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Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning, The Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: Morning, everybody in stevej Envy, Jess hilarious, Charlamagne to God.

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Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club Law, the Rosa filing and

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Speaker 2: for jests, who's on maternity leave? And we got a

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Speaker 2: special guest in the building, Eva Moself Welcome back.

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Speaker 3: Thank you gentlemen, and beautiful lady.

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Speaker 4: Hello, how you feeling blessed? Highly favorite, There you go,

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Speaker 4: bless black and highly favorite. Well, I'm always black.

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Speaker 1: This new movie Buried, Alive and Survive.

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Speaker 5: First of all, the title is wild and the thing

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Speaker 5: I love about Lifetime is their titles be right on

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Speaker 5: the money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so this is based on a true story.

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Speaker 4: Yes, this is part of the Lifetime Ripped from the

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Speaker 4: Headlines series.

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Speaker 3: So it's based on a true story. And it followed

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Speaker 3: the series that they did about the Missing Black Girls,

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Speaker 3: which I personally thought was really dope, shedding light on

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Speaker 3: black stories that you don't hear.

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Speaker 4: You hear your Lacy petersons, you hear.

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Speaker 3: All these other stories all these years, but our stories,

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Speaker 3: you don't hear us. And so Lifetime has taken the

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Speaker 3: charge to really shine light on melanated stories. And so

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Speaker 3: I play a character Alicia, who is very demure, very

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Speaker 3: mind but no, she's a young lady who went through

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Speaker 3: a tumultuous past with her ex, like crazy ex boyfriend,

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Speaker 3: but she was in love with him, love of her

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Speaker 3: life from high school. Played by Tyler Lepli, super charming.

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Speaker 3: And then he goes to jail for fifteen years. He

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Speaker 3: was domestically violent while we were together, and so he

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Speaker 3: goes to jail. We have a son, and so all

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to do is like keep my son safe.

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Speaker 3: And then he gets out of jail early.

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Speaker 1: I really.

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Speaker 3: He did eight of fifteen Got You, but for prison overcrowding.

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Speaker 3: I come home one day, he's sitting in my living

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Speaker 3: room playing video games with my son, terrifying.

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Speaker 1: Were you familiar with this story before you did the film.

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Speaker 4: Is Grits Groceries. I feel like they offered me this

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Speaker 4: role because they know that this was my life. When

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Speaker 4: I read the description, the first thing I thought of

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Speaker 4: was all the stuff that I know that you went

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Speaker 4: been through with your daughter's dad. So what that or

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Speaker 4: is that is Michael? You mean with the yes, the

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Speaker 4: donor Sorry, I'm not familiar with Okay, it's okay, yeah, No,

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Speaker 4: he I think he meant just like, are you familiar

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Speaker 4: with the real life story?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: That was.

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Speaker 4: My Like when I read it, I'm like, man, like,

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Speaker 4: was that it for you? Because you went through a

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Speaker 4: lot publicly with your own situation of you know, protecting

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Speaker 4: your kid and trying to get away and all that stuff.

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Speaker 4: So how was that mentally for you? What that thing

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Speaker 4: hit home?

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Speaker 3: Like nobody's business and for me, I like going into

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Speaker 3: characters like that. I don't know, like on my TV show,

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Speaker 3: I play like this madam. It was like the head

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Speaker 3: of a cartel and I'm pimping these guys. I don't

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Speaker 3: do that in real life, but this I've done in

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Speaker 3: real life, So this was very different. It was a

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Speaker 3: cathartic moment for me. I think mental health is very important.

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Speaker 3: And when I deal with my therapist for some reason,

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Speaker 3: I'm dealing with my divorce.

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Speaker 4: I'm not talking about this. This was ten years ago.

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Speaker 4: So for the film, it let me tap into something

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Speaker 4: that I realized that I hadn't all the way dealt with,

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Speaker 4: but I survived.

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Speaker 6: Did you think about not doing it?

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Speaker 2: Like, did you think about like this might be too

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Speaker 2: much or it's too close to home, Like maybe I

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Speaker 2: shouldn't take this part.

