1 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: Hi am Kate Hudson, and my name is Oliver Hudson. 2 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship and 3 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 1: what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling. 4 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 1: Ravalry No, no, sibling, Raval. Don't do that with your mouth, Vely, 5 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: that's good. The halls with bells have holly falla la 6 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 1: la la la la la la die season to be 7 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: jolly fa la la la la la la la la. No, 8 00:00:52,960 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: we know, okay, you'll do them that. Welcome to the 9 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: Christmas episode. It's Christmas time in the city. There. We 10 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: could we could just do an entire podcast of Christmas carols, 11 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: which I'd be very happy to do. My voice wasn't 12 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 1: so fucked up. I think that every now and then 13 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: we should just break into some sort of Christmas We 14 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:35,479 Speaker 1: should be like the Huffs doing their hall Oh my god, 15 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: but like our version. I saw that, you're just so 16 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: crazy talented. It's insane. It's insane. I mean, they're so beautiful. 17 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: Their moves aren't just crazy but us. But imagine you 18 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: and I doing our version. I mean, you'd be amazing, 19 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: but I would be I mean, would be so fun. Well, 20 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 1: it's Christmas it's Christmas. It's I mean, honestly, I feel 21 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: great about this year because I got all my shopping 22 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: done so early. It's the first time I've ever done it. 23 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: And now the only people I'm shopping for are literally 24 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: the family. Yeah, so I don't think about any of 25 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: my friends, any of the people that I work with. 26 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: No Christmas cards, Like, I got everything out of the way, 27 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: So this has been a really fun Yeah. I don't buy. 28 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: I don't buy my friends gifts or oh really no, 29 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: not even like a card, no nothing. My friends and 30 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: I haven't exchange gifts. I don't think ever in our lives, 31 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: and you know, and I don't have really many people 32 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: who work for me, so I just sort of buy 33 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: you guys gifts now that I think about it, I 34 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 1: don't give it. My friends give me anything. I give 35 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: them things. But that's not true. I have some friends 36 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: who do, some friends don't do. We don't do gift exchange. 37 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: But I am happy I got a lot of stuff 38 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: done early. Yes, because it's always the pressure, Like two 39 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: days before Christmas, it's running around like a crazy person 40 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: trying to figure out, you know, what does Aunt Patty want. 41 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: I've already gotten her like seventeen bars of soap, you know, 42 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: over the years, and Uncle Steve has like eight hundred ties. 43 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: I just don't really want to get my family anything 44 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: anymore because I kind of every time I do, I'm like, 45 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: I just want to give them things that are more 46 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 1: sent I mean, I guess our family. I don't know 47 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,239 Speaker 1: why I said my family. It's our family. It's the 48 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: way you think. But I feel good about it. It'll 49 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: be nice. We'll get to Colorado, I won't feel stressed 50 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: out or anything. Yeah, And the sentimental gifts are my favorite. 51 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: So you gave me a necklace that was the most 52 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: beautiful sentimental necklace. And it has it's an old cameo 53 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: of a rose and on the back in Japanese it's 54 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: a Japanese saying. And of course my daughter's a quarter Japanese. 55 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: I'm with Danny, he's half Japanese, and it's his beautiful 56 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: saying that basically means to like take life on and 57 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: to enjoy the adventure, right, And honestly, I don't even 58 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: remember what. I don't sentimental, but I remember that it 59 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 1: was amazing. It was that sentimental streng It was about 60 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: taking the adventure of life like embracing the fearlessness of 61 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: you know, taking that your life on and living it 62 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 1: fully so much so that I was wearing it all 63 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 1: the time, and one time it fell off and I 64 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: was traveling that I never wear it traveling every time. 65 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: It's a double gift because it's sort of for Ronnie 66 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 1: when she's when Ronnie is older, and by the way, 67 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: Ronnie rose, so that's the Rose aspect it was. But 68 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: I feel like a really good sentimental gift is coming 69 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: from you this year. Yeah, something Necklacey, you know what 70 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 1: I mean, like the diamond masculine but jewels, you know, 71 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: but like I don't know, sapphire maybe maybe like some 72 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 1: kind of really expensive stone that it all goes wrong 73 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: you can pill on it. Yeah, I mean that's really anyway. 