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Speaker 1: Second date up dated.

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Speaker 2: When you have a first date with somebody you're extremely

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Speaker 2: attracted to and you're going out to a restaurant where

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Speaker 2: you know you only got one shot at this, how

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Speaker 2: important is it to get a good waiter?

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Speaker 3: I never actually even thought of that, you know, to

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Speaker 3: be honest, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Because it could make or break the entire date.

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Speaker 3: But it's not like you have a choice, like you're

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Speaker 3: just given the person who's in your session.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Like, imagine the waiter walks by, spills the soup. Oh,

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Speaker 2: he offers to lick it off, then I pay him.

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Speaker 1: It's like, oh, well, date over?

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Speaker 4: Wow, because you got a new date?

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 5: Why?

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Speaker 1: A whole new thing?

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Speaker 4: How did I know that about you?

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Speaker 2: But that's what happened with one of our listeners recently.

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Speaker 2: The waiter was involved big time on a date apparently.

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Speaker 2: So let's talk to Lucas about it.

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Speaker 1: Lucas, how you doing, man?

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Speaker 5: How's it going?

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Speaker 4: You got soup licked?

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Speaker 2: I'm hoping that she did tell us about this person

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Speaker 2: that you met the other night. Who is he or she?

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Speaker 5: Okay? So this girl Henley Okay, was I'm the waiter obviously,

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Speaker 5: and I'm the waiter.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't know that.

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Speaker 4: Wait, did you meet her while you were at work?

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Speaker 5: I did? She was in there with a guy in

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Speaker 5: my restaurant.

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Speaker 2: Oh, bold, sir, Oh you hit on a girl in

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Speaker 2: the middle of another date.

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Speaker 5: Well, yes, I don't do it.

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Speaker 6: Often often, just twice a week.

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Speaker 1: Often.

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Speaker 4: I mean, okay, here's the thing. Were you her waiter?

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Speaker 4: I guess is the first question.

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Speaker 7: I was their waiter?

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay.

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Speaker 4: How did you get the signs that that was even? Okay?

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Speaker 5: Well, I can kind of tell after a while they

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Speaker 5: didn't seem to be having that grade of a time,

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Speaker 5: Like I was thinking it was a first date and

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Speaker 5: she was checking her phone a lot, and you know,

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Speaker 5: it was. It was kind of obvious to me. I've

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Speaker 5: seen it enough times. Okay, so I have a move

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Speaker 5: that I don't very often.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've done.

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Speaker 6: This, but this is the signature.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you have a label for it, must mean

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Speaker 2: you do it often enough.

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Speaker 1: What's your move?

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Speaker 5: Well, first of all, I was like, you know, they

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Speaker 5: I would. I was very personable and we were I

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Speaker 5: was laughing with her and stuff. So we're kind of

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Speaker 5: establishing a little rapport. But when he went up to

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Speaker 5: go to the bathroom, like at the end, I went

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Speaker 5: up to her and I was like, is this a

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Speaker 5: first date? And she was kind of surprised when she

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Speaker 5: was like, yeah, actually it is. And I was like,

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Speaker 5: do you want to get out of it?

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Speaker 4: It's the end, sir.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, But like I didn't know if they were

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Speaker 5: going you know, for all I know they were going

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Speaker 5: to do something else. I was trying to get.

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Speaker 6: Movie yeah, Netflix and Hill.

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Speaker 1: So you offered a step in and save her. How

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Speaker 1: do you do that?

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Speaker 5: So I was like, give me your number and I'm

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Speaker 5: going to call you in like two minutes from the

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Speaker 5: back and just trust me. So she did okay, and you.

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Speaker 6: Got her numbers.

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Speaker 4: So she did want out of it.

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Speaker 5: She did, she did. I would write about that.

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Speaker 6: Now what happened?

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Speaker 5: So I called. They were sitting there and like kind

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Speaker 5: of getting ready to pay the bill, and I called

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Speaker 5: out like, this is so and so from your aunt's

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Speaker 5: assisted living facility. There's an emergency with her. We need

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Speaker 5: you to come down here right away.

