WEBVTT - Ep. 457: Tacky 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:01.800 Welcome to Decisions Decisions. 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:04.480 I don't think you should say decision decisions. It sounded 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.280 like you was talking to it cursing. You definitely say 0:00:07.280 --> 0:00:11.000 to welcome, welcome to the new podcast. You want to 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:13.320 say together, decisions decisions. 0:00:14.160 --> 0:00:22.880 Hey guys, Oh, welcome to another episode. Oh, decisions decisions, bitch. 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:24.079 I heard the flun Oh. 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:30.000 I know it's so nasty. Anyways, guys, welcome, I'm your girl, Mandy. 0:00:29.880 --> 0:00:34.000 B Hey, y'all, I'm weazy, Welcome back to another episode. 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:36.760 Listen, y'all begged for us to be solo and alone, 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:37.160 my bitch. 0:00:37.200 --> 0:00:39.360 Now y'all got a solo ho? I go hold it, 0:00:39.400 --> 0:00:42.440 I'm solo ho, solo ho. Even though last week they 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:44.319 had another guest, it was like, these bitches only gave 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:46.600 us one solo a. I'll finished the next three about 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:48.400 to be solo on you os and less we get 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:49.479 that special guest were working on. 0:00:49.560 --> 0:00:51.680 Oh yeah, oh that'll be cute. That'll be a treat 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:52.280 for you bitches. 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:56.320 Okay, oh read, just eat it up, just like a 0:00:56.360 --> 0:00:58.520 trip to the Turks would have been a treat. 0:00:58.760 --> 0:01:02.760 Okay, So, y'all, if you listened to the episode the 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:06.840 very first episode of the year, we was listening and 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:11.280 judging and not agreeing on one of Weezy's friends. A 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:13.000 lot of people in the comments was agreeing with you, 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:15.600 but them bitch is probably lost and clueless suit. Okay, 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:18.640 so you know at the end of the day did 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:21.600 they go in. But also actually they said two things 0:01:21.600 --> 0:01:22.160 could be true. 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:23.440 Uh huh. 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:25.959 The bitch was acting like a bird and self sabotaging 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:28.560 the relationship. But also she really didn't like him. But 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:31.640 apparently there's an update because y'all not the friend listened 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:32.520 to the episode. 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:36.160 Okay, No, the bitch was passed timp. Can you tell 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:37.840 me what I gotta make sure I'm lupciccated for. 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:42.640 This room room tamp tamp. Okay, so let me tell 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:45.680 you about Hey. By the way, Eden, you were a 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:48.360 little quiet time we had the conversation about this. We 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:50.320 need you to weigh in. As the man, yo, I 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:52.480 was kind of mad when Mandy left. Wolf was like, no, 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:53.320 I agreed with you. 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:54.000 Whoe a were you? 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:56.520 Well, he wasn't micd up. You kept trying to talk 0:01:56.560 --> 0:01:58.640 to Wolf as and Wolf didn't have a mic. So 0:01:58.720 --> 0:02:02.760 this time, as the man in the a man with 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:06.520 a mic? Should we recap for people that didn't catch 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:08.320 that episode. Oh, because the hoses they about to go 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:10.240 back and listen. We need all of you go back 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:12.640 and listen. Two episodes ago, pulls the holes for the 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:14.440 first twenty minutes. If you want to hear what we 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:16.040 talk about, then come back. 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:17.000 Don't recap. 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:21.240 It's just say Netflix, you don't get a motherfucking in 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:24.519 the last episode. No, take your ass back and listen. 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:28.919 We've got to get her out of Atlanta. But you do. 0:02:29.080 --> 0:02:32.079 I'm in New York right now. Okay, true, okay, okay. 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:35.600 So update, no, no no, you asked Eden, no no no. 0:02:35.720 --> 0:02:39.160 I told Eden she wants to chime in chi Okay. 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:42.239 So basically, when the episode dropped, no, we said we 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:42.679 not give it. 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:44.320 No, no, no, but it's important. 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:49.560 So the girl told him you need to give my 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:51.040 flight and he's like, well, we don't need to go nowhere. 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:53.799 That was Saturday. I recorded with you on Sunday. Yes, 0:02:54.000 --> 0:02:57.240 the episode came out on Monday. Yes, come on Timeline babe, 0:02:57.240 --> 0:02:59.480 Monday nine thirty. She hit me like, I've listened to 0:02:59.480 --> 0:03:01.000 the full thing. She said, I even listened to the 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:04.160 andecy if you bring it up again, and and we did. 