1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. 5 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 2: We could be reading your letter. 6 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:16,279 Speaker 1: Live on the air, just like I'm going to read 7 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know 8 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 9 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 3: Yes, it could Buckle up and hold on tight. We 10 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 3: got it for you here. It is all very letter. 11 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 2: Thank you, nephew. 12 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: Subject please close the windows and doors. Dear Uncle Steve 13 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 1: and Aunt Shirley. I'm a twenty four year old student 14 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: and i still live at home with my parents. My 15 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 1: parents had me when they were eighteen years old, so 16 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: they're still young, fly and very much in love with 17 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 1: each other. I love hanging out with them because we 18 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: listen to the same music and we get along great. 19 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,480 Speaker 1: But there's a huge issue that I'm having with them, 20 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: and I made jokes about it, but they don't seem 21 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: to care. Sometimes it's fun to be cool cool with 22 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: my parents, and other times it gets to be too much. 23 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: I'm allowed to smoke weed in the house because it's 24 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: legal in our state and it helps me with my cramps. 25 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: I'm allowed to have my boyfriend stay overnight, but he's 26 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 1: got to sleep in the guest room. I'm allowed to 27 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 1: use profanity, and I can express myself any way I 28 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: choose to around them. I appreciate the openness, I really do. 29 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:25,400 Speaker 1: But what I don't appreciate is how open they are 30 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 1: with me. My parents' bedroom is below my bedroom, and 31 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 1: they had sex darn near every day. 32 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be at night. 33 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 1: I can be getting ready to go to work at 34 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,639 Speaker 1: three in the afternoon and they are in there going 35 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: at it with the door open. They've jokingly told me 36 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: to stay upstairs if I don't want to see or 37 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: hear it. But what they don't know is I can 38 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 1: still hear it, and so can the neighbors, probably because 39 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: they have the windows up too. I've been sitting in 40 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: the hot tub on the patio and I've heard my 41 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: parents having sex loudly on a Sunday after I would 42 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: love to move, but I can't afford rent and my car. 43 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: Note it's their house. 44 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: But I don't I deserve a little respect as long 45 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: as I live here. The jokes about it aren't working, 46 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: so would I be out of line to ask them 47 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: to close the door and the windows during sex. Sorry 48 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 1: to say this, but nope, you have no rights. You 49 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: have no rights. It's their house, period. Your job is 50 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 1: to be grateful you have a nice place to lay 51 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: your head, and to get a job, some kind of job, 52 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: save your money so you can get a place of 53 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: your own one day soon. I know you got your 54 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: rent and your car note and all of that, but 55 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: you know that's up to you to get out, get 56 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: a job, and get your own plates. If you don't 57 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 1: like what you're hearing, but I do understand. I do 58 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 1: understand what you're saying. 59 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 2: I hear you. 60 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: You feel how you feel, and your feelings are valid. 61 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 1: But until you can move out, your hands are tied. 62 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: No child has ever been comfortable with catching or hearing 63 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: their parents doing it. 64 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 2: I don't know any child who's comfortable with that. 65 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: Most kids think it's disgusting, even though that's how they 66 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 1: got here. I get that part, but that's what grown 67 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: people do, and parents do it too. Okay, you know 68 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: that at twenty four, of course they should close the door, 69 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: but they might be doing it to help you. They 70 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 1: know you don't want to hear them. They're not you know, 71 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: they're not that caught up. I think that's their way 72 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: of helping you into trying harder to move out. They 73 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: want you to start being more responsible and to get 74 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: out on your own. Remember that even though you guys 75 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: are really close, you and your parents are really close, 76 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: they are not your best friends. They are still your parents. 77 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: And parents everywhere have this thing about this is my house, 78 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: and I do what I want to do in my house. 79 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 1: If you don't like it, you can leave. That's just 80 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: how parents are. But I say this, look at the 81 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: bright side. I know it's embarrassing, but at least your parents. 82 00:03:58,320 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 2: Are in love. 83 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,839 Speaker 1: They're making love, they're not arguing, they're not yelling, they're 84 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: not trying to kill each other. 