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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. Welcome everyone tonight we have an amazing

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Speaker 1: rundown of guests. We have Claire Crawley, Tenley Leopold formerly

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Speaker 1: moles On. We have Danielle McBride, who you may remember

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Speaker 1: from Sean season. We have Heather Martin from um Colton

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Speaker 1: season slash Matt James. This season, we have Beca Tilly

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Speaker 1: and Kenda Long. We have Carly Waddell and Oh my goodness,

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Speaker 1: and I is that it? And did I cover all

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Speaker 1: of our guests tonight? Crystal Nielsen? How can I forget?

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Speaker 1: Crystal Neilson. All these girls are gonna come on and

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Speaker 1: chat with me. This episode is very special. It's sponsored

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Speaker 1: by Uber Eats. I was packing last night and oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, our drug store is so far away. And

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Speaker 1: obviously it's not easy for me to just pack up

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Speaker 1: a car these days, you know, you know, pack up

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Speaker 1: you know it used to be no big deal, like

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Speaker 1: I'll just go and it's nothing, but now it's like,

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Speaker 1: do I have the diaper bag? Do I have formula

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Speaker 1: and fresh bottles and diapers? Strap them into the car seat,

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Speaker 1: go there, get in the like, put him in the stroller,

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Speaker 1: put him in the carrier, keep him in the car seat,

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Speaker 1: carry him in. Everything is lugging, logging logging. I try

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Speaker 1: to run as little errands as possible. So when I

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Speaker 1: realized that I didn't have any um like toilet trees

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Speaker 1: that were travel size, because I didn't want to pack

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Speaker 1: up like a checked bag, I decided to uber eats

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Speaker 1: yesterday um I uber eats toiletries travel sized toiletries. It

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Speaker 1: was awesome because the next morning, before my flight, I

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Speaker 1: just got on the app and I taped up top

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Speaker 1: and within an hour I had my toiletries to my door.

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Speaker 1: So much easier. I was able to, you know, kind

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Speaker 1: of go about my morning and they in the calmest

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Speaker 1: way possible. The day that you know, me a mom

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Speaker 1: takes off of her first baby free trip, and then

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Speaker 1: we needize suber Eats again tonight for this Girl's Night podcast,

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Speaker 1: we not only uber eats dinner, of course, and we

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Speaker 1: got we got the best food. We got like onion rings.

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Speaker 1: We got many sliders. We got tacos and nachos from

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Speaker 1: our favorite places in these and for our favorite places

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Speaker 1: in l a um. We also and we Uber Eats

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Speaker 1: even things that that we needed for girls Night that

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Speaker 1: wasn't food, because again, Uber Eats is not just for

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Speaker 1: food anymore. They're there for convenience, They're there for toiletries,

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Speaker 1: they're there for groceries. So we were able to actually

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Speaker 1: Uber Eats last minute, some robes, some slippers, some face masks,

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Speaker 1: even um, some nail polish, I think for our girls night,

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Speaker 1: so that we would have not just some good food

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Speaker 1: and drink, but also some you know, girls night spa essentials.

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Speaker 1: And now it is time to bring in my guests

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Speaker 1: after I blabbird about how we set the scene tonight.

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Speaker 1: So let's welcome Claire Crawley, Danielle McBride, and Heather Martin.

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Speaker 1: So I'm sitting around a table in California for the

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Speaker 1: first time with some first time in many moons, with

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Speaker 1: a couple of my favorite ladies from The Bachelor. We

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Speaker 1: got Crystal Nielsen to my left. We have what's her

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Speaker 1: new last name, although not her Instagram handle, which we

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Speaker 1: are currently working on, and then we have Carly Woodell

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Speaker 1: across from me. Carle, you never changed your name, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you did it. Yeah, alright, So basically we

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Speaker 1: have the mom crew here first, and it's so this

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Speaker 1: is not just girls not out, it's mom'side out. Um

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Speaker 1: we have besides me, Crystal is the freshest of the

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Speaker 1: new moms. So yeah, yeah, it's what month do I

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Speaker 1: have to look forward to the most? And which month

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Speaker 1: do I have to dread the most? Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I think? It honestly just gets better

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Speaker 1: he's becoming so much more aware and smiling and everything,

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Speaker 1: he's also becoming like much more in need of entertainment constantly.

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Speaker 1: Well you know what, does he notice you when you

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Speaker 1: walk across the room yet? Oh yes, yes, okay, I

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Speaker 1: found that so amazing and fascinating where I'm like, oh

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Speaker 1: and baby just like staring into space. But I found

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Speaker 1: And from there it just gets better and better. Cool.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm excited. I mean from my fourteen month

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Speaker 1: experience right now, Well, then let's go around the circle,

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Speaker 1: because now Timley has a two year old No, not yet,

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Speaker 1: please don't rush it. She's the only one and a

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Speaker 1: half's like almost twenty one months. When did you stop

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Speaker 1: with the months thing? I think two years? Twenty four months? Right,

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Speaker 1: at this moment. I totally am trying to like hang

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Speaker 1: on to every moment that is like mentally four and

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Speaker 1: a half year old month, Math, really four and a

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Speaker 1: half year old month? No, I do agree. Every month,

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Speaker 1: every month at this point and every month from there

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Speaker 1: on out is very special. But I feel like there

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Speaker 1: years old, there's so much that happens. But I feel

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Speaker 1: like Rell in the last couple of months has just

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Speaker 1: feel like it kind of counts to count the months.

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Speaker 1: You don't you make it. You make an interesting point

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Speaker 1: birth until twelve months, like you notoriously post their monthly

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Speaker 1: failed at that every so as long as you have

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Speaker 1: I haven't done It's when four months never done it,

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Speaker 1: I'd like skip it on. Man, now it's all getting

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Speaker 1: wacky for your mom, like for your mama, like hearts,

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Speaker 1: like you have those photos because you're taking pictures like

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Speaker 1: There's probably like seven hundred photos in my camera role

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Speaker 1: right now, and I've posted three storage. We have such

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Speaker 1: a problem there. I was maxed out on eye cloud short,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, this is gonna get way worse now.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to do, like I have to

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Speaker 1: I don't know how. I don't gotta upgrade, No, I

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Speaker 1: gotta go through and delat year old brand deals and

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Speaker 1: stuff like almost sentimentally attack You're like I might repropose.

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Speaker 1: It's like, oh look there's like, oh there's a fat

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Speaker 1: They're actually Nick's Benjamin button, so he looks younger and

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Speaker 1: I look older. But six ninety thousand, then how do

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Speaker 1: you have eye cloud space? What do you mean you

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Speaker 1: have me on my eye cloud space. You remember when

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Speaker 1: we met up with a lawn at that like comedy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: don't want to. I don't want to delete. I really

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Speaker 1: have to just do brand strands. But I don't delete anything. No,

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Speaker 1: I mean neither of a digital pack rat. Yeah me too.

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Speaker 1: Oh yay, Yeah, you do himsical attachments and all I've

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Speaker 1: probably do. You want to talk about what a whimsical

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Speaker 1: let's touch about it. Let's touch on it and talk

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Speaker 1: about it. That's what you're trying to say. Yes, I

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Speaker 1: what is it? So when you have like a whimsical attachment,

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Speaker 1: many women go through this. When you just have this

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Speaker 1: but you've also proved my whole whimsical attachment thing wrong.

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Speaker 1: Like you whimsical attachment. And I said, you know, Ashley,

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Speaker 1: I think you have a whimsical attachment to Jared. You know,

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Speaker 1: I think you think the ideal of him and you're you,

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Speaker 1: and going like I just haven't found that person, but

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Speaker 1: like ten years ago, a whimsical attachment. Okay, well, so

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Speaker 1: Carly has no one apparently, but Carly, have you been

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Speaker 1: on a date in the past six months? No dates?

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Speaker 1: Any dates since like you guys start split, No dates

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Speaker 1: at all? Oh my god? So what's get you on

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Speaker 1: a date? Do you want? You want to? Yeah? I do.

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Speaker 1: It's it's really hard. It's hard, um, just situationally because

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Speaker 1: have six nights, but you really have three because one

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Speaker 1: have a lot of time to I don't where do

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Speaker 1: you find people? I don't know. I don't I don't

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Speaker 1: I'm like really doing okay alone. But yes, obviously it

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Speaker 1: would be nice to have somebody around. Yes, Crystal, can

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Speaker 1: we get you guys on the bandwagon of Carly for Bachelorette?

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Speaker 1: I realized I wasn't peeing my pants anymore. Wow, I know,

426
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 1: it was dribbling everywhere until my first that is, I

427
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 1: still have such an This is an off Brandy usage

428
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,199
Speaker 1: for it. The M sculpt neo is like, this is

429
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:36,639
Speaker 1: not what we are made for. But that what was

430
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 1: so amazing too, was like that, you know, I could

431
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: contract even when I was like eight months nine months pregnant.

432
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,400
Speaker 1: I could still contract my upper apps, but my lower

433
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 1: apps zero control none, And so exactly when I did

434
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: the neo M sculpt, I could actually feel my lower

435
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 1: abs getting worked, which is so important. Not just I

436
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 1: mean there's like the material aspect of like you know,

437
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 1: wanting to be tone and like pulling the muscles, but

438
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: like it's your core support. It supports your back, it

439
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 1: supports your publc floor. Like it's so critical for bending over, reaching,

440
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: picking up baby, picking up the car seat in the stroller,

441
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: like it plays such an important role in your overall lifestyle.

442
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 1: It's like it's not just an aesthetic thing and like

443
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 1: your physical health. Yes, and rocking a crop top. Just

444
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,199
Speaker 1: throw something in there for all the people who are

445
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 1: listening that never had apps. I've also never had apps.

446
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 1: Ab to rock a crop top. You're doing okay, and

447
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 1: you don't. You don't. You also don't have to feel

448
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 1: like you have apps. Everybody is also different the way

449
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: that they lose the baby weight and all that. It's

450
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,199
Speaker 1: it all happens in its own time, and if it

451
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 1: doesn't happen, it's also good. I will say my I

452
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:52,360
Speaker 1: didn't really feel like myself until at least seven months postpartum,

453
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: but really until I finished nursing in eleven months that

454
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: I really felt like I was in my body. It

455
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: took a lot longer than I thought, surprisingly, but you

456
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: know what, it was such an amazing journey, and you know,

457
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 1: I don't regret a single second of it. It was

458
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: all really special. I love that. And I do remember

459
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: you asking about when like that would like kind of

460
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 1: hook with um, how you would feel yourself, and you

461
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:23,159
Speaker 1: didn't have an answer because I sacrificing my body. But

462
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: I love it so much too. I don't know, I

463
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: feel like there is really different ways to go about it.

