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Speaker 1: The Nicky Gliser Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Nick Glaser, here's Nikki.

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Speaker 3: Hello here, I am welcome to the show. It's Nicky

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Speaker 3: Glazer Podcast. Second show of the week, the last show

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Speaker 3: of the week. Brian Frangie's here, Noah's here. What's up, guys,

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Speaker 3: how's your cut? Hear'd you got cut? Yeah? I got cut.

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Speaker 3: I got sliced the face. I was having a procedure,

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Speaker 3: a medical procedure, just not a medical procedure. I was

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Speaker 3: having a I don't want to say who did it.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to incriminate anyone, but I was at

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Speaker 3: a doctor type thing and there was an accident and

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Speaker 3: a tool they were using like scraped my face and

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Speaker 3: cut my face, and it felt like a pinch at first,

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Speaker 3: like maybe it was just like kind of snagged on

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Speaker 3: my cheek.

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Speaker 4: And then I was like, oh I.

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Speaker 3: And I felt stupid making that noise because I was like, Oh,

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Speaker 3: you're overreacting to like a pinch, and they're gonna think

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Speaker 3: you're cause I'm really I pride myself on like in

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Speaker 3: this type of setting where people are I don't want

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Speaker 3: to give away what kind of you can probably figure.

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Speaker 4: Out what was near my face. A tool was near

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Speaker 4: my face. Sorry I brought it up. No no, no, no

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Speaker 4: no no. I was gonna bring it up, but I

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Speaker 4: just don't wanna.

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Speaker 3: I love the person who did this to me, and

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Speaker 3: they do amazing work for me, and I would recommend

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Speaker 3: people go to them. Everyone makes mistakes, literally everyone. Where

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Speaker 3: was I just hearing this?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I heard it last night during Michelle Obama's speech at

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Speaker 3: the DNC. She's like, by the way, everyone's gonna make mistakes.

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Speaker 3: And I love that she brought that up during this

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Speaker 3: time where we're supposed to be like everything's gonna be

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Speaker 3: perfect if it's kam a lot, Like, no, there's gonna

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Speaker 3: be Everyone's gonna make mistakes, but we can all come

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Speaker 3: together and like get through them. No one is perfect,

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Speaker 3: no one. So initially when I talked about this, like

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Speaker 3: on the Girl's Chat and like to my parents and everyone,

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Speaker 3: they're like that idiot, They're like so mad. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: have you never like accidentally done something while you're doing

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Speaker 3: your job is completely not what you meant to do?

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Speaker 3: Like of course we all have. So I didn't care

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Speaker 3: at all. I just felt like I was overreacting and

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Speaker 3: I really pride myself, like I was saying on being

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Speaker 3: someone who when I'm sitting in this chair where most

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Speaker 3: people are like really nervous, I would say to go

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Speaker 3: to see this person. I fucking love it, and I

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Speaker 3: fall asleep sometimes and I like, I just it's.

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Speaker 4: Calming to me.

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Speaker 1: What you're talking about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, even though I've literally talked about this recently

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Speaker 3: on the show.

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Speaker 4: You don't know I dancing?

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Speaker 1: Oh right, so talking about Raygun, she was.

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Speaker 4: Your face on my face?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: Okay, well yeah, so I'm laying in a chair and

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Speaker 3: someone has a tool near.

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Speaker 4: My cheek right here, huh.

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Speaker 3: And the tool kind of fell down and cut my face,

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Speaker 3: and so I'm glad I did exaggerate what I thought

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Speaker 3: was an exaggeration at the time that a pinch, because

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Speaker 3: it was a cut and it stopped, and I think

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Speaker 3: it would have kept slicing further. So it just like

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Speaker 3: has like a little crescent moon slice on my face

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Speaker 3: is bleeding a lot. And you could tell if you're

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Speaker 3: listening to this person who did this. I love you.

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Speaker 3: I'm never gonna stop going to you. You've changed my life. Literally,

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Speaker 3: everyone thinks I have fake whatever you do, because.

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Speaker 6: You can you spin on your head now, and it really.

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Speaker 3: Does look good whatever they do. Yeah, the thing that

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Speaker 3: this person does for me, Yes, they have made it

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Speaker 3: so I am able to win, h to represent my

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Speaker 3: country and a sport that will never be at the Olympics.

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Speaker 4: The best smile I win at the next Olympics.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here's Can I.

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Speaker 2: Just say what I like about what you did as

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Speaker 2: far as how you told the story on girls Chat. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I like that you stop and you spoke up, because

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Speaker 2: so often something will happen.

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Speaker 3: We're just like, oh, okay, we'll just wait.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure that they'll know it hurts you so bad

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Speaker 4: that it was almost like.

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Speaker 3: Involuntary that I was like, ah, But then I felt

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Speaker 3: as you know, when you're like reacting to something, and

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Speaker 3: a lot of times you do react involuntarily, and it's

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Speaker 3: like it's like a little like my sister the other

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Speaker 3: day in Vienna. That's a sentence I'll never say again.

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Speaker 4: Wow, she on.

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Speaker 1: Her finger the other day in Vienna with my sister.

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Speaker 4: When we were touring the Papas.

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Speaker 3: She had a bee on her finger and went like

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Speaker 3: a and like really overacted because by the way, stop

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Speaker 3: overreacting to bees if you can. And I anyway, she

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Speaker 3: like flipped her hand really hard, and she hit her

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Speaker 3: husband's like apple watch so hard she.

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Speaker 4: Almost like broke her finger.

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Speaker 3: She was overreacting, and so it just seemed I think

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Speaker 3: it just seemed crazy that she did that in response

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Speaker 3: to like a bee that was not going to hurt her.

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Speaker 3: Like bees don't want to sting you. You just everyone

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Speaker 3: relax around them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Everything.

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Speaker 6: I've been trying to train Alley to stop doing that

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Speaker 6: because she when we first got together, she was really

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Speaker 6: sensitive about bees.

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Speaker 1: She would like run, she would like sprint out of

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Speaker 6: Okay, changed a little, She's gotten a lot better. Yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 6: is if there are bees around, even if there are

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Speaker 6: a lot of bees around, as long as you didn't

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Speaker 6: like jostle the bee hive R five. If there's four

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Speaker 6: bees around, you just stand still, keep doing sit in

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Speaker 6: your chair, keep doing whatever you are doing. They'll buzz

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Speaker 6: around and then they'll buzz off.

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Speaker 4: Yep, they retirely don't. They don't.

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Speaker 3: They die if they sing you, and they know that.

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Speaker 3: So they're not the same with manta rays. Unless you

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Speaker 3: step on one and violently kick it, it's not gonna

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Speaker 3: it's not gonna, you know, send one of its spears

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Speaker 3: through your heart because it will die defending you.

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Speaker 4: It's like these bees don't want to die.

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Speaker 3: So the only reason they do that is if they

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Speaker 3: think you're a huge threat to them because you're screaming

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Speaker 3: and swatting at them. Yes, so if you literally don't move,

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Speaker 3: they'll never literally they'll never sing you. The only thing

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Speaker 3: And I know that's like just disturbing to people. I

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Speaker 3: get it, But.

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Speaker 1: My sister claimed be a beast thing doesn't hurt that much.

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Speaker 4: It really does.

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Speaker 6: Some people are allergic to them. And for those people, yes,

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Speaker 6: I give you a pass. Same but I will say this,

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Speaker 6: if it's a wasp, I'm not.

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Speaker 3: Stand wass are disgusting. They look like they're carrying cargo.

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Speaker 3: They look like they're about to dump gas on your city,

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Speaker 3: Like I don't. They they don't seem to know where

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Speaker 3: they're going. They don't have a plan, like you know,

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Speaker 3: I hate a bug with a well June bugs don't

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Speaker 3: have a plan, like they're flying willy nilly centipedes really fast.

