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Speaker 1: Hello, George, Welcome back to the Give Them Lai Lat podcast.

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Speaker 1: The Bonus episode with Britney Cartwright, people went insane, writing questions.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready, I'm ready?

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Speaker 3: Do you like Q and A or do you get nervous?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: I like him all right?

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Speaker 1: Purce L Jennifer says, uh, what do her parents and

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Speaker 1: family think of Jack's Now?

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Speaker 2: My family is super nice and they I mean, they

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Speaker 2: don't like love him by any means, but they like

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Speaker 2: have a lot of respect for him as the father

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Speaker 2: of my child. So they're not going to like be

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Speaker 2: mean to him, but they're not going to He's not

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Speaker 2: going to be as close by any means as like

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Speaker 2: how he used to be, right, you know what I mean. Like,

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Speaker 2: my family's super nice, super forgiving. That's just who they are.

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Speaker 2: That's just who they are and why I am the

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Speaker 2: way I am. So, you know, my dad was just

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Speaker 2: here for Cruz's birthday and I told him that, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, Jackson's gonna come to the birthday, and my

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Speaker 2: dad was like, well, that's fine, you know, and they

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Speaker 2: both talk to him, my dad and my stepmom a

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Speaker 2: little bit, you know, just stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: But Jack's ever call your mom if he needs to

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Speaker 1: get in touch with you.

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Speaker 2: He hasn't done that recently, but he probably would, like

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Speaker 2: if it went there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean, like if he really

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Speaker 3: needed to get in touch with you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's got like weird I don't know, he gets

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Speaker 2: weird jealous things even whenever it comes like my family,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, just weird.

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Speaker 3: I can't imagine how he feels about you talking to

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Speaker 3: his sister.

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Speaker 2: Oh, and me and Jenny are super close, but he

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Speaker 2: doesn't act like he cares about that.

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Speaker 1: So really, yeah, maybe he thinks that like God keeps

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Speaker 1: you close to what yea his yeople?

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Speaker 2: Because I'm down to like take Cruise to Michigan to

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Speaker 2: visit Jenny. I love her that much and I love Patrick,

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Speaker 2: and I want them to always be in Cruise's life.

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Speaker 2: She's a great person, great aunt. She's always had my back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So, and Jackson's always like, I'm like, yeah, I'll take

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Speaker 2: him to Michigan. Jacks's like, well, can't I go? And

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Speaker 2: I'm like, we're not going together, Like I could take

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Speaker 2: him once, and you could take him once maybe if

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Speaker 2: things are okay, but we are on like family vacation.

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Speaker 1: He's tripping some Nicole zero nine zero five. Do you

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Speaker 1: ever see you in Jack's co parenting in a healthy way?

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Speaker 3: My ex was a drug disaster.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's the goal, one hundred percent. That's the

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Speaker 2: goal is to get there. It's it's a struggle. Every

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Speaker 2: day is different. But for the most part, like whenever

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Speaker 2: we only talk about Cruise, it's fine. It's whenever Jackson

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Speaker 2: wants to like come in and you know, I did

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Speaker 2: that Brownie ad and he was asking me if I

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Speaker 2: was dating one of the brawny guys.

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Speaker 3: You're like, no, I'm dating all of that.

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Speaker 2: So it's just like a lot of like ups and downs,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Yeah, he's got to let

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Speaker 2: go of a lot of the control that he thinks

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Speaker 2: that he has over me, you know. But whenever it

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Speaker 2: comes to cruise, that is both of our main goal.

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Speaker 2: So you know, I just hope that one day it gets,

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Speaker 2: you know a little bit better.

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Speaker 3: I think that. I think it definitely.

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Speaker 2: I think it will too. It's still fresh right now

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Speaker 2: and we're still reliving everything from last summer.

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Speaker 3: So if you think about it, a year is really nothing. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: a year like that's like a.

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Speaker 1: Nice cushion to start healing. But a year really is

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Speaker 1: like no, especially.

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Speaker 2: When you've been together for so long. So if we're

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Speaker 2: ex fighting, if you don't get along with the person

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Speaker 2: you're co parenting with, it makes it extremely difficult. But

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Speaker 2: I try to do my best and put that crap

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Speaker 1: Do you ever have moments where you're like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: this is so funny, this whatever that happened. I got

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Speaker 1: to call Jackson, it's like, oh wait, like breaking that habit.

