1 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: What is it's lip service to Angela? Yee, I'm g McGuire, 2 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: I'm Mariah and Tammy Rivera is here. Very sweet Tammy Rivera, 3 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 1: thank you. She came in here killing it. I know 4 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 1: it's fast. I got another event to go to. Yeah, 5 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: I saw you in the All Red and everything. Yeah, 6 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: I love it. I just I just love this. Can 7 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: we c Yeah? I just love this ship because you 8 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: are a stylist, so let's never forget that. Yeah, so 9 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: I comes from That's what comes from, you know, originally, 10 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 1: But I just love it. Do you love the fact 11 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: that now you sit in like the front row because 12 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: think about starting starting out as a stylist and how 13 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: much things have changed for you. Yeah. I remember I 14 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 1: was just telling them last when it was Mercedes Bands 15 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: Fast Week and I came and I came to the show, 16 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:51,559 Speaker 1: not like, oh wait in bed, but I didn't give 17 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: a damn because I was like, and I feel like 18 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: where I want to be? So where do you you 19 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: need to be? Front row? I mean next to Anna 20 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: win tour? No, I need to be walking down the 21 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: aisle presenting my own clothes and the front right because 22 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: you have the bathing their bathing suits. Yeah, I have 23 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 1: this one Suitlion, and that's been doing really really really good. 24 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 1: And you have your new song all these Kisses, and 25 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 1: you did a video. Did you pick the leading guy 26 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: or how does that work? No? They wouldn't let me 27 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: pay go. But I was like, I told him by 28 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: the stripe, described to them what I wanted and they 29 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 1: found him. But he was good. He's a guy, he's 30 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: what was that description? Did you see? Daddy? I said? 31 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: I wanted him to be tall, chocolate, tattoos, post cut, walcat. Also, 32 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: everything is right. When would your leading guy be? If 33 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: you had to describe your leading guy each rest album? 34 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: Definitely tall and dark? How come no one said short? 35 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: I'm mean nobody says when not sure? Height is me? 36 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: So we can say you're tall? I'm sure you don't 37 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: want to don't know? I want tall? Oh, I'm like, wait, 38 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: what's going on? Yeah? No, but yeah, tall and dark? 39 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: You know tattoos is it's fine? I like, um, how 40 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: come to its light skin? I don't like lighting? Look 41 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: at us? You know cousins like camelt I guess right, 42 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: don't you lightful? Like man? That's how I feel? First 43 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: of all, like no discrimination to the Yellow brothers but 44 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: me personally, I need a little bit of flavor to 45 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: dilute this mix, you know, swirl it on up because 46 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:52,520 Speaker 1: I'm light enough. Yeah, that's right. I probably only dated 47 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: one light skinned guy and my whole life I dated 48 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: a couple. But like I mean, well because compared to me, 49 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: like you're saying data, that fucked, because it's a different 50 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 1: It was my great friend, but he's like my complexion. 51 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,799 Speaker 1: But like all the other guys I've dated is probably 52 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: like light brown skin or darker. I've never dated a 53 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 1: light skin guy. My husband's the lightest and he hood 54 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: his house. You get have passed when you got like 55 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: getting soft. My ex was He's from Cameroon and was 56 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: dark just like black. He s went his eyes when 57 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 1: he takes pictures the exes when I'm so black that 58 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: he was blue. It's called blue. Now, what's the difference. 59 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: We were talking about this between dating and fucking, because 60 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: some people mistake those two like they think if I'm 61 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: having sex with you, i'm dating you. Oh we have sex, 62 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: were dating? I mean, I'm just just me. I've always 63 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: been in relationships like I've been. I was people like 64 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: people and I was married. Um when I was to 65 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 1: my daughter's father. I was with him for ten years. 66 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: He was like my first boyfriend. How old were you 67 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: when you got married nineteen nineteen? Damn? Yeah, I was 68 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: nineteen and I got a friend. I mean when I 69 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: got married. I had my daughter when I was twenty. 70 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: So did you guys get married because you were pregnant 71 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 1: And it was like, Okay, this is what we need 72 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: to do. Girl. No, my family get they don't give it. 73 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 1: There un't. I just thought I was he was my first. 74 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 1: Like I was with him since I was third fourteen 75 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: thirteen or something like that, and um like it was 76 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: one for ten years. So it was just like, you know, 77 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: the right thing to do. I guess we just felt 78 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: like we were in love or whatever. But um yeah, 79 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: not that that. I had two relationships after that. Um 80 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: So everybody that I had sex with I was in 81 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: a relationship with. Right if I'm having sex with you, 82 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: we did, we go together? We go together? I like, damn, 83 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: you love you? You? What made you get divorced with that? 84 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 1: The last with my ex, Uh, it's a piece of 85 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: relationship just wasn't healthy. I just thought it. You know, 86 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:52,919 Speaker 1: I didn't growup with the father, so I thought you 87 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 1: know certain things were loved, but then when you get 88 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 1: to a point where you get older, you like hold up, 89 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: nig at this thing about right, this thing right? So yeah, 90 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: it was to control and just you know, it was 91 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: just too much. But I don't even blame him because 92 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: he was young, so he's just going off of what 93 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 1: he feels. So I tell people like, even though it 94 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 1: was abusing for me, but I still don't blame him 95 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 1: because he was a childish health You guys are trying 96 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 1: to figure it out. So you think if you're arguing 97 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: all the time and he's controlling, that's because he loves me. 98 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:20,720 Speaker 1: I thought like even he with his hands on me, 99 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: I thought that was love. Like I was like, oh 100 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 1: that's you know, he like he loved me, Like, but what, 101 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell was? Then you'l had 102 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: to be younger. You know, so many people go through 103 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: that though, because you don't know. You just feel like 104 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 1: when a man show you that type of love is like, 105 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: oh he really cares because especially after when he's so 106 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: sorry and he's yeah, both crying. But once I got 107 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: over that girl was like I couldn't nigga, couldn't he 108 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: barely raise his voice at me, like no control and 109 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 1: like like I could I never could there anyone who 110 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 1: would even tell me what to do or try to 111 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: talk down on me or anything. It actually affects you 112 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: later on in life though. Now I feel you because 113 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: I think my dad always used to yell at my 114 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: mom all the time. So now if you raise your 115 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: voice at me, um, it's like a bad red flag 116 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 1: to That's what Walking used to tell. He's like, I'm 117 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 1: not talking down on you. And it was for years 118 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 1: I had so I realized like, Okay, yeah, maybe I'll 119 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 1: be tripping because I just like he could say one 120 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: thing like man, baby, you'll cook them. Well, oh I 121 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 1: don't cook no more, Like okay, you're talking down on me. 122 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: He's like you really don't cook nor so you become 123 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: like a little sensitive because you're so used to. Even 124 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: when we would play sometimes like we would play and 125 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 1: he would like jump to fest, I would like kind 126 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: of flinching. He's like walk, He's like baby, stop, He's 127 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: like oh like he would catch himself like we'll be playing, 128 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: but my reaction wild just be like He's like oh 129 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: my god, baby, like don't don't do that, like make 130 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm about to do something. Yeah, He's like, 131 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: what's wrong? Like why you It really hurt him to 132 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: see me. I didn't think of it like that because 133 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: it was just reaction. It's like, but I'm not there. 134 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not. It ain't that seriously, like you know, 135 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: I just He's like, no, it is. You just don't know, 136 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: Like that looks crazy? What was the final straw then 137 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:08,039 Speaker 1: that made you finally be like you know what? And why? 138 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 1: What's your first marriage? What was I was just I 139 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: was just done, like I didn't know who I was, like, 140 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: I just looked at I just looked crazy. I just 141 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: didn't feel I wasn't confident in myself. And I think 142 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: I remember he he cheated or I found out he 143 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: cheated or something, and that was just like this is 144 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: your way out right. I was like, oh, nigga, I'm gone. 145 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: I had never coming home. So when I left and 146 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: I'm from Baltimore, and when I started hanging out my 147 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: friends and people like damn, like where are you from, shorty? 