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Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.

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Speaker 3: for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Nephew's subject he stole my heart and a few other things.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. A while back, I met a man

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Speaker 1: on a dating app and it was supposed to be

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Speaker 1: just a one night's stand. He came over and we

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Speaker 1: had the most explosive sex.

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Speaker 2: After that, we talked all night.

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Speaker 1: He lives out of town, and when he got back home,

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Speaker 1: we talked daily and spent hours getting to know each other.

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Speaker 1: He came back to visit me because he was dying

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Speaker 1: to have sex with me. We admitted that we were

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Speaker 1: catching feelings. After he left, I noticed that he changed.

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Speaker 1: If I missed his call, he called me back to

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Speaker 1: beck until I answered. It was so sweet, but I

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Speaker 1: kept reassuring him that I wasn't cheating. He came to

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Speaker 1: visit again, and this time he brought some of his

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Speaker 1: clothes and a few personal things to leave at my house.

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Speaker 1: This made me so happy because it meant we were

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Speaker 1: an official couple. Whenever we got into arguments, he'd jokingly say,

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Speaker 1: don't make me pop up to see what you're doing.

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Speaker 2: I never thought he would do it, but he did.

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Speaker 1: One Saturday, I volunteered to feed the homeless, and I

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Speaker 1: couldn't use my phone while I was serving due to

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Speaker 1: the COVID nineteen guidelines. At the place, I went for

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Speaker 1: four hours without answering my man's.

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Speaker 2: Calls and he lost it.

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Speaker 1: When I got home, he had kicked my door in

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Speaker 1: and he left me a note. I discovered that he

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Speaker 1: took all of his clothes, and he also took my

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Speaker 1: forty two inch TV, two lamps, some of my shoes,

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Speaker 1: some frozen steaks, and the microwave. It was so random,

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Speaker 1: since he has never bought me anything. I called to

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Speaker 1: beg him to come back, but he said it's over

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Speaker 1: and he never wants to see me again. How can

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Speaker 1: I get this man to see that I would never

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Speaker 1: cheat on him? How can I fix this?

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Speaker 3: Hmm?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna read your words back to you and

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Speaker 1: see if this sparks anything in your brain. You say,

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Speaker 1: when I got home, he had kicked my door in.

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Speaker 1: He'd left me a note.

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Speaker 2: I discovered.

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Speaker 1: He took all of my clothes, and he also took

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Speaker 1: my forty two inch TV to lamb, some of my shoes,

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Speaker 1: some frozen steaks, and the microwave. Okay, does that sound

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Speaker 1: crazy to you? I mean, doesn't that sound a little crazy?

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Speaker 1: It does to me. I'm sure it does to Steve

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Speaker 1: and to everyone else listening. So why why would you

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Speaker 1: want this ignorant man back in your life? I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 1: it sounds scary. I mean, who does this? He sounds

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Speaker 1: like some kind of psychopath to me, I just say,

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Speaker 1: consider yourself blessed that that's all.

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Speaker 2: He took the TV.

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Speaker 1: And a microwave and some shoes, And I really don't

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Speaker 1: get the stakes part anyway. He sounds violent, he sounds controlling,

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Speaker 1: he sounds possessive. To me, I'm so glad. I'm really

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Speaker 1: glad you weren't in the house because I think he

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Speaker 1: would have put his hands on you. I really do,

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Speaker 1: And it's really a shame. I think that I have

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Speaker 1: to tell you this. It really pains me, honestly, because

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Speaker 1: you gotta know, you need to know this, that you

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be so desperate that you would think that you

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Speaker 1: would have to beg this man to come back to

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Speaker 1: you to do what I mean, Let him go, please, girl,

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Speaker 1: you gotta let him go, and don't ever invite him

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Speaker 2: I mean, he tried to destroy your house. He kicked

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Speaker 2: the door in. Come on, he's a thief. Remember that.

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Speaker 2: Please don't forget that. Let's be clear. This man sounds

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Speaker 2: very unstable.

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Speaker 1: I think you need to run and run quickly and

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Speaker 1: get away from him.