464
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,959
Speaker 1: I will say this, like for anyone listening as pregnant

465
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: or postpartum, and advice to myself for the next round

466
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: is that that postpartum period, I'm going to soak it

467
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: into so much more the next time, I'm not going

468
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: to stress and try to get my ams back as

469
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: fast and I think there's so much pressure as a

470
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: limited to do that, and also like you just kind

471
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: of want to feel like yourself again, right, Like there's

472
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: that element, there's just like yeah, and there is also

473
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 1: like a lot of pressure. But I'm so excited, like

474
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: for the next round where I just want to be

475
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 1: so much more in the moments with a baby because

476
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 1: I know now how fast it really goes, and it's

477
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 1: like it's going to be great. I'm gonna enjoy that

478
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: first month where all they do is eat, sleep, and poop.

479
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:25,239
Speaker 1: Like you're like, mother is so easy. All I do

480
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: is hold this baby, and then all of a sudden

481
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: they come away to the world at like five or

482
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: six weeks, and then you're like, oh man, motherhood is

483
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: definitely the opposite of easy. But I Okay. Actually, like

484
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 1: I feel kind of sad that you and I both

485
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: missed out on that. It sounds like like the sense

486
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 1: of like motherhood is easy, um, because I just don't

487
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: know what's going to happen that second round, and I

488
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: feel like we're gonna have these other little babies running

489
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 1: around going Mama, Mama, mama, and then oh my gosh

490
00:29:55,920 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 1: and that. Yeah. I know, I just and I just

491
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: just want to be able to soak it up the

492
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: same way. Yeah. Well, Carly, and my last question is

493
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: for you. Is for you because your mom of two,

494
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: and sorry for everybody who's tired of the mom talk.

495
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: You know, we're going to have lots of talk about

496
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: relationships and other girls stuff later. Um, Carly, how the

497
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: heck do you throw up while having another little one

498
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:26,479
Speaker 1: around when you're pregnant round two? Uh? Well that's a

499
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: loaded question from my experience, but I would say, just

500
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: you have to have people to help you, Yeah, like

501
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:35,479
Speaker 1: you can't. You cannot do it alone, Like you just

502
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: can't get an army. Okay, yeah, yeah, I agree. Okay, Mom,

503
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: you're living with me, but but I'll does a fantastic job.

504
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: You know, he has to work, you know, but I

505
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: got a full time grandma here she got another job. Anyway, Okay, ready,

506
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: let's get the next round of ladies in Carly's Henley Crystal.

507
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: So fun chatting with you with you two girls, I

508
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 1: have a new panel of ladies. I'm so excited to

509
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: be joined by. We have Heather, Heather, what the heck

510
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 1: is your last name? Heather? Am okay that we have

511
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: dan Yellow McBride and you were on Shawn season season Okay,

512
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: so you're a throwback in Paradise season one. Paradise season one,

513
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: that's right, Oh my gosh, with Claire okay, and then

514
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:41,239
Speaker 1: we have Claire Crawley next to me. This is an

515
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 1: amazing group of ladies. I love Tonight so much fun.

516
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 1: I feel like I could do an hour podcast with

517
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 1: every panel. For this panel, let's do like not like

518
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: truth or Dare, but like sort of like like, okay,

519
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 1: go around, I want to go around the circle. And well,

520
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 1: okay for the two says okay. Daniella is in a relationship.

521
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: She has to she has a set of twins that

522
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: were born eight months ago. Um, and you're in a relationship.

523
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 1: How long have you been in a relationship? For? Seven years?

524
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: Seven years. But you guys aren't married. We are not married,

525
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: but we're but you're committed for life. Committed for life. Okay, Okay,

526
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 1: now we have So my question was going to be

527
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 1: when was the last time you kissed a guy? So

528
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: I'm talking because Danielle, I'm assuming you probably kissed. You're

529
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: probably today, probably today. Okay, So Heather, you're notorious notoriously

530
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: I kissed because it's a girl's night sponsored by Notorious

531
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: for It's not not She her first kiss was Colton.

532
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: How does it feel it your first? That was like

533
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 1: the thing? So, now, how do you feel that he's

534
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 1: come out? I mean, I still everyone's like it doesn't count.

535
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you mean it doesn't count? Are

536
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 1: you kidding me? Like why would that not? He's still

537
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 1: a hot DIY a lot of times, and like, yes,

538
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: it counts. Are you kidding me? That was like the

539
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: best first kiss, Like it first sure counts. Okay, So

540
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: was that your last kiss? Because we all not even

541
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 1: try to kiss mad James. You try to kiss Mat

542
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: but not like you didn't make a move because I

543
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 1: don't know if you guys remember, She made a cameo

544
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: appearance on Matt season no, I literally am learning. She's

545
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 1: so beautiful. Okay, well she tried to make an appearance

546
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: and date Matt. It was it was a little late.

547
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 1: It was late. Can I ask why why didn't you kiss?

548
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: I have no idea the background on. I mean, it

549
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: wasn't like, it wasn't anything like. I was like, I

550
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: just hadn't I just had Yeah, well, okay, it was like.

551
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 1: It wasn't like I was going to kiss random person

552
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 1: in a bar. Yeah, And do you know what I was?

553
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 1: Nineteen was my first kiss. And I've told this story

554
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 1: a number of times on this podcast. You know, it

555
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: has been five years in the podcast, so obviously stories

556
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 1: could be repeated. But I was in nineteen, and of

557
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 1: course my thing was I'm not just randomly get to

558
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: kiss a guy in a bar. A guy randomly kissed

559
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:15,840
Speaker 1: me in a bar, and that was my first kiss.

560
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: Its sloppy, is it was not even any different straight tongue.

561
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 1: It was like a hookah bar. It wasn't it was.

562
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: It wasn't you guys. It was funnier than hookah bar.

563
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 1: It was a burlesque club. Yes, so there could be there.

564
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: One of the would not have been there at nineteen.

565
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 1: I knew the owner I knew and he was just

566
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: like dad. This guy was dancing with me and he

567
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: was like totally like you know, like a rocker dude,

568
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: like long hair. He was not my type at all,

569
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:57,439
Speaker 1: but he was hot. And now at Hind I could

570
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 1: actually go Okay, So this is so silly, Like lots

571
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 1: of people keep tally's of like you know, the not

572
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 1: just on their bead like how many people they slept with? Right, well,

573
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: because we all know that, Like I'm limited to that department.

574
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: I have, like I had before I was married, like

575
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: a kiss list, and I can go down my kiss

576
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 1: list and I'm darn proud of almost every single one

577
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 1: and it's like a good quality list. How many guys

578
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:24,399
Speaker 1: If you're thinking, okay, so this is how I'm gonna

579
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 1: trick Heather again, how many guys can you think of

580
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: that you regret kissing or more? Then? Oh, well, first

581
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 1: of all, I'm I have so many years on you guys,

582
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: that's not a fair question. Yeah, but you've also been

583
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 1: a long term relationship, so you have to knock them out,

584
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,839
Speaker 1: you know what. I would love to say. I mean,

585
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 1: there's a few that were not the greatest, but they're

586
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 1: what I wanted at the time to find out, and

587
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: there's only one way to find out is by doing it.

588
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,399
Speaker 1: For sure, Do I regret it? No? Is there anything

589
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 1: I would take back? No, because at the time that's

590
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: what I wanted, and I would have not known that

591
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 1: if I hadn't gone for it. Okay, okay, so let's

592
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,359
Speaker 1: just let's keep it to the Bachelor, now, Claire, where

593
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 1: did you kiss anybody on the on you know, any

594
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: of the seasons? Just give one name of all the

595
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 1: guys that you kissed on the show that you were like, nah,

596
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: that one was a nah. Um. Oh, she kissed my husband.

597
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 1: So that's funny. You should him on the list there.

598
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,280
Speaker 1: I actually kind of like love that. It's like really weird,

599
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: like he's like, you know, he's For the record, I

600
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: don't remember it. It was pretty peck like, it was

601
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 1: pretty prepared. I remember that. I remember that. That's so funny.

602
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: You guys are about to bungee jump. We did bungee

603
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:46,800
Speaker 1: that's right, that's right. You know what. My ears were ringing,

604
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 1: my toes were purple. I was not That's why I

605
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: don't remember, because I blacked out over the ocean. That's right. Oh,

606
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 1: you just brought up a topic that I'm going to

607
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: bring around in Lizzie, my best friend Lizzie from She's

608
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 1: my best friend since nineteen so like half my life.

609
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 1: She's gonna come on. We're going to talk about moments

610
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: we've blacked out with guys. And I don't mean blackout

611
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 1: because of drunk because it was so embarrassing. But Claire,

612
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 1: one name, just keep one name. Oh my god, I

613
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 1: have a good name for you. Okay. Should I give

614
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:19,439
Speaker 1: you that? You're probably your your most like the kiss

615
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 1: that you regret the most from the Bachelor franchise. Okay, um,

616
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 1: you can give it to me. What do you think?

617
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 1: What about that guy from Winter Games, the one with

618
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 1: like the accent? He was like, Claire, Claire Christian Christian?

619
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 1: Did you kiss him? Don't? If I did, it was

620
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 1: not memorable. So maybe that's what Wait? Is that the

621
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 1: guy you dated on No engaged my fiance my ex fiance,

622
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:55,280
Speaker 1: But you don't regret that kiss? Yeah? Okay, Ben was amazing,

623
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: it really all. He is one of the still to

624
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 1: this day, one of the greatest guys I know, Such

625
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 1: a gentleman. He is the perfect example of when a

626
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: relationship doesn't work. Out. He is so graceful, and he

627
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 1: is so humble, and he is the sweetest, kindest human

628
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 1: being in the entire world, so so wonderful. So if

629
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 1: you're two past fiances, do you like the most? Yes, Yes,

630
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: that times ten. Yes, I will tell you even though

631
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: that relationship, because there's a lot of relationships that run

632
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: their course and serve their purpose, and not all relationships

633
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 1: are meant to last. But I think if a relationship

634
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 1: doesn't last, that's okay. You get what you get from

635
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: it at that time, and it serves some sort of purpose.

636
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:45,359
Speaker 1: And our relationship Benas and I did not work out,

637
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: but just logistically and everything. But he has so much

638
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 1: respect for me and I have so much respect for him,

639
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 1: and we both just it was the most mature thing

640
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 1: ever because it was honest and real and genuine on

641
00:38:57,480 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: both sides. And that's what made it special. And that's

642
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:03,839
Speaker 1: what's still makes it special. I love that so things

643
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 1: things don't always work out, it's it's the truth that matters.

