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Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you should say decision decisions. It sounded

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Speaker 2: like you was talking to it cursing. You definitely say

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Speaker 2: to welcome, welcome to the new podcast. You want to

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Speaker 2: say together, decisions decisions.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, Oh, welcome to another episode. Oh, decisions decisions, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I heard the flun Oh.

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Speaker 3: I know it's so nasty. Anyways, guys, welcome, I'm your girl, Mandy.

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Speaker 2: B Hey, y'all, I'm weazy, Welcome back to another episode.

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Speaker 1: Listen, y'all begged for us to be solo and alone,

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Speaker 1: my bitch.

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Speaker 3: Now y'all got a solo ho? I go hold it,

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Speaker 3: I'm solo ho, solo ho. Even though last week they

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Speaker 3: had another guest, it was like, these bitches only gave

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Speaker 3: us one solo a. I'll finished the next three about

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Speaker 3: to be solo on you os and less we get

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Speaker 3: that special guest were working on.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh that'll be cute. That'll be a treat

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Speaker 1: for you bitches.

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh read, just eat it up, just like a

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Speaker 2: trip to the Turks would have been a treat.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So, y'all, if you listened to the episode the

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Speaker 3: very first episode of the year, we was listening and

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Speaker 3: judging and not agreeing on one of Weezy's friends. A

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Speaker 3: lot of people in the comments was agreeing with you,

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Speaker 3: but them bitch is probably lost and clueless suit. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so you know at the end of the day did

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Speaker 3: they go in. But also actually they said two things

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Speaker 3: could be true.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: The bitch was acting like a bird and self sabotaging

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Speaker 3: the relationship. But also she really didn't like him. But

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Speaker 3: apparently there's an update because y'all not the friend listened

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Speaker 3: to the episode.

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Speaker 2: Okay, No, the bitch was passed timp. Can you tell

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Speaker 2: me what I gotta make sure I'm lupciccated for.

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Speaker 1: This room room tamp tamp. Okay, so let me tell

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Speaker 1: you about Hey. By the way, Eden, you were a

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Speaker 1: little quiet time we had the conversation about this. We

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Speaker 1: need you to weigh in. As the man, yo, I

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Speaker 1: was kind of mad when Mandy left. Wolf was like, no,

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Speaker 1: I agreed with you.

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Speaker 4: Whoe a were you?

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Speaker 3: Well, he wasn't micd up. You kept trying to talk

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Speaker 3: to Wolf as and Wolf didn't have a mic. So

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Speaker 3: this time, as the man in the a man with

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Speaker 3: a mic? Should we recap for people that didn't catch

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Speaker 3: that episode. Oh, because the hoses they about to go

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Speaker 3: back and listen. We need all of you go back

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Speaker 3: and listen. Two episodes ago, pulls the holes for the

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Speaker 3: first twenty minutes. If you want to hear what we

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Speaker 3: talk about, then come back.

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Speaker 1: Don't recap.

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Speaker 3: It's just say Netflix, you don't get a motherfucking in

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Speaker 3: the last episode. No, take your ass back and listen.

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Speaker 1: We've got to get her out of Atlanta. But you do.

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Speaker 1: I'm in New York right now. Okay, true, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: So update, no, no no, you asked Eden, no no no.

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Speaker 2: I told Eden she wants to chime in chi Okay.

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Speaker 2: So basically, when the episode dropped, no, we said we

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Speaker 2: not give it.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, but it's important.

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Speaker 2: So the girl told him you need to give my

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Speaker 2: flight and he's like, well, we don't need to go nowhere.

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Speaker 2: That was Saturday. I recorded with you on Sunday. Yes,

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Speaker 2: the episode came out on Monday. Yes, come on Timeline babe,

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Speaker 2: Monday nine thirty. She hit me like, I've listened to

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Speaker 2: the full thing. She said, I even listened to the

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Speaker 2: andecy if you bring it up again, and and we did.

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Speaker 2: She's like, and I went through the comments and there's

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Speaker 2: a comment that really affected me, and not.

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Speaker 1: Not bit just being affected in the comments section.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, in a episode she was like, Oh,

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Speaker 2: I just feel like because when we were on the phone,

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Speaker 2: she I just feel like, because you're happy in your

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Speaker 2: relationship and shit, you can't like see what it's like

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Speaker 2: about of it.

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Speaker 1: You can't step out of and recorded right now.

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Speaker 3: I do agree with that, like when you all lovey

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Speaker 3: dovey in a relationship, you don't know how to really

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Speaker 3: talk to a single bitch out here in the street.

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Speaker 2: But wait, I feel like because I'm in a relationship,

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Speaker 2: I could give some great advice because I see the

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Speaker 2: things that I've changed. Now, this is the comment she

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Speaker 2: referred to, So shout out to you. Okay, man or

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Speaker 2: woman getting rid of a situation because you didn't get

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Speaker 2: one hundred percent of what you want.

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Speaker 1: It's straight up self sabotaged. Nobody gets one hundred percent

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Speaker 1: of they want. Nobody. I did see that, said you said.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't think she liked him

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Speaker 1: that much. So she gets.

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Speaker 2: You agree, right, I don't think so Okay, Okay, So

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Speaker 2: here's her text. I watched her episode.

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Speaker 1: Lol. Knew Mandy would agree, but what I said? So

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Speaker 1: she called me. I said, don't call me. I need

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Speaker 1: you to live write.

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Speaker 2: This out socker read it.

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Speaker 1: So why you start of your friends and content.

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Speaker 4: She don't.

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Speaker 1: She's not a podcast girl.

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Speaker 2: One thing she is wrong about is I actually do

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Speaker 2: like him. But my real truth is I don't care

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Speaker 2: how much I like a nigga. I will never settle.

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Speaker 2: She wrote that in all caps, and I wrote girl

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Speaker 2: dot dot dot.

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Speaker 1: She said, I'm about to speak to him.

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Speaker 2: Keep you posting, please get full tytail and screez shots. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we just had a conversation. I'm going to share with

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Speaker 2: you how it started.

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Speaker 1: Me.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I realized I was out of line with some

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Speaker 2: of the things I said to you, and I would

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Speaker 2: like to formally apologize if you'd be willing to answer

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Speaker 2: my call. And this is her writing to him. I'm

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Speaker 2: actually a bit given accountability. Shout out to your friend.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well let's see where you go from now. Okay,

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Speaker 2: she said, I guess he didn't answer a call. I

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Speaker 2: actually wanted to call you and let you know.

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Speaker 1: I have The Turks would have known the bitch, but no,

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Speaker 1: I just I.

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Speaker 2: Was absolutely willing and still am able to pay for this,

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Speaker 2: and I would also like to take you out to dinner,

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Speaker 2: join one of our nights on the island to.

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Speaker 1: Keep up if you'd like to keep our trip.

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Speaker 2: He rode back and said, just to be clear, I

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Speaker 2: have no intention on rebooking our plans. However, you could

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Speaker 2: give me a call. Here's what she rode back an

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Speaker 2: hour later. We just had a talk. He said, he's

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Speaker 2: looking for someone that's very serious and intentional about dating

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Speaker 2: and spending time together and felt that the way I

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Speaker 2: approached the situation was very tacky. He implied when I

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Speaker 2: until you and Mandy debated it, uh that it was

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Speaker 2: not a test, but he felt so disrespected by MY

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Speaker 2: approach to the flight. He believed it was a test

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Speaker 2: that was given to him for me. If it was

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Speaker 2: a test to see if he would be the man

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Speaker 2: for me. Yes, oh, he implied that he wasn't willing.

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Speaker 2: He no, sorry, he said that. I implied that I

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Speaker 2: had higher expectations out of the men I had been with. Now,

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Speaker 2: for context, I asked her if I could say what

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Speaker 2: dated so many.

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Speaker 1: Athletes was because she did.

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Speaker 2: She had a high position at MSG, and so she

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Speaker 2: had been working in MSG for years and around him.

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Speaker 2: Niggas okay, and so his comment was, I don't know

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Speaker 2: if it's because of your past or previous work and

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Speaker 2: the people or clients tell you're used to being around,

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Speaker 2: but I'm absolutely a stand up man. I felt I

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Speaker 2: did everything I could to make this destination easy for you,

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Speaker 2: as you were already in a worse work trip. But again,

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Speaker 2: this was completely tacky and I felt very disrespected by

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Speaker 2: your approach.

