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All thanks to Live Nation. 11 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: Order a fresh show. It's Kiki's Court, all right, all right, 12 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 1: the honorable kik Alika is here. Judge Kiki. 13 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 2: Yes, let's get in this court right, take it away, please. 14 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 2: The gabble has been hit. 15 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 3: It says, hey, kikey am I wrong for cutting off 16 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 3: my best friend after I caught her being weird. Last weekend, 17 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 3: I went out partying with my best friend and a 18 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 3: guy that I've been talking to for a while. We 19 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 3: had a good time and we all left the bar separately. 20 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 3: A little later, I decided to uber to the guy's 21 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 3: house to have a sleepover. 22 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 2: But here's where it got weird. 23 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 3: Around two thirty in the morning, his phone starts blowing 24 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 3: up with FaceTime calls, and to my surprise, it was 25 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 3: my best friend. She had no clue that I was there, 26 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 3: and when he finally answered the phone, he panned it 27 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 3: over to show me in his bed and she immediately 28 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: hung up. Okay, then she texts me, OMG, I had 29 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 3: no idea that you were there. I was just checking 30 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 3: to make sure that everyone got home safely. Right now, 31 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 3: I'm heated because to me, it feels like she's trying 32 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 3: to get with the guy that I like, and she 33 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 3: didn't expect to get caught. She swears it wasn't like 34 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 3: that and says I'm overreacting, but I feel betrayed and 35 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 3: I want to cut her off. So am I wrong 36 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 3: for not trusting her anymore and pulling back from the 37 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 3: friendship or is this exactly what it looks like? 38 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: I wonder whether's gun answered the phone, though, what do 39 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: you mean we in bed together? 40 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 2: If I see your face pop up. 41 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 3: On his phone answering calling you, well, I want to 42 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 3: know why she was so comfortable to FaceTime him at 43 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 3: two thirty in the morning, Like I want to know 44 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 3: if they've already been doing some stuff exactly. So you're 45 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 3: telling me you're calling this man to see if we 46 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,079 Speaker 3: got home safely. You haven't even called to make sure 47 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 3: I'm at home but in the morning. 48 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 1: Oh girl, no, I wouldn't answer that call either. I wouldn't. 49 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: That's a level of comfort. 50 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 2: Oh, you have to answer it. 51 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: If answering that call, if I got a fred over. 52 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 3: It, if I see another woman on my man's FaceTime 53 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 3: call at two in the morning, we're answering it. Absolutely yes, 54 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 3: you're making him answer absolutely absolutely. She was laying in 55 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 3: bed with him. You're calling him at two thirty in 56 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 3: the morning, and then you you hang up when you 57 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 3: see me. 58 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 2: In the bed. That's really suspect. 59 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 3: You acting like them people at the call play concert, okay, 60 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 3: you know you should have just played it cool, like, hey, y'all, 61 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 3: I was gonna see if I wanted something to eat. 62 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 2: You know, you should have played it all. 63 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:54,359 Speaker 1: But the somebody at two thirty in the morning though. 64 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 2: After the bar come on, now like a duck. 65 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: It's a duck, okay, So that's all right. So then 66 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: what what's your assessment here? Then? Did they already hook up? 67 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: Is she trying to hook up with him. Is it like, 68 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: what is he hooking at with both of them? Is 69 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: she a c block? Like? What's going on? 70 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 3: The best friend is not your best friend? Get rid 71 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 3: of her. You know, this guy owes neither of you anything. 72 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 3: He's a guy you can get another one of those. 73 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 3: But a best friend has no business calling the guy 74 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 3: that you like at two thirty in the morning and 75 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:25,959 Speaker 3: then trying to Oh, I was making sure he got 76 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 3: home safe. This is a grown man. You haven't even 77 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 3: made sure I'm in the door safe. I'm with the kidnapper, 78 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 3: and you calling the man I like, oh. 79 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: Absolutely, And she made it very clear. Is she like 80 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: this guy and went home with him? 81 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 3: Yes, Well she didn't tell her best friend because it 82 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 3: was like a little sneaky link, you know, they all 83 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 3: left the bar set, so there's. 84 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: No chance, and that she likes this guy too and 85 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: didn't know that she there was a conflict and that's 86 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: why she hung up. 87 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, she the guy. 88 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: But what I mean is like, you maybe hadn't been 89 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: discussed because if the friend had been like, I'm going 90 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: home with this guy, yeah, and then she still face times. 91 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: Well that's a problem. But she said it was sneaky 92 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: it was, so they didn't know. So maybe they both 93 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: liked this guy. And she hung up because she realized, 94 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: oh wait a minute, homegirl's already over there. I got 95 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: beat out in this deal. I need to back off. 96 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 3: And that could be the case, right, But as my 97 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 3: best friend, you just hung up. 98 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 2: You're acting weird. 