1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: At all at all, So. 4 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 3: Don't give a. 5 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: Million busy. 6 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:39,639 Speaker 4: Steve listening together, I won't join. 7 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 5: Ya. 8 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: Joy. They say, you gotta. 9 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 3: Do that, you love, you gotta turn. 10 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 6: Got to turn the mouth turn you probably got to 11 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 6: turn mouth turn out a w the money up looking. 12 00:01:55,800 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 2: Come come on, you're thinking that, I sure will. 13 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 7: Good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on, 14 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 7: dig me now, one and only. Steve Harvey got a 15 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 7: radio show. Yeah, man, Steve Harvey got a radio show. 16 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 7: Trying to do something with it too. 17 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: Man. 18 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 8: You know, I was having a conversation the other day 19 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 8: with a young person and they were telling me how 20 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 8: they felt that their life was stuck, that their life 21 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 8: was in a rut, that they didn't know what to 22 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 8: do next. And one of the things that was causing 23 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 8: them this sadness or this depression. I mean, they're really 24 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 8: really into something right now. One of the things that 25 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 8: was causing it was the fact that they had made 26 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 8: a list of things they wanted to accomplish by a 27 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 8: certain age, and. 28 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 2: That age they just had a birthday recently, and. 29 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 8: They were looking at the list, and the list hadn't 30 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 8: been fulfilled, and because that list hadn't been fulfilled, they 31 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 8: were really really sad about it. You know. 32 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 1: One of the things that. 33 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 8: They had on the list was marriage, kids, and I 34 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 8: don't know everything else that was on the list, but 35 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 8: that was one of them. And because she had reached 36 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 8: a certain age and she wasn't married, and she didn't 37 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 8: have the kids, and she had just celebrated a birthday, 38 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 8: she's gone into this mode of sadness where it's really 39 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 8: really taken a toll on her. And as I was 40 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 8: learning about her situation, I was thinking about it, and 41 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 8: I just wanted to share this with you all this 42 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 8: morning that one of the things about making a list 43 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 8: about what you want, which I happen to be a 44 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 8: proponent of, I do it myself. People have dream boards. 45 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 8: I have a goal sheet. I've been doing it for years. 46 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 8: It's a wonderful way to set goals and to keep 47 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 8: it in front of you as a constant reminder. And 48 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 8: I always go over this gold list every day, you know. 49 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 8: I mean I go with it all the time every day. 50 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 8: Sometimes I miss a day here and there, but mostly 51 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 8: every day I pull my goal sheet out and I 52 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 8: look at it, I read it. So I was going 53 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 8: to these rallies and I was learning about, you know, 54 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 8: people who are successful in how they kept their mind 55 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 8: writing possible. And one of the things I learned was 56 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 8: to make these dream boards, these lists, these gold sheets, 57 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 8: and in making a goal sheet, and you make the 58 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 8: sheet according to what you want, think about one thing 59 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 8: when you made your goal sheet, about what you wanted? 60 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 8: Does your goal sheet have on it what God wants 61 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 8: from you? Did you ask in any of this what 62 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:04,119 Speaker 8: was His will in your life? 63 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 5: You know? 64 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 2: Look, man, what we want oftentimes is not what He 65 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 2: wants for us. And you know, if you're. 66 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 8: Fighting against what you were created for, if you're fighting 67 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 8: against his will, I mean, what do you want to happen? 68 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 1: See? 69 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 8: Don't be so hard on yourself when you look at 70 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 8: your goal sheet and you look at what you've not 71 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 8: become what you thought was a great idea. Don't be 72 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 8: so hard on yourself because you just made a minded mistake. 73 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 8: As do most people, we oftentimes make our goals and 74 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 8: set our goals up without ever considering what is it 75 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 8: that God wants from us. We keep talking about what 76 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 8: we want without ever finding out and knowing what it 77 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 8: is God wants for us. Well, guess what, man, maybe 78 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 8: you're fighting against the grain. Maybe you just a salmon 79 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 8: heading upstream. That's a tough fight upstream. Not all salmon's 80 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 8: get up to the spawning grounds, you know. Some of 81 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 8: them don't make it upstream, you know, but all all 82 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,040 Speaker 8: of them, nearly all of them, except the ones that's 83 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 8: killed by pray. When they're spawn they go out to 84 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 8: the ocean. That's cool, because you're going because you're going 85 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 8: with the grain. You going downstream, you're going with the flow. 86 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 8: That's but when it's time to go against the grain, 87 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 8: it's tough. And a lot of us have just been 88 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 8: going against the grain for all of these years. But 89 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 8: you know what, listen, man, I did it. I know 90 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 8: a lot of people who did it. Very few people 91 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 8: get it right from the very beginning. Man, you got 92 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 8: to stumble through life sometimes sometimes you got to fall 93 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 8: through life. You got to make a lot of mistakes, man, 94 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 8: But these mistakes are not failures. You know, when you fail, 95 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 8: it's something. Don't look at it as a fail You 96 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 8: don't look at yourself as a failure because you're thirty 97 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 8: and your goals ain't reached that you had on your list. 98 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 8: That was your list. What about the things that's going right. 99 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 8: Stop looking at what you're not, take some time out 100 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 8: and thank God for what you are. How about the 101 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 8: fact that you keep waking up to be thirty? You 102 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 8: know you get depressed about these birthdays. You really want 103 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 8: to throw yourself in some depression. Miss a birthday, You 104 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 8: really got a problem. Now look at where you are. 105 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 8: You keep reaching birthdays. That's a glorious blessing. You keep 106 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 8: waking up. You got your health, You've accomplished something. Something 107 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 8: on your list is done. People spend too much time 108 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 8: on the negative side, and you're just throwing yourself into depression. 109 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 8: So what you want to be married by a certain 110 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 8: age and you wanted to have kids, Okay, cool, you 111 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 8: could have done all that with the wrong person. There's 112 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 8: a blessing in not being married to the wrong person. 113 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 8: There's a blessing in not having kids and nobody to 114 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 8: help you raise it. There's a blessing in that man. 115 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 8: You're talking to somebody who can tell it to you. 116 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 8: You can marry the wrong person if you want to. 117 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 8: I'm telling you you're gonna be up in some mess. 118 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 8: You can't count on. So instead of being angry because 119 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 8: you're not married, you don't have kids, why don't you 120 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 8: thank God the man? Maybe he spared you from some 121 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 8: misery here. Maybe you could have married the wrong person. 122 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 8: Maybe you have kids and you're not really ready to 123 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 8: be a mother or a father. To look at the upside, man, 124 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 8: Quit looking at what you don't have. Take some time 125 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 8: to thank God for what you do have. When you 126 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 8: do that, you make more room for blessings to flow 127 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 8: into your life. I'm not saying how God thinks, because 128 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 8: I really don't know, but I'm telling you if a 129 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:19,679 Speaker 8: person comes to me and I always give a person 130 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 8: something and they never appear grateful, or they never say 131 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 8: thank you, please, know you can quit coming to me now. 132 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 8: I don't notice how God works because I've gone back 133 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 8: to him several times without being grateful of thanking him, 134 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 8: and he's filled my basket up again. So I really 135 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 8: think he's not like that. But I can't make the 136 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 8: call for sure. But I think at one point in time, 137 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:46,839 Speaker 8: me it's just me talking. I'd be a little ticked 138 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 8: off at somebody who was always taking, taking, taking, and 139 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,679 Speaker 8: never showing any gratitude. At one point in time, I 140 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 8: would just stop the flow of the take you know, 141 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 8: you just you can't take no more from me. 142 00:08:58,920 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 2: That's what I would do. 143 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 1: Now. 144 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:03,079 Speaker 8: I'm not calling it like that because I ain't him, 145 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 8: but I know he's merciful, He's full of goodness and 146 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 8: he and he'll forgive you. And thank God he does 147 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 8: that because he's show enough done it for me. But wow, man, 148 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 8: take some time out today and be grateful for what 149 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 8: you have, stop complaining about where you not, and think 150 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 8: about where you are, and then take it from there. 151 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 8: And the next time you make a list, make sure 152 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 8: on that list you have God's will. What does he 153 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 8: want for you? Does God create give everybody a gift 154 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:32,679 Speaker 8: and a talent. Some of us never apply gifts and talents. 155 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 8: We head off in another direction. Then you wonder why 156 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 8: your life ain't where it's supposed to be. Have you 157 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 8: ever thought about what God gifted you to do? Have 158 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 8: you ever thought about doing that? And still skip what 159 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 8: you want? I wanted to play in the NBA, but 160 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 8: I got to tell you something. At dribbling and shooting 161 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 8: and running all at one time throwing me off a 162 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:53,559 Speaker 8: little bit. You know, they just so I'm doing what 163 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 8: I do. It's pretty cool. You can look at it 164 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 8: that way. 165 00:09:56,160 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: Okay, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Ladies 166 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, is here another great day. 167 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:05,839 Speaker 2: Thank you, Heavenly father. I show appreciate it. 168 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:06,079 Speaker 8: Man. 169 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:08,599 Speaker 2: Started my day off with gratitude. I'm spreading it. 170 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 8: If you get your gratitude together, it affects your attitude. 171 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:15,719 Speaker 8: If your attitude gets affected, this direct correlation to your altitude. 172 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 8: It's about them tudes, man, get them up, get them started. 173 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 8: It's gonna be a great day to day. I lived 174 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 8: my life with that expectation. I had a little moment 175 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 8: yesterday while I felt a little some kind of way, 176 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 8: you know how you just being human and you know 177 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 8: the principles of success, but somehow you. 178 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:34,319 Speaker 1: Just it's just one of them days. And I was 179 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: feeling a little, you know, a little off. 180 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 8: I wasn't I was looking at what was wrong, and 181 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:42,719 Speaker 8: I was so focused on what was wrong that I 182 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 8: had stopped momentarily looking at my life and what was right. 183 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 2: But I got it back on track. 184 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,319 Speaker 8: But I was in this little funk for about about 185 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 8: ninety minutes, and I remembered something that I read somewhere 186 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 8: like whenever you can't explain your emotion. If you're feeling 187 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:03,319 Speaker 8: like little foggy, a little darker, you feel like blah, 188 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 8: all you have to do is retrace the conversations you've 189 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 8: had with yourself the fifteen minutes prior. Go back to 190 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 8: fifteen minutes prior, because your emotions, the what you feel 191 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 8: is actually a barometer of what you've been thinking. It's 192 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:28,439 Speaker 8: like your internal thermostat. You are the temperature gauge in 193 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 8: your own life. So what you have to do is 194 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 8: when you feel these little moments of darkness and gloom 195 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 8: and sadness and depression, all you gotta do is track 196 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 8: the last fifteen minutes. As long as you can track 197 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 8: those last fifteen minutes of thoughts, you can now explain 198 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 8: your situation. And when I started tracking that, I was 199 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 8: just on a negative plane. And so I went right 200 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,599 Speaker 8: back and put myself on the positive plane, and I 201 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 8: was able to self correct myself. Now that didn't make 202 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,559 Speaker 8: the problem go away, no, But the focus wasn't on 203 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 8: the problem anymore. The focus was on the God that 204 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 8: has given me every solution I've ever had prior to this. 205 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 8: That right there changes everything. I have no problems that's 206 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:16,559 Speaker 8: bigger than my God. Come on, boy, once you wake 207 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 8: up to that realization, you can get on with it. 208 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 8: That's how I'm opening to show this morning, Junior. I 209 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 8: love to say what's wrong with you today? But all 210 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:25,839 Speaker 8: you're gonna ask me to do is explain it. 211 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 2: I mean, really, you should have just explained that because 212 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 2: I didn't even think about that. I got that same problem. 