148 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: And I'm like I'm Freere. They're like yeah, no, like 149 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: I've never seen you. I'm like, I'm from here. But 150 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: once I got out and I started dating this guy, 151 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, nigga, I ain't coming back. 152 00:07:58,160 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: It doesn't mean that the next guy you dated to 153 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: it you way better and was completely different, like they 154 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: had like five or six months. It was just he 155 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 1: was just had a lot of money, and I was 156 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: he was just like just wanted me to do whatever 157 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: I wanted to do, like enjoy yourself, like just you young, 158 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: you just you know, live your life whatever. And I 159 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 1: was like, cool, this is this is pretty cool. It's 160 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: good right here. I just went the same person for 161 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 1: a while, so it's probably good to get a taste 162 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: of something new, right. So yeah, I was I just 163 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: thought that that was all. Guess all, I knew that 164 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: that's all it is, like it's just that person. And 165 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: then when you get out, like boy like then you 166 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: look back like you're really a clown. But that's what 167 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: I always say. When you're dating somebody and they treat 168 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 1: you really fucked up, and then you finally break up, 169 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: and then you look you always look back and you're 170 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: like what you h But you can't see it while 171 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: you're in it. And so it's so important when you 172 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:00,199 Speaker 1: get that opportunity to leave. That's the hardest part is 173 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:03,199 Speaker 1: really just leaving and then taking it like day by day, 174 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 1: every day it gets a little bit easier, but the 175 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:07,199 Speaker 1: hardest part is just making that commitment to be like, 176 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: all right, I'm done with this. And you know, I 177 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 1: felt bad because when we separated, we are Everybody's like 178 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:14,959 Speaker 1: he was going to the real rough time and everybody's 179 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: like dammy, And I felt bad and I was like 180 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 1: to the point where I was willing to go back, 181 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: but I was like, if you go back, you're gonna 182 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 1: be You can even go back and be miserable and 183 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: make him happy or leave be happy, and he eventually 184 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 1: find happiness. And I was like I couldn't do it. 185 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: I was just like, I just can't do it the more. 186 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 1: And being that you have a child together, how is 187 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:38,959 Speaker 1: he now? Because you still have to be in contact 188 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: with him, It's clears ever we don't communicate the worst 189 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 1: communication never, Like it's like such a grudge there, Like 190 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 1: he hates me. He see you out here flourishing, right, 191 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: he hates me, hateslowed up and he then glowed. Yeah. 192 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: It's like guys, but for my daughter, you know what 193 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, I just like it's so frustrating, frustrating 194 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 1: sometimes to have to Like he lives in Maryland, I 195 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: lives in Atlanta. I live in Atlanta, and um, I 196 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: have full custody, but she goes on like once a month, 197 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:14,079 Speaker 1: and she go on summer. So it's it's hard to 198 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:15,959 Speaker 1: do that, Like you know what I'm saying, Like, the 199 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: communication is nothing, So we communicate through an app. At 200 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: least your daughter is old enough that she can communicate 201 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: with you directly because it has to be heard. And 202 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 1: when she's young, Yeah, when she's young, she didn't know better, 203 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 1: so you couldn't. She didn't know. Now she's getting older 204 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: and she starts to see things and she kind of 205 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 1: like she starts to see like the little pettiness and 206 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: things that he might say to her due to her 207 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: that she knows. It's because it's a reflection to me, 208 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:41,959 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like, so she's she's my 209 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: baby's twelve now, so she's got a baby. She's not 210 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:49,599 Speaker 1: but she's like, you know, she's very mature. Yeah. What 211 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 1: about him and Waka did they ever have a conversation. 212 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,839 Speaker 1: He's Walker's reached out to him numerous of times. He's 213 00:10:55,120 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: never spoke to Walking he's better about to say, woman, 214 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 1: it's not a heavy man, it's just upset all right. Now, Normally, 215 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: normally we start off with the tip of the day, 216 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: but we didn't start still. We're gonna get to that 217 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: right now, alright. So uh now, we get this question 218 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: all the time from guys. We have this advice thing 219 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: that we do, and people want to ask, how do 220 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: you get your girl back after you cheated? What works 221 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:26,839 Speaker 1: and what doesn't work? Because there's so many guys out 222 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 1: there that mess up and don't know, like what can 223 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: I do to get my girl back? And we get 224 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 1: this question like NonStop. So let's talk about that for 225 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: all of us. When somebody cheating you and we know 226 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 1: you got cheated on, and but you start damn anybody 227 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: in this room, but we all but we all have 228 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 1: been you know, honestly, yours was just very public obviously. 229 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: But what does work? Because there's a lot of guys 230 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 1: who mess up, right and they're girl is like, I'm 231 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: not working with you anymore, But what works and what 232 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 1: doesn't work when it comes to get your girl back? 233 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: For me personally, I would say I don't think it's 234 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:08,439 Speaker 1: what they do. It's really I mean it can be 235 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 1: what they do, but it's really a woman knows, like 236 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 1: really if she's just completely done. Like I'm a leo, 237 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 1: I'm loyal to by default, but when I'm completely done, 238 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 1: I'm like done. Um. Which when I when we separated, 239 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: I was just like I was like by like, just 240 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: don't come back, don't come my house like this, leave 241 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: me alone. Like he was not go away. He was 242 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 1: coming to that. Yeah, he would not go away. And 243 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: then not even let him. I said, Okay, this is 244 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do to get him go away. I'm 245 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 1: gonna let him come in here, and I'm gonna let 246 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 1: him mess herself up. So I just kept my wall up. 247 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: I was just like what the first thing he did 248 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:48,679 Speaker 1: and then getting the funk out he wouldn't. I mean, 249 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 1: it was so consistent. I thought it was a yeah, 250 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: like I thought it was an act. I was so 251 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: mean to the point that everybody was like, yo, you 252 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,439 Speaker 1: really being like you're really a bit like and I'm 253 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: not like that. I can to you being mean, like 254 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: what's mean? Yeah? Girl, I was just I just didn't care, 255 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 1: like I would just say anything, do anything. I was 256 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: just and then he was like damn. I was like 257 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 1: when you can get the funk out, yeah, like you know, 258 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 1: and he would just eat it like he was just constant, 259 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:23,559 Speaker 1: and he just came I know, I wouldn't even have 260 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: touched me, like he had to say in Charlie Room. 261 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: I just didn't want nothing to do with him. I 262 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 1: was like, I'm like, I'm just done. I would trying 263 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 1: to find reasons. I'm like, maybe if I'm real nasty 264 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,439 Speaker 1: and mean, he'll leave. And then he was just like 265 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 1: because when we separated, I the last thing I told 266 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: him was I was like, I promise, I said, I 267 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: swear to God, on my child's life, I would never 268 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:45,439 Speaker 1: love you the same. I was like, it's done. So 269 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: that stuck in my head. Was like a lot of him, 270 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 1: like a lot of myself. I can't lot to God, 271 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:50,599 Speaker 1: you know, not on my child. But I was so 272 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 1: angry at the moment. I was like, I promised to God, 273 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: I would never love you the same. So when he 274 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: came back and I house and he was like one 275 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:56,599 Speaker 1: day we got into and I was like, listen, I 276 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 1: met what I was saying there, like I would never 277 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: love you the same, and he was like, I know 278 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 1: you won't. He's like because you don't love me more. 279 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 1: He practiced that if I was like this, she told 280 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: me that he like, there's nothing I can say because 281 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, if I do love him, and which 282 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,679 Speaker 1: in the end ended up happening, like and part of 283 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 1: it is your daughter because they had such a great relationship. 284 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: He's it made it so hard for you to be 285 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 1: like because she was like telling you, yeah, she I mean, 286 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: she don't see no no wrong in him, like she 287 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 1: loves him to death. But what I can't say is 288 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 1: even throughout our whole separation, he's like never he picked 289 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 1: her up from school, he dropped her off, and everybody 290 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 1: know that's not his biological child. But that I mean, 291 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 1: there is no blood couldn't make them. So that's interesting 292 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: because you told you let him come. Now, this is 293 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 1: something that guys have to learn when they sunk up. 294 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: If I let you back in, don't do nothing wrong 295 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: and just understand the fact that I'm gonna treat you 296 00:14:54,360 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 1: like shit. Yeah yeah, but you know sometimes when you're 297 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 1: so damaged, that don't work down there, like I made it, 298 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 1: like how you said it. Now you're saying it, I'm confused. 299 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 1: She was saying, take it somewhere else. No, I don't 300 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: just shop sometimes that don't work. No, it don't like me. 301 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 1: I'm even like, I'm not gonna come. I don't care 302 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 1: what you think, Jody, I'm not gonna I love you. 303 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: I have an attitude when you're having sex and you're 304 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 1: mad as Hell's like, yeah, I'm just sucking lay hair'd 305 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 1: a hell, I'm not making annoy next thing though, you 306 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 1: forgive me. He was like, Bro, you gotta say I 307 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 1: don't catch my nu rude, like, I don't care, I 308 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 1: don't care, I need it now. What doesn't work if 309 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: you have to give guys, if it's like for when 310 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: they're trying to get back after they sucked up. What 311 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 1: doesn't work blaming? Tell me what I did wrong? Right? Yeah? Yeah, trying? 