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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Everybody? Welcome to adult saying. I'm Jordan Carlos.

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Speaker 3: Don't do that, don't freaky Friday Friday.

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Speaker 2: I'm a Shelby tow that is Jordan Carlos. Thank you

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Speaker 2: so much for listening, Liking, loving, living, and other.

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Speaker 3: L words, oh, loving and other l words. Okay, listen, yes,

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Speaker 3: let me that's an L word. Yes, if it were

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Speaker 3: a Freaky Friday, would be great. We both reach into

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Speaker 3: the popcorn the exact same time and switched.

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Speaker 4: Bring it.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's a pet peeve of mine that I

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Speaker 2: don't talk about enough and nobody wants to hear it.

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Speaker 2: Just these made up holidays where we're supposed to be

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Speaker 2: spending money for no damn reason. Like look, Easter is

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Speaker 2: a history class, But somehow I gotta get you know,

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Speaker 2: marshmallow bunnies and dug and I gotta get chocolate and

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Speaker 2: a basket to push type two diabetes in so I

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Speaker 2: could pay for ozembic later. It's like what, And I'm sorry?

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Speaker 2: Are we still doing Thanksgiving? Like it's too much? Like

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Speaker 2: even Valentine's Day? It's like, okay, oh my god, I

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Speaker 2: love chocolate and I love lingerie, but why do I

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Speaker 2: have to just like, first of all, Chocolate Lingerie, think

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Speaker 2: about that shit, like like just a why it's sort

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Speaker 2: of just like Christmas is about giving gifts now or whatever.

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Speaker 2: I'm just like it mattered to me until it didn't

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Speaker 2: until I found someone who like loves me holy every day.

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Speaker 2: But I remember I would like I was dating this

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Speaker 2: one guy and like no Christmas present. I'm like okay.

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Speaker 2: And then New Year's he's like, I'm gonna go do

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Speaker 2: a show. I'm like okay. And then when Valentine's Day

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Speaker 2: came around, I'm like, can I even get a piece

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Speaker 2: of gum? Like what is it? And so I was

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Speaker 2: putting the importance on the wrong thing. Even if he

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Speaker 2: got me a gift, he's not treating me well, he's

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Speaker 2: not in it with.

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Speaker 1: Me, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that shit met like do you have to

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Speaker 2: get like a nice Valentine's Day gift for your wife

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Speaker 2: in order for like her to? Like she says, but

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Speaker 2: things met like it matters, like different things matter to

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Speaker 2: different people.

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Speaker 3: The public statement has been that it is her least

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Speaker 3: favorite holiday.

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Speaker 2: And yet is it a holiday?

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Speaker 3: Something is still expected. My only trauma from Valentine's is

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Speaker 3: this when I was a kid. Do you remember when

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Speaker 3: you would get like Valentine's cards at school from different

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Speaker 3: students and things like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so annoying.

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Speaker 3: They coordinated that with learning how to send mail, so

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Speaker 3: everybody had their little box and you would put Valentine's

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Speaker 3: in each box and everybody had address and that was it.

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Speaker 3: Do you think I got a lot of Valentine's?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Do you think I got a lot of Valentine's?

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Speaker 2: Well, do you think the way the way that you're

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Speaker 2: looking at me now and your your hands are on fists,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say no, But I don't know why, because you're.

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Speaker 3: Show everyone was supposed to send Valentine's. You had to

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Speaker 3: send them everybody in the class.

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Speaker 2: But that's what I'm talking about. Why are we like

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Speaker 2: making like that's what we have sports for, to make

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Speaker 2: people feel bad about shit they can't do, Like why

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Speaker 2: do we also have I'm sure sports is like good

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Speaker 2: for other things dot dot dot and you fill in

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Speaker 2: the point, but I'm like, what's the point like for

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Speaker 2: paper that we're just wasting Like I don't fully understand,

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Speaker 2: like how many pumpkins are too many pumpkins to fucking

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Speaker 2: paint I'm like, like why, Like I'd rather just have

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Speaker 2: Like music is the thing that brings people together for me,

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Speaker 2: music and food, and and that's what will always be,

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Speaker 2: you know, because it can transform you. It takes you

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Speaker 2: back to whatever the fuck time. It brings people together,

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Speaker 2: like you know, watching Beyonce in Amsterdam last year, I

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Speaker 2: think the soccer stadium holds sixty k when I was

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Speaker 2: a little nervous about that, but when she just puts

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Speaker 2: the microphone out for everyone else to sing, and then

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Speaker 2: you look around the lights you're on, and people are

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Speaker 2: from different fucking continents and and speak so many different languages,

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Speaker 2: but they're all singing her song together like there's no

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Speaker 2: but my right nipples getting hard just thinking about it.

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Speaker 2: There's no better feeling. And so this is what I

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Speaker 2: do love about the show. And this is what I

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Speaker 2: love about this guest. He's such a talented musician. He's

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Speaker 2: such a prolific fucking poet and author and like you know,

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Speaker 2: even his band, The Rootst's on the Tonight show, which

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Speaker 2: and we fell on, like bring people together in a

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Speaker 2: way that you can never explain, and he has done

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Speaker 2: the show a couple of times before this was even

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Speaker 2: a podcast. So we ride or Die for Tariq. Everyone,

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Speaker 2: please enjoy this fucking episode. It's so fucking dope. Please

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Speaker 2: enjoy Tarik Trotter, better known as Black Thought.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Mark and Sualo seems like the most eager man

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Speaker 3: I've ever seen in my life.

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Speaker 2: So tell me.

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Speaker 3: He's always like, yeah, yeah, Kelly, let's go like he's

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Speaker 3: like jacked.

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Speaker 4: He looks great.

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Speaker 3: Uh do you want to meet Mark a little bit?

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Speaker 3: I met him before actually, but he was who's my

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Speaker 3: man crush? DJ don will but he won't talk to me.

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Speaker 3: Who's my man crush?

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Speaker 4: I met my man crush?

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Speaker 3: I already did I met I met Denzel Washington once

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Speaker 3: at a bar.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, fun.

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Speaker 4: I met him at a bar on West Broadway. I

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Speaker 4: was I was that bar. This, let's go at that

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Speaker 4: bar right. It was back in the nineties.

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Speaker 3: It was called three fifty seven because it was at

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Speaker 3: three fifty seven West Broadway, and I used to intern

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Speaker 3: for Deaf Jam back in the day. I was a

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Speaker 3: different person. I have been cool before, and so I'm

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Speaker 3: drawing in myself so cool.

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Speaker 2: You definitely, like you said, you bring your own bag

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Speaker 2: to Whole Food.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Absolutely, that's me. I'm that guy. I'm like, no,

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Speaker 4: I've got a bag, you know, and like yeah yeah,

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Speaker 4: captain planet sad. So no.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I was like drawing, I was drawing

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Speaker 3: this whatever, and you were drawing in a bar.