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Speaker 3: House centipedes don't have a plan. They can crawl in

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Speaker 3: your vagina, they will crawl in your mouth. But a

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Speaker 3: bees seem to know where they're going.

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Speaker 4: For the most part.

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Speaker 3: They just want to sniff around your coke. Can they

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Speaker 3: find out it's diet coke, and then they get addicted

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Speaker 3: to it and they need six a day, but they

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Speaker 3: just they're not going to hurt you. But I will

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Speaker 3: say that it's nice to learn here that Ali has

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Speaker 3: learned to not overreact because my sister's like, Nikki, I

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Speaker 3: you can by just practicing it right. Run it through

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Speaker 3: how are you going to act like? You can change

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Speaker 3: the way you involuntarily respond to something, Like I've done

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Speaker 3: it before too, where I have to practice how I'm

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Speaker 3: because I've practiced it, I have a different response. So

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Speaker 3: my sister yelled at me initially because I'm like Lauren,

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Speaker 3: like bees, first of all, we need to be so

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Speaker 3: nice to them. They're all going extinct, and we're all

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Speaker 3: going to go extinct because of them, So we have

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Speaker 3: to actually protect bees and keep them alive desperately.

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Speaker 4: And Lauren was like I know, Nikki, I can't help it,

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Speaker 3: Like natural sister response. And I realized my response was

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Speaker 3: couldn't help. But I said all I said, Lauren, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: We were like looking at nick Knacks and Vienna on

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Speaker 3: this like you know, thrift like outdoor market.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, I was I can't help.

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Speaker 3: They were telling us no photos because we kept trying

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Speaker 3: to take pictures of different things so we could text

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Speaker 3: to each other later and make jokes. But anyway, I

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Speaker 3: was like, Laurant, I just want to say, I'm sorry

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Speaker 3: I yelled at you about the bee thing. But if

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Speaker 3: you just if you just get it in your mind

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Speaker 3: that they really aren't going to hurt you, and you

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Speaker 3: like practice how you're going to respond next time and

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Speaker 4: It's not like you don't need to just always go like, well, I.

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Speaker 3: Can't help it. It was and I but I'm also

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Speaker 3: you can prepare for future things and behaviors can change.

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Speaker 4: We've just seen it right now. In Ali, she responds differently.

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Speaker 3: She's enough to run and jump off the balcony any

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Speaker 3: because that was with her life.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, sure, it was slow, Like if she hangs out

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Speaker 6: on the balcony and there's a bee, at first she

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Speaker 6: there where there's a bee flying around. It's like, Okay,

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Speaker 6: it's like incremental exposure theory.

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Speaker 3: Totally, it can change, but I will say that so

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Speaker 3: when I involuntarily was like, ah, I felt bad because

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Speaker 3: I love this guy, and I was embarrassed that something

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Speaker 3: hurt because I pride myself on like nothing ever hurts.

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Speaker 3: But then I felt blood trickling down my cheek down

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Speaker 3: to like my chin, and you could just tell when

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Speaker 3: someone's like fucked up and they're trying to like stay

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Speaker 3: calm and act like it's not a big deal. But

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Speaker 3: I was just like and I immediately felt really bad

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Speaker 3: that it happened because it was a mistake, and I

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Speaker 3: wanted to be the opposite of the person that's like

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Speaker 3: you cut me, are you a fool? You know, like,

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Speaker 3: because I just pictured certain people that would do that

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Speaker 3: of like, how would you do that because even the

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Speaker 3: way my mom responded to that idiot, and I go,

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Speaker 3: you don't know him, like you first of all, you

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Speaker 3: don't even know if it's a girl or god, she

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Speaker 3: knew nothing of you. If you're listening to this and

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Speaker 3: and you're not an idiot, you're actually you've changed my life.

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Speaker 3: You've saved me thousands and thousands of dollars. I was

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Speaker 3: going to get fake whatever you do, and then I

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Speaker 3: realized that I can just do anyway. I he I've

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Speaker 3: Like they have worked their asses off. They were stopped

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Speaker 3: Please spread the word to anyone you know in Missouri,

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Speaker 3: And yes, and to shout out to all the women who.

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Speaker 3: It's not a big deal that my face is leading

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Speaker 3: It's because I got caught today.

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Speaker 4: I and everyone's just like, what what happened?

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Speaker 3: Everyone makes mistakes. What is going on here, and and

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Speaker 6: But I've seen you get caught in the face before

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Speaker 3: You're walking down sunset, yes, so how oh so, how okay?

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Speaker 3: a bad day like it, like because if you're I

439
00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:38,040
Speaker 3: was in a good mood yesterday and I let it go,

440
00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,520
Speaker 3: because yes, I was upset that I had cut on

441
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Speaker 3: my face, and then I had to put a band

442
00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:43,160
Speaker 3: aid on my face to go to this thing where

443
00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:46,560
Speaker 3: everyone's like, Nicky's a star and I walk in with

444
00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:48,520
Speaker 3: the fucking I put a band aid and I put

445
00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:50,720
Speaker 3: makeup over it, and people really couldn't see it. It

446
00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:52,440
Speaker 3: was actually people were like, oh, I didn't even notice

447
00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:56,119
Speaker 3: it till you said something. But the way you react

448
00:19:56,160 --> 00:20:00,000
Speaker 3: to things when things are not done intentionally to you

449
00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:02,040
Speaker 3: is a reflection of what's going on in your life.

450
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Speaker 4: Like I if I would.

451
00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:05,199
Speaker 3: Have been in a bad mood, I would have been

452
00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:07,399
Speaker 3: a little bit more grumpy about it, or if you know,

453
00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:10,480
Speaker 3: he just caught me, I was. I was in a

454
00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:12,879
Speaker 3: good mood that day, or like at that moment when

455
00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:15,439
Speaker 3: I got cut in the face, and so it really

456
00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,119
Speaker 3: because no one means to do that.

457
00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:18,360
Speaker 4: I said to my mom, I go, do you think

458
00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:20,639
Speaker 4: he meant to do that? She goes, no, but what

459
00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 4: an idiot?

460
00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:25,200
Speaker 3: And I go, okay. Or what he said, he it's

461
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:26,159
Speaker 3: never happened before.

462
00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:28,280
Speaker 4: I believe him.

463
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Speaker 3: Are we not allowed to cut someone in the face

464
00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:33,639
Speaker 3: once in our lives? But I don't know, like I

465
00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:38,760
Speaker 3: Brian come here. I just think it's just I remember

466
00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:40,920
Speaker 3: one time I had a boyfriend. I caught him going

467
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 3: through my phone and I he felt horrible about it.

468
00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:49,720
Speaker 1: And he was going through your phone.

469
00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, he he was suspecting that maybe something squirrely was

470
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 3: going on.

471
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Speaker 1: So I how did he get in there?

472
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:55,359
Speaker 6: Uh?

473
00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 3: My alarm went off and this was fucking forever ago.

474
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 3: But my alarm went off and I was walking a

475
00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,199
Speaker 3: dog of my friends that I had to walk, and

476
00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:09,640
Speaker 3: so I just left without my phone and I got back. No,

477
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 3: when the alarm goes off to like shut it off,

478
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,600
Speaker 3: it's like still and maybe this is a time where

479
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:14,760
Speaker 3: there weren't pass codes on phones.

480
00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 4: I literally don't remember. But I got back and.

481
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 3: It was like on a text message with me and

482
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,240
Speaker 3: a guy that I hadn't talked to and forever. But

483
00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:26,040
Speaker 3: I knew it was a guy that this guy might

484
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:27,919
Speaker 3: think I'm involved with, do.

485
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:28,440
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

486
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 3: So I knew it was like, you know, two a

487
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 3: text message from two years before, so you could tell you.