312 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: I just suck up. Because during that time you was, 313 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: you would talk to the don't want nothing, bring up 314 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 1: the older ship before I met you. You you know 315 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: you know you love me. So we're just gonna get 316 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: through this. What get yeah exactly all right, So excuses 317 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 1: does not work. You gotta just admit I sucked up 318 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 1: and just take it and don't blame sh on me, 319 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 1: don't blame I don't give a damn If what it was. 320 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: Don't play Okay, we had sex and too much. Don't 321 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 1: tell me why you wouldn't give me no pussy. I 322 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: don't care. I want to hear nothing. But that is 323 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 1: kind of sucked up? All right? What else doesn't work? Um? 324 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 1: And what? All right? No we didn't finish what does work? 325 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 1: Because you said basically he was very consistent, he said, 326 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 1: was in contact obviously, you know, with your daughter and 327 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: picking her up and doing all of that stuff and 328 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: just letting you treat him like ship. Yeah, he just 329 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: won't go away. Okay, but he really he really changed, 330 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 1: Like I can't show improved like he Yeah, you really 331 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 1: have to like consistently like change, like he really changed. 332 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 1: Like the guy he is now is not the guy 333 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 1: that he was like a minute. He's changed. And it 334 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 1: was suck to putting all that work for somebody else 335 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 1: to benefit. But I think sometimes you can't think like that. 336 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 1: You just be like so like I used to think 337 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: like that, like I ain't gonna like benefit. I'm girl. 338 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 1: I got to a like girl having have everything to 339 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: take my ship, my shoes all because I'm done because 340 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: we've all taken back and cheating guys so lurial Oh God, 341 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:51,439 Speaker 1: what worked. We'll work for you because we're giving these 342 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 1: guys advice because maybe some of them are changing too, 343 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 1: that are listening. I think like you sat being consistent, 344 00:17:57,400 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 1: Like that's a big key. It's like if you keep 345 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 1: trying to show that you care, you change you and 346 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:04,399 Speaker 1: not even that you change, because I don't believe that 347 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: somebody's gonna change just in one day, one week, that 348 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: you're willing to change, that you're gonna put in an effort, 349 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: you know what I mean something like that, Like everybody 350 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 1: makes mistakes, so you can't expect somebody to never do 351 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:19,680 Speaker 1: nothing wrong. But at the same time, I think it's 352 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 1: like the main thing is like all right, they might 353 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 1: have cheated or whatever, but what they're disrespecting you in 354 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 1: a way where it's like, all right, you you could 355 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: find a picture, or you could find this, or you 356 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: could find I know. That's what makes it. I think 357 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:35,119 Speaker 1: that's what makes it works for us, because if we 358 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 1: find out something that maybe they sucked somebody when they 359 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 1: was on the boys trip, you know last year, one 360 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 1: of the boys, not one of the boys. First of all, 361 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: you don't never have to call me again. Ain't no 362 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 1: forgiving that So okay, you can't forget oh boy, No, 363 00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: but you have some women that take men back when 364 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 1: they found out that they would other gods are transgender. 365 00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:05,920 Speaker 1: It's different. See. No, I don't think we talked about 366 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 1: that insecure incident a little bit when he said he 367 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 1: did something in college. Boy. Yeah that's a boy damnien 368 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 1: like two is one time, so what you would you 369 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: wouldn't mess with him? No more? Hell no, but that 370 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: was mad long ago. He never did nothing again. No, 371 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,640 Speaker 1: I just wanted to can't do that. I don't want 372 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: to be in that situation. So I don't even because nigga, 373 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 1: you you like, I don't care what you say you 374 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 1: liked it, because a man, I can't do for you. 375 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,200 Speaker 1: A man, A man knows how they like. They think, 376 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 1: you know, suck the tap. But what do you think 377 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 1: it was? Like? I didn't really like it, man, that 378 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: beard was I came in his beard and looked weird. 379 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 1: But you didn't even for you to even think that 380 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 1: that was like appropriate, Like no, shade, no to so 381 00:19:53,440 --> 00:20:00,560 Speaker 1: you never mess for any girls who met me. I 382 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: didn't say that. I'm still experiencing life, but that doesn't 383 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: mean No'm I am curious okay, I'm curious, but I 384 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 1: don't know that's okay. I know I'm not gay. I 385 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,639 Speaker 1: could never girl. I don't even like females enough like 386 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 1: that to be living with one, right right? So what 387 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:21,120 Speaker 1: if he said that he's like, well, I don't really 388 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 1: like guys. Yeah, that's okay. Would you got to have 389 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:28,840 Speaker 1: a gay daughter or gay sun? Damn, that's sucked up. 390 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. I love either one, just saying oh, yeah, 391 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 1: that's the perfect here we know that. Yeah, does my 392 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:53,440 Speaker 1: son do here? Here? Too? Does he makes are so selfish? 393 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:59,399 Speaker 1: You have a answer for the Yeah, so Jesus. I 394 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 1: agree with both Tammy and Loriol said, But I want 395 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:07,640 Speaker 1: to add to that that UM taking accountability for your actions. 396 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,160 Speaker 1: Put you're all out on the table taking it, taking 397 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 1: accountability for your actions and sincerely apologizing as well as, 398 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:19,159 Speaker 1: like you said, he changed and was persistent and all 399 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 1: of that. I think a nice A nice get nice 400 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 1: along with two you know that, a little bonus round, 401 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 1: but definitely UM admitting your faults and and and taking 402 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 1: responsibility for your action times that can hurt you, because 403 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 1: I I tell you, when we he was like, I'm 404 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,359 Speaker 1: I'm gonna put it all out on the table, gonna. 405 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: He gave me an iPad, he's delete nothing. I see 406 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 1: every damn why did he do that? Should have now? 407 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 1: I didn't say on yourself. I just said, admit that 408 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:54,639 Speaker 1: you was wrong. Did you want to know all that? 409 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 1: A part of me did. But then when I've seen it, 410 00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 1: I was like why because he already he admitted, so 411 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:03,680 Speaker 1: he like, just if you if you want to know, 412 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 1: like just take it. And I was like, why the 413 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: fund did I take this outfare? So it was so 414 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,639 Speaker 1: funny because I was like reading it and I was like, 415 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 1: I said, okay, just leave me alone, don't say nothing 416 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:18,399 Speaker 1: to me. And I guess he was downstairs like patient 417 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 1: and I'm going through. So he came out. I said, 418 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 1: get the funk away from that door. He was like 419 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 1: okay and like and I was just like why did 420 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:31,920 Speaker 1: I do this? Like why? Girl? Right? Everything? But that's 421 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,880 Speaker 1: why it was so, That's why it was so mean. 422 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,400 Speaker 1: That's why it was so hard to take him back, 423 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,640 Speaker 1: Like it was so hard. Even when we got back, 424 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 1: I was still like so guarded, like he was like 425 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 1: I know that you're you're not You're like you're not 426 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 1: Tammy yet, like you know you still bring it up 427 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 1: to this day, like I stopped that. Okay, I stopped 428 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 1: that a long time, Like it took a minute for 429 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: us to get to a point where I was just 430 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 1: like I just started practicing positive energy and it really works, 431 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 1: like putting you know, uh, putting things out there or 432 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,920 Speaker 1: not trying to speak or even thinking it because when 433 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: you think it. I remember, I used to have dreams. 434 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 1: I swear to girl. I used to know where he 435 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 1: would do something too. But I would have a bad 436 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 1: dream like Ms Cleo had that premonition. I would wake 437 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: up with and he I know, I know when he lied. 438 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:23,040 Speaker 1: I know I know him. You know even someone you 439 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,159 Speaker 1: just know them. And I would say something like you 440 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 1: know we petty, we'll just say a little shit you 441 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: did that somebody telling me you wasn't. I would just 442 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:32,880 Speaker 1: say something like like if I knew this, Okay, say 443 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: you were in Miami with a girl. I was like 444 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 1: at a certain spot, I'm like, oh yeah, because my 445 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 1: whole girl was that um la la lose. He'll be like, yeah, 446 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 1: you remember that, And they don't say nothing. I'm petty. 447 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:49,719 Speaker 1: I let it murdin it for like a whole day 448 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 1: or two. He walking on egg do you happen to 449 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 1: know where that is? Right? Have you seen that before 450 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 1: he was tagged in the picture. I would say none 451 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 1: of that. I would just I didn't sit. So where's 452 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 1: though he think I miss like premeditated? Like girl, I'm 453 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 1: one of those ones like that. You would call and 454 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 1: I'll just put the evidence together, forensic agent, girl, I 455 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 1: get it together real fast. That's good though, that y'all managed. 