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Speaker 1: She then you a niggas call it a bitch? Tacky

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Speaker 1: is oh? Like, oh you know what, listen, girl, I ain't

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Speaker 1: eve gonna hold you. There are a lot of things

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Speaker 1: be rather. I would rather be called a slut ass

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Speaker 4: That's hilarious.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna hold you like like i'd rather. I

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Speaker 2: was like, bro, what you have to think? This is

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Speaker 2: a man that also is doing well, almost forty booking

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Speaker 2: the place you want. Also, and Mandy, when you were

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Speaker 2: to choose it, what do you want, I'll give it

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Speaker 2: to you, like getting everything you want.

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Speaker 1: And then I mean, we're not go We not gonna

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Speaker 1: go back on that, okay, like you know what I mean? Like, no,

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Speaker 1: still you invite me on a trip, nigga, get my flight?

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Speaker 4: Wait?

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Speaker 1: So is the issue that he's using the word tacky

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Speaker 1: or is that she is? No?

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Speaker 2: No, no, I just feel like if a man call

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Speaker 2: you tacky behavior. Oh bro, when I read this text,

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Speaker 2: I was like, like my skin crawled a little bit

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Speaker 2: of techy hod Wait, listen to my reply. Bitch, I said,

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Speaker 2: holy shit, bitch, holy sh ship, holy shit.

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Speaker 1: He said, taki or you wrote tacky to me? She

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Speaker 1: said no, he said tacky. Yeah. She said he.

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Speaker 2: Doesn't want to rebook the trip, but he would. He says,

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Speaker 2: we could have dinner tomorrow, which was the night they

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Speaker 2: were gonna go on the trip, if we would like

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Speaker 2: to settle a conversation. I said, girl, don't get upset.

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Speaker 2: You fucked that up and you can never.

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Speaker 1: Let is she is she paying for the dinner? I

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Speaker 2: He's not he's not a letter, but she's not a

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Speaker 2: suggest But he's definitely not a letter after she did

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Speaker 2: that whole thing. So I said, don't get upset. You

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Speaker 2: fucked that up and you never gonna forget that nigga

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Speaker 2: called you tacky.

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Speaker 1: You can end up with him. I I don't think

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Speaker 2: Like That's why I like, like, I ain't even gonna

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Speaker 2: hold you.

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Speaker 3: Like if a man calls you tacky, that's like bop,

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Speaker 3: like he don't like you.

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Speaker 1: He gonna go out and eat what you probably just

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Speaker 1: not anymore? You know what. He probably want to call you.

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Speaker 2: Take it to your face, but don't go out with him,

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Speaker 2: Like I hope she don't go out with.

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Speaker 1: Him, like so lib does and I about him, so

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Speaker 1: we have to tea I would I'm curious if you

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Speaker 1: a real nigga, Like if he a real nigga, what

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Speaker 1: he would do is be like, yeah, let's go out

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Speaker 1: to eat, and then last minute to say something came up,

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Speaker 1: just because like I did, go out of this way,

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Speaker 1: you don't get to come back. So let's dive into

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Speaker 1: this a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Because her and I did get on the phone at

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Speaker 2: some point when she was getting upset this morning. She

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Speaker 2: was more so like, it really hurt my feelings to

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Speaker 2: hear you say I've bitched about being single.

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Speaker 1: I've bitched about being single.

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Speaker 2: And basically she's like, even though I understand what you mean,

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Speaker 3: It's interesting because here's the thing too, right, going back

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Speaker 1: Here's why.

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Speaker 2: here's what she says happened. First, they booked the hotel.

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Speaker 2: he was like, cool, let me grab what do you

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Speaker 2: think you want to leave an afternoon? Okay, cool, I'll

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Speaker 2: That was how that happened. All of that was done there.

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Speaker 1: All right, cool, I'll grab it.

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Speaker 1: However, She's like, I felt like he didn't follow up

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Speaker 2: One other thing she did realize from the conversation. He

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Speaker 3: I ain't gonna hold you, okay, from what we talked

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Speaker 1: Now she's tacky. She tacky or not.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, here's the thing too, at the end

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Speaker 1: At the end of the day, a lot of you

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Speaker 2: There's other options for these niggas. And I do think

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Speaker 2: that women just got it. There's women that just shouldn't

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Speaker 1: You didn't have this tone the other night when we

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Speaker 1: recorded what.

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Speaker 3: Oh, because how I am bitch a nigga book around

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Speaker 1: But to me, I have the way I want to date.

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Speaker 3: Like I told you, uh literally, I think I now

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Speaker 3: but I do the things whether a man is there

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Speaker 3: just took me to a basketball game. He wanted me

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Speaker 3: to go to a basketball game.

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Speaker 1: He knew.

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Speaker 3: Bitch, if I invite Manny to this game, we gotta

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Speaker 3: So let me see if there's three court side tickets,

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Speaker 1: Okay, Mandy, you it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: No, it doesn't matter, Mandy well what I'm saying. But no, like,

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Speaker 2: it really does matter though, because that is the issue

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Speaker 2: that my friend is having.

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Speaker 1: My friend is not the dating an athlete. This is aga.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: I don't Actually I don't know court side seats. That

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Speaker 2: what good paying job is someone's spending fifteen k on.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you real quick. First off, I'm in Atlanta, Georgia.

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Speaker 3: They were playing the Clippers. Not sure if you know

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Speaker 1: How much were the tickets? Twelve hundred the piece? Oh okay, well,

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Speaker 4: Three for three.

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Speaker 1: It was twelve hundred dollar. Okay, so now you keep

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Speaker 1: trying to say this is a normal court side, it's not.

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Speaker 1: But it was in Atlanta at Phillips and they played

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Speaker 1: the Sixers. Let's be very clear if it was the.

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Speaker 3: Next game when they played the fucking Warriors, bro court

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Speaker 3: side And okay, when I say court side, I was

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Speaker 3: Sorry one moment, y'all. Uh, well do you think you

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Speaker 3: think you're grabbing our caffeine.

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Speaker 1: And we're back o fucked up?

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Speaker 3: Like this is a tachy goddamn coffee spots sucked up,

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Speaker 1: God, yeah, where I.

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Speaker 2: Think like the management of expectations come. The one hundred

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Speaker 3: No a techy sorry for she wasn't yesterday. He was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: because that's how I moved. Like again, we were just

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Speaker 3: show up, especially if you if they know like what

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Speaker 3: you're used to. Like, It's why we say now when

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Speaker 3: you're dating, don't let your new prospect know all the ways.

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Speaker 1: You were mistreated in your last relationship.

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Speaker 3: But what you so then, So, what I'm saying is

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Speaker 1: This man, I don't like you had to show up

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Speaker 1: that way for her. So then why is she tacky?

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Speaker 1: Because yesterday he said she wasn't.

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Speaker 3: No, No, I just think she's tacky because she lacks communication.

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Speaker 3: She assumed things and she damn near threw a fit

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Speaker 3: You say yesterday, But I'm saying now that you done

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Speaker 3: story wrong. You share all those details.

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Speaker 1: Bro. So he sounded like I'm tooted.

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Speaker 4: She started.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she started with that though. I think

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Speaker 1: they both miscommunicated.

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Speaker 3: I felt like, if you didn't go on the trip

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Speaker 3: with him, I'm still standing on she don't like him

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Speaker 3: that much. But if she also just doesn't like him

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Speaker 3: that much, I think the fact is she don't need

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Speaker 5: Hold on, So, like I started on what I was saying,

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Speaker 5: she started with saying, hey, I'll still pay the three eighty.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: That was crazy. That was like starting off like that, Why.

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Speaker 1: Not bro, like you you coming back him like now

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Speaker 4: Because it sounds like the trip is her priority. Then no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: I think the reason she went back and said it

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Speaker 2: come back and say, hey, actually rebooked the whole trip again. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: the tacky part, the first no, the tachi part.

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Speaker 1: About it. I'm still not mad at you know.

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Speaker 2: What she could have done that would have actually solved

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Speaker 2: this whole thing. What she could have felt maybe a

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Speaker 2: You could have booked it and then brought it up

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Speaker 2: a nigga gave me red bed book it. I'll get

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Speaker 2: back to you, like I'm sure you have to grab whatever.

