Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions.
Speaker 2: I don't think you should say decision decisions. It sounded
Speaker 2: like you was talking to it cursing. You definitely say
Speaker 2: to welcome, welcome to the new podcast. You want to
Speaker 2: say together, decisions decisions.
Speaker 1: Hey guys, Oh, welcome to another episode. Oh, decisions decisions, bitch.
Speaker 1: I heard the flun Oh.
Speaker 3: I know it's so nasty. Anyways, guys, welcome, I'm your girl, Mandy.
Speaker 2: B Hey, y'all, I'm weazy, Welcome back to another episode.
Speaker 1: Listen, y'all begged for us to be solo and alone,
Speaker 1: my bitch.
Speaker 3: Now y'all got a solo ho? I go hold it,
Speaker 3: I'm solo ho, solo ho. Even though last week they
Speaker 3: had another guest, it was like, these bitches only gave
Speaker 3: us one solo a. I'll finished the next three about
Speaker 3: to be solo on you os and less we get
Speaker 3: that special guest were working on.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh that'll be cute. That'll be a treat
Speaker 1: for you bitches.
Speaker 2: Okay, oh read, just eat it up, just like a
Speaker 2: trip to the Turks would have been a treat.
Speaker 3: Okay, So, y'all, if you listened to the episode the
Speaker 3: very first episode of the year, we was listening and
Speaker 3: judging and not agreeing on one of Weezy's friends. A
Speaker 3: lot of people in the comments was agreeing with you,
Speaker 3: but them bitch is probably lost and clueless suit. Okay,
Speaker 3: so you know at the end of the day did
Speaker 3: they go in. But also actually they said two things
Speaker 3: could be true.
Speaker 1: Uh huh.
Speaker 3: The bitch was acting like a bird and self sabotaging
Speaker 3: the relationship. But also she really didn't like him. But
Speaker 3: apparently there's an update because y'all not the friend listened
Speaker 3: to the episode.
Speaker 2: Okay, No, the bitch was passed timp. Can you tell
Speaker 2: me what I gotta make sure I'm lupciccated for.
Speaker 1: This room room tamp tamp. Okay, so let me tell
Speaker 1: you about Hey. By the way, Eden, you were a
Speaker 1: little quiet time we had the conversation about this. We
Speaker 1: need you to weigh in. As the man, yo, I
Speaker 1: was kind of mad when Mandy left. Wolf was like, no,
Speaker 1: I agreed with you.
Speaker 4: Whoe a were you?
Speaker 3: Well, he wasn't micd up. You kept trying to talk
Speaker 3: to Wolf as and Wolf didn't have a mic. So
Speaker 3: this time, as the man in the a man with
Speaker 3: a mic? Should we recap for people that didn't catch
Speaker 3: that episode. Oh, because the hoses they about to go
Speaker 3: back and listen. We need all of you go back
Speaker 3: and listen. Two episodes ago, pulls the holes for the
Speaker 3: first twenty minutes. If you want to hear what we
Speaker 3: talk about, then come back.
Speaker 1: Don't recap.
Speaker 3: It's just say Netflix, you don't get a motherfucking in
Speaker 3: the last episode. No, take your ass back and listen.
Speaker 1: We've got to get her out of Atlanta. But you do.
Speaker 1: I'm in New York right now. Okay, true, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: So update, no, no no, you asked Eden, no no no.
Speaker 2: I told Eden she wants to chime in chi Okay.
Speaker 2: So basically, when the episode dropped, no, we said we
Speaker 2: not give it.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, but it's important.
Speaker 2: So the girl told him you need to give my
Speaker 2: flight and he's like, well, we don't need to go nowhere.
Speaker 2: That was Saturday. I recorded with you on Sunday. Yes,
Speaker 2: the episode came out on Monday. Yes, come on Timeline babe,
Speaker 2: Monday nine thirty. She hit me like, I've listened to
Speaker 2: the full thing. She said, I even listened to the
Speaker 2: andecy if you bring it up again, and and we did.
Speaker 2: She's like, and I went through the comments and there's
Speaker 2: a comment that really affected me, and not.
Speaker 1: Not bit just being affected in the comments section.
Speaker 2: But you know what, in a episode she was like, Oh,
Speaker 2: I just feel like because when we were on the phone,
Speaker 2: she I just feel like, because you're happy in your
Speaker 2: relationship and shit, you can't like see what it's like
Speaker 2: about of it.
Speaker 1: You can't step out of and recorded right now.
Speaker 3: I do agree with that, like when you all lovey
Speaker 3: dovey in a relationship, you don't know how to really
Speaker 3: talk to a single bitch out here in the street.
Speaker 2: But wait, I feel like because I'm in a relationship,
Speaker 2: I could give some great advice because I see the
Speaker 2: things that I've changed. Now, this is the comment she
Speaker 2: referred to, So shout out to you. Okay, man or
Speaker 2: woman getting rid of a situation because you didn't get
Speaker 2: one hundred percent of what you want.
Speaker 1: It's straight up self sabotaged. Nobody gets one hundred percent
Speaker 1: of they want. Nobody. I did see that, said you said.
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't think she liked him
Speaker 1: that much. So she gets.
Speaker 2: You agree, right, I don't think so Okay, Okay, So
Speaker 2: here's her text. I watched her episode.
Speaker 1: Lol. Knew Mandy would agree, but what I said? So
Speaker 1: she called me. I said, don't call me. I need
Speaker 1: you to live write.
Speaker 2: This out socker read it.
Speaker 1: So why you start of your friends and content.
Speaker 4: She don't.
Speaker 1: She's not a podcast girl.
Speaker 2: One thing she is wrong about is I actually do
Speaker 2: like him. But my real truth is I don't care
Speaker 2: how much I like a nigga. I will never settle.
Speaker 2: She wrote that in all caps, and I wrote girl
Speaker 2: dot dot dot.
Speaker 1: She said, I'm about to speak to him.
Speaker 2: Keep you posting, please get full tytail and screez shots. Okay,
Speaker 2: we just had a conversation. I'm going to share with
Speaker 2: you how it started.
Speaker 1: Me.
Speaker 2: Hey, I realized I was out of line with some
Speaker 2: of the things I said to you, and I would
Speaker 2: like to formally apologize if you'd be willing to answer
Speaker 2: my call. And this is her writing to him. I'm
Speaker 2: actually a bit given accountability. Shout out to your friend.
Speaker 2: All right, Well let's see where you go from now. Okay,
Speaker 2: she said, I guess he didn't answer a call. I
Speaker 2: actually wanted to call you and let you know.
Speaker 1: I have The Turks would have known the bitch, but no,
Speaker 1: I just I.
Speaker 2: Was absolutely willing and still am able to pay for this,
Speaker 2: and I would also like to take you out to dinner,
Speaker 2: join one of our nights on the island to.
Speaker 1: Keep up if you'd like to keep our trip.
Speaker 2: He rode back and said, just to be clear, I
Speaker 2: have no intention on rebooking our plans. However, you could
Speaker 2: give me a call. Here's what she rode back an
Speaker 2: hour later. We just had a talk. He said, he's
Speaker 2: looking for someone that's very serious and intentional about dating
Speaker 2: and spending time together and felt that the way I
Speaker 2: approached the situation was very tacky. He implied when I
Speaker 2: mentioned the word test, which I didn't think it was
Speaker 2: until you and Mandy debated it, uh that it was
Speaker 2: not a test, but he felt so disrespected by MY
Speaker 2: approach to the flight. He believed it was a test
Speaker 2: that was given to him for me. If it was
Speaker 2: a test to see if he would be the man
Speaker 2: for me. Yes, oh, he implied that he wasn't willing.
Speaker 2: He no, sorry, he said that. I implied that I
Speaker 2: had higher expectations out of the men I had been with. Now,
Speaker 2: for context, I asked her if I could say what
Speaker 2: she does for a living before the reason she had
Speaker 2: dated so many.
Speaker 1: Athletes was because she did.
Speaker 2: She had a high position at MSG, and so she
Speaker 2: had been working in MSG for years and around him.
Speaker 2: Niggas okay, and so his comment was, I don't know
Speaker 2: if it's because of your past or previous work and
Speaker 2: the people or clients tell you're used to being around,
Speaker 2: but I'm absolutely a stand up man. I felt I
Speaker 2: did everything I could to make this destination easy for you,
Speaker 2: as you were already in a worse work trip. But again,
Speaker 2: this was completely tacky and I felt very disrespected by
Speaker 2: your approach.