456 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 1: I mean, because it's a lot. Okay, now let's talk 457 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 1: about things that don't work. This is what you should 458 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,119 Speaker 1: not do when you're trying to get back, what you 459 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 1: should not do. I think. I think it's never a 460 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 1: good idea to leave somebody alone if you're trying to 461 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,400 Speaker 1: get back with them. Sometimes people you tell him, leave 462 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:31,679 Speaker 1: me alone, leave me alone. That's not a great idea 463 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,880 Speaker 1: to really, for real, leave her alone if you're really 464 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 1: trying to get back. Because too much, especially if you're mad, 465 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,119 Speaker 1: you start doing things that maybe you wouldn't have normally 466 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: did just because you're angry. They have to stay like 467 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 1: in your faith or not even just yeah, you have 468 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: to stroke my eagle because you know, some guys in 469 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,160 Speaker 1: their head they think, well, she's so mad, I might 470 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:55,040 Speaker 1: do for some time to chill. That's the worst thing 471 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 1: to do, because that's time to chill, time for me 472 00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:02,680 Speaker 1: to and not only that, it would make me feel like, well, damn, 473 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,160 Speaker 1: you really didn't care that much to try to put 474 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 1: out for for for get me not to leave because 475 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 1: you just let me go right like, and then you 476 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 1: start thinking about what then is he doing? Yeah? Like, Also, 477 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,159 Speaker 1: don't be trying to post pictures like you're having a 478 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: good time girl. I hate that. I know you're playing 479 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 1: basketball over everybody in the background. You're like, look at 480 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: the Instagram. I always think of having fun. You just 481 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 1: want to be in the house. Fine, yeah, you're like, 482 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:35,399 Speaker 1: let me go out. Guys like me, you be posting 483 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:38,919 Speaker 1: a pictures on Instagram like I'll post a whole nigger. 484 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 1: Yeah that no, but that MCM is the best thing 485 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,119 Speaker 1: to do because it could be somebody that you know, 486 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 1: you don't even know or nothing like that. Yeah, but 487 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,679 Speaker 1: that will make them say Albert earlier, just to put 488 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 1: it out there. Yeah, I heard. I remember I like 489 00:25:56,119 --> 00:26:00,040 Speaker 1: the Love Interest. You like every time I watching me, Like, 490 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: I was like, I wasn't even looking at that. You 491 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 1: want to watch this movie because I'm like, nov you 492 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,399 Speaker 1: told on yourself though, because nobody even had was like 493 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 1: addressed about nowhere was like, that's not who I now 494 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,160 Speaker 1: what about? Do you ever run into any other women 495 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 1: like that you've seen on the iPad? I've never That's 496 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 1: the funny thing. Like, I've never had a girl ever 497 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,160 Speaker 1: approached me. I've never had to deal with like one 498 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 1: particular female. He was just yeah, just like that. That's 499 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 1: better than one particular person. I think. Okay, I would 500 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 1: say this. There's two sides of that. No, it's not 501 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 1: better because you like your whole like you just you 502 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 1: just bess with anybody. But then the flip side is 503 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 1: when I catch feelings for one person that can really relationship, Yeah, 504 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 1: you'd be like, oh you can't stop messing while that 505 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 1: would drive you nuts. So it's you know what, you think, 506 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 1: it's worse multiple women are one one. I think so too, 507 00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,440 Speaker 1: because it's more invested, it's more time, it's more effort, 508 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,479 Speaker 1: it's more of them being together. He's spreading it then, 509 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 1: then he spreading it then and he given them all 510 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 1: a little bit. But he just gives. But he might 511 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 1: have only seen one. It's probably more than one, but 512 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,199 Speaker 1: you just seen one because you see consistently. I've been 513 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,640 Speaker 1: the catcher because that happened to me, Like I caught 514 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 1: my ext sheeting on me, and I was saying, caught 515 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 1: him like walking on na, like on some Instagram ship 516 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:32,199 Speaker 1: like a dumb he had a girlfriend and she had 517 00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 1: posted a depiction on purpose. But yeah, because for some 518 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,880 Speaker 1: reason she felt like that was okay, or she felt 519 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 1: like she had one up, like she knew what it was, 520 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,440 Speaker 1: but she's like, oh, I got this pictures, you know, 521 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,399 Speaker 1: but then not knowing me not knowing it's probably was 522 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: about at the time. Well I didn't find out till later, 523 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:53,159 Speaker 1: but probably like five other bitches that had a similar picture. 524 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 1: So in my mind, I'm thinking, like, damn, this nig 525 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: is working with this one bit a background. It was 526 00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: most of holes, just like you know what I mean, 527 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 1: all it takes just because they took, Like the girl 528 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 1: has a picture in a car or something that don't 529 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,720 Speaker 1: make them in a relationship. But in your mind, when 530 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,639 Speaker 1: you see that ship and you keep looking at it, 531 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: have started a family. Dog. I think our minds get 532 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 1: to us more. Sorry because I got to walk up 533 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 1: like nigger, you don't answer the phone, RVID and place 534 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,640 Speaker 1: you with Tim bitches, right, that's crazy. But you don't 535 00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,920 Speaker 1: feel like that now, No, I don't. You got over that. 536 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 1: It took a while, you know, And I don't even 537 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 1: think it's just more so like just him. It's just 538 00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:36,119 Speaker 1: I have gotten into a place in my life. Nigga. 539 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 1: That's when you pretty happy. At this point, you probably 540 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,360 Speaker 1: scared his as shitless that he's not gonna take the 541 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 1: chance of going through that with you again because he 542 00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:45,800 Speaker 1: probably know at this point there there will be no return. 543 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 1: It ain't got the guys at your head with your acts. 544 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 1: You should know. You know what's got me in trouble. 545 00:28:53,600 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 1: That's the fact. I okay, so okay, I'm not gonna 546 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 1: name name. But it was a celebrity basketball game, and 547 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 1: you know I'm very competitive, and I was assistant coach 548 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: to fatch you on the team. And one of the 549 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 1: players on the team was like, listen, if I win, 550 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,239 Speaker 1: could you go ask Timmy if I could take her 551 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 1: on a date? And I said, well, you know, she's 552 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 1: in a relationship. He was like, I just want to 553 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 1: take her on one date. I said, okay, if you win, 554 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 1: but he shot that dunking on a little girl. But 555 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: I knew we wasn't gonna win because the other team 556 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 1: was stacked up against us. They had all kind of 557 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 1: ship going for us. But it was something incentive, Thank you, Tammy. 558 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 1: It wasn't centive. First we came close. Sometimes you got 559 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 1: to take and then afterward I told Tammy, I said, 560 00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 1: I just got to let you know I did promise 561 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 1: somebody a date. Yeah, but I'm very competitive. I'm charing 562 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 1: form and everything. I know. I'm just chairing part. Listen. 563 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 1: If we would have want I don't know what I 564 00:29:52,520 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 1: would have done date like I p her after the tea. 565 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: You're very girl. She would have had to style you 566 00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 1: for the day and just put some glasses on you. Listen. 567 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 1: We would have to do a lot more than that, 568 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 1: more of me. But I'm sure that even did you 569 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,480 Speaker 1: ever consider going out with somebody else, like while you 570 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: were single for that period of time. No, I didn't 571 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:23,120 Speaker 1: think about I mean, no conversations is different. I know 572 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 1: you have some fantastic options. It looks like that looked 573 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,400 Speaker 1: like he didn't give her a chance. He would like 574 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: killing me like either. I mean I saw he knew 575 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 1: that I was talking to people or whatever. It wasn't 576 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 1: nothing like like ever dating or no more than a 577 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: text or so. But I would never like go. I 578 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 1: didn't want to get shot at, like I like, you 579 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 1: won't want to fly you to Philippine. I want to 580 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 1: fly to the Philippines. There's people in the Philippine. That's 581 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 1: the thing though, when you guys messed up, but you 582 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,240 Speaker 1: don't understand that you're giving us a little bit of 583 00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 1: like space because gig Opportunity don't broke up and so 584 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 1: many guys wanted to talk to GG all that time, 585 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 1: and I know it's hard, like and then you start 586 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: feeling like, well, damn, this ain't over popping. Its nice. 587 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:19,960 Speaker 1: It was nice what this was mean? G Well, yeah 588 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,480 Speaker 1: it was what that fund It was nice when I 589 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 1: was initially single, if you know, in the beginning and 590 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 1: it was yourself. I am still single, but in bially 591 00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 1: you know, at first there was a large you know 592 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:37,280 Speaker 1: pop on coming, you know, trath warm. But you know, 593 00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 1: sometimes you let that breakup happen, and that's when guys 594 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 1: realizing how much they miss you for real. They just 595 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: realized somebody else about the slatting and take everything, take 596 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 1: the whole damn family, the mama, everybody else, Like they 597 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 1: don't realize with their head until they and got it 598 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 1: no more. That's true too, absolutely. I felt like it 599 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 1: does sometimes take certain people a while, like especially if 600 00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,600 Speaker 1: they're in a relationship where maybe it was like a lot, 601 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,560 Speaker 1: like you were together a lot and stuff like that. 602 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 1: I felt like sometimes their friends get in their head 603 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 1: and they're like, yeah, you go, you single, let's go o. 604 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 1: And then after a while, when the fun is wearing 605 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 1: down and their friends ain't over there all the time, 606 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 1: it started to be like my girlfriend, I saw you 607 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 1: posted a whole bunch of roses in the club and said, 608 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 1: you've got in so much trouble that night. Oh it 609 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 1: was in the club. Who get those roses? Who gave 610 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: me the roses in the club? Was holding them? I 611 00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 1: know you wasn't holding toy years roses. It was a 612 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 1: mess that night. It was that weekend. It was fun. 613 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: It was just like a whole bunch of a whole 614 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 1: bunch of moving parts. Yeah, like a whole bunch of stuff. 