213 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 1: Bruh. 214 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 2: Everybody has that problem. 215 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 8: It's not new to mankind to be human, you know, 216 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,319 Speaker 8: it's nothing, nothing new about it. And we all have 217 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 8: those moments where we just find ourselves in a little funk, 218 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 8: a little bit of gloom. But if you retrust the 219 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 8: previous fifteen minutes of thought, there it is because all 220 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 8: your emotions are is a barometer of what you've been thinking. 221 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 1: So if you change what you think, if you change. 222 00:12:56,760 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 8: Your attitude, it affects your altitudes. So I put my 223 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 8: attitude on a positive plane, and all of a sudden, 224 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 8: I felt better. 225 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 2: So instead of looking at what I didn't. 226 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 8: Have and what was going wrong, I shifted my thinking 227 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 8: and I started focusing on what was going right in 228 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 8: my life, and I started thinking him for the blessings 229 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:19,959 Speaker 8: that I had and all of a sudden, what I 230 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 8: didn't have seemed so small in comparison to what I had. 231 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 1: Oh you asked and answered your own question. 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Okay, it's what you should all have around 253 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 10: your house at this point. Pur valence, you got a 254 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 10: smart house. 255 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 2: Everybody else don't. 256 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 10: You can't have no dumb house in this day. Tank 257 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 10: have a smart house. But come, okay, dog surveillance, let's 258 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 10: get it. 259 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 5: Hell. 260 00:14:55,520 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 10: Yes, I'm trying to reach your please. Hello, I'm trying 261 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 10: to reach you missus police. Hello, my name is officer 262 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 10: from the Police Department, Narcotics Division. And where's the call 263 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 10: from Police Department Narcotics Division. 264 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 2: Man, my name is the officer. Okay, I'm giving you 265 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 2: a call. 266 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 10: There is a possibility. I'm wanted trying to get the 267 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 10: particulars with you. You have two sons? 268 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 2: Do you have one in? Okay? 269 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 10: Uh, there's reason to believe that there is some narcotics 270 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 10: going on with these two gentlemen. 271 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 2: Now, I wanted to speak with you about it. 272 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 10: My understanding that you're over the crime watch actually in 273 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 10: that particular area, yes, sir, and I know that here 274 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 10: lately there's been. 275 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 2: Camp Hello. 276 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 11: Hello, hang on the phone. 277 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 2: Go ahead, it's my understanding. 278 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 10: You guys have I know you've put surveillance cameras up 279 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 10: so you can actually get a general area of what's 280 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 10: going on. All right, Yes, sir, Okay, where has it 281 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 10: been within the last last week, because what we've done 282 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 10: is we've put somebody on them and watched them very closely, 283 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 10: and we're wanting to know from you because I understand 284 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 10: that you are the person over the crime watch. 285 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 2: What's going on with your two sons? 286 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 5: Well? 287 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 12: Certain, for one thing, I don't allow drugs selling for 288 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 12: my house period. 289 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 5: I don't. 290 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 12: I don't even allow that because I am the head 291 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 12: of the car watch. I don't even allow people to 292 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 12: even come back here to buy drugs. Okay, Okay, Now 293 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 12: I know some kids that's mad at my kids. They 294 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 12: were calling the cops to my house come into my 295 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 12: house and throwing rocks and everything. But I can assure you, sir, 296 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 12: that's one thing I do not play. I do not 297 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 12: allow people to even come back to my house. 298 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 2: Okay. 299 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 10: Now, are there surveillance cameras, ma'am that are pointing in 300 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 10: any area like in your back that. 301 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 12: You haven't really activated it? 302 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: No more? 303 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 2: Okay, where exactly were your cameras pointing? What angle? Were 304 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 2: they towards the road towards you road? 305 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 11: Right? 306 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 2: Is there anything in the backyard area of where you are? 307 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 5: No? 308 00:16:57,880 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 12: Okay, that's the only one we had. 309 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 10: All right, here's what's going on. We're actually and I'm 310 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 10: gonna just be completely honest with you. 311 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 2: Miss. 312 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 10: There's a possibility of a raid coming in there, because 313 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:11,680 Speaker 10: we truly believe that you are having some type of 314 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 10: countband in that house right there. 315 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:16,479 Speaker 11: Could you just hold on for me to say, sir, 316 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 11: hell see if you can. 317 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:36,879 Speaker 2: Get that tech in here for yes? Okay, yes, have 318 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:38,679 Speaker 2: you spoken with sir? 319 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 12: Let me tell you one thing. Okay, I will bust say. 320 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 12: I don't even if I come back to my house 321 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 12: at all. I don't play that. I'm the head of 322 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 12: cry and watch. I think all they need to go 323 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 12: get a job and and and stop messing up there. 324 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 12: Damn like that's that's that's what's wrong with them. 325 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:54,880 Speaker 11: Okay. 326 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:57,359 Speaker 12: And I don't play that, and and I don't appreciate that. 327 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 2: Okay, are the two boys is there right now? 328 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:01,439 Speaker 5: Yeah? They're here? 329 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 2: Can I speak with those guys one by one? Please? 330 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 2: Do you mind if I do that? 331 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 1: Miss? 332 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 12: They don't want to come to the farm. 333 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:11,360 Speaker 2: Nobody wants to talk to the office of the law. 334 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 2: Huh uh. What do you think, miss? 335 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 10: I'm gonna try to handle us as diligently as possible. 336 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 10: Do you think I should come out and speak with 337 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 10: your boys there? 338 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:20,199 Speaker 1: At. 339 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 2: No, I'm trying to avoid a raid happen. 340 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:25,399 Speaker 12: I'm avoiding my damnself. 341 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:27,959 Speaker 2: No, I'm trying to avoid a raid coming to your home. Man, 342 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to do. 343 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 10: I want to call and talk to you sensible and 344 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 10: see if I can get some things rectified here, because 345 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 10: right now it seems like it shouldn't that your cameras 346 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,479 Speaker 10: should be actually pointing at your back door or your 347 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:40,400 Speaker 10: backyard so I can see what's going on there. 348 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 2: That's what seems to be happening here. 349 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 12: Okay, Well do what you gotta do, you know. 350 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 10: Okay, uh, Well, before you do all of that, can 351 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:52,119 Speaker 10: we pretty much like make sure that we know what 352 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 10: we're talking about. 353 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:55,400 Speaker 2: Do you think that they have contraband in the household? 354 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 12: No, I don't allow that in my household. Okay, I'm 355 00:18:58,000 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 12: a Christian woman. 356 00:18:58,680 --> 00:18:59,880 Speaker 5: I don't allow that at my household. 357 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 10: Have you beat these children before on this particular issue? 358 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 10: Have you had problems with them in to pass on this? 359 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 5: No? 360 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 2: All right, I don't. 361 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 10: I'm just trying to square it up as quick as possible. 362 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 10: I don't want you going through being stressed out about 363 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 10: this particular issue. But I know that from my understanding, 364 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 10: you're supposed to be a law abiding person, and you're trying. 365 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 12: To be lawyer abiding. Very right, Mary, y'all care very 366 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 12: much about my community, and that's why I do not 367 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 12: allow these things in my community. And if they're doing it, 368 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 12: trust me, I'm going to be on as soon as 369 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 12: I hang on this phone. 370 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:29,120 Speaker 10: Well, I don't want you to hang up your cheat, 371 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 10: because I got a couple more things I want to 372 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 10: talk to you about. 373 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:32,720 Speaker 2: Because if you need me to come over there and 374 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 2: butt some. 375 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 12: With y'all done, come and bust some I need that. 376 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:37,400 Speaker 12: Come bust and I'm gonna. 377 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:38,120 Speaker 11: Help you, but some too. 378 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:40,480 Speaker 2: Okay, I got one more thing I need to say 379 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 2: to you. Are you listening. 380 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 10: Yes, this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobbin Morning Show. 381 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 10: You just got you got, Frank Biddy. 382 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 12: Oh my goodness, I'm gonna kick the behind. 383 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 5: Don't do that, because I take that very serious. 384 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,560 Speaker 10: They told me, they told me you are bou cleaning 385 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:03,880 Speaker 10: up the community, and they better not be nowhere around there. 386 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 2: Selling no dope. 387 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:06,359 Speaker 12: And I mean only got to do is look at 388 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 12: me and I stear it them and they automatically leave. 389 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 2: And that's that's a good thing. 390 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 12: Oh my goodness, I'm gonna get you back. 391 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,920 Speaker 2: No, you can't get me. Now you can get you 392 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 2: can get them. 393 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, oh my goodness. 394 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 5: And here I'm like nervous. I'm like, oh my goodness, 395 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 5: Oh boy, you look at you. 396 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 2: I ain't want you to get off the phone because 397 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:28,440 Speaker 2: you're finna go beat them boys. 398 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:30,199 Speaker 12: That's right, because I do not. 399 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 11: Run up in my house. 400 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 10: Did we need more people like you in the community. 401 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:39,400 Speaker 10: That's making sure that we ain't dirting up the neighborhood. 402 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 10: We need you, baby, But darling, you keep doing what 403 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:44,160 Speaker 10: you're doing. I got one more thing to ask you, though, 404 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 10: What is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio 405 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:53,119 Speaker 10: show anymore? Andybody, everybody with a smart house, raise your 406 00:20:53,160 --> 00:21:01,640 Speaker 10: hands out here slanging this drugs and stuff, and we're 407 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 10: gonna put a stop to it. 408 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 2: That's right. 409 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 1: She's saving the community. 410 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 2: That's what you do. 411 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:11,159 Speaker 1: That's what we need more people like her, Yes, sir, Yes, sirs. 412 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 1: She called you a cycle your favorite part. 413 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 2: Well, that's that's a compliment to me. What are you 414 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:19,879 Speaker 2: talking about to you? 415 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:25,679 Speaker 1: Yes, I that I EMBRACINGPW Thank you. 416 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:32,360 Speaker 13: At the Salvation Army love gives beyond situation and season. 417 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:36,359 Speaker 13: While lights are sparkling and temperatures are dropping, You can 418 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 13: be the difference for a family in need right in 419 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:43,120 Speaker 13: your local community. Your donation puts presents under the tree 420 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 13: today and food on the table all year long, warm 421 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 13: hearts and homes beyond the Christmas season. By donating twenty 422 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:55,879 Speaker 13: five dollars a month at Salvation Army USA dot org, 423 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 13: help a neighbor in need through the holidays and beyond. 424 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:04,360 Speaker 9: Right now, it is time to ask the CLO Chief 425 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 9: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building all right, here 426 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:12,440 Speaker 9: we go. Anthony inmobile says, I dropped my car off 427 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 9: to get a new tire, and a coworker dropped me 428 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,480 Speaker 9: off at home. My wife didn't know I was at home, 429 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 9: and she came in on her speaker phone and I 430 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 9: heard a man say he tried to call her. Later, 431 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 9: she saw me and dropped her phone. I've been avoiding 432 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 9: her and she wants to explain. 