Speaker 1: She then you a niggas call it a bitch? Tacky
Speaker 1: is oh? Like, oh you know what, listen, girl, I ain't
Speaker 1: eve gonna hold you. There are a lot of things
Speaker 1: that make us say about a woman like I would
Speaker 1: be rather. I would rather be called a slut ass
Speaker 1: whole than a tachy bitch.
Speaker 4: That's hilarious.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna hold you like like i'd rather. I
Speaker 2: felt that the whole time from her. That's why I
Speaker 2: was like, bro, what you have to think? This is
Speaker 2: a man that also is doing well, almost forty booking
Speaker 2: the place you want. Also, and Mandy, when you were
Speaker 2: like she had to pick the place to me that
Speaker 2: to choose it, what do you want, I'll give it
Speaker 2: to you, like getting everything you want.
Speaker 1: And then I mean, we're not go We not gonna
Speaker 1: go back on that, okay, like you know what I mean? Like, no,
Speaker 1: still you invite me on a trip, nigga, get my flight?
Speaker 4: Wait?
Speaker 1: So is the issue that he's using the word tacky
Speaker 1: or is that she is? No?
Speaker 2: No, no, I just feel like if a man call
Speaker 2: you tacky behavior. Oh bro, when I read this text,
Speaker 2: I was like, like my skin crawled a little bit
Speaker 2: of techy hod Wait, listen to my reply. Bitch, I said,
Speaker 2: holy shit, bitch, holy sh ship, holy shit.
Speaker 1: He said, taki or you wrote tacky to me? She
Speaker 1: said no, he said tacky. Yeah. She said he.
Speaker 2: Doesn't want to rebook the trip, but he would. He says,
Speaker 2: we could have dinner tomorrow, which was the night they
Speaker 2: were gonna go on the trip, if we would like
Speaker 2: to settle a conversation. I said, girl, don't get upset.
Speaker 2: You fucked that up and you can never.
Speaker 1: Let is she is she paying for the dinner? I
Speaker 1: don't know. Probably not.
Speaker 2: He's not he's not a letter, but she's not a
Speaker 2: suggest But he's definitely not a letter after she did
Speaker 2: that whole thing. So I said, don't get upset. You
Speaker 2: fucked that up and you never gonna forget that nigga
Speaker 2: called you tacky.
Speaker 1: You can end up with him. I I don't think
Speaker 1: he would end up with a tachy bitch.
Speaker 2: Like That's why I like, like, I ain't even gonna
Speaker 2: hold you.
Speaker 3: Like if a man calls you tacky, that's like bop,
Speaker 3: like he don't like you.
Speaker 1: He gonna go out and eat what you probably just
Speaker 1: not anymore? You know what. He probably want to call you.
Speaker 2: Take it to your face, but don't go out with him,
Speaker 2: Like I hope she don't go out with.
Speaker 1: Him, like so lib does and I about him, so
Speaker 1: we have to tea I would I'm curious if you
Speaker 1: a real nigga, Like if he a real nigga, what
Speaker 1: he would do is be like, yeah, let's go out
Speaker 1: to eat, and then last minute to say something came up,
Speaker 1: just because like I did, go out of this way,
Speaker 1: you don't get to come back. So let's dive into
Speaker 1: this a little bit.
Speaker 2: Because her and I did get on the phone at
Speaker 2: some point when she was getting upset this morning. She
Speaker 2: was more so like, it really hurt my feelings to
Speaker 2: hear you say I've bitched about being single.
Speaker 1: I've bitched about being single.
Speaker 2: And basically she's like, even though I understand what you mean,
Speaker 2: like about me, you know, needing to sacrifice something or whatever,
Speaker 2: maybe that my expectations were too high. I felt like
Speaker 2: you had an underlying tone of because I'm so upset
Speaker 2: about being single, I should take whatever. And I was like,
Speaker 2: I don't think that something of this magnitude is whatever, though.
Speaker 1: And the other thing something we talked about when you
Speaker 1: walked out about Claudia Jordan.
Speaker 2: She is fine, well known, good looking as fuck, and
Speaker 2: got mad access. And if that woman is saying dating
Speaker 2: is hard, that's really what it is. It's like it
Speaker 2: could be hard for anybody. It doesn't matter how good
Speaker 2: you look. And so one of the things I was
Speaker 2: saying to her on the phone was yes, you're gorgeous,
Speaker 2: Yes you do well. That doesn't mean that there isn't
Speaker 2: a bunch of other women like this and a bunch
Speaker 2: of other men like that. But guess what, we're not
Speaker 2: meeting them. I'm sorry, but I was not meeting the
Speaker 2: greatest guys all the time. I'm at fun niggas. I'm
Speaker 2: at cute niggas, I me at rich niggas. I did
Speaker 2: not meet well rounded guys. And so because she has
Speaker 2: this facade in her head of what dating should look
Speaker 2: like in feminine energy and masculine energy, you're fucking your
Speaker 2: shit up. And you were calling because Samuel's earlier. But
Speaker 2: I feel like she own as shit because she's like,
Speaker 2: I'm high value. I gotta be like this, like bro,
Speaker 2: like cut.
Speaker 1: This shit already.
Speaker 3: It's interesting because here's the thing too, right, going back
Speaker 3: to the comment that mentioned one hundred percent, I think
Speaker 3: good one.
Speaker 1: That was great.
Speaker 3: But if you do go in and you want a
Speaker 3: man to do certain things, because we didn't talk about
Speaker 3: any of the other qualities that he has, we don't
Speaker 3: know if he's a good listener, if he community.
Speaker 2: Clearly, he doesn't communicate well. We talked about that. They're
Speaker 2: not they they both don't communicate well with each other. Wait, wait,
Speaker 2: let's let's revise to communicate because I actually think she's
Speaker 2: a terrible communicator.
Speaker 1: Here's why.
Speaker 2: We dug into after she's like, oh, you left some
Speaker 2: things out about what really happened and how the conversations went. Ah, well, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: because she looks well, I don't really remember, but now
Speaker 2: this is why she felt like she wanted to apologize.
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm not saying sorry because I'm desperate for
Speaker 2: the trip. I'm actually saying sorry because I fucked up. First,
Speaker 2: here's what she says happened. First, they booked the hotel.
Speaker 2: While they're at the Blue Note, they look up dates
Speaker 2: they could both go. She said, we booked the short
Speaker 2: club in the Blue Note. The reason we didn't do
Speaker 2: flights is everybody need to figure out timing. So when
Speaker 2: she said I'll be in on the West Coast for work,
Speaker 2: he was like, cool, let me grab what do you
Speaker 2: think you want to leave an afternoon? Okay, cool, I'll
Speaker 2: get our flights home. You're gonna come back to New York.
Speaker 2: That was how that happened. All of that was done there.
Speaker 2: She was then supposed to say what time she would
Speaker 2: be able to come in after work. So I do
Speaker 2: feel like he would have bought that flight if she
Speaker 2: would have hit him and said, hey, I'm done at
Speaker 2: twelve pm.
Speaker 1: All right, cool, I'll grab it.
Speaker 4: I agree.
Speaker 1: However, She's like, I felt like he didn't follow up
Speaker 1: with me. I told him maybe my meetings would wrap
Speaker 1: in the afternoon. Blah blah blah. When he hit her
Speaker 1: about the driver, she said he was a clear like, oh,
Speaker 1: you must be handling this. She says.
Speaker 2: One other thing she did realize from the conversation. He
Speaker 2: knows her work flies her around. He knows her work
Speaker 2: is booking all the fucking travel. So maybe he thought
Speaker 2: that she was booking the flight, the return flight to
Speaker 2: that ad like you know, to that destination.
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you, okay, from what we talked
Speaker 3: about this bitch, That's how I feel about it.
Speaker 1: Now she's tacky. She tacky or not.
Speaker 2: I feel like, here's the thing too, at the end
Speaker 2: of the day, we always want to talk about niggas
Speaker 2: as shit.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, a lot of you
Speaker 1: bitches they ship. You're not fun to date, You're not
Speaker 1: he ain't that great.
Speaker 2: There's other options for these niggas. And I do think
Speaker 2: that women just got it. There's women that just shouldn't
Speaker 2: be dating. Now.
Speaker 1: You didn't have this tone the other night when we
Speaker 1: recorded what.
Speaker 3: Oh, because how I am bitch a nigga book around
Speaker 3: trip or we ain't gonna see each other.
Speaker 1: But to me, I have the way I want to date.
Speaker 3: Like I told you, uh literally, I think I now
Speaker 3: am able to not only present what I what I want,
Speaker 3: but I do the things whether a man is there
Speaker 3: or not, which is why. Like on my little Booze
Speaker 3: just took me to a basketball game. He wanted me
Speaker 3: to go to a basketball game.