644
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 1: It's he's from brands, right from Canada, Canada. I was

645
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: gonna say, there's something about guys that I'm not trying

646
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 1: to stereotype because I'm with someone who's American, but who's

647
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:21,280
Speaker 1: European or Canadian or something. They're like more real almost

648
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't know, like romance wise, I'm just thinking

649
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,760
Speaker 1: like maybe that's where he brought in like a difference.

650
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 1: So I don't know if it's it's authentic. I don't know,

651
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:35,760
Speaker 1: it's a cultural thing. It's definitely. I think it's human

652
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: to human. It's human. You either have it or no

653
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: integrity or you don't, you know. So I don't think

654
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: it depends where you land on the map, you know. Yeah, true,

655
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 1: But I don't know. Let's go around. I'm gonna let

656
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: off the hook. No, I'm gonna let her off the

657
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:58,919
Speaker 1: hook because I used to hate. My biggest insecurity when

658
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 1: I was like super and I had no experience was

659
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 1: when people was Heather and Heather I was for a

660
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,800
Speaker 1: very very long time. I didn't have my second kiss

661
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: until I was I guess I was twenty, Okay, oh no, no,

662
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: maybe I was nineteen. Maybe I had two kisses at nineteen,

663
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,280
Speaker 1: But like, I was not experienced in that department until

664
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 1: like one sole season. It didn't seem like I had

665
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 1: too much experience going into that one either anyway. So, um,

666
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: but yeah. My least everything was when people would like

667
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 1: play would you have you? Never have? You? Never have

668
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 1: I ever? And I was like, oh my god, everybody

669
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 1: in this circle of people is going to know exactly

670
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 1: that I'm the most virginy world. So I'm not. I'm

671
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: not that I really care, but yeah, it's okay, of course. Okay,

672
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:53,319
Speaker 1: so let's go around the circle for a second and

673
00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: talk about a moment in which we were so embarrassed

674
00:40:56,440 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 1: while flirting with a guy, or trying to be flirt

675
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: with a guy, because maybe you weren't successful in the moment. Okay, Feather,

676
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 1: would that be mad? That's probably not down. That was

677
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:15,919
Speaker 1: more embarrassing. Oh my gosh. Probably I'm trying to think.

678
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 1: I mean, like you actually like I was a very

679
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:22,280
Speaker 1: much fan girl of the show. No, just in general,

680
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 1: it's like all things, just like, yeah, like your Jonas

681
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: brother is like, yeah, I was like, my story actually

682
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 1: has to do with a Jonas brother. I try to say,

683
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell the story. Remember the story? Do

684
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 1: you never remember the jingle ball? Yes, yes, we're gonna

685
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: get to it. Oh my gosh. Okay, so the question

686
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:47,359
Speaker 1: is when I was embarrassing. I've been so embarrassing, Like

687
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: I have the most embarrassing stories. I can't. I don't

688
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:54,359
Speaker 1: even know what the most embarrassing. Just pick one. Um. Now,

689
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 1: I've done like a lot of like celebrity stalking, like

690
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 1: with like Teeny Popper. I didn't know we had this

691
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: in common that really yeah, like I came talked about

692
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: it embarrassed. But there was this one guy that I

693
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 1: was like obsessed, can you give us a hand? Like

694
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:13,359
Speaker 1: you don't probably no one knows him. Probably anyways, I

695
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: was not twenty one yet, but he was. Um. I've

696
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 1: been to like three of his things, like his concerts,

697
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,320
Speaker 1: like they were he like didn't even a concerts, like

698
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 1: he was like he was like like had like like

699
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 1: something at Coupital Records. I was in college, like my

700
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: freshman year of college, and I went and there was

701
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: like me. I took my two sisters and like my

702
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 1: two best friends. I thought it was really a big thing.

703
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: We were the group. There was no one else to

704
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 1: other people. I've been to like four of his things

705
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 1: and then I snuck in to his concert before I

706
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 1: was sending one with like a fake eddy because I

707
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: wanted to go so so bad. It was so very

708
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: just I feel like we're getting very flustered right now.

709
00:42:55,560 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: So I ended up like knowing his cousin down the road,

710
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: and did you like try to get in through the

711
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 1: cousin route. Don't worry, I've done such embarrassing things. I

712
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,399
Speaker 1: feel embarrassed talking about this. Okay, I've done it. I've

713
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: made my sister hook up with guys that were like

714
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 1: siblings and teammates and all that. Anyways, yeah, like blong

715
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: through short, I went to like a million of this

716
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 1: kind of things, ended up like, yeah, seeking him before

717
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: I was anyone he knew. His mom said I was

718
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 1: a super fan, Like I went, but you're so pretty,

719
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 1: Like was he like looking at you? I have no idea, No,

720
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 1: probably not. I was embarrassing. I was so embarrassing, but

721
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 1: I just like I'm like, I'm just pointing to her.

722
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 1: I just like, yeah, like went just so many things

723
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 1: and like snuck in stared at him like thought I

724
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 1: was the only one in the crowd. Yeah, I mean

725
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 1: I've definitely done yea cousin knew who I was. I

726
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 1: ended up like me and his cousin are still like

727
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: one of my best guy friends called me a super fan.

728
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: But did he like ever give you, Like, did you

729
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: ever try to like talk to you? He like talked

730
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 1: to us. I remember like one time one time, like

731
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 1: I went to his third concert, like he knew who

732
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 1: you were, like we're super fans. Like he like said, like,

733
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, like beautiful darling. I went to the

734
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 1: bathroom and felt before like literally against the wall, knees down,

735
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: the best thing in my life. Um yeah, that was

736
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 1: like my life. Okay, great, well that was my life too.

737
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 1: So embarrassing. I've never related her like it makes me

738
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 1: so happy, like thinking about those memories. Oh yeah, I

739
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,839
Speaker 1: still do it to this day. Oh yeah, I think

740
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 1: I think back on how embarrassing I was as well,

741
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,359
Speaker 1: so barely. I thought it was super cool too, Like

742
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,840
Speaker 1: we would be like three years older than most Jonas fans, okay,

743
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 1: maybe like five years older than most, and we would

744
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: show up in like the sluttiest outfits and the highest

745
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:51,359
Speaker 1: heels and be like they're not looking at you at us.

746
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 1: It was like you gotta do what. She's so happy

747
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: want to die inside deeply because I did. Okay, daniela

748
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 1: embarrassing moment with a man. Okay, I actually have a

749
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 1: celebrity one. So I'm trying to relate to when you

750
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:10,439
Speaker 1: guys said the dating one. Hope it's not the story

751
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 1: you just told me outside. I will definitely yeah, I

752
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: can't share multiple celebrity that was. That one's a really

753
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: good one, but I don't know if I could share that, um,

754
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:26,840
Speaker 1: but I will say that I was an intern at

755
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:30,840
Speaker 1: Entertainment Tonight when I first moved to l A. And

756
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 1: I remember I was at the bucket list for Sandra

757
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 1: Bullock and Tim McGraw's it was like a movie they

758
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 1: were doing. And Tim McGraw, I thought it was just like,

759
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 1: obviously he's so much older. He's like, you know, but

760
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 1: he's just so sexy and cool and whatever. And I

761
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: was so young. I was an intern and I had

762
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 1: just seen him interview, and all of a sudden, like

763
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 1: somehow I'm gappy for the blind Side, Yeah, blind Side, Yes,

764
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 1: it's blind Side. And somehow I end up at an

765
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 1: elevator with me and timergraw and I'm like, oh my god,

766
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 1: timmergaw and me and elevator, no one else. And he's like, hey,

767
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 1: how are you? And I was like I'm good, how

768
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 1: are you? And he's like and he's like, yeah, what

769
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 1: are you doing here and I'm like, I'm an intern.

770
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,879
Speaker 1: He's like, oh really, I'm like yeah, I'm like when

771
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: you did really great in there, Like you remember after

772
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 1: that like elevator ride, like he said, all right, well,

773
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 1: it is so great to meet you, and I was

774
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: just like I left it thinking like I am mortified,

775
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: Like why would I tell him he did so great

776
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: in his interview? And I just remember it was like

777
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 1: a moment for me. I'm like in the elevator with

778
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 1: Timergraw and I'm like, this is my one time and

779
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,319
Speaker 1: I told him he did good in an interview, okay,

780
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: because he's so married, so it's like be fan girly.

781
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: One time I went up to Henry cavill at the

782
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 1: Justice League premiere and I said, you were so good,

783
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 1: you were the most supermanny Superman, You've ever been, the

784
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: most Superman Superman Superman you've ever been and all that,

785
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,839
Speaker 1: and he was like thank you, and then I walked away.

786
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:07,439
Speaker 1: He had no interest. Although I feel like that's says

787
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: a lot. I feel like that I get what you're saying.

788
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: You're always saying you're the most Christopher because there have

789
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 1: been so there are so many other options as Superman correct. Yes,

790
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 1: it's not like he's the only one, right, So he's

791
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 1: the closest to like what you would idealize exactly. I

792
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 1: would agree, thank you. It's a proud mument right there.

793
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 1: He does not know he's Superman, you know, trivia like

794
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:42,360
Speaker 1: thank you. All right, So Claire, now now your story. Okay,

795
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: so tell me the question again. So like a time

796
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: that you blacked out because you were so embarrassed by

797
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: flirting or anything like that. Okay, so this one was

798
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 1: super embarrassing, but it ended up really at the time,

799
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 1: really good. So there is this this it was a

800
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 1: while ago, but there was this actor that I just

801
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: like all celebrities celebrity story too, that's why they're so

802
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 1: that's why they're so cringe e because it was a

803
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: regular dude, we'd be like whatever, So this one he's yeah.

804
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 1: So somehow we ended up talking on social media and

805
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: found out what city he was in, and it was

806
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: happened to be the weekend that I was going to

807
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 1: be in that city, and I just did a little

808
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 1: bit more research and I found out where he was,

809
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: Like I think with social media, was found out the

810
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 1: bar that he was going to be at, and you

811
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 1: and I'm telling you this definitely paid off. But I

812
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 1: walked and I was like, I could not play it cool.

813
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: I was like, what would you do? And he's like,

814
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 1: you knew, you know, you knew I was here because

815
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:58,840
Speaker 1: I had commented on his social media and he's like,

816
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 1: I was like, well, I could not play it off

817
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:03,359
Speaker 1: at all. But we ended up laughing about it because

818
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 1: I was not not even cool about it at all.

