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Speaker 1: about on your on your podcast? Represents Morning show. Is

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Speaker 1: it Friday yet? Almost Today's Todays two more days? Hang

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Speaker 1: on to a Friday. Hang on? So what would you

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Speaker 1: I don't know. If you heard our show today, you

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Speaker 1: was the Wednesday show. Barbara Corkrane, what a great guest.

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