1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 1: and more. Please, baby, please, baby baby, please submit your 4 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit 5 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. We could be we could reach your letter 6 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 7 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: that one right here, right there, right now. Buckle up 8 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: and hold on tight. We got it for you here. 9 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: It is a Strawberry letter. Thank you nephews. Subject too 10 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 1: is company, but is three always a crowd. Dear Stephen Shirley, 11 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship for five years with the 12 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 1: man that thinks we are exclusive. I'm in my late 13 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: forties and my sex drive has been through the roof lately. 14 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: My boyfriend is fifty three, and he's a beast in 15 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: the bedroom. But he's but he's not enough for me, 16 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,959 Speaker 1: and he's not as kinky as he should be. Let 17 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: me stop right here and say that perhaps I need 18 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 1: to do a disclaimer with this letter. If you have 19 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: small children, you may not want them to hear this. 20 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: Even your big kids might not need to hideous. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 21 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: let's do a disclaimer with this letter. Okay, I'll start 22 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: with this, start back with this line. My boyfriend is 23 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 1: fifty three and he's abased in the bedroom, but he's 24 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: not enough for me. I like saying that, but he's 25 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: not enough for me, and he's not as kinky as 26 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: he should be. For the first time in my life, 27 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: I'm a cheater. I've been having sex with a thirty 28 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: year old neighbor and it is fun and spontaneous, and 29 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: he gives me the fire that I desire. This is 30 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 1: not the only man I'm seeing on the side, though. 31 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: I have reunited with an old boyfriend and I know 32 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 1: we are going to have sex sooner or later, and 33 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: I'm ready for him. I don't feel bad about it 34 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: because my boyfriend cheated on me early in our relationship, 35 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: and I was all sad and felt like I did 36 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: something wrong. But now I understand that cheating is harmless 37 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: if you do it discreetly and use protection. So here's 38 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: my dilemma. I'm sure my boyfriend may suspect that I've 39 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: changed in the bedroom because he asked me about a 40 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: new move that I did on him. I've explained to 41 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 1: him that I'm always in the mood and that I've 42 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: got to have it, but I don't think it's registering 43 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: to him. What I mean. I want to be open 44 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: and honest with him about my affair with a thirty 45 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: year old man and see if he'd be open to 46 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: doing a threesome. I know men like threesomes with another 47 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,839 Speaker 1: woman in the bed, but I want to experience two 48 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 1: men in the bed. I know this may be a 49 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: taboo subject, and black men especially don't want to hear this. 50 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: But what's the difference if it's a man or a 51 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: woman that's in a threesome with us? How can I 52 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: bring this up to my boyfriend without him being offended 53 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: to feel like he's not doing a great job. Well, 54 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: I don't think he's going to be offended that he's 55 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: not doing a great job. I just think you're absolutely right, 56 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: you know, especially about black men. No, they're not going 57 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: to want another man in the bedroom within if you 58 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: want your threesome, Miss Freaky Dicky. You you know, you 59 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,679 Speaker 1: kind of contradict yourself a little bit too. You say 60 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 1: he's a beast in the bedroom, but then you say 61 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: he's not enough for you. Okay, what is going on 62 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: with you? Why do you need all of this you 63 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: got your man who's a beast in the bedroom, you 64 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 1: got you thirty year old, and then you got this 65 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 1: other guy. I mean, when is it going to be enough? 66 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: What if the threesome isn't enough? You know, I mean, 67 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: what's happening with you? Your freakiness could you know, get 68 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: you in a lot of trouble with this relationship you're 69 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: in now? This man if he really cares about you 70 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: and you took him back, so you know, maybe he's 71 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: trying to make it better. You said he was the 72 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: first one who cheated. If he really cares about you, 73 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: he's not going to want to see you with another 74 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 1: man or in your case, men, there are double standards. Sorry, 75 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: you know, they're just double standards. That's just how life is. 76 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: You know. We can't do what men can do. Men 77 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: can't do what we can do. They're double standards, receptions 78 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: to every rule. So I think, um, you know, uh, 79 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: I'm not condoning this, I'm not judging you, but I 80 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 1: just don't think you're a fifty three year old man 81 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: who is a beast in the bedroom is going to 82 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: be down with this. You know, I just don't see 83 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: that happening for you. So you're gonna have to, um, 84 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: you know, get your your freedom and your experience and 85 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: your freakiness off some other kind of way. Uh, Tommy 86 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 1: or Jay, Let's let's let Jay go. Steve's out here. 87 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: It's gonna be Jay Junior. Tommy responding to the Strawberry letter, 88 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: all right, yeah, I can canna relate to this letter. 