WEBVTT - 252. The psychology of doomscrolling

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<v Speaker 1>Hello everybody, Welcome back to the show. Welcome back to

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast, new listeners, old listeners. Wherever you are in

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<v Speaker 1>the world, it is so great to have you here,

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<v Speaker 1>back for another episode as we, of course break down

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<v Speaker 1>the psychology of our twenties. It is a pretty wild

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<v Speaker 1>thought to realize that we have more information in our

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<v Speaker 1>fingertips than any generation ever before. We are more in

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<v Speaker 1>touch any terrible news story, any terrible tragedy, any groundbreaking discovery,

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<v Speaker 1>niche profile piece like. We can access that from our

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<v Speaker 1>phones at any hour, in any instance, and it's great

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<v Speaker 1>in many many ways. We are very informed people. But

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<v Speaker 1>it is quite frankly, not something that humans have necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>evolved to deal with. I was watching this YouTube video

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<v Speaker 1>the other day, very very random. It's going to sound strange,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was like a day in the life of

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<v Speaker 1>a medieval peasant. And I was watching this video and

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking, this individual would have only had to

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<v Speaker 1>worry about the world that was ten to twenty kilometers

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<v Speaker 1>around him or her. They would only have the information

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<v Speaker 1>given to them by the church, or by their neighbors,

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<v Speaker 1>or by whoever the king, their queen. They didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what was going on halfway across the world in Persia

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<v Speaker 1>or Rome, and how that would affect them. They didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know about the natural disasters in Asia or Africa, like

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<v Speaker 1>the discoveries in Australia. It seemed almost a lot simpler

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<v Speaker 1>that way. And it is such a privilege to have

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<v Speaker 1>access to the information that we have now, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely improved the ways in which we are very conscious

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<v Speaker 1>global citizens. But it has its downsides. And as people

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<v Speaker 1>in our twenties, we are one of the first generations

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<v Speaker 1>to have grown up this way. We have grown up

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<v Speaker 1>always having this constant information so in the palm of

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<v Speaker 1>our hands, and it's given rise to this phenomenon known

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<v Speaker 1>as doomscrolling. Doom scrolling has a few meanings, but at

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<v Speaker 1>its core, it is when we accidentally or consciously spend

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<v Speaker 1>way too much time consuming online negative content, whether it

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<v Speaker 1>is news articles, news contents about tragedies and terrors, or

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<v Speaker 1>just actually hateful content like nastiness in any form on

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<v Speaker 1>the Internet. You know, seeing me in comments, seeing cruel

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<v Speaker 1>videos that are constantly like somehow thrown in our face

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<v Speaker 1>by the algorithm that is not policed. This has a

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<v Speaker 1>very deep, yet i would say hidden, emotional and psychological

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<v Speaker 1>consequence for us. And we all know that we don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel very good when we spend too much time online,

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<v Speaker 1>But I think we also need to get better at

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<v Speaker 1>labeling why that is and controlling the reasons why we

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Anyways, you know, despite feeling like all this dark, terrible,

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<v Speaker 1>horrible news content is making us feel worse about ourselves,

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<v Speaker 1>we often can't stop. And I'm one of those people.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that this is going to make my mental

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<v Speaker 1>state worse, but I cannot look away. I keep looking

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<v Speaker 1>for new information. In part, I think that it's because

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<v Speaker 1>we are addicted to our phones, but also there is

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<v Speaker 1>this element of seeking out more information is a way

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<v Speaker 1>that we soothe ourselves, and in this day and age,

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<v Speaker 1>like when everything is quite stressful and there are a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of reasons to feel unhappy about the world. By

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<v Speaker 1>scrolling on our phones and using social media, that is

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<v Speaker 1>a form of distraction from those feelings. But it can

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<v Speaker 1>also end up meaning that we are more constantly exposed

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<v Speaker 1>to situations that are honestly quite harmful to be viewing

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. We also then feel this obligation right like,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be informed, I want to know what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on. You can kind of see the trap that

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<v Speaker 1>we're falling into. It's the same formula for any toxic habit.

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<v Speaker 1>It is both like the devil and our savior. Doom

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<v Speaker 1>scrolling and like reading the news or being informed makes

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<v Speaker 1>us feel better for a second, and then it makes

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<v Speaker 1>us feel worse, and then we try to feel better

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<v Speaker 1>by going back and scrolling some more, and we get

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<v Speaker 1>back to the same place that we started. So today

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<v Speaker 1>I want to focus in specifically on a rise in

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<v Speaker 1>doom scrolling, how it has been slowly changing our brains

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<v Speaker 1>and how we think about the world, especially as people

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<v Speaker 1>in our twenties, and what we can kind of do

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<v Speaker 1>about it. You know, we are seeing all these consequences,

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<v Speaker 1>but we also don't want to be someone who is

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<v Speaker 1>out of touch. We want to know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>So how do we get into a healthy space and

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<v Speaker 1>a healthy place with scrolling, with the news, with accessing

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<v Speaker 1>the internet, whatever it is? What are the alternatives excited

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<v Speaker 1>for this episode? This is something that I personally needed

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<v Speaker 1>to hear about. I know that there is like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of just a lot of tension and stress and

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<v Speaker 1>like political angst in the world at the moment, understandably,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is an important topic to talk about in

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<v Speaker 1>this time because when we speak about mental health, it

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<v Speaker 1>is a huge contributor. So, without further ado, my lovely listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get into the psychology of doom scrolling. So doom

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<v Speaker 1>scrolling we have a definition already. It's basically when we