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Speaker 6: Just volumes up and the guy can hear right.

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Speaker 5: I made sure to tell her to put it on speaker.

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Speaker 4: Oh so he could here.

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Speaker 6: Sorry, I gotta take this. Hi, you're on speaker.

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Speaker 1: Wait, it's an emergency with my aunt the whole restaurant. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: say that again.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god? Did he did he believe it?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? It was like she was out of there like

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Speaker 5: like a minute later. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But it's not I mean, like, at no point are

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Speaker 3: you ever hitting on her during this?

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Speaker 5: The thing is like I just kind of knew there

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Speaker 5: like as her waiter were laughing like okay, the guy

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Speaker 5: like in the bathroom and I'm like getting her number. Like,

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Speaker 5: it was definitely a vibe there.

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Speaker 2: Every time you went over to the table, one of

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Speaker 2: her buttons just happened to be undone his buttons.

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Speaker 1: Ye.

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Speaker 3: I imagined him modeling to the table with his pants.

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Speaker 4: Sorry.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you got her out of that other date

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Speaker 2: with the other guy.

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Speaker 1: What's happened since then?

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Speaker 5: Well, that's the thing. So we texted a little bit

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Speaker 5: later that night. She was like thank you so much,

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Speaker 5: and I was like, no problem. We kind of left

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Speaker 5: it like we were going to talk again, and I,

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Speaker 5: I don't know, it kind of cooled down like after

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Speaker 5: want to get in touch with her like and let

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Speaker 5: her know that I'm interested, which is what I was

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Speaker 5: calling you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I mean, it's a nice thing that you

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Speaker 2: did to save this girl Henley from her bad date,

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Speaker 2: but personally, I don't know if I'm ever going to

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Speaker 2: trust a waiter ever again when.

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Speaker 1: I'm out of the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I just thought they were being nice to

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Speaker 2: me for tips, but really clearly they want more.

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Speaker 5: Well you never know.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, that's a higher tip I think from.

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Speaker 6: Tell us your restaurant so we can make resis.

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Speaker 1: I don't even want it to work out with this, Well,

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Speaker 1: at least give it a try. We're gonna come back,

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Speaker 1: holler and try and get you your second.

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Speaker 2: Date update right after this awesome All right, man, hold

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Speaker 2: on second date update. When you're at a restaurant, some

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Speaker 2: waiters are kind of checked out.

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Speaker 1: Never even come by to refill your water glass.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like a complaint right now.

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Speaker 2: It's some are more attentive, and then some have a

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Speaker 2: signature move to steal your date.

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Speaker 1: Away from you.

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Speaker 4: They said very often. Yeah, they didn't say never that's.

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Speaker 1: What Lucas says. He quote doesn't do this often. Do

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Speaker 1: you hear that? World, I don't do.

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Speaker 2: My signature move very often, but it is my signature

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Speaker 2: the old sick aunt in the rest home trick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And that's what he did.

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Speaker 2: He noticed a cute girl out on a bad date

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Speaker 2: at his restaurant, So when the guy got up to

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Speaker 2: go to the restroom, he swooped in and told her

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Speaker 2: the plan that was he was going to call her

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Speaker 2: Oh so it worked, and according to him, she was thankful.

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Speaker 2: But now this girl Henley is not answering his text

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Speaker 2: ask for a date.

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Speaker 4: Do you think Derek is Derek?

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Speaker 2: Right, it's Lucas, But that's okay, not.

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Speaker 1: Remember one, Lucas.

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Speaker 3: I mean, do you think it was like a maybe

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Speaker 3: by comparison thing, like she was flirting with you because

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Speaker 3: by comparison to her crappy date, you were awesome.

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Speaker 2: But g.

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Speaker 4: D, it's just reality, right, Like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean maybe if she gets on the phone

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Speaker 3: with us, by comparison, you're gonna look like an angel.