Speaker 1: He knew.
Speaker 3: Bitch, if I invite Manny to this game, we gotta
Speaker 3: sit courtside. And also she might want to bring her friend.
Speaker 3: So let me see if there's three court side tickets,
Speaker 3: because I'm also gonna pay for her friend court side.
Speaker 1: Okay, Mandy, you it doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: No, it doesn't matter, Mandy well what I'm saying. But no, like,
Speaker 2: it really does matter though, because that is the issue
Speaker 2: that my friend is having.
Speaker 1: My friend is not the dating an athlete. This is aga.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: I don't Actually I don't know court side seats. That
Speaker 2: what good paying job is someone's spending fifteen k on.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you real quick. First off, I'm in Atlanta, Georgia.
Speaker 3: They were playing the Clippers. Not sure if you know
Speaker 3: it was given mc ymca versus.
Speaker 1: How much were the tickets? Twelve hundred the piece? Oh okay, well,
Speaker 1: that's not normal.
Speaker 4: Three for three.
Speaker 1: It was twelve hundred dollar. Okay, so now you keep
Speaker 1: trying to say this is a normal court side, it's not.
Speaker 1: But it was in Atlanta at Phillips and they played
Speaker 1: the Sixers. Let's be very clear if it was the.
Speaker 3: Next game when they played the fucking Warriors, bro court
Speaker 3: side And okay, when I say court side, I was
Speaker 3: on the wood, but on the third round on the wood.
Speaker 3: Sorry one moment, y'all. Uh, well do you think you
Speaker 3: think you're grabbing our caffeine.
Speaker 1: And we're back o fucked up?
Speaker 3: Like this is a tachy goddamn coffee spots sucked up,
Speaker 3: a goddamn order.
Speaker 1: God, yeah, where I.
Speaker 2: Think like the management of expectations come. The one hundred
Speaker 2: percent comment that we talked about to me was really
Speaker 2: important because man and women really do need to manage.
Speaker 3: No a techy sorry for she wasn't yesterday. He was like, yeah,
Speaker 3: because that's how I moved. Like again, we were just
Speaker 3: talking about not even my expectations. But a man will
Speaker 3: show up, especially if you if they know like what
Speaker 3: you're used to. Like, It's why we say now when
Speaker 3: you're dating, don't let your new prospect know all the ways.
Speaker 1: You were mistreated in your last relationship.
Speaker 3: But what you so then, So, what I'm saying is
Speaker 3: if a man shows up a certain way with me,
Speaker 3: he knows how he has to show up to fuck
Speaker 3: with me.
Speaker 1: This man, I don't like you had to show up
Speaker 1: that way for her. So then why is she tacky?
Speaker 1: Because yesterday he said she wasn't.
Speaker 3: No, No, I just think she's tacky because she lacks communication.
Speaker 3: She assumed things and she damn near threw a fit
Speaker 3: over three hundred and eighty dollars like a broke bit me.
Speaker 3: You say yesterday, But I'm saying now that you done
Speaker 3: added more details because apparently she said you got the
Speaker 3: story wrong. You share all those details.
Speaker 1: Bro. So he sounded like I'm tooted.
Speaker 4: She started.
Speaker 1: I don't think she started with that though. I think
Speaker 1: they both miscommunicated.
Speaker 3: I felt like, if you didn't go on the trip
Speaker 3: with him, I'm still standing on she don't like him
Speaker 3: that much. But if she also just doesn't like him
Speaker 3: that much, I think the fact is she don't need
Speaker 3: to be dating, right.
Speaker 5: Hold on, So, like I started on what I was saying,
Speaker 5: she started with saying, hey, I'll still pay the three eighty.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: That was crazy. That was like starting off like that, Why.
Speaker 1: Not bro, like you you coming back him like now
Speaker 1: you'll spend the money.
Speaker 4: Because it sounds like the trip is her priority. Then no, no, no,
Speaker 4: no no no.
Speaker 2: I think the reason she went back and said it
Speaker 2: is because she was like, oh, am I sounding bummy,
Speaker 2: am I sounding like I wouldn't have been also to
Speaker 2: come back and say, hey, actually rebooked the whole trip again. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's kind of why, Bro, here's the largest problem. That's
Speaker 2: the tacky part, the first no, the tachi part.
Speaker 1: About it. I'm still not mad at you know.
Speaker 2: What she could have done that would have actually solved
Speaker 2: this whole thing. What she could have felt maybe a
Speaker 2: little distaste when he texted her, like let me know
Speaker 2: the time because the driver's right now meeting it too.
Speaker 2: You could have booked it and then brought it up
Speaker 2: when you got there. And guess what, I've definitely had
Speaker 2: a nigga gave me red bed book it. I'll get
Speaker 2: back to you, like I'm sure you have to grab whatever.
Speaker 1: I'll pay you back. I'll send it to you.
Speaker 2: Like if it was that pressing, I just don't know
Speaker 2: if I would have really called him and bitched about it.
Speaker 2: And I agree to that was the thing that was
Speaker 2: like you having that expectation and to the lady. She
Speaker 2: doesn't need to talk to the lady.
Speaker 3: She is not in any sense healed or knows how
Speaker 3: to communicate what she wants or what she expects in
Speaker 3: a relationship.
Speaker 1: You know why. I don't think it's what she's used to.
Speaker 1: I don't think anything's wrong with having standards, standards in expectation.
Speaker 2: The problem is not being able to effectively communicate those things,
Speaker 2: and she clearly don't know how to communicate she she
Speaker 2: threw a tantrum like a five year old.
Speaker 1: I do think that there is a problem, though, with expecting.
Speaker 2: This is a true thing for me, standards and expectations
Speaker 2: like I don't expect every single man to do X
Speaker 2: y Z. I think that the expectation that everything should
Speaker 2: be laid out for you, based that you've been dating
Speaker 2: multi millionaires compared to a guy that works on the
Speaker 2: same floor with you at your financial firm. Manage that
Speaker 2: bro to be quite honest with you, Mandy, the fact
Speaker 2: that he booked a hotel at seven hundred to night.
Speaker 1: I think that is extremely high. Actually, I mean he
Speaker 1: could have put it on a credit card. I think
Speaker 1: that's whether it is not. He still gotta pay for it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but she could have given him three eighty. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like, that's why at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, it's all taking how was not even a
Speaker 1: night of the trip, But we're gonna do.
Speaker 2: I'm just ready for them to have this dinner because
Speaker 2: if she end up fucking him.
Speaker 1: Oh all of he doesn't show up. Wait, they have
Speaker 1: remind me they haven't fucked before. No, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But they date.
Speaker 4: H Yeah, they're not ding. That's all not dating.
Speaker 1: Because you know what, it's been a month. He probably
Speaker 1: wanted to go on this trip so he could get
Speaker 1: that pussy.
Speaker 4: Now he ain't gonna do it.
Speaker 1: I mean, hold on wait, wait, oh my god, the
Speaker 1: sex has to happen for it.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, that's what I'm saying. It's not
Speaker 5: it's not because they didn't funk. It's just I'm realizing
Speaker 5: all these elements is a bottle. Fuck you going on
Speaker 5: an island trip with a nigga. You ain't even stop.
Speaker 1: I think they probably ready to do that out of
Speaker 1: your brother. I think this is the fourth or fifthy. Know,
Speaker 1: if a nigga fly you to an island, you're giving
Speaker 1: that puss up. I think she wanted to fuck too.
Speaker 2: I think that's the problem too. Maybe she felt like
Speaker 2: that I ain't paying three eighty to fuck you.
Speaker 1: Are they already fucking? Let's see you? Oh my god? Anyway,
Speaker 1: we listen and we judge. I want to share about
Speaker 1: my friend real quick. Bitch, did you fuck him?
Speaker 2: That?
Speaker 1: I heard that?
Speaker 3: I heard this morning and it's kind of crazy, okay,
Speaker 3: kind a little crazy, yike. So my homegirl calls me
Speaker 3: this morning at like a quarter to eight, which I
Speaker 3: was sleeping. She hits me again and it's like, damn, bitch,
Speaker 3: you sleeping in today? And I'm like, I am sleeping.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna They didn't even give me my ship, right,
Speaker 3: they didn't even sit anyways.
Speaker 1: So she hits me. She was like, girl, I got
Speaker 1: some tea. I said, bitch, I'm gonna call you when
Speaker 1: I get up.
Speaker 2: So she dated my homeboy two years ago, and I
Speaker 2: didn't know they were dating until they broke up, but
Speaker 2: they was traveling everywhere together. They were seeing each other.
Speaker 2: He had a surgery dating. No, they was together, like
Speaker 2: they I was just trying to go with the D word.