819
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:08,880
Speaker 1: It was very and then we ended up just talking

820
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 1: that night and then became friends. Oh that's awesome. And

821
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 1: when I say friends, yeah, we became friends. Okay, so

822
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:26,239
Speaker 1: they should accomplished. So without going into too many details

823
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: of my friends, um like experience with um the Jonas brothers, um,

824
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:36,320
Speaker 1: let's just say that, like we were friendly at this point.

825
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:38,879
Speaker 1: You know, I had been on a couple of bachelor seasons.

826
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 1: We had hung out with them at like, uh, they've

827
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: been hung out with them a few times, okay, and

828
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 1: she was always like having the best time, and Joe

829
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 1: was always Joe is like my guy. Okay, so you

830
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 1: understand that when we talked about like band guys, like

831
00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 1: she had somebody and then I okay, so she was

832
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 1: her crush and like my Crush was a show. Yeah, so,

833
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 1: but Joe always had a girlfriend and whenever, like the

834
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:12,760
Speaker 1: few times that we hung out with them, he always

835
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,480
Speaker 1: had their girlfriend there. So I was just like, you know,

836
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: at that point in my life, I was like, you

837
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 1: know what, I am just thrilled to be invited. Okay,

838
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 1: I was just saying for a thrilled and we invited

839
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 1: and it's okay. But then there was a time when

840
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 1: I was single because I was always single until I

841
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: got married basically, and then and he was what I

842
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 1: presumed was single, but he was actually like dating Sopie

843
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: Turner for like maybe like I don't know, six weeks

844
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: or something bleeding up to this. It was a jingle

845
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 1: Ball after party, so it's right across from Mathis and

846
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: Square Garden our friend to the show and fellow I

847
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 1: heart up, amazing woman, Tanya Rad. She was like, you

848
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: could come to the d n C after party with me,

849
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,879
Speaker 1: and Joe was over by the and he like knows

850
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:59,080
Speaker 1: my name and everything. Did you watch Bachelor or no?

851
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: This is like because I was a fan, because honestly

852
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: it started as I have known my name before the

853
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 1: Bachelor because I was okay, remember when when my Bachelor

854
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: picture came out. It said Ashley Annetti has been to

855
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: over twenty seven Jonas Pillar concerts, so like he knew

856
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: me as a creepy fan, and then all of a sudden,

857
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, she's not Maybe she's not creepy anymore.

858
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:27,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. So anyway, I thought he was like single,

859
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:30,399
Speaker 1: and he was standing over by the bar by himself,

860
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 1: and like, my friends were talking to other people, and

861
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do it.

862
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna okay. Oh and actually previously in the night, UM,

863
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:45,879
Speaker 1: he was getting off stage and we were backstage and

864
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: we we um passed each other backstage, and he was

865
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 1: like I think he even said hi actually and gave

866
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: me a huh oh my god. Yeah, You're like this

867
00:51:54,239 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 1: is I'm like, this is worth the wait. So I

868
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:03,920
Speaker 1: was like having feeling gutsy, you know yeah. And then

869
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 1: I went over to him by the bar and I go, hey,

870
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: you know, my friends talking to your friend, um, and

871
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:14,720
Speaker 1: I thought, you know, we've always been in each other's presence,

872
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,799
Speaker 1: but we've never really talked, So Hi, what's up. Yeah,

873
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 1: she's got game, okay, And right, I just went up

874
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 1: and I did, and I said it, and then he

875
00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 1: turns to me and he goes hi, and just stairs

876
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:33,920
Speaker 1: and then nothing else as you say, and then I

877
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: said hi, Hey, I walked away. Stop. Yeah. He literally

878
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: said high and in no way wanted to engage in

879
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: conversation with me. So I just took a sip and

880
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: I got out, are you sure he heard what you said?

881
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 1: Did he hear what you The music has just taken.

882
00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 1: He's nodding over she knew, he knew, he knew. I

883
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 1: think that he was probably just like dating his future

884
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 1: wife and was like, I know this girl's trying to

885
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 1: flirt with me and I'm not not down right but

886
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:10,800
Speaker 1: odds still, but at least you have the confidence to

887
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:16,319
Speaker 1: go up and do it. Like do you look back

888
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: on that moment and you're like, I wish I wouldn't

889
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 1: have or do you look back on and going I

890
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: still did that, I'd still do it. It's a really

891
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 1: funny story. It's like blocked it out until my friends

892
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 1: brought it up a couple of weeks ago and I

893
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: was like, holy sh it, that is so funny, so embarrassing,

894
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 1: but bold and like a story to always tell. And

895
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: here I am even like openly talking about on the

896
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 1: podcast because I think it's you know it. Did you

897
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: like to feel happy after? Like? No, I felt so moralized.

898
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: I ran up to Lizzie and I was like, Yo,

899
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:54,879
Speaker 1: that wasn't it your friend? Yeah? No, no, let's get

900
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 1: out of here and I'm done. Oh my gosh. Did

901
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 1: you chalk it up to a winner loss? I definitely

902
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 1: at the time a loss, but I think, like now

903
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,439
Speaker 1: in my more mature state, think it's probably of course.

904
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 1: How many girls do you think the opportunity for sure?

905
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: You took it like that's like it never feels bad,

906
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 1: Like that's that's the thing. Like I went up and

907
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 1: my voice wasn't even shake it. You're so confident. Manifested

908
00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 1: that moment the most fun ever. I don't want this

909
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: podcast to end, but it is time to say goodbye.

910
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:30,919
Speaker 1: You know it sounds like the Mickey Mouse Club song

911
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: and bring in another group of girls. Yes, I love

912
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 1: you guys, thank you. So we are now joined by

913
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:52,280
Speaker 1: Becky Tilly and Kenda Long, which both of you are

914
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 1: in like, well, you're not in new love relationships. Becca

915
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 1: is in an old love relationship which is still fresh

916
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 1: and beautiful and young, but publicly new and then Kendall,

917
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 1: you just also had like a hard launch with your boyfriend.

918
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:08,279
Speaker 1: It's like this hard launch thing, this is like this

919
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:10,399
Speaker 1: is a new thing, right. They call it hard launch,

920
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 1: the gen Z thing they were trying to pick up on. Yeah,

921
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:18,360
Speaker 1: so like we're saying that, like what is a hard launch?

922
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 1: So you just posted him like what am I supposed

923
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: to do? So that's you gave no hints beforehand that

924
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,319
Speaker 1: you were in a relationship or did you know? I mean,

925
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, no, it was for me. I

926
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 1: was just like I wanted to get confidence in him

927
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: in our relationship, like feel really solid, and I was

928
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: like then words, going for it. Yeah, and Becca had

929
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 1: the softest of launches for a long time. Lots of

930
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 1: little clues. I guess, yeah. I mean I talked about

931
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:44,280
Speaker 1: being in a relationship, and I think there was speculation,

932
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 1: but it was That's why I didn't even know. It

933
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 1: was like, is this a hard launch or a soft launch?

934
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know. It's a launch. It was.

935
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 1: It was a launch. You guys, if you're listening and

936
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 1: you're like I'm lost right now, well then you obviously

937
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 1: don't listen to the almost as Pot asked very regularly,

938
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: because we talked about both of these uh newly released relationships.

939
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: Beccau has been with Haley Kyogo for four years now,

940
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 1: and Kendall has been with her boyfriend. I'm sorry, what's

941
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: his name? Mitch Stage, Mitch Sagely since Valentine's say, you

942
00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 1: guys made official and Valentine's say, how long we view

943
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 1: dating before Valentine's Day? Um? Since early ish December on

944
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:28,400
Speaker 1: his birthday, well the day before his birthdays when we met. Okay,

945
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 1: so you were telling us earlier this is girls night,

946
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 1: you know, this is thank you d Uber Eats for

947
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 1: the most amazing girl's night. We're going to have a

948
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,440
Speaker 1: really cool mentalist in the next segment, but right now,

949
00:56:38,480 --> 00:56:40,200
Speaker 1: we've got to catch up on the girl talk, right,

950
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:42,400
Speaker 1: and that's girl talk always has to do with relationships.

951
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:46,839
Speaker 1: So I gotta know about how you met and like

952
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,799
Speaker 1: the sparks, so you fell early on and all that.

953
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: So we met through a mutual friend, one of Mitch's

954
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 1: volleyball friends, and we did a little pregame before going out,

955
00:56:57,440 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 1: and um, the one thing that really had me impressed

956
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:04,800
Speaker 1: by him is that we were talking about life that

957
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 1: could potentially be on other planets. And I was like, oh,

958
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 1: there's this moon off Jupiter that could potentially harbor alien life.

959
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 1: He's like, oh yeah, Europa. And I was like, no

960
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:15,359
Speaker 1: one knows that, or at least like for me. It's

961
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 1: like I'm like cool, people know that. So he automatically

962
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: I was just like, yes, he's a nerd. This is

963
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 1: me great. Uh he's an aerospace engineer, so knows way

964
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: more things about space than I can never imagine. Did

965
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 1: he say Hi, I'm Mitch and like quickly in the

966
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 1: conversation said I'm an aerospace engineer, in which case Kendall's like,

967
00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: Candle is like, okay, I'm officially completely. I was like,

968
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 1: thing inging, like this guy's honestly yes. So and then

969
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 1: he brought the whole thing about like you know, Europa,

970
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 1: and I was like, this is just like in the bag. No,

971
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: he's uh yeah, he's just like a sexy nerd, my

972
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:57,680
Speaker 1: sexy nerds. So it's been lovely, so so cute. So

973
00:57:57,760 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I love to jump ahead of things. But

974
00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 1: we saw you very you know, there's lots of there's

975
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 1: lots to what happened in Paradise that of course we

976
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 1: didn't see and you were just on last season of Paradise.

977
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 1: And I'm sure lots of people have thoughts on like

978
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: you going there and trying to ruin Joe's time blah blah,

979
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 1: but we all know that, like, despite whatever your thoughts

980
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:22,480
Speaker 1: or whatever, the whole story was that like you definitely

981
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: left there like upset, still broken, you know, broken hearted

982
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 1: to a certain degree. You know, like were you did

983
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 1: you consider yourself fully healed from Joe after that? Or

984
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: did you get fully healed because of Paradise? Oh? I

985
00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 1: mean I felt like I was fully healed from that

986
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: past relationship before I went, or else I wouldn't have gone. Um.

987
00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 1: And I think being back definitely brought up a lot

988
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: of feelings, but I left feeling really good about how

989
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 1: everything went, and um that it ended on more of

990
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 1: like a positive note with a lot of clarity. Um,

991
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 1: and both of us, neither of us were interested in

992
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:57,880
Speaker 1: rekindling anything. It wouldn't have made any sense. Um. But

993
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: you know, I actually left the beach think like man like, Dang,

994
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 1: that was hard, but I feel a lot better because

995
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:05,600
Speaker 1: of it. And I think we're both kind of like

996
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:08,120
Speaker 1: on the right path to where we need to go. Um,

997
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 1: And it wasn't until you know a little bit later

998
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 1: in that I was you know, there's always a different

999
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 1: interpretation of events and so um, that's when it kind

1000
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:20,840
Speaker 1: of became more of a because an interesting situation, like

1001
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 1: reliving things in a different way than I had expected to.