433 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 1: What do I do? 434 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 8: Let her explain? Yeah, yeah, you've been avoiding her and 435 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 8: she wants to explain. Let her explain. Now you are 436 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 8: about to find out that women and how better they 437 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 8: are at it. 438 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 1: Okay, let her explain. That's all all right, just let 439 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:02,439 Speaker 1: her explain. Do I wonder what she canna say? Well? 440 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 11: What do you? 441 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:04,640 Speaker 8: Yeah? 442 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 1: Well yeah, hello on yeah, hold hold on, what would 443 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:09,120 Speaker 1: you say? What would y'all say? 444 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 11: My baby? 445 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 2: It was just a friend. 446 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,200 Speaker 9: Yeah, we're going to give you. I didn't want to 447 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,880 Speaker 9: tell you this, but you know we're planning a surprise 448 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 9: party for you. 449 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 2: And no, no, no, wait a minute, wait a minute, 450 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:21,680 Speaker 2: wait a minute. Oh so we could have friends? 451 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 1: Now, well, I mean just somebody I'm cold. 452 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,639 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so we called okay, so we call the 453 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 2: people we cool with now okay. 454 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 1: Thank Yeah, somebody I'm with associated. 455 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, cool, ain't no problem, hey, Shirly, next question? 456 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: All right? Kennedy and Gary You mad? Kennedy and Gary Wright. 457 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 9: After eight years of marriage, my husband tries to blackmail 458 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,680 Speaker 9: me into doing things. If I say no to sex, 459 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 9: he reminds me that he gave me a new car 460 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 9: for my birthday, or that he's taking me to Vegas 461 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,880 Speaker 9: for Christmas. I told him to take the car back, 462 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,919 Speaker 9: and he hid the keys from me. He is, so patty, 463 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 9: Did I handle this the wrong way? 464 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:11,719 Speaker 2: Well, I mean he took the keys back y'all married. 465 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really know what's going on in 466 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 1: your house. I don't really understate. 467 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,119 Speaker 8: You're not gonna have a sip with me. You're not 468 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:26,160 Speaker 8: driving your car, okay? Yeah, which one you think gonna 469 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 8: hurt the most though? 470 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 14: Right? 471 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 11: Her? 472 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:31,479 Speaker 13: Not driving her? 473 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 1: Yeah? 474 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 2: Well you're not having sex. Okay, now you got that. 475 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 8: Yeah, you got that extra car key and you still 476 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 8: ain't having sex, You stupid dude. 477 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 1: She said, he's so petty, really is h So what 478 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 1: should she do to get a car back? Car keys? 479 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 2: Well, you know what's happening. 480 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 1: Go in there, honey, I'm home. 481 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 8: You know, you know ain't like y'all ain't did it before, 482 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 8: So you know, trying to get your car keys back? Well, yeah, 483 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 8: come on in here. 484 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 1: You gotta do what you gotta do. 485 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:18,960 Speaker 8: Seek Yeah, I gotta get this car. Then you wake 486 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 8: up next morning. This this blankety blank took the washing machine. 487 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 1: She just got the dryer. 488 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 2: I got to get in here, get this damn washing 489 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 2: machine back. 490 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 1: My goodness, you. 491 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 8: Wake up till next morning, heat damn this food, and 492 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,360 Speaker 8: put a lock on the refrigerator. 493 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 2: Go back in here. 494 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 1: I'm trying to make her say, well, come on boys, 495 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: I make this sandwich. 496 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:51,719 Speaker 11: Come on, all right. 497 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 9: Moving on to Delane and Toledo. Delane says, my brother 498 00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 9: and I live together and he's dating a wild woman. 499 00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:59,639 Speaker 9: I walked into the kitchen and she was on the 500 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 9: other side of the island on her knees. I've asked 501 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,600 Speaker 9: him to be respectful or move out. He said, I 502 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 9: should move Which one of us should leave? 503 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 5: Well? 504 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 1: Damn doun Now who on their knees? 505 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 8: Though? Oh, it's kind of crazy. You don't want to 506 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 8: walk in on it. You know your brother here, you 507 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 8: don't want to walk in? Who should want of y'all 508 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:23,880 Speaker 8: got the dog? 509 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:28,120 Speaker 1: I'll leave, Yeah, I leave that man. 510 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 8: Don I'm gonna let you have this here, Gonna get 511 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 8: you another spot. Yeah, you probably need a better place. 512 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: Anyway from the island dog the kitchen. Yeah, come on, Oh. 513 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 8: It happened to before y'all getting in the kitchen. Don't 514 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 8: act like you ain't turn the washing machine on. 515 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:54,160 Speaker 1: Turn on this one. 516 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 8: It's too much high water. Cut the water down some 517 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 8: Wait a minute, the fool be on here. Wait, the 518 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 8: fool be on here? 519 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,440 Speaker 1: All right? Moving on to Hazel and Charlotte. Not on 520 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 1: the cutting board? 521 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 3: Stop? 522 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, No, I'm not gonna hold on to 523 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:19,360 Speaker 2: the high chair. This where the baby eat. 524 00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:22,440 Speaker 1: That's where you drawed a lot. 525 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 2: Now, I'm not holding on to this high chair now, all. 526 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,440 Speaker 9: Right, Hazel and Charlotte says, I work from home and 527 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 9: during a zoom call, my husband was trying to be 528 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 9: funny and he yelled out for me to come back 529 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 9: to bed. My boss excused me from the call and 530 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,680 Speaker 9: then send an email saying it's a privilege to work 531 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,920 Speaker 9: from home and I'm ruining my privileges. How do I 532 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,440 Speaker 9: stop a forty nine year old man from acting so silly? 533 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:47,919 Speaker 10: Oh? 534 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 1: You need his ass well for that? Now they be 535 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 1: He'll no, you're messing with her money? Yeah, I mean, bro, 536 00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:57,200 Speaker 1: who don't understand that? 537 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:01,199 Speaker 8: Yeah, she gotta be professional because if she lose her 538 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:04,040 Speaker 8: job and she back home in the bed, you ain't 539 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 8: gonna like that. 540 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 2: I'll tell you that, right, So, I don't really know. 541 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,439 Speaker 2: You just got to talk to your husband. 542 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:10,120 Speaker 1: You know he can't. 543 00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 2: This is not the place to play. 544 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:17,399 Speaker 1: I've at work, no boundaries with that, and is he. 545 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:18,040 Speaker 3: Not at work? 546 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,480 Speaker 2: Everybody in a minute? 547 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 8: Right, Wow, you keep on your next line, you're gonna 548 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:31,640 Speaker 8: hit You're still in the jail. 549 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's why I want to know. How did 550 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:36,639 Speaker 1: he say it? Steve? 551 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 14: While she's on the zoom call, I don't be back 552 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:48,160 Speaker 14: in this bed, girl, Now you played too much. 553 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. The privilege to work at home, work from home, 554 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: it is yeah, we. 555 00:28:55,800 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 2: Enjoy it when I draw right now. This is a 556 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 2: beautiful thing, all of us. 557 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 1: Why would why would you wear something to go to 558 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: the room next though? 559 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 2: Why would you do that? 560 00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: What is that for? I have respect? All we got 561 00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:15,800 Speaker 1: on the shirts. All of us got shirts. I get 562 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 1: to the. 563 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 8: Bathroom three times doing the show, so I need should 564 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 8: have some moah. 565 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank you. 566 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 2: I stand up here, I stand up in front of this. 567 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 2: Came the whole camera, black. 568 00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 1: Eye anyway, all right, thank you c l O. Except 569 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 1: for that last what's that? 570 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 2: Steve Harbin Marley show Man? 571 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 9: Would you rather wear flip flops all winter? Or would 572 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 9: you rather wear a turtleneck all summer? 573 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 2: Give me flops? 574 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 1: Wait? 575 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,240 Speaker 8: Wait, wait, wait wait, it's just coming from the one 576 00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 8: person on the show that cannot get cold. 577 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 2: Yes it is. 578 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 8: Out yo, look waiting hold of you mean your little 579 00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 8: sick and sale lass? Ain't thank that's when I no 580 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 8: better than that? You think that your little sick ass 581 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 8: needs somewhere and get cold. If you don't put this 582 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,720 Speaker 8: damn turtle neck on and shut your ass in that car, 583 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 8: that be still and move to Phoenix. 584 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 11: Right after you. 585 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show, say it is time 586 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 9: for games. 587 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:25,120 Speaker 1: You can't play. 588 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 9: You can't play over the holidays, Shaye, please explain. 589 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:29,880 Speaker 1: All right, here we go. 590 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 6: The holidays are coming around, and you know gonna have 591 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 6: folks over to the house. So what I'm gonna do 592 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 6: is set up the game, tell a little bit about it. 593 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 6: Steve Junior gonna jump in and make and explain how 594 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,400 Speaker 6: the games get worse. Start off good, sound like a 595 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:49,160 Speaker 6: good idea, but then as the game progresses, problems arrive. Liten, 596 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,680 Speaker 6: simple game of spade. We're gonna play some spade. We're 597 00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 6: gonna set up the table. We're gonna play some spade. Okay, 598 00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 6: then and then everything happened. Somebody started cheating. You know, 599 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:00,240 Speaker 6: you got that problem. 600 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 1: The first time. Somebody need you swear it with a 601 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: dead body in the room. 602 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 3: Uh huh. 603 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 6: So you can't play that. You know, people don't know 604 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,760 Speaker 6: how to lose and and just take it, you know, 605 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:17,360 Speaker 6: they take it personal. 606 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. 607 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 6: They take it all right, So you're gonna go outside, 608 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 6: play some touch football, you know, getting family, everybody. Just 609 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 6: play some touch football. You got a grown ass man 610 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 6: think it's cool to run over a third grader? 611 00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:41,720 Speaker 1: Just run over your ass. Just punish it. Damn man, 612 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:49,440 Speaker 1: we're playing football. You ain't been putting them on me, 613 00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:53,240 Speaker 1: you know how I you put him to check me. 614 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 2: So what I'm gonna do? 615 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:54,320 Speaker 13: Do? 616 00:31:56,160 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 8: Remember what you out here for? You line, you should 617 00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 8: have been like, hey, look, hey, this is all I 618 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 8: got to shake. You know, if you can't, you can't 619 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 8: the handling heat, Get out this kick. 620 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 1: I don't care if your aide, I don't care if 621 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 1: your age. Let him cry. Let him cry. He got 622 00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 1: to learn learn. 623 00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 6: That's a man's game. Here's another game you can't play. 624 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,360 Speaker 6: You want to play dominoes. But you got that dude 625 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 6: that been you've been you've been away for a while, 626 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 6: and he take this game a little bit too seriously. 627 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,120 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, he been in, he's been away. 628 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:43,840 Speaker 6: You know, he's been in the system. 629 00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:49,600 Speaker 1: He even locked off so way away. Dominoes is a 630 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:50,560 Speaker 1: different game, man. 631 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you should have been here. 632 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:54,640 Speaker 11: Man. 633 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:56,880 Speaker 8: Now you want to play old old Wait man, hold up, 634 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 8: don't hold don't I just sent you to the. 635 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 1: Yard on new trail. 636 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 2: Hold nom, you just went to the yard on new track. 637 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: You ain't had no trade min of the gold. What 638 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 1: you're talking about? 639 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 2: What I'm talking about, I'm talking about your asses? Oh 640 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 2: you're trying to Oh you remember gets shape? You pardner? 641 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 1: You're out now, you're out now, all no, no. 642 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 8: Okay, okay, I'm gonna need two packs of cigarettes for that. 643 00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 1: I had the holiday party. It's all I'm saying. 