Speaker 1: Welcome to the women while in our podcast you guy,
Speaker 1: baby girl by body, it's your girl, be some yall,
Speaker 1: go pretty what's up y'all? We'll back your girl Justina
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Speaker 1: the Women a While and now a podcast where the
Speaker 1: ladies a while and out control the mic. This is
Speaker 1: our world from our prospective. It's your girl, Justina Valencine
Speaker 1: and I'm here with my girl, the one, the only
Speaker 1: be Simone and uh you know what, yeah, baby girl,
Speaker 1: we have a very special guest today. Be So I'm
Speaker 1: excited for today's podcast. How are you living? How you feeling?
Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm over here smacking. I'm trying to, you know,
Speaker 1: set my face real quick. But we got on here.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited. That's my phone, yes girl, my finger.
Speaker 1: I don't know how to take it off the them.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put my phone on airplane. Put it on airplane, girl,
Speaker 1: you fly, do not discern they got this new um
Speaker 1: what is it called? The plant based meat? You wouldn't
Speaker 1: even know. So I wouldn't even you gave up meat.
Speaker 1: Well that's good because our guests today les than meat.
Speaker 1: I'm playing, but I'm saying I ain't had meat year, girl.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. Well it's it's one of my favorites
Speaker 1: on the show. Um, you know what I mean. He
Speaker 1: really impressed me. He came to the wild style, he wrote.
Speaker 1: He also gave the ladies a soas he goes toe
Speaker 1: to toe in the wild style, and that's our boot Stine. Hey, baby,
Speaker 1: oh my god, what's up? We're already told now you
Speaker 1: know my blood person and the rent, you know, but
Speaker 1: weve to live in color. Baby. We're in this bitch.
Speaker 1: We are six ft above ground and we're blessed. So
Speaker 1: I'm grateful to be here front of these beautiful technical difficulties.
Speaker 1: I didn't have no textical difficulties. They're never wrong. My
Speaker 1: test over here, that's your all. Yeah, because I was like, wow, okay,
Speaker 1: since one, he's kind of stole a little new to
Speaker 1: be this bougie, you know what I mean. But he
Speaker 1: had to get them test together. We had to get
Speaker 1: it right, get it tight, Jesus. But we figured it
Speaker 1: out and we're up there here now. So I know
Speaker 1: y'all couldn't see him, but he had a little surprise
Speaker 1: for us. Victoria's trying to chell my secrets. Jesus, is
Speaker 1: that a secret? And who's Victoria? Hello? Well, you know
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do a little some of my skin breathe,
Speaker 1: you know. Um, I'll be honest. I do wear units,
Speaker 1: and they are, you know, partly a blanket and partly
Speaker 1: a crown. Because I do, I'll be a hundred and
Speaker 1: fifty with it, and I do wear units, but I
Speaker 1: wanted to let my hair breathe from minute. So I'm
Speaker 1: giving you very much blackness, a clean Yes, Yes, he
Speaker 1: got the fresh ball, the same thing. I mean, if
Speaker 1: they take the guard maybe a little word, I would
Speaker 1: be bald. I almost did the Jada Pinkett, but I
Speaker 1: was like, hold on, we're gonna have to do Holly
Speaker 1: Berry it. I don't know if I look I like
Speaker 1: that length on you. Baby. She has a face for it.
Speaker 1: She definitely is a face for it. Because you know,
Speaker 1: my ass couldn't go bold. I'd be definitely call me justin.
Speaker 1: I already know we already do ye right, So I'm
Speaker 1: definitely I wouldn't already do it, right, but it looks
Speaker 1: good on your baby Smash for sure, thank you. I
Speaker 1: don't know if if that's a compliment or you know,
Speaker 1: but anyway, you're like, God, so you telling me you
Speaker 1: are smash, I'm like, is it still a jab? I
Speaker 1: can't be sure. You know these queens, I here a
Speaker 1: picky girl. So that's a good thing, okay for good Well, Sanswan.
Speaker 1: For the people who don't know you, because you have
Speaker 1: been like killing it since you've been on the show,
Speaker 1: give us a little backstory on who Santwan is um
Speaker 1: pre wild or like just kind of my journey from
Speaker 1: the beginning. But that's who you are as a person
Speaker 1: of personality everything. Oh gosh, Well, I am a young
Speaker 1: black prince on the rise, and uh, I hail from
Speaker 1: King Street, South Carolina. I was born there and uh
Speaker 1: raised Virginia Beach and then I went to college at
Speaker 1: the University of Louisville, and uh, I've been an athlete
Speaker 1: all my life and started in baseball and could have
Speaker 1: swore I was gonna go pro and then got bored
Speaker 1: and and then became a cheerleader. I tried everything and
Speaker 1: nothing really fully fulfilled like me. So in cheerleading, where
Speaker 1: I could be you know, athletically challenged and I could
Speaker 1: also feel like a normal person. Per se. I found
Speaker 1: that I could be all of myself, and UH, I
Speaker 1: went on to you know, gain over two hundred and
Speaker 1: fifty national titles coaching, choreographing, and competing combined. UM a
Speaker 1: four time Collegiate All American, an individual International champion, and
Speaker 1: a five time world champion, including with Team USA. So
Speaker 1: you know, I think basically, I just feel like, UM,
Speaker 1: I just feel with my athletic background, I wanted to
Speaker 1: you know, transition into what I really wanted to do
Speaker 1: in life, and that's action, comedy, film and TV. And
Speaker 1: I just felt that, you know, one of the very
Speaker 1: few places that I could do such a thing, UM
Speaker 1: and entertain it's entertainment, it's comedy, it's it's you know,
Speaker 1: places like wilding out. And I really am grateful for
Speaker 1: the opportunity. UM And I think my queens in here
Speaker 1: can attest there's very few places where you feel like
Speaker 1: you can fully be a queen and not just be yourself,
Speaker 1: but to be received as your full self. So I
Speaker 1: definitely think that this is just beyond a blessing to
Speaker 1: be a part of this UM this crazy ass family man.