1002
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 1: So we can safely say that you left Paradise knowing

1003
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 1: that Joe was not going to be your person. So

1004
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 1: now that you're with Mitch, I mean, give me the

1005
00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 1: t like your person forever. This is like the full

1006
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:38,439
Speaker 1: circle moment I'm trying to have right now. Oh my gosh,

1007
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: I really intense for him to hear if he ever

1008
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 1: listens to No. I mean we I think we talk

1009
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:47,920
Speaker 1: started talking about baby since day one, so I mean

1010
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:51,160
Speaker 1: our first date. I think we're both on the same

1011
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 1: path of where we went to be what we're ready for. Um.

1012
00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 1: And he's just continues to impress me with who he

1013
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 1: is and how he views life and how challenges me.

1014
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:04,360
Speaker 1: So I'm really excited. I just keep getting excited to

1015
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 1: move forward with him. You know, I don't think it's

1016
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: ever like a definite like this guy's you know, husband babies,

1017
01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 1: although like I definitely envisioned that, but Um, but I'm

1018
01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 1: just excited to take the next step, you know, and

1019
01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:19,120
Speaker 1: I just can't wait to get to keep moving forward exciting.

1020
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 1: What what is the next step that you foresee? Well, Um,

1021
01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 1: for me, I don't want to live with somebody until

1022
01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:30,919
Speaker 1: I'm engaged. I think that's so smart. Somebody recently told

1023
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 1: me I think I shouldn't live um with a future

1024
01:00:34,480 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 1: boyfriend until we're engaged. And that was the ultimatum I

1025
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 1: kind of gave Jared. It wasn't an ultimatum. We were

1026
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 1: only together for three months, but I was like, I

1027
01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:44,400
Speaker 1: don't think it's right for us to live together until

1028
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 1: we're engaged. And that's what we did and it worked

1029
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:49,720
Speaker 1: out perfectly, and I hope the same for you. Thank you. Yeah,

1030
01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: I'm I'm excited for it. We were already talking about

1031
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 1: different places we'd want to live together. Um. But I

1032
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 1: mean I've lived with a few people in the past,

1033
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 1: and it's always been when you move in with somebody,

1034
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: it just changes the dynamic of a relationship and it's

1035
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:06,120
Speaker 1: not anymore. It can be romantic, of course, but there's

1036
01:01:06,160 --> 01:01:08,840
Speaker 1: a lot less romance and there's a lot less excitement

1037
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 1: over like hearing their footsteps or like the knock of

1038
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 1: the door when they get there, being two completely like

1039
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 1: individual people and you know, really enjoying like our own

1040
01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 1: independence and doing whatever we you don't want to do

1041
01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 1: in our time being you know, a separated and we

1042
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 1: have the rest of our lives to be together. So

1043
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:29,400
Speaker 1: I'm really excited for that to be. Um. The next

1044
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 1: step I would love to live with him, but we'll see.

1045
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 1: So the next step is engagement. Okay, okay, So Becca,

1046
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 1: you've been with Haley for four years, but you guys

1047
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:40,840
Speaker 1: don't live together and why is that? And do you

1048
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 1: have any plans to? We don't. We both have like

1049
01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 1: separate I have a house and she has her place too,

1050
01:01:48,320 --> 01:01:51,560
Speaker 1: and so I think, but we always like we spend

1051
01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 1: every night together just like so we basically too. Do

1052
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: you feel like you're wasting money on mortgage or well,

1053
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 1: not mortgage, I feel because I feel great about having

1054
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 1: a house, but I think, um, it's kind of I

1055
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 1: think eventually we will move in a direction where we

1056
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 1: live in one home. Um, And I still like we basically,

1057
01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 1: I mean, we essentially lived together, and I still feel

1058
01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 1: very much like excited. Now I feel horrible, actually, you

1059
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:24,520
Speaker 1: know what now that you say it like that, I

1060
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 1: told Jerk. So I don't know if you remember during

1061
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 1: our wedding ceremony along you guys know former Bachelor Bachelor

1062
01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:36,680
Speaker 1: Paradise basically like founder like brain master, Um, he was

1063
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,880
Speaker 1: the ficial neur wedding and he said Ashley is a goldfish.

1064
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 1: You know, like you like heard her, you make her

1065
01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 1: happy or something happens, and then like she has like

1066
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 1: a rebound rate of two seconds, and before you know it,

1067
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:50,160
Speaker 1: she's like at it again. She's like she was rejected

1068
01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 1: and she sat for a second. She cries really hard,

1069
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 1: then she's at it again. I tell Jared all the

1070
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 1: time ago this is this is what happens. So he

1071
01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 1: comes home really late. But every single night, like when

1072
01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 1: he comes from work, I get so excited for him

1073
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 1: to come home. And then he comes home and he's

1074
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 1: like a bump on a log. He's so tired, and

1075
01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh man, today wasn't the day. Today wasn't

1076
01:03:10,160 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 1: the day that like we had like a great night together.

1077
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 1: It's such a blast. Like tomorrow, tomorrow he's gonna come

1078
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 1: home and be excited again, and he's gonna fall asleep

1079
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 1: on the couch. So yeah, I guess you know, I

1080
01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:23,720
Speaker 1: still get very excited for him to come home. And

1081
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 1: that's really cute that you guys are the same way

1082
01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:28,520
Speaker 1: four years later. Yeah, it's I never thought I would

1083
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 1: be someone who felt that way for someone after so

1084
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 1: much time. Didn't we always say like we don't know

1085
01:03:34,080 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 1: how we would ever live with someone? Yeah, because I

1086
01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:38,840
Speaker 1: get so annoyed. I mean I get so annoyed with people,

1087
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:40,640
Speaker 1: like I need my space and she's like the only

1088
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:43,120
Speaker 1: person that I don't need, like space from. Yeah, you

1089
01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 1: need like your fart bubble, like your good for you

1090
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 1: for every hale to fart in front of you, either

1091
01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: or not. His name sounds like a rom calm like

1092
01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 1: the Star Wars does. Actually, it literally sounds like a

1093
01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:07,680
Speaker 1: movie name. Yeah. I really like his last name. Yeah,

1094
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 1: it's a really good name. I steal it at some point.

1095
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:17,400
Speaker 1: That's cute, all right. So, um, let's end this segment

1096
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 1: with just saying the a couple of things one to

1097
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:25,600
Speaker 1: the three whatever you feel like things that your partner

1098
01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:29,960
Speaker 1: has as a quality that you were always looking for,

1099
01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 1: and another one that they have that you never even

1100
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 1: thought you needed. It's a really good question. Really looking

1101
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 1: at each other like you, Um, I'm gonna say the

1102
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:45,720
Speaker 1: one quality that I the first one is the one

1103
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:48,600
Speaker 1: that you felt you needed, and the second one didn't

1104
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 1: need you didn't think you need, But like love having Okay, Um,

1105
01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 1: I think the first one is um something that I've

1106
01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:57,440
Speaker 1: always wanted to have in a partner, as someone that

1107
01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:00,160
Speaker 1: challenges me and I learned something new from that them

1108
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:03,080
Speaker 1: and they can teach me new things. And with Mitch,

1109
01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:05,640
Speaker 1: he's so excited and so pumped to show me new

1110
01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 1: podcasts and different things, the things that he's learned. And

1111
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:10,640
Speaker 1: I do these little science videos and he always gives

1112
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 1: me good ideas for them. And he loves researching and

1113
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:17,800
Speaker 1: just broadening our minds and discussing crazy topics. So I've

1114
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 1: really admired that in him, and that we continuously um

1115
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:23,560
Speaker 1: challenge each other and stimulating each other in a lot

1116
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 1: of ways. Um. And the one quality that I didn't

1117
01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:29,320
Speaker 1: think that I needed, um, you know, I love that

1118
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:32,320
Speaker 1: he holds me accountable for what I believe and why

1119
01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: I believe it. And um, whenever I have an opinion

1120
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:38,000
Speaker 1: or a view about something, he always says, well, why

1121
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 1: do you think that? Or what got you thinking that?

1122
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:43,240
Speaker 1: And sometimes I'm like, I don't know I just thought

1123
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 1: it because maybe like that's what people are doing. And um,

1124
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:50,840
Speaker 1: he really challenges me in uh like holding like standing

1125
01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: behind what I believe and actually researching why I believe

1126
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: certain things. And UM, I just find that to be

1127
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 1: really fascinating because I'm always continuously trying to under my

1128
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:03,480
Speaker 1: unders and myself like as he's understanding me. Um, and yeah,

1129
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 1: I'm just really impressed by that. That's that's amazing. Both

1130
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:12,560
Speaker 1: of those are actually come first, you had more time,

1131
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 1: uh question, I would kind of need a minute. Um.

1132
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: I think the thing that I was like hoping it

1133
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 1: was what was a question like something that you needed

1134
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 1: that you're figure has, and then something that you didn't

1135
01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 1: know you needed that you love that they have. Okay,

1136
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:34,560
Speaker 1: something that I needed was someone who could, um help

1137
01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:38,480
Speaker 1: me learn how to communicate. I'm like such I shut down,

1138
01:06:38,600 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 1: like any I don't like confrontation, I don't like to

1139
01:06:41,560 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 1: talk things out, and she's very much like, let's talk

1140
01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:48,000
Speaker 1: it out, let's let's try to understand each other and

1141
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 1: understand the situation before we move on from it. And

1142
01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 1: it's really helped me in so many ways, like with

1143
01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:57,680
Speaker 1: every relationship in my life. Um, and the other thing

1144
01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 1: would be. She has brought different world views to my

1145
01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:06,120
Speaker 1: attention that I never had before, and I don't think

1146
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:08,640
Speaker 1: I ever would have had had I not met someone

1147
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,160
Speaker 1: so different than me and I really I always thought

1148
01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 1: I wanted someone who had everything the same as me

1149
01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:16,600
Speaker 1: and that we aligned on everything. And I think it's

1150
01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 1: it's really like, there's something really cool about getting to

1151
01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 1: learn about each other and hear each other and experience

1152
01:07:22,440 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 1: different world views and views on different things and opinions

1153
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:28,520
Speaker 1: on different things that, um, I'm kind of the same

1154
01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:31,920
Speaker 1: way that made me think broader. Yeah, yeah, that's a

1155
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:35,360
Speaker 1: great answer. Okay, well, next up, we have a mentalist

1156
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:38,720
Speaker 1: coming on and maybe he'll know more about our relationships

1157
01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 1: than we do on all right, we have a very

1158
01:07:54,520 --> 01:08:00,320
Speaker 1: special guest. We have Nivo, the youngest mentalist in the world.