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Speaker 4: Was drawing in a bar? I'm that guy no one,

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Speaker 4: no one was talking to.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's how Yeah, of course that's weird. You're

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Speaker 2: like a psycho.

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Speaker 1: No, I was.

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Speaker 3: It was a different time, you know, like I was.

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Speaker 3: It was a different world from from where I came from.

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Speaker 3: I had my Dwayne Wayne glasses. All right, So I'm

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Speaker 3: drawing and this guy is like, he's like, this is

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Speaker 3: a nice draw and you got it like that kind

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Speaker 3: of thing. I was like, let me let me see that.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: He did, like the Denzel thing. I was like, holy shit,

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Speaker 3: this is Dentil watching and talking to me, and he's like.

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Speaker 4: Very good, very good.

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Speaker 3: I really got something on the people there, Like he

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Speaker 3: his buddy was like, Dunezel, you gotta get out of here.

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Speaker 3: This guy's weird. I was like, fuck you man, It's.

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Speaker 4: Like love doing Glory Pro Training day was the ship,

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Speaker 4: you know, like it was oh shit, yeah, it was.

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Speaker 4: It was a moment. We had a moment and like

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Speaker 4: I was like this.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, that's amazing, but I was thinking

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Speaker 2: it sucks that you couldn't take a picture because you

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Speaker 2: probably didn't have like like, yeah, you probably had a Blackberrierah.

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Speaker 3: I had maybe, I don't know, maybe a sidekick, you know.

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Speaker 4: What I'm saying, a Motorola two way pagel. Yeah, but

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Speaker 4: it was a moment.

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Speaker 3: I don't talk about it a lot, but that was

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Speaker 3: like a really cool New York moment that was really cool.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm trying to think who I met.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I really met nobody.

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Speaker 4: To somebody in New York City or you come on.

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Speaker 2: I mean I've probably seen them, but everybody looks like somebody.

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Speaker 3: You're constantly at amazing events, red carpets.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I'm talking about just like being a wardo

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Speaker 2: at a bar and then someone like coming over.

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Speaker 3: Oh sure, sure, sure, Like that's a Denzel trap. You

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Speaker 4: Then it'll be like, oh, what's going on? You know, Like.

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Speaker 2: I was on a plane one time to Ohio where

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Speaker 2: you're from, and I was going there on purpose to

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Speaker 2: do a show. And and I I was leaving right away,

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Speaker 2: but I'm so glad you're here. Thank you, done well

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Speaker 2: for your service. And I was on the plane and

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Speaker 2: I was sitting next to like the cutest, oldest white lady.

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Speaker 2: It was giving Jessica Tandy. She was conjugating verbs she

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Speaker 2: was going to go see somebody. I don't know. It

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Speaker 2: was so cute, Dia and it was all of that,

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Speaker 2: and and she was so nice. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: Like you're very nice.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's DNA.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I'm doing it. And when we when

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Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, Pearl, what's up? And she

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, I've always wanted to meet Kim Whitley.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, oh, oh, oh my god, that's Ohio for you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's Ohio for you. I know.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I just signed it. Anyways, I was like,

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Speaker 2: she's gonna die.

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Speaker 1: Very soon.

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Speaker 4: I did get well soon.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, probably like her last wish.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Yeah, Oh my god, I am sorry.

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Speaker 2: I am so excited for our next guest. Yes, I

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Speaker 2: mean this is some good ass ship.

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Speaker 4: Yes, leap yet, Yes, last.

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Speaker 2: Stay of Black History Month.

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Speaker 4: We're blacking it up. We had illustrious whacks and now

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Speaker 4: were black not to get more black?

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Speaker 6: Ye?

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Speaker 2: Go ahead? No, I want you, No, I want you,

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Speaker 2: don't want you want.

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Speaker 3: I want you to say what you're gonna say. I

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Speaker 3: love when you bring people out, don't you done?

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Speaker 4: It's great?

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Speaker 2: I will say, I will say this. He is one

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Speaker 2: of the best parts of living in the Northeast because

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Speaker 2: he is from the Northeast. He's more than just a

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Speaker 2: musician and a rapper. He's an artist. He's a writer,

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Speaker 2: he's a creator, he's a forward thinker.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and he's.

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Speaker 2: He's a husband and a dapt you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: It's just almost like, what can't he do? Like he

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Speaker 2: out here living life to the fucking fullest as we should.

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Speaker 2: So whoever's afraid to fucking make a move, make a

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Speaker 2: fucking move, because life is so much fuller when you

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Speaker 2: fuck up, make mistakes and meet people along the way.

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Speaker 2: And that's what this motherfucker is. He is so damn talented.

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Speaker 2: I just can't like everybody's turning the chair around. America's

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Speaker 2: got talent. Because we cannot even.

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Speaker 3: We can't even, So please put your hands together for

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Speaker 3: the one and only to wreak trotter aka bless?

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Speaker 4: Is he coming?

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Speaker 6: Is he?

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Speaker 4: Where's he yet?

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Speaker 6: Somebody told me that this planet was small? Farious what's

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Speaker 4: I was so nervous. I black thought you were going.

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Speaker 4: I like this. I like to see y'all sweat. You know.

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Speaker 7: Good thing. I'll put it into such a ways because

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So we used to do the show at Union Hall

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Speaker 4: But you were you were there from from the inception,

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Speaker 2: How do you how do you? I mean we always

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Speaker 4: Balance, Okay, there, I mean I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 7: And so that you know this life, you know, glimpses

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Speaker 3: Find how do you find time to just like cool

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Speaker 4: I feel like I should. That's what I should say.

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Speaker 4: But it would be funny one one, very funny.

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Speaker 3: But like I've always thought of you guys cooler than

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Speaker 7: It's hard for I have to like make a conscious decision,

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Speaker 2: Where do you think that comes from, Like is that DNA?

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Speaker 2: I mean, for me, where it comes from is like

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Speaker 7: I think it comes from I mean, there's that well,

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Speaker 7: So because of that, where you know, in fight or

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Speaker 3: You know what New Yorkers do all the time, always

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Speaker 4: I'm like, just enjoy brunch. You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like, I understand, Like, but can I ask you a question?

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Speaker 3: These are the things? So that kind of drive got

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Speaker 3: I made it. You've obviously knocked it way the funk

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Speaker 4: You've knocked the leather off the ball.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, can I tell you, domb well before, what was

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Speaker 4: Wait?

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Speaker 2: What did you tell me? What did you say to me?

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Speaker 4: The best rapper alive? Down?

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Speaker 2: He was like, what do you want to ask the

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Speaker 2: best wrapper alive?