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Speaker 1: I'll pay you back. I'll send it to you.

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Speaker 2: Like if it was that pressing, I just don't know

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Speaker 2: if I would have really called him and bitched about it.

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Speaker 2: And I agree to that was the thing that was

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Speaker 2: like you having that expectation and to the lady. She

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Speaker 2: doesn't need to talk to the lady.

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Speaker 3: She is not in any sense healed or knows how

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Speaker 3: to communicate what she wants or what she expects in

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Speaker 1: You know why. I don't think it's what she's used to.

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Speaker 1: I don't think anything's wrong with having standards, standards in expectation.

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Speaker 2: The problem is not being able to effectively communicate those things,

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Speaker 2: and she clearly don't know how to communicate she she

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Speaker 1: I do think that there is a problem, though, with expecting.

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Speaker 2: This is a true thing for me, standards and expectations

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Speaker 2: like I don't expect every single man to do X

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Speaker 2: multi millionaires compared to a guy that works on the

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Speaker 2: same floor with you at your financial firm. Manage that

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Speaker 2: bro to be quite honest with you, Mandy, the fact

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Speaker 1: I think that is extremely high. Actually, I mean he

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Speaker 1: but she could have given him three eighty. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like, that's why at the end of

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Speaker 1: the day, it's all taking how was not even a

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Speaker 1: night of the trip, But we're gonna do.

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Speaker 2: I'm just ready for them to have this dinner because

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Speaker 2: if she end up fucking him.

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Speaker 1: Oh all of he doesn't show up. Wait, they have

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Speaker 1: remind me they haven't fucked before. No, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: But they date.

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Speaker 4: H Yeah, they're not ding. That's all not dating.

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Speaker 1: Because you know what, it's been a month. He probably

439
00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:07,919
Speaker 1: wanted to go on this trip so he could get

440
00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:08,439
Speaker 1: that pussy.

441
00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:09,960
Speaker 4: Now he ain't gonna do it.

442
00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,600
Speaker 1: I mean, hold on wait, wait, oh my god, the

443
00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:13,560
Speaker 1: sex has to happen for it.

444
00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:14,879
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, that's what I'm saying. It's not

445
00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:17,280
Speaker 5: it's not because they didn't funk. It's just I'm realizing

446
00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:20,920
Speaker 5: all these elements is a bottle. Fuck you going on

447
00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:23,240
Speaker 5: an island trip with a nigga. You ain't even stop.

448
00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:25,639
Speaker 1: I think they probably ready to do that out of

449
00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:29,159
Speaker 1: your brother. I think this is the fourth or fifthy. Know,

450
00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:30,960
Speaker 1: if a nigga fly you to an island, you're giving

451
00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,239
Speaker 1: that puss up. I think she wanted to fuck too.

452
00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,000
Speaker 2: I think that's the problem too. Maybe she felt like

453
00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:39,040
Speaker 2: that I ain't paying three eighty to fuck you.

454
00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:46,199
Speaker 1: Are they already fucking? Let's see you? Oh my god? Anyway,

455
00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,600
Speaker 1: we listen and we judge. I want to share about

456
00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:57,399
Speaker 1: my friend real quick. Bitch, did you fuck him?

457
00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 2: That?

458
00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:58,040
Speaker 1: I heard that?

459
00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,800
Speaker 3: I heard this morning and it's kind of crazy, okay,

460
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:07,000
Speaker 3: kind a little crazy, yike. So my homegirl calls me

461
00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:09,840
Speaker 3: this morning at like a quarter to eight, which I

462
00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:13,640
Speaker 3: was sleeping. She hits me again and it's like, damn, bitch,

463
00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:18,320
Speaker 3: you sleeping in today? And I'm like, I am sleeping.

464
00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:21,199
Speaker 3: I'm gonna They didn't even give me my ship, right,

465
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:23,440
Speaker 3: they didn't even sit anyways.

466
00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:25,959
Speaker 1: So she hits me. She was like, girl, I got

467
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,760
Speaker 1: some tea. I said, bitch, I'm gonna call you when

468
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:29,240
Speaker 1: I get up.

469
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:35,639
Speaker 2: So she dated my homeboy two years ago, and I

470
00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,960
Speaker 2: didn't know they were dating until they broke up, but

471
00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:41,200
Speaker 2: they was traveling everywhere together. They were seeing each other.

472
00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:45,320
Speaker 2: He had a surgery dating. No, they was together, like

473
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,440
Speaker 2: they I was just trying to go with the D word.

474
00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:51,120
Speaker 2: They was overly dating. They were they were not overly dated.

475
00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:52,000
Speaker 2: They were overly dating.

476
00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 3: Anyways, he ended up getting depressed and they broke up

477
00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 3: because he was also just lying. So they break up.

478
00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:06,640
Speaker 3: She hasn't seen him in two years. For the last

479
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 3: six months, he's been like trying to rekindle, like wanting

480
00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 3: to see her, offering to fly her out, asking if

481
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 3: they could go on a trip together, all the things.

482
00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:22,720
Speaker 3: She declined because she's like, bro, what are we doing? Like,

483
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:24,639
Speaker 3: I don't want to just get back into that. The

484
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:29,160
Speaker 3: way we broke up wasn't good. I So he finds

485
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 3: himself in New York. They link up, they have sex.

486
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,800
Speaker 3: He just invited her to Atlanta because he's gonna be

487
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:38,640
Speaker 3: in Atlanta next week.

488
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:40,879
Speaker 1: Tell me why.

489
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 3: Her homegirl, the mutual friend calls her. It says, I

490
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:52,480
Speaker 3: told him he's wrong, but I I uh, his fiance

491
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:54,159
Speaker 3: posted their.

492
00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 1: Engagement their mutual friend.

493
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,159
Speaker 2: Their mutual friend was like, because the girl's pages is blocked,

494
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 2: so anyway, this home girl couldn't see it.

495
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, but she saw it.

496
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,440
Speaker 1: But did your homegirl know they were even dating. No,

497
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,120
Speaker 1: mind you, when she just gave him pussy in New York,

498
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 1: he didn't say he was engaged, mind you.

499
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 3: He got engaged in August, bitch. It's January, bitch, while

500
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:24,399
Speaker 3: he was out in another country. Because he was in

501
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 3: another country, he's texting my homegirl.

502
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:28,120
Speaker 1: He sent in her.

503
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 3: Pictures, bitch, the same pictures in my homegirl's phone while

504
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 3: he's on this foreign trip.

505
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,920
Speaker 1: He's on the down on one knee pictures that he

506
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 1: proposed to the bitch.

507
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 3: So the day that he proposes to this girl, he's

508
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 3: in my homegirl phone saying, yeah, I'm on this trip.

509
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 1: You know, I got some mutual friends out here. We're

510
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 1: just having a good time. I I I.

511
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 3: So, bitch, she's sending me all the screenshots of the

512
00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:01,160
Speaker 3: fact that here, here he is texting me while he's

513
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:06,640
Speaker 3: in fucking BALI right, here's his proposal post, bitch, same pictures.

514
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,680
Speaker 3: I said, bitch, Now he proposed to a whole bitch

515
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 3: while he was keeping you up to date with his

516
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 3: fucking trip. So I asked her if that's so safe.

517
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 3: So I'm like, damn, well, how do you feel? And

518
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 3: we went through two different things, two different fields. The

519
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:28,560
Speaker 3: first emotion was the fact that she feels like, had

520
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:32,120
Speaker 3: she been more responsive with his advances, that that would

521
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 3: have been her. And it's because while they were together,

522
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:39,360
Speaker 3: he said, I'm just waiting to get this job. Once

523
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 3: I get this job and i'm more secure, I'm gonna marry.

524
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 2: He said, that's your friend. He said that to my

525
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:49,159
Speaker 2: friend two years ago. He has that job and he

526
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,719
Speaker 2: just proposed to this new girl in August.

527
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 1: So a part of I'll show you so part of

528
00:23:55,840 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 1: the conversation was I'm really feeling like her feel feeling

529
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:04,399
Speaker 1: like that was supposed to be me. But also then

530
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 1: I wanted to I was like, but would you have

531
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:09,360
Speaker 1: really wanted to be with a man who, bitch.

