1 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 1: Ty Evans is one of the country's top mule trainers 2 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: and clinicians, and his journey with this misunderstood animal, the mule, 3 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 1: has changed his life and through working with him, he's 4 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 1: learned what true leadership is. Yeah, through training a mule. 5 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 1: I think we're all going to learn something on this one. 6 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 1: And hey, it's twenty twenty six. I'm ready to be 7 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: something different, to look at life in a new way, 8 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: and to become the person I've always known I should be. 9 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 1: I think you're going to be surprised by this episode, 10 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: and I really doubt that you're going to want to 11 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: miss this one. 12 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 2: There's a quote he would quote it a lot, but 13 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 2: I learned later that it was a ray Hunt quote. 14 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: They know if you know, and they know if you 15 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 2: don't know. That might sound like a puzzle to some 16 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 2: people listening, but what I've come to find is, say 17 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 2: the mule or the horse, they are aware of your awareness. 18 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 2: They know what you're paying attention to more or less. 19 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 1: My name is Klay Nukem and this is the Bear 20 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: Grease Podcast, where we'll explore things forgotten but relevant, search 21 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:28,759 Speaker 1: for insight and unlikely places, and where we'll tell the 22 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: story of Americans who live their lives close to the land, 23 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 1: presented by FHF Gear, American made, purpose built hunting and 24 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: fishing gear that's designed to be as rugged as the 25 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: place as we explore. On March third, twenty eleven, in Ogden, Utah, 26 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: twenty one year old Tie Evans entered the Weber State 27 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: University Rodeo and what happened would change his life. 28 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 2: Well, they used to send out stock cross about a 29 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 2: week in advance, and I remember stock dross came up. 30 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 2: I was so excited to find out what I crew. 31 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 2: So pull it up and I'm going down the list 32 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 2: trying to find my name, and atlanted on a horse 33 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 2: named Dakota Kid now Dakota Kid. This horse had busted 34 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 2: two of my friend's legs the previous fall. This horse 35 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,799 Speaker 2: had a reputation it would jump out of the buck 36 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 2: and shoot and basically spin around and hit the post, 37 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 2: slam itself into the post behind it, which what's between 38 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 2: the post and the horse, Well, that's your leg. And 39 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 2: so two of my buddies had broken their legs in 40 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 2: this fashion. So when I saw that horse, I was like, 41 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 2: oh man, he was just really we would say hard 42 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 2: to get out on meaning hard to get out of 43 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: the bucket shoot on. Because of that little month, and well, 44 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 2: being a horseman, being a trainer, I thought, well, I'm 45 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 2: going to solve this, and I came up with a plan. 46 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 2: I was going to have my buddy hold a pair 47 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 2: of shaps, you know, our leggings we wear. Pull a 48 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 2: pair of shops out over like ahead of the post 49 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 2: a couple of feet, so it kind of tricked the horse. 50 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 2: The horse would wrap around there and like it usually did, 51 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 2: but instead of slamming to the post, it would hit 52 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 2: the shaps and fade out of there. 53 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: Dakota Kid was a dangerous horse, and Ty was a trainer. 54 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: He was born in Bluffdale, Utah, into a training family. 55 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 1: His dad trained horses and mules for a living, and 56 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: Ty literally started breaking and riding them for his dad 57 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: when he was eight years old. Lifelong exposure to a 58 00:03:56,240 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: craft often delivers instinct and insight that can't be taught. 59 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: These people think about problems from a whole other stratosphere 60 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: than the casual partaker of the said craft. Ty was 61 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: like that with equine animals. So he made a plan. 62 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 2: Well, I thought this was a great plan. My wife 63 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 2: thought I was pretty dumb, just like don't go, don't 64 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 2: get on this horse. And I'll admit to you, I 65 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 2: had a feeling I shouldn't go, like I remember the 66 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 2: feeling don't go. And at the time, I'm a cowboy, thinking, ty, 67 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 2: you're just a sissy, like you're just scared. Go cowboy 68 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 2: up right? But inside you can't put that. Well, you 69 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 2: can talk about it, but you can't put it away 70 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 2: when you're worried. And I had that feeling don't go. 71 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: A powerful human exercise is to do an honest evaluation 72 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 1: of what value system drives your actions. But often we're 73 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: blind to the truth about ourselves, and it takes something 74 00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:01,599 Speaker 1: powerful to drop the scales off our eyes. Was the 75 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: tough it out i'm a cowboy the right way or 76 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: was that actually the easy answer consistent with his cultural upbringing, 77 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: or should he have listened to his wife and his 78 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: intuition to quote from the book Evidence Based Horsemanship. For 79 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: someone to say I've been doing this for fifty years 80 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: doesn't negate the fact that someone could do something wrong 81 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 1: for fifty years end of quote. Is it possible for 82 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: someone to use a wrong value system, even a long 83 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 1: standing cultural bedrock value system like the cowboy way to 84 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 1: make decisions. 85 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 3: Is that possible for that to be wrong? 86 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 2: Well, what do you think I did? I went? Of course, 87 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:52,919 Speaker 2: I went right, and I had this plan, like I said, 88 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 2: And I remember getting on that bucking horse, sitting down 89 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 2: the chute, get my feet in this, ups my legs 90 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 2: up under the swells of the saddle. The swells the 91 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 2: saddle on the front of the saddle, and I get 92 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 2: my legs up under the swells. I leaned back, tuck 93 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,480 Speaker 2: my chin down to my chest, lift my bronch crane 94 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 2: that's what we hold onto. Lift up the bron crane, 95 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 2: put my free hand up and I remember that moment. 96 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 2: I don't do it. I just remember a distinct feeling, 97 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 2: don't do this. But then whatever, of course, cowboy up 98 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 2: and you're there. You're gonna nod your head. And I 99 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 2: nodded my head, and that horse belled out of that shute, 100 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 2: and just as I planned, it wrapped around those shaps perfectly. 