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Speaker 4: Thank you? Thank you.

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Speaker 7: I appreciate that you're like, well, your opinion matters to me, Thank.

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Speaker 8: And I had actually I had a question about wrapping. Oh,

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Speaker 4: It all the time. Beause, do you have a trick

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't think there's any memorization to the technique.

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Speaker 7: There's no shortcut to it. There's something to be said about,

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Speaker 4: If I write a thing down, if I.

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Speaker 7: Get like a legal pad and I write down what

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, I do both.

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Speaker 7: But if the idea is that I have to memorize

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Speaker 7: If I write the shit down as opposed to you know,

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Speaker 3: Wow, do you need to say it like fifty times

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Speaker 7: It down, you know, I still need to I need

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Speaker 7: I write it down and that's it.

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Speaker 4: Nigga, Like.

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Speaker 7: I'm curious, got him on the seat, I'm like, all

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Speaker 4: S all right.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing. Like when you see people working, it's

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Speaker 7: Well, that's a load, that's a loaded question. That's what

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Speaker 7: Hop is more diverse and inclusive than it's ever been.

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Speaker 7: I think there's more space for you know, different ideas

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Speaker 4: So I think that's where we are with it.

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Speaker 2: It is harder to determine, Like, how do you feel

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Speaker 7: That's a very good question, Michelle. I know, I was

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Speaker 6: She hits you with two big ones. She's like, stay

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Speaker 6: to hip hop? Now, why you know, what are we

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Speaker 6: gonna do about Ai?

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Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know. I think you know, that's

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Speaker 7: a good question. What are we gonna do about Alan?

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Speaker 7: The way we said read the real from the fake

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Speaker 4: Will you know? That's the you know, that's that's the

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Speaker 7: So I think, you know, more than half the battle

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Speaker 7: So that's that's, that's the roots, that's been the roots philosophy. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: and you know, and the tortoise and the air dynamic.

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Speaker 7: You know, we talk about having tortoise that ship to

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Speaker 3: So I feel like, I mean, if I may push

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Speaker 3: I feel like you the legendary Risk Crew is more

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Speaker 3: like your philosophy or what I've seen from the house

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Speaker 3: side looking in. It's like you guys are like people

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Speaker 3: that run the two hundred meters sprint, which is stay

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Speaker 3: with me, all right, thank you very much, which is

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Speaker 3: is the winner The champion is usually the one who

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Speaker 3: slows down the least, not the one who's the fastest,

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Speaker 3: but the one who slows down the least. And I

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Speaker 3: feel like you all have held your tempo for years,

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Speaker 3: for decades and become even like more like iconic. You know, God,

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Speaker 3: I'm feeling myself. That's definitely remember it.

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Speaker 4: Soak that in bro.

442
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 2: What's that?

443
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 4: These are my notes? You know, like what the fuck?

444
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 4: I mean?

445
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:45,240
Speaker 7: Just notes in case I because I wasn't able to

446
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 7: be naturally funny, I got some reference points what you.

447
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:57,679
Speaker 2: Got without the dementia?

448
00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 7: Of course, Wait a minute, you want to hear my notes,

449
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 7: so you know, I'll be I started putting too much

450
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:16,160
Speaker 7: ship on my AIRK list.

451
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 4: You've seen MYRK list before.

452
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 7: It's the thing like a notebook I would walk around

453
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 7: with and jot down ship.

454
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 4: That sort of just got on my nerves.

455
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,360
Speaker 7: I would put ship like you know, I mean anything

456
00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 7: from shoelaces to Broccoli Rob.

457
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 4: Right, that just irked me on a particular you know what,

458
00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 4: what's you know? Me and Broccoli Robb were going through

459
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:38,919
Speaker 4: it at one point.

460
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 7: Are you it's a person, Well, Broccoli Rob is a

461
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 7: person in the Broccoli family, and it's just he's bitter

462
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 7: for no reason.

463
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 4: That's pretty good.

464
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 7: Everything he does is in poor taste, and it's just

465
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 7: obvious that. You know, whenever the Broccoli family gets together,

466
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 7: they have a thing and you see, like the old

467
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 7: school Broccley with the afro kicking it with his nephew,

468
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 7: little baby Broccolini. You know, if the phone rings, everybody

469
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 7: is like if.

470
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:21,359
Speaker 4: That's wrong, I'm not here, you know, So yeah, ship

471
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 4: like that.

472
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 7: I have to admit I'm amazing.

473
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 4: I have to admit I'm very high right now.

474
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,719
Speaker 2: To realize his name is Rob. It fucked me up

475
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:43,440
Speaker 2: all the way. It fucked me up all the way

476
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 2: I was. Robin is definitely living with his mom for

477
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 2: way too long a Satin.

478
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 4: Islands been married too long?

479
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:57,879
Speaker 3: Shake but yes, yes, sorry, that produced James bond In broccoli.

480
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 4: Oay, So yeah, I got a bunch of stuff like that.

481
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,680
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, shoel what did shoelaces ever do? A mom?

482
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 7: I mean, you know, first of all, I mean you

483
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 7: talk about stuff like your shoelaces are a problem for me.

484
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 7: You know, when I gotta bend down and tie my shoes.

485
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 7: Then I get back up and I see like ship floating.

486
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 7: That's when I'm like, oh no, oh, yes, of course,

487
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 7: Like I mean that's you are of a certain age.

488
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 7: It's like, yo, okay, maybe now it's time to start,

489
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 7: you know, making a decision about is this a.

490
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 4: Tide shoe event?

491
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:36,360
Speaker 1: Right?

492
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 7: I tie my shoes now based on who all gonna

493
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 7: be there. I'm not just all willy nilly, you know

494
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 7: what I mean. Like you've been down too while you

495
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 7: get back up, it's like you see the stars and

496
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 7: a gush.

497
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 4: It ain't cool man.

498
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 2: The sparklings and these titties. I'm out of breath, you know.

499
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 2: I see motherfuckers when I finally get to like fly

500
00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 2: first class. Now, motherfuckers put their fucking chairing to bed,

501
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 2: and I'm like, my tittyes are choking me when I

502
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,159
Speaker 2: put it in a bed. No, truly, it feels like

503
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 2: I'm doing an MRI. I'm like, I can't do this.

504
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 2: My ankles are hitting something plastic. This is a mess.

505
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,919
Speaker 4: Wow, well, I guess I thought it was just me.

506
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:15,959
Speaker 2: I'm so glad you said that.

507
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 7: I know I had the same titty choking problem.

508
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 2: We this gotta be covered by healthy showing my titty

509
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 2: choker problem.

510
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 4: Straight up the whole flight.

511
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:32,360
Speaker 2: Yes, especially for like the heartburn. You gotta sit straight up.

512
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 4: Absolutely.

