1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: I told bride she looked like an escort, but what 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: she did was way worse. 3 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,039 Speaker 2: There's not many things that you could say that we've assaulted. 4 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,479 Speaker 2: Bride wore very very few things. My family and I 5 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 2: are from Albania, but we live in the US now. 6 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 2: My cousin David got married to his wife Lizzie this weekend. 7 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 2: In Albania, we always go all out for weddings, and 8 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 2: David wanted to keep many cultural traditions. The wife to be, Lizzie, 9 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 2: hated that idea. She hated it. 10 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: Lizzie, the Albanian tradition hater, had sent out invites via 11 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: mail and also had some rules written down, as in 12 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: no kids allowed, black tie dress code and absolutely no 13 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: plus ones unless both the bride and groom approved of it. 14 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean like getting a plus one to there 15 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 2: would be pretty tough. 16 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 1: Now I am engaged and married to be married. Ohp 17 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 1: is engaged to be married, and I thought that my 18 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: fiance would be included. But David said, Lizzie is against 19 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: plus ones, which pretty ridiculous. 20 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 2: Against plus ones plus ones like at all in a wedding. 21 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 2: He said, his wife to be does not want it. 22 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 2: How are you supposed to do the unique Albanian dances. 23 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: Now, I said that even if Lizzie is against it, 24 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: my fiance has been in the family for years, way 25 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: longer than his bride Lizzie has been around. 26 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 2: Lizzie got nothing. Maybe. 27 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 1: Plus he's a friend of David's as well, and he 28 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 1: could come as a friend, not as my plus one. 29 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: David was frustrated, and he said that Lizzie has set 30 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 1: down most of the rules and whenever he goes against her, 31 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 1: she just gets mad. So we should cut him some 32 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: slack and just bear it for his sake. 33 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 2: I mean, it is their wedding. They can kind of 34 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 2: set the rules. Though, is that you know that that 35 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 2: is kind of true, But I mean that I think, like, 36 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 2: you know, he should. 37 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: Be pushing back a little, like, if it's people he 38 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: the groom really wants to invite, he. 39 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 2: Should be yeah, yeah, well yeah, if the groom really 40 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 2: wants that person. 41 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, if the groom really wants it. But it is like, 42 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: what's their budget, Like there's a lot of considerations. But 43 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: it does sound like it's just the brides just being. 44 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 2: Just being super formal. Yeah, I know, I feel like like, 45 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 2: if you're gonna keep doing that, you're just gonna get 46 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 2: super isolated. 47 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 1: I thought it was ridiculous how he didn't stand up 48 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: for himself. But all of the Albanian side of the family, 49 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: my side, was side eyeing the fact that the wedding 50 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: was kid free because we are used to involving the 51 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: kids at the weddings. But the bride in her side 52 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: of the family refused to make any compromises about it 53 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: and show any respect to David and his wishes. 54 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 2: Wait, so she says she wants an traditional wedding, but 55 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 2: she's not including kids. 56 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: David one of the traditions she wanted her way. That's 57 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: basically where we're at. But again, none of our business. 58 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: Despite our frustration. Now, despite the black dress code, and 59 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: this is where it gets weird and what I was 60 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: talking about earlier, most of the bride's family turns up 61 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: in jeans, flannel shirts, and the women's just wear casual 62 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 1: maxi dresses, which is like the bride's family. Basically, the 63 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: bride and her family were the ones that dictated the dress. 64 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 2: Code and they wop out of the dress code. Yeah, 65 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 2: that's a classic Albanians, which are real. And then this 66 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:09,080 Speaker 2: is hilarious. Our side of the family dressed more formal, 67 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:12,519 Speaker 2: so instead of doing their more traditional stuff, they adhered 68 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 2: to the bride's family's dress code. But the bride's family 69 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 2: did it. It's crazy. Bride's family seems like a bunch 70 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 2: of poo poo heads. 71 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: And the bride just wore a knee length lace dress 72 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: from H and M. What Like, how are you gonna 73 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: say this is a black tie wedding and have a 74 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: dress from H and M. That is unacceptable? 75 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 2: Is it even white? 76 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: I think it it was white, It was white, but 77 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: like from from H and M. 78 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 2: This ten dollars wedding dress? Are you kidding me? Bro At, 79 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 2: this is probably machine washable. 80 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, shrink like four size Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah, yeah, 81 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 3: it's it's it was originally had like a ten foot tail, 82 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 3: but she she dried at once and now it's knee length. 83 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 2: God. There took place in a cabin by the lake 84 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 2: which had animal head trophies hanging on the walls, animal 85 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 2: head trophies. 86 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: Every time the DJ tried to play some traditional Balkan music, 87 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: the bride's family would get up and get him to 88 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: change it. 89 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 2: I mean, they're missing out on classics, like classics like 90 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 2: the National Art of Albania. 91 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 1: There we go, so there's the Cuba shuffle, and then 92 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 1: there's the bride also made a big deal out of 93 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: the fact that we were dressed more formal and how 94 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: we overdid it and upstaged her YO, when she asked for. 95 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 2: Black tye, do you know what black tye is? Dude? 96 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:37,359 Speaker 2: If only she were Albanian, she would have the smarts 97 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 2: and the wherewith to understand how that this is insanity. 98 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 2: She doesn't have that Albanian class exactly. And she kept 99 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 2: complaining about it all night long and was throwing tantrums 100 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 2: to David about how we as his family are very disrespectful. Yo. 101 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,919 Speaker 2: You can say a lot of shit about an Albanian family, 102 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 2: but one thing you could never say is they're disrespectful. 103 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 2: Albedias are some of the most respectful people the gosh 104 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 2: dar world. That's right. 105 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: The bride, Lizzie also implied that David's sister looked like 106 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: a high end escort with her outfit, but David's sister 107 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: tried to keep it together for David's sake. 108 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 2: Yikes, man, that wedding is not going well. It's it's 109 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:24,119 Speaker 2: an absolute mess. After constant insults thrown around all night long. 110 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 2: I told her that she just chill out to lax, 111 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: baby girl. 112 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: She said that she won't chill because we disrespected her. 113 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,679 Speaker 1: I told her, first of all, if she was scared 114 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 1: she was going to be upstaged, she shouldn't have requested 115 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: black tie dress code. And secondly, to be honest, it 116 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: was not gonna be hard to upstage her. I've seen 117 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: grandma dresses fancier than the one she was wearing, So 118 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: she is underdressing for her own weddings, which is supposed 119 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: to be a. 120 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 2: Black tie event. Yo, that was a big clap back. Yikes. 121 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 1: David's entire family sided with me. But David said that 122 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: I'm an a hole for speaking to the bride like 123 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 1: that on the wedding day. I told him that if 124 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:09,039 Speaker 1: the bride requires kindness, she should start within herself. 125 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? Yeah? This shit is getting 126 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 2: crazier than the rebellion of our Bannon in twelve fifty seven. 127 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: I mean that's that's like the loss of her sense 128 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 1: of dignity after she was upstaged with the wedding dress. 129 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 2: Oh oh, for for sure, this wise family should separate 130 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 2: from this husband's family, because you know this is like 131 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 2: oil and water. That's right. This lady is an idiot.