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<v Speaker 1>spend an excessive time consuming or being shown negative news

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<v Speaker 1>content or online content that ultimately ultimately makes us feel

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<v Speaker 1>pretty pessimistic. But it's also a really new term, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was coined during the pandemic. So I am sure

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<v Speaker 1>we all clearly remember how we were glued to our

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<v Speaker 1>phones for any type of news or updates to do

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<v Speaker 1>with lockdowns, case numbers, vaccine rollout during that like that,

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<v Speaker 1>during that time, during twenty twenty to twenty twenty one,

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<v Speaker 1>I have very distinct memories actually of checking the case

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<v Speaker 1>numbers in my area, like in my city, three four, five,

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<v Speaker 1>ten times a day to see if they'd gone down,

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<v Speaker 1>and reading every article, reading any press release that could

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<v Speaker 1>potentially tell me that numbers were decreasing or we like

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<v Speaker 1>had a cure, which neither of those things were never true.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically, during that time, researchers and a little psychologists

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<v Speaker 1>were seeing that because everything was so unknown and so scary,

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<v Speaker 1>we just wanted as much information as we could get.

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<v Speaker 1>We just wanted to know more. It was very soothing

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<v Speaker 1>in a strange way. But we also had all this

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<v Speaker 1>empty time and space to consume more and more social

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<v Speaker 1>media content than ever before, and we were taking full

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<v Speaker 1>advantage of that. And these two kind of factors are

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<v Speaker 1>what led to doom scrollings, what led to people just

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<v Speaker 1>feeling completely overwhelmed by some of the content that they

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<v Speaker 1>were accessing. Now, obviously we are no longer actively in

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<v Speaker 1>a pandemic, but there are still a lot of things

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<v Speaker 1>that have taken place in you know, the last few months.

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<v Speaker 1>It's ironic, I'm literally recording this like a week after

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<v Speaker 1>the US election, and I'm sure a lot of us

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<v Speaker 1>are doom scrolling at the moment and will be in

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<v Speaker 1>the next few months. But if you want some numbers

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<v Speaker 1>around just how common this is, twenty twenty four survey

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<v Speaker 1>that interviewed five thousand American adults who are pretty good

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<v Speaker 1>sample size found that about thirty one percent of adults

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<v Speaker 1>will doom scroll on a regular basis. But this percentage

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<v Speaker 1>is a lot bigger the younger you are, so for millennials,

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<v Speaker 1>it's forty six percent. For gen Z it's fifty one percent.

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<v Speaker 1>That's half of us, half of us. And honestly, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even surprised by that number, considering all the

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<v Speaker 1>people I talk to who are like, yeah, of course

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<v Speaker 1>I feel really burdened by this. Of course I can't

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<v Speaker 1>stop as well. It's a very very common thing. Something

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<v Speaker 1>we have got to take note of here though, before

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<v Speaker 1>we go any further, is that there are actually two

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<v Speaker 1>types of doom scrolling. There is passive and active. So

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<v Speaker 1>the passive doom scroll is when you can't you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not really going in search of any more information.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not seeking out negative news. You may not even

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<v Speaker 1>be on like a news website, but you find it anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>especially on Instagram, especially on TikTok or Twitter, whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 1>We have, like in our normal environments, we have semi

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<v Speaker 1>like a little bit of control over what we see.

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<v Speaker 1>Like when you're in your home, you get to choose

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<v Speaker 1>the furniture, you get to choose the people that you

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<v Speaker 1>invite in, you get to choose all those things. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a way of controlling your environments and based

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<v Speaker 1>on your preferences and based on what you like. When

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<v Speaker 1>you go online, you do not have that control. You

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<v Speaker 1>have no control over what you're going to see, even

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<v Speaker 1>if you try and train your algorithm to be suited

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<v Speaker 1>to what you want to consume. About one third of us,

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<v Speaker 1>according to a recent study by the National Institute of Health,

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<v Speaker 1>we get our news online even when we don't follow

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<v Speaker 1>news sites, because it pops up, because it's the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that is noteworthy, because lots of people interact with that content.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think even that is shocking and its own right.

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<v Speaker 1>A third of us using social media as our primary

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<v Speaker 1>news source. But that's kind of the day and age

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<v Speaker 1>that we are in, and news sites and newspapers have

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<v Speaker 1>adapted to us, have adapted to that, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's better than nothing. But it's not just news, right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's not just the news. It's watching an Instagram reel

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<v Speaker 1>and opening the comments and seeing all the trolls. It

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<v Speaker 1>is the videos that are toxic or mocking or mean

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<v Speaker 1>that also leaves a negative mark, especially considering how high

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of our screen times are at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, if you spend two to three hours on

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<v Speaker 1>social media a day, which is the average amount that

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<v Speaker 1>people spend a lot of stuff is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>filtering through a lot of stuff that you know. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you just imagine this. It's like you're scrolling, You're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful picture of my friend, picture of a celebrity, picture

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<v Speaker 1>of a puppy twenty dead in landslide. That is still

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<v Speaker 1>information that is coming into your brain. So that's passive.

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<v Speaker 1>The second type of doom scrolling is active doom scrolling,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's what we typically think of when I say

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<v Speaker 1>doom scrolling. It's like more of a conscious habit of

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<v Speaker 1>constantly scrolling through news headlines and most of the time

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<v Speaker 1>news that isn't very good, because then it wouldn't be noteworthy.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, we do have to pay attention to

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<v Speaker 1>what is going on in the world, and it is

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<v Speaker 1>important to stay informed, and it's important to know what

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<v Speaker 1>is happening around you in politics, with the environment, with

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<v Speaker 1>foreign policy, with human rights. But we can do this

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<v Speaker 1>in a way that doesn't become crippling. I have a

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<v Speaker 1>friend Erin who has been a guest on the show before.