99 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 3: You made up this lie about trying to see if 100 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 3: he made it home safe. You should have just said, oh, girl, 101 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 3: I was trying to slide on him too, you know, 102 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 3: if that was the case. But she lied about it, 103 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 3: so I think you're not wrong for cutting off this friendship. 104 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 2: I smell something dirty in the water. I don't know. 105 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 1: You guys are the Jerry eight five five five N 106 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: one three five. I don't know. There's questions here that 107 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: haven't been answered. Oh because I've liked the same girl 108 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 1: as a friend of mine and I and having not 109 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: known that they've already progressed the relationship. And then I'm like, 110 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: I kind of feel like an idiot. And then I'm 111 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: the one who has to be like, oh, okay, like 112 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 1: I didn't realize that you all had already gone there, right, right, 113 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: So then I back off, and then that's the end. 114 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: Of it. But I didn't have any sinister intent because 115 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: it wasn't like my buddy and I had discussed this 116 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 1: and been like, we both like the same girl. You know, 117 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: who's gonna you know, bro code kind of bs whatever, 118 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 1: Like I didn't know, and I can. 119 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 3: I can extend that grace to you, right, But it's 120 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 3: it's the hanging up for me and then coming up 121 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 3: with this story about trying to make sure he got 122 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 3: home safe. You could if that was truly the case, 123 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 3: you could have just been like, oh, girl, I was 124 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 3: trying to hit too. 125 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: You know. 126 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 3: It's a way that you keep it real with your friends. 127 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 3: But the fact that you're out here sneaking around and 128 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 3: being weird. 129 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: What she was embarrassed? 130 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 2: That was you embarrassed for I'm in his mand how 131 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 2: to be embarrassed? 132 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 1: No, what I mean, like, if you like someone, you 133 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: both like someone, Oh, whoops, he's already moved on, like 134 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 1: or he's already got he's already getting with my friend. Oh, 135 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: I don't want any part of this. I'm backing off. 136 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: I don't know. 137 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:37,919 Speaker 2: I don't know, fred you nice. 138 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm not sure that there' that we know for sure yet? 139 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I know for sure. 140 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: I still want to talk to this guy because I 141 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: want to know who he's getting with both of us. 142 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: I'd like to know if he's, you know, trying to 143 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 1: get with both friends. 144 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 2: I think he probably is. 145 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: You know, how y'all do. 146 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 4: Y'all? 147 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 2: You always words scaled Kiki. 148 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:00,479 Speaker 5: I was at a sleepover with a friend and I've 149 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 5: never done this before. I had a gut feeling to 150 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 5: open up her phone. She I found text between her 151 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 5: and my like boyfriend boyfriend, like spanning days. Yeah, I 152 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 5: was the pit in my stomach and she was still asleep. 153 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: But ye. 154 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 5: With the phone, I was in my like era of 155 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 5: like we're going to play the long game and like 156 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 5: get this revenge in a different way. So I asked my 157 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 5: act at the time, or no, my boyfriend at the time, 158 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 5: to come pick me up. He didn't know I was 159 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 5: mad and left her sleeping, handled him and then yeah, 160 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 5: let's just say we still don't speak. 161 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 2: That's wow. You gotta watch these little friends. 162 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:41,279 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, though, you gotta watch are you talking 163 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 1: about the guy or the girl? Now the girl? And 164 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, in this case, you already you 165 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: already absolved this guy. You know he's just quote unquote 166 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: being a guy he. 167 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 2: Is, you can't get with friends like knowingly like. 168 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: But she they didn't know though they haven't discussed this. 169 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 5: The guy knows though, that's on him. You're about to 170 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 5: break up a friendship. You're binging girls in secret? 171 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 1: If he's getting with both of them, Yeah, but like otherwise, 172 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 1: I don't know that anyone's doing anything wrong yet if 173 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: they hasn't been discussed ahead of time. Hey, I like 174 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 1: this guy, Yeah, I do too. Which one of us 175 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 1: is going to go for him? And then you guys 176 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 1: got to work that out. If they're both in parallel 177 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: trying to get with this guy and that's the way 178 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 1: that one of them found out, well, then I don't 179 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: think anyone did anything wrong. 180 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 5: You would not be that crazy to face him someone 181 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 5: over and over again in the middle of the night 182 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 5: if you had not been intimate with them. 183 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 2: Correct on that part. Oh, that's a good point, because they're. 184 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 6: All friends, right, three muscus years going out, that's what 185 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 6: it is. 186 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like nobody's a. 187 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 6: Three shold, nobody's beneficial at some point, we're all like 188 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 6: everyone's in the same playing field. 