644 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 2: And I'm gonna need the two packs the next time 645 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 2: I've seen. 646 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 1: You playing down, never get an under shaped. We can't play. 647 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,320 Speaker 6: We gotta play another all right, Now we're gonna we're 648 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 6: gonna go back outside. Try to play just a simple game, 649 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:52,800 Speaker 6: family game on your dodgeball. It's the same guy. Well 650 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 6: think it's a lot of fun. He hit a third. 651 00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,080 Speaker 1: Grader man in my own ball. 652 00:33:58,200 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 2: He ain't got a lot of. 653 00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 1: What are you out here playing fall cat games? 654 00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 2: It's wild god ball ain't standing there and get hit him? 655 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,280 Speaker 2: Why you gotta hit him so hard? 656 00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 5: What he do? 657 00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:25,960 Speaker 8: Now they're gonna cock back with that little week ass 658 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 8: throw like I ain't see that. 659 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,840 Speaker 6: I get him in the faith in the face. 660 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:32,720 Speaker 1: That's what he needs to pay attention. 661 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:39,319 Speaker 6: Means always go back in the hospital, decide to play chess. 662 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:42,040 Speaker 6: But here's what happens. The man who thinks you know 663 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:46,360 Speaker 6: everything about chests get his ass dusted by that eighth grader. 664 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 6: Now he really upset the little boy to throw his 665 00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,040 Speaker 6: ass up in chests. 666 00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 11: He can't take it. 667 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 1: That's where all the pieces gonna be on the floor. 668 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 1: He picked them up for a hold up? 669 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:04,760 Speaker 2: Holder, do you can't say, check mate, we just got started. 670 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:10,959 Speaker 11: How you gonna how you going to the dog? Dog? Dog? 671 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:11,160 Speaker 5: No? 672 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,360 Speaker 2: We even then before five six moves? 673 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 1: What is you talking about? 674 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:14,839 Speaker 2: Check mate? 675 00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 11: Dog? 676 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 2: No, that ain't my chest, goes the thinking man. 677 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:23,720 Speaker 1: Game right, ain't you ain't even had time to think, David. 678 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:24,799 Speaker 2: He was the game man. 679 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,359 Speaker 1: He ain't want a damn game. 680 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,320 Speaker 2: He just said, check mate. 681 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, you beat. 682 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:31,360 Speaker 2: Show me. 683 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:33,800 Speaker 11: He showed you. 684 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:35,320 Speaker 3: He showed you that. 685 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 2: Ain't you can't do that? See you gotta do look, 686 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,640 Speaker 2: man in chest, you have to make a minimum of twenty. 687 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:47,800 Speaker 1: Moves each like you didn't have to do that for you. 688 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:48,359 Speaker 5: Dog. 689 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:49,399 Speaker 1: That's how it's done. 690 00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:52,960 Speaker 2: Dog, Are you getting no? You ain't even gonna say 691 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:55,400 Speaker 2: check unless it's been twenty moves. 692 00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:58,000 Speaker 1: May try something else. 693 00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:58,440 Speaker 11: I don't know. 694 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,360 Speaker 2: Man, see y'all need his chest with white folks. 695 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:09,319 Speaker 1: Race, everything is racial with you. Play that last game? 696 00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:09,920 Speaker 6: Last game. 697 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:11,200 Speaker 1: We can't play checkers. 698 00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 6: It's the same guy with the dodgeball really enjoys beating 699 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:29,479 Speaker 6: a third Ready he gets such, what is your fork? 700 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:33,440 Speaker 11: White? 701 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:34,719 Speaker 1: Your ass out? 702 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,279 Speaker 8: No no no no man, no no no man. You 703 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 8: can't jump back because you got the red pizza. Red 704 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:43,480 Speaker 8: red piz can't jump. 705 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:44,600 Speaker 3: Bad a child? 706 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 1: Man? Allay the end of this game. Okay, let's move on. 707 00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,800 Speaker 8: Hey, good morning. This is your man, Steve Harvey. For 708 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 8: what Christmas means to me is a celebration of life, 709 00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:01,040 Speaker 8: the birth, the life, the gift of giving. 710 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:03,760 Speaker 2: From my family, yours and the crew from the Steve Robin. 711 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,279 Speaker 1: Mornasham Happy Holidays. 712 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:10,080 Speaker 8: Nothing feels as good as driving a new Hondai And 713 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 8: now you can get a great deal on your favorite 714 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 8: model at the Hondaid Getaway Sales Event. Make your next 715 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:21,440 Speaker 8: getaway your best one yet. Visit Hondai USA dot com today. 716 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:25,120 Speaker 8: Drive away now in one of their most popular models 717 00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 8: with zero percent APR and zero payments for ninety days. 718 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 10: Only doing the Hondai Getaway Sales event. All three ends 719 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:37,480 Speaker 10: January second. Call five six two three one four four 720 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,600 Speaker 10: six zero three for details. 721 00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 1: It is time now for a round of would you rather? 722 00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:45,800 Speaker 9: Would you rather do two life two laps in a 723 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 9: race car at three hundred miles per hour? 724 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 1: Or would you rather zip line over the ocean? 725 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 2: The ocean? 726 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, the oceans? Where does that end at? 727 00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:55,960 Speaker 5: No? 728 00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 1: For damn, oh it don't. 729 00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,120 Speaker 8: It don't really matter to me because I'm a be 730 00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 8: passed out in either situation. I'm not even gonna be 731 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,359 Speaker 8: conscious because my ass will black out either way. 732 00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 1: Junior race car or. 733 00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:11,720 Speaker 3: He did? 734 00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:12,439 Speaker 11: He did? 735 00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,320 Speaker 1: It's just two laps, race car, two lapts. 736 00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:17,239 Speaker 5: But this. 737 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,239 Speaker 1: Hold three. 738 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:26,520 Speaker 8: That's a lot, though, but still three. I was just 739 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:29,560 Speaker 8: at Formula one. I watched this one eighty No. 740 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:34,640 Speaker 10: No, but when we get through these two left, your 741 00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,240 Speaker 10: ass is still over the Pacific. 742 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,280 Speaker 1: I'm not zip lining? 743 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:45,640 Speaker 2: What is options? 744 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:45,960 Speaker 1: See? 745 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,640 Speaker 9: It's just too all right? Would you rather your wife 746 00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:54,319 Speaker 9: talk less? Would you rather if your wife talked less 747 00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:55,600 Speaker 9: or if she spent less? 748 00:38:55,719 --> 00:39:03,320 Speaker 1: Which one? I'm not doing this to say, y'all not 749 00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,399 Speaker 1: messing up. We're going right on in the Christmas nice 750 00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:10,960 Speaker 1: been less to talk, yes, Steve, Yes. 751 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 2: Be brave mine talk less. I pay for that. I 752 00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:21,759 Speaker 2: pay for silence. What about it, I'm gonna get another bag, 753 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,640 Speaker 2: go ahead, I'm not. 754 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,560 Speaker 1: I just got mad. I can't say nothing on this. 755 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:30,320 Speaker 1: I can't do that anyway. 756 00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:32,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, depend on what the week it is. 757 00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:32,919 Speaker 1: Yeah. 758 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:37,439 Speaker 8: Hey, y'all, they're not gonna stop, they're not gonna start, 759 00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:41,200 Speaker 8: all right, so we'll get some quiet at your house. 760 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:47,239 Speaker 9: Would you rather eat whatever you want without gaining weight 761 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:52,040 Speaker 9: or would you rather say whatever you want without any consequences? 762 00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 8: Be okay, I won't say it. Please, I'll be back 763 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 8: on stage next Friday. Please no consequence, by boy, Let 764 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,719 Speaker 8: me tell you something, please, Please don't worry about the 765 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,800 Speaker 8: eat me well, I take my fat ass right on 766 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:09,560 Speaker 8: back out there. 767 00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:14,920 Speaker 2: You food, I don't give it. 768 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:15,200 Speaker 10: Damn. 769 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,400 Speaker 1: I don't wait or anything. 770 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:18,759 Speaker 2: Steve, I don't care about that. 771 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:19,239 Speaker 1: I don't cay. 772 00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:21,320 Speaker 2: I keep cold plunge that I work with that. Just 773 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,320 Speaker 2: let me go out here, fry. 774 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 8: And say everything and ain't I'm telling you right now, 775 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,480 Speaker 8: all these groups need to tune in. 776 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:36,000 Speaker 1: Everybody that's in the group, every nationality need to tune in. 777 00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:40,200 Speaker 1: If you're over wait, tune in, if your shot, tune in, 778 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:42,239 Speaker 1: Come on, tune in. 779 00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:44,120 Speaker 11: Tune in. 780 00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:48,920 Speaker 1: You got you driving with a sticker hanging on your 781 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:53,040 Speaker 1: rear view mirror. Tune in. I'm gonna have it for everybody. 782 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:54,040 Speaker 1: Tune in. 783 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,880 Speaker 2: I'm gonna start with me, so everybody get comfortable with it. 784 00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:58,279 Speaker 1: You're listening. 785 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:05,360 Speaker 9: Morning, all right, Steve. This is from TC from North Carolina. 786 00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,880 Speaker 9: TC says, I am an events planner. I have collected 787 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,120 Speaker 9: a lot of free gifts from trade shows that I've 788 00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 9: attended and from swag bags at events. This stuff is 789 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 9: sitting in my garage and it's great stuff. But I 790 00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 9: don't need it. It's too good to throw away or 791 00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:24,000 Speaker 9: donate to goodwill, So I want to regive them to 792 00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:25,799 Speaker 9: my family, friends and coworkers. 793 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:28,440 Speaker 1: What's the rule? If I do? Do I tell them 794 00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:32,320 Speaker 1: it's something I got and they'll need or don't say anything? 795 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:33,839 Speaker 2: They all know spin my heart? 796 00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:38,399 Speaker 1: Money? Thought about you? What mine? That's what you say 797 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,320 Speaker 1: when you give it to them, that yeah. 798 00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:43,640 Speaker 8: You earned everything that's in that garage. Thenbo I gave 799 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:46,799 Speaker 8: you nothing. Hell no, I ain't telling nobody damn things. 800 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:48,319 Speaker 8: Look what I got? 801 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:54,760 Speaker 1: Oh, this is nice I know what it is. Thank you, Steve. 802 00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 2: You're welcome. 803 00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:04,680 Speaker 1: So you're not saying anything for what? Yeah, especially if 804 00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:05,920 Speaker 1: the stuff is nice, why not. 805 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 11: Have you you? 806 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:09,960 Speaker 8: Yeah? 807 00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:13,520 Speaker 10: Yeah, you can regive gift cards, right, like somebody give 808 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:14,239 Speaker 10: you a gift card. 809 00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:15,759 Speaker 2: You can just keep the past that. There ain't nothing 810 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:17,920 Speaker 2: wrong with that is Oh yeah, that looked real good 811 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:19,680 Speaker 2: going up there with the little timmy on the back 812 00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 2: of your car. 813 00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:25,719 Speaker 1: But if you don't you already wrote the names. Yeah, 814 00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:30,399 Speaker 1: it to and from. Yeah, I don't know nobody giving away, 815 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:31,520 Speaker 1: no damn gift card. 816 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:33,520 Speaker 11: What do you mean. 817 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:37,280 Speaker 2: I ain't. I ain't never seen nobody regift money. 818 00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,399 Speaker 13: Oh oh, that's not a bad gift because you could 819 00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,279 Speaker 13: use it, right, the gift card. 820 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,200 Speaker 8: Yeah, people give me stuff all the time. I ain't 821 00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:47,520 Speaker 8: carry this stuff, don't wear here. 822 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:49,719 Speaker 11: You can have it. 823 00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 14: Have you done it? 824 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:53,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah? 825 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 826 00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,560 Speaker 10: You know, people come by to a party or something, 827 00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 10: they bring old, nasty, raggedy bottle of wine. You just okay, 828 00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 10: we're gonna get We're gonna take that to the next 829 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:01,400 Speaker 10: house we can go to. 830 00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:03,520 Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep this moving. 831 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:06,760 Speaker 1: What about your junior? 832 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,399 Speaker 13: Wait a minute, back up, I've been to this house 833 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:17,280 Speaker 13: several times and yeah, well yeah, well you know somebody 834 00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:17,960 Speaker 13: else got it. 835 00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know there's a possibility. You don't want 836 00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,120 Speaker 2: to just se dollars for it. 837 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:26,960 Speaker 1: You damn right, the last bottle of wine. I get 838 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:34,320 Speaker 1: the miles this thank you for him. So what about 839 00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:35,760 Speaker 1: your junior? Have you regifted? 840 00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:36,719 Speaker 5: No? 841 00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:38,319 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't even go back gifts. 842 00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:39,680 Speaker 2: When I come to your party, I just said I 843 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:40,319 Speaker 2: am the gift. 844 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 1: Hell, I'm here. 845 00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:43,360 Speaker 2: That's to a. 846 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,120 Speaker 1: Party empty handed. You're supposed to bring the host stuff. 847 00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:48,160 Speaker 1: They didn't put that on the invitation. They said come 848 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 1: at five thirty. 849 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:53,480 Speaker 2: I'm here. They told me. 850 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:57,480 Speaker 1: They should have said bring gifts. 