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Speaker 2: Again, what do you think Lucas, were you one step

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Speaker 2: above a crap sandwich?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Man, I hope not. I thought we had a real

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Speaker 6: Well, you know when you can feel a connection with so.

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Speaker 4: I mean that was rude to me. That was rude, Lucase,

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Speaker 4: and I apologize.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's all legit. I mean I know when someone's

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Speaker 5: just like being friendly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: You sense the real vibe going on whenever you were

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Speaker 2: over at the table with Henley. So let's see if

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Speaker 2: we can get that going for you one more time.

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Speaker 2: About to dial her number.

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Speaker 6: Hopefully she answers here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with Henley.

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Speaker 4: That's me.

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Speaker 2: You're you're on the radio right now with a show

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Speaker 2: called Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 7: Actually, yeah, for real, real's excited.

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Speaker 2: Well, hopefully you're this excited when I tell you why

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Speaker 2: we're calling, because yeah, that's what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It kind of us to do with that.

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Speaker 2: We're we're doing a second date update. That's where we

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Speaker 2: try and help one of our listeners that has been

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Speaker 2: on a date with somebody. But this is a little

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Speaker 2: different because you didn't necessarily go on a date with

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Speaker 1: He was your waiter the date, so there's no.

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Speaker 4: Strict rules to our segment, Henley.

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Speaker 2: So do you know who I'm talking about? You were

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Speaker 1: His name was Lucas.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, wait, oh God to the bad date you

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Speaker 4: were on? Or oh God to Lucas.

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Speaker 7: Is Lucas the waiter?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean yes, it's okay.

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Speaker 2: She couldn't remember his actual name, so remember, but it's

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Speaker 2: kind of interesting that you don't remember his name either,

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Speaker 2: because he should just changed.

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Speaker 7: Why this act?

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Speaker 2: Well, he said that you guys basically exchanged phone numbers,

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Speaker 2: So I thought you would save his name in the phone.

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Speaker 1: I guess he'd just be waiter, hero waiter.

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Speaker 7: I didn't save his number.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you didn't have any intention of calling him back?

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Speaker 4: Is that why?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: No, I was on the date, but from what we heard,

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Speaker 2: that date wasn't going very well, and that's why Lucas

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Speaker 2: felt like he had to Well Lucas did.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you said that he wanted out of the date.

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Speaker 1: That's why I agreed to like do the emergency call

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Speaker 1: with the ant right.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Okay, so he told you all that.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah, he felt like he really rescued you

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Speaker 3: from a bad date by pretending to call from the

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Speaker 7: Okay, I don't know how to say this, but the

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Speaker 7: whole point of that was so we could get away

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, why wouldn't to get away from the waiter

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Speaker 7: No, we just we needed to get out. I guess

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Speaker 1: Why why did you want to get away from him?

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Speaker 7: Because he was annoying?

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Speaker 6: He was annoying.

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Speaker 4: What's the whole thing a lie? Were you on a

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Did you like the guy you were out with?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okays, like I knew she liked me, so Lucas thought

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Speaker 4: You did not. It's not a lie. You didn't like him.

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Speaker 7: You hitting on me the whole night. No, it wasn't

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Speaker 6: They were like, oh, sympathizing.

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Speaker 4: They were still in the cringe.

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Speaker 2: You don't think it's possible that it was just really

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Speaker 7: It kind of passed that after the first five seconds.

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Speaker 4: Why what did I say to make you think he

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Speaker 7: He was like just he came towards table way more

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Speaker 5: At all.

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Speaker 7: Ye.

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Speaker 6: Rude, Yeah, it.

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Speaker 7: Is rude, exactly.

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Speaker 4: This is awkward.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean, but you got to admit you

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Speaker 2: going right, No, that's the whole point.

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Speaker 4: When did you hear that in her story?

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Speaker 2: The whole point when she gave him a number or

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Speaker 3: I think that's pretty common with men, they think that

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Speaker 1: Please stop hitting on me right now. I know you're

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Speaker 2: Let's just get Lucas on the phone, because he's actually

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Speaker 1: Other line listening right now. One actually actually, oh.