Speaker 2: They was overly dating. They were they were not overly dated.
Speaker 2: They were overly dating.
Speaker 3: Anyways, he ended up getting depressed and they broke up
Speaker 3: because he was also just lying. So they break up.
Speaker 3: She hasn't seen him in two years. For the last
Speaker 3: six months, he's been like trying to rekindle, like wanting
Speaker 3: to see her, offering to fly her out, asking if
Speaker 3: they could go on a trip together, all the things.
Speaker 3: She declined because she's like, bro, what are we doing? Like,
Speaker 3: I don't want to just get back into that. The
Speaker 3: way we broke up wasn't good. I So he finds
Speaker 3: himself in New York. They link up, they have sex.
Speaker 3: He just invited her to Atlanta because he's gonna be
Speaker 3: in Atlanta next week.
Speaker 1: Tell me why.
Speaker 3: Her homegirl, the mutual friend calls her. It says, I
Speaker 3: told him he's wrong, but I I uh, his fiance
Speaker 3: posted their.
Speaker 1: Engagement their mutual friend.
Speaker 2: Their mutual friend was like, because the girl's pages is blocked,
Speaker 2: so anyway, this home girl couldn't see it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but she saw it.
Speaker 1: But did your homegirl know they were even dating. No,
Speaker 1: mind you, when she just gave him pussy in New York,
Speaker 1: he didn't say he was engaged, mind you.
Speaker 3: He got engaged in August, bitch. It's January, bitch, while
Speaker 3: he was out in another country. Because he was in
Speaker 3: another country, he's texting my homegirl.
Speaker 1: He sent in her.
Speaker 3: Pictures, bitch, the same pictures in my homegirl's phone while
Speaker 3: he's on this foreign trip.
Speaker 1: He's on the down on one knee pictures that he
Speaker 1: proposed to the bitch.
Speaker 3: So the day that he proposes to this girl, he's
Speaker 3: in my homegirl phone saying, yeah, I'm on this trip.
Speaker 1: You know, I got some mutual friends out here. We're
Speaker 1: just having a good time. I I I.
Speaker 3: So, bitch, she's sending me all the screenshots of the
Speaker 3: fact that here, here he is texting me while he's
Speaker 3: in fucking BALI right, here's his proposal post, bitch, same pictures.
Speaker 3: I said, bitch, Now he proposed to a whole bitch
Speaker 3: while he was keeping you up to date with his
Speaker 3: fucking trip. So I asked her if that's so safe.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, damn, well, how do you feel? And
Speaker 3: we went through two different things, two different fields. The
Speaker 3: first emotion was the fact that she feels like, had
Speaker 3: she been more responsive with his advances, that that would
Speaker 3: have been her. And it's because while they were together,
Speaker 3: he said, I'm just waiting to get this job. Once
Speaker 3: I get this job and i'm more secure, I'm gonna marry.
Speaker 2: He said, that's your friend. He said that to my
Speaker 2: friend two years ago. He has that job and he
Speaker 2: just proposed to this new girl in August.
Speaker 1: So a part of I'll show you so part of
Speaker 1: the conversation was I'm really feeling like her feel feeling
Speaker 1: like that was supposed to be me. But also then
Speaker 1: I wanted to I was like, but would you have
Speaker 1: really wanted to be with a man who, bitch.
Speaker 2: Is he's been texting you, he just fucked you, didn't
Speaker 2: even tell you he was engaged, but just fucked you
Speaker 2: and been in your phone, not even telling you he'd
Speaker 2: have proposed, and it's.
Speaker 3: Planning a whole life with another woman. Then the other
Speaker 3: question was, and this stepped from heart. She was like,
Speaker 3: as soon as I got set the post, I wanted
Speaker 3: to write to the fiancee and tell her everything, because bitch.
Speaker 1: We just fucked. Now wasn't wrong. I don't know but ladies,
Speaker 1: if you.
Speaker 3: Got an ex and you fucking wrong and you double
Speaker 3: back nine times out of ten, you gonna fuck them
Speaker 3: wrong steal so damn. She said that she sat with it,
Speaker 3: and I guess talked to the lady and decided not
Speaker 3: to tell the fiance. She talked to the lady and
Speaker 3: somehow the lady told her it wasn't worth doing. But
Speaker 3: she has since called him, wrote him mad messages like
Speaker 3: why would you come and be with me and spend
Speaker 3: time with me and even invite me to another city
Speaker 3: and not let me know that you proposed to a
Speaker 3: bitch three months ago and that you're currently engaged. So
Speaker 3: to me, it's interesting as well, like seeing the lack
Speaker 3: of communication that your homegirl has while dating, but also
Speaker 3: it's even more interesting to see how these things really
Speaker 3: just don't be telling you what's going on your line.
Speaker 2: I think what's most hurtful, though, is knowing that to
Speaker 2: watch someone get engaged to somebody else while you spend all.
Speaker 1: That time they were together for like a year, to
Speaker 1: not give me the.
Speaker 2: Choice to want to fuck you after you're with someone else,
Speaker 2: Like it's just oh, let's be very It feels very
Speaker 2: like you put life came back in and been like,
Speaker 2: I need that Pullston one more time, but I'm engaged.
Speaker 1: I guarantee you she wouldn't have fucked him. I know
Speaker 1: she wouldn't have fucked him.
Speaker 2: You know why, because that nigga's tacky. Well, I think
Speaker 2: I want to read something that I had beyond what
Speaker 2: we were talking about, because and it's crazy because you
Speaker 2: brought this up.
Speaker 1: There's a guy on ig.
Speaker 2: I'm not playing the clip because it was kind of
Speaker 2: like three minutes long, but I summarized it. White guy
Speaker 2: named Taylor Conroy. I think his IG's Taylor Love and
Speaker 2: the highlights of his clip. Men don't marry the love
Speaker 2: of their lives. They marry the woman that's there when
Speaker 2: they're ready. Oh yes, and here's the gig. I pulled
Speaker 2: the gist of what he said. Men are exploring in
Speaker 2: their twenties. They find their purpose by thirty six to
Speaker 2: where they know what type of partner they want. Thirty
Speaker 2: six was the age of both niggas with the PhD
Speaker 2: Oh wow, So maybe that's why they were ramping up
Speaker 2: about already. Yeah. It says that it's a type of
Speaker 2: partner that they want to get to get to their
Speaker 2: goals or to help support their goals. They think about
Speaker 2: their strengths and their weaknesses to see if it's complimented
Speaker 2: by their prospect at the time. It doesn't matter if
Speaker 2: a girl friend the past had it. Whoever's there right now,
Speaker 2: do they compliment these things. Whereas women, we can be
Speaker 2: twenty two, thirty two, forty two, any age. Love makes
Speaker 2: us feel like that's the thing that'll push us forward,
Speaker 2: opposed to the person that we're dating, that the man
Speaker 2: we're dating. They're going to see if a woman has
Speaker 2: their things the compliment.
Speaker 1: Time and place like as a woman. And that's the
Speaker 1: funny part.
Speaker 3: Like I think a lot of women spend so much
Speaker 3: of their time figuring out how to come across as
Speaker 3: wifey when in reality, you really just got to double
Speaker 3: across the right nigga at the time he want to
Speaker 3: be married, or at the time he's ready to settle down,
Speaker 3: Like a lot of it, Like it's funny because I
Speaker 3: know we say, uh, the with you is silent, but
Speaker 3: a lot of times men know when they're ready for
Speaker 3: something more or you just want to settle down, or
Speaker 3: they want to wake up to a woman every day.
Speaker 1: Or they want to get out the streets and just
Speaker 1: have one woman.
Speaker 3: Men know when they're ready, and oftentimes it's not who
Speaker 3: they end up just falling in love with, it's who
Speaker 3: ends up coming into their life at that very much.
Speaker 2: You know, something that I had tried to figure out
Speaker 2: maybe a year ago in my relationship was am I
Speaker 2: getting this great version of this man because his X
Speaker 2: made him.
Speaker 1: Or molded him? Am I getting this great version of
Speaker 1: this man because he's just ready?
Speaker 2: Now?
Speaker 4: Is it me?
Speaker 2: And it was actually something that I felt very insecure
Speaker 2: about for a long time because I had always believed
Speaker 2: this my homeboys, that I end up getting married or
Speaker 2: in long term relationships or move in with a bitch,
Speaker 2: it's always because they're ready, Always because they're just ready.
Speaker 1: They were ready before they met that girl.
Speaker 2: They'll literally tell me like, yeah, I'm about to slow down,
Speaker 2: da da da, and then it's just that bitch.