851 00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:58,920 Speaker 2: Please say that. 852 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:01,719 Speaker 8: I know good in here. I ain't bringing nothing to 853 00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:03,359 Speaker 8: your house. If I come to you part all these 854 00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:04,600 Speaker 8: pictures I'm gonna have to take. 855 00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:10,319 Speaker 1: Like you are the gift. 856 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:10,919 Speaker 5: Yeah. 857 00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,960 Speaker 2: Man, it's like it's a whole nother thing for me. 858 00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:19,080 Speaker 13: Yeah, what are you going to have another Christmas party 859 00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:22,600 Speaker 13: for us? For your staff? At least we come on. 860 00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:25,680 Speaker 10: We ain't done that since New York. And when we 861 00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 10: did that, he put our ass out about two hours 862 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:29,360 Speaker 10: in the middle. 863 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:31,960 Speaker 1: Well, you know, we could do a. 864 00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 8: Zoom party, but we you know COVID, so we can 865 00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:38,080 Speaker 8: ye do a zone wh y'all want to do it? 866 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:39,719 Speaker 8: Because we can't. We can't handle it. 867 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,880 Speaker 13: We have it in person Christmas party cause of COVID, 868 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:48,240 Speaker 13: That's what he's saying. 869 00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:50,760 Speaker 1: Gives this year? Do we get gifts? 870 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:52,319 Speaker 10: Yeah? What you get us? 871 00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 2: What you get us for Christmas? 872 00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:54,239 Speaker 11: This year? 873 00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:55,520 Speaker 1: Christmas bonuses? 874 00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,080 Speaker 2: Anything? Really really asking that question? 875 00:44:58,360 --> 00:44:58,560 Speaker 1: Yeah? 876 00:44:59,160 --> 00:44:59,680 Speaker 11: Bonuses? 877 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:00,799 Speaker 7: Yeah? 878 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,800 Speaker 1: You mad because you didn't ask it first, because normally yes. 879 00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:04,640 Speaker 2: I'm not not bad. 880 00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's cool to ask. 881 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,560 Speaker 13: Why are you looking at your phone when we're asking 882 00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:11,040 Speaker 13: you about our Christmas bonuses? 883 00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:12,319 Speaker 2: I might as well? 884 00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:14,200 Speaker 11: Why? 885 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:15,359 Speaker 1: That's all right? 886 00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:20,480 Speaker 8: You know you ain't getting none? You know, COVID, COVID, COVID. Yeah, 887 00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,360 Speaker 8: this year radio was struggle this year. 888 00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:26,000 Speaker 5: Year. 889 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:28,280 Speaker 1: Hey, good morning. 890 00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:31,680 Speaker 9: This is your girl, Shirley Strawberry. And my favorite Christmas 891 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:35,560 Speaker 9: memory is every single one of my childhood Christmases. My 892 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 9: mom gave us the best Christmases ever. Our entire living 893 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:45,359 Speaker 9: room was filled with all kinds of presents like dolls, bikes, Yeah, 894 00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:46,600 Speaker 9: easy bake ovens. 895 00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:48,520 Speaker 1: Had to have one of those. 896 00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:52,920 Speaker 9: But anyway, have a wonderful holiday season From Shirley Strawberry 897 00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:56,160 Speaker 9: and the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the 898 00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:57,680 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 899 00:45:59,080 --> 00:45:59,200 Speaker 11: Come. 900 00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,359 Speaker 1: I got that about a minute to after the hour. 901 00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:04,960 Speaker 9: It's my Strawberry letter for today and the subject is Junior, 902 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,960 Speaker 9: take my money, my house, and my car. 903 00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:11,640 Speaker 1: Come on, what this is right there? 904 00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:13,920 Speaker 9: We'll get into that in just a minute, but right 905 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:17,160 Speaker 9: now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. 906 00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:20,920 Speaker 1: What you got for us? Nest Are your lights on? 907 00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:26,480 Speaker 2: Are your lights on? Okay, let's go catch down. 908 00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:31,239 Speaker 5: Hello, Hello, is I'm trying to reach us? 909 00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:33,800 Speaker 15: Who's calling this? 910 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,440 Speaker 5: This can call me Peper? I love. I think I 911 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:40,279 Speaker 5: actually live in an apartment behind you. I think my 912 00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,600 Speaker 5: my apartments are up against each other. You are you 913 00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:48,400 Speaker 5: in unit? I want to know, actually, I want to know. 914 00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,040 Speaker 5: I'm calling YOU'A got a little bit of a problem. 915 00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:54,560 Speaker 5: I actually live in uh which is the apartment that 916 00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,719 Speaker 5: that's our apartments are back to back with each other. 917 00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:01,440 Speaker 5: And I'm I don't mean no harm man, but you 918 00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:06,440 Speaker 5: are right. Yes, Okay, here's what's going on. It took 919 00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,360 Speaker 5: me a long time try to figure this out. But 920 00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:12,399 Speaker 5: when you come home in the evening and you turn 921 00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:17,160 Speaker 5: your life through my my oven and stove come on, 922 00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:21,320 Speaker 5: and I'm talking about every out on my stove is 923 00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:22,680 Speaker 5: on and burning hot. 924 00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,600 Speaker 15: How do you know that's because when I turn. 925 00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:28,200 Speaker 5: My life on, I just I mean, I didn't figured 926 00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,560 Speaker 5: it out. It just seemed like every time, I mean, 927 00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,160 Speaker 5: I hear you when you close your door, and every evening, 928 00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,000 Speaker 5: I'm like, why is my oven in my stove coming on? 929 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 5: And I'm talking about my whole kitchen just hunting degrees 930 00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:42,480 Speaker 5: in there behind the stove being on like that? 931 00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,160 Speaker 15: Okay, did you call maintenance? 932 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,360 Speaker 5: From my understanding, I'm on the list and they're not 933 00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,719 Speaker 5: gonna get to me for a couple of days now, 934 00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:53,120 Speaker 5: so I'm not I'm asking you, miss, you don't mind 935 00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:56,239 Speaker 5: to not have your life's on until they come get 936 00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:56,760 Speaker 5: this pace. 937 00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:00,800 Speaker 15: Okay, So you asking me not to turn on my 938 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 15: lights for three or four days and you know, to 939 00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:04,000 Speaker 15: sit in the dark. 940 00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,200 Speaker 5: Well, I'm just saying it's only gonna be for a 941 00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:07,480 Speaker 5: couple of days. I know it's a little bit of 942 00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,600 Speaker 5: an inconvenience, but I mean, I can't be over here 943 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,440 Speaker 5: in the house. You know they're about to burn down. 944 00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:14,960 Speaker 15: Are you listening to what you're saying? You're asking me 945 00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:16,840 Speaker 15: to sit in the dark. You know, I got a baby. 946 00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:18,960 Speaker 5: I can't sit in the dark, Okay. I mean, do 947 00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,000 Speaker 5: y'all have any camels or something y'all can work with 948 00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:21,600 Speaker 5: or something like that. 949 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:26,439 Speaker 15: I have to give my baby food milk. I mean, really, 950 00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,440 Speaker 15: you want me to sit in the dark, and you 951 00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:30,600 Speaker 15: don't want me to turn anything on. You know, I 952 00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:31,680 Speaker 15: got to feed my baby. 953 00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,200 Speaker 5: I understand, and and and much respect to you and 954 00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:38,160 Speaker 5: your child, much respect. But what I'm trying to explain 955 00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:40,080 Speaker 5: to you is, I mean, we have to look at 956 00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:42,360 Speaker 5: the big hazard here. The bigger hazard here is is 957 00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,600 Speaker 5: that I'm over here with fire on. 958 00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,439 Speaker 15: Okay, First of all, where are you getting this wee from? 959 00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:51,640 Speaker 15: How am I involved in your situation? I have nothing that's. 960 00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:52,359 Speaker 3: Going on in your house. 961 00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:54,719 Speaker 5: Your life is patched in some kind of way to 962 00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:56,080 Speaker 5: my ovens and stole. 963 00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,640 Speaker 15: Okay, but I still I don't have anything to do 964 00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:03,600 Speaker 15: with that. You know, you need to call management whatever. 965 00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,600 Speaker 15: But I don't have anything any of that. And I 966 00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,359 Speaker 15: want to know, how do you know when I get 967 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,239 Speaker 15: home and turn on my lights? I mean, like, are 968 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:11,840 Speaker 15: you looking at my window or something? Are you a 969 00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,920 Speaker 15: peeping tong? Do I need to call nine one one. 970 00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,560 Speaker 5: You don't need to call nobody on me. Now, what 971 00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:18,360 Speaker 5: we need to get somebody over here and fix this 972 00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,640 Speaker 5: other than the stove. That's what we got to get done. 973 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:24,560 Speaker 5: But until then, right now, you can't turn them lights off. 974 00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:28,320 Speaker 15: Oh, I'm turning on my life list. I mean, I 975 00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,200 Speaker 15: know you ain't trying to regulate what I do in 976 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:30,640 Speaker 15: my house. 977 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,839 Speaker 5: I'm fin listening. I'm gonna tell you, just like this here, 978 00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,560 Speaker 5: I'm gonna need you to keep them lights off until 979 00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:37,439 Speaker 5: me this get over here in two days. 980 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:38,120 Speaker 3: Now. 981 00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:41,839 Speaker 5: If I see this stove come on and all these 982 00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:46,040 Speaker 5: eyes on this stove come on, then I'm finna come 983 00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,440 Speaker 5: back over there and we're gonna have directifire prowlem. But 984 00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:49,920 Speaker 5: I cannot have this coming on. 985 00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 15: So you're threatening me now, I'm not. 986 00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,400 Speaker 5: No, I'm not, no, I am not. I'm telling you 987 00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:57,960 Speaker 5: not to turn the lights off. That's what I'm asking 988 00:49:58,000 --> 00:49:58,279 Speaker 5: you to do. 989 00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:00,439 Speaker 15: Well, I can't sit in the dark and I'm gonna 990 00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,800 Speaker 15: turn on my lights. So you know you're gonna have 991 00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:03,440 Speaker 15: to deal with it. 992 00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:05,480 Speaker 5: No, I'm not gonna deal with it. You're gonna have 993 00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,360 Speaker 5: to actually turn the lights off. Now I understand. Do 994 00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,880 Speaker 5: you have somewhere you can go stay me. 995 00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,239 Speaker 15: Do you have somewhere you can go stay? I'm not 996 00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:15,279 Speaker 15: leaving my house. I don't have a problem. You and 997 00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:16,640 Speaker 15: the one with the problem. 998 00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,120 Speaker 5: I'm not lean here and then you turn it on, 999 00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:20,600 Speaker 5: and then you over. 1000 00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:22,279 Speaker 15: Here and knock on my door. You think you see 1001 00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,120 Speaker 15: fire in your stove. You're gonna see some fire. I 1002 00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:25,040 Speaker 15: can show you some fire. 1003 00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 5: Okay, listen, I'm trying to work it you as calmly 1004 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:28,600 Speaker 5: as I can. 1005 00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:30,440 Speaker 15: Okay, they're trying to work with me calmly. 1006 00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:30,880 Speaker 5: Okay. 1007 00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:32,640 Speaker 15: The only thing you're doing right now is you're trying 1008 00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,000 Speaker 15: to tell me what to do and run my household. 1009 00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:35,600 Speaker 1: Okay. 1010 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:37,640 Speaker 5: If you're not gonna work with me, then that's what 1011 00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:39,640 Speaker 5: I'm gonna do. But I already found out where the 1012 00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:42,000 Speaker 5: break is. I just go and just turn all the 1013 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:44,200 Speaker 5: power off so you don't have your power wall on 1014 00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:44,560 Speaker 5: it off? 1015 00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:48,280 Speaker 15: Wait a minute, what, No, you can't turn my breakrop? 1016 00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:49,240 Speaker 6: Are you crazy? 1017 00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:50,560 Speaker 11: I got to do what I got to do. 1018 00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 5: I can't start no file out here. 1019 00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,640 Speaker 15: You get my phone number anyway? I mean, how you 1020 00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 15: know my name? My number? Artist? You know what I'm 1021 00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:00,080 Speaker 15: about to come home? And he gonna put the it 1022 00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,759 Speaker 15: up here. I don't care if he put your in 1023 00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:06,360 Speaker 15: the of and we set your on fire. What you 1024 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:08,640 Speaker 15: talking about? You gonna damn turn the break off. 1025 00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:11,840 Speaker 5: I'm trying to kill me and prevent a farm for 1026 00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,200 Speaker 5: the whole complex, and you up in there trying to 1027 00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:17,360 Speaker 5: commit U This is like aunser for you to. 1028 00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:17,880 Speaker 8: Turn that on. 1029 00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:20,640 Speaker 15: I don't give you want. You already got a problem, 1030 00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:22,680 Speaker 15: so I'm just gonna add fuel to the fire. You 1031 00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,800 Speaker 15: call me and again, I want to know how you 1032 00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:25,960 Speaker 15: got my number. 1033 00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:28,120 Speaker 5: I'm not from the city, and go on in this 1034 00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:31,920 Speaker 5: little small to is that we got a problem with 1035 00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,600 Speaker 5: your twitch when you turn it off. I don't have 1036 00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:37,239 Speaker 5: a problem on the store you have. 1037 00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,799 Speaker 15: The problem is about to be a bigger problem when 1038 00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:41,279 Speaker 15: my man come over there and put a foot up 1039 00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:44,440 Speaker 15: your I don't know who you think you with, but 1040 00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:48,080 Speaker 15: it's about to be on. I don't know how you 1041 00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:50,920 Speaker 15: got my number, but you called it wrong today. 