513
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 3: Is that what a croc is for? You know, like

514
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 3: a croc you slide it on. If it's real serious,

515
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,439
Speaker 3: you fucking go to sports mode with that ship.

516
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 4: You know, what is it? What is a crop. You

517
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 4: are the coolest fucking guy. So much was he playing me?

518
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 4: I think he was playing that.

519
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 2: People that do live shows, we are always curious, like,

520
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 2: what's the craziest bathroom situation?

521
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 4: Are you?

522
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 9: Just like yo, yo, can't leave it at that. What's

523
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 9: the craziest situation? Oh, like that's ever that I've ever

524
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 9: been with. You mean, like what you with someone else?

525
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 9: I mean when I I mean when I gotta go,

526
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 9: I gotta go. You know, I'm just going. I'm gonna

527
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 9: get to it.

528
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 4: You know.

529
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 7: What does hurt me though, is like when you take

530
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 7: your time and I mean, I'm not sitting on toilet

531
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 7: seats raw, I don't give from where I am sure,

532
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,399
Speaker 7: So you take your time, you like establish a whole

533
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 7: like little ass nest.

534
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 4: And the pre spray. There's like pre spray. Now sometimes

535
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 4: you might do a pre spray.

536
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 7: Sometimes you might do if they have the you know,

537
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 7: the dispenser of actual seat covers. You gotta pull it

538
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:56,399
Speaker 7: up and down super gently because those ships, so I means,

539
00:26:56,400 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 7: are made of like feathers. But you gotta even layer

540
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 7: those up because they're like one plot and you get

541
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 7: your joint.

542
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 4: It's all set up and you get you turn around

543
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:08,360
Speaker 4: and then shift.

544
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:10,679
Speaker 2: It ain't that life?

545
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, man, crazy you up?

546
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then it's like yeah, because you pull the

547
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 3: plants down and then like a small breeze is created

548
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 3: and that's just why.

549
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 4: You cannot safe you know, say, I take serious issue

550
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:21,400
Speaker 4: with that.

551
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

552
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:22,360
Speaker 4: Yeah.

553
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,919
Speaker 3: I usually just do like the lumber jack kind of

554
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, like this just straight up

555
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 3: like you know, square ship, that's me. And then it's

556
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 3: just like, yeah, yes, this is what I dreamed.

557
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 4: We were talking about this.

558
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 2: I've never felt so God, I've never felt so guy.

559
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 4: You know what, Like the craziest bathroom situation.

560
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,400
Speaker 2: Sometimes people are like, you know, I had a little

561
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 2: situation I was like in the middle of like my

562
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 2: solo or you.

563
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 1: Know what I mean.

564
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 2: So it's just like, is there a situation where you're like,

565
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 2: can y'all just like figure this out?

566
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 4: I'll be right back.

567
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 7: Oh well, for me, No, the craziest bathroom situations are

568
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 7: always in traffic, and it's like, because I have to

569
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 7: piss really badly now and I'm far from the destination,

570
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 7: So how what are we gonna freak it?

571
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,400
Speaker 4: What could I do? Is this something I could.

572
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 7: Find to pee into where I'm also able to continue

573
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 7: because traffic is still moving. So it's like you still

574
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 7: got to move when it's your turn, but now you

575
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 7: also have to pee. And it's like, I suppose you

576
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 7: in the car that's like low profile, is sitting down low.

577
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,159
Speaker 7: If I'm pissing, the truck that rides by, I can

578
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 7: see me pissing down So I gotta be conscious of that.

579
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 7: I mean, am I sitting so low that it doesn't

580
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 7: make sense for me to even try to use a vessel?

581
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 7: Can I just aim? Can I just like project the

582
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 7: piss out of the window? This is awesome?

583
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 6: Like this is you know, these are your black thoughts

584
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 6: and these are the.

585
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 4: Real black girls that you got to take. Yo.

586
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 7: You talk about a crazy bathrooms, like that's the wild

587
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 7: bathroom shoot for me. It's like taking it from A

588
00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 7: to B and B is during rush hour and it's

589
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 7: two and a half hours to get there and you're

590
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 7: fifty and it's like, I don't go two and a

591
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 7: half hours without pissing.

592
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 2: Ever, Yeah, it's every hour. That's why it's always an

593
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 2: aisle to me, like is sitting on people's faces trying

594
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 2: to get to the fucking bathroom. By what I say.

595
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that something wrong. That's where I'm at with it.

596
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 2: You wrote a book.

597
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 4: I did write it. Yeah, your book.

598
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 7: I had to share this with the book. I did

599
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 7: write a book. It's in New York Times bestsellership. But

600
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 7: we backstage and ship. Now there's a book that Carlos

601
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 7: just got Michelle's kids. It's like a little book. It's

602
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 7: like eight pages in it. It's for five year olds.

603
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 7: And the book is on the table. Michelle comes back

604
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 7: and she was like, I see you got you. She

605
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 7: picked the book up like, you know, like it was

606
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 7: she thought that was my bookself.

607
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, so she knows I wrote a book, but tune,

608
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 6: she did not read the book.

609
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 7: I should have just played along like you're like, that's

610
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 7: it and ship and she would have came out here.

611
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 2: And to be honest, I didn't even read my book,

612
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like I wrote it, but

613
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 2: I didn't read it.

614
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 4: You don't. I mean, I read your book. It was

615
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 4: very good. I've been there. I know how it goes

616
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 4: like thing and you feel like I wrote that what

617
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 4: I read it for?

618
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's you know, writing a book is like watching

619
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 2: myself do stand up. It's like it's like watching yourself

620
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 2: take a ship. Follow me, it's over. It is. There's

621
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 2: like w hotels that have the mirror writing from the toilet.

622
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: Who the fuck is that for?

623
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 4: Right?

624
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 2: That's not for me? Like it feels good. I do

625
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 2: it all the time. I don't need to ever see it.

626
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I could care.

627
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 2: Thank you so much. Wow, this is a very bathroom

628
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 2: heavy show. But I like it.

629
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 4: But yes, in the book, Yeah, the upstycles out.

630
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 7: It's out one world, random house wherever books are sold.

631
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 7: You know, i'd appreciate if you support your local booksellers.

632
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 4: If that's.

633
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 2: Why do you want to ask Jordan before we get

634
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 2: to questions?

635
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 4: I just want to ask what's that? These are questions

636
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 4: from the audience. Oh ship, let's go.

637
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: I'm trying to pick a go right.

638
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 4: We could just go to question Okay, how'd you pull

639
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 4: one out and then just put it back?

640
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 2: Like because there's some crazy ones, like.

641
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 4: I want one of the crazy.

642
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 3: It's like that moment in a tennis match and like

643
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 3: the tennis player gets the balls and he's like, I

644
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 3: don't I don't want this ball and throword Yeah, thank you.

