WEBVTT - What Do You Secretly Hate?

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<v Speaker 1>Get your hands together, and we're going to start to party.

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<v Speaker 2>Start.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to party.

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<v Speaker 3>The Elvis Duran after party.

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<v Speaker 1>Ready for a podcast always always.

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<v Speaker 4>Special guest Andrew with his basket old question.

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<v Speaker 1>Shoot, I'm back. I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 4>It's always fun having you here and I love being here.

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<v Speaker 2>So thanks for having the.

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<v Speaker 5>Last time you sparked controversy and we didn't even get

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<v Speaker 5>to the main topic, I think, right, Yeah, it took

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<v Speaker 5>two episodes in order for you to actually get through

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<v Speaker 5>your question.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, yes, right, and I didn't answer one of them

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<v Speaker 2>and then the other one.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, I mean we learned a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>We learned a lot between you keeping a secret note

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<v Speaker 2>about Gandhi, you saying Nate shouldn't date homely girls. It

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<v Speaker 2>was you believe in the moon landing doesn't existly?

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<v Speaker 6>Didn't he say Nate should date homely girls because the

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<v Speaker 6>really pretty ones are too high maintenance?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 6>He wants them to aim lower?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and plus don't try harder, you know, And my apologies.

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<v Speaker 1>It was worse.

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<v Speaker 6>I got worse than anything you could have thought.

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<v Speaker 4>What else can you make terrible for our lives?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? This one? What's something everyone pretends to enjoy, but

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<v Speaker 2>secretly hates. And I want to go first.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it pretends to enjoy.

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<v Speaker 2>But like secretly hates. Okay, oysters. You don't like oysters.

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<v Speaker 2>You never liked oysters. It's a stinky seafood platter, which,

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<v Speaker 2>let me tell you, outside of the shrimp, I'll do.

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<v Speaker 2>But nobody likes an oyster. It's fake.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to shuck them. I will.

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<v Speaker 4>I will agree with you. You know what, I have tried.

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<v Speaker 4>Oysters the consistency slur like look, yeah, and the only

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<v Speaker 4>way they're good is if you put all that crap

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<v Speaker 4>on it, Yeah, the tabasco or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Which means it's not good.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Anytime something you say that, oh, oh I don't like

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<v Speaker 2>the oyster, Oh well did you put six pounds of

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<v Speaker 2>horse radish and of the hot sauce and all doesn't count?

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<v Speaker 3>Then if you have to mask the flavor, why it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It means that you just like horse radish or whatever

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<v Speaker 2>you're putting it, right, you don't like the actual vessel

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<v Speaker 2>that it comes in, which is the oyster.

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<v Speaker 6>Interesting. I'm glad you got that off your chest.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. I felt it for so long.

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<v Speaker 6>And oh I'm trying to think of a thing. I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be a movie, book, Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Movie or book. Huh, I'm gonna have to think about this.

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<v Speaker 6>I can definitely think of a lot of artists that

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<v Speaker 6>I know people swear by and they love them, but

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<v Speaker 6>then I hear them and I'm like, I'm not moved

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<v Speaker 6>by the means there. Yeah, I'm not scared. I'm not

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<v Speaker 6>scared of these people. So, like Prince, I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 6>I want to get it. I like I like kiss,

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<v Speaker 6>I like that song, I like the Peak Control song.

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<v Speaker 1>Outside of bet.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm kind of obsiding with you. I just don't

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<v Speaker 4>get it.

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<v Speaker 6>So I wonder sometimes like was it something I had

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<v Speaker 6>to be like really immerse and pop culture at the

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<v Speaker 6>time that he was famous, like really appreciate it, because

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<v Speaker 6>now I'm just kind of like, what is this is

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<v Speaker 6>gone on groundbreaking? Like it's not. It's kind of like,

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<v Speaker 6>oh okay, But I don't want to get people's young,

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<v Speaker 6>so I try not to say it unless I'm pushed.

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<v Speaker 4>But you're entitled to that opinion.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, the weekend, Yeah, the weekend. To me, I'll go

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<v Speaker 3>agree with Gandhi. I feel like every song sounds the

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<v Speaker 3>same to me.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's like kind of knock off Michael Jackson, but

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<v Speaker 6>then with like a touch of creep to it, like

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<v Speaker 6>I can't.

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<v Speaker 4>Really but it's the it's a good, same song.