1159
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:10,440
Speaker 1: How young are you that? Wow? Okay if you had

1160
01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:13,640
Speaker 1: to say how old am I? Wait what I was

1161
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,320
Speaker 1: going to say? Two? Yeah, I would say like twenty

1162
01:08:16,400 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 1: three ish. I I've guessed around there too. Yeah, but

1163
01:08:19,560 --> 01:08:21,600
Speaker 1: that means you can you can pull, you know, you

1164
01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:23,280
Speaker 1: can pull from all eight groups when it comes to

1165
01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:25,200
Speaker 1: the dating pool. We need to have him another year.

1166
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:30,920
Speaker 1: We encourage that. That's right, I'm so inappropriate. Well, i

1167
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:34,920
Speaker 1: am so excited that you're here. And I've never met

1168
01:08:35,040 --> 01:08:38,280
Speaker 1: a mentalist before, and it's and we hear so much

1169
01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:45,599
Speaker 1: about psychics mediums, but mentalists. Can you define what that means? Well, actually,

1170
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:50,040
Speaker 1: it's a mindreading. So I'm saying, I'm use three main

1171
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:56,479
Speaker 1: techniques mind dreading, my influencing, and how much bullshit do

1172
01:08:56,520 --> 01:09:00,200
Speaker 1: you do? Well, I can't tell you about. I'm an

1173
01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:04,360
Speaker 1: entertaining I'm performing in front of big crowds, reading people's mind,

1174
01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:08,639
Speaker 1: having fun. So it's like it's very different than psychic

1175
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:10,680
Speaker 1: or stuff like that. Well, thank you for joining our

1176
01:09:10,720 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 1: girls night. This is truly like the most unique cool

1177
01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:17,040
Speaker 1: thing we could have for girls night, Like this is

1178
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:19,719
Speaker 1: a new thing that we should use for bachelorette parties now.

1179
01:09:20,720 --> 01:09:23,559
Speaker 1: Instead of bringing strippers in which no girl really want,

1180
01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:28,080
Speaker 1: let's bring in a mentalist's way more fun, way more fun.

1181
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:34,120
Speaker 1: I'm from Israel and the as the world in the world,

1182
01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:36,599
Speaker 1: as we said, and I'm doing it. When I'm performing

1183
01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:41,880
Speaker 1: in Israel, I'm doing a lot of like like a

1184
01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:44,080
Speaker 1: lot of parties like that. That's awesome, that's so cool.

1185
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:47,960
Speaker 1: All right, So we heard that you guessed our producers

1186
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:51,479
Speaker 1: first kiss, you knew the name of the boy who

1187
01:09:51,520 --> 01:09:56,920
Speaker 1: gave her her first kiss, which is so amazing. So

1188
01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:59,599
Speaker 1: we're going to keep with the theme and we're gonna

1189
01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 1: go I'm the circle here, it's me Ashley. My name

1190
01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:06,160
Speaker 1: is Ashley, this is Kendall, and this is Becca, and

1191
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:09,759
Speaker 1: you're going to tell us the names of the person

1192
01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:13,120
Speaker 1: that we first kissed. And can you give us more detail,

1193
01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:15,760
Speaker 1: like can you tell us the environment in which we

1194
01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 1: were in if that's what we're thinking of, Like if

1195
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 1: I were to put myself back in that place, are

1196
01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 1: you able to say, Ashley, his name was this, You

1197
01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:25,320
Speaker 1: were in a room that looked like this, and you

1198
01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:27,280
Speaker 1: were this old, or at least can you give me

1199
01:10:27,320 --> 01:10:38,160
Speaker 1: the age that I was. Well, let's start with calmed down. Okay, sure,

1200
01:10:38,520 --> 01:10:43,160
Speaker 1: I told you a producer to bring an envelope. Still envelope. Yes, yes,

1201
01:10:43,200 --> 01:10:50,160
Speaker 1: we have the envelope, Like, don't touch it, okay, okay, okay,

1202
01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:53,719
Speaker 1: we see, we see, but he cannot see audience listening

1203
01:10:54,560 --> 01:10:59,840
Speaker 1: NIVO cannot see the what's on the envelope? Paper? No,

1204
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 1: I know what it's on down a little paper. Actually,

1205
01:11:02,160 --> 01:11:07,120
Speaker 1: I have it here as well. Just put it face down.

1206
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:12,200
Speaker 1: This would be the prediction. This will be the old game. Okay,

1207
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:13,960
Speaker 1: let me let me tell the audience. Since this is

1208
01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:18,360
Speaker 1: a podcast and it's audio. Danielle flashed a number that

1209
01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:21,200
Speaker 1: was typed out on white paper for me, and it

1210
01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:24,160
Speaker 1: was a long number. I'd say, there's like eight digits.

1211
01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:27,960
Speaker 1: I only remember one. Okay, remember one? And and apparently

1212
01:11:28,080 --> 01:11:32,799
Speaker 1: Nebo is now going to in his house in Israel

1213
01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 1: is going to show us the same numbers on a

1214
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:40,040
Speaker 1: piece of paper halfway around the world. So we'll try

1215
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:43,759
Speaker 1: to do it. But just before that, I wrote something

1216
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:48,160
Speaker 1: here on this chot board. Let's say, actually, you can

1217
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:51,200
Speaker 1: go to anybody you want in the whole world. Which

1218
01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:53,720
Speaker 1: can't you like to visit? Does give me the name

1219
01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:55,960
Speaker 1: I'd like to go to France. That's the place I've

1220
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 1: never been before that would really like to go. It's Frank,

1221
01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:06,679
Speaker 1: drank Sting and Kendell. Can you think of any person's

1222
01:12:06,760 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 1: name would like to visit in France? With like any name?

1223
01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 1: It can be someone from your family, from your friend.

1224
01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:14,679
Speaker 1: I have a friend. I have a friend named Killian

1225
01:12:14,920 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 1: that she supposed to say that you can just say, okay,

1226
01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:22,280
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I know his name is kills already wrote something.

1227
01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:26,080
Speaker 1: It's kind of a prediction. It's okay, what's the name?

1228
01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:30,400
Speaker 1: His name is Killian and he lives in France. Very interesting,

1229
01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:36,839
Speaker 1: So Killian France. And what was your name? Against story? Becca? Becca?

1230
01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: Nice to meet you. First of all, I told you

1231
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 1: I can go with the older girls for me. Becca.

1232
01:12:46,479 --> 01:12:49,240
Speaker 1: Just think of any amount of money you would spend

1233
01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 1: with Killian her friend in air France. Any amount of

1234
01:12:54,120 --> 01:12:59,400
Speaker 1: money I can I say it out loud, Yeah, dollars.

1235
01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 1: It's a big trip of me and kill And little

1236
01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:06,559
Speaker 1: Killian is a very unique name. So if there's something

1237
01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 1: but you said and you said Killian, and you said France,

1238
01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:17,760
Speaker 1: I couldn't predict all of those. But I'll hold it

1239
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:19,840
Speaker 1: a chalkboard from the start of the show. And I

1240
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:22,040
Speaker 1: told you that I wrote something before the show started.

1241
01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:26,240
Speaker 1: And I must tell you that I wrote, friends, what

1242
01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:35,320
Speaker 1: that is insane? Like my whole body? And he didn't

1243
01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 1: touch it. There was no way he touched it. We

1244
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:39,360
Speaker 1: were watching him the whole time. He did not touch

1245
01:13:39,360 --> 01:13:41,960
Speaker 1: his board. How did you know this before you even

1246
01:13:42,280 --> 01:13:47,639
Speaker 1: met us? Like I can even I could almost killing

1247
01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:55,800
Speaker 1: you killing so so so so weird it out right

1248
01:13:55,800 --> 01:13:59,160
Speaker 1: now I'm so weird it out because, Okay, Kendall's just

1249
01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:03,040
Speaker 1: saying that her her X was a magician. This is

1250
01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:08,880
Speaker 1: not Joe, Guys, another X and and this has been

1251
01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:11,439
Speaker 1: the greatest magic trick of all time. This is yeah,

1252
01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:13,479
Speaker 1: this is actually on par with some of the best

1253
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:16,960
Speaker 1: magic tricks I've seen. It's been different than magic because

1254
01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:19,280
Speaker 1: people are a bit confused about what is mentalist, what

1255
01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:23,639
Speaker 1: it's like. Is it a magician? Well, I'm using an

1256
01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:27,639
Speaker 1: l piece that's ner linguistic programming. I'm using bad language reading,

1257
01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:31,400
Speaker 1: so I'm using more psychological techniques than it's not a man.

1258
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:34,720
Speaker 1: That's different from agician. That's interesting. But but when did

1259
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Speaker 1: you write that down? Yeah? I thought you were that

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01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:39,960
Speaker 1: wort that down before you even met us. Call Yeah,

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01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:42,640
Speaker 1: but then, how did you get her party language? How

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01:14:42,640 --> 01:14:46,560
Speaker 1: did you get her party language? You've got our minds. No,

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01:14:46,760 --> 01:14:48,760
Speaker 1: that was how to influence you to think about the

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01:14:48,880 --> 01:14:50,880
Speaker 1: certain things. But as I told you, if I'll tell

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01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:55,120
Speaker 1: her how to kill you actual story Lu's show. I

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01:14:55,200 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 1: told someone in the crowd, if I tell her how

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01:14:57,000 --> 01:14:58,880
Speaker 1: to kill you? And then it stood up and he said,

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01:14:58,920 --> 01:15:04,720
Speaker 1: can you please tell my wife? Oh? Okay, you said

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01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 1: that was the warm up. So I am a good word,

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01:15:08,479 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 1: very very excited for conversation. Let's continue, so penvelop will

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01:15:14,240 --> 01:15:16,320
Speaker 1: still be here. By the way, this is my cell phone.