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Speaker 3: I accept what God allows. I am at a surrender

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Speaker 3: point in my life. I don't think that anything happens

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Speaker 3: on accident. I believe in timing. I believe that God

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Speaker 3: knew that it was time for me to deal with it.

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Speaker 6: How difficult was it to tape during this?

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Speaker 3: Shout out to Tyler Lepley because he helped me. He

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Speaker 3: was such a gentleman and so much fun. We made

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Speaker 3: it light, but I can say it was a bit

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Speaker 3: just heavy, heavy drama. But then we would go to

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Speaker 4: All over my face.

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Speaker 3: His clothes are all cut up and ripped, and we're

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Speaker 4: Get a cheeseburger and a margarita. People thought we were

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Speaker 1: So when you say you didn't deal with it, you

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Speaker 1: just you just suppressed it.

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Speaker 3: I got my daughter and I moved on in life.

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Speaker 3: I didn't have I didn't think I had time to

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Speaker 3: dwell in the hurt of things and the effect of things.

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Speaker 3: I had to plant new seeds so that I can

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Speaker 3: work on my new harvest by my daughter.

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Speaker 1: So that's the worst kind of trauma, the trauma.

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Speaker 5: That you know you have, but for whatever reason, you

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Speaker 5: then you get something that triggers you and you're.

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Speaker 6: Like, what was that?

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Speaker 3: Yes, And it's not that I didn't acknowledge it, right,

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Speaker 3: It's one of those things that when it happened, TMZ

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Speaker 3: of those women where I have lived black men. I

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Speaker 3: have three brothers, no sisters, an amazing black father, and

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Speaker 3: a multitude of uncles. So what I don't want to

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Speaker 3: do is make one situation every black man situation. So

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Speaker 3: for me with my platform, I chose not to go

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Speaker 3: on this big rampage about the situation, how it failed,

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Speaker 3: what he did all that. That's just that's not my styles,

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Speaker 3: not how I get down. You know, Benja does mind

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Speaker 3: say at the lord. So I didn't say much about

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Speaker 3: what happened outside of what court documents said. And for

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Speaker 3: my daughter's sake, I don't want to live it every day.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: I married an amazing man who took care of her

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Speaker 3: it was.

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Speaker 4: Like, you know, which is Michael who we saw you

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Speaker 4: on the show with and all that stuff, and well too,

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Speaker 4: do you like? Do you ever? Because I know in

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Speaker 4: this movie your character has a kid in the middle

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Speaker 4: of this and she has to have conversations. Did this

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Speaker 4: make you think about having conversations with the Marley at all?

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Speaker 4: Or absolutely?

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Speaker 3: It reminds me of the conversations that you have to have.

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Speaker 3: Like there's that time of innocence that gets taken away

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Speaker 4: You don't want them to understand like discrimination.

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Speaker 3: So the last thing I wanted her to do was

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Speaker 4: Right. So it's not a conversation you want to have,

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Speaker 4: but it's a conversation you have to have. And I

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Speaker 3: My daughter, which was difficult, but shout out to Mike Sterling.

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Speaker 4: He helped me. It was beautiful.

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Speaker 3: And so when I in the film, when I had

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Speaker 4: To explain, like, your dad is not what you think

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Speaker 1: You know, what was your mental and emotional health?

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Speaker 5: Like after the film was done, I know those conversations

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: It's so crazy because I had to apologize. I was

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Speaker 3: just saying earlier, I have to apologize to a friend

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Speaker 3: I just kind of to know me.

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Speaker 4: It's no, I'm bold, I'm proud.

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Speaker 3: I'm not necessarily loud, but I live unapologetically. But I

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Speaker 3: went back into like the meek, like tiptoe around, like

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Speaker 4: And my friend was like, yo, are you Is everything okay?

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Speaker 4: And I realized, like, oh my gosh, I'm still Alicia.

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Speaker 4: I'm not either right now.

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Speaker 3: I am still that woman that is trying to make

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Speaker 3: sure everything's good. All the doors are locked, my guns

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Speaker 4: Ready to go? Like sys you're good, go to church

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Speaker 3: So yeah, it took me a minute to get out

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Speaker 3: of it because it was real.

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Speaker 1: I love a golf hearing, gun toting woman.