488
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 1: Like search the name WOWK.

489
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, And and.

490
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:42,200
Speaker 1: So when you came back, you caught him with your No, I.

491
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:44,760
Speaker 3: Saw the phone still where I left it, but it

492
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 3: was on that screen, right, So I think he accidentally

493
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,760
Speaker 3: maybe got out of it and then couldn't get back

494
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 3: in because of the password or something, and then it

495
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,479
Speaker 3: was just left on the where he had been searching. Anyway,

496
00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 3: everything flipped through my head of like being like mad

497
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 3: about it and being like, what the fuck, it's an

498
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 3: invasion of privacy. But I was just like, I could

499
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,159
Speaker 3: see myself doing the same thing. If I'm feeling like

500
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 3: insecure in a relationship and like maybe thinking he's pulled

501
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 3: away and maybe he's talking to someone, he leaves his

502
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 3: phone out, and I'm just like, that's right there, Like

503
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 3: I could see a world where I could also make

504
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 3: this intentional mistake, Like even though there was intent behind it,

505
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 3: there was motive behind it. He had to click a

506
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 3: bunch of buttons and type things in Like it's still

507
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 3: like is could be a mistake, I guess.

508
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 4: And I remember just being like, hey, did you look

509
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 4: through my phone?

510
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 3: It was just like, yeah, I did, and I was like, okay, why,

511
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:41,479
Speaker 3: And then we kind of talked and he was just

512
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 3: he was so embarrassed, so ashamed of himself, like really

513
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,000
Speaker 3: disgusted with himself, and I was just like and we

514
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 3: had to like go, he had to go to work

515
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 3: and I had to go to work, and I just

516
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 3: remember I was just like, just don't this isn't gonna

517
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:57,120
Speaker 3: this is gonna blow over.

518
00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:57,880
Speaker 4: It's not a big deal.

519
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,120
Speaker 3: Please don't let this ruin your day, because I was

520
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:01,680
Speaker 3: just thinking, what would I want to.

521
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:03,200
Speaker 4: Know, what would I want to hear right now?

522
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 3: And this thing that I could easily do, And I

523
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 3: would want my boyfriend to say, I'm not going to

524
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 3: break up with you over this. This isn't going to

525
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:14,119
Speaker 3: end us. It's a conversation later. But don't catastrophize this

526
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 3: and beat yourself up.

527
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 4: We're all human.

528
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 3: And I like gave him that, and I felt so

529
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,360
Speaker 3: good that I did because I would have wanted that.

530
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 3: So I just think my best version of myself is

531
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:26,159
Speaker 3: when I can instantly put myself in their shoes and

532
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 3: then react accordingly.

533
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 4: And maybe I gave a.

534
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 3: Little too much to the doctor yesterday by being like,

535
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 3: I love a cut on my face, Like I was

536
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,719
Speaker 3: really trying to make him feel better, but that's actually

537
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 3: what I would have wanted from someone that I cut

538
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 3: in the face. So I kind of gave him that,

539
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 3: But it was a little bit like I didn't need to,

540
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 3: you know, offer up my face as a place for

541
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 3: him to you know, sharpen his knives.

542
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 4: But that that was just my reaction in the moment.

543
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Speaker 6: I have to admit one time in my life, I

544
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 6: did look through one of my girlfriend's phones and I

545
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 6: feel great shame about it, but I was so I

546
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 6: was feeling so insecure. I had a hunch that things

547
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 6: were going on, and I just knew the person's past code,

548
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:12,159
Speaker 6: so uh it was like I looked in it, and uh,

549
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,879
Speaker 6: they were cheating on me. So I was like, that

550
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 6: was a tough one. I didn't feel vindicated or anything.

551
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,880
Speaker 6: I just like it just made me feel even worse. Yeah, yeah,

552
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 6: I'll never do it, obviously. I trust my wife. I mean,

553
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 6: my wife will hand me her phone, like look through

554
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 6: whatever you want, I'll hand her.

555
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,719
Speaker 1: Mind. Yeah, Like that's like not even an issue anymore.

556
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 3: Freedom when you can hand your partner or your phone

557
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,239
Speaker 3: and you're not worried about someone texting you that like

558
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 3: no talking about them, like not even cheating. Just like

559
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,919
Speaker 3: something will come up where you're like maybe like I

560
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 3: don't know, just anything, like.

561
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 6: It's just why are you texting rob Videos of Kamala Harris.

562
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 1: It's like.

563
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 3: He's like, you got a Swift Alert and I'm like, oh, okay,

564
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 3: thank you. This app I pay one ninety nine a

565
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,440
Speaker 3: month for that tells me when she's wearing a new

566
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 3: skirt during nineteen eighty nine Eras tour. Yeah, that's that's

567
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 3: That's an interesting conundrum. I met someone recently who would

568
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 3: go his girlfriend had gone through his phone and they

569
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 3: were kind of like dating but not dating. They hadn't

570
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,439
Speaker 3: had the exclusive talk yet, but it was kind of

571
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,120
Speaker 3: like he was flirting with someone and just sexy texting

572
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 3: with them and nothing had happened, but she caught that

573
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 3: and he he was upset at the invasion of privacy,

574
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,679
Speaker 3: but she was upset at him, and he felt guilty

575
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 3: about cheating or whatever, so he couldn't be mad at her.

576
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 3: And I'm like, that's the honestly you can. You can

577
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 3: separate the two. You can be mad about the invasion

578
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 3: of privacy, but you can also feel bad that you

579
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 3: were cheating on her, and you can. It doesn't have

580
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 3: to be all or nothing.

581
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, well, yeah, if you discover that someone's

582
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 6: cheating on you through nefarious means means, then you you

583
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 6: lose a little bit of the upper hand to be

584
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 6: mad at them for cheating.

585
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,159
Speaker 3: I mean, women would think, no, I didn't and I

586
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 3: obviously knew, so fuck you, and I.

587
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 1: Should go through it and I did the right thing.

588
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 3: But I would I would disagree with those women and say, Nope,

589
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,919
Speaker 3: you did something. Then you stole from the rich to

590
00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 3: give to the poor, but you still still.

591
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 6: So Then what will you need to catch them in

592
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,399
Speaker 6: the act? Like you need to be coming home innything.

593
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 3: You just need to not be in a relationship. You

594
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 3: need to go work on yourself. If you're either in

595
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 3: a relationship with someone who's cheating on you, or you

596
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 3: are so distrusting of someone who isn't cheating on you,

597
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 3: that is like your your relationship is gonna end. If

598
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 3: you're someone who's so jealous that anytime their phone either

599
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 3: on their phone, you think that they're cheating. You are

600
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 3: either with someone who's cheating on you, which sucks and

601
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,639
Speaker 3: get you know, go just leave him anyway. If you

602
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 3: think leave, I would say, but it's easier said than done.

603
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 4: Obviously, Noah, what what's your experience with this?

604
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 1: Well?

605
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 2: I was gonna also admit that I've gone through an

606
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 2: ex's phone, and it's exactly what you said, Nikki. It

607
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 2: was just like a very toxic relationship. I did find flirting,

608
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 2: but at the same time, like I felt like this

609
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 2: like like the shittiest feeling after doing it, because one

610
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:57,159
Speaker 2: is I found the flirting, and then two is I

611
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 2: felt like, I like, you know, it's just like gross

612
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 2: going in the phone, and yeah, ultimately the relationship ended,

613
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 2: so it's like I just GI, Yeah, it's like I

614
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 2: would never do that today, by the way, because our

615
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 2: phones are like our journals and they're so personal.