615 00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,600 Speaker 1: I was, you know, it was just they were just 616 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 1: coming like you know, like at your you know what 617 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,960 Speaker 1: guys know your think they know that immediately. It is 618 00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 1: just like I just started coming everywhere. Yeah, yeah, it's 619 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:18,560 Speaker 1: like anywhere. Yeah, exactly ridiculous, you know, like I like 620 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 1: out of here people were coming to like so I'm like, oh, 621 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 1: it was just crazy. It was crazy that do you 622 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 1: think being on reality TV and then just really like 623 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 1: just becoming because you really did become famous, you know 624 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 1: after doing that, like everybody knows who Tammy is now 625 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 1: we see you all the time, and I'm sure you 626 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: can't go anywhere, like life has changed so much, you 627 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 1: know for you do you think that that was hard 628 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 1: for him to take into. I think, uh, for like honestly, 629 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 1: I think for a moment it was like, um yeah, 630 00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:57,520 Speaker 1: because he had to share me walks a Gemini. He's 631 00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 1: like real protective. He's very old school, like keep believing. 632 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 1: I'm laughing because we was talking about signs. You're into that, right, 633 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 1: was looking at me like, I don't care about five 634 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,719 Speaker 1: date somebody based on their signs. I mean, I won't 635 00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,360 Speaker 1: go back a lot. But you know, it's so crazy. 636 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 1: I believe so much in the signs. Like my two 637 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:24,120 Speaker 1: exes were Geminis Gemini and her xs A Gemini. Oh 638 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:27,359 Speaker 1: my god, how does that work? To Geminis? She had 639 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:34,719 Speaker 1: twins meet Explo because I dated that. I've been in 640 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:39,759 Speaker 1: numerous long term relationships and they've all been Geminis and 641 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 1: it's all within the week of my birthday. That's gem 642 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yeah. And like my ex we were 643 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 1: together for seven years, he's a Gemini. A guy I 644 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:50,719 Speaker 1: dated after him had the same exact birthday as me, 645 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 1: and then I just randomly met someone that is in 646 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 1: that same week too. So it's just like like they 647 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:59,439 Speaker 1: come to you right, like you can't like your Yeah 648 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:01,719 Speaker 1: you got ain't feeling this, dude, what's your sign? Like 649 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 1: you like damn? Oh, like mine is damn you geminize Leo. 650 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 1: So that's not in the world. I thought it was Capricorn. 651 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 1: Oh no, Capricorn. Yeah, I think you heard it was 652 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:22,719 Speaker 1: Capricorn too, that we're the best. Oh yeah, no Capricorne. 653 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:27,440 Speaker 1: Is that happen? I've never heard that. Shout Jesus was 654 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 1: a Capricorn. So you so, um Loria said she wouldn't 655 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,120 Speaker 1: date somebody based on their sign. I mean, I'll say 656 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 1: it's a flag. I wouldn't say that. I'll just be like, no, 657 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,719 Speaker 1: never call me again. But I will always look at 658 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:44,359 Speaker 1: them like man as the Pisces, like yeah, yeah, you see. 659 00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:49,399 Speaker 1: You know, it's the best sign. Yeah, they're they're super cool. 660 00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 1: They usually act like female. They lie and they lie 661 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 1: and they lie. Gemini lie. Men of all signs like 662 00:35:55,400 --> 00:36:01,279 Speaker 1: men ciod about nothing all twelve signs. Yeah, you ain't 663 00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 1: never did nothing that you had to apologize for. You 664 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,759 Speaker 1: won't never step out I get caught doing anything. I've 665 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 1: never cheated. Let me say I've never cheated, but I 666 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 1: did not with my husband, but like in the past, 667 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 1: yeah I did. I don't think it's called cheating though. 668 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 1: Here we go. Let's see. Okay, I was with my 669 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 1: ex and I found out that he, you know, had 670 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 1: a whole little situation. So I was like, okay, well 671 00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,520 Speaker 1: you was dealing with somebody whatever. But I was talking 672 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 1: to this guy and he was like my friend. We 673 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 1: would like go on dates and stuff. I never slept 674 00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,759 Speaker 1: with him or nothing, but he would just got me 675 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,800 Speaker 1: stuff and we was just cool. And it was just 676 00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:46,839 Speaker 1: it is that cheating when I never got just as friends. 677 00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,480 Speaker 1: It's just inappropriate. Just how I did. I knew that 678 00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:51,799 Speaker 1: he was into me, but I just like, what up 679 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:56,640 Speaker 1: my nigga? Like home, yeah, yeah, we like that Gucci bag? 680 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,759 Speaker 1: What's good? And then man, my ex got back to 681 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:03,600 Speaker 1: other I would never forget and he um, I don't 682 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 1: know what made this dude text this, mind you, He's 683 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 1: never text nothing inappropriate to my phone. But as soon 684 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,160 Speaker 1: as I got that with my accent. Were on vacation, 685 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:12,880 Speaker 1: He's gonna say, will you gonna let me eat that? 686 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:22,279 Speaker 1: I'm like and then my ex no, I left my hap. 687 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,520 Speaker 1: I had nothing to hot, like you know what I'm saying. 688 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 1: So I left my phone in the room and I 689 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,120 Speaker 1: was like out with my cousins. I had nothing to hot. 690 00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:29,759 Speaker 1: And when I came back and he looked like a 691 00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,000 Speaker 1: demon and the dog he was like he was from 692 00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,960 Speaker 1: these He's like, yo, slim, I will kill you. I'm 693 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,799 Speaker 1: like what then? You know, when you do you think 694 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 1: your trouble. You started thinking stuff like that, what did 695 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 1: something I do? Like? What did I do? What did 696 00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 1: I do to like? I didn't do nothing? And then 697 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 1: he showed me that. I was like, yo, everything my nigga. 698 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,560 Speaker 1: This nigga never touched me. I'm like, I'll caohol And 699 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, why would you text me something like that? 700 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just felt like saying and I'm like, 701 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:55,640 Speaker 1: damneah Well, don't. Yeah, it was not the time. Did 702 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:57,640 Speaker 1: you cut him off after that or did you let 703 00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 1: him meet it next week? As soon as I get 704 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:07,440 Speaker 1: back right back, was like damn. But then when in 705 00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 1: my ex stop talking, we can't cool again. But he 706 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:16,879 Speaker 1: never eat it. Okay, that's what she told him. All 707 00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:19,279 Speaker 1: that kind of turned me off, Like, dude, he was tripping, Like, 708 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:23,920 Speaker 1: don't ask me about because we asked. So is that 709 00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:27,719 Speaker 1: cheating though? Letting somebody buy stuff that you know likes. 710 00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,000 Speaker 1: You shut your ass up, because if you're do was 711 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:35,760 Speaker 1: letting a girl buy him stuff, he was buying her stuff. 712 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,160 Speaker 1: First of all, he was buying her stuff if he 713 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,399 Speaker 1: was with a guy and he was buying another chick stuff, Okay, 714 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:45,840 Speaker 1: so now you buy some stuff. That's that's worse. Guys 715 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 1: can't do things that girls can't do, and vice versa 716 00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:52,800 Speaker 1: is to catch too. Absolutely, a guy can sleep with 717 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:55,640 Speaker 1: a bunch of women and it's okay in society, and 718 00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,279 Speaker 1: a girl can't. A girl can have sex we still 719 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,440 Speaker 1: and not be getting The guy can have sex with 720 00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:04,040 Speaker 1: a male and he's going to be a girl can 721 00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,640 Speaker 1: get gifts and then the girl can get gifts and 722 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,959 Speaker 1: then not be cheating. But a guy can't buy gifts 723 00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,440 Speaker 1: or else is cheating? Those are the rules? You care 724 00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,000 Speaker 1: about her because you bought hustle them. You took some 725 00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:15,880 Speaker 1: money out of my pocket to say, right, we have 726 00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:21,279 Speaker 1: a problem. That's problem. I have a problem, right all right? 727 00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:25,560 Speaker 1: What about flirting over text? Is that cheating? Honest to god, 728 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:28,200 Speaker 1: I don't know how to flirt. People think I'm lying. 729 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:33,239 Speaker 1: I swear I don't know. Anything that you would have 730 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:37,080 Speaker 1: to hide from your significant other is cheating except for 731 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:45,960 Speaker 1: them anyway. Yeah, he want me to back not cheating. 