101 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 2: I'm out of the shot. I've just accomplished the hardest 102 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 2: part of this horse's ride, getting out of the shot. 103 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 2: I'm the horse is bucking down the arena. I'm making 104 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 2: a good ride. We're going jump for jump. I'm lifting 105 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 2: on my rein, I'm I'm spurring, I'm leaning back. Everything 106 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 2: was good, and I'm thinking myself, oh jeeze, big sissy, 107 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: what were you so about? You got this? You got this? 108 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 2: Buzzer rings. Eight seconds is up. I've made my bronch ride. 109 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 2: I'm thinking check, I'm good to go. Picket men are 110 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 2: coming in. Picket men are rescue rangers in rodeo. They 111 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 2: come up. One comes up, fading on the left, one 112 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 2: comes up fading on the right. They're almost to me. 113 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 2: My horse slams on the brakes. The cody kids stops deadness, 114 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 2: tracks flips over backwards. I remember seeing the horse, the 115 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 2: horse's mane in my face, and I knew I had 116 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 2: been flipped over on many times, so it wasn't necessarily 117 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 2: a dramatic deal. So as a horse is coming over, 118 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 2: I'm thinking I got to jump out. I go to 119 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 2: jump out to my right, just in time to not 120 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:49,679 Speaker 2: get my body smashed. But the swells of the saddle 121 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 2: came down, broke my femur in half, snapped my femer. 122 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 2: It gets up, the horse gets up, kicks me in 123 00:07:56,680 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 2: the head, and it was it was touching. Go there 124 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 2: for a minute, I remember being in the ambulance and 125 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 2: one of the guy, one of the paramedics, saying, hey, 126 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 2: should we go code whatever? I don't know the codes. 127 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 2: I can't remember that gold code whatever meaning lights and sirens, 128 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 2: and the other paramat goes, yeah, you better. 129 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: Tie was bleeding out from a broken femur and had 130 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 1: a busted and banged up head from getting kicked. The 131 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: broke leg took him completely out of rodeo for several years, 132 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: crushing his dream to potentially ride professionally. But the crisis 133 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: catalyzed the process of evaluation in Tie, which begs the 134 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: question was it actually the right thing to do to 135 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 1: ride the code of kid, because it did bring him 136 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 1: to a place of honest evaluation. 137 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 2: Long story short, I was out for a while, couldn't 138 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 2: rodeo and all that down, and I couldn't ride my mules. 139 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 2: I was still writing for a living, I was riding 140 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 2: Colts for living. I was a newly red I'd only 141 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 2: been right a couple of years, and we just bought 142 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 2: our first little house, and I remember just being sick, like, 143 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 2: you can't you can't ride, you can't work, man, what 144 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 2: are you going to do? And so I had all 145 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 2: this time on my hands, and I remember really thinking 146 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 2: about what I want to do, And that's about when 147 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 2: that documentary came out. 148 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 1: By this time, young Tie was like his father, making 149 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: a complete living breaking horses and mules. They were cult starters, 150 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: the most dangerous kind of training, breaking to ride one 151 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: hundred to one hundred and twenty animals a year. And 152 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: I want to key in on something that could sound 153 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 1: endearing to our ear. 154 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 3: He was doing it just like his dad. 155 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: But the spirit filled Judo Chop wisdom of this story 156 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 1: pivots on this idea, doing what your dad did isn't 157 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 1: always the best way. The way your dad the decisions 158 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: may not be the best way. He may have been 159 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: doing it wrong the whole time. In January of twenty eleven, 160 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:14,559 Speaker 1: a documentary called Buck came out that was about a 161 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:18,479 Speaker 1: man named Buck Branneman that many called the horse whisper. 162 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: Buck taught what he called natural horsemanship, where you communicate 163 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 1: with a horse through sensitivity and leadership, not punishment. This 164 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: is a clip from that documentary. 165 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 2: Do you see the expression on that horse? Get moves, 166 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 2: but he's crabby, flagging the tail, it's annoyed. It's like 167 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 2: asking your kid to go take the garbage out. They 168 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 2: take the garbage out. 169 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 3: If they flip me. 170 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 1: The bird on the way out of the room, it's 171 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: without respect. 172 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 2: And the respect isn't fear, it's acceptance. 173 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 4: Buck says, when you start handling horses, your own personal 174 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 4: issues start coming out. And I was so anxious to 175 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 4: see the saddle on Chief i rushed him to it. 176 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 4: And now I've built I feel like I've built this 177 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 4: fear on, this insecurity in him. But see I'm an 178 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 4: insecure person. So the horses, they mirror you. They can't lie. 179 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 1: Good boy, Buck Brannman wasn't the first to do this 180 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 1: natural horsemanship. He was a pioneer in it though in 181 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: modern times, and he was one of the first to 182 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: be highly successful and gain national and even global notoriety. 183 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 1: Ray Hunt, the Durnce Brothers Pat Perelli were also forerunners 184 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 1: in this style of horse training. This method maybe took 185 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 1: a little longer, took more patience, more precision, more attention 186 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: to nuanced in detail. But the real kicker was that 187 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 1: it took on a whole different kind of worldview about 188 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: the horse. It required a whole new kind of trainer, 189 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: a new mindset, a new empathy a new kind of 190 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 1: strength that was absent in training the horse the cowboy way. 191 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 1: In this new way was producing some incredible horses. Ty 192 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 1: was deeply inspired by the documentary and had already been 193 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: influenced by the natural horsemanship philosophy for the last several years. 194 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: But what Ty realized while laying there with this broken 195 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:25,439 Speaker 1: leg was that very few people were doing this with mules. 196 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: Would it even work for mules? The horse world had 197 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 1: clinicians teaching people how to ride and train horses. The 198 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:37,199 Speaker 1: industry was huge, but mules. Very few people were training 199 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: mules to the degree that they were training horses. 200 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 3: Few were making what they call. 201 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 1: Bridle mules or bridle horses, which describes a very high 202 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: level of training that takes many, many years and it 203 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 1: produces an animal with incredible safety, precision, control, and comfort. 204 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: For thousands and thousands of years, the mule was considered 205 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: a beast of burden, and Tie started to think about 206 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 1: mules differently, and he learned a new way to train 207 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 1: that required shuck in the past. Tie is now in 208 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:36,199 Speaker 1: his mid thirties. It's been fifteen years since the rodeo wreck, 209 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: and I'm riding behind him and our friend named McClain Meekham, 210 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 1: a well known man the lion hunting and mule world. 