel like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm not necessary like dating to marry

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Speaker 2: or like dating to have kids or dating to get

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Speaker 2: a house. Like I feel like dating can still be

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Speaker 2: fun and dating is what you make it.

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Speaker 1: I am.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what at this point in my life,

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Speaker 3: I'm not just dating niggas just to dat mecaus no more.

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Speaker 3: Like if I'm fucking with a nigga. Something about to happen.

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Speaker 3: He's about to get married, were about to have a baby,

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Speaker 3: I'm about to get a house, something about to happen.

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Speaker 2: Right at this point, I guess it's just and that's

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Speaker 2: why I said, it just depends what you want from

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Speaker 2: a person.

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Speaker 1: It does. But I don't I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I guess I just be feeling like after like twenty

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Speaker 3: six twenty seven, like I don't know, I just feel like,

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Speaker 3: what do you I don't know. I just feel like

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Speaker 3: after that age, it's like you should be looking as

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Speaker 3: shit for longevity because it's like you're not really getting

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Speaker 3: no younger.

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Speaker 2: So but I guess it's because I also believe. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if I necessarily believe in just like being

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Speaker 2: with one person for the rest of your life, because

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Speaker 2: I don't I said, I don't know if I necessarily

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Speaker 2: want to get married. I'm still like on the fence

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Speaker 2: with I don't on the fence about getting married too.

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like it's necessarily about married. But I

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Speaker 2: just feel like, once you hit twenty six twenty seven,

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Speaker 2: you just need to be focused on a plan for

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Speaker 2: longevity as far as like having a stable household.

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Speaker 1: But I have household by myself, right.

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Speaker 3: You can, But.

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Speaker 1: I people should be focused on that.

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Speaker 3: I don't feel like people be necessarily focused on that.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's something that everybody wants down the line,

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Speaker 3: But what are you really doing to achieve it? Or really, like,

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Speaker 3: do you have like a ten year plan? Do you

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Speaker 3: have a five year plan? Like you like, okay, five

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Speaker 3: years from now or maybe if you like twenty seven

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Speaker 3: five years from now? Do I have a plan to

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Speaker 3: wear Okay, I know when I'm thirty two, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: be in a house, right and I'm gonna have a kid,

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Speaker 3: and I'm gonna have a husband if that's what you want.

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Speaker 3: Everybody doesn't want those things. Like me, I don't really

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Speaker 3: care about marriage. But I know I want to be

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Speaker 3: a mom before I'm thirty, and I got like another

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Speaker 3: two years for that, So I'm ready to have a kid.

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Speaker 1: And I'm focused on that.

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Speaker 3: And I also know i want to be a home

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Speaker 3: owner before I'm thirty, so I'm focused on that. So

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Speaker 3: I just be feeling like, yeah, people be saying that

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Speaker 2: But but I just think it's so weird how like

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Speaker 2: people say like it's an investment to me, and I

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Speaker 2: do y'all really know what like what an investment is.

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Speaker 2: To say, you're taking a girl out and y'all getting

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Speaker 2: to know each other over dinner. Do you feel like

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Speaker 2: that's an investment?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: I mean I don't feel like it's an investment, but

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Speaker 3: I do feel like it's it's well, I mean, I

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Speaker 3: guess to a certain extent, it is an investment. It's

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Speaker 3: an investment towards your future if that's what you see

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Speaker 2: Right, And I guess for me it's like I don't know,

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Speaker 2: like some situations.

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Speaker 3: Not taking a girl out on a date, but I mean.

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Speaker 1: It's an investment of home.

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Speaker 3: Well, no, I don't, cause I don't feel like one

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Speaker 3: day is an investment.

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Speaker 1: But I guess if.

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Speaker 3: You look at the whole period of time that y'all dating,

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Speaker 3: and all of the sheep that you've done for this person,

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Speaker 3: and all of the money that you spent on this

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Speaker 3: person in all of the dates that y'all went on,

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Speaker 3: and I guess that is an investment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, now, I'll say it for that point of view.

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Speaker 2: But I was talking about like like you just meeting

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Speaker 2: somebody and it's like some first date type shit.

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Speaker 3: Well, on a first date, a nigga got me fucked up.

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Speaker 3: If you think I'm an investment, I'm not an investment

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Speaker 3: because you ain't even spent no money.