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Speaker 4: Oh you got to give yourself some time, a brief

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Speaker 4: because you went through so much and then this movie

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Speaker 4: rehashes everything and you've got to publicly right, like your

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Speaker 4: divorced situation was very public as well too. You guys

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Speaker 4: were on the show like you've lived out loud literally

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Speaker 4: role of this character who people are like, wait did

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Speaker 4: she write this? Because this was right so right on point.

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Speaker 4: I know you mentioned Mike Serling, and I know that

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Speaker 4: the things that you were going through, and you talked

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Speaker 4: about the weight loss. Where are you guys at now,

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Speaker 4: Like is that a good?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 4: So much better? You know, anybody that's been a part

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Speaker 4: My parents have been married for forty two years, his

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Speaker 4: parents fifty two years.

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Speaker 3: All my aunts and uncles married. I'm the only person

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Speaker 3: my my brothers are married. I'm the only person in

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Speaker 3: my family divorce. So this is like for my for

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Speaker 3: my family, it's different.

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Speaker 3: And so it was not like I had someone to

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Speaker 2: Because you know a lot of times family only see

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Speaker 6: Were they supportive when you decided to get a divorce.

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Speaker 4: They were supportive. My brothers were like, what's up?

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Speaker 1: What's fop?

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Speaker 4: And you know, I'm like, that's everybody.

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Speaker 3: I am middle, middle because I have a little brother

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Speaker 3: and two older two older brothers. My baby brother is

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Speaker 4: So they're like, what's going on.

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Speaker 3: You didn't say anything about the last situation. We're not

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Speaker 3: doing that mute stuff again. I'm like, everything's good, it's good.

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Speaker 3: We're just gonna figure this out.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 3: It's been a year. Communication is great. Took him out

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Speaker 3: on Father's Day able to see like, you know, he's

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Speaker 3: a lawyer, so one's.

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Speaker 4: Cases he has.

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Speaker 3: It's a big case in Atlanta that it looks like

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Speaker 3: it's going really really well. I'm always going to support him, mom.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he's the father of my children and it's

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Speaker 3: will never change. And anyone that says otherwise like I

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Speaker 3: was married, but I hate him.

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Speaker 4: Now you're lying to yourself. Sis, you are lying to yourself.

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Speaker 5: I asked everybody this question that's parents. Are you raising

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Speaker 3: Tyler was shout out to Tyler, He's so dope, He's

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Speaker 3: Was amazing and being a father, the way in which

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Speaker 4: You can tell that he's a dad. There is a

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Speaker 3: love Lifetime for doing this, because it lets you know

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Speaker 3: just like when it comes to safety and who you're with,

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Speaker 1: What is it? The idea of having a man is

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Speaker 4: Be a mixture. I was going to say it's a concophony.

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Speaker 3: If you think about it's eight billion plus people in

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Speaker 4: But as a woman, you know, in the first thirty

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Speaker 6: You do that about the dick?

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Speaker 6: So what okay, first.

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Speaker 5: Of all, say that was some context, the context that

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Speaker 1: You did. That's about the dicks?

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Speaker 4: Got you to assume that every woman is having sex

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Speaker 3: Like That's one thing that I've learned now being divorced

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Speaker 5: That's why it sucks for women in the spotlight, like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, my best friend, that's why he doesn't want to

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Speaker 4: straight up bars, my brother can't.

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Speaker 4: It ain't nothing right, spaghetti Jesus, there we go. But

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Speaker 1: Country, And I heard none of the spaghetti.

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Speaker 4: Spaghetti is not straight.

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Speaker 1: No more wiggle.

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Speaker 4: Yes you know what I'm saying. Yes, I got you.

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Speaker 4: I heard you.

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Speaker 1: You will hear me say that one. I'm telling you

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Speaker 6: My Lord Mercy.

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Speaker 3: Those are terrifying because it's like somebody's husband and their

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Speaker 6: So how how can somebody meet you like that's my

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Speaker 6: No, it has to be if you don't go out.

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Speaker 4: I mean you might do casual like drinks and stuff

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Speaker 4: There's no pretend.

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Speaker 3: It's just like the like the pretty girl over there

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Speaker 6: I'm like, whoa, that didn't work at all.