Speaker 1: So I had always checked in with my man like
Speaker 1: are you sure? Are you sure? Is it me? Is
Speaker 1: x y Z? Is it da da da?
Speaker 2: And I think that he would sometimes laugh about it,
Speaker 2: like why has this been jacking so crazy? But it
Speaker 2: really was because I want to make sure, bless you,
Speaker 2: that I am with the person I meant to be with.
Speaker 2: And there is a question that this guy poses. I
Speaker 2: don't know how you would phrase this question question. I'm
Speaker 2: actually interested to know how it.
Speaker 1: Would work for you.
Speaker 2: I would pose it, well, if if you want to like,
Speaker 2: seriously date. First off, he says.
Speaker 1: You don't think i'd be seriously dating?
Speaker 4: Well, what's dating for you? Not questions? You just talked
Speaker 4: about the word.
Speaker 1: I don't work. I don't know if you don't think
Speaker 1: i'd be serious likings.
Speaker 4: I ain't say that, but if you know what I
Speaker 4: got what you just say.
Speaker 2: I actually hold on, let me stand on, let me
Speaker 2: stand on this. No, but I'll tell you why really seriously.
Speaker 1: But I'll tell you why. I say that because you
Speaker 1: really like it.
Speaker 4: But you be dating them. I don't like that d
Speaker 4: word exactly.
Speaker 1: We be relations.
Speaker 2: I think the reason I don't think it's serious it's
Speaker 2: because I don't like you judge my mother.
Speaker 1: No, I'm not judging.
Speaker 2: I think the reason that I don't assume it's serious
Speaker 2: serious is because you make them sound very replaceable.
Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm having that problem. I ever having that problem.
Speaker 4: That's accountability right there.
Speaker 1: Like you could go like, that's kind of your vibe
Speaker 1: and I don't have to be fear No, I'd let
Speaker 1: them know why I like them, but a lot. So
Speaker 1: to me, it's someone serious.
Speaker 2: It's like, you're gonna you're not putting up with ship.
Speaker 2: You're not gonna be like, oh, let's work through this issue.
Speaker 2: You don't sound like you're I work through ship. You
Speaker 2: know what's crazy?
Speaker 1: Though?
Speaker 3: You saying that as we're sitting here, I was literally
Speaker 3: not like I was thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, okay, which one is the one I met? A?
Speaker 1: He though? Why is this?
Speaker 4: Is this not new?
Speaker 1: What the you don't know we've been We've been definitely
Speaker 1: four months. That's wait, what made you think about breaking
Speaker 1: up with him? I don't like how you moved? What
Speaker 1: are you like for? Okay? So it's crazy because did
Speaker 1: you hear us arguing yesterday?
Speaker 3: So when I walked in, that's what I was talking
Speaker 3: to And I was like, we're gonna talk about this
Speaker 3: later because you you you violated and you ain't communicate
Speaker 3: with me.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really like which if I would
Speaker 1: have heard arument, I would have.
Speaker 2: So we're both navigating non monogamy. We're both navigating it
Speaker 2: is always a journey. By the way, it is a journey.
Speaker 2: Nobody got that shit person.
Speaker 1: So what's crazy is.
Speaker 3: But I don't know if I'm over sharing because I know,
Speaker 3: y'all whatever, by the time it's come out, I was.
Speaker 1: Gonna say about times come out, we've probably broken up.
Speaker 4: Oh no, damn, you already broke up with in your mind.
Speaker 1: In your mind, I think I did.
Speaker 3: It's crazy because he texted me this morning, You're like,
Speaker 3: and a part of me like, so, here's the crazy
Speaker 3: thing too. So he just he just flew out to
Speaker 3: see a bitch and and the same thing that he
Speaker 3: didn't like about her is what I'm now not liking
Speaker 3: about him. And so basically he's cool with the fact
Speaker 3: that I only split my time, like I really only
Speaker 3: have two boyfriends, got a two and a half because
Speaker 3: you know, the other one and going the web, so
Speaker 3: there's only two other guys besides him that I, you know,
Speaker 3: see it make time.
Speaker 1: So he was fine with that.
Speaker 3: He just went and saw a girl who has like
Speaker 3: six people in rotation, okay, including a couple, like, but
Speaker 3: she's just open with all these people, and in his
Speaker 3: mind he's like, ooh, like that non monogamy, the way
Speaker 3: we talked about it, the way she moved, I didn't
Speaker 3: really like it.
Speaker 1: It didn't feel like there.
Speaker 3: Was intent, Like how could you have that much time
Speaker 3: to be purposeful with this many partners? Like he felt
Speaker 3: like he would be an afterthought. And I said, well,
Speaker 3: you know, I have multiple partners, and how does that
Speaker 3: make you feel?
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, but you have two. He's like
Speaker 1: two I think is realistically my max, and we make
Speaker 1: it work. We're talking of I'm not mad at him
Speaker 1: saying that now sixt.
Speaker 3: Me and him are in this relationship where we openly
Speaker 3: discuss things. But to me, bro every free chance he has,
Speaker 3: if I'm not available, there's another bitch he's flying to see. Yeah,
Speaker 3: he has two couples that he fucks. He so he
Speaker 3: fucks too, lesbian couples. One on the West Coast, one
Speaker 3: in the Carolinas. And then he just went to saw
Speaker 3: the bitch that he saw. You ready, that he just
Speaker 3: went to go see was a bitch he just met
Speaker 3: at Heita. And I literally told him that was the
Speaker 3: only thing he had to do the only thing he
Speaker 3: had to do was tell me if he saw a
Speaker 3: bitch that he would consider seeing out. I found out
Speaker 3: about this trip when he went back home, and so
Speaker 3: as I'm hearing him talk about his issues with how
Speaker 3: many people this person plays with, a part of me
Speaker 3: is just like, damn, nigga, even though you're not dating
Speaker 3: these women, every weekend, you're traveling to see another bitch,
Speaker 3: even though you still fit me in every month to
Speaker 3: come see me.
Speaker 1: I don't like that. You're like, why do you have
Speaker 1: to go see a bitch every weekend that you're free?
Speaker 1: Is he? Is this your favorite one? This is your
Speaker 1: favorite boyfriend out of all of them?
Speaker 3: This is this is my my boyfriend that to me
Speaker 3: makes me feel the most like I could be myself
Speaker 3: because he's lifestyle, he doesn't want kids, and we have
Speaker 3: so much in common. Okay, but he's not the one
Speaker 3: that's been around for like but that he still is
Speaker 3: making time for you as requested.
Speaker 1: It's just that. And the part of me is like, damn,
Speaker 1: how many bitches gonna get this dick?
Speaker 4: So you what's the problem?
Speaker 1: Like to me? What what I don't like? This is
Speaker 1: just giving it out? I know now.
Speaker 3: Part of me is just like, damn, all these bitches
Speaker 3: just get your dick every weekend. If I'm not free
Speaker 3: because he knew I was coming to New York. So
Speaker 3: you just book a flight to go see another bitch. Yeah,
Speaker 3: Like that means he was about to give you the
Speaker 3: time first.
Speaker 2: No, he didn't even ask you had first I was
Speaker 2: going to New York. He was like, oh, well I
Speaker 2: had two days. He said, I planned it in two days?
Speaker 2: Why did you?
Speaker 1: Like? What the fuck?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: It's so it's almost like turning me off, like, fuck
Speaker 1: all the bitches, But ain't ain't you in a monogamy relationship? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but in a monography to pussy out to any old nigga.
Speaker 3: So I would like my man to be a little
Speaker 3: like have a little bit of decorum, like the fact
Speaker 3: that he even said like she was cool. Like every
Speaker 3: time he go on fucking bitch, he's like he don't
Speaker 3: want to be in a relationship with them.
Speaker 1: He don't like it's cool they fucked, And.
Speaker 2: I'm just like, damn he okay, okay, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: no no no. I would like, I'm gonna tell you
Speaker 2: the truth what he's never gonna tell you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's gonna tell you that.
Speaker 1: He's never gonna tell you when it's great.
Speaker 2: He's never gonna tell you when to tell you, and
Speaker 2: it's always gonna be like it was cool, that's what
Speaker 2: my nigg But you think you about to be like
Speaker 2: she was screaming. I know he'd be like, okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: good time, hit your bike. Never had crazy while said me,
Speaker 2: and I had to report to my.
Speaker 1: Nigga, you are not mandy I am. If not non monogamous,
Speaker 1: it's okay, man.
Speaker 3: If you're non monogamous and moving in a polly way
Speaker 3: where we both can have other partners, it doesn't matter
Speaker 3: to me.
Speaker 1: Let me know if if you like a bitch, literally
Speaker 1: let you do. Now you're still mad, Ma, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: break up with them?