189 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Like, that's exactly what I'm saying though, 190 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: like we're all sort of you know. 191 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 6: Unless Caylin and I are going out with our imaginary 192 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 6: third guy friend and she told me I really like him, 193 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 6: like I kind of want to see where this goes, 194 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 6: or I have a crushout of I will stay away. 195 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 6: But if she'sn't saying anything and he's hitting on me 196 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 6: and I kind of like him, like you get what 197 00:07:58,480 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 6: I'm saying. 198 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I mean, and I think it's on him. 199 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 2: I think I do. 200 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 5: It's very clear that they already have been intimate to me. 201 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 5: I think otherwise, why are you calling him? 202 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 2: That's a good point about him. 203 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 5: That's the level of comfort that like calling over and over. 204 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 5: That's like a crazy like I'm drunk like answer. Yeah, 205 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 5: she's been there before, but this is the life of me. 206 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 5: I think she was just embarrassed, like friend said, that's 207 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 5: what I think. 208 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 6: I think it was just like a cover up. 209 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. Now, if this had been discussed between the two girls, 210 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: like I like this guy, like this guy, and then 211 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: they got to work out between the two of them, which, 212 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 1: you know, whatever, and then she still is pulling stuff 213 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: like this, then I call Shenanigan. Right now, I think 214 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: it's all a big gray area and everyone's trying to 215 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: work it out. They both like the guy. The guy's like, cool, 216 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: I got two girls like me. Now you know he 217 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 1: doesn't care about the friend. He's not worried about the 218 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: friendship his friendship. 219 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:54,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's so careless. 220 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: That's crazy. But is it up to me to figure 221 00:08:57,720 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: out the terms of your friendship? 222 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 5: Just like, be a human and don't bang best friends 223 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 5: without their knowing? 224 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: But does that make me a bad It makes me 225 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: a bad guy? 226 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know. 227 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: I mean it sucks. 228 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 2: You're gonna get with. 229 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 7: Friends and not say anything, right, Like, that's kind of 230 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 7: I don't know if it makes you a bad person. 231 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 7: I think I think it's like think you're an opportunist. 232 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 7: I don't know if it makes you a bad person. 233 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 7: I think there's yeah, yeah, what to get with friends 234 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 7: and not say anything to either of them? 235 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: And then you're think, you, what am I supposed to do? 236 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be like, hey, I got with her, 237 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:33,080 Speaker 1: Hey I got with her. 238 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 7: Don't get with both actually at the same time, obviously 239 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 7: there's something going on with both of them current. 240 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 3: Right, might not just be honest with your friend, like 241 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 3: texts are like, oh, grassy, Okay, you hit it first, girl, 242 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 3: I'm gonna move on. Like I was trying to, you know, 243 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 3: slide over there, but instead you're like, oh, I was 244 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 3: just trying to make sure he got home safe. Like 245 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 3: now we're both here, you're lying about it. 246 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 1: Right, No one's friends anymore. No, it's very Oh no, 247 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: it's not my job to uphold the terms of your friendship. 248 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 2: So you're with this. 249 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 1: I'm not cool with it, but like I'm not. I'm 250 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: not losing sleep at night because I don't know what. 251 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: I don't know how y'all to operate. I don't know. 252 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm out here, kiky stereotype of a man. 253 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 1: He's literally talking about what you just He's just a guy. Yeah, 254 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:24,679 Speaker 1: you're I mean, how a little bit? Everyone? I mean, 255 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,319 Speaker 1: have we all three of us been friends for years? 256 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: And I know the depth of the friendship. And then 257 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 1: I'm meddling. Do I really not know these two girls 258 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 1: that well that I just meet? You know they're friends? 259 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, she said she has been talking 260 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 3: to this man for a while. 261 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 2: I feel like the friend. 262 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: New Yeah, yeah, probably, I mean it's looking good. I'm 263 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: just playing to advocate. Hey, Paul, how you doing. I'm good, 264 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 1: are you? I'm doing all right? Man? What say you 265 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: in this whole thing? I'm just I'm just trying to 266 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 1: look at it the other way, which is maybe this 267 00:10:55,240 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 1: alwaysn't so sinister. Well, it's definitely sounds sinister to man 268 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: two thirty in the morning. Come on, no one's no 269 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: one's doing that. But here here's another question. How did 270 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: they even have each other's phone numbers? And was and 271 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: was the girl's number saved in his phone? 