211 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 1: It's the fifth day of a mountain lion hunt. The 212 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 1: last four days we've been riding in some of the 213 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: roughest country in the West. So I'm in Utah right 214 00:13:57,160 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: now with behind Tie Evens this pretty round mule. 215 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 2: What we doing to having the best day eversday alive? 216 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 2: Little kidding? 217 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: All right, we just busted some brush. 218 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 3: What we're doing is following a lion. 219 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: So we're we're about probably two and a half miles 220 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: from the truck and we're we're following dogs through real 221 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: thick and canyon, so we're having to bust a bunch 222 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: of brush while we're riding. 223 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 3: Kind of treacherous. 224 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 2: You might get raked off your mule, so you. 225 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 3: Kind of got to have a lot of control. 226 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 1: This is when you need real control of your animal, 227 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 1: need to be able to steer them precisely. And that 228 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 1: is exactly what Tie Evans is good at, training them 229 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 1: to be precise. 230 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 3: To have control with a mule. 231 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 1: This is the kind of place you want to be 232 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 1: sitting in the saddle of a good mule that you 233 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 1: have complete control over, one that trusts you so that 234 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 1: you can trust it. Places like this are why Tie 235 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: has dedicated his life to training mules. The backcountry is 236 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 1: a good place to die, and a trustworthy steed is invaluable. 237 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 1: You see a mule is across between a mare horse 238 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 1: and a jack donkey. Hybrid vigor creates an animal more 239 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 1: sure footed than a horse, with more stamina day in 240 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 1: and day out. It has a longer working lifetime, and 241 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 1: mules are easier to keep healthy than a horse. But 242 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 1: mules have their drawbacks too. They're harder to find than horses. 243 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: They're just less of them because they're sterile. They have 244 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 1: a very strong self protection mechanism that the world has 245 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: interpreted as stubbornness for thousands of years, which can make 246 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: them more challenging to train than a horse, but it 247 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: also can make them safer. I've heard it said that 248 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 1: you can train a horse to jump off a cliff, 249 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: but a mule ain't jumping off no cliff. Horses can 250 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 1: also be so compliant, which is a wonderful thing, that 251 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: he'll cross a raging river that you and that horse 252 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 1: are going to drowned in. A mule ain't crossing no 253 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: river that he's going to die in. Horses are incredible 254 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: animals that are faster, quicker, and generally easier to bring 255 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 1: to a place of compliance, and are often better on 256 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 1: the ranch and in the rodeo arena, but in the 257 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: back country, without question, a mule is the animal that 258 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: I want to be on, and most people that ride 259 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 1: equines in the back country agree, And that's why I 260 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 1: love mules. So we just came up over the ridge 261 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: and it sounded like a freight train. The dogs had, 262 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 1: we think, jumped this line. We've been trailing for two days. 263 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: Pretty pretty unique thing to be following the klan and 264 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 1: tie hunting a line on meals, I wouldn't have a 265 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: rare human experience, I'd say, with two guys that are 266 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,360 Speaker 1: some of the best in the world at what they do. 267 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 3: Tay, how how far do you think we've rowed this 268 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:31,640 Speaker 3: week on mules? 269 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:36,919 Speaker 2: This week we've probably wrote, Well, this morning I was 270 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 2: I was at sixty eight miles, but I had to 271 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 2: trot some mules up. Yeah, so I'm a little bit more. 272 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 2: But but by the end of the day we'll be 273 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 2: over seventy miles, will be over some miles five days 274 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:52,399 Speaker 2: And I was actually thinking that might be some of 275 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 2: the longest miles, non non cowboying miles I've ever done. 276 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 2: Me and a cowboy when I'm working ranch and stuff, 277 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 2: we'll do miles like that. But it ain't miles. It 278 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 2: ain't lying miles. You know what they said, line miles 279 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 2: don't lie. So I don't know if I've ever done 280 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:14,919 Speaker 2: over seventy miles riding this crazy, wicked mountain like this before. 281 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 2: In five days time. 282 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 1: I want to learn about Tai's backstory and how he 283 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:28,919 Speaker 1: transformed into a completely different trainer than the generation before him. 284 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 2: Born and raised in Utah my whole life, I loved 285 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:34,679 Speaker 2: you my whole life. I love Utah. It's home. I 286 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 2: love everything about Utah, over the mountains, the desert canyons, 287 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:42,160 Speaker 2: all of it. Growing up where we were a very 288 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 2: outdoors family. For sure, I'm super grateful my dad took 289 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:52,160 Speaker 2: us camping and hunting and fishing and riding all the time. 290 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 2: Part of that was because it's what he did for 291 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 2: a living. He rode a lot of cults for a living, 292 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 2: so young horses, young mules primarily. He started out with horses, 293 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 2: But like any trainers trying to make a living, you know, 294 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 2: people say, hey, what about a mule, Did you take 295 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 2: a meal for training? And I remember, I still remember 296 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 2: the first meal he started working with, UH, and that 297 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 2: kind of opened the doors for him becoming the mule guy. 298 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 1: Ty's dad, Dion Evans, was and is an incredible trainer 299 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 1: and mentor for time. I want to pull back this 300 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: idea of the time being pitted against his dad and 301 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: training methodology because he was doing something wrong. 302 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 3: People like Dion did the. 303 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 1: Best they could with what they knew, and it worked. 304 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:52,120 Speaker 1: In a perfect world, a son starts from the position 305 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:57,120 Speaker 1: his father stopped, building upon his father's lifetime of experience, 306 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 1: and that is exactly what happened here with TI. 307 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:04,880 Speaker 2: You know when I when I tell you I started 308 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,719 Speaker 2: like working for my dad when I was eight, I 309 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 2: really mean it like I was working for my dad. 310 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 2: When I say he started us out with like these 311 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:18,120 Speaker 2: little ponies. I remember one little pony named Patches. That 312 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 2: son of a gun could buck like it could buck, 313 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 2: and we'd ride it as long as we could, fall 314 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 2: off most of the time, get back on write it again, UH. 315 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:31,440 Speaker 2: And then pretty soon that turned into, like I said, 316 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 2: me working for my dad. And I don't know, maybe 317 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 2: for lack of better words, I was a crash dummy. 