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Apparently yes, everybody's replacing.
Speaker 4: But he's going by the rules. He's letting you know.
Speaker 1: She's saying that didn't know after the fact. Is not
Speaker 1: letting me know.
Speaker 4: Oh, letting you know after fact. You let me know.
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, hey, what you're doing getting up the car?
Speaker 1: Just got back from where? Oh I want to go?
Speaker 1: I went to.
Speaker 2: Carolina's what part of Carolina? This part of Carolina to
Speaker 2: see who? I said, Oh, you want to go see
Speaker 2: the couple? Because I know about them. Now I want
Speaker 2: to go a newbie nigga. You was just on the
Speaker 2: West Coast, but like it's just like damn nigga.
Speaker 4: So his problem is that he has too many bitches.
Speaker 1: Too many, but also you also just fucking a whole
Speaker 1: bunch of bitches that you don't like.
Speaker 4: What a problem?
Speaker 1: Why do you think? I don't know. I actually don't
Speaker 1: believe that though I.
Speaker 4: Don't believe that either.
Speaker 1: Well it's a new bitch. No, it's it's all multiple
Speaker 1: different bits.
Speaker 2: Know when you're saying don't like. So if he was really,
Speaker 2: really truly interested in people, you would feel more comfortable.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like that there would be a
Speaker 1: reason that you're like a man.
Speaker 2: But then you wouldn't be prioritized and you actually wanted
Speaker 2: to get the report. If he did like somebody, here's a.
Speaker 1: Thing, here's a thing.
Speaker 3: I don't mind a lifestyle man, but I don't like
Speaker 3: someone who's just promiscuous. And promiscuous is a way I
Speaker 3: could use this word. Now, he's just given the dick out.
Speaker 1: Bitch.
Speaker 3: A month ago, you just fucked six bitches at Heito,
Speaker 3: and then since then you went to the West Coast,
Speaker 3: it fucked two more bitches and went to a sex club.
Speaker 1: Then you go here.
Speaker 3: Not only do you fuck this girl that you just met,
Speaker 3: you also she invited you to a game night with
Speaker 3: a couple. You weren't even interested in the other two bitches,
Speaker 3: but you gave them dick. It was just like, I
Speaker 3: don't know, A part of me is just like, at
Speaker 3: least I Mandy.
Speaker 2: If he's telling you he's never interested in anyone, he
Speaker 2: doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
Speaker 1: I don't care. No one is going to jump on
Speaker 1: a flight for this interest. Well, every weekend it's a
Speaker 1: different bitch.
Speaker 3: So to me, I'm telling you, I would feel more
Speaker 3: comfortable if it was like, oh, you're going to see
Speaker 3: the same.
Speaker 1: Girl, bro, you're just flying to whoever is available any weekend.
Speaker 4: I guess don't got her kids any weekend.
Speaker 3: A bitch is off any weekend that you could find
Speaker 3: a reason to hop on fucking a flight to go
Speaker 3: put your dick in something. You do it have some
Speaker 3: fucking like like I want you to actually like somebody,
Speaker 3: I want you to bond. I don't like that every
Speaker 3: weekend you're fucking someone different.
Speaker 1: I don't like that. So then how come heto the
Speaker 1: only thing he had to tell you about.
Speaker 3: Was if he liked my point. So the fact that
Speaker 3: I'm finding out after the fact is you're not communicating
Speaker 3: with me.
Speaker 4: And so to me, like, that's what I'm saying, why
Speaker 4: don't you know after.
Speaker 3: The fact, Oh well, man, I had these two days off,
Speaker 3: so I just planned it two days ago.
Speaker 1: Tell me.
Speaker 4: So he's messing up with the communication.
Speaker 1: Communication, that's the thing. And then a part of me
Speaker 1: is like.
Speaker 5: But now you're putting a whole value to his penis,
Speaker 5: and it's like kind of value to his penis.
Speaker 3: I like, I like niggas, and I don't want to
Speaker 3: call it standards because maybe maybe these pictures are pretty.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes I don't know what they like.
Speaker 4: You don't even know what they look like.
Speaker 1: He sends me pictures of some of them. But I
Speaker 1: don't want a nigga like the same way.
Speaker 3: Even if if you're in a non monogamous relationship, Amita
Speaker 3: would like that I could just go out by a
Speaker 3: nigga and just fuck him.
Speaker 1: Because that was his problem with the girl in the Carolinas.
Speaker 3: She's just giving it out and he literally said that,
Speaker 3: and so as he's describing his issue with her non monogamy,
Speaker 3: I'm realizing I don't like how you're moving non monogamously
Speaker 3: in our relationship. But in his mind, he's not in
Speaker 3: relationships with all those other girls, so it's fine. But
Speaker 3: now I'm realizing I don't like how much he's just
Speaker 3: fucking so many other women.
Speaker 5: I understand that you're already like almost bent to trying
Speaker 5: to do the breakup like happened, But what would you
Speaker 5: say could be a possible solution for something like this?
Speaker 1: Yeah, if he changed something up? Would you be okay
Speaker 1: with that?
Speaker 2: Because you have to think a single guy who meets someone,
Speaker 2: they're saying that boyfriend girlfriend. However, it feels as though
Speaker 2: both of you aren't necessarily making each other a main
Speaker 2: or priority because you're really interested in this quarter zip make.
Speaker 1: It right, Okay. So it's like, how, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I guess how is he supposed to know that the
Speaker 1: volume is an issue? Now?
Speaker 2: If you're posing that the volume isn't well, the communication
Speaker 2: became like a O were gonna talk about this?
Speaker 4: What the fuck?
Speaker 1: But if he's going to fix it?
Speaker 2: And also to that point, for someone that's super accepting
Speaker 2: of someone who's lifestyle just playing devil's advocate is it
Speaker 2: him being like, Okay, so one weekend, I gotta be solo.
Speaker 1: What do you mean?
Speaker 4: So what what would be this right? What would be
Speaker 4: the solution here?
Speaker 1: Like what he's like, all right, so I only fly
Speaker 1: or only take a trip or only.
Speaker 4: Fuck so every other way?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean yeah, like to me, like or at
Speaker 3: least like have partners that you would enjoy being around,
Speaker 3: like the idea that you could meet a bitch at
Speaker 3: a bar or you try like he's going with like
Speaker 3: girls that at her on Instagram, I'm gonna fly out
Speaker 3: to go fuck her for the weekend. Like it's like, bruh,
Speaker 3: you just want to fuck people all the time. And
Speaker 3: to me, that's like, I don't like that?
Speaker 1: Is that a problem?
Speaker 2: I actually am not even trying to not be on
Speaker 2: your team on this one. But to me, when someone's lifestyle,
Speaker 2: that's kind of up.
Speaker 1: There for that. I get that.
Speaker 3: But the fact that he even admitted he didn't like
Speaker 3: it about somebody like lifestyle is lifestyle.
Speaker 1: But again there's oh, you're saying he didn't like it,
Speaker 1: he didn't like it about the other. But it seems
Speaker 1: like you said I.
Speaker 2: Knew about two couples he fucks Okay, cool, that's what
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So he's got couples that like the lesbian girls, yeah,
Speaker 2: and he's wool with that.
Speaker 1: But like, so it's going to fuck randon bitch.
Speaker 3: Like he was even about to link up with a
Speaker 3: girl that he told me the pussy was bad, Like
Speaker 3: he didn't even want to fuck her with.
Speaker 4: Me, so he fucked up that he should have done that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like so the fact that already told me,
Speaker 2: if you don't really like this bitch pussy, I think
Speaker 2: he doesn't want to tell me.
Speaker 3: I know, because I wanted to fuck this girl, and
Speaker 3: he was like, I mean, if you want to fuck her,
Speaker 3: I'll suck her with you.
Speaker 1: But he didn't. He wasn't gonna go back, don't. I'm
Speaker 1: telling you. I think he's there's some lie going on here.
Speaker 1: But even that, you know what, I don't want to
Speaker 1: date a fucking liar.
Speaker 4: I don't like liars.
Speaker 3: If your lifestyle and I'm fine with you fucking other bitches.
Speaker 3: I just tell you, these are the things I need.
Speaker 3: We need to communicate and we should be able to
Speaker 3: tell each other that. Oh that's the simple part.
Speaker 1: So I don't need a nigga lie to be.
Speaker 3: But also I don't want a nigga who I'm not
Speaker 3: even gonna say what I was about to say because
Speaker 3: i'mnay it off air. But the priorities just aren't there either,
Speaker 3: So I would say it off air because it's gonna.