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Speaker 3: Steve Well, good letter, Shirley. I see a little something

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Speaker 3: else in here that I probably need to go over

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Speaker 3: and cover. Yes, oh met this man on his day. Now,

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Speaker 3: this way this went wrong. It was supposed to be

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Speaker 3: a one night stand, just a hit it, quit it,

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Speaker 3: sock it, knock it, throw it, catch it. He came

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Speaker 3: over and we had, in your words, the most explosive sex. Now,

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Speaker 3: let me show you what happens after you have explosive sex.

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Speaker 3: Y'all talk daily, spent hours getting to know each other.

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Speaker 3: Came back to visit because he was dying to have

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Speaker 3: sex with me again. You know why, because it was explosive.

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Speaker 3: We admitted we was catching feelings. He left and I

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Speaker 3: noticed he changed if I missed his cause he would

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Speaker 3: call me back to back to back. You know why,

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Speaker 3: because y'all had explosive sex. Explosive sex will make you

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Speaker 3: call back to back to back to back. Damn it,

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Speaker 3: answer me. If you'd have just had regular sex, none

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Speaker 3: of this would be having me to you. Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: thought it was so sweet, didn't you. I kept ensuring

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Speaker 3: him I wasn't cheating. He came to visit again, and

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Speaker 3: this time he bought some clothes with him and a

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Speaker 3: few personal things leaving my house. You know why, cause

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Speaker 3: y'all was down there having exploding six, just blowing spool,

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Speaker 3: just blown up store, snatching pins out of the knees,

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Speaker 3: dropping it on the side of the bed. This made

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Speaker 3: me happy. It made you think you was an official couple.

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Speaker 3: Whenever we got in the arguments, he jokingly say, don't

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Speaker 3: make me pop up, see what you're doing. You know why, man,

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Speaker 3: just pop.

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Speaker 4: Up, because y'all had explosive six. Explosive This your whole.

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Speaker 3: Damn problem, that all right? Hold on, Jean, explosive six.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, Steve, we'll have part two of your response

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Speaker 1: coming up twenty three minutes after the hour of today's subject,

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Speaker 1: he stole my heart and a few other things.

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Speaker 2: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject,

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Speaker 1: he stole.

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Speaker 2: My hearts and a few other things.

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Speaker 3: Met a man on the day map, hooked up with him.

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Speaker 3: Supposed to be a one night stand, ended up having

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Speaker 3: the most explosive sex ever. He called every day because

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Speaker 3: you was having explosive sex. He came back because he

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Speaker 3: missed you so much, because y'all was having explosive sex.

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Speaker 3: He admitted that he wanted you. Y'all had sex. I

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Speaker 3: missed his call. He called back to back to back

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Speaker 3: because y'all was having explosive sex. You thought it was sweet.

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Speaker 3: And then he came to visit. He bought some clothes

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Speaker 3: and left some personal things at the house so he

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Speaker 3: can just have a shirt over there, because you know,

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Speaker 3: after you have explosive sex, you need to have a

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Speaker 3: change of clothes. You have explosive sex and put them

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Speaker 3: same draws on you explosive sex. You gotta change your side.

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Speaker 3: See explosive sex is different. Okay, your belt probably don't

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Speaker 3: fasten no more. You need a set of clothes, shoestrings,

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Speaker 3: and came all out your shoes. Because y'all have an

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Speaker 3: explosive sex. You open the doors. He diving crossed the porch.

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Speaker 3: Then when y'all have arguments, he say, don't make me

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Speaker 3: pop up and see what you're doing. I never thought

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Speaker 3: he'd do it, but he did. You down there trying

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Speaker 3: to feed the homeless, you volunteer to feed him, and

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Speaker 3: you can't use your phone while you're serving because you're

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Speaker 3: dipping food due to the COVID guidelines. You went four

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Speaker 3: hours without answering your man's call, and Doug Gunner he

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Speaker 3: lost it. You know why he lost it.

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Speaker 4: Because he was looking. But that explosive sex, and it was.

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Speaker 3: Not on the phone every time. When I got home,

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Speaker 3: he didne kicked your dough in and left you a note.