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<v Speaker 1>We Love Erin, big friend of the show, and she

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<v Speaker 1>I hope she doesn't mind using the story. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think she will, But she is incredibly invested in climate change,

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<v Speaker 1>in the state in the environment, Like that's what she

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<v Speaker 1>does for work. She protects wetlands in Australia, like she

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<v Speaker 1>goes to protests. She's studying horticulture next year. She's so passionate,

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<v Speaker 1>she's so invested. One of the most beautiful souls and

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<v Speaker 1>most passionate, you know, just souls for these issues. But

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<v Speaker 1>she was telling me, you know how dark that can

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<v Speaker 1>get for her, because she's so drawn to seeking out

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<v Speaker 1>further information, as much information as possible about the state

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<v Speaker 1>of all of these things, about the state of the environment,

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<v Speaker 1>about what species is going extinct, what government is not protecting,

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<v Speaker 1>which habitat, And it's become a bit of a compulsion

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<v Speaker 1>needing to find out more, not wanting to be in

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<v Speaker 1>the dark, and therefore consuming all of the worst content

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<v Speaker 1>and all the worst headlines day in and day out.

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<v Speaker 1>And as her friend, you know, it's it's very hard

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<v Speaker 1>to see because you obviously know she cares a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is an element and an aspect of how

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<v Speaker 1>much she cares. But it can make people incredibly pessimistic.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do we do it other than just the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that we want to know more. Why is it? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>The first reason is that when we feel that we

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<v Speaker 1>know more, we assume that that's going to make us

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<v Speaker 1>more equipped in the future. So even though it's terrible,

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<v Speaker 1>at least we are not in the dark. At least

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<v Speaker 1>it is not uncertain. At least we have all the details.

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<v Speaker 1>So this explanation is really based in anxiety and one

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<v Speaker 1>psychiatrist from the Media Psychology Research Center, he put it

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<v Speaker 1>really really well in an article that I was reading

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<v Speaker 1>when I was researching this episode. What he said was

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<v Speaker 1>that basically, doom scrolling is just a compulsive need to

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<v Speaker 1>try and get answers when we're afraid. And not only

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<v Speaker 1>is it a compulsive need, that's a very human need right,

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<v Speaker 1>more information, more details, that provides more of an illusion

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<v Speaker 1>of security. So doom scrolling is actually this really twisted,

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<v Speaker 1>dark and I would say counterintuitive self soothing behavior. I

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<v Speaker 1>always think about it like, maybe this won't make sense.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it will. When you go through a breakup

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<v Speaker 1>and you keep checking on your ex's social media to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure they're not with someone new, to see who

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<v Speaker 1>they're following. You want to know exactly how their post

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<v Speaker 1>relationship journey is going, even though it's painful. That is

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<v Speaker 1>very similar to what we're doing here, because the alternative

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<v Speaker 1>hypothetical of not knowing that is exponentially worse in our brain.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's anxiety for you. Anxiety. As we know, it

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<v Speaker 1>loves to feed on the empty spaces. It loves to

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<v Speaker 1>feed on the unknown. It loves to feed on a

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<v Speaker 1>lack of answers because that is where it can do

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<v Speaker 1>its most like the most of it's catastrophizing, right, that's

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<v Speaker 1>when it can have the most fun. Like, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty sneaky being. So doom scrolling is just to really

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<v Speaker 1>wrap that up. It's control seeking, it's information seeking for

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<v Speaker 1>the sake of certainty. This behavior is also really rooted

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<v Speaker 1>in our brain's limbic system, according to some recent research

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<v Speaker 1>at Harvard. So you've probably heard of our limbic system before.

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<v Speaker 1>It is basically our lizard brain. It is our old

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<v Speaker 1>animal brain, very ancient part of us. And our limbic

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<v Speaker 1>system is what promotes and is responsible for self preservation.

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<v Speaker 1>It drives our fight or flight response to danger, and

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<v Speaker 1>it is typically what fuels us to scroll for threats.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we are being hypervigilant. We are scanning the

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<v Speaker 1>danger using the resources that we have now, which is

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<v Speaker 1>the Internet, and the more you scroll, the more you

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<v Speaker 1>feel you need to know. There are two groups who

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<v Speaker 1>are more prone to this than anyone else. According to

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<v Speaker 1>that same paper from Harvard, it's women and it's people

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<v Speaker 1>with the history of trauma. Why is that. It's because

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<v Speaker 1>the need for hyper vigilance in those two populations runs deep.

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<v Speaker 1>It is in our DNA, it is in our bones,

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<v Speaker 1>it is in our memories. And you know, there was

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<v Speaker 1>this really it was fascinating, but it was also just

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<v Speaker 1>actually quite devastating. It was a study into refugees and

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<v Speaker 1>refugees who had recently immigrated to a new country and

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<v Speaker 1>the rate at which dooms growing happened in these communities,

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<v Speaker 1>and what they found was that it was so much higher,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when you think about, you know, news from their

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<v Speaker 1>home countries. You know, they may still have family there,

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<v Speaker 1>they may still have loved ones there, and the fear

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<v Speaker 1>and the need for knowledge really extends beyond them. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like the news industry or journalists are helping

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<v Speaker 1>us through this. Even for the average person, they know

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<v Speaker 1>that we are more drawn in by news stories that

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<v Speaker 1>elicit a sense of urgency and fear our brains are

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<v Speaker 1>trained to pay attention to those into instances and stimulus

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<v Speaker 1>and environments and whatever that is creating that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>emotional reaction, and so they publish more of that stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>They make the titles more grappy. Everything seems disastrous, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're paying so much more attention to that compared to

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<v Speaker 1>the overall picture of what the world is really like.

