1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: It's a fresh show. It's Kiki's Court, all right, the 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: Honorable Kikileik is in the courtroom. Judge ke take it away. 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: Oh yes, court is in session. 4 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 2: Okay, this one has me torn, so I definitely need 5 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 2: the thirteen to wigh in. It says, hey, Kei, Kei, 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 2: my name is Maya and I'm getting married in September. 7 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: Please tell me if I'm wrong. 8 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 2: But I just had the biggest argument with my sister, 9 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 2: who also happens to be my maid of honor. The 10 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 2: argument started because we're going over my wedding guest list 11 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:34,560 Speaker 2: and my sister acts word plus one. She's been dating 12 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 2: this guy for a few months, and now all of 13 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 2: a sudden, she wants to bring him to my wedding. 14 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 2: I said no, because my fiance and I are paying 15 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: for this wedding out of our pockets and our budget 16 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 2: is already tight. I'm not paying for some random guy 17 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 2: that you're dating. If you're not married, you don't deserve 18 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 2: a plus one. Single people need to understand that why 19 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 2: would I pay for someone to just start that you 20 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 2: just started dating to eat and drink for free. 21 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: Now she's threatening. 22 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:03,959 Speaker 2: To drop out of my wedding and causing a lot 23 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,479 Speaker 2: of drama all because of her little boyfriend. 24 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: Am I wrong? Wow? I've always been a little like 25 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:14,119 Speaker 1: unclear on the rules with the plus ones same same 26 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:16,759 Speaker 1: because like you know, people will say, well you get 27 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: the invitation, and it will say and guessed. But I've 28 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 1: had plus ones where it didn't say that right, And 29 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: then I've also like had to do the uncomfortable thing 30 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: where I have to ask like, hey, can I bring 31 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 1: somebody to this thing or you know, and then you asks, well, 32 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what else. Isn't that better 33 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: than just showing up with somebody? 34 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 2: Well, if they don't put plus one on my invitation, 35 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 2: I just assume that a plus one is not allowed. 36 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 2: And that's what I think is like crossing the wires 37 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 2: here because Maya, like you, I understand, this is your wedding, 38 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 2: and a wedding is not a date night, you know 39 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. A lot of people get that confused. 40 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 2: A wedding is not a party for the family. A 41 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 2: wedding is not a family reunion. It's somebody's wedding. So 42 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 2: you have all right to invite whoever you want and 43 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: disinvite whoever you don't want. However, to say single people 44 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 2: don't deserve a plus. 45 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: One, that's a little that's a little crazy to me. 46 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 2: But if I get an invite and I don't see 47 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 2: the option four plus one, I just automatically assume that 48 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 2: I cannot bring somebody. 49 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: Well, because this is where it gets confusing, is most 50 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: of the time the RSVP card is the same for everybody, 51 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: so like you have to look at I guess how 52 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: it's addressed to you, like if it's so and so 53 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: and guest or whatever. But because like oftentimes everybody has 54 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: the thing to fill in, you know, summer custom, I guess, 55 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: and it will only give you one choice, but like 56 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: others will be like how many are attending, and it's 57 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: like whoa steak or chicken? Then I'll say like two, yeah, right, 58 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 1: well I'm taking I'm bringing all three my girlfriends. I mean, 59 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 1: there's an empty line there. I just filled it in. 60 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: Yeah that's crazy, but I get it, and I don't 61 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: get it because I feel like, if you're inviting me 62 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: to an event, it's maybe not fair to assume that 63 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: I'm just going to show up by myself. Maybe I 64 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: don't know a lot of people there. Maybe it's kind 65 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: of I don't mean it's your sister's wedding. 66 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 2: So if your sister told you, Amanda was like, Frank, 67 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: you're in my wedding. I need you at my wedding. 