Speaker 1: And that's just a little bit about me and where
Speaker 1: I come from. I just come from an athletic background
Speaker 1: where I get to, you know, being a sport that
Speaker 1: I can completely be myself wholly and fully and be
Speaker 1: embraced for it. In fact, So it sounds like you
Speaker 1: definitely have, um the background, you know how to be
Speaker 1: on a team, be a team player. And yeah, it
Speaker 1: sounds like you achieved all your goals in the cheer world.
Speaker 1: That's amazing. Two titles and and all that other stuff.
Speaker 1: So I always wanted to be a cheerleader. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: let's hear a cheer beat beat my boyfriend beat eating names.
Speaker 1: So so how did you get on? So how did
Speaker 1: you get on wilding out Sandswan? Like, how did you
Speaker 1: hear about the audition? Like tell us that and you're
Speaker 1: so good, You're so funny, you are, Oh, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you. I had actually gotten a text from a
Speaker 1: friend in Nashville, um, and I don't know from a
Speaker 1: lot of same names or anything, but he just hit
Speaker 1: me up and was like, bro, they're holding auditions like
Speaker 1: down the street and like I lived up the street
Speaker 1: from like Roscoe Chicken Waffles in l a and I
Speaker 1: was like, let me just walk my happy ass down here,
Speaker 1: and I just went on down to the street and
Speaker 1: you know, went on down the street, was like heyo,
Speaker 1: what y'all doing? And they let me come in do
Speaker 1: my thing. And then I had been randomly flown in
Speaker 1: for like two episodes and were like, good job. You know,
Speaker 1: we we really loved having you. And you know, I
Speaker 1: just was like, Wow, this was a really cool experience
Speaker 1: and I'll never have it again, so I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: soak this ship in. And I was in Germany doing
Speaker 1: Koreo for a cheer gym out there and I had
Speaker 1: randomly got an email it was like, we would love
Speaker 1: to have you as part of our fifteen cycle. And
Speaker 1: when I tell you about ship A Brick, I was like,
Speaker 1: there's no way on playing earth. These people actually like
Speaker 1: me and the rest is so confident. How do you
Speaker 1: feel like wilding out is compared to like what you
Speaker 1: see just being a viewer and actually being on the show,
Speaker 1: because I know my first season, I was like, like
Speaker 1: you said, Shift and Bricks so scared. It's so challenging
Speaker 1: people think where they're just up there being goofy and
Speaker 1: e condom and like, no, you have to be really talented,
Speaker 1: quick on your toes, you have to think, you have
Speaker 1: to practice. You don't want to bomb, you know, so
Speaker 1: excuse me, Um, is it challenging for you? Do you
Speaker 1: feel like it's what you thought it would be or
Speaker 1: is it easier than you thought it would be? Like
Speaker 1: tell the people a little bit about the BTS while now,
Speaker 1: because people think we up there just hoo hoo hood
Speaker 1: goofing off, and it's really challenging for me even still, Um,
Speaker 1: I think it's it's almost exactly as I pictured it,
Speaker 1: but just not God, how do I phrase this? It's
Speaker 1: exactly what I thought it would be. It's it's hard work,
Speaker 1: and it's it's not just the laughs. It's just it's
Speaker 1: how we like present this thing to the world. And
Speaker 1: in my head I wanted to I always want to
Speaker 1: understand how every show like solves its Rubik's cube and
Speaker 1: puts it like puzzle together, and you know, so when
Speaker 1: I got in there and I just saw everybody doing
Speaker 1: their own thing, and then if they want to, like
Speaker 1: if they like you know, start freestyle and start spending
Speaker 1: some off somebody somebody, just they just cling to it
Speaker 1: and they're like sure, let's go. And it's always just
Speaker 1: saying and it's always like, let's just let's kill it.
Speaker 1: Let's see what we can make out of it. I
Speaker 1: really was so surprised. And you know how people have
Speaker 1: dominant personalities, but the thing is everyone's dominant personality comes
Speaker 1: with an open arm of like, you know, I can
Speaker 1: stand my own ground, bitch, like I can sit here
Speaker 1: and get six seven million people to show up for
Speaker 1: my video, or I can fill up an arena. However,
Speaker 1: if you want to share space with me on this pedestal,
Speaker 1: on this throne, or on this stage, then let's do
Speaker 1: it and we can be a super over. So I
Speaker 1: thought that was really that was so reassuring and humbling
Speaker 1: and motivating, because you know, you never want to see
Speaker 1: somebody that's this person X y Z up here in
Speaker 1: the stratosphere, and when you walk in a room, you
Speaker 1: never want to feel like, yo, I can't even talk
Speaker 1: to that person because I feel like they're gonna just
Speaker 1: ship and rain on my whole parade and they're gonna
Speaker 1: make me feel like I ain't nothing. Everybody makes you
Speaker 1: want to just hop on that little fast track and
Speaker 1: just go, and it's dope. So for me seeing the
Speaker 1: behind the scenes of how people work together, and they're like,
Speaker 1: I don't really know what we're about to do, but like,
Speaker 1: if you want to just pick a subject, let's go,
Speaker 1: let's just let's see what happens, and let's get the
Speaker 1: energy going, and let's go this direction and let's let's
Speaker 1: let's get it. That to me, that to me is
Speaker 1: one of the dopest thing. Yeah, I definitely felt welcomed.