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<v Speaker 1>So why do we do this? Well, firstly, we do

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<v Speaker 1>this because of something called the negativity bias. The negativity

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<v Speaker 1>bias is basically this cognitive bias whereby we tend to

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<v Speaker 1>pay more attention and we remember negative information more than

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<v Speaker 1>positive information because it's more important for our survival. And

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<v Speaker 1>one way that we are really seeing this and that

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<v Speaker 1>we know that this applies to news that we see

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<v Speaker 1>on our phone or just news in general, is because

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<v Speaker 1>of some amazing researchers at McGill in in Canada. So

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<v Speaker 1>these researchers invited some participants to come into their lab

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<v Speaker 1>and they said, come into our lab. We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>do this study on eye tracking. We just want to see,

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<v Speaker 1>like how your eyes move in response to images. Of

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<v Speaker 1>course that's not true. What they wanted to know was

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<v Speaker 1>are we automatically and immediately drawn more to good news,

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<v Speaker 1>neutral news or bad news or is it just all

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<v Speaker 1>the same? Is it just you know, our brain scans

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<v Speaker 1>from top to bottom. So basically, they had these people

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<v Speaker 1>in a room and they were like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>before we like get into the actual experiment, just pick

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<v Speaker 1>like some news articles that you want to read while

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<v Speaker 1>you wait, like you can just have a little browse.

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<v Speaker 1>They were then asked to read them. It didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>matter if they actually read them. It was just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like to keep up appearances. And then they did

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<v Speaker 1>the study and what they found was that overwhelmingly, when

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<v Speaker 1>they were given this site, and there was an equal

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<v Speaker 1>amount of negative, positive and neutral stories, overwhelmingly the place

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<v Speaker 1>our eyes go to first worthy most scary, negative, distressing headlines,

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<v Speaker 1>things about corruption, death, natural disasters, and not the neutral stories.

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<v Speaker 1>And when they asked them afterwards, and this is the

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<v Speaker 1>second component to this study that is so interesting, When

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<v Speaker 1>they said, okay, do you think that the news these

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<v Speaker 1>days is it more good? Is it more bad? Is

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<v Speaker 1>it more you know, neutral, almost all of them were like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, the news is so bad. Everything is going

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<v Speaker 1>so wrong at the moment. You know, the majority of

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<v Speaker 1>the stories I saw on that news site were negative,

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<v Speaker 1>despite the fact that it was completely even we grab

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<v Speaker 1>onto negative information because it is novel, because it is noteworthy,

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<v Speaker 1>and because we think that it's more important. I think

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<v Speaker 1>this is really important to be aware of whenever you're

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<v Speaker 1>surfing like the ABC or the Guardian or the New

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<v Speaker 1>York Times or whatever it is. I think that it's

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<v Speaker 1>not all bad, but we are tricked by both external

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<v Speaker 1>forces like the mainstream media, but also internal forces like

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<v Speaker 1>our negativity bias into believing. So I want to give

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<v Speaker 1>you one final explanation as to why before we go

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<v Speaker 1>into how we can stop it, and it actually comes

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<v Speaker 1>down to the psychology of how social media apps are designed.

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<v Speaker 1>No surprises here. Social media is addictive. Probably also not

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<v Speaker 1>a surprise. It was made that way because your attention

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<v Speaker 1>is money. That's the whole business model of these apps.

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<v Speaker 1>The more they can keep your attention, the more that

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<v Speaker 1>you will buy things from ads. So it's really don't

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<v Speaker 1>beat yourself up if you find it really hard to

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<v Speaker 1>set those digital boundaries like they are doing everything in

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<v Speaker 1>their power to make sure that doesn't happen. Instagram and Facebook. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember at one stage I read an article about

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<v Speaker 1>how they had literal neuroscientists on their payroll on their teams.

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<v Speaker 1>They were paid employees, and their job was b basically

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<v Speaker 1>like tell us how we can keep people hooked. And

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<v Speaker 1>one of the ways that they were like, hey, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a way you can do this, it's called the

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<v Speaker 1>infinite scroll. And this plays a really important part in

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<v Speaker 1>why we doom scroll. So the infinite scroll means that

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<v Speaker 1>we are never going to run out of content to see.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember, like back in the day, in like the

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<v Speaker 1>early like twenty tens, when Instagram was first released, like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty thirteen, twenty fourteen, you would go on Instagram and

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<v Speaker 1>when everybody, when you'd seen everything, when basically everyone that

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<v Speaker 1>you followed had posted within the last five days and

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<v Speaker 1>you'd seen it, it would just be the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the screen, like you couldn't go any further. You would

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<v Speaker 1>hit like a wall. And nowadays, no, no, no, that

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<v Speaker 1>is not happening. That is not happening. They do not

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<v Speaker 1>want you to exit the app. They want you to

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<v Speaker 1>stay on the app. And so you'll start seeing recommended content,

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<v Speaker 1>You'll start seeing all this other stuff that you're not

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily following, but you stay hooked because it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>all this dopamine flooding into your brain. It's junk food

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<v Speaker 1>for the mind. And I say this metaphor quite literally.