89 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: Being a beast, I can. I can relate to that 90 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 1: being the beast that oh I'm older, but beast is 91 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 1: a beast. I'm just an old beast. I mean, I 92 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: understand she's she's dating a beast. I relate, I relate, 93 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: I relate to that part being as I'm not. I 94 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: don't know. I've never been I've never been asked to 95 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: bring in another beast while I was beasted. I got 96 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: that blood. I understand that part. But here's high she 97 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: might be able to get what she wants is another 98 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: beast she got. She got a younger beast and an 99 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: older beast she won't and the older beast is not 100 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 1: going to go for this. The only way a threesome 101 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: is gonna be enticing to him is if we turn 102 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: the threesome into a ninesome and the other the other women, 103 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 1: just women. Ninesome. A ninesome that there's two two, two 104 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 1: men and one seven women. That means with the seven 105 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: and the one beast, he won't he won't be he 106 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: won't pay attention to what you're doing because he'll be 107 00:05:56,200 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: so busy beasting the other seven women in the room. 108 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 1: So if you increase, if you increase to a ninesome, 109 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: maybe the beast might go foot. But other than that, 110 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: he ain't gonna go foot. I don't see it happen. 111 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 1: And this is coming from a beast, a beast. I 112 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 1: hear whoa. I hear a lot of laughter in the 113 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: room when I say and when I say I'm a beast. 114 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:29,359 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're laughing yourself. It's not funny to me. 115 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 1: It's not funny to me. All right, we we gotta 116 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:36,719 Speaker 1: go to break mister beast. But when we come back, 117 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: we'll hear from Junior and then from Tommy, uh, subject 118 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: of today's letter to his company. But it's three always 119 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 1: a crowd. We'll have part two of this letter coming 120 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour, right after this. Yeah, 121 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: you're listening to show all right, guys, let's recap today's 122 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: strawberry letter sub check two is company, but three is 123 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:07,559 Speaker 1: always a crowd. It was written by a woman who 124 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 1: says she's in her forties and her sex drive has 125 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: been just through the roof lately. She's dating a fifty 126 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 1: three year old man who's a beast in the bedroom. 127 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: These are her words. But then she says it's not 128 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: enough for her. It's still not enough for her. He's 129 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: not as kinky as he should be. These are her words. 130 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: She's saying that he cheated on her before, and now 131 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 1: she understands. You know about cheating, it's fun because it's 132 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: spontaneous and it's cool as long as you're protected. These 133 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 1: again are her words. So she's into cheating now. So 134 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: she's also doing a thirty year old neighbor. She's got 135 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: that going for and then some guy that she's getting 136 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: ready to hook up with who's from her past. They 137 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 1: haven't had sex shut but she sees that on the horizon. 138 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: But her biggest issue is that she would like a 139 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: threesome with um herself and two other men, these two men, 140 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: and she's wondering if her fifty three year old is 141 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: going to go for it, and she wants to know 142 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: how can she bring this up to him without him 143 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 1: being offended or being feeling like he's doing a great job, 144 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: not doing a great job. What you got for us, Junior? 