Speaker 1: I was a little nervous, you know. I definitely had
Speaker 1: a mishap my first day. Um, and you know, I
Speaker 1: thought that you know, um, you know, and I'm not
Speaker 1: throwing nobody under the bus. It's no shade, it's nothing
Speaker 1: for nobody to look into. But you know, somebody surprised
Speaker 1: me with something and it threw me off because I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, this isn't what this isn't the
Speaker 1: presentation of myself I want to kind of get into
Speaker 1: the first time, you know, I got a little gag
Speaker 1: played on me with like you know, powder and stuff
Speaker 1: and and and then I thought about it. I was like,
Speaker 1: the person it's not necessarily what happens to you in
Speaker 1: the in the world of wilding out is how you
Speaker 1: react to it. That makes you the star, bitch. So
Speaker 1: you can either take it and think, oh, this person
Speaker 1: is malicious, this person is doing their own thing and
Speaker 1: funk what I'm standing for, or you can say, how
Speaker 1: do I turn around and make this funny? And in
Speaker 1: that moment, I was like, what you're gonna do now, bitch?
Speaker 1: And I turned around and I actually won the match.
Speaker 1: So I'm very proud of that moment. So I was
Speaker 1: real nervous. It's nothing to look into. You don't have
Speaker 1: to call incorporate. But and the funny part argue about right,
Speaker 1: And the funny part is who you're talking about because
Speaker 1: it could only be one person, but right. But speaking
Speaker 1: of standing your ground, Santowan, you are so on a
Speaker 1: unapologetically you did. You feel like wilding Out was just
Speaker 1: a space where you could be that and you didn't
Speaker 1: have to come on and try to follow what anyone
Speaker 1: else was doing on the show. You just knew that
Speaker 1: you could be Santowan and you would be accepted and
Speaker 1: be able to thrive just being yourself. Um, I was
Speaker 1: ninety nine point certain that if I'm just myself and
Speaker 1: I got the job, then I'm somewhat meant to be there,
Speaker 1: now in order to stay in that motherfucker, then you
Speaker 1: gotta be yourself and also pick up the learning curve
Speaker 1: that everybody else's because everybody else don't have the rubric,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, They created their own and
Speaker 1: they fit into how with what our team, what our
Speaker 1: team captain, our coach now when he's like, this is
Speaker 1: what we're gonna do today, and here's a challenge. No
Speaker 1: Curson or no Dick jokes like when he does that,
Speaker 1: like everyone else has to adapt. So I'm like, if
Speaker 1: I'm here in the same space as these icons and
Speaker 1: these Juggernauts have, then I'm clearly meant to start here
Speaker 1: and do something. So I could, you know, I figured, hey,
Speaker 1: let's go for it. And I don't ever want to
Speaker 1: second guess myself, which I do quite often, but I figured,
Speaker 1: if I'm in there, I might as well just continue
Speaker 1: to be myself and unless if I change, it's me
Speaker 1: stepping my pussy up in you know what I mean. Okay, So, okay,
Speaker 1: step that pussy up. Sorry you hate that word step
Speaker 1: step step Your cook is up Jesus sorry. Last season
Speaker 1: a while about that I was on UM. Then we
Speaker 1: was in the hotel room. We was out in Cali, Ontario, Ontario,
Speaker 1: and youre a little da ding. They called to the room.
Speaker 1: I was saying, room. It was like step one, worry,
Speaker 1: are you out of your mind? Okay? No, I heard
Speaker 1: a day day and it was like you gotta delivery.
Speaker 1: Somebody sent you for hours and his boyfriend him flowers
Speaker 1: and it was the sweetest thing ever. At that time,
Speaker 1: I had a boyfriend and I said, just hilarious was
Speaker 1: in there? I said, yes, you need to text my
Speaker 1: man and tell him to do this ship because but
Speaker 1: are you still with y'aboo? Are y'all getting married? What
Speaker 1: is going on? Because y'all be posting and I'm like
Speaker 1: every deadly love each other. Yes, oh that is my
Speaker 1: better half, Kyle. I love you. If you ever hear
Speaker 1: this year my absolute universe. Um so he's in He's
Speaker 1: in Dallas right now, and yes, we are still together, thriving.
Speaker 1: I just had to come back to Georgia to get
Speaker 1: some dinner work done. But usually if I'm not having
Speaker 1: to work on set on the project, I'm doing all
Speaker 1: my ringwork and other work in Dallas and I'm a
Speaker 1: house husband. I'm in my ugly business and you know,
Speaker 1: I just I do what to do, and I just
Speaker 1: make sure when I when I you know, am at
Speaker 1: in Dallas at his place and he comes home like
Speaker 1: he got a nice hot meal, some fresh laundry. Baby,
Speaker 1: the slippers are warm, like I'm doing my husband ly duties.
