1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:00,840 Speaker 1: All right, Steve. 2 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 2: This one is from Selena and Tyler. Selena says, my 3 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 2: oldest son is ten, and his dad and I got 4 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 2: divorced after he was born. We do a great job 5 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 2: at co parenting. I have a four year old boy 6 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 2: by the last guy that I was engaged to. He 7 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 2: died when my son was only a year old. My 8 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 2: ex husband allows my four year old to spend weekends 9 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 2: at his house so he won't feel left out. I 10 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 2: get emotional when my ex picks up both of my 11 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 2: boys because it's such a sweet thing to do. I've 12 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 2: considered asking my ex husband to adopt my four year 13 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 2: old son so he can have a daddy too. Would 14 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 2: that be too much to ask for? 15 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 3: You think, well, I mean that really depends on how 16 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 3: the man feels about your son. It's not a far 17 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 3: out request. I think you would have to go at 18 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 3: it with the mindset of would you ever consider this? 19 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 3: Just say ever and just put it in his head 20 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 3: that way first. If I'll start the conversation with you 21 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 3: know what, I really get emotional when I see you 22 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 3: pick up my son and I know he isn't yours. 23 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 3: And we've had a cool relationship since our divorce. And 24 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,839 Speaker 3: you love our son so much, and I really thank 25 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 3: you for not making his little brother feel badly. And 26 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 3: he just loves you so much. And I just want 27 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 3: you to think about this, if you would ever consider, 28 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 3: just ever consider adopting him so he could have a 29 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 3: dad too. I think that would mean the world to 30 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 3: him and to me. But there's no pressure. I just 31 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:40,279 Speaker 3: want you to think about it, because he just loves 32 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 3: being around you, and you know his brother so and 33 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 3: I would put it to him like that. 34 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: It's not a bad request. Oh, he's a hell of 35 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: a dude. 36 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 3: And what makes it easier is your fiance after y'all 37 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 3: had baby, guy, that makes it easier. 38 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: You had to say that we know that we want 39 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: to do. I just want to throw the obviously you 40 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 1: live and you can't go in there with that. 41 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 2: Too far an inch too far, but said Shirley, And 42 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 2: I know he just up like, what right? You drop 43 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 2: the mic? Yeah, profile, Yeah, we have time for another one, sir. 44 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 2: This one's from Yvette. Yvette in Oklahoma City says, how 45 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 2: soon it's too soon to get comfortable and let my 46 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 2: guard down with the guy I'm dating. We've been together 47 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 2: for almost five months and I got my hair done 48 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: more often. I put on makeup every day to impress him. 49 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 2: I even sleep in it. I'm also tired of wearing 50 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 2: thongs to bed for him. I want to go back 51 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 2: to sleeping in boxers. Okay, I don't get much sleep 52 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 2: because I'm trying to sleep cute. How much longer do 53 00:02:59,919 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 2: I have to pretend that I'm somebody that I'm not. 54 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 4: Please advise? Yes, yes she is. Take off the mask, 55 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:18,959 Speaker 4: my bonnet. 56 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, Steve. 57 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 2: How much longer, she says, does she have to pretend? 58 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 1: Just a little bit longer? 59 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 4: She locks them in. 60 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:33,399 Speaker 1: You have to hear these words. 61 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 3: I love you really changed my life. This is what 62 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 3: you need here. 63 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: Man. 64 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 3: You've made my life so much better. I can't see 65 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 3: living without you. Man, you everything. You're the one. A 66 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 3: lot of women break down too quick. It's not time. 67 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 3: He can't see you yet. 68 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 2: She can't take a wig off nothing. 69 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: You can't take your wig off, And to be on 70 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: that little white pham makeup on. 71 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 3: Wet, well, no, you gotta see her, but not now. 72 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 3: To be quiet. You stay out of this. 73 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: It's been five months. Some of y'all breaking down too 74 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: fast in the shock factor. You ain't let the love 75 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 1: sit in whatever. 76 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 3: We he love you, He'll stick around, all right, don't 77 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 3: do that. 78 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: So I hope you got that he bet. I hope 79 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: you got that evet in Oklahoma City. 80 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 3: You can start sleeping neck that you won't have that 81 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 3: throng problem. 82 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 2: You're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.