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Speaker 1: We'll go and to do something with it in a

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01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 1: couple of seconds. But just before that, um, let's say

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01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:28,519
Speaker 1: back up. Can you think about just imagine in front

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01:15:28,520 --> 01:15:34,920
Speaker 1: of you and watch starts to spin and the shorter

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01:15:35,040 --> 01:15:36,960
Speaker 1: dial just to short it down, start to spin, and

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01:15:36,960 --> 01:15:40,840
Speaker 1: it's stopping a specific hour? One hour? Is it? Just

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01:15:40,920 --> 01:15:43,960
Speaker 1: tell me an hour? No? One, just don't don't say anything,

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Speaker 1: just think with it, okay, okay, and Ashley, can you

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01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:55,320
Speaker 1: think of let's say, think of a number of minutes,

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01:15:55,560 --> 01:15:59,559
Speaker 1: so to get it, you'll create a certain time. Okay,

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01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:01,040
Speaker 1: so she thinks of the hour, and I think of

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01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:07,400
Speaker 1: the minute hand exactly. Okay. Yes, I'm holding and my

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01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 1: wrist watch and look at me. Don't change your mind. Please.

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01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:15,360
Speaker 1: Can you come a little closer to the hum so

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01:16:15,360 --> 01:16:20,920
Speaker 1: I'll be able to steal Yeah, okay, now I can

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01:16:20,960 --> 01:16:23,559
Speaker 1: see properly. Just think of they'd say it again and again.

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01:16:24,040 --> 01:16:29,679
Speaker 1: What is the number of what's the hour? Five five?

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01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:34,840
Speaker 1: What's the number of minutes? Thirty six? Thirty six? Five?

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Speaker 1: Thirty six. Well, I said this watch, you'll go crazy

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01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 1: five thirty six exactly. There's no way, there's no way

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01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:50,000
Speaker 1: that's insane in the same room with us for some reason,

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01:16:50,040 --> 01:16:53,559
Speaker 1: to be more believable, if you could like channel brain

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01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:57,280
Speaker 1: waves or something. But he's across the world. That's insane.

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01:16:57,400 --> 01:17:00,840
Speaker 1: And you guys, his watch, of course, as as our

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01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:07,240
Speaker 1: reaction to it, says five pretty six, that's crazy. Wow,

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01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:14,719
Speaker 1: whoa play play more? Well, yeah, I'm actually in the

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01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:17,240
Speaker 1: whole part of the of the world, I mean Israel

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01:17:18,040 --> 01:17:22,759
Speaker 1: right now. Actually have been the Israel's finalist of Israel's Talent,

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01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:27,639
Speaker 1: and I'm a starting my career abroad and next week

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01:17:27,680 --> 01:17:30,280
Speaker 1: I'm coming to Los Angeles to do some soul is there.

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01:17:30,720 --> 01:17:34,200
Speaker 1: So I'm like, very oh, we have to see you

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01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:38,120
Speaker 1: in Los Angeles. Yeah, seriously, you've got Bill be there.

1304
01:17:40,439 --> 01:17:42,759
Speaker 1: I had like a few performances in the laugh Factory,

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01:17:42,960 --> 01:17:48,160
Speaker 1: you know. Oh yeah, that's right near where I live. Yeah. Actually,

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01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:50,679
Speaker 1: in like three hours, I have a flight in Dubai.

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01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:55,960
Speaker 1: Good world traveler. So are we able to go around

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01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 1: and you think of the name of the boy that

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01:17:58,479 --> 01:18:03,080
Speaker 1: we first kissed or were not? The last game we

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01:18:03,160 --> 01:18:04,600
Speaker 1: get to play with you. I know we have to

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01:18:04,680 --> 01:18:08,040
Speaker 1: let you go. No, no, then we'll do another one

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01:18:08,120 --> 01:18:12,400
Speaker 1: because we still have that envelope there. But let's do it. Okay,

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01:18:12,479 --> 01:18:15,280
Speaker 1: multiple multiple games left for us. Okay, this is fantastic.

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01:18:15,280 --> 01:18:21,280
Speaker 1: All right, everybody think about think about your answer. Look

1315
01:18:21,320 --> 01:18:23,880
Speaker 1: at me, I think I want to do it with.

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01:18:24,040 --> 01:18:25,720
Speaker 1: Who wants to try to do it? Who wants to

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01:18:25,720 --> 01:18:30,000
Speaker 1: do now? I'll go for it. Yeah, look at me,

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01:18:31,520 --> 01:18:34,840
Speaker 1: just making sure Kenny, because of yours, will be sure

1319
01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:38,960
Speaker 1: we set it up. Everything is like, didn't you tell

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01:18:38,960 --> 01:18:42,439
Speaker 1: me anything before you started? No? No, I just I

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01:18:42,479 --> 01:18:44,960
Speaker 1: met you as soon as the micros on. So do

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01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:48,040
Speaker 1: we know ech other personally? No? He seems to be

1323
01:18:48,120 --> 01:18:54,439
Speaker 1: very happy about it, but you know, you know nothing

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01:18:54,520 --> 01:18:58,080
Speaker 1: about me. Look at me. Just think of the name

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01:18:58,760 --> 01:19:09,160
Speaker 1: mm hmm sick. Yeah, well I'm gonna do Remember what

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01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:15,479
Speaker 1: was your age back then? Oh gosh, uh not really

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01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:20,680
Speaker 1: trying to think I know the great I was like

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01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:26,000
Speaker 1: some some hair, am I write? I'm sorry, hey, like

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01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:30,000
Speaker 1: a little hair, something unique maybe and still but yes,

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01:19:30,000 --> 01:19:35,360
Speaker 1: you know Kendall he had he did have hair, Yes,

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01:19:35,520 --> 01:19:44,000
Speaker 1: that's himistic figure you stand looking at me. Yeah, I

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01:19:44,080 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 1: can just tell many letters tell you the letter. Oh

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01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:56,559
Speaker 1: don't don't just think how many? Okay, yeah, you don't

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01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:59,280
Speaker 1: have to delay that. I was really trying to channel

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01:19:59,280 --> 01:20:01,439
Speaker 1: the brain waves, like my fingers and my temples, like

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01:20:01,600 --> 01:20:07,679
Speaker 1: you will know the name? Yeah, okay, Well I hope

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01:20:07,680 --> 01:20:15,240
Speaker 1: By wrote it the right way. Yeah, I think it

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01:20:18,520 --> 01:20:21,280
Speaker 1: for the first time. Can you say, what is the name?

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01:20:21,760 --> 01:20:29,840
Speaker 1: Holding ladies first? Kyle Kyle? Yeah, and I couldn't predict

1340
01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:33,160
Speaker 1: du so Kyle, right, you you couldn't know. There's no way.

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01:20:33,600 --> 01:20:37,000
Speaker 1: What was your age back then? I was in eighth grade.

1342
01:20:37,840 --> 01:20:41,280
Speaker 1: In eighth grade, you kissed the first time. This is

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01:20:41,320 --> 01:20:49,320
Speaker 1: what I wrote the name in the best day of

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01:20:49,400 --> 01:20:53,559
Speaker 1: my life. I am so, I can't. I don't even

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01:20:53,560 --> 01:20:57,160
Speaker 1: know how to react. I am so, how is this happening?

1346
01:20:57,600 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 1: But that's actually brilliant. Before we got on the podcast,

1347
01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:02,960
Speaker 1: I was telling the girls that, like, one of the

1348
01:21:03,040 --> 01:21:07,640
Speaker 1: most like entertained moments of my life was at my

1349
01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:12,320
Speaker 1: senior um like graduation party where we had a hypnotist

1350
01:21:12,479 --> 01:21:14,760
Speaker 1: and like these kids really went under the spell of

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01:21:14,800 --> 01:21:17,240
Speaker 1: the hypnotist. And now here I am about half my

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01:21:17,320 --> 01:21:22,679
Speaker 1: life later, and I think I'm even more flabbergasted. Yeah,

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01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:26,679
Speaker 1: that's pretty By the way. I have a surprise for you, Kendall.

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01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:31,240
Speaker 1: Oh you'll go crazy Kyle coming, Oh my gosh, yeah,

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01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:35,000
Speaker 1: that would be insane. Wait wait, wait, what do you say, Kyle?

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01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:45,280
Speaker 1: Come in? I have forever alright, okay, yes, yes, yes,

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01:21:45,320 --> 01:21:46,720
Speaker 1: we need to wrap up, but we have to do

1358
01:21:46,760 --> 01:21:50,360
Speaker 1: this envelope. Yeah, I'm very excited to see this here.

1359
01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:54,439
Speaker 1: I told you from the start of before even started

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01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:57,439
Speaker 1: to write something and to put it inside the sealed Endlope,

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01:21:57,560 --> 01:21:59,960
Speaker 1: I have an envelope here and on my cell phone.

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01:22:00,400 --> 01:22:03,240
Speaker 1: My cellphone is opened and it shows the calculator. I

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01:22:03,280 --> 01:22:06,240
Speaker 1: wrote a number in the calculator. We will do some calculation.

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01:22:06,520 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 1: I hope the listeners can follow with us. Let's write

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01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:16,000
Speaker 1: out of this. Ashley can open your calculator, my calculator

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01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:20,360
Speaker 1: on my phone. Yeah, okay, yes, and can you just

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01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:23,599
Speaker 1: give me two digits? Make sure to write the same

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01:22:23,640 --> 01:22:26,400
Speaker 1: digits as we say as you tell me to. Okay, yes,

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01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:31,559
Speaker 1: go for it. Just give me any two random digits. Okay,

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01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:38,880
Speaker 1: got it? Oh, sixty two six to sixty two okay, Ken,

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01:22:38,960 --> 01:22:44,559
Speaker 1: They'll give me three digits um eight one three eight

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01:22:44,640 --> 01:22:47,040
Speaker 1: one three. Make sure I'm writing the same numbers you

1373
01:22:47,080 --> 01:22:50,840
Speaker 1: say okay, okay, should I should I? Should I do

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01:22:50,920 --> 01:22:55,600
Speaker 1: something with eight? One three? Yeah? You should those to

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01:22:57,600 --> 01:23:01,160
Speaker 1: okay exactly Glass, I'd say, can you please get me

1376
01:23:01,160 --> 01:23:11,479
Speaker 1: back up? Four digits five, four, eight, nine, five eight nine. Okay?