1042 00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:53,719 Speaker 5: Okay, fire, I got one thing I need to say 1043 00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:53,960 Speaker 5: to you. 1044 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:56,440 Speaker 15: You listen, you got to say because I'm tired of 1045 00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:57,000 Speaker 15: listening to you. 1046 00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:58,440 Speaker 5: Are you listening? 1047 00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,520 Speaker 15: You ain't saying that one here today? You calling me? 1048 00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 5: It is his nephew tire Me from the Steve Harvey 1049 00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:11,759 Speaker 5: Morning Show. You just got pranked by your husband? Are you? 1050 00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:12,640 Speaker 15: Wait a minute? 1051 00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:13,040 Speaker 12: Hold up? 1052 00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:14,280 Speaker 15: This is who. 1053 00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:19,439 Speaker 5: This is, nephew, tire me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1054 00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:23,000 Speaker 5: Your husband got meet the prank phone call you? 1055 00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:24,600 Speaker 15: Are you serious? 1056 00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 3: It's for real. 1057 00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:28,680 Speaker 15: I don't believe it. 1058 00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:32,240 Speaker 3: I can't believe. 1059 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,200 Speaker 15: I know I was ready to put a foot up 1060 00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:41,800 Speaker 15: in somebody. I don't believe I just got pumped like this. 1061 00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:45,920 Speaker 5: Okay, I gotta ask you one more thing. What is 1062 00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:48,520 Speaker 5: the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio. 1063 00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:51,399 Speaker 15: Show in the land, The Steve Harbory Morning Show. 1064 00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:51,920 Speaker 1: You got it? 1065 00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:55,480 Speaker 2: Come on, come on love her. 1066 00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:58,960 Speaker 8: I'll tell you what though. I'll tell you what though. 1067 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:04,399 Speaker 8: All the wrong house today because soon as I tell 1068 00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:06,120 Speaker 8: my man, he gonna come over there and put his 1069 00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:13,200 Speaker 8: foot straight off in Yo, straight off. You gotta call 1070 00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:14,520 Speaker 8: the right house today. 1071 00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:22,480 Speaker 1: This I don't give up. People care about that oven, 1072 00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:23,960 Speaker 1: none of that man? 1073 00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:27,920 Speaker 10: What what is this? 1074 00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:34,760 Speaker 8: We got a problem where that comes from? It's okay, 1075 00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:38,799 Speaker 8: as soon as my man gets home, you gonna call 1076 00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,360 Speaker 8: you think. I ain't frona argue with you, but I 1077 00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:44,680 Speaker 8: got somebody We're gonna come straight over there. 1078 00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,480 Speaker 1: I know who I'm married to. That's always good when 1079 00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 1: you know you're. 1080 00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:53,640 Speaker 8: Married to somebody is Yes, I heard Marjorie tell somebody 1081 00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:57,520 Speaker 8: one time. I can't tell this to my husband because 1082 00:53:57,960 --> 00:53:59,279 Speaker 8: so let's what else? 1083 00:53:59,360 --> 00:53:59,880 Speaker 2: What else you do? 1084 00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:02,120 Speaker 1: I can't tell this to him. 1085 00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:06,040 Speaker 10: Go ahead tell me, Yeah, I gotta let him know 1086 00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,439 Speaker 10: where stupid is going on. You know, stupid is moving 1087 00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:11,120 Speaker 10: around the country. That's a comedy show on. That's Stupid 1088 00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:14,320 Speaker 10: on tour. Okay, get ready. My next stop is a 1089 00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:17,200 Speaker 10: December twenty eight that is called It's called the New 1090 00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:20,879 Speaker 10: Year's Comedy Jam. It is actually on December to twenty 1091 00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:24,920 Speaker 10: eight at the Dog Constitution Hall in Washington, d C. 1092 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:28,440 Speaker 10: That's Tony Robins, lands Woods, Red Grant, Lou Nail, Bruce Bruce, 1093 00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:30,360 Speaker 10: hosted by Yours Truly. 1094 00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,680 Speaker 2: If you timmy all right. Tickets on sale right now. 1095 00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:35,800 Speaker 10: You can make that a great stock and stuff for 1096 00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,239 Speaker 10: and put it in somebody's stock and give them some 1097 00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:41,560 Speaker 10: laughs for the Christmas holidays. Laying in the cut after 1098 00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:45,759 Speaker 10: that is Milwaukee, Milwaukee The Nephew Was Coming. That will 1099 00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:50,080 Speaker 10: be MLK Weekend at the m Prov in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. 1100 00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:53,120 Speaker 10: Tickets on sale right now. The nephew coming through. I 1101 00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:56,120 Speaker 10: ain't never been up in there, so come watch me. 1102 00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:58,239 Speaker 10: Come see what all of us is all about. Come 1103 00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:01,280 Speaker 10: see what ignorant skills straight in your face. 1104 00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:03,680 Speaker 1: Where I'm going to, Where you're going? 1105 00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:07,320 Speaker 10: Milwaukee, Wisconsin at the m problem MLK weekend. 1106 00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:12,520 Speaker 1: Yes sir, Hello, yes sa, yes sir? All right, coming 1107 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,600 Speaker 1: up next thanking. If you Strawberry letters, we'll get into 1108 00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:16,520 Speaker 1: it right after this. 1109 00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:20,560 Speaker 10: Holidays are here and it's essential to recognize and personal 1110 00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:22,520 Speaker 10: safety is a year round priority. 1111 00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:25,600 Speaker 2: It's mine and why I have the Burner Launcher. 1112 00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:29,239 Speaker 10: Equipped with powerful non lethal deterrence including tear gas and 1113 00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:32,879 Speaker 10: kinetic grounds with a sixty foot range. Now it's legal 1114 00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:36,000 Speaker 10: in all fifty stags, requires no background checks or permits. 1115 00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:38,080 Speaker 2: Ship directly to your door. 1116 00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:41,239 Speaker 10: Visit Burner dot com slash Tommy for an exclusive ten 1117 00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:44,920 Speaker 10: percent discount, and they offer by now pay later options. 1118 00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:47,319 Speaker 10: That's BYRNA dot com. 1119 00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:51,279 Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now 1120 00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:55,960 Speaker 9: for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, 1121 00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:59,399 Speaker 9: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to STEVEHARVEYFM dot 1122 00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:04,560 Speaker 9: com and click submit strawberry letter. We could be reading 1123 00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:06,680 Speaker 9: your letter live on the air, just like we're going 1124 00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:08,920 Speaker 9: to read this one right here, right now, and you 1125 00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:10,360 Speaker 9: never know, it could be yours. 1126 00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:16,600 Speaker 1: Okay, you could be yours. Brother, little bit hold on 1127 00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:20,160 Speaker 1: tight his time for this strawberry letter? Is that your 1128 00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:32,000 Speaker 1: sexy Tommy imitation? That was Tommy? Thank you Tommy slash Junior? 1129 00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:32,680 Speaker 2: All right? 1130 00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:36,799 Speaker 9: Subject, take my money, my house, and my car. Dear 1131 00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:40,120 Speaker 9: Stephen Shirley, I'm writing this letter for my older brother 1132 00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:43,239 Speaker 9: that is in love with a gold digger. That term 1133 00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:46,000 Speaker 9: may not apply to new relationships, because I know a 1134 00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:48,600 Speaker 9: man is supposed to provide for a woman if he's 1135 00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:51,680 Speaker 9: sleeping with her, But too many times he's called me 1136 00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:56,640 Speaker 9: to complain about her misusing and abusing his kindnesses. He 1137 00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,480 Speaker 9: gives her money to go out with her girlfriend's most weekends, 1138 00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:02,520 Speaker 9: and then she won't even call him till Sunday after 1139 00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:05,400 Speaker 9: she's been out during whatever she wants to do. In 1140 00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:08,839 Speaker 9: case you are wondering, my brother is thirty four years old, 1141 00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:13,040 Speaker 9: but he's the quiet, shy type. He manages several properties 1142 00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:15,960 Speaker 9: and he owns a barbershop, but he doesn't cut hair. 1143 00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:18,920 Speaker 9: He has plenty of money and free time, and all 1144 00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:22,160 Speaker 9: he wants is to spend it with someone that loves him. 1145 00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:25,200 Speaker 9: He's asked his girlfriend to move in with him, but 1146 00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:30,160 Speaker 9: she said it's too soon now, so now he's trying 1147 00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:33,440 Speaker 9: to get her an engagement ring to make things official. 1148 00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:37,000 Speaker 9: I hinted to her that after two years he's ready 1149 00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,439 Speaker 9: to settle down, and she said there is no way 1150 00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:43,120 Speaker 9: that they're ready for marriage. Supposedly, my brother told her 1151 00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:45,560 Speaker 9: to take his money, his house, and his car and 1152 00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:49,040 Speaker 9: whatever else she needs to be happy. She knows she's 1153 00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:51,120 Speaker 9: got him right where she wants him, and I can't 1154 00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:53,640 Speaker 9: stand by and let her play him like that. I 1155 00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:55,760 Speaker 9: understand that I don't have a dog in that fight, 1156 00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,240 Speaker 9: and if she's making him happy, then I should butt 1157 00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:00,680 Speaker 9: out of it. But my question is, if I have 1158 00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:03,520 Speaker 9: proof that she is sleeping with another man, and she's 1159 00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:06,200 Speaker 9: been seen driving the man around in my brother's car, 1160 00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:09,640 Speaker 9: should I tell him? My brother practically raised me, and 1161 00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:12,120 Speaker 9: I want the best for him, So what do I 1162 00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:14,680 Speaker 9: do in this situation? Will he hate me forever if 1163 00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:19,280 Speaker 9: I tell him this? Well, the answer to that question 1164 00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:22,240 Speaker 9: is maybe not forever, but he will be upset with you. 1165 00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:25,680 Speaker 9: And look at this, You might not have to do 1166 00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:29,000 Speaker 9: anything because your big brother has these are your words 1167 00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:32,120 Speaker 9: now called you too many times to complain about her 1168 00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:34,480 Speaker 9: misusing and abusing his kindnesses. 1169 00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:37,320 Speaker 1: So maybe he's getting fed up in some. 1170 00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:41,120 Speaker 9: Sort of way because people you know, are really feeling 1171 00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:44,840 Speaker 9: when they really are feeling someone and you start to 1172 00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:47,280 Speaker 9: get all up in their business. Yes, you do run 1173 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:51,439 Speaker 9: the risk of them turning on you if you tell them. 1174 00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:54,040 Speaker 9: I mean, that's a known fact. I know you care 1175 00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:55,960 Speaker 9: about your brother. I can see it in a letter. 1176 00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:57,800 Speaker 1: I know you do, and you should. 1177 00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,400 Speaker 9: He's your brother. But whatever you say to him at 1178 00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:03,120 Speaker 9: this point, he's not gonna hear it. He's not gonna 1179 00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:05,640 Speaker 9: see it because he is not trying to hear it. 1180 00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,680 Speaker 1: And he doesn't want to. Your brother is a big boy, 1181 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:09,680 Speaker 1: he's a grown. 1182 00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:12,440 Speaker 9: Man who's gonna find out one of these life lessons, 1183 00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:15,680 Speaker 9: life lessons that you get only by the experience of 1184 00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:20,320 Speaker 9: being with someone like this, someone who uh he let 1185 00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:22,920 Speaker 9: drive his car and she's driving some other man around 1186 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:26,120 Speaker 9: in it. Okay, she's obviously a user, she's taking advantage 1187 00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:26,640 Speaker 9: of your brother. 1188 00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:29,120 Speaker 1: But it's not your business. I'm sorry, it's not your 1189 00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:30,240 Speaker 1: job to tell him this. 1190 00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:33,960 Speaker 9: He will find out sooner or later because they always 1191 00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:36,880 Speaker 9: find out, and uh, just be there for him when 1192 00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,760 Speaker 9: it's over. He will get over her eventually, But right 1193 00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:40,600 Speaker 9: now he's sprung. 1194 00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:44,680 Speaker 8: Steve, you know how I respond about people mind and 1195 00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:46,280 Speaker 8: they business that ain't gonna change. 1196 00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:48,720 Speaker 1: But my response is going to shock you. 1197 00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:52,160 Speaker 8: Here's a young girl that's writing this letter for her 1198 00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:55,040 Speaker 8: older brother that's in love with a gold digger. 1199 00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:56,840 Speaker 1: Now she thinks that. 1200 00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:59,240 Speaker 8: That might not apply to relationships, because I know a 1201 00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:01,800 Speaker 8: man is supposed to provide for a woman if he's 1202 01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:05,200 Speaker 8: sleeping with her. Well, see right there now, And that 1203 01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:12,240 Speaker 8: depends on the arrangement of the arrangement, or shall I 1204 01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:16,560 Speaker 8: say that depends on the agreement of the arrangement. I 1205 01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:20,560 Speaker 8: will provide for you if I see a future. I 1206 01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:24,240 Speaker 8: will invest in you if I see a future or 1207 01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:27,920 Speaker 8: some promise. Now, if we're just kicking it, you might 1208 01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:29,120 Speaker 8: ask me something. 1209 01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:29,760 Speaker 2: I might let you have it. 1210 01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:33,640 Speaker 8: But you're not an obligation to me until I feel 1211 01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:37,960 Speaker 8: obliged to help you, because you show an obligation to me. 1212 01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:42,960 Speaker 2: So let's get that straight away. But she said, too 1213 01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:44,240 Speaker 2: many times he ben called to. 1214 01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:48,919 Speaker 8: Complain about her misusing and abusing his kindness, he gives 1215 01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:50,800 Speaker 8: her money to go out with his girlfriends, and she 1216 01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:52,720 Speaker 8: been out doing whatever she want to do. She don't 1217 01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:57,360 Speaker 8: call him till Sunday. Now, then she says, my brother's 1218 01:00:57,400 --> 01:01:02,480 Speaker 8: thirty four. But he's a quiet shot. He manages several properties. 1219 01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:05,480 Speaker 8: He owns a barbershop, but he don't cut hair. Smart guy, 1220 01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:08,840 Speaker 8: smart guy. He has plenty of money in free time, 1221 01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:13,080 Speaker 8: and all he wants is suspended with somebody that loves him. Now, 1222 01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:15,280 Speaker 8: this sounds like a good dude, but he's smart too. 1223 01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:19,960 Speaker 8: He bought a barbershop and don't cut hair. Lord, have mercy. 