532
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 2: Is he's been texting you, he just fucked you, didn't

533
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 2: even tell you he was engaged, but just fucked you

534
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,480
Speaker 2: and been in your phone, not even telling you he'd

535
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 2: have proposed, and it's.

536
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:23,120
Speaker 3: Planning a whole life with another woman. Then the other

537
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:26,119
Speaker 3: question was, and this stepped from heart. She was like,

538
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 3: as soon as I got set the post, I wanted

539
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 3: to write to the fiancee and tell her everything, because bitch.

540
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: We just fucked. Now wasn't wrong. I don't know but ladies,

541
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 1: if you.

542
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 3: Got an ex and you fucking wrong and you double

543
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 3: back nine times out of ten, you gonna fuck them

544
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 3: wrong steal so damn. She said that she sat with it,

545
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 3: and I guess talked to the lady and decided not

546
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 3: to tell the fiance. She talked to the lady and

547
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 3: somehow the lady told her it wasn't worth doing. But

548
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 3: she has since called him, wrote him mad messages like

549
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 3: why would you come and be with me and spend

550
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 3: time with me and even invite me to another city

551
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 3: and not let me know that you proposed to a

552
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 3: bitch three months ago and that you're currently engaged. So

553
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 3: to me, it's interesting as well, like seeing the lack

554
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 3: of communication that your homegirl has while dating, but also

555
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 3: it's even more interesting to see how these things really

556
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 3: just don't be telling you what's going on your line.

557
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,879
Speaker 2: I think what's most hurtful, though, is knowing that to

558
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 2: watch someone get engaged to somebody else while you spend all.

559
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 1: That time they were together for like a year, to

560
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:44,199
Speaker 1: not give me the.

561
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 2: Choice to want to fuck you after you're with someone else,

562
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,359
Speaker 2: Like it's just oh, let's be very It feels very

563
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 2: like you put life came back in and been like,

564
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 2: I need that Pullston one more time, but I'm engaged.

565
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: I guarantee you she wouldn't have fucked him. I know

566
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 1: she wouldn't have fucked him.

567
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 2: You know why, because that nigga's tacky. Well, I think

568
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 2: I want to read something that I had beyond what

569
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 2: we were talking about, because and it's crazy because you

570
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:12,679
Speaker 2: brought this up.

571
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 1: There's a guy on ig.

572
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 2: I'm not playing the clip because it was kind of

573
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,880
Speaker 2: like three minutes long, but I summarized it. White guy

574
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 2: named Taylor Conroy. I think his IG's Taylor Love and

575
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 2: the highlights of his clip. Men don't marry the love

576
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,719
Speaker 2: of their lives. They marry the woman that's there when

577
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 2: they're ready. Oh yes, and here's the gig. I pulled

578
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 2: the gist of what he said. Men are exploring in

579
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 2: their twenties. They find their purpose by thirty six to

580
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 2: where they know what type of partner they want. Thirty

581
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 2: six was the age of both niggas with the PhD

582
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 2: Oh wow, So maybe that's why they were ramping up

583
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,680
Speaker 2: about already. Yeah. It says that it's a type of

584
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 2: partner that they want to get to get to their

585
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 2: goals or to help support their goals. They think about

586
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 2: their strengths and their weaknesses to see if it's complimented

587
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 2: by their prospect at the time. It doesn't matter if

588
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 2: a girl friend the past had it. Whoever's there right now,

589
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 2: do they compliment these things. Whereas women, we can be

590
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 2: twenty two, thirty two, forty two, any age. Love makes

591
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 2: us feel like that's the thing that'll push us forward,

592
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 2: opposed to the person that we're dating, that the man

593
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 2: we're dating. They're going to see if a woman has

594
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 2: their things the compliment.

595
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: Time and place like as a woman. And that's the

596
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: funny part.

597
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 3: Like I think a lot of women spend so much

598
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 3: of their time figuring out how to come across as

599
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 3: wifey when in reality, you really just got to double

600
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 3: across the right nigga at the time he want to

601
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 3: be married, or at the time he's ready to settle down,

602
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,159
Speaker 3: Like a lot of it, Like it's funny because I

603
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 3: know we say, uh, the with you is silent, but

604
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 3: a lot of times men know when they're ready for

605
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 3: something more or you just want to settle down, or

606
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 3: they want to wake up to a woman every day.

607
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: Or they want to get out the streets and just

608
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: have one woman.

609
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:08,360
Speaker 3: Men know when they're ready, and oftentimes it's not who

610
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 3: they end up just falling in love with, it's who

611
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 3: ends up coming into their life at that very much.

612
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,640
Speaker 2: You know, something that I had tried to figure out

613
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 2: maybe a year ago in my relationship was am I

614
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 2: getting this great version of this man because his X

615
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:23,679
Speaker 2: made him.

616
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 1: Or molded him? Am I getting this great version of

617
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: this man because he's just ready?

618
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 2: Now?

619
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:30,639
Speaker 4: Is it me?

620
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 2: And it was actually something that I felt very insecure

621
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:37,119
Speaker 2: about for a long time because I had always believed

622
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 2: this my homeboys, that I end up getting married or

623
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 2: in long term relationships or move in with a bitch,

624
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 2: it's always because they're ready, Always because they're just ready.

625
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: They were ready before they met that girl.

626
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 2: They'll literally tell me like, yeah, I'm about to slow down,

627
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 2: da da da, and then it's just that bitch.

628
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: So I had always checked in with my man like

629
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 1: are you sure? Are you sure? Is it me? Is

630
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: x y Z? Is it da da da?

631
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 2: And I think that he would sometimes laugh about it,

632
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 2: like why has this been jacking so crazy? But it

633
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: really was because I want to make sure, bless you,

634
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 2: that I am with the person I meant to be with.

635
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 2: And there is a question that this guy poses. I

636
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 2: don't know how you would phrase this question question. I'm

637
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 2: actually interested to know how it.

638
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 1: Would work for you.

639
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 2: I would pose it, well, if if you want to like,

640
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 2: seriously date. First off, he says.

641
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: You don't think i'd be seriously dating?

642
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 4: Well, what's dating for you? Not questions? You just talked

643
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 4: about the word.

644
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 1: I don't work. I don't know if you don't think

645
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 1: i'd be serious likings.

646
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 4: I ain't say that, but if you know what I

647
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 4: got what you just say.

648
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 2: I actually hold on, let me stand on, let me

649
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 2: stand on this. No, but I'll tell you why really seriously.

650
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: But I'll tell you why. I say that because you

651
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 1: really like it.

652
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 4: But you be dating them. I don't like that d

653
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 4: word exactly.

654
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: We be relations.

655
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 2: I think the reason I don't think it's serious it's

656
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 2: because I don't like you judge my mother.

657
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 1: No, I'm not judging.

658
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 2: I think the reason that I don't assume it's serious

659
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 2: serious is because you make them sound very replaceable.

660
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm having that problem. I ever having that problem.

661
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 4: That's accountability right there.

662
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: Like you could go like, that's kind of your vibe

663
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: and I don't have to be fear No, I'd let

664
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: them know why I like them, but a lot. So

665
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 1: to me, it's someone serious.

666
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 2: It's like, you're gonna you're not putting up with ship.

667
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 2: You're not gonna be like, oh, let's work through this issue.

668
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 2: You don't sound like you're I work through ship. You

669
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 2: know what's crazy?

670
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 1: Though?

671
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 3: You saying that as we're sitting here, I was literally

672
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 3: not like I was thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend?

673
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god, okay, which one is the one I met? A?

674
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 1: He though? Why is this?

675
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 4: Is this not new?

676
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: What the you don't know we've been We've been definitely

677
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: four months. That's wait, what made you think about breaking

678
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 1: up with him? I don't like how you moved? What

679
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: are you like for? Okay? So it's crazy because did

680
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 1: you hear us arguing yesterday?

681
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 3: So when I walked in, that's what I was talking

682
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 3: to And I was like, we're gonna talk about this

683
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 3: later because you you you violated and you ain't communicate

684
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 3: with me.

685
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really like which if I would

686
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 1: have heard arument, I would have.

687
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 2: So we're both navigating non monogamy. We're both navigating it

688
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 2: is always a journey. By the way, it is a journey.

689
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 2: Nobody got that shit person.

