1 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio Good Morning. 2 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's 3 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: tip is that little gestures add up to make a 4 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:27,479 Speaker 1: big impact, so don't hesitate to make small efforts that, 5 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: over time, will contribute to a better environment. Today's tip, 6 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: like a couple of others over the next few weeks, 7 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: comes from Danny Meyer's book Setting the Table, The Transforming 8 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: Power of Hospitality in Business. Setting the Table offers insights 9 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 1: Meyer has learned in the restaurant business that are relevant 10 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: for people in other contexts too. Danny Meyer describes how 11 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: he encourages man at his restaurants to take ten minutes 12 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:06,680 Speaker 1: a day to make three gestures that, in his words, 13 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: exceed expectations and take a special interest in our guests. 14 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: He points out that in a year that adds up 15 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: to more than a thousand gestures, which can make a 16 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: big impact. The gestures that restaurant managers offer might be 17 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 1: small gifts or thoughtful words that create connection for the 18 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: rest of us. Even if hospitality isn't our official job, 19 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: making three gestures of thoughtfulness per day is still possible, 20 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: and those few gestures may be enough to have an 21 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: effect on the culture in our homes and workplaces, and 22 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: also on our moods. There are lots of things you 23 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 1: could do in just a few minutes. For instance, you 24 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: could write a sweet note for a child or your partner. 25 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: You could send an email to a colleague expressing appreciation 26 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 1: for something that the person did. If you like baking 27 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: and you know your neighbor eats sweets, you can make 28 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: an extra plate of something special and bring it over. 29 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: When you're driving. You could let someone with the out 30 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 1: of state tags merge in front of you at a 31 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: tricky intersection, not because it is their turn, but because 32 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 1: it is kind. You can send a postcard to a godchild, niece, nephew, 33 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: or any other young person in your life. You don't 34 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: have to be traveling to send a postcard. A postcard 35 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: you mail from your own mailbox or post office can 36 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: be just as delightful. In a similar vein send a 37 00:02:55,720 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: care package to a college student that you know. Even 38 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: casual conversation can be a gift. If you see a 39 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: neighbor walking his dog when you're driving home from work, 40 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: you could pull over and have a quick chat. You 41 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: should leave good tips, of course, but you could also 42 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 1: write a note on the credit card receipt, letting your 43 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: waiter know how pleasant your lunch was. If you shop 44 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: somewhere and an employee was gracious, write to headquarters and 45 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 1: let them know. It only takes a minute or two, 46 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: and someone will eventually wade through even those generic email 47 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: address and boxes. The message will likely be forward or around. 48 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: Then people will appreciate it. The little gestures we make 49 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: can make other people's days, and it really doesn't have 50 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: to be much. A little bit adds up, and one 51 00:03:56,320 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: thousand gestures a year can make your life brighter. Two. 52 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and 53 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 1: here's to making the most of our text. Hey everybody, 54 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,359 Speaker 1: I'd love to hear from you. 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