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<v Speaker 1>The information that we feed our brains just like what

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<v Speaker 1>we feed our body. It really matters. You become a

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<v Speaker 1>product of what your brain is receiving, and that really

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<v Speaker 1>influences your worldview. And if you are a doom scroller,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm included in that, so there is no criticism here.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you are a doom scroller, what you're receiving

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be pessimistic and it's going to be bleak,

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<v Speaker 1>and that results in a lot of anxiety, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of like apathy, like oh my god, who cares? Like

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<v Speaker 1>the world is just so terrible. It results in a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of existential anxiety, which is like a sense that

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<v Speaker 1>like the world is just there's no point, what does

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<v Speaker 1>life even mean? It can also give us something that

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<v Speaker 1>we call popcorn brain. I don't know if you've heard

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<v Speaker 1>about this recently, you will be hearing about it more

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<v Speaker 1>in the future. But I read another article I think

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<v Speaker 1>either in Yale or Harvard Magazine. Can't remember. I'll keep

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<v Speaker 1>you updated if I find it, But basically this article

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<v Speaker 1>is like popcorn brain happens when you spend too much

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<v Speaker 1>time online and your brain is actually so overstimulated with

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<v Speaker 1>information that it almost feels like it's popping. It feels

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<v Speaker 1>so overstimulated that you're like pop pop, like you're moving

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<v Speaker 1>from one thing to another, and like it's just fast

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<v Speaker 1>and fast and fast. That is not normal, and that

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<v Speaker 1>makes it really hard to engage with the real world,

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<v Speaker 1>and it makes us feel really anxious. And feeling anxious

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<v Speaker 1>and numb about the world is not normal, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>not something that I think we should normalize, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>not something that I think should define our life. Luckily, though,

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<v Speaker 1>the same way that we get trapped in a doom

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<v Speaker 1>scrolling cycle, we can also get out of it, and

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<v Speaker 1>we can find a way to have a healthy relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with our news, with our content, with our phones, whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it is. So I want to talk about how we

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<v Speaker 1>can find our way out and the kind of behavioral

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<v Speaker 1>and mental shifts that can get us there. After this

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<v Speaker 1>short break, I'm just going to quickly repeat what I

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<v Speaker 1>said before, because I think it's a really important point.

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<v Speaker 1>You can still be informed and know what's going on

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<v Speaker 1>and not be addicted to the negative news cycle. Or

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<v Speaker 1>you can have both. You can still acknowledge that the

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<v Speaker 1>world is harsh and cruel at times and feel happy, joyful, grateful,

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<v Speaker 1>not despite of it, but in spite of it. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>might say more ful. Well, you are going to be

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that someone doesn't think that today. You are

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<v Speaker 1>going to pour a little bit more harmony, a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more peace, a little bit more kindness into the world.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is something that really helped me a few

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<v Speaker 1>months back, maybe like six months ago, and I discussed

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<v Speaker 1>it on the podcast at the time, but I got

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<v Speaker 1>into a pretty heavy, dark headspace around my social media consumption,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was just convinced, based on what I was

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<v Speaker 1>seeing in the comments that I was receiving, that everyone

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<v Speaker 1>was just me, Everyone was just judgmental. It was everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know now I was selectively paying attention to

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<v Speaker 1>what was confirming my bias. But one of the ways

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<v Speaker 1>that I got out of this was really starting to

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<v Speaker 1>leave positivity where I saw negativity. If I saw a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of trolls, you know, I'd make sure to comment

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<v Speaker 1>something nice, that kind of thing. It's all about diluting

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<v Speaker 1>the bad, sad, downright depressing stuff with a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of light like drop by drop. You know, imagine that

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<v Speaker 1>you have a full glass of wine and it's red,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know it's very hard to see through murky,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you put it under a tap and you

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<v Speaker 1>keep the tap on slowly that wine glass is diluted

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<v Speaker 1>and the water going into that wine glass. That is

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<v Speaker 1>your kindness when it seems really really gloomy. Part of

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<v Speaker 1>it seems so is because we feel like we can't

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<v Speaker 1>do anything about it. We feel like we can't fix

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<v Speaker 1>the world's problems. And at times that's true. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>fix the whole world, but you can fix your circle.

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<v Speaker 1>You can fix your part of the universe, your little

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<v Speaker 1>corner of the world, by doing it kind to people,

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<v Speaker 1>doing it really really rough, by donating to charity, by

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<v Speaker 1>donating your time, by cooking for your elderly neighbors, by

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<v Speaker 1>planting native plants in your garden or on your balcony.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the most beautiful way, in my mind, to

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<v Speaker 1>counteract a mindset that says the world is fucked based

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<v Speaker 1>on doom scrolling. It's to say, yeah, the world is fucked,

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<v Speaker 1>but where I am, what I choose to do, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to be a representation of that. Just because

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<v Speaker 1>the news is bad doesn't mean that I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>take that and mean that I'm going to make it worse.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I have a friend who has her garden

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<v Speaker 1>like filled with flowers just for her honeybees, And it's

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<v Speaker 1>just one of the first things I do when I

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<v Speaker 1>go over to her house, Like, she has these poppies

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<v Speaker 1>that are like specifically for honey bees, bumblebees, whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>call them, And I love checking on her bees. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just like so pretty and it's just like, oh, there

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<v Speaker 1>is something that's alive. There is something that's good. My