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Speaker 1: Yea, right, But that's why I said.

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Speaker 2: That's why I feel like it's a little weird thing

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Speaker 2: to say, but like for me, like right now, I'm

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Speaker 2: just like dating for fun. But I don't know because

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Speaker 2: I was in a recent situation where, like I met

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Speaker 2: ended up being like we're just cool as fuck, like

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Speaker 2: we're totally in the friend zone now. But I feel

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Speaker 2: like that's my intent I never have intentions going into situations.

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Speaker 1: I guess maybe that is my problem.

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Speaker 2: I never have intentions because I just never know how

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Speaker 2: things are gonna turn out. So it's like sometimes you

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Speaker 2: might get this, sometimes you might get that, but I

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Speaker 2: don't dy. I guess I don't date with intentions to

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Speaker 2: like marry somebody, because I just feel like you never know.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes things turn out and sometimes they don't.

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Speaker 2: But I guess that's more so of me because well

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Speaker 2: we know, for show, I don't want kids and you know,

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Speaker 2: marriage is not something that's on my priority list because

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Speaker 2: I just have so many things I want to do

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Speaker 2: career wise, So like marriage is probably like number thirty six,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't really care about marriage.

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Speaker 1: Marriage has never really been.

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Speaker 3: High up on my list. I feel like I can

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Speaker 3: achieve everything that I want without.

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Speaker 1: So do you feel like that's why people our age?

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Speaker 2: Like people say that our generation, as far as our

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Speaker 2: relationships with dating and marriage, like nobody takes marriage seriously

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Speaker 2: this day?

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Speaker 1: Is because how even us, how we view marriage.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, absolutely, I feel like people definitely don't

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Speaker 1: It's not that serious to us right in this generation.

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Speaker 1: How do you think we got that way though?

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Speaker 3: Like it's because because of how niggas be, and because

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Speaker 3: everything is so publicized, not just how niggas be, how

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Speaker 3: niggas be, how women be, and just everything is so

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Speaker 3: publicized these days. Like it's like literally, thanks to Instagram, Twitter,

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Speaker 3: social media, you cannot do anything in private.

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Speaker 1: It's no privacy anymore.

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Speaker 2: So you feel like social media is single handedly ruin marries.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, because back in the day, do you really think

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Speaker 3: they Mildred wasn't cheating on.

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Speaker 1: Mildred?

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Speaker 3: We do, do.

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 3: I mean, when we ain't talk about Hub, we talk

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Speaker 3: about Hub, But do you think that Mildred wasn't cheating

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Speaker 3: on Melby? I'm just asking, do you think like they weren't.

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Speaker 1: Taking out ads in the newspaper and letting?

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Speaker 3: Do you think that these people weren't cheating on each other?

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Speaker 3: Do you think it wasn't no cheating going on? Do

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Speaker 3: you think that Melvine wasn't missing with Shirley?

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Speaker 1: Don't bring a barber? I thought he was the characters?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So do you think Alberts Okay, we can do Albert.

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Speaker 1: You're bad at names.

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Speaker 2: We're supposed to use ghetto names, but we used my family,

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Speaker 2: know y'all. This is why I'm laughing, because she's my

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Speaker 2: whole use her whole family's names.

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Speaker 3: Do y'all think Albert wasn't supposed to be Do you

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Speaker 3: think Albert wasn't cheating with Carol?

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Speaker 2: And you know what, but this is what I'll say, though,

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Speaker 2: I feel like cheating was actually worse back then, because

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Speaker 2: I know they used to have whole other families like

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Speaker 2: they used to have. I know That's what I'm saying,

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Speaker 2: so I just feel like I'm his days.

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Speaker 3: Ain't no way a nigga gonna have a baby with

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Speaker 3: me and I have a baby with another beach and

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Speaker 3: I don't know about right, ain't.

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Speaker 1: It's literally no possible way.

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Speaker 2: And also I just feel like I don't know, like

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Speaker 2: men don't want to take care of the home anymore.

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Speaker 1: So it's caused No, no, yes.

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Speaker 3: I don't think men don't want to take care of

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Speaker 3: fucking exactly.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, But what I'm saying is you have

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Speaker 2: to realize that them, that's the average men. Okay, I

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Speaker 2: wanna stop fucking with the average man, But I mean,

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Speaker 2: it's just it is what it is. So the facts remain.