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:06.440 She's like, and I went through the comments and there's 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:11.120 a comment that really affected me, and not. 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:12.560 Not bit just being affected in the comments section. 0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:15.400 But you know what, in a episode she was like, Oh, 0:03:15.440 --> 0:03:16.799 I just feel like because when we were on the phone, 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:18.200 she I just feel like, because you're happy in your 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:21.280 relationship and shit, you can't like see what it's like 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:21.800 about of it. 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:24.320 You can't step out of and recorded right now. 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.680 I do agree with that, like when you all lovey 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:28.840 dovey in a relationship, you don't know how to really 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:30.400 talk to a single bitch out here in the street. 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:32.840 But wait, I feel like because I'm in a relationship, 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:34.720 I could give some great advice because I see the 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:38.320 things that I've changed. Now, this is the comment she 0:03:38.440 --> 0:03:41.640 referred to, So shout out to you. Okay, man or 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:45.440 woman getting rid of a situation because you didn't get 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:46.840 one hundred percent of what you want. 0:03:47.200 --> 0:03:50.480 It's straight up self sabotaged. Nobody gets one hundred percent 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:54.000 of they want. Nobody. I did see that, said you said. 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:55.720 I don't like that. I don't think she liked him 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:58.440 that much. So she gets. 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:01.440 You agree, right, I don't think so Okay, Okay, So 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:03.840 here's her text. I watched her episode. 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:09.320 Lol. Knew Mandy would agree, but what I said? So 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:10.760 she called me. I said, don't call me. I need 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:11.480 you to live write. 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:12.240 This out socker read it. 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:16.040 So why you start of your friends and content. 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:17.200 She don't. 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:18.479 She's not a podcast girl. 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:21.560 One thing she is wrong about is I actually do 0:04:21.760 --> 0:04:25.599 like him. But my real truth is I don't care 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:28.719 how much I like a nigga. I will never settle. 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:31.279 She wrote that in all caps, and I wrote girl 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:32.560 dot dot dot. 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:34.440 She said, I'm about to speak to him. 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:39.159 Keep you posting, please get full tytail and screez shots. Okay, 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:42.599 we just had a conversation. I'm going to share with 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:43.880 you how it started. 0:04:44.400 --> 0:04:44.479 Me. 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:49.040 Hey, I realized I was out of line with some 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:51.080 of the things I said to you, and I would 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:53.560 like to formally apologize if you'd be willing to answer 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:56.760 my call. And this is her writing to him. I'm 0:04:56.760 --> 0:05:00.960 actually a bit given accountability. Shout out to your friend. 0:05:01.000 --> 0:05:03.240 All right, Well let's see where you go from now. Okay, 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:06.520 she said, I guess he didn't answer a call. I 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:08.400 actually wanted to call you and let you know. 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:10.120 I have The Turks would have known the bitch, but no, 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:11.360 I just I. 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:14.120 Was absolutely willing and still am able to pay for this, 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:16.240 and I would also like to take you out to dinner, 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:18.080 join one of our nights on the island to. 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:20.440 Keep up if you'd like to keep our trip. 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:25.120 He rode back and said, just to be clear, I 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:28.479 have no intention on rebooking our plans. However, you could 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:31.760 give me a call. Here's what she rode back an 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:36.240 hour later. We just had a talk. He said, he's 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:39.640 looking for someone that's very serious and intentional about dating 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:42.159 and spending time together and felt that the way I 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:46.680 approached the situation was very tacky. He implied when I 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:48.760 mentioned the word test, which I didn't think it was 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:51.240 until you and Mandy debated it, uh that it was 0:05:51.279 --> 0:05:53.680 not a test, but he felt so disrespected by MY 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:56.520 approach to the flight. He believed it was a test 0:05:56.839 --> 0:06:00.560 that was given to him for me. If it was 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:02.120 a test to see if he would be the man 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:05.680 for me. Yes, oh, he implied that he wasn't willing. 