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<v Speaker 3>It is, it is, and you know it's the weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>But to me, it just sounds the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it gets a little whiny sometimes where it's like

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<v Speaker 2>my death, my death. I like a techno beat, like

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<v Speaker 2>a slow R and B techno beat.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, but I don't want to, like, you know, ruin

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<v Speaker 6>anyone else's day, So by all means, listen to it,

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<v Speaker 6>love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna boo it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just kind of like, oh, okay, he does have jams,

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<v Speaker 2>but as a whole, I would agree.

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<v Speaker 1>I got one.

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<v Speaker 7>Going to weddings a lot of a lot of a

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<v Speaker 7>lot of people say they love weddings, but you secretly

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<v Speaker 7>can't stand it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, It depends on whose wedding it is.

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<v Speaker 4>For weddings overall.

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<v Speaker 5>You do not love going to weddings because you have

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<v Speaker 5>to dress up, that you have to spend a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of money because on a gift or whatever you have

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<v Speaker 5>to It's a lot of time and travel, a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of you know, and again unless it's let's let's bring

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<v Speaker 5>it back in.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's put the exceptions. Maybe it's a close family member

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<v Speaker 1>or someone, but the focus is not on you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not every it's everything.

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<v Speaker 4>But.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not about you. But it's just so much effort.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so much effort. But now here's the thing. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>honest about it. IDs I hate going to weddings. You

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<v Speaker 1>never have the happy for the couple. But I just

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<v Speaker 1>think it's such a display of self absorption.

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<v Speaker 6>And wait, you just said that you weddings because are

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<v Speaker 6>not about you, which is the highest level of self absorption.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I've ever heard.

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<v Speaker 5>It's self absorption on their level, throwing the wedding and

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<v Speaker 5>then you're paying for it.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I'm not a big well.

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<v Speaker 3>Just like this, he'll never get married, so that's why.

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<v Speaker 6>It's such are so fun. Yeah, I'm like, all this,

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<v Speaker 6>what a great joyous reason.

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<v Speaker 5>To its the same playlist of music. Not only think

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<v Speaker 5>about it, you break it down for seconds, the same

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<v Speaker 5>freaking you hear the same.

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<v Speaker 6>Music to go to weddings of different cultures.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, very good point. Maybe untainted a little bit in

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<v Speaker 4>the wedding department unless you got.

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<v Speaker 5>Throwing in at a destination where I can enjoy that.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to know, because the worst, at least I'm

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<v Speaker 5>spending money also getting a vacation at it at the

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<v Speaker 5>same time.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel like, to your point, though you just

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<v Speaker 2>said you don't like it because you have to spend

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<v Speaker 2>all this money, destination weddings for me put on even

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<v Speaker 2>more of a burden because now I have to go

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<v Speaker 2>spend all this money.

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<v Speaker 1>Just at least I'm getting something out.

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<v Speaker 3>Even Elvis' wedding, Elvis's wedding was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I loved Elvis is the exception and by the.

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<v Speaker 5>Way, but yours was more along the line of the

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<v Speaker 5>traditional wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Really we had people dressed up as monkeys. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think not.

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<v Speaker 6>Been hit by lightning like seven times.

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<v Speaker 5>ELS's wedding is an anomaly. That's a once in a

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<v Speaker 5>lifetime event. That's like going to the Oscars. Yeah, the Oscars.

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<v Speaker 5>And it was kind of about you because you, no,

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<v Speaker 5>it's not a kiss ass thing. Car Elvis's wedding like that,

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<v Speaker 5>I was his wedding, the single greatest wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>ECO grew into every other wedding you've ever been or

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<v Speaker 2>will ever go to it?

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<v Speaker 5>Beautiful exception. But I wait wedding. But people say, they

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<v Speaker 5>tell you till the sun is this, till the day

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<v Speaker 5>is long.

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<v Speaker 1>The love wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>I Leanna said she will be saving money by not

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<v Speaker 3>inviting to the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not like Carla, Marie and Anthony.

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<v Speaker 3>No, you don't want to come to the weddings, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Said I didn't want to go to these weddings. I

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't enjoy them.

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<v Speaker 2>You just said, if it's not about you, you're not interested.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not about you.

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<v Speaker 6>How we should really all brainstorm how we can make

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<v Speaker 6>everyone else's weddings more about scary. Yeah, and then it

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<v Speaker 6>would be better.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, if you do that at Carlori's wedding,

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<v Speaker 3>you won't.

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<v Speaker 7>Wait.

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<v Speaker 6>So Nate, what was your thing?

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<v Speaker 4>I think we're out of time, sister ran after party.

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<v Speaker 7>He amen