732 00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 1: But I mean, let's say, y'all never slept together, like 733 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:54,719 Speaker 1: her situation, is that cheating? Like just flirting? What do 734 00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 1: you consider flirting? That's what I really want to know. 735 00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 1: Like I can never like I have this conversation with 736 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,880 Speaker 1: my friend. I've never sat there and like, oh I 737 00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:04,520 Speaker 1: like him, I'm gonna flirt with him. I don't know, 738 00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:09,960 Speaker 1: that's not it just seemed corn Yeah. Yeah, well if 739 00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:14,160 Speaker 1: he was like you smell good, I don't know. I 740 00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:16,200 Speaker 1: don't do ship like that. And if I do, I 741 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,239 Speaker 1: really don't like you'd be like, I tell you got 742 00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:22,680 Speaker 1: a big dick. Print. That's just like I want. I 743 00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:29,680 Speaker 1: want to print yeah, I probably can flirt in the 744 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:32,759 Speaker 1: text matches before like in like, so, let's say like 745 00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 1: one of your exits hits you up for somebody that 746 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,279 Speaker 1: you know you entertained a little bit but never went 747 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:38,719 Speaker 1: out with, and they were just like, oh, you look 748 00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,120 Speaker 1: so good in that jest and you was like, oh, 749 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,080 Speaker 1: thank you, and you know you look really nice too. 750 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 1: And a little bit of flirtation is that cheating? Eat 751 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 1: if my niggy was sex and that, yeah, you cheat, 752 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 1: and then you slutwater you should have. You're gonna get 753 00:40:57,120 --> 00:41:01,480 Speaker 1: punished the same, Yeah, slptwater. But if somebody sent that 754 00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,680 Speaker 1: to you and you would like thank you, all right, 755 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 1: let's just say he said you look so good a 756 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 1: fashion New York Fashion Week and you just said thank you. No, 757 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,440 Speaker 1: that's not fair, that's thank you. But I will say 758 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,120 Speaker 1: I can't see myself saying yeah, thank you, you look 759 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:16,480 Speaker 1: nice to like but not meaning it, like it's the 760 00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,120 Speaker 1: way you said it just now, but the way he 761 00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:21,440 Speaker 1: read it is thank you look nice. He looked nice too, 762 00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:29,360 Speaker 1: maybe saying thank you. That's what he says, thank you. 763 00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:33,319 Speaker 1: I think I don't know what I meant. Like it's 764 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 1: like they can do something, but when you do something, 765 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,400 Speaker 1: it's like the world is gonna be about imagine if 766 00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:42,799 Speaker 1: you girl, So we wouldn't be together if I did 767 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:44,200 Speaker 1: the things that he did. I don't think we would 768 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,359 Speaker 1: be together. I don't know about that though, because that's 769 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 1: how they are, because I think guys had to act 770 00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:53,000 Speaker 1: they can't take it. But they're also very competitive, and 771 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 1: then they're not going to want to to the guy, right, 772 00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 1: And the thought of you being with the guy that 773 00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,360 Speaker 1: was that you was sucking it is really difficult for 774 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,080 Speaker 1: a man. They'll get over it, trust me, they'll get 775 00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,960 Speaker 1: over it. I don't know. I mean they will get 776 00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:10,280 Speaker 1: over it. My husband, he man. And the beginning a relationship, 777 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:12,759 Speaker 1: I was dating someone we broke up for like a 778 00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,560 Speaker 1: whole year. This way before we got married or engaged 779 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,600 Speaker 1: or anything, but before a whole year. And I was 780 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:22,320 Speaker 1: dating someone and we, you know, have relations and he 781 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,800 Speaker 1: could not let that go. He was like, I can't believe. 782 00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:28,279 Speaker 1: I'm like, it was a year. I was dating this 783 00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:32,040 Speaker 1: guy for a year and he's like, but you still 784 00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,120 Speaker 1: like him touch you. I was like, what were you 785 00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:37,359 Speaker 1: doing in the year you didn't have about the whole 786 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,960 Speaker 1: damn Milana, Like I was dating one person for a 787 00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,400 Speaker 1: whole year, and he still couldn't get over for like 788 00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:48,880 Speaker 1: three years, just like was he better than me? I 789 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 1: think they? Of course he can't ask you that, but 790 00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:54,320 Speaker 1: he thinks that in his mind where he might think, like, 791 00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:56,759 Speaker 1: you know, I might lose her to him at any 792 00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,440 Speaker 1: given times. So he's not gonna want that to happen, 793 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:01,880 Speaker 1: so get over it. But he's gonna bring it up 794 00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,799 Speaker 1: more than, like more than a girl does. I feel 795 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:06,960 Speaker 1: like when a guy feel like he's done wrong, he 796 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,440 Speaker 1: definitely brings it up way more than we would bring 797 00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:10,880 Speaker 1: it up, you know what I mean. It's like so 798 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:12,920 Speaker 1: hard for them to let it go because it's an 799 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:16,719 Speaker 1: ego thing and with us we're like really oh emotions 800 00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,200 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. They don't think about it like that. 801 00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,880 Speaker 1: They're like, that's mother about to take my bitch, and 802 00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,640 Speaker 1: now I'm looking stupid. That's the day. You know, in 803 00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:30,840 Speaker 1: relationships is givers and takers, right when in the bedroom, 804 00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:37,000 Speaker 1: I'm a taker and I'm joking and taking what you 805 00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 1: mean about giving a taker? So there's people that do more, like, 806 00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,400 Speaker 1: for instance, you might be more active in the bedroom, 807 00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:45,759 Speaker 1: get on top righting suckers, Dick do all of that. 808 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:48,320 Speaker 1: But then there's people that it's more takers that you 809 00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:50,360 Speaker 1: might be more like he does all of that for you. 810 00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:54,520 Speaker 1: Usually somebody is more giving and somebody's more taking. What 811 00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 1: are you, Angela? I'm more of a giver of giving 812 00:43:58,120 --> 00:44:11,160 Speaker 1: the I knew Litten, so be it. I'm a giver. 813 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:14,360 Speaker 1: I want you to fucking I do everything. So you 814 00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:16,520 Speaker 1: come on your aggressive like come here, because I wouldn't 815 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,279 Speaker 1: say that I'm aggressive, but I will say that like 816 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 1: I put in work, Okay, put him in the dirt, Tammy. 817 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 1: Are you a giver or a taker? I would say 818 00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:33,120 Speaker 1: I'm more submitted. I'm more submitsive. So you're a taker. Yeah, 819 00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:34,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take her. I mean, but I have my 820 00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:37,279 Speaker 1: moments and if I will take, if I have to back, 821 00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,560 Speaker 1: I'm more like, you know, I'm a leo. We like 822 00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:44,960 Speaker 1: to be, you know, pampered. Yeah, we like k Yeah, 823 00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,680 Speaker 1: I like to be. I like to be. I'd rather 824 00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,320 Speaker 1: you chase me around the room. Okay. What is the 825 00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,000 Speaker 1: craziest thing that you feel like you've done in the 826 00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,919 Speaker 1: bedroom that you like? Damn, I never thought I would 827 00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:59,279 Speaker 1: do this. Oh my god. Um, she's like I knew 828 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:04,399 Speaker 1: you was at home. She says, she's curious. Everybody, don't 829 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:10,080 Speaker 1: forget that. No, I haven't done that yet. Curious. Okay, 830 00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:13,960 Speaker 1: let me find out somebody's getting at three soome. You 831 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:18,160 Speaker 1: would yes, she's gonna say, okay, No, that was like 832 00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:22,680 Speaker 1: he's gonna put that in my mouth. Put in her 833 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:31,399 Speaker 1: mouth was like, at least in her mouth. I think 834 00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:33,240 Speaker 1: it would be more so if it was the situation 835 00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,600 Speaker 1: like that, he would just wore so probably watch okay 836 00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:39,880 Speaker 1: because she's like, you know better what happened last. But 837 00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:41,239 Speaker 1: he's somebody I don't even think he could do that. 838 00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,040 Speaker 1: My husband is so like my my, my mind that 839 00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,880 Speaker 1: he wouldn't like no, he'd be like, you didn't come 840 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,799 Speaker 1: like that for me? Yeah, right, Yeah, he's that type. 841 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,440 Speaker 1: They'd be like, oh no, he's been punched on the 842 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:55,759 Speaker 1: back of her head. Now he's got charge and you 843 00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,239 Speaker 1: try to get him a gift. I was playing, get 844 00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,839 Speaker 1: you really gonna go? But it is the craziest thing 845 00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,520 Speaker 1: that you're like, damn, I can't believe I did this. Um, 846 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:09,799 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean I've done all the things 847 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:12,520 Speaker 1: that actually doing stuff for the butt thing I've done. 848 00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:16,640 Speaker 1: You've never done an hell no, but you have the 849 00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:23,920 Speaker 1: perfect but for it the perfect but perfect. But no, 850 00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 1: I can't do anything, guys said a perfectly all that. 851 00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:37,360 Speaker 1: You know, I've done it a few times, a few times, 852 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,839 Speaker 1: but I don't know a few times. But I don't 853 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:41,520 Speaker 1: love it. I mean it felt a few times. You 854 00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 1: had to like it, You're gonna tell you, because it 855 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,440 Speaker 1: does feel really good. It's just to get to them, 856 00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:47,880 Speaker 1: you gotta get past like I can't get to the pleasure. 857 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:50,440 Speaker 1: You gotta be drunk as fuck, like so you you're 858 00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,560 Speaker 1: down with it. I mean, I've done it. I'll do 859 00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:57,759 Speaker 1: it again. I can't because I haven't had ant sex 860 00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,719 Speaker 1: in a really long time, but I have done it. 861 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,920 Speaker 1: And you it's hurt at first, yeah, getting through that, 862 00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:05,600 Speaker 1: and then once you get past the pain, it's like 863 00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:10,359 Speaker 1: when you let that wall down that takes it takes 864 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,440 Speaker 1: a lot to get I tried it. I tried it, 865 00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,360 Speaker 1: and let me tell you something. That ship was two painful. 866 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:16,680 Speaker 1: I couldn't do it. I couldn't relax. And then when 867 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:19,960 Speaker 1: I went to take a ship, it hurt first of all, 868 00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:22,640 Speaker 1: don't talk about sex. And then shipped right after, like 869 00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:27,279 Speaker 1: and it makes you have to ship, yeah, because it's 870 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,440 Speaker 1: just like, let's say you have a baby, right, and 871 00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:31,560 Speaker 1: your baby is constipated, and you gotta stick your finger 872 00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:35,480 Speaker 1: in there back. So imagine you're grown baby and somebody 873 00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:38,680 Speaker 1: sticking up big old So you never had a finger after. 874 00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:43,360 Speaker 1: I mean that's yeah, I mean, that's that's like natural. 875 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:46,920 Speaker 1: But see see how it feels after it gets a 876 00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:51,160 Speaker 1: little comforting. No, I mean that is cool, that's like okay, 877 00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:55,759 Speaker 1: let's just say hypothetically a thumb like like future said, Okay, 878 00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:59,520 Speaker 1: that's experience. That's cool. But something like this in your asshole, 879 00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 1: I couldn't tell me. Just get some just and next 880 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:07,840 Speaker 1: time when you come back, let us know. What happened. 