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:09.120 He no, sorry, he said that. I implied that I 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:12.080 had higher expectations out of the men I had been with. Now, 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:13.919 for context, I asked her if I could say what 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:17.039 she does for a living before the reason she had 0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:17.919 dated so many. 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:20.159 Athletes was because she did. 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:23.440 She had a high position at MSG, and so she 0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:25.760 had been working in MSG for years and around him. 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:29.880 Niggas okay, and so his comment was, I don't know 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:32.600 if it's because of your past or previous work and 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:34.720 the people or clients tell you're used to being around, 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:37.560 but I'm absolutely a stand up man. I felt I 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:40.440 did everything I could to make this destination easy for you, 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:42.479 as you were already in a worse work trip. But again, 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:46.920 this was completely tacky and I felt very disrespected by 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:48.440 your approach. 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:52.320 She then you a niggas call it a bitch? Tacky 0:06:52.720 --> 0:07:00.359 is oh? Like, oh you know what, listen, girl, I ain't 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:02.200 eve gonna hold you. There are a lot of things 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:04.039 that make us say about a woman like I would 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:06.960 be rather. I would rather be called a slut ass 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:08.160 whole than a tachy bitch. 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:09.120 That's hilarious. 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:16.080 I'm not gonna hold you like like i'd rather. I 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:18.040 felt that the whole time from her. That's why I 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:21.920 was like, bro, what you have to think? This is 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:26.200 a man that also is doing well, almost forty booking 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:28.160 the place you want. Also, and Mandy, when you were 0:07:28.200 --> 0:07:30.320 like she had to pick the place to me that 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:32.400 to choose it, what do you want, I'll give it 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:34.880 to you, like getting everything you want. 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:36.320 And then I mean, we're not go We not gonna 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:39.120 go back on that, okay, like you know what I mean? Like, no, 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:41.640 still you invite me on a trip, nigga, get my flight? 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:41.880 Wait? 0:07:41.960 --> 0:07:44.080 So is the issue that he's using the word tacky 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:45.720 or is that she is? No? 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:47.880 No, no, I just feel like if a man call 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:52.239 you tacky behavior. Oh bro, when I read this text, 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:54.600 I was like, like my skin crawled a little bit 0:07:54.600 --> 0:07:58.000 of techy hod Wait, listen to my reply. Bitch, I said, 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:01.280 holy shit, bitch, holy sh ship, holy shit. 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:05.480 He said, taki or you wrote tacky to me? She 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:07.960 said no, he said tacky. Yeah. She said he. 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:10.160 Doesn't want to rebook the trip, but he would. He says, 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:12.440 we could have dinner tomorrow, which was the night they 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:14.240 were gonna go on the trip, if we would like 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:17.120 to settle a conversation. I said, girl, don't get upset. 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:19.480 You fucked that up and you can never. 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:22.720 Let is she is she paying for the dinner? I 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:24.200 don't know. Probably not. 0:08:24.320 --> 0:08:26.960 He's not he's not a letter, but she's not a 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:29.400 suggest But he's definitely not a letter after she did 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:31.360 that whole thing. So I said, don't get upset. You 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:33.800 fucked that up and you never gonna forget that nigga 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:34.439 called you tacky. 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:38.000 You can end up with him. I I don't think 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:39.280 he would end up with a tachy bitch. 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:42.320 Like That's why I like, like, I ain't even gonna 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:42.760 hold you. 