318 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 2: You know, he'd put us on cults for the first ride, 319 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 2: so he would handle him on the ground. He'd have 320 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 2: him by the lead rope, and he'd get a saddle 321 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 2: on him, and you know, he would do his version 322 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:55,919 Speaker 2: of what groundwork would be, which would be getting the 323 00:20:55,960 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 2: saddle on without them trying to kill him. And and 324 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 2: then we would climb on and he would hang on 325 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:08,360 Speaker 2: to him and they'd buck around or whatever. But back 326 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 2: in those days, a lot of times it was bucking 327 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 2: them out. And my dad worked for so many horses 328 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 2: and mules. He was he was a really good hand. 329 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 2: And in those days you took whatever type of horse 330 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 2: or mules that would come for work. A paycheck was 331 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 2: a paycheck, right, and he would take them on the 332 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:34,920 Speaker 2: way my dad would start something back then is you 333 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,119 Speaker 2: get in a round pin, and a lot of times 334 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:40,199 Speaker 2: people would they'd drop them off. I remember one of 335 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 2: my dreaded feelings is when somebody would back their horse 336 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 2: trader up to the round pin, opened the gate, opened 337 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 2: the open the back of the trailer and let that 338 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,120 Speaker 2: thing out, because that meant it wasn't broke to lead. 339 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 2: That meant it was probably pretty wild probably a little 340 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 2: what we call touchy or wash spear, a little watchy, 341 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 2: meaning they don't probably didn't like humans much, right, And 342 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:10,200 Speaker 2: that was always that would always get me riled up, like, oh, 343 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,720 Speaker 2: here we go again, you know. So he would do 344 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,360 Speaker 2: some round pin work, move him around in a round pin. 345 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:19,640 Speaker 2: We use a round pin in training then and now, 346 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:24,120 Speaker 2: and it's pretty historic because there's no corners. But we'd 347 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:28,359 Speaker 2: get them and we would lunge them around in the 348 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 2: round pin, and we would get them kind of more 349 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,200 Speaker 2: or less tired, and then we'd finally get him caught. 350 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 2: A lot of times you could, you could catch them, 351 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 2: but a lot of times you had to rope them 352 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,119 Speaker 2: and then kind of get a saddle on it, and 353 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 2: it might buck a saddle off, it might kick you, 354 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 2: and it was, I guess, for lack of otherwise describing it, 355 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 2: it was a fight a lot of times to get 356 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,199 Speaker 2: those suals on. I've been kicked more times trying to 357 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 2: saddle the horse or mule than anything else back in 358 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:04,679 Speaker 2: those days especially, you know. But we'd get them saddled 359 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 2: up a lot of times, we'd you tie up, be 360 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 2: hind legged, and that kind of restricted their movement. It didn't. 361 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 2: It wouldn't hurt him or anything, but it would restrict 362 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 2: their movement. They couldn't. They couldn't like run off and 363 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:20,159 Speaker 2: they and if they tried to buck it was really 364 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,879 Speaker 2: really mud. You'd get on them and then turn that 365 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:26,399 Speaker 2: leg loose. Then would and then I would go for 366 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:29,960 Speaker 2: a bron ride and hope I stayed on and you 367 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 2: learn you learned to stay on like I got. I 368 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 2: had a lot of bron crides in as a young 369 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 2: You got a picture like a little kid doing this. 370 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 2: I'm not a very big guy eight nine, ten, eleven, 371 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:46,719 Speaker 2: twelve year old tie you know, out there trying to 372 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:52,680 Speaker 2: stay on, and I looking back, I'm grateful for those moments. 373 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 2: The old way, so people called the old way. It 374 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 2: was hard, but it taught me to grid. I learned 375 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:03,719 Speaker 2: how to run. I learned how to fight for something, 376 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 2: which in that case was my life, trying to stay 377 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:12,159 Speaker 2: on like you really hadn't learned stay on because it 378 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,359 Speaker 2: was easier to stay on once than to stay on 379 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,919 Speaker 2: five times. What I mean is it didn't matter you 380 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 2: got bucked off or guess what you are getting back there. 381 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 2: It's non negotiable. As long as you were physically healthy, 382 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 2: and that is even negotiable, like what is this, Well, 383 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 2: nothing's broken, you know, the saying nothing's broken long way 384 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 2: from your heart. Okay, get on. 385 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 1: It's easier to stay on once than five times. I 386 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 1: like that TI has done a good job of describing 387 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,679 Speaker 1: the old way, the cowboy way of training, which is 388 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 1: basically a tough man contest, a battle against fear. And 389 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,800 Speaker 1: it was the playing field of proving the cowboy way. 390 00:24:55,520 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 1: But he would learn there was a better way. Haven't 391 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 1: they always trained horses the cowboy way? 392 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:07,880 Speaker 2: People will ask, so is this how people have been 393 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:11,439 Speaker 2: riding and training animals for one hundreds of years? The 394 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 2: answer is now in that answer, what I mean is 395 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:19,120 Speaker 2: I call it Industrial age horsemanship. So at the turn 396 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,879 Speaker 2: of the century, the industrial age, everything's faster, right, and 397 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 2: it's kind of like what we deal with now with 398 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:29,879 Speaker 2: with our technology like a microwave, we won't think so fast. 399 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 2: When when cultures started changing with the horsemanship, it went 400 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 2: from taking time to do stuff well and having the 401 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,240 Speaker 2: time to do stuff like think of these guys that 402 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,640 Speaker 2: you know back then there's a lot of ranches, and 403 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,880 Speaker 2: there were guys there were full time buckers. They were 404 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:50,640 Speaker 2: full time horsemen. And they were cattle with those horses, 405 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,639 Speaker 2: but primarily they're full time horsemen, so they spent a 406 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,120 Speaker 2: lot of time with their horses. And those old bookers, 407 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:02,719 Speaker 2: those old cowboys, those v carols, all those cultures, they 408 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 2: they would they're with these horses all the time. Like 409 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 2: making one of my passions is making bridle meals, and 410 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,959 Speaker 2: that is a long process. Well even now, but especially 411 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,480 Speaker 2: during the turn of the century. You go telling somebody 412 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 2: you're going to be taking six, seven, eight years to 413 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 2: get them finished out in a bridle. They go, what 414 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,120 Speaker 2: that's you know, because they're not because that puts them, 415 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 2: That puts them between eight to ten years old before 416 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 2: they're straight up in a bridle finished out. And you 417 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 2: tell all people that, they're like, yeah, right, no way, 418 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 2: they want it now. They want them wearing a bridle now. Anyways, 419 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 2: turn the sentry, do it faster, do it faster. And 420 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 2: so that's where I think a lot of the bronx 421 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 2: stomping came in. Now, don't get me wrong, his trucking 422 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:54,399 Speaker 2: ranches do they go for a lot of bronc rides. 