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Speaker 1: I guess that's a compliment though.

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Speaker 4: I mean it's a compliment, but it also was like

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Speaker 3: Sorry, makes me feel like what you know what I mean,

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Speaker 3: it's really going to get to know the real me

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Speaker 6: Would you date in the industry?

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Speaker 1: You can only date in the industry.

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Speaker 4: That is terrifying. I do not want to date in

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Speaker 4: with you?

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Speaker 1: Exactly?

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Speaker 4: Nah?

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Speaker 4: I would if you own a bus company.

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Speaker 3: What if he's a good man? Oh, yes for me,

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Speaker 3: good man for me. I am not about the money.

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Speaker 3: I'm not about the coin. What I'm about is you

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Speaker 6: What do you mean being seen? Like married for a while.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but see the person, not the clothes or the

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Speaker 3: tell me, you know, my job is who I am?

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Speaker 4: I'm like, whoa bro? That's sad.

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Speaker 1: That's sad.

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Speaker 3: That's because your job can change any day, and then

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Speaker 3: central Los Angeles that want to grip walk to They

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00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:14,320
Speaker 3: not like us, you know what I'm saying, Like they're

445
00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:16,840
Speaker 3: still that girl and who wants to tap into like

446
00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 3: the person inside of me, not the facade.

447
00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:23,120
Speaker 4: Around me, you know what I mean. The smoking mirrors

448
00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:24,440
Speaker 4: the titles.

449
00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:25,600
Speaker 1: As with doctor Wayne W.

450
00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:27,919
Speaker 5: Dye used to say, used to say, the stuff you

451
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:31,119
Speaker 5: own is not you know what you do, your job,

452
00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:33,520
Speaker 5: you know your activate, that's not who you not.

453
00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:38,120
Speaker 3: But in today's society, especially with these young men and

454
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:42,760
Speaker 3: women doing so well professionally, it becomes them, you know

455
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:45,440
Speaker 3: what I mean, twenty eight to thirty five year old

456
00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,639
Speaker 3: black men, black women out here, we're millionaires. We're figuring

457
00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,600
Speaker 3: out how to get to the bag. Own our own companies,

458
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:55,159
Speaker 3: you know, leverage business deals with other companies, not like

459
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 3: it used to be. And so with that I think

460
00:20:58,600 --> 00:20:59,560
Speaker 3: comes a lot of ego.

461
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:01,439
Speaker 2: I think the sad thing is I think if somebody

462
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,360
Speaker 2: is trying to date you, I think they probably will

463
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 2: first show up with.

464
00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 6: Their check right.

465
00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 2: They want to show that they can afford you, which

466
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,280
Speaker 2: is hold them the opposite of what.

467
00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:09,200
Speaker 4: You what I want.

468
00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,400
Speaker 3: So they show me the money, so then you don't

469
00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 3: want that. So then it's like the male ego ends

470
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:17,040
Speaker 3: up getting frustrated because it's like, what can.

471
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,359
Speaker 4: I do for you? And you got kids, you.

472
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 3: Don't you don't need a husband, and you don't need

473
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 3: to pay me to pay your mortgage.

474
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:26,639
Speaker 4: You have multiple cars, you go, you have a job. Okay.

475
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 4: From there, you're trying to figure out like that causes

476
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:31,119
Speaker 4: conversation a lot of my I have a lot of

477
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,360
Speaker 4: girlfriends who are at that point, they're like, what am

478
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,240
Speaker 4: I doing wrong? When it's like you're not doing anything

479
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 4: but being here my therapist. But see, but I help

480
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:40,199
Speaker 4: my question. A lot of us get there because at

481
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:41,600
Speaker 4: that point, you do feel like me and I'm gonna

482
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,159
Speaker 4: never find somebody what am I doing wrong? And I

483
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:44,880
Speaker 4: don't think that people should. I don't feel like that.

484
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 4: I don't think that people should feel that way. I

485
00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:49,200
Speaker 4: think you need to track what you want. Somebody that's

486
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,760
Speaker 4: strong enough to handle all that will come and we'll

487
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 4: figure it out.