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<v Speaker 1>friend has honey bees in her backyard, Like yay, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a great news story in my life. You can also

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<v Speaker 1>really help yourself break the toxic negative cycle that contributes

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<v Speaker 1>to doom scrolling by rethinking the content that you see.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, make a conscious decision to start following positive

0:26:18.000 --> 0:26:21.639
<v Speaker 1>news sites or newsletters or pages that is, like you

0:26:21.760 --> 0:26:25.440
<v Speaker 1>diluting the negative news. I love, for example, the good

0:26:25.480 --> 0:26:28.560
<v Speaker 1>News movement, which started during the pandemic to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>counteract the very thing that we are talking about today,

0:26:31.480 --> 0:26:35.200
<v Speaker 1>which is doom scrolling. I also like the Dodo It's

0:26:35.720 --> 0:26:39.440
<v Speaker 1>it's not really news, it's just animal stories. That's it.

0:26:39.440 --> 0:26:42.080
<v Speaker 1>It's just really cute animal stories. And you know what,

0:26:42.119 --> 0:26:45.960
<v Speaker 1>it's really delightful to see. The Good News Network is

0:26:46.480 --> 0:26:51.000
<v Speaker 1>also another really really good one positivenews dot com. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not limiting yourself, you are diluting it. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to start showing your mind, giving your mind healthy examples

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<v Speaker 1>that it's not all bad, even if that remains your

0:27:01.880 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 1>prevailing emotion for a while. Part of getting out of

0:27:05.040 --> 0:27:09.679
<v Speaker 1>that headspace is really offering alternative information and evidence to

0:27:09.760 --> 0:27:13.680
<v Speaker 1>our brain, feeding it well, feeding it with nutritious information,

0:27:14.480 --> 0:27:18.359
<v Speaker 1>making sure that your diet isn't just rich your media

0:27:18.440 --> 0:27:22.080
<v Speaker 1>diet isn't just rich in all of this really intense information,

0:27:22.119 --> 0:27:24.160
<v Speaker 1>and that's the only thing that you're giving your brain.

0:27:25.080 --> 0:27:27.760
<v Speaker 1>It's also really important to have balance there. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to carry on the metaphor of food and eating

0:27:30.560 --> 0:27:34.720
<v Speaker 1>and feeding, but having a balanced informational diet. And this

0:27:34.880 --> 0:27:36.840
<v Speaker 1>was something that was introduced to me by someone I

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<v Speaker 1>interviewed recently who's coming on for our December twelve Days

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<v Speaker 1>of Guests. I won't spoil who it is, but she

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about how you can't just give yourself one

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:50.119
<v Speaker 1>source of news or information that is what gets us

0:27:50.119 --> 0:27:54.639
<v Speaker 1>stuck in informational bubbles. That's what gets us stuck in

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<v Speaker 1>only seeing the world in a certain way, not being

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<v Speaker 1>able to think about other people opinions. And it also

0:28:02.119 --> 0:28:04.760
<v Speaker 1>means that we're only going to see a negative perspective

0:28:04.800 --> 0:28:08.000
<v Speaker 1>from one side of things. So having a few newspapers

0:28:08.000 --> 0:28:11.040
<v Speaker 1>that you read, having your news podcast, but then also

0:28:11.080 --> 0:28:15.719
<v Speaker 1>including something bright, something less serious, having some fiction, having

0:28:16.000 --> 0:28:18.600
<v Speaker 1>like a fun book that you're reading on the side

0:28:19.040 --> 0:28:22.879
<v Speaker 1>something less serious. That is a really important way to

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<v Speaker 1>diversify what you are consuming so that it doesn't just

0:28:26.400 --> 0:28:30.280
<v Speaker 1>all become stale and all become one way. Now, I

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<v Speaker 1>also want to turn to kind of like curtailing or

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<v Speaker 1>rethinking our social media habits, because I think this is

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<v Speaker 1>a huge culprit in passive doom scrolling. This is one

0:28:41.360 --> 0:28:43.440
<v Speaker 1>we really need to zoom zoom in on. You know,

0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:46.280
<v Speaker 1>if we're going to talk about how to stop doom scrolling,

0:28:47.240 --> 0:28:49.560
<v Speaker 1>we can't talk about that without talking about how to

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<v Speaker 1>be have a healthier usage of social media. And I'll

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<v Speaker 1>start with one of my favorite reminders for how to

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<v Speaker 1>do this. If you want to change anything, you have

0:28:58.920 --> 0:29:02.000
<v Speaker 1>to start by changing how that thing shows up in

0:29:02.040 --> 0:29:05.680
<v Speaker 1>your routine. You cannot just think your way into a

0:29:05.720 --> 0:29:08.280
<v Speaker 1>happier mental state. You can't say, you know, yeah, it'd

0:29:08.320 --> 0:29:10.320
<v Speaker 1>be nice to control my social media. I really wish

0:29:10.360 --> 0:29:12.920
<v Speaker 1>I would get to that, and then not do that

0:29:13.000 --> 0:29:15.400
<v Speaker 1>because it's just I've tried it, it doesn't work, You're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to do it. I think one of the

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<v Speaker 1>big reasons that we have a negative relationship with social

0:29:20.040 --> 0:29:22.880
<v Speaker 1>media and the news is because we let it be

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<v Speaker 1>in control rather than having good mental hygiene habits. And yes,

0:29:28.760 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 1>I did say hygiene, because that is how I like

0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:33.880
<v Speaker 1>to see it. You know, you wash your face every night,

0:29:33.960 --> 0:29:37.480
<v Speaker 1>You brush your teeth hopefully please do that. You know,

0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:40.880
<v Speaker 1>you wash your towels, you shower, You take care of

0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:45.440
<v Speaker 1>yourself physically. Now it's time to apply those same hygiene

0:29:45.520 --> 0:29:51.120
<v Speaker 1>routines to taking care of yourself mentally, specifically in terms

0:29:51.120 --> 0:29:53.760
<v Speaker 1>of your relationship with your phone. So here are some

0:29:54.360 --> 0:29:58.800
<v Speaker 1>tried and tested measures for having better social media hygiene

0:29:58.920 --> 0:30:02.480
<v Speaker 1>better mental hygiene. Right off the phone off before bed.