Speaker 1: Down we goals, yes, ma'am. And he's coming back in
Speaker 1: the fall, uh to Georgia. So we're gonna, you know,
Speaker 1: take the next step in life into our thing. I
Speaker 1: moved to Georgia just um a look a little bit ago,
Speaker 1: so I just didn't really make a just outside like
Speaker 1: near Lake Lanier. Don't be don't be stalking me, y'all
Speaker 1: at the important but I've been looking for me. Want
Speaker 1: what comes through? What's up? Y'all? We are back with
Speaker 1: the women a while and out podcast. It's your girl,
Speaker 1: Justina Valentine here with my girl be some moan and
Speaker 1: we got Santoine in the building. We are talking about
Speaker 1: his love life, his career and how he is unapologetically
Speaker 1: him and we love that about him. So y'all getting married,
Speaker 1: you're planning to get married and all that or like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna make the next organic steps and and do
Speaker 1: the you know, engagement thing. When the time is right
Speaker 1: and we want to set ourselves up for success in
Speaker 1: the future. So yeah, out to a day in the
Speaker 1: life of me. I know his his handle because you
Speaker 1: you always But so I have a question, um, because
Speaker 1: you said you're gonna take the next step, get married
Speaker 1: and all that, who would be the one to propose?
Speaker 1: Does it not matter? Does he have to do it?
Speaker 1: Do you have to do it? Did y'all talk about that? Right?
Speaker 1: We've spoken about, you know, certain future things, and basically, uh,
Speaker 1: you know, I would love to because I like to
Speaker 1: do surprises. He hates surprises. But also he's like, we're
Speaker 1: both from the South, but you know, he is such
Speaker 1: a country traditional, old school like like southern gentleman. So
Speaker 1: I definitely think that would be something that is on
Speaker 1: his soul. And you know, I think he's gonna do it.
Speaker 1: You know, we talked about it, and I think it's
Speaker 1: gonna be for him and I would love to have
Speaker 1: my little moment, you know. So I'm gonna let him,
Speaker 1: you know, do that, and I'm gonna put my hands
Speaker 1: up in my face. Oh my god, he's gonna be
Speaker 1: like I didn't know, but it's gonna be ten cameras
Speaker 1: catching it. From every angle of video pictures you have
Speaker 1: that motherfucker believe that. Okay, how did you know it
Speaker 1: was the one though, Like because I'd be like, I'll
Speaker 1: be thinking, guys are the one And then as you
Speaker 1: can see, we get on the podcast a couple of
Speaker 1: months later and I'm single again, so single A game
Speaker 1: back on the prow thought was perfect. I don't know
Speaker 1: how thank you training how well? Um, you know it started.
Speaker 1: It was one of those things that it developed. Um,
Speaker 1: and I saw him and of course, like you know,
Speaker 1: love at first sight, but it was and it was
Speaker 1: one of those things where it's like, you know, we
Speaker 1: both had previously been in a relationship, that all that
Speaker 1: whole thing. But it took us eight years too, kind
Speaker 1: of really, eight years in a global pandemic for us
Speaker 1: to slow down and really see each other. And you know,
Speaker 1: he's always seen cheerleader Santoine out there on a hundred.
Speaker 1: He's never one thing. One thing he really said to
Speaker 1: me that got me. He was like, I have never
Speaker 1: ever seen you sit back and like your shoulders relaxed.
Speaker 1: I've never seen you take a deep breath and just
Speaker 1: close your eyes and breathe. And he's like, just to
Speaker 1: see you in a different light and relaxed. It's so
Speaker 1: you know, mind blowing. And that's the thing that really
Speaker 1: I might remember because he's like, I'm always just seeing
Speaker 1: and you're always upright and everyone's in your face and
Speaker 1: like you're just on all the time. I never get
Speaker 1: to see relax and um. So it took a lot
Speaker 1: for us to slow down and see each other and um,
Speaker 1: after knowing each other for eight years and checking each other,
Speaker 1: checking on each other like during our relationships, and then
Speaker 1: checking in with each other after the relationships like and
Speaker 1: just making sure each other is okay. And then finally
Speaker 1: one day we just ended up um seeing each other
Speaker 1: at a mutual friends pool party. And then man like
Speaker 1: he just stepped on a mixtape. He literally stepped back
Speaker 1: on a mix tape while we were talking and just
Speaker 1: say is that to a mix tape? And just the
Speaker 1: way he said it let me know everything I needed
Speaker 1: to know his personality, his sense of humor, his groundedness
Speaker 1: like his wittiness, his everything and his or his energy.
Speaker 1: And when I tell you, I have never found a
Speaker 1: better all around man in my life and I'm so
Speaker 1: lucky for him. So what are what are the negatives though,
Speaker 1: like every every relationship, No, not negatives, but the stuff
Speaker 1: y'all have to work through. Obviously, every relationship has little problems,
Speaker 1: whether they're big, small, microsop topic. Do you all have
Speaker 1: like conversations? Have you ever had like a blown up
Speaker 1: argument or anything? You know what's interesting, We've never actually
Speaker 1: had a full out, like knocked down, drag out fight
Speaker 1: because we've had so many natural, organic conversations over the
Speaker 1: years and during our relationship of like how we like
Speaker 1: to do things and just basically having a mutual consideration.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit here and pretend we're Miss America
Speaker 1: and we're perfect. Like no, Like sometimes I'm like, hey,
Speaker 1: I ordered a large fry, you didn't get one, but
Speaker 1: you want one of mine, and we'll have a funny
Speaker 1: like something I don't know, but like, we rarely have arguments.