645
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 4: I just feel like I feel like people.

646
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 7: Don't get my references. What have you learned about jealousy? God?

647
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 4: Who is you feel? What do you do with yours?

648
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 4: This is a three prong question. Mm hmm.

649
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 7: What I've learned about jealousy go ahead, is that you

650
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 7: know they smile on your face, okay all the time?

651
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 4: They want to take your place? Who who the backstabbers.

652
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 7: Backstaberge man, they're out there the stab stab stab. You

653
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 7: obviously don't know that, did you? What kind of household

654
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 7: did you go? I know they're from Philla film.

655
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 4: You do their stab staf stab? And what about money? Money?

656
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 2: Was all right?

657
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 4: You know? How does it feel?

658
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 7: It feels terrible, you know, especially when it's one of

659
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 7: your loved ones, right, and when you can when it's

660
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 7: obviously misplaced, and when you can feel that it's jealousy

661
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 7: that has been bred.

662
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 4: It doesn't even have a ground. Yeah, that's what it is. Resemblent.

663
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 4: It doesn't.

664
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 7: It doesn't feel nice, but I mean it's out there

665
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 7: and you sort of feel it.

666
00:32:58,160 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 4: And it's a two way street.

667
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 7: Now, not only you know do I feel when folks

668
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 7: when I'm resented, but I'll be resenting motherfuckers too. It's

669
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 7: like I don't want to I don't want to be

670
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 7: jealous of. I don't want to be envious of. I

671
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 7: don't want to be like you.

672
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 4: Know, I don't want to feel any of those things.

673
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 4: That's not what I want to leave with.

674
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 7: But you know, you do feel it, and you know

675
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 7: you just have you have to navigate it.

676
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 4: Like what do I do with mine?

677
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 7: I figure out how to best how best to navigate

678
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 7: it and make it through the day. You know what

679
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 7: I'm saying. I take it one day at a time,

680
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 7: one step at a time, and you just got to

681
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 7: move through that ship. But you can't, you know, just

682
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 7: give up. Like, giving up has never been an option

683
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 7: for me. So whatever I've ever been faced with in life,

684
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 7: I just try to, you know, accept the challenge and

685
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 7: take it head on. I failed at a couple of things,

686
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 7: but it's been the few things that I've given up.

687
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Yeah, yeah, then you have

688
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:51,239
Speaker 4: your answer if you give up.

689
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, jealousy. That was beautiful, by the way, because navigating

690
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 2: that ship is everything and we don't give ourselves enough

691
00:33:58,960 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 2: time to do that.

692
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 4: I agree.

693
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 2: Jealousy to me and I used to be a jealous person.

694
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 4: M hm.

695
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 2: Jealousy to me is someone who has not grown into

696
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 2: their power yet. You are insecure, you want what someone has.

697
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 2: You always feel threatened, You're not sure how people are

698
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:23,279
Speaker 2: coming at you. And it's just because you don't know

699
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 2: how powerful you are yet. Because now that I know

700
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 2: who I am, and I'm in a loving relationship with

701
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 2: my husband but mainly myself, like, there's nothing but fucking

702
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 2: good vibes over here, bitch, and if you can't do that,

703
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 2: go somewhere else with that pettyass shit. So jealousy, definitely

704
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 2: navigate that shit, you know what I mean? Go off

705
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 2: and ask yourself why are you jealous? And I always

706
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 2: say this because again it's a me, my soul, but

707
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 2: I really love it. Being happy for someone else's success

708
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 2: will never fuck up yours. Yeah, period, So honestly figure

709
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 2: out what want to do.

710
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 4: I never experienced.

711
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 3: Jealousy, but oh lord, because my dad had Alexis swim

712
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 3: work kids.

713
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 4: I'm going I'm going for another question.

714
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 3: But but I will say that it's a lot of

715
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 3: it is just letting go. You gotta let go and

716
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 3: think about you can be complete and whole and operate

717
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 3: without this in your life. You know what I'm saying,

718
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 3: a lot of it is like if I let go,

719
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 3: then who am I? If I'm not a jealous?

720
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 4: Fuck?

721
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 2: Thank you? I like to what's the next question?

722
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,359
Speaker 4: I feel like now I understand, like why you were

723
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 4: skipping over something just because someone is really personal?

724
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 7: Like okay, a right, I'm gonna read this in the

725
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 7: voice that I think it was written there alright, oh shit,

726
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 7: oh dear Okay, Like to my friend in my head, Michelle, like,

727
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,320
Speaker 7: how does it feel like to really be that bitch?

728
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 4: And like like what's your.

729
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 7: Routine to like maintain that bitches them? That bitch is

730
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:04,760
Speaker 7: my name, Tiffany. This shows my birthday present. Thank you,

731
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 7: sess your wife, she said, that's her voice.

732
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 4: She got it. He nailed the essence of essence. I

733
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 4: don't know if her name is essence.

734
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 2: Happy birthday.

735
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 4: By the way, what you do? What you do?

736
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 5: Yeah?

737
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 4: You know what?

738
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,839
Speaker 2: And this is why comedy saved me, because I'm gonna

739
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 2: let you know I don't give a fuck with a

740
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 2: smile and make you laugh, do you know what I mean?

741
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: So whatever that thing is for you like figure that out.

742
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 2: But like, yeah, you sassy as fuck, you fucking do it,

743
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Nobody's gonna love you like

744
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:40,439
Speaker 2: you so love on yourself period. Oh it's so hot

745
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 2: in this fucking.

746
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 3: This is this is a very spicy question for an

747
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:48,399
Speaker 3: aspiring New York home owner. How did you decide which

748
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,800
Speaker 3: borrow to settle into for your family.

749
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 4: Or six families? Some assumptions going on?

750
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 5: Right?

751
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 4: Your multiple First of.

752
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 7: All, you got to get your priority straight, like you

753
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 7: are here, you multiple family in it, and you're still

754
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 7: an aspiring homeowner.

755
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 4: Nigga, Like you should have had the household ship straight.

756
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 2: First, Like you need to go to the Bronx because

757
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: you need a lot of bedrooms.

758
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, you need to get to one of those

759
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 7: real far burroughs, the outer outer boroughs in New York

760
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:33,720
Speaker 7: City like you now, yeah, I mean not even Stanton

761
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 7: Island at this point. I'm talking about like, you know,

762
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 7: parts of Central Jersey.

763
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 2: Yeah seven a Hamilton squall. Yeah, damn you know what.

764
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 2: That's hard? I say, just go take a little Saturday

765
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 2: Sunday afternoon and look at a bunch of houses in

766
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 2: different boroughs. But it was like, what are you about?