488
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Speaker 3: Well, baby, God better get to get to build them,

489
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:57,119
Speaker 3: because I've found some very strong ones. But it I

490
00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:58,720
Speaker 3: still intimidate them.

491
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Speaker 4: It happens them.

492
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 2: What's what's wrong if you find some strong men that

493
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 2: seems like they're powerful, they have the intellect.

494
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 6: What's the problem.

495
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 4: Well, for what, I'm not finding anything. I will be found.

496
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 4: I am not.

497
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 6: You just said you found them.

498
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 4: I saw that's come across. But there's there's still still

499
00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 4: insecurities there. There's still that, you know, when I'm not there,

500
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 4: what's going on?

501
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 6: I don't know.

502
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 3: Maybe you did your eye twink like that for that person.

503
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 3: Like it's just it's always it's a thing, so it's

504
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 3: non existent.

505
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 4: I go to church on Sundays and I'm in town.

506
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:32,159
Speaker 4: Besides that, I'm out of.

507
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 3: The country or traveling, or with my kids when I

508
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:36,919
Speaker 3: have them, or working.

509
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 4: That's my life.

510
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 5: I wonder if Instagram makes men more more show off

511
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 5: than anything. But you know, when you grow up broke,

512
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 5: all you got is yourself, right, so you gotta be smart,

513
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 5: you gotta be funny, you got to present all of

514
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 5: these other things.

515
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Speaker 1: I wonder if character.

516
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 5: I wonder if now because the Instagram people feel like

517
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 5: all I gotta do is just show, show, show, show show,

518
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,120
Speaker 5: and that's how I get. But then that's why y'all

519
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,160
Speaker 5: are well, not Lauren, but's why you're in a position.

520
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 6: You're in Damn you know what I mean? I did

521
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 6: that to Lauren like that.

522
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: Well, Lauren's single for a whole host of other reasons,

523
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 1: even that.

524
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 4: You don't know my life.

525
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 3: First lobby, I'm sure you're single by choice, thank you.

526
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 4: That's the first.

527
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 1: That's not what her mama say. Damn, mama said something else.

528
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,360
Speaker 4: My mom did say nothing about that. Your mama son,

529
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 4: my mom, and my mom wants me to be happy

530
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 4: wherever I'm going to be happy. And she understands that

531
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 4: I give it up. She knows she hasn't. She understands

532
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,159
Speaker 4: that I am at a point where I need what

533
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 4: we talked about, like, I need somebody that can really

534
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 4: like handle things and carry me the way that I

535
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 4: need to do.

536
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:32,360
Speaker 6: I think she's ready to settle down.

537
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 4: Oh do you mind me asking thirty two? I'll girl,

538
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 4: you better play.

539
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 6: That's what she's doing.

540
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 4: You bet these thirties, I have my first kid around

541
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 4: that time, I have three. Now I'll turn forty this year.

542
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 4: Enjoy these thirties.

543
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:50,160
Speaker 3: Twenties, you were just figuring out your feminine hygiene properly, thirties.

544
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: That is true. It's very true.

545
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 3: You're getting your pH B once together, you figuring it

546
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:57,639
Speaker 3: out like what worked for me.

547
00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 1: Learn how to shave?

548
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, do all a wax l a, whoa wow. He

549
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 4: also be telling people I don't shave my underarms. He

550
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 4: doesn't shave her under I shave my under You don't

551
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 4: have to. You don't have to shave any parts of

552
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,679
Speaker 4: your body if you want to. Some people men like

553
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 4: wanm bat.

554
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 6: Little white balls on here.

555
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 4: Sometimes I hate when the men have that style I

556
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 4: did not have that They're lying. They're like, they're literally

557
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 4: sitting here and lying to you. Huh see, don't know

558
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 4: saving I'll be waxing. I'm grown as hell. He's just

559
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 4: like a troll. Look, this is what we call a hater.

560
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 4: This is what he enjoys.

561
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 5: Oh, but I do want guys to learn how to,

562
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 5: like you said, present with characters.

563
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 1: Yes, I really do.

564
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 4: I do too. I do too, but you know they're

565
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 4: not there yet. It's come up season.