Speaker 1: Anytime we have um any kind of not debate but
Speaker 1: real in depth discussions, it's us getting to know one
Speaker 1: another and like um, like a race topic or like
Speaker 1: a future children's topic or like you know, differences in
Speaker 1: like how our parents are because I'm black country, he
Speaker 1: white country, so you know, we we're trying to blend
Speaker 1: our worlds, and so in order for us to shoot forward,
Speaker 1: we have to take a second and pull back if
Speaker 1: we want to slingshot, you know, through life in a
Speaker 1: successful manner. And I think us taking a moment and
Speaker 1: just getting to understanding each other's tone, how to treat
Speaker 1: one another, and how to respect ourselves and each other,
Speaker 1: and like how how how the world perceives us, and
Speaker 1: just being considerate of everything of that person's world, but
Speaker 1: still staying in your own land, go on your own speed.
Speaker 1: So so traffic, Like we really try to make that
Speaker 1: work in private. So when we're in public, nothing's fake,
Speaker 1: it's not bullshit. So like we don't really argue. It's
Speaker 1: like the only thing we like struggle with sometimes it's
Speaker 1: like matches schedule so we can make sure we have
Speaker 1: off time, Like we schedule our florid together. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: we try to schedule our year out four to six
Speaker 1: months in advance so we can actually have quality time.
Speaker 1: So and you do, y'all do seem really respectful of
Speaker 1: each other. Like I've never even seen you like on
Speaker 1: set or anything like looking at anyone else, Like it's
Speaker 1: always all about Kyle. You're always shouting him out, even
Speaker 1: on the show. It's like we all know him by damn. Hey,
Speaker 1: we know you and love right but that and you
Speaker 1: guys look great to get other. So I'm happy for you.
Speaker 1: But look, I want to play our version of fun
Speaker 1: Mary kill all right, but we're gonna do We're gonna
Speaker 1: little PG. Thirteen. We're gonna make it date married friend zone.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna start with the ladies, all right. So
Speaker 1: it's be myself and pretty v you gotta marry friend zone, okay,
Speaker 1: period um, so date Mary friend zone and it is
Speaker 1: pretty v b smone and Justina herself. I would friend
Speaker 1: zone Justina so I can hang out with you all
Speaker 1: the time, talk two brothers, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: like the branch and have a period. It's hello when
Speaker 1: that's the best about worlds we could we want to
Speaker 1: do And I would love to hang out with you
Speaker 1: all the time and just shoot the ship. I would
Speaker 1: love to. I would love to date be so she
Speaker 1: could stop singing her boy friends. You'll probably that I
Speaker 1: would love to take you on a date because I
Speaker 1: feel like you just know what type of ship you
Speaker 1: like and I would love to see you just out
Speaker 1: there being pampered. I would love you to take you
Speaker 1: on a day and then do like some special for
Speaker 1: you and surprise you would like something interesting, like a
Speaker 1: handwritten letter from like your grandmother that you never just go.
Speaker 1: I want to do something special because I feel like
Speaker 1: you like special Ship Titanic, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I feel like you like special Ship. And I would, honestly,
Speaker 1: I would honestly marry the ship out of me because
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with her. Um and she would still do
Speaker 1: her thing and you know, and I would still do mine,
Speaker 1: but I would just marry her because I feel like
Speaker 1: I could just be with her all the time and like, yeah,
Speaker 1: just laugh, Yeah you could be dancing on her little
Speaker 1: island with her and like, you know, you hit that
Speaker 1: little table she dances on. So look, now we gotta
Speaker 1: do the guy's version. So we got Boris Kojo, Chris
Speaker 1: Hemsworth and Jason Momoa. Why don't random as honestly right,
Speaker 1: because I'm like, I'm I'm hoping I'm pronouncing everything right.
Speaker 1: Let's put it up, not forget it, let's do let's
Speaker 1: do Drake DC, Young Fly and Nick Cannon. Okay, I
Speaker 1: would honestly, I would probably um friend Zone DC because
Speaker 1: he's just a homie at heart, Like I feel like
Speaker 1: I could just just shoot the ship with him, just
Speaker 1: like he was, like it's just all love and it's
Speaker 1: fun and it's constant like just laughter. So I mean,
Speaker 1: you can't not have a good friend like that, like
Speaker 1: a route at the bottom of your tree. Like that's
Speaker 1: just a solid nigga right there, s my language. And
Speaker 1: then I would. I would go on a date with Drake,
Speaker 1: you know, just to see what it's like, do some
Speaker 1: adventurous ship and like you know, getting club, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, like just to say I didn't like it, right,
Speaker 1: you know, just some bullshit on like you know that.
Speaker 1: But um, I would. I would honestly marry Nick because
Speaker 1: I think that's it's it's just it's all around, like
Speaker 1: it's not that like he find he got money and
Speaker 1: like he funny, Like no, it's like and I'm not
Speaker 1: listen right now, Nick, I'm not saying this because you're
Speaker 1: my boss, nigga. I'm dead as serious. You are husband material,
Speaker 1: ya know, y'all know they cannad I want to get
Speaker 1: married again. Say that you don't, that's all right, but
Speaker 1: you are husband material, sir, And you know who else
Speaker 1: has my baby, my baby cow. So anyway, that's why
Speaker 1: I really know y'all knew I was gonna say I'm
Speaker 1: a writer. I'm like, okay, Kyle, yeah, girl, Okay, So
Speaker 1: saying T Twine, you did the cheerlead and you did
Speaker 1: the athletics stuff you didn't. Now you've done TV, even
Speaker 1: on national TV. You got a man, Now you in love.
Speaker 1: We talked about you. Excuse me, jes she's she's gagged
Speaker 1: getting married. Where do you see yourself in five years?