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Speaker 2: The facts are here, Like men do not want to

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Speaker 2: take care of their home. They want to split rent,

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Speaker 2: They want to split this, and they want to split that.

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Speaker 2: A lot of women they get fed up with that shit,

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Speaker 2: so they're like, I can do all by myself.

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Speaker 1: You want to split rents? Exactly, we can split up.

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Speaker 1: That's hello.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like now now being that way, because

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Speaker 2: you know what, men back then, they used to have

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Speaker 2: two or three families, but they were taking care of

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Speaker 2: their families.

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Speaker 1: Okay, period. So now it's.

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Speaker 2: Like, why would I want to deal with the man

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Speaker 2: who got all these problems? I can do bad by myself,

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Speaker 2: and that's how I am right now. I'm like, why

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Speaker 2: would I bring unless you're trying to help me and

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Speaker 2: relief some of this?

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Speaker 3: Why are you here? I don't want to know, but

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Speaker 3: that's why. But that's why I don't date for fun.

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Speaker 3: I don't date for leisure because it's just like, to me,

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Speaker 3: dating for fun, it's just kind of like, Okay, So

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Speaker 3: if I could do bad all by myself, I'm just

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Speaker 3: not gonna really take you serious and we're just gonna

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Speaker 3: be casually dating and I'm just gonna be fucking you

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Speaker 3: because I could be bad by myself. But I'm still

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Speaker 3: letting you get the pussy and I'm still letting you

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Speaker 3: reap the benefits of fucking with me. But we're not

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Speaker 3: absolutely with you, because honestly, I'm dating people, but I'm

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Speaker 3: not the person I give pussy to death.

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Speaker 1: Well, we haven't had sex in a while.

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Speaker 2: It's got I'm gotta getting some cock webs down there myself.

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Speaker 3: But I've been actively hobwhebs, not cockwhebs.

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Speaker 1: I said cockweb. But what I'm saying is I've been

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Speaker 1: actively dating in Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: And I can honestly say I haven't fucked any of those.

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Speaker 1: Niggas you have been.

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Speaker 2: First of all, let it be known that I'm not

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Speaker 2: drunk today. Drea has been drinking and she got one everywhere.

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Speaker 2: She was trying to clean wine over her finger.

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Speaker 3: No, absolutely not, because I already know if I come

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Speaker 3: Well a nine times out of seeing my house nice

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Speaker 2: But I mean, like I said, when I'm dating somebody

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Speaker 3: But I'm not coming back to your crib unless I'm

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Speaker 3: Well, I will say this, I prefer personally to like

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Speaker 1: See that's the thing. I think.

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Speaker 2: I'll be feeling bad sometimes, so I'm like that person

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Speaker 1: So he would leave.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why, I just be feeling bad. So

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Speaker 2: I'm ready to go, bitch, I can control.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm in control. When I'm ready to go, bitch,

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Speaker 3: Absolutely. When you're ready to go, you can go. But

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Speaker 3: Now I'm gonna be like no, yeah, I'm about to

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I.

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Speaker 2: Guess, but but no, what going back to your statement

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Speaker 2: with how you said like dating somebody for leisure, like

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Speaker 2: I'm fucking you, Well, for me, I'm definitely not fucking

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Speaker 2: you if you're not doing something for me, like helping

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Speaker 1: Is what it is. Well, I'm not fucking you if

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, because doing something for me ain't

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Speaker 1: But for me, I'm not fucking you.

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Speaker 2: Just because we're having fun. Like I'm fucking you of

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Speaker 2: course because I like Dick, but to be like having

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Speaker 2: and you're not doing absolutely nothing, now that's me taking it.

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Speaker 3: If y'all want to hear fucking niggas because they ain't

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Speaker 3: doing nothing and you just think they got good to see.

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Speaker 1: You losing, Yeah, I mean, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: We were doing that you know already, but we was

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Speaker 2: like sixteen seventeen, okay, like we're grown, and especially me,

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Speaker 2: Like I said, y'all know big Mama about to turn thirty.

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Speaker 1: So but I.