566
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna give my brothers their flowers because I

567
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 3: see so many black men in different position making better decisions,

568
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 3: running their businesses and doing their things. And so if

569
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,479
Speaker 3: that means I'm gonna have I tell one of my friends,

570
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 3: go out your Marcus Grand moment like go live in

571
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 3: the city and soho and get your little house at

572
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,880
Speaker 3: like live your life. I want my boys to do that.

573
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 3: I want my boys to live. I don't want them

574
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 3: to settle down until they are ready and they found

575
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:25,959
Speaker 3: the one. Because divorce is hard, heartbreak is real, and

576
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 3: when you've ever truly loved someone, you will never stop.

577
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 2: Seems like insecurities is the biggest thing, right because you

578
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 2: are a star. So when whoever your dat and sees

579
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 2: you with other people, it feels like they would have

580
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 2: to feel a way, right, So it was the thing

581
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 2: and it's.

582
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 4: Not a thing. But they are grown. But it's just

583
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 4: like if.

584
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 6: They have those type of insecurities or they don't trust them.

585
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:44,880
Speaker 1: How they haven't done the work.

586
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,160
Speaker 5: That's why I know so many women who not date

587
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 5: a guy who is not going to therapy. Even when

588
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 5: you look at this movie, this dude clearly had some

589
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 5: unhealed trauma that he didn't deal with before you went in,

590
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 5: and he damn sure didn't deal with it while he

591
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 5: was in.

592
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: No, he just came home projecting on everybody.

593
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,159
Speaker 3: But no, he actually, when you watch the movie Be

594
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 3: Buried Alive and Survived, he actually did do some therapy

595
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 3: and you'll see that it's about application. To me, life

596
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 3: is about three things. It's about living, it's about learning,

597
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 3: and it's about applying. So you live, you learn from

598
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 3: whatever it is you did bad, and then you apply

599
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 3: whatever that lesson is.

600
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 4: And so you could know what to do. You just

601
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,479
Speaker 4: gotta do what you're supposed to do. You know, you're

602
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 4: supposed to flash your teeth twice a day, three times

603
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 4: a day. But do you that's the question, you know

604
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 4: what I mean?

605
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 3: So I think a lot of times we just you know,

606
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 3: we take the easy way out, and because we're grown,

607
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 3: we use the fact that, like I'm growing, I gonna

608
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 3: do whatever I want to do, versus being disciplined and

609
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 3: doing what you're supposed to do and need to do.

610
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 4: So, what do you want people to take from this movie? Like, oh,

611
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 4: go cha?

612
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 3: I want people to take from this movie men and

613
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:53,199
Speaker 3: women that are going through any sense of struggle, that

614
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 3: feel like they are at the bottom of the mountain

615
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 3: or trapped in their box of whatever it is in

616
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 3: their career and their relationships, specifically domestic violence. But whatever

617
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 3: it is you think that you can't get out of,

618
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,440
Speaker 3: that is a lie from the pit of hell. Fear

619
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 3: is real, but it is nothing but a thought. It

620
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 3: is in your mind. It is not a It is

621
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 3: not a real thing. So if you can fight through

622
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 3: your fear, I will tell you to climb out of

623
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:21,719
Speaker 3: your box.

624
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 4: Do what you have to.

625
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 3: If you have no fingernails after you scrape through it,

626
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 3: it doesn't matter. Climb up, keep clawing. You have to

627
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,120
Speaker 3: close your eyes because that dirt is getting in there.

628
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter. You have to cry your way up,

629
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 3: climb out of your box. By the time you look up,

630
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 3: you will be at the top of your mountain. That

631
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 3: is what I want you to know.

632
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: Were you in a box for real?

633
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:41,399
Speaker 4: Dead ass?

634
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 1: They put you in an actual coffee I was.

635
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 3: An actual shipping crate, nailed shut, oh god.

636
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 4: But because he was.

637
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 3: Burying me a lot, killing me and they couldn't have magnets. No,

638
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 3: it was real like that. And I know an actor,

639
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 3: and I know it's not real. But there's something of

640
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 3: out that moment, being in there and imagining.