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<v Speaker 1>Your phone cannot be the last thing you see before

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<v Speaker 1>you sleep, and it definitely cannot be the first thing

0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:09.440
<v Speaker 1>that you see when you wake up in the morning,

0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:12.400
<v Speaker 1>because that just means that you are literally plugged in

0:30:12.480 --> 0:30:15.120
<v Speaker 1>day and night. There is never a break. The moment

0:30:15.160 --> 0:30:18.480
<v Speaker 1>you are conscious, you are consuming content. The moment before

0:30:18.520 --> 0:30:21.920
<v Speaker 1>you are unconscious, you're consuming content. So sleep with it

0:30:21.960 --> 0:30:24.560
<v Speaker 1>in a separate room and just buy an alarm clock,

0:30:24.560 --> 0:30:26.320
<v Speaker 1>because I know that's a big reason why a lot

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:28.160
<v Speaker 1>of people are like, oh, I have to have my

0:30:28.200 --> 0:30:32.000
<v Speaker 1>phone in my room because my alarm. Go to your

0:30:32.040 --> 0:30:35.480
<v Speaker 1>local reject shop, go to your local A two dollars store,

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:39.200
<v Speaker 1>go to go on Facebook marketplace, find an alarm clock,

0:30:39.280 --> 0:30:41.600
<v Speaker 1>like a good old fashioned alarm clock, and start using

0:30:41.600 --> 0:30:46.960
<v Speaker 1>that instead. You will just see amazing changes. I didn't

0:30:47.000 --> 0:30:50.320
<v Speaker 1>realize how anxious I was by having my phone just

0:30:50.440 --> 0:30:53.520
<v Speaker 1>right next to my bedside. And the other thing that

0:30:53.560 --> 0:30:56.160
<v Speaker 1>I did was I started doing one thing in the

0:30:56.160 --> 0:30:58.920
<v Speaker 1>morning before I went on my phone. Obviously, I work

0:30:59.000 --> 0:31:02.400
<v Speaker 1>for myself, so there is like big tendency, and it's

0:31:02.480 --> 0:31:05.240
<v Speaker 1>like the most toxic habit, bad habit that I need

0:31:05.280 --> 0:31:08.360
<v Speaker 1>to break. I'm very bad at it, but I'm getting

0:31:08.360 --> 0:31:11.080
<v Speaker 1>there slowly. And it's that before I go on my phone,

0:31:11.120 --> 0:31:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I do something else. I do something else so that

0:31:13.640 --> 0:31:16.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't check my emails. And of course once I

0:31:16.200 --> 0:31:18.720
<v Speaker 1>check my emails, I check my social media, and of

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:21.520
<v Speaker 1>course once I check my social media, suddenly there is

0:31:21.560 --> 0:31:24.440
<v Speaker 1>something that has happened overnight, like in the US or

0:31:24.440 --> 0:31:26.880
<v Speaker 1>in the UK, or across the world. Because I live

0:31:26.920 --> 0:31:30.040
<v Speaker 1>in Australia, that is like completely you know, torn the

0:31:30.080 --> 0:31:34.080
<v Speaker 1>world apart. So that is really really important. Social media

0:31:34.120 --> 0:31:36.640
<v Speaker 1>tim is. I don't think they always work because you

0:31:36.680 --> 0:31:40.280
<v Speaker 1>can just just kind of dismiss them. How I get

0:31:40.320 --> 0:31:42.800
<v Speaker 1>around that is that I actually delete my social media

0:31:42.960 --> 0:31:46.640
<v Speaker 1>from my phone between ten am to four pm during

0:31:46.640 --> 0:31:49.720
<v Speaker 1>the week. I definitely have the urge, and I even

0:31:49.800 --> 0:31:51.520
<v Speaker 1>notice that, like I go to pick up my phone

0:31:51.560 --> 0:31:54.960
<v Speaker 1>to like check my social media, to like aimlessly scroll

0:31:55.120 --> 0:31:58.320
<v Speaker 1>or to like check like a new site. But because

0:31:58.360 --> 0:32:01.040
<v Speaker 1>there is that additional level of difficulty, like I would

0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:05.160
<v Speaker 1>have to read download those apps onto my phone, I'm like,

0:32:05.320 --> 0:32:07.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm just not going to do that, and I stop myself.