690
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 1: So what's crazy is.

691
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 3: But I don't know if I'm over sharing because I know,

692
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 3: y'all whatever, by the time it's come out, I was.

693
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: Gonna say about times come out, we've probably broken up.

694
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 4: Oh no, damn, you already broke up with in your mind.

695
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:48,719
Speaker 1: In your mind, I think I did.

696
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 3: It's crazy because he texted me this morning, You're like,

697
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 3: and a part of me like, so, here's the crazy

698
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 3: thing too. So he just he just flew out to

699
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 3: see a bitch and and the same thing that he

700
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 3: didn't like about her is what I'm now not liking

701
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 3: about him. And so basically he's cool with the fact

702
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 3: that I only split my time, like I really only

703
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 3: have two boyfriends, got a two and a half because

704
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 3: you know, the other one and going the web, so

705
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 3: there's only two other guys besides him that I, you know,

706
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 3: see it make time.

707
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 1: So he was fine with that.

708
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 3: He just went and saw a girl who has like

709
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 3: six people in rotation, okay, including a couple, like, but

710
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 3: she's just open with all these people, and in his

711
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 3: mind he's like, ooh, like that non monogamy, the way

712
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 3: we talked about it, the way she moved, I didn't

713
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 3: really like it.

714
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: It didn't feel like there.

715
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 3: Was intent, Like how could you have that much time

716
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 3: to be purposeful with this many partners? Like he felt

717
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:50,959
Speaker 3: like he would be an afterthought. And I said, well,

718
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 3: you know, I have multiple partners, and how does that

719
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 3: make you feel?

720
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, but you have two. He's like

721
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 1: two I think is realistically my max, and we make

722
00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: it work. We're talking of I'm not mad at him

723
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: saying that now sixt.

724
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 3: Me and him are in this relationship where we openly

725
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 3: discuss things. But to me, bro every free chance he has,

726
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 3: if I'm not available, there's another bitch he's flying to see. Yeah,

727
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 3: he has two couples that he fucks. He so he

728
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 3: fucks too, lesbian couples. One on the West Coast, one

729
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 3: in the Carolinas. And then he just went to saw

730
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 3: the bitch that he saw. You ready, that he just

731
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 3: went to go see was a bitch he just met

732
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 3: at Heita. And I literally told him that was the

733
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 3: only thing he had to do the only thing he

734
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 3: had to do was tell me if he saw a

735
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 3: bitch that he would consider seeing out. I found out

736
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 3: about this trip when he went back home, and so

737
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 3: as I'm hearing him talk about his issues with how

738
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 3: many people this person plays with, a part of me

739
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 3: is just like, damn, nigga, even though you're not dating

740
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 3: these women, every weekend, you're traveling to see another bitch,

741
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 3: even though you still fit me in every month to

742
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 3: come see me.

743
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: I don't like that. You're like, why do you have

744
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: to go see a bitch every weekend that you're free?

745
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,479
Speaker 1: Is he? Is this your favorite one? This is your

746
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:07,719
Speaker 1: favorite boyfriend out of all of them?

747
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 3: This is this is my my boyfriend that to me

748
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 3: makes me feel the most like I could be myself

749
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 3: because he's lifestyle, he doesn't want kids, and we have

750
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 3: so much in common. Okay, but he's not the one

751
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 3: that's been around for like but that he still is

752
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 3: making time for you as requested.

753
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: It's just that. And the part of me is like, damn,

754
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 1: how many bitches gonna get this dick?

755
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 4: So you what's the problem?

756
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 1: Like to me? What what I don't like? This is

757
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 1: just giving it out? I know now.

758
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 3: Part of me is just like, damn, all these bitches

759
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,439
Speaker 3: just get your dick every weekend. If I'm not free

760
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 3: because he knew I was coming to New York. So

761
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 3: you just book a flight to go see another bitch. Yeah,

762
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 3: Like that means he was about to give you the

763
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 3: time first.

764
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 2: No, he didn't even ask you had first I was

765
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 2: going to New York. He was like, oh, well I

766
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 2: had two days. He said, I planned it in two days?

767
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 2: Why did you?

768
00:34:57,920 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 1: Like? What the fuck?

769
00:34:59,320 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 2: Like?

770
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:03,359
Speaker 1: It's so it's almost like turning me off, like, fuck

771
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: all the bitches, But ain't ain't you in a monogamy relationship? Yeah,

772
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: but in a monography to pussy out to any old nigga.

773
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 3: So I would like my man to be a little

774
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 3: like have a little bit of decorum, like the fact

775
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 3: that he even said like she was cool. Like every

776
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,439
Speaker 3: time he go on fucking bitch, he's like he don't

777
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:22,879
Speaker 3: want to be in a relationship with them.

778
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 1: He don't like it's cool they fucked, And.

779
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 2: I'm just like, damn he okay, okay, no, no, no,

780
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 2: no no no. I would like, I'm gonna tell you

781
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 2: the truth what he's never gonna tell you.

782
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's gonna tell you that.

783
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:35,399
Speaker 1: He's never gonna tell you when it's great.

784
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 2: He's never gonna tell you when to tell you, and

785
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 2: it's always gonna be like it was cool, that's what

786
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 2: my nigg But you think you about to be like

787
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 2: she was screaming. I know he'd be like, okay, yeah,

788
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 2: good time, hit your bike. Never had crazy while said me,

789
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 2: and I had to report to my.

790
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: Nigga, you are not mandy I am. If not non monogamous,

791
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 1: it's okay, man.

792
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 3: If you're non monogamous and moving in a polly way

793
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 3: where we both can have other partners, it doesn't matter

794
00:35:59,520 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 3: to me.

795
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,720
Speaker 1: Let me know if if you like a bitch, literally

796
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 1: let you do. Now you're still mad, Ma, I'm gonna

797
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: break up with them?

798
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

799
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: Apparently yes, everybody's replacing.

800
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 4: But he's going by the rules. He's letting you know.

801
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 1: She's saying that didn't know after the fact. Is not

802
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 1: letting me know.

803
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 4: Oh, letting you know after fact. You let me know.

804
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, hey, what you're doing getting up the car?

805
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,320
Speaker 1: Just got back from where? Oh I want to go?

806
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: I went to.

807
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 2: Carolina's what part of Carolina? This part of Carolina to

808
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 2: see who? I said, Oh, you want to go see

809
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 2: the couple? Because I know about them. Now I want

810
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 2: to go a newbie nigga. You was just on the

811
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 2: West Coast, but like it's just like damn nigga.

812
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 4: So his problem is that he has too many bitches.

813
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 1: Too many, but also you also just fucking a whole

814
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 1: bunch of bitches that you don't like.

815
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 4: What a problem?

816
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:53,879
Speaker 1: Why do you think? I don't know. I actually don't

817
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 1: believe that though I.

818
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 4: Don't believe that either.

819
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: Well it's a new bitch. No, it's it's all multiple

820
00:36:58,160 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: different bits.

821
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:00,919
Speaker 2: Know when you're saying don't like. So if he was really,

822
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 2: really truly interested in people, you would feel more comfortable.

823
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like that there would be a

824
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,359
Speaker 1: reason that you're like a man.

825
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 2: But then you wouldn't be prioritized and you actually wanted

826
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 2: to get the report. If he did like somebody, here's a.

827
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:16,359
Speaker 1: Thing, here's a thing.

828
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 3: I don't mind a lifestyle man, but I don't like

829
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 3: someone who's just promiscuous. And promiscuous is a way I

830
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 3: could use this word. Now, he's just given the dick out.

831
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 1: Bitch.

832
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 3: A month ago, you just fucked six bitches at Heito,

833
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 3: and then since then you went to the West Coast,

834
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,479
Speaker 3: it fucked two more bitches and went to a sex club.

835
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:35,839
Speaker 1: Then you go here.

836
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 3: Not only do you fuck this girl that you just met,

837
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 3: you also she invited you to a game night with

838
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 3: a couple. You weren't even interested in the other two bitches,

839
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 3: but you gave them dick. It was just like, I

840
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 3: don't know, A part of me is just like, at

841
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 3: least I Mandy.

842
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 2: If he's telling you he's never interested in anyone, he

843
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 2: doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

844
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,320
Speaker 1: I don't care. No one is going to jump on

845
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 1: a flight for this interest. Well, every weekend it's a

846
00:37:59,400 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 1: different bitch.