616
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 3: But you would if you you would though, if you

617
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 3: were an unhealthier version of you, and yes, and the

618
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 3: phones being a journalist is not what's keeping you out

619
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 3: of them. You're a healthier person in a healthy relationship

620
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,919
Speaker 3: where you trust Avi true and he has and you

621
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 3: trust that he has integrity, which, by the way, like

622
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 3: I remember you telling me something and you can cut

623
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 3: this if you don't want, but it in there, but

624
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 3: I always remember it. It's like, you know, you were

625
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:40,120
Speaker 3: having trust issues that had nothing to do with obvious behavior,

626
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 3: but just based on your past relationships, and you're kind

627
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 3: of like a little bit getting jealous of things that

628
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 3: he was maybe talking having relationships even like friendships with

629
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 3: other women or whatever, just like acquaintanceships with other women.

630
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 3: And he told you, like I forget what he said,

631
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 3: but he was, like he said, you had to trust

632
00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 3: me to have integrity. Like maybe I like, maybe men

633
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 3: do want to have sex with other women or like

634
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 3: can be attracted to other women, but they're not going

635
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 3: to because they have integrity, so you have to you can't.

636
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 3: Of course they're gonna think her boobs look nice, they're

637
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 3: not fucking you. I've always said this. You should get

638
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 3: your man checked for a his bones being riddled with cancer.

639
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 3: If he's not getting turned on by something that it

640
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:21,639
Speaker 3: was also about you that turned him on, like boobs

641
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 3: or tits or ass like, he's sick. If he's not

642
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 3: still getting turned on, there's something wrong with his libido,

643
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 3: there's something wrong with his mood. There's something wrong, there's

644
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 3: something wrong inside. A healthy man should be turned on

645
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 3: by tits that aren't yours. I'm sorry, ladies, it's true.

646
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 3: But will he suck on those tits? No, because he

647
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 3: has integrity because you don't do everything that you impulsively

648
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 3: want to do, so he's allowed to have those inner thoughts.

649
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 3: And you can appreciate his integrity that keeps it. That's

650
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 3: what love is, is having enough integrity to not do

651
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 3: those things because they love you.

652
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, love is a constant repression of natural urges.

653
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 3: Uh. I would agree that that monogamy makes it such,

654
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 3: and that it's not very healthy. But I do believe

655
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 3: that if you praise men for not fucking. I know

656
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 3: this sounds crazy, but men do want to have sex

657
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 3: with other things. Do they have the opportunity? Probably not literally,

658
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 3: And and they don't because they're with you, And that's

659
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 3: means something. It's not because they're not. They don't want to,

660
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 3: right they been, by the way, also are attracted to

661
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 3: other things, and they don't because.

662
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 4: They they love you and that is enough.

663
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 3: And so I just don't understand us all kind of

664
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 3: trying to convince ourselves that our partner is no longer

665
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 3: attracted to anyone else. I just I don't believe it.

666
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 3: And and if you believe that your partner's intructed anyone else,

667
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 3: you're gonna get Lacy Peterson.

668
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm just kidding, you're not.

669
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 1: But we think about this way.

670
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 6: If your partner is it's it's more impressive isn't it

671
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 6: more flattering if your partner is attracted to all these

672
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 6: people but still chooses you versus they're not attracted to

673
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 6: anybody except you.

674
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:13,959
Speaker 3: That's what I said to my friend Saralena, because we

675
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 3: were talking about this, and I was like, would you

676
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 3: really like your partner to be not attracted to anyone

677
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 3: and only attracted to you?

678
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 4: Because I would feel like I didn't win?

679
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 3: Then, yeah, like I want them to be like, I

680
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 3: choose you even though I do want other things, like

681
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 3: I'm constantly winning, whereas instead they're just like, well, my

682
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 3: own dick only works for you, so I guess I'll

683
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 3: stick around. Like that's boring to me, And she was like, no,

684
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 3: I'd like him to not have any feelings for anyone

685
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 3: but me, And I understand where that comes from too,

686
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 3: for people that have been and cheated on and their

687
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 3: trust has been broken.

688
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 4: I want to get back to my Lacy Peterson comment.

689
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 3: It made it sound like I thought she was like

690
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 3: at fault for getting murdered because she didn't acknowledge that

691
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 3: Scott had sexual desires.

692
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 4: That is not what happened in there at all. I'm

693
00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 4: fascinated by this case.

694
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 3: I am the Lazy Peterson documentary is awesome.

695
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 4: Everyone should watch it. They did a really good job

696
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 4: with it.

697
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 3: There.

698
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on.

699
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 4: Please.

700
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 3: Lazy was a woman who was murdered by her husband

701
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 3: in two thousand and three Christmas Eve. What he did

702
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 3: was he probably did a quiet murder where he strangled

703
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 3: her or suffocated her. He then let the dog out

704
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 3: with its leash on, then bought a had a met

705
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 3: a girl who was having an affair with November twenty

706
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 3: second or something like that. By December ninth, he told

707
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 3: that woman who had found out from friends that this

708
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 3: guy was married. He or she didn't find out, but

709
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 3: Scott who was lying to this woman and saying like,

710
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 3: I'm single and I want to have a family, And

711
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 3: this woman had a young daughter and he's like, I

712
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 3: don't need I don't need a baby. I don't need

713
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 3: to have kids. Your daughter is enough for me. Being

714
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 3: a stepdad would be enough for me. He has a

715
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 3: baby on the way with his wife two hours from

716
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 3: where this woman lives, maybe an hour one hundred miles

717
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 3: or something. So this woman Amber Fry, who is his

718
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 3: or his the girl that he was having an affair with,

719
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 3: She has no idea he's married.

720
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 4: He's lied to her.

721
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 3: A friend of hers runs into a friend of his

722
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 3: and they find out Scott's married, and they call Scott

723
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 3: and go, if you're not gonna tell Amber, we will

724
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 3: so Then Scott December nine's ninth, calls Amber and says,

725
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 3: I lied, I'm I was married, but she's I lost

726
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 3: my wife. She doesn't ask details because he's so upset

727
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 3: about it. December ninth is the same day. He also

728
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 3: buys a boat, doesn't tell Lacey, doesn't tell anyone buys

729
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 3: a boat. Then cut to December twenty fourth, takes a

730
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 3: boat out for the first time, has the whole ticket

731
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 3: to go where he had to docket or whatever it is.

732
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 3: I don't even know what you do with the boat

733
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 3: and the and he offers that to the police because

734
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 3: by then his wife is missing, and what they think

735
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 3: he did is like strangled his wife and then he

736
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 3: disposed of her body in this bay because they later

737
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 3: find it.

738
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 4: Dah da da da da. He is insane.

739
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 3: He keeps lying to this woman who doesn't really know

740
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:54,479
Speaker 3: about Lacey. She finds out about Lacey because uh, she

741
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 3: finally sees the news and this guy's all over the news,

742
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 3: but she keeps it up like she hasn't seen the news,

743
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 3: and she keeps calling him and that he's in Paris

744
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 3: for New Year's Eve, but he's had a candlelight vigil

745
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 3: to look for her, for Lacey, and he's like, I

746
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 3: can see the Eiffel Tower and he's like at a

747
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 3: candlelight vigil for his missing wife, who he doesn't seem

748
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 3: to give a fuck about that she's missing. He's such

749
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 3: a psychopath. He clearly does it. The whole documentary, I'm

750
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 3: not giving too much. I am giving a lot away,

751
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 3: but I'm not giving too much away.

752
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: Why did she let the dog out?

753
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 3: Because he wanted to have it be like she was

754
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 3: kidnapped while she was walking the dog.

755
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: Did they find the dog?

756
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 4: The dog ended up.

757
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 3: The neighbor saw the dog with the leash on and

758
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 3: just put it in their backyard. So he gets home

759
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 3: from disposing of her body. He sees the dog with

760
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 3: the leash on in the backyard, thinks nothing of it.