Speaker 1: Like you want to see all this going? I would
Speaker 1: like to. I would like to in five years be
Speaker 1: doing what I actually want to do, how I want
Speaker 1: to do it, in a sense of like how y'all
Speaker 1: do just on my personal scale where I see myself like,
Speaker 1: I want to be that person who can do because
Speaker 1: I feel like in Hollywood people for some reason just
Speaker 1: don't think that other people are multi talented and actually
Speaker 1: excel in multiple fields. So I would like to be
Speaker 1: an action comedy hero for Marvel. I would like to
Speaker 1: be that person that like is on a show on
Speaker 1: the regular and it's producing and bringing up concepts and
Speaker 1: writing music for other people and hosting awards shows, and
Speaker 1: and I know that I can do this, and I
Speaker 1: feel like I can explode inside when I explain this
Speaker 1: as people because I know that I can and I
Speaker 1: know I can do it on a level that's like unseen.
Speaker 1: So you know, I'm not that immediate blueprint that agent
Speaker 1: or manager somebody would say, I don't see it. That's
Speaker 1: because it ain't been done before, bitch. That's why you
Speaker 1: ain't seen. So in five years, that's where I want
Speaker 1: to be, or at least starting to be on the
Speaker 1: way to that married mind and my ugly business. And
Speaker 1: then I'm probably having our first set of kids because
Speaker 1: Colin are having twin boys and a girl. Um, do
Speaker 1: you know who you're going to? Um, it's a long process,
Speaker 1: but it's going to be like our DNA is gonna
Speaker 1: be our kids. And we're having twin boys and I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna tell you their names, but we're having a girl.
Speaker 1: And basically one thing that me and Kyle say to
Speaker 1: each other is I everything love you, UM and UM
Speaker 1: we're gonna take the acronym of it. And her middle
Speaker 1: name is gonna be AILI. How cute. Well, okay, so
Speaker 1: are you gonna do like yours? Ferm for one kid?
Speaker 1: And then his firm for another kid or not. But no,
Speaker 1: like you can you can really miss the ship. You
Speaker 1: can have your own. Yeah, and they just remove the
Speaker 1: egg out if I'm if I'm remembering my research correctly,
Speaker 1: because there's some gay couples that have their own actual
Speaker 1: children and um yeah, man. So I just want to
Speaker 1: be I'm not trying to. I hate to say this,
Speaker 1: but I'm not trying to be a role model for
Speaker 1: other games. I'm not trying to, you know, be the
Speaker 1: first game president. I'm literally just trying to be the
Speaker 1: best in my life. And if it happens inspired somebody, cool,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm you know, I'm not trying to be Miss
Speaker 1: America or Mr America, which I'm just trying to live
Speaker 1: in America, thrive in this bitch. And I don't got
Speaker 1: that much time, girl. I'm I'm about to be thirty
Speaker 1: three next month, Honey, I don't you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: I don't have this like I'm sixteen and I'm on
Speaker 1: my way to superstart him. Know I've seen him pregnant.
Speaker 1: You know I have to. I have to be offish
Speaker 1: one my time, so I can't you do have time?
Speaker 1: Two trains made when he was periods, keep rapping and
Speaker 1: and to a concert that is old and he still
Speaker 1: started out without getting it right around whatever. And you
Speaker 1: know what stands on honestly, like the blessing is you
Speaker 1: know you, like you said, you feel like you achieved
Speaker 1: everything you wanted to achieve in your one career, which
Speaker 1: was athletics, like mainly cheerleading, and now you're onto the
Speaker 1: next part of your career. You're thriving, you're doing great,
Speaker 1: You're you know, you've brought such a personality and a
Speaker 1: different twist to wild and now. So I think everything
Speaker 1: you're aiming for is a hundred percent attainable. And I
Speaker 1: know you work hard and you're only concentrated on your
Speaker 1: career and your man, so blinds on you keep focusing
Speaker 1: on Yeah, peney, okay real quick because before we go,
Speaker 1: before we go, we do want to quote from you,
Speaker 1: so think about that. But what is a deal breaker
Speaker 1: in your relationship? Have y'all talked about that? Because I'm
Speaker 1: really big on non negotiable It's like I feel like
Speaker 1: people like, if you do this, I'm leaving, and then
Speaker 1: somebody does it and then they stay. So I'm like, well,
Speaker 1: that's not a non negotiable if you can negotiate about it.
Speaker 1: What it's like, y'all's non negotiables, Like, we are not
Speaker 1: dealing with this. If this happens, I don't care. If
Speaker 1: we're married, I don't care if we have two kids,
Speaker 1: I am leaving you. I'm not dealing with that. Um. Nonegotiable.
Speaker 1: To be honest, is if he buys me wings and
Speaker 1: their drums and not flats period. I'm not playing with
Speaker 1: your ask me, I'm not. It's like, and I know
Speaker 1: it's people out there that's gonna hear this flats all
Speaker 1: day now if you can hear them, you know me,
Speaker 1: stop playing. No, Um, I feel like just one of
Speaker 1: the things is sorry now just texting me. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: beat it. Ask my golf this phone. But no, I
Speaker 1: really honestly feel like truly blatant this respect and any
Speaker 1: major form. And I know we all know we talked
Speaker 1: about like it's just one of the things like if
Speaker 1: you out here hoing, you know, and especially when you
Speaker 1: are married, like if you're hoing out there and you
Speaker 1: do what you're not supposed to do, and then you're
Speaker 1: not really looking out for the longevity of the relationship
Speaker 1: and ultimately the legacy of the family were starting, like
Speaker 1: you know, it's not so we have and it's I.
Speaker 1: That's obvious stuff. And I think, honestly, if I lose
Speaker 1: if I or Kyle lose our passion for what we
Speaker 1: do and we get stuck in life, that's a deal breaker.