74 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 1: But I love it. I love the idea. Christmas is 75 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 1: so fun for me. Not about sentimental I mean, yes, 76 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: that's great, but the thoughtful ideas that go into getting 77 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 1: Christmas presents, even if they're funny, even if it's funny shit, 78 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Just I got you a 79 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: funny one, but it's it's just so yeah yeah yeah 80 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: right now, and oh yeah, but I think our family, 81 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 1: you know, and and and also we don't we did 82 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: this in Thanksgiving talk about traditions and all of that, 83 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: but we really do have a very I mean, I 84 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: think people have gotten a sense of that through the 85 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: years just from the things like Instagram or Snapchat that 86 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: we get together. We have so much fun. It's very jolly. 87 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: And we always pray for a snowy Christmas. And did 88 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: you look at the weather It says it's when you 89 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: wake up in the morning and it's just snowings. It's 90 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: the best and we love it and we love it 91 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 1: and we have a great time and it is it 92 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 1: is truly so much fun. And we start drinking glug 93 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 1: very early in the morning. Steve brings glug every wine. 94 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 1: It's like a kind of old wine. Old wine, right, 95 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 1: but it's glug. I don't know what what it might 96 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 1: be the same thing. I'm not sure. It's like it's 97 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: like a spicy wine or something. And then we you know, 98 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:48,799 Speaker 1: we we have locks and bagels usually every morning. And 99 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: in our tradition is that Santa leaves the presence unwrapped, 100 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 1: So everything that is out there is from Santa. Everything 101 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:00,919 Speaker 1: that you see that has no wrapping on it, Santa 102 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: has left Santa has been good to us. I mean 103 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: I remember Sara got you some coal. Remember that year, Yeah, 104 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: I do. I don't deserved it was actually a very 105 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: deserved year of coal. What did I do? I don't know. 106 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: You were a nightmare. It was your hormonal years. It 107 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: was your teenage, like fifteen sixteen. Yeah, I do remember 108 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 1: getting cold. Yeah that's bullshit. I don't think I've ever 109 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: gotten col No. I'm usually like kind of like pull 110 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: it out by the end of the year. Even if 111 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: there's some some questionable things that have gone down, I 112 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: usually come out on top. Yeah. I try to pull 113 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 1: that together for Santa. It's a tired morning, though, because 114 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 1: Katie and I stay up all night putting things, setting together, 115 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: petting shit together, putting all the putting all the toys together, 116 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: except for of course Santa's toys because he puts those up. Yes, 117 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: but yeah, I have to build something and I take 118 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: out the instructions. It could be the worst. It's just 119 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 1: every year you're sitting near Oliver with the screwdriver and 120 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: your little leg legs crossed and I can see your 121 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 1: back hunch and I'm like, oh, where he goes? I 122 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: try to stay away. I think Danny is a good 123 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: one to do that. He actually enjoys that. You know 124 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 1: so too. Sometimes it's just when it's midnight, I pull out, 125 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: like this ice cream cart for Rio and she's supposed 126 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:33,719 Speaker 1: to be like, you know, it's the ice cream or 127 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 1: delivering ice cream, and it's tiny screws and it's the 128 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 1: most you know, intricate sort of build and I know 129 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: that it's over, I'm done. I'm going to be there 130 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: for hours and hours and why it helps me though 131 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 1: Bing's Christmas list was seriously extensive. It was one of 132 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: the funniest Christmas lists. I mean, my whole life really 133 00:08:56,960 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 1: had some funny stuff. It was a very very extreme 134 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: you know, it's not like, you know, he wants his 135 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: whole house to become you know, a skateboard ramp. And 136 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 1: the best though, is to be famous on TikTok. That's 137 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: on his list asking Santa. He's not even allowed to 138 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: go on No. I know. That's the best part of 139 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: it's so funny. It's just so classic. And then Riders 140 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 1: is great. Riders had his sense, like you know, August 141 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: Riders had a list of very specific things. You know, 142 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: now that he's older, he understands like the things that 143 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 1: he actually wants are a little more expensive. That's the thing. 