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Speaker 3: Especially especially me, because I'm trying to get like I'm

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Speaker 3: give a fuck about no parsies. I don't give a

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Speaker 3: fuck about no light bial, I don't even give a

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Speaker 1: And like I said, it's to eat your song.

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Speaker 2: But I would say the advice we can give to

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Speaker 1: I just don't be.

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Speaker 2: Laying down with no nigga that CA is not doing

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Speaker 2: absolutely nothing for you.

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Speaker 3: I went the fuck off on the nigga the other day.

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Speaker 3: Why because the same fucking nigga and shout out to

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Speaker 1: Why the fuck you keep real fucking mad oh mynd,

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Speaker 1: why the.

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Speaker 3: Fuck you keep messaging me when you already know you

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Speaker 3: a fucking weird though, Nil, you gonna fucking text me.

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Speaker 1: Does he listen to the show or something? Because you

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Speaker 1: I hope.

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Speaker 3: So, then why the fuck would you text me on

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Speaker 3: that number?

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Speaker 1: And then you gonna text me today?

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Speaker 3: Send me a picture y'all week ass twenty fourteen miles arriety,

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Speaker 3: it's twenty nineteen.

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Speaker 1: I know this is a fucking dad.

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Speaker 3: It's twenty nineteen. Then gonna help me. I had to

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Speaker 3: pay forty K on my new house. That the house

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Speaker 3: they probably even knew first of all, and if you

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Speaker 3: have to pay like but regardless of any of that,

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Speaker 3: if you're sending me a picture on Maserati and you're

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Speaker 3: telling me you have to pay forty K on your

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Speaker 3: it as a reason as to why you did not

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Speaker 3: give me a birthday gift.

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Speaker 1: You don't have no fucking money. I'm trying to be funny.

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Speaker 1: Your birthday at this point was how many months months ago?

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Speaker 1: Bro Oh? Let me back to sister A sister is anger.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you got that off your chest because long wait,

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Speaker 2: but birthday was in April, so April July, no, you

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Speaker 2: you said, almost three months, right, So it's just like

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Speaker 1: So so let's get back to the top of gonna.

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Speaker 2: So when you're dating somebody, you're dating because you have

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Speaker 3: What I need period at this point, absolutely right, I

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Speaker 3: dat no nigga, who like if me and you are

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Speaker 3: I haven't got a car repod, I haven't got a

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Speaker 3: That's a whole of the story though. But yes, absolutely,

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Speaker 2: But like I said, for the bonus episode, but for me,

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Speaker 1: Understand like women.

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Speaker 2: No, I always knew, you always gave me Lisbie. I

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Speaker 2: to God, I say this all the time. I just

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Speaker 2: don't want to eat no Kuchi. Bro.

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Speaker 1: I don't like eating Kuci do it?

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like?

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Speaker 1: Because it's think no. I ate Kouchie before and I

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Speaker 1: I want to know why you didn't like because I

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Speaker 1: don't know, but I ask is that weird? I don't

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Speaker 3: But I like eating man as is very because I

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Speaker 2: I'm not sucking over a man. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: suck on no titties. I don't want to do none

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Speaker 2: of it. I don't know, like I think women are

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Speaker 2: and that's what I'm saying. Like, I so back to

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Speaker 2: I say men really get on my nerves, like they

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Speaker 2: really really fucking do. But when I meet a guy

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Speaker 2: that's like cool, I don't mind, you know, having conversations,

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Speaker 2: we can hang out this, and that I'm not fucking

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Speaker 2: you because at this point I've been fucking the same

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Speaker 2: I'm not giving nobody no pussy. Like if anybody's listening

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Speaker 2: that's taking me on some dates or planning on taking

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Speaker 2: me on some dates, nine times out of ten, you

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Speaker 2: definitely not getting no pussy.

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Speaker 1: Same you ain't about to forget.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not gonna God, I'm gonna use you for

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Speaker 3: them two three days I'm dead.

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Speaker 2: It's not it's not that I'm using them because I

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Speaker 1: Like we have you.

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Speaker 3: I don't enjoy y'all company because I already be knowing

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna dead.

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Speaker 1: Y'all aftter like their day.