Speaker 1: But that's not me leaving. I think honestly, like, if
Speaker 1: we lose passion or respect for one another, we're gonna
Speaker 1: have to say, hey, hey, focus and let's go back
Speaker 1: to what we was doing and make sure that we
Speaker 1: keep that. And also, I don't a deal breaker for
Speaker 1: me is if we lose our natural attraction and like
Speaker 1: funness together, if that makes sense, like we we travel
Speaker 1: the world together and do all these incredible things and
Speaker 1: I want to do with our kids and and and
Speaker 1: I don't think that I could ever stop loving him
Speaker 1: or some would be a true deal breaker that I
Speaker 1: didn't even at least try to mend first, because I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna just give up and say, oh, well, I'm
Speaker 1: walking out. I'm not. I'm not an idiot on both ends.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let him repeatedly do something, um and
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna just say fuck it at the drop
Speaker 1: of a let the dime when I'm like, oh, ship,
Speaker 1: so I don't feel right, you know. So it's it's
Speaker 1: one of those things you gauge as you go because
Speaker 1: everyone's situations are different. But you know, as of right now,
Speaker 1: it's motherucking rainbows and sunshine. I'm the happiest motherfucker in
Speaker 1: the park right now. So together, it will be um
Speaker 1: a year and a half. Um, you don't have to
Speaker 1: come up soon. Yeah, I was just gonna say that
Speaker 1: you never been in a fight. Give it about another year,
Speaker 1: you know. And that's the thing A lot of people
Speaker 1: would look at me like, yo, that's puppy love, and
Speaker 1: which it is, you know, technically, but when you known
Speaker 1: each other eight years and you've got a real foundation,
Speaker 1: that's a that's a different year and a half, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. That's why we don't argue and struggle,
Speaker 1: and it's like, yo, we we just know how to
Speaker 1: be amongst each other. And we were coexisting before we
Speaker 1: started coexisting, so we got a little leg up. So well,
Speaker 1: it don't seem like you guys are gonna lose the
Speaker 1: passion anytime soon, because I see all them Instagram posts
Speaker 1: of you guys booed up and doing it big. So
Speaker 1: you know, I definitely wish you guys the best on that.
Speaker 1: But you know, outside of UM, you and Kyl and
Speaker 1: you guys traveling the world, what you guys that you're
Speaker 1: working on right right new that the people can look
Speaker 1: out for. I have a movie coming up in Marshall
Speaker 1: I'll be filming. It's a quick little cameo, little shawam
Speaker 1: pop I have and it's called Things like This, which
Speaker 1: is very great. Thank you, Max Talisman and much appreciated. Um.
Speaker 1: We have our next season coming up, can't wait to
Speaker 1: see you. And then I will also be trying to
Speaker 1: make a point this year to go to all my
Speaker 1: friends comedy shows and support and be a real one
Speaker 1: because I think them doing what they gotta do on
Speaker 1: their own, it's beautiful. And then I am um. I
Speaker 1: actually have a project right now. Hopefully UM it all
Speaker 1: comes to fruition. But I just designed Georgia's Orange Bowl
Speaker 1: and their national championship rings, so I'm crossing my fingers
Speaker 1: that they take it and accept it because they are dope.
Speaker 1: And um yeah, I got some treatments for some movies
Speaker 1: that i'll be um trying to pitch soon and I'm
Speaker 1: very excited at it. Yes, let's go. And your rings
Speaker 1: are so dope, they are so nice. I supported I
Speaker 1: got the silver one, you know, with the big sexy.
Speaker 1: It's so fire. I love it. Also doubles as like
Speaker 1: a little weapon if somebody tries to get crazy, because
Speaker 1: that there's some weight is a body, y'all. I'm nervous.
Speaker 1: My phone gonna die. I'm nervous. Give us a quote,
Speaker 1: Give us a quote. Be yourself, Be yourself, bitch, uh,
Speaker 1: And I really mean that, be yourself, but also better yourself.
Speaker 1: Be better than you were yesterday. Stay in your own
Speaker 1: l and go your own speed so it's no traffic.
Speaker 1: You are you are and filling the blank and just
Speaker 1: believe it. And I think people don't necessarily like really
Speaker 1: lean towards quotes like that because they're like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's cliche. But my thing is if it's the truest ship.
Speaker 1: It's like, you can never build a real empire, right,
Speaker 1: You can't build a sky scraper without a real foundation.
Speaker 1: You gotta start at the same place. Well, where can
Speaker 1: the people find you? Where can the people find um?
Speaker 1: You guys can find me at I am Santoan on
Speaker 1: all social media platforms all social media. I'm from Jersey
Speaker 1: now um all social media platforms at I M, S
Speaker 1: A and T W O N and uh or designed
Speaker 1: by Santourana if you want to check out my ring
Speaker 1: work and then you can find me on a while
Speaker 1: and now acting a damn food. All right, Well, thank
Speaker 1: you for coming through, Santoan. We love you, we appreciate you,
Speaker 1: and we can't wait to see what the future has
Speaker 1: because we know it's gonna bet we love. I truly
Speaker 1: do love you both. And I look at everything you do.