423 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 2: I guarantee it. Like look at the old Charlie Russell paintings, 424 00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 2: you know, he's not making that stuff up. He was 425 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 2: there with seeing it. There was some rough stuff. Like 426 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that it wasn't rough. It was for 427 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 2: sure rough. But I think later on people wanting it 428 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,440 Speaker 2: so fast, go go go, go go push it, you know. 429 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 2: And then you also got to think about Hollywood all 430 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,200 Speaker 2: the Westerns. It depends, but it's not really fun to 431 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 2: watch a horse just ride around real nice. They kind 432 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,440 Speaker 2: of like a little grounk, right, And so I think 433 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 2: a lot of people grew up watching that, including me, 434 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 2: Like I didn't. I thought, well, yeah, they're gonna buck in. 435 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:35,240 Speaker 2: And to be honest, Clay, I kind of liked it. 436 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:39,159 Speaker 2: Was it was fun. So starting colts with my dad 437 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 2: and all that was was a blast. I loved it. 438 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 2: It was hard, it was tough, but I loved it. 439 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 2: Can we talk about when things started to change? Yeah, 440 00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 2: So I think I was about fourteen years old, and 441 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,440 Speaker 2: I remember my dad got hurt really bad. My dad 442 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 2: has the highest pitch whistle you would ever hear in 443 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 2: your life. He would stick both pinkies in his mouth 444 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 2: and just do that crazy high whistle. Well he was 445 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:19,199 Speaker 2: on a meal one day, did that loud whistle. So 446 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 2: he sets the reins down and when he whistles that 447 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 2: meal takes off lights it up, bucks him off, and 448 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 2: he busted up a bunch of stuff, hurt his hip 449 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,400 Speaker 2: really bad. But he was he was beat up, beat 450 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,679 Speaker 2: up to the point that he was pretty well ready 451 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,639 Speaker 2: to be to call it. So got to that point 452 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 2: where he was ready to kind of be done and 453 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 2: quit training for the public. Anyways, at that point I 454 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 2: kind of took over and took it on myself and 455 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 2: that was my gig. That's what I did. Yeah, yeah, 456 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 2: So I'd get home from school and I'd ride I'd 457 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 2: ride meals and horses, and I did that all through 458 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 2: middle school and then in high school. Of course you 459 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 2: can get work release, you know, and I that was 460 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 2: my job and I loved it. About that time, about 461 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 2: time I was a senior in high school and kind 462 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 2: of getting out of high school, my dad had a 463 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:24,960 Speaker 2: good buddy that give him some Brad Cameron VHS tapes. 464 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 2: That's how loungo. It was VHS tapes, right, and I 465 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 2: wore those tapes out watching them. And Brad Cameron was 466 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 2: a bridleman, meaning he made bridle mules. I didn't really 467 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 2: know what a bridal mule was I didn't really understand. 468 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 2: I'd seen some bridle horses and people do that, but 469 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,960 Speaker 2: I didn't ever think you could make a bridle mule. Well, 470 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 2: here he is, that guy's doing the thing. I wore 471 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,120 Speaker 2: those tips out, I washed him over and over again. 472 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 2: I loved him. That opened my eyes to a lot 473 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 2: of well, well particularly it opened my eyes to this 474 00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 2: thing called groundwork. I mean my version of groundwork up 475 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,560 Speaker 2: to that point, working with my dad and stuff was well, 476 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 2: we'd sack it out a little bit, like literally, like 477 00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 2: with a feedsack or something. We'd rub it all over, 478 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 2: or get a tarp or something and get him used 479 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 2: to the tarp or things like that. But to get 480 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 2: the sadlo on. Okay, check, now we've done our groundwork. Well, 481 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 2: Brad was doing all kinds of stuff like moving him 482 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 2: is this way in that way, and he'd he'd send 483 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,120 Speaker 2: the meal around in a circle on that lead rope 484 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 2: on a loose rain, meaning no tension in that rain. 485 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 2: He's not pulling that meal around. It was. It was 486 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 2: going freely, and he was moving these feet in all 487 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 2: kinds of ways that I didn't understand. He's using terminologies 488 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 2: that I'd never heard before moving the hinds moving the fronts. 489 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 2: I didn't know this stuff meant. Well I do now. 490 00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 2: I mean, we're going to move the hind feet one 491 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 2: way to the other. We're gonna move to the front feet. 492 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 2: That's what it means. And so I started playing around 493 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 2: with that stuff, and well, by golly, it made things 494 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,479 Speaker 2: a lot easier at that point when when I was 495 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 2: I guess towards the end of high school in graduating, 496 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 2: like if I had ten horses or mules, I was starting, 497 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 2: out of ten, probably eight of them would buck. Now 498 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 2: that's bad statistics for a trainer, that's bad news. Well, 499 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 2: it's because how I was doing it. I was just, 500 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 2: I was just I thought I was a cowboy. I 501 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 2: thought I was just doing cowboy stuff, just riding them, 502 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 2: and I was just bucking them out, and that's just 503 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 2: what I did. Well, I started doing this, you know, 504 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 2: I call it Brad Cameron stuff back then, and that 505 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 2: eight out of ten bucking went down a lot to 506 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 2: like one out of ten. Now, you tell me how 507 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 2: does that work? And I didn't know. I thought I 508 00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,320 Speaker 2: was just moving around. Maybe I was getting them tired, 509 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 2: you know whatever. I didn't understand the psychology of it 510 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 2: in that mule or that horse. I didn't understand how 511 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 2: their minds were changing. What I really didn't realize back 512 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 2: then is how I was changing. What was changing to me, 513 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 2: like I started to see the mule different. 