761
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 3: His wife isn't there, her purse is still there, her eye,

762
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:45,959
Speaker 3: her clothes are still there, her shoes are still there,

763
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 3: her car's still there. And he decides to eat some

764
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 3: pizza and take a shower and wash his one pair

765
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 3: of clothes that he was wearing. What a normal thing

766
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 3: for a guy to do. Whose wife he comes home

767
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 3: to and the dog has a leash on and he

768
00:33:57,880 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 3: doesn't know where she is.

769
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 4: What a cool, normal thing? Eight and a half month.

770
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 3: Pregnant woman and her to be gone and the husband

771
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 3: washes his clothes in the middle of the day.

772
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 4: Get guilty, and.

773
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 3: Then they check his fucking computer. This is where I

774
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,479
Speaker 3: would have convicted. This is the I'm gonna I'm gonna

775
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 3: go off a little bit. If you've seen this documentary,

776
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:21,360
Speaker 3: exip to the next section. If you haven't, because the

777
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 3: thing is Scott clearly did it from the get go,

778
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 3: but they it's all circumstantial evidence. This guy. They check

779
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:29,839
Speaker 3: his fucking computer. This is two thousand and two, by

780
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 3: the way, so this is before like people knew that

781
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 3: you could really get into your computer.

782
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 4: He searches the tides of the bay he's going.

783
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 3: To, which is not something fishermen check, Like the tides

784
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 3: are not something you would check. And by the way,

785
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,760
Speaker 3: he said he was fishing, but all the fishing equipment

786
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 3: he brought was unpackaged or like still packaged. So the lure.

787
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 3: He said he used all this stuff. Such a lie.

788
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 3: Then they find a pair of needle nose players in

789
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 3: his boat that have her hair wrapped around him. Explain

790
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 3: to me that Scott and also Lacey didn't know about

791
00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 3: the boat. No one in Lacy's family knew about the

792
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 3: boat he had bought this. They're like, why were you

793
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 3: You were out of a boat, since when do you

794
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 3: own a boat? Like everyone was on his side at first,

795
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 3: even Lacey's family, and we're like, he didn't do it.

796
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 3: But then Amber Fry comes out and is like, I

797
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 3: was dating this guy. Because eventually she has to go

798
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 3: to the press because the pictures of them at a

799
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 3: Christmas party where Lacey had to go to a Christmas

800
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 3: party by herself because Scott is that a Christmas party with

801
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 3: his new girlfriend who he's lying to and saying, I

802
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 3: want to spend the rest of my life with you.

803
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 3: My wife is gone, which he said December ninth, and

804
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 3: she goes missing December twenty fourth, so he predicted that.

805
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 4: She was gonna be gone before she was gone. He's

806
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:30,800
Speaker 4: fucking guilty.

807
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 3: Then he goes on Diane Sawyer and she's like, tell

808
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 3: me about Connor's room. Connor is his unborn baby that

809
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 3: they had the whole room decked out because it suppos

810
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 3: to be born in a month. This baby's room is like.

811
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 3: He's like, I can't go in there, and I'm not

812
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 3: gonna go back in there till I have a little

813
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 3: boy to put back in and that's before they find

814
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 3: the body. So he's still pretending like they're gonna come back.

815
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: The whole nation thinks that he's just the man who

816
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 1: lost his wife.

817
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 6: No.

818
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 4: At this point, people are like bullshit.

819
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 3: So he finally has to give an interview because he's

820
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,959
Speaker 3: been dodging interviews for weeks since finally they're like, dude,

821
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:57,800
Speaker 3: you look so guilty.

822
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 4: Do an interview.

823
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,359
Speaker 3: So he does this interview, but he looked old. Only

824
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 3: the bottom of his face moves. The top of his

825
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 3: face never moves, never shows any expression. He's just like

826
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 3: it's like a marionette his bottom. Watch it and it's disgusting.

827
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,800
Speaker 3: He sucks so much. He's such a fucking sociopath to murder.

828
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 3: You're pregnant eight and a half months and they find oh,

829
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 3: they find a journal entry from Lacey and she's like,

830
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 3: you know, today I felt the baby kick and I

831
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 3: put Scott's hand on it, and for the first time

832
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 3: Scott could feel it. It's so nice to have someone

833
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,959
Speaker 3: else feel what I've been feeling alone for months now.

834
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 3: And Scott didn't really react. He acted like he didn't

835
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 3: care in par parentheses, but I know he does. It's

836
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 3: like this guy didn't give a fuck. He's lying and

837
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:41,839
Speaker 3: so here's here's my problem. Amber Fry is lauded as

838
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 3: a hero, which I will say she is because she

839
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 3: her testimony really convicted him because they found the bodies,

840
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,879
Speaker 3: wash up and everything. But they in the bay where

841
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 3: he was fishing, one hundred miles from Modesto where she

842
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 3: went missing. So like it's everything's pointing to Scott in

843
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 3: terms of circumstantially, but there's no like actual hard evidence

844
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 3: to place to put him murdering her because he did

845
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 3: it quietly, which is a quiet kill.

846
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 4: As for a pussy.

847
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 3: It's when there won't be any evidence it's a strangulation

848
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 3: or it's a suffocation and anyway, so he so then

849
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 3: Amber Fry because she gets him on tape. They record

850
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 3: all these calls where she's like Scott, like you know,

851
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 3: what are you doing? And he's lying about being in

852
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 3: Like I want to be with you forever. Because the

853
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 3: cops found her before she told him she knew about it.

854
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 3: She's she's playing dumb, like she doesn't watch the games,

855
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 3: so he's keeping up like he's just.

856
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 4: This guy who lost his wife.

857
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 3: She has no idea like, but she knows right, so

858
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 3: she's recording all this stuff and then finally it gets

859
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 3: lead to the press, so she has to be like, Scott,

860
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 3: I know what's going on. Here's what I would have

861
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,439
Speaker 3: done if I were the cops, And tell me I'm

862
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 3: not fucking brilliant. If you want to get a confession

863
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 3: of Scott Peterson, have Amber Fry, who's the only one

864
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 3: in his court right now, I mean his family believes

865
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:57,240
Speaker 3: is in the sense. Have Amber Fry. Go Scott, listen.

866
00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 3: I'm looking at the news. It looks like you did that,

867
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,760
Speaker 3: and honestly I don't want you to go to prison

868
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 3: for it. If you did this, please let me help

869
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 3: you cover it up. Let's go early in the morning.

870
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 3: Tell me where you what you did with her. I

871
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 3: will go comb the beaches and look for evidence of

872
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 3: so that they don't find it first. Like I want you,

873
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 3: I want to be with you, and I want to

874
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 3: keep you out of prison. If you did this, I

875
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 3: can forgive you. You did it for us, you did it

876
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 3: for me and Aliah, her daughter. I would have sounded

877
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 3: horny about the fact that he murdered his wife. I

878
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 3: would have told Amber to get horny about it, because

879
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 3: Scott is such a fucking idiot. All of a sudden,

880
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:33,879
Speaker 3: he literally thought that his wife's disappearance would just people

881
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 3: would be like, oh, I guess she's gone.

882
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 4: And then he could like move on with his life.

883
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 3: So the room by the way that he said he

884
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 3: can't go in anymore because it's until I have.

885
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 4: A baby to put in that room.

886
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:44,280
Speaker 3: I can't even.

887
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 4: Walk in it.

888
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 3: They the cops hear that interview, and they go, let's

889
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,439
Speaker 3: get a warrant for let's let's search his house again

890
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 3: and see what's going on in the house. He sold

891
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:57,280
Speaker 3: Lacey's car, her shit is strewn about everywhere, not waiting

892
00:38:57,320 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 3: for his wife to come back. And his honors bedroom

893
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 3: that was like this perfect angelic little nursery is strewn

894
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 3: with shit. It is a storage room now. So this

895
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 3: isn't a man waiting for his disappearing wife. He's such

896
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,240
Speaker 3: a fucking idiot. So I would have just made Amber

897
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 3: sound horny for it.