68 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 2: You're my brother, But you cannot bring the girl you 69 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 2: just started dating five months ago. 70 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: Well you know what's your drop back? That actually did happen. Oh, 71 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: I was seeing somebody and for a couple of months 72 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: before my sister got married, And the only rule was 73 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 1: my parents were like, don't bring this girl. The first 74 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 1: time that we meet her should not be at your 75 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: sister's wedding like we need because we're not going to 76 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 1: have a chance to really even meet her because we're 77 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,519 Speaker 1: going to be busy with other stuff. So you need 78 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: to bring you need to bring her around before then. 79 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: And then that we went wound up breaking up, so 80 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: it didn't matter. But there was a rule. It was basically, 81 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 1: don't bring this person around here for the very first 82 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: time unless we've also had a chance to get to 83 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: know work. Could it would be uncomfortable for her too. 84 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 2: Right, But if she had given you the ultimatum like 85 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 2: I don't care if you bring her around. You've only 86 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 2: been dating her for five months, she's not allowed to 87 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 2: come to my wedding. Would you have been upset with 88 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 2: Amanda or threatening to drop out of our wedding? 89 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: Nuo? No, okay no, But I also think, like I mean, 90 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: I should be able to bring somebody with me. I 91 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: agree I shouldn't have to just because I'm single doesn't 92 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: mean or I'm unmarried. Really in this case, yeah, it 93 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 1: doesn't mean I should have to show up everything by myself. 94 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 2: That's what I say to as a single woman. You know, 95 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 2: I feel like I should get a plus one. But 96 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: in my case, in her case, if I'm only dating 97 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 2: this guy a couple months, I don't know if he's 98 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 2: going to be around a long time. Like, people need 99 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,919 Speaker 2: to understand, a wedding is very expensive, and when you 100 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 2: think about putting it together, I would think if I 101 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 2: wouldn't pay seventy dollars or more for a dinner with 102 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 2: this person, why would I invite them to my wedding? 103 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 3: Because she's your maid of honor and she's your sister, 104 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 3: and I would be okay with her bringing the guy 105 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 3: that she's dating, Like that's completely fine to me, honestly. 106 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 3: And I say this for you guys too, Like if 107 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 3: you are single, you can bring a plus one that 108 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 3: doesn't bother me. 109 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 1: I think at that. 110 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 3: Point the host or the bride and room should just 111 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 3: offer that to their guests, like for example, with Rufeo, 112 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 3: I said, Rufio and Jests are invited. Rufeo wasn't gonna 113 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 3: come with no other plus one. It was Rufio and 114 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 3: Jess because they are a couple and I know them. 115 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 3: They're married. But for like you guys are, who ever 116 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 3: was single, I said, bring bring somebody if you'd like. 117 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 1: Kaylen brought a friend, Like, I was completely okay with you. 118 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: Kaylen brought a friend and then I probably she was 119 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: popped up against me. Yeah, yeah, yeah I was. I was. 120 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: I was a physical tripod for this woman. Yeah, like 121 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 1: literally was weekend at Bernie's at your wedding. It was, Yeah, 122 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: she brought a friend and it was here and after 123 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: two drinks she was so hammered. It was just proper 124 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 1: up against the six foot five guy. And you'll just 125 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: I wasn't mad about it, but at least she made 126 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: it to the welcome party. She did. Like that's true, 127 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 1: unlike you're now husband, make it. She had to be 128 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: propped up. 129 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 4: She was there. 130 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 1: She was there all that matters. There wasn't. I don't 131 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: think there was really a time except we were in 132 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 1: the pool that I wasn't concerned that she was going 133 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: to fall over if I didn't stand next to her 134 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: and in the pool, I was worried about her drowning. 135 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 2: Never mind, don't give a plus one. 136 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 5: In my experience, if you're ever in the wedding party, 137 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 5: no matter if you're single or with someone, you always 138 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 5: get a plus one because I think it's a nice 139 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 5: nod to say, hey, thank you, it's a lot of money. 140 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 1: Whatever I have heard of. 141 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 5: If I don't know of you dating someone, you're not 142 00:05:58,680 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 5: getting a plus one. 143 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 1: I've heard of that. I think it gets shady. 144 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 5: I guess maybe when it's family because you want your 145 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 5: sibling to like be with you the whole day and 146 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 5: spend family time, and it's hard with some like random 147 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 5: dude around. 