514 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 1: This is worth stopping to consider what TDD just said. 515 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:26,120 Speaker 1: He went from eight out of ten mules bucking to 516 00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 1: one in ten, But he recognized that it was actually 517 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 1: him that was changing as he started to see the 518 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 1: mule completely differently, producing a new set of considerations. The 519 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 1: mule was no longer an adversary to be conquered by force, 520 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: but a potential partner that just needed convincing to give 521 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 1: its loyalty, which it actually wanted to give. In twenty twelve, 522 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 1: this book called Evidence Based Horsemanship came out and redefined 523 00:32:56,440 --> 00:33:00,280 Speaker 1: the way people viewed horses. It pointed out how people 524 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:05,040 Speaker 1: had anthropomorphized horses, thinking that a stubborn horse with bad 525 00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: behavior made choices like a rebellious child, or that a 526 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 1: horse didn't like people. But the authors, one of them 527 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:18,280 Speaker 1: a neuroscientists, described the psychology of the horse as desiring 528 00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 1: security and leadership. They're herd animals. They're always looking for 529 00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 1: a leader, and if a leader doesn't arise, they have 530 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 1: to become the leader. And therein lies the conflict of 531 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 1: the cowboy way, where leadership is taken by force. But 532 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 1: Ty would learn that he could create the circumstances where 533 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: a mule would give itself because of his true leadership, 534 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 1: and this was revolutionary. 535 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:51,800 Speaker 2: Brad Cameron used all kinds of terminologies. There's a quote. 536 00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,160 Speaker 2: He would quote it a lot, but I learned later 537 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 2: that it was a ray Hunt quote. They know if 538 00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,160 Speaker 2: you know, and they know if you don't know. The 539 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 2: puzzle to some people listening. But what I've come to 540 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 2: find is they the mule or the horse, they are 541 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:14,680 Speaker 2: aware of your awareness. They know what you're paying attention to. 542 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,600 Speaker 2: More or less, they can see it, they can sense it. 543 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 2: So in my high school days, I wasn't aware at all. 544 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 2: It was just me like totally physically manipulating and manhandling 545 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 2: these horses and mules. I was getting along just with 546 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:36,160 Speaker 2: my brute force and strength. And the more I started 547 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,239 Speaker 2: learned about the mind of the mule, the mind of 548 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:42,640 Speaker 2: the horse, and my own mind and how I acted, 549 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:46,880 Speaker 2: and you know, how I carried myself around an animal, 550 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 2: the less troubles I have, the troubles started fading away, 551 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:54,800 Speaker 2: and it was getting easier. 552 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 1: What Ty learned was that a mule spoke a completely 553 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 1: different language than a human, and when he started communicating 554 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 1: correctly with them, they were ready partners. I'd like to 555 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:15,120 Speaker 1: read a quote from evidence based Horsemanship. The horse brain 556 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,320 Speaker 1: is about the size of a large grapefruit and proportionally 557 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 1: one six hundred and fiftieth of their body weight. The 558 00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:26,240 Speaker 1: human brain is one fiftieth of our body weight. 559 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:27,319 Speaker 3: They have a. 560 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,279 Speaker 1: Large cerebellum for balance and smooth movement. Most of the 561 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 1: brain area is dedicated to motor and sensory functions. Horses 562 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,960 Speaker 1: do not have a huge frontal lobe like humans. They 563 00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:42,279 Speaker 1: are unable to make fun of someone in return to 564 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 1: share a joke with their pasture mates. Although they have 565 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:49,840 Speaker 1: personalities based on how they behave, it would be anthropomorphic 566 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:54,320 Speaker 1: to assign human personality traits to these animals. The temptation 567 00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 1: to want to believe that horses process things in the 568 00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:01,319 Speaker 1: same way as humans may make us feel better, but 569 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,760 Speaker 1: it is inaccurate, leads to false assumptions, and is often 570 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 1: at the expense of the horse's welfare and well being. 571 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 1: End of quote. The cowboy way of breaking mules assumes 572 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 1: that compliance must be taken by sheer force like a 573 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:21,479 Speaker 1: military dictator. That does produce compliance, but not the same 574 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:25,359 Speaker 1: kind of compliance as when it's freely given you see 575 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:30,200 Speaker 1: a prey. Animals love language is security. Their primary motivation 576 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 1: in life is safety and not to get eaten. Natural 577 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 1: horsemanship uses pressure and pressure, meaning like when you're trying 578 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 1: to make an animal turn to the left and after 579 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 1: this pressure when they do it, there is an instant 580 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:51,280 Speaker 1: release of that pressure as a reward for compliance, which 581 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:56,120 Speaker 1: these neuroscientists learn dumps a huge hit of dopamine. The 582 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:59,840 Speaker 1: mule loves a dopamine hit like Brent Reeves loves and 583 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:03,959 Speaker 1: honest Tree and Walker Ty learned that a mule will 584 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 1: do anything to get a pressure release. It may sound 585 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:12,000 Speaker 1: like jiu jitsu, but just hanging there and it takes 586 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:15,359 Speaker 1: less and less pressure once the mule learns that you're 587 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 1: speaking its language of release and security. It's all about communication. 588 00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,840 Speaker 1: I think there are life lessons in here. Sometimes the 589 00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 1: solution to your problems might be getting a completely different outlook, 590 00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 1: not more of the same that isn't working. And good 591 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 1: luck Brent finding an honest tree in. 592 00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:43,840 Speaker 2: Walker Brad, I learned how a mentor himself named Buck Brannman. 593 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 2: And so when I learned that Brad learned a lot 594 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:53,840 Speaker 2: from Buck, then I started paying attention to him. And 595 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,600 Speaker 2: that that was at a little later on about the 596 00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:59,840 Speaker 2: time where Buck Brownman had a documentary come out on 597 00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:03,320 Speaker 2: its life. It's called Buck and it was about Buck 598 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:08,360 Speaker 2: teaching clinics and his life. But I remember more or 599 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:11,840 Speaker 2: less seeing Buck's job, and I knew about clinics from Brad, 600 00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 2: but Buck was making a career out of this, teaching 601 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:22,400 Speaker 2: people and helping people and studying Brad and Buck. I 602 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,120 Speaker 2: had so much change in myself. And you know, when 603 00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 2: you find something good and you can see the good 604 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 2: and you can see like the joy coming into your life, 605 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:34,680 Speaker 2: you just want to share it with others. And when 606 00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 2: I saw that documentary that he was doing that, I said, 607 00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:39,640 Speaker 2: I told my wife, and we were newly wedded at 608 00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:42,960 Speaker 2: the time, we had only been married for a couple 609 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,919 Speaker 2: of years at that time, I said, I want that job. 610 00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:57,479 Speaker 2: That's the job I want. Getting bucked off and having 611 00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:01,520 Speaker 2: that wreck breaking my leg, what it did is that 612 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,799 Speaker 2: I'm a go getter. I'm ninety miles an hour all 613 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:09,360 Speaker 2: the time, drives my wife crazy. But that wreck slowed 614 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:12,600 Speaker 2: me down. It forced me to slow down, and I believe, 615 00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:17,839 Speaker 2: I believe it was it was God saying slow down, Ty, 616 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,680 Speaker 2: get on the right track, because I think I was 617 00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:26,359 Speaker 2: going off track. But that wreck slowed me down and 618 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 2: reoriented my life. And I had all the time to 619 00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,239 Speaker 2: think about it. I had all kinds of time to 620 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:34,960 Speaker 2: watch videos. I watched so many training videos sitting on 621 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,400 Speaker 2: the couch with a busted leg, and I just would 622 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:41,839 Speaker 2: learn and I would read, and I said, I'm gonna 623 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 2: make I'm gonna make a go of this. I'm gonna 624 00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,320 Speaker 2: I really want to do this. And so I didn't 625 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,360 Speaker 2: get back on a bucking horse for a couple of years. 