898
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:12,760
Speaker 4: Huh.

899
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 2: So just pause on your on your setting Amber up

900
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 2: against Scott to like try to get a confession or whatever.

901
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 2: So I think probably the police didn't want to do

902
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 2: that because it would endanger her life in case he

903
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:25,240
Speaker 2: snapped or something.

904
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 3: Great point, the cops should have paid for twenty four

905
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 3: hour security for her during that time before they could

906
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 3: get a confession.

907
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 4: Like witness detection.

908
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be total that what's that cost over

909
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 3: a course of two months if that would take that long,

910
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 3: because they're gonna get him, I mean, they know he's guilty.

911
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 3: One hundred thousand dollars at most that would be worth

912
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 3: it to them to spend to get her to to

913
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 3: get a confession because it would have worked. So I

914
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 3: was thinking about that, Yeah, she needs security because he

915
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 3: would probably try to kill her, but he actually wouldn't

916
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 3: have because he's such a fucking pussy. He's just like

917
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:01,839
Speaker 3: I just I hate him so much. Anyone who thinks

918
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,920
Speaker 3: he's innocent, it's like insane to me.

919
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 4: He's in prison now.

920
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he got fucking death penalty, but then they

921
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:12,720
Speaker 3: overturned it in twenty twenty and now he's just sentenced

922
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,760
Speaker 3: to life without parole. But he's such a scum, and

923
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,399
Speaker 3: his poor family believes he's innocent, and they really seem

924
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:21,880
Speaker 3: like great people, and they just it just shows you

925
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 3: the power of denial, Like you just can't imagine someone

926
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 3: you love would do this to someone else that you love,

927
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 3: and so you just have to think of a reason

928
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 3: why you wouldn't, Like, why would he search the tithes.

929
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 6: This is an instance where I think Lacey probably should

930
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 6: have looked through his phone.

931
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: I would have. I was it's justified, really good point.

932
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 1: You're about to get murdered. I think it's okay she

933
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: That's the thing.

934
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 3: Chris was watching this with me, and he goes, is

935
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 3: there any like, does Lacy ever tell her friends like

936
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 3: this guy sucks or whatever? They were like, I go, no,

937
00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 3: there's really nothing except that diary entry. She was so

938
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 3: in love with them, and that's what her mom says.

939
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 3: It's really sad. But at the end of the thing,

940
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 3: they say the number this is so tragic, but it

941
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:13,720
Speaker 3: just makes you realize the number one cause of death

942
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 3: for pregnant women is homicide at the hands of.

943
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: Out of all things, even pregnancy itself.

944
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 3: I think I mean that's what it said. The number

945
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 3: one cause of death in women who are pregnant is homicide.

946
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 3: And then also Lacey's best friends at the end were like,

947
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 3: you know, a lot's changed since then. We just tell

948
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 3: each other everything now because we learned that we didn't

949
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 3: know what was going on in our best friend's life.

950
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh my god, this is what women

951
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 3: have to do because of male unpredictable violence, no offense. Brian, like,

952
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 3: this is not all men, hashtag whatever women we need

953
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:53,760
Speaker 3: to These women now have to like talk about the

954
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 3: deep interworkings of their relationships with their friends in case

955
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 3: they might get murdered by their husbands. It's so crazy

956
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 3: to me. Yeah, and it's not men's fault, you guys. Yes,

957
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,720
Speaker 3: it's not all men obviously, But this isn't.

958
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 6: To defend uh, Jordan Peterson now because I'm a man, Listen,

959
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 6: having a baby's hard.

960
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: I mean, he he didn't.

961
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 4: Want, you know, Jordan Peterson Peterson.

962
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:26,400
Speaker 6: But Jordan's uh the same coin, right, Jordan Peterson is Wait?

963
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 6: Is that that internet guy?

964
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's the guy that wait, Jordan.

965
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 1: Peterson killed his wife in two thousand and three.

966
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:37,800
Speaker 3: Jordan Peterson Lizzie Coopermantal said that he has chronic Uh

967
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,760
Speaker 3: what's the what's the vocal fry?

968
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 4: He really does.

969
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 3: He has like a girl's vocal fry, the thing that

970
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,839
Speaker 3: like women are hated for so much, whether I talk

971
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 3: like that, it's like he has chronic lu.

972
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 6: He's got a weird voice. A lot of Internet famous

973
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 6: people have weird voices. Kay yeah, oh yeah, like rfk uh,

974
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 6: Charlie Kirk, a lot of people. I don't know, I

975
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:04,879
Speaker 6: can't think of that, but the other guy.

976
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, voices are a thing.

977
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 3: It's I just can't believe that some people walk around

978
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 3: with the voices that they have, And I just sometimes

979
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 3: want to just.

980
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 5: Like I will literally like hear a girl like talking

981
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 5: like that, like and that's not it's like not her

982
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 5: fault the voices like that, but like I just like

983
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 5: want to walk around someday like with advice like this

984
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 5: and like see.

985
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 3: What people do, like because it's not that weird. It's

986
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 3: it's not that to hear someone with a voice like that.

987
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 6: If you weren't famous, I would say, one hundred percent

988
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,360
Speaker 6: do that for a day and as an as like

989
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,160
Speaker 6: a social experiment.

990
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 5: Just like around like that, a voice like that's like

991
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:45,319
Speaker 5: I could.

992
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 4: It's not that hard to do, but we could hit

993
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 4: on a lot more.

994
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, possibly that's why they do it. It becomes an afficcation.

995
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 3: Come here often. All right, we got to go to break.

996
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 3: We'll be back with more upter this.

997
00:43:59,160 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 4: What do you got, Brian?

998
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 6: So I tried this thing a couple of days ago

999
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 6: that I think you're going to really appreciate and probably

1000
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 6: even adopt.

1001
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 1: Oh I had something.

1002
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 6: I had something I wanted to say to someone that

1003
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 6: was like very effusive, complimentary, emotional. I just wanted to say,

1004
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 6: like how much I appreciated somebody. But I did not

1005
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 6: want to hear all of the shit that comes after it,

1006
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 6: like oh I under like thank you for saying that,

1007
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 6: Like oh you know I mean so much to you,

1008
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 6: blah blah, like as a response.

1009
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you didn't want them to have to reflexively give

1010
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 3: it back to you.

1011
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 6: Exactly or just like, you know, say whatever the bullshit is.

1012
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 6: So I called this person up and I said, listen,

1013
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 6: I'm going to tell you these things, and I'm going

1014
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 6: to hang up the phone. I do not want a response.

1015
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 6: I just want to tell you these things. So I went,

1016
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:52,240
Speaker 6: I said all these things, I said, For like three minutes,

1017
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 6: I was like, I was getting a little choked up,

1018
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 6: and then I said, and that's what I want to say,

1019
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 6: and goodbye, and I hung up.

1020
00:44:57,960 --> 00:44:59,280
Speaker 1: Haven't talked to the person since.

1021
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:01,839
Speaker 4: Okay. Interesting, I really like this.

1022
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 3: I don't think it's quite fair what you're doing, because

1023
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 3: it's like it's it is obviously you're doing something selfless

1024
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,760
Speaker 3: in the sense that you're saying a bunch of compliments

1025
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 3: and you you literally want nothing back. But sometimes people need,

1026
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 3: in order to actually take in a compliment, need to

1027
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 3: say things like you're not giving them the opportunity to

1028
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 3: do the same to you. You know, I guess you are,

1029
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 3: because they could call you back and say the same

1030
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 3: thing and say just listen and don't fucking say a thing.

1031
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 4: They should do that. It's such an interesting thing. I I.