1224 01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:23,120 Speaker 8: So that chair that he would normally be mad and 1225 01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:26,560 Speaker 8: making forty dollars a cut, this boy that gave that 1226 01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:29,840 Speaker 8: chair to somebody else and charging that dude for the chair, 1227 01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,080 Speaker 8: and he can keep his for the cut. 1228 01:01:32,400 --> 01:01:34,240 Speaker 2: But I'm gonna need one hundred and fifty two hundred 1229 01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:35,200 Speaker 2: a week for the chair. 1230 01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:36,040 Speaker 1: Whatever it is. 1231 01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:40,640 Speaker 8: Man, I'm finna go owe me a damn barbershop. Appreciate 1232 01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:43,440 Speaker 8: the idea, man, I never thought of that. But he 1233 01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:45,720 Speaker 8: don't cut hair. He got plenty of money in free 1234 01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:49,320 Speaker 8: time and he just wants somebody. So he asked his 1235 01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:52,240 Speaker 8: girlfriend to move in him. But she say it's too soon. 1236 01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:54,760 Speaker 8: So now he's trying to get her an engagement rien 1237 01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:57,200 Speaker 8: to make things official. I think somewhere in there he's 1238 01:01:57,240 --> 01:02:01,200 Speaker 8: been seeing her for two years. That correct, two years? 1239 01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:03,480 Speaker 1: Uh huh, a couple of. 1240 01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:08,280 Speaker 8: Years anyway, Supposedly my brother now she's he hitted that 1241 01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:10,880 Speaker 8: after two years he's ready to settle down. She said, 1242 01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,640 Speaker 8: there's no weight. They're ready for marriage, and it's gonna 1243 01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:15,960 Speaker 8: be obvious in this letter. My brother told her to 1244 01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:18,360 Speaker 8: take his money, his house's card, whatever else she needs 1245 01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:20,640 Speaker 8: to be happy. She knows she's got him right where 1246 01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:22,520 Speaker 8: she wants and I can't stand by let him play 1247 01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:25,280 Speaker 8: it like that. Shirley says, he's a big boy and 1248 01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:28,160 Speaker 8: he's grown. That's a true statement. What Shirley failed to 1249 01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:32,000 Speaker 8: tell you is that your brother is whipped. Yes, yo, 1250 01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:34,240 Speaker 8: brother is whipped. 1251 01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:38,000 Speaker 9: Hang on, Steve, Today's strawberry letter subject take my money, 1252 01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:40,480 Speaker 9: my house, and my car. We'll get back into it 1253 01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:44,840 Speaker 9: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1254 01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:50,760 Speaker 10: Holidays are here and it's essential to recognize and personal 1255 01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:52,720 Speaker 10: safety is a year round priority. 1256 01:02:52,840 --> 01:02:55,680 Speaker 2: It's mine and why I have the burn Up Launcher. 1257 01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:59,680 Speaker 10: Equipped with powerful non lethal deterrence including teargas and kinetic 1258 01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:00,520 Speaker 10: round with a. 1259 01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:01,640 Speaker 2: Sixty foot range. 1260 01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:05,200 Speaker 10: Now it's legal in off fifty SAgs, requires no background checks. 1261 01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:07,880 Speaker 2: Off hermit's ship directly to your door. 1262 01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:10,760 Speaker 10: Visit Bernard dot com slash tom me for an exclusive 1263 01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:14,560 Speaker 10: ten percent discount, and they offer by now, pay later options. 1264 01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:16,880 Speaker 10: That's BYRNA dot com. 1265 01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:20,680 Speaker 9: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1266 01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:23,680 Speaker 9: The subject take my money, in my house and my car. 1267 01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:26,240 Speaker 9: When we left, you were gonna tell the difference between 1268 01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:27,680 Speaker 9: sprung and whipped. 1269 01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:31,320 Speaker 8: This boy in this letter, this thirty four year old man, 1270 01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:34,800 Speaker 8: this being used by this woman. He wants to move 1271 01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:38,280 Speaker 8: it further to marriage. She said, it's no way. I 1272 01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:41,560 Speaker 8: wish too early to get married. I'll tell you why, 1273 01:03:41,640 --> 01:03:45,040 Speaker 8: she said, Dad, he's giving her everything. He's told her 1274 01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:48,400 Speaker 8: to take her his car, his house, his money, just 1275 01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:51,520 Speaker 8: whatever else she needs to be happy. She knows she's 1276 01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:53,640 Speaker 8: got him right where she wants. And I can't stand 1277 01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:56,680 Speaker 8: by and let him play like that, I said. Shirley 1278 01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,280 Speaker 8: is absolutely right in saying that he's a big boy 1279 01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:01,560 Speaker 8: in the grown Man. She just left off the fact 1280 01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:08,560 Speaker 8: that he's quipped. Shirley said, he's sprung. There is a difference. 1281 01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:13,800 Speaker 8: Let me help you understand something, ladies. Sprong it's when 1282 01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:16,320 Speaker 8: a man is around you and he feels all tingry. 1283 01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:19,320 Speaker 8: Sprong is when a man is around you and he 1284 01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:23,400 Speaker 8: feels all giddy. Sprung is when a man wants to 1285 01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:27,240 Speaker 8: be in your company all the time. That's sprung. Okay, 1286 01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:32,440 Speaker 8: Sprung is wondering what you do where you're going? Quill 1287 01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:38,480 Speaker 8: is different, quill. She don't put something on this boy. 1288 01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:42,960 Speaker 1: So strong. 1289 01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:50,160 Speaker 8: It's damn neil voodoo, the old saying. Is he looking 1290 01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:52,840 Speaker 8: for her in the daytime with a flash? 1291 01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:57,880 Speaker 1: All right, Julie noted, Okay, this is. 1292 01:04:57,880 --> 01:04:59,400 Speaker 2: How he talked when he round him. 1293 01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:05,280 Speaker 1: Babling this this boy right here, sprong. 1294 01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:09,640 Speaker 2: When they in the bed, This boy, he boy, he 1295 01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:14,600 Speaker 2: can't control himself. And she got it. And that's what 1296 01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:15,600 Speaker 2: the problem is. 1297 01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:18,880 Speaker 8: Now. She knows she got him right where she wants him. 1298 01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:20,920 Speaker 8: And I can't stand by and let him play like that. 1299 01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:23,680 Speaker 8: I understand that I don't have a dog in this fight. 1300 01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:27,680 Speaker 8: And if she's making him happy, then I should butt out. Well, 1301 01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:31,560 Speaker 8: she's not making him happy, she's making him unhappy. He 1302 01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:35,880 Speaker 8: always calls you to complain about he's being misused, but 1303 01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:39,920 Speaker 8: that whipped thing, that thing got him thinking it he 1304 01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:40,720 Speaker 8: can fix it. 1305 01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:44,560 Speaker 2: So now he want to rush to get her a 1306 01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:48,760 Speaker 2: ring because he wants her to. 1307 01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:52,080 Speaker 1: Move forward with this. But now. 1308 01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:56,360 Speaker 8: The young girl says that she has proof she's sleeping 1309 01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:59,720 Speaker 8: with another man and she's been seen driving the man 1310 01:05:59,760 --> 01:06:03,080 Speaker 8: aroun in my brother's car. Should I tell him? My 1311 01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:05,560 Speaker 8: brother practically raised me. I want the best for him, 1312 01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:07,600 Speaker 8: So what should I do in this? Will he hate 1313 01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:10,280 Speaker 8: me forever if I tell him this? No, he won't 1314 01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:12,960 Speaker 8: hate you forever. Because this is a different situation. And 1315 01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:18,040 Speaker 8: here is the shaka. Yes you should tell him what, 1316 01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:24,680 Speaker 8: Steve what? Yes, you should tell him. 1317 01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:30,360 Speaker 2: See this is quite different, oh, because listen to me. 1318 01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:31,600 Speaker 11: See. 1319 01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:37,240 Speaker 8: Normally it's girlfriends that see their girlfriend's man out somewhere 1320 01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:40,640 Speaker 8: and see him with a woman not in the act 1321 01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:44,360 Speaker 8: of nothing, but then wants to report that you don't 1322 01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:47,760 Speaker 8: know what that situation is over there, and that report 1323 01:06:47,840 --> 01:06:50,320 Speaker 8: and that that ain't you gonna start to fire a 1324 01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:51,919 Speaker 8: house that don't need to get lit. 1325 01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:53,920 Speaker 1: This is different. 1326 01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:58,640 Speaker 8: This is a young sister trying to protect her older 1327 01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:02,800 Speaker 8: brother and ask proof that she's sleeping with another man 1328 01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:06,840 Speaker 8: because she's seen another man in her brother car with her. 1329 01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:08,880 Speaker 8: You got to tell your brother. 1330 01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:11,520 Speaker 1: So the proof, it's because she has proof. 1331 01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:15,080 Speaker 8: She got proofd This ain't speculation. She's been seen in 1332 01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:18,640 Speaker 8: the car with another man. Hey man, that is so 1333 01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:25,640 Speaker 8: damn disrespectful on her part and justice disrespectful on the dupot. 1334 01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 8: And he's your brother. This ain't your friend. This your brother. 1335 01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:33,600 Speaker 8: You have got to go and tell your brother this. 1336 01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:36,520 Speaker 8: Will he hate me? Father, He gonna be a little 1337 01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:39,800 Speaker 8: ticked at you, but he gonna get over that because 1338 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:40,400 Speaker 8: he needs to. 1339 01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:41,120 Speaker 2: Know the truth. 1340 01:07:41,760 --> 01:07:44,840 Speaker 8: This is why she say it's too early to get married, 1341 01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:48,080 Speaker 8: because she got access to his money, his house, and 1342 01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:52,360 Speaker 8: his car. He knows she'll give him anything, and she 1343 01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:55,520 Speaker 8: can have her cake and eat it too. Why would 1344 01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:58,800 Speaker 8: she get married and stop the gravy train when the 1345 01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:00,919 Speaker 8: gravy trainers rolled in all over town. 1346 01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:05,280 Speaker 2: You have got to tell your brother this information. And 1347 01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:06,320 Speaker 2: I know y'all are. 1348 01:08:06,280 --> 01:08:08,120 Speaker 1: Surprised, but this is speech. 1349 01:08:08,440 --> 01:08:09,280 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. 1350 01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:15,320 Speaker 8: If my sister saw a girl I was dating driving 1351 01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:18,679 Speaker 8: my car with another man in it, my sister coming 1352 01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:22,800 Speaker 8: to me, see you come here. This little halfer was 1353 01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:26,040 Speaker 8: down there on shap here with a man in your car. 1354 01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:29,840 Speaker 8: Now she already knows what's finna happened. I'm finna get 1355 01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:33,400 Speaker 8: the key and I'm finn find this man. Somebody getting 1356 01:08:33,400 --> 01:08:36,799 Speaker 8: asked for. You have got to tell your brother because 1357 01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:40,560 Speaker 8: your brother has called you complaining she abusing him and 1358 01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:42,400 Speaker 8: tricking him and all this here he putting up with 1359 01:08:42,479 --> 01:08:44,200 Speaker 8: that he can take some more bad news. 1360 01:08:44,680 --> 01:08:46,840 Speaker 2: He been handling the bad he's been handling all the 1361 01:08:46,880 --> 01:08:47,280 Speaker 2: bad news. 1362 01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:50,800 Speaker 1: Pretty good something for junior. What I'm trying to figure out? 1363 01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:54,519 Speaker 1: Who you? Who are you right now? Because lying is 1364 01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:56,559 Speaker 1: what you do. I thought this would be a good 1365 01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:58,800 Speaker 1: time just lie. Who need to lie? Here? 1366 01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,640 Speaker 8: The lady in the the lady that's doing all the 1367 01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:06,040 Speaker 8: receptive stuff is already line m so watching the little 1368 01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:11,240 Speaker 8: sister pick up her lot. You don't ate a bad line, Okay, 1369 01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:13,960 Speaker 8: you ate a purposeful and good lot. 1370 01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:16,960 Speaker 1: You don't know the rules to lie, all right? Uh listen, 1371 01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:23,200 Speaker 1: be married long this Today letter yeahs. 1372 01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:26,439 Speaker 9: On Instagram and add Steve Harvey FM and check out 1373 01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:28,519 Speaker 9: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 1374 01:09:29,840 --> 01:09:30,920 Speaker 1: Yo yo, what's up to yo? 1375 01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:31,240 Speaker 2: Homie? 1376 01:09:31,280 --> 01:09:35,320 Speaker 6: Ice Cube Wishing everybody a happy holidays from my family 1377 01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:38,719 Speaker 6: to yours and the Steve Harvey Morning Show what up, Steve. 1378 01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:41,400 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1379 01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:44,280 Speaker 13: Both the Morale of Soldiers with a little Love from 1380 01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:48,320 Speaker 13: back Home with a powerhouse performance from Kerrie Washington. 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What 1390 01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:15,639 Speaker 1: he doing he that is not what Josey was saying 1391 01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:19,000 Speaker 1: about what I'm asking you on is okay? 1392 01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:20,519 Speaker 2: Normally you are the. 1393 01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:24,840 Speaker 1: Person who will go along and lie. Yeah, you saying, 1394 01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:27,519 Speaker 1: this is not the time to lie, and this is 1395 01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:28,800 Speaker 1: what we should tell the truth. 1396 01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:33,040 Speaker 2: Listen to me, junior. It is rules to liar. You 1397 01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:35,280 Speaker 2: got to know the lie by law. 1398 01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:39,320 Speaker 10: Just what. 1399 01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:43,040 Speaker 1: See this is this is a new person. This is 1400 01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:44,000 Speaker 1: confusing you. 1401 01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:50,880 Speaker 8: Your lie Number one, I have to have a direct purpose, okay. 1402 01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:55,479 Speaker 8: Number two rule of line. It should be done in 1403 01:10:55,800 --> 01:11:01,720 Speaker 8: order to save or rescue or to number three. Number three, 1404 01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:06,640 Speaker 8: the lie should be a preventive measure. You want to 1405 01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:12,400 Speaker 8: prevent the feelings being heard? Yes, The shock to have 1406 01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:17,479 Speaker 8: a purpose, yes, And it has to have a lie 1407 01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:20,639 Speaker 8: that's aimed at making something better. 1408 01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:25,759 Speaker 2: And number four, the lie must be geared to hold 1409 01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:26,080 Speaker 2: it on. 1410 01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:30,599 Speaker 1: To what you have. What Yes, dogs are the fire law. 1411 01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:33,920 Speaker 2: I don't give a damn charity. These are the bylaws 1412 01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:34,519 Speaker 2: of lions. 