1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of my Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: Today's tip is that even long journeys have an end. 4 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: When you make a reasonable plan and stick with the plan, 5 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: there is a good chance that you will finish. Time 6 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: passes one way or another, so the length of the 7 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 1: journey doesn't need to intimidate you at the start. Over 8 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: the past year, I embarked on a number of long projects. 9 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: I committed to reading all three hundred sixty some chapters 10 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: of War and Peace at a rate of one chapter 11 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: per day. My family embarked on a total renovation of 12 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: a historic house that we purchased. I undertook an eleven 13 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: week time perception and satisfaction study with hundreds of participants, 14 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: and then wrote up the results for a book that 15 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: will be based on that study. All of these things 16 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: got going in January. All of these things were roughly 17 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: year long undertakings. The year is now ending, and all 18 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: of them are nearing completion. On some level. This isn't surprising. 19 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 1: Time keeps passing, so something that starts in January and 20 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:43,119 Speaker 1: takes a year will in fact end in December, And 21 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: yet it feels a little miraculous, all the same that 22 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: a long march does in fact come closer to completion 23 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: with every step. If you read roughly four pages a 24 00:01:56,640 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: day in a page book, then once you are north 25 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:09,519 Speaker 1: of three days, the end will be in sight. When 26 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: there is a construction schedule with space for delays, and 27 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: it is observed the countertops will go in during November 28 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: and the carpet in December. The reason this matters is 29 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: that many long journeys look intimidating at the outset. We 30 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: have all heard the phrase that a journey of a 31 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 1: thousand miles starts with a single step. But it's not 32 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:43,959 Speaker 1: actually that first step that's the issue. That first step 33 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: we can take. We have plenty of motivation. First step one. 34 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: It's knowing that there will be two million steps in 35 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: that one tho mile journey, and that you will have 36 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: to take these three hundred thousand step and the one 37 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: million two thousand steps and so forth. That realization can 38 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: make you want to just lie down. But here's the thing. 39 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: Most of us walk at least five thousand steps or 40 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: so a day. Anyway, walking a thousand miles over the 41 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: course of a year would mean taking just a few 42 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: extra steps with a purpose. If there was a plan 43 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: with a larger project broken into smaller steps, with buffers 44 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: and a system for accountability, no one day would be overwhelming. Indeed, 45 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: most days would feel quite doable. All you have to 46 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: do is just keep going, so it is with any 47 00:03:56,040 --> 00:04:02,119 Speaker 1: big project. Time will pass anyway. If you spend your 48 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: time in purposeful ways, with structured progress toward your goals, 49 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: then most likely you will reach your destination. Even long 50 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 1: journeys have ends. That fifteen hour Plaine flight, eventually fifteen 51 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: hours will be over. You will be at your destination. 52 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: And likewise, I am winding into those last one pages 53 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 1: of war and Peace and hiring the movers and choosing 54 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 1: book covers. Since these are things I wanted to do. 55 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,799 Speaker 1: It would have been a mistake last January to decide 56 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: not to do them because they would take a long time. 57 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 1: The time would eventually be in the past one way 58 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 1: or the other. Far better to end where you wish 59 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: to be than not. In the meantime, this is Laura, 60 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening, and here's to making the most of 61 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 1: our time. 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