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:47.199 Like if a man calls you tacky, that's like bop, 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:49.559 like he don't like you. 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:51.400 He gonna go out and eat what you probably just 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:53.760 not anymore? You know what. He probably want to call you. 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:56.439 Take it to your face, but don't go out with him, 0:08:56.640 --> 0:08:58.920 Like I hope she don't go out with. 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:03.480 Him, like so lib does and I about him, so 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:06.080 we have to tea I would I'm curious if you 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:08.280 a real nigga, Like if he a real nigga, what 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:09.959 he would do is be like, yeah, let's go out 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:12.679 to eat, and then last minute to say something came up, 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.960 just because like I did, go out of this way, 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:19.080 you don't get to come back. So let's dive into 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:19.640 this a little bit. 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:23.560 Because her and I did get on the phone at 0:09:23.559 --> 0:09:28.000 some point when she was getting upset this morning. She 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:31.160 was more so like, it really hurt my feelings to 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:33.720 hear you say I've bitched about being single. 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:34.880 I've bitched about being single. 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:38.520 And basically she's like, even though I understand what you mean, 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:42.680 like about me, you know, needing to sacrifice something or whatever, 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:46.160 maybe that my expectations were too high. I felt like 0:09:46.840 --> 0:09:49.800 you had an underlying tone of because I'm so upset 0:09:49.840 --> 0:09:52.600 about being single, I should take whatever. And I was like, 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:55.360 I don't think that something of this magnitude is whatever, though. 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:59.600 And the other thing something we talked about when you 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:00.800 walked out about Claudia Jordan. 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:07.199 She is fine, well known, good looking as fuck, and 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:10.240 got mad access. And if that woman is saying dating 0:10:10.320 --> 0:10:12.720 is hard, that's really what it is. It's like it 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:14.480 could be hard for anybody. It doesn't matter how good 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:15.680 you look. And so one of the things I was 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:18.479 saying to her on the phone was yes, you're gorgeous, 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:22.520 Yes you do well. That doesn't mean that there isn't 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:24.520 a bunch of other women like this and a bunch 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:26.480 of other men like that. But guess what, we're not 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:29.520 meeting them. I'm sorry, but I was not meeting the 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:32.120 greatest guys all the time. I'm at fun niggas. I'm 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:34.400 at cute niggas, I me at rich niggas. I did 0:10:34.440 --> 0:10:37.320 not meet well rounded guys. And so because she has 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:40.319 this facade in her head of what dating should look 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:43.560 like in feminine energy and masculine energy, you're fucking your 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:46.120 shit up. And you were calling because Samuel's earlier. But 0:10:46.160 --> 0:10:47.960 I feel like she own as shit because she's like, 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:51.280 I'm high value. I gotta be like this, like bro, 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:52.640 like cut. 0:10:52.360 --> 0:10:53.080 This shit already. 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:56.920 It's interesting because here's the thing too, right, going back 0:10:56.960 --> 0:11:00.680 to the comment that mentioned one hundred percent, I think 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:01.160 good one. 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:02.200 That was great. 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:04.000 But if you do go in and you want a 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:07.280 man to do certain things, because we didn't talk about 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:11.079 any of the other qualities that he has, we don't 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:13.720 know if he's a good listener, if he community. 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:16.400 Clearly, he doesn't communicate well. We talked about that. They're 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:19.000 not they they both don't communicate well with each other. Wait, wait, 0:11:19.120 --> 0:11:21.880 let's let's revise to communicate because I actually think she's 0:11:21.880 --> 0:11:22.800 a terrible communicator. 0:11:22.840 --> 0:11:23.560 Here's why. 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.760 We dug into after she's like, oh, you left some 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:32.880 things out about what really happened and how the conversations went. Ah, well, yeah, yeah, 0:11:32.880 --> 0:11:35.080 because she looks well, I don't really remember, but now 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:38.040 this is why she felt like she wanted to apologize. 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:39.760 She's like, I'm not saying sorry because I'm desperate for 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:43.160 the trip. I'm actually saying sorry because I fucked up. First, 0:11:43.480 --> 0:11:47.720 here's what she says happened. First, they booked the hotel. 