144 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: The kids get older and the trinkets become real trinkets, 145 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: and you're just the last two years I've had talked 146 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 1: with the kids and just telling him say, look, you guys, 147 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: there's not going to be all this wasteful bullshit anymore, 148 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, because it really is. There's 149 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 1: sometimes it gets successive to the point where it makes 150 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: me nauseous and I'm just like, this is ridiculous. We 151 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 1: end up giving half of their presence away actually once 152 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 1: we get them, because sometimes they're not even opened, you 153 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:10,319 Speaker 1: know what I mean, and it's like, why are we 154 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 1: doing this? And so now it's just like, you guys, 155 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 1: look you're gonna get a couple really cool things. Yeah, 156 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:19,679 Speaker 1: you're not going to open presents for nine hours. Except 157 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 1: your son sent me his Christmas list and it was 158 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: also insane. Oh my gosh, he did he put links. 159 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:30,439 Speaker 1: I was like, oh wow, this is this is amazing. 160 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: My favorite one was this way I got them. He's 161 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 1: heavily into skateboarding. He wants a Snapchat or Instagram account, 162 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 1: mostly Snapchat because he says it's more fun not going 163 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: to get it. No, No, what do you want this here? Wow? 164 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: I know it sounds crazy and it sounds stupid, you know, 165 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 1: because you're like, oh, come on, I honestly, I don't 166 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: want anything. I mean, I perfect meaning like I don't 167 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: want and I like the same things I always like. 168 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 1: I like home stuff, I like I like anything pewter. 169 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: I love my matches, you know, so my dinnerware and 170 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 1: serving where I love to entertain, that's my I love cooking. 171 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: I asked for a couple like big stock pots. I 172 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: only have one really big stock pot, so I'd love 173 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: another stock pot to make stock like bone bras and stuff. Well, 174 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:36,199 Speaker 1: I want world peace. That's just me and something sentimental 175 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:41,679 Speaker 1: with sentimental but I do. I look at Christmas and 176 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 1: at this point it's just all about the kids, isn't it? 177 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 1: And giving? I mean, honestly, if the giving part is 178 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 1: even better for me than the getting. Who gets most 179 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 1: drunk during the holidays? You were me that we're doing 180 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: their live questions? Yeah this is from the live oh 181 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:05,199 Speaker 1: me hands down? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I do pretty it's 182 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 1: a it's a festive time, you know. I mean, well, 183 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:09,959 Speaker 1: can we talk? Can am I allowed to talk about 184 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 1: the holiday? Party, Like what happened? Or do we not 185 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,959 Speaker 1: talk about that too much? When this time? Yeah, I mean, 186 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: let's talk about it. Are you okay to like reveal 187 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: your yeah? Yeah, that you went a little overboard? Yeah, no, 188 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: we can talk about that. You decided to take a 189 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: little chocolate mushrooms, which are supposed to be like a 190 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: very kind of mild, but somehow I ended up like 191 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 1: eating two bars of MS chocolate mushroom and you had 192 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: an absolute existential Oh, it was crazy. I normally I'm 193 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 1: a very socially confident person, and something happened to me. 194 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 1: First of all, I just got a haircut. Okay, I 195 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 1: cut my hair off, and I usually have longer hair, 196 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:52,439 Speaker 1: and so all of a sudden, I felt deeply insecure 197 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: about sort of what. I don't know. I didn't feel 198 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: like myself. And then I would enter COMversations with a 199 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:03,080 Speaker 1: group of people and feel like I didn't fit in 200 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: and I didn't know how to act. And then I 201 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 1: would get quiet and be by myself and start laughing 202 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:11,959 Speaker 1: hysterically at how crazy I was going. Well, I mean, 203 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 1: at least you can laugh. No, I had. I was 204 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:17,960 Speaker 1: looking for Aaron because she was the only thing that 205 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: was like my safety net. Aaron and I wereving so 206 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 1: much fun dance. It was so fun, and then I 207 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 1: turned around and your shirt was off, which was weird. 