148 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 1: But what do I care? I mean, get your plusurele see. 149 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 1: I would argue, if you're in the wedding, unless it's 150 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: someone you're pretty serious with who knows other people there, 151 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 1: I would argue not to bring. I would argue that 152 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: the time to bring somebody you just started dating is 153 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: if you're just a guest. Because if I just started 154 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: dating you and I'm in the wedding, that means there's 155 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,600 Speaker 1: a lot of time that this person who nobody knows 156 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: is just gonna have to offend for themselves, right, And 157 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if I think that's fair. 158 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 5: It's just a gesture that like usually the Brian groom do. 159 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:37,719 Speaker 5: But I also would say that this is the deal. 160 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 5: You're going to be alone a lot of the day 161 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 5: and leave it up to my date. And if they're 162 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 5: fine with it, why not. 163 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: Eight five five five nine three five. You guys are 164 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 1: the jury. Kate. Good morning, Hi, good morning, how are you? Hey? 165 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 1: Good morning? So Kiki's court, why don't you recap it 166 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: real quick for everybody. 167 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 2: Maya is getting married in September. Her sister wants to 168 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 2: bring a guy that she just started dating to the 169 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 2: wedding and Maya said absolutely not. Now the sister, who's 170 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 2: also the maid of honor, is the threatening to drop 171 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 2: out of the wedding. 172 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: Same you can drop by the wedding over and do 173 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: it anyway. What do you think, Kate? 174 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 4: Well, I think if the bride and groom are paying 175 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 4: for the wedding, they do have the right to decide, 176 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 4: like if you get a plus one or not. If 177 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 4: they can't afford it and they want their friends there, 178 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 4: I think that's fine. But to say that people don't 179 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 4: deserve a plus one, that's like giving me Bridezilla a 180 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 4: little bit. 181 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. And then to say that you're not going 182 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: to attend your sister's wedding, come on, Like, you can 183 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 1: be pissed, but don't do that. Don't hold it over. 184 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: I mean it's you know, you hope this only happens 185 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: like two or three times in her life, so youly 186 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,239 Speaker 1: happens once, so like, but you don't that's not cool. 187 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: I mean you could be pissed, but you still you 188 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: don't tell her. You're not going to add to the 189 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: stress of the event by saying also, I'm not gonna 190 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: calm Like, come on, I mean that she got to 191 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: stand up. What's that kid? 192 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 4: What is this guy gonna do if there's no club? 193 00:07:56,720 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: Uh? Oh? If what you well, what's that going to 194 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: do with one? 195 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 4: If like, if there's no other plus ones there, the 196 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 4: bridal party's got to go like do pictures and all 197 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 4: the wedding parties. 198 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean he can fend for himself. But yeah, 199 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: I get I guess it's more about the expense than 200 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: it is like his happiness or comfort or whatever. But Kate, 201 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: thank you so much. Have a great day you too. Taylor. 202 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: Hi Taylor, good morning. How you doing. 203 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 6: I'm doing great? 204 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 7: Thanks? 205 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 4: How are you guys? 206 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: Hey? Great? Welcome? What do you think? 207 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 6: So this actually happened to me at my wedding. I 208 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 6: have two sisters and one of them I didn't even 209 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 6: know she was dating someone. She had been dating him 210 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 6: secretly for six months, and she was like, where's my 211 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 6: plus one? And I was like, b you didn't even 212 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 6: tell me we're dating somebody. But I think to what 213 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 6: some other people have said, like with immediate family, I 214 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 6: think you give them that. I think there's a ring 215 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 6: of kind of like if an extended friend is asking 216 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 6: for a plus one and I didn't know you were 217 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 6: dating someone, I'm sorry, but no, But if you're my sibling, 218 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 6: I'm going to get. 219 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 4: You a pass. 220 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 6: So I allowed my sister to bring her secret boyfriend. 221 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 6: I had allowed my other sister then to bring her 222 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 6: boyfriend of three months. Thankfully my persister not married to 223 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 6: her secret boyfriend. So had I denied? Had I denied? 