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:49.960 While they're at the Blue Note, they look up dates 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:51.640 they could both go. She said, we booked the short 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:54.280 club in the Blue Note. The reason we didn't do 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:57.360 flights is everybody need to figure out timing. So when 0:11:57.400 --> 0:12:00.520 she said I'll be in on the West Coast for work, 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:03.679 he was like, cool, let me grab what do you 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:05.560 think you want to leave an afternoon? Okay, cool, I'll 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:07.120 get our flights home. You're gonna come back to New York. 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:11.120 That was how that happened. All of that was done there. 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:15.760 She was then supposed to say what time she would 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:18.760 be able to come in after work. So I do 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:20.439 feel like he would have bought that flight if she 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:22.120 would have hit him and said, hey, I'm done at 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:22.640 twelve pm. 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:23.880 All right, cool, I'll grab it. 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:24.720 I agree. 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:28.920 However, She's like, I felt like he didn't follow up 0:12:28.960 --> 0:12:31.400 with me. I told him maybe my meetings would wrap 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:34.240 in the afternoon. Blah blah blah. When he hit her 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:37.720 about the driver, she said he was a clear like, oh, 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:39.600 you must be handling this. She says. 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:43.080 One other thing she did realize from the conversation. He 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:45.680 knows her work flies her around. He knows her work 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:49.040 is booking all the fucking travel. So maybe he thought 0:12:49.240 --> 0:12:51.920 that she was booking the flight, the return flight to 0:12:52.000 --> 0:12:54.240 that ad like you know, to that destination. 0:12:55.240 --> 0:12:57.480 I ain't gonna hold you, okay, from what we talked 0:12:57.480 --> 0:12:59.719 about this bitch, That's how I feel about it. 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:04.079 Now she's tacky. She tacky or not. 0:13:04.240 --> 0:13:06.680 I feel like, here's the thing too, at the end 0:13:06.720 --> 0:13:08.760 of the day, we always want to talk about niggas 0:13:08.760 --> 0:13:09.040 as shit. 0:13:09.880 --> 0:13:11.400 At the end of the day, a lot of you 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:14.520 bitches they ship. You're not fun to date, You're not 0:13:17.360 --> 0:13:18.080 he ain't that great. 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:21.560 There's other options for these niggas. And I do think 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:25.240 that women just got it. There's women that just shouldn't 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:26.480 be dating. Now. 0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:29.959 You didn't have this tone the other night when we 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:30.680 recorded what. 0:13:32.360 --> 0:13:35.120 Oh, because how I am bitch a nigga book around 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:36.520 trip or we ain't gonna see each other. 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:39.120 But to me, I have the way I want to date. 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:43.679 Like I told you, uh literally, I think I now 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:45.960 am able to not only present what I what I want, 0:13:46.200 --> 0:13:47.600 but I do the things whether a man is there 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:49.920 or not, which is why. Like on my little Booze 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:52.760 just took me to a basketball game. He wanted me 0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:53.760 to go to a basketball game. 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:55.080 He knew. 0:13:55.800 --> 0:13:58.040 Bitch, if I invite Manny to this game, we gotta 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:01.320 sit courtside. And also she might want to bring her friend. 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:04.079 So let me see if there's three court side tickets, 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:06.440 because I'm also gonna pay for her friend court side. 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:08.600 Okay, Mandy, you it doesn't matter. 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:12.280 No, it doesn't matter, Mandy well what I'm saying. But no, like, 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:15.160 it really does matter though, because that is the issue 0:14:15.240 --> 0:14:16.240 that my friend is having. 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:20.240 My friend is not the dating an athlete. This is aga. 0:14:20.280 --> 0:14:20.920 It doesn't matter. 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:24.160 I don't Actually I don't know court side seats. That 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:26.200 what good paying job is someone's spending fifteen k on. 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:29.440 Let me tell you real quick. First off, I'm in Atlanta, Georgia. 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:31.520 They were playing the Clippers. Not sure if you know 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:35.840 it was given mc ymca versus. 0:14:36.840 --> 0:14:40.160 How much were the tickets? Twelve hundred the piece? Oh okay, well, 0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:40.760 that's not normal. 0:14:40.840 --> 0:14:41.840 Three for three. 