881 00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,520 Speaker 1: Is one day we were you know, having you know, 882 00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 1: slipped and I should worried to the top of my 883 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:18,520 Speaker 1: long and I just she just was and that I 884 00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:20,480 Speaker 1: laid it in the fetal position and it's ruining me 885 00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:23,360 Speaker 1: for the rest of my girl. That's the worst you 886 00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:26,920 Speaker 1: got to be mortally that that whoops. It was like yeah, 887 00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:32,880 Speaker 1: and then he gonna say, can we finish? I was 888 00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:34,840 Speaker 1: like it heard it so, but I like said that 889 00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,160 Speaker 1: you could not You can't know you should have been 890 00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:46,880 Speaker 1: like my turn again, game over? No, Well tell me, 891 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:48,279 Speaker 1: I know you got a lot going on because it 892 00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:50,320 Speaker 1: is fashion me. But we do so much appreciate you 893 00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:52,319 Speaker 1: for coming to and we love hearing you saying girl, 894 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:56,400 Speaker 1: oh yo, thank you. I'm not gonna lie because at 895 00:48:56,440 --> 00:49:02,359 Speaker 1: first I was like, really really good. I just saying 896 00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 1: since I was a kid and just people just never knew, 897 00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:07,239 Speaker 1: like my family and my close friends every time they 898 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:09,600 Speaker 1: saw me, like why you're not saying on why are 899 00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:11,400 Speaker 1: you saying that? You know, you know you had a 900 00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:13,480 Speaker 1: real talent that you keep hating. And I'm like, it's 901 00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 1: just I'm just you know, I'm good, But I just like, 902 00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,239 Speaker 1: I think what kept me from doing it for so 903 00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,960 Speaker 1: long it is worried about people's opinions. I'm thirty one 904 00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,600 Speaker 1: years old, and I really don't get a funk when 905 00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:26,600 Speaker 1: nobody said, but you did get a great response. Yeah, 906 00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:29,480 Speaker 1: it's I mean it went gold already. Yeah. And it's like, 907 00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:34,239 Speaker 1: I mean it's over how many downloads you got the statistics? 908 00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:39,760 Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, it's like it's doing amazing. It's caught 909 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,600 Speaker 1: legs and it's like moving extremely well. So and who 910 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:45,839 Speaker 1: said you've been in the studio with Rico Love. Yes. 911 00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:50,600 Speaker 1: He executive produced the whole EP. That's incredible just playing around, 912 00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:53,960 Speaker 1: messing in the studio with nobody. He's like serious like that, 913 00:49:54,080 --> 00:50:02,160 Speaker 1: that's you don't have time. Yeah, I just know he 914 00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:05,239 Speaker 1: had some female artist that you know, might have just 915 00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,520 Speaker 1: got rid of. Not just but you know what I mean. 916 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:12,520 Speaker 1: He don't play. No, he's very straightfor's. He's such an 917 00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,640 Speaker 1: artist and he has so much creativity that like you 918 00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,239 Speaker 1: literally can just sit in the room and how we 919 00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,359 Speaker 1: having this conversation. I swear to god, here write twenty 920 00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,719 Speaker 1: songs like that. Did he come to you or did 921 00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:24,279 Speaker 1: you go to him? Like I want to work with him. 922 00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:28,760 Speaker 1: I actually know his wife, Robin, so um I called 923 00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 1: her and I was like, she's from Baltimore. So I 924 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:32,320 Speaker 1: was like hey what, I'm like, you know, you know 925 00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:36,160 Speaker 1: we're both from Baltimore because I was in the house 926 00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:42,520 Speaker 1: but saying here, but she ain't it, like yo, I 927 00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,239 Speaker 1: want to work with you know your husband? And so 928 00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,800 Speaker 1: she was like, um, she was like girl, what you 929 00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,359 Speaker 1: wanted to She's like you sing? And I was like yeah. 930 00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,279 Speaker 1: So she was like I'm gonna ask Rico but I 931 00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:54,760 Speaker 1: don't know. So I was like all right, so I'm 932 00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:56,320 Speaker 1: gonna see your video and I get home so I 933 00:50:56,400 --> 00:51:00,560 Speaker 1: see her a video singing um in Vogue the remake 934 00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,839 Speaker 1: for Michael Jackson and yeah, hold no, yeah that one 935 00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:12,520 Speaker 1: and wait it it was hold on okay, singing it together. Okay. 936 00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:15,520 Speaker 1: Next she send it to him and she called back 937 00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:17,320 Speaker 1: and he was like yeah. He was like, yeah, she's serious. 938 00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,040 Speaker 1: I saw, I just booked it everything, and I went 939 00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:22,080 Speaker 1: in and I didn't walk it ain't no damn and 940 00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 1: no ide. I just went and did it, saying how 941 00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,600 Speaker 1: did you keep that from him? I was just like, yeah, 942 00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:29,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna because you know, I've been I do a 943 00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:30,440 Speaker 1: lot of stuff, like my swim suits, I do all 944 00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,279 Speaker 1: my outsoldes. I designed all my pieces, so I go 945 00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:33,759 Speaker 1: and pick out my materials and all that stuff. I 946 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:35,040 Speaker 1: was just like, I don't gonna take it some business 947 00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,319 Speaker 1: from um, you know, for Ti Rivera. But I just say, 948 00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:42,920 Speaker 1: what you damn he was doing that. You couldn't been 949 00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:46,840 Speaker 1: doing anything. But then when I got in there and 950 00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:48,680 Speaker 1: I was like I faced time with him, I was like, yeah, 951 00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:50,320 Speaker 1: let's guess what, man, man you know the studio He 952 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:54,480 Speaker 1: was like what, ain't like? Weally, like, bitch, why were 953 00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:56,680 Speaker 1: the studio where? I was like, where we going? He's like, oh, 954 00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:58,839 Speaker 1: that's my brother, Like would like I'm cool with that. Yeah, 955 00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:00,880 Speaker 1: like you do some music and I'm like yeah, like 956 00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:03,239 Speaker 1: hell no, and I'm like I'm serious. So when I 957 00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,560 Speaker 1: sent it to him, he was like what the funk? Like, 958 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:08,160 Speaker 1: but he knew you sing. He didn't know I really sing. 959 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,000 Speaker 1: He didn't know that, Czy, how did you keep that 960 00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:13,680 Speaker 1: from him? He knew, you know, like all I could 961 00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:16,160 Speaker 1: saying oh, he's probably just saying in church choir. He 962 00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:19,719 Speaker 1: just thought that he never really heard me sing. So 963 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:22,359 Speaker 1: when he actually heard it, he was like, oh my god, 964 00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 1: like like I never would just like say, I kept 965 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,000 Speaker 1: it hitting for like the first three years because I 966 00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:28,360 Speaker 1: don't want to. I think I was trying to have 967 00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:29,840 Speaker 1: a come up off his career and trying to be 968 00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:31,759 Speaker 1: a singer. So I was like, like, I need you 969 00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:34,360 Speaker 1: on the remix. Yeah you know what I'm saying. He 970 00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,360 Speaker 1: asked him to get on the song or something. No, 971 00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:39,960 Speaker 1: He's like, it's so funny because one of the songs 972 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,560 Speaker 1: that we had doing song Enrico singing one person, it 973 00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:46,279 Speaker 1: was that supposed to be my part. So are you 974 00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,640 Speaker 1: writing stuff like about your relationship and all of that? 975 00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:51,560 Speaker 1: That whole EP is based off my relationship. I was 976 00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,680 Speaker 1: about to say it has a real the song has 977 00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:56,479 Speaker 1: a real like nineties R and B love song feel 978 00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:58,960 Speaker 1: to it, and I love that thank you the whole ep. 979 00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:00,560 Speaker 1: And then when I sat on one am, I told 980 00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:02,359 Speaker 1: him that's the feel I was going for. Yeah, that's 981 00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:05,000 Speaker 1: exactly what I felt from it. He felt about that though, 982 00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:08,000 Speaker 1: like your relationship, like you know, you're putting out your 983 00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:11,279 Speaker 1: feelings and stuff on your relationship. He actually cool with 984 00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:14,680 Speaker 1: and he's like, um when he heard the I mean, 985 00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:16,200 Speaker 1: it's some songs that he didn't like. I had this 986 00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,200 Speaker 1: one song called only One, and it's like pretty much 987 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,080 Speaker 1: like you ain't the only one whould turn your phone off, nigger, 988 00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:27,439 Speaker 1: I can do it. Yeah, He's like that's You're like, baby, 989 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:31,839 Speaker 1: these are old experiences. Yeah, you know, but I'm sure 990 00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:34,920 Speaker 1: as an artist he didn't appreciate your creative release. He do. 991 00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,880 Speaker 1: He and the emotion of what you guys went through 992 00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:40,719 Speaker 1: versus you wanting to come up. You know, you could 993 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:42,719 Speaker 1: you could have released that anger or create you know, 994 00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:44,520 Speaker 1: you could have released those emotions on on so many 995 00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:46,279 Speaker 1: different levels. But the fact that you took it to 996 00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:48,960 Speaker 1: talent and with him being an artist, I'm sure he 997 00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:51,520 Speaker 1: can appreciate that. He do. He was like, he's like 998 00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:54,320 Speaker 1: he's so supportive, Like he's more excited about my project 999 00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:56,640 Speaker 1: than he is his own, and that's and that's crazy. 1000 00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:59,640 Speaker 1: But he's like super supportive. And you know that, Like 1001 00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:01,399 Speaker 1: even when we went through our separation, like I ain't 1002 00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:04,200 Speaker 1: gonna still let nobody talk about you go crazy my 1003 00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,759 Speaker 1: ep I talk about all that, like because most time 1004 00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:09,719 Speaker 1: people think that you you're so bid even when you're bitter, 1005 00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 1: you know, sometimes you want to get back with you like, oh, 1006 00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:14,960 Speaker 1: I can't do that to them be a home. You know. 1007 00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:16,480 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I can't do that. I don't 1008 00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 1: want to say this, so you know what I'm saying, 1009 00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,080 Speaker 1: but you just you like, I gotta respect myself even 1010 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:21,600 Speaker 1: I want to get back at you or do something 1011 00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:23,480 Speaker 1: to hurt you, I'm too much of a woman to 1012 00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:25,040 Speaker 1: do that. And you know that's not true because I 1013 00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,200 Speaker 1: see a lot of people go through these public breakups, 1014 00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:30,319 Speaker 1: right and then they dating somebody else like two days later. 