767
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 2: Where do you work? Do you need to train? Do

768
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 2: you have a car, do you need to do you

769
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 2: need windows? You know what I mean? Real talk like

770
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 2: my husband was like I need windows. I was like,

771
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 2: I need closets. What we're gonna do?

772
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

773
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:14,240
Speaker 2: So like what matters to you? Also, like being around

774
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 2: like good restaurants? Is that important? Like what's important to you?

775
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 2: A good school district? Obviously you got multiple families.

776
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 4: We started with the school school district, right.

777
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 2: I think New York real estate is the most exciting

778
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 2: real estate because it always appreciates, do you know what

779
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:36,240
Speaker 2: I mean? And you're so close to so many different

780
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 2: places in the world, Like you know, I could go

781
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 2: to La I could go to fucking Europe, like you know,

782
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 2: South America's right there isand mm Africa, Like you can

783
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:49,280
Speaker 2: go to so many places and New York is so international, mamma,

784
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 2: I love it.

785
00:38:51,920 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 1: That said, did you have another question?

786
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 4: This isn't even a question. It's just like praise people.

787
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 4: I love you girls.

788
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 7: Oh, but then it is it is followed by there

789
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 7: is a question. It's like it's a long it's I

790
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 7: love you girl with like mad els.

791
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 4: It's like five or six l's and girl, oh wow.

792
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 4: Then it says you know, seriously, he says, do you

793
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 4: think adulting?

794
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 7: This is the voice that the question happens, it goes,

795
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 7: I love you girl, then it goes.

796
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 4: Do you think adulting happens at a different age please explain? Wait,

797
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 4: a different question.

798
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 2: Just adulting happens.

799
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 4: At a different age in men than it does in women.

800
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 4: I was, I was, so they grown like a bumblebee.

801
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 4: I don't know what.

802
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 2: I don't know how to answer that. Everybody's been through

803
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 2: so many different things, you know what I mean? Like,

804
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 2: everyone's been through so many different things. Like when I

805
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 2: look at my friend, like Nicole Byer, she is fucking

806
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 2: joy personified. Both her parents have passed away, and she

807
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,760
Speaker 2: chooses to find joy every day. She's shaking her ass,

808
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:13,919
Speaker 2: she's making money, she's fat, she's black, she's beautiful, sun fuck.

809
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:17,359
Speaker 2: So it's just like for her, adulting is having fun,

810
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,320
Speaker 2: having ice cream for dinner, moving on, you know what

811
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 2: I mean? Yeah, And then I have a friend like Jordan.

812
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 4: Did you just call me a friend.

813
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 2: Who like who will like spin himself out like a

814
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 2: Tasmanian devil trying to do the right thing?

815
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:36,919
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?

816
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 2: But the right thing is just even thinking about doing

817
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 2: the right thing sometimes, you know what I mean. So

818
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 2: it's like I.

819
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 4: Made those calls to you in confidence.

820
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's wild. But then I have a friend like

821
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 2: doll Will, who's a rapper, who's a writer, who's a father,

822
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 2: And then like you always hear comedians making jokes about

823
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 2: DJs and shit. Sorry Tom, Yeah but you know what

824
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 2: I mean. But he's a d jay.

825
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:05,399
Speaker 4: Shit.

826
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 2: So it's just like, I don't know, adulting is you know,

827
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 2: I think for me, at least, finding your happiness and

828
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:15,720
Speaker 2: being a good person. You know, and wash your fucking hands.

829
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 2: Jesus Christ. No one's getting one of the fucking fingernails

830
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 2: and you're getting fucking all types of diseases and fuckings.

831
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:23,840
Speaker 2: You can't explain it.

832
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 4: Adulting is relative.

833
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is like your beard alone alone tells me

834
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 2: you pay your taxes on time alone, Your sneakers say,

835
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 2: I better show up to your house with a nice gift.

836
00:41:47,360 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 5: You know what I mean alone?

837
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 4: Well, well you know, don't dude.

838
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 7: It's definitely is definitely given, faithful, thank you, thank you.

839
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 4: Oh god, I'm a dangerous man.

840
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 2: Okay, next question, My boyfriend and I recently said I

841
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 2: love you. Since then, I say it a lot, but

842
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 2: he doesn't. Oh but he doesn't help.

843
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 4: Oh, it doesn't help. I've got to.

844
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 2: Really read these before I come out. Y'all. My boyfriend

845
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 2: and I recently said I love you since then I

846
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 2: say it a lot, but he doesn't help help, you know.

847
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:50,959
Speaker 3: The Four Tops wrote a great song, Oh call Still

848
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 3: waters run deep, you know, and it's a whole song.

849
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 3: It's like, never you mind if I don't tell strangers

850
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 3: passing by you know, about my love for you, which

851
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 3: runs so deep and true. And I thought, that's a

852
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:06,320
Speaker 3: beautiful song. But it's totally dick and.

853
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 2: It's about dick.

854
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 4: No, it's no, it's a dick move.

855
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:13,320
Speaker 2: To not sorry.

856
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 3: It's rude not to do that saying I love you.

857
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 3: You don't have to say it all the time, but

858
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:23,839
Speaker 3: you do need to say it back and you need

859
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 3: to feel it. And if it's not, if it doesn't

860
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 3: feel right, then it ain't right.

861
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 4: So I would definitely like, I.

862
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 3: Would definitely have the conversation about it, and don't feel

863
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 3: like you need to overcompensate and say I love you

864
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 3: a lot for that person. It should just be a

865
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,319
Speaker 3: beautiful reciprocal thing. That's that said and meant.

866
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 7: And yeah, I agree, I think you'll your love is

867
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 7: more it should be more felt then you know, just

868
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:57,720
Speaker 7: a remark, right, even even if it's reciprocal, a reciprocal remark.

869
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 4: I think it's it's more about the feeling.

870
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 7: I mean, just knowing that, you know, in this dynamic,

871
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 7: when I do this and when I say this thing,

872
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 7: it's out of love, like this.

873
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 4: Is my love. That's why we have what we call

874
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 4: love languages. Right. Everybody doesn't say I love you by

875
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 4: saying you know, I love you? You know what I'm saying?

876
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:15,839
Speaker 4: You got?

877
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:18,320
Speaker 7: I think it was who was it the stylistics of

878
00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 7: you know, the Death Findings, one of those O G groups.

879
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 4: It's another song that goes la la la la la

880
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 4: means I love it.

881
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:29,720
Speaker 7: It's motherfuckers who can't really from Philadelphia saying like, yeah,

882
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 7: so you know if I go la la la.

883
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 4: La la la, you know what I mean? Yeah, you

884
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying.

885
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 3: Other guys may come to you with a line that

886
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,360
Speaker 3: is untripped and you passed them by.

887
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 4: I don't even have a song to sing. I don't

888
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 4: have no I'm not leaving it bro Diamond Ring. I

889
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 4: don't even have a song to sing. All I know is.