847
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 3: So to me, I'm telling you, I would feel more

848
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 3: comfortable if it was like, oh, you're going to see

849
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:05,320
Speaker 3: the same.

850
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: Girl, bro, you're just flying to whoever is available any weekend.

851
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 4: I guess don't got her kids any weekend.

852
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 3: A bitch is off any weekend that you could find

853
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 3: a reason to hop on fucking a flight to go

854
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 3: put your dick in something. You do it have some

855
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 3: fucking like like I want you to actually like somebody,

856
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 3: I want you to bond. I don't like that every

857
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 3: weekend you're fucking someone different.

858
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: I don't like that. So then how come heto the

859
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: only thing he had to tell you about.

860
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 3: Was if he liked my point. So the fact that

861
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 3: I'm finding out after the fact is you're not communicating

862
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 3: with me.

863
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 4: And so to me, like, that's what I'm saying, why

864
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 4: don't you know after.

865
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 3: The fact, Oh well, man, I had these two days off,

866
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 3: so I just planned it two days ago.

867
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 1: Tell me.

868
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 4: So he's messing up with the communication.

869
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: Communication, that's the thing. And then a part of me

870
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 1: is like.

871
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 5: But now you're putting a whole value to his penis,

872
00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 5: and it's like kind of value to his penis.

873
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 3: I like, I like niggas, and I don't want to

874
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 3: call it standards because maybe maybe these pictures are pretty.

875
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes I don't know what they like.

876
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:07,880
Speaker 4: You don't even know what they look like.

877
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 1: He sends me pictures of some of them. But I

878
00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 1: don't want a nigga like the same way.

879
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 3: Even if if you're in a non monogamous relationship, Amita

880
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 3: would like that I could just go out by a

881
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 3: nigga and just fuck him.

882
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 1: Because that was his problem with the girl in the Carolinas.

883
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 3: She's just giving it out and he literally said that,

884
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,280
Speaker 3: and so as he's describing his issue with her non monogamy,

885
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 3: I'm realizing I don't like how you're moving non monogamously

886
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 3: in our relationship. But in his mind, he's not in

887
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,800
Speaker 3: relationships with all those other girls, so it's fine. But

888
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 3: now I'm realizing I don't like how much he's just

889
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 3: fucking so many other women.

890
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 5: I understand that you're already like almost bent to trying

891
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 5: to do the breakup like happened, But what would you

892
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,840
Speaker 5: say could be a possible solution for something like this?

893
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, if he changed something up? Would you be okay

894
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: with that?

895
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 2: Because you have to think a single guy who meets someone,

896
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 2: they're saying that boyfriend girlfriend. However, it feels as though

897
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 2: both of you aren't necessarily making each other a main

898
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,359
Speaker 2: or priority because you're really interested in this quarter zip make.

899
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 1: It right, Okay. So it's like, how, I don't know,

900
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: I guess how is he supposed to know that the

901
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: volume is an issue? Now?

902
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 2: If you're posing that the volume isn't well, the communication

903
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 2: became like a O were gonna talk about this?

904
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 4: What the fuck?

905
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: But if he's going to fix it?

906
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 2: And also to that point, for someone that's super accepting

907
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 2: of someone who's lifestyle just playing devil's advocate is it

908
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:41,240
Speaker 2: him being like, Okay, so one weekend, I gotta be solo.

909
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

910
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 4: So what what would be this right? What would be

911
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 4: the solution here?

912
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 1: Like what he's like, all right, so I only fly

913
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 1: or only take a trip or only.

914
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 4: Fuck so every other way?

915
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean yeah, like to me, like or at

916
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,760
Speaker 3: least like have partners that you would enjoy being around,

917
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 3: like the idea that you could meet a bitch at

918
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 3: a bar or you try like he's going with like

919
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 3: girls that at her on Instagram, I'm gonna fly out

920
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 3: to go fuck her for the weekend. Like it's like, bruh,

921
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 3: you just want to fuck people all the time. And

922
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 3: to me, that's like, I don't like that?

923
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: Is that a problem?

924
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 2: I actually am not even trying to not be on

925
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 2: your team on this one. But to me, when someone's lifestyle,

926
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 2: that's kind of up.

927
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 1: There for that. I get that.

928
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,759
Speaker 3: But the fact that he even admitted he didn't like

929
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 3: it about somebody like lifestyle is lifestyle.

930
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 1: But again there's oh, you're saying he didn't like it,

931
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: he didn't like it about the other. But it seems

932
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 1: like you said I.

933
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 2: Knew about two couples he fucks Okay, cool, that's what

934
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:42,439
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So he's got couples that like the lesbian girls, yeah,

935
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:43,320
Speaker 2: and he's wool with that.

936
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,839
Speaker 1: But like, so it's going to fuck randon bitch.

937
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 3: Like he was even about to link up with a

938
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 3: girl that he told me the pussy was bad, Like

939
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 3: he didn't even want to fuck her with.

940
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 4: Me, so he fucked up that he should have done that.

941
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like so the fact that already told me,

942
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 2: if you don't really like this bitch pussy, I think

943
00:41:59,000 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 2: he doesn't want to tell me.

944
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 3: I know, because I wanted to fuck this girl, and

945
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 3: he was like, I mean, if you want to fuck her,

946
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 3: I'll suck her with you.

947
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 1: But he didn't. He wasn't gonna go back, don't. I'm

948
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,839
Speaker 1: telling you. I think he's there's some lie going on here.

949
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: But even that, you know what, I don't want to

950
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:11,720
Speaker 1: date a fucking liar.

951
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:12,919
Speaker 4: I don't like liars.

952
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 3: If your lifestyle and I'm fine with you fucking other bitches.

953
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 3: I just tell you, these are the things I need.

954
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 3: We need to communicate and we should be able to

955
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 3: tell each other that. Oh that's the simple part.

956
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: So I don't need a nigga lie to be.

957
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 3: But also I don't want a nigga who I'm not

958
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 3: even gonna say what I was about to say because

959
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 3: i'mnay it off air. But the priorities just aren't there either,

960
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 3: So I would say it off air because it's gonna.

961
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: Be me talking ship. All your feelings are valid, it's

962
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 1: just feel like, No, no, he has, he has, he has, really,

963
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 1: he has a lot of money, don't kids, No, no kids,

964
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 1: bleep all this out. The nigga literally doesn't have it,

965
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 1: only has a.

966
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 4: Girl, no, literally none.

967
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 1: Because he's busy.

968
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 2: He's literally spending his money on flights to fuck every weekend,

969
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 2: which is why I haven't gone to go see him

970
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 2: yet because bleep, the nigga doesn't.

971
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:15,439
Speaker 1: Even have a He probably but he's there for work,

972
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 1: so I'm on the money.

973
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 3: We FaceTime and Bro, we've been dating that four months,

974
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,359
Speaker 3: and Bro, you ain't done this so that I could

975
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 3: be comfortable when I come to see you.

976
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 1: But Bro, you spending your money every motherfucking weekend on

977
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 1: a fight to go fuck on some bitches.

978
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 3: As an adult to priorities, Bro, you ain't got you

979
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,200
Speaker 3: ain't got you ain't bleep all this, but you ain't

980
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 3: got this ship.

981
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 2: You ain't got this ship, girl, you don't got to saying, bleep,

982
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 2: all this is funnier than this ship.

983
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 1: Now, I'm definitely I want to I'm bleeping, I'm not

984
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:50,879
Speaker 1: gonna wait. No, this ship is missing. No, so then.

985
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 3: Look at y'all giving me doubts from the reals, dinny gritty,

986
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 3: that's what it is. Now A part of me is like,

987
00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 3: where's your priority? And as a man, many you know

988
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 3: what sucks about this?

989
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 1: What you know?

990
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 4: What?

991
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,840
Speaker 1: You know? Like nigga, suddenly you saw some ship you

992
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:09,840
Speaker 1: ain't didn't even bother you before, man before.

993
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 4: But now you know where his pies ain't and now

994
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 4: you gotta believe that. I know, I wll I'm sorry.