272 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 2: Like did it come up the phone. 273 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 1: Numbers or did it say the girl's name? 274 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 3: Yep, it must have been saved, because she said she 275 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 3: saw her calling so that she knew it was her. 276 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 1: But a big distinction here, guys, is did the one 277 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 1: friend know the other friend was in bed with him. 278 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say no, so she wasn't. If she did 279 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: know and she's blowing him up at two thirty in 280 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 1: the morning, then that says something. But she didn't know, 281 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 1: which is why she hung up. So maybe that's the 282 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 1: end of this whole thing. We don't know. Maybe the 283 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: other friend gives up now that she knows that her 284 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 1: friend's in bed with the guy. I'm just saying, we 285 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 1: don't have this information. 286 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:45,439 Speaker 2: But you tell your friend that. 287 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: We don't have all the information that I'm with Kiki 288 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: when it looks like a dug it kind of quack, Yeah, 289 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:59,079 Speaker 1: quacks like a dog. Come on, you had a good 290 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: day or what glad you call? Hey Maria, welcome, good morning? Hi, 291 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: Hi Maria, you heard this whole thing. It's too complicated 292 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 1: for me to explain. Basically, two friends, female friends. There's 293 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 1: one guy. They both like him, you know, one hooking 294 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 1: up with him. Now the other one, we don't know 295 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: she knew what you know. I don't know who's in 296 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:21,079 Speaker 1: the wrong here. 297 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 4: I think the best friend is in the wrong just 298 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 4: because I think Peky mentioned that, uh, the other two 299 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:32,960 Speaker 4: had been talking for a while, so maybe the best 300 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 4: friend already knew that they were like, that they liked 301 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 4: each other, yet she still called him at two am. 302 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think it's ever fair to claim human beings. 303 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: But I also I also think if I knew that 304 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: my friend was working at you know, trying to date someone, 305 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:52,959 Speaker 1: that I'm not going over to their house if I 306 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 1: knew that. So if that's true, if one knew that 307 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:58,439 Speaker 1: the other one was interested, then then this never should 308 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: have happened. Right, But if it was all kind of 309 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 1: a gray area like I would when I was I 310 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: am single, but when I was rolling with a bunch 311 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: of other single guys, there was always the one friend 312 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 1: in the group would be like, I like her, and 313 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 1: her and her and her. We'd walk in the bar 314 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:10,719 Speaker 1: and it would be. 315 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 2: Like, bro done. 316 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 1: You can't get with any of them, So I don't 317 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: even know what you like. You don't get to just 318 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: spin on everybody, you know, like it's yours when they when. 319 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 2: You know they can't even pull and you're like, okay. 320 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: Right exactly, I'm like, you're not gonna talk. You're gonna 321 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: talk to zero of that. I want to hear about it, right, 322 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:27,680 Speaker 1: you know, you walk in the bar, Oh, her and 323 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 1: her and her? 324 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 2: He even playing field. You cannot do that. 325 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: No, No, Now, if you like I really like this 326 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 1: girl and like I'm gonna go talk to her, and 327 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 1: you put in work and the whole thing, then I 328 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: don't get to themist swoop in and and then and 329 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 1: then come over the top and try and get with her. 330 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:44,839 Speaker 1: That's not cool. So if that's what happened here, then 331 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:47,960 Speaker 1: the other one needs to stop meddling. But I still 332 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: don't think we have enough information, Maria, I need more. Yeah, 333 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: I get that, But thank you, have a good day. 334 00:13:56,200 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: Glad you called. I don't know, Mikayla, you get the 335 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,679 Speaker 1: final set. How old are you, Mikayla, are observer? Are 336 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 1: students observer today? Hell do you? 337 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 2: I'm sixteen? 338 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're old enough for this. Yeah, so what's your thought? 339 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 1: You get the final say? I think it's just a 340 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 1: fact that she hung up really fast. 341 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 2: That's what's getting to me. I feel like she was 342 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 2: embarrassed or like scared. So she a secret. 343 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. And by the way, MICHAELA, when they were when 344 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: she mentioned they were in bed, they were in full 345 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: footy pajamas. Okay, they were had to tell sleep, I 346 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:28,960 Speaker 1: had to tell each had an individual I don't have 347 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: you ever seen this, but back in the old time 348 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 1: that each person had their own bed. So they were 349 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: in two different beds. They built a fort, right, and 350 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 1: then there was a dividing wall between the two a 351 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 1: glass wall between the two of them. 352 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, they were playing no, but yeah they were they 353 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 2: were no. She even picked up on it, so good 354 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 2: wise girl. 355 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, all right, Well, the sixteen year old knows 356 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 1: what's right and I don't, So what did that tell 357 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 1: you