626 00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:52,560 Speaker 2: And when I did go back to rodeo and I 627 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,840 Speaker 2: went back, I wrote it for summer. I went to 628 00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 2: fourteen rodeos that summer. Coming back finally took me, yeah, 629 00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 2: two years to my leg to heal up and to 630 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:05,399 Speaker 2: get muscle back. But when I came back, it didn't 631 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 2: have the same drive. I remember sitting on the back 632 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,080 Speaker 2: of a bucking shoot in Sant Quentin, Utah, looking up 633 00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 2: at the at Mountain Nebo, beautiful Mountain, and I think 634 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 2: to myself as I'm sitting there, man, I'd rather be 635 00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:21,719 Speaker 2: up there with my mule. I'd rather be riding. I'd 636 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:25,960 Speaker 2: rather be camping anything. And so that was my last rodeo. 637 00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,680 Speaker 2: I was in twenty fourteen, and up to that point 638 00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,719 Speaker 2: I had actually started doing a couple of clinics like 639 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:37,719 Speaker 2: at home. I couldn't ride mules after that wreck for 640 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,040 Speaker 2: a period of time, but I you know, later that 641 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,200 Speaker 2: that summer and that fall, I got to riding again, 642 00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:46,360 Speaker 2: and I got to training again, and we started doing lessons, 643 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:50,680 Speaker 2: and we started doing like little clinics at home, and 644 00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,719 Speaker 2: our first clinic was in I believe it was May 645 00:40:53,760 --> 00:41:03,680 Speaker 2: of twenty twelve. Where I work with meals now is 646 00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 2: a lot different than I did back then, not in 647 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:10,880 Speaker 2: the sense I mean, you can only do so much 648 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,760 Speaker 2: with the mule, Like while I'm talking about the actual 649 00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,640 Speaker 2: training pieces. You can go forward and back and side 650 00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:22,320 Speaker 2: to side, hopefully not up and down. So in that sense, 651 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:26,839 Speaker 2: it didn't change, Like we still accomplish the goal, and 652 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 2: the goal for me is to make a nice, dependable, 653 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:36,440 Speaker 2: reliable partner that we can go out and go for 654 00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:40,160 Speaker 2: a good ride. I can go work cows, I can rope, 655 00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:43,280 Speaker 2: I can go on pack trips, we can go hunting 656 00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:50,040 Speaker 2: a reliable partner. But it's how I get to that point. 657 00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:54,120 Speaker 2: It's how I get there that's different now. Back then, 658 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:57,480 Speaker 2: in those old days, it was a lot of force. 659 00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:59,319 Speaker 2: And I'll admit to you, I forced a lot of 660 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,759 Speaker 2: meals horses, and I have a lot of regrets. There's 661 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:03,840 Speaker 2: a lot of them that I wish I could have 662 00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:09,160 Speaker 2: a second chance at. However, I do realize that some 663 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 2: of those meals and horses were kind of the I guess, 664 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:16,640 Speaker 2: for lack of better words, the sacrifice for today's mules. 665 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:21,959 Speaker 2: They had to deal with old tie, so that these 666 00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:28,359 Speaker 2: mules today can rape the benefits of new tie, you know, 667 00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 2: the new tie events. And today I spend a lot 668 00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:38,160 Speaker 2: of time using what we call free agency, teaching free 669 00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:42,919 Speaker 2: agency and letting these mules have a choice. So I'll 670 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:47,200 Speaker 2: set up a scenario where I want it to be 671 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:51,799 Speaker 2: easy for the mule to do whatever I wanted to do. 672 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,920 Speaker 2: There's a principle we teach, make the right thing easy, 673 00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,560 Speaker 2: wrong thing difficult. Well, you got to be careful with that, 674 00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,520 Speaker 2: because some people can take their anthing difficult part all 675 00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 2: the way to the bank. They just want to make 676 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,520 Speaker 2: wrong thing difficult, long and difficult. My focus is making 677 00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:07,640 Speaker 2: the right thing easier. 678 00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,680 Speaker 1: I've got to stop right there and ponder the applications 679 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 1: of this principle outside of training mules. As a father, 680 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:22,680 Speaker 1: I often find myself focused on making the wrong things hard, 681 00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:26,399 Speaker 1: but putting little focus on the reward of the right thing. 682 00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 1: As I look back the way I've fathered, I see 683 00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:34,280 Speaker 1: that I've used conflict inaccurately. I've applied too much pressure 684 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,480 Speaker 1: in the wrong places, trying to get an external response 685 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,560 Speaker 1: that really doesn't teach my child anything or it doesn't 686 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 1: actually change them. But as a more broad application, after 687 00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 1: hearing Tai story and learning about natural horsemanship, I realize 688 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:55,279 Speaker 1: the solution to some problems isn't achieved by doing what 689 00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:57,040 Speaker 1: you're already doing. 690 00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 3: Just harder. 691 00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,360 Speaker 1: I hope that makes sense, but may be it's the 692 00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:03,719 Speaker 1: adoption of a completely new paradigm that will show you 693 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:06,880 Speaker 1: a solution you had no idea existed. 694 00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:09,960 Speaker 3: Here's some specifics. 695 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:15,560 Speaker 1: Of this make the right thing easy philosophy. 