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Speaker 7: My god, than so much. Thanks for that.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's worse for him than you, and now I

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Speaker 4: I feel bad.

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Speaker 1: But Lucas, are you there?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Did you hear that?

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Speaker 5: I did? I just I mean, it was pretty obvious

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Speaker 1: Okay, no, why did you feel like you were saving her?

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Speaker 5: I mean that was like a bad first date if

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Speaker 3: So from his angle, doubling down is what we're going

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Speaker 6: Now, Lucas, you said you didn't look good. Were you

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Speaker 2: Henley?

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Speaker 4: Well, it's hard when the waiter servey too.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, seriously, it was just I was so uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: Well, as a waiter, I'm sure Lucas has seen like

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Speaker 2: he said. Out of all of them, yours stuck out

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Speaker 7: That's convenient.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and don't to be embarrassed because you're on the

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, No, it's okay, that's not what all

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Speaker 7: was happening. That is not what happened.

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Speaker 1: I will prove it, Henley.

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Speaker 2: If it was such a good date with this other guy,

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Speaker 2: name five things that you liked about him off the

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Speaker 1: Go ahead.

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Speaker 4: Five. I can't even name five things about anybody in

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Speaker 1: Told you, I'm not that good of a date.

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Speaker 7: He was cute, he was smart, he paid, he was polite,

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Speaker 7: and he's not Lucas.

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Speaker 3: Lucas counses too because she only got the four.

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Speaker 4: Well, look at that.

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Speaker 2: She remembered his name and no one in this room

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Speaker 1: We're building the rapport right now, We're still trying. This

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Speaker 2: I'm feeling the vibe happening over the phone lines right now.

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Speaker 2: I would love, seriously, I would love to send you

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Speaker 2: guys out on a second date that we would pay for.

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Speaker 1: Sorry first date.

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Speaker 6: Yea with a different waiter.

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Speaker 1: You're dating Lucas this time.

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Speaker 5: I thought we had such a strong connection. I definitely

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Speaker 7: We went out.

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Speaker 1: What would your sick aunt want you to do at

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Speaker 1: the think about what she wants.

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Speaker 3: At this point, we should just offer to send Henley

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Speaker 7: Yes, yes, I would love that.

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't like it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well we know that's clear.

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Speaker 6: You've made that very clear. Lucas.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So Henley, it's seeming like it's going to be

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Speaker 2: a no there for Lucas.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think it's good to be specific here.

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Speaker 5: Yes, whatever, dude, I hope your real Anne doesn't get sick.

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Speaker 6: That was passive, A.

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Speaker 1: Sweet thing to say. He doesn't want her to get sick.

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Speaker 1: That's really kind. Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I know we didn't really have time to discuss this,

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Speaker 2: but jose you were a waiter for a hot minute.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, did you ever swoop in on a customer

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Speaker 6: No, not on a date. I've had girls that would

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Speaker 4: Well, I know you're still single.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it should have you know, that's right.

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Speaker 2: You just hooked up with the subway employees in the

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Speaker 1: Like a gentleman.

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Speaker 6: A different thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean I feel like that call was unfortunately

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Speaker 3: I can't believe do you ever feel bad like I

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Speaker 3: know you're trying to do right?

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Speaker 4: By our listener who calls in for help, but at

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Speaker 4: some point you got to give up.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel anything, Brook, but you know what I

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Speaker 1: will feel.

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Speaker 2: I'll feel for the listeners that email us in the

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Speaker 2: next week or so.

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Speaker 1: I feel for you and.

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Speaker 2: We will try our hardest to get you a second date.

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Speaker 2: Update email us. We'll call that person who's not calling

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Speaker 2: you back and go check out all of our second dates.

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Speaker 2: We have them up on our podcast on Spotify, Apple podcasts,

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Speaker 2: wherever you get yours, apt Brook and

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning