Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2: Kristen is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 2: Cheater and she thinks that her husband of two years
Speaker 2: named Andrew might be messing around. So we'll see if
Speaker 2: we can help her out. Kristin, sorry, you have to
Speaker 2: come on the show this way, but what's going on?
Speaker 2: Why do you think Andrew's cheating?
Speaker 3: You know, thanks have been great in our relationship, other
Speaker 3: than this conversation that I had.
Speaker 4: With a friend of mine a while back. His name
Speaker 4: is Max. We were having brunch.
Speaker 5: It wasn't even that long ago.
Speaker 4: It was like a week ago, and I guess I
Speaker 4: have to say you gay.
Speaker 3: So he found something on his phone and he said, oh,
Speaker 3: I really have to talk to.
Speaker 4: You about this, And so I was like, okay, great,
Speaker 4: I was in stuff without Okay, let's just go to brunch.
Speaker 4: Matt showed me Pat Andrew is on Grinder.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, and.
Speaker 2: If anybody doesn't know, Grinder is a dating site where
Speaker 2: guys meet other guys.
Speaker 1: About that it's the same sex dating site.
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah.
Speaker 6: And then my husband's on it. And Max told me
Speaker 6: that he tried to match with Andrew just to see
Speaker 6: what he was doing, but.
Speaker 7: He either didn't see it or you know, knew that.
Speaker 4: He should have matched with him because they hate and respond.
Speaker 8: Did he have or does he have like a detailed profile,
Speaker 8: so he's got his photo? Does is everything filled out?
Speaker 6: So on his profile it said that he was in
Speaker 6: a relationship. I don't know why you would be on
Speaker 6: a dating app if you were in a relationship, obviously,
Speaker 6: but then you would say.
Speaker 4: It, you know, like it's just weird. Wouldn't you lie
Speaker 4: about that?
Speaker 7: Well, it's kind of more of a hookup app.
Speaker 1: I believe it's like the tender.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, essentially, so it's like it's for hooking up.
Speaker 7: But would you want to hook up with someone that's
Speaker 7: on like in a relationship?
Speaker 8: People do it all the time. We personally no, but
Speaker 8: it happens all the time.
Speaker 9: But would you like swipe right on someone who's in
Speaker 9: Like That's what I don't get, Like, why would you
Speaker 9: put that in your you're in a relationship?
Speaker 8: Because that way you don't have any strings attached. There's
Speaker 8: not gonna be no problems. You can just have a
Speaker 8: transaction and not worry about what happens later.
Speaker 1: And I'm guessing you haven't asked him about this.
Speaker 5: No, not yet.
Speaker 7: I didn't.
Speaker 3: I didn't know what to do because I mean, you know,
Speaker 3: if he is closeted, I want to.
Speaker 4: Know, yeah really, and he hasn't.
Speaker 3: Ever said anything about wanting to try something with another
Speaker 3: guy or being unhappy or anything like. I didn't know
Speaker 3: just how to go about confronting him with this. But
Speaker 3: it's not even like it's just he's cheating, but now
Speaker 3: he may want to be with a man.
Speaker 5: So I just I didn't know. I emailed you it.
Speaker 4: I don't want to figure out what's going on.
Speaker 7: Would you be open if he wanted to have both?
Speaker 4: I don't know if I'm ready to think about that yet.
Speaker 5: Yeah I haven't. I'm not.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, okay, good point.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 8: So do you think his friends know about this? Do
Speaker 8: you think anybody else knows about this other than your friend?
Speaker 4: I don't know. I know if he had.
Speaker 3: He doesn't really have any friends that are gay that
Speaker 3: would be on the app to see that I do,
Speaker 3: which is interesting because he knows that I have gay.
Speaker 4: Friends that are on Grinder.
Speaker 6: So I don't know how he could not have said
Speaker 6: of this if he's going to be so defitful, could.
Speaker 9: Someone be using his picture I've known sometimes it's like catfishing.
Speaker 3: Like, but it's got information about him, like the town
Speaker 3: he lives in, that he's a real tour like, it
Speaker 3: is info on it. So I mean that would have
Speaker 3: to be a very convincing soccer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody who knows him right to know that. Okay, well, yeah,
Speaker 2: we'll try to figure it out for you. You already
Speaker 2: told us what grocery store. You guys are Rewards card members.
Speaker 2: That's so play a song come Back, and then call
Speaker 2: him and pretend to be from the grocery store and
Speaker 2: say that every single month, we choose one lucky Rewards
Speaker 2: Card member who gets three flowers delivered from.
Speaker 1: Our flooral department. We'll see these things, will see you
Speaker 1: or to somebody else.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I play song Comeback, could get your catch cheater?
Speaker 1: Next, if you're just joining us for today, is to
Speaker 1: catch a cheater.
Speaker 2: Kristen is on the phone and she thinks that her
Speaker 2: husband of two years named Andrew might be messing around.
Speaker 2: So in a minute, we're gonna call him and pretend
Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store that he's a Rewards
Speaker 2: Card member at and say that every single month, we
Speaker 2: choose one rewards card member who gets three flowers delivered
Speaker 2: from our floor department, and we'll see if he sends
Speaker 2: those flowers to Kristin or to somebody else. But before
Speaker 2: we do that, Kristin, why don't you refresh everybody's memory
Speaker 2: on your situation.
Speaker 3: Gosh, if I've been married like you said, and my
Speaker 3: friend Max took me to brunch the other day. He's
Speaker 3: active on Grinder and said that what he showed me
Speaker 3: that my husband has a profile on Grinder that I
Speaker 3: obviously didn't know about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's a big deal.
Speaker 7: Yeah, definitely a little bit alarming.
Speaker 1: Uh huh, all right, are you ready for us to
Speaker 1: call him?
Speaker 4: Ready as I'll ever be?
Speaker 1: Yeah, here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hi, this is Corporal calling from SO. I was looking
Speaker 2: for our rewards card member named Andrew.
Speaker 5: That's me speaking.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what can I.
Speaker 5: Help you with?
Speaker 1: Andrew? Hello, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 1: marketing phone call.
Speaker 2: I'm actually calling to say congratulations here this month's winter.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for your business. And here's some
Speaker 1: talking over here.
Speaker 5: Yeah what I didn't enter anything?
Speaker 1: Congratulations, No, you won the flowers?
Speaker 5: Oh okay, tell me more.
Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one Rewards card member to
Speaker 2: say thank you very much for being such a loyal customer.
Speaker 2: You've just won thirty six long stem red roses, a
Speaker 2: box of chocolates or candy, and a card to be
Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that you want within the fifty United States.
Speaker 5: Wow, that's really nice for you guys. Thank you.
Speaker 1: Okay, I can take the information over the phone. What
Speaker 1: I would need to do is just get some information
Speaker 1: from you. I can do that right now.
Speaker 5: If you have it, I can do it over the
Speaker 5: phone totally. I got a second great.
Speaker 1: First thing from you would be the first and last
Speaker 1: name of the person he'd like to send them to.
Speaker 5: That would be Kristen.
Speaker 1: Alrighty. And anything you want to write on a card.
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, just something simple like love you baby, see
Speaker 5: you to night.
Speaker 1: Oh that's sweet. I'm the same last name there is?
Speaker 10: That?
Speaker 1: Your your wife?
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's my wife.
Speaker 1: How long has I married?
Speaker 5: I would have married for two years.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, now I'll let you know that this is
Speaker 2: not a grocery store at all. My name is Jewbell
Speaker 2: and I'm from a radio show. It's called The Jewbell Show. Yeah,
Speaker 2: the whole show's here. I'm Nina, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry. What.
Speaker 2: Yes, we do a segment on the show called to
Speaker 2: Catch a Cheater, where if you think your significant other
Speaker 2: might be messing around, we can try to catch them
Speaker 2: by who they send flowers to and your wife.
Speaker 5: I don't think my wife is cheating on me now,
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, not that.
Speaker 2: She suspects that you might be doing something and she's
Speaker 2: actually on the phone wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5: This is really straight, Babe. You there, Hi?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 3: Hi.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, Hi. I wouldn't, baby, I would never, ever,
Speaker 5: in a million years cheat on you. Are you? What?
Speaker 5: What are you thinking?
Speaker 10: What?
Speaker 5: Why? Why do you think I'm cheating on you?
Speaker 4: Okay, So remember how I went to brunch with Max
Speaker 4: the other week. Yeah, he showed me your profile, Andrew, I.
Speaker 5: Don't understand which profile are you talking about? Facebook? Instagram?
Speaker 4: The grinder? The grinder?
Speaker 10: Okay, Oh my god, I get it.
Speaker 5: I get it. I completely get it. Wait did did
Speaker 5: he did he try to match with me? Yeah? I
Speaker 5: have to figure out what you were up to? Oh
Speaker 5: my god. Oh I didn't see his request.
Speaker 10: I just honestly should have would have been hilarious, honey, babe,
Speaker 10: I am not gay and I am not cheating and
Speaker 10: full transparency.
Speaker 5: I am sorry I didn't tell you about this earlier.
Speaker 5: So a colleague of mine told me about real estate
Speaker 5: agents finding clients on these dating websites and dating apps.
Speaker 1: What really? Hell?
Speaker 5: Yes? No, No, it's completely like just for networking. There
Speaker 5: is no relationship, no dating, no sex involved, just potential
Speaker 5: clients and I legitimately just wanted to try it out
Speaker 5: and also full transparency. I'm on bumble and hinge too.
Speaker 1: People do do that.
Speaker 2: People do do that like it's like a marketing place
Speaker 2: now is crazy.
Speaker 7: I don't understand. Do they have to put a disclaimer
Speaker 7: on the pod?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: They match with people and then when they start messaging,
Speaker 2: it's like you promote whatever you want to promote.
Speaker 9: That doesn't feel right, But I don't think i'd want
Speaker 9: you to be my realtor. If I also try to
Speaker 9: hook up with you.
Speaker 7: It could be spent.
Speaker 4: But you know, oh okay, they why would you tell
Speaker 4: me that.
Speaker 5: I'll be honest, it's it was a weird way of
Speaker 5: just introducing you to it, and I didn't know if
Speaker 5: there was actually going to go anywhere with some of
Speaker 5: these potential clients. It actually has in a completely professional
Speaker 5: real estate centric way. Really, and yes, I've actually got
Speaker 5: sold a few properties based off matches I've had on
Speaker 5: a Hinge Bumble as yet to hit and Grinder I
Speaker 5: think twice. And I can show you these when I
Speaker 5: get home. Like, I feel free to go through my
Speaker 5: pro my taking profile. You're totally allowed.
Speaker 8: I'm sorry to ask this question, Andrew. I'd never heard
Speaker 8: of this before. So do the people that match with
Speaker 8: you understand that you're not trying to date them, that
Speaker 8: you're just trying to sell them?
Speaker 5: Yes, they do understand that, maybe not right away, like
Speaker 5: a few people have tried to flirt with me, but
Speaker 5: I very quickly and like address what I'm looking for,
Speaker 5: which is very consensual sales.
Speaker 8: Also an ego boost. He's getting matched with all these
Speaker 8: people that are initially attracted to you. Okay, Andrew, Sales, I.
Speaker 3: Don't really want you like talking with other women who
Speaker 3: want to sleep with you.
Speaker 4: I don't know about that.
Speaker 5: I hear you. I hear you, and I can show
Speaker 5: you my opening line, which is always I am not
Speaker 5: here for anything romantic or physical that includes verbiage like
Speaker 5: that in there. I make it very clear from the
Speaker 5: get go that none of this is to lead or
Speaker 5: can ever lead to anything romantic or physical. I promise you. Okay, Look,
Speaker 5: there's nothing to worry about from the money that I've
Speaker 5: been getting from this. I have actually been keeping well
Speaker 5: surprised from you, but I guess I can tell you here.
Speaker 5: I have booked us a trip to France. Whoa with
Speaker 5: all the money that I've gotten off of this, and
Speaker 5: I want that to be proof in the pudding that
Speaker 5: the only romantic things to come out of all of
Speaker 5: these profiles is between you and me. We're going to France, France, France.
Speaker 2: Well, congratulations, Kristin, he's not cheating. He is on the
Speaker 2: dating apps and you get I guess you have to
Speaker 2: prove to you that he's just there for real estate,
Speaker 2: but you also get to go to France.
Speaker 7: Yeah, congratulations.
Speaker 4: Wait when are we going to France?
Speaker 6: The Jewel shows to catch a cheater