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Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes, you know, like I said, this

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Speaker 2: last situation I was in, I thought that it was

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Speaker 1: I don't really like. I was like, damn, this is

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Speaker 1: actually a good homeboy. So it's like we're kind of

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Speaker 3: See, And that's the thing about me. I'm just at

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Speaker 3: a point in my life where I don't need no

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Speaker 3: new friends.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I definitely don't need no new friends.

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Speaker 3: I'm really cool on I'm really cool on Homeboys than Homegirl.

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Speaker 2: No, and I'm not gonna lie I am too. But

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Speaker 2: sometimes you meet people and y'all, just like you don't

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Speaker 2: plan I don't plan on making new friends, but sometimes

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Speaker 2: you meet people and y'all just end up hitting it off,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Like I'm not actively looking

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Speaker 2: for friends right now at all, Like I'm not actively

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Speaker 2: looking for a nigga, but sometimes shit just happens, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: I agree, sometimes it just happened.

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Speaker 3: I feel like the last two friends that I made

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Speaker 3: in the past year, you know what I mean, we

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Speaker 3: worked together and we just became cool, and I wasn't

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Speaker 3: really expecting that to happen, right however, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean. But when it comes to niggas, I definitely

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Speaker 3: be very more cautious. I don't be trying to become

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Speaker 3: friends with you niggas, because I know what y'all want.

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Speaker 3: Y'all don't feel me. I know what you want, but

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Speaker 3: you're not gonna get it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like I don't know. I I

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Speaker 1: definitely I.

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Speaker 2: Guess I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum because

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Speaker 2: I don't want kids.

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Speaker 1: So if you want kids.

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Speaker 2: Especially in the amount of time, like I can understand

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Speaker 2: why you are dating people and you're.

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Speaker 3: Like, okay, oh yeah, absolutely, I have like seven more

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Speaker 3: good years. Yeah, I mean, which I know, y'all like

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Speaker 3: beach seven years. It's a long ass time. But see,

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Speaker 3: I made a vow to myself, and anybody who knows

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Speaker 3: me very well knows I put time limits on things,

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Speaker 3: which I know is not a good thing. But I've

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Speaker 3: always been this way. It's certain things that I wanted

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Speaker 3: to happen in my life before a certain age, and

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Speaker 3: I'm just adamant about it. Right. So it's like I

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Speaker 3: always wanted to be a mom before I was thirty.

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Speaker 1: So you know, the clock is ticking, right.

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Speaker 2: And like I said, just for me, and when I

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Speaker 2: think about my future and everything that I want for

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Speaker 2: my life, I don't really if a man is there,

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Speaker 2: cool if it's not cool, and it definitely ain't gonna

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Speaker 2: be no kids there. So I guess from my point

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Speaker 2: of view, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I don't mind dating for leisure, and I.

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Speaker 3: Mean it definitely it might not be no husband in

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Speaker 3: my future, but it's definitely gonna be a kid like

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Speaker 3: Junior is gonna be there.

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Speaker 1: It's so junior.

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Speaker 2: So let us know how y'all feel. Do y'all feel like,

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Speaker 2: are you a that when you're dating? You're dating because

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Speaker 2: you want a marriage, you want kids, you want this,

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Speaker 2: or you want that? Or are you just that person

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Speaker 2: where you're dating just for fun and you don't ever

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Speaker 2: want anything too serious?

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Speaker 1: And let us know how y'all feel.

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Speaker 2: As far as like about social media and marriage nowadays,

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Speaker 2: Like why do you feel like our generation doesn't take

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Speaker 2: marriage seriously?

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like maybe I am a victim of that.

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Speaker 2: Maybe this is why I don't want to get married,

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Speaker 2: because how men are.

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Speaker 3: And I don't want to get married though, because I

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Speaker 3: just feel like men don't respect me. I feel like

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Speaker 3: men never I feel like men never really respected marriage,

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Speaker 3: but I was just more highlighted right to be you.

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Speaker 3: That's how I feel about it. I feel like y'all

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Speaker 3: never really respect the marriage, y'all. Daddy's y'all granddaddy, y'all,

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Speaker 3: great great great great great granddaddy.

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Speaker 1: Martin Luther King didn't even respect married the masters.

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Speaker 3: I mean, well, from what we've heard, the masters didn't

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Speaker 3: respect marriage. That's why he was treating cheating with the slaves.