0:32:08.120 --> 0:32:11.560
<v Speaker 1>It's like I have created this point of questioning, this

0:32:11.640 --> 0:32:14.080
<v Speaker 1>point of inflection where I have to be like, oh,

0:32:14.200 --> 0:32:16.760
<v Speaker 1>do I actually want to do that? Probably not. I

0:32:16.880 --> 0:32:20.160
<v Speaker 1>made a conscious decision earlier in the day to not

0:32:20.240 --> 0:32:22.560
<v Speaker 1>let myself do this today. I don't want to go

0:32:22.640 --> 0:32:25.880
<v Speaker 1>against her, go for a walk instead. That's a great

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 1>way as well, just to feel a little bit less

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<v Speaker 1>way down as being outside and returning to the environments

0:32:33.400 --> 0:32:35.280
<v Speaker 1>that we are meant to be, and so we feel

0:32:35.320 --> 0:32:39.520
<v Speaker 1>more human and we experience the sensations that make us

0:32:39.600 --> 0:32:43.640
<v Speaker 1>human and make us natural creatures of this environment. You know,

0:32:43.720 --> 0:32:47.040
<v Speaker 1>fresh air, the smell of the trees, seeing nature, seeing

0:32:47.080 --> 0:32:51.560
<v Speaker 1>other people. That is so important when you are feeling

0:32:51.680 --> 0:32:56.640
<v Speaker 1>crippled by anxiety and frustration and angst to do with

0:32:56.720 --> 0:32:59.520
<v Speaker 1>the news. You've got to clock out. You've got to

0:32:59.560 --> 0:33:02.240
<v Speaker 1>take us to back. You've got to go into nature.

0:33:02.280 --> 0:33:05.400
<v Speaker 1>You've got to go into an outdoor environment, leave the

0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:12.080
<v Speaker 1>space and just breathe, experience your senses and disconnect for

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:15.880
<v Speaker 1>a while. You know, this is not just a U issue.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the result of some serious rapid societal shifts

0:33:20.760 --> 0:33:24.680
<v Speaker 1>and just like changing life of just the whole world

0:33:24.760 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 1>is changing very quickly in the past few years. You know,

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:30.920
<v Speaker 1>our parents never had to worry about dooms growing. Maybe

0:33:30.920 --> 0:33:33.520
<v Speaker 1>they had to worry about watching the news for too long,

0:33:33.560 --> 0:33:35.880
<v Speaker 1>but you know only went for two hours that they

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<v Speaker 1>had to watch Brady Bunch. I don't know what was

0:33:39.640 --> 0:33:41.760
<v Speaker 1>on back then. Brady Bunch that we're going to go

0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:45.080
<v Speaker 1>with that. So you know, it is an increasing problem

0:33:45.080 --> 0:33:47.120
<v Speaker 1>for us. We are the first generation that has had

0:33:47.160 --> 0:33:50.320
<v Speaker 1>to find a healthier relationship with it. Who doesn't know

0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:56.200
<v Speaker 1>life without it. I will say, also, get a newspaper.

0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:58.719
<v Speaker 1>I did this for a while when I was like

0:33:58.760 --> 0:34:02.800
<v Speaker 1>living in Melbourne. I would get my newspaper delivered super

0:34:02.840 --> 0:34:05.360
<v Speaker 1>super strange to think that we could do that still,

0:34:05.440 --> 0:34:07.400
<v Speaker 1>but they do still offer that service. And it meant

0:34:07.440 --> 0:34:11.080
<v Speaker 1>that my news wasn't only selective and it wasn't only

0:34:11.120 --> 0:34:14.560
<v Speaker 1>coming from my phone. There are ways around this, and

0:34:14.600 --> 0:34:18.040
<v Speaker 1>there are ways to be aware but not overwhelmed and

0:34:18.120 --> 0:34:21.320
<v Speaker 1>not fearful all the time and not just quite frankly

0:34:22.080 --> 0:34:26.480
<v Speaker 1>depressed and I think doom scrolling. If you want to

0:34:26.520 --> 0:34:29.480
<v Speaker 1>manage it, you have to manage the scrolling part, and

0:34:29.520 --> 0:34:32.440
<v Speaker 1>you have to manage your relationship with your phone and

0:34:32.480 --> 0:34:35.440
<v Speaker 1>that anxious need to seek out more information because it's

0:34:35.520 --> 0:34:38.800
<v Speaker 1>not helping you and it's not leading to a better outcome.

0:34:38.960 --> 0:34:41.600
<v Speaker 1>So hope this has been the encouragement you need to

0:34:41.640 --> 0:34:45.200
<v Speaker 1>rethink those practices. I most certainly hope that you feel

0:34:45.280 --> 0:34:47.840
<v Speaker 1>less alone. I'm there with you a lot of you know,

0:34:48.200 --> 0:34:50.400
<v Speaker 1>what was the statistic fifty one percent of people in

0:34:50.440 --> 0:34:53.799
<v Speaker 1>gen Z, so people in their twenties are experiencing the

0:34:53.840 --> 0:34:56.880
<v Speaker 1>effects of doom scrolling. So there is no shame if

0:34:56.920 --> 0:35:00.040
<v Speaker 1>your digital habits and you'll need to be informed and

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:03.399
<v Speaker 1>are getting out of hand. You know, I hate to say,

0:35:03.440 --> 0:35:06.000
<v Speaker 1>it's better than not being informed at all, even if

0:35:06.040 --> 0:35:09.120
<v Speaker 1>it feels terrible, and you've already got that down pat

0:35:09.160 --> 0:35:11.120
<v Speaker 1>You've already got the empathy to want to know more.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it is time to have the empathy for yourself

0:35:14.480 --> 0:35:16.920
<v Speaker 1>to have some space in your day to actually just

0:35:16.960 --> 0:35:18.680
<v Speaker 1>be able to process it all and to be able

0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:22.640
<v Speaker 1>to experience life. So if you enjoyed this episode, as always,

0:35:22.680 --> 0:35:25.320
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