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:44.080 It was twelve hundred dollar. Okay, so now you keep 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:45.800 trying to say this is a normal court side, it's not. 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:48.960 But it was in Atlanta at Phillips and they played 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:51.120 the Sixers. Let's be very clear if it was the. 0:14:51.120 --> 0:14:55.000 Next game when they played the fucking Warriors, bro court 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:56.560 side And okay, when I say court side, I was 0:14:56.600 --> 0:14:58.840 on the wood, but on the third round on the wood. 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:04.320 Sorry one moment, y'all. Uh, well do you think you 0:15:04.400 --> 0:15:06.160 think you're grabbing our caffeine. 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:13.720 And we're back o fucked up? 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:16.400 Like this is a tachy goddamn coffee spots sucked up, 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:17.240 a goddamn order. 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:19.840 God, yeah, where I. 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:23.160 Think like the management of expectations come. The one hundred 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:25.040 percent comment that we talked about to me was really 0:15:25.080 --> 0:15:28.640 important because man and women really do need to manage. 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:33.240 No a techy sorry for she wasn't yesterday. He was like, yeah, 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:36.040 because that's how I moved. Like again, we were just 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:39.520 talking about not even my expectations. But a man will 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:43.360 show up, especially if you if they know like what 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:45.680 you're used to. Like, It's why we say now when 0:15:45.680 --> 0:15:49.960 you're dating, don't let your new prospect know all the ways. 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:51.320 You were mistreated in your last relationship. 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:53.200 But what you so then, So, what I'm saying is 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:55.440 if a man shows up a certain way with me, 0:15:55.760 --> 0:15:58.600 he knows how he has to show up to fuck 0:15:58.640 --> 0:15:58.840 with me. 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:01.320 This man, I don't like you had to show up 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:03.840 that way for her. So then why is she tacky? 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:04.960 Because yesterday he said she wasn't. 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:07.320 No, No, I just think she's tacky because she lacks communication. 0:16:07.680 --> 0:16:10.160 She assumed things and she damn near threw a fit 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:13.040 over three hundred and eighty dollars like a broke bit me. 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:15.960 You say yesterday, But I'm saying now that you done 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:18.000 added more details because apparently she said you got the 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:19.720 story wrong. You share all those details. 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:21.280 Bro. So he sounded like I'm tooted. 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:22.200 She started. 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:23.880 I don't think she started with that though. I think 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:24.960 they both miscommunicated. 0:16:25.240 --> 0:16:26.840 I felt like, if you didn't go on the trip 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:29.200 with him, I'm still standing on she don't like him 0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:31.440 that much. But if she also just doesn't like him 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:33.720 that much, I think the fact is she don't need 0:16:33.760 --> 0:16:34.400 to be dating, right. 0:16:34.600 --> 0:16:37.040 Hold on, So, like I started on what I was saying, 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:40.000 she started with saying, hey, I'll still pay the three eighty. 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:40.960 That's what I'm saying. 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:43.880 That was crazy. That was like starting off like that, Why. 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:46.480 Not bro, like you you coming back him like now 0:16:46.560 --> 0:16:47.520 you'll spend the money. 0:16:47.440 --> 0:16:49.680 Because it sounds like the trip is her priority. Then no, no, no, 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:50.000 no no no. 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:52.160 I think the reason she went back and said it 0:16:52.240 --> 0:16:55.040 is because she was like, oh, am I sounding bummy, 0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:56.680 am I sounding like I wouldn't have been also to 0:16:56.760 --> 0:17:00.280 come back and say, hey, actually rebooked the whole trip again. Yeah, 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:04.000 that's kind of why, Bro, here's the largest problem. That's 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:06.520 the tacky part, the first no, the tachi part. 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:09.840 About it. I'm still not mad at you know. 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:11.560 What she could have done that would have actually solved 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:14.320 this whole thing. What she could have felt maybe a 0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:16.800 little distaste when he texted her, like let me know 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:19.199 the time because the driver's right now meeting it too. 0:17:20.359 --> 0:17:21.919 You could have booked it and then brought it up 0:17:21.920 --> 0:17:24.359 when you got there. And guess what, I've definitely had 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:26.840 a nigga gave me red bed book it. I'll get 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:29.440