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Speaker 3: You they were having sex with the males too. What

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Speaker 3: what's the what's the appropriate term for the male species?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's called the something safuels I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Ain't ship safeules trash shape uel fucking worthless safe.

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Speaker 1: I can go on and on niggers, I don't fucking know.

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Speaker 3: But yes, it's like y'all ain't being sheep since the

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Speaker 3: beginning of the time, like y'all being cheating on beches

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Speaker 3: y'all been doing y'all mother fucking dirt. Y'all was so

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Speaker 3: fucking cold with it too, to where y'all was cheating

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Speaker 3: with the fucking slaves, and y'all had the slaves feeding

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Speaker 3: y'all kids. The black people mean the the chocolate book that.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't they wasn't slick with. They didn't have no choice.

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Speaker 2: They were getting beaten, raped and killed.

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Speaker 1: So I'm not talking about them, I'm talking about the men.

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Speaker 3: What they were so cold to where they was having

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Speaker 3: a beach babies and then they was making the fucking

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Speaker 3: women feed, they fucking out of marriage. He the they.

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Speaker 2: Chocolate me, Yeah, because they didn't have nothing. But what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying is that wasn't that wasn't them being slick.

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Speaker 3: There was the musing them why they knew what was that?

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Speaker 2: But a lot of time they didn't know that they

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Speaker 2: was them wives knew, they knew what the hell was

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Speaker 2: going on?

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Speaker 1: Did you watch Life? Girls? Shut the fuck up? That's

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Speaker 1: your favorite movie?

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Speaker 2: Zus gone ahead, you know they love the Actually I

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Speaker 2: got I got a good song for y'all, but.

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Speaker 1: This is the song on Tuesday. But she is the song.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead and give them a sample.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna wrap this song episode on up.

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Speaker 2: Let us know how y'all feel about you know, marriage

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Speaker 2: and this generation and dating.

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Speaker 1: Are you dating for fun? Are you dating for leisure? No?

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Speaker 1: Are you dating for fun? Or are you dating because

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Speaker 1: you want to get married?

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Speaker 3: You don't leave your and fun is the same thing?

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Speaker 1: Right? Are you dating for fun?

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Speaker 3: Or are you dating because you actually really see like

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Speaker 3: a purpose?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: Like everybody you date, you're like, oh, I'm not going

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Speaker 2: on no birdates with him because I don't see him

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Speaker 2: as my husband.

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Speaker 3: That's me me, not as a husband necessarily, but I

547
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Speaker 3: don't see you as like if I could see you

548
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Speaker 3: as a baby daddy, right see me.

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Speaker 1: I don't see I'm not gonna see nothing.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna see none of those factors, none of

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Speaker 2: those traits in any man I date, because that's not

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Speaker 2: what I want.

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Speaker 1: But I'm gonna still hang out with you, like we

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Speaker 1: can still go have fun and no, we can't do nothing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So, as always, if y'all need, especially if you

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Speaker 4: ain't trying to pay nobody a little, if y'all want

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Speaker 4: us to talk about certain topics or y'all have some

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Speaker 4: advice that y'all need answered, make sure y'all email us

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Speaker 4: at askfour Minds at gmail dot com. Also, we're doing

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Speaker 4: ass space as well, and you can email us at

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Speaker 4: Drea and Let's Show at gmail dot com and anything.

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Speaker 1: You want to add.

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Speaker 2: My good sis, No, this is it all right, So

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Speaker 2: thank y'all for tuning in to a bonus episode. Now

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Speaker 2: we're gonna do the bonus episodes every Saturday, as we promise.

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Speaker 2: This is dropping like on Sunday now because it's midnight.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, so that that was actually my badge.

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Speaker 1: Y'all will sleep. I got drunk as fuck last night.

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Speaker 2: But if y'all having topics that y'all want us to

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Speaker 2: discuss on the bonus episodes, like I said, email us

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Speaker 2: and we will see y'all on Tuesday on ninety six

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Speaker 2: seven the beat for Timeline Tuesdays, and then we go

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Speaker 2: back door and see y'all Wednesday morning for another brand

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Speaker 2: new episode of Poor Minds.

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Speaker 3: Yep, y'all already know what the fuck is going on.

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Speaker 1: It's your girl Dre and lacoll and it's lex P.

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Speaker 1: We'll see y'all next week. By y'all,