1032
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,840
Speaker 3: You know, we you often get a text from someone

1033
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:37,359
Speaker 3: you know that's like you don't have to write back

1034
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 3: to this. We've all gotten that before, or an email

1035
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 3: being like I and then you always do.

1036
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:41,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1037
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 3: But I do like when people say that because when

1038
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 3: I say that, I really do mean it, and I

1039
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 3: just yeah, I think that's I like, I I think

1040
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 3: I will adopt that to be honest with you, because

1041
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 3: it is sometimes I don't want to tell people how

1042
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 3: they I feel about them because it's it's too emotional,

1043
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 3: it's too vulnerable. I think it really is probably what

1044
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:08,399
Speaker 3: you're doing protecting you from like maybe crying and like hearing,

1045
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 3: oh absolutely like intimacy and because that's really uncomfortable to

1046
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 3: me too. And that's why a lot of times I

1047
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 3: will write how I feel about someone in a card,

1048
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 3: like that's always how I really, like if someone's birthday

1049
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 3: or like some event, like if I get a card,

1050
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 3: I will really go to town emotionally in a card, and

1051
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 3: then they cannot read it in front of me. They

1052
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,400
Speaker 3: have to read it alone and like maybe at a

1053
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:31,919
Speaker 3: time where they don't even feel like they can text

1054
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 3: me back. And then that is how I can do it.

1055
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 3: But it's it really is for me to like.

1056
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 1: Keep right, but I don't want to get back.

1057
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 4: I don't want to up crying and hugging.

1058
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 6: This is this is not like card appropriate like it

1059
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:46,479
Speaker 6: was like no, but it's the same. I'm a huge

1060
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:48,839
Speaker 6: fan of writing the emotional cards. I do it all

1061
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:52,360
Speaker 6: the time. I do it not all the time. On occasion,

1062
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 6: I will do it if I really am feeling something, Yeah,

1063
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 6: and I'll know what.

1064
00:46:56,640 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 2: I just learned actually about that about journaling, which I mean,

1065
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 2: I knew it was like very healthy to do it,

1066
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 2: but I didn't realize that there's like an oxytocin response, oh,

1067
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 2: in your brain.

1068
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:10,720
Speaker 1: That's when you when you journal it all when you Yeah.

1069
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 2: Like anytime you journal or write something, especially if it's

1070
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 2: like about your feelings or like you know, like your

1071
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 2: day and your thoughts and stuff, there's a release of oxytocin.

1072
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:21,439
Speaker 6: No matter what you're right, even if you're writing something

1073
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 6: bad like I want to kill Probably not that.

1074
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:29,280
Speaker 4: No, that that makes sense. I mean, journaling is so.

1075
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 1: Raspberry, you feel amazing.

1076
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, journaling is pretty dope. I haven't done it for

1077
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 3: a really long time, but it is. It is the

1078
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 3: answer to a lot of things. And you don't want

1079
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 3: to hear it. But it kind of is the same.

1080
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 1: Meditation, just like can we stop? And I know I

1081
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:45,240
Speaker 1: get it, it's.

1082
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 3: The no and it will work, but it's just I

1083
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 3: don't want to do it, and I or go outside

1084
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 3: and go for a walk, whatever it is, put down

1085
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 3: your phone. But journaling, it's it's just so embarrassing sometimes

1086
00:47:58,360 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 3: to do because you're just like, I'm just like writing

1087
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 3: myself so sometimes and I've I think I probably shaid

1088
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 3: this before. You write a letter to yourself from like

1089
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:08,879
Speaker 3: God or whatever, and you just like say like, hey,

1090
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 3: I've cool that you've been doing this, or you like

1091
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 3: you just write someone you write from the perspective of

1092
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 3: someone else writing to you, and that's like a way

1093
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 3: to make it not feel so masturbatory, I guess.

1094
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 4: But yeah, that's that's a good one.

1095
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 3: I will say I got the fucking best dm of

1096
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 3: my life, maybe of my I think of my life.

1097
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 3: A couple days ago, final thought. I was driving home

1098
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 3: after two shows in Cape Girardo, which was, you know,

1099
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:45,319
Speaker 3: one hundred miles away from Saint Louis, and so I

1100
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 3: was driving back to Saint Louis. I was in the

1101
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 3: car with Sean O'Brien, he was driving, and I just like, oh,

1102
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 3: was like okay, so we all know that I missed

1103
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:58,359
Speaker 3: two shows in Vienna to see my girl Taylor, and

1104
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,800
Speaker 3: I was gonna have a total of twenty two shows

1105
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:03,320
Speaker 3: that I had been to, which is an important number

1106
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 3: in the end after she closes up in Vancouver. I

1107
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 3: would have been to twenty two which is a song

1108
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 3: she does, and it just was like a better number

1109
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 3: than nineteen or than twenty. But then I lost the

1110
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 3: two vienna once, so I was like, twenty, which is great,

1111
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 3: I got to the to the two.

1112
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 4: Whatever.

1113
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 6: It's got to be eras tour because I mean, I

1114
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 6: think I think in the future there'll be other tours

1115
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 6: and you'll get to twenty two.

1116
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 3: Now, it's got to be eras because all in all

1117
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,840
Speaker 3: Taylor's shows I've been to now I guess one extra

1118
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 3: so but yeah, it's just eras, like this has just

1119
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 3: been such a long running tour. It's just like, I

1120
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 3: don't know, it's just feels I wanted twenty two.

1121
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 4: And whatever.

1122
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 3: I And also, I'm going to see this kid perform

1123
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 3: this on Sunday, so that kind of counts as like

1124
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:46,759
Speaker 3: I think a half at least, because I think he's

1125
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 3: gonna do at least half of the show.

1126
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 4: It's so exciting.

1127
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 3: But he has to turn in early because he has

1128
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:52,760
Speaker 3: school the next day. But I am I am driving

1129
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 3: two hours to go see an eight era old form

1130
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 3: Taylor Swift. Yeah, and I'm not going to be cute

1131
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,840
Speaker 3: and be like I'm like, he's not a fan. His

1132
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 3: parents aren't fans, no one's I'm a fan of his.

1133
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 3: I'm literally going because this kid, I'll tell you it

1134
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 3: is because people might be interested if you want to

1135
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:16,399
Speaker 3: follow him. He's gone viral in the swifty community for sure.

1136
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 3: Uh kellen k e. And this is run by his neighbor,

1137
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 3: not his parents, like his parents' friends, who are neighbors

1138
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 3: that have their permission. It's Kellen k E l l

1139
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 3: E N dot I T T Kellen I T kellen

1140
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:34,720
Speaker 3: dot I T T. And he's this little kid who's

1141
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 3: just really has a great voice, great theatrics, dances like Taylor,

1142
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 3: sings like Taylor. I'm obsessed and I'm gonna go watch

1143
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 3: him perform in his deck in the backyard of a

1144
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:48,479
Speaker 3: small town in Michigan. And but anyway, so driving home

1145
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:52,400
Speaker 3: and I check my message requests, which is where like

1146
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 3: you get people writing you who you don't follow or

1147
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 3: I don't really understand it, but it's usually where the

1148
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 3: blue check marks land and or like endorsement deals or

1149
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 3: people being like we've noticed that your engagement needs to

1150
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 3: come up.

1151
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 1: Do you want to?

1152
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:05,760
Speaker 4: Or this is message request?

1153
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 1: This is like deep, this three level.

1154
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is where like if you have over I

1155
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 3: think ten thousand, you start getting a chance to have

1156
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 3: message requests. Anyway, It's it's just where celebrities who you

1157
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 3: don't follow will end up. So sometimes I find people

1158
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 3: like messaging me and I check it once every couple

1159
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 3: of days or whatever. And and but it's a lot

1160
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 3: of people with seven million followers, and they're guys like

1161
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 3: hanging by pools with sunglasses on that just say what's up, Nikki.