641
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 4: Because it is writ from the headline. So it's imagining

642
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 4: this real woman being put in a box by a

643
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 4: man that she has loved for all these years. And

644
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 4: not only that, but I have a fourteen year old

645
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,239
Speaker 4: son out here to take care of that. As a

646
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 4: young king in this world that has nobody but me,

647
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 4: I can't stay in this box. But yes, I was

648
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 4: completely nailed into a box and terrified.

649
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 3: My boy Rob had to say, all right, cut cut, cut,

650
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 3: let her out, let her out.

651
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 4: Let her breathe. He was scared for me.

652
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 1: Wow, are you prohobic anyway? Now?

653
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 4: I am. I don't want to be in a box,

654
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 4: you know, yeah, don't want it get trapped.

655
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: Wow. Did anybody apologize to you?

656
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 5: Because I remember when the pictures came out and you know,

657
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 5: you had looked like you lost a lot of weight,

658
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 5: and then you told everybody it was a lot of

659
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 5: well I know, but you told everybody was because of

660
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 5: your impression of your dook. Did anybody apologize to you

661
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 5: because of that? You know, people jumped conclusions when they

662
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 5: see the pictures.

663
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 3: No, everybody just said I had all kinds of diseases

664
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 3: and stuff, line and talk dirty. I was afraid to

665
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 3: come in here today because I was wondering, like, I'm

666
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Speaker 3: just me.

667
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Speaker 4: You have good days and people have bad days. But

668
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 4: I've met you first time fifteen years.

669
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 3: Ago, and I was this size, so I know that

670
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 3: I did house, I was pregnant.

671
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 6: Pink tea cup. All of us were there.

672
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 1: I remember remember because you said something nice to me,

673
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: and I'm not used to compliments.

674
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 6: Charadn't know what to say, started studying yours.

675
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 1: I wasn't nobody.

676
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, You've always been somebody, even if you knew it

677
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 4: or not.

678
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 6: You were like a person than you did on camera.

679
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 6: And he started stuttering. He started.

680
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 3: Because okay, because at that time, you were on radio

681
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 3: most of the time, and I think Brothers Club had.

682
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 4: Like just startays, so we were just able to.

683
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 3: Like get a face to the voice, and a lot

684
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 3: of time old school radio, you remember, like Brandy, nobody

685
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 3: knew that THEO was Asian, Like when.

686
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 4: He came out, we were all so surprised that. Yeah,

687
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 4: so a lot of times you have no idea.

688
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 6: And I was like, okay, Charlae, man, he was stuttering.

689
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 1: We hadn't eve done the Broke slovel year done six months.

690
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 4: I just met.

691
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 3: I just saw the voice to the face and I

692
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 3: was like, okay.

693
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 6: You at that point I thought you were blond. I

694
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 6: thought you were blind at that point, what a man, what.

695
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 4: Are you trying to say that Charla Mane is not attractive.

696
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 6: Envy you do Charlemagne think he looks like Mars.

697
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 5: No, Mark Justna thinks Charlamage, you know he does. Mar

698
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 5: just was on Jennif hutch And show when he says

699
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 5: he gets mistaken from me. He said, goddamn, I'm just

700
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 5: telling you what he said.

701
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 4: Because Stevie Wonder was the one.

702
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: I don't know he said that. I don't know, I

703
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: don't know.

704
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 4: He said that you guys are both handsome, beautiful black

705
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 4: man like you, but you do have you have this

706
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 4: in the mouth. I can see a little bit. Thank

707
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 4: a little bit you squint.

708
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: A little bit, I said, Squint, I.

709
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 4: Think have more stuff for you. I have one more

710
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 4: question because I'm a fan of you on Housewives, and

711
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 4: no you're not on the show. Would you ever so

712
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 4: never again, never ever again? All the Queen's men, baby,

713
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 4: all the queens. Okay, gotcha? The season four is gonna

714
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 4: drop after Buried Alive, Okay, yeah, it's no Housewives question.

715
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 4: You can have Housewise questions. I'm I just wanted to

716
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 4: know your thoughts on the Kenya suspension and all that.

717
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 3: That's my girl, that is my girl. I have a baby,

718
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 3: grand in my son room because of her. Her daughter

719
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 3: is my niece, Brookie.

720
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 4: I love her.