995
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 1: Okay, what people y'all really dug it out? Y'all might

996
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: be therapist because yeah, okay, fuck it ain't even all

997
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: the other bitches that ship. Yeah priorities, I need you

998
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: to get that ship together. Fuck fuck Like so a

999
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:39,840
Speaker 1: part of me is like, maybe just we downgrade our relationship,

1000
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: you know.

1001
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 2: How we should like maybe like this is how we

1002
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,440
Speaker 2: gotta wrap the episode because I actually want to tell you.

1003
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 1: This is how I feel.

1004
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 2: One of my homegirls and I started going in about Actually,

1005
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 2: we was with our homeboys too. We was just hanging

1006
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 2: out of the living room in l A. And we're like,

1007
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 2: all right, everybody go around bout some dumb ass ship.

1008
00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: You broke up with a nigga for.

1009
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 1: Real quick?

1010
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 2: If I broke up with him now for that reason, fair,

1011
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 2: y'all would be on my side because it's like deeper

1012
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 2: than that.

1013
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: Deeper you feel me, y'all. I know it sounded crazy

1014
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 1: and y'all be like these little non monogamous, delusional, confused

1015
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: bitches don't know what they're doing. It's a deeper rooted

1016
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 1: issue that at least we figured that out, my homegirl,

1017
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 1: thank you, because now would I tell them while we're

1018
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 1: breaking up, he could either get it.

1019
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 4: You're not gonna tell me.

1020
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 1: You could mean, but I would tell that's mean. No,

1021
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 1: it's it's it is what it isn't.

1022
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 2: But I gotta find out that. I'm gonna have chat

1023
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 2: help me on how to say not everybody frustrated because

1024
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 2: the don't know they did that.

1025
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: They're got frustrated feeling the blanks.

1026
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 2: Bitch, Yeah, figure it out in the don't figure it

1027
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 2: out in the column. Gonna be like, yep, that's what

1028
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 2: it is when you said faith. Okay, So this is

1029
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 2: also why other people influence the thought I could say

1030
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 2: her name because the shit was math funny.

1031
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 1: So Gabby episode is we listen and we judge clearly tacky.

1032
00:45:58,840 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 4: I already put tack.

1033
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 2: Gaby was dating an older story, but I remember it.

1034
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 2: Gaby was dating this dude and she showed me a

1035
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 2: photo of them, and she's like, oh, you used to

1036
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 2: be married.

1037
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, show me the ex wife. First thing, I say,

1038
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 3: why why do you always want to see a picture?

1039
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 3: You want to see you don't see somebody uniform? See

1040
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 3: somebody in the question level. So so on Patreon, bro,

1041
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 3: we'll be talking about how we hate having to dress

1042
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 3: up all the goddamn talk. So I said, let's get

1043
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:29,800
Speaker 3: a unifor let's get a uniforn. So somebody in the

1044
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 3: comments was like, Weezy used to get a uniform with

1045
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:34,760
Speaker 3: a shirt that says, let me see.

1046
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: What they look like.

1047
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 2: No, b, because I need to know you always gotta

1048
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 2: go with somebody. Hey, y'all want to know how deep

1049
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 2: it goes? Y'all want to know how to paint her nigga?

1050
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 2: She said, if you want to work for her, you

1051
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 2: gotta be attractive. People gotta want to fuck you if

1052
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:47,720
Speaker 2: you want to work for Weezy.

1053
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 1: Wait a second, it is this is why you hear?

1054
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I hired you.

1055
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 4: I'm attractive.

1056
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:58,920
Speaker 1: Thanks of course, yeah, you kind of you want to

1057
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 1: try to side. Let's is hot and tall. He's exactly

1058
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: how you don't only want to hide around you now,

1059
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: but you know what that was like?

1060
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 2: Thank god he had brains first, because Alex was like,

1061
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 2: I need somebody, Dad, we got this new shit anyway, Okay,

1062
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 2: fast forward. So Gabby boom, I'll let Lucy the X

1063
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 2: wife and she's like, oh shit, okay, so I see

1064
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 2: what she looks like. I don't even live like a sound.

1065
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 2: She was so unfortunate looking that I fortunately looking that.

1066
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:33,439
Speaker 2: I said, WHOA, pass the phone to my nigga. I said,

1067
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 2: look at this, my nigga. Pick out the phone and said,

1068
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:39,280
Speaker 2: I hope.

1069
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 1: You ain't his first bad bitch.

1070
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 2: And a week later Gabby started to notice he was

1071
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 2: acting a little nuts.

1072
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 1: Let me know when you're home. Oh, I know you're

1073
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 1: out of town, but just let me know when you

1074
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:51,239
Speaker 1: get in. Say give me a call.

1075
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 2: All these check ins because he don't want her to

1076
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 2: phone no other niggas, And I'm like, bitch, it's because

1077
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,479
Speaker 2: the ant's wife was buddy looking and now he's ating

1078
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:01,399
Speaker 2: a heart bro and he don't know how to act.

1079
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 2: I was like, you need a break if playing bitch,

1080
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 2: because all the exes exactly. Hello, great reason to break up,

1081
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 2: is it not?

1082
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: You know what you get? Really contradicting advice. Oh my,

1083
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 1: the way you want it? Just rough it out for

1084
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:27,399
Speaker 1: some reasons and then other reasons You're like, leave that man.

1085
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:30,720
Speaker 1: You can't be a right a bitch like you really

1086
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 1: you want the girl to be half. She had to

1087
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 1: let him go. Also, she was like, okay, this is

1088
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 1: two INChO much. Okay.

1089
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 2: So then we start going around the table, right, so

1090
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 2: we all hanging out. Everybody's going in on their dumbest

1091
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:41,280
Speaker 2: reason for breaking up with somebody.

1092
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Speaker 1: Bitch. One of my homeboys like, bro, you remember.

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00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 2: That baddie we met at blah blah blah. I'm like, yes,

1094
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 2: He's like, yo, she sent me a nude. He's like,

1095
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 2: she looks so fucking good. Titties look good, everything look good.

1096
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 2: In the back of the nude, there's a mirror behind

1097
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 2: her and her feet are showing in the mirror. It

1098
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 2: was dirty, dirty as fun feels like dirty feet, and

1099
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 2: at the top of the kitchen counter was like trash,

1100
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 2: there's cans. There was also a fast food bag.

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Speaker 1: They weren't dating, they weren't together. The word bitch, they

1102
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: was fucking. He said, somebody up, So there's fast food

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00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 1: in the bag.

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00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 2: Right. So I'm like, oh, I see the feet and

1105
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 2: he's like, hold on, look at this bitch. He fucking

1106
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:29,359
Speaker 2: zooms in bags and there's two.

1107
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: It's Jack in the Box and Arby's.

1108
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 3: He's like, I can't He's like, what yo, I'm not

1109
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 3: gonna lie. This is where we're at as a society.

1110
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:43,359
Speaker 3: Can I understand what I was about to say?

1111
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 2: Breaking up with bitches because they eat Jack in the

1112
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 2: box and Arby's good day, ain't gotten dirty feet.

1113
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie.

1114
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 5: The combination of the three is pretty terrible. Bro black girl,

1115
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:54,720
Speaker 5: throw those bags out and go take a shower.

1116
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 2: They're like, why are you not fucking taking a fucking

1117
00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 2: clean the house up? The reason you broke up with

1118
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 2: a news Oh, I'm gonna tell you right now, y'all

1119
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 2: heard mine.

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Speaker 5: My eye was because I ain't like the flowers. I understand,

1121
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 5: but yours makes sense because it was like the wrong one. Yeah, yeah,

1122
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 5: it was the wrong flowers.

1123
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 1: Flowers. I ended a day early because the man.

1124
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 2: Maybe it was true, but I don't give a fuck

1125
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 2: because y'all know me, like that be trying to therapize me.

1126
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:21,839
Speaker 1: What he told me. I had an anxious attachment. Ryle. Yeah.

1127
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 1: It was like, so you broke up with Cigres to

1128
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:28,839
Speaker 1: be an honist. I didn't break up. I just was like, oh, wait,

1129
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:30,240
Speaker 1: I forgot because y'all were dating.

1130
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 3: I'm bro but I basically was like, you can't break

1131
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 3: up with anigga that you're not with no that I

1132
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 3: mean like cuss somebody else.

1133
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 1: It was the dumbest reason you broke up with a

1134
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 1: part I'm talking about cutoffs right now, but the reason.