696 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,040 Speaker 2: So if I want to get something done, all I 697 00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:22,480 Speaker 2: have to do is let it be the mule's choice 698 00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:26,200 Speaker 2: to do that, and set up that scenario to where 699 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 2: that thing that I want to do, whether it's go 700 00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:33,560 Speaker 2: across that water, load up in a horse trailer, walk 701 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:37,640 Speaker 2: up on a mountain lion, it make that easy to do. 702 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 2: I want it to be easy to do, where before 703 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,879 Speaker 2: in the old days I might just kick and pull 704 00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:50,359 Speaker 2: and force them to get there. Either way we're going 705 00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:52,359 Speaker 2: to end up there. It's just how I do it. 706 00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:55,480 Speaker 2: And I might be able to force that horse or 707 00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 2: force that mule to do something one time, but the 708 00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:00,440 Speaker 2: chances of me forcing it to do a couple of 709 00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,360 Speaker 2: times probably slim. So it's easier to set up the 710 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,839 Speaker 2: situation where they want to do it. And then when 711 00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:10,840 Speaker 2: they do it and you give them the reward, which 712 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:16,640 Speaker 2: the reward really is just relief for a release, meaning 713 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:21,400 Speaker 2: you leave them alone, you stop asking them, you just 714 00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:26,680 Speaker 2: let them dwell and relax. That's the best reward. And 715 00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,000 Speaker 2: so when they do that or they get a big 716 00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 2: dopamine hit and it feels good to them, and so 717 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,080 Speaker 2: when they finally accomplish the task you're trying to get done, 718 00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:39,719 Speaker 2: they're like, hey, I like this. It's a good experience, 719 00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 2: and so then they want to do it again, just 720 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:44,000 Speaker 2: like anybody else. You have a good experience and you 721 00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:51,960 Speaker 2: enjoy you want to do it again. Probably one of 722 00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:56,400 Speaker 2: the best things about my journey I'm really grateful for 723 00:45:56,440 --> 00:46:01,960 Speaker 2: it is how I've changed. I realized the emule's meal 724 00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,520 Speaker 2: horse is a horse, and a humans a human, and 725 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,960 Speaker 2: it's all about how we think. And if I want 726 00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,360 Speaker 2: to get along with these animals, I need to understand 727 00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:15,799 Speaker 2: how they're thinking. But in order for me to understand them, 728 00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:20,240 Speaker 2: I need to understand myself. Like if I don't recognize 729 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:24,400 Speaker 2: when my adrenaline is high, how am I going to 730 00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:28,440 Speaker 2: recognize when THEIRS is high? If I don't recognize when 731 00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:34,680 Speaker 2: I have some fear or doubt or even excitement, or 732 00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 2: maybe overly overly brave, you know, or overly I don't know, cocky, 733 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 2: you know, or or too forward, like if I don't 734 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,200 Speaker 2: recognize the life in my own body that I'm put now, 735 00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:48,200 Speaker 2: it's really going to be hard for me to control 736 00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:52,719 Speaker 2: the animals. If I can't control my emotions, how can 737 00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:56,360 Speaker 2: I expect to control theirs? Like One of the principles 738 00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:00,960 Speaker 2: that we teach in our clinics, we teach leadership in 739 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,000 Speaker 2: our clinics, and one of the principles of leadership in 740 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:07,319 Speaker 2: our clinics is to this two parts. We begin with 741 00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:10,000 Speaker 2: the end in mind? So what is it that you 742 00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,799 Speaker 2: want your mule your horse to be like? Well, what's 743 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:16,040 Speaker 2: the end in mind for you? Is it? I want 744 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:17,800 Speaker 2: to make a really good calmule. I want to be 745 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:19,319 Speaker 2: able to rope. I want to be able to trail ride. 746 00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,240 Speaker 2: I want to be able to hunt, I want to pack, 747 00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:23,719 Speaker 2: I want to barrel race. Oh, it doesn't matter what 748 00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:26,280 Speaker 2: it is. Maybe you just want to pass your pet. Cool, 749 00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:32,000 Speaker 2: But what is that end? What do you want them 750 00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:35,120 Speaker 2: to be like? And then the second part is you 751 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,160 Speaker 2: have to be what you want them to become. And 752 00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,480 Speaker 2: that's my favorite part is be what you want them 753 00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:44,000 Speaker 2: to become. So how can I expect my mule to 754 00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 2: be confident if I'm not confident? So if I come 755 00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,120 Speaker 2: to an obstacle and we ride some rough country here 756 00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:53,120 Speaker 2: in Utah, we ride some tough stuff. And if I 757 00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:56,240 Speaker 2: come to this obstacle and it might be a crazy 758 00:47:56,400 --> 00:48:01,000 Speaker 2: rocky slope, it might be some ravines or some deep canyons, 759 00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,840 Speaker 2: whatever it might be. If I go, oh boy, I 760 00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,880 Speaker 2: don't know about that, my mule's going to fill that. 761 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:09,640 Speaker 2: They're going to fill that and it'll take a really 762 00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:14,080 Speaker 2: confident meal to overcome my lack of confidence. But if 763 00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:15,719 Speaker 2: I come up with the obstacle, I'm like, Okay, yeah, 764 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 2: we got this, we can do this. That is contagious 765 00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:24,880 Speaker 2: to the animal. If I want my mule to be relaxed, calm, 766 00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,640 Speaker 2: whatever words you want to use, I have to be 767 00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,759 Speaker 2: all those first. That's what a good leader does. I 768 00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:34,560 Speaker 2: can't tell you to calm down and I'm freaking out. 769 00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:39,640 Speaker 2: That doesn't make any sense. Everybody calm down. No, I 770 00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:42,200 Speaker 2: need to be calm. I need to be that example 771 00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 2: and an exam. Being an example to an equine or 772 00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:49,479 Speaker 2: a horse is not exactly the way human to human work, 773 00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:51,040 Speaker 2: but it's very similar. 774 00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:02,759 Speaker 1: A mule mirrors your confidence, in energy and insecurities, and 775 00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:10,160 Speaker 1: the followers of a leader also mirror a leader's confidence, energy, 776 00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:14,360 Speaker 1: and insecurities. The primary function of leadership and listen to 777 00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:18,120 Speaker 1: this man, take this to the bank. The primary function 778 00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:21,920 Speaker 1: of leadership is to be the pattern and the example 779 00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:26,600 Speaker 1: of exactly what you want those who follow you to be. 780 00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 3: That's it. 781 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:33,239 Speaker 1: This is the key to true leadership. Period leadership as 782 00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:36,239 Speaker 1: a parent, as a business owner, as a member of 783 00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:39,480 Speaker 1: a basketball team, as a productive member of your community 784 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:41,160 Speaker 1: or as a mule trainer. 785 00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,799 Speaker 3: The natural, physical, and spiritual. 786 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:51,240 Speaker 1: World responds and rewards authenticity and rejects falsity. Tie's journey 787 00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:55,160 Speaker 1: of transformation and the way he trained mules also highlights 788 00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:58,319 Speaker 1: something that can be hard for human beings, and that 789 00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:04,360 Speaker 1: is to realize that you're doing something wrong and completely change. Today, 790 00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:09,760 Speaker 1: Tye and his wife Sky are successful mule clinicians traveling 791 00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:13,800 Speaker 1: all over the country teaching people how to communicate, ride 792 00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:18,200 Speaker 1: train their mules. You can find them all over the 793 00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:24,080 Speaker 1: internet as TS Mules. You can check him out on Instagram, Facebook, 794 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,040 Speaker 1: and the TS Mules Podcasts. 795 00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:27,279 Speaker 3: Tie has a podcast. 796 00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,880 Speaker 1: These are some really great people and I've learned a 797 00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:34,480 Speaker 1: ton from Ty's story and I hope that you guys 798 00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:39,279 Speaker 1: will follow along. And we've got some more coming from 799 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:44,759 Speaker 1: Tye next week. Thank you so much for listening to 800 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:50,320 Speaker 1: Bear Grease Brints this country Life and Lake's Backwoods University. 801 00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:52,040 Speaker 3: It's twenty twenty six. 802 00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:56,560 Speaker 1: We're excited about the new year and keep the wild 803 00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:58,400 Speaker 1: places wild because that's where reversed the