Speaker 1: Be me talking ship. All your feelings are valid, it's
Speaker 1: just feel like, No, no, he has, he has, he has, really,
Speaker 1: he has a lot of money, don't kids, No, no kids,
Speaker 1: bleep all this out. The nigga literally doesn't have it,
Speaker 1: only has a.
Speaker 4: Girl, no, literally none.
Speaker 1: Because he's busy.
Speaker 2: He's literally spending his money on flights to fuck every weekend,
Speaker 2: which is why I haven't gone to go see him
Speaker 2: yet because bleep, the nigga doesn't.
Speaker 1: Even have a He probably but he's there for work,
Speaker 1: so I'm on the money.
Speaker 3: We FaceTime and Bro, we've been dating that four months,
Speaker 3: and Bro, you ain't done this so that I could
Speaker 3: be comfortable when I come to see you.
Speaker 1: But Bro, you spending your money every motherfucking weekend on
Speaker 1: a fight to go fuck on some bitches.
Speaker 3: As an adult to priorities, Bro, you ain't got you
Speaker 3: ain't got you ain't bleep all this, but you ain't
Speaker 3: got this ship.
Speaker 2: You ain't got this ship, girl, you don't got to saying, bleep,
Speaker 2: all this is funnier than this ship.
Speaker 1: Now, I'm definitely I want to I'm bleeping, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna wait. No, this ship is missing. No, so then.
Speaker 3: Look at y'all giving me doubts from the reals, dinny gritty,
Speaker 3: that's what it is. Now A part of me is like,
Speaker 3: where's your priority? And as a man, many you know
Speaker 3: what sucks about this?
Speaker 1: What you know?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 1: You know? Like nigga, suddenly you saw some ship you
Speaker 1: ain't didn't even bother you before, man before.
Speaker 4: But now you know where his pies ain't and now
Speaker 4: you gotta believe that. I know, I wll I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Okay, what people y'all really dug it out? Y'all might
Speaker 1: be therapist because yeah, okay, fuck it ain't even all
Speaker 1: the other bitches that ship. Yeah priorities, I need you
Speaker 1: to get that ship together. Fuck fuck Like so a
Speaker 1: part of me is like, maybe just we downgrade our relationship,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: How we should like maybe like this is how we
Speaker 2: gotta wrap the episode because I actually want to tell you.
Speaker 1: This is how I feel.
Speaker 2: One of my homegirls and I started going in about Actually,
Speaker 2: we was with our homeboys too. We was just hanging
Speaker 2: out of the living room in l A. And we're like,
Speaker 2: all right, everybody go around bout some dumb ass ship.
Speaker 2: You broke up with a nigga for.
Speaker 1: Real quick?
Speaker 2: If I broke up with him now for that reason, fair,
Speaker 2: y'all would be on my side because it's like deeper
Speaker 2: than that.
Speaker 1: Deeper you feel me, y'all. I know it sounded crazy
Speaker 1: and y'all be like these little non monogamous, delusional, confused
Speaker 1: bitches don't know what they're doing. It's a deeper rooted
Speaker 1: issue that at least we figured that out, my homegirl,
Speaker 1: thank you, because now would I tell them while we're
Speaker 1: breaking up, he could either get it.
Speaker 4: You're not gonna tell me.
Speaker 1: You could mean, but I would tell that's mean. No,
Speaker 1: it's it's it is what it isn't.
Speaker 2: But I gotta find out that. I'm gonna have chat
Speaker 2: help me on how to say not everybody frustrated because
Speaker 2: the don't know they did that.
Speaker 1: They're got frustrated feeling the blanks.
Speaker 2: Bitch, Yeah, figure it out in the don't figure it
Speaker 2: out in the column. Gonna be like, yep, that's what
Speaker 2: it is when you said faith. Okay, So this is
Speaker 2: also why other people influence the thought I could say
Speaker 2: her name because the shit was math funny.
Speaker 1: So Gabby episode is we listen and we judge clearly tacky.
Speaker 4: I already put tack.
Speaker 2: Gaby was dating an older story, but I remember it.
Speaker 2: Gaby was dating this dude and she showed me a
Speaker 2: photo of them, and she's like, oh, you used to
Speaker 2: be married.
Speaker 3: I'm like, show me the ex wife. First thing, I say,
Speaker 3: why why do you always want to see a picture?
Speaker 3: You want to see you don't see somebody uniform? See
Speaker 3: somebody in the question level. So so on Patreon, bro,
Speaker 3: we'll be talking about how we hate having to dress
Speaker 3: up all the goddamn talk. So I said, let's get
Speaker 3: a unifor let's get a uniforn. So somebody in the
Speaker 3: comments was like, Weezy used to get a uniform with
Speaker 3: a shirt that says, let me see.
Speaker 1: What they look like.
Speaker 2: No, b, because I need to know you always gotta
Speaker 2: go with somebody. Hey, y'all want to know how deep
Speaker 2: it goes? Y'all want to know how to paint her nigga?
Speaker 2: She said, if you want to work for her, you
Speaker 2: gotta be attractive. People gotta want to fuck you if
Speaker 2: you want to work for Weezy.
Speaker 1: Wait a second, it is this is why you hear?
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I hired you.
Speaker 4: I'm attractive.
Speaker 1: Thanks of course, yeah, you kind of you want to
Speaker 1: try to side. Let's is hot and tall. He's exactly
Speaker 1: how you don't only want to hide around you now,
Speaker 1: but you know what that was like?
Speaker 2: Thank god he had brains first, because Alex was like,
Speaker 2: I need somebody, Dad, we got this new shit anyway, Okay,
Speaker 2: fast forward. So Gabby boom, I'll let Lucy the X
Speaker 2: wife and she's like, oh shit, okay, so I see
Speaker 2: what she looks like. I don't even live like a sound.
Speaker 2: She was so unfortunate looking that I fortunately looking that.
Speaker 2: I said, WHOA, pass the phone to my nigga. I said,
Speaker 2: look at this, my nigga. Pick out the phone and said,
Speaker 2: I hope.
Speaker 1: You ain't his first bad bitch.
Speaker 2: And a week later Gabby started to notice he was
Speaker 2: acting a little nuts.
Speaker 1: Let me know when you're home. Oh, I know you're
Speaker 1: out of town, but just let me know when you
Speaker 1: get in. Say give me a call.
Speaker 2: All these check ins because he don't want her to
Speaker 2: phone no other niggas, And I'm like, bitch, it's because
Speaker 2: the ant's wife was buddy looking and now he's ating
Speaker 2: a heart bro and he don't know how to act.
Speaker 2: I was like, you need a break if playing bitch,
Speaker 2: because all the exes exactly. Hello, great reason to break up,
Speaker 2: is it not?
Speaker 1: You know what you get? Really contradicting advice. Oh my,
Speaker 1: the way you want it? Just rough it out for
Speaker 1: some reasons and then other reasons You're like, leave that man.
Speaker 1: You can't be a right a bitch like you really
Speaker 1: you want the girl to be half. She had to
Speaker 1: let him go. Also, she was like, okay, this is
Speaker 1: two INChO much. Okay.
Speaker 2: So then we start going around the table, right, so
Speaker 2: we all hanging out. Everybody's going in on their dumbest
Speaker 2: reason for breaking up with somebody.
Speaker 1: Bitch. One of my homeboys like, bro, you remember.
Speaker 2: That baddie we met at blah blah blah. I'm like, yes,
Speaker 2: He's like, yo, she sent me a nude. He's like,
Speaker 2: she looks so fucking good. Titties look good, everything look good.
Speaker 2: In the back of the nude, there's a mirror behind
Speaker 2: her and her feet are showing in the mirror. It
Speaker 2: was dirty, dirty as fun feels like dirty feet, and
Speaker 2: at the top of the kitchen counter was like trash,
Speaker 2: there's cans. There was also a fast food bag.
Speaker 1: They weren't dating, they weren't together. The word bitch, they
Speaker 1: was fucking. He said, somebody up, So there's fast food
Speaker 1: in the bag.
Speaker 2: Right. So I'm like, oh, I see the feet and
Speaker 2: he's like, hold on, look at this bitch. He fucking
Speaker 2: zooms in bags and there's two.
Speaker 1: It's Jack in the Box and Arby's.
Speaker 3: He's like, I can't He's like, what yo, I'm not
Speaker 3: gonna lie. This is where we're at as a society.
Speaker 3: Can I understand what I was about to say?
Speaker 2: Breaking up with bitches because they eat Jack in the
Speaker 2: box and Arby's good day, ain't gotten dirty feet.
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 5: The combination of the three is pretty terrible. Bro black girl,
Speaker 5: throw those bags out and go take a shower.