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Speaker 2: I had that a lot of times. He was like

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Speaker 2: my very best friend because I was with him twenty

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Speaker 2: four to seven, and he was the person I told

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Speaker 2: was kind of weird to have to stop telling him everything. Yeah, yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Can imagine that would be hard. I mean I remember

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Speaker 1: going through my shit and I was like, all I

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Speaker 1: want to do is call the one person who.

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Speaker 2: Caused all of them exactly.

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Speaker 1: So that's a fucking weird fel Yeah. Golden ex ex

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Speaker 1: Lolita says, do you feel used.

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Speaker 3: To being an LA girl already?

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Speaker 2: I mean not really, Like I said, I don't even

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Speaker 2: know where I am right now, so like when it

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Speaker 3: Feel like home though? Does La feel like home? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Like my house, Yeah, feels like a home one hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm so glad. I love it there. I love

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Speaker 2: my neighborhood. I love you know, me and Cruise, and

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Speaker 2: I feel like I have I don't have family here,

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Speaker 2: but I have like you guys here, and that's like

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Speaker 2: my family in La. It's like my close friends. So

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Speaker 2: I definitely do feel at home in La. I'm always

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Speaker 2: going to be a Kentucky girl, a country girl, Like

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Speaker 2: I don't think that that's ever gonna leave me. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I enjoy La a lot.

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Speaker 3: When you land in Kentucky, do you feel home?

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Speaker 2: I feel home there too.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I get like really bored because, like my mom's

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Speaker 2: we live so far out in the country, so like

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Speaker 2: the WiFi works like half the time, and then I'm like,

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Speaker 2: how did I live like this.

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Speaker 3: For so hard?

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Speaker 2: So there is a lot that's changed. But also even

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Speaker 2: technology has changed a lot since I've lived in La.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm meaning the sneak game, what I

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Speaker 3: was doing, I like.

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Speaker 1: I had a Facebook maybe, oh, yeah, like a MySpace,

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Speaker 1: I remember thinking, and you could put like your top

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Speaker 1: eight bus friends.

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Speaker 2: God if I had that, now, can you imagine how

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Speaker 2: all my friends would be acting? If I had to

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Speaker 2: pick my top.

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Speaker 1: Eight you could only pick, it would be horrendous. Who

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Speaker 1: would your top.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm not even doing that. Please absolutely not, guys

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Speaker 2: for today. No, I already go through it enough on

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Speaker 2: the valley, I can't, can't.

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Speaker 1: Even Mine would be you, Sheena, Janet, my mom, Easton, Logan, Leo.

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Speaker 1: And then I need a filler so that person could

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Speaker 1: always be swapped in. That's the one that would change,

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Speaker 2: My top eight too. I mean, I guess I could

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, your mom in there.

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Speaker 2: Top eight. If I'm just doing like friends, it would

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Speaker 2: it would be you, Kristen, Zach, Janet, Kara, mm hmm,

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Speaker 2: oh gosh, am I missing people? Michelle and then oh gosh,

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Speaker 2: see it's hard because I have so many good friends

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Speaker 3: I think they top the rest of them all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and so it would be like, uh, Lindy and Marianne.

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Speaker 3: Love it so No, Nia and I.

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Speaker 2: Didn't say, Sena, like, you know, they're all spoken. I

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Speaker 2: many close friends about home too.

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Speaker 3: I know that's why the topic was hard.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's is hard. But all those people would be

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Speaker 2: on it getting changed in and out. Let me just

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I get trouble.

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Speaker 1: See, I keep such a small circle, so like mine's easy.

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Speaker 1: I got a phone call from someone the other day

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Speaker 3: I'll just leave it at them.

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Speaker 1: Do you know the call that I'm talking about? And

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Speaker 1: I was like, you guys know who my friends are?

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Speaker 1: You know who my friends are?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Mike, I don't know what anybody.

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Speaker 3: People make me nervous. You know this called Sena.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hard.

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Speaker 3: Got the roll of deck.

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Speaker 2: It's hard to like trust people, I guess you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you think that's why you gotta be be around

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Speaker 1: people who have a lot to lose as well. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Kyle s Boyd, besides his delayed speech cruisies, were there

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Speaker 1: any other indicators of autism for Cruise.

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Speaker 2: Dev Well, obviously the delight speech was like the first

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Speaker 2: and that could be an early sign of autism, okay.