Speaker 1: Is if I'm the biggest fan, because I just I
Speaker 1: really do think the world of you girls, and I
Speaker 1: see what you do and I always just like just
Speaker 1: kick a moment and I see you and I just
Speaker 1: look at you and all because you guys are such
Speaker 1: John y'all are so incredible and so sweet. I really
Speaker 1: do mean. I look at her and I just think
Speaker 1: back years ago and I'm just like, these motherfucker's are
Speaker 1: giant and they're incredible, and they're right in front of
Speaker 1: me and now they're friends, and I'm like, this is
Speaker 1: so And you guys remain on the rise and you
Speaker 1: stay elevating. So I'm I'm very very blessed to be
Speaker 1: able to like just be in the same room with you.
Speaker 1: And I love y'all to day. Thank you, saman I
Speaker 1: love y'all your hands like, okay, already now cut it all,
Speaker 1: cut all, hey, y'all. That was Santoine. We loved having
Speaker 1: him here. But we're about to take a little breaky break.
Speaker 1: We will be right back with some more women a while.
Speaker 1: And now what's up, y'all? We are back with the
Speaker 1: women a while. And now it's your girl, Justineau here
Speaker 1: with my girl. Be some moan and we got our
Speaker 1: boot in the building. Santoine, bing bong bing bang that up.
Speaker 1: He was such a good um guest. Do y'all hear
Speaker 1: my dog walking around, y'all? Hear that? Oh that's a
Speaker 1: little y'all. Hear the little bit of pet. How's she doing?
Speaker 1: And I was so excited when you got a dog.
Speaker 1: You don't want big do? Right? How do I stop that?
Speaker 1: Because it drives me to do I have to cut
Speaker 1: his car? Well? I mean yeah, you have to either
Speaker 1: get his his nails cut or you could do it yourself,
Speaker 1: but just don't cut them too short because they have
Speaker 1: um like nerves, right, so they'll just I mean, if
Speaker 1: you bring him to petcor or whatever, the don't know
Speaker 1: how I'm saying, is it still gonna do this? How
Speaker 1: do I do I need to do or something. I
Speaker 1: don't suggest putting mittens because then he could fall, like
Speaker 1: I don't know if you have stairs or anything like that.
Speaker 1: And you know, like like I said, they do have
Speaker 1: nerves there, so you don't want to cut them too short.
Speaker 1: So you probably shouldn't do yourself bringing the petc and
Speaker 1: don't know how to do it, But you can't necessarily
Speaker 1: stop like the sound get listen to every problem and
Speaker 1: yes there is you can get a carpet and then
Speaker 1: you won't have that, Justina, I'm not getting carpet through
Speaker 1: my whole house. Stop playing? Okay, right well, Jasina is
Speaker 1: such a dog advocate you here. She said, do not
Speaker 1: cut too short they have nerves. Be careful because people
Speaker 1: just don't know. Like some people declaw their cats, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god. Decline your cat is literally
Speaker 1: like cutting your finger off like right here, like at
Speaker 1: the first really, yes, that is part of their um
Speaker 1: bone structure literally and not why do people do that?
Speaker 1: Though they don't want them to have their nails but
Speaker 1: that's like their defense mechanism. They need that, Like it's
Speaker 1: very unnatural and very painful and gives them joint problems
Speaker 1: later on. So yeah, I'm definitely an advocate for animals
Speaker 1: because I feel like just a lot of people are
Speaker 1: uneducated on it. But but you love uno ha, that's
Speaker 1: like love y'all. That's face. That's not quote face. Oh
Speaker 1: ship was that? I'm sorry, y'all. That was the charger
Speaker 1: fell out the wall. I thought it was. Oh no,
Speaker 1: but face your fears. That is the quote. Because I
Speaker 1: literally got a dog because I'm terrified up dogs. I
Speaker 1: forgot about that terrified. When I got him, I was
Speaker 1: literally scared, like he would be jumpy and I would
Speaker 1: be like, oh no, you're scaring me. But if even
Speaker 1: now sometimes if he jumps on me, I'm like, all right,
Speaker 1: you're giving me PTSD. They Yes, I got him to
Speaker 1: face my fears, and now I'm not scared of dogs anymore.
Speaker 1: When I see dogs, I look and I'm like little personalities.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I wonder how his personality is. Yes,
Speaker 1: And I always say, there's no such thing as a
Speaker 1: bad dog. There are people that raise or mistreat a dog.
Speaker 1: To if you would use a dog or mistreat them
Speaker 1: and then that dog bites someone. Well, of course, because
Speaker 1: like if you were kept caged up and taunted and
Speaker 1: not like fed and giving water and all that, you're
Speaker 1: gonna you know, So the same things that could happen
Speaker 1: to a human, um could happen to an animal if
Speaker 1: they're in a bad environment. But I'm so glad you
Speaker 1: love Uno. That's that's so cutes. Thank you San Swan
Speaker 1: for coming on this show. You guys, today was a
Speaker 1: great episode. Um, sant Joan is newer on Wilding Out,
Speaker 1: so I hope you guys gotta just a good vibe
Speaker 1: from him. Got to see his personality. He's so sweet,
Speaker 1: so nice, so open, so warming, and um, you guys
Speaker 1: should really follow him, look into him and look him up.
Speaker 1: I know he's not a veteran on wilding Out, but
Speaker 1: he is definitely came in the door kicking, made his name,
Speaker 1: made his mark. He'd be on there doing black back
Speaker 1: flips and cheering and you can sing. He's just so talented.
Speaker 1: So y'all please check him out and support his journey
Speaker 1: and go stop him and his boyfriend on Instagram. Yes,
Speaker 1: he he really is and he's so supportive, He shows
Speaker 1: so much love and like he said, he has definitely
Speaker 1: left his mark. So definitely um check out Sandy sin Yes,
Speaker 1: thank you all for rocking with us on the podcast.
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