890
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:58,479
Speaker 2: We can't afford that song.

891
00:44:58,600 --> 00:44:59,360
Speaker 4: I appreciate you.

892
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 3: There was this smattering of white people but mostly black people.

893
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Happy Black History Month? Okay it was.

894
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 2: It was definitely giving. Like non denominational church people are like,

895
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:14,399
Speaker 2: I know that song.

896
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 7: Next question, next question, Okay, this is a this is

897
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 7: a crazy one.

898
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 4: Hi, love you. That's to you? Is it? Is it

899
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:29,760
Speaker 4: not to you? Yeah? No, no it.

900
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 3: Isn't it all accessible that I still have a Teddy

901
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:35,320
Speaker 3: Bear two underlines on my bed and if so, should

902
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 3: I hide it? If the time, if the first like

903
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 3: if a new person comes over to bang, yes, oh, okay,

904
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,439
Speaker 3: what do you think teddy Bear out or teddy bear?

905
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 7: If you're in a what is it called adulting? I mean,

906
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 7: I mean, I guess there's something. There's something to be

907
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:57,319
Speaker 7: said about, you know, how much of an adult you

908
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:00,359
Speaker 7: have to be to just really embrace your authentic self.

909
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 7: So yeah, I mean, I guess the ultimate adult would

910
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 7: be to leave the teddy Bear out.

911
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 4: But a nigga like me put the ship away, put

912
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:10,399
Speaker 4: the teddy Bear away.

913
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 7: I don't like whoa. I don't like grown people who

914
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 7: do anything like baby like.

915
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 3: First of all, I wrote the question, and I will

916
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 3: say what I do in this situation is I take

917
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 3: Teddy and I turn him around so he doesn't see

918
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 3: mommy and Daddy hurting it.

919
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 5: It's a little.

920
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 2: It's a little weird. It's a little weird, but you

921
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 2: know what it's like, it's giving forty old version when

922
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,240
Speaker 2: he had all those dolls in the box and stuff.

923
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:47,880
Speaker 2: But you can find someone who's into misstuffed animals like

924
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:51,359
Speaker 2: you you know, Yeah, this is a it's a niche like,

925
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 2: very specific.

926
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:57,280
Speaker 4: Super specific people are in today, very specific.

927
00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 3: I have a feeling though, a hunch my Spidey senses

928
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 3: tingle and tell me that there's not just one bear

929
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 3: on that bed. Uh.

930
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:10,319
Speaker 2: They're like, you know, it's a bear. And yeah, it's

931
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 2: giving an interview with a vampire? What's really under the

932
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 2: fucking Yeah? That was a deep cut? Sorry, Oh my god,

933
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:17,479
Speaker 2: did you get a question?

934
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I got a new question. This one is.

935
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 2: This is the last one.

936
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 7: Okay, So I'm gonna end on a high note, high

937
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 7: energy something really you know, happy in life.

938
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 4: You know, how young is too young to have a will?

939
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 4: There's a way, there's a way. How young is and

940
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:39,239
Speaker 4: do you have one?

941
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 6: Let's talk at state we have we have a will

942
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 6: on stage one will right there.

943
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 4: That's good.

944
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 7: I don't think I don't think there is a too

945
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 7: young I think it you know, it should be based

946
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 7: on where you are in your business life and where

947
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 7: you are with regards you know, just your relationship, if

948
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 7: you're married to someone, if you have children, and I think, yeah,

949
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 7: it makes more sense to have that sort of thing

950
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 7: in place. And then the event that you know, something

951
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 7: happens to you and you know you want your family

952
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 7: to be to be looked out for.

953
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 4: I think it's yeah, it's never too young to get

954
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 4: your affairs in order. Yeah, but but.

955
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:26,799
Speaker 7: If you out here rolling stone in it anyway, Yeah, Yeah.

956
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 2: I had a will when I was single. I didn't

957
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:32,360
Speaker 2: really have money, but I was like, you know, I

958
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 2: had all these little cousins I really liked. I had

959
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 2: a piano, I own property. I was just like, let

960
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:39,479
Speaker 2: me just because my parents are those people. My dad

961
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 2: worked and you know, he worked for Signa for over

962
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 2: forty years, liberally mutual. So they're like nerds about that

963
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,359
Speaker 2: shit because they came from nothing. They were like, oh,

964
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 2: we got something, make sure you could pass it on.

965
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 2: So like it's always been about having a will. It's

966
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 2: harder to do a will when you are married and

967
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,799
Speaker 2: have children. Ooh baby, because it's like where the kid's

968
00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 2: gonna go? And do I like them? But I like

969
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 2: what they were where do you see what they posted

970
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 2: on Facebook during COVID? I don't know if I can

971
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 2: trust them? Do they wash their hands? They came out

972
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:05,879
Speaker 2: the bathrooms?

973
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 4: Were really going to know who I love most?

974
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 2: Now, you know what I mean? Yeah? So, like you know,

975
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 2: I'm not saying a will could be fun. What I'm

976
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:18,479
Speaker 2: saying is find yourself a lawyer. That's cool, that's good

977
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 2: with it, and just you know, you can get a

978
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 2: little excited about knowing where you're gonna leave, like who

979
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 2: you're leaving stuff to, you know what I mean. Like,

980
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 2: but I'm also that bitch, like I got a playlist

981
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 2: for my funeral already, you know what I mean.

982
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,879
Speaker 7: Like it's also it's never it's never final. I mean

983
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 7: it's final. At some point it becomes final, but you

984
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 7: know you can change it with forever. You can always

985
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 7: continue to you know, come back to edit it. You

986
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 7: because you know somebody that you know you were leaving

987
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 7: everything too. We could go could piss you off, and

988
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 7: you could say I'm changing my ship and you go

989
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 7: back and you can take them off. The will is

990
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 7: ever evolving until it becomes the last will and testament.

991
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,320
Speaker 3: I would say one thing, which is, if you're in

992
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,760
Speaker 3: your thirties and you have kids or forties and have kids,

993
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 3: I would definitely look into like term life insurance because

994
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 3: you just want to make sure that people you.

995
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 4: Know rather than a like like like.

996
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:16,320
Speaker 3: Also in addition to a will, like term life because

997
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 3: if you're raising someone, taking care of someone, you want

998
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 3: their standard of living to continue. And death your death,

999
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 3: and then and theirs if they're Egyptian.

1000
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 4: And I was not a bad joke, all right, So.

1001
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, but but but and the magic formula

1002
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 3: is to try to get a policy that's eight times

1003
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 3: what you what you make.

1004
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 4: Basically, Oh I got.

1005
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 3: A little footnote. Yeah over here, Oh guy, thank you?