721
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 3: I don't know honestly enough about the situation to speak

722
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:39,719
Speaker 3: on it.

723
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 4: What I do know is that the show is no

724
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 4: holds bars, and I don't know when bars started getting held.

725
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 4: That's why I wanted to ask you, because I feel

726
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 4: like during your season it was like you were part

727
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 4: of the last good seasons before they got rid of

728
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 4: some people. And then I thought that this was going

729
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 4: to bring all of that back. And now they're like, oh, no,

730
00:31:58,120 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 4: you can't be on the show anymore because you're doing

731
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 4: what we know the show to be. So I don't know.

732
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 4: I don't even know what really happened. I don't has

733
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 4: it air yet. No, it has did that. I don't

734
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 4: even know it. Didn't know it has. It just became chattering.

735
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 4: It's so big. It felt like this show should happen

736
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 4: right after that. It's so does.

737
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 3: Kenny Moore has a new hair salon in Atlanta. She's

738
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 3: out there helping trusses and helping people grow their hair.

739
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 4: Her hair Caroline is doing amazing.

740
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 6: Spoke about it.

741
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my girl. So I don't really know what

742
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 3: happened with the situation. I think Housewives lost a real

743
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 3: one without.

744
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 4: Kenya, because Kenya is one to definitely speak her mind.

745
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 4: She is very pro black.

746
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 3: She's an amazing, amazing mom. I feel like that's one

747
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 3: thing that they do not shed enough light on. She

748
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 3: is a crazy dope mom. Like I tell her to

749
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 3: bring her daughter to my house and then she comes

750
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 3: and she stays, I'm like no.

751
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 4: You go like she's like one of those moms like

752
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 4: we here together, No right, And she's like no, I'm

753
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 4: just gonna chill.

754
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 3: Like she's like she's she's such a beautiful woman, you know,

755
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 3: but as a black woman, and you know, strength is

756
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 3: a requirement, especially a black women in America. So she

757
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 3: wears her armor all day every day and she does

758
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 3: what the show called for. And so I don't know

759
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 3: what happened, but I know that she will always land.

760
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 4: On her feet.

761
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:15,719
Speaker 3: I know that she God has her and has a

762
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 3: story written for her. So I wish her the best.

763
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 3: And if I didn't have blocks, and I would go

764
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 3: get my hair done by her.

765
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 2: Well, what do you think Housewives need to do the rebrand?

766
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 2: Because you know Candy left, Kenny's not there anymore. What

767
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 2: do you think the Housewives.

768
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 4: And Kenny's not there is she?

769
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 6: What do you think they need to do to rebrand?

770
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 4: Bring candy, Candy, burst, Tucker.

771
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 2: That's the whole new cast. So you think just bring

772
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 2: the original crew back?

773
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 4: You know what, it doesn't matter. Black influences everything. So

774
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 4: as long as you bring black.

775
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 3: Entrepreneurs and inspiring creatives on the show, I think you'll

776
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 3: see some magic.

777
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 4: I saw Niini just made her like first return back

778
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 4: to just the network in general. I love that for her.

779
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 4: Do you so being in that Willlhouse of NBC and

780
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 4: all that stuff? Uni? Yeah, Like do you think that

781
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 4: does that mean that there's a chance for her to

782
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 4: get back closer get on Housewives? Or do you think

783
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:09,399
Speaker 4: that that's like completely done as well?

784
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 1: Too late?

785
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 4: Because we were so excited when we saw it.

786
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 6: I don't even know.

787
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,359
Speaker 3: I mean, I have no clues even if she even

788
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 3: wants to do it, gotcha, But I'm excited about her

789
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 3: new shell. I did see a club on Instagram she

790
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 3: had yeah on hair, my homegroun pair beat her face.

791
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:23,279
Speaker 4: She look pretty. I love it.

792
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 6: Thank you even Marshall, We appreciate you for joining us

793
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 6: this morning.

794
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 2: And check out Buried Alive and survive Premier's Saturday at

795
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 2: eight seventh Central, all lifetime, and thank.

796
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 4: You so much for having me.

797
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:35,799
Speaker 6: It's even Marsell. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

798
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 1: You wake that ass up in the morning.

799
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 6: The Breakfast Club