85 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 2: So there's that, Steve. 86 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 3: Well your last statement, they not trying to kill each other. 87 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 3: You don't know that. 88 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:21,280 Speaker 4: Let me just go start with that. 89 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 3: Well interesting letters. 90 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 4: So as I was listening to the letter, I figured, 91 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 4: you know, I do numbers all the time. 92 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 3: You twenty four year old student, you live with your parents. 93 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 4: Your parents had you when they were eighteen, which means 94 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:42,799 Speaker 4: your parents right. 95 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 3: Now forty two forty two. 96 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 4: That's young to have a twenty four year old in 97 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 4: the house living. 98 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 3: That's young man, So they. 99 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 4: Still young fly very much in love with your and 100 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 4: the love hanging out with them because y'all listen to 101 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 4: the same music. Because forty two years old, that's hip hop. 102 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 4: You hip hop. Y'all listening to the same music. Way 103 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 4: different from me and my kids, way different. You know, 104 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,919 Speaker 4: we get along great, but there's a huge issue that 105 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 4: I'm having with them, and I made jokes about it, 106 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 4: but they don't. 107 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 3: Seem the care. 108 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 4: Sometimes it's fun to be gool with my parents, and 109 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 4: other time it gets to be too much. 110 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 3: And why is that? 111 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 4: Because I'm telling you, as parents that are listening to 112 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 4: this letter that we're about to read, your child really 113 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 4: wants a parent. Your child really wants to be parented. 114 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 4: I tell all my kids, I like you. We can 115 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 4: do some friendly stuff, but all your friends is up 116 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 4: at the school. I'm your daddy. Now, let's just be 117 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 4: clear about that. 118 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 3: Ha he Hell. 119 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 4: We can ha ha he he sometimes, but I'm not 120 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 4: your friends. I'm your parent and I'm gonna. 121 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 3: Play my role. 122 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 4: But you I'm allowed to smoke weed in the house 123 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 4: because it's legally in our state and it helps me 124 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 4: with my cramp. No that's not why you're allowed to 125 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 4: smoke weed in the house. You will be allowed to 126 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 4: smoke weed in the house because that's what they do. 127 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 4: If it was illegal, they let you smoke it. They 128 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 4: letting you do whatever they do because they ain't trying 129 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 4: to be your parents. They focusing on being your friends. 130 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 4: It's gonna get old, and I can see that it 131 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 4: already had. 132 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: All right, hang on, Steve, we'll have part cheers your 133 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 134 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter subject. Please close the windows and doors. 135 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. 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All right, Steve, come on, 147 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 5: let's recap today's Strawberry Letter. The subject is please close 148 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 5: the windows and doors. 149 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 3: This woman is having a problem. She's twenty four. 150 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 4: Her problem is with her parents, who are not parenting 151 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 4: because they're so busy being hud freed. They had this 152 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 4: little girl at eighteen. They are now forty two years old. 153 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 4: She's twenty four. That's you young. She likes hanging with 154 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 4: her parents because they have a good time, because they 155 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 4: listen to the same music. That's the hip hop generation, 156 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 4: got it? 157 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 3: I missed that. My kids miss that. They know good. 158 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 4: Hell well, when I get in the car, you know 159 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 4: what we're listening to, daddy, Can we listen to something else? 160 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 3: Now? Daddy? 161 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 4: You heard little babies new And now I don't know 162 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:33,319 Speaker 4: who little baby is. Dall baby, that damn baby, black baby, 163 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 4: white baby, new baby. But now she has a problem 164 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 4: because she says hanging out with him is cool with 165 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 4: my parents, and other times it gets to be too much. 166 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 4: I'm allowed to smoke weed in the house because it's 167 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 4: legal in our state and it helps me with my cramps. No, 168 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:55,719 Speaker 4: you allowed to smoke weed in the house because that's 169 00:08:55,760 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 4: what they do. If it was illegal, they you smoke weed. 170 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 4: I'm allowed to have my boyfriend stay overnight, cause that's 171 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 4: what they did. 172 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 3: They had you at eighteen. At eighteen, that means that 173 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 3: the sex was going on before they was eighteen, So 174 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 3: that's what they did. 175 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:19,839 Speaker 4: But he's got to go to sleep in the guest 176 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 4: room like he ain't snuck over there in the middle 177 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 4: of the night, and hell, he gonna stay in the 178 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 4: guess room. I'm allowed to use profanity, and I can 179 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 4: express myself anywhere I choose around them. Couse, that's what 180 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 4: they do. They cussing around you. My kids can cuss 181 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 4: around me. Now that was a age when they lived 182 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 4: in my house. 183 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 3: That ain't happening. 184 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 4: But when you move out the house and you come 185 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 4: back over, you can cuss. Now you need to understand something. Now, 186 00:09:55,720 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 4: there's no way you can outcuss me. Come over here 187 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 4: cussing if you want to. I got some combinations you're 188 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 4: not quite familiar with. I puts it together. But what 189 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 4: I don't appreciate is how open they are with me. 190 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 4: But what I don't appreciate is how open they are 191 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 4: with me. My parents' bedroom is below my bedroom, and 192 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 4: they have sex near every day. 193 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 3: It don't have to be at night. 194 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 4: I can be getting ready to go to work at 195 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 4: three and afternoon and they are in there going at it. 196 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:37,359 Speaker 4: You know why they they can do it? They your friends, 197 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 4: ain't your parent with the door open. They've jokingly told 198 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 4: me to stay upstairs if I don't want to see 199 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:48,079 Speaker 4: it or hear it. But what they don't know is 200 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 4: I can still hear it, and so can the neighbors, 201 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 4: probably because they have the windows up too. I've been 202 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 4: sitting in the hot tub on the paddle. I've heard 203 00:10:56,360 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 4: my parents having sex loudly on a Sunday afternoon. To move, 204 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 4: but I can't afford to rent and my canoe. It's 205 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 4: their house, but I don't I deserve a little respect 206 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 4: as long as I live here. 207 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,079 Speaker 3: The jokes about it aren't working. 208 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 4: So would I be out of line to ask them 209 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 4: to close the door and windows doing sex. Shirley said, 210 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 4: you can't cause it's your mama's them house, and technically 211 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 4: she's right. But see, y'all friends, though friends get to 212 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 4: talk to friends like they want to. I think you 213 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 4: should sit them down as friends and say, Mom, Dad, 214 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 4: the hell going on? 215 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 3: I would use another word, but. 216 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 4: That, yeah, you know, but they allow you to come 217 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 4: this sugar honey ice tea y'all doing this. It's some 218 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 4: it's some bull sugar honey ice tea because all these 219 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 4: fudging neighbors is listening to y'all. 220 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 3: Upstairs fudge, and they can hear it. 221 00:11:55,600 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 4: Now fudge. Y'all need to stop. This is embarrassing. This 222 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:09,199 Speaker 4: sugar honey ice tea gonna have to stop because you 223 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 4: two is it's just too much since they let you 224 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:19,679 Speaker 4: talk any kind of way. But now here's what you're 225 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 4: gonna have to do. You got to move, Yeah, you 226 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 4: got to move. And I want to say this to you, 227 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 4: young lady. You're obviously in school and stuff. You're twenty four. 228 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 4: Sometimes parents teach us what not to do, just like 229 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 4: they teach us what to do. I have a lot 230 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 4: of boys that come to my minnory camp who are 231 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 4: from fatherless homes, who are vowed. 232 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 3: When they have a child, they not gonna do like 233 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 3: their father did them. 234 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 4: So when you do have a child and you're obviously waiting, 235 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 4: remember these moments and remember the feelings you have. It's 236 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 4: cool to be cool with your parents, but even you 237 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 4: at twenty four still want to have some guideline. You 238 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:03,719 Speaker 4: want some parents, and this letter is for parents. Just 239 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 4: listen to this. Stop trying to be your kids. They 240 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 4: need guidance and love and discipline. They would appreciate that 241 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 4: more than you're sitting up smoking weed, cussing with them 242 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:15,599 Speaker 4: having sex with the dope. 243 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:16,839 Speaker 3: Wow. 244 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: True, All right, Steve, thank you post your comments on 245 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letters. 246 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 3: They really young. 247 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 4: What you could do is you could film and then post, 248 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 4: because that's what they do. 249 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: Not then they stop poster comments on Today's Strawberry Letter 250 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:38,320 Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. 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