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Speaker 3: But you discovered he took all his clothes, took your

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Speaker 3: forty two inch TV two lamps, some of your shoes,

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Speaker 3: some frozen stakes, and the microwave. Now, after he did

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Speaker 3: all that, this is what you said. It was so

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Speaker 3: random since he never bought me anything. He didn't buy

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Speaker 3: me no shoes, a no microwave, and he hadn't nothing,

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Speaker 3: just taking TV down off the wall. I don't understand

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Speaker 3: he didn't buy none of that stuff. That was your

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Speaker 3: statement after that. Then right after that, you said I

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Speaker 3: called to beg him back. Let's park this letter for

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Speaker 3: a minute.

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Speaker 2: What is wrong with you?

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Speaker 3: See? Maybe this explosive sex wasn't just having him do

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Speaker 3: ignorant mess. It's got you doing ignorant mess too. So

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Speaker 3: a man kick your dough in, leave you a note,

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Speaker 3: took his clothes, your forty two inch TV, two lamps,

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Speaker 3: some of your shoes, some frozen stakes, and the microwave,

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Speaker 3: and you begged him to come back. What did he miss? Someone?

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Speaker 3: Maybe you got to come back. I can't believe you

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Speaker 3: left all this chicken in this freezer. How can I

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Speaker 3: get this man to see that I would never cheat

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Speaker 3: on him? Wait a minute, surely had this right? What

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Speaker 3: are you talking about? Why are you concerned with getting

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Speaker 3: him back and trying to prove to this man that

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Speaker 3: you didn't cheat. He kicked your dough in?

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Speaker 2: Yes, come on, crazy.

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Speaker 3: He took a flash screen. You know how hard he is.

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Speaker 3: Take a forty two inch TV off a wall, put

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Speaker 3: it in your car with your shoes. A damn microwave.

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Speaker 3: How did he get that microwave out that wall?

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Speaker 2: Can I ask you something?

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Speaker 3: Huh?

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Speaker 2: Why did he take frozen steaks?

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Speaker 3: What does that soda? Cause he had to drive home?

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Speaker 3: They keep better?

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Speaker 1: Oh, oh okay, See you don't take nothing out refrigerator

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Speaker 1: cause he'd be small as hot.

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Speaker 3: Oh he put him in the trunk back then that engine,

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Speaker 3: that engine kicking off heat off that muffler. Oh okay,

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Speaker 3: and it'll be small by the time he get home.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I didn't get it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, And then you know he probably stay out of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he does.

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Speaker 3: He spent and they talked daily, and he came back

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Speaker 3: to visit. See, he came back to visit me from

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Speaker 3: out of town. He didn't come over. He came back

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Speaker 3: to visit. He stay out of town. So you steal

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Speaker 3: frozen steaks because they keep on the highway back.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm not. I'm just I'm just trying

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Speaker 2: to help you. Yeah, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: So you got to think this thing out. You know,

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Speaker 3: when you finish go back home. You gotta drive a while.

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Speaker 3: You don't take nothing out. Defrigerate him, that's fashion. You

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Speaker 3: get it frozen so it can last. I don't know

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Speaker 3: why I would not want to see him again, all

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Speaker 3: having all this exploding sex, and he's stilling stuff and

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Speaker 3: he didn't explode. It's so good. I don't even know

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Speaker 3: he's still in stuff to kick the whole damn though.

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Speaker 3: And you ain't got a lock no more. You in

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Speaker 3: there trying to go to bed tonight. You didn't lean

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Speaker 3: some card, but it up, get your dough.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy?

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Speaker 3: How can I fix this? What did you do wrong?

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Speaker 3: Because I'm looking in the letter, I'm trying to figure

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Speaker 3: out what you did wrong? Lady, lady? What's wrong with you?

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Speaker 3: Don't you? You are what's called frum. Don't get on

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Speaker 3: this explosive set and get yourself hurt. Something wrong with him?

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Speaker 3: You don't answer the phone. He kicked a door in

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Speaker 3: and starts stealing, and she just met him. But the

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Speaker 3: whole damn dough. When you kick a dough in dog,

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Speaker 3: you know how hard he is kick a door in.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 3: Everybody can't do it?

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Speaker 2: All right? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Steve post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey f M, on Instagram and Facebook, and please don't

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Speaker 1: forget to check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.

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Speaker 1: Coming up more of The Steve Harvey Morning Show right

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Speaker 1: after this.

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Speaker 2: You're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.