145 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: You know, Shirley, Um, I'm being honest with you. I'm 146 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: listening to this letter. I'm quarantined. I've been here for 147 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: too much. This letter too much for me. I've been 148 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: here by myself this way he's supposed to be on 149 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 1: this letter. I can't do this. It's too many numbers 150 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: in this letter for me, quarantine. I can't do it. 151 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: It's too been up five years, fifty three, thirty, farted 152 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 1: the second time, threesome, two men who first, the second 153 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: time around, first, last, everything. I can't do this. This 154 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,839 Speaker 1: too minute numbers, and I'm in here by myself. I 155 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 1: just want to be in that number. If I can't 156 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 1: digits that we can call you from. I can't do 157 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 1: this because I'm in here by myself. I've been leaving 158 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: at this tree. I'm thinking about grinding up somebody. I mean, 159 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 1: she needs to call me. I wait my turn. Somebody 160 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: need to touch me. I'm need to take their hand 161 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: and put it on my chest. I've been leaving too much. 162 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: Sixty seven days I've been by myself. Somebody knew something 163 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:40,559 Speaker 1: just to roll letter time need to take over for me. 164 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: Thank you, junior. Last. So let's get out of him. 165 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:47,319 Speaker 1: Let's get stupid. Come on, nephew, Well it just so 166 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: happens that I am fifty three years old. I'm a base. Okay, 167 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 1: I'm another base. Let's get it together. You know what, 168 00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: You got to get this out of your system, baby girl, 169 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: because it's in. They're strong. So you need to go 170 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 1: places where it's a lot of people. You know what 171 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: I'm saying. You need to go like movie theater two 172 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty people right there. Get this out your 173 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: system somewhere like that. You can really explode there by herself. Oh, 174 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: ain't nobody of that? Okay, cool, okay, let's go to 175 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 1: the grocery store. Go to the grocery store. It's at 176 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: least seven hundred people in the grocery show at one time. 177 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 1: You can get your groove on in the produce section 178 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: at the grocery store if you work it outright. I'm 179 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 1: just saying. Now the malls, the malls have reopened. Hello, 180 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: I don't know what they had this store where you at, 181 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: but go to Dalers Not only can you get a sale, 182 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 1: you can get rocked in Dalers at least fifteen hundred 183 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: people at one time, I promise you social distancing. You 184 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 1: don't think it's that many people that deal? Okay, cool, 185 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: you know what? Just open back up were your mask? Now? 186 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 1: I want you to protect yourself. Go to the go 187 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 1: to the zoo. Lord. If you go over there by 188 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 1: the bow section, it's at least eighty people in the ball. 189 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 1: You can look at the bow, and the bow look 190 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 1: at you because the bow is what and be smold 191 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,679 Speaker 1: and you can watch. You can watch yourself and be 192 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: smold and the bow at the same time. Do I 193 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 1: have a witness up in here? I know I'm going somewhere. 194 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: You got to go where there's a lot of people, 195 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 1: because a lot of people will give you the satisfaction 196 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 1: that you are looking for. That's all I'm saying. What. 197 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 1: I hit the grocery store, I hit the movie theater, 198 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: I hit dealers. Call U see, ain't that many people 199 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 1: in dealer. I went to the beach. Just what if 200 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:49,839 Speaker 1: you go to the beach, everybody is already halfway naked. 201 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:54,199 Speaker 1: You already when you know you're gonna get some, You're 202 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: gonna get some saying in some places that shouldn't be there. 203 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 1: But no worry about that. Walk out there to the ocean, 204 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 1: rinted off, comeback, start over again. You can get your 205 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: groove on in the Gulf this weekend with at least 206 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 1: the golf this weekend, right right before hurricane See, you 207 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 1: get it right there in the Gulf this weekend with 208 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 1: at least they had you do mind having said, anybody, 209 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: go ahead, anybody have a phone number I need. I've 210 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: been want this. I just told I've been quarantine six 211 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: to seven days. Somebody touched me. I understand. But she 212 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:41,599 Speaker 1: looking for two men at one time, and that is 213 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: where you draw the line with a brother like myself. 214 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: I'm not saying nothing wrong with it, but you need 215 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: to find two men that like me or you can 216 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 1: do what you want to do. Alright, alright, guys, that's it. Um, 217 00:12:54,679 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, Two Beast and a Lonely Man. Post comments 218 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:04,239 Speaker 1: on Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey SM on Instagram 219 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 1: and on Facebook, and please check out the Strawberry Letter 220 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:10,079 Speaker 1: podcast on demand now coming up at forty six minutes 221 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: after the hour. 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