224 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 6: That I would have been essentially denied my future brother 225 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 6: in law. So I think there's a little liberty and 226 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,559 Speaker 6: grace you have to give your you know, your siblings 227 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 6: to say that if you think this is the one. Yes, 228 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 6: they need a fend for themselves because they're going to 229 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:30,199 Speaker 6: be by all day. I need you to hold my 230 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:31,199 Speaker 6: dress while I pee. 231 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:34,439 Speaker 1: So no, right exactly. It's like, look, you can bring somebody, 232 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 1: but like your obligation is by going to be the 233 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: maid of honor or whatever your obligation is to me 234 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: on this day. So like that, right, yep? 235 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 6: Because I think what would be worse is in the 236 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 6: future if your sister ends up marrying that guy and 237 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 6: that she's mad at you because you didn't let him 238 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 6: come to your wedding, the repercussions of that might be 239 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 6: really unfortunate for you. 240 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, ye's true truth. Thank you so much. Have a 241 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: good day, Taylor, Yeah you too. 242 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:00,959 Speaker 6: Thanks guys. 243 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: The other thing is the guy who's always single you 244 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: also and who brings has been known to bring a 245 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 1: plus one now and again. You got to be as 246 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: the person bringing a plus one, you got to be 247 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 1: thoughtful about who you're bringing. Because you're right, this is 248 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: not date night. Like, I'm not bringing the girl I 249 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 1: just met on he injuror whatever to the wedding of 250 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: my close personal friends because that's awkward for her, it's 251 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: awkward for me. Like either, if you're seeing somebody and 252 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 1: it's semi serious, maybe you bring that person. But if 253 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: you're not, don't just bring somebody and take a spot 254 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: and spend their money just because you don't want to 255 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 1: be alone. Yes, you got to be thoughtful about Like 256 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 1: I've gone to a couple of weddings where I didn't 257 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: want to go alone, so I brought in somebody that 258 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 1: was more significant to me than just someone I was dating, 259 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: you know, because I didn't want to go alone. But 260 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 1: I also needed somebody who could hold their own and 261 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: was gonna, you know, a known quantity, right, Because the 262 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 1: last thing I'm trying to do is bring somebody I 263 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 1: don't know to a wedding only to find out at 264 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: the wedding that they're a crazy person. Right, They're a 265 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: mean drunk right in front of all my friends and family. 266 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: And then I just did that to myself him Elise, Hey, hey, 267 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: good morning. What do you think? 268 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 8: So I think she has to take an account too, 269 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 8: is how far is the wedding because some venues they 270 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 8: have between like three months, you have to have the 271 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 8: final count. 272 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 9: Okay, So if you don't have the final count, that's 273 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 9: an unexpensed so they're going to charge your arm in 274 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 9: the lake. 275 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 1: Oh I see. So if you meet somebody within three months, 276 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: then it's like I'm not adding. I'm not adding this 277 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 1: person for you. 278 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 9: And then it depends also too, when when is her wedding? Okay? 279 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 9: If it's like six months in advance, okay, I don't know. 280 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 9: If you guys are going to be together. Have I 281 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 9: met this man? 282 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 10: Like for me when I had my wedding, I but 283 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 10: if I didn't know the person and I didn't meet 284 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 10: them within that year, like my friends and his friends, 285 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 10: I didn't. 286 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 9: Invite them to the wedding. I think we only allowed 287 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 9: one exception, which was one of his closest friends, his 288 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 9: childhood friends. I'm like, oh, okay, you're the only one 289 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:02,439 Speaker 9: who can bring someone I don't know. 290 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair. Yeah, thank you, Malise, have a good day. 291 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, glad you called. Good morning, Thanks for listening. 292 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:12,839 Speaker 1: Hey Cheryl, Hi, hi, Hi Cheryl. What do you think 293 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: so Jakiki's court. This woman is getting married her sister, 294 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:18,439 Speaker 1: who is the main of honor, who wants to bring 295 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: this dude she's been dating for three months. The bride 296 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: says no, and so now the sister's looking to back 297 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 1: out of the whole thing because she wants to bring 298 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: this dude. What do you think, Well, well, my. 299 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 7: Take is a little different. It's kind of not about 300 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 7: the money. It's about if she's not letting her sister 301 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 7: bring a plus one. Is she not letting anybody else, 302 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 7: say she's inviting to the to the you know, reception, 303 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 7: bring a plus one either. 