208 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 1: It was hot, it was hot. But I think that 209 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:33,839 Speaker 1: what happened was is you didn't after a while. It's 210 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 1: like you didn't have the awareness that your shirt was off, 211 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: so you were just sort of walking around the holiday party. 212 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: I did, but that was sort of the end of this. Yeah, 213 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: it was. There were definitely not very few, like right, 214 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 1: some people we didn't know though that were still at 215 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 1: the party. You know, we knew them, but we didn't 216 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 1: know that they were kind of newbies, right, So I went, 217 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: you know, what the problem was, though you had your 218 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 1: copious amounts of silic, No part, the problem was is 219 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: the party started too early because it was for the kids, 220 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 1: that's right. So I started drinking it like five, right, 221 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: And then I was drinking and then I you know, 222 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: I smoked a joint and things were fine. And then 223 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: someone not mentioning names just came up with the chocolate 224 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: bar of chocolate mushrooms and they're like, do you want 225 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 1: to eat it? And I'm like all right, And they're 226 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: actually doing a lot of research on mushrooms these days. 227 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: It's really interesting. Oh yeah, I want to I want 228 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 1: to get an expert on the show that we can 229 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 1: talk about some of like whether it be LSD and 230 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 1: psilocybin and how they're and even MDMA. They're taking a 231 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: lot of these psychedelics and they're studying them with the 232 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: brain and a lot with anxiety and depression. There financing 233 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: really interesting things. Okay, who has the ugliest Christmas sweater? Well, 234 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: we don't really do that, but you do great things 235 00:14:57,520 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 1: for Christmas, Kate every year, always, even prior to, you know, 236 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: opening Christmas Morning, you always have some sort of an 237 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: outfit that you've done for thebod. Yeah, with their names 238 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: on it, and it's it could be a onesie, it 239 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: could be a you know, a hat, it could be 240 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: whatever it is. Show its something great. But we don't 241 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 1: really do ugly Christmas sweaters. We've got those onesies though, 242 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: that are pretty cool. It's tipsy off onesies. Yeah. Well 243 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 1: remember the ones that I did with all our names 244 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 1: on the ball. Yeah, those were great gag gifts for Christmas. 245 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: Those are the best. I mean, you did one that 246 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: was you can't even talk about it. I can't even 247 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: talk no you it's no, you can't because it's sensitive. 248 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 1: It's offensive. It was an offensive, hilarious joke and unfortunately 249 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 1: to your mother in law, and in this day and age, 250 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 1: I think that we just keep it close to our chests. 251 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: Did we not talk about it on this Did I 252 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 1: ever mention that? I think I did. I think we 253 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: talked about it elsewhere? Okay, oh, it's already been mentioned. 254 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 1: I don't know if they kept it or not. Did Anyway, 255 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: you can listen to arms Trick expert favorite Christmas song, 256 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: Barbarer Streysen's rendition of jingle bells. I think that made 257 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: us lose our jungle game that will never forget. We 258 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: were in this very intense Jenga game, remember this, and 259 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 1: it was really high. The django was really high, and 260 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I don't know what happened, but 261 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: really loud. Your mom came on the radio, Barbs Trisan 262 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: and it was like jing jingle bun chingerball all the way, 263 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: and it was so jarring that we that the whole 264 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 1: janga thing just went we started. It was so funny. Anyway, 265 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 1: that is a favorite mine is have yourself a merry 266 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:05,679 Speaker 1: little Christis. It's good. That's my ultimate Christmas song. I 267 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 1: love Christmas music. Just in general, how to survive family Christmas? 