1015 00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:32,880 Speaker 1: And I feel like it's like, even if you do 1016 00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,480 Speaker 1: talk to other people, just keep it low. You don't 1017 00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:38,280 Speaker 1: have to let the whole world like see that, especially 1018 00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:42,719 Speaker 1: because it's very fragile at that time. I just feel 1019 00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:44,839 Speaker 1: like and sometimes you do things like as revenge because 1020 00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:46,520 Speaker 1: I feel like when people do that, they want the 1021 00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:48,959 Speaker 1: other person to be mad. Like I'm doing this because 1022 00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:50,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying to show you this because I want you 1023 00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:52,879 Speaker 1: to feel like, oh man, I messed up. I want 1024 00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:54,440 Speaker 1: to if I want to hurt you back, I want 1025 00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:56,919 Speaker 1: to get you back some type of way. I mean, yeah, 1026 00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:00,360 Speaker 1: like I'm trying to tell you that's what. Didn't you 1027 00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:01,800 Speaker 1: just think about you like, damn the how is that 1028 00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,719 Speaker 1: gonna make me look? Or how my daughter gonna feel 1029 00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:05,600 Speaker 1: about that? Or you get what I'm like, you end 1030 00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:07,759 Speaker 1: up hurting yourself and then you just look crazy. It's 1031 00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:12,440 Speaker 1: a lot of uh we call celebrities or people who 1032 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:14,960 Speaker 1: are in the public figures who you see them in 1033 00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:16,879 Speaker 1: a relationship laship relation, They're just like I don't care, 1034 00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:19,120 Speaker 1: Like I mean, I get the attitude too. But it 1035 00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:22,279 Speaker 1: could work for them, but I think that, yeah, it 1036 00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:24,680 Speaker 1: could also backfire. Do you remember the first time that 1037 00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:26,880 Speaker 1: you guys had sex and you didn't have your walls 1038 00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,560 Speaker 1: up anymore? Like when you finally were like, Okay, I 1039 00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:35,560 Speaker 1: hope she still has her walls none oh, but I mean, 1040 00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:40,960 Speaker 1: like I got when you're right from that cam back 1041 00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:44,200 Speaker 1: came to okay, we're back now. You know what's so 1042 00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:48,160 Speaker 1: crazy because sex is sex. So even when I did, 1043 00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:50,399 Speaker 1: I can get in that and then and then turn 1044 00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:53,480 Speaker 1: around just get back on my phone like like you 1045 00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:56,080 Speaker 1: see who d M man Like, yeah, I got it 1046 00:55:56,160 --> 00:56:01,320 Speaker 1: back coming baby, let's cut a court a right, you 1047 00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:06,200 Speaker 1: did your job work. I'm good. So what about being 1048 00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:08,880 Speaker 1: in the studio? Is there like anybody that do you 1049 00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:10,520 Speaker 1: have to think, like, Okay, I'm going in the studio 1050 00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:12,600 Speaker 1: with this artist, with this artist, do you have to 1051 00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:14,640 Speaker 1: be cautious about like who am I going to work with? 1052 00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:16,400 Speaker 1: Because I don't want him to see me in the 1053 00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,840 Speaker 1: studio with this person. Tell your girl or anybody like that. 1054 00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:25,160 Speaker 1: I'm just study. I mean, I think when it comes 1055 00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,600 Speaker 1: to rappers, but I wouldn't probably be working with a 1056 00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:32,360 Speaker 1: lot of rappers. And sure, no, I said, maybe in 1057 00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:43,239 Speaker 1: the future, I like you already mentioned, but oh my god, 1058 00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:47,959 Speaker 1: you know, in the future, maybe I can be working 1059 00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:52,000 Speaker 1: with some rappers. But no, I don't really the type 1060 00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:53,319 Speaker 1: of R and B I want to do, Like I mean, 1061 00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,120 Speaker 1: you know, the type of music I want to do. 1062 00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,960 Speaker 1: I want to just do like real army. If you 1063 00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:01,560 Speaker 1: look at my oh my playlist, it's so old school, 1064 00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:04,440 Speaker 1: like all old school music, like you know, so that's 1065 00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,920 Speaker 1: what I like. But I'm respectable, I feel because it's 1066 00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:08,319 Speaker 1: certain people that I don't want you to work well. 1067 00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:10,960 Speaker 1: I don't want you to do certain things like I've 1068 00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:14,640 Speaker 1: been not see you host the party or LOLLI lotly 1069 00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:18,320 Speaker 1: on on Instagram inst the snap with somebody from love 1070 00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:25,680 Speaker 1: and hip hop that I don't know nigger like what No, 1071 00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:28,360 Speaker 1: so yeah, so it's just like it's perspecting. You know 1072 00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:29,960 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, right, I'm I would never or I 1073 00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:31,560 Speaker 1: would come to him and say maybe how would you 1074 00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:35,240 Speaker 1: feel about and I would probably let him, uh contact 1075 00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:37,040 Speaker 1: that person as opposed to be trying to go to them. 1076 00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:42,640 Speaker 1: Can it come to the studio too, No, I don't 1077 00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:45,720 Speaker 1: want him there. I don't like tell them to be 1078 00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:48,040 Speaker 1: in my sick because creatively it like messes me up, 1079 00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:51,000 Speaker 1: like he blocks me. He'd probably be making you laugh. 1080 00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:52,760 Speaker 1: I don't get Yeah, I don't get serious from him 1081 00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:55,680 Speaker 1: or getting super easy that eye laughing or I'm super 1082 00:57:55,720 --> 00:58:00,640 Speaker 1: nervous when he's in the wrong. Yeah on him around 1083 00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:02,960 Speaker 1: how much this ep? Has done so far, the whole EPs. 1084 00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:05,880 Speaker 1: It's done. It's absolutely done. So when is it coming out? 1085 00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,040 Speaker 1: We're working on the release date now. We just make it, 1086 00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:09,560 Speaker 1: trying to make sure that it is roll without the 1087 00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:12,320 Speaker 1: the right way. I'm not gonna just throw and Kisses 1088 00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:14,760 Speaker 1: are still moving so good so at that I haven't 1089 00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:17,320 Speaker 1: never listened the video. I done. I'm done with the 1090 00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,560 Speaker 1: video for Kisses and I haven't released it yet, but 1091 00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:21,000 Speaker 1: I'm about to release that at least at the end 1092 00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:23,840 Speaker 1: of the month and then let that keep moving and then, 1093 00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:25,680 Speaker 1: you know, just make sure I do it the right way. 1094 00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:28,760 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna just drop out. I want to make 1095 00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:32,160 Speaker 1: sure that I'm serious and that people take me serious 1096 00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:35,760 Speaker 1: as an artist before even just every move I make. 1097 00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:38,280 Speaker 1: You know, right, what if one of his boys try 1098 00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:40,160 Speaker 1: to highlight at you, like while y'all was on your break, 1099 00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:42,600 Speaker 1: would you tell him I have they have been there 1100 00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:45,080 Speaker 1: have been something I would sat homeboy, but nigas that 1101 00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:48,439 Speaker 1: I've seen him be cool with associates and that you yeah, 1102 00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:53,880 Speaker 1: and I have like they have like hit me in 1103 00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:55,840 Speaker 1: my d M and I have screenshot like while we 1104 00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,080 Speaker 1: weren't talking, I have screenshot it and sitting it to 1105 00:58:58,160 --> 00:58:59,680 Speaker 1: him like don't you know him? And he'd be like, yeah, 1106 00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:01,480 Speaker 1: I know nigga, and I'm like, yeah, what he just 1107 00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:03,640 Speaker 1: tried to talk to me, you know, don't like nigga 1108 00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:07,280 Speaker 1: like I was like I would, but I would do 1109 00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:08,760 Speaker 1: that because I'm like, at the end of the day, 1110 00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:16,360 Speaker 1: think you. I swear, I like, even I don't like you, nigga, 1111 00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:19,000 Speaker 1: but this nigga trying to talk to me, and I 1112 00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:23,240 Speaker 1: would do that because regardless if we ever together, I 1113 00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:25,240 Speaker 1: love that man, and you can't when you love somebody, 1114 00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:26,840 Speaker 1: you can't take that back. And if I wasn't with 1115 00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:28,960 Speaker 1: him and he run a nigga that I know don't 1116 00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:31,040 Speaker 1: have his best interest and something happened to him and 1117 00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:33,760 Speaker 1: I didn't tell him like oh this this dude wasn't 1118 00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:36,680 Speaker 1: really cool with you, then I'm I'm gonna take that 1119 00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:38,400 Speaker 1: weight on me, you know what I'm saying. So how 1120 00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:39,960 Speaker 1: to he react? Does that make him just cut that 1121 00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:42,200 Speaker 1: person off? Yeah? Oh he just know how to move 1122 00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:43,960 Speaker 1: when some people you just gotta know how to move with. 1123 00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:47,000 Speaker 1: It didn't even like a personal like, man, you aren't friends, 1124 00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:48,840 Speaker 1: I don't talk to you every day. So if someone 1125 00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:50,800 Speaker 1: told me some about Angela, oh, she did something like this. 1126 00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:53,080 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, cool, I'm not glad. Oh, I'm 1127 00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:54,800 Speaker 1: gonna be your asked when I see you unless she 1128 00:59:54,880 --> 00:59:57,040 Speaker 1: was too disrespectful, but I'll probably just know how to 1129 00:59:57,120 --> 01:00:09,320 Speaker 1: move with you. Here, sh he wasna front harding and 1130 01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:12,960 Speaker 1: we can tell you know, but you give him saying that, 1131 01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:14,560 Speaker 1: I just don't know how to carry it with you. 1132 01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:18,320 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be too friendly. I would you meet shady 1133 01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:20,600 Speaker 1: And as soon as you say something, I'm gonna let 1134 01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:23,320 Speaker 1: your ask know what I know. But just tell y'all 1135 01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:28,400 Speaker 1: know we goold, ain't nothing? And what's the name of 1136 01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:32,960 Speaker 1: the EP? I haven't decided a name yet. Maybe you 1137 01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:37,840 Speaker 1: can't help me taker because you're a taker about Dick 1138 01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:46,280 Speaker 1: since you say that everywhere everywhere big hut. Yeah, like 1139 01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:49,280 Speaker 1: that you know something I don't know. I haven't thought. 1140 01:00:49,520 --> 01:01:01,880 Speaker 1: I think I'm rediculous with big scary bold type. I've 1141 01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:04,440 Speaker 1: been trying to stuff that's like, I mean, thinking too 1142 01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:27,640 Speaker 1: deep about the time, no slip up? Yeah, alright, curious ship, curious, curious. 1143 01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:34,000 Speaker 1: This album is not about me. We like that. How 1144 01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:48,440 Speaker 1: about you can watch ya petty? Alright, well, listen makes 1145 01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:50,000 Speaker 1: you y'all hit her up? And let her know what 1146 01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:51,600 Speaker 1: you think. We're gonna come up with some more names, though, 1147 01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:54,760 Speaker 1: I'm exciting for yes. But congratulations, Tammy, thank you so much, 1148 01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:56,959 Speaker 1: and I'm thank you all for having me Tammy Beary 1149 01:01:57,040 --> 01:01:57,560 Speaker 1: lip service