1135
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:41,440
Speaker 2: So when he said that to me, I was like,

1136
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 2: that's interesting because you really wouldn't know how I attached,

1137
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 2: considering we don't know each other.

1138
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,879
Speaker 3: Well, He's like, yo, this is like you were talking

1139
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,399
Speaker 3: to somebody. Yes, we were on the first dumbest reason

1140
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 3: I stopped talking to it. Oh ooh, I really don't

1141
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 3: be liking people.

1142
00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 1: Hmm. I did a niggason't me. Protesting was a way

1143
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 1: and I was like I'm good.

1144
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's kind of weird.

1145
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:04,240
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

1146
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 4: I mean maybe like if you meant like a type

1147
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,400
Speaker 4: of protesting, I get it, but like, no.

1148
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 2: I think it was a day we were supposed to

1149
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 2: kick it and I was like, fuck, I'm going out

1150
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,880
Speaker 2: to do this blah blah blah shit, and he was like,

1151
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 2: loo l, yes, go save the world.

1152
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: So I didn't think he he just plan but I

1153
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:22,280
Speaker 1: thought he was maybe just trying to be silly.

1154
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 2: And then I was like I will, and then I

1155
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 2: sent like a captain and save a host gift and

1156
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:27,759
Speaker 2: he was like, not a dead ass.

1157
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:30,760
Speaker 1: Protesting is a waste of time. The system will.

1158
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:32,759
Speaker 2: Always be what it is and da, And I was like,

1159
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 2: I just I can tell you the negative Nancy nigga,

1160
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 2: And I'm shoot, did.

1161
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 1: You fuck it? Oh that's why the dick was good.

1162
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 1: You would have just lost over that. Lo l.

1163
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 4: Yeah he would have said that to you.

1164
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, nigga got good dick, bitch. I'll let him be

1165
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 3: all conspiracy theorises. Okay, maybe y'all see'll every time my man.

1166
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 1: Say something problematic, I think about it. Maybe that's how

1167
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:55,360
Speaker 1: I know, me being with a nigga who thought the

1168
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:56,280
Speaker 1: earth was flat.

1169
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:58,399
Speaker 4: Wait, let me ask you a question.

1170
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 1: Well, Mandy thought it was flat too. Oh this guy,

1171
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 1: the earth was flat, bitch.

1172
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 5: This guy you're having a conundrum with, right Like, what

1173
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 5: the one the guy that you conundrum is crazy?

1174
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 4: It's a conundrum, right like? Is the dick that good?

1175
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: He made me square five times on the first day.

1176
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 4: So why are you complained Dick is good? Because now

1177
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:17,480
Speaker 4: it's not good enough?

1178
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no to me, to me Dick. By

1179
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:24,839
Speaker 1: the way, I'm God's chosen I get good Dick. You're

1180
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: gonna hurt me for about almost ten years talk about

1181
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:30,760
Speaker 1: how good like I get good Dick and multiple niggas

1182
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 1: that made me squirt.

1183
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 3: Now you're not You're not my savior. You're not the

1184
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 3: only nigga that can make me squirk. Niggas out here

1185
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:38,840
Speaker 3: making bitch is squirt. Now, thank y'all for doing your

1186
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 3: motherfucker research. So you're you're not special now, Like you're

1187
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 3: not the only nigga to eat ask You're not the

1188
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 3: only nig gonna make me squirk. You're not the only

1189
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 3: nigga to be nasty, choke me and do all the

1190
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 3: nasty shit I have chemistry with.

1191
00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 1: I don't have that much.

1192
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 3: But over like my lifetime, I get sexual partners that

1193
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 3: we have the same chemistry. So for me now it's

1194
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 3: a little bit beyond dick, Like it goes beyond sex

1195
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 3: now with someone that I want.

1196
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: To consider, how old is the guy that you're breaking

1197
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: up with? Thirty six? Oh yeah, he's too old to

1198
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 1: be having fun. Bruh, I did my boyfriend was to

1199
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: have fun like that? Oh no, no, let me let

1200
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:31,399
Speaker 1: me explain. My boyfriend said something a few months back

1201
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: that I was like, this is silly, but I understand

1202
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:39,400
Speaker 1: this young guy thinking. So it was somewhere.

1203
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 2: It was something about Korea, Philippines, and another like African

1204
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 2: country he went to.

1205
00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: I was like, what made you go to those places?

1206
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 1: So he started laughing. I'm like the women. He's like,

1207
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: I wanted to what about some crew? Like why else

1208
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 1: would I go? And I'm like, I know, but like

1209
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,520
Speaker 1: twenty three years old, you just think Korea And he's like, yes,

1210
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: Like I jumped up plans. I want to experience what

1211
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:03,879
Speaker 1: that's like. Say this to say.

1212
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 2: I thought it was silly at the time, but I

1213
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 2: do understand men wanting to travel. If you're a single

1214
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:14,439
Speaker 2: guy traveling. Yeah, because low key when I was thinking

1215
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 2: where do I want? I want the Parisian African niggas,

1216
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 2: I want the London thing.

1217
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 1: Like, how was my shit? So I get it now?

1218
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 1: Was I looking for a husband to come home with me?

1219
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 1: Nadia fiance?

1220
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's just so men needing to travel and

1221
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 2: exploring cities that way. I understand. But at thirty six

1222
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 2: to be taking your time every weekend to not be home,

1223
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:38,359
Speaker 2: you know, just enjoy your own spot, enjoy your own city,

1224
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 2: enjoy your own friends, just to be out that much.

1225
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:44,240
Speaker 2: You can't tell me you want to see what Texas

1226
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 2: is like that much? Or Tampa Bay like there's not

1227
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 2: that much.

1228
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 3: Oh, he don't went to Mississippi because you know what,

1229
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,280
Speaker 3: he go to city like white ass cities with some kuchi.

1230
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: Now if a bitches in Chicago or.

1231
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 4: Like I, yeah, it's the city's not the shorties.

1232
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 1: No, that's what. No, that's what I realized. I wasn't

1233
00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:03,360
Speaker 1: even these are the shorties. It's the other thing. I

1234
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,239
Speaker 1: don't like how you're spending your money at this point,

1235
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 1: Like it's not responsible.

1236
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:08,800
Speaker 4: Wow, we really did uncover that.

1237
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 1: Rooum, y'all did uncover it? Because I have a problem

1238
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: with it, because that's why the fuck I haven't been

1239
00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 1: like and tell your therapist take the week out. What's

1240
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: the next question?

1241
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 2: Listen, don I'm sorry people know her him. You know

1242
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 2: I've said, oh yeah, get Serena.

1243
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 1: Sorry, yeah, no.

1244
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 3: Don't Yeah, it's tricky, it's tricky, but but yeah, look,

1245
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 3: y'all really got anything? I want to text him right now?

1246
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 3: I think this isn't gonna work.

1247
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 2: Well, if you guys want to break up update, the

1248
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 2: only place you'll get it is on patreons dot com.

1249
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 1: No, I don't think I'm gonna break up with a

1250
00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 1: net ship, but you the way you what is this?

1251
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 1: He put up?

1252
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 2: Bring people to the Mama's Land patreon dot com back

1253
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 2: slash Horrible Decisions Roman. He gives a full update transcript

1254
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 2: and his photos go right now hurry. No, I'm not

1255
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 2: gonna give his photos because I think a couple of

1256
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 2: the patriots. Okay, well, ship just go because we got

1257
00:55:57,719 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 2: patriots to the.

1258
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 1: Girl not not be the patriot. See I know, okay,

1259
00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 1: I know.

1260
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:11,640
Speaker 3: Dam Thank you guys for tune again to another episode

1261
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:14,719
Speaker 3: Decisions Decisions. Sorry, y'all, we were all over the places

1262
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 3: episode No, They're like this was like this is what

1263
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 3: happens when we does the outline. Yeah, we didn't get

1264
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 3: to the outline, like we didn't get to ship.

1265
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: Did we get anywhere? Yes? I read hold on the

1266
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 1: outline was the update from Turks. It was the men

1267
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 1: love women, men married love.

1268
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 4: How you uh huh and how you're about to break

1269
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 4: up with your boyfriend?

1270
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:36,239
Speaker 1: Well, y'all really sigh, y'all