268 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 1: This is a great question. It is a good question. 269 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:17,399 Speaker 1: I think. Honestly, we will say, like, if you can't 270 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. So you 271 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: just get out of the kitchen, go for a walk. 272 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 1: I say, great, I'm going to get out of the kitchen. Then, 273 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 1: but why do you think tensions I'm not speaking of 274 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: our family necessarily, be saying in general, why do you 275 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:38,399 Speaker 1: think tensions are high during Christmas time? Totally answer that question. 276 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 1: I mean, it's obviously an idea, it's a theory. But 277 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:45,840 Speaker 1: I think that when you get older, not necessarily when 278 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 1: you're younger, when you get older, you leave, you start 279 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 1: your life outside of the family dynamic, and it's this 280 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 1: time of year where you come back and you enter 281 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 1: that old rhythm and it just it's like snapping your 282 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 1: fingers in your back in time. When you're out in 283 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 1: life trying to work on things that are totally different 284 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 1: than the dynamic you have in your family. You think that, 285 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 1: you know, I think a lot of times people go outside, 286 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 1: they go, oh, my friends, they see me differently, they 287 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 1: understand me better sometimes, Yeah, we're winding back totally. And 288 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: I think a lot of the times too, it tests 289 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:20,479 Speaker 1: to do with sort of the close quarters aspect of 290 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: being with your family because a lot of people go 291 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 1: away and they're staying under one roof. So now you're 292 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: used to having your space and your separate spots in 293 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: your own homes, and now everyone is together and having 294 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: to wake up together and just be together all the time. 295 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 1: It's inevitable. Something's got to give, Yeah, you know. Then 296 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 1: you also have like spouses or new girlfriends or boyfriends 297 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 1: in laws and entering in laws. That shit is real. 298 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 1: Like I have friends who could potentially be divorced because 299 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:55,919 Speaker 1: the in law situation, you know, because you you know, 300 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,439 Speaker 1: if you're fighting for your parents in a sense, like 301 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,439 Speaker 1: you don't want to bad mouth your parents, but then 302 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 1: your significant other is just having such a tough time 303 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: and it causes so much friction sometimes between the couple. 304 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 1: I got lucky. Ann and Brooks are the fucking greatest. 305 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 1: I mean, they're so great. You know, our parents are great. 306 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 1: I'm good there the fuji ca I have so lucky 307 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: they're great. Yeah, no, I know, but in laws is big. 308 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 1: In laws is big. I mean, because that can really 309 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 1: throw you for a loop when it's not imagine. I mean, 310 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:31,919 Speaker 1: I can't even imagine because I have so many friends. 311 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 1: I have some friends who really like make the best 312 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,720 Speaker 1: of it, and they're like, look, you know, it's it's 313 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:40,440 Speaker 1: a week or it's a couple of days, and it's fine, 314 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: it's great, you know, but some have a really I 315 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 1: mean it's almost like relationship like breaking. They come home, 316 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 1: they're in therapy. It's like, oh yeah, Well, if I 317 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 1: was to give advice about this question, I think patience. 318 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 1: I think patience is a good word, meaning it is 319 00:19:57,240 --> 00:20:00,119 Speaker 1: just a week or so, understand that everyone might be 320 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 1: a little bit on edge, and give everyone a little leeway, 321 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, give everyone a little extra rope, 322 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: and just understand that there is tension during the holidays, 323 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:12,199 Speaker 1: and you know what, just let something slide, you know 324 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 1: what I mean. You don't have to be nitpicky on 325 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 1: every little thing that might bother you. Let slide. And 326 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:24,119 Speaker 1: if someone say a cocktail, have some psilocybin oliver, I 327 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 1: come out with King Street olivers like this is my line, 328 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 1: chuffy mushrooms. So my advice would be in a moment 329 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 1: where you feel reactive to something. I would take the 330 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:41,360 Speaker 1: ten deep breaths that everybody tells you to take from, 331 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 1: whether it be doctor Oz to Oprah to everybody and 332 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 