1377
01:23:11,720 --> 01:23:13,360
Speaker 1: Do you have someone else with you in the room

1378
01:23:13,600 --> 01:23:19,240
Speaker 1: you can see yes, right here? Okay, tell her to

1379
01:23:19,439 --> 01:23:26,439
Speaker 1: think about five digits. Tell us wait, I hope I

1380
01:23:26,479 --> 01:23:29,840
Speaker 1: just added right? Okay, yeah, for it out loud, say

1381
01:23:29,840 --> 01:23:32,000
Speaker 1: it out loud, digit by digit, and make sure to

1382
01:23:32,000 --> 01:23:38,360
Speaker 1: add those numbers. It's like downing. Okay, four six, nine

1383
01:23:40,040 --> 01:23:46,400
Speaker 1: two seven okay, okay, So this number right? Did you

1384
01:23:46,439 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 1: add this number? Yeah? I hope I didn't mess up

1385
01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:53,160
Speaker 1: on the calculator if we did, does any do you

1386
01:23:53,160 --> 01:23:56,559
Speaker 1: guys somebody else use a calculator? We can make sure

1387
01:23:57,240 --> 01:24:00,639
Speaker 1: we will do one more time. Don't worry. And Canada,

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01:24:01,160 --> 01:24:09,719
Speaker 1: can you give me six digits? Um? Okay? Nine seven, three,

1389
01:24:10,800 --> 01:24:21,920
Speaker 1: eight two six okay. And for the last number I

1390
01:24:21,960 --> 01:24:27,479
Speaker 1: would like, actually give me two digits two more digits okay,

1391
01:24:27,880 --> 01:24:31,840
Speaker 1: thirty six thirty six, and we will continue this number.

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01:24:31,920 --> 01:24:36,160
Speaker 1: So don't press the quiet. Becca, give me five digits

1393
01:24:37,840 --> 01:24:47,640
Speaker 1: eight six, four, five nine one. That's it. That's it.

1394
01:24:48,840 --> 01:24:54,840
Speaker 1: I was like, my fingers are like six long number

1395
01:24:55,400 --> 01:24:59,439
Speaker 1: mm hmm. Yeah. Okay, so you know what you said. One,

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01:24:59,600 --> 01:25:05,680
Speaker 1: let's the one. Add one okay, plus one? Okay, so

1397
01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:08,639
Speaker 1: this is what you did. This is what you told me, right.

1398
01:25:08,720 --> 01:25:13,000
Speaker 1: I couldn't predict all it, And I told you that

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01:25:13,200 --> 01:25:15,760
Speaker 1: I wrote something on my calculator on my cell phone

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01:25:15,800 --> 01:25:20,519
Speaker 1: before we started, and it's still here, right, I want

1401
01:25:20,520 --> 01:25:27,160
Speaker 1: to show it to you. It's one seven to eight

1402
01:25:27,479 --> 01:25:33,200
Speaker 1: four two. Can you add this number to this whole score?

1403
01:25:34,080 --> 01:25:39,800
Speaker 1: Add that number to the ok Yeah, I definitely mess

1404
01:25:39,880 --> 01:25:41,920
Speaker 1: up on my calculator somewhere along the line, but I'm

1405
01:25:41,960 --> 01:25:44,320
Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna continue and if it's off, then we're

1406
01:25:44,320 --> 01:25:47,040
Speaker 1: going to READD and it's okay, We're going to figure

1407
01:25:47,040 --> 01:25:49,800
Speaker 1: this out. Okay. Let me see hold that close close

1408
01:25:49,920 --> 01:25:56,760
Speaker 1: to the screen. Okay, so that's our number plus one

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01:25:57,000 --> 01:26:06,320
Speaker 1: two eight four two three six zero. Okay, can you

1410
01:26:06,360 --> 01:26:14,760
Speaker 1: show me this score? I must have messed up. What

1411
01:26:14,760 --> 01:26:16,880
Speaker 1: what do you want me to show you? Cell phone

1412
01:26:20,800 --> 01:26:24,120
Speaker 1: makes you it's close to the camera. This is the

1413
01:26:24,160 --> 01:26:30,639
Speaker 1: score of all of it. Something happened. Something happened. Okay,

1414
01:26:30,720 --> 01:26:32,639
Speaker 1: let's add let me add up start at the beginning,

1415
01:26:33,680 --> 01:26:39,320
Speaker 1: real continue everything. Look at Danielle. Danielle, they're all making

1416
01:26:39,320 --> 01:26:42,240
Speaker 1: fun of me. Guys. You know sometimes to add the

1417
01:26:42,280 --> 01:26:45,400
Speaker 1: AD button that something happens and you forgot that you

1418
01:26:45,400 --> 01:26:48,080
Speaker 1: pressed the AD button a couple of times before entering

1419
01:26:48,080 --> 01:26:52,799
Speaker 1: the new number. Thank you, thank you. Sixty two plus?

1420
01:26:54,160 --> 01:27:01,120
Speaker 1: Is that eight one after me? Okay? Right, you know, Candle,

1421
01:27:01,840 --> 01:27:04,160
Speaker 1: I feel like she is the left brainer of all

1422
01:27:04,200 --> 01:27:15,080
Speaker 1: of us. We'll see, okay, eight four two eight four

1423
01:27:15,280 --> 01:27:21,240
Speaker 1: two three six zero. I had it from here here

1424
01:27:21,320 --> 01:27:24,120
Speaker 1: in the start of Okay, do I have a number?

1425
01:27:24,920 --> 01:27:30,960
Speaker 1: It's uh to one zero seven three four zero six eight.

1426
01:27:32,240 --> 01:27:35,400
Speaker 1: When I told the producer to bring an envelope with

1427
01:27:35,479 --> 01:27:43,000
Speaker 1: the number, it can't be. It's impossible. It's impossible. Well,

1428
01:27:43,320 --> 01:27:46,280
Speaker 1: we just all separately came up with a whole number.

1429
01:27:47,080 --> 01:27:50,320
Speaker 1: Random open it. I want to show you what I

1430
01:27:50,360 --> 01:27:52,880
Speaker 1: had in my envelope from the start of the show.

1431
01:27:54,439 --> 01:27:57,000
Speaker 1: He's going to show us first. We should open at

1432
01:27:57,000 --> 01:27:59,000
Speaker 1: the same time. Oh god, oh my gosh. I can

1433
01:27:59,000 --> 01:28:08,360
Speaker 1: already see it. It will be the number yes for

1434
01:28:08,760 --> 01:28:14,960
Speaker 1: zero six, aid exactly. That is insane, guys, I've mind blown.

1435
01:28:15,320 --> 01:28:18,400
Speaker 1: I believe in everything now, you know, like everything in

1436
01:28:18,439 --> 01:28:22,160
Speaker 1: this life. I believe that actually blows my mind. I'm

1437
01:28:22,200 --> 01:28:27,200
Speaker 1: only science staying it is the score, but it's not

1438
01:28:27,320 --> 01:28:30,639
Speaker 1: just the score. You created discumber and this is the Bachelor.

1439
01:28:30,960 --> 01:28:40,599
Speaker 1: Oh my wait, so when you turn it around, why

1440
01:28:40,720 --> 01:28:43,240
Speaker 1: in the world are you guys you need to screen

1441
01:28:43,280 --> 01:28:47,200
Speaker 1: record that? Are we screen recording this up on our Instagram?

1442
01:28:47,240 --> 01:28:51,240
Speaker 1: And a yeah, we can do it. Wow, you're inside

1443
01:28:51,280 --> 01:28:54,240
Speaker 1: my brain, you guys, we just came up with the

1444
01:28:54,439 --> 01:28:59,000
Speaker 1: Bachelor in number four. Actually really blows my banks. I

1445
01:28:59,040 --> 01:29:01,160
Speaker 1: have no idea how that up. You guys if you're

1446
01:29:01,240 --> 01:29:05,839
Speaker 1: interested in what we're seeing, because like, yes, numbers can

1447
01:29:06,000 --> 01:29:08,479
Speaker 1: in your head look like letters, and he created and

1448
01:29:08,640 --> 01:29:11,639
Speaker 1: we apparently all came up with numbers that looked like

1449
01:29:11,760 --> 01:29:13,599
Speaker 1: the Bachelor. When you turn it around and we're going

1450
01:29:13,640 --> 01:29:18,400
Speaker 1: to put it up on our Instagram, yeah, that's actually

1451
01:29:18,439 --> 01:29:22,920
Speaker 1: pretty crazy. I have to say you have been our

1452
01:29:23,160 --> 01:29:29,960
Speaker 1: most fascinating guests in all of five years. So congratulations

1453
01:29:30,040 --> 01:29:34,040
Speaker 1: and thank you, Yes, thank you. That was incredible. Just

1454
01:29:34,200 --> 01:29:37,679
Speaker 1: like a quick message to tell everyone keep thinking good

1455
01:29:37,680 --> 01:29:39,760
Speaker 1: and positive thoughts because you can never know who might

1456
01:29:39,840 --> 01:29:45,639
Speaker 1: do with them. What I think this podcast. Thank you

1457
01:29:45,840 --> 01:29:49,280
Speaker 1: so so much. You are truly amazing. Where can people

1458
01:29:49,320 --> 01:29:52,040
Speaker 1: find you and where can we come see you? Are

1459
01:29:52,040 --> 01:29:54,960
Speaker 1: you going on a tour of the US? Yeah, I

1460
01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:57,280
Speaker 1: am going on tour in ther Us from the tenth

1461
01:29:57,360 --> 01:29:59,920
Speaker 1: of June. I'll be there at four and I'm coming

1462
01:30:00,000 --> 01:30:02,960
Speaker 1: again and again. It should follow me on Instagram. It's

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Speaker 1: ethn affoia mentalist and if you own affoida mentalist and

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Speaker 1: that's it. Thank you too, fun, thank you so amazing,

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Speaker 1: Thank you. That was great. That was so great. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I could make a little bit more logic if like

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Speaker 1: there was some sort of energy vibes in the room.

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Speaker 1: But the fact that that guy, he put these numbers

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Speaker 1: together before he even saw our faces or even knew

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Speaker 1: that the three of us were going to sit down today,

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Speaker 1: you guys were you know, there's We've got lots of

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Speaker 1: girls here and we think they chose you guys for

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01:30:36,960 --> 01:30:40,840
Speaker 1: this mentalist interview. He did not know. That's okay. I

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Speaker 1: was just thinking of numbers on the fly, even I

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Speaker 1: didnt even know the numbers were. When I was saying that,

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Speaker 1: I was like, is that six three a fortune teller

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Speaker 1: or a mind reader? I want him to be. I

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Speaker 1: want him to tell my fortune if he is a fortune.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to imagine dating him. Imagine You're like, I'm

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Speaker 1: not even say it, I'm just gonna think it. He's like,

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Speaker 1: how do you think the evil thing about me? Oh

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Speaker 1: my goodness. All right, Well, the guys check that guy out.

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Speaker 1: I mean check him out. I'm so jealous. You guys

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01:31:13,400 --> 01:31:15,120
Speaker 1: live in l as that you can go see him.

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01:31:15,160 --> 01:31:17,920
Speaker 1: I needs to make a special, special trip out. This

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Speaker 1: guy needs his own podcast. Amy follow the Benn and

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Speaker 1: Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on iHeart Radio, or subscribe

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