Speaker 2: They're like, why are you not fucking taking a fucking
Speaker 2: clean the house up? The reason you broke up with
Speaker 2: a news Oh, I'm gonna tell you right now, y'all
Speaker 2: heard mine.
Speaker 5: My eye was because I ain't like the flowers. I understand,
Speaker 5: but yours makes sense because it was like the wrong one. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: it was the wrong flowers.
Speaker 1: Flowers. I ended a day early because the man.
Speaker 2: Maybe it was true, but I don't give a fuck
Speaker 2: because y'all know me, like that be trying to therapize me.
Speaker 1: What he told me. I had an anxious attachment. Ryle. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It was like, so you broke up with Cigres to
Speaker 1: be an honist. I didn't break up. I just was like, oh, wait,
Speaker 1: I forgot because y'all were dating.
Speaker 3: I'm bro but I basically was like, you can't break
Speaker 3: up with anigga that you're not with no that I
Speaker 3: mean like cuss somebody else.
Speaker 1: It was the dumbest reason you broke up with a
Speaker 1: part I'm talking about cutoffs right now, but the reason.
Speaker 2: So when he said that to me, I was like,
Speaker 2: that's interesting because you really wouldn't know how I attached,
Speaker 2: considering we don't know each other.
Speaker 3: Well, He's like, yo, this is like you were talking
Speaker 3: to somebody. Yes, we were on the first dumbest reason
Speaker 3: I stopped talking to it. Oh ooh, I really don't
Speaker 3: be liking people.
Speaker 1: Hmm. I did a niggason't me. Protesting was a way
Speaker 1: and I was like I'm good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's kind of weird.
Speaker 1: That's crazy.
Speaker 4: I mean maybe like if you meant like a type
Speaker 4: of protesting, I get it, but like, no.
Speaker 2: I think it was a day we were supposed to
Speaker 2: kick it and I was like, fuck, I'm going out
Speaker 2: to do this blah blah blah shit, and he was like,
Speaker 2: loo l, yes, go save the world.
Speaker 1: So I didn't think he he just plan but I
Speaker 1: thought he was maybe just trying to be silly.
Speaker 2: And then I was like I will, and then I
Speaker 2: sent like a captain and save a host gift and
Speaker 2: he was like, not a dead ass.
Speaker 1: Protesting is a waste of time. The system will.
Speaker 2: Always be what it is and da, And I was like,
Speaker 2: I just I can tell you the negative Nancy nigga,
Speaker 2: And I'm shoot, did.
Speaker 1: You fuck it? Oh that's why the dick was good.
Speaker 1: You would have just lost over that. Lo l.
Speaker 4: Yeah he would have said that to you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, nigga got good dick, bitch. I'll let him be
Speaker 3: all conspiracy theorises. Okay, maybe y'all see'll every time my man.
Speaker 1: Say something problematic, I think about it. Maybe that's how
Speaker 1: I know, me being with a nigga who thought the
Speaker 1: earth was flat.
Speaker 4: Wait, let me ask you a question.
Speaker 1: Well, Mandy thought it was flat too. Oh this guy,
Speaker 1: the earth was flat, bitch.
Speaker 5: This guy you're having a conundrum with, right Like, what
Speaker 5: the one the guy that you conundrum is crazy?
Speaker 4: It's a conundrum, right like? Is the dick that good?
Speaker 1: He made me square five times on the first day.
Speaker 4: So why are you complained Dick is good? Because now
Speaker 4: it's not good enough?
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no to me, to me Dick. By
Speaker 1: the way, I'm God's chosen I get good Dick. You're
Speaker 1: gonna hurt me for about almost ten years talk about
Speaker 1: how good like I get good Dick and multiple niggas
Speaker 1: that made me squirt.
Speaker 3: Now you're not You're not my savior. You're not the
Speaker 3: only nigga that can make me squirk. Niggas out here
Speaker 3: making bitch is squirt. Now, thank y'all for doing your
Speaker 3: motherfucker research. So you're you're not special now, Like you're
Speaker 3: not the only nigga to eat ask You're not the
Speaker 3: only nig gonna make me squirk. You're not the only
Speaker 3: nigga to be nasty, choke me and do all the
Speaker 3: nasty shit I have chemistry with.
Speaker 1: I don't have that much.
Speaker 3: But over like my lifetime, I get sexual partners that
Speaker 3: we have the same chemistry. So for me now it's
Speaker 3: a little bit beyond dick, Like it goes beyond sex
Speaker 3: now with someone that I want.
Speaker 1: To consider, how old is the guy that you're breaking
Speaker 1: up with? Thirty six? Oh yeah, he's too old to
Speaker 1: be having fun. Bruh, I did my boyfriend was to
Speaker 1: have fun like that? Oh no, no, let me let
Speaker 1: me explain. My boyfriend said something a few months back
Speaker 1: that I was like, this is silly, but I understand
Speaker 1: this young guy thinking. So it was somewhere.
Speaker 2: It was something about Korea, Philippines, and another like African
Speaker 2: country he went to.
Speaker 1: I was like, what made you go to those places?
Speaker 1: So he started laughing. I'm like the women. He's like,
Speaker 1: I wanted to what about some crew? Like why else
Speaker 1: would I go? And I'm like, I know, but like
Speaker 1: twenty three years old, you just think Korea And he's like, yes,
Speaker 1: Like I jumped up plans. I want to experience what
Speaker 1: that's like. Say this to say.
Speaker 2: I thought it was silly at the time, but I
Speaker 2: do understand men wanting to travel. If you're a single
Speaker 2: guy traveling. Yeah, because low key when I was thinking
Speaker 2: where do I want? I want the Parisian African niggas,
Speaker 2: I want the London thing.
Speaker 1: Like, how was my shit? So I get it now?
Speaker 1: Was I looking for a husband to come home with me?
Speaker 1: Nadia fiance?
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's just so men needing to travel and
Speaker 2: exploring cities that way. I understand. But at thirty six
Speaker 2: to be taking your time every weekend to not be home,
Speaker 2: you know, just enjoy your own spot, enjoy your own city,
Speaker 2: enjoy your own friends, just to be out that much.
Speaker 2: You can't tell me you want to see what Texas
Speaker 2: is like that much? Or Tampa Bay like there's not
Speaker 2: that much.
Speaker 3: Oh, he don't went to Mississippi because you know what,
Speaker 3: he go to city like white ass cities with some kuchi.
Speaker 1: Now if a bitches in Chicago or.
Speaker 4: Like I, yeah, it's the city's not the shorties.
Speaker 1: No, that's what. No, that's what I realized. I wasn't
Speaker 1: even these are the shorties. It's the other thing. I
Speaker 1: don't like how you're spending your money at this point,
Speaker 1: Like it's not responsible.
Speaker 4: Wow, we really did uncover that.
Speaker 1: Rooum, y'all did uncover it? Because I have a problem
Speaker 1: with it, because that's why the fuck I haven't been
Speaker 1: like and tell your therapist take the week out. What's
Speaker 1: the next question?
Speaker 2: Listen, don I'm sorry people know her him. You know
Speaker 2: I've said, oh yeah, get Serena.
Speaker 1: Sorry, yeah, no.
Speaker 3: Don't Yeah, it's tricky, it's tricky, but but yeah, look,
Speaker 3: y'all really got anything? I want to text him right now?
Speaker 3: I think this isn't gonna work.
Speaker 2: Well, if you guys want to break up update, the
Speaker 2: only place you'll get it is on patreons dot com.
Speaker 1: No, I don't think I'm gonna break up with a
Speaker 1: net ship, but you the way you what is this?
Speaker 1: He put up?
Speaker 2: Bring people to the Mama's Land patreon dot com back
Speaker 2: slash Horrible Decisions Roman. He gives a full update transcript
Speaker 2: and his photos go right now hurry. No, I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna give his photos because I think a couple of
Speaker 2: the patriots. Okay, well, ship just go because we got
Speaker 2: patriots to the.
Speaker 1: Girl not not be the patriot. See I know, okay,
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: Dam Thank you guys for tune again to another episode
Speaker 3: Decisions Decisions. Sorry, y'all, we were all over the places
Speaker 3: episode No, They're like this was like this is what
Speaker 3: happens when we does the outline. Yeah, we didn't get
Speaker 3: to the outline, like we didn't get to ship.
Speaker 1: Did we get anywhere? Yes? I read hold on the
Speaker 1: outline was the update from Turks. It was the men
Speaker 1: love women, men married love.
Speaker 4: How you uh huh and how you're about to break
Speaker 4: up with your boyfriend?
Speaker 1: Well, y'all really sigh, y'all