1: the wellness you know world, take the deep breaths and 333 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 1: then just say to that person, I'm so sorry you 334 00:20:56,000 --> 00:21:00,439 Speaker 1: feel that way, and then walk away. And then you know, 335 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 1: but you walk away, Yeah, you just walk away from it. 336 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,640 Speaker 1: Don't engage. Give yourself a day. I know it's hard, 337 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 1: give yourself a day. I'm so sorry. Ask yourself, what's 338 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 1: really bothering you? It feels condescending. No, I'm so sorry 339 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:17,719 Speaker 1: you feel that way. If someone says something to you, 340 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:21,159 Speaker 1: let me give you an example. You really should not 341 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 1: let your kids eat this, eat so much of this 342 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 1: wonder they're giving you problems. Whatever scare my kids and 343 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 1: I can do whatever I want, So don't talk about 344 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: my kids that way. Or because it's your mother in 345 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: law or your father in law, you say, I'm so 346 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: sorry you feel that way about my kids, and you 347 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 1: stop and you let them whatever, say whatever else. If 348 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:48,240 Speaker 1: they need the last word, just let them have it. 349 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 1: You walk away. You let them live with what they said, 350 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: You live with how you feel about it. And then 351 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: you ask yourself, Okay, how am I really feelings? You 352 00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 1: can gather your thoughts and you can and then and 353 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,160 Speaker 1: the time is right, you can then have the moment 354 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,479 Speaker 1: to go to your in laws and say to them 355 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 1: when when you say that to me, I feel terrible 356 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 1: because I really want you to like the way I'm 357 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 1: raising my kids and just throw them off center that way. 358 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 1: What if you're just like, suck it, and then if 359 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: they keep doing it, oh fuck? Then and you do 360 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 1: that very evolved, that's very evolved. It's hard to be 361 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:33,119 Speaker 1: very hard. It's hard to just say I'm sorry you 362 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 1: feel that way. I don't think the walk away is 363 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,720 Speaker 1: good because if someone said to me, I'm sorry you 364 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:45,760 Speaker 1: feel that way, and walk the way mom you yeah, 365 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: I love you, Mom, grab a microphone just for two seconds. 366 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 1: So we we we took some questions from Kate's Instagram 367 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 1: account and this is actually a good one. We just 368 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:01,119 Speaker 1: finished answering it ourselves. But you I want to hear 369 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,400 Speaker 1: what you would have to say. Was it a good question? 370 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 1: It was a good question. It was how do you 371 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:16,679 Speaker 1: survive family Christmas when people get together, Like, how you 372 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:20,679 Speaker 1: survive because a lot of holidays. I was thinking about that. 373 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 1: On the drive over here, there's a lot there's a 374 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,920 Speaker 1: lot of tension and you know, a lot of there's 375 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 1: in laws and there's people, and it's it's you know, Christmas. 376 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 1: You just have to wrap yourself in love. Do you 377 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 1: literally have to go that this is a holiday where 378 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 1: you know, you don't bring your stuff together and it's 379 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 1: all about joy and you know, and you and and 380 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 1: it's tiring. Yeah, it is very tiring. But it's a 381 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:49,360 Speaker 1: lot of logistics too. Well, there's a lot of logistics 382 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 1: with Christmas. You know, I've been working and I literally 383 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 1: haven't had time to shop and I've had my mind. 384 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get my mind on my work and 385 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 1: memorizing lines, which not easy, and you know, but still, 386 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: you know, you've got to do it. So it's it 387 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 1: takes pressure. It takes money. There's a lot of pressure 388 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:14,119 Speaker 1: around money because people don't have money to give. They 389 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 1: want to be able to give more than they can. 390 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 1: So it just it's kind of like to simplify things. 