1006
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 3: Get a prenup?

1007
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:50,959
Speaker 2: Get we weren't even talking about that ship, she said,

1008
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 2: Oh way, okay, okay, that was an experience.

1009
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 7: Can you get a prenup if you've been married for

1010
00:50:58,120 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 7: like fifteen years already?

1011
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can always get a print up.

1012
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1013
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 7: I think I'm gonna get like a posting up.

1014
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna get it.

1015
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 3: You know, I'm gonna get an all hell up.

1016
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 2: So we asked every guest, what is the most adult

1017
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 2: thing you want to do for yourself this year that

1018
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 2: you haven't had time to do. It could be big

1019
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 2: or small. It could be petty or important, anything truly anything.

1020
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 7: You know, what I really want to do for myself

1021
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:35,479
Speaker 7: this year is just I want to take a trip.

1022
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 7: I want to take a trip, either alone or with

1023
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:41,479
Speaker 7: a couple of my homies. You know, it just goes

1024
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 7: someplace where I don't have to work, where it's not

1025
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 7: like a recommission, where I'm not you know, trying to

1026
00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 7: like figure out the dope ship to bring my family

1027
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:53,359
Speaker 7: back to like it's you know, like I said, because

1028
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:56,320
Speaker 7: I'm always grinding when it's spring break time, when a

1029
00:51:56,400 --> 00:52:00,359
Speaker 7: break time girls trip with somebody celebrating their birthday whatever,

1030
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 7: I don't you know, I often don't get to partake

1031
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 7: in the festivities, but I got to finance all that shit.

1032
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:11,319
Speaker 4: So yeah, you know, I would really like to do

1033
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:11,719
Speaker 4: a thing.

1034
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 7: You know, like what adulting looks like for me is

1035
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:18,240
Speaker 7: being able to do you know, those little small things

1036
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 7: for myself and you know, just want to and without

1037
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 7: anybody really tripping about the fact that I'm doing this,

1038
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 7: like y'all get to do some shit now, like let

1039
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 7: me just rack out, you know.

1040
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 4: So, yeah, I'm looking forward to that.

1041
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:32,319
Speaker 7: I think I started telling myself at forty seven that like,

1042
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 7: that's what fifty was gonna look like. And then there

1043
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 7: was a pandemic and everything in fifty has come and

1044
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 7: it ain't it hasn't gone yet. But I'm good in fifty.

1045
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 7: You know that, I still haven't taken that trip. So

1046
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 7: where would you like to go? I think you're one

1047
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:50,840
Speaker 7: of the places. At the top of my list is Morocco.

1048
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, stuff like that. It's been I've seen the

1049
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 7: whole world, but I've seen it.

1050
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 4: I feel like in Passing, you pull up some ladi're.

1051
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 7: There for eighteen hours, and you know ten of those

1052
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 7: hours are sound check and performance and getting to and

1053
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 7: from and that whole thing. I still feel like there's

1054
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 7: so much that I haven't seen. People ask me, but yo,

1055
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 7: what's you know rus should like or places in Eastern

1056
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:18,400
Speaker 7: Europe or I don't know Australia for that matter, And

1057
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 7: it's like I've been there, but I can't really speak

1058
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 7: to what it's like in a lot of these places

1059
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 7: because I've only been there in one specific capacity.

1060
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that same. I couldn't tell you the

1061
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 2: difference between Iowa and Ohio. I couldn't tell you the difference.

1062
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 2: It's the blackout true a little difference.

1063
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:40,319
Speaker 7: The difference between Iowa and Ohio is Ohio got Dave

1064
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 7: Chappelle logo all over everything to go there, those big

1065
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 7: ass seas everywhere.

1066
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 9: That's how I know I'm in Ohio, Ohio.

1067
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 3: Also, you're talking about the Alleghanys there in the east,

1068
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 3: and Iowa's for like rolling grassland.

1069
00:53:57,160 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 4: Iowa is how it's actually.

1070
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, wow, somebody told me that this planet was small,

1071
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 3: live in the same building on the same floor, but

1072
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 3: never met before.

1073
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 4: Listen.

1074
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:23,880
Speaker 3: Teriy Trotter is like such a big part of my upbringing,

1075
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 3: childhood musically, and just having him on stage once again

1076
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 3: for this show, being an FOP a friend of the pod.

1077
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 2: Yes, FOP, you down with FOP?

1078
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 3: Yeah you know me, okay, Jersey, Yeah, we'll have Tretch next,

1079
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 3: all right. So it's just really cool to get someone

1080
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 3: like that and he's like still in the game, killing it.

1081
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 2: And he's hilarious. It really is just like childhood dreams

1082
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 2: come true. It's also a teenage dream comes true. It's

1083
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 2: like thirty year old dreams come true.

1084
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, he is cooler than the other side of the pillow.

1085
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:55,760
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

1086
00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 2: All Right, everyone, thank you for listening and liking and loving.

1087
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 2: We hope you enjoyed this episode. If you enjoyed it

1088
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:05,319
Speaker 2: a lot, you can rate it and review it if

1089
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:08,719
Speaker 2: you want. But I'm not going to read it, but

1090
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:09,439
Speaker 2: my mom will.

1091
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 3: I'll read it. I'll interpret it and make sure that

1092
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 3: it's okay. I'll only read the nice ones. Also, y'all

1093
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 3: subscribe to the pod please and just like yeah, tell

1094
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 3: people all about it because we want to spread the word.

1095
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 3: We ain't going nowhere.

1096
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 4: We ain't going nowhere.

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Speaker 2: It's too good. There ain't no way. There ain't no

1098
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 2: way where.

1099
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,359
Speaker 4: But okay, are you taking us out?

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Speaker 2: Nah?

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00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 4: When did this become argumentative?

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Speaker 1: It's time.

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00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:32,359
Speaker 4: It's time.

1104
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 2: We got to put Michelle to bed, but she just

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00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:34,719
Speaker 2: woke up.

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00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 4: This has been an exactly right production.

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Speaker 2: Our senior producer is g Howley.

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Speaker 3: Our associate producer is Christina Chamberlain.

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Speaker 2: This episode was mixed by John Bradley.

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Speaker 4: Our guest booker is Patrick Cotner.

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Speaker 2: Additional production support from Hannah Kyle Crichton.

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Speaker 4: Theme song and live show. Djaning is My DJ Don

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Speaker 4: will Our.

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Speaker 2: Live producer is Makala Kanozovich.

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Speaker 4: Artwork by Jamie Bechtel.

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Speaker 2: Photography hy Vander Most.

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Speaker 3: Executive produced by Karen Kilgera, Georgia Hartstar and Daniel Kramer.

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Speaker 2: Follow the show on Instagram at Adulting Thepod.

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Speaker 3: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 4: Mmmmm