304 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 2: Well, what she said was single people, if you're not married, 305 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 2: you don't get a plus one. 306 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 1: That was her words. 307 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 10: Oh, if you're not married, you don't get a plus one. 308 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, but I don't know, I think, you know, I'm 309 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:56,959 Speaker 7: just wondering if she the way I the way I 310 00:12:57,120 --> 00:12:59,080 Speaker 7: you know, heard it was like she's not she's only 311 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 7: inviting like mary people. 312 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:04,719 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's just the person has to be more 313 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 1: significant than just a flame or just a casual date, 314 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:12,439 Speaker 1: because it's expensive and you're taking a spot of somebody 315 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 1: that maybe this person knew well or better. 316 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, but also you want everybody to have fun at 317 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 7: the at the wedding. Also, you know you don't want her, 318 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 7: you know, her sister just sitting there. You know, I 319 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 7: wish you know, so and Soul could have been invited. 320 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: Also, you know, yeah, yeah, fair enough, thank you, Cheryl, 321 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: have a good day, thank you. I've said fair enough 322 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 1: like thirty times today. I don't know if that's like 323 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 1: my new new thing. Fair enough, fair enough, fair enough. God, 324 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: I need to shut up. Emily, Hi, good morning, good morning. 325 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 1: So this just happened to you, this same scenario kind of. 326 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:47,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, my sister just had her wedding in May, and I. 327 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 11: Was here made of honor, and she had the rule 328 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 11: that if I hadn't been with a significant other for 329 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:55,680 Speaker 11: a year before the wedding, then I couldn't invite a 330 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 11: significant other because she didn't want no random person in 331 00:13:59,400 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 11: her photo. 332 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's true, that's true. 333 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:06,599 Speaker 11: At the end, she did let me bring up my 334 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:09,079 Speaker 11: best friend, though she's still getting me a plus one. 335 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 11: She just we had the situation for my parents. One 336 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 11: of their uh siblings had a random date and because 337 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 11: he broke up with his girlfriend. But then that old 338 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 11: girlfriend uh I ended up being his wife, and so 339 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 11: we had this random person at all of my parents' 340 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 11: wedding photos. 341 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good point about the pictures. I mean, 342 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: not like the formal ones, but they would still be 343 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: in the casual pictures, like from the events, like who 344 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 1: is this idiot? Like, oh, yeah, I dated I met 345 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 1: him on Tinder, I dated him for two months. It's like, oh, well, thanks, 346 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: now he's in our pictures forever. Well, yeah, I get that. 347 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: Thank you, Emily, have a good day. Thank you loving 348 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 1: Yeah yea, love you to Crystal. Hi, Crystal, you had 349 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 1: a tough time getting the plus one of your friend's wedding. 350 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 9: I did, And to make a long story short, because 351 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 9: she wouldn't let me have a plus one, which. 352 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 10: I've been with this guy for al those two years 353 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 10: at the time, we ended up going. 354 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 9: To Mexico the weekend of her wedding. 355 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 1: Damn. 356 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 10: Not only was there, yeah, damn. 357 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 1: Now was it worth burning your friendship down over? 358 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 10: No? Not at all. I even told her, like the 359 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 10: week beforehand, like, girl, you should have he would have 360 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 10: bought the gifts. 361 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: Okay, so you you would. She wouldn't let this guy go. 362 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: So you say, I'm not gonna I'm not going to 363 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 1: the wedding at all, I'm going to Mexico instead, and 364 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: this woman is still your friend. 365 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 10: Yeah, well I didn't. 366 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 6: I didn't propose the trip he did. 367 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 10: I had to oblige. 368 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: Oh I mean no, you didn't. You played Crystal. You 369 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: could have said no, I got to go to this wedding. 370 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 1: You can't go see this. This friendship is more important 371 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: to me than than this trivial experience here. But this 372 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 1: woman forgave you. You're still friends with her? TD. What's that? TVD? TVD? Okay, 373 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: well I don't know about that. Did you have fun 374 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: in fun in Mexico? Yeah? 375 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 4: I did? 376 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: We did? 377 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 4: We did? 378 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 1: There you go, Crystal, have a good day.