391 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: It really is about to create. You know, we create it, 392 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 1: all right, Nobody creates Christmas for us. We do it. 393 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: So if we're actually the head of it, if we're 394 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: saying I'm gonna make it great Christmas. That's your intention, 395 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 1: then you do it surviving from Goldie Han Mama, Goldie mama. Gee. 396 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 1: We survive by setting the good intention to wrap it 397 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:49,920 Speaker 1: in love. I thought, patient, Mommy, patient, she's fucking talking 398 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: about And I know that again because again Christmas is fine, 399 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 1: like and dope round a ball of love? How about that? 400 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 1: And we just kind of throw but patients that I 401 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 1: remember leeway a little extra rope because you know, don't 402 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:15,120 Speaker 1: don't don't get on people so quickly for things. Understand 403 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 1: that there is this pressure around it potentially, and and 404 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 1: you might feel reactive, but instead, just like you know what, 405 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,399 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let it go for a second. Do 406 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:28,919 Speaker 1: we have a drunk uncle? You have a drunk brother, 407 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,679 Speaker 1: but I am an uncle. That's true, that's right now. 408 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: We don't who is the drunk. Well, Uncle Charlie wasn't 409 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:39,400 Speaker 1: always drunk. Uncle Charlie was here drunk, Yeah, so he wasn't. 410 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,639 Speaker 1: He was just kibbutz yeah, but he was just loud 411 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 1: and and fell. No, Uncle Charlie was not a drinker, No, 412 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:50,040 Speaker 1: but he was always on the drinkers were on Granddaddy's side. Okay, 413 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 1: oh right, Oh, my father would have a few, not big. 414 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 1: But when my father had a few scotches, he left 415 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: the house in the middle of the night and he 416 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 1: went to my mother's gift shop and rearranged the gift 417 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: shop window. Oh yeah, and it was good, it was 418 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:10,880 Speaker 1: it was good. That's what he wanted to do. Hush puppies. 419 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,639 Speaker 1: I smelled them. They were frying in the kitchen. I 420 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 1: want to make hush puppies. You know. I came over 421 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 1: here to see my grind where she had a microphone. Happen. 422 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 1: Sorry anyway, Merry Christmas, everybody. This is funny. Whose stories 423 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: I can answer this? Whose stories do you dread? Listening 424 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:38,199 Speaker 1: to the most the holidays? It was definitely me, Like 425 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 1: I'm definitely the one who tells stories that go on forever. 426 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 1: And I don't know, as Sarah and Aaron would say, 427 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: how to land the plane. I mean sometimes I do. 428 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:50,199 Speaker 1: Sometimes I can get my thoughts together correctly, But you know, 429 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 1: I mean I can go on for it. They're not 430 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: bad stories. They're just long. I mean, that's really what 431 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 1: it is. Yeah. But then like I'll sit there and 432 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:00,200 Speaker 1: I'll be talking and all of a sudden, like one 433 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 1: person will be watching television that the other person's on 434 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 1: the phone, and you're all alone. I'm all alone. It's fine. 435 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:12,159 Speaker 1: I can handle it. Who does the dishes? Me and Mom? 436 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 1: We all do you? Oh my god, not the dishes. 437 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 1: I do so many dishes, Oliver. I sat there over 438 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving and literally Danny was fixing the heating. I was 439 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 1: like cooking, and Aaron and I were. You sat there 440 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,159 Speaker 1: with a whiskey in one hand, watching football. It was 441 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 1: my It was football. It doesn't matter, it doesn't matter. 442 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,880 Speaker 1: That is just no, no no, no, wait, hold on, it's 443 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,199 Speaker 1: because I do do the dishes. Are you calling, babe? 444 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 1: Do I do dishes? Or no? Oh? God? Yeah? Wellman, yes, 445 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 1: oh oh yeah. So for like four months you've got 446 00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 1: ye ye for a year. Please do the dishes once 447 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,360 Speaker 1: over Thanksgiving? I did. You just didn't see it. It's 448 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 1: not true. You were sleeping. No, I watched what are 449 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 1: you talking in the morning? I do the dishes. Oh 450 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 1: my god, please god, I can't even continue this, all right, 451 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 1: so love you, aunt. Anti e two thousand or nineteen eighty, 452 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:20,879 Speaker 1: I mean, hands down two thousand for me, just the 453 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:24,119 Speaker 1: year in general. Yeah, I mean I was nineteen eighty one. 454 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 1: That was a pretty good year. Two thousand, Yeah, it 455 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 1: was the year like the Crows. Oh it was a 456 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 1: crows two thousand, I think. I mean it was a 457 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 1: year I got married, year I turned twenty one the 458 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,720 Speaker 1: next I mean, it was like such a fun All 459 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 1: the famous came out in two thousand and one. No, 460 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 1: two thousand, I'm having our twenty year in April. I 461 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: was single in two