1413 01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:37,960 Speaker 1: What line makes something better? Steve? It does? 1414 01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:41,439 Speaker 2: If you if your wife say to you, where have 1415 01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:45,719 Speaker 2: you been? Can you say I stopped at the stone? Okay? 1416 01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:49,160 Speaker 8: Why would I say I stopped at the strip club? 1417 01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:54,200 Speaker 8: Because I wanted to see Diamond dusky one more time? 1418 01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:54,760 Speaker 13: More? 1419 01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:57,560 Speaker 8: I came to this house, so we have to see you, 1420 01:11:58,120 --> 01:12:01,240 Speaker 8: and you don't look nothing like diamond us and damon 1421 01:12:01,479 --> 01:12:06,200 Speaker 8: to us can slide down the pole on her butt 1422 01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:07,439 Speaker 8: with no hands. 1423 01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:11,000 Speaker 1: Now why would I you want to see that myself? 1424 01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:13,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? Except but I'm not gonna tell you that. 1425 01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:17,360 Speaker 8: So the lie becomes necessary now, J In this letter, okay, 1426 01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:20,360 Speaker 8: the woman that's deceiving, the gold digger that's playing her 1427 01:12:20,439 --> 01:12:24,080 Speaker 8: brother is lying to her brother. The young girl has 1428 01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:27,560 Speaker 8: no reason to lie to her brother because it's not 1429 01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:33,120 Speaker 8: saving anything, and it's that's nothing good. She has now 1430 01:12:33,680 --> 01:12:37,960 Speaker 8: got tell her brother the truth. Man, you need to 1431 01:12:38,200 --> 01:12:39,640 Speaker 8: learn these bylogs. 1432 01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:44,840 Speaker 1: Just say it truth, you just say it truth you 1433 01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:46,559 Speaker 1: you never say truth? 1434 01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:48,080 Speaker 11: You never. 1435 01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:51,519 Speaker 2: I say truth all the time. That's a lie. 1436 01:12:53,560 --> 01:12:56,479 Speaker 1: Lie when the truth will do? I say truth all 1437 01:12:56,560 --> 01:13:01,000 Speaker 1: the time when I'm not lying. Good morning. 1438 01:13:01,160 --> 01:13:04,840 Speaker 9: This is Shirley Strawberry and tis the season for happiness 1439 01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:08,000 Speaker 9: and love and giving and family. 1440 01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:11,599 Speaker 1: Happy Holidays. From the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1441 01:13:13,920 --> 01:13:18,439 Speaker 9: All right, so this is from Facebook from Dre. Dre writes, 1442 01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:21,719 Speaker 9: I have a family friend who'd hit hard times. However, 1443 01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:26,080 Speaker 9: this family friend also has a reputation for lying and 1444 01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:29,479 Speaker 9: not paying people back. Now he's trying to guilt me 1445 01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:32,960 Speaker 9: and my entire family, talking about I'm turning my back 1446 01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:35,960 Speaker 9: on him. Well that's where I am right now, and 1447 01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:38,719 Speaker 9: I'm in the position to help. But I know darn 1448 01:13:38,840 --> 01:13:42,800 Speaker 9: well I will never see the money back since no 1449 01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:45,200 Speaker 9: one else can really help or is willing to. 1450 01:13:45,680 --> 01:13:48,720 Speaker 1: I'm like Tupac, all eyes on me, man, I'm not 1451 01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:51,400 Speaker 1: going to change my mind. So am I wrong? 1452 01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:52,080 Speaker 14: No? 1453 01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:52,920 Speaker 5: No? 1454 01:13:54,360 --> 01:14:00,240 Speaker 8: See See, you can't create a track record and then 1455 01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:03,719 Speaker 8: try to get off the track in front of somebody 1456 01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:04,360 Speaker 8: you that ran. 1457 01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:05,679 Speaker 1: Around on all this time. 1458 01:14:05,800 --> 01:14:07,080 Speaker 2: It's just not how it works. 1459 01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:08,400 Speaker 11: Hey man. 1460 01:14:08,600 --> 01:14:11,679 Speaker 8: When you when you create a reputation, then you're gonna 1461 01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:13,680 Speaker 8: have to you're gonna have to lay You make a bed, you. 1462 01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:14,320 Speaker 2: Gotta lay in it. 1463 01:14:14,479 --> 01:14:18,000 Speaker 8: Dog, I'm sorry. You don't pay people back. Now you 1464 01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:21,040 Speaker 8: back at me talking about y'all turning your back. Yeah, okay, cool. 1465 01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:24,560 Speaker 8: But here's the deal with me. If you did not 1466 01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:27,800 Speaker 8: have my number, what would you do? 1467 01:14:28,520 --> 01:14:28,720 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1468 01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:34,200 Speaker 8: See, now gonna get to doing that because you already 1469 01:14:34,280 --> 01:14:36,400 Speaker 8: know I got it. So you don't save all. 1470 01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:36,800 Speaker 1: That with me. 1471 01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:39,800 Speaker 8: I tell people all the time. First of all, hey man, 1472 01:14:39,880 --> 01:14:41,920 Speaker 8: let me holler at you now. Okay, I'm gonna wait 1473 01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:43,960 Speaker 8: seventy two hours while I would turn that bone car. 1474 01:14:44,320 --> 01:14:46,680 Speaker 8: Don't text me or nothing. Hey man, hey man, when 1475 01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:49,599 Speaker 8: you get free moment called me. Okay, I'm not free 1476 01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:53,400 Speaker 8: for seventy two hours. I'm busy, hey man, I got 1477 01:14:53,439 --> 01:14:54,080 Speaker 8: an emergency. 1478 01:14:54,160 --> 01:14:55,920 Speaker 2: This is what I got. I got a text from 1479 01:14:55,960 --> 01:14:57,560 Speaker 2: a dude. I have an emergency. 1480 01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:01,920 Speaker 8: He texted, I have an emergen Who the hell got 1481 01:15:01,960 --> 01:15:03,439 Speaker 8: an emergency in Texas? 1482 01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:07,000 Speaker 11: Boy? 1483 01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:07,639 Speaker 2: Stop? 1484 01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:13,120 Speaker 8: So I waited my seventy two hours and called him back. 1485 01:15:13,560 --> 01:15:16,280 Speaker 8: Because all emergencies passed in seventy two hours. 1486 01:15:16,360 --> 01:15:17,080 Speaker 2: Trust me when I. 1487 01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:21,200 Speaker 1: Tell you that. Okay, you said you're into crisis management anyway, 1488 01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:26,360 Speaker 1: you know that it is Dane Jarvis. No, no, you 1489 01:15:26,520 --> 01:15:30,000 Speaker 1: know why you asked? Why you asked? Junior? Sound like 1490 01:15:30,080 --> 01:15:31,040 Speaker 1: somebody I might know. 1491 01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:34,280 Speaker 2: Everybody? 1492 01:15:34,360 --> 01:15:38,840 Speaker 1: No, No, it's not Alvin. No, No, I was gonna 1493 01:15:38,880 --> 01:15:41,439 Speaker 1: ask you. But he feels guilty? So how does he 1494 01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:43,920 Speaker 1: deal with that guilt? Feeling guilt is. 1495 01:15:43,960 --> 01:15:47,479 Speaker 8: The most useless emotion that we have as human beings. Yeah, 1496 01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:51,559 Speaker 8: no purpose, what's the purpose of guilt? 1497 01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:53,200 Speaker 5: No? 1498 01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:53,920 Speaker 11: Stop? 1499 01:15:54,080 --> 01:15:56,360 Speaker 2: Why why you got to feel guilt? That he's not 1500 01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:57,080 Speaker 2: your child? 1501 01:15:57,760 --> 01:16:00,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just as fond friend, the family friend. 1502 01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:03,400 Speaker 8: He's not your child, y'all. Ain't took no vows. He's 1503 01:16:03,439 --> 01:16:07,760 Speaker 8: not your wife. Now he a family fred that ain't 1504 01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:11,240 Speaker 8: been much of a friend, right, all right, you all 1505 01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:12,959 Speaker 8: have a one sided friendship. 1506 01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:14,960 Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna let you go over there and stay 1507 01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:16,280 Speaker 1: on your side for a while. 1508 01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:22,880 Speaker 9: All right, Let's see if we have time for another one. 1509 01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:26,360 Speaker 9: This one's from Nicole on Steve HARVFM. She says, my 1510 01:16:26,479 --> 01:16:28,680 Speaker 9: husband and I went out of town to have Thanksgiving 1511 01:16:29,080 --> 01:16:32,320 Speaker 9: with his family. He started drinking with his brother at noon, 1512 01:16:32,400 --> 01:16:35,200 Speaker 9: and by the time dinner was served, they were both 1513 01:16:35,360 --> 01:16:38,519 Speaker 9: drunk as heck. He embarrassed himself in front of his 1514 01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:41,120 Speaker 9: whole family, and I was left to take care of 1515 01:16:41,240 --> 01:16:44,960 Speaker 9: him and then drive us home afterwards. We're supposed to 1516 01:16:45,040 --> 01:16:47,360 Speaker 9: go again at Christmas, and I told him I'm not going. 1517 01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:50,760 Speaker 9: Now he thinks I'm being unreasonable and is mad at me. 1518 01:16:51,320 --> 01:16:52,760 Speaker 9: I haven't done anything. 1519 01:16:52,479 --> 01:16:55,400 Speaker 1: Wrong and I shouldn't be made to feel bad after 1520 01:16:55,520 --> 01:16:56,479 Speaker 1: what he put me through. 1521 01:16:56,920 --> 01:16:57,840 Speaker 9: Steve, back me up? 1522 01:16:57,920 --> 01:16:59,560 Speaker 1: Am I wrong? Am I overreacting? 1523 01:17:00,400 --> 01:17:04,599 Speaker 2: Best offense is a good excuse me? The best defense 1524 01:17:04,920 --> 01:17:06,000 Speaker 2: is a good offense. 1525 01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:11,040 Speaker 8: So now he defensive about what he did, and so 1526 01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:15,040 Speaker 8: now he done took the offense. Now he mad at 1527 01:17:15,120 --> 01:17:20,320 Speaker 8: you for his ass getting drunk, and you not understand man? 1528 01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:25,280 Speaker 8: Please bye, ladies, stop letting these men out mad you. 1529 01:17:26,040 --> 01:17:29,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, do what you do. 1530 01:17:29,840 --> 01:17:30,920 Speaker 2: Do your job. 1531 01:17:31,680 --> 01:17:38,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, man cannot out mad Marjorie. I don't give a damn. 1532 01:17:39,160 --> 01:17:44,680 Speaker 8: How I tried, by baby, how you gonna do that? 1533 01:17:45,120 --> 01:17:45,280 Speaker 1: Wait? 1534 01:17:45,360 --> 01:17:49,200 Speaker 2: Mis Steve, alright, we gotta run. 1535 01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:52,400 Speaker 1: Steve coming up in twenty minutes after the hour. 1536 01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:54,960 Speaker 9: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 1537 01:17:55,040 --> 01:17:58,280 Speaker 9: after this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1538 01:17:58,960 --> 01:18:03,280 Speaker 9: Research from the Now Retail Federation reveals that Americans expect 1539 01:18:03,360 --> 01:18:06,439 Speaker 9: to spend and average of eight hundred and seventy five 1540 01:18:06,520 --> 01:18:11,920 Speaker 9: dollars on holiday gifts, decorations, food, and other seasonal items. Overall, 1541 01:18:12,040 --> 01:18:15,439 Speaker 9: holiday spending is expected to reach record levels in November 1542 01:18:15,600 --> 01:18:19,559 Speaker 9: and December, and the most popular gift is still gift cards, 1543 01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:22,640 Speaker 9: with fifty five percent of shoppers saying they'd like to 1544 01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:27,240 Speaker 9: get them this year, followed by clothes and accessories, books, 1545 01:18:27,360 --> 01:18:31,439 Speaker 9: video games or other media, and personal care or beauty items. 1546 01:18:31,680 --> 01:18:34,400 Speaker 9: So here's a question for you, guys. Do you have 1547 01:18:34,479 --> 01:18:37,679 Speaker 9: a budget for holiday spending and do you actually stick 1548 01:18:37,760 --> 01:18:38,439 Speaker 9: to it if. 1549 01:18:38,320 --> 01:18:40,880 Speaker 2: You do, I wish it was eight seventy five. 1550 01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:45,360 Speaker 1: I wish it was that, please Lord more. I wish 1551 01:18:45,479 --> 01:18:46,400 Speaker 1: that was your budget. 1552 01:18:47,280 --> 01:18:48,920 Speaker 2: I wish that was your Yeah. 1553 01:18:48,920 --> 01:18:51,639 Speaker 1: I stick to my budget. Do you those your budget 1554 01:18:51,680 --> 01:18:53,120 Speaker 1: eight seventy five or more? 1555 01:18:53,800 --> 01:18:54,040 Speaker 11: More? 1556 01:18:55,040 --> 01:18:55,160 Speaker 10: More? 1557 01:18:55,720 --> 01:18:55,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1558 01:18:57,120 --> 01:18:59,720 Speaker 10: Yeah, I go I go over your clumb I give 1559 01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:03,000 Speaker 10: my word everything. I think you won't any more. I'll 1560 01:19:03,040 --> 01:19:03,840 Speaker 10: go away over more. 1561 01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:04,920 Speaker 8: Yeah. 1562 01:19:05,320 --> 01:19:09,280 Speaker 1: But you know, you gotta cut back on buying for everybody. 1563 01:19:10,320 --> 01:19:13,639 Speaker 1: I can't do that. You can't do what budget. You're 1564 01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:16,240 Speaker 1: my wife everything she won't and more. No, we're not 1565 01:19:16,320 --> 01:19:19,400 Speaker 1: going to do that. No, no, we're not fun to 1566 01:19:19,439 --> 01:19:19,680 Speaker 1: do that. 1567 01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:23,400 Speaker 8: You're gonna get two different worlds though. No, no, no, no, no, 1568 01:19:23,760 --> 01:19:25,920 Speaker 8: we're in the same world. You're sitting up here getting 1569 01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:31,120 Speaker 8: everything she won't and more. Yeah, you crazy, sit doun 1570 01:19:31,200 --> 01:19:32,719 Speaker 8: and talk to her so you can find out. 1571 01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:39,360 Speaker 1: What that really is. Competes the hour, We'll play another 1572 01:19:39,479 --> 01:19:42,479 Speaker 1: round and would you rather? 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Or would you rather zip line over the ocean? 1590 01:20:27,080 --> 01:20:27,759 Speaker 2: The ocean? 1591 01:20:28,240 --> 01:20:29,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, the ocean. 1592 01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:33,720 Speaker 2: Where does that end at? Damn? Oh it don't. 1593 01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:35,600 Speaker 8: It don't really matter to me because I'm gonna be 1594 01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:39,080 Speaker 8: passed out in either situation. I'm not even gonna be 1595 01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:41,760 Speaker 8: conscious because my ass blackout either way. 1596 01:20:43,200 --> 01:20:44,280 Speaker 1: Junior race car or. 1597 01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:46,479 Speaker 11: Race call? 1598 01:20:46,560 --> 01:20:47,040 Speaker 3: He did? 1599 01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:47,760 Speaker 1: He did. 1600 01:20:49,040 --> 01:20:52,519 Speaker 2: It's just two laps, race car, two laps with this. 1601 01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:58,920 Speaker 1: Hold on step three hour. That's a lot, though, but 1602 01:20:59,040 --> 01:21:00,639 Speaker 1: still three. 1603 01:21:00,880 --> 01:21:03,519 Speaker 8: Would I was just at Formula one, I watched this 1604 01:21:03,680 --> 01:21:08,280 Speaker 8: one eighty No, no, but when. 1605 01:21:08,200 --> 01:21:10,400 Speaker 2: We get through these two left, your ass is still 1606 01:21:10,479 --> 01:21:11,280 Speaker 2: over the Pacific. 1607 01:21:17,120 --> 01:21:23,160 Speaker 1: I'm not zip niney what is options? See? It's just 1608 01:21:23,360 --> 01:21:24,360 Speaker 1: too all right? 1609 01:21:24,400 --> 01:21:27,760 Speaker 9: Would you rather your wife talk less? Would you rather 1610 01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:30,439 Speaker 9: if your wife talked less? Or if she spent less? 1611 01:21:30,560 --> 01:21:31,040 Speaker 9: Which one? 1612 01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:37,960 Speaker 1: I'm not doing this. I'm not doing y'all. 1613 01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:41,720 Speaker 2: We're going right on in the Christmas nice No. 1614 01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:46,760 Speaker 1: Less to talk? Yes, Steve, Yes, be brave. 1615 01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:53,040 Speaker 2: Mine talk less. I pay for that. I pay for silent, 1616 01:21:53,280 --> 01:21:56,280 Speaker 2: Thank you? What about I'm gonna get another bag? 1617 01:21:56,439 --> 01:22:00,200 Speaker 1: Go ahead. I'm not I just got mad. I ain't 1618 01:22:00,200 --> 01:22:04,799 Speaker 1: say nothing on this. I can't do that. Anyway. 1619 01:22:05,320 --> 01:22:06,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, what week it is? 1620 01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:11,800 Speaker 8: Yeah, hey, y'all, they're not gonna stop, they're not gonna start, 1621 01:22:12,920 --> 01:22:15,080 Speaker 8: all right, So might as well get some quiet at 1622 01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:15,519 Speaker 8: your house. 1623 01:22:18,200 --> 01:22:21,519 Speaker 9: Would you rather eat whatever you want without gaining weight? 1624 01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:26,240 Speaker 9: Or would you rather say whatever you want without any consequences? 1625 01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:27,280 Speaker 1: Be okay? 1626 01:22:30,400 --> 01:22:33,280 Speaker 2: Please, I'll be back on stage next Friday. 1627 01:22:33,720 --> 01:22:38,280 Speaker 1: Please no consequence, Yo boy, let me tell you something. 1628 01:22:38,479 --> 01:22:41,920 Speaker 8: Please, Please don't worry about the way I take my 1629 01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:43,559 Speaker 8: fat ass right on back out there. 1630 01:22:46,400 --> 01:22:49,120 Speaker 1: Like though you love food, I don't give it THEMN. 1631 01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:51,320 Speaker 1: I don't gain weight or anything. 1632 01:22:51,840 --> 01:22:53,760 Speaker 8: I don't care about that. I don'tkay, I keep cold 1633 01:22:53,800 --> 01:22:55,920 Speaker 8: plunge that I work with that. Just let me go 1634 01:22:56,120 --> 01:23:01,000 Speaker 8: out here Friday and say everything. It ain't no, I'm 1635 01:23:01,120 --> 01:23:04,240 Speaker 8: telling you right now, all these groups need to tune in. 1636 01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:09,440 Speaker 8: Everybody that's in the group, every nationality. 1637 01:23:08,640 --> 01:23:12,559 Speaker 1: Need to tune in. Its open wait, tune in, if 1638 01:23:12,640 --> 01:23:15,880 Speaker 1: your shop tune in, come on, tune in. 1639 01:23:17,240 --> 01:23:17,720 Speaker 11: Tune in. 1640 01:23:20,040 --> 01:23:22,479 Speaker 8: You got you driving with a sticker hanging on your 1641 01:23:22,760 --> 01:23:26,560 Speaker 8: rear view mirror, tune in. I'm gonna have it for everybody, 1642 01:23:28,479 --> 01:23:31,600 Speaker 8: big living tune in. I'm gonna start with me, so 1643 01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:33,120 Speaker 8: everybody get comfortable with it. 1644 01:23:36,360 --> 01:23:39,679 Speaker 1: After this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show