1162
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:33,319
Speaker 3: And it's like, I don't go, who are you?

1163
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 4: And what do you do?

1164
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:38,240
Speaker 3: Like this person's clearly bought followers, but seven million, I'm.

1165
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 1: Not kidding you. These guys all up like our twenty two.

1166
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,919
Speaker 3: Year olds with seven million follows, Like it's I'll send

1167
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 3: some of you them to you. Brian's insane, and they.

1168
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:46,760
Speaker 4: Just go sup, Nikki.

1169
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 3: And so anyway, this guy, I'm not gonna reveal who,

1170
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 3: but he goes, hey, I saw you're a fan of

1171
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:58,360
Speaker 3: Taylor Swift and I might reveal this later after I

1172
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:03,399
Speaker 3: get permission, and I am this big deal. He didn't

1173
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:04,799
Speaker 3: say I'm a big deal, but he was like, you

1174
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:08,759
Speaker 3: can have my you can feel free to use and

1175
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 3: bring some friends to my suite in this town. On

1176
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 3: these dates to the show or shows you want to

1177
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 3: go to, And I'm like, what the fuck? And I'm

1178
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 3: like this is so nice, but I can't go because

1179
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:23,799
Speaker 3: I know her whole schedule, and if I have a

1180
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 3: weekend off, I would already be going, like I have

1181
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 3: every ticket to every show that I can go to already,

1182
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 3: and it's just not possible. So I go, let me

1183
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 3: just look at that weekend where am I like, maybe

1184
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 3: I can move some stuff or like whatever fain and illness,

1185
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 3: And it's Andrew's wedding And I'm like, oh, I had

1186
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:44,560
Speaker 3: that weekend blocked up for Andrew's wedding, which is on Saturday, okay,

1187
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:48,439
Speaker 3: And I go, where is his wedding two hours from

1188
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 3: where these shows are happening. So I said, uh, hell yeah,

1189
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:56,319
Speaker 3: I'll go. I'm gonna go Friday to t Era's, drive

1190
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 3: two hours, go to Andrew's wedding, then drive two hours

1191
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 3: the next go to Aras again on Sunday.

1192
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:03,240
Speaker 4: I'm getting my two in Wow.

1193
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 3: And I get to bring some friends with me in

1194
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 3: this box of this amazing guy who said that, you know,

1195
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 3: he was like, I just saw you talking about Taylor Swift,

1196
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 3: and you seem like someone so fun to meet.

1197
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 4: You can bring your boyfriend, like he knows.

1198
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 3: He's not trying to you know that. It's like he

1199
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 3: knows I have a boyfriend. He was like, we can

1200
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:21,319
Speaker 3: get some phone books to sit on because I know

1201
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 3: he's short. So you saw my special clearly, like I

1202
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:28,319
Speaker 3: think the all from my special and aw and and

1203
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:34,399
Speaker 3: I'm going it's like, it's so amazed. And Taylor or Brenna,

1204
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 3: Andrew's fiance, has never seen eras and she is a

1205
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,879
Speaker 3: huge swiftie. She just couldn't find a way to go.

1206
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 3: And so I write to Andrew and Brenna. I'm like, hey,

1207
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 3: what are you guys doing the day after your wedding?

1208
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:48,320
Speaker 3: And they're like, we might go to blah blah blah.

1209
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:49,880
Speaker 3: We don't really know yet. And I go, do you

1210
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 3: want to go see Ara's tour? And they're like what,

1211
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:57,239
Speaker 3: And so Brenna starts crying. So the first night they're

1212
00:53:57,360 --> 00:54:00,400
Speaker 3: like an official couple, they get to go and it goes,

1213
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 3: I don't even care about my wedding, and I'm so

1214
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 3: excited that I get to take them for their wedding gift.

1215
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:08,880
Speaker 3: And now I don't have to buy them a fucking

1216
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 3: toaster or whatever I was gonna do. Oh yeah, it's

1217
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:15,799
Speaker 3: just so fun. I don't want to give away too much,

1218
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,239
Speaker 3: but it's like you could probably figure it out if

1219
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 3: you really wanted to figure out when Andrew's getting married.

1220
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:21,880
Speaker 3: I don't know IF's talked about it on this podcast,

1221
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 3: but like, yeah, it's because I don't want to give

1222
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 3: away who to give the tickets or whatever, because it's

1223
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 3: someone involved with whatever. But it's like so fucking cool.

1224
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 3: I can't believe it. Things happen for a reason. I'm

1225
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 3: gonna get twenty two shows again. I get to go,

1226
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 3: and I have to say, though, you know how I

1227
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:41,959
Speaker 3: feel about a box seat.

1228
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 4: I love a box for.

1229
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 3: Like the people in the food, in the private bathroom

1230
00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 3: and the whole thing. But I gotta get up close.

1231
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 3: So I think I'm gonna buy one ticket for the floor,

1232
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 3: and I think I'm gonna buy one front row ticket

1233
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 3: for each of the shows I'm going to just so

1234
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:57,400
Speaker 3: like I can be in the box, but then I

1235
00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 3: can go down to the floor like during torture.

1236
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 4: Oh, it's on all the things I want to And like.

1237
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 3: One ticket is like fourteen thousand dollars, Oh my god.

1238
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:09,839
Speaker 3: But I'm like, I think I need to do it,

1239
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 3: And I think this is it's if I know all

1240
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:13,359
Speaker 3: my friends are up in the box and they're having

1241
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,359
Speaker 3: a good time, and this guy would be okay with

1242
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 3: me abandoning the box just for one or two.

1243
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:18,720
Speaker 4: Sets or whatever.

1244
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 3: I might do that too, So I don't know, but

1245
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 3: I am so excited to go to Florida.

1246
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 1: We'll do it.

1247
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,439
Speaker 6: Buy the ticket for the first show and then see

1248
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:30,959
Speaker 6: how that goes. Don't buy a ticket for each show

1249
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,360
Speaker 6: early unless it's possiah.

1250
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 4: I think he.

1251
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 3: Can't be mad at me about this, Like he has

1252
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 3: to understand that he's giving a drug addict, Like he's

1253
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 3: giving me some cocaine. But I smoke crack and I

1254
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 3: love the cocaine. Thank you so much for the piles

1255
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 3: and piles of cocaine. But I gotta get a little crack, okay.

1256
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:54,359
Speaker 3: And it's dirty and it's expense, it's expensive, and it's

1257
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 3: shameful and I'm gonna I'm a little ashamed about it.

1258
00:55:57,680 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 6: It's like going to the bathroom to do coke at

1259
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 6: a party, Like I gotta go step out for a

1260
00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 6: minute and then yeah, they come back.

1261
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:04,360
Speaker 1: You're all wired, you'll understand you.

1262
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, based on the city where we're going to see

1263
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 3: this happen. It's it's part of the culture there to

1264
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 3: to sneak off to the bathroom for some coke. So yeah,

1265
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna skip sneak off to the bathroom to

1266
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,799
Speaker 3: snort some tea Swift and by the way, freaking out

1267
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 3: about the new uh I can do it with the

1268
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 3: Broken Heart video that shows behind the scenes of the aristour.

1269
00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 4: It's so good, it's so fun. Her outfits are so cute.

1270
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 3: I have so much to say about that, but I'll

1271
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 3: probably just talk about it on Instagram Live this weekend

1272
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 3: in Michigan. Come see us Battle Creek, Michigan Friday and Saturday.

1273
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 3: Anya and me will be there, and then Sunday I'm

1274
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 3: going to that airstore. We'll see you next week on

1275
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 3: the show. Thank you guys so much for listening. Thank

1276
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:39,719
Speaker 3: you Brian, thank you.

1277
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 4: Noah, don't be cut Bye bye