thousand. Yeah, you were making out 462 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 1: with some of my friends. I was having fun. I'll 463 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 1: go two thousand. Two thousand was a really fun year. Yeah, 464 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 1: two thousand was good. Yeah. I don't really know if 465 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,920 Speaker 1: you remember four, if you were kind of four was 466 00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 1: traumatic for you. Oh god, I was right in the 467 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:09,640 Speaker 1: middle of all the shit. Oh my god, your foundational 468 00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 1: years were Yeah. No, but without nineteen eighty, I would 469 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 1: never have had two thousand, you know what I mean. Sure, 470 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Gingerbread house. I love doing 471 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,480 Speaker 1: gingerbread house my kids. Yeah, but kind of tedious, like like, 472 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 1: can I say one thing that I think parents can 473 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 1: relate to. Let's do the gingerbread houses. And you're like, 474 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 1: oh fuck, okay, get the candy, get the thing, mix 475 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 1: the icing, you know, and then by the time it's 476 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,479 Speaker 1: all ready to go, my kids are like over it. 477 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, like, you don't want to do it. I'm 478 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:41,280 Speaker 1: like no, no no, no, no, no, no no, no no. I 479 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 1: just literally spent an hour getting all this shit together. 480 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 1: You're going to make a gingerbread house. It's just gonna 481 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 1: That's the way it's going to be. I don't have 482 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 1: that issue. Okay, moving on, I think I come more prepared. 483 00:29:56,600 --> 00:30:00,520 Speaker 1: Who is the most traumatic? Actually, Allie, I think you're 484 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 1: more dramatic than I am at Christmas or just in 485 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 1: generous in general? What dramatic? Yeah? Oh yeah, what do 486 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 1: you mean? Yeah? I think you're dramatic. How am I dramatic? 487 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:17,720 Speaker 1: I'm so like its easy going? Yeah, but it's so dramatic. 488 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 1: Your easy goingness is so filled with drama. That's fun. 489 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 1: I never thought about it that way. Do we leave 490 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:29,160 Speaker 1: something out for Santa? Always? Remember when rum and root 491 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 1: beer and licorice one year do that depends on Santa's mood. 492 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,000 Speaker 1: We usually know what kind of mood Santa is. Always 493 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: we always leave carrots, So yes, we always have carrots 494 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 1: and and in the last few years it's been just 495 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:45,240 Speaker 1: you know, milk and cookies. I feel like this year 496 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 1: it should be like spiced mm hmmm, maybe we like 497 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:55,240 Speaker 1: something with alcohol in it. Yeah, like a spiced rum 498 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: type drink. Or or we could do like gluten free cookies. 499 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 1: That's good, yes, Santa, lot of cookies. Well you know 500 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 1: what we did we've been doing last year. I think 501 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,760 Speaker 1: we made the kids made cookies. Remember they made them. 502 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 1: We made we made the dough and did the thing 503 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 1: and then decorated the cookies and then left that out 504 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 1: for Santa. Have you been naughty or nice this year? 505 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 1: Oliver Hudson, Oh for sure, nice, for sure. This has 506 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 1: been a nice year for me. I think I'm in 507 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 1: the nice year too. I think we're in a really 508 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:32,560 Speaker 1: nice and this could be my nicest year. Nice. Yeah, 509 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:37,840 Speaker 1: whole energetic couple of years. I think I think I've 510 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 1: settled into my life, settled into who I am. I'm 511 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 1: such a nice guy. Yere you are. I'm a really 512 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 1: nice person. Get too nice? No, I'll never be too nice? Mom. 513 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 1: Should we end with a song? Nice? Well, I'm talking 514 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 1: the mic. Tell everybody what you want for Christmas? Holy, 515 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 1: I'm talking to the god. Damn I get the mic. 516 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: Colme oh talking back? I want raw stitch and story. 517 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 1: It's a kit to ned hats underneath her voice, my 518 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 1: chisee stitch and story, and so I can get a 519 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 1: hat to and made a very very very things soft 520 00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 1: cushy Christmas, whatever it's made of. I think we are 521 00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 1: there to everyone. Allie, you can finally say you said 522 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 1: it for Thanksgiving, but really, Merry Christmas to all and 523 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:18,160 Speaker 1: to all a good night nuts. Sibling Revelry is executive 524 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 1: produced by Kate Hudson, Olira Hudson, and sim Sarna. Supervising 525 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:26,360 Speaker 1: producer is Alison Presnik. Editor is Josh Wendish. Music by 526 00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 1: Mark Hudson aka Uncle Man.