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Speaker 2: Just things like that really, and then he started not

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Speaker 2: looking at people, Like the eye contact was a big thing,

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Speaker 2: Like he looks at me, he always has, but like

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Speaker 2: So those were some of like the early signs that

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Speaker 3: How is he with touching? Does he like to be.

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Speaker 2: He loves getting tickled and stuff? Okay some days?

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Speaker 3: Was that ever an indicator or not for cruisy?

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Speaker 2: Not too bad for a cruisy, I know that is

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Speaker 2: for a lot of kids on the spectrum, but not

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Speaker 2: too bad for Crusy. Maybe with other people. But he's

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Speaker 2: one of the things that was like an early indicator

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Speaker 2: for okay, so you know, you would say your top

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Speaker 2: he likes to like not bite his palm, but like

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Speaker 2: that's something that he does. He used to flap some,

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Speaker 2: but he's like kind of stop that completely. Wow, so

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Speaker 2: OT is really but he's not stemming near as much

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Speaker 3: Does he stem when he is excited, overwhelmed? All of it?

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Speaker 2: All of it? So a lot of people think like

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Speaker 2: if he's stemming, that he might just be like completely overwhelmed,

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Speaker 2: which it could be. But sometimes he's like really happy

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Speaker 2: he just stems a little bit different and I just

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 2: Because I don't like to feel like he's out of place.

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Speaker 2: Like if we're like in line somewhere and he starts like,

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Speaker 2: Is it weird if I say myself, no, there's still

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think it's weird to say yourself at all.

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Speaker 1: I tell you who surprised me? Dody and we weren't

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Speaker 1: You know, I can't believe you keep a smile on

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Speaker 3: Don't do it? Kick back and wait, like start getting

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Speaker 1: There's nothing that anyone can say. There's not one night

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Speaker 2: Man, I was visiting my mom in Kentucky and we

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Speaker 3: So did someone give the name up? Shortsy Schwartzy Shirtsy?

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Speaker 3: Who's here? He be on the pod?

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Speaker 2: Poor thing. He felt so bad because, you know, Jackson

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Speaker 3: Know it, you know what I mean exactly? Not everyone

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Speaker 1: Do you remember when my ex posted Stacy and Bo's

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Speaker 3: And like the password where it was. I was like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a this or that game before, let's

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Speaker 3: Brunch or a sur dinner.

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Speaker 1: When it comes to filming, would you rather film a

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Speaker 3: With the surcast?

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Speaker 2: The valley brunch?

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Speaker 2: Well they're all my good, Hey you come on the valley,

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Speaker 3: Film with exes or filming hungover? Which is worse?

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Speaker 2: Oh gosh, probably gonna be filming with xes now even

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Speaker 2: Like it's not easy filming with Jacks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't wait to see the rest.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Would you rather have Jesse as a husband forever

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Speaker 3: Okay? Easy choice?

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Speaker 3: Which would you pick? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Lord, I hate I hate them both. I don't like confrontation.

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Speaker 3: No, you hate it? Yeah? I hate it? Yeah, happy

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Speaker 2: I will stick up for myself. But I hate it.

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Speaker 2: I think a reunion maybe because everybody it's almost like

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Speaker 3: Yeah you know what I mean? Yeah I do.

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Speaker 2: And it still is real life too.

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Speaker 1: It's real life, but you feel like you all know

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Speaker 1: the drills exact, we all know why we're here. Kristen

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Speaker 2: I mean, I would do either one of those if

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Speaker 3: Okay, it doesn't matter who it is.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to live with anybody anymore.

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Speaker 3: You know, you don't want to live with your mom

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Speaker 2: You got your great thing going on. I just don't

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Speaker 3: You want that big old house yourself.

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Speaker 1: Last one, would you rather have Andy Cohen as your

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Speaker 2: Andy Cohen as my therapist? Probably? I was going to

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Speaker 2: I've done over the years, he always seems to kind

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Speaker 2: of be our therapist.

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Speaker 3: He's excellent.

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Speaker 2: Yea, Yeah, he's great.

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Speaker 3: A man hosts Kardashian reunion.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you's good it as doll.

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Speaker 1: I would much rather have him as a therapist than

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Speaker 1: to switch teams and end up sucking Andy.

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Speaker 3: I don't like that exactly.

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Speaker 2: How about compete with it?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for staying for a Q and A for

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Speaker 1: the bonus you guys